Son Son Son s s Hello how are you? How am I, Luis
Miguel Salgado, this is what a good question? Welcome, welcome back to
one more chapter of what a good question. I am very happy because today
I am accompanied by an exceptional woman, a woman who has done on her
social networks and has a very special structure to share knowledge, experience and good
we will talk with her about many things. The truth is, I'
m very happy because, apart from everyone else, a smiling woman and I
' m happy to receive Jesse White, Yes and how you are. All
right, Luis, the truth is, I' m very happy and grateful
to be invited to your super show. Thank you, thank you, really
for accepting and thank you for being here. Let me introduce you to Jesse
Blanco as he deserves. Jesse is a sociologist and psychologist by profession. She
is dedicated to accompanying entrepreneurs, providing them with tools, therapeutics and mentoring services.
With more than eighteen years of experience as a university professor and she is
an expert in psycho marketing. I think it' s a wonder what we
' re going to talk about today with Jesse Blanco, because imagine combining the
theme of marketing with the theme of psychology, with the theme of sociology.
Well, this is going to get really good so Luis Miguel Salgado and,
as I always tell you, if it' s okay with you, we
start Jesse what a treat. Welcome, welcome back, thank you for accepting
and today we are going to talk about many very interesting things. But before
I start talking about my dear Jesse. This is the question I ask all
my guests, all my guests, like the start of this interview, who
is Jesse Blanco? Behind or, behind everything you' ve studied, the
experience you have of all the awards, not awards, medals and so on,
behind all that, who' s Jesse White? Welcome. Thank you
very much, Luis Bueno. I, in the first place, am a
woman in the little things. No, I think more title than good,
I' m a woman. I' m Venezuelan. I emigrated, emigrated
to Spain four years ago and I would say to myself questions that define me
as a very passionate human being, who believes in what he does and that
definitely what came is to bring his light to this world through gifts. I
think we all have some gifts and the best thing we can do is give
away that gift no matter where we are or who we are with. That
' s great. Thank you very much, listen to us. Why study
psychology, why study sociology, why teach when you might well have been.
I don' t know a singer' s lawyer I don' t know
maybe captain of a boat Tell us. Why psychology and sociology to see.
I think you don' t choose the race, but the race chooses one.
It was always very clear to me, when I was a teenager,
I did a lot of art and a lot of dance, hoping that at
the age of seventeen I would get my place in college and I was very
clear that I wanted to be a psychologist. When I got out I quit
the theater and the daza, which I later regretted because I should have combined
it. It was one of my passions. But then, when I begin
to study the Luis career, there are more profound and unconscious motivations. When
one decides, one decides things, one does not decide, one is decided.
So and studying the career, I realized that I had a great fear
of madness to be honest at a shallow level, because I had a schizophrenic
maternal grandmother and I don' t know if you know that schizophrenia. They
say that in the third generation it is inherited. Then, of course tin
on the line, in the line of grandkids' cousins, you could have
inherited that disease. And of course I, studying a little bit, when
I started studying psychology and we saw psychopathology and discovered this. I began to
realize that one of my great fears was to madness or to be that person
who could inherit by this transgenerational chain. That' s that information from the
splendour. Although there are many theories of origin and indeed, within my chain
of premiums there was a premium that has the is quezofrenia. So I wasn
' t far from that. So, a good unconscious part of that decision
was like protecting me, like if I thought that studying psychology was going to
protect me that' s like the unconscious response that I give to this whole
deep reason thing. Let' s just say it was that really hey.
The truth is, it' s a subject. Thank you for being vulnerable,
thank you for sharing this because at the end of the road it is
very important and talking about this topic, at the end of the road,
you agree that life there are no guarantees, or you believe that in life
there are guarantees. Today you are not talking about this that I thought that
studying psychology was going to protect me here the question would be forgotten about the
subject of schism for everything that is so happens in life. There' s
some kind of guarantee, there' s some kind of protection we have before
life or not. I think so, that the only guarantee is death.
As my granny, my grandmother, said, there' s a remedy for
everything but death. A little to tell me don' t worry so much
that in the end we' re all going to die. I think it
' s the only, the only guarantee that we have, is to know,
that at some point we' re going to stop being at least physically
speaking and if we' re aware of that, we make our present something
spectacular, that is, we value it as every minute, an unprecedented minute
of your life, you bring more value to your life from the rest.
The only one, the only thing for sure is change. As such,
then we have to learn to live in a world of uncertainty, which is
quite complicated, but I think it must be a skill that we install from
now on human beings, because we have absolutely no security at all and the
planet is increasingly more insecure. So that makes us take out our resources of
self- confidence, but self- confidence in life Luis. For me the
biggest root I have when I' m afraid, when I' m going
to take a very important step in my life is confidence and something bigger that
sustains us. And this is more than just a belief. It' s
a quantum reality, only not many believe it, but it' s what
' s held me up when it comes to making big decisions in my life.
He' s talking about a little bit of sociology and psychology. I
understand sociology has great features. He studies the behavior of a society, of
a community in the midst of a certain circumstance, and psychology studies mental processes
a lot, because we act as we act. I think it' s
two camps, it' s universes, it' s two awesome universes.
There are many factors that determine the behavior of a society, of a group,
of a community and of a person. It influences acus and the subject
of is an even very obvious question. Influences what we eat, Influences the
place where we are born, Influences the people with whom we frequent so that
we have more or less joy, happiness. Yes, in fact, we,
for the most part, are determined by the culture where we are born
and within that culture, that is, we could talk about a micro-
society that is your family, then your community closest to school, work and
then the country and then the planet as humanity, the earth as humanity.
Now there are so- called collective archetypes that say they dominate the level of
the universal unconscious in all the geographic territories of the planet, let' s
say, but there are elements that correspond to the place. The climate,
idiosyncrasy, the microculture of that society, which determines the way we behave.
And that' s what we see when we emigrate. I, for example,
when I emigrated, I realized, you start to know your country,
when you get out of it and you realize because you come out of your
belly button not that it' s your country and your culture, and I
realized how Latinos are compared to Europeans. And I say wow a way,
for example, to affect emotionality. I mean, you realize that here to
me there is one thing that has shocked me very much I am in Spain,
in Madrid, is that loneliness here is a social phenomenon. In our
country and in our Latin countries we are not always gregarious beings, I am
always sharing. I mean, it' s really weird that someone' s
alone here Granny' s dying alone in the locked- up floors, and
then they find out. I don' t know how many days. And
I, when I see that and I say wow, this in our country
doesn' t happen anymore, there' s assination, there' s so
many people in an apartment and yes, that determines you because, obviously,
that affects your affectivity. I mean, it' s not the same thing
to spend your family days of your life, the last days of your life
as alone and die alone. It is clear that it affects what we also
eat the climate and there is a wonderful thing about nature, which is that
where you get the flowers or plants, they are in certain places geographically located
because they provide the nutritional and energetic value they need. The people who live
there, in the moor, in the cold zones, get certain flowers that
are little hairy, that you assign heat just like in warmer areas. Then
we are more living organisms within this great mother. Nature we have and we
live it like this and we respect nature we could do a little better.
I' d say tall means tell us why. If societies themselves are complex,
people are much more complex. No. I think we are one of
the most complex universes that exist on this mother earth. No, and I
think in the whole universe, the most complex I think is the human being.
A plant has the purpose of living, of being of being. I
mean to be in the place where you belong to be a stone, the
sun, the moon. We just lived here an eclipse did not, and
how surprising it is when a natural phenomenon, the lack of sun, the
lack of sun rays for a few minutes, causes the temperature to drop darkened.
Everything has a motive and it has a reason to be, but the
human being told you is complex. But add to that that we want to
innovate, that we want to be entrepreneurs, that we want to be entrepreneurs
and we throw ourselves into the world suddenly, no longer by the rules that
mark us from work, Study home of having children and be happy forever,
because already the human being, we are more open to experience new things and
then we launch to undertake. Well, with all this baggage we' re
talking about, it' s pretty complex. The entrepreneurship. The most complex
part is this part. Therefore, where I go, who I am to
endure this part of resilience, the support to this frustration that causes entrepreneurship.
Well, you help us just to join us and give us therapeutic tools.
How this treatment works, how these mentoring works. Yeah, well, I
say that I' m a strange hybrid between psychology and mentoring, that that
doesn' t exist. But what I do is be mentored. I'
ve become that. First because, well, I have the expertise as a
therapist, but second, because I became an entrepreneur and ended up inspiring to
emigrate from my country at the age of forty- six. I already have
fifty- one in a time of almost no one' s forgiveness seems to
me thirty- eight years old. Thank you, sorry I was wrong for
my thirty- eight years, immigrated at the age of thirty- eight.
Yes, to thank you, then, to emigrate at forty- six with
my daughter of fifteen, leaving all my stability in my country and launching me
at a time where people usually migrate at twenty- thirty because they have a
whole trajectory, a world for and time and energy. And I did it
well, as much of my Venezuelan compatriots who emigrated, because the country,
somehow expelled us because of this crisis so harsh at the political and economic level
and, above all, to a crisis at the security level, which was
what I did to me. It was me that got me out of the
country, the issue of insecurity. I was saying if I can' t
provide security for my daughter, I can' t live like this for myself.
I think that many of us could not live like this, and I
decided to emigrate then, of course, all that transition migrates, but not
to do in another country what we ended up doing most of the migrants,
which is the beard, doing denigrating survival jobs that make your professional and personal
self- esteem go to the floor, but when I emigrated and not because
I had enough resources, I decided to do what I did there. But
here, then, of course, I had a year of learning curve I
started studying marketing for therapists, to make my website, to make myself visible.
I said I have to know the Spanish matrix the Venezuelan one, but
here how we communicate, because although we speak of the same Spanish Spanish,
there were not some things that I had to adapt those cultural modisms so that
the others understood me. And I' m not talking about the sound of
the accent, but words to make myself understandable. And when I got a
little bit of that madri because I started taking care of patients online and Venezuelans
who were all over the world, I looked after them and started to reinvent
myself. But I was always clear, Luis, something that this gift as
we all have a gift or profession or vocation, I said where I look.
I' m going to do the same thing, that is, I
have to adapt, be flexible, I tried to look for chongos work,
as they say here and they didn' t come out and I said thank
you universe, because you' re corroborating me that what I came here to
do or wherever I was in this is my service. In my service is
to help, to communicate, to provide knowledge, to be accompanied and wherever
they are. I' ll do it. Then it' s a little
bit. My message to the women and men who migrate, that there is
a moment that you will have to do some jobs that you don' t
like, but don' t stay there. That is, we when we
emigrate bring in twenty- three kilos in a suitcase our story, but we
bring with us in our soul, in our resources. No one can take
that away from you, whether they approve you or legalize you or not.
Simply if you recognize those gifts and that expertise, that experience that you acquired
in your place of origin and carry them and value them open the doors.
Easy isn' t, but the first thing you have to understand yourself is
that your uncle has a value regardless of the country you' re in.
So that was like my message when it came to mentoring. Then I accompany
entrepreneurs and most are Spanish entrepreneurs and other Venezuelans or Latinas who are outside Venezuela
and are a little reflected. Because they say listen if Jess can and they
tell me Jes if I applaud you for what you' re doing outside and
I' m clear that I' m doing it you can do it here
and wherever you are in the country, also because those who stayed in Venezuela
have had to undertake and that' s been the positive side of the crisis,
stop waiting for profitability and the Dad State to give you everything and all
this stuff, this rentist oil culture, to start us creating our own wealth,
sharing it and taking care of the wealth of our land, because I
believe that Venezuela has been badly mistreated at the level of resources it has had
and what we are living is simply a harvest of what we sow historical.
Talking to you, then we' ll take care of it. Now we
have. I believe that the whole planet is called to undertake, Just as
there is no guru, there are no longer these messiahs who come to tell
you what the way is, but you have to become your good uru on
an economic level. You have to be your own entrepreneur who self- sustains
you and that makes you as a human being, grow to make you ethical
and responsible. Let' s say, how interesting what you' re talking
about, because it' s true there are peoples like Venezuelan, as even
today Mexico is going through a very special, very special, very complicated issue
that hasn' t been seen for a long time, and I think it
' s important to recognize that all Latin American peoples have immense wealth. The
problem is that we don' t see him today in Mexico. It'
s just like that because of what we planted years ago and today we'
re harvesting. That, I think, is also our duty. Today,
however, the Venezuelan people are truly admirable, because wherever they are, obviously,
they flourish by work, by dedication, by effort, by that culture
where everything seems to be against. But when they actually come out, because,
as is foreseeable, a community and they are wonderful, they are beautifiers
of pleasant dancers and well, what can I tell you. The truth is,
it' s a wonder. Now, talking a little bit about this
topic is very interesting because, on the one hand, you can give psychological
therapy to anyone who needs it. But also this part of mentoring that you
' re accompanying and you' re going to tell them where to tell us
a little bit about some person that you' ve been with in mentoring and
that you' re going to tell her or him or the same and don
' t tell us names. But they have made and followed this step at
the end of the road they have achieved their goals. Yes, I'
ve already had the good opportunity in principle, when I arrived, I accompanied
women and as patients who came to work their pains, their emotional wounds.
They worked very hard on the transgenerational work, because I' m costing the
family work. Also then everything that had to do with the relationship in the
bonds and as I became transformed and made a change in my personal brand.
I went from Therapy, yes to Cy Omentory. They started getting me a
client. And it' s not casual because, since it' s inside
that they wanted to be entrepreneurs or that they were starting, but they were
stuck and they were stalling me. They didn' t know the word was
watertight, they were stuck because things they didn' t know where they were
coming from, what the origin was. So, of course, my working
method is to look through the evaluation test that I do and incorporate systemic therapy,
which is family therapy, and emotional wounds, that is, we have
a little backpack of everything that your mom and dads and your ancestors expected you
to be is what is called the meaning project. So they, when we
are born, they put a burden of conscious, unconscious desires upon us,
and that information comes to us and we, out of love for them unconscious.
We want to make their dreams come true so that they recognize us.
When we got to start. It' s the tremendous therapy to undertake because
it puts you in the face with what you really want, because if you
do something you don' t want, you don' t sell, because
you don' t trust the buyer, people feel it. So if you
don' t sell, there' s no business, then get people into
conflict. It' s what happens that you have to seek your mission for
your authenticity, and that happens by looking at saying to God with love,
disobeying with love those beliefs and expectations of our parents, beginning to identify what
is the true purpose of your soul, of your being what you really like,
regardless of whether they like me or not. And when that connection occurs,
the magic happens and then the emotional wounds come. I do not sell,
because I am afraid that I will be rejected by the wounds of rejection,
abandonment, injustice, betrayal, humiliation. So, when you' re
going to sell, all those past fantasies come up. To sabotage you and
I say it is not enough to seek a mentor to undertake. We also
need therapy. And I said well, if I have the psychological expert and
I can be mentors, I' ll be a psycho mentor, because we
have to work. I say eighty percent psychology and twenty percent marketing, because
marketing is technique, but the other is not technique. You can read twenty
self- help books, Luis, but if you don' t do the
internal process, the book is another consuming topic. I wish we could make
changes just by reading us some self- help books. Well, isn'
t it if you kept the psychologists, but would it all be easier and
clearer? Sure, yeah, listen to this one here. I' m
pointing this out that I think it' s very important that you can read
all the self- help books, but if you don' t do the
exercise, just because you' re out, not totally. And so,
it' s very difficult if you don' t get inside, change,
transform this duality now. I think it' s very interesting jesse because on
one side of the therapist can' t say because of ethical issues, ay
don' t do this. Not here you' re going to screw up
that one or that one' s no longer getting up, you can'
t, because otherwise, you help the person find out and know and exploit
his benediction. But, on the other hand, mentoring there, yes,
I think you can string yourself wide and say don' t do this,
because this is what shouldn' t be done. I think that duality is
also very interesting to you as a professional challenge. No yes, in fact,
that duality or that challenge where you, as a psychologist, cannot be
a counselor, because if you would not be a true priest who gives advice
and sends him to spy on the blame and read a rosary, etcetera.
We can' t do that within the psychological and therapeutic world. But what
' s positive there is the use of powerful questions, which is a bit
what Coachin does as well. We don' t tell him and we can
' t tell him. We can tell him what we see of the person,
which would be what suits him, as others will come to us.
But it' s not enough for me to tell you what' s right
for you. In order for you to do that and assume it, you
have to take the hit, you have to clash with reality and, in
addition, understand that we, ninety- five percent of our actions are of
unconscious order. Then you can be rationally clear with the mind, but end
up making and repeating a pattern that is on a level of your self that
is unknown to you that is that unconscious part. So therapy is to be
aware of those things that you alone. Although rooms you know or have been
told, you don' t know how to overcome them. And that'
s a process. That' s why working the wounds is working on the
emotional part, the limbic system, that more primitive part than as much as
you know the theory of all the wounds, you just as well pum falls
into the same thing because it activates you. Then you have to work on
that level, on the emotional level, on a level of childhood, of
trauma, of pain, which is a level of depth. Instead, in
mentoring, I mean, well, what' s your purpose a little to
do a sales strategy, what' s it like to pick your potential client,
start segmenting with the message so you talk to that client and not to
another. But it always goes hand in hand with psychology, because even putting
the price, the value, the price, the value that you offer truth,
that needs to work your mind mind mind, because if you don'
t charge little for believing you' re worth little and then, obviously,
you' re not going to have a renter business, but you' re
going to deliver all your energy by charging little and staying in that pirate,
in the survival value, from that pyramid to the rest of your needs.
But you' re not separated for me. That' s why psychomarketing.
I trained in communication psychology, in business gro which is psychomarketing. And what
I do is when I accompany my entrepreneurs, I give them the psychomarketing methodology.
But before that we work. Which is preventing you from being a liberated
entrepreneur. I call it successful. That' s great, that' s
great. Listen tell us, please, what do you think would be the
ability that we should all have to undertake or, for life, for life
and to undertake good. A single ok, yes, yes, you can
one of each would be better for someone. It would be good, if
a skill that says stability. If I had the chance to deliver it to
the whole universe. This would be for life and this I will be to
undertake, for they would serve both. One is self- hearing. I
mean, we' re in a society that' s very ravista. We
eat with our eyes, all with our eyes. It' s very visual.
But I would highlight the issue of the ability we have to listen,
not to others, but to yourself, which is a little more complicated.
I start from the root that your soul always knows what it needs. Our
soul is wise and knows what it needs, and we are having voices.
Among those the voice of intuition, which we could say is indicating the way.
Some with meditation listen to it and heed it. There are others who
listen to him and play crazy. If I had to give away a skill
if massively it was that we all listened more and heeded being the gift of
self- listening, because you would save yourself many blows, you would fight
less with others, you would be more self- critical, humbler and I
think that would greatly favor interpersonal relationships. I think that would be a maxi.
What wonder, what wonder? Hey, I remind you that here,
what a good question, in this conversation we' re having, there are
no good or bad answers. Here the idea is to enter into another dynamic.
You did not ask other questions in which I insist there are no good
or bad answers. The intention is to know how you think, how you
feel, and otherwise let' s have a nice time too that we'
re involved in so much Champa question that good we' re going to have
a little fun and for that I want to ask you. Tell me,
please, three things you know how to do very well with your fingers pointing
that you lack two words, communicate, ok when I communicate and say hello.
Okay well tell me, three things that you take to a picnic.
Water, water, water, some good shoes, aha and a little hat.
Okay, all right. Please tell us three things that you can find
in a bedroom, in a room, in living belt, the tecama,
the bed, a room, The first thing I find is the bed,
a lamp, a lamp as well and a cloister ok tell me, please,
the pilot. Three things sold by catalog. Books clothes very good shoes.
Now I want to ask you my dear Jesse. It turns out that
the scientists were wrong about the calculation and the day. Instead of having twenty
- four hours, now you' re going to have twenty- five hours,
one more hour. How would you take advantage of that extra hour of
the day to sleep? I' d sleep an hour more I love to
sleep and, besides, to dream, to wake up and to sleep really
seriously notice that something is very father. There are people who love to sleep.
I think what I need is not sleep. Today I' m sleeping
late, getting up early like I' m in a hurry. No,
but there are people like you who say don' t bother me Let me
sleep and they don' t sleep They hibernate. I don' t know
people who literally if they can sleep 12 hours, they sleep 12 hours.
No, and that' s me. There are no things that will be
to you now We lie to you. I think this is very interesting,
but also ask yourself what you would do if you had a chance to be
a millionaire. Millonaria I mean a brutal amount of money. You know those
amounts you can' t even imagine, a hundred and forty- four billion
dollars. What would you do with all that money? Well, I think
that, apart from covering your and your family' s needs, your next
loved ones' needs, I' d make a contribution in the scientific sense.
You might think it' s a real thing, but if it would
make a scientific contribution to quantum health, that is, there' s a
lot of it. I think a lot of money has been invested in military
weapons, in biological warfare that we are, even in the same vaccine.
I can be a part of that, that of covid and the same covid
then if I had a lot, a lot, a lot of money and
resource, I would invest in that antidote that humanity needs to work quantum health
and anti- aging, because it is not because of a theme of lengthening
death from when you are going to die, but the quality of life that
you have at the end and to avoid premature aging, because eating badly,
living badly, breathing badly, many young people are going to get older sooner,
that is, in terms of health quality of life, there are many
strange diseases that can' t even name it for how strange they are,
they are diseases that have occurred to human beings. Then it has to do
with all the bad, the negative that we' ve found, that we
know and that we' re now reaping that. So, if I would
have, if it were a lot of money, I would put it at
the service of a really different, more conscious, healthier humanity, it would
seem that the whole quantum physics issue became fashionable. When this takes, then,
years, it doesn' t take much time and we see authors like
me dispense and like some others who obviously show you that the way you think
can determine literal until not only change your present, but also impact your future
and a better future, and then it seems that this mystical theme that becomes,
a mystical theme that few know, but that many share, but that
many speak, you know well, at least Mexicans. Or I' m
gonna talk about the Mexicans. When there are elections, we are experts in
electoral matters. When there' s football, man, we' re the
technical directors, an earthquake name, we' re the experts, you know
then, obviously, this subject of quantum physics, also a lot of people
seem to understand it, but we' re, or rather, few people
can understand this part. How important it would be to understand this quantum reality
in our lives Look. I think it' s very important. But also,
mankind always had it available, even in the sacred texts. For example,
he equated it to tell you that everything is mind and it is written
so simple that it is not understood, because in the simple there is a
depth. But when IT tells you equivalent, the first law everything is mind
and the laws of the equivalent that well, those who are metaphysical have also
always studied it co above is down everything is mind. The law of cause
effect, that is, this whole base this basic elements that has to do
with quantum just coming. For example, Joey dispenses and explains it to you
makes it verifiable material and as we are in a materialistic society and at least
Western society, then we need proof to believe. And it turns out it
' s the other way around believing to create. But then this more nutonian
paradigm than I, I have to check out more cartesian forgiveness. I have
to check what materiality exists to see that it exists. And it' s
not like that. Fortunately, the information field has opened up so much that
we have risen to the level of consciousness, although it still obviously costs us
a lot. But if you start to know, to integrate, not to
know with the mind, but to integrate that you have the ability to get
sick. And if you have the ability to get sick, you also have
the ability to heal. That' s what would be easier. It seems
easier to get sick than to heal. This man came to remind us to
look at us, just like a copra or a pachón for on joey dispensa
Mira. You have the same ability to heal, to get sick as to
heal. And you have the ability in a quantum field where time is not
linear, but circular, and as an ascending aspiration, I imagine, you
have the ability, as the Mayans said, to remember the future or remember
the future. Yeah, if time isn' t linear, you project yourself
there and come here. I mean, you and I, Luis, are
inhabiting what we were, what we are and what we can do at the
same time. That blows our heads off, because we think we' re
one thing we' ve been and it turns out we' re not.
You have your wounded child and your happy child, your unhappy injured teenager,
your adults and besides, what you' re going to do, because besides,
what you' re going to do doesn' t differ much from what
you' re doing, but change it then, that' s quantum physics,
that is, we' re energetic beings before physical and that, besides,
we' re in a space and time field that' s not linear
and it seems to me that it' s brutal. If you manage to
understand that and take it to the services we offer, psychology cannot remain alone
in the material part and, in fact, already the neurosales tell you when
you sell, from where you sell, from your energy. People buy your
energy, not your product is or ask you what they sell or how much
it' s worth, but I want to be with her why, because
you' re irradiating an energy. You' re doing your shows with that
brutal energy you' re spying on. And then I want to be with
Luis what attracts energy. We are beings of light, we are beings of
energy no matter how dark we want to become clear. Yeah, yeah,
sure. Hey, this is what you' re talking to us about.
Then the word creates. In other words, the word has a very important
power to take great care of what we talk about, but in order to
speak better, in order to raise our speech, we also need to be
very careful with what we hear, with what we saw, with what we
think, because all that is creating and I think that something interesting happens here
too that you can help us too. A little while ago I asked you
that if you determine the place where we live, the food we eat,
if you determine certain aspects, today also determines then what we see, what
we hear, what we talk about, what we think and then who we
surround ourselves with. It is also very important. Not if you want your
venture to have a truly important impact, because you have to take care of
these things first, before taking care that if it looks beautiful, your wolf
or not is total. In fact, the great mentors really have come that
way, they obviously find out what and they say it' s you in
a meeting that knows the least or the dumbest. Why, because then,
in that context you learn, you nurture. But if you are in an
environment where you are the one who knows the most or who has a higher
level of consciousness, the one who contributes the most you impoverish And, as
I say, always life always goes forward, evolves and grows in the entrepreneurship
that is part of life must be equal. So you' re leaving on
the way? Luis, when you grow your level of consciousness, that that
also has an economic impact, you leave on the way relationships, friendships,
even to this family, because if they are vibrating us and there we return
with the quantum, if we are not vibrating in the same thing, your
scales levels of consciousness, you start to bring that which you are. Not
that you want to do what you are if you grow up, that happened
to me, that I was growing up transforming and my patients or my clients
were transforming and it started to reach other people. I was no longer vibrating,
I could no longer give an answer to the ancients, because part of
life was already demanding me in another scenario and understanding that life, that life
is itself, then they say that you are the average of the five people
around you. So, what are those five people around you? I'
d say what the five people are, the five books, the five foods
you eat, the five podcasts you watch, radio shows, movies, and
all that stuff we' re eating. Besides that there is so much information,
we are informed, as they say, that we have to be very
careful with what we eat, what we hear, what we consume with all
the senses. This happens to me, for example, and I' m
telling you, it' s a lot to my daughter. With horror movies,
what sells the most is fear and blood, violence, blood and sex.
Fear, violence and sex. Then sex understood as good. Mostly what
is called the pejorative of highly minimized sexuality. And that' s what I
see most. What happens when you get stuck in there, when you consume
that, that affects your hormone system, your emotional system, so you'
re in life a little aggressive, a little defensive. You' re full
of fear, because we consume fear. And that' s when people see
society so scary and you say why, by the media, by the movies
you consume pure literal shit is pure shit what we consume, so what happens
that we have so much information that now we have to develop another skill,
which is antennas of discernment. Not everything is good to consume. If you
want to evolve, if you want to be in harmony, that information can
become a threat to your health. Then we need those antennas to tell you
this, yes, this no, this, this fills me with peace or
this fills me with fear, This fills me with love or fear, with
light or darkness. And choose. Listen to your body and leave behind or
aside those things that do not allow you as a soul to grow. I
would say then what we are in what I am understanding of everything you have
told us. Evidently, there are many things to rescue. But then here
too something that is very important. Okay, what I just heard is how
to say no or how to say yes, at what time jesse. You
can collect that consciousness and say no in consciousness, because here something very important
is that the unconscious or the subconscious does not. I call it the unconscious
because in my unconscious he does what he wants. Suddenly, we say yes
when we mean no. That we say no when we mean yes. Today
we are in a culture in which, if you like someone, there are
two very strong currents. If you like someone, don' t tell them
no. No, no, no, no, just say hello and see
how he reacts. No. And we' re in this magical comic culture.
And, on the other hand, we are still telling you with everything
and it doesn' t matter how you live here today and how you balance
and how you do it to know with conscience and say no, and with
conscience say yes, yes. That' s a tremendous, not just for
a tremendous question, but tremendous experience that we have to go through to learn
that, that is, and for me it' s an indicator. When
a person does therapy, the limit is respect and respect is love. I
always tell patients that. So because a lot of women come in that it
' s hard for them to say no, and I tell them this is
the muscle we' re going to train. At first you say no and
feel terrible with guilt and as you go on saying it, you feel less
and less guilty and more empowered. At first you say it on the defensive
because you' re afraid that you' ll reject yourself and then you'
re saying it natural ay. I' m not available right now or I
don' t feel like it. That which seems easy, is very complicated.
Why, because they have taught us culturally socially to like you, to
recognize you, to love you conditioned to say yes to everyone, including things
that you don' t want and that hurt you a lot. What happens
that we betray each other and as we betray each other, we lose self
- confidence and self- esteem. So, if you want to regain your
self- confidence, your self- esteem, it' s time to pass
yes or yes, to learn to put limits with that which you don'
t want, that you don' t feel like and point there you don
' t have to explain it. And for me a person who betrays himself
is when he says yes and means no or when he says no, meaning
yes, that' s where we' re betraying each other and most of
us betray each other. But when you begin to regain consciousness, self-
esteem, self- confidence, begin to say no and start to fall ill,
it happens to me that when I say truths, I fall heavy when
I say no, and I say no and I say reason. I tend
to be very direct. I used to be more straight to the sack.
Now I' m a little more assertive, or that I know that the
other one gets upset, but I' m saying I don' t feel
like this or yes or no, but that' s self- assertion socially.
You' re going to fall very badly. You just said a jewel,
forgive me for interrupting you abruptly, but I need to. There are
people who say I' m like this, I' m direct and then
they' re letting go as I call it true everywhere. Not then because
I am like this, because I am like this and I say things as
they are and they are hurting and they leave a path full of wounds and
people no longer come near forget because you fall ill, because you fill and
hurt and who likes a people that lead and that hurt of those people who
are thorns, because no one comes near to thorns and even though inside they
feel very social, they are infinitely alone beings that type of people. Now
there' s something very important here that you just said, say not assertively,
that doesn' t necessarily have to be a non- aggressive. There
' s a big difference between assertiveness and aggressiveness, and I think that'
s the key. No, I don' t, too. In fact,
we started by being to put to start by giving non- defensive answers,
because, since we were not taught, we get brave and say no.
That' s the non- defensive one. But then learn to say
it from love And everything that is said from love to another comes from love
is from where, but as we don' t teach ourselves, first we
' re going to do a little bit of fat until life itself sets the
limits. Then, of course, Luis did not teach us to communicate assertively
and much less to make integrity with us, that is, yes when we
want and when we do not, then it is up to us to learn
it, aim for reason in life or do a course or therapy or whatever
it is to have the tools and skills. But it' s beautiful when
you from love can say I don' t want to, I don'
t want to, I don' t want to stay with you. The
relationship' s over, love' s over, and I want to go
my way. And you don' t have to make one conflict or insult
the other, but simply listen to yourself and be consistent with what you hear
and from love, let the other know what happens that the other receives it
with love, but you' re also teaching the other to learn to love
and listen. For me, that is a level of consciousness that I wish
we could all access, because we would really be more free that people would
love you unconditionally by accepting your yeses and yours is not because they are not
a hundred and they are not attacking anyone. That would be beautiful, it
was autotic society in many questions to ask you. In fact, I want
to invite you again to continue talking in a second, third, fifth interview,
because I think there' s a lot, a lot of information to
share with you. Thank you for giving us this light in the middle of
the darkness but also ask yourself this part that makes us feel good when we
say no, when we say yes with assertiveness. It is truly a gift
that we make to ourselves when suddenly I say no, and maybe I say
it with assertiveness at first, as you say half- way, no,
but then since I get fucked up or even if they don' t understand
me, at least, I already said no. And one feels really good
about one feels connected and feels not with this divided part when chin means no,
but I said yes, I' m divided because now I don'
t want to do it. Now I' m going to this party that
I didn' t want to go to, but when we say no,
we feel good, even wanting to put on a movie. No. This
helps us to grow very calmly. It helps us a lot. It helps
us a lot, and there is also an issue with the Psicon it there
are no indigenous communities that do not have the word. It' s not
interesting, because imagine how it changes you culturally to take your word for it.
Not all of it is affirmation and assent to feeling reality as it is.
So it' s interesting because there they don' t have the duality
that' s what so much damage does to us. So I say that
in entrepreneurship, I always set that example of those indigenous cultures that are not
there. Not in entrepreneurship, you have to say yes to everything you like
and what you don' t like to grow, why experiences yes, yes,
yes, because the objections aren' t. Then also a course that
' s worth so much and you there I can' t afford, I
can' t, I don' t have. Then the objections are not.
So, when you' re in it, you' re not in
the block on the objections you put yourself in. But the universe is always
saying yes, in the sense that only you have to say yes. Then
let us self- affirm ourselves in our other truth, so that you may
see how the ways are opening up. And he' s not. I
' d say no to the negative, say no to what' s not
right, not to what you don' t want. But always, like
a CD culture, he' s fine with me. I walk what'
s right for me. I' m getting away from what' s not
right for me. But a philosophy. If you' re seeing us,
you' re listening to us, and you probably want to tell him chili
if he hears. I want this mentor and I do need it. I
think you can help me a lot. The instagram, which is psychommentring,
is appearing there on your screen. For those of us who are listening to
us, Psycho is like cyco, but with ps he forgot to spell t
s grega chl psycho menthoring, as well as his good amenthoring. There you
can find Jesse White. The truth is, it' s a delight.
It' s a jewel to be able to talk to you, my dear
Jesse. Also this effect notice that I have done an exercise. I'
m doing it all the time. I' m having a hard time telling
you, I' m having a hard time removing the but and instead of
removing the, but putting the i then instead of telling you It' s
too early, but I' m going to get it changed because it'
s too early and I' m going to get up no. It changes
a lot of things brutally. There are times when I say I can'
t, but instead of saying but there are times that what we' re
used to saying is I can' t, but I' m going to
make you want instead of saying that I can' t, and I'
m going to make you want to get better. And that changes mentally.
Something happens like magic in quotation marks. No, yeah, that' s
what he called noja It' s the same thing. When they tell you
I can' t afford it. Instead of this I cannot allow you,
how can I do it the way I can already start a range of possibilities,
loans resources. I don' t know what people help you When you
say how I can do it, that changed my mind a lot one when
they said they didn' t say how I can do it, how can
I do it? What would it take for me to do this. When
I learned that phrase, I never took it off again and arrived legit because
the answer was the resources that appeared and I said how important. That'
s where he was right. It' s all mind. It' s
all mind. I want to ask everyone has a superpower. I believe that
all human beings have superpower. I do, I think that superpowers are not
exclusively superheroes, but we all have a layer and we all have a superpower.
What do you think Jesse Blanco' s super power is, because I
trust you and I' ve never said it publicly, which is listening to
your feeling. Okay. Wow. It took me a long time to find
out, but I had a sort of sensitivity and I think that helped me
a lot as a psychologist, who heard what the other one felt then clear.
When I gave him a feedback, the patients stayed like this and for
me it was natural until when once one asked us what powers, what vocation,
what donates that I, of course, I hear then as I hear
coming, it is not that I see it, I hear it, but
the other then feels clear. It gives me a capacity for empathy that is
sometimes dangerous. Yes, yes, because I also have another way so much
empathy at the end that the road puts you in a vulnerable sense and there
are times when one with that empathy stays carrying problems from the other that you
as psychologists have to leave. They also have to take therapy and so on,
but it' s not always easy to mentor that part, to have
so much empathy. Sometimes he plays against one because in the end you get
so involved for the other to succeed. There are times when the other person
just doesn' t want to, doesn' t give him life, or
doesn' t give him the heads. Suddenly there are people who don'
t get the water, like my ex and then I' ll tell you.
Hey, but I want to plant something interesting here. Which one do
you think talking about superpowers, which is the super power everyone wants or should
have. What super power you think this planet can change and be different.
You can say one or two as much as you want. Hey, it
came to my mind like blowing up the power to fly, because if we
flew, we wouldn' t see things so small, because sometimes we think
we' re the belly button of the world. But if you fly automatically,
start to see everything small and have a broad view, then, first
for the freedom that would give you a feeling of flying and being able to
go wherever you want, and, second, the possibility of seeing things from
another place, from the height. Seeing things with height must be a spectacular
voice, because everything is small, so you no longer look small in front
of things, but you all see it backwards. I' m small and
that' s a small thing. That' s not one more little thing
in the universe It doesn' t have to have so much power to affect
that one. It would be one ok and more sailing in deep waters,
also siren type, or what I know. I would be nice to see
the world above, but you too very nice to see the world that was
below the sea, of the waters, which is also beautiful. But we
humans don' t have natural access to that. That' s why I
envy him about the nature of the other animals He' s very interesting.
I want to ask you what has been the best Council you have ever been
given in life and that Council you share with the people around you who continue
to share it you remember that Council. Yeah, and it' s something
a mentor told me very recently last year, that I don' t know
why he looked at me so much, but I' m shocked that he
told me to make your life a show and I don' t know.
He' s told me thousands of more valuable things, but it' s
me he flinched my soul and I said clear, of course he was teaching
us to sell on stage sales are stage and all that made some sense.
But when he told me, he told me outside of that, in another
context and it came to me like the soul. And it' s like
we don' t expect to be on a stage to shine and be the
best version, but when nobody sees you, you' re a show,
you' re the protagonist of the story you want. And me that.
That' s what I got on tape. And I said clear then,
every time I' m this fallen, I say your life to everything inside
out wherever you are must be a show, i e there must be music
of the brightness, looks and happiness and its idon and joy. I really
liked that father lia. The truth is that father, and I think that
to all the people who are seeing us, who are listening to us,
I think this council could also apply it in your life. And believe me,
the perspective is probably different. And when we change perspective, our reality
changes because truth. I don' t think the truth is with you or
me. Not really, but the reality, yes, the reality is very
own, it' s very yours. And reality is based on perception.
How I perceive, not just the other person, how I perceive this job,
how I perceive my family, how I perceive this problem, This problem
I can perceive as the worst misfortune of my life or the best chance of
my life. Then that perception can influence your reality. And I want,
finally, time is running out. The truth is that doing a practice of
lycium. I mean, I had a lot of questions here, but I
' m gonna ask you later because I wanted to play a little bit with
you and play with the imaginary. But I think this is very important and
I don' t want to miss the essence of the wisdom of this thing
you' re sharing with us. Imagine you have to give a message to
everyone. We have already been told that this message is going to be transmitted
on the Internet, radio, television, translated into all languages, dialects,
languages, languages all for everyone. What message would you give us to the
whole planet at this time, in which as ten years ago, twenty,
fifty, one hundred years ago we have heard what wars, diseases, that
comes another new disease and bad news everywhere, where you see that the economy
is touched, where you see that the security is touched, where today we
are social phenomena that we have not seen before, where people and preparation with
a cell phone have such strong power of call not and people with great capacity
for many studies. Today it seems that studies are living the world upside down.
What would be the message you want to share with us? Well,
I' d first tell them to close their eyes. And there' s
one phrase that I love very much, which is that you make your heart
your only oracle That' s what I' d tell them. I wouldn
' t tell you any more, because that' s where we have unity,
truth, truth for everyone and that little heart is infallible. I really
want to thank you infinitely for your time, for kindness, for your patience.
Thank you, we had a slow few days out there, but well,
thank you really for your patience and the truth. I really want to
thank you for all the effort, all the dedication, all the times you
had to get up from those fears, you had to face them. Thank
you because we' re talking today and you' re sharing valuable information.
Thank you because if you had listened to those fears, if you hadn'
t crossed that ocean, if you hadn' t changed with everything that implies
a change, not only go from home, but from city, country,
customs, stories. Thank you because when you first walked the streets of Spain,
with uncertainties, with questions as to whether or not you had done right,
whether you had made those decisions, those cafes that you were taking and
that you were saying where I' m going. But you kept going.
Thanks to that, today we have you here, today we have you with
a full story to share and today you are a reference jesse for many people.
Then thank you wholeheartedly, all that effort, all that dedication, has
been worth it and today you are crossing seas again, not remotely. Or
I' m in Mexico, you' re in Spain and also take the
opportunity to greet and bless your whole family, wherever they are at the end
of the way. I think you' re a reference and they must be
very proud of you. Thank you with all my heart. That' s
beautiful. Please, Luis, it has reached my soul and my heart,
my heart. Thank you, Love, thanks to You and thanks to the
work you are doing, because on a radio there is a different communication that
is huhmant to Hiuhman and heart to heart. He carried all that word here
in my heart as a unique experience and thanks for space. When I want
to, we return and I will go there, you or not in this
wonderful not safe man, I have an appointment with Spain, my heart in
Spain, there pending. Then I' m sure I' ll come and
say hello and thanks to you, who' s with us. Thank you
for sharing this chapter really bringing it to the person you think is necessary,
to listen to it, to see it. It' s important, not
by your servant, by my guests. Today is Jesse white with us and
I think one interesting way to be able to bless another is to put certain
tools in his way so that he can improve. If we all get better,
this world will change. Or Luis I' ve gone out, I
' ll see you and we' ll hear you in a next chapter of
what a good question you all have good morning, good afternoon, good night
bye And so, thank you, thanks to sno