WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.160 --> 00:00:11.759 This is pod Populi Podcast for the People, the Great Love Debate. It's 2 00:00:11.800 --> 00:00:18.120 the Great Love Debate, the Great Love Debate. It's a Great Love Debate. 3 00:00:18.519 --> 00:00:22.679 Hi again, Everyone's Brian Howie. Welcome to the Great Love Debate, 4 00:00:22.719 --> 00:00:26.679 the world's number one Dating in a Relationship podcast. It's two thousand and fifteen. 5 00:00:26.719 --> 00:00:31.519 I am here in the very fine studios of pod Populi Podcast for the 6 00:00:31.559 --> 00:00:35.960 People. I am back at the one in Scottsdale, Arizona, the full 7 00:00:36.320 --> 00:00:42.119 scots Dazzle, and I've been teasing this UM episode for about three weeks. 8 00:00:43.000 --> 00:00:46.880 Why am I recording this in Scottsdale. Scottsdale, as I have mentioned several 9 00:00:46.920 --> 00:00:54.119 times, is the number two place for bachelorette parties, and at any giving 10 00:00:54.159 --> 00:01:02.039 time, there are about fifty UM trolley's party buses, limos and just gaggles 11 00:01:02.119 --> 00:01:11.640 of drunk chicks with bad veils and penis straws and matching T shirts and all 12 00:01:11.640 --> 00:01:17.000 that shit talking about their bachelorette party. It's number two behind Nashville. We'll 13 00:01:17.040 --> 00:01:22.079 get into that shortly. Vegas isn't number one anymore for bachelorette parties and bachelor 14 00:01:22.159 --> 00:01:25.480 parties. A lot come here to the valley of the sun because they want 15 00:01:25.480 --> 00:01:30.719 to golf and then do some bad things, and there's some quality adult entertainment 16 00:01:30.760 --> 00:01:34.400 here in here. So I asked you guys, starting about three weeks ago, 17 00:01:34.439 --> 00:01:38.239 I wanted you guys to send me some of your bachelor and bachelorette stories, 18 00:01:38.959 --> 00:01:44.239 experiences, horrors, all of that kind of stuff. Two of you. 19 00:01:44.959 --> 00:01:48.799 We got over seven hundred things, so we've been sifting through them. 20 00:01:48.920 --> 00:01:55.000 Two of you said ones where people died, and I'm not gonna use those. 21 00:01:55.120 --> 00:01:57.200 I feel like one of those was a plot of a movie somewhere, 22 00:01:57.200 --> 00:01:59.519 but two people just like, yeah, and then somebody died. I don't 23 00:01:59.599 --> 00:02:01.640 I'm going to leave those for another day. Um. I want to get 24 00:02:01.640 --> 00:02:05.719 into ones that are sort of interesting and ones I have some comments on. 25 00:02:05.799 --> 00:02:12.479 But I have not been the bachelor, as you guys know. I've never 26 00:02:12.520 --> 00:02:15.120 I mean, is weird you're a bachelor party. I've never been engaged, 27 00:02:15.120 --> 00:02:21.800 you're married to gotten that far. I haven't gone to as many bachelor parties 28 00:02:21.840 --> 00:02:24.439 as I used to because I like to say, Um, I like to 29 00:02:24.439 --> 00:02:28.360 earn my nudity, and I feel like it comes a little too cheap and 30 00:02:28.360 --> 00:02:30.599 easy. I want to I want to earn it. I want you to 31 00:02:30.639 --> 00:02:35.680 take your clothes off because you liked me, and so I haven't. I 32 00:02:35.719 --> 00:02:38.159 haven't done many, but I'm going to get to my personal story. But 33 00:02:38.199 --> 00:02:40.680 I brought in some pros here, not bachelor and bachelorette parties, but pros 34 00:02:40.680 --> 00:02:45.439 in terms of podcasting. And they know this. They've both been on this 35 00:02:45.560 --> 00:02:52.560 before. He is the host of the very very popular Secrets of a Sugar 36 00:02:52.639 --> 00:03:04.159 Daddy podcast. The Esteemed Marcus Damn glad to be here and reformed sugar Baby. 37 00:03:04.080 --> 00:03:07.719 Yes, sugar Baby Emeritus. Amy's back in the house. How are 38 00:03:07.759 --> 00:03:12.199 you good? Great? What do you think it is about Scottsdale that incur 39 00:03:12.360 --> 00:03:16.120 that makes this such a bachelorette haven? When did it become this? Because 40 00:03:16.120 --> 00:03:19.879 I've been here as long as you have to do, markets would know this 41 00:03:19.960 --> 00:03:23.080 well. I've definitely noticed it right just right here where we record. Yeah, 42 00:03:23.120 --> 00:03:28.240 sometimes we'll go out for a lunch or breakfast or you know, snacks 43 00:03:28.280 --> 00:03:31.840 after the podcast, and there's girls in pink hats, pink shirts riding these 44 00:03:31.840 --> 00:03:37.240 bikes that you pedal around town and get completely wasted. It looks like a 45 00:03:37.240 --> 00:03:38.599 lot of fun. It is. We're right in the heart of old town. 46 00:03:38.680 --> 00:03:46.439 Scottsdale here and it is disproportionately until about nine pm, it's like ninety 47 00:03:46.520 --> 00:03:50.719 percent women here. Yeah, it's very groups of women. The guys are 48 00:03:50.719 --> 00:03:53.240 I don't know what the guys are doing, golf and gambling, sleeping, 49 00:03:53.360 --> 00:03:55.879 napping. Later at night they go out. But it is the strangest thing. 50 00:03:55.879 --> 00:03:59.439 You see these wine bars packed with women. You know, it's one 51 00:03:59.439 --> 00:04:03.400 of the reasons we really enjoy recording in old Dallas. Got there really are 52 00:04:03.439 --> 00:04:08.080 as packs of women now. I mentioned this on the last podcast of the 53 00:04:08.080 --> 00:04:13.599 podcast before. About fifteen years ago, I shot a pilot for VH one. 54 00:04:13.680 --> 00:04:17.360 It was called Last Night and um it was about bachelotte, bachelom bachette 55 00:04:17.399 --> 00:04:20.360 parties and the thing that we noticed. We got tons of submissions and we 56 00:04:20.360 --> 00:04:25.360 shot a bunch of footage or whatever. The men who attended the bachelor parties 57 00:04:25.399 --> 00:04:29.480 wanted to do bad things. The women wanted the bride to do bad things. 58 00:04:29.800 --> 00:04:32.639 There was a real like we're gonna fuck her over in some way, 59 00:04:32.720 --> 00:04:35.000 or we're gonna make an experience for her. It was a real kind of 60 00:04:35.560 --> 00:04:40.639 ye, it's her randomy sort of situation where we're gonna push the other guys 61 00:04:40.639 --> 00:04:43.759 didn't even care if the groom came. They care if he was there. 62 00:04:43.800 --> 00:04:45.959 They're like, this is our thing and we're just gonna have fun or whatever. 63 00:04:46.000 --> 00:04:49.959 It was a real interesting dynamic on that. But you know, people 64 00:04:50.040 --> 00:04:54.360 still go to Vegas for it, Miami's a big spot for it. New 65 00:04:54.439 --> 00:04:57.360 York, you know, there's these like let's go shoot guns and go to 66 00:04:57.399 --> 00:05:00.519 Wyoming kind of things now, which doesn't seem that fun really. Yeah, 67 00:05:00.560 --> 00:05:04.839 there's a lot going on in the in the world, reik Vik. Iceland 68 00:05:04.920 --> 00:05:08.759 was a very big at least when I lived in New York, because it's 69 00:05:08.759 --> 00:05:14.319 only three and a half hours to Iceland, and the Icelandic women love American 70 00:05:14.319 --> 00:05:18.439 men and they're beautiful. Yes, yes, So there was a lot of 71 00:05:18.480 --> 00:05:23.879 that. So we picked six of your stories that we are going to read 72 00:05:24.240 --> 00:05:27.959 comment on them. And so these six, some of them represent a lot 73 00:05:27.959 --> 00:05:30.560 of ones were similar to these, but we picked the goales and we're going 74 00:05:30.600 --> 00:05:33.720 to comment and perhaps give advice and perhaps see if they dodged a bullet or 75 00:05:33.800 --> 00:05:36.319 not. You ready, yes, here we go, all right. Yeah, 76 00:05:36.319 --> 00:05:40.959 I'm really looking forward to these because I didn't attend a bachelor party. 77 00:05:41.160 --> 00:05:44.360 But it's been a few years it was in Vegas. Yeah, so it's 78 00:05:44.439 --> 00:05:47.439 interesting to think that that's not the number one spot anymore. But I was 79 00:05:47.680 --> 00:05:50.839 not expecting that. I really thought that was going to be. Now people 80 00:05:50.879 --> 00:05:54.839 go to everybody's like, oh, Vegas is cliche. There's still a lot 81 00:05:54.839 --> 00:05:56.879 of people go, so they try and get cute with it, and then 82 00:05:56.959 --> 00:05:59.720 bad things happen. Anyway, Well, let's hear this all right. First 83 00:05:59.720 --> 00:06:01.759 one, this is from Brooke, and she said a v our Facebook page. 84 00:06:02.600 --> 00:06:05.560 First of all, I am twenty six and have been to about two 85 00:06:05.680 --> 00:06:11.800 dozen bachelorette parties in the last eighteen month, washing girls enough, not with 86 00:06:11.800 --> 00:06:15.959 the parties, but with all the marriages settled down about settling down anyway. 87 00:06:15.079 --> 00:06:18.240 The last one I went to, one of the bride'smaids told the bride that 88 00:06:18.319 --> 00:06:23.639 she had had sex with the fiance many times before they started dating, and 89 00:06:23.680 --> 00:06:27.800 asked if she still had and asked the bride if he still had issues getting 90 00:06:27.839 --> 00:06:30.800 it up. It was totally meant as a dig towards her. And I'm 91 00:06:30.839 --> 00:06:33.279 not sure why it matters what this guy did before they started dating, but 92 00:06:33.319 --> 00:06:36.439 it's fun into a whole thing where she got on the phone drunk at three 93 00:06:36.480 --> 00:06:41.160 am and started screaming, how many of my friends have you fucked? Over 94 00:06:41.240 --> 00:06:45.040 and over? The wedding is still on, but it has been postponed. 95 00:06:45.439 --> 00:06:49.040 Maybe we should have bachelorette parties after the ceremonies, more like a celebration than 96 00:06:49.160 --> 00:06:57.000 famous last words. O God, I'm really curious on how this subject even 97 00:06:57.079 --> 00:07:00.040 came on I because that's kind of thing I think she thought, like, 98 00:07:00.360 --> 00:07:04.120 you know, you should know about me and Doug, Like why bring that 99 00:07:04.279 --> 00:07:09.279 up on the part There was an episode of The Sopranos that that happened. 100 00:07:09.399 --> 00:07:14.240 Um, the one who Vesuvio is the wife I no one in real life, 101 00:07:14.319 --> 00:07:18.000 Catherine R. Ducci whatever her Artie's wife. And she told Carmela, 102 00:07:18.160 --> 00:07:20.399 like, you know, me and Tony used to date back in high school 103 00:07:20.399 --> 00:07:23.759 and there was no reason they'd known each other long time. And she was 104 00:07:23.800 --> 00:07:27.600 really bothered by it. She's bothered by the information and whatever. So one 105 00:07:27.639 --> 00:07:30.959 of the bride'smaids tells the bride, hey, back in the day, I 106 00:07:30.040 --> 00:07:35.040 mean your husband, I mean, should that call out? That's not his 107 00:07:35.160 --> 00:07:40.399 fault. Why it was a lack of discretion on that one, right, 108 00:07:40.439 --> 00:07:45.399 but why does she get mad at the guy? She's probably it was before 109 00:07:45.439 --> 00:07:46.439 that it was like he cheated on her. With her, it was like 110 00:07:46.480 --> 00:07:49.040 back in the day, it's one of your friends. I mean, maybe 111 00:07:49.079 --> 00:07:53.680 she has so I feel maybe she has some insecurities. I don't care. 112 00:07:53.839 --> 00:07:58.040 And the problem is you start visualizing them too together and you can't get that 113 00:07:58.040 --> 00:08:00.800 out of your head right, and it's gonna be like you're gonna be at 114 00:08:00.800 --> 00:08:05.199 the at the Deists. Yeah. Yeah, I've always been because I'm one 115 00:08:05.240 --> 00:08:07.920 of those jackasses. If I go to a wedding and I had dated the 116 00:08:07.920 --> 00:08:11.800 bride, I'm one of those people elbowing people. I Yet, I definitely 117 00:08:11.800 --> 00:08:15.600 had that back. I don't like that feeling. I don't. I don't 118 00:08:15.639 --> 00:08:18.720 like that. I don't know if he knows like I don't like it. 119 00:08:18.959 --> 00:08:22.639 Clearly there's a little bit of like twisted. This is the moment I'm saving 120 00:08:22.639 --> 00:08:26.120 this information for. Yeah, she did that on purpose. I would absolutely 121 00:08:26.199 --> 00:08:31.560 kick her. Well, the Bachelor, the part about not getting having trouble 122 00:08:31.600 --> 00:08:35.679 getting it up a dig at the guy. Now, she should have said, 123 00:08:35.720 --> 00:08:39.080 no, he has does have a problem with me, like they should 124 00:08:39.120 --> 00:08:43.279 have fight it unless he does he obviously, unless he still does and that 125 00:08:43.440 --> 00:08:46.600 hite a nerve. Oh yeah, I don't know what he did wrong here. 126 00:08:46.919 --> 00:08:50.039 I mean, that's he's just like, this is like a drive buy 127 00:08:50.039 --> 00:08:52.159 on him. That's not his fault. Well, you know, I think 128 00:08:52.200 --> 00:08:56.879 at the same time, he probably should have disclosed that in the beginning of 129 00:08:56.879 --> 00:09:03.159 the relationship that they were, oh you know, I went out with your 130 00:09:03.200 --> 00:09:07.039 friend. Yeah, I mean, obviously they're had That is a deal breaker 131 00:09:07.080 --> 00:09:09.320 though for a lot of girls, they won't go down that road. And 132 00:09:09.360 --> 00:09:13.519 he was probably like, listen, I like you and I that's I don't 133 00:09:13.559 --> 00:09:16.480 want to say that. It's not he's not lying to her. He just 134 00:09:16.480 --> 00:09:20.080 didn't volunteer that information, and clearly neither did her friend. Yeah, but 135 00:09:20.120 --> 00:09:22.799 then you get up to this point and look at what happened, you know 136 00:09:22.840 --> 00:09:26.000 what what I mean. So if a girl that can't accept that, and 137 00:09:26.000 --> 00:09:28.639 it's like, okay, well I get it. I mean, should you 138 00:09:28.840 --> 00:09:33.480 even really be with that person anyways? Who's not understanding? Don't you want 139 00:09:33.480 --> 00:09:35.080 to be with somebody who's not going to judge you and who's gonna think? 140 00:09:35.120 --> 00:09:37.559 So now, the thing is, the wedding is still on, but it 141 00:09:37.639 --> 00:09:45.440 is postponed once the kid road probably not I'm not sure that one. I 142 00:09:46.559 --> 00:09:48.879 wish them all the best of us. What I would say to her, 143 00:09:48.159 --> 00:09:52.039 what I would say to her is I think that you know it was in 144 00:09:52.120 --> 00:09:56.360 the past, Like I think your friend definitely was not a very good friend 145 00:09:56.039 --> 00:09:58.600 by doing that. I mean she obviously, like you said, what's holding 146 00:09:58.639 --> 00:10:03.080 on to that information for the right moment? And so that was it. 147 00:10:03.200 --> 00:10:05.240 But I really want enough date on this one. Yeah, I do do. 148 00:10:05.440 --> 00:10:09.759 Yeah, it would probster Brook. She's twenty six and she's been to 149 00:10:09.799 --> 00:10:13.559 two dozen bachelorette parties. There's a little bit of competitive marrying at that age. 150 00:10:13.600 --> 00:10:16.360 It's really expensive to the to be in a wedding. When you're a 151 00:10:16.360 --> 00:10:20.679 girl in your twenties, you have to go to all the ship you gotta 152 00:10:20.759 --> 00:10:24.759 you know, and the brides always say you can wear that you shave bridesmaid's 153 00:10:24.759 --> 00:10:28.919 gown again, and then have to buy all that. It's a really big 154 00:10:28.960 --> 00:10:33.120 expense for I don't know. Maybe they're saving on a future divorce. I 155 00:10:33.200 --> 00:10:37.440 guess that's how I see it. I don't even know if you postponed, 156 00:10:37.519 --> 00:10:43.000 how you explain why? Yeah, Oh my gosh, what is that going 157 00:10:43.080 --> 00:10:46.919 on? You know? None of this, my friend, none of this 158 00:10:46.000 --> 00:10:50.080 is staying out. I'm sorry, honey, that really sucks. But you're 159 00:10:50.120 --> 00:10:52.840 not creative Brooks, stay above the frag. Yeah, and it's definitely not 160 00:10:52.919 --> 00:10:56.440 his fault. So yeah, it's not his fault. No, it's not. 161 00:10:56.879 --> 00:11:01.000 I don't you know. He should he should have came clean in the 162 00:11:01.080 --> 00:11:05.480 very beginning. But that's that should be something that they should come together and 163 00:11:05.519 --> 00:11:07.720 talk about and be like, oh, he should have like, oh, 164 00:11:07.799 --> 00:11:09.200 yeah I did. I didn't really count it because I couldn't get it up. 165 00:11:09.200 --> 00:11:13.759 Then that could be it. That could very well be yeah I count 166 00:11:13.799 --> 00:11:16.080 it. Yeah. Yeah. So and does it say in there was it 167 00:11:16.120 --> 00:11:20.399 just a one night stand or they actually dated um or they hooked up? 168 00:11:20.440 --> 00:11:26.720 What she had sex with her fiance many times before they started dames. Yeah, 169 00:11:26.960 --> 00:11:30.519 so maybe he was using the friend to get to her. Maybe, 170 00:11:30.960 --> 00:11:35.759 I know. Yeah, I don't know. I just feel bad for the 171 00:11:35.799 --> 00:11:37.120 guy. But part of me is like, you dodged a bullet. You 172 00:11:37.120 --> 00:11:41.000 have a really insecure fiance that you proposed to it. I agree. So 173 00:11:41.200 --> 00:11:46.440 yeah, all right on to the next This is from Victor in the OC. 174 00:11:46.960 --> 00:11:50.919 I went to a bachelor party in like Tahoe, which is a very 175 00:11:50.000 --> 00:11:54.679 underrated spot. Golf, casinos, bars, tons of hot girls. It 176 00:11:54.759 --> 00:11:58.600 was my buddy Dave's bachelor party. He had his uncle along mostly to drive 177 00:11:58.600 --> 00:12:01.960 and to make sure nothing got out of And anyway, long story short, 178 00:12:01.080 --> 00:12:05.799 his uncle, unbeknownst to us, was drinking all night and drove the minivan 179 00:12:05.960 --> 00:12:09.720 carrying all eleven of us into Lake Tahoe, like right off the road and 180 00:12:09.759 --> 00:12:13.360 into the water. The minivan sunk like a stone. It was absolutely freezing. 181 00:12:13.440 --> 00:12:16.879 This was in March. I'm sure there is some symbolism there because for 182 00:12:16.919 --> 00:12:18.960 some reason the wedding got called off and they broke up. They should have 183 00:12:20.039 --> 00:12:24.960 gone to Vegas instead. Yea wow, I love that story. That is 184 00:12:26.200 --> 00:12:31.200 great. The drunk uncle, and he was the one that was supposed to 185 00:12:31.200 --> 00:12:37.600 be the yeah yeah done. I did a bachelor party like that once. 186 00:12:37.679 --> 00:12:43.919 It was it was said in Vegas. But the brother of the groom, 187 00:12:43.080 --> 00:12:48.440 who was in charge of all the activities, he was very scared of Vegas. 188 00:12:48.679 --> 00:12:52.159 So he planned all of these activities like we're gonna go to Lake Mead 189 00:12:52.240 --> 00:12:56.000 and we're gonna go Hoover Damn, and we're gonna go like Vegas is full 190 00:12:56.039 --> 00:13:00.879 of nature, and this whole three day weekend or forty weekend like everybody's like, 191 00:13:01.399 --> 00:13:05.799 can we get through this bullshit? I tend going strip please, And 192 00:13:05.840 --> 00:13:09.200 it was only so long he could he could sort of keep the walls out 193 00:13:09.240 --> 00:13:11.759 from us going there, and then the last night like people just went crazy. 194 00:13:11.879 --> 00:13:16.360 Oh wow. Yeah. Yeah. But so the symbolism of if your 195 00:13:16.440 --> 00:13:24.080 bachelor party minivan sinks in a frozen like Tahoe, the marriages, that's I 196 00:13:24.080 --> 00:13:26.480 don't I don't know if done with it. Yeah that's not good. Yeah, 197 00:13:26.519 --> 00:13:30.840 no, I agree with that one. Maybe this last couple of ships 198 00:13:31.600 --> 00:13:35.039 take no of this. So that's too called off so far that a lot 199 00:13:35.120 --> 00:13:39.559 can go wrong. Yeah, so that you you nodded in a with approval 200 00:13:39.559 --> 00:13:41.000 of like Tahoe, Like Tahoe is awesome. It is. Yeah, we 201 00:13:41.039 --> 00:13:45.320 went on a guy's golf trip there and it felt like a bachelor party. 202 00:13:45.399 --> 00:13:48.159 The first time you see like Tahoe, you're just like, no, I'm 203 00:13:48.159 --> 00:13:52.600 really excited. It's awesome. I want to work there really bad, driving 204 00:13:52.639 --> 00:13:56.039 the minivans for the bat All right. Yeah. Have you ever been a 205 00:13:56.080 --> 00:14:00.399 bar cart girl? Yes, she has at my country club. Got her 206 00:14:00.480 --> 00:14:03.840 the job. That's a good job. I was a Crown Royal girl in 207 00:14:03.559 --> 00:14:07.960 Wyoming. I was I've done a lot of different things, but the Barcard 208 00:14:07.039 --> 00:14:11.639 girls a good job. You're like a hero. Why did you hate it? 209 00:14:13.279 --> 00:14:16.279 Because I don't. I they look at you just like a piece of 210 00:14:16.320 --> 00:14:20.639 meat, and I was much smarter than that. So it was I know, 211 00:14:20.799 --> 00:14:24.879 but it was not stimulating sph. That is another thing. A lot 212 00:14:24.879 --> 00:14:28.279 of people were in Scottsdale. A lot of people come here not prepared for 213 00:14:28.360 --> 00:14:33.039 how dehydrated they're going to get. Absolutely so they continue to drink more, 214 00:14:33.399 --> 00:14:37.399 yes, alcohol, which makes it even worse. I know that they start 215 00:14:37.440 --> 00:14:43.080 like you see their skin just like flaking off because they're just the iv the 216 00:14:43.840 --> 00:14:46.320 Oh my gosh. I know. It's a big business here, all right, 217 00:14:46.600 --> 00:14:50.799 next one, hopefully we can get to an actual wedding here. Um. 218 00:14:50.399 --> 00:14:54.879 We were in Austin for my college roommates bachelor party. Every guy in 219 00:14:54.960 --> 00:14:58.519 the wedding party except for me, was married, and they acted like they 220 00:14:58.519 --> 00:15:01.960 had been in prisoned for years. They couldn't wait to get out and get 221 00:15:03.000 --> 00:15:05.960 after it. We ran into a bachelorette party and decided to hang with them 222 00:15:05.960 --> 00:15:09.159 because they were super fun and all very cute. But about one am, 223 00:15:09.240 --> 00:15:13.759 I see my friend Paul talking to the bride to be really intensely for over 224 00:15:13.799 --> 00:15:18.039 an hour. He looked like he was grilling her uncomfortably. So I went 225 00:15:18.080 --> 00:15:20.679 over to see what was up, and he was saying, over and over, 226 00:15:20.000 --> 00:15:24.159 just call him now, just do it now. So she calls her 227 00:15:24.159 --> 00:15:28.360 fiance and says she just found out that she has more of life to live 228 00:15:28.399 --> 00:15:31.879 in that marriage probably isn't for her. She calls the whole thing off right 229 00:15:31.879 --> 00:15:35.559 there, five feet away from a mechanical bull, got off the ride, 230 00:15:35.559 --> 00:15:37.120 so to speak. I said, Paul, what the fuck did you say 231 00:15:37.159 --> 00:15:41.840 to her? And he said the truth. It does suck anyway. Anyway, 232 00:15:41.879 --> 00:15:46.000 I just got an invite to him and his wife's tenth anniversary party. 233 00:15:46.279 --> 00:15:48.519 I'm not sure what to make for any of this, so I thought I 234 00:15:48.519 --> 00:15:52.080 would share and see what you think. That's from Peter from Chicago. So 235 00:15:52.200 --> 00:15:58.399 he talked somebody else out of getting married. He's been married ten years and 236 00:15:58.440 --> 00:16:03.679 he's doing a fake celebration. More gosh, yikes, yikes. That's a 237 00:16:03.720 --> 00:16:11.399 horrible husband. That's a horrible husband. She let some stranger talk her out 238 00:16:11.399 --> 00:16:15.279 of getting married in a bar at one o'clock in the morning. She probably 239 00:16:15.360 --> 00:16:18.240 was already questioning it. It sounds like it sounds like they got into a 240 00:16:18.279 --> 00:16:21.399 deep discussion and he saw so many red flags. He's like, what are 241 00:16:21.399 --> 00:16:23.320 you doing? Things that her friends might not have told her, because her 242 00:16:23.360 --> 00:16:26.440 friends were probably if they saw, they're like, go ahead and marry that. 243 00:16:26.679 --> 00:16:30.120 How old were they does it say? It doesn't say how old they 244 00:16:30.120 --> 00:16:32.559 were. Okay, I'm gonna marry ten years, so they have to be 245 00:16:32.639 --> 00:16:37.759 in their thirties at least. I know I was talking marriage to somebody. 246 00:16:37.840 --> 00:16:41.120 She actually was a sugar baby, but end up turning into a real relationship 247 00:16:41.120 --> 00:16:45.480 and we started talking marriage. All my friends are looking at this going, 248 00:16:45.559 --> 00:16:48.799 dude, you got to run from this one. She is trouble. But 249 00:16:48.080 --> 00:16:52.080 I'm so close to the situation. I was like, oh I'm making excuses. 250 00:16:52.240 --> 00:16:55.960 Yeah, oh I had. That happened to a friend of mine once. 251 00:16:56.000 --> 00:16:59.039 He had to have the conversation with one of his good friends. He's 252 00:16:59.039 --> 00:17:00.879 like, you cannot marry her, like and he's like, I love her, 253 00:17:00.879 --> 00:17:03.279 man, what do you want to exactly right, It's like you're too 254 00:17:03.359 --> 00:17:07.319 you're too far into it. And that's the thing. Her friends probably thought 255 00:17:07.359 --> 00:17:10.000 it was a bad idea with this guy, and they're like they're like go 256 00:17:10.039 --> 00:17:15.240 ahead have it, because they're not totally rooting for there for her happiness until 257 00:17:15.240 --> 00:17:17.720 their own happiness has worked out. Women tend to do that, Yes, 258 00:17:18.480 --> 00:17:21.559 very cat. It's like one I know, they're like, you're gonna make 259 00:17:21.559 --> 00:17:26.400 an awesome and what are you doing? Yeah, exactly, I want him. 260 00:17:26.799 --> 00:17:30.799 Yeah, there's always someone. There's always going on. All Right, 261 00:17:30.799 --> 00:17:33.680 I gotta take a quick break. We're at halftime here of the Bachelor and 262 00:17:33.680 --> 00:17:37.799 Bachelorette Spectacular and with Marcus and Amy from Secrets of His Sugar Daddy, and 263 00:17:37.839 --> 00:17:47.640 we will be back right after this. All right, we are back onward. 264 00:17:48.880 --> 00:17:55.400 This is from p K via our Facebook page, PK. I hate 265 00:17:55.440 --> 00:18:00.359 the whole penis straw and stupid matching shirt thing. It's so dumb and rating 266 00:18:00.359 --> 00:18:02.880 and I don't know why we do it, but anyway, we did it 267 00:18:02.960 --> 00:18:06.880 the weekend before my friend Patty's wedding, which was a huge wedding, had 268 00:18:06.920 --> 00:18:11.519 a really nice venue in DC, like four hundred people. Anyway, ladies, 269 00:18:11.359 --> 00:18:15.599 make sure you put a little time between the shenanigans and the festivities, 270 00:18:15.640 --> 00:18:18.359 because my friend the bride got so wasted that she not only threw up in 271 00:18:18.400 --> 00:18:22.519 my other friend's hair, she fell down getting out of the limo, broke 272 00:18:22.519 --> 00:18:25.680 her nose, her wrist and her orbital bone, and no amount of hair 273 00:18:25.720 --> 00:18:27.640 and makeup was going to cover that shit. And her parents made her go 274 00:18:27.680 --> 00:18:32.160 through with the ceremony as schedule because they had a lot of money investigated and 275 00:18:32.200 --> 00:18:34.400 I think to teach her a lesson. She was still bleeding a little out 276 00:18:34.440 --> 00:18:37.720 of one nostril walking down the aisle. This was four months ago, and 277 00:18:37.759 --> 00:18:41.880 her space is still a little crooked from it. I haven't seen the wedding 278 00:18:41.880 --> 00:18:47.839 picks yet, but no amount of photoshop is going to fix that. Gosh, 279 00:18:48.000 --> 00:18:52.160 it's the hangover that happened to my sister, my younger sister, not 280 00:18:52.240 --> 00:18:57.759 at a wedding prom night her senior year. She light got drunk and broke 281 00:18:57.960 --> 00:19:02.119 something and she had a good graduation like two days later, and all the 282 00:19:02.160 --> 00:19:04.759 pictures were all fucked up. But the parents, I mean, what are 283 00:19:04.759 --> 00:19:07.599 you supposed to do, Like, if you have it too close and something, 284 00:19:07.880 --> 00:19:11.400 you gotta go through the wedding. You can't. Yeah, I don't 285 00:19:11.079 --> 00:19:18.160 person. Wedding is a big deposit, that's huge. Yea, yeah, 286 00:19:18.200 --> 00:19:22.720 I know. W oh man, Yeah, you can't get too you have 287 00:19:22.759 --> 00:19:25.759 to be careful, be careful out there, and that was just falling out 288 00:19:25.759 --> 00:19:27.400 of the limo. Yeah, she tripped and fell, broke her nose, 289 00:19:27.440 --> 00:19:30.240 her wrist in her orbital bone. Lord, she fell on her face. 290 00:19:30.799 --> 00:19:33.240 Well, I wonder how big her dress was there? Was it really because 291 00:19:33.279 --> 00:19:37.759 she was really hung out, like still drunk or no, this wasn't. 292 00:19:37.759 --> 00:19:41.799 She didn't fall at the west at the bachelorette park, so there wasn't enough 293 00:19:41.960 --> 00:19:45.359 room to bounce back from whatever. Like these other ones sounded like they had 294 00:19:45.440 --> 00:19:48.960 enough distance to break up and call it off. You're a week out. 295 00:19:48.160 --> 00:19:55.960 My cousin Mark, he passed out on the altar during his wedding because he 296 00:19:56.039 --> 00:20:00.680 was so hungover and dehydrated from the rehearsal dinner. Wow, they didn't make 297 00:20:00.680 --> 00:20:03.759 it very long. They didn't let they That was like a bad omen. 298 00:20:03.880 --> 00:20:07.519 It's like pronouncer, we had to stop the whole thing. We're sitting there 299 00:20:07.559 --> 00:20:11.960 in the church in New Orleans like waiting for him to feel better, and 300 00:20:11.359 --> 00:20:15.319 he kind of killed the mood for her. I think the more all these 301 00:20:15.440 --> 00:20:21.880 stories is if there's a bad omen, listen to it seriously, there really 302 00:20:22.079 --> 00:20:26.119 are, Like they all have signs and nobody's listening to it, like that's 303 00:20:26.119 --> 00:20:27.960 a big one. I wonder how long. Yeah there, it's going to 304 00:20:29.000 --> 00:20:32.359 be a very ugly wedding, is what are ugly? Divorce? Is what 305 00:20:32.480 --> 00:20:37.839 that one's going to be? Yeah, yeah, out um. One of 306 00:20:37.920 --> 00:20:41.880 my sisters had a had a giant wedding with like million people, cost a 307 00:20:41.960 --> 00:20:45.640 fortune. About a year later, my younger sister had a wedding that was 308 00:20:45.799 --> 00:20:51.799 just kind of casual, modest and that was just her choice. People at 309 00:20:51.839 --> 00:20:53.359 the wedding who went to both weddings, you could hear them whispering that my 310 00:20:53.480 --> 00:20:57.920 dad ran out of money in between. They're like they blew all the money 311 00:20:57.960 --> 00:21:03.759 on the first one. It was really just a different person. Well, 312 00:21:03.759 --> 00:21:07.759 hopefully you're really caddy and gossipy in the whole time. We're not here to 313 00:21:07.799 --> 00:21:10.119 celebrate, we're here, we're here to judge. Well, I used to 314 00:21:10.160 --> 00:21:15.480 be a wedding photographer when I was in my early twenties. To the pictures 315 00:21:15.519 --> 00:21:19.079 off and hope he got the shot. But it's exactly rights so stressful. 316 00:21:19.160 --> 00:21:23.839 It is very stressful. And so speaking of being stressful, actually did a 317 00:21:23.920 --> 00:21:26.680 wedding and it was in a country, little small country town, and he 318 00:21:26.759 --> 00:21:30.680 didn't want any part of this, like he was ready to get it done 319 00:21:30.720 --> 00:21:33.039 and get it over with. It was a big wedding. Yeah, so 320 00:21:33.200 --> 00:21:37.119 I go down, I take the picture of the of the bride coming down 321 00:21:37.240 --> 00:21:40.720 the aisle, already taking it of all the the groomsmen and you know, 322 00:21:40.839 --> 00:21:44.599 the bridesmaids. So then I go up to the balcony to get some balcony 323 00:21:44.640 --> 00:21:48.480 shots. They're saying I do and walking out. I didn't even have time 324 00:21:48.519 --> 00:21:52.279 to go back down, and it was so fat I'm telling you, within 325 00:21:52.559 --> 00:21:56.759 five or ten minutes, that wedding was over and they were all laughed about 326 00:21:56.799 --> 00:22:02.160 it because that's exactly what he wanted. He didn't not want. I brought 327 00:22:02.160 --> 00:22:04.599 that up there the day that the stress that a photographer to wonder if you 328 00:22:04.680 --> 00:22:07.039 got the shot. Yeah, now it's just digital and you click him any 329 00:22:07.119 --> 00:22:11.039 picking. Yeah, this was back in the eighties and early nineties, but 330 00:22:11.119 --> 00:22:17.599 he didn't have digital photo. Matt Yike makeshift dark room all right. Next 331 00:22:17.680 --> 00:22:21.799 one, this is from Richard in Newton, Massachusetts. Two years ago. 332 00:22:21.920 --> 00:22:25.279 My sister got engaged to a guy I had never met before. So he 333 00:22:25.400 --> 00:22:29.039 calls me and introduces himself and not only asked me to be in his wedding 334 00:22:29.119 --> 00:22:32.039 party. He asked me if I want to come to his bachelor party. 335 00:22:32.400 --> 00:22:34.400 He was so polite, so thoughtful, so well mannered, and says it 336 00:22:34.440 --> 00:22:38.000 would be a Chipriani in New York, nice restaurant, more like of a 337 00:22:38.079 --> 00:22:44.079 big expensive dinner than a Vegas debauchery. I'm based in Boston, so I 338 00:22:44.160 --> 00:22:47.519 said sure, and I took the train down. They're about twelve guys there. 339 00:22:47.759 --> 00:22:51.160 It's a little boring, but great food. Anyway, everyone goes around 340 00:22:51.160 --> 00:22:53.279 the table to give a toast and a little talk. Long story short, 341 00:22:53.440 --> 00:22:56.559 his best man stands up and says, not only is this the best friend 342 00:22:56.599 --> 00:23:00.960 he has ever had, but he gives the best blowjob is I thought I 343 00:23:02.119 --> 00:23:04.680 was being punked and to each their own, but everybody toasted it and sort 344 00:23:04.720 --> 00:23:07.720 of carried on. I was like, wait what. I asked the guy 345 00:23:07.839 --> 00:23:11.960 next to me, who went to college with them and was a fraternity brother, 346 00:23:11.000 --> 00:23:14.039 if that was code for something else, and he said, no, 347 00:23:14.319 --> 00:23:17.279 that is exactly what it is. That the two guys have been hooking up 348 00:23:17.279 --> 00:23:19.079 with each other for years as sort of a goof and a game, but 349 00:23:19.160 --> 00:23:22.960 they aren't gay. He was very specific about that last part. Well, 350 00:23:22.960 --> 00:23:26.559 I have lots of goofs and games with my friends. But all I could 351 00:23:26.599 --> 00:23:30.319 think of was does my sister now anyway? They had a great wedding and 352 00:23:30.400 --> 00:23:33.759 seem happy. I never said anything live and let live. My dad would 353 00:23:33.799 --> 00:23:37.160 absolutely die if he knew. But maybe he knows too modern love. Oh 354 00:23:37.359 --> 00:23:45.119 my gosh, good brother, because you know they're still hooking up. Maybe 355 00:23:45.200 --> 00:23:48.559 everybody Now, I think you always have to assume everybody knows. I don't. 356 00:23:49.599 --> 00:23:52.000 I don't know. I don't know, Like, yeah, to each 357 00:23:52.079 --> 00:23:57.519 their owne. That took a turn that I wouldn't know. I mean, 358 00:23:57.640 --> 00:24:02.599 that's something you would say in jest. But yeah, no, apparently it's 359 00:24:02.599 --> 00:24:04.920 a real dual. Right, Oh my gosh, that's awesome though, I 360 00:24:06.000 --> 00:24:08.599 mean, these are good. These are really good. That's a great one. 361 00:24:11.680 --> 00:24:15.279 Have you been in a wedding? I was in a my aforementioned sister's 362 00:24:15.359 --> 00:24:18.680 weddings. I was asked to be in both of them. I've too, 363 00:24:18.920 --> 00:24:21.400 but both are both of them. I was in their weddings. I didn't 364 00:24:21.440 --> 00:24:23.279 know the guys at all, and I had to be in the wedding with 365 00:24:23.400 --> 00:24:30.480 all these weirdos, right, you know, And my my sister comes to 366 00:24:30.559 --> 00:24:33.039 me and she goes, don't hook up with any of my friends. It's 367 00:24:33.039 --> 00:24:37.160 the bride's maid to be embarrassing, and you're that was like a challenge to 368 00:24:37.240 --> 00:24:40.960 me. I definitely with one of your friends. But yeah, it was 369 00:24:41.079 --> 00:24:44.480 weird being I didn't go the bachelor party because I always think it's weird, 370 00:24:44.559 --> 00:24:48.599 Like was my dad there. Yeah, there's always a weird it is thing. 371 00:24:48.960 --> 00:24:52.079 And you know some people or you have a group of like these are 372 00:24:52.119 --> 00:24:56.759 the college friends, and these are the work friends and these yeah every clickie, 373 00:24:56.000 --> 00:24:59.799 yeah, yeah, you know, it's a strange thing. I don't 374 00:24:59.799 --> 00:25:03.240 know my brother's wedding. I don't really want to like talk bad about it 375 00:25:03.319 --> 00:25:06.599 because I don't know if they would ever listen to this. But you know, 376 00:25:06.720 --> 00:25:11.039 like my sister in law, it was kind of the same thing. 377 00:25:11.160 --> 00:25:15.559 It was like we didn't really know her, and then the horror of when 378 00:25:15.680 --> 00:25:19.119 they actually were up at the altar, the stories that were told and it 379 00:25:19.359 --> 00:25:22.440 was like, oh my god, I can't believe you're doing this. And 380 00:25:22.039 --> 00:25:25.599 I mean her friends, boy, the stories that were told at the bachelor 381 00:25:25.680 --> 00:25:27.839 at party, at the wedding, at the wedding, at the wedding or 382 00:25:27.920 --> 00:25:32.519 her uncle was giving like was the minister or the preacher that was like, 383 00:25:32.880 --> 00:25:37.599 you know, marrying them, and he was talking about how manipulative she was 384 00:25:37.680 --> 00:25:40.759 as a child, and I was, and my sister and I like turned 385 00:25:40.759 --> 00:25:41.720 and looked at each other and were like, Oh, my fucking god, 386 00:25:41.759 --> 00:25:45.960 what didn't her brother just walking to and and that's all the story. Some 387 00:25:47.200 --> 00:25:52.799 uncomfortable vows sometimes or toasts where people aren't the toast most eloquent, or they're 388 00:25:52.839 --> 00:25:55.960 nervous, or they just didn't think the repercussions of what they're saying through. 389 00:25:56.079 --> 00:26:00.359 You know, Yeah, it was weird, is weird, but that one's 390 00:26:00.400 --> 00:26:03.880 really That one's I think that one's pretty cool. I don't know, but 391 00:26:04.039 --> 00:26:07.799 two guys like watching two guys get it on. That's kind of one of 392 00:26:07.839 --> 00:26:12.440 my fantasies. Well, you got to listen to our podcast to know the 393 00:26:14.039 --> 00:26:18.000 mind of am Yeah, all right, okay, this is another one from 394 00:26:18.000 --> 00:26:21.359 our Facebook page from Rachel. Okay. I won't give her name, but 395 00:26:21.440 --> 00:26:25.000 I know she listens to this show and she knows who she is because she's 396 00:26:25.039 --> 00:26:29.160 the only one I know who has had sex with two random guys during her 397 00:26:29.200 --> 00:26:32.960 batchelorunt weekend. Oh. This was in Miami. One guy was actually in 398 00:26:33.079 --> 00:26:37.240 the party bus and the second guy was in our hotel. Neither guy was 399 00:26:37.319 --> 00:26:40.000 cute, and she didn't seem that drunk. Three months later, at the 400 00:26:40.039 --> 00:26:41.960 wedding reception, she gets on the mic and tells this long story about how 401 00:26:42.000 --> 00:26:45.359 she knew her husband was the one. I guess except for these two. 402 00:26:45.799 --> 00:26:48.960 The ease with which it all went down, she didn't seem that drunk, 403 00:26:49.240 --> 00:26:55.720 made me think there are a whole lot of ones to come anyway, mozeltofa, 404 00:26:56.839 --> 00:27:03.200 Yeah, she's one more. There were two more. Yeah, I 405 00:27:03.359 --> 00:27:07.839 think the I think is bad. One to two is worse. It could 406 00:27:07.880 --> 00:27:11.480 have been, like you know, she just I don't know. It could 407 00:27:11.519 --> 00:27:14.079 have been one of those things where she maybe was like, Hey, I'm 408 00:27:14.079 --> 00:27:15.920 going to be having sex with this person for the rest of my life. 409 00:27:17.079 --> 00:27:18.319 Yeah, that's why you say. Yes, I guess that I know. 410 00:27:18.559 --> 00:27:22.279 But you know, maybe she thought that one of them would be good enough 411 00:27:22.319 --> 00:27:25.240 and they would like convince her to not go through with it. Maybe she 412 00:27:25.279 --> 00:27:26.079 didn't want to go through with it. I don't know, why would you. 413 00:27:26.359 --> 00:27:30.079 Or maybe the first one on the bus was no good and she really 414 00:27:30.160 --> 00:27:33.519 needed one last good could be to send her into the world, or she's 415 00:27:33.519 --> 00:27:37.480 an infamedia can that should probably come up in the vows too. Yeah, 416 00:27:38.319 --> 00:27:41.559 like I think he needs to know that. Yeah, oh man, he 417 00:27:41.640 --> 00:27:45.680 could just really suck in bed. I don't know. Well, then again, 418 00:27:45.000 --> 00:27:48.599 I don't think two randoms is different. Oh but then we get well, 419 00:27:48.799 --> 00:27:52.319 this is a conversation for later year, and you do listen to the 420 00:27:52.319 --> 00:27:53.240 show apparently, so thank you for listening, and you know who you are. 421 00:27:55.880 --> 00:27:57.319 You should write us in and tell us what. Yeah, like having 422 00:27:57.559 --> 00:28:00.119 sex with the guy in the party bus, that would be like, oh 423 00:28:00.160 --> 00:28:02.039 my god, but then she did it again and bringing a guy to the 424 00:28:02.119 --> 00:28:04.640 hotel like that takes some thought. Yeah, well, I mean this is 425 00:28:04.960 --> 00:28:11.119 the final time before she gets married, So would you want to know, 426 00:28:11.319 --> 00:28:15.200 like, go have fun, don't tell me what happens. I well, 427 00:28:15.400 --> 00:28:18.559 I'm very much an open like you. I really get turned on by that 428 00:28:18.640 --> 00:28:26.960 stuff. So as a different mind what you did? Oh absolutely, I 429 00:28:26.119 --> 00:28:30.920 love that ship like it really does turn me on like it is it is. 430 00:28:30.400 --> 00:28:33.160 In fact, that's why I'm single now. Istis he flat out did 431 00:28:33.240 --> 00:28:36.720 not tell me and he didn't mind that he did it. You wanted to 432 00:28:36.799 --> 00:28:40.519 know about it? Yeah, So it's no secrets like that's the rule. 433 00:28:40.920 --> 00:28:44.160 Like that seems fair. Yeah, just be honest about it. Yeah, 434 00:28:44.160 --> 00:28:48.440 because I've like, i mean, where was my invitation. I'm in an 435 00:28:48.480 --> 00:28:52.200 open relationship now and we're kind of very open about other people we see. 436 00:28:52.319 --> 00:28:55.799 But if I ask her hand for marriage and we're getting married, yeah, 437 00:28:55.880 --> 00:28:59.799 that's different. Yeah, it's that just changes everything. Yeah, it's a 438 00:29:00.519 --> 00:29:06.319 thing if you are I think it allows more people to cover. And what 439 00:29:06.359 --> 00:29:08.720 do you need the marriage for. Well, I think, well love. 440 00:29:08.880 --> 00:29:12.200 I think you can really feel love for somebody, um, you know, 441 00:29:12.400 --> 00:29:15.839 like it would be like a best friend. I guess, Like I don't 442 00:29:15.880 --> 00:29:18.400 know, a lot of people think marriage is a huge thing and you need 443 00:29:18.480 --> 00:29:21.079 eight people to do the job. You have a lot of different roles and 444 00:29:21.119 --> 00:29:22.880 I need this guy's a good dad and I get that, But that's down 445 00:29:22.960 --> 00:29:26.920 the road, right. This is like supposed to be the two of you 446 00:29:27.039 --> 00:29:33.240 the most romantic time in your life. Yeah. Two guys at the bachelorette 447 00:29:33.240 --> 00:29:37.920 party seems excessive. Yeah, yeah for her, you know, so I 448 00:29:37.000 --> 00:29:42.119 don't know. I'm just wondering if that information got to the groom. Yeah, 449 00:29:42.799 --> 00:29:45.720 I mean there there are some people. She's got a good group of 450 00:29:45.759 --> 00:29:52.720 friends. If they didn't say anything. Yeah, but yeah, I mean 451 00:29:52.000 --> 00:29:56.960 I think, yeah, I mean, I guess, just be careful on 452 00:29:56.960 --> 00:29:59.400 your bachelor batch. I mean, there's always some instructions. They want to 453 00:29:59.400 --> 00:30:02.519 know what they did. There's always a spy, there's always a rat. 454 00:30:02.680 --> 00:30:06.559 But like I said earlier, the married guys who were in the wedding party 455 00:30:06.680 --> 00:30:10.759 tend to be way, way worse than the groom to be generally speaking from 456 00:30:10.799 --> 00:30:14.799 my experience, Yeah, I could see that. Yeah, absolutely, Yeah, 457 00:30:15.119 --> 00:30:18.960 I wonder if obviously, I think you should probably set rules before you 458 00:30:18.079 --> 00:30:22.640 do the bachelor and bachelotte parties, you know, well, right, I 459 00:30:22.720 --> 00:30:26.759 mean, I guess, like the stuff that goes on, it's very cliche, 460 00:30:26.920 --> 00:30:30.519 it's very sash. It's the scavenger hunt ship goes down, and I 461 00:30:30.599 --> 00:30:33.839 mean I get people do it. The guys don't really do that. They 462 00:30:33.920 --> 00:30:37.119 just try and get wasted. Yeah, you got one, you got a 463 00:30:37.200 --> 00:30:40.839 story, got a bachelor's story. Well, the last bachelor party I went 464 00:30:40.920 --> 00:30:45.039 to was the whole cliche thing. We were in Vegas and we did a 465 00:30:45.160 --> 00:30:48.480 nice dinner. They had a party bus set up to take us to the 466 00:30:48.559 --> 00:30:52.640 local strip club. We go in there. How many guys there was probably 467 00:30:52.720 --> 00:30:57.000 like ten of us. So we're greeted by two dozen strippers at the door, 468 00:30:57.079 --> 00:31:00.680 I mean each of the us, each of the had a couple on 469 00:31:00.759 --> 00:31:06.480 our arms leading us to our quote unquote VIP area. And it was already 470 00:31:06.599 --> 00:31:08.559 I think it even charged us already like one hundred and fifty bucks just to 471 00:31:08.599 --> 00:31:15.000 get in the door. Nice and they played plenty plenty of attention to us. 472 00:31:15.440 --> 00:31:18.599 Of course, has some rush and chicks on all over me. She 473 00:31:18.720 --> 00:31:23.359 takes me to the private VIP room, which there was nothing different in that 474 00:31:23.480 --> 00:31:29.119 room because it was more expensive. So anyway, I come back. I'm 475 00:31:29.119 --> 00:31:33.960 starting to run out of money at this point because it's getting expensive and it's 476 00:31:34.000 --> 00:31:38.640 cute. Latina girl hooked onto me, like can actually no, no, 477 00:31:40.039 --> 00:31:42.640 no, so cute. Actually it's a very big club, well runs. 478 00:31:44.160 --> 00:31:48.279 It's a good established, not a CD place if they're is such a thing. 479 00:31:48.400 --> 00:31:51.440 But it's Latina girl hooked onto me. And I said, well, 480 00:31:51.519 --> 00:31:55.079 look I don't want to go into the private room, and she I don't 481 00:31:55.079 --> 00:31:56.799 know, you can dance here, And I said, well, I'm almost 482 00:31:56.839 --> 00:31:59.160 out of money. Oh well the ATMs are. She leads me over the 483 00:31:59.240 --> 00:32:04.359 at of At this time, the liquor is flowing. We're all just completely 484 00:32:04.480 --> 00:32:07.359 wasted. I get the money out. I didn't realize there was a forty 485 00:32:07.440 --> 00:32:13.960 dollars surcharge on the atm WOW. Or actually it might have been more than 486 00:32:14.039 --> 00:32:17.559 that. I just remember thinking it was huge. Anyway, A few dances 487 00:32:17.680 --> 00:32:22.440 later, I've got to get out of the club, like I'm just so 488 00:32:22.799 --> 00:32:24.880 done with it, with it all, So I go out. I'm sitting 489 00:32:24.960 --> 00:32:28.720 out there on a bench. It's kind of a cool night. I'm just 490 00:32:28.839 --> 00:32:30.640 trying to catch my breath. I don't want anybody around me. I'm done 491 00:32:30.680 --> 00:32:34.079 with all these girls hanging on me, believe it or not, because they're 492 00:32:34.079 --> 00:32:37.359 just all trying to it's a money grab, yeah I know. So the 493 00:32:37.480 --> 00:32:39.400 bachelor comes out, he says, next to you, and we're just kind 494 00:32:39.400 --> 00:32:44.599 of talking about we're trying to find other members of the party. They're gone. 495 00:32:44.880 --> 00:32:46.880 So we finally make our way home so we all can bene next morning 496 00:32:46.920 --> 00:32:51.359 for breakfast, and we're all laughing about these stories, and some guys like, 497 00:32:51.480 --> 00:32:52.799 yeah, she got me for three hundreds, they're guy, yeah she 498 00:32:52.880 --> 00:32:57.319 got me for six. I'm like, they got me for four figures. 499 00:32:58.839 --> 00:33:00.400 Like I couldn't find any of my money when I got home, it was 500 00:33:00.440 --> 00:33:04.039 gone. I think she just took it right out of my pocket. I 501 00:33:04.119 --> 00:33:07.000 meant rolled, but Karma Karla was a good thing. So my buddy and 502 00:33:07.079 --> 00:33:12.160 I both played a poker tournament the next day, and I actually sat with 503 00:33:12.440 --> 00:33:17.799 a famous baseball player, Oral Hirsheiser, and poker. Yeah. Absolutely, 504 00:33:19.200 --> 00:33:22.319 a lot of a lot of athletes played poker. A lot of baseball players. 505 00:33:22.440 --> 00:33:25.240 Ye, Jose Canseco. I've played with him in other case. But 506 00:33:25.279 --> 00:33:30.119 anyway, I ended up getting fourth place in that tournament and won all that 507 00:33:30.279 --> 00:33:36.279 money back. There's a circle of lives, right because like literally she just 508 00:33:36.359 --> 00:33:37.759 took it right out of my pod because I was so drunk, Like all 509 00:33:37.799 --> 00:33:43.400 those hundreds that were in my pockets were gone. I mean, Juana on 510 00:33:45.240 --> 00:33:52.119 Juana. But one thing I always found odd is at the bachelor parties. 511 00:33:52.759 --> 00:33:58.640 The brides, relative, the brother, the father, they're there. Sometimes 512 00:33:58.759 --> 00:34:00.400 you know, I would just feel weird the room. So my story is 513 00:34:00.440 --> 00:34:05.079 one time, my late friend Frank, so he's not around to defend himself, 514 00:34:05.119 --> 00:34:07.119 but I'll say in his honor, we were at a bachelor party. 515 00:34:07.159 --> 00:34:10.960 It was at a club in Westchester County, New York, and there were 516 00:34:12.000 --> 00:34:17.800 like a thousand people there because my friend Greg fled the town. Oh my 517 00:34:19.039 --> 00:34:22.199 bachelor party, and who wouldn't go to that? It was a bachelor party. 518 00:34:22.239 --> 00:34:23.159 All you can drink, all you can eat, like thirty bucks, 519 00:34:23.199 --> 00:34:28.000 so every guy within like twenty miles or like a thousand people there. Frank 520 00:34:28.159 --> 00:34:30.880 is up on the stage with this stripper and we're watching him and it's like, 521 00:34:30.920 --> 00:34:34.559 oh cool, he's getting a lap dance and it's like oh cool. 522 00:34:34.599 --> 00:34:36.800 Wow, she's naked. Oh cool, And then it's like, oh wait 523 00:34:36.960 --> 00:34:39.360 what he's having sex with her on the stage. He's literally a second and 524 00:34:39.440 --> 00:34:43.599 we're like, oh shit, because we looked to the right and his bride 525 00:34:43.639 --> 00:34:47.599 tobes father and brother and they are like Irish mobsters, out of like state 526 00:34:47.679 --> 00:34:52.199 of grace, like they're like a hard they're watching this thing, and we're 527 00:34:52.239 --> 00:34:55.800 trying to figure out how to make it go away. He's having We couldn't 528 00:34:55.840 --> 00:34:59.480 like it was like it was like to trying to diffuse a bomb. So 529 00:34:59.639 --> 00:35:00.760 we go like, Frank, you gotta stop doing this. We walk on 530 00:35:00.880 --> 00:35:02.960 stage and they come over and they go, Frank, we got to talk 531 00:35:02.960 --> 00:35:07.840 to you right now, man, and they take him in the back about 532 00:35:07.880 --> 00:35:10.079 twenty minutes later he comes out and they're like smoking cigars and I go, 533 00:35:10.239 --> 00:35:13.119 Frank, what happened in there? He's like, I had to get him 534 00:35:13.159 --> 00:35:22.519 Jets season tickets. Oh there was always a price. They're like, well 535 00:35:22.639 --> 00:35:27.880 let it go. Yeah, everybody has a price though. Oh my god, 536 00:35:28.519 --> 00:35:30.679 with the party. So that's a great story. Yeah, and you 537 00:35:30.840 --> 00:35:35.679 you got one. No, not like that, nothing crazy like that. 538 00:35:35.920 --> 00:35:37.480 I'm from the country. You guys like, where what does that mean? 539 00:35:37.559 --> 00:35:42.360 They don't have bachelor and Bachelor. Um, they're definitely not as wild as 540 00:35:42.440 --> 00:35:45.079 what you guys have experienced. City folk. Yeah, what are you talking 541 00:35:45.079 --> 00:35:50.159 about, you city folk? Yeah, it's from a small Midwestern town. 542 00:35:50.320 --> 00:35:53.800 We do little hodown. That's what he was doing. He was doing his 543 00:35:53.880 --> 00:35:59.880 little home down. Yeah, all right, Pitch to pitch your podcast tell 544 00:36:00.079 --> 00:36:05.519 world, Hey, catch us on your favorite podcast player. It's Secrets of 545 00:36:05.599 --> 00:36:10.159 a Sugar Daddy and we are absolutely the number one sugar dating podcast in the 546 00:36:10.280 --> 00:36:14.480 world, and we just had a record month. I think we had over 547 00:36:14.559 --> 00:36:17.559 twelve thousand downloads this month, and we really appreciate the support and we got 548 00:36:17.599 --> 00:36:22.199 a lot of fun things coming up. 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