WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.640 --> 00:00:03.279 On the Minnesota Goodbye. We get to spend a little bit more time talking 2 00:00:03.279 --> 00:00:08.800 about things that we don't necessarily talk about on the radio, and I, 3 00:00:09.119 --> 00:00:13.560 you know what, you talk about your anxiety, Jenny. And I keep 4 00:00:13.560 --> 00:00:16.640 telling Jenny, I said, cheer the fuck up, just cheer the fuck 5 00:00:16.760 --> 00:00:20.600 You do not say that, I say, I say a lot of get 6 00:00:20.640 --> 00:00:23.920 over it, and then I say cheer the fuck up, because you and 7 00:00:23.960 --> 00:00:29.359 your anxiety is just given me. No, I'm totally kidding. I'm sure 8 00:00:29.359 --> 00:00:31.800 that there are people who still do is like, cheer the fuck up. 9 00:00:31.879 --> 00:00:34.560 I mean not in your life, right, No, I mean there's some 10 00:00:34.679 --> 00:00:37.640 people I deal with not they don't say cheer the fuck up, but they 11 00:00:37.679 --> 00:00:40.799 do say you get over it. No, they say you have a really 12 00:00:40.799 --> 00:00:45.159 good life. I don't understand why you feel this way, And it's really 13 00:00:45.200 --> 00:00:49.200 one of the most frustrating things to hear because I also don't understand, and 14 00:00:49.240 --> 00:00:52.759 I also acknowledge that I have a good life. But that doesn't mean that 15 00:00:52.799 --> 00:00:56.679 my mental health can be not just fucking cheering up, Jenny. I mean, 16 00:00:56.719 --> 00:00:59.079 I've tried cheer fuck up. You're right, I've tried. I guess 17 00:00:59.119 --> 00:01:02.600 I gotta try harder let's call this episode cheers the fuck up. No, 18 00:01:02.719 --> 00:01:08.200 I don't know anyway. So I have what I would call situational anxiety if 19 00:01:08.280 --> 00:01:14.840 I have a reason. I'm a pretty happy, well balanced person, and 20 00:01:14.920 --> 00:01:19.079 so are you, by the way, But I get situational anxiety and then 21 00:01:19.120 --> 00:01:23.680 I overthink, and like last night my speech at the Spectrum High School up 22 00:01:23.680 --> 00:01:30.239 in Oak River, I had been anxious about it because people think of speech 23 00:01:30.239 --> 00:01:32.920 as you get up on stage and you speak for ten minutes and that's all 24 00:01:32.959 --> 00:01:36.680 there is to it. Well, No, there's writing and learning about the 25 00:01:36.719 --> 00:01:41.879 audience and then customizing and then putting things in the right order, and then 26 00:01:42.000 --> 00:01:45.599 timing it and then doing it again, and then you wait for your introduction 27 00:01:45.799 --> 00:01:51.560 and your heart's pounding and you're and I'm taking deep breaths, and so I've 28 00:01:51.560 --> 00:01:56.400 been anxious kind of building up to that last night. Yeah, because one 29 00:01:56.439 --> 00:02:00.400 of the reasons that I do public speaking is because I used to be so 30 00:02:00.799 --> 00:02:02.879 bad at it. And I used to go out to high schools on career 31 00:02:02.959 --> 00:02:06.799 day when people used to want to get into radio. Nobody does anymore, 32 00:02:07.079 --> 00:02:08.800 but I would go out to high schools twenty years ago, and I'd be 33 00:02:08.840 --> 00:02:13.240 so nervous in front of a bunch of sixteen year olds that actually thought I 34 00:02:13.319 --> 00:02:16.280 was pretty cool. And I knew way more about radio than anybody did, 35 00:02:16.319 --> 00:02:19.919 and I had a lot to offer, but i'd be nervous. So I 36 00:02:20.000 --> 00:02:23.680 joined Toastmasters, which is a dumb name for a great group, and you 37 00:02:23.800 --> 00:02:28.400 learn how to speak and how to get experienced, because a lot of it 38 00:02:28.479 --> 00:02:34.560 is experience and looking out at faces while you're speaking. And last night I 39 00:02:34.599 --> 00:02:38.400 got up on stage and I started with I wanted them to know that I'm 40 00:02:38.520 --> 00:02:42.479 funny, because I think I'm hysterical right away. So they're applauding, Dave 41 00:02:42.560 --> 00:02:45.479 Ryan, everybody. So they're applauding, and I get up on the podium 42 00:02:45.520 --> 00:02:47.360 and I said keep it coming, keep it coming, and they laugh, 43 00:02:47.960 --> 00:02:53.479 so they knew right away that it would be funny. And then I made 44 00:02:53.479 --> 00:02:58.800 a joke about I said something about that didn't go over very well, and 45 00:02:59.639 --> 00:03:01.240 I just kept moving and it didn't get a laugh, so I just kept 46 00:03:01.240 --> 00:03:07.639 moving. And then I made a joke about how I'm going to keep this 47 00:03:07.639 --> 00:03:12.879 speech short because when I asked chat Gpt to write this speech, and that 48 00:03:13.039 --> 00:03:16.639 got a big laugh. Because high school students probably are you using chat che 49 00:03:16.680 --> 00:03:20.560 probably using chat GPT. We got through the last couple of years of high 50 00:03:20.560 --> 00:03:24.560 school with it, probably so so anyway, I just want to let you 51 00:03:24.639 --> 00:03:30.240 know that I also get very nervous. I don't get nervous to do the 52 00:03:30.240 --> 00:03:32.080 show. I get nervous about some of the things we do on the show, 53 00:03:32.120 --> 00:03:36.000 but we're well past the part of where we ever get nervous to do 54 00:03:36.039 --> 00:03:39.120 the show. For sure. I can get up on stage at the Target 55 00:03:39.120 --> 00:03:44.280 Center and introduce a band and it doesn't make me nervous. But I can 56 00:03:44.280 --> 00:03:46.560 stand in front of six people to do a presentation and I get nervous. 57 00:03:46.639 --> 00:03:51.039 Yeah, all right, let's read our first email. It says, hello 58 00:03:51.120 --> 00:03:53.360 Crewe. Yes, Crewe is in Dave, Jenny and Bailey and Vaughant. 59 00:03:53.400 --> 00:03:57.439 How exciting to be able to type that. I just want to say, 60 00:03:57.439 --> 00:04:00.520 I'm so happy for the new additions to the show. Listening since nineteen ninety 61 00:04:00.599 --> 00:04:04.919 eight and adding Vaunton Bailey provides this stability in my life I need. As 62 00:04:05.000 --> 00:04:10.159 I often joke that the Dave Ryan Show is my baby Blankie. I have 63 00:04:10.319 --> 00:04:14.000 listened so long and I still remember when the podcasts were new and you could 64 00:04:14.000 --> 00:04:17.800 only hear that morning show on a continuous repeat on iHeartRadio. That was about 65 00:04:17.800 --> 00:04:20.519 twenty fourteen, and I would clean, cook, and take care of my 66 00:04:20.600 --> 00:04:27.519 baby while listening to a Repat repeat all day long. I wanted to apologize 67 00:04:27.519 --> 00:04:30.560 today for being one of those drunks who chased him up the hill off the 68 00:04:30.639 --> 00:04:34.639 drag brunch boat in twenty nineteen and asking him to find my friend a husband. 69 00:04:34.759 --> 00:04:38.920 My bad and still to this day, one of my most embarrassing moments. 70 00:04:39.240 --> 00:04:43.040 For what it's worth, April, I don't remember that, and I'm 71 00:04:43.120 --> 00:04:46.600 fine and you're good, so don't be embarrassed about it. I don't remember 72 00:04:46.600 --> 00:04:49.600 it, and I probably thought it was funny, and we've all done things 73 00:04:49.600 --> 00:04:53.079 when we were drunk, so don't feel bad about it. I was also 74 00:04:53.120 --> 00:04:58.519 on Dave's podcast when he was interviewing people in sobriety two years ago. I've 75 00:04:58.560 --> 00:05:00.439 always had a battle with it. I was still fighting it at the time, 76 00:05:00.480 --> 00:05:04.240 but I am happy to say that I am ninety six days sober and 77 00:05:04.720 --> 00:05:09.879 done for you. Just want to clarify, I've never had a DUI. 78 00:05:09.959 --> 00:05:13.480 I've never been to treatment, so I did not have the stereotypical drinking problem. 79 00:05:13.600 --> 00:05:16.600 Society and visions, but I found myself losing all control with it and 80 00:05:16.639 --> 00:05:20.000 not able to stay away. Back in February, I finally had a moment 81 00:05:20.040 --> 00:05:24.279 to just click, and something in my head told me, if you don't 82 00:05:24.319 --> 00:05:28.399 stop now, it's not a matter of if you get a DUI or go 83 00:05:28.480 --> 00:05:32.160 to treatment. It's when that little voice stuck with me, and I just 84 00:05:32.240 --> 00:05:38.000 stopped cold turkey, and I do not miss or desire it even a bit. 85 00:05:38.279 --> 00:05:41.720 That is something I never imagine thinking or feeling. But here I am 86 00:05:41.879 --> 00:05:45.560 alcohol free with kids, family and events, and I also won the first 87 00:05:45.560 --> 00:05:47.600 set of tickets to the Summer Cruise on June eleventh, and I'm beyond hype 88 00:05:47.600 --> 00:05:53.839 to enjoying my first KDWB event free from alcohol, training for Grandma's half marathon, 89 00:05:54.480 --> 00:05:58.360 as well as loving life again. Looking forward to June eleventh. Insert 90 00:05:58.439 --> 00:06:01.839 random Minnesota goodbye sign on here. Reader's choice. I'm going to say dart 91 00:06:01.879 --> 00:06:06.879 Lick April in Cottage Grove, Thank you, April. I'll give you a 92 00:06:06.879 --> 00:06:12.160 one piece of advice, April. What I've heard, what I've learned now 93 00:06:12.160 --> 00:06:15.319 that you're ninety six days sobered, dude, please do not get to a 94 00:06:15.360 --> 00:06:18.639 point. And this is your choice don't get to a point where you'll have 95 00:06:18.720 --> 00:06:24.399 just one. If you have just one, it's kind of like having one 96 00:06:24.480 --> 00:06:29.759 cigarette. It's really hard to just have one. Yeah, So that is 97 00:06:29.800 --> 00:06:33.480 my advice. The longer you can stay totally alcohol free, the more your 98 00:06:33.560 --> 00:06:38.000 chances are of never drinking again. And maybe your goal is not to drink 99 00:06:38.040 --> 00:06:41.480 ever again. Maybe your goal is to just stop for a while. Yeah. 100 00:06:41.600 --> 00:06:43.800 I think a lot of people. By the sounds of it, she 101 00:06:43.879 --> 00:06:47.199 said it like sounds like it's a control thing for her, like she wasn't 102 00:06:47.480 --> 00:06:50.319 getting really good at controlling it. So I think that is more of a 103 00:06:50.360 --> 00:06:54.199 situation where, yeah, you don't even want to have one, because if 104 00:06:54.199 --> 00:06:56.879 you have one, you'll have two and three and four. Yeah. No, 105 00:06:56.920 --> 00:07:00.959 it's It's very true. I've had friends who have stopped over one hundred 106 00:07:00.040 --> 00:07:02.680 days and then they're like, you know what, damn it, I'm going 107 00:07:02.759 --> 00:07:05.800 to have a drink, and then they start up again just as much as 108 00:07:05.800 --> 00:07:11.399 they drink before. Dara writes in Hello to the new Morning Show. Love 109 00:07:11.439 --> 00:07:14.279 the announcement of the two editions, and I can't wait for the new dynamic 110 00:07:14.879 --> 00:07:17.959 commercials on the podcast. It always seems to be a constant thing that's brought 111 00:07:18.040 --> 00:07:21.600 up. I wonder if they know that they can fast forward through them. 112 00:07:21.639 --> 00:07:26.279 There is a thirty second skip button on the iHeart app, and I use 113 00:07:26.319 --> 00:07:30.560 it frequently to go fast past them faster, and if I go too far, 114 00:07:30.639 --> 00:07:32.480 then I use the back button. I do agree. Sometimes they come 115 00:07:32.519 --> 00:07:38.839 at inopportune times. But everything has commercials, YouTube and other podcasts and other 116 00:07:38.879 --> 00:07:43.959 platforms. That's true. Sometimes I'm watching a YouTube video and then here comes 117 00:07:43.959 --> 00:07:47.519 the guy I want to get shredded. You can get shred fuck and shut 118 00:07:47.639 --> 00:07:50.720 up, and you got to watch it. Usually they're kind of short. 119 00:07:51.000 --> 00:07:56.560 Yeah, are the commercials on our podcast thirty seconds or sixty seconds? I 120 00:07:56.600 --> 00:08:01.279 think they're thirty thirty seconds, but sometimes there's two. I do think you're 121 00:08:01.680 --> 00:08:03.319 maybe I'm wrong about this. I don't think you're allowed to skip the very 122 00:08:03.360 --> 00:08:07.839 first ones, okay, but inside of them, yes, you should be 123 00:08:07.920 --> 00:08:09.839 able to. But I think we've had people email and and be like, 124 00:08:09.839 --> 00:08:13.000 I'm in the middle of a workout, I don't have I don't want to 125 00:08:13.000 --> 00:08:15.839 get my phone out, and like have to skip through it, you know. 126 00:08:16.000 --> 00:08:18.920 So it's still an inconvenience for if they're placed in the middle of something 127 00:08:20.240 --> 00:08:24.480 that is a conversation happening yesterday during our announcement of vont and Bailey being on 128 00:08:24.519 --> 00:08:28.240 the show. I didn't hear it, but somebody sent me a screenshot and 129 00:08:28.240 --> 00:08:31.720 they said, look at this is what happened. A fucking commercial came on 130 00:08:33.759 --> 00:08:37.720 right in the middle of you making the announcement and it was on for you 131 00:08:37.720 --> 00:08:39.240 know, a minute or whatever, and then it went right back and rejoined 132 00:08:39.240 --> 00:08:43.200 where we left off. But it was still annoying. It's kind of like 133 00:08:43.279 --> 00:08:48.240 this big dramatic moment and then there's a Chumba casino ad. Yeah. Yeah, 134 00:08:48.360 --> 00:08:52.360 it's We're trying, I will just say, and I don't want to 135 00:08:52.360 --> 00:08:54.440 make promises right now, but we are working with someone who works with our 136 00:08:54.440 --> 00:08:58.600 digital team to try to fix these issues because I think there's a new way 137 00:08:58.600 --> 00:09:05.080 we can adjust the commercials. Next one, Hello to the New Morning Show. 138 00:09:05.200 --> 00:09:07.240 Oh we just read that one. Okay, I'm want to finish off. 139 00:09:07.279 --> 00:09:11.919 Sorry. Here it is the same writer says where is your dream vacation 140 00:09:13.440 --> 00:09:16.159 and somewhere you've been that is one of your top places to visit. I'm 141 00:09:16.200 --> 00:09:20.759 dreaming of taking a vacation and I just want to get ideas. New Zealand 142 00:09:20.919 --> 00:09:24.799 I think is my new dream place. I watched the documentary the other day. 143 00:09:24.799 --> 00:09:31.440 It's called The Volcano Rescue on something whatever, And I don't want to 144 00:09:31.480 --> 00:09:35.519 get rescued from a volcano. But New Zealand looks beautiful and far away and 145 00:09:35.639 --> 00:09:41.600 exotic, and they speak English, and their culture is similar enough to Western 146 00:09:41.639 --> 00:09:43.399 culture that I'd be able to vibe and fit in pretty easily. And I 147 00:09:43.480 --> 00:09:46.919 want to go do shit that they do in New Zealand, like rafting and 148 00:09:48.000 --> 00:09:52.080 kayaking and climbing and adventure some things. Did you like skydiving or cliff jumping 149 00:09:52.200 --> 00:09:56.120 or anything like that? Nothing of a skydive? Four times? Have you 150 00:09:56.120 --> 00:09:58.440 ever skydived, Jenny, No, I don't think i'd ever want to do 151 00:09:58.480 --> 00:10:01.279 that. I'd probably do the kind where you jump off a high bridge into 152 00:10:01.320 --> 00:10:05.320 a valley or something like that, where you're attached to a bungee bungee. 153 00:10:05.360 --> 00:10:09.320 Yeah, yeah, I'd probably do something like that. But I'm not skydiving. 154 00:10:09.440 --> 00:10:11.799 Just I don't like the thought of free falling until the shoot the parachute 155 00:10:11.840 --> 00:10:16.879 opens. That terrifies me. Yeah, I've done it four times. I've 156 00:10:16.879 --> 00:10:20.080 hated it every single time. And what are you going back for more than 157 00:10:20.240 --> 00:10:24.960 peer pressure. Yeah, I mean peer pressure and radio station pressures, like 158 00:10:24.000 --> 00:10:28.120 okay, let's make people talk about the show. Let's go skydiving. There's 159 00:10:28.120 --> 00:10:31.320 some great visuals. If you go skydiving, you're gonna get some great content 160 00:10:31.440 --> 00:10:35.840 for your Instagram. And this is before Instagram, but still it was a 161 00:10:35.879 --> 00:10:43.360 buzz and and I was terrified every single time, just and I'd like airplanes, 162 00:10:43.399 --> 00:10:45.840 but just taking off in the airplane and then they open up the door 163 00:10:45.879 --> 00:10:48.399 and you stand in the doorway and they go one, two and then you 164 00:10:48.559 --> 00:10:56.279 roll out. No, yeah, not. What about your dream vacation, 165 00:10:56.399 --> 00:11:01.200 Jenny, I would probably say going to the Laffatan Islands in Norway. It's 166 00:11:01.279 --> 00:11:03.679 kind of like not as well known. I think when you go to Norway 167 00:11:03.679 --> 00:11:07.879 people go to like Oslo a lot or that, like the southern area. 168 00:11:07.360 --> 00:11:11.000 But those islands are just beautiful. I've seen so many videos of them, 169 00:11:11.159 --> 00:11:13.559 and I would love to go see them. You know who My favorite vacations 170 00:11:13.600 --> 00:11:18.799 are, I mean just going to like Glacier or Yellowstone or the Black Hills. 171 00:11:20.519 --> 00:11:22.919 I am as simple pleasures kind of a guy. I love going to 172 00:11:22.919 --> 00:11:28.600 the Koa campground, getting a camping cabin, sitting out front, you know, 173 00:11:28.200 --> 00:11:33.240 like having a beer by the fire. Yeah, and that's my that's 174 00:11:33.279 --> 00:11:37.360 my joy. I don't need to be into like a five star hotel. 175 00:11:37.919 --> 00:11:41.559 I'm just like simple things for sure. I'm not quite as simple, but 176 00:11:41.639 --> 00:11:46.240 I like to go places where there's like beautiful landscapes. So like those islands 177 00:11:46.279 --> 00:11:50.639 aren't like islands like Hawaii or something. It's like these mountainous looks, like 178 00:11:50.639 --> 00:11:54.840 the rocky mountains almost mixed with like greenery islands, and there's a lot of 179 00:11:54.919 --> 00:11:58.960 hiking there. So I'm just more of I want to see all the beautiful 180 00:11:58.039 --> 00:12:01.679 landscapes. Yeah. I'm not so much a camping person though, but I 181 00:12:01.720 --> 00:12:07.159 do enjoy a good cabin weekend where it's just relaxed and chill, you're not 182 00:12:07.159 --> 00:12:11.240 doing anything too crazy. Well that's kind of why i like going to Colorado 183 00:12:11.279 --> 00:12:16.000 so much. And I'm going to Colorado this weekend because it's like a cabin. 184 00:12:16.759 --> 00:12:20.879 Some people in the family refer to it as the cabin and you sit 185 00:12:20.960 --> 00:12:26.360 around, there's deer in the yard. Yeah, you're out in nature. 186 00:12:26.039 --> 00:12:31.120 It's just awesome. So all right. Next email from Gina, who I 187 00:12:31.200 --> 00:12:33.960 ran into last night at the Elk River speech. She's in my Ukulele Club, 188 00:12:35.519 --> 00:12:39.039 and she writes in this Morning it says, Minnesota, goodbye. Dave 189 00:12:39.279 --> 00:12:43.159 did great at graduation, Dave, Jenny vont Bailey. I just have to 190 00:12:43.159 --> 00:12:46.440 brag on Dave a little bit. My daughter graduated tonight and Dave was the 191 00:12:46.440 --> 00:12:52.320 commencement speecher speaker. He did such a great job. Everyone was talking about 192 00:12:52.360 --> 00:12:54.960 how it was one of the best ceremonies they had been to. Thanks again, 193 00:12:56.039 --> 00:12:58.759 Dave for all you do in the community and giving back. I know 194 00:12:58.840 --> 00:13:01.639 you were super over were committed lately, and I'm glad you said yes to 195 00:13:01.720 --> 00:13:07.000 this made a special night even more memorable. If you get a chance, 196 00:13:07.039 --> 00:13:09.759 I'd love a staff rider sticker. Have Bailey get to work and send me 197 00:13:09.919 --> 00:13:15.919 what walked in. Hi, Bailey Bye. You were in the other room 198 00:13:15.960 --> 00:13:18.799 learning audio loading. I was learning how to load the dirt audio and I 199 00:13:18.840 --> 00:13:24.080 did it all by myself, seriously, I did. I don't even know 200 00:13:24.120 --> 00:13:26.159 how to do that. So you take audio off a computer and then you 201 00:13:26.200 --> 00:13:30.360 stick it in another computer and then we played on another computer. Yes, 202 00:13:30.399 --> 00:13:33.240 and it's obnoxious because all of the computers have a different mouse. So oh, 203 00:13:35.360 --> 00:13:39.159 but you learned that on day two. Well, I've been learning for 204 00:13:39.600 --> 00:13:41.120 like, I guess I've been learning it for three days, so it took 205 00:13:41.120 --> 00:13:43.919 me a hot minute, but I did it all by myself. Oh my 206 00:13:45.000 --> 00:13:50.159 god, good for you. So you need to send out, Gina a 207 00:13:50.399 --> 00:13:54.279 staff writer sticker down. Well, I got to bring in the staff rider 208 00:13:54.320 --> 00:13:56.759 stickers. I get a bunch of envelopes. Here, is there a bunch 209 00:13:56.799 --> 00:13:58.759 in there? Yeah, you do have some sit in in there. I 210 00:13:58.840 --> 00:14:01.360 was wondering if you had. I don't know why, but I think Vaunt 211 00:14:01.399 --> 00:14:05.320 said brings some in in case we need them. Okay, Gina, I 212 00:14:05.360 --> 00:14:07.639 want to tell you it was a delight and surprise to see you last night 213 00:14:07.679 --> 00:14:11.679 because you walked up and I'm like, that looks just like Gina from my 214 00:14:11.759 --> 00:14:16.279 ukulelean and I'm like, oh shit, that is Gina. So thank you, 215 00:14:16.320 --> 00:14:22.759 and thanks for the kind words about the speech last night. Next one, 216 00:14:22.879 --> 00:14:26.519 please don't say my name. First off, So excited about the additions 217 00:14:26.559 --> 00:14:31.440 to the morning show. So great you aren't retiring yet, Dave, you 218 00:14:31.480 --> 00:14:35.519 know, give it another week, Give it another week. Okay. So 219 00:14:35.679 --> 00:14:39.720 last week, Dave, you said people don't do things for you. Well 220 00:14:39.799 --> 00:14:43.600 I got a piggyback on that and say, I hate when people don't ask 221 00:14:43.679 --> 00:14:48.799 how you are doing after you asked them, especially after they give you a 222 00:14:48.919 --> 00:14:54.000 full fucking update of their life. This is my biggest pet peeve and just 223 00:14:54.039 --> 00:14:58.200 playing rude. I just don't understand how somebody can talk about themselves then in 224 00:14:58.279 --> 00:15:01.360 return not ask how you you are? Am I alone in this? Or? 225 00:15:01.399 --> 00:15:05.759 Do you guys agree? I'd love a sticker? Thanks guys, Bye, 226 00:15:07.000 --> 00:15:09.480 Bailey. Do you get annoyed with people when they don't ask how you 227 00:15:09.519 --> 00:15:13.480 are? No? Because, and I will say, I've actually been told 228 00:15:13.559 --> 00:15:16.519 by a friend this was forever ago, but he was like, you never 229 00:15:16.639 --> 00:15:20.159 asked me about my life, and I'm under the impression if we're friends, 230 00:15:20.279 --> 00:15:24.679 you're just gonna tell me about your life, Okay. But I guess it's 231 00:15:24.759 --> 00:15:28.559 different if your acquaintances, because after that conversation I had with that friend, 232 00:15:28.639 --> 00:15:31.080 I've been way more cognizant of it and it's like always on my mind. 233 00:15:31.120 --> 00:15:35.559 So if I'm having a conversation with like an acquaintance or a stranger or something, 234 00:15:35.879 --> 00:15:37.480 I'll have to be like Bailey, ask them a question. Bailey, 235 00:15:37.519 --> 00:15:41.639 ask them a question in my head in order to do it. But like 236 00:15:41.799 --> 00:15:45.639 my understanding is if your friends, you should be just telling me about your 237 00:15:45.679 --> 00:15:48.120 life, so I'll dish to you and then if you say something about it, 238 00:15:48.200 --> 00:15:50.759 awesome. But if you're not telling me about your life, that's on 239 00:15:50.799 --> 00:15:58.399 you. Okay. I've had friends that are really really like Curtis is like 240 00:15:58.440 --> 00:16:03.000 one of my best friends. He only asks about me, and I have 241 00:16:03.159 --> 00:16:06.200 to stop him and say, well, what about you? How's your work? 242 00:16:06.480 --> 00:16:08.679 Oh, my work's fine. How's Jenny doing? And I'm like, 243 00:16:08.759 --> 00:16:12.039 well, Jenny's a bitch, but how's your she is? How's your work? 244 00:16:12.639 --> 00:16:17.399 And Jenny, what about you? Do you have friends that like ask 245 00:16:17.679 --> 00:16:21.080 that don't ask about you? Yeah, I'm not really friends, but there 246 00:16:21.120 --> 00:16:23.840 is someone I'm very close with that I know who it is. It's the 247 00:16:23.879 --> 00:16:29.240 same friend. No, it's not a friend, it's a family member. 248 00:16:29.320 --> 00:16:32.799 And they've gone through a lot of things. And I mean I was going 249 00:16:32.840 --> 00:16:36.759 through some really tough things a couple months ago, and not a single question 250 00:16:36.879 --> 00:16:40.759 was asked to me. As I counseled that person for about an hour and 251 00:16:41.080 --> 00:16:45.960 it was super frustrating and really like draining, and was like, Wow, 252 00:16:45.159 --> 00:16:48.799 you didn't ask me one thing. I sat and like was comforting you for 253 00:16:48.840 --> 00:16:52.120 an hour straight and you didn't ask me a single thing. Why do you 254 00:16:52.120 --> 00:16:56.320 think that is? Do you think that people just don't think about I don't 255 00:16:56.360 --> 00:16:59.440 think that anybody gets up in the morning and says, I'm going to be 256 00:17:00.200 --> 00:17:04.319 a difficult person today. Is it just that they're so self absorbed that they 257 00:17:04.359 --> 00:17:07.519 can't think of anybody else, or they forget or what do you think it 258 00:17:07.599 --> 00:17:11.759 is? I think that generally it's a forgetful thing. Or just like how 259 00:17:11.799 --> 00:17:17.759 Bailey such, it kind of took someone acknowledging it to her. I think 260 00:17:17.759 --> 00:17:22.119 it's more of that than self absorbed. But obviously there's plenty of self absorb 261 00:17:22.160 --> 00:17:25.480 people out there too. Same also, I am self absorbed, but yes, 262 00:17:25.799 --> 00:17:27.119 no, I don't think you are. I think that Bailey is like 263 00:17:27.160 --> 00:17:30.160 one of these people that, like, she reminds me something of Tina, 264 00:17:30.559 --> 00:17:34.599 that they instantly seem like they're your friend, they express interest in you. 265 00:17:36.240 --> 00:17:38.720 Tina had no interest in me, but she always was good at pretending that 266 00:17:38.839 --> 00:17:42.839 she did. Okay, so what's weird is we got cut off a minute 267 00:17:42.839 --> 00:17:45.720 ago while we're doing the Minnesota advice, so we're gonna have to wrap things 268 00:17:45.799 --> 00:17:48.400 up here, and there were more emails, So if we didn't get to 269 00:17:48.440 --> 00:17:53.599 yours. We'll try to get to it another time. Have a great weekend. 270 00:17:53.960 --> 00:17:57.480 Are you guys doing anything special. I'm gonna be in Colorado doing a 271 00:17:57.480 --> 00:18:03.240 little yard work using a chain saw. I'm gonna hike part way up Pike's 272 00:18:03.279 --> 00:18:07.880 Peak on Sunday. What are you doing Conown? Coming here with the big 273 00:18:07.960 --> 00:18:11.200 hike I do. Yeah, it's about it's about a month away. Yeah, 274 00:18:11.279 --> 00:18:14.799 yeah, that's exciting. Today, I think I'm gonna head downtown and 275 00:18:14.920 --> 00:18:18.480 to enjoy Setimberwolves pre party action and the Andrew and I are maybe going to 276 00:18:18.559 --> 00:18:22.400 try to get super last minute like when the game starts discounted tickets, Okay, 277 00:18:22.039 --> 00:18:25.799 And tomorrow I have friends doing a bikes and bruise, so we're gonna 278 00:18:25.839 --> 00:18:29.680 bike around and go to a bunch of breweries Sunday TVD wow, dang, 279 00:18:29.720 --> 00:18:32.880 you're doing a lot of stuff. I have a friend who is getting married 280 00:18:33.400 --> 00:18:38.160 on Sunday, and so they're doing like a whole weekend full of festivities. 281 00:18:38.200 --> 00:18:44.000 So tomorrow we're going on like the Saint Croix paddle boat, which is exciting, 282 00:18:44.039 --> 00:18:47.880 and then they're doing a huge dinner and then they're getting married on Sunday 283 00:18:47.880 --> 00:18:49.799 and then We're doing a breakfast on Monday, so I just get to hang 284 00:18:49.839 --> 00:18:52.880 out with my friend who's getting married. And are you in the wedding? 285 00:18:53.319 --> 00:18:56.200 No? Do you feel sad that you'll never get married, Bailey? You 286 00:18:56.200 --> 00:19:00.880 know sometimes it bums me out, but you know what, then I go 287 00:19:00.000 --> 00:19:03.640 home, I pick up my cat, and everything's better. Ah. That's 288 00:19:03.720 --> 00:19:08.400 so sweet and lonely. All right, have a great weekend, be safe, 289 00:19:08.519 --> 00:19:15.799 and we will see you Tuesday on KATIWB and on the Minnesota Goodbye.