WEBVTT 1 00:00:36.439 --> 00:00:54.119 Good evening, good evening, sorry, sorry we' re late. But 2 00:00:54.960 --> 00:00:58.759 three minutes late, I' m sorry I told you that we were going 3 00:00:58.840 --> 00:01:03.480 to start this program all seven three, because we' re preparing some oscar 4 00:01:03.480 --> 00:01:07.079 programs. So, that' s why I' m a little late, 5 00:01:07.239 --> 00:01:15.239 but here we are or I' ve already said goodbye, we' re 6 00:01:15.319 --> 00:01:19.359 already blessed God, welcome, dear friends, how is today. Welcome to 7 00:01:19.439 --> 00:01:23.519 Dr Amel Hello. Good night. Hey, you' ll see if they 8 00:01:23.560 --> 00:01:25.439 ' ll tell me if I listen. Good, because yesterday I saw again 9 00:01:25.519 --> 00:01:26.000 that they told me that he wouldn' t listen to me. Hey, 10 00:01:26.120 --> 00:01:27.519 there' s someone who says yes, there' s someone who says no. 11 00:01:27.959 --> 00:01:32.319 And now look I bring the micro that I don' t have much 12 00:01:32.359 --> 00:01:34.079 confidence in you, because I' ve used it and I also feel like 13 00:01:34.120 --> 00:01:38.519 it sounds the same, but then you tell me, but here we are 14 00:01:38.519 --> 00:01:42.439 ready for talks. Welcome, dear Ephraim Hi, girls, how are you 15 00:01:42.480 --> 00:01:45.400 now, yes, tell me I have a face I' m intoxicated by 16 00:01:45.400 --> 00:01:51.120 why. Because look, I really support eating pork meat, because meat, 17 00:01:51.159 --> 00:01:53.680 because it' s the leanest, it' s delicious, really, but 18 00:01:53.680 --> 00:02:00.000 something went wrong. So here we are, guys. So I' m 19 00:02:00.159 --> 00:02:07.439 good that I eat tacos to the pastor no lupita, you don' t 20 00:02:07.479 --> 00:02:10.159 understand that I have a recipe for yew, the very fit pastor that I 21 00:02:10.159 --> 00:02:12.120 ' m sure you wouldn' t like, but look how it goes. 22 00:02:12.240 --> 00:02:16.360 How it goes, because that is the shot and caramelizes it only in one 23 00:02:16.439 --> 00:02:21.319 of these pans that no longer has a temple that is a diamond. And 24 00:02:21.319 --> 00:02:24.520 then I have the shepherd with the pineapple from ok to, well, I 25 00:02:24.639 --> 00:02:27.560 ' ll do it. I' m gonna do it that way That' 26 00:02:27.560 --> 00:02:30.680 s a good idea. Hey, thanks for being here. They are all 27 00:02:30.719 --> 00:02:32.599 members of the channel, all those who are subscribers, all those who are 28 00:02:32.599 --> 00:02:37.199 passing through, thank you for listening to us, those who are on Facebook, 29 00:02:37.599 --> 00:02:39.000 those who are on YouTube, those who are on Spreaker, those who 30 00:02:39.039 --> 00:02:43.599 are on iTunes, those who are on Spotify and Amazon Music, thank you 31 00:02:43.599 --> 00:02:47.759 for being here. Hey, thanks for letting the commercials run,' cause 32 00:02:47.800 --> 00:02:53.560 we' re getting monetization live and that' s really helping the channel. 33 00:02:53.599 --> 00:03:05.039 It helps us a lot, very much the laps that comment on the program 34 00:03:05.280 --> 00:03:07.879 that tell us that the steel pans, the arters that no longer have teflon, 35 00:03:08.080 --> 00:03:10.680 notice, that they are asking us and bad gives us anger that you 36 00:03:10.759 --> 00:03:15.319 pan, but they are these that no longer have teflon, that they are 37 00:03:15.360 --> 00:03:17.479 like steel, that they are very good. I was once in Canada, 38 00:03:17.879 --> 00:03:22.439 touched me in an airbnb one of those and at first I would stick everything 39 00:03:22.479 --> 00:03:25.479 until I learned to use it. And the truth is that they' re 40 00:03:25.479 --> 00:03:30.639 quite rich and quite lupita that costs on a kidney, because I didn' 41 00:03:30.759 --> 00:03:36.319 t come was from the lord who gave me the hermis a kidney, or 42 00:03:36.400 --> 00:03:42.159 I spent this summer what doesn' t wait for life, but they last 43 00:03:42.159 --> 00:03:45.520 a lifetime and that and the airlifter is a basic that they have that they 44 00:03:45.520 --> 00:03:50.479 know what. Or Palomera knows what. I don' t like things that 45 00:03:50.479 --> 00:03:54.120 last a lifetime. He doesn' t give me any of the dicks. 46 00:03:54.680 --> 00:03:58.000 I' m not too keen, too. Hey, I feel like we 47 00:03:58.039 --> 00:04:00.840 need to renew, but there are little things. Well, I' ll 48 00:04:00.879 --> 00:04:02.199 like that' s a saying that it' s going to last a lifetime 49 00:04:02.240 --> 00:04:05.360 and anyway, you' re going to end up changing you know what you 50 00:04:05.400 --> 00:04:08.039 look at, for example, I' d like what I' d like 51 00:04:08.039 --> 00:04:11.159 it to last a lifetime. It perishes and ends and what I would not 52 00:04:11.240 --> 00:04:14.159 like it to last my whole life, for example, because you can buy 53 00:04:14.159 --> 00:04:16.639 nothing, the sauteta, such life. I' m and you go somewhere 54 00:04:16.720 --> 00:04:20.560 and you find yourself a lecrochet. So and no, then why do I 55 00:04:20.639 --> 00:04:26.040 buy if I already have this one I want to get rid of it or 56 00:04:26.040 --> 00:04:30.040 I want not. And all or the living room of your house, no 57 00:04:30.040 --> 00:04:33.399 man, the sarri sa ever. You don' t know that one day 58 00:04:33.439 --> 00:04:36.439 you' d want to change her, of course, with cats and dogs. 59 00:04:36.439 --> 00:04:42.040 This is a tampominated with cats, not good, i e, the 60 00:04:42.600 --> 00:04:45.079 old fashioned wool. That' s why I went there. I match 100 61 00:04:45.160 --> 00:04:48.439 with you. When I got to buy furniture and I bought it and at 62 00:04:48.560 --> 00:04:51.879 first I had this idea because it' s like very dads, not a 63 00:04:53.639 --> 00:04:57.040 clastic, a classic dining room of great wood, very fine for life, 64 00:04:57.199 --> 00:05:00.759 so that then it looks like old, horrible truth. There goes my comment, 65 00:05:00.800 --> 00:05:03.480 horrible, there goes spoil. There I realized that I was getting older 66 00:05:03.480 --> 00:05:11.000 girls because I was the most minimalist. Just like that with nothing, because 67 00:05:11.120 --> 00:05:13.720 I accumulate a lot of things should have as many dolls as there are. 68 00:05:14.360 --> 00:05:17.759 I' ve got a doll closet, literally, Rock' s got a 69 00:05:17.759 --> 00:05:20.040 doll. Then I didn' t buy anything. And then I said, 70 00:05:20.279 --> 00:05:24.240 oh, what a nice room, oh, what a nice refrigerator. Oh 71 00:05:24.680 --> 00:05:28.439 and I said I' m already in mooneña, you' re already there, 72 00:05:28.920 --> 00:05:30.399 yes, ma' am, but this is what you say, for 73 00:05:30.480 --> 00:05:33.759 example, that you have many dolls and one day you have to do a 74 00:05:33.759 --> 00:05:35.079 srai Gan program because you also have to see it in your analysis. What 75 00:05:35.120 --> 00:05:39.240 ' s that about having the thing and I' m a little upside down. 76 00:05:39.279 --> 00:05:41.839 I' ll let you go, I' ll change and I' 77 00:05:42.000 --> 00:05:44.879 m not here anymore and I don' t want to bathe anymore, but 78 00:05:44.920 --> 00:05:46.319 what do you think wrong, that is, the dolls. I had six 79 00:05:46.399 --> 00:05:48.240 hundred barabis. He came to the pandemic and they all left that gave them 80 00:05:49.680 --> 00:05:58.000 co what happened to them, I sold them, I sold them all the 81 00:05:58.079 --> 00:06:00.079 lupita or poor little bardis plaificantes hear what he thinks a program is done. 82 00:06:00.879 --> 00:06:05.319 Yeah, don' t beat' em anymore. I' d be father 83 00:06:05.439 --> 00:06:10.560 to myself, I mean for not leaving the same father, which is the 84 00:06:10.560 --> 00:06:14.160 subject today. Thank you, Flanca and Eli Sondo, Thank you for this 85 00:06:14.160 --> 00:06:16.199 super sticker, thank you for your donations. Thank you so much. But 86 00:06:16.759 --> 00:06:20.680 right now, we' re going to keep talking about our affairs people hear 87 00:06:20.680 --> 00:06:29.000 yes, then it hasn' t happened to them that they leave the meaning, 88 00:06:29.000 --> 00:06:30.439 they listen to private talks. The other day that happened to Dr Amelia 89 00:06:30.439 --> 00:06:34.120 Mix was I didn' t notice. Yesterday, yesterday, we were recording 90 00:06:34.160 --> 00:06:41.000 the oscar film for Felipe Platas, who is a super film expert, and 91 00:06:41.079 --> 00:06:44.959 I wouldn' t have noticed that he was live until he warned me no. 92 00:06:46.040 --> 00:06:49.759 Hey, there' s a lot of fun talking about OSCARS where I 93 00:06:49.800 --> 00:06:53.720 already went to the canal and it was live, so, but it was 94 00:06:53.720 --> 00:06:57.560 just for members. There' s an advantage there because, like Philip, 95 00:06:57.680 --> 00:06:59.959 he' s not gossipy, he' s not interested in or speaks ill 96 00:06:59.959 --> 00:07:01.759 of anything. No one goes to what goes your subject, because it was 97 00:07:01.879 --> 00:07:06.680 quite entertaining. But soon they' ll see that edited program. But another 98 00:07:06.759 --> 00:07:10.759 day we talked about private life, just like he doesn' t want the 99 00:07:10.759 --> 00:07:14.319 thing. Today we are going to talk about other private lives, but a 100 00:07:14.439 --> 00:07:17.600 very important issue, which is the adoption of children. We have spoken here 101 00:07:17.639 --> 00:07:24.120 about this constant concern, at least I have had. I think my whole 102 00:07:24.160 --> 00:07:28.480 life may well have been a girl, also with regard to the well- 103 00:07:28.720 --> 00:07:31.439 being of children, with regard to their safety, with regard to the best 104 00:07:31.519 --> 00:07:36.360 life. I was watching Ahorita, this documentary that Aurora had recommended to us 105 00:07:36.360 --> 00:07:41.040 yesterday in history, in history that is Grace' s curious case. I 106 00:07:41.120 --> 00:07:44.759 don' t know what, but the girl' s actually called Natalia or 107 00:07:44.800 --> 00:07:51.720 Natalia something like that, Natalia Grace ok And then she always reminds you of 108 00:07:51.759 --> 00:07:55.079 the well- being of the children, not what happens to her, what 109 00:07:55.160 --> 00:07:59.879 happens to her. Moreover, with a disability and because not also its so 110 00:08:00.120 --> 00:08:05.399 well happens, because we have seen it the case of adoptions very commendable, 111 00:08:05.480 --> 00:08:11.120 of course, from a couple adopt and a person who does not know, 112 00:08:11.519 --> 00:08:15.040 who cannot take care of his child, who leave him better hands, who 113 00:08:15.079 --> 00:08:20.160 does not abandon himself. I wish it were, but you can' t 114 00:08:20.160 --> 00:08:24.519 always, but it was the best scenario for the kids. But sometimes it 115 00:08:24.600 --> 00:08:28.000 is also adopted by vanity. Sometimes it is also adopted because it meets a 116 00:08:28.000 --> 00:08:31.639 requirement. Sometimes it' s adopted because people say that person looks good. 117 00:08:33.720 --> 00:08:37.200 And if anything I remember a lot when I worked in the temporary shelter, 118 00:08:37.480 --> 00:08:41.519 because I told them, it is sometimes very difficult to adopt a child in 119 00:08:41.519 --> 00:08:43.919 Mexico. And I remember Dr Anelli, who was the operating doctor of the 120 00:08:45.039 --> 00:08:50.519 shelter, and she was saying look, it' s not all people understand 121 00:08:50.840 --> 00:08:54.240 that adopting is not choosing a child, it' s not deciding any, 122 00:08:54.559 --> 00:08:56.840 you shouldn' t even be able to choose whether you want a man or 123 00:08:56.840 --> 00:08:58.639 a woman. It' s like you' re going to have a child, 124 00:09:00.279 --> 00:09:03.399 you' re going to get pregnant and you' re going to love 125 00:09:03.480 --> 00:09:05.360 the child you have as you have it in the circumstances you have it, 126 00:09:05.360 --> 00:09:09.080 so adoption should be. But since it is not, then the requirements are 127 00:09:09.120 --> 00:09:13.600 so difficult. That was the experience that I had and that was the birth 128 00:09:13.600 --> 00:09:16.720 of this theme. Dr Amel. Yes, what happens is that also biological 129 00:09:16.799 --> 00:09:24.159 motherhood and fatherhood do not always obey the desire to achieve the greatest good for 130 00:09:24.279 --> 00:09:31.240 those creatures. It also happens that it becomes for many reasons that are not 131 00:09:31.320 --> 00:09:35.679 necessarily the ones that should be starting, because the first one would have to 132 00:09:37.159 --> 00:09:45.200 be out of love and with an awareness that responsibility is immense and I am 133 00:09:45.240 --> 00:09:50.480 not referring exclusively to the material, that economic responsibility is also the time that 134 00:09:50.320 --> 00:09:54.440 has to be given to a child, but the emotional responsibility to be constituted 135 00:09:54.519 --> 00:10:00.919 one of the best possible way to give that creature a good life and not 136 00:10:01.039 --> 00:10:05.279 to harm it. So, imagine if in motherhood and biological parenthood there are 137 00:10:05.360 --> 00:10:11.120 other motivations such as those you pointed out social, vanity, narcissism, to 138 00:10:11.480 --> 00:10:18.799 want to perpetuate the person and so on, because in the question of adoption, 139 00:10:18.919 --> 00:10:24.960 this also happens and sometimes more notably or more acutely, because you are 140 00:10:26.039 --> 00:10:31.480 absolutely right. There are people who do go with all the interest to choose 141 00:10:31.759 --> 00:10:37.039 and it is known that, even physical traits, not only need to look 142 00:10:37.120 --> 00:10:41.720 like their children need to have certain background. Now, unfortunately, in the 143 00:10:41.919 --> 00:10:46.559 world, that is, they' re going to get pregnant and they have 144 00:10:48.279 --> 00:10:54.639 a donor of the Iq, the genes that is brunium, tall redhead hears, 145 00:10:54.799 --> 00:10:58.639 what not, as if a catalog were going to totally and effectively, 146 00:11:00.279 --> 00:11:03.080 I think I' m going to pick up a phrase that I once heard 147 00:11:03.080 --> 00:11:03.879 from a teacher that I loved. The first right that a human being has 148 00:11:03.919 --> 00:11:09.200 is to be conceived by love and, finally, conception from love, in 149 00:11:09.200 --> 00:11:15.799 this case, adoption. If I were like you, you' d tell 150 00:11:15.919 --> 00:11:16.879 us you were supposed to be a lupita. If this one touches you like 151 00:11:16.879 --> 00:11:20.360 this, the stork came and sent you this pricey thing. It would be 152 00:11:20.440 --> 00:11:26.240 no, but then it would seem that they are going to choose a barbi 153 00:11:26.279 --> 00:11:31.639 and that complicates the whole situation, because these narcissistic traits, these traits of 154 00:11:31.720 --> 00:11:33.639 things not so parents that we all have, because we all have them. 155 00:11:33.720 --> 00:11:37.799 People who have blond children also have them, because of course they are going 156 00:11:37.799 --> 00:11:41.440 to be present. Not because you' re going to be able to choose 157 00:11:41.639 --> 00:11:45.759 a little one, a little one, a big eye, a little eye 158 00:11:45.799 --> 00:11:48.200 and that kind of situation, because they can' t happen with a child, 159 00:11:48.840 --> 00:11:50.519 not that it also happens with the biological children that the mother wants the 160 00:11:50.519 --> 00:11:52.960 most beautiful. We haven' t seen him how many times we' ve 161 00:11:52.960 --> 00:11:58.279 seen him. Then the parents say good. I promise you and I can 162 00:11:58.279 --> 00:12:01.720 assure you that I don' t do it that way, but there are 163 00:12:01.759 --> 00:12:03.120 a lot of dads who say good, but he doesn' t give me 164 00:12:03.120 --> 00:12:05.240 any trouble. Well, it' s just that I don' t want 165 00:12:05.320 --> 00:12:09.600 him anymore I identify with him more. No, and I don' t 166 00:12:09.799 --> 00:12:11.360 think we have to learn to know every single one of your children. That 167 00:12:11.399 --> 00:12:15.480 ' s why you don' t have to consider them, but you have 168 00:12:15.480 --> 00:12:20.000 to have them that you can, but know each one in his personality and 169 00:12:20.000 --> 00:12:22.039 understand it and, of course, because you' re going to love them 170 00:12:22.039 --> 00:12:24.799 the same and each one in his own way. That would be the ideal, 171 00:12:26.840 --> 00:12:31.799 of course and there is also aside from this issue, I have narcissistic 172 00:12:31.799 --> 00:12:35.440 to perpetuate, repeat, to have the ideal from the house to the van 173 00:12:35.480 --> 00:12:39.799 of the children and the dog. There is also one aspect that may have 174 00:12:39.879 --> 00:12:45.120 to do with boracity, that is, those who want to have everything also 175 00:12:45.240 --> 00:12:50.320 want everything. There are people who have double lives, for example, and 176 00:12:50.440 --> 00:12:52.519 then they' re busy with their own. What interests them, the personal, 177 00:12:54.039 --> 00:12:58.960 which can be very absorbing, does not have certain lifestyles and yet, 178 00:12:58.639 --> 00:13:03.799 having neither the time, nor the energy nor the real interest of getting involved 179 00:13:03.879 --> 00:13:09.039 in a child' s belief. They want the son, too, because 180 00:13:09.679 --> 00:13:11.440 they want everything. One of the most famous cases was John Crafford' s. 181 00:13:11.480 --> 00:13:16.720 They remember that even their daughter wrote a book called Momi Dierst and then 182 00:13:16.720 --> 00:13:22.120 made the film. This woman who almost fulfilled it by fulfilling the forms adopts 183 00:13:22.159 --> 00:13:28.240 two children and the bad ones. According to Christina Craffath, she mistreated her, 184 00:13:28.720 --> 00:13:31.679 hit her with a hook never i e, she was not a loving 185 00:13:31.720 --> 00:13:35.960 mother, the mother disinherited her as well and a terrible relationship. A child 186 00:13:37.080 --> 00:13:41.080 adopted, but it is as it is, the part cannot be adopted by 187 00:13:41.080 --> 00:13:45.879 vanity. Ephraim is that I don' t know maybe I' m bad 188 00:13:45.960 --> 00:13:48.960 girls, so you guys are more, because there you do notice that it 189 00:13:48.960 --> 00:13:50.200 costs me work, because for more studies than psychology and so on. I 190 00:13:50.240 --> 00:13:54.240 think it' s an experience that only those who live it and forgive it 191 00:13:56.039 --> 00:13:58.639 can express. I mean, I could say my experience as a son. 192 00:13:58.759 --> 00:14:03.399 And here it' s clear exactly. So I think if having a child 193 00:14:03.440 --> 00:14:09.159 is a brutal responsibility, I had an adopted child is seventy times more, 194 00:14:09.440 --> 00:14:15.240 because that child is true. It comes with a lot of things that the 195 00:14:15.279 --> 00:14:18.639 doctor here will tell us if they hugged him, they didn' t hug 196 00:14:18.639 --> 00:14:22.399 him. It already comes with a psyche to the best half grafted and you 197 00:14:22.440 --> 00:14:26.120 ' re going to have to accommodate, uncomfort and be very patient that is, 198 00:14:26.279 --> 00:14:31.360 and that' s only achieved with a very simple word, but it 199 00:14:31.480 --> 00:14:35.039 costs so much love, that is to say to the chat and having all 200 00:14:35.080 --> 00:14:37.200 hit and very badly with a really badly grafted psyche. And what do we 201 00:14:37.440 --> 00:14:41.399 do with a broken soul, then look. First I wanted to say what 202 00:14:41.440 --> 00:14:46.159 lupita said about John Croford' s case. Indeed, he was very famous, 203 00:14:46.759 --> 00:14:52.600 because it was known that John Prowort had a totally histrionic personality, as 204 00:14:52.759 --> 00:14:58.399 revealed by the career he chose. But this exists as a definition of such 205 00:14:58.480 --> 00:15:01.919 a personality, a person who really likes to draw attention. She wants to 206 00:15:01.960 --> 00:15:09.480 be the superstar, she wants her beauty above all and to have everything that 207 00:15:09.600 --> 00:15:11.399 she' s supposed to fill the life of a person who is so famous, 208 00:15:11.840 --> 00:15:16.759 she forged a couple kids. Everything we said. The problem with her 209 00:15:16.919 --> 00:15:20.200 is that, besides she did it for that reason, as Lupita explained to 210 00:15:20.200 --> 00:15:24.879 us, who explained to us that she had the whole picture, the whole 211 00:15:24.879 --> 00:15:31.600 family and so on, I think she also had very serious childhood wounds that 212 00:15:31.600 --> 00:15:33.879 required taking off on someone. Then, the little children served him for this 213 00:15:33.960 --> 00:15:39.600 double purpose, one to have this image on the screen, because he also 214 00:15:39.600 --> 00:15:43.159 did television interviews and there were interviews there, sitting in the living room, 215 00:15:43.559 --> 00:15:46.919 in the garden and much love. Then he served as an image and also, 216 00:15:48.120 --> 00:15:50.600 on the other hand, served him to have, for someone in whom 217 00:15:52.039 --> 00:15:56.519 to discharge his frustration and his childish and unproven pain. So, that' 218 00:15:56.519 --> 00:16:00.080 s why he was fatal and these kids. Of course they suffered a lot. 219 00:16:00.440 --> 00:16:04.120 No, yes, yes, and like them, there are many here. 220 00:16:04.200 --> 00:16:08.039 It' s not here, it' s not forgiveness I' m 221 00:16:08.039 --> 00:16:11.600 on another platform. Wait here for me. I' m back here, 222 00:16:11.279 --> 00:16:15.240 well, I was here, but I wasn' t here. See that 223 00:16:15.360 --> 00:16:22.200 yes, there are many, there are many moms that in the end stop 224 00:16:22.240 --> 00:16:26.240 organizing me. In the end they end up, because I don' t 225 00:16:26.320 --> 00:16:30.039 know if, and like the case of John Crafard, storping their children, 226 00:16:30.039 --> 00:16:33.120 there are other great moms. I have heard of cases of women I knew, 227 00:16:33.360 --> 00:16:34.679 a case of a woman who already had children, a wonderful woman had 228 00:16:36.159 --> 00:16:42.480 adopted children, children who have Down syndrome and, far from rejecting them, 229 00:16:42.799 --> 00:16:49.559 she makes a huge school for support and to be able to give her children, 230 00:16:49.759 --> 00:16:56.080 the education they require and a loving mother. That' s totally opposite. 231 00:16:56.159 --> 00:17:00.919 The case is unclear. That' s all I have to say. 232 00:17:00.919 --> 00:17:06.759 I wanted to point out something that we have already said as we begin to 233 00:17:06.799 --> 00:17:11.119 touch on what we say. Mistakes or failures of mothering and paternalship can also 234 00:17:11.160 --> 00:17:15.319 be left in children when they have biological children, only today, because we 235 00:17:15.359 --> 00:17:19.160 are going to focus on adopted children. But that does not mean that they 236 00:17:19.160 --> 00:17:23.359 are some of these exclusive issues, although Ephraim is right. Some of them 237 00:17:23.519 --> 00:17:27.839 do get boosted by the way these little children get into people' s lives 238 00:17:27.880 --> 00:17:33.319 is different in that too is yes, exactly. I' m going to 239 00:17:33.359 --> 00:17:38.799 tell him I' m going to say it with a man, because I 240 00:17:40.079 --> 00:17:45.640 ' m afraid I' m sorry Yuri always touches you, but you always 241 00:17:45.640 --> 00:17:48.160 get poor yoke and I really like his music, but they know what' 242 00:17:48.160 --> 00:17:49.480 s going on. That there was an interview in which he says and even 243 00:17:49.599 --> 00:17:56.400 looks like dad and that comment I checked with some teacher and we said it 244 00:17:56.440 --> 00:18:02.960 was not necessary. I mean, there are better things, don' t 245 00:18:03.119 --> 00:18:07.880 say, and least of all on all the screens and maybe expose that the 246 00:18:07.920 --> 00:18:10.599 girl rejected it because Camila did not want me. And what chi she told 247 00:18:10.680 --> 00:18:12.200 me. She said it. She' s been looked at, one thing 248 00:18:12.279 --> 00:18:18.160 Yuri has, and it' s that the truth says things and maybe she 249 00:18:18.240 --> 00:18:21.799 should think about them more or be more politically correct. But she did talk 250 00:18:21.920 --> 00:18:23.839 about her daughter' s rejection of her, that there was no such empathy, 251 00:18:25.000 --> 00:18:27.440 that it cost her work, but now, well, I think she 252 00:18:27.480 --> 00:18:32.319 has a great relationship and so on, maybe she didn' t know why 253 00:18:32.400 --> 00:18:37.359 it happened, and it does happen to see if it happens that because of 254 00:18:37.480 --> 00:18:41.400 everyday life and giving, the children look more like the gestures they copy from 255 00:18:41.640 --> 00:18:45.799 the parents than because as much as the face. I look a lot like 256 00:18:45.200 --> 00:18:48.240 one of my brothers. For example, his name is Gabriel and I call 257 00:18:48.319 --> 00:18:52.480 him well in the mirror and he said it' s not like a lot 258 00:18:52.480 --> 00:18:53.519 of my sister and we hardly ever see each other. I love him so 259 00:18:53.559 --> 00:18:57.039 much and he' s a great person, but I look like him, 260 00:18:57.279 --> 00:18:59.400 I look like him, and it' s not like we copy gestures. 261 00:18:59.559 --> 00:19:02.799 So it' s a way of looking. But there is another way that 262 00:19:02.880 --> 00:19:07.279 there are husbands who even copy the way they speak. Right, yeah, 263 00:19:07.440 --> 00:19:14.119 and they start showing up because they have a lifestyle, a dress style. 264 00:19:15.559 --> 00:19:18.359 It doesn' t matter that some men and some other women, but they 265 00:19:18.359 --> 00:19:22.279 have like a line. Let' s say dress, drive, talk and 266 00:19:22.000 --> 00:19:26.160 gesticulate, as Lupito says, and it does look like couples too. Exactly, 267 00:19:26.519 --> 00:19:30.519 exact Mira says a famous adopted child, Mauricio Ohman, who had addiction 268 00:19:30.599 --> 00:19:34.039 problems, but he overcame it now is an excellent father or at least present 269 00:19:34.079 --> 00:19:37.799 with his daughters. Thank you, Fabiola. And it' s true. 270 00:19:37.920 --> 00:19:45.960 It is true both because it is important for both parents and children. Yeah, 271 00:19:45.000 --> 00:19:48.480 they' re okay with this adoption thing. Someone else he adopted is 272 00:19:48.519 --> 00:19:55.319 Laura Flores, who already had her children, a very good mother and adopted 273 00:19:55.359 --> 00:20:00.759 two little children who, according to him, are already older than they wanted 274 00:20:00.839 --> 00:20:07.200 to look for their biological parents. It seems to me that I read a 275 00:20:07.240 --> 00:20:11.119 note like this and one of them, to one of them, I don 276 00:20:11.119 --> 00:20:15.720 ' t know if it' s the one who allowed him to operate very 277 00:20:15.839 --> 00:20:15.519 small or at eighteen, something like that for a gastic vitas. Not to 278 00:20:15.559 --> 00:20:21.759 what that was like. Yeah, I remember she told it. I don 279 00:20:21.799 --> 00:20:23.039 ' t know if you know more, but what I remember is that he 280 00:20:23.079 --> 00:20:27.319 told it and that he also had complications. He had complications from that surgery. 281 00:20:27.480 --> 00:20:32.559 It was pretty delicate, but he made it through. But good is 282 00:20:32.559 --> 00:20:40.480 because he asked like this, because he really had a complex issue, not 283 00:20:40.559 --> 00:20:42.640 because of the pesto issue, and he asked to be supported with this surgery. 284 00:20:44.480 --> 00:20:48.160 And it seems to me that what she shares because she is also very 285 00:20:48.400 --> 00:20:52.000 transparent in her things and in sharing her family life. I think Laura Flores 286 00:20:52.039 --> 00:20:56.880 gives me the impression that she does with a didactic intention, No or to 287 00:20:56.000 --> 00:21:02.000 share. Then she talked that he had those complications, but not because the 288 00:21:02.039 --> 00:21:07.200 surgery itself is a bad decision or a bad procedure, but simply because the 289 00:21:07.240 --> 00:21:12.920 boy had complications, as can happen in any one surgery. Of course it 290 00:21:12.960 --> 00:21:18.000 ' s in any effective surgery or you don' t propose to read. 291 00:21:18.000 --> 00:21:19.160 I said Andres Gusmán is that it gives me a lot of laughter. It 292 00:21:19.240 --> 00:21:22.880 is very clear that yoh Ny has trouble communicating what he thinks every time the 293 00:21:23.000 --> 00:21:26.519 water then legos apologizes, because they do sing. So, because he looks 294 00:21:27.200 --> 00:21:33.279 at it, that is, but also, he does have trouble communicating what 295 00:21:33.279 --> 00:21:38.759 he thinks, but not the truth. I don' t think it' 296 00:21:38.759 --> 00:21:42.000 s politically correct. And no, no, no, no, no, 297 00:21:42.200 --> 00:21:45.079 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no 298 00:21:45.319 --> 00:21:48.319 And I don' t think you have someone by your side to tell you 299 00:21:48.319 --> 00:21:48.480 to see Yuri, and maybe if he does, he' s gonna say 300 00:21:48.480 --> 00:21:48.480 well, because that' s what there' s a see to see. 301 00:21:48.559 --> 00:21:51.640 This is not the subject we are going to touch on today. But there 302 00:21:51.680 --> 00:21:53.119 ' s one thing that does happen. There are people who say no, 303 00:21:53.119 --> 00:21:57.319 no, no, no, it' s just that I am super honest 304 00:21:57.359 --> 00:22:03.400 and shielded in hurtful honesty. They throw darts, they break hearts, they 305 00:22:03.400 --> 00:22:08.119 mistreat people. They insult, then, and not and not and not. 306 00:22:07.880 --> 00:22:11.680 That' s being rude, because there' s one or being honest and 307 00:22:11.680 --> 00:22:18.799 another thing is being very rude don' t be worth it exactly then maybe 308 00:22:18.799 --> 00:22:21.799 Yuri is politically incorrect and suddenly they say that they want to go next to 309 00:22:21.839 --> 00:22:26.279 the you' re watering bad plan yuri comes back to someone has to help 310 00:22:26.279 --> 00:22:30.160 him. No yes, because to say honest, to be frank. That 311 00:22:30.160 --> 00:22:33.480 ' s the word. Frankness is sometimes used as a shield to say things, 312 00:22:33.920 --> 00:22:37.480 sometimes without thinking and sometimes I am thinking. Uh, no, I 313 00:22:37.519 --> 00:22:41.319 ' m very frank and I' m telling you with a certain jiribilla. 314 00:22:41.319 --> 00:22:45.400 Then you have to see what doesn' t, but I' ll tell 315 00:22:45.519 --> 00:22:48.319 you the truth, but it does. This one' s in detail. 316 00:22:48.559 --> 00:22:52.079 Hey, he says, look, you' re remembering. There' s 317 00:22:52.079 --> 00:22:53.079 guys here. He says don' t forget the veracruzans. That' s 318 00:22:53.079 --> 00:22:56.920 right. Everybody says things the way they' re good, not everyone. 319 00:22:56.960 --> 00:23:02.039 It doesn' t look and it says in a is that it' s 320 00:23:02.039 --> 00:23:04.559 very, very interesting this. Genes also influence behavior, as you may not 321 00:23:04.720 --> 00:23:10.079 be with your brother and behave in the same way. Madonna takes her children 322 00:23:10.200 --> 00:23:12.480 to Africa every year. It' s a school. It seems to support 323 00:23:12.519 --> 00:23:17.160 the local area and how good where the children were born if they did not 324 00:23:17.240 --> 00:23:19.799 lose their roots. That' s wonderful to respect the roots, not their 325 00:23:19.799 --> 00:23:25.799 anas. Zavaleta with her former Daniel Graner, adopted the boy Matías Gruener It 326 00:23:25.839 --> 00:23:30.319 ' s going to come out in south vibles asked yes, yes, what 327 00:23:30.480 --> 00:23:33.000 do you think vita that I didn' t remember and now that I' 328 00:23:33.000 --> 00:23:37.880 ve been reviewing cases, it really caught my attention that your moms are worth 329 00:23:37.880 --> 00:23:41.000 a smart woman. It is also controversial, it is, but it is 330 00:23:41.279 --> 00:23:45.599 very intelligent, very safe, very strong and she has taken her family in 331 00:23:45.640 --> 00:23:48.839 such a way. With so much, even though he finally divorced this man 332 00:23:48.920 --> 00:23:52.839 with him, he does adopt the second son has his biological daughter and he 333 00:23:52.880 --> 00:23:56.559 has this little boy who gives me the impression that he has made society forget 334 00:23:56.559 --> 00:24:00.960 that she in g nno moment had problems with the biological mother of this child 335 00:24:02.039 --> 00:24:06.799 who appeared there. Yes, I do not know how the adoption process was, 336 00:24:06.839 --> 00:24:10.200 which was obviously not anonymous, because the mother was where the child was 337 00:24:10.279 --> 00:24:15.400 and what she made claim and she lived a bitter drink with that situation. 338 00:24:15.880 --> 00:24:19.440 But it seems that authority, of course, recognized her place as a mother, 339 00:24:21.680 --> 00:24:26.279 and now that is behind. I didn' t even remember it anymore 340 00:24:26.400 --> 00:24:30.240 and we' ve seen Matías appear singing to appear, unfortunately, recently in 341 00:24:30.279 --> 00:24:36.799 a video they made together regarding an assault he suffered, but also thanking the 342 00:24:36.799 --> 00:24:38.920 support of the authorities that says it was very good. And now, then, 343 00:24:38.960 --> 00:24:44.000 the boy is going to sip in and give himself what we can perceive. 344 00:24:44.599 --> 00:24:45.640 The boy. He' s very handsome, very healthy. I know 345 00:24:45.680 --> 00:24:52.119 you' ve made a very good family. But that episode he had to 346 00:24:52.160 --> 00:24:56.720 see says Luna had problems with an adoptive mother who had a preference. I 347 00:24:56.839 --> 00:25:00.039 read it was the birth mother. But, well, it' s probably 348 00:25:00.039 --> 00:25:02.200 like you and you say look. That' s why I said it' 349 00:25:02.240 --> 00:25:04.960 s something that' s left so in the past that I didn' t 350 00:25:04.960 --> 00:25:07.559 even have it in my mind until now that I reviewed this information. But 351 00:25:07.920 --> 00:25:11.680 maybe it is like you, you say Luna, don' t hear then 352 00:25:11.680 --> 00:25:17.799 they say sorry, sorry, Ephraim was reading here how about Federica de caba 353 00:25:17.839 --> 00:25:19.640 didn' t work as an adopted mother and they noticed a very interesting topic. 354 00:25:21.079 --> 00:25:25.920 We must be honest, but there is an affective responsibility that must prevail 355 00:25:25.920 --> 00:25:27.920 exactly. The chat is already taking care of the subject. You guys follow 356 00:25:29.039 --> 00:25:33.440 him, thanks to being look. I love it, but let' s 357 00:25:33.440 --> 00:25:36.599 keep going. Ephraim, Ephraim, don' t throw away the sapalettes. 358 00:25:36.960 --> 00:25:40.599 I also remembered that it was because they were fighting for the child, but 359 00:25:40.599 --> 00:25:42.039 they were two people who were going to adopt. I remembered it too, 360 00:25:42.079 --> 00:25:48.279 ah Oktia this ok and notice that in that sense, I think your balance. 361 00:25:48.319 --> 00:25:51.440 I remember the few interviews he gave, because he handled it in a 362 00:25:51.440 --> 00:25:52.680 way as well as I' m not going to do a circus this eh, 363 00:25:55.519 --> 00:25:56.960 that is, yes, and there he did the psyche, graft, 364 00:25:57.160 --> 00:26:00.920 psyche, all that stuff, I mean, I think in TIVAS he' 365 00:26:00.079 --> 00:26:03.720 s going to be very happy to remember that he' s a mapuli for 366 00:26:03.759 --> 00:26:08.920 him in a prudent way and I didn' t bring him back to a 367 00:26:10.279 --> 00:26:14.960 Ucirconte exactly Notice that to see the Lola Beltrán also that in the end it 368 00:26:14.960 --> 00:26:17.920 was a lawsuit that Maria Elena Leal didn' t accept her adopted brother, 369 00:26:17.920 --> 00:26:19.160 who fought for the inheritance. In the end, they took everything from Quintin. 370 00:26:21.440 --> 00:26:26.000 Terrible hear. But that the case of Federica, which they mentioned before 371 00:26:26.039 --> 00:26:29.720 and that if we had planned to talk to me it seems to me an 372 00:26:29.799 --> 00:26:33.359 extremely sad case, because that is what happens. We' re going to 373 00:26:33.599 --> 00:26:41.400 assume that you have a child that' s within the autistic spectrum that may 374 00:26:41.519 --> 00:26:45.200 also be violent or that doesn' t control these impulses and I understand it, 375 00:26:45.359 --> 00:26:51.079 but what you don' t understand if you make it public what I 376 00:26:51.119 --> 00:26:55.839 don' t understand is that you show it even if you' re famous, 377 00:26:56.079 --> 00:26:56.880 although what you don' t understand is that you don' t respect 378 00:26:56.880 --> 00:26:57.839 your child' s privacy and dignity. That is what I find terrible, 379 00:27:00.359 --> 00:27:07.880 rude and of no moral quality. Doctorally, she says in her interviews, 380 00:27:08.839 --> 00:27:18.759 that she wants to spread useful information and make this condition visible so that people 381 00:27:18.119 --> 00:27:26.160 are not alone and so on. However, indeed many think. I see 382 00:27:26.240 --> 00:27:30.559 it too, so don' t report or help much. A photograph in 383 00:27:30.599 --> 00:27:33.839 a hospital with one hand hurt and saying the child. He did this to 384 00:27:33.880 --> 00:27:41.039 me, and he did,' cause you know who forgot my name too. 385 00:27:41.079 --> 00:27:44.759 I remember. There is another actress who retired because she has a biological 386 00:27:44.880 --> 00:27:49.240 son who also has a condition within the autistic spectrum that has sometimes given certain 387 00:27:49.319 --> 00:27:53.839 interviews, very few where she has said that she has had a difficult time 388 00:27:53.960 --> 00:27:57.480 and at some point I remember that she mentioned that she had cut her hair 389 00:27:57.519 --> 00:28:00.559 because the child pulled her hair. And then she' s better off screwing 390 00:28:00.599 --> 00:28:02.240 around so she doesn' t have where she' s from. And now, 391 00:28:02.680 --> 00:28:07.440 but it' s not that I don' t know how much that 392 00:28:07.519 --> 00:28:15.599 kind of specific information helps maybe lead some movement where I told you look at 393 00:28:15.640 --> 00:28:19.519 such an institution can help them, in such schools, they come back andales 394 00:28:19.519 --> 00:28:21.680 goes yes, yes, Claras thank you. Check it out, Dr Amel. 395 00:28:21.720 --> 00:28:23.799 Check it out, Dr Amel. Indeed, it does not contribute what 396 00:28:23.839 --> 00:28:29.880 Federica Va does because what she does is speak from her p from her speaks 397 00:28:29.960 --> 00:28:34.440 of her as a hitter I am the mother. I did not remember very 398 00:28:34.519 --> 00:28:41.720 well Virginia Sendellemetrel, who has this very serious accident her family, where she 399 00:28:41.839 --> 00:28:48.519 loses a daughter, loses grandchildren and then makes a micho and mao foundation for 400 00:28:48.640 --> 00:28:53.000 burned children a tragic life, because then another grandson dies to see a truly 401 00:28:53.720 --> 00:28:57.640 tragic life and does not expose herself as a victim, taking pictures as they 402 00:28:57.640 --> 00:29:00.480 look at how I cry. It can' t be a fas to help. 403 00:29:00.559 --> 00:29:06.880 People should help and she has been tasked with moving burned children to hospitals 404 00:29:07.480 --> 00:29:11.279 in the United States to be cared for as it should be. That' 405 00:29:11.400 --> 00:29:18.480 s working for a cause. What Federica de Caba does is advertise herself to 406 00:29:18.559 --> 00:29:22.440 see what a good mother. It' s just that it' s me 407 00:29:22.440 --> 00:29:23.839 I can' t stand being beaten. I' m a great victim and 408 00:29:23.960 --> 00:29:27.160 now I have the excuse to get rid of a son I didn' t 409 00:29:27.160 --> 00:29:32.559 like. Ephraim. Yes, indeed, perhaps Frederick does not do so with 410 00:29:32.599 --> 00:29:37.480 intent. Sarah says that maybe Federica doesn' t do it with measurement or 411 00:29:37.480 --> 00:29:41.000 maybe she doesn' t do it with bad intent. But from his ignorance 412 00:29:41.279 --> 00:29:45.880 he is generating something against what is being fought, Ahorita, which is to 413 00:29:45.920 --> 00:29:49.839 stop titematizing people. And what Federica does with her hand scratched and saying is 414 00:29:51.599 --> 00:29:56.079 stigmatize people with respect to artist. Sure, and that' s totally reprehensible, 415 00:29:56.319 --> 00:30:00.480 because we were talking about it yesterday. Parents have an obligation to contain 416 00:30:00.480 --> 00:30:03.400 children and protect them, and for her to come out to stigmatize a vulnerable 417 00:30:03.400 --> 00:30:07.960 group such as people who have autism and who are their mom is pathetic, 418 00:30:08.799 --> 00:30:15.359 she has no other word. It' s okay with all peace. He 419 00:30:15.519 --> 00:30:19.480 says you gave yourself a warrior when you should have been prepared for any situation. 420 00:30:19.559 --> 00:30:22.200 I mean this with all peace. We' ve already talked about it 421 00:30:22.240 --> 00:30:30.319 Lupita and I before at other times that she tells me that I' m 422 00:30:30.440 --> 00:30:38.880 also sorry for something unnecessary how that child came into her life and she says 423 00:30:40.039 --> 00:30:44.480 that the child was abandoned in terrible conditions that she didn' t want to 424 00:30:44.519 --> 00:30:48.640 repeat all the graphic that she told, because it' s not cute, 425 00:30:48.640 --> 00:30:52.160 but then knowing this. These deplorable conditions in which the child was abandoned for 426 00:30:52.240 --> 00:31:00.000 a considerable period of time were a possibility, giving the child a possibility of 427 00:31:00.000 --> 00:31:07.559 harm and problems resulting from the suffering that he or she experienced. There was 428 00:31:07.720 --> 00:31:14.400 already this, let' s say you could think that something like this was 429 00:31:14.480 --> 00:31:21.200 going to happen and that' s where she, as we were told here 430 00:31:22.480 --> 00:31:26.960 that I read, well, she would have as a certain idea what she 431 00:31:26.960 --> 00:31:30.960 could face by adopting a child who came from that condition, something was going 432 00:31:30.960 --> 00:31:33.079 to be there because it came from that situation. Then I don' t 433 00:31:33.079 --> 00:31:36.319 know what. So much thought, he did not think how capable he felt 434 00:31:36.400 --> 00:31:38.920 or did not feel. It is not easy the situation that lives, but 435 00:31:38.920 --> 00:31:45.319 indeed, to exhibit it and exhibit it the implications of the day- to 436 00:31:45.519 --> 00:31:49.160 - day that it has beyond creating, as in the case of Virginia, 437 00:31:49.759 --> 00:31:53.200 effectively tend some foundation or look at a foundation maybe it is complicated point, 438 00:31:53.680 --> 00:31:59.200 but a support group like those that exist from people who have different conditions Dads 439 00:31:59.279 --> 00:32:02.559 disorders so in one way there are. There are schools that already seek a 440 00:32:02.720 --> 00:32:08.519 school and participate actively in a school, contribute what is needed, raise awareness 441 00:32:08.599 --> 00:32:16.079 in society, because these children are sometimes poorly seen. People don' t 442 00:32:16.119 --> 00:32:20.079 get angry because the kid screams. He gets angry because the child moves in 443 00:32:20.079 --> 00:32:23.559 a certain way and is wrong. Because you have to learn in society. 444 00:32:23.559 --> 00:32:29.200 You have to learn to see the children in their condition as they are and 445 00:32:29.519 --> 00:32:31.400 understand and understand the parents and support them. That' s what Federica de 446 00:32:31.480 --> 00:32:36.920 Caba could have done, which she didn' t do, which didn' 447 00:32:36.960 --> 00:32:38.440 t make it clear she wasn' t ready. But she was not prepared 448 00:32:38.480 --> 00:32:45.759 to adopt either that child or another child. She was prepared to adopt a 449 00:32:45.839 --> 00:32:50.359 teddy doll, to adorn herself with it here, because that' s right, 450 00:32:51.160 --> 00:32:55.799 motherhood isn' t perhaps. If my child has a problem, maybe 451 00:32:55.880 --> 00:33:00.839 I' m ready not, because I don' t know how many marriages 452 00:33:00.920 --> 00:33:07.279 there are because there is a birth, a child with some disability, or 453 00:33:07.319 --> 00:33:13.519 an accident or happens from a tragedy that involves a death and separates because one 454 00:33:13.519 --> 00:33:16.079 of the two parents can' t, you can' t tolerate a death, 455 00:33:16.599 --> 00:33:21.759 you can' t tolerate your child having a disability, you can' 456 00:33:21.839 --> 00:33:22.960 t tolerate that your child was born as he didn' t expect it. 457 00:33:22.319 --> 00:33:28.279 There are so many divorces and separations because people don' t understand, they 458 00:33:28.400 --> 00:33:32.680 don' t understand, and motherhood implies absolute acceptance. So Federica wasn' 459 00:33:32.799 --> 00:33:38.920 t ready for this kid or car and you know why not. For something 460 00:33:38.960 --> 00:33:43.119 that is not your fault, but that is a reality and that she has 461 00:33:43.200 --> 00:33:47.440 also told it in many interviews, because she had a very sad upbringing, 462 00:33:47.640 --> 00:33:52.640 of a lot of abandonment, of some parents that did not charge her, 463 00:33:52.160 --> 00:33:57.680 because they had problems between them and because afterwards it turns out that the father 464 00:33:57.759 --> 00:34:02.480 discovers in the father that he has a very serious condition of mental health, 465 00:34:02.640 --> 00:34:07.079 being psychoanalyst, which has nothing to do with it that is it touched him 466 00:34:07.079 --> 00:34:09.079 and already as it touches a cardiologist, getting sick in the heart as much 467 00:34:09.079 --> 00:34:10.320 as it is for geology and takes care of it. But besides, it 468 00:34:10.400 --> 00:34:15.840 seems that the mother was not very present for some time either. They were 469 00:34:15.920 --> 00:34:20.639 filming among the parents. The mother then did not have a good emotional armature, 470 00:34:20.880 --> 00:34:23.880 a good model of motherhood or anything to prepare her to be a good 471 00:34:23.920 --> 00:34:28.760 mother. That doesn' t mean that the one who didn' t have 472 00:34:28.840 --> 00:34:30.320 a good upbringing can' t be a good mother with a good father, 473 00:34:30.920 --> 00:34:37.079 but yes, you have to work on that, you have to take care 474 00:34:37.079 --> 00:34:42.360 of one on foot, you have to overcome those Let' s say, 475 00:34:42.599 --> 00:34:45.880 those childhood traumas, of those problems that had to be constituted as a good 476 00:34:45.880 --> 00:34:45.880 human being and then you have to encourage yourself to take care of one another. 477 00:34:45.239 --> 00:34:49.280 But just like that, it' s like wanting to see that I 478 00:34:49.360 --> 00:34:52.719 get the impression too a little repair if I didn' t have a good 479 00:34:52.800 --> 00:34:53.440 mother, a present mother. Now I' m going to make that mother, 480 00:34:53.760 --> 00:34:58.719 yes, but as with what then makes you more difficult. Someone wrote 481 00:34:58.760 --> 00:35:00.360 around here that she didn' t show it, that she was a neighbor 482 00:35:00.400 --> 00:35:04.039 who complained about the boy' s screams. Maybe he had a good time. 483 00:35:04.320 --> 00:35:07.800 Not only clear of her, being here in the hospital because my son 484 00:35:07.840 --> 00:35:14.679 hurt me and e has done them. Ephraim, Ephraim, you know what 485 00:35:14.719 --> 00:35:17.840 happens then, for that if you magnify these nationalistic traits of the people you 486 00:35:17.840 --> 00:35:21.639 adopt. I mean, well, that' s what it looks like to 487 00:35:21.639 --> 00:35:24.440 Federica. Not because, in other words, yes, what she did is 488 00:35:24.519 --> 00:35:29.119 heartbroken, because she wasn' t and she wasn' t a neighbor. 489 00:35:29.679 --> 00:35:31.800 The Instagram photos were from her, from her account, from her story. 490 00:35:34.280 --> 00:35:38.280 Yeah, yeah, yeah, right, look what they asked us, and 491 00:35:38.440 --> 00:35:45.519 I' m telling you, I' m sorry that if Superman counts as 492 00:35:45.760 --> 00:35:51.039 adopted, of course, of course, and he' s adopted, and 493 00:35:51.079 --> 00:35:53.800 he was an adopted child, how much love his parents haven' t given 494 00:35:53.800 --> 00:35:55.440 him that he even became a superman saving humanity. Not a number of movies, 495 00:35:58.559 --> 00:36:04.239 several films universes of various universes, is that good? That we don 496 00:36:04.360 --> 00:36:09.519 ' t have cryptonite anymore? Well, have we got cryptonite yet? Hey, 497 00:36:10.840 --> 00:36:14.199 he says I' m still reading it. This was a matter of 498 00:36:14.199 --> 00:36:16.480 hope for forgiveness. I' m seeing you gave me that comment Federica makes 499 00:36:16.559 --> 00:36:23.280 an exact victimization too, but there are more adoptive mothers who are telling us 500 00:36:23.360 --> 00:36:28.199 a lot of lupito. They said red. We brought her in, too. 501 00:36:28.360 --> 00:36:34.800 She adopted her sister' s daughter, Lorena. That adoption was already 502 00:36:34.880 --> 00:36:37.159 very controversial, because Lorena knew it was bad. But Lorena was a very 503 00:36:37.199 --> 00:36:42.559 good person, she was a nice person and well, she thought she had 504 00:36:42.599 --> 00:36:47.360 every hope of surviving cancer. And, well, the vención not also light 505 00:36:47.440 --> 00:36:52.239 Elena González, but light Elena with Celsa has been a super dedicated mom who 506 00:36:52.079 --> 00:36:54.599 sometimes hasn' t had a bad time. That' s why I tell 507 00:36:54.599 --> 00:36:59.239 you that sometimes people don' t understand and sometimes they haven' t had 508 00:36:59.360 --> 00:37:02.679 a hard time with people who' ve been intolerant to their son and it 509 00:37:02.760 --> 00:37:06.880 ' s terrible, and she and her husband are great parents to their son. 510 00:37:07.000 --> 00:37:12.039 Of course, Ephraim, you wanted to say something and I was going 511 00:37:12.079 --> 00:37:15.400 to tell them about Maria Rojas, tell them why we don' t talk 512 00:37:15.440 --> 00:37:17.239 about nice, how good a father Woody Allen would have been, who even 513 00:37:17.239 --> 00:37:22.119 married the adopted daughter. That' s where Paulina' s putting him in 514 00:37:22.159 --> 00:37:25.000 honor I fell into her trap. She was not the adopted daughter of Mia 515 00:37:25.400 --> 00:37:34.599 Farrow, she was not the daughter of stack woody Allen with André pres Viajera 516 00:37:34.679 --> 00:37:37.239 so much fighting for the girl Felipe Jera, that she was so driven away 517 00:37:37.320 --> 00:37:39.000 for adoption, that she was not given, that she was given it and 518 00:37:39.000 --> 00:37:40.960 in the end she was given it. And that I' m from a 519 00:37:40.960 --> 00:37:46.400 good source, that' s really good dad, uh, that' s 520 00:37:46.519 --> 00:37:49.519 from these first gay adoptions fes Ricky Martin. We got Ricky Martin. Well, 521 00:37:49.559 --> 00:37:51.639 it doesn' t look like they' re biological children. No, 522 00:37:51.639 --> 00:37:54.920 no, it' s biological Ricky' s are both biological. Bad because 523 00:37:54.920 --> 00:37:59.360 I read in a note. You should confirm if you like it, but 524 00:37:59.440 --> 00:38:04.360 I read in a note that you have two biological and two adoptive children. 525 00:38:05.559 --> 00:38:08.320 So, if you want, we' ll check now. But I found 526 00:38:08.480 --> 00:38:13.599 this information. They didn' t know exactly either. I think they' 527 00:38:13.599 --> 00:38:17.119 re his kids. In reality Jesus, who was adopted by Joseph exactly, 528 00:38:17.199 --> 00:38:22.239 because he was the son of Mary. But that was maybe a good one. 529 00:38:22.360 --> 00:38:25.960 He also knows reg like for Sara' s joke. Thank you, 530 00:38:27.239 --> 00:38:30.760 Sara, but yes, they did well, no yes, until they crucified 531 00:38:30.800 --> 00:38:34.639 him how they will have done well. No, don' t get mad 532 00:38:34.880 --> 00:38:40.039 It' s a joke. I believe and I want jokes was rome. 533 00:38:40.199 --> 00:38:45.519 Sir, please, I can' t do it fast. I' m 534 00:38:45.559 --> 00:38:51.880 telling you so that you don' t keep this unfinished information that you have 535 00:38:51.960 --> 00:38:58.039 the twins, which are biological, and then you have two other little children 536 00:38:58.079 --> 00:39:00.360 who are Lucia and Ren who say here that they seem to be adopted. 537 00:39:00.599 --> 00:39:05.599 It says here the information right now I' m telling you about Waves magazine 538 00:39:05.599 --> 00:39:07.599 about being a listener. Juan Gabriel also has his children some that are his, 539 00:39:07.920 --> 00:39:13.480 his, I think they are adopted. No, but, well, 540 00:39:15.800 --> 00:39:19.400 hear that other children, because I think that in the end that Madonna Madonna, 541 00:39:19.639 --> 00:39:24.440 we already mentioned it, this is also a highly controversial issue, says 542 00:39:24.440 --> 00:39:30.440 Clausorgis Lupis. Now you did, you blew up the house. We' 543 00:39:30.440 --> 00:39:31.400 re gonna avoid it, we' re gonna pretend I didn' t say 544 00:39:31.400 --> 00:39:37.360 anything. Brad Pitti, Angelina Jolie, of course, of course, that 545 00:39:37.360 --> 00:39:39.079 ' s what everyone has said about them They have several children in common. 546 00:39:39.280 --> 00:39:43.800 It seems to me that, by the way, they cut. You mentioned 547 00:39:43.880 --> 00:39:46.760 it yesterday Efrayna or her youngest daughter, not of whom, Angelina Jolie, 548 00:39:47.000 --> 00:39:53.880 that she feasts you beast. I think. I think if you mention her 549 00:39:53.960 --> 00:40:00.360 dressing as a child, as a yes, yes until she did and it 550 00:40:00.360 --> 00:40:05.840 was long ago Sandro Paulo also adopted. Indeed, we already mentioned Susana Zavaleta 551 00:40:08.039 --> 00:40:13.199 to see Mira Lupita if I was so Questioned since I was a child, 552 00:40:13.760 --> 00:40:16.280 See since I was a child who in the catechism at the age of six 553 00:40:16.320 --> 00:40:19.639 scolded me for asking if Joseph was Jesus' stepfather. He gave him a 554 00:40:19.639 --> 00:40:23.639 message, for it is true and what it was then. Then I wanted 555 00:40:23.679 --> 00:40:29.480 to be god or what was so weird. So, Fabra, Laura, 556 00:40:29.719 --> 00:40:32.000 here' s my microphone. I don' t know. Everyone hears me 557 00:40:32.280 --> 00:40:36.760 I bring and very fecto. I' ll bring perfect, perfect. I 558 00:40:36.800 --> 00:40:40.639 ' m, I' m echoing and really bad at microphone and here they 559 00:40:40.639 --> 00:40:44.800 are. I don' t know what to do, tell me, but 560 00:40:44.960 --> 00:40:49.159 well, I didn' t know to see Mario Moreno Cantinflas, of course 561 00:40:49.159 --> 00:40:52.519 he adopted Mario Moreno Ivanova and I think they gave him a poor education, 562 00:40:52.519 --> 00:40:53.760 because it turned out terrible. It really turned out terrible, a human being, 563 00:40:54.800 --> 00:41:01.920 very contending feelings. Islands, that your son was a bad joke of 564 00:41:01.920 --> 00:41:07.800 the amount of fol worst joke hear aris tuñon I just adopted two children and 565 00:41:07.800 --> 00:41:10.880 that makes me very happy. May they be very well, Maria Celeste to 566 00:41:12.000 --> 00:41:15.639 Rares and Carlos Ponce went to Russia to adopt Carlos adopted a couple of twins, 567 00:41:15.280 --> 00:41:23.519 as Christi is. Indeed, he hears the i and the case forgives 568 00:41:23.599 --> 00:41:30.280 the chaste. This also very strong Lolita de la vega to see tell us 569 00:41:30.440 --> 00:41:35.159 that to close with that one. Yes look Lolita de la vega and thanks 570 00:41:35.199 --> 00:41:36.960 to all those who tell me that they do listen to me. He' 571 00:41:37.039 --> 00:41:37.760 s already turned my soul back to my body. Hey, it' s 572 00:41:37.760 --> 00:41:46.880 perfect. Thank you, Lolita de la Vega. She says there were already 573 00:41:47.519 --> 00:41:52.079 her daughters. He says they had daughters who were already old, they were 574 00:41:52.159 --> 00:41:54.360 gone. She tells it like that, because there are people who say no 575 00:41:54.440 --> 00:41:58.440 of themselves divided with her from before. I don' t know how old 576 00:41:58.440 --> 00:42:02.639 they didn' t live, but well I' ve been adults for many 577 00:42:02.760 --> 00:42:08.079 years now and then she had that kind of an empty nest experience. So 578 00:42:08.159 --> 00:42:13.239 that' s where you say maybe. We leave badly from there, because 579 00:42:13.320 --> 00:42:16.000 the empty nest is a stage that, at best, has to be tolerated 580 00:42:16.119 --> 00:42:20.599 and has to live, It has to go through because it will happen and 581 00:42:20.599 --> 00:42:25.000 not try to avoid it or postpone it by bringing more children rather so that 582 00:42:25.000 --> 00:42:28.960 it does not happen. And then, because in the end the kids are 583 00:42:29.039 --> 00:42:31.519 going to be empty and you' re bringing kids they' re going to 584 00:42:31.519 --> 00:42:32.840 feel that' s not the one that' s leaving. But, well, 585 00:42:34.199 --> 00:42:38.639 she said she had that feeling of the empty nest and then she said 586 00:42:38.719 --> 00:42:43.039 what' s also true. There are many children who need a home because 587 00:42:43.039 --> 00:42:45.159 they are already there. The children have already arrived, taken them to these 588 00:42:47.599 --> 00:42:52.000 orphanages and need parents. Why not. I, for I become a mother 589 00:42:52.039 --> 00:42:55.519 of a child that I need some mother and that then, when she was, 590 00:42:55.639 --> 00:43:00.199 she says that in Chihuahua, that from there is native, that she 591 00:43:00.199 --> 00:43:02.440 came to the ten, from there, that she said she wanted to be 592 00:43:02.480 --> 00:43:06.800 a mother and told her that there were some little brothers who went together, 593 00:43:07.440 --> 00:43:09.800 that they had to adopt little ones and that they were very small and that 594 00:43:09.840 --> 00:43:10.719 then she, with all the love in the world, took them away. 595 00:43:10.920 --> 00:43:15.559 But that' s where the people who have seen this case start and comment 596 00:43:16.440 --> 00:43:21.239 on it mention that there are inconsistencies in the story, because she says they 597 00:43:21.239 --> 00:43:22.840 were very small, they were a year and two, but then she says 598 00:43:22.920 --> 00:43:28.320 they are in kindergarten, that the child is very violent, that the child 599 00:43:28.360 --> 00:43:32.199 has inappropriate behaviors at his age and that he also hurt a puppy and that 600 00:43:32.280 --> 00:43:35.800 the puppy had that she bought that pet from the little girl? The girl 601 00:43:35.880 --> 00:43:38.119 bought the pet and the boy hurt the dog a lot. And the puppy 602 00:43:38.199 --> 00:43:42.400 had so two months in the hospital that that alerted her, that it then 603 00:43:42.440 --> 00:43:46.639 led her to reviews with various specialists, including paídos, psychiatrists, neurologists, 604 00:43:47.480 --> 00:43:52.039 psychologists and others, that they made assessments and concluded that the children had important 605 00:43:52.039 --> 00:43:57.599 neurological damage, especially in the frontal cortex, because they also suffered from syndrome, 606 00:43:59.440 --> 00:44:04.280 withdrawal from substances, because they came from an addicted mother and they also 607 00:44:04.400 --> 00:44:09.280 came from a father of very bad, very bad background and others of more 608 00:44:09.280 --> 00:44:15.880 than enough. Then she says that the mother introduced you to her complaining to 609 00:44:15.880 --> 00:44:21.280 the children that she suffered threats and not a lot of things that made her 610 00:44:21.400 --> 00:44:25.239 decide for Council, also for her lawyer and the neurologist who reviewed the children, 611 00:44:25.880 --> 00:44:30.519 because those who returned them and that' s why she did it. 612 00:44:30.880 --> 00:44:32.920 There are people who don' t believe her very much, who say she 613 00:44:32.920 --> 00:44:36.920 ' s putting her out of her crop, she adds, they put her 614 00:44:37.039 --> 00:44:37.360 in, I don' t know, but you know what she invited. 615 00:44:37.519 --> 00:44:42.199 It' s very painful to think that, because, as Ephraim said and 616 00:44:42.199 --> 00:44:44.039 you yourself said, they' re not hairy dolls, they' re not 617 00:44:44.039 --> 00:44:51.320 barbis. No. But it may be that you may be unable to recognize 618 00:44:51.360 --> 00:44:55.119 yourself for any reason that some children are going on that she says they had 619 00:44:55.119 --> 00:44:59.559 little time with her, that even years, she says dallas, doesn' 620 00:44:59.599 --> 00:45:05.679 t say exactly, but it gives i that they were with her mestel or 621 00:45:05.800 --> 00:45:08.320 maybe less than a year to say I can' t with this and you 622 00:45:08.320 --> 00:45:12.480 give them back to the institution, maybe the time I' m going to 623 00:45:12.480 --> 00:45:16.039 tell you. There' s a huge mistake in first trying to replace her 624 00:45:16.039 --> 00:45:22.000 children with adopted children. I insist they are not toys, they are not 625 00:45:22.079 --> 00:45:27.440 dogs, they are not pets, they are human beings that, although they 626 00:45:27.559 --> 00:45:31.119 bring a problem, because what we said at the beginning, very at the 627 00:45:31.119 --> 00:45:32.480 beginning is your children as they come, they are your children. Period. 628 00:45:34.039 --> 00:45:38.719 That' s one and two. I' m worried about an institution that 629 00:45:38.760 --> 00:45:45.519 can give a person with this profile, a couple of kids, because in 630 00:45:45.559 --> 00:45:49.079 whose hands you put that couple of kids, where were the studies you did 631 00:45:49.159 --> 00:45:52.440 or, maybe because you were a recognized journalist and because of the marriages you 632 00:45:52.480 --> 00:45:58.239 had what it was. I guess I' m not saying anything was granted 633 00:45:58.320 --> 00:46:01.480 more easily, but of course maybe it was by age. If I wanted 634 00:46:01.519 --> 00:46:05.960 to adopt a child right now, it would be very difficult how you come 635 00:46:05.960 --> 00:46:08.480 up with it. True is what you said to see. It was the 636 00:46:08.639 --> 00:46:10.960 poor little man You' re going to adopt a grandson. Hey, we 637 00:46:10.960 --> 00:46:15.400 ' re gonna say good- bye, since we have to go to history 638 00:46:15.440 --> 00:46:20.199 in history today. Thanks for being here. Dr Amel your consequence and also 639 00:46:20.280 --> 00:46:23.480 your good conclusion. My consequence is that I want to tell you the information 640 00:46:23.519 --> 00:46:27.840 I got from an interview with Max Lumbia. She' s here on YouTube 641 00:46:27.880 --> 00:46:30.840 to give the credit, because there she tells all this stuff. And so 642 00:46:30.880 --> 00:46:34.760 my conclusion is again, because I seem to be a little repetitive lately, 643 00:46:34.800 --> 00:46:37.800 but frankly I think it' s a very good idea not to forget and 644 00:46:37.920 --> 00:46:40.880 keep in mind all the time. We have to think calmly about the things 645 00:46:40.960 --> 00:46:46.000 that are done, We have to evaluate all the scenarios are going to value 646 00:46:46.000 --> 00:46:50.519 us. I mean to evaluate ourselves in what conditions we are in to do 647 00:46:50.599 --> 00:46:53.960 this or that thing, especially when it involves the lives of other human beings 648 00:46:54.039 --> 00:46:59.360 who, because they are, in this case of adoption, are children and 649 00:46:59.400 --> 00:47:02.719 and do not have like them to choose to defend themselves or take care of 650 00:47:02.719 --> 00:47:07.960 themselves. Then think a little bit first what the motivations are, how it 651 00:47:07.000 --> 00:47:12.000 will be done and what responsibilities it will not expose itself to before saying something 652 00:47:12.000 --> 00:47:14.719 exi But when you are doing well, then it goes very well. There 653 00:47:14.760 --> 00:47:17.920 ' s Laura Flores using zavaleta maire Rojan. All of them are very accurate, 654 00:47:19.119 --> 00:47:22.960 very lin nothing. They asked us what we would adopt. I, 655 00:47:22.960 --> 00:47:24.159 in particular, have not always said yes. I' m telling you, 656 00:47:24.519 --> 00:47:27.159 gays aren' t for anything, and I' m not messing with God. 657 00:47:27.440 --> 00:47:31.079 Thank God, don' t and don' t in any way notice 658 00:47:31.079 --> 00:47:34.039 that I don' t. Sometime I would have, but no longer will 659 00:47:34.079 --> 00:47:37.400 Ephraim why that is. That' s it, we can' t go 660 00:47:37.440 --> 00:47:39.840 back to the kid, you got it. And this kind of situation, 661 00:47:39.840 --> 00:47:44.239 like what happened with Ted de la Vega, is outrageous, and we' 662 00:47:44.639 --> 00:47:46.239 re going away for hours, because we' re seeing each other right now 663 00:47:46.239 --> 00:47:49.800 in history, in history. Thanks for being here. We' ll hear 664 00:47:49.840 --> 00:47:52.800 each other tomorrow at ten o' clock. Remember that Fridays are at ten 665 00:47:52.840 --> 00:47:57.760 o' clock so you can go out, have fun, go eat and 666 00:47:58.440 --> 00:48:02.440 drink wine all the way to heaven. Or little too much regular or not 667 00:48:02.440 --> 00:48:05.920 to take, but good Friday mornings at ten o' clock at night. 668 00:48:06.039 --> 00:48:09.639 Thank you all and here we hear without fail the day of tomorrow