WEBVTT 1 00:00:05.879 --> 00:00:08.640 Whoa, what's like? Beutiful people. It is your baby Mama, Favorite 2 00:00:08.640 --> 00:00:13.599 baby Mama, Stormy Pe And this is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zap 3 00:00:14.240 --> 00:00:19.600 the modern day female perspective, Damn Son. Back at it again and back 4 00:00:19.600 --> 00:00:23.199 at that again. We're playing with half the home team today on the audio 5 00:00:23.280 --> 00:00:25.960 and visual. This week we got Captain catting to build a Hey guys, 6 00:00:26.039 --> 00:00:29.120 Hey, I'm trying not to say anything stupid this time, you know what, 7 00:00:29.480 --> 00:00:33.159 And I appreciate that. I appreciate that. Um listening, y'all, 8 00:00:34.119 --> 00:00:38.240 I just wanted to jump straight in for a few things. If you were 9 00:00:38.520 --> 00:00:42.960 on the Life before we started this show, we inserted a new segment, 10 00:00:43.159 --> 00:00:47.320 a new pre show segment. It's called Niggas Ain't Shit, and I really 11 00:00:47.399 --> 00:00:50.359 enjoyed it. I really enjoyed it, and I can't wait to indulge with 12 00:00:50.439 --> 00:00:53.399 you guys. More on this later on in the episode. But um, 13 00:00:53.960 --> 00:00:58.520 I wanted to talk about a few things. And once again, y'all know, 14 00:00:58.520 --> 00:01:00.640 throughout the week, my mind just be read and as I encounter different 15 00:01:00.640 --> 00:01:06.120 things, mine just be racing some more. Right So, if you were 16 00:01:06.159 --> 00:01:07.560 on the Live at the end of last episode, I was talking to you 17 00:01:07.599 --> 00:01:14.000 guys about how I want to intentionally date this summer, right But the reason 18 00:01:14.120 --> 00:01:18.000 that I want to intentionally date this summer is that I have so many bomb 19 00:01:18.040 --> 00:01:23.640 ass date ideas. Like I found some cool hot air balloons. I found 20 00:01:23.680 --> 00:01:26.519 a pickle farm. Y'all know I love pickles. Y'all know I love pickles. 21 00:01:26.799 --> 00:01:34.040 I found a pickle farm. I found some bomb ass vineyards. I 22 00:01:34.040 --> 00:01:38.640 found something cool like nerdy museums, some trippy museums. Like, I have 23 00:01:38.719 --> 00:01:41.799 a lot of stuff that I want to do, and I know some of 24 00:01:41.879 --> 00:01:42.799 y'all probably like, well, why won't you just go do it with your 25 00:01:42.840 --> 00:01:48.560 girl friends? Go do it with your girl friends because I want dick after 26 00:01:49.319 --> 00:01:52.079 Yeah, yeah, I don't want to do it with them. I don't 27 00:01:52.079 --> 00:01:53.439 want to do it with them. Okay, I'm wanna go out and have 28 00:01:53.519 --> 00:01:57.719 a good time and afterwards, I wanna go home and get some deck, 29 00:01:59.239 --> 00:02:04.239 Okay, which is why I want to intentionally date this summer. So Niel 30 00:02:04.280 --> 00:02:07.359 less to say, yes, I'm looking for a man right now. Just 31 00:02:07.439 --> 00:02:10.039 because I am looking for a man does not mean I want any man. 32 00:02:10.759 --> 00:02:19.680 And with all the respect in my heart, please respect me respectfully declining your 33 00:02:19.719 --> 00:02:23.800 advances Okay, I want to say this one more time. Please respect me 34 00:02:24.240 --> 00:02:32.199 respectfully declining your advances. Like, if I am showing you respect, please 35 00:02:32.240 --> 00:02:36.560 just give me that same respect back. Because I don't curve niggas with an 36 00:02:36.599 --> 00:02:39.280 attitude. I don't be like, what's your broke ass doing over here? 37 00:02:39.360 --> 00:02:45.159 Okay, that's not me, that's not me. I'm that girl like you 38 00:02:45.280 --> 00:02:49.879 thought you wow for that. I'm not her. Okay. I have the 39 00:02:50.039 --> 00:02:55.520 utmost respect. So when I decline your offers repeatedly, and then I have 40 00:02:55.639 --> 00:03:00.280 to get intentional with you and say no, I'm good, no, thank 41 00:03:00.319 --> 00:03:02.719 you. Now all of a sudden, I'm a bitch. Now I'm fat. 42 00:03:02.879 --> 00:03:06.800 Okay, Now I got too much baby here. Yeah. Oh that's 43 00:03:06.879 --> 00:03:08.879 that's what y'all love it at. Now I got too much baby here. 44 00:03:09.759 --> 00:03:15.479 Now I got too much baby here. Okay, it's just what I thought. 45 00:03:15.479 --> 00:03:19.479 We were having a good time here. Two seconds ago, you wanted 46 00:03:19.520 --> 00:03:23.400 to eat my buddy from the back. What happened? Two seconds ago? 47 00:03:23.439 --> 00:03:27.080 You wanted to drink my bath water? Now I'm a fat, ugly bitch. 48 00:03:27.199 --> 00:03:30.400 How do we get here? I'm confused. I'm confused. I don't 49 00:03:30.479 --> 00:03:37.280 know how things escalated so whoickily like, y'all really gotta explain this one to 50 00:03:37.360 --> 00:03:42.479 me, Like, when y'all say these things, do you realize the hypocrisy 51 00:03:43.000 --> 00:03:46.960 in your statements? Do you realize the hypocrisy and your back to back statements 52 00:03:47.199 --> 00:03:53.879 make it makes sense? Somebody said, don't be in my DM's being sassy. 53 00:03:54.479 --> 00:03:58.680 I agree, first of all, the audacity of you. So you 54 00:03:58.800 --> 00:04:01.400 just walking around trying to talk to fat ugly bitches. Huh those type of 55 00:04:01.439 --> 00:04:04.560 girls you like. See that's probably getting no plagues, those type of girls 56 00:04:04.599 --> 00:04:09.000 you like. Apparently, like what what? All right? Let me let 57 00:04:09.039 --> 00:04:12.319 me let me tap into the live speaking of baby here, where edge control 58 00:04:12.439 --> 00:04:15.000 do you use? I'm gonna send you a picture when I get in the 59 00:04:15.000 --> 00:04:17.879 house. I just started using some new baby here actually, so I'm gonna 60 00:04:17.879 --> 00:04:20.639 sing you a picture when I get in the house. Somebody said, preach, 61 00:04:20.720 --> 00:04:27.879 don't me preach. Listen, it's always you fat for me bro for 62 00:04:27.959 --> 00:04:32.120 y'all to be on lizzlehead so heavy. Apparently y'all all like fat bitches because 63 00:04:32.120 --> 00:04:35.600 as soon as one of us decline, you wear a fat bitch. Like 64 00:04:36.519 --> 00:04:44.160 for someone who apparently only gets the baddest of bitches only catch the foreigns. 65 00:04:44.000 --> 00:04:47.399 As soon as you get decline, every woman turns into a fat, ugly 66 00:04:47.480 --> 00:04:56.199 bitch. Every woman turns into something out of a nightmare. Like what what? 67 00:04:57.279 --> 00:05:00.000 Make it make sense? That's all I'm not as for much. Just 68 00:05:00.160 --> 00:05:03.920 make it make sense because me myself, I don't get it. I don't 69 00:05:03.920 --> 00:05:09.639 get it. Like I understand that the fragile male ego is a thing, 70 00:05:10.720 --> 00:05:13.000 But baby, if it's this fragile, you need to go talk to the 71 00:05:13.079 --> 00:05:17.279 lady because this is crazy. This is crazy. Someone said, that's fair 72 00:05:17.360 --> 00:05:21.160 dudes to be hurt. Sometimes, I'm on to the next shorty that's actually 73 00:05:21.160 --> 00:05:26.279 fucking with me, And that's it. That's it. That should be your 74 00:05:26.319 --> 00:05:30.839 general response, Like how privileged have we become where we can't take rejection? 75 00:05:32.120 --> 00:05:39.319 How how how stuck up and out of touch are you if you can't take 76 00:05:39.360 --> 00:05:44.439 rejection? That's crazy to me, and especially one that you haven't even like 77 00:05:45.040 --> 00:05:48.879 invested time or money into. It cost you nothing to slide in my DMS. 78 00:05:48.920 --> 00:05:55.399 So why are you so hurt by this? What happened? Somebody said, 79 00:05:55.839 --> 00:06:00.519 I mean, fat bitches, do it better? All y'all done? 80 00:06:00.879 --> 00:06:04.639 Two hundred pounds plus is a must. Can't be seen in public with someone 81 00:06:04.759 --> 00:06:10.879 under two hundred. My lord, I know that's right. Come on, 82 00:06:10.959 --> 00:06:14.439 somebody, Gummy is a good edge control too. I never tried gummy. 83 00:06:14.439 --> 00:06:15.959 I'm gonna have to look that out. We ain't fat when they trying to 84 00:06:15.959 --> 00:06:18.800 bail us like we ain't fat when they trying to bail us up like a 85 00:06:18.839 --> 00:06:23.680 pretzel. Talk about it, Talk about it and talk about it, because 86 00:06:23.680 --> 00:06:27.920 we show it is not. We show is not. Okay, we are 87 00:06:28.120 --> 00:06:32.199 not fat when you are picking out baby names in your head because you want 88 00:06:32.199 --> 00:06:36.680 me so bad. Okay, we are not fat when you're walking around telling 89 00:06:36.680 --> 00:06:41.279 your homes, Yeah, look who I got. We're not fat. Then 90 00:06:41.920 --> 00:06:46.160 we're not ugly then, so where we at with it? Where we at 91 00:06:46.199 --> 00:06:50.360 with it? Somebody said fat bitches are fun, y'all get on my nerves, 92 00:06:50.560 --> 00:06:56.759 but yes, I agree. It's the bruised ego. Yo. Someone 93 00:06:56.839 --> 00:06:59.839 said, you're not fat though, laughing my ass off. Maybe fat for 94 00:07:00.160 --> 00:07:01.399 head, but not fat. Let me tell you something. I've said it 95 00:07:01.439 --> 00:07:06.439 once and I'll say it again. The pretty girls all have big fourheads. 96 00:07:06.519 --> 00:07:12.920 And I don't care what study you do. I don't care what scientific journal 97 00:07:13.040 --> 00:07:16.199 you look at. Okay, they're all gonna tell you pretty girls have big 98 00:07:16.199 --> 00:07:19.680 fourheads. That's it, and that's all. That's it in that's all. 99 00:07:19.879 --> 00:07:23.720 And I don't even gotta tell y'all who I'm talking about, because I know, 100 00:07:23.839 --> 00:07:27.079 you know at least three pretty girls with big fourheads right now, think 101 00:07:27.120 --> 00:07:30.480 about it, Think about it, think about it. You know at least 102 00:07:30.519 --> 00:07:34.720 three, you know, at least three pretty girls with big fourheads. And 103 00:07:34.759 --> 00:07:39.759 you know the universe runs in the laws of threes. I didn't even make 104 00:07:39.800 --> 00:07:43.279 that up. We all know that's true. Okay, everybody grabbed my man 105 00:07:43.360 --> 00:07:46.120 here. Didn't tell them. You know, death come in threes, you 106 00:07:46.199 --> 00:07:49.959 know, babies come in threes. Jesus number three, three three, y'all. 107 00:07:50.000 --> 00:07:54.519 I'm trying to tell y'all all the pretty girls have big fourheads. And 108 00:07:54.519 --> 00:07:56.759 that's it, and that's all. I ain't gonna say nothing else. That's 109 00:07:56.800 --> 00:08:05.600 just it. That's just it. Um speaking of a good man. I 110 00:08:05.600 --> 00:08:09.720 went into this year with intentions on my brain, right, and when you're 111 00:08:09.720 --> 00:08:13.000 looking for something, what do you do you put you start? You make 112 00:08:13.040 --> 00:08:18.199 a vision board. Right when when you have things that you want to get 113 00:08:18.240 --> 00:08:20.439 out and you want to manifest in today's day and age, you make a 114 00:08:20.519 --> 00:08:26.120 vision board. So what did I do New Year's Day? Me and my 115 00:08:26.160 --> 00:08:28.759 friend we made vision boards. Okay, yes, I'm looking for a man. 116 00:08:30.000 --> 00:08:31.960 So you know what I put on my vision board? I want a 117 00:08:33.039 --> 00:08:37.480 reformed hoe. Yep, yep, that is a trait that I want him, 118 00:08:37.519 --> 00:08:41.200 I said, or my vision board I put I am looking for a 119 00:08:41.279 --> 00:08:45.519 reformed hoe. Now I know something you're saying, Oh my god, stow 120 00:08:45.600 --> 00:08:48.600 me, what why? Why why do you want that? I'm gonna tell 121 00:08:48.639 --> 00:08:52.840 you why. I don't fucking feel like teaching. I don't feel like teaching, 122 00:08:54.200 --> 00:08:56.679 and I know that a reformed hoe is going to have at least the 123 00:08:56.759 --> 00:09:01.440 one on one class mastered. I don't open your eyes and expanding and teaching 124 00:09:01.480 --> 00:09:05.679 you stuff that you may not have never encountered before. But baby, I'm 125 00:09:05.679 --> 00:09:07.279 too old to still be teaching how to how to how to eat couchie? 126 00:09:07.960 --> 00:09:13.360 What. Hell? No, I'm not, and i'm not. I'm not. 127 00:09:13.120 --> 00:09:16.240 I'm not going to do that. I'm not. I'm not going to 128 00:09:16.320 --> 00:09:22.519 teach you how if you have a larger member, how to have sex so 129 00:09:22.639 --> 00:09:26.279 it doesn't hurt. I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that. That's 130 00:09:26.360 --> 00:09:31.120 beneath me, okay, beneath me. Okay, I might teach you anal. 131 00:09:31.440 --> 00:09:35.799 I might teach you how to do anal comfortably. But baby, the 132 00:09:35.840 --> 00:09:41.360 basics done. Okay, you you don't want to you don't want to put 133 00:09:41.360 --> 00:09:43.159 a toe in your mouth or I'm missionary. Done, I'm over it. 134 00:09:43.559 --> 00:09:48.679 I'm over I'm not interested, respectfully, I am not interested. Okay, 135 00:09:50.200 --> 00:09:52.320 you still haven't figured out how to choke and stroke at the same time. 136 00:09:52.720 --> 00:09:58.360 Not interested, don't want it? No, thank you, no, thank 137 00:09:58.399 --> 00:10:01.159 you? No miss Okay, No, I don't want that. I don't 138 00:10:01.159 --> 00:10:07.039 want that. And I think that the reformed HO gets a negative connotation, 139 00:10:07.399 --> 00:10:09.360 but it's like, yo, they have seen the error of their ways. 140 00:10:11.720 --> 00:10:16.519 They have seen the error of their ways, and they are now trying to 141 00:10:16.519 --> 00:10:18.519 figure out how to live their life on the right path. Okay, I 142 00:10:18.720 --> 00:10:24.320 support this, I support this. I support you, baby, Okay, 143 00:10:24.399 --> 00:10:28.080 I love this for you. Let me join you on your journey. Okay, 144 00:10:28.360 --> 00:10:33.000 I might give you some more tips, okay, manifest a reformed HO. 145 00:10:33.600 --> 00:10:37.720 Okay, And by this point they didn't got all that weird shit off 146 00:10:37.759 --> 00:10:41.320 like system anyway. They they know what they like. Okay, they don't 147 00:10:41.320 --> 00:10:48.440 need much direction, and more importantly, they listen to direction. But y'all 148 00:10:48.480 --> 00:10:50.480 sleep it on reform holes. I'm gonna tell you all that. I'm gonna 149 00:10:50.480 --> 00:10:54.159 tell you all that right now. They got it going on on, Sun, 150 00:10:54.320 --> 00:10:58.240 you got it going on. That's it. I'm not mad at it. 151 00:10:58.639 --> 00:11:01.799 Hold on, let me tap into the live, real fast, stormy 152 00:11:01.840 --> 00:11:07.679 rehability in these holes. I'm just saying, listen, I'm gonna say what's 153 00:11:07.720 --> 00:11:11.720 wrong with society. We send people to jail, right so they can better 154 00:11:11.799 --> 00:11:16.519 themselves and reform, but then when they get out of jail, we don't 155 00:11:16.519 --> 00:11:20.480 give them no jobs and shit. Right. I think HOSE is the same 156 00:11:20.519 --> 00:11:24.360 way we should be celebrating reform HOSE. But instead of society as a whole, 157 00:11:24.519 --> 00:11:28.480 you know, shuns them. Let's look down on them. No, 158 00:11:28.000 --> 00:11:33.159 they need love too. And I'm talking about men and women like Okay, 159 00:11:33.240 --> 00:11:35.799 you've seen the earth of your ways. I love this for you. I'm 160 00:11:35.840 --> 00:11:39.840 here for you. Someone said exactly, they lay good pipe, see see, 161 00:11:41.320 --> 00:11:45.279 but I need good dick it good head. Well yeah, I want 162 00:11:45.279 --> 00:11:52.240 one to see Listen. I'm starting a new movement. We let's see Stormy 163 00:11:52.240 --> 00:11:54.720 Saves. I'm gonna start a foundation called Stormy Saves, and I'm just gonna 164 00:11:54.759 --> 00:12:03.279 fund reform hose. And I'm gonna like pay for haircuts, Okay, ladies, 165 00:12:03.279 --> 00:12:07.759 I'm gonna buy new sets of lingerie just things that make you feel good. 166 00:12:07.039 --> 00:12:09.919 Okay. I'm gonna pay for some ladies to get their nails done, 167 00:12:11.000 --> 00:12:13.639 some manny petties, right, I mean, and I'm talking about the expense 168 00:12:13.679 --> 00:12:18.879 someones. You want some long you know, encapsulated I got you, Okay, 169 00:12:18.000 --> 00:12:22.440 some long encapsulated form. Since I got you like, this is all 170 00:12:22.480 --> 00:12:26.399 gonna be a part of my foundation. Men, I'm gonna like pay to 171 00:12:26.440 --> 00:12:31.000 get your car detailed every once in a while because y'all deserved treats for turning 172 00:12:31.000 --> 00:12:33.840 your life around. I love this for y'all, and I am supporting y'all. 173 00:12:35.519 --> 00:12:39.960 Y'all. I'm gonna start the Stormy Saves Foundation. Now, my question 174 00:12:39.039 --> 00:12:46.639 is, how would you prove that you're reformed? Oh, in order to 175 00:12:46.759 --> 00:12:52.679 qualify to be a reformed hood, you have to provide three references and that's 176 00:12:52.720 --> 00:12:56.639 it. I think that's a good idea. I think that's a good idea. 177 00:12:56.679 --> 00:13:00.879 And it don't matter if they tell me that you did them or if 178 00:13:00.879 --> 00:13:03.159 you did them good. They just have to tell me, like what time 179 00:13:03.200 --> 00:13:05.039 period y'all was talking so that I can count up like it, I'm just 180 00:13:05.039 --> 00:13:07.480 talking to three pitches in the same way. Well, it's crazy and you 181 00:13:07.600 --> 00:13:11.960 was knocking them down, and you change your life worn like reformed hose, 182 00:13:13.200 --> 00:13:20.320 she get the same respect as born again Christians. Okay, I'm done. 183 00:13:20.360 --> 00:13:22.440 I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. I'm done. 184 00:13:22.639 --> 00:13:30.639 I'm done. That's it. Reform and Jamaican and find out someone said just 185 00:13:30.879 --> 00:13:33.279 three yeah, just three references. I feel like that's all you need. 186 00:13:33.679 --> 00:13:37.399 Trying to reform female hose, it's challenging because they ain't used to monogamy and 187 00:13:37.519 --> 00:13:41.559 might relapse. You meant to say male holes or did you mean to say 188 00:13:41.679 --> 00:13:46.919 female holes? Because I feel like once a woman has realized, let me 189 00:13:46.960 --> 00:13:52.200 start over. I feel like reforming from men and women is different because once 190 00:13:52.200 --> 00:13:58.320 a woman realizes her worth and realizes that she was given access to men who 191 00:13:58.320 --> 00:14:03.279 didn't really deserve her, that's when shit changes. And I think that's when 192 00:14:03.279 --> 00:14:05.240 the monogamy really kicks in because it's like, well wait a minute, after 193 00:14:05.240 --> 00:14:11.200 these things ain't deserve me anyway. So I think reforming holiness from men and 194 00:14:11.320 --> 00:14:16.879 females are different because men y'all usually stop being holes when y'all really want to 195 00:14:16.879 --> 00:14:22.159 settle down, or you had an STD scare, that STD scare, you're 196 00:14:22.159 --> 00:14:28.440 making y'all niggas monogamous like a motherfucker, and tell me I'm lying. All 197 00:14:28.559 --> 00:14:33.200 a man needs is a good STD scare, and he will slow down on 198 00:14:33.360 --> 00:14:39.120 talking to all his women, all his women. All a man needs is 199 00:14:39.120 --> 00:14:43.399 a good STD scare to get his life right. He will be monogamous for 200 00:14:43.679 --> 00:14:48.159 at least the next three months at least. And can't nobody tell me nothing 201 00:14:48.200 --> 00:14:50.720 different? Can't nobody tell me nothing that he ain't gonna be acting right when 202 00:14:50.759 --> 00:14:54.399 he go out with his friends, know nothing. They're gonna trying to put 203 00:14:54.480 --> 00:14:56.840 him on bitches. He like, no, dog, I'm chilling. I'm 204 00:14:56.879 --> 00:14:58.720 just really trying to get myself ready. You know, Ramadan coming up? 205 00:15:00.039 --> 00:15:01.600 Oh you know, you know, Easter coming up, like whatever it is. 206 00:15:01.799 --> 00:15:05.279 They making excuses of everything. They don't want to talk about nothing. 207 00:15:05.679 --> 00:15:13.440 They're trying to get themselves right. They're focusing on themselves, focusing on themselves. 208 00:15:13.159 --> 00:15:18.639 Y'all ain't slick. Y'all ain't slick. Okay, I'm here, what 209 00:15:18.840 --> 00:15:33.200 it's y'all? I didn't even remember how we got here. Man, listen, 210 00:15:33.360 --> 00:15:37.840 I said what I said. That's it, that's it. So someone 211 00:15:37.919 --> 00:15:43.600 said I turned down pussy in Africa because I was scared of catching an STD. 212 00:15:43.840 --> 00:15:46.399 You see, You see, all niggas need is a little bit of 213 00:15:46.440 --> 00:15:50.440 frightening the man. They're gonna turn themselves around. They know. It's not 214 00:15:50.519 --> 00:15:54.720 that men don't know how to, they don't want to, and sometimes they 215 00:15:54.759 --> 00:15:58.159 need a little bit of encouragement in the form of an STD. Scare. 216 00:16:00.360 --> 00:16:07.480 I that's it, And that's all um. So I told y'all, you 217 00:16:07.519 --> 00:16:11.200 know, I created a vision board this year because I'm looking for a man. 218 00:16:11.360 --> 00:16:15.200 I'm manifesting my man all right. Now. Not only did I say 219 00:16:15.240 --> 00:16:19.919 I wanted to a formed hell right, but I also want somebody who has 220 00:16:21.039 --> 00:16:25.759 similar parenting styles for me. Now, don't get it twisted. They don't 221 00:16:25.799 --> 00:16:30.919 have to have kids. I just want someone who has a similar parenting style 222 00:16:32.200 --> 00:16:37.600 to me, because like the type of parenting that I get involved in, 223 00:16:37.399 --> 00:16:41.159 it's not the easiest. It's not the easiest. It's not the easiest like 224 00:16:41.559 --> 00:16:45.879 we we all talk about like gentle parenting and you know, bricking generational curses 225 00:16:45.919 --> 00:16:51.639 like what we don't often talk about is how when being a good parent has 226 00:16:51.720 --> 00:16:57.759 caused you to form sheltered kids, especially in the black community. Right, 227 00:16:59.000 --> 00:17:02.039 So once again, I just want to say, we always talk about breaking 228 00:17:02.080 --> 00:17:06.240 these generational curses and you know, the gentle parenting, and I'm not gonna 229 00:17:06.240 --> 00:17:07.920 treat my kids the way they treated me or even on the flip side, 230 00:17:08.000 --> 00:17:11.599 my kid is going to have all the things that I didn't have, and 231 00:17:11.960 --> 00:17:14.680 you know, they're gonna have all the opportunities that wasn't presented to me. 232 00:17:15.240 --> 00:17:22.000 Cool, perfect, Great. The downside of that is you create shelter kids, 233 00:17:22.640 --> 00:17:26.119 and um, unfortunately that's where I am in life right now. And 234 00:17:26.319 --> 00:17:33.000 having shelter kids isn't a bad thing until they enter those preteen and teenage years 235 00:17:33.680 --> 00:17:40.079 because shelter kids ain't ain't they ain't Usually they don't have the most streets, 236 00:17:40.079 --> 00:17:45.039 sinse street smarts. No, he don't, nor he don't. And I'm 237 00:17:45.079 --> 00:17:48.440 scared now that I've created the sheltered monster that you know, one of these 238 00:17:48.519 --> 00:17:55.000 little ballhead half is gonna take advantage of him or like you know, some 239 00:17:55.039 --> 00:17:56.799 niggas gonna try to, you know, convince them to do it, some 240 00:17:56.960 --> 00:18:00.440 some wild stuff, and he's gonna want to do it to prove he's not 241 00:18:00.480 --> 00:18:03.400 as sheltered as he is, or like fit in, be cool, X, 242 00:18:03.519 --> 00:18:06.640 Y and Z. You know what I mean? Kevin king open that 243 00:18:06.720 --> 00:18:11.480 window please, I'm hot. Yeah, Like you know what I mean? 244 00:18:11.519 --> 00:18:17.039 Like someone said sixteen years insists exactly, Like talk to me, Like I 245 00:18:17.160 --> 00:18:19.799 know, y'all gotta be feeling what I'm feeling. Like the downside of being 246 00:18:19.839 --> 00:18:26.240 a good parent is creating sheltered kids. Like I think I broke one too 247 00:18:26.240 --> 00:18:30.920 many generational curses because my man is bougie. He is bougie, my son 248 00:18:30.119 --> 00:18:36.240 is bougie. We go out to the restaurant and he sits down and grabs 249 00:18:36.240 --> 00:18:41.200 a regular menu. It hits me with the humm, So what were you 250 00:18:41.240 --> 00:18:47.759 looking at for appetizers? Nigga? Are we on a date? What is 251 00:18:49.000 --> 00:18:52.079 how much money do you have in a wallet right now? Because you're gonna 252 00:18:52.119 --> 00:18:56.039 tell me what was I think about for appetizers? As an adult? I 253 00:18:56.200 --> 00:19:00.359 was thinking about getting some oysters? And he's like, yeah, I think 254 00:19:00.359 --> 00:19:02.880 we should probably start off, what a dozen, and then maybe if we 255 00:19:02.880 --> 00:19:11.119 want more, we can go from there. We can go where, we 256 00:19:11.319 --> 00:19:15.680 can go where or like I take them to the movies and like all the 257 00:19:15.720 --> 00:19:18.640 movie taverns were sold out. And I don't know if the movie tavern is 258 00:19:18.640 --> 00:19:22.000 everywhere, but I'm assuming there everywhere. But they're like a studio grill if 259 00:19:22.000 --> 00:19:25.839 you will, and if you're probably like yes, Stormy, we still don't 260 00:19:25.839 --> 00:19:27.720 know what the funk that is? Okay, So it's like a movie theater 261 00:19:29.839 --> 00:19:33.480 that has it serves food, but like food food, not like popcorn and 262 00:19:33.559 --> 00:19:37.359 hot dogs like a regular movie theater. They like, come bring you food 263 00:19:37.359 --> 00:19:42.400 to your seat, like pizza and fries and flatbreads and burgers and chicken sandwiches 264 00:19:42.440 --> 00:19:47.319 and pasta's all that stuff, right, So I take my son to the 265 00:19:47.319 --> 00:19:49.440 movie theater. I got tickets last minute, but I'm still being a good 266 00:19:49.519 --> 00:19:55.359 mom. So I take them to a regular join regular AMC, no shade 267 00:19:55.480 --> 00:19:57.799 AMC, but just a regular, you know, regular regular movie theater. 268 00:19:59.200 --> 00:20:04.000 We get inside and he's like, they don't serve real food here, y'all, 269 00:20:04.079 --> 00:20:08.000 please come get this boushe nigga, please, I can't afford it. 270 00:20:08.960 --> 00:20:14.839 Okay, I created a monster. The shelter life is cool until you realize 271 00:20:14.880 --> 00:20:19.279 you have created a monster. And that's that's where I'm at, y'all, 272 00:20:19.319 --> 00:20:22.960 that's where I'm at. Somebody gonna say, oh, yeah, it's normal. 273 00:20:23.079 --> 00:20:26.759 My kids think five hundred dollars isn't a lot of money. Seeing we 274 00:20:26.839 --> 00:20:33.279 have created monsters. We have the best of intentions, but we have created 275 00:20:33.400 --> 00:20:37.640 monsters. It's a sick game. That's absolutely right. Someone else said, 276 00:20:37.920 --> 00:20:41.759 not the apps and the mocktails. Yes. Someone else said, not too 277 00:20:41.880 --> 00:20:45.599 much on him, y'all to stop. Okay, he deserves all of it, 278 00:20:45.960 --> 00:20:48.960 all of it. Someone said, let me be Stepdad. We would 279 00:20:48.960 --> 00:20:52.799 have him at Morehouse and no time, and he can act this boushe as 280 00:20:52.799 --> 00:20:56.160 he wants. Shot out some Morehouse, y'all shot out to all my men 281 00:20:56.200 --> 00:21:02.880 at more House. Someone parenting styles is important because if you discipline and they 282 00:21:02.880 --> 00:21:07.160 want to rationalize with a toddler, it's gonna be a problem. I agree, 283 00:21:07.559 --> 00:21:15.200 right, especially when it comes to discipline, because my style of discipline 284 00:21:15.480 --> 00:21:22.039 was really installing the fear of God and him young so that I didn't really 285 00:21:22.039 --> 00:21:26.519 have to beat later, and this worked out great for me. Someone said, 286 00:21:26.759 --> 00:21:30.039 talking about where's the red button, I need an lttey. I'm not 287 00:21:30.079 --> 00:21:33.079 trying to be funny. My man will tell you in a minute. I 288 00:21:33.160 --> 00:21:37.519 want to frap don't try to come to him and tell him you can have 289 00:21:37.559 --> 00:21:40.480 a hot chocolate. He gonna look you at your face and say you can 290 00:21:40.599 --> 00:21:45.400 have a hot chocolate. I asked for a frap like I really have, 291 00:21:45.200 --> 00:21:48.759 or I'm gonna say we really have. Me and his father because it was 292 00:21:48.759 --> 00:21:51.880 a collective effort, because they be boogie over there too, especially during like 293 00:21:51.920 --> 00:21:55.279 holidays, they begat my man the most outlandish gifts and I'll just be looking 294 00:21:55.279 --> 00:21:56.640 like, this is why he is the way he is now, right, 295 00:21:57.279 --> 00:22:03.319 And it's hard to be because it's not just about gifts. It's also teaching 296 00:22:03.359 --> 00:22:08.720 your kids to articulate themselves. Because what happens is when you teach your kids 297 00:22:08.720 --> 00:22:14.079 how to articulate their emotions and their feelings. Oh baby, they're gonna read 298 00:22:14.160 --> 00:22:18.640 you. They're gonna read you, they're gonna check you. Okay, don't 299 00:22:18.640 --> 00:22:22.960 be slacking on these kids that you've taught emotional intelligence too, because they have 300 00:22:22.039 --> 00:22:26.920 no problem telling you about shoself. Well, mommy, I just really feel 301 00:22:27.000 --> 00:22:32.759 like we didn't take into consideration all the angles when we chose this as a 302 00:22:32.799 --> 00:22:40.440 form of action. Who the fuck is you talking to? I'm grown? 303 00:22:41.640 --> 00:22:45.240 I feel like the little boy who ain't had a shirt on his walk around. 304 00:22:45.519 --> 00:22:48.319 I've grown, That's what it was given to me. That's what it 305 00:22:48.400 --> 00:22:52.839 was given to me. But I always give him that space to articulate himself 306 00:22:52.880 --> 00:22:57.680 because I refuse to have him be that man who's grown and chooses to be 307 00:22:57.799 --> 00:23:03.960 silent and lose and miss out on important opportunities and relationships because he can't articulate 308 00:23:04.000 --> 00:23:08.119 him his feelings like an adult. Like that's crazy because there are men and 309 00:23:08.279 --> 00:23:12.160 women out here who literally will shut down instead of staying how they feel, 310 00:23:12.400 --> 00:23:17.720 who will create different scenarios instead of saying how they feel, who will project 311 00:23:17.720 --> 00:23:22.599 their feelings onto you because they never learned how to articulate themselves and their emotions 312 00:23:22.599 --> 00:23:25.119 properly. So it's like, no, I don't want you to be that 313 00:23:25.200 --> 00:23:33.359 person, but damn nigga outn't mean read me and do Someone said, Yep, 314 00:23:33.359 --> 00:23:36.960 you're not being considerate. Don't start me with to consider it. Don't 315 00:23:37.000 --> 00:23:40.480 start me with to considerate. To consider it be taking me out because like, 316 00:23:40.559 --> 00:23:42.720 boy, you've been alive eleven years, what do you know about consider 317 00:23:42.759 --> 00:23:45.799 it? But I can't say that. I can't say that because that's what 318 00:23:45.839 --> 00:23:51.480 our parents told us. And like Everyone in here has had a stop crying. 319 00:23:51.480 --> 00:23:53.359 I'm gonna give you something to cry for. Talk with their parents. 320 00:23:53.759 --> 00:23:59.200 Everyone in here has had a You tell your parents somebody get on your nerves 321 00:23:59.200 --> 00:24:02.039 and they tell you you don't have nerves. Bit, Yes I do. 322 00:24:02.519 --> 00:24:06.640 How you gonna tell me you're getting on him right now? But it's hard 323 00:24:06.799 --> 00:24:11.880 because that is just what we experience growing up, and I don't want to 324 00:24:11.880 --> 00:24:14.440 have those barriers on my side. Hold on, y'all. Let me tap 325 00:24:14.480 --> 00:24:18.880 him with some more stuff on alive someone saying emotional and tell agence, yes, 326 00:24:18.920 --> 00:24:25.920 good morning, I am the real mister Cooper. Oh and why do 327 00:24:26.000 --> 00:24:30.640 he want to go to the Bahamas for his thirteenth birthday? Child? Me 328 00:24:30.720 --> 00:24:33.440 and my son have been practiced in French, so he is fully prepared to 329 00:24:33.440 --> 00:24:37.440 go to Paris and has been telling all his friends that he's going to Paris 330 00:24:37.480 --> 00:24:40.440 by the end of the year. Y'all who got Paris at the end of 331 00:24:40.440 --> 00:24:42.880 the year. Money. Mommy is trying to do stuff and he don't give 332 00:24:42.920 --> 00:24:48.880 a fuck. He don't give him now one fuck, agreed, saying I 333 00:24:48.920 --> 00:24:53.880 felt that completely completely, no real shit, my eleven year old talking about 334 00:24:53.960 --> 00:24:56.000 he want to go to Cabo for his birthday. Like, what the fuck? 335 00:24:56.519 --> 00:25:02.720 Exactly exactly, I'm so happy that I am not the one who's creating 336 00:25:02.759 --> 00:25:06.640 a boogie monster. Y'all don't understand how much of a community I feel like 337 00:25:06.680 --> 00:25:08.880 we are right now, Like we always be close, but that's right here. 338 00:25:10.440 --> 00:25:12.720 This is something different. I'm feeling this. This is great energy for 339 00:25:12.759 --> 00:25:17.839 me. Yes, ma'am, you're teaching very well. Thank you. Teaching 340 00:25:17.880 --> 00:25:21.319 your kids to express and defend themselves will come back and get you, especially 341 00:25:21.359 --> 00:25:23.200 when they hit you with your own logic and you gotta walk off. Bro, 342 00:25:23.599 --> 00:25:27.160 don't let him be right. Don't let him be right. Him being 343 00:25:27.279 --> 00:25:32.920 right is even worse than him actually speaking on it, because now I can't 344 00:25:32.960 --> 00:25:36.440 do nothing but except that I got checked by the loving year old. And 345 00:25:36.559 --> 00:25:41.240 yeah, that one stinks. That one stinks. That's the one. That's 346 00:25:41.240 --> 00:25:45.160 the one right there. That's it. Hold on, y'all, mine, 347 00:25:45.559 --> 00:25:48.079 okay, nope, my mom. Let me have an opinion, and an 348 00:25:48.119 --> 00:25:53.599 opinion when appropriate. Mine don't know what's appropriate. Well, you know what, 349 00:25:56.440 --> 00:25:59.400 It gets better with time and each generation they learn a little bit more. 350 00:26:00.079 --> 00:26:03.200 Someone said child my son three and Bena Cancun had a ball. I'm 351 00:26:03.240 --> 00:26:07.759 a forgiving them the world, so they easily impressed. Mama shows you the 352 00:26:07.759 --> 00:26:11.880 world. Yes, yes, yes, And I think that a lot of 353 00:26:11.880 --> 00:26:15.440 times, when you instill this stuff in your kids, it makes it less 354 00:26:15.519 --> 00:26:19.640 likely for someone with ill intentions to come along later on in life and impress 355 00:26:19.720 --> 00:26:23.920 them with these simple things, especially if you if you have daughters, Ah, 356 00:26:23.960 --> 00:26:29.599 boy, if you have daughters. If you do not show and teach 357 00:26:29.880 --> 00:26:33.960 your daughters these things, it will be a crusty bum that will come up 358 00:26:34.079 --> 00:26:37.920 with a trip to Miami, and she will think she just hit the jackpot. 359 00:26:38.759 --> 00:26:45.440 She'll think it, she'll think it not Miami. No, y'all, 360 00:26:45.519 --> 00:26:48.160 Kevin been quiet this whole episode. As soon as I said now, he 361 00:26:48.279 --> 00:26:53.119 jumped out and said, na, Miami, Na Miami. I'm just saying, 362 00:26:53.319 --> 00:26:59.319 if you don't teach your daughters that they'll be impressed by the lowest form 363 00:26:59.400 --> 00:27:02.599 of interest. Okay, it don't have to be a trip Miami. It 364 00:27:02.720 --> 00:27:06.599 can be just constantly being told she's beautiful. It can be, you know, 365 00:27:06.680 --> 00:27:10.799 being reassured that she's loved. Okay, it can be you know, 366 00:27:11.200 --> 00:27:15.160 just a good morning text, attention anything. If you don't install this stuff 367 00:27:15.160 --> 00:27:19.440 and your daughters, they will grow up and have a Jody come along and 368 00:27:19.519 --> 00:27:23.200 take them to Miami and they will be ready to risk it all. That's 369 00:27:23.240 --> 00:27:27.039 it, that's it, and that's all. Speaking of kids, y'all, 370 00:27:27.599 --> 00:27:37.279 speaking of kids, speaking of kids, speaking of kids. I saw this 371 00:27:37.480 --> 00:27:42.880 post on Facebook, and y'all, just the one. It took me out. 372 00:27:44.319 --> 00:27:45.240 It took me out. It took me out. Hold on one second, 373 00:27:48.960 --> 00:27:49.640 it took me. Oh wait, y'all, s happening on a life. 374 00:27:49.640 --> 00:27:53.119 Hold on, let me say something. It says, daughters kill father's 375 00:27:53.160 --> 00:27:57.279 pockets. Dad got two jobs so he can pay the mortgage and buy her 376 00:27:57.359 --> 00:28:03.640 chanelle should o am I love this for him. Well, maybe not you 377 00:28:03.720 --> 00:28:07.079 in your pockets, but your daughter for sure. Someone said I'm teaching my 378 00:28:07.160 --> 00:28:11.000 daughter that now. I constantly tell her she's pretty because I refuse to let 379 00:28:11.039 --> 00:28:15.359 somebody dusty ass son think he can bare minimum my kids. Sorry, not 380 00:28:15.480 --> 00:28:19.279 sorry. I agree. I agree, and I don't even have a daughter, 381 00:28:19.319 --> 00:28:23.519 but I agree and support this so much, especially when it's coming from 382 00:28:25.279 --> 00:28:29.079 a father, like when it's coming from my father. That makes it that 383 00:28:29.799 --> 00:28:37.279 much better because women who have active fathers are less likely to let people who 384 00:28:37.480 --> 00:28:44.000 are not worthy of them waste their time. I'm not gonna say into their 385 00:28:44.000 --> 00:28:45.519 lives, because sometimes you just want to rebel against your dad and you want 386 00:28:45.559 --> 00:28:48.759 to do blah blah blah blah blah. Right, but I'm gonna say, 387 00:28:48.759 --> 00:28:52.559 waste their time, because if she's actively and intentionally looking for a relationship, 388 00:28:52.640 --> 00:28:55.759 marriage, a family, whatever, you're not gonna come in here with the 389 00:28:55.799 --> 00:28:57.400 bare minimum because she's gonna say, that's not how my dad treat me. 390 00:28:57.599 --> 00:29:02.240 And more importantly, that's not how my dad treat my mom, his girlfriend, 391 00:29:02.359 --> 00:29:04.079 his wife, or whoever. So you're not about to do that to 392 00:29:04.160 --> 00:29:08.759 me. So I hell yeah, hell yeah, I stand with that so 393 00:29:08.839 --> 00:29:14.400 much, one thousand percent. Someone said, listen, I learned early from 394 00:29:14.400 --> 00:29:19.000 my dad. I'm nobody's bitch. What the fuck? I know? That's 395 00:29:19.079 --> 00:29:22.720 right. Come on, somebody, come on, come on and come on. 396 00:29:23.039 --> 00:29:26.839 Okay, all right, y'all listen, speaking of kids, speaking of 397 00:29:26.920 --> 00:29:33.200 kids, Speaking of kids. I saw this post on Facebook, and I 398 00:29:33.279 --> 00:29:37.039 have never wanted to jump through the phone and sock somebody so bad in my 399 00:29:37.079 --> 00:29:41.480 life. Okay, So I saw this post on Facebook and it said, 400 00:29:42.079 --> 00:29:47.200 I'm sorry, but if you're a mother and I see you post more about 401 00:29:47.279 --> 00:29:56.160 you than your kids, you're weird, y'all. Y'all, y'all give me 402 00:29:56.200 --> 00:29:59.599 a second, because just reading it again, my blood push one up. 403 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:02.400 Blood pressure went up, and I'm gonna read it again. I'm gonna read 404 00:30:02.400 --> 00:30:07.839 it again. The post said, I'm sorry, but if you're a mother 405 00:30:07.960 --> 00:30:11.640 and I see you post more about you than your kids, you're weird, 406 00:30:11.160 --> 00:30:17.440 bitch, You're wead. Why what are you talking about? Why do you 407 00:30:17.440 --> 00:30:21.400 want to say my kids so bad? That's strange? Okay, before I 408 00:30:21.440 --> 00:30:25.160 even get to that, though, I don't know what it is about society 409 00:30:25.279 --> 00:30:30.079 that makes them somehow forget before I had these kids, I was my own 410 00:30:30.119 --> 00:30:33.920 person. Okay, and just because I had these kids, that doesn't stop 411 00:30:33.960 --> 00:30:38.440 me from being my own person. Okay. My kids eventually will be old 412 00:30:38.559 --> 00:30:42.400 enough to have their own social media and that's where they can post them. 413 00:30:42.480 --> 00:30:47.240 Okay, But if we're talking about me and when I want to post it's 414 00:30:47.480 --> 00:30:51.640 me, I am a person before I was a mom, I was a 415 00:30:51.680 --> 00:30:56.279 person, and for some reason, society seems to forget that. All right. 416 00:30:56.519 --> 00:31:04.119 Not to mention girl in the criminal justice system sexually, I'm seeing crimes. 417 00:31:04.200 --> 00:31:08.759 It is handed like what you ain't ever seeing. Law Nordah Oh you 418 00:31:08.799 --> 00:31:14.680 don't. You don't know about Lieutenant Benson. You don't know about Detective to 419 00:31:14.839 --> 00:31:19.720 Tuala. Okay, you don't know about the strange, ass dangerous place the 420 00:31:19.720 --> 00:31:26.480 Internet is for kids. What's wrong with you? What is wrong with you? 421 00:31:26.000 --> 00:31:30.599 If you are one of these people who think that because I have a 422 00:31:30.680 --> 00:31:33.559 kid, I have to put my kid on my social media every day, 423 00:31:33.880 --> 00:31:37.839 you are dumb. And if you are one of these people who think that 424 00:31:37.920 --> 00:31:41.880 just because I don't post my kid, I'm not with my kid every day, 425 00:31:41.039 --> 00:31:45.319 you two are dumb. Like what is wrong with you? Like literally, 426 00:31:45.359 --> 00:31:48.279 I am the type of person where you might see my son in my 427 00:31:48.359 --> 00:31:52.680 story from time to time, You're going to see him on his birthday and 428 00:31:56.079 --> 00:32:01.519 there we have it. That's it Daily Law or I'm calling Yeah Show. 429 00:32:05.200 --> 00:32:10.000 Kevin said daily vogs or I'm calling diafas. But someone said social media people 430 00:32:10.000 --> 00:32:15.039 has fucked up. That's true. Like you don't understand how when you are 431 00:32:15.119 --> 00:32:20.200 out at your son's baseball game and you're posting his team and stuff like that, 432 00:32:21.359 --> 00:32:23.400 people can just google the team and find out where their next game is 433 00:32:23.559 --> 00:32:28.240 or where they had practice and pull up on you or your child. Like 434 00:32:28.519 --> 00:32:30.079 all jokes aside not even being funny. I'm gonna tell you why I really 435 00:32:30.119 --> 00:32:32.920 stopped posting my kid a few years ago, because I used to post my 436 00:32:32.960 --> 00:32:38.920 sign frequently. It was someone who worked in the cafeteria at my kids school 437 00:32:39.640 --> 00:32:43.279 and came up to him. It's like, yo, Leavi, I know 438 00:32:43.400 --> 00:32:47.640 your mom right now. Once my social media really started growing a few years 439 00:32:47.640 --> 00:32:51.880 ago, I realized that this could be a potential factor for me and my 440 00:32:51.920 --> 00:32:54.279 son. So we came up with a code word. If somebody says they 441 00:32:54.400 --> 00:32:58.799 know me, asks them what the code word is, and if they don't 442 00:32:58.839 --> 00:33:00.599 know it, they don't know me personally, they just know me from social 443 00:33:00.640 --> 00:33:05.559 media or the internet. And he understood that, and he understood the dangers 444 00:33:05.599 --> 00:33:07.559 of what could happen. You know what I'm saying, So old boy like, 445 00:33:07.640 --> 00:33:10.759 yeah, Leavi, hey, I know your mom and my son right 446 00:33:10.799 --> 00:33:15.200 as neck. What's the cold word right? I really wish I could have 447 00:33:15.240 --> 00:33:16.640 heard him come home and tell me the story. Funniest shit ever by the 448 00:33:16.640 --> 00:33:20.599 way, He's like, what's the cold word right? And he' like, 449 00:33:20.599 --> 00:33:22.200 what's you mean? Like it's it's not even that, it's not even that. 450 00:33:22.640 --> 00:33:28.839 My son immediately walks off immediately walks off, goes to the lunch room 451 00:33:28.880 --> 00:33:31.279 attendant and says, I need to call my mom. That scared my son. 452 00:33:31.400 --> 00:33:37.480 Y'all, that scared my son. Scared my son. I don't even 453 00:33:37.480 --> 00:33:39.359 know who this person is, but my blood is boiling. I want to 454 00:33:39.359 --> 00:33:43.400 fight. I want to fight. And yes, not the lunch lady, 455 00:33:43.440 --> 00:33:45.039 the lunch man. Yes, it was a lunch man. It was a 456 00:33:45.119 --> 00:33:49.680 man. It was a man came up to my son at his school. 457 00:33:50.079 --> 00:33:52.960 This was like two years or two three years ago, because it was before 458 00:33:52.519 --> 00:33:55.799 yeah, it was before COVID. It was before COVID. Yes, So 459 00:33:55.960 --> 00:33:59.559 I don't play that. I don't play that. So when I see someone 460 00:33:59.680 --> 00:34:01.839 saying stuff like if you post you more than your child, you're weird, 461 00:34:02.279 --> 00:34:07.240 bitch. You need to go to jail. You need to be in jail. 462 00:34:07.960 --> 00:34:13.000 You should not be outside, Cynthia said, I don't know if the 463 00:34:13.039 --> 00:34:15.559 code word will you have no reason to be around my son. So I 464 00:34:15.559 --> 00:34:17.960 didn't think you need to know the code word, but I will text it 465 00:34:19.000 --> 00:34:22.840 to you later on today. Thank you. Someone said no, thanks, 466 00:34:22.840 --> 00:34:28.079 Because they like to sexualize kids, especially going after single parents. Let's talk 467 00:34:28.119 --> 00:34:32.719 about that's because I almost work, got not to mention the petos out there, 468 00:34:32.960 --> 00:34:40.199 right, But there are also men and women who will target single parents 469 00:34:42.400 --> 00:34:45.960 and their way in will be the parents. But they're objective. It's the 470 00:34:46.039 --> 00:34:52.599 child. What was that show on Netflix? Up? And the guy ended 471 00:34:52.679 --> 00:34:55.280 up sucking the mom, the dad and taking advantage of the little girl. 472 00:34:58.159 --> 00:35:01.719 What you've never ever? It's a real story. So there was this guy, 473 00:35:01.880 --> 00:35:07.599 right, and he literally wanted the daughter. In order to get to 474 00:35:07.719 --> 00:35:12.800 the daughter, he had an affair with the mom, right, and then 475 00:35:12.920 --> 00:35:17.360 slept with the dad. The dad. Yo, if you're on Live, 476 00:35:17.519 --> 00:35:22.760 I know somebody knows what I'm talking about. Somebody has to know what this 477 00:35:22.800 --> 00:35:30.360 movie is. And he literally created a wall between a little girl and her 478 00:35:30.360 --> 00:35:34.400 sister in the same room so that he could just be with the sister. 479 00:35:35.079 --> 00:35:39.400 He ended up kidnapping her twice in her life from the parents, and like 480 00:35:39.480 --> 00:35:44.360 the first time, neither one of them wanted to go to the police because 481 00:35:44.400 --> 00:35:50.559 they knew they was fucking him on the low. Yo, what is this 482 00:35:50.639 --> 00:35:54.199 show called? This is gonna grind my gears? I'm trying to google it's 483 00:35:55.079 --> 00:36:00.639 what the fuck? The half of it? The half of it? No? 484 00:36:00.639 --> 00:36:06.039 No, no, oh, my god? Type in like man sleeps 485 00:36:06.039 --> 00:36:09.400 with mom, dad, and daughter, and he kept her thinking it was 486 00:36:09.400 --> 00:36:13.880 the aliens and that they yes, yes, yes, yes, he was 487 00:36:13.920 --> 00:36:17.280 telling a little girl that the aliens wanted them to be together, and that's 488 00:36:17.280 --> 00:36:22.280 how he was able to sight abducted in plain sight. Y'all look this up. 489 00:36:22.599 --> 00:36:27.000 Stop what you're doing right now, and look this up. The show. 490 00:36:27.119 --> 00:36:30.400 The show is called Abducted in plain Sight, and it is a documentary 491 00:36:30.440 --> 00:36:37.159 about how this man took advantage of this woman. The best title I ever 492 00:36:37.199 --> 00:36:39.320 could think of, it's called abducted in plain sight. And that is exactly 493 00:36:39.320 --> 00:36:44.199 what he did. He took advantage of this woman's family in plain sight, 494 00:36:44.840 --> 00:36:49.760 slept with the mom, slept with the dad, just so he can sexually 495 00:36:49.800 --> 00:36:53.719 abuse the daughter over two hundred times, over two hundred times, and he 496 00:36:53.760 --> 00:36:57.239 can napped twice once. He took her to Mexico or something. Right, 497 00:36:57.360 --> 00:37:00.920 Yeah, y'all see, y'all thought i'd be lying. No, it's a 498 00:37:00.039 --> 00:37:04.440 real thing. Drop this down for your notes, because you gonna you're gonna 499 00:37:04.480 --> 00:37:07.239 want to hear this. Yes, it is a real life story. Yes, 500 00:37:07.320 --> 00:37:10.320 it is a real life story. Nineteen seventy four From nineteen seventy four, 501 00:37:10.400 --> 00:37:15.519 and he was married too. I don't remember him being married. That's 502 00:37:15.519 --> 00:37:19.880 one of the most disturbing docuseries I've seen. Yes, it is a real 503 00:37:20.000 --> 00:37:22.920 thing. I promise you're gonna watch this joint. And if you have never 504 00:37:22.000 --> 00:37:24.920 talked to the TV in your life, this is gonna be one of the 505 00:37:24.920 --> 00:37:28.639 times you're gonna be yelling like one of them black ladies in the movie Theater. 506 00:37:28.679 --> 00:37:30.559 You're gonna be yelling like Brenda in the movie theater. Don't go in 507 00:37:30.639 --> 00:37:36.920 there, hold to some scared shit like this is gonna be you like, 508 00:37:36.960 --> 00:37:39.639 watching this is gonna be crazy. Yes, they were white. Why would 509 00:37:39.679 --> 00:37:43.880 y'all ex where they white? They were white? So there doesn't mean he 510 00:37:43.920 --> 00:37:45.719 can't happen to black people. Okay, you'll be thinking that, oh it's 511 00:37:45.760 --> 00:37:50.760 just because they white. No, I'm gonna let you finish. But can 512 00:37:50.760 --> 00:37:54.880 we get into them braised up? Thank you? You'll see me? Thank 513 00:37:54.920 --> 00:38:00.400 you? How the fuck do people fall for this shit? He is a 514 00:38:00.480 --> 00:38:05.000 master level manipulator, and he really was able to get under everybody's skin. 515 00:38:05.360 --> 00:38:07.480 And then at one point the mom didn't want to say nothing because he was 516 00:38:07.480 --> 00:38:10.519 like kind of black mailing a mom. Then he was black mailing a dad, 517 00:38:10.920 --> 00:38:15.599 and this little girl was just left in the distance. He literally told 518 00:38:15.639 --> 00:38:21.000 her that he was going to take the daughter to I don't remember if it 519 00:38:21.079 --> 00:38:23.920 was camp or the store or what. And he just disappeared with her for 520 00:38:24.000 --> 00:38:28.519 like three days, and the mom or the dad didn't go to the cops 521 00:38:28.920 --> 00:38:31.719 because A day felt stupid and b they know they was fucking him, so 522 00:38:31.760 --> 00:38:34.679 they were like, oh, well, he wouldn't hurt her, Like, 523 00:38:34.719 --> 00:38:39.360 you know, that's my bay, that's Bay chow chow. Yes, yes, 524 00:38:39.440 --> 00:38:44.760 and yes, someone said, throwing my chopsticks at the TV. That 525 00:38:44.920 --> 00:38:47.519 was me, I was yelling. Somebody said, yes, he was married 526 00:38:47.519 --> 00:38:51.239 and he had two boys. They used to go over their house and the 527 00:38:51.320 --> 00:38:54.199 wife was protecting him. That's crazy. I don't even remember that part of 528 00:38:54.239 --> 00:38:57.719 the story. I guess I only remember I was the traumatizing parts. But 529 00:38:57.760 --> 00:39:00.639 he had a long story. Short stop asking people why they don't put their 530 00:39:00.719 --> 00:39:04.559 kids or in their social media, especially if they are single, it's because 531 00:39:04.559 --> 00:39:07.760 of shit just like this, because somebody can see your cute little daughter in 532 00:39:07.760 --> 00:39:12.440 them croptops, you keep putting her in even though she's only four, and 533 00:39:12.559 --> 00:39:15.800 try to get to you, and you're thinking they're a perfect man or you're 534 00:39:15.800 --> 00:39:22.199 thinking they're the perfect woman whole time they're playing hid to rabbit. M It's 535 00:39:22.199 --> 00:39:27.079 a thing. Back then, you can get away with anything, no phones, 536 00:39:27.159 --> 00:39:30.079 no media exactly. Someone saying, nah, black people, don't let 537 00:39:30.079 --> 00:39:37.719 the whole family get backed. I'm not gonna say that, because everybody got 538 00:39:37.760 --> 00:39:40.559 somebody in that family that they don't trust with the kids. Everybody got that 539 00:39:40.599 --> 00:39:45.639 one funny cousin or that one funny uncle. So I'm not gonna say it's 540 00:39:45.760 --> 00:39:50.639 race related at all. It's a thing. It's just a thing. You 541 00:39:50.679 --> 00:39:53.239 can move eleven miles away and start a whole new family back then, agreed. 542 00:39:54.199 --> 00:39:57.760 So maybe that is why a little bit went out of hand. But 543 00:39:58.519 --> 00:40:01.280 yeah, that's it. I'm so sorry my allergies to acting up. Kevin. 544 00:40:01.320 --> 00:40:08.159 Would you like to get into edibles? Sure? All right, So 545 00:40:08.239 --> 00:40:14.599 the edible portion of the show is when I read questions, stories, comments 546 00:40:14.639 --> 00:40:17.039 that you guys might have sent in and if you would like to submit it 547 00:40:17.360 --> 00:40:21.679 on the day that we record. I always put a prompt on all my 548 00:40:21.760 --> 00:40:24.440 social media saying, ask me a question. If you have a longer story 549 00:40:24.480 --> 00:40:27.960 that you would like me to read or need a vice on, you can 550 00:40:28.079 --> 00:40:31.599 DM it to me at Stormy p Pea or at Chocolate Chip and Sip, 551 00:40:31.800 --> 00:40:38.320 or you can email it to me at inquiries at stormyp dot com. Okay, 552 00:40:38.320 --> 00:40:44.519 one more time. The email is inquiries at stormyp dot com. Okay. 553 00:40:45.320 --> 00:40:51.840 So first, someone said, how does a woman feel sexy for her 554 00:40:51.920 --> 00:40:57.000 mate when she doesn't even feel sexy for herself anymore? And I'm gonna read 555 00:40:57.000 --> 00:41:00.400 that again. How does a woman feel sex see for her mate when she 556 00:41:00.480 --> 00:41:07.880 doesn't even feel sexy for herself anymore? Boy? Oh boy, I feel 557 00:41:07.960 --> 00:41:12.920 this on a spiritual level because let me tell you, right, last relationship 558 00:41:12.920 --> 00:41:17.280 I was in like four years ago, Right, I was happy, y'all. 559 00:41:19.159 --> 00:41:22.400 I was happy. And you know what happens when you're happy in a 560 00:41:22.480 --> 00:41:30.679 relationship, You get fat? Okay, do you know what happens when you 561 00:41:30.679 --> 00:41:39.440 are happy and a relationship You get fat? Listen. This was the hardest 562 00:41:39.480 --> 00:41:42.719 lesson I had to learn in my life because I ain't never had none of 563 00:41:42.719 --> 00:41:45.679 this before. Okay, this was something new, and your girl got fat? 564 00:41:45.880 --> 00:41:51.519 Okay, I'm talking the heaviest I've ever been. Right. So the 565 00:41:51.639 --> 00:41:54.840 funny thing is, I didn't notice that I was getting fat until I was 566 00:41:54.920 --> 00:42:00.360 fat. I didn't notice I didn't know. I didn't know. So now 567 00:42:00.920 --> 00:42:06.840 subconsciously, I'm getting self conscious about myself and it's it's affecting my libido. 568 00:42:07.199 --> 00:42:09.679 Right. So I'm like, you know what, it's my man. I 569 00:42:09.719 --> 00:42:14.360 know he wants to have sex. So I'm gonna do something special when he 570 00:42:14.400 --> 00:42:17.119 comes home from work. I'm gonna put on some sexy lingerie and I'm gonna 571 00:42:17.119 --> 00:42:22.719 tell him check me now, right. The part I didn't factor in is 572 00:42:23.440 --> 00:42:28.840 I am now fat, okay, and I can't fit any of that sexy 573 00:42:28.920 --> 00:42:34.719 log right. But I'm like, I'm already here. I gotta go through 574 00:42:34.719 --> 00:42:37.280 with it. I gotta see it through my boy, Okay. So I 575 00:42:37.400 --> 00:42:43.400 put on the biggest, like one piece teddy that I have. It's like 576 00:42:43.440 --> 00:42:45.480 a body suit, right. So I put on this one piece body suit, 577 00:42:45.760 --> 00:42:50.719 and y'all, I'm looking like a canna biscuits. I'm busting out this 578 00:42:50.880 --> 00:42:57.719 shit, right. It's not funny. I'm looking like a cannabisiness. But 579 00:42:57.760 --> 00:43:00.199 I'm like, so what, I'm still gonna try, right, So I 580 00:43:00.280 --> 00:43:04.960 time it perfectly. I hear his car pull up. He comes through the 581 00:43:05.000 --> 00:43:08.880 house and I'm standing in the doorway with my arm up like some nineteen seventies 582 00:43:08.920 --> 00:43:15.840 pornell right standing like this right, and he goes, hey, man and 583 00:43:15.079 --> 00:43:22.119 puts his bag down. The walks in the kitchen, y'all when I say, 584 00:43:22.239 --> 00:43:28.719 I wear in a bathroom and cried, cried, cried, cried, 585 00:43:28.960 --> 00:43:35.920 cried, cried. Okay, I cried right. And the crazy part about 586 00:43:35.920 --> 00:43:39.800 it is we talk about it later and we didn't even end up having sex. 587 00:43:39.880 --> 00:43:42.880 I went in the bathroom, I cried, and I took my clothes 588 00:43:42.920 --> 00:43:49.119 off, and then I went laid down in the bed. So I wake 589 00:43:49.239 --> 00:43:52.079 up and I get up and try to start dinner, and I have an 590 00:43:52.079 --> 00:43:54.000 attitude, of course, and he's like, you know, what's going on 591 00:43:54.079 --> 00:43:55.519 with you? And I'm like, well, you know, I put on 592 00:43:55.599 --> 00:43:59.639 these sexy clothes and you know I'm trying to get better because I know that 593 00:43:59.679 --> 00:44:01.440 I haven't been doing what I need to do and making you happy. So 594 00:44:01.440 --> 00:44:04.559 I'm trying to make you happy and I want this to work for us. 595 00:44:05.239 --> 00:44:06.880 And he was like, yeah, baby, I was just worried about some 596 00:44:06.880 --> 00:44:09.719 shit at work, Like I didn't even Pete like, I'm sorry, I'm 597 00:44:09.760 --> 00:44:14.039 sorry if I made you feel that way, but I wasn't even paying attention 598 00:44:14.039 --> 00:44:16.599 to my mom was somewhere else that shouldn't help me none. I don't care 599 00:44:16.599 --> 00:44:21.880 about what you're saying. I put my badass in its logerait and you didn't 600 00:44:21.880 --> 00:44:25.440 even care, and I already felt like embarrassed about doing it. I say 601 00:44:25.440 --> 00:44:32.519 all this is to say I feel you. I feel you on a spiritual 602 00:44:32.639 --> 00:44:37.599 level because I have been there. And the only thing that I can say 603 00:44:37.800 --> 00:44:45.719 is if you are saying that you don't feel sexy because you are overweight or 604 00:44:45.760 --> 00:44:49.519 because you have gained some weight, right, because I feel like when women 605 00:44:49.559 --> 00:44:53.119 don't feel sexy, it's usually because they've gained some weight. Like, I 606 00:44:53.159 --> 00:44:58.559 feel like, at some point you feel like you got it going on, 607 00:44:58.760 --> 00:45:00.719 and then once things start changing, you feel like it's because of weight. 608 00:45:00.880 --> 00:45:04.639 Right, Like, what's what's the reason that a woman doesn't feel sexy? 609 00:45:04.679 --> 00:45:09.440 It's usually because of weight. So my advice to you would be take time 610 00:45:09.679 --> 00:45:15.440 to make yourself feel better with different forms of self care. Right, get 611 00:45:15.480 --> 00:45:19.199 your nails done, get your feet done, Go buy you a new outfit 612 00:45:19.360 --> 00:45:22.800 that fits, right, because you could be thinking to yourself, I'm not 613 00:45:22.840 --> 00:45:27.360 sexy because I'm busting out of this bodysuit like a cannabiscuits. But in all 614 00:45:27.440 --> 00:45:30.599 actuality, you look fine if you just went and got a bigger size. 615 00:45:30.119 --> 00:45:35.519 Right. So if it's lingerie, go buy you lingerie that fits you, 616 00:45:35.800 --> 00:45:38.039 okay, And niggas don't care what you look like in lingerie. You just 617 00:45:38.159 --> 00:45:44.199 want to linger. Get your hair done. Okay. Maybe go get your 618 00:45:44.199 --> 00:45:46.840 car washed, get your car detailed, buy you some new shoes. Do 619 00:45:47.000 --> 00:45:52.719 something for yourself first, because making yourself feel better first will give you the 620 00:45:52.800 --> 00:45:57.880 strength to want to be better for him. Shit, you will buy some 621 00:45:57.920 --> 00:46:01.119 new workout clothes that fit, or you just buy some new workout close period. 622 00:46:01.199 --> 00:46:05.599 Now you're more motivated to go to the gym. You you buy some 623 00:46:05.679 --> 00:46:07.639 different food in your house, maybe you're more more motivated. I meal prepp 624 00:46:07.639 --> 00:46:10.280 in X y Z if it has something to do with you know weight. 625 00:46:12.039 --> 00:46:15.679 I'm just gonna say, start by doing something for you first, because once 626 00:46:15.719 --> 00:46:19.280 you feel good, you have to strength to be better to make him feel 627 00:46:19.280 --> 00:46:21.920 good. But it's always about you first. You gotta take care of you. 628 00:46:24.000 --> 00:46:27.840 Here we go, Can I feed you them lamb chops? Why y'all 629 00:46:27.840 --> 00:46:32.320 like that? Okay, I'm trying to get my life right like a can 630 00:46:32.320 --> 00:46:36.760 of biscuit. Yes, y'all know them canned biscuits when you open it and 631 00:46:36.800 --> 00:46:39.639 they'd be popping out. Y'all know what I'm talking about. Oh we care, 632 00:46:39.760 --> 00:46:45.360 y'all, don't care? Shut up? Shut up. Gain weight from 633 00:46:45.400 --> 00:46:49.280 not shaking my ass in the club no more and laying in the bed doing 634 00:46:49.280 --> 00:46:52.320 growing up things. Put that trench showed on and it didn't go all the 635 00:46:52.320 --> 00:46:55.559 way around my waist, y'all. I gain weight because we literally was in 636 00:46:55.639 --> 00:47:00.000 the house just drinking like we were drinking in the house, were dream going 637 00:47:00.039 --> 00:47:05.960 out and literally the only exercise I would get would be at that time when 638 00:47:05.960 --> 00:47:14.679 I got super drunk. My mind told me I could do Parkore. Back 639 00:47:14.719 --> 00:47:17.199 then, when I would get drunk, my mom, I always knew I 640 00:47:17.280 --> 00:47:23.440 was drunk because in my mind out here Parkour like the offense. I swear 641 00:47:23.519 --> 00:47:27.119 to guy like I really wish I could call him and he could tell you, 642 00:47:27.159 --> 00:47:30.000 like, yeah, her drunk ass would That's how we knew she was 643 00:47:30.079 --> 00:47:32.199 drunk. She would start Parker like and I would be serious. I remember 644 00:47:32.280 --> 00:47:37.559 one night we was lit tour right and I go Parkour and I hit like 645 00:47:37.599 --> 00:47:42.719 a front roll and my head just kissed the fucking bathroom door, and he 646 00:47:42.880 --> 00:47:49.320 like, we're going to bed. He didn't really turn off all the lights. 647 00:47:49.320 --> 00:47:51.079 It was like, no, we're just laying down now, like we're 648 00:47:51.119 --> 00:47:53.400 done. We're just laying down. That's it. We're laying down. It's 649 00:47:53.400 --> 00:47:59.760 done. It's fucking done. And that's what happened. So I don't do 650 00:47:59.800 --> 00:48:04.400 that I'm doing anymore. I mean, I can still do part core, 651 00:48:04.719 --> 00:48:06.639 but I don't need to be drunk to do it. Is what I'm saying. 652 00:48:06.719 --> 00:48:10.760 You're reformed. I'm a reformed Parker Agent. Yes, thank you, 653 00:48:10.960 --> 00:48:21.800 Kevin, thank you. Okay, So my next question this one I kind 654 00:48:21.800 --> 00:48:24.000 of answered earlier in the show, but it says you have a beautiful personality 655 00:48:24.119 --> 00:48:30.920 and beauty. So why is someone with such charisma single? I'm single because 656 00:48:30.079 --> 00:48:35.360 everybody don't deserve me. Okay, I'm single because I'm not settling, right, 657 00:48:35.880 --> 00:48:40.320 I'm single because I took the time to heal and work on myself and 658 00:48:40.440 --> 00:48:45.880 take accountability for the fucked up shit I was engaged in and the fucked up 659 00:48:45.920 --> 00:48:50.280 way I was treating people. And I've said to myself, if I have 660 00:48:50.440 --> 00:48:54.679 taken the time to learn and correct my ways and develop the emotional intelligence for 661 00:48:54.760 --> 00:48:59.440 me, to be a good mother, a good girlfriend, a good wife. 662 00:48:59.760 --> 00:49:04.880 Right. I expect those same qualities in a man. Right. So, 663 00:49:05.480 --> 00:49:08.719 unfortunately, if you are not healed, if you have not found God, 664 00:49:09.639 --> 00:49:13.039 you do not need to be in my face. Okay, and I 665 00:49:13.119 --> 00:49:15.960 take that back. If you are not on your healing journey, okay, 666 00:49:16.440 --> 00:49:22.159 if you have not started to develop a relationship with whoever you may think as 667 00:49:22.199 --> 00:49:27.039 the creator, I am not the girl for you, and I refuse to 668 00:49:27.159 --> 00:49:30.920 settle for anything less than someone who can provide the same things that I can 669 00:49:31.039 --> 00:49:37.280 provide for them emotionally, physically, and mentally. I never said financially, 670 00:49:37.760 --> 00:49:42.239 because that's a journey in itself. I'm just saying, to bare minimum, 671 00:49:42.719 --> 00:49:47.480 I expect you to be able to reciprocate every bit and quality of love that 672 00:49:47.599 --> 00:49:52.440 I can give to you. And unfortunately, I'm just not settling for less, 673 00:49:52.519 --> 00:49:54.960 and I don't think anybody should have to. In my mind, that 674 00:49:55.280 --> 00:50:00.840 is the definition of settling. And I ain't with that shit. I don't 675 00:50:00.880 --> 00:50:02.800 want none of that, none of that, none of that at all. 676 00:50:05.159 --> 00:50:10.360 So the live says, who appreciate Mama preci I'll be trying to tell my 677 00:50:10.480 --> 00:50:15.039 sister this, don't settle work on my on yourself. Yes, yes, 678 00:50:15.280 --> 00:50:21.920 yes, yes. Um so the last question it says, and this one 679 00:50:21.960 --> 00:50:24.159 took me for a loop. Y'all, if you want to live listen, 680 00:50:24.360 --> 00:50:28.159 please tep in. I would love to hear what y'all got to say about 681 00:50:28.199 --> 00:50:34.639 this. Um. I'm a virgin and I was wondering how do I get 682 00:50:34.760 --> 00:50:42.559 laid now? This question came from a man, right, excuse me, 683 00:50:42.840 --> 00:50:47.400 fuck y'all, this question ill, I stank. This question came from a 684 00:50:47.480 --> 00:50:51.400 man, right, and he says, I'm a virgin and I was wondering 685 00:50:51.440 --> 00:50:54.800 how I get laid now. I went to his social media and it said 686 00:50:54.880 --> 00:50:59.440 something something ninety two. So I'm assuming he was born in ninety two, 687 00:50:59.480 --> 00:51:04.480 which makes a thirty thirty one. Right. He's from South Africa, and 688 00:51:05.559 --> 00:51:09.760 he did look young, like very good for his age. If he's actually 689 00:51:09.920 --> 00:51:13.639 thirty thirty one, he looks very good for his age. I would actually 690 00:51:13.679 --> 00:51:15.840 give him like Kevin, I would do you say that we think of as 691 00:51:15.440 --> 00:51:20.239 I don't know, probably twenty nine someome around there. Hell no, Kevin, 692 00:51:20.280 --> 00:51:23.880 I was gonna say like twenty two, twenty five, And either way, 693 00:51:24.960 --> 00:51:30.960 he looks super young. So first of all, I asked y'all to 694 00:51:30.119 --> 00:51:34.920 help me with some advice for this man. And the first comment I see 695 00:51:35.360 --> 00:51:37.199 says, pay for some pussy. Now, you know, I was thinking 696 00:51:37.280 --> 00:51:43.360 that, but I didn't want to say. If he is anywhere over twenty 697 00:51:43.400 --> 00:51:45.840 two and it's still a virgin, I do not want him to pay for 698 00:51:45.920 --> 00:51:49.920 pussy. I don't want him to pay for pussy, y'all. I don't 699 00:51:49.920 --> 00:51:52.280 want him to do that. I hate that for him. I hate that 700 00:51:52.400 --> 00:51:58.199 for him. Best case scenario, he's got to market himself, Okay, 701 00:51:58.400 --> 00:52:02.719 advertisements, you know maybe yeah, yeah, yeah, a billboard, you 702 00:52:02.800 --> 00:52:07.840 know, can sell that shit. Yeah, DTF, you know, right 703 00:52:07.880 --> 00:52:10.719 across a billboard, or looking for a committed relationship, you know, whatever 704 00:52:10.760 --> 00:52:15.440 he's looking for, he better come to America and come to a chocolate ship 705 00:52:15.480 --> 00:52:17.840 and sipshell and wear one of them down the wristbands and he'll get it done. 706 00:52:19.360 --> 00:52:22.880 Well, there you go, that's the answer. Someone alive said, 707 00:52:22.960 --> 00:52:25.119 pay for it to build up some confidence, pimp, and then try doing 708 00:52:25.199 --> 00:52:29.760 your thing on a day in sight. Someone said he can buy some good 709 00:52:29.800 --> 00:52:34.639 old, locally sourced coaching. Someone else said, sell his virginity, thank 710 00:52:34.679 --> 00:52:37.519 you. Someone else said, a nigga don't have to pay for no pussy 711 00:52:37.559 --> 00:52:40.719 in today's society, shaking my head. Wasn't there that thing where that one 712 00:52:40.800 --> 00:52:45.199 girl sort of virginity for million dollars or something like that? Yes, I 713 00:52:45.360 --> 00:52:49.519 told y'all before about that one lady who sold her coochie too. I think 714 00:52:49.559 --> 00:52:52.679 a Korean billion. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 715 00:52:52.880 --> 00:52:55.880 that's what it was. Y'all. Listen. I am going to say, 716 00:52:57.760 --> 00:53:02.519 if you have waited this long, than obviously you have had some type of 717 00:53:02.679 --> 00:53:07.920 emotional attachment to losing your virginity. So I did see you were single, 718 00:53:07.239 --> 00:53:10.960 So I'm assuming that you don't want to lose your virginity. You want to 719 00:53:12.119 --> 00:53:16.360 be with someone, and being with someone you will eventually you lose your virginity. 720 00:53:16.519 --> 00:53:20.840 Right, So I'm gonna say, let's take the sex aspect out of 721 00:53:20.920 --> 00:53:24.360 it, right. What are you doing when you're in mixed company with women? 722 00:53:24.719 --> 00:53:28.679 How are you approaching these women? How are you maintaining their intention? 723 00:53:29.119 --> 00:53:31.880 Are you making sure you're paying attention to love languages and what they like? 724 00:53:32.039 --> 00:53:35.920 And are you making them comfortable enough to where they feel like they want to 725 00:53:35.920 --> 00:53:39.360 give you kuci? Are you being super weird and being super sexual right off 726 00:53:39.440 --> 00:53:43.760 the back? Are you one of them wear my hug at niggas? Are 727 00:53:43.840 --> 00:53:45.519 you one of those? She tell you she about to go to sleep and 728 00:53:45.599 --> 00:53:50.440 you say, damn without me? Are you one of those? You're showering 729 00:53:50.519 --> 00:53:52.000 without me? Yeah? Oh we hate that. By the way, we 730 00:53:52.280 --> 00:53:55.760 hate the stop texting women that, we fucking hate it. But you have 731 00:53:55.920 --> 00:54:01.360 to think, like, what am I doing to where women don't want to 732 00:54:02.519 --> 00:54:07.119 grant me that access? Why am I not permitted to the next level? 733 00:54:07.440 --> 00:54:12.039 Because it can't be because you ain't got money, because broke niggas get coucie 734 00:54:12.079 --> 00:54:15.000 all the time. It can't be because you're ugly, because ugly men get 735 00:54:15.079 --> 00:54:20.079 couchie all the time. So it has to be you taking some type of 736 00:54:20.119 --> 00:54:23.199 accountability and saying what is making these women feel like they're not comfortable enough to 737 00:54:23.280 --> 00:54:28.920 give me that? It's probably either communication or the way you present yourself is 738 00:54:29.280 --> 00:54:30.960 really really what it comes down to. Yeah, my brother, do your 739 00:54:31.000 --> 00:54:37.719 snay, but you smell like, smell goods will catch a woman's attention before 740 00:54:37.840 --> 00:54:42.599 your looks or your communication skills? Ever, will you smell good? Smelling 741 00:54:42.719 --> 00:54:46.480 good will catch a woman's attention before your looks or your communication skills? Ever? 742 00:54:46.599 --> 00:54:50.800 Will if you smell good, you will get a woman to turn her 743 00:54:50.920 --> 00:54:53.639 neck quicker than you having a nice body, you being attractive, or you 744 00:54:53.800 --> 00:55:00.480 having money. It's the noose baby, Like, what's going on? Someone 745 00:55:00.599 --> 00:55:05.519 say he needs some creed? What is that? Someone else said he probably 746 00:55:05.639 --> 00:55:09.599 socially challenged? Were my hug at niggas? Yes? The trash trash? 747 00:55:12.280 --> 00:55:15.000 Someone said, I bet he's very odd. We don't know that, is 748 00:55:15.079 --> 00:55:22.719 he healed? I don't know, y'all. I'm just His Facebook page is 749 00:55:22.800 --> 00:55:23.760 kind of private, so I couldn't even see all of it. I can 750 00:55:23.840 --> 00:55:29.119 just see like his location and go through some of his pictures. But plot 751 00:55:29.159 --> 00:55:30.559 twist, he did look super young, so I really hope he is like 752 00:55:30.679 --> 00:55:37.159 actually of age and wasn't like stinging on here. Someone says, take your 753 00:55:37.199 --> 00:55:38.800 time and be patient. It will come to you as long as you carry 754 00:55:38.840 --> 00:55:44.320 yourself. Well, I agree, he better start tricking. It's too many 755 00:55:44.400 --> 00:55:47.440 homeless strippers because to be a version, he's in South Africa. Maybe there 756 00:55:47.480 --> 00:55:51.760 are no homeless strippers out there. Okay, did you think about that? 757 00:55:52.400 --> 00:55:57.039 Did you think about that a cougar would love to break him? Not gonna 758 00:55:57.039 --> 00:55:59.880 lie? You might want to go find you an older woman, she might 759 00:56:00.039 --> 00:56:02.960 be your best bet. That is good too, because you have a higher 760 00:56:04.000 --> 00:56:07.000 libido. At this age in her life, she has a higher libido. 761 00:56:07.039 --> 00:56:09.599 It just works out. It's hard to answer the question without knowing how much 762 00:56:09.639 --> 00:56:14.599 success he has had meeting and women. I agree because I wish it was 763 00:56:14.639 --> 00:56:16.840 more of an open form and that he actually wouldn't like emailed me so that 764 00:56:16.880 --> 00:56:21.519 we can have a few back and forths. Because I would be really interested 765 00:56:21.639 --> 00:56:24.320 to know what happened to the last three women he attempted to lose his virginity 766 00:56:24.400 --> 00:56:28.719 too, or he talked to or he was dating. I also would like 767 00:56:28.800 --> 00:56:31.480 to know what's his approach to women, what is he looking for right now? 768 00:56:31.760 --> 00:56:35.480 Like, if you're just looking to lose your virginity honestly, at this 769 00:56:35.599 --> 00:56:37.880 point, bro go pay for it. But if you're waited out this song 770 00:56:38.000 --> 00:56:45.519 because you want a specific attachment, we gotta self evaluate and take accountability for 771 00:56:45.599 --> 00:56:46.639 some of the stuff that we may be doing ourselves. You know what I 772 00:56:46.719 --> 00:56:52.239 mean. So let me scroll down, scroll down, tell him to tap 773 00:56:52.320 --> 00:56:54.320 in. It was on Facebook, Like, I'm not gonna hold y'all. 774 00:56:54.320 --> 00:56:59.559 So on Facebook, I have like a hundred and seventy thousand followers, so 775 00:56:59.719 --> 00:57:01.679 like a lot of this stuff really be coming from Facebook because it's just so 776 00:57:01.880 --> 00:57:06.960 much of it. Um, But yeah, my man, please tap in 777 00:57:07.199 --> 00:57:09.440 and I hope you're listening, and yeah, I'll keep us updated so we 778 00:57:09.480 --> 00:57:17.239 can possibly do a part two. Um, listen man as always follow me 779 00:57:17.320 --> 00:57:21.920 on the ground at Stormy p p e A At chocolate Chip and sip. 780 00:57:22.280 --> 00:57:29.559 And if you don't remember anything else, please remember breaking generational curses provides and 781 00:57:30.440 --> 00:57:36.800 m Breaking generational curses creates bougie as kids. I love you guys that I've 782 00:57:36.800 --> 00:57:37.719 seen you next week. Peace,