WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.359 Minnesota. Goodbye. We're gonna start off with Jamie for Massola. She says, 2 00:00:03.359 --> 00:00:05.519 you can say my name. My friend Sherry and I stopped by your 3 00:00:05.519 --> 00:00:08.960 booth on Saturday at the fair. It was by far the highlight of our 4 00:00:09.039 --> 00:00:12.519 day meeting you all. I met Drake and Jenny last year at a community 5 00:00:12.560 --> 00:00:15.119 mental health event, and I must say, it gets easier to talk to 6 00:00:15.119 --> 00:00:19.760 you the second time around. I was not a star struck. Let's see, 7 00:00:19.800 --> 00:00:22.359 I was not a star struck. Okay, Dave Ryan on the other 8 00:00:22.399 --> 00:00:24.920 hand of elizab for twenty two years or so, and I've never seen Dave 9 00:00:25.000 --> 00:00:28.960 in person. I was absolutely starstruck. I felt so weird because I couldn't 10 00:00:28.960 --> 00:00:32.799 stop staring. But it's surreal seeing your voice in person. If it makes 11 00:00:32.840 --> 00:00:38.079 sense, absolutely I get it. I understand. I couldn't stop smiling by 12 00:00:38.119 --> 00:00:42.000 my husband and Sherry reminisce with Dave on an event I get in ninety seven 13 00:00:42.000 --> 00:00:46.759 at Big Apple Bagels in Forest Lake. I remember that event for sure. 14 00:00:47.200 --> 00:00:50.759 You three were so personable and easy to talk to. I just wanted to 15 00:00:50.840 --> 00:00:54.280 know you to know how much we enjoyed meeting you and would love if you 16 00:00:54.320 --> 00:00:58.039 could give a Minnesota. Goodbye. Shout out to my friend Sherry as it's 17 00:00:58.039 --> 00:01:03.520 her fortieth birthday today on August twenty eight. Happy birthday, Sherry. It 18 00:01:03.600 --> 00:01:07.200 was a delight meeting both of you. Happy birthday. Thank you Jamie, 19 00:01:07.200 --> 00:01:11.680 Thank you Sherry. I appreciate that one. Next one, it says, 20 00:01:11.719 --> 00:01:15.879 show idea. Okay, okay, let's see what we got here. This 21 00:01:15.319 --> 00:01:19.200 could be interesting. I felt like I feel like I write it every other 22 00:01:19.280 --> 00:01:22.920 day, So feel free to block me in any time. This is from 23 00:01:22.920 --> 00:01:26.120 Shaleen. No, I will not, because I appreciate it. I'm putting 24 00:01:26.200 --> 00:01:30.599 in a pickup order and read the reviews on this flat bread. I'm cracking 25 00:01:30.680 --> 00:01:33.680 up reading the one I attached. I thought it'd be a fun game for 26 00:01:33.719 --> 00:01:37.079 you guys to play. One of you writes fake reviews and then you read 27 00:01:37.200 --> 00:01:41.480 real ones like this, and people have to try to guess whether you're reading 28 00:01:41.519 --> 00:01:46.239 one that you wrote or if it's a real one. This is brilliant like 29 00:01:46.359 --> 00:01:49.959 it. I think their websites dedicated to funny reviews, and I'm sure you 30 00:01:51.000 --> 00:01:53.599 guys would be able to come up with one as hilarious ones as well. 31 00:01:55.040 --> 00:01:59.079 Have a great week from Shay. So here's an example, one star out 32 00:01:59.079 --> 00:02:02.599 of five. Horrible product and experience. Perhaps the worst things, the worst 33 00:02:02.640 --> 00:02:07.560 thing I ever had in my mouth. Tastes like boiled and dried out old 34 00:02:07.640 --> 00:02:10.319 lady skin. That is super mealy. I bought two with cash, threw 35 00:02:10.319 --> 00:02:14.680 away the receipt and tried to return, but they refused to take them back. 36 00:02:15.080 --> 00:02:17.080 Threw them away in the store. Buy or beware. Wow. I 37 00:02:17.159 --> 00:02:22.680 wish I knew what it was reviewing, but no, write that down, 38 00:02:23.159 --> 00:02:25.120 Jenny. Jenny is like the note take her on the show. Because if 39 00:02:25.120 --> 00:02:29.439 I don't say, Jenny, write it down, I will remember that I 40 00:02:29.479 --> 00:02:31.199 had a good idea, or that I saw a good idea from Shay, 41 00:02:31.280 --> 00:02:36.680 but I won't remember what it is. So thank you Shay got it written 42 00:02:36.719 --> 00:02:38.479 down. I do. So I'm wondering if the one she sent in was 43 00:02:38.560 --> 00:02:42.439 what she said she was ordering, because didn't you say flatbread earlier? So 44 00:02:42.560 --> 00:02:46.080 is that about the flatbread? Makes sense totally, it makes sense. So 45 00:02:46.639 --> 00:02:50.199 thank you, Shay. Great idea. We will do that one next one. 46 00:02:50.240 --> 00:02:53.879 Congratulations Jenny, and fallon. I'm gonna make it short and sweet. 47 00:02:53.400 --> 00:02:59.840 Wedding venue and catered shopping is so much harder than it needs to be ninety 48 00:02:59.840 --> 00:03:02.919 seven percent of places hide their pricing behind request forms and take too long to 49 00:03:02.960 --> 00:03:08.400 respond. There's no way that everything recompeting venue and caterer doesn't have accounts on 50 00:03:08.800 --> 00:03:14.280 the Knot and other sites asking for pricing from all their competitors. Each year, 51 00:03:14.919 --> 00:03:19.479 it's twenty twenty three. Get a website with transparent pricing and let me 52 00:03:19.520 --> 00:03:23.439 make decisions based on that without fake automated responses and hoops to jump through. 53 00:03:24.439 --> 00:03:28.599 We are crossing vendors off our list because of how much work it takes to 54 00:03:28.599 --> 00:03:31.280 get a price. At this point, has anyone else run into this? 55 00:03:31.479 --> 00:03:36.800 Thanks Start and Lick and that is from They don't say their name, so 56 00:03:36.800 --> 00:03:38.479 I'll keep their name off of there. So they mean, if you go 57 00:03:38.520 --> 00:03:42.520 on the Knot and you want to get a wedding venue, yeah, they 58 00:03:42.560 --> 00:03:44.919 say, oh, tell us why you want to make whatever and make a 59 00:03:44.919 --> 00:03:47.039 request and we'll get back to you with pricing. Yeah. It's like it's 60 00:03:47.360 --> 00:03:51.439 there's so many websites that do that nowadays that you have to send them your 61 00:03:51.520 --> 00:03:54.199 email, You send them what you're interested in, and then they finally send 62 00:03:54.360 --> 00:03:59.080 over pricing eventually. Sometimes they even have like a sales call with you at 63 00:03:59.120 --> 00:04:02.520 first, I completely I don't know exactly what she's going through with wedding planning 64 00:04:02.599 --> 00:04:05.840 stuff. But there are different situations, like a lot of trainers don't put 65 00:04:05.879 --> 00:04:09.919 their pricing out there for people, so then you like, they do their 66 00:04:09.960 --> 00:04:12.120 sales pitch and they try to hook you, and then all of a sudden, 67 00:04:12.159 --> 00:04:13.840 it's like, oh, by the way, it's going to be five 68 00:04:13.879 --> 00:04:17.279 thousand dollars for three sessions. Here you go, Okay, that's an exaggeration, 69 00:04:17.600 --> 00:04:19.920 but that's what a lot of people do because they think that they can 70 00:04:19.959 --> 00:04:24.160 give you their whole sales pitch and hook you and then tell you the pricing 71 00:04:24.199 --> 00:04:28.639 afterwards, when we really just want to know what the price is. I 72 00:04:28.680 --> 00:04:31.480 would maybe compare it to going in to buy a car and you see the 73 00:04:31.480 --> 00:04:34.480 sticker price, but maybe you don't know what the price is. You can't. 74 00:04:34.480 --> 00:04:36.959 I don't know, but that does suck. And I don't blame you 75 00:04:38.040 --> 00:04:42.920 for blocking the companies that won't give you, but that must be the method 76 00:04:42.959 --> 00:04:46.680 now. It is. Like Another example was when we went to to Loom 77 00:04:46.720 --> 00:04:48.839 for a bachelor at party for my girlfriend this year. I helped with trying 78 00:04:48.879 --> 00:04:53.680 to find we were trying to book like this yacht split between all of us. 79 00:04:53.680 --> 00:04:57.519 It really wasn't that expensive. But every single company you had to send 80 00:04:57.519 --> 00:05:00.279 in your email, your information, your dates of when you wanted it before 81 00:05:00.279 --> 00:05:03.000 you could even get a response and an idea of what the pricing was. 82 00:05:03.040 --> 00:05:05.639 And that was so frustrating. I was like, why don't you just have 83 00:05:05.759 --> 00:05:12.399 it upfront because we can't afford something that is so outrageously priced. Why bother 84 00:05:12.560 --> 00:05:15.680 to like try to suck you in if you're gonna find out eventually you can't 85 00:05:15.680 --> 00:05:18.199 afford it, right? All right? Next one, and says Rebecca, 86 00:05:18.480 --> 00:05:23.800 I am wondering why KDWB plays a talk show on Sunday mornings that is usually 87 00:05:23.839 --> 00:05:28.000 filled with serious topics and interviews. I know that many radio stations switched to 88 00:05:28.079 --> 00:05:31.720 either a religious music or something like this on Sundays. However, it seems 89 00:05:31.759 --> 00:05:36.000 like if someone's turning on the radio station for KWB, they're looking for today's 90 00:05:36.079 --> 00:05:40.399 hit music. It seems like a really good day to turn listeners away toward 91 00:05:40.439 --> 00:05:44.519 a competitor. Just wondering what the thought is behind having such different sounding shows 92 00:05:44.560 --> 00:05:48.800 on Sunday mornings. Thank you. There used to be a rule from the 93 00:05:48.839 --> 00:05:54.000 Federal Communications Commission FCC that said you must serve the public interest, and we 94 00:05:54.040 --> 00:05:59.079 still have to and part of that is broadcasting what they call public interest programming, 95 00:06:00.160 --> 00:06:02.560 and so you have to do interviews. You used to have to do 96 00:06:02.680 --> 00:06:08.480 religious programming. I don't think we're required to do religious programming, but when 97 00:06:08.519 --> 00:06:12.920 I was first in radio, they would do religious programming. You were required 98 00:06:13.000 --> 00:06:15.399 to buy the FCC, so a lot of radio stations would play it. 99 00:06:15.439 --> 00:06:19.160 At midnight on a Sunday night, there was something called power Line, which 100 00:06:19.160 --> 00:06:25.839 is a very hip, progressive religious show. People would write in and it 101 00:06:25.879 --> 00:06:30.920 was easy to listen to and they would play Christian pop music. But power 102 00:06:30.959 --> 00:06:33.879 Line went away years ago, probably twenty years ago. But I think sometimes 103 00:06:33.920 --> 00:06:40.759 radio stations still are required to do programming in the public interest on Sunday. 104 00:06:40.800 --> 00:06:45.319 You bury it on Sundays because they the least listen to morning of the week. 105 00:06:45.879 --> 00:06:48.040 People are not getting up early like they are during the week. People 106 00:06:48.079 --> 00:06:50.959 are like on Saturdays, people are still up early because they're gonna go canoeing 107 00:06:51.000 --> 00:06:55.720 or they're going to go to the lake or whatever. But Sunday mornings, 108 00:06:55.720 --> 00:07:00.560 I think they are required to do serious programming in the public frist and that's 109 00:07:00.560 --> 00:07:03.120 why all stations are doing it. Some do at midnight on Sunday. They 110 00:07:03.160 --> 00:07:06.920 buried at eleven o'clock on Sunday. But that's probably why. Yeah, I 111 00:07:06.959 --> 00:07:11.079 think that's it A good question though. Going to hit delete on that so 112 00:07:11.120 --> 00:07:15.360 I don't wonder later whether I read it. Okay, So hello David, 113 00:07:15.399 --> 00:07:18.199 Jenny, love you both. Please don't say my name. Okay, y'all 114 00:07:18.199 --> 00:07:21.560 talking about mental health resonated with me. This came up last week on the 115 00:07:21.600 --> 00:07:27.000 show. I'd like to say that for people who really needed, medication can 116 00:07:27.040 --> 00:07:30.399 be a miracle. I lived life with anxiety and depression for twenty twenty five 117 00:07:30.480 --> 00:07:35.040 years since I was seventeen. I see a therapist regularly. Big diagnosed with 118 00:07:35.160 --> 00:07:41.160 major depression and chronic are a PTSD and chronic major depression. I've tried many 119 00:07:41.160 --> 00:07:44.959 different meds, at least twelve different kinds. I can remember some work better 120 00:07:45.000 --> 00:07:48.000 than others, but nothing really got me fully out of the slump. A 121 00:07:48.040 --> 00:07:53.879 couple of years ago, I went on a bill if I technically it's an 122 00:07:53.879 --> 00:07:57.600 antipsychotic, I believe, and it changed my life. This is the first 123 00:07:57.600 --> 00:08:00.879 time in my life I feel what I always thought nor would feel like. 124 00:08:01.600 --> 00:08:05.560 It's left me able to function in a way I never could before. My 125 00:08:05.680 --> 00:08:09.439 relationships are stronger and more connected. I made new friends, my work life 126 00:08:09.480 --> 00:08:11.560 is going great. I'm loving being a mom to my seven year old even 127 00:08:11.600 --> 00:08:16.040 more than I had before. I'd just like to urge people who say those 128 00:08:16.040 --> 00:08:20.120 meds don't even work to really see what A specific med may not work with 129 00:08:20.560 --> 00:08:24.399 everyone, but if you can find one that works for you, that is 130 00:08:24.439 --> 00:08:26.399 the best scenario. Thanks so much. I think that's you know, when 131 00:08:26.399 --> 00:08:31.439 I watch these commercials, it's like, are you on an antidepressant that doesn't 132 00:08:31.439 --> 00:08:35.879 work well? Add in this antidepressant and it makes me go, We'll do 133 00:08:35.919 --> 00:08:39.759 any of them really work? And I think some just don't work. And 134 00:08:39.799 --> 00:08:43.080 she kind of attested that one she was on twelve different ones that she can 135 00:08:43.120 --> 00:08:48.960 remember some work better than others. So it's just interesting to get people's experience. 136 00:08:48.000 --> 00:08:52.559 Because we were talking about mental health and medications. We've talked about klonopin 137 00:08:52.120 --> 00:08:56.080 extensively last week on the show because I was on klonopin and it's a very 138 00:08:56.159 --> 00:09:01.799 powerful anti anxiety that I compared to letting the water out of the bathtub. 139 00:09:01.240 --> 00:09:05.720 You feel it drain out of your body when you're on clone up and it 140 00:09:05.759 --> 00:09:09.279 just goes away until swirl, swirl, swirl. It's gone and it's amazing. 141 00:09:11.879 --> 00:09:15.840 Okay, next one hitting to lead on that one. Another one anxiety 142 00:09:16.000 --> 00:09:20.919 catching nut, says dear David flugel Binder and Jenny, which we used to 143 00:09:20.960 --> 00:09:24.559 joke was my real last name. I'm catching up on podcasts. So if 144 00:09:24.559 --> 00:09:28.120 this doesn't make the show, I understand. I have dealt with generalized anxiety 145 00:09:28.120 --> 00:09:31.360 disorder for decades. I've been on meds to manage. No Benzo's the best 146 00:09:31.399 --> 00:09:37.240 thing I have done for myself when I've been super ancious is to float. 147 00:09:39.440 --> 00:09:41.200 Okay, let's read on. Maybe it'll make more sense. Here's a website 148 00:09:41.200 --> 00:09:46.279 for the place in the metro that offers it, Awake Forwellness dot Com. 149 00:09:46.360 --> 00:09:50.480 During the session, you get into a warm tank filled with ten inches of 150 00:09:50.519 --> 00:09:56.480 water and one thousand pounds of epps and salt, making you float atop the 151 00:09:56.480 --> 00:10:01.039 water. You can choose silence or relaxation music, stay on for forty five 152 00:10:01.080 --> 00:10:05.679 to sixty minutes. They are also called sensory deprivation tanks. The experience was 153 00:10:05.720 --> 00:10:09.279 scary at first, but once I was sure that I could open the tank, 154 00:10:09.320 --> 00:10:11.559 freely and it wasn't actually a tomb. It was amazing. It felt 155 00:10:11.600 --> 00:10:16.080 like a mental reset. Leaving after the session in a world with so much 156 00:10:16.080 --> 00:10:20.720 stimuli, it was powerful to just be alone with my thoughts and to release 157 00:10:20.759 --> 00:10:24.639 that negative energy. I am in a school currently for my DNP degree Nurse 158 00:10:24.679 --> 00:10:30.320 Practitioner and encourage people to try non traditional ways to heal themselves along with what 159 00:10:30.360 --> 00:10:33.799 their doctor prescribes. Have a great day. If it works for you, 160 00:10:33.879 --> 00:10:35.080 it works for you, and that isn't going to give it to you again. 161 00:10:35.559 --> 00:10:41.320 Awake for Awaken, Awaken for Wellness dot Com. I'm not here to 162 00:10:41.320 --> 00:10:43.320 plug them. I can't endorse them. I can only say this is what 163 00:10:43.360 --> 00:10:48.519 they recommend. Jenny, we forgot to do something that we promised that we 164 00:10:48.559 --> 00:10:50.519 would do. I know well I was going to bring it up, but 165 00:10:50.559 --> 00:10:52.360 I thought we would say until the very end of this podcast. Let's do 166 00:10:52.440 --> 00:10:56.960 it. So. Dartlick is the t shirts that are selling at the State 167 00:10:56.960 --> 00:11:00.919 Fair, and people are buying these dart Lick shirts. How long have we 168 00:11:00.960 --> 00:11:03.480 got to explain? Dark? You have a minute and twenty seconds. I 169 00:11:03.480 --> 00:11:07.080 can do a lot in a minute twenty seconds. Let's go So Dartlick came 170 00:11:07.159 --> 00:11:11.720 up. Everybody who listens to the Minnesota Could Buy regularly knows the story of 171 00:11:11.799 --> 00:11:13.879 dart lick. So a couple of years ago, when Steva was on the 172 00:11:13.879 --> 00:11:20.480 show, probably in twenty twenty, somebody brought up eating ass. Okay, 173 00:11:20.519 --> 00:11:22.720 now here's where it gets vulgar, and I don't mean to get vulgar, 174 00:11:22.799 --> 00:11:26.639 but that's the way it gives. So Steve said, how do you even 175 00:11:26.720 --> 00:11:28.639 eat ass? Anyway? What do you do? And I said, I 176 00:11:28.639 --> 00:11:31.320 don't know. Dart lick, dart lick, dart lick. And we all 177 00:11:31.399 --> 00:11:35.480 laughed like, oh, dart lick, dart lick, dart lick. And 178 00:11:35.559 --> 00:11:39.120 so that became a phrase of the show. And so now people will sign 179 00:11:39.159 --> 00:11:43.480 off their emails with dart lick. And it's an inside, vulgar, disgusting 180 00:11:43.679 --> 00:11:48.480 joke, and we have it made on a shirt. And so my favorite 181 00:11:48.519 --> 00:11:50.919 picture of the State Fair this weekend is a woman with an angelic face, 182 00:11:50.919 --> 00:11:54.279 she's probably twenty five years old, holding up a dart Lick shirt. And 183 00:11:54.320 --> 00:11:58.919 I thought that poor woman listened to our podcast and found out what daricks is 184 00:12:00.080 --> 00:12:03.279 all about. So yeah, find it online, or yeah, find it 185 00:12:03.320 --> 00:12:05.879 online on Dave Ryan Show dot com. That is it for the Minnesota Goodbye. 186 00:12:07.000 --> 00:12:11.639 Need your emails as always Ryan Show at KDWB dot com.