1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:04,400 The next Stefan Good Day download with Doug and Jay Kirshner is made possible in 2 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:08,039 part by Keltron, which is the safe way for you to lose weight and 3 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:12,599 keep it off, and also by previagent keeping your brain healthy. So it 4 00:00:12,679 --> 00:00:16,600 is January. What is today the sixteenth? Right? Jay? I'm sixteens? 5 00:00:16,719 --> 00:00:20,800 Yeah? How are we already here in January? Bunga halfway through the 6 00:00:20,839 --> 00:00:23,719 month of January. You're listening to the Good Day program. I'm Doug Stephan 7 00:00:23,719 --> 00:00:27,039 along with Jay Kershner. James Collins is at the controls in our studio in 8 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:31,239 Dallas where it's cold and snowy, and I'm in Boston where it's cold and 9 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:36,640 snowy, and Jay is in Cleveland where it's cold and snowy. So what 10 00:00:36,759 --> 00:00:42,000 would be the best place, what would have the most appeal? If you're 11 00:00:42,039 --> 00:00:47,039 planning to have a trip to a winter wonderland, you could make a lot 12 00:00:47,079 --> 00:00:50,719 of choices right now. Although I don't think in Dallas they don't ski. 13 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:54,119 You don't have hills and mountains and stuff in Dallas, right, you have 14 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:58,200 nowhere nobody goes skiing. Yeah, if people want to ski in Dallas, 15 00:00:58,439 --> 00:01:04,760 where they go directly north do they go into the northern air, but there's 16 00:01:04,799 --> 00:01:10,200 nothing again in Texas pretty flat, but if you're a skier, does anybody 17 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,680 to talk about skiing there? Me and my family typically go to Colorado. 18 00:01:14,439 --> 00:01:18,480 Yeah, yeah, probably closest to go to the Rocky Mountains, Yeah, 19 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:23,519 Golana. Yeah, the mountain areas in New York and Pennsylvania. Here in 20 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:27,319 New England, New Hampshire, and Maine, Vermont, great places. Some 21 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:33,040 places. Massachusett's here Lenox, Massachuset iss a great place to go. It's 22 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:36,480 wonderful. Even though it's cold. There are things to do there, and 23 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:40,040 if you don't want to do anything, you just look at the snow dusted 24 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:45,159 scenery, which is kind of appropriate. Beautiful. Yeah, it's beautiful as 25 00:01:45,159 --> 00:01:49,239 long as it's not too cold. You know, yesterday where the caucuses were 26 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:53,159 held in Iowa, it was just too damned cold, just cold, cold, 27 00:01:53,239 --> 00:01:57,799 cold, the wind whipping around. I think some people were saying in 28 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:02,840 some places a couple of reports. Maybe we get corrected because it's easily reached 29 00:02:04,239 --> 00:02:07,000 us on our social media a Good Day Network. Some of the folks listening 30 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:12,280 in Iowa, was it thirty eight below with the windshiel factor? Did I 31 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:15,000 see that someplace, how do you get results? I guess doesn't make any 32 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:21,520 difference because anyway, Trump seems to have a firm grip on the Republican Party, 33 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,719 at least in Iowa he does. So see on to the next are 34 00:02:24,719 --> 00:02:27,800 going to go into a whole lot of thing unless you think we should, 35 00:02:27,879 --> 00:02:32,159 Jake, go into a whole lot of hula about the caucuses in Iowa. 36 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:38,719 It's what's the bottom line is that Trump won. Nicki Haley seems to have 37 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:45,919 some strength. She's on every television station, every radio station here in Boston 38 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:50,599 because most of the signals are important signals in New Hampshire. So they're spending 39 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:53,879 a lot of money trying to convince people that Trump's too old, Biden's too 40 00:02:53,960 --> 00:03:00,560 old. You want new, young conservative leadership. You vote for her in 41 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:05,319 the primary, which is January twenty thirty, Yeah, January, yeah, 42 00:03:05,319 --> 00:03:07,680 third, Well but yeah, I mean, like Trump basically won in a 43 00:03:07,719 --> 00:03:10,520 landslide, like DeSantis came in second, but it was a distant second. 44 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:15,280 He's out, he's gone, he's finished, He's he's a waste of time. 45 00:03:15,759 --> 00:03:19,960 He is He's always been a waste of time as far as I'm concerned. 46 00:03:20,039 --> 00:03:23,960 But at any rate. Trump is not a waste of time by any 47 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:28,280 stretch of the imagination. He's just he's as a matter of fact, he's 48 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,240 a time sucker, if you will. He sucks all the energy, the 49 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:37,120 time, the air out of the room and therefore gets I was thinking about 50 00:03:37,199 --> 00:03:42,919 him and how smart he is in terms of how he has commanded the news 51 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:46,520 media is so foolish. They fall for his sucker punches all the time. 52 00:03:46,199 --> 00:03:51,599 Right whenever he gets up in the court room and starts land basting the judge 53 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,960 or wherever he goes to do his stick, they're all there. Look at 54 00:03:55,000 --> 00:04:00,080 Trump, those outrageous things he's saying. He's saying, because you dummy, 55 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:04,159 you print all that stuff and you attack him and people. That's not really 56 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:10,400 as much as he's an attacker. It's not the American way. It isn't 57 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:14,840 the America that I grew up in that I like. It's just there's too 58 00:04:14,879 --> 00:04:19,399 much of this stuff. At any rate. It is dropped out yesterday. 59 00:04:19,639 --> 00:04:24,439 Good he's no good luck to him, see you later. He's a waste 60 00:04:24,439 --> 00:04:29,480 of time too, and Desander's will be dropping out. What well, well, 61 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:35,759 what was the comparative number between Nicky Haley and Ron DeSantis difference. Yeah, 62 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:42,040 Ron Desantas had eight delegates and Nicki Haley had seven, right, Okay, 63 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:47,199 so that takes care of that. The other popularity poll the Emmy's last 64 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:53,439 Night about the worst Awards show I have seen in a long, long, 65 00:04:54,079 --> 00:04:58,639 long time. I happened to like Anthony Anderson. I think he's a good 66 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:01,240 actor. I think he's very talented. I love his relationship with his mother. 67 00:05:01,879 --> 00:05:06,720 But when you hear welcome to the Chocolate Emmys, it's pretty much a 68 00:05:06,759 --> 00:05:13,560 turnoff for many people. But that's kind of how it turned out. I 69 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:16,399 think if you went through the list of winners to find some and this is 70 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:21,360 so politically incorrect, and I'm not going to apologize because I think that it's 71 00:05:21,439 --> 00:05:25,720 politically incorrect to do well all this stuff. The way to do just keep 72 00:05:26,199 --> 00:05:30,720 finding people who, in my estimation, don't have that much talent. I 73 00:05:30,759 --> 00:05:33,480 don't know the first thing about Beef, do you, Jay? What was 74 00:05:33,519 --> 00:05:36,160 that show? I haven't had a chance to see it, but that's on 75 00:05:36,199 --> 00:05:41,639 my to watch list. I think that Ali Wong is one of the funniest 76 00:05:41,639 --> 00:05:44,839 comedians out there, and she's a great actor. I've always loved everything that 77 00:05:44,879 --> 00:05:48,079 she's in but that is it's a mini series where two people just get in 78 00:05:48,079 --> 00:05:53,600 a road range accident. I think that's kind of the theme that follows the 79 00:05:53,600 --> 00:06:00,000 rest of the series. Say that again, what happens There's like some roadways 80 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:04,079 incident and then they have beef with each other. Oh, so every show 81 00:06:04,199 --> 00:06:09,319 is a different road rage incident. No, No, that's what that's what 82 00:06:09,439 --> 00:06:11,720 kicks off. Yeah, I think that's what kicks off their beef with each 83 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:15,040 other. There's some kind of road rage incident and then they keep crossing paths 84 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:18,920 and they just continue their beef with each other. Hmm. It's on mine 85 00:06:18,959 --> 00:06:23,680 to watch lists, not mine, and so is The Bear. The Bear 86 00:06:23,759 --> 00:06:29,160 had a lot of what I'm missing. Yeah, that's another one on my 87 00:06:29,199 --> 00:06:32,160 watch lists that I haven't seen yet. It's Jeremy ellen White, who was 88 00:06:32,199 --> 00:06:38,360 in Shameless. He's a great actor. He is I believe a private chef 89 00:06:38,439 --> 00:06:41,480 or something like or he's he's some kind of well known chef, and then 90 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:47,680 he goes and starts working with like his family restaurant or a hometown restaurant. 91 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:51,000 I don't know enough about the show. I just know that I want to 92 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:56,319 watch it. Well, it's interesting to see some of the shows like Succession 93 00:06:56,360 --> 00:07:00,199 that the shows that I came late to did okay. Sarah Snook was in 94 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:09,279 another outfit, this big red dress, and Hannah Wattingham was in a dress. 95 00:07:09,439 --> 00:07:12,839 Man, I'll tell you that. Does it sound sexist? I don't 96 00:07:12,879 --> 00:07:15,399 know that I need to worry about sounding sexist. There's just something about her 97 00:07:15,839 --> 00:07:23,759 that I find extraordinarily intriguing and the dress highlighted some of those things last night. 98 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:28,959 She's good. I think she's coming to you with celebrity status, mostly 99 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:32,120 because of Ted Lasso. There were some people in the audience that you watched 100 00:07:32,199 --> 00:07:35,199 last night. They were kind of the same people that you've seen in all 101 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:40,480 these award shows so far, and that's cool. It's nice to see them 102 00:07:40,759 --> 00:07:44,920 all together and interacting and stuff. I kind of liked the table approach where 103 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,879 people are sitting around a table rather than sitting in a theater, you know 104 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:51,040 what I mean, because in the theater, you don't really get you can't 105 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:57,120 have a relationship conversation sitting in the theater, but you can if you're sitting 106 00:07:57,160 --> 00:08:01,759 around in a more warmly set table or restaurants sort of dining. Yeah, 107 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:05,279 Golden Globes does that soon. I think the SAG Awards also do that. 108 00:08:07,079 --> 00:08:09,360 Yeah, yeah, So what's the next award show? Is the SAG Awards 109 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:16,399 show? The next one? People's choice. SAG Awards are I want to 110 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:20,560 say, February twenty fifth or twenty seventh, something like that, And I 111 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:24,199 all go around what the oscars are? Yeah, I think they're now, 112 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:30,000 but they're used. They're all earlier now and then they were so good, 113 00:08:30,439 --> 00:08:33,879 So that takes care of Yeah. Academy Awards are March tenth, and the 114 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:39,879 SAG Awards are February twenty third. Is there one other one who get the 115 00:08:39,919 --> 00:08:43,120 Grammys? That will come up fairly soon? I think too, right, 116 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:48,720 the Music Awards, So a lot of stuff that people February five, So 117 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:54,639 many choices of things to do and see and occupy your time with. But 118 00:08:54,759 --> 00:09:00,840 can you do something that is occupying of your time and still get you moving, 119 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:05,639 keeps you exercising, keeps your body healthy because we become couch potatoes, 120 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:09,600 right in a sense, you become couch potatoes and you sit around, especially 121 00:09:09,639 --> 00:09:15,279 when it's cold outside. Who wants to go outside? So there's still lots 122 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:16,879 of ways you can do movement. To tell you, there's a lot of 123 00:09:16,879 --> 00:09:22,240 great websites. I've found some of them that will do a lot for your 124 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:26,759 body. And when you do things for your body, you do things for 125 00:09:26,799 --> 00:09:30,879 your mind. It's just that simple. Well, the blood moving around well 126 00:09:30,919 --> 00:09:39,600 in your system very cool. So that's that I think the winter doldrooms will 127 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:43,039 set in upon us well and fast because the weather doesn't look like to to 128 00:09:43,039 --> 00:09:46,080 improve much over the next month or so. A little bit of this in 129 00:09:46,159 --> 00:09:50,039 and out, a lot of flooding in places where they've had a lot of 130 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:52,759 rain or snow, and it's just something that you kind of got to deal 131 00:09:52,799 --> 00:09:58,519 with. But it becomes local headlines powers out of a level, and so 132 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:05,600 we're here to offer some sideways overview into things that you can do to make 133 00:10:05,639 --> 00:10:09,679 your life better. And that's why we don't spend a lot of time talking 134 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:18,759 about the Republicans and the Democrats. It's I just as I think I am 135 00:10:18,759 --> 00:10:26,360 going to stick with this for just a second, because there's one thing that 136 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:33,039 is that's something that I find with all of these candidates, the faking of 137 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:39,159 outrage. Have you noticed that with these whether they're Republicans or whether they're Democrats, 138 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:41,360 or whether they're running for something, or whether they're just like on the 139 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:46,320 floor of the House or the Senate, the phony blogoney, fake outrage. 140 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:54,320 Can we leave that at the door so that you know it's it's the perspective, 141 00:10:54,240 --> 00:11:01,159 the panic, the politics. It's predictable and bor ring. Come up 142 00:11:01,159 --> 00:11:07,679 with you spake out. Yeah, it's a bunch of belney. Okay now, 143 00:11:09,519 --> 00:11:13,720 And I sometimes use that to I sometimes use that facility myself when I'm 144 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:16,759 trying to make a point. But the points of all we made are the 145 00:11:16,759 --> 00:11:20,600 new points the guys that are running a rolled Okay, I'm better, I'm 146 00:11:20,639 --> 00:11:24,240 younger, I could be a better conservative. I can out conservative you're conservative 147 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:30,720 by two. How's that? Or I can outliberalize your liberalism by three. 148 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:35,480 I'm three times better than you are as far as being a liberal is concerned. 149 00:11:35,519 --> 00:11:45,799 And here's what proves it. Okay, And and in the rolling world 150 00:11:45,919 --> 00:11:52,320 of celebrity and gossip and social media, Rebecca Roman and her ex husband John 151 00:11:52,399 --> 00:11:56,200 Stamos seemed to be getting a lot of attraction, a lot of attention, 152 00:11:56,559 --> 00:12:00,919 and I guess attraction too. Jay right, he has written a book, 153 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:11,080 he's written his memoir and apparently he wasn't very complimentary toward his ex wife and 154 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:15,279 who the marriage as a whole. Yeah right, all right, sony, 155 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:20,679 let's find out what it is she and her attitude toward her ex husband and 156 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:24,320 his book. So Stamus writes a book and he's out trying to sell books, 157 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:28,559 and she says, I'm not going to help you sell these books. 158 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:33,000 We did he say about her, And not only that, but an interview, 159 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:37,000 she's being asked about it, and she had said that she was very 160 00:12:37,039 --> 00:12:41,480 surprised by what was said in the book and she was initially shocked but also 161 00:12:41,519 --> 00:12:43,879 blindsided. And she's like, and that's all I'm going to say about it, 162 00:12:43,919 --> 00:12:48,159 because I don't want to give my opinion on anything and help him sell 163 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:52,200 any of that stuff. And so he was sharing his Everybody has their own 164 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,080 perception and their own their own truth, and he was sharing his truth on 165 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:58,519 their marriage that he felt emasculated in their marriage, especially with her career when 166 00:12:58,600 --> 00:13:03,960 Rebecca Remain's career started really taking off and John Stamos has hit a lull. 167 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:07,559 He also accused her of infidelity, and he went on to say that the 168 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:11,919 first marriage was so shattering to him that most people maybe they take a year 169 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:15,559 to get over. He took years and years. And back then in his 170 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:18,559 mind, she was the devil, she was the problem. He hated her. 171 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:22,879 How much he hated her actually ruined his life. But then when he 172 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:26,039 went into AA, one of the steps, the fourth step is you lay 173 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:28,279 out your grievances, and he was talking about her with a sponsor and she 174 00:13:28,399 --> 00:13:31,480 did this, she did that, blah blah, all of that stuff. 175 00:13:31,519 --> 00:13:33,080 And the sponsor was like, in what part did you play in the demise 176 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:35,799 of your marriage? And at the time he was like none. But then 177 00:13:35,799 --> 00:13:39,679 after reflecting more, he realizes, Oh, my perception was wrong. She 178 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:43,559 was not the devil. I played a big part in the end of my 179 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:48,120 marriage too. And oh, he kind of backround. But yeah, but 180 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:52,279 they're both they're both happily married to other people. And how long were they 181 00:13:52,279 --> 00:13:56,000 married good? They were married from nineteen ninety eight to two thousand and five. 182 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:01,879 M all right, And why does he think people would be interested in 183 00:14:01,919 --> 00:14:05,000 his life being married to her? What is there in a bod Well, 184 00:14:05,039 --> 00:14:07,600 that's just one of the chapters. That's not what the whole book is about. 185 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:11,159 With his memories, it's his it's his memoir. It's called If You 186 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:13,600 would Have Told Me, And it's basically just about his life and his celebrity 187 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:18,559 and begun full house and different things he's experienced. It's like, you know, 188 00:14:18,759 --> 00:14:24,159 all celebrities get you read it and they start doing memoirs. No, 189 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:31,519 I like, I'm not a memoir person. Yeah, I'm reading tea, 190 00:14:31,559 --> 00:14:35,080 but I'm sure it's a really great read. Yeah. Well, I guess 191 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:37,559 it depends. Everybody's different. See, that's what makes the world go around. 192 00:14:37,559 --> 00:14:43,240 We all agree on things. Whether you carry you don't care. At 193 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:46,360 least there's conversation about it, and that's enlightening. And that's what we're all 194 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:50,840 about here on Good Day. If I do say so myself, enlightenment. 195 00:14:52,039 --> 00:14:54,919 I'm Greg. I'm sixty eight years old. I grew up in Cleveland, 196 00:14:54,919 --> 00:14:58,679 Ohio. Majored in business administration. I do motivational speaking in addition to substitute 197 00:14:58,679 --> 00:15:03,639 teaching. Part of the reason for my motivational speaking is I kind of feel 198 00:15:03,639 --> 00:15:05,960 like I have a calling or giving back to the younger generation. You know, 199 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:09,320 the golden rule is doing to others you'd have them doing to you. 200 00:15:09,159 --> 00:15:13,679 My wife, Wanda, as a senior flight attendant, she's been flying for 201 00:15:13,679 --> 00:15:18,000 over thirty years. We do laugh quite a bit. I think most adults 202 00:15:18,039 --> 00:15:20,639 will start realizing that they don't recall things as quickly as they used to, 203 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:26,600 or they don't remember things as vividly as they once did. I've been taking 204 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:30,639 Privilegen for about three years now. People say to me periodical, Man, 205 00:15:30,679 --> 00:15:35,399 you got a memory like an alphant. It's really really helped me tremendously. 206 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:41,919 Proviagen Healthier brain, better life. Greg Freeley is a paid testimonialist and real 207 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:45,879 Privilegen user. Based on the clinical study of subgroups of individuals who were cognitively 208 00:15:45,879 --> 00:15:48,279 normal or mildly impaired, this product is not intended to diagnose, treat, 209 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:52,279 cure, or prevent any disease. We all are subject to the same sort 210 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:58,039 of things that keep us up or get us down. And I don't like 211 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:03,240 to put on ear what you hear from me and Jay can probably attest to 212 00:16:03,279 --> 00:16:06,679 this. I am I ams like Papa, I am is what I am, 213 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:11,120 I am who I am, and I have had the ability to at 214 00:16:11,159 --> 00:16:15,799 least engage a certain audience for a lot of years, and that's because I 215 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:22,919 think that there is always something else to be said, and it's usually I 216 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:27,559 was introduced by college one of my three favorite professors in college. I was 217 00:16:27,639 --> 00:16:33,559 the director of music department at Heidelberg's name was Ferris Old, and we were 218 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:37,559 on We had the best college choir in our division in the country. We 219 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:41,600 travel around the country in the world, and I was the business manager. 220 00:16:41,600 --> 00:16:45,960 So he would introduce me to we'd stay. We'd always perform in a big 221 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:49,080 hall, a school or a church or something. And so when we get 222 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:52,639 there, we get off the bus as we've be setting things up, and 223 00:16:52,759 --> 00:16:57,559 Ferris would bring me around to meet the minister or whoever was in charge. 224 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:03,359 And he I remember reminding him of this on his one hundredth birthday. He 225 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:06,519 looked at me and he said, did I say that? And I said, 226 00:17:06,559 --> 00:17:08,480 yeah. He always introduced me. My given name is Dudley. Do 227 00:17:08,559 --> 00:17:14,000 you dl ey Dudley Stephan. This is Dudley Stephan. He always has something 228 00:17:14,039 --> 00:17:18,799 to say when there's nothing to be said. So if nothing else makes it 229 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:22,559 to a moniker at the end of my time, perhaps that's something that can 230 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:27,119 hang over a picture of mine somewhere, Jay, you can be responsible for 231 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:33,160 that. Meanwhile, the skills that we have here, all of us. 232 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:37,119 You have a skill, I have a skill. We all have careers that 233 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:41,240 we choose. There are a lot of projects to work on in life, 234 00:17:41,039 --> 00:17:48,200 limitless things that you can do with your time. So if you want to 235 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:55,000 make a significant contribution using your talent, your ambition, it's something that we 236 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:57,279 need to you know, you've got to have attention. First of all. 237 00:17:57,319 --> 00:18:03,960 The most important thing, right is to have attention. Attention to detailed attention 238 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:11,119 to whatever the businesses or to what you're doing. It's and to tap into 239 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:14,839 that sometimes is one of the when you realize how to do it, whether 240 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:18,400 you even realize that that's what you're doing, that's the other thing. Sometimes 241 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:22,240 people just have it instinctually and they just do it. I've always been very 242 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:26,680 inquisitive, and I think that's led me to I have a decent personality in 243 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:30,480 a decent voice, and I have a decent work ethic. So I think 244 00:18:30,519 --> 00:18:36,640 that's led me into what I'm doing. But that's I didn't It didn't. 245 00:18:36,839 --> 00:18:40,519 It wasn't work for me, that's the best way to put it. That's 246 00:18:40,519 --> 00:18:44,880 why James said, I sounded electric. This isn't like heavy work for me. 247 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:49,079 This is meat and I have the ability. Yeah, right, nice, 248 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:53,960 if you can you can combine things that you know you can you're fairly 249 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,160 good at, and you really like doing and you make a couple of bucks 250 00:18:57,160 --> 00:19:02,680 at it. I mean, what else is there here? So the ones 251 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:07,039 And that's one of the reasons that America is so great because we can create 252 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:11,759 a business. We can take an idea, and you really can't do it 253 00:19:11,799 --> 00:19:15,559 as well anyplace else as you can hear. Even though there's too damn much 254 00:19:15,559 --> 00:19:19,440 government and we are really hampered by too many laws and rules and regulations, 255 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:25,640 it still is the best place to get things going. So anyway, I 256 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:27,279 have some people in the news today, Jay, would you like to hear 257 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:36,880 about the Pope Number one Francis defending his decision to let priests bless same sex 258 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:41,960 couples. He admitted, though the other day that quote solitude is a price 259 00:19:41,039 --> 00:19:47,440 you have to pay when you make a difficult decision. He doubled down as 260 00:19:47,519 --> 00:19:51,519 a matter of fact, saying that he was undersgrad He wasn't running away from 261 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:55,680 what he said. He was, in fact adding to it by saying, 262 00:19:55,680 --> 00:20:02,759 the Lord blesses everyone. He acknowledged the remarkable opposition that his decision is sparked. 263 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:07,519 For example, down in Africa, the bishops have united in a refusal 264 00:20:07,599 --> 00:20:12,880 to implement this declaration. Individual bishops in parts of Europe and Latin America also 265 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:21,920 a voiced opposition, but he restated traditional church teaching. Marriage is a lifelong 266 00:20:22,039 --> 00:20:26,799 union between a man and a woman. But there's the big butt. It 267 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:33,799 allows priests to offer spontaneous, non liturgical blessings to same sex couples seeking God's 268 00:20:33,799 --> 00:20:38,240 grace in their lives, providing blessings aren't confused with the rights and rituals of 269 00:20:38,279 --> 00:20:48,799 a wedding. I don't back down now. It's a yeah, I know, 270 00:20:48,839 --> 00:20:52,680 but why would you? Why did people care? But I don't get 271 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:57,440 people do. And we always hear these things about a bakery who wantn't do 272 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:03,480 a cake or something like that for and at the same time, though it's 273 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:08,279 one of those things of let if I were getting married to a woman, 274 00:21:08,559 --> 00:21:14,119 I would want to know that the person who is going to marry us stands 275 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:18,319 by us. I wouldn't want someone to go against what they're doing, or 276 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:22,640 go against their own morals or values and kind of start off with a hatred 277 00:21:22,799 --> 00:21:26,079 in our nuptials. I wouldn't want somebody who hates me to bake me a 278 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:32,240 cake. It's almost like as as awful as it is, as awful as 279 00:21:32,279 --> 00:21:36,240 it is, Yeah, like everybody should be treated the same, and then 280 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,599 just why is it such an issue. If you don't like gay marriage, 281 00:21:38,599 --> 00:21:42,359 then don't get gay married. But at the same time, let's let people. 282 00:21:42,599 --> 00:21:45,920 Yeah, if people want to be hateful, then let's at least let 283 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,440 them identify themselves so we know who we're dealing with, right, and then 284 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:52,400 we can we can give somebody else our money. Yeah. I wouldn't waste 285 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:56,400 my time going to a bakery shop or any place and they don't like you, 286 00:21:56,519 --> 00:22:00,799 go somewhere where they do. That's it. The next person in the 287 00:22:00,839 --> 00:22:07,440 news is Madison marsh The Miss America this year is a US Air Force officer. 288 00:22:08,799 --> 00:22:14,079 She said in her thank you speech, the sky is not the limit, 289 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:18,680 get it. She's a pilot. Sky is nothing. She's like on 290 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:22,799 our way to be a top gun. Yeah. I think she's really very 291 00:22:22,799 --> 00:22:26,279 interesting. Lady, small town lady. She made it to the pageant. 292 00:22:26,319 --> 00:22:32,039 Second lieutenant in the Air Force, active duty Air Force officer, first one 293 00:22:32,519 --> 00:22:37,319 to ever get this far. I think there was somebody. Let's see, 294 00:22:37,319 --> 00:22:41,160 the last Miss America was Gray Stinky. Came from Wisconsin. I think she 295 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:47,279 was a farm girl, if I'm not mistaken anyway. So she posted on 296 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:51,519 x The people in the Air Force are very proud of her. As you 297 00:22:51,519 --> 00:22:55,880 can imagine, there are fifty one contestants day this year all the states. 298 00:22:55,880 --> 00:23:00,799 In the district of Columbia, ten contestants entered the pageant, and I did 299 00:23:00,839 --> 00:23:06,200 not see a picture of her. I'm guessing that she's probably good looking, 300 00:23:06,279 --> 00:23:14,480 which she's also accomplished. And she talked about drugs in America in the talent 301 00:23:14,559 --> 00:23:21,160 show around she spoke, she opted for a spoken word about receiving a pilot's 302 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,720 license when she was sixteen. See going back to what I said a few 303 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:29,079 minutes ago, find what you're good at, find what you like at whatever. 304 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:30,440 As a lot of people when they're eight, nine, ten years old 305 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,440 say I want to be an engineer, I want to be a scientist, 306 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:37,319 I want to be whatever it is you want to be. And there are 307 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:40,559 so many Simpson classes and groups she can be a part of to nurture that 308 00:23:41,039 --> 00:23:44,680 and see if it's something that truly truly does work out. I think a 309 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,400 lot of times we want to do something and then we realize we're not good 310 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:49,640 enough at it to make it a career. But it can at least be 311 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:52,359 a hobby and then we focus on what we can, what we are good 312 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:56,400 at is make us money. But with Madison Marsh, she's a Harvard student 313 00:23:56,599 --> 00:24:00,200 and on her way to either being a top gun or a cancer researcher. 314 00:24:00,559 --> 00:24:04,079 I mean, this is just an incredible human being who is not only going 315 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:07,160 to go places, but going to bring the world with her. Yeah. 316 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:15,599 Not the longer that Miss Colorado before she was Miss America. People still complaining 317 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,880 this is a sexist thing, and their protests outside they used to be that 318 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:22,440 was more not Miss America but Miss Universe. That was a Trump thing. 319 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:23,519 Trump. Well, I think it kind of did. Used to be a 320 00:24:23,519 --> 00:24:30,200 pretty sexist with the swimsuit competition and they were objectified with their bodies and everything, 321 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:33,480 where it lost what the point was originally, where it's a scholarship program 322 00:24:33,559 --> 00:24:37,519 and it is a platform to yeah, bring awareness to different things. And 323 00:24:37,559 --> 00:24:41,480 I think it's more so getting back in line with what it was always meant 324 00:24:41,519 --> 00:24:45,599 to be. I think you're right. Next person in the news is Frederick 325 00:24:45,759 --> 00:24:49,039 the tenth, the new King of Denmark. The only reason I brought this 326 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:53,880 up was because last week we were talking about his mother, Queen Margaret abdicating 327 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:59,319 the throne and then we all said, huh, there's a king in Denmark. 328 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:04,039 So yeah, I just thought you'd like to know that her son is 329 00:25:04,079 --> 00:25:07,440 succeeding him. All right, that's a bout. The only thing that has 330 00:25:07,519 --> 00:25:14,359 value there is the sun is on the throne. John Kerry, president of 331 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:22,599 candidate senator from Massachusetts, involved in political circles, Vietnam protester, all kinds 332 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:27,720 of stuff wrapped into one. He was Secretary of State as well, tapped 333 00:25:29,079 --> 00:25:34,759 to be the climate change person. Is leaving, and so I guess so 334 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:41,880 what? Okay, yea adios. I read much use for him, but 335 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:45,039 that's just me. A lot of people thought he was great. You he's 336 00:25:45,079 --> 00:25:49,400 a very arrogant. He gives, you know, the arrogance of well, 337 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:53,240 I don't want to I don't want to feed into the type casting, so 338 00:25:53,279 --> 00:25:57,640 I'll just leave it. Here's the story of another person named Chris Battle, 339 00:26:00,519 --> 00:26:04,319 who is a pastor of a church or was. He left the church to 340 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:11,880 feed the hungry on his urban farm to see this. He is in East 341 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:18,480 Knoxville, Tennessee. You know, East Knoxville is a fairly rural area in 342 00:26:18,519 --> 00:26:25,519 the mountains. He reads from the Bible, congregation warms themselves small fire. 343 00:26:26,039 --> 00:26:33,720 He has okra cabage onions, freshly picked things from his garden on his property, 344 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:41,680 and he is going. He goes to nearby farmers' markets after the service 345 00:26:41,799 --> 00:26:45,000 is over to bring things to sell to people. I guess he gives things 346 00:26:45,039 --> 00:26:49,920 to some people as well. Sixty two years old, senior pastor pastor A 347 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:56,200 pastor, Good Doug, pastor at the Tabernacle Baptist Church, one of Knoxville's 348 00:26:56,279 --> 00:27:03,599 oldest Baptist congregations, grows and delivers fresh produce to residents. I thought, 349 00:27:03,599 --> 00:27:08,000 there's a good story. Yeah, it is good guy. Yep, let's 350 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:17,839 hear it for him. Okay. 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Mm hmm. 378 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:18,039 Harry Styles is an incredible musician. He's just a fantastic artist. And you 379 00:29:18,079 --> 00:29:22,880 know what, he's really nice to look at. Oh, okay, you 380 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:26,480 think Olivia is as well? Oh yeah, I think she's gorgeous. Mm 381 00:29:26,519 --> 00:29:30,400 hmm. Okay, So why didn't they make it? He's too young for 382 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:34,880 her. Wasn't he like fifteen years younger than she was? Uh? I 383 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:38,599 don't know why they didn't make it. I know he was going on tour. 384 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:44,000 Maybe that was one of those just a season. Some people come into 385 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,240 your life for a season. Some people come in for a reason. That's 386 00:29:47,279 --> 00:29:49,240 it. I got that. I've had that about fifteen times in my life. 387 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:55,599 Okay, learned a lot of lessons. Okay, good pop singer, 388 00:29:55,680 --> 00:30:03,160 Yeah, good good pop songs. A big was he like a nineties guy. 389 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:06,880 When did he first emerge on the scene, Harry Styles, It wasn't 390 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,160 like the sometime in the arts, I want to say the later odds he 391 00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:14,759 came from that? What was it not X Factor, Britain's Got Talent, 392 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:18,839 Britain's Got Talent and yeah, and they created one direction on that because all 393 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,880 of the artists they tried to come in and do their own solo thing, 394 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:23,599 but they didn't make it. So they formed a team or they formed them 395 00:30:23,599 --> 00:30:26,279 as a team, and they ended up winning the whole competition and became this 396 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:32,440 boy band crazed phenomenon all over in the world with one direction. Right, 397 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:37,680 So why was he considered for a role in the Mean Girls movies? That's 398 00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:40,640 out? Now? What is there about it? Someone just had the idea, 399 00:30:41,079 --> 00:30:44,799 Well, the original Mean Girls had so many iconic lines. So when 400 00:30:44,799 --> 00:30:48,279 they were doing the Mean Girls musical, which the it was based on the 401 00:30:48,279 --> 00:30:52,799 Broadway play, which the Broadway play is based on the original film, and 402 00:30:52,839 --> 00:30:56,599 there's just this one line where they're doing I don't know if you all had 403 00:30:56,599 --> 00:31:00,240 this when you were in school, but on like Valentine's Day or Sweetest you 404 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:03,279 could buy a carnation or a rose for people or different things and yeah, 405 00:31:03,279 --> 00:31:06,680 for your friends and all of that, and it's one of those days and 406 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,799 there's this one of like three for you, Glen Coco. You go Glen 407 00:31:10,799 --> 00:31:11,759 Coco and they're like, okay, So this is an iconic line. Who 408 00:31:11,759 --> 00:31:15,720 should Glen Coco be in? Somebody was like Harry Styles, Harry Styles needs 409 00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,200 to be Glen Coco. I don't know why it didn't work out, but 410 00:31:18,519 --> 00:31:23,680 he was considered for like a cameo role of Glen Conco. Sounds to me 411 00:31:23,759 --> 00:31:27,759 like much ado but nothing but no, but it's fascinating. If you love 412 00:31:27,799 --> 00:31:33,599 me and girls and Harry Styles, why do you love is Lindsay Lohan and 413 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:37,359 this one Rachel McAdams was who was in the original James you saw this? 414 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:41,559 I don't know do any of them make cameo appearances. Lindsay Lohan makes a 415 00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,920 cameo appearance in this, not as her original role but as someone else. 416 00:31:45,079 --> 00:31:48,880 And then Tina Fey returns the principal and the old one returns, but then 417 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:53,400 the rest is newcasts. Rachel McAdams didn't show up, and Amanda Sea freed 418 00:31:55,000 --> 00:32:00,200 no I don't think so, okay, all right, well it's been a 419 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:04,400 classic. In a manner of speaking, it's such a cult. The next 420 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:07,799 Stefan Good Day download with Doug and Jay Kirshner is made possible in part by 421 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:12,640 Caltron, which is the safe way for you to lose weight and keep it 422 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,960 off, and also by Previlegent, keeping your brain healthy.