WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.160 --> 00:00:11.039 This is Pod Popular Podcast for the People, The Great Love Debate. It's 2 00:00:11.039 --> 00:00:17.480 the Great Love Debate, the Great Love Debate. It's a Great Love Debase. 3 00:00:17.879 --> 00:00:22.320 Hi again, everyone's Brian how We welcome to the Great Love Debate, 4 00:00:22.359 --> 00:00:26.559 the world's number one dating and relationship podcast since twenty fifteen. I am back 5 00:00:26.600 --> 00:00:31.920 here in the very very fine studios of Pod Popular Podcast for the People. 6 00:00:32.119 --> 00:00:35.399 I'm at the one in Boca Ratone, Florida. It's very nice here this 7 00:00:35.439 --> 00:00:38.719 time of year. If you got some miles saved up, go to Bogo, 8 00:00:38.759 --> 00:00:44.719 Ratone, Florida. Anyway, I I remember about eight years ago. 9 00:00:47.479 --> 00:00:51.240 I don't remember the circumstance. Maybe I got a resume or something and the 10 00:00:51.359 --> 00:00:58.079 name on the resume was like Amber or Brittany or something like that, and 11 00:00:58.200 --> 00:01:03.719 I just assumed that person was good looking because of the name, which is 12 00:01:03.759 --> 00:01:07.920 insane. You know, no offense any names out there. I just assumed. 13 00:01:07.400 --> 00:01:11.159 And there's no way that should correlate at all, that like no offense 14 00:01:11.200 --> 00:01:15.959 to a Martha or something like that, but that there was a name on 15 00:01:17.040 --> 00:01:19.719 it, and you just assume certain names go with attractive people. I don't 16 00:01:19.840 --> 00:01:23.959 know why that is. There's also a thing that I was thinking about that 17 00:01:23.079 --> 00:01:27.319 certain occupations are more attractive, and I don't think it has anything to do 18 00:01:27.359 --> 00:01:32.400 with money. And I'll get into the ones that I think from male perspectives 19 00:01:32.400 --> 00:01:34.640 like, oh wow, she must be hot because of that. And I've 20 00:01:34.680 --> 00:01:42.200 always been fascinated by the jobs that women are attracted to. So I'm bringing 21 00:01:42.200 --> 00:01:45.920 in a pro who has so many insight and all that. She has been 22 00:01:46.079 --> 00:01:49.280 on this podcast before. She's doing a lot of good work for what we 23 00:01:49.319 --> 00:01:53.760 eat and how we eat it. She's known as the farm babe, far 24 00:01:53.840 --> 00:01:56.640 and wide Michelle Miller. How are you, hey? Good? How are 25 00:01:56.680 --> 00:01:59.719 you doing? That's a thing, right, Women are like, I wanna 26 00:02:00.359 --> 00:02:04.480 fireman, I want a cowboy, I want a farmer. I want a 27 00:02:04.519 --> 00:02:07.760 baseball player. I know a girl who married a baseball player because she thought 28 00:02:07.760 --> 00:02:10.439 he's gonna go pro. He doesn't go pro. He teaches high school baseball 29 00:02:10.680 --> 00:02:15.280 and coaches high school baseball. He teaches Jim. She's just like, I 30 00:02:15.560 --> 00:02:17.800 don't know, I always want to marry a baseball player. Yeah, and 31 00:02:17.840 --> 00:02:21.919 the chances of them making it are so slim, right, So that's why 32 00:02:21.919 --> 00:02:23.960 I think I don't think it's about the money. Yeah, not necessarily, 33 00:02:24.000 --> 00:02:29.199 but there's definitely some sexiness to something like that. Okay. On the topic 34 00:02:29.240 --> 00:02:32.879 of names, numbers are usually really pretty guys. Hi, Guys named Luke 35 00:02:32.960 --> 00:02:37.879 are really hot. Yeah, that's a good point. Luke's are hot. 36 00:02:37.960 --> 00:02:42.639 I would think a Dylan is better looking than a Bob or Brian, you 37 00:02:42.680 --> 00:02:45.919 know, I think so like. I think that's so bizarre because you're just 38 00:02:46.360 --> 00:02:51.400 deeming. And most of the time the parents have chosen the child's name before 39 00:02:51.439 --> 00:02:53.159 they even born. It's not like they looked at him was like, oh 40 00:02:53.159 --> 00:02:57.439 I got a hot daughter. She's Tiffany. Every Amber and Luke listening right 41 00:02:57.439 --> 00:02:59.719 now is so stubby they are. I know. I think if you have 42 00:02:59.719 --> 00:03:02.159 a so op opera name, you're just better looking. In walks, McKay, 43 00:03:02.439 --> 00:03:06.240 that's a good looking guy's name, right, yep. If your name 44 00:03:06.319 --> 00:03:09.360 McKay, I think you're better looking than if you're just Joe. Yeah. 45 00:03:09.439 --> 00:03:13.439 Probably no offense to Joe. That's how screwed up we are. That's how 46 00:03:13.479 --> 00:03:16.159 we project on things. I wish I was named McKay. Yeah, anyway, 47 00:03:16.879 --> 00:03:23.520 McKay on the controls back there, I do fire fireman farmers. There 48 00:03:23.560 --> 00:03:27.360 was a show about farmers dating recently, right, I can talk all about 49 00:03:27.360 --> 00:03:28.919 it, all right, we'll get into that in a set. What was 50 00:03:28.960 --> 00:03:32.319 that show called Farmer Wants a Wife? Farmer Wants a Wife and then one 51 00:03:32.319 --> 00:03:36.520 of the bachelor's souls was a farmer. Like, there's a thing. Do 52 00:03:36.599 --> 00:03:40.680 farmers make good money? They can, but generally speaking, not too much. 53 00:03:40.800 --> 00:03:43.919 I think. You know, you can look at it and say, 54 00:03:43.919 --> 00:03:46.599 oh, that farmer made a million dollars last year, but they don't tell 55 00:03:46.599 --> 00:03:49.280 you that the input costs were like one point one million, you know what 56 00:03:49.280 --> 00:03:53.080 I mean, right, And you know that subsidies. But supposely if you 57 00:03:53.199 --> 00:03:59.280 have land, you have a farm, you have property, you have animals, 58 00:03:59.639 --> 00:04:03.080 something that is attractive. Oh yeah, I mean like asset rich and 59 00:04:03.199 --> 00:04:06.960 cash poor is generally how you can put it. You know, like if 60 00:04:06.960 --> 00:04:11.919 they sold out, they'd probably you know, make millions of dollars, but 61 00:04:12.080 --> 00:04:15.079 it's all tied up in the farm and they're implements their tractors and stuff. 62 00:04:15.120 --> 00:04:18.120 And there's a lot of myths around the subsidy thing too, Like I think 63 00:04:18.120 --> 00:04:20.800 a lot of people think that they get all these crazy subsidies, but that's 64 00:04:20.839 --> 00:04:25.600 really not true. Yeah, I think that if if there's a bad rainy 65 00:04:25.600 --> 00:04:27.879 season, or there's a drought, they just get a check anyway from the 66 00:04:27.920 --> 00:04:30.439 government. Is that not srue? Not necessarily, No, it's it kind 67 00:04:30.439 --> 00:04:35.639 of varies by region, but generally speaking, it's like a cost share program 68 00:04:35.720 --> 00:04:40.040 for like their crop insurance, so like they have to carry these massive crop 69 00:04:40.079 --> 00:04:44.000 insurance policies if their crop is damaged, but that's really expensive, and then 70 00:04:44.040 --> 00:04:46.040 the government might say, well, like we'll pay for part of that, 71 00:04:46.319 --> 00:04:48.800 or they might do like if they're doing a conservation program, they might say, 72 00:04:48.839 --> 00:04:51.160 well, it's twenty five dollars an acre to do cover crops, but 73 00:04:51.199 --> 00:04:54.920 we're going to give you fifteen of that just because it's good for the environment 74 00:04:54.959 --> 00:04:57.920 and the planet and stuff. So they're trying to like encourage more environmentalism. 75 00:04:58.040 --> 00:05:00.759 See Great Love listeners. You come here for the love and we give you 76 00:05:00.800 --> 00:05:04.720 farm subsidy information. You never know what you're gonna get here. You're a 77 00:05:05.120 --> 00:05:14.000 female. Is it something about women? On one hand, have you know, 78 00:05:14.079 --> 00:05:15.920 preferences on whether they did a white collar guy or blue collar guy or 79 00:05:15.920 --> 00:05:23.079 whatever, But almost overwhelmingly they are attracted physically, sexually or whatever to the 80 00:05:23.079 --> 00:05:27.360 blue collar guy, to the guy who can get a little dirty, the 81 00:05:27.399 --> 00:05:30.240 guy who can work with a tool set, the guy who's not me, 82 00:05:30.319 --> 00:05:33.439 the guy, that guy who can fix shit. Is that something that goes 83 00:05:33.480 --> 00:05:38.839 back to he can take care of not just me, but whatever I need? 84 00:05:39.040 --> 00:05:41.959 Oh? Yes, absolutely. I think it's so sexy, and I 85 00:05:42.000 --> 00:05:44.439 think to it depends upon how you're raised. Maybe you know, like, 86 00:05:44.720 --> 00:05:47.000 I don't know if this is true. What are your thoughts on women are 87 00:05:47.040 --> 00:05:49.959 attracted to men like their fathers. Do you think there's truth to that, 88 00:05:50.120 --> 00:05:55.160 because that's something people say. I don't know. My dad was an interesting 89 00:05:55.240 --> 00:05:59.120 dude. So he was an engineer background worked at IBM, which is the 90 00:05:59.160 --> 00:06:04.600 traditional dark suit, white shirt, buttoned up as you know, Fortune five 91 00:06:04.680 --> 00:06:11.399 hundred company or whatever. But he could also build and fix anything. I 92 00:06:11.439 --> 00:06:14.439 got neither of those skills from him or whatever. But I always have been 93 00:06:14.519 --> 00:06:16.240 like, wow, I don't I was always like, where did he learn 94 00:06:16.319 --> 00:06:20.000 that? How did he learn that? Why is there something that he knows 95 00:06:20.040 --> 00:06:24.199 how to do with tools? He didn't go to, you know, And 96 00:06:24.240 --> 00:06:26.439 it's just the way his brain worked that. I think he had to like 97 00:06:26.560 --> 00:06:30.959 doing it and doing it. I think that probably is an attractive attribute that 98 00:06:30.079 --> 00:06:33.120 somebody. You know, there's something I'm pretty good at figuring shit out. 99 00:06:34.279 --> 00:06:42.040 But I'm not pretty good at you know, waxing a boat, you know, 100 00:06:43.399 --> 00:06:46.360 Right, But there's something be said, like you see a man who 101 00:06:46.560 --> 00:06:51.360 has a very defined occupation and a very unique skill set and is something like 102 00:06:51.680 --> 00:06:56.000 I am going to physically work hard. I think that's a good thing. 103 00:06:56.040 --> 00:06:59.120 If you have a job where you have to get up at early, I 104 00:06:59.160 --> 00:07:01.480 think that's attractive human being because the laziness isn't going to kick in. Yeah, 105 00:07:01.519 --> 00:07:03.879 I think so too. And you know, I think about like the 106 00:07:03.879 --> 00:07:06.319 way I was raised, Right, if you think about women are attracted to 107 00:07:06.360 --> 00:07:10.240 men like their fathers, Like my dad is pretty cool. Like my dad 108 00:07:10.279 --> 00:07:13.279 can do anything, Like he's really hard work or he's retired. He can't 109 00:07:13.279 --> 00:07:15.279 sit still. The guy's like seventy years old and he just rode his bike 110 00:07:15.360 --> 00:07:17.800 for seventeen miles, you know what I mean. Like he's just he's a 111 00:07:17.839 --> 00:07:20.560 beast, like in the best way possible. And I'm like, I need 112 00:07:20.600 --> 00:07:25.040 to find a guy that's cool like my dad, that's like funny and works 113 00:07:25.079 --> 00:07:27.519 hard and it's smart and like takes care of me, you know what I 114 00:07:27.519 --> 00:07:30.000 mean. So is that what's about? It's about the getting up in the 115 00:07:30.000 --> 00:07:34.160 working hard is ambition? Is ambition the word sexy? Yeah? Yeah, 116 00:07:34.160 --> 00:07:36.360 I think it is too. Yeah. Like, you know, two of 117 00:07:36.360 --> 00:07:42.439 my exes are farmers, right and yeah, and I'm talking to another farmer 118 00:07:42.480 --> 00:07:45.759 now, apparently I have a type. And they're all corn and soybean guys, 119 00:07:45.759 --> 00:07:47.480 by the way, Like, what the heck? Oh, so you 120 00:07:47.519 --> 00:07:50.480 have a specific type with any type. I mean, not that I'm trying 121 00:07:50.480 --> 00:07:54.959 to be You're not like cattle person. Well no, I mean they've raised 122 00:07:55.000 --> 00:07:59.160 cattle too. Oh yeah, a little bit very talented farmers. Gorn zoibe 123 00:08:00.079 --> 00:08:03.720 get the milk out of the cow has some attractiveness beef cattle. You know 124 00:08:03.759 --> 00:08:07.240 a lot of dairy cows are milked by robots nowadays. I'm sure they are. 125 00:08:07.240 --> 00:08:11.240 They are. So a guy who deals a cattle guy is both a 126 00:08:11.279 --> 00:08:13.319 farmer and a cowboy. Uh so, No, not necessarily, that's just 127 00:08:13.439 --> 00:08:18.040 so like a rancher would be like somebody that has thousands of acres where they're 128 00:08:18.040 --> 00:08:22.720 more pasturais like a cow calf like where they're but beef cattle farmers are more 129 00:08:22.759 --> 00:08:26.920 like feed lots where you're finishing them out for Marketwait, and then you also 130 00:08:28.000 --> 00:08:30.639 have cowboys, which are the guys that check on the cows. So if 131 00:08:30.720 --> 00:08:33.600 you have a ranch, the cowboys, the guy on the horse, a 132 00:08:33.639 --> 00:08:35.559 farmer's not a rancher, but a rancher is kind of a farmer. They're 133 00:08:35.559 --> 00:08:41.159 both working land. Yeah, I mean it. There's definitely some differences, 134 00:08:41.320 --> 00:08:45.559 but it's yeah six and one half time. So if you see a guy 135 00:08:45.600 --> 00:08:48.120 in a sports car or you see a guy on a two hundred thousand dollars 136 00:08:48.200 --> 00:08:56.759 tractor, you're turned on by the tractor. The sports car is fine too, 137 00:08:56.320 --> 00:09:00.960 you know, I don't know. I guess I guess what I'm getting 138 00:09:00.960 --> 00:09:05.519 at is, I don't think it's about the money. I think it's about 139 00:09:05.639 --> 00:09:11.200 the what we said, the ambition. It's about working hard. I think 140 00:09:11.320 --> 00:09:16.480 that is a a attribute that is positive in anything because it means I can 141 00:09:16.600 --> 00:09:22.519 count on this person to be motivated by themselves. They are motivated to get 142 00:09:22.600 --> 00:09:26.399 up in the morning, get a job done, do that. I always 143 00:09:26.600 --> 00:09:30.559 like that. I always you know, there's a lot of guys who are 144 00:09:30.679 --> 00:09:33.759 very lazy and sort of fall ass backwards into a lot of money, especially 145 00:09:33.759 --> 00:09:37.159 in you know, I was in Hollywood a long long time. There's a 146 00:09:37.200 --> 00:09:39.600 lot of people who are morons, and they fail upward and they get money. 147 00:09:39.879 --> 00:09:43.480 And if I'm a woman, I almost said girl, and everybody gets 148 00:09:43.480 --> 00:09:50.320 mad when I say girl, I'm a girl. You're initially attracted to maybe 149 00:09:50.320 --> 00:09:52.159 the flash of it, or the cash of it, or the watch or 150 00:09:52.159 --> 00:09:56.960 the car or the house. But is there a core There is there a 151 00:09:56.960 --> 00:10:00.320 core work ethic that's going to been like when we are married and we have 152 00:10:00.399 --> 00:10:03.279 three kids and we're struggling here, that you're going to figure out a way 153 00:10:03.320 --> 00:10:05.960 to get it done. Yeah, And I'm not sure Hollywood agent's doing that. 154 00:10:05.279 --> 00:10:09.519 Yeah. And I think the other thing too about farming and agriculture is 155 00:10:09.559 --> 00:10:13.240 that they're very family oriented people, which is also very sexy, you know 156 00:10:13.240 --> 00:10:16.480 what I mean. So it's like they there's not a lot of good looking 157 00:10:16.559 --> 00:10:20.159 single farmers out there because they all get married when they're twenty and they have 158 00:10:20.200 --> 00:10:22.200 like one hundred kids, you know, So there's there's oh they're not single, 159 00:10:22.200 --> 00:10:24.600 but they're good looking but married. Well, yeah, there's a lot 160 00:10:24.600 --> 00:10:28.679 of good looking, like married farmers out there for sure. Yeah. Like 161 00:10:28.759 --> 00:10:31.240 I go on farm tours all the time, and I'm like, oh, 162 00:10:31.240 --> 00:10:33.240 that's so much. It's so easy to listen to him talk because we'll also 163 00:10:33.320 --> 00:10:37.960 so easy on the eyes, but just nice guys. So I drive when 164 00:10:37.960 --> 00:10:41.159 I drive through America and I see these farms, I'm like, where do 165 00:10:41.279 --> 00:10:46.519 these kids go to school? Where's cause you seem like you're very isolated. 166 00:10:46.799 --> 00:10:50.080 Where do you go to You're not going to Trader Joe's. I don't know 167 00:10:50.120 --> 00:10:54.080 where you're going to the store. Like where you're going You're fairly isolated. 168 00:10:54.080 --> 00:10:58.240 So the family unit probably matters. The people that you interact with are the 169 00:10:58.240 --> 00:11:01.200 people you are working with on your farm and the family. Yeah, where 170 00:11:01.240 --> 00:11:05.440 I was farming, I used to farm in northeast Iowa, and there's so 171 00:11:05.600 --> 00:11:09.080 many small towns that the name of the high school was called MFL Marmack, 172 00:11:09.120 --> 00:11:15.080 which was Minona, Farmersburg, Gluayna, Marquette, and McGregor everybody combine. 173 00:11:15.200 --> 00:11:18.360 It's literally like five little farm towns. And yeah, shout out to anybody 174 00:11:18.360 --> 00:11:22.399 from and if you have a farm and it's been, it's been you know 175 00:11:22.440 --> 00:11:24.919 in your family for generations. You're not just moving, you're not just packing 176 00:11:24.919 --> 00:11:26.320 it up. And I'm like, you know, I think i'd like to 177 00:11:26.320 --> 00:11:30.639 live in Hartford. Yeah, there's there's stability. There is stability and you're 178 00:11:30.679 --> 00:11:33.639 like, this is what I'm going to do. It's my job to raise 179 00:11:33.639 --> 00:11:37.919 the family. I could see how that can be attractive. Yeah, the 180 00:11:37.960 --> 00:11:41.639 problem is the numbers. There's not a nightclub full of like fifty farmers, 181 00:11:41.000 --> 00:11:45.639 right or if you do see a bunch of farmers, they probably worked their 182 00:11:45.759 --> 00:11:50.039 ass off all day and they're drinking nine beers at five o'clock. There is 183 00:11:50.039 --> 00:11:52.679 some truth to that too. Well that it was funny. You know my 184 00:11:52.720 --> 00:11:54.200 ex Doug that I was with for like seven or eight years, we were 185 00:11:54.240 --> 00:11:58.720 farmers together and that's when I started my farm Babe social media platform. And 186 00:11:58.200 --> 00:12:01.600 yeah, I mean he met me in Florida right, like I was his 187 00:12:01.639 --> 00:12:03.879 bartender. He was on vacation. It's like, yeah, how do you 188 00:12:03.879 --> 00:12:07.039 meet women? You meet? Right? How do you mean you know? 189 00:12:07.039 --> 00:12:09.679 You know you're fairly I say so like guys who work on a on a 190 00:12:09.960 --> 00:12:11.600 ship. We're in Florida right now. If you look out on the coast 191 00:12:11.600 --> 00:12:16.320 here, there's these big freighters. How many people are on those? And 192 00:12:16.399 --> 00:12:18.240 how long are they on those? Yeah? Are they just sitting out there 193 00:12:18.279 --> 00:12:20.840 for months? Is it eight dudes? Is it fifties at one? Really? 194 00:12:20.960 --> 00:12:24.720 Yeah? And then they come back to the land and they just spend 195 00:12:24.960 --> 00:12:28.600 stupid money at the bars. Now do farmers have a lot of time off? 196 00:12:28.879 --> 00:12:33.279 It depends what they farm and when. If you are not a livestock 197 00:12:33.360 --> 00:12:35.960 person, then yeah, you can get away like in the winter, you 198 00:12:37.000 --> 00:12:41.039 know, but uh, it depends climate matters, what they're what they're doing 199 00:12:41.080 --> 00:12:46.519 matters. I remember so my ex and I Doug he uh he actually got 200 00:12:46.559 --> 00:12:50.720 rid of his livestock. This is the first year that he hasn't had livestock, 201 00:12:50.759 --> 00:12:54.200 which is so weird. He and I are still friends, and I 202 00:12:54.279 --> 00:12:56.559 was in Iowan a business trip, like I don't know, a month or 203 00:12:56.600 --> 00:13:00.679 so ago, and I popped in and it was so weird to see no 204 00:13:00.879 --> 00:13:03.759 animals. But He's like, yeah, but I have a little bit more 205 00:13:03.759 --> 00:13:05.840 time. I'm getting close to retirement. Like I'm like, hm, so 206 00:13:05.960 --> 00:13:09.120 you can do whatever you want now in the winter. But you know, 207 00:13:09.279 --> 00:13:13.960 when he when we had livestock though, it was like also we were raising 208 00:13:15.080 --> 00:13:18.960 lambs and calves, and there is nothing sexier than like this big, rugged, 209 00:13:20.039 --> 00:13:24.960 strong, calloused hand farm boy, like handling water delicate calves. No, 210 00:13:24.039 --> 00:13:30.000 not flattering, just like like nursing or helping them. Like when when 211 00:13:30.000 --> 00:13:35.559 a newborn. When a newborn lamb is like struggling and is sick, and 212 00:13:35.600 --> 00:13:37.879 he's like out there at two in the morning with like bottle feeding this lamb 213 00:13:37.919 --> 00:13:41.360 that's struggling. You know, it's really sweet. Like we had we would 214 00:13:41.399 --> 00:13:45.799 bring lambs into the house like by the fireplace to warm them up or like 215 00:13:45.919 --> 00:13:46.799 take care of them. And you know what I mean. It's like there's 216 00:13:46.840 --> 00:13:54.120 a lot of there's a lot of sensitive things. Yeah. Viticulture, Yeah, 217 00:13:54.440 --> 00:13:56.120 somebody who owns a winery or they a farmer, yeah, like a 218 00:13:56.159 --> 00:13:58.720 grape grower. Yeah, they would call them growers. Now, somebody brought 219 00:13:58.720 --> 00:14:03.600 this up to me on a podcast I guessed on. They said that they 220 00:14:03.240 --> 00:14:11.559 like men in those occupations. I think they were a bourbon maker because they 221 00:14:11.600 --> 00:14:16.039 have to have incredible patience for payoff. A bourbon guy might have to wait 222 00:14:16.200 --> 00:14:18.799 years to see if the fruits of their labor turned in anything. Same with 223 00:14:18.799 --> 00:14:24.600 the winemakers, same with a farmer. That you are not getting immediate result 224 00:14:24.720 --> 00:14:30.320 of your labor and patience is a very good quality to have in a relationship, 225 00:14:30.360 --> 00:14:33.440 I think. Yeah, And it depends again, it depends what you're 226 00:14:33.480 --> 00:14:37.120 growing when where you know, where you're selling it to you know. I 227 00:14:37.159 --> 00:14:41.960 know, I was just out at a vineyard in Washington and they were selling 228 00:14:41.120 --> 00:14:43.600 something. They were making their owns. They were able to process it right 229 00:14:43.639 --> 00:14:46.559 away. But then they also sell direct, so they would sell off to 230 00:14:46.600 --> 00:14:50.240 the distributors, which would then go off to like you know, like a 231 00:14:50.279 --> 00:14:52.360 cupcake wine or you know, something like that. So all right, I 232 00:14:52.399 --> 00:14:56.600 got to take a quick break so we can pay for wine and things around 233 00:14:56.639 --> 00:14:58.759 here. I am here with the farm babe, Michelle Miller. We were 234 00:14:58.759 --> 00:15:03.480 talking about what people do and why we like it. And I've got a 235 00:15:03.519 --> 00:15:07.480 little interesting point to make when we come back after the break, right after 236 00:15:07.720 --> 00:15:18.919 this and we are back, So if somebody farmers are also there's science involved. 237 00:15:18.960 --> 00:15:20.960 They're very educated. You know, there's a lot of education that goes 238 00:15:22.000 --> 00:15:24.399 on. You learn a lot growing up in it, but there is a 239 00:15:24.480 --> 00:15:30.080 lot to go you're a meteorology, there is all kinds of things in there, 240 00:15:30.279 --> 00:15:33.759 and you have to balance it with instinct and you have to balance it. 241 00:15:33.840 --> 00:15:37.960 So, you know, we're talking about farm because that's your specialty. 242 00:15:37.000 --> 00:15:43.279 But there's something attractive about somebody who has mastered a craft, no matter what 243 00:15:43.360 --> 00:15:48.240 that is. Yeah, the old film critic Roger Ebert once said that one 244 00:15:48.279 --> 00:15:52.440 of the most interesting things in a movie that's underrated is to watch something do 245 00:15:52.480 --> 00:15:54.639 a job. Somebody do a job that you're really not familiar with, like 246 00:15:54.720 --> 00:15:58.679 a safe cracker, like a glass blower, somebody who's like, I don't 247 00:15:58.679 --> 00:16:02.000 know how they do that or never seen them do it, and it's you 248 00:16:02.000 --> 00:16:06.559 know, they spend six minutes in a movie showing that, and we're all 249 00:16:07.399 --> 00:16:11.440 fascinated by stuff like that, right, Yeah, for sure if somebody went 250 00:16:11.519 --> 00:16:15.440 and spent a day at a farm, they would have no idea how this 251 00:16:15.559 --> 00:16:18.120 happens. Yeah, it's so cool. I know. I love what I 252 00:16:18.120 --> 00:16:22.200 do. I get to share their stories and create the content around where our 253 00:16:22.200 --> 00:16:23.840 food comes from. Now one issue I have where our food comes from? 254 00:16:23.879 --> 00:16:27.279 And again this is related to dating here. I go to a farmer's market 255 00:16:27.360 --> 00:16:32.200 or a street fair anywhere in the world, and it is cheap. Farmers 256 00:16:32.200 --> 00:16:34.679 market in America is the most expensive place to buy food. Why is that? 257 00:16:36.679 --> 00:16:40.960 There's usually a lot more costs involved in like the processing and the shipping 258 00:16:41.000 --> 00:16:42.879 and the packaging, and then there's all some there is when you send it 259 00:16:42.879 --> 00:16:47.279 to the store, though, So why is a farmer like the farmer's market 260 00:16:47.320 --> 00:16:51.679 is because Americans are fooled into thinking fresh means more money. Yeah. I 261 00:16:51.679 --> 00:16:55.120 think there's some truth to that too, but you know, it's like they 262 00:16:55.159 --> 00:16:57.399 also have to hold licenses and certifications, and then you have to pay your 263 00:16:57.399 --> 00:17:00.159 market fees and there's a lot more money, and then with your sales and 264 00:17:00.200 --> 00:17:03.519 marketing, your social media, your time, you know, but your one 265 00:17:03.559 --> 00:17:07.039 business running all of that, Whereas if you're mass producing it and you're selling 266 00:17:07.079 --> 00:17:11.240 it to just a wholesaler, it's like a one stop and they're buying everything 267 00:17:11.319 --> 00:17:14.319 for like cheap, and that's how they're able to mass feed the world. 268 00:17:14.359 --> 00:17:17.039 Well, the reason why I'm a fan of a farmer's market is not just 269 00:17:17.039 --> 00:17:19.279 because I'm fat and I like free samples. I think it's a good date 270 00:17:19.359 --> 00:17:22.640 thing. It is such a great date thing. It's such an underrated day 271 00:17:22.680 --> 00:17:26.960 thing. People love farmers markets, yeah, because not only do you see 272 00:17:26.960 --> 00:17:32.160 things you're familiar with. It's like, oh, fried donuts, but you're 273 00:17:32.240 --> 00:17:37.640 like, what is that? And the people who work the farmer's markets are 274 00:17:37.720 --> 00:17:41.720 really both passionate and knowledgeable about things. You can learn things at a farmer 275 00:17:41.799 --> 00:17:45.039 market, you can try things at a farmer's market. You can learn what 276 00:17:45.160 --> 00:17:51.880 kind of stimuli turns on your partner or date at a farmer's market. It's 277 00:17:51.920 --> 00:17:53.400 a really good thing to do. Yeah, Like, you know, I'm 278 00:17:53.400 --> 00:17:56.240 from Wisconsin, so just take me to a cheese stand and I'm set. 279 00:17:57.880 --> 00:18:02.960 That's true. Hotter than a girl at a cheese stand, I agree. 280 00:18:03.000 --> 00:18:07.319 Sampling and you know, be a little more generous with the toothpick farmers market 281 00:18:07.319 --> 00:18:10.039 people. I feel like they've cut back on the samples in a lot of 282 00:18:10.039 --> 00:18:11.920 things inflation. Yeah, like don't touch that. I'm like, can I 283 00:18:11.920 --> 00:18:15.200 try this? No? No, But it's a good date spot all right. 284 00:18:15.279 --> 00:18:19.720 Back to the Farmer show that was on TV. Who were the women 285 00:18:21.000 --> 00:18:22.759 that were supposed to be on the show? Women who always dreamed of being 286 00:18:22.799 --> 00:18:26.279 a farmer or they were It was farmer first, like farmer, find me 287 00:18:26.359 --> 00:18:30.640 a wife, and then these women had no knowledge of farm life. Most 288 00:18:30.640 --> 00:18:34.160 of them had no knowledge of farm life. And actually they interviewed me to 289 00:18:34.200 --> 00:18:37.799 be one of the daters on that show. Oh really yeah, Actually the 290 00:18:37.799 --> 00:18:41.640 producers reached out to me and they were like, hey, we're looking we're 291 00:18:41.680 --> 00:18:45.480 casting this new show and we're looking to cast tall, good looking single farm 292 00:18:45.480 --> 00:18:48.400 boys. Do you know of any, to which I responded, yes, 293 00:18:48.480 --> 00:18:52.759 I know all five of them. Like is it that bad? I'm like, 294 00:18:52.799 --> 00:18:53.480 yeah, it's pretty bad. I'm like, they're farmers. They get 295 00:18:53.519 --> 00:18:56.599 married when they're twenty, they have one hundred kids, and like that's it. 296 00:18:56.640 --> 00:18:59.720 There's like no good looking, tall single farmers. And they were like, 297 00:18:59.759 --> 00:19:02.440 well, well, if you refer one to us and they get cast, 298 00:19:02.519 --> 00:19:03.720 we'll pay you a referral feed. They they're like, we see you 299 00:19:03.759 --> 00:19:07.440 have a really big following with farmers, and like like yeah, you know. 300 00:19:07.480 --> 00:19:11.359 So I posted on my social media and I did throw maybe about twenty 301 00:19:11.400 --> 00:19:15.079 thirty guys up the ladder to the producers well there you go, and uh, 302 00:19:15.119 --> 00:19:18.319 and then I pocketed one for myself, who turned out to be a 303 00:19:18.319 --> 00:19:22.319 total douchebag, but that's another story. So so then all these guys, 304 00:19:23.240 --> 00:19:26.880 none of them made it. But I watched the show, and personally I 305 00:19:26.880 --> 00:19:30.359 didn't really find the guys attractive, like the farmers, Like they weren't really 306 00:19:30.400 --> 00:19:33.720 my type, you know, like I like more of like the tall, 307 00:19:33.799 --> 00:19:38.000 pretty boy kind of thing, you know. But anyway, they they interviewed 308 00:19:38.000 --> 00:19:41.480 me to be one of the daters, and I don't like farmers are pretty 309 00:19:41.480 --> 00:19:45.799 boys, well, like you know, the tall, broad shoulder Midwest, 310 00:19:45.160 --> 00:19:48.599 like you know, like, ok, I got a couple of my axes. 311 00:19:48.599 --> 00:19:53.039 They're pretty hot, you know, the good the chanting Chris Soles is 312 00:19:53.079 --> 00:19:56.200 really hot. Yeah, he lived like a half hour away from me. 313 00:19:56.359 --> 00:20:00.240 Okay, yeah, I met him a few times actually. But so anyway, 314 00:20:00.240 --> 00:20:03.599 what was I saying? So the daters? And I was like, 315 00:20:03.640 --> 00:20:07.079 I'm freaking perfect for the show, Like, but no, they didn't pick 316 00:20:07.160 --> 00:20:11.079 me because they picked the Yes, there was a show on uh a while 317 00:20:11.079 --> 00:20:15.039 ago on TBS, and I know because my friend Marissa was on the show 318 00:20:15.079 --> 00:20:22.000 called was it Outback Jack? Where it was like The Bachelor but for some 319 00:20:22.359 --> 00:20:26.920 rugged, ausy guy who like killed snakes with his bare hands. And I'm 320 00:20:26.960 --> 00:20:30.839 like, are the girls just signing up to be on a reality show or 321 00:20:30.880 --> 00:20:34.319 is there some fetish that like I want that level ruggness. Probably a bit 322 00:20:34.319 --> 00:20:41.039 of both. Yeah, And that's why like the farmer thing there is, 323 00:20:41.359 --> 00:20:45.400 I mean, is far what's the what's the dating site? Is it a 324 00:20:45.400 --> 00:20:47.920 real thing? Oh? Like farmers only dot com? Yeah is that a 325 00:20:47.960 --> 00:20:49.799 real thing? Oh yeah, yeah, I've got a funny story about that 326 00:20:49.839 --> 00:20:55.519 too. So farmers only dot Com that's women who really don't know anything about 327 00:20:55.599 --> 00:20:57.359 farm life and they're like, I am I have this fantasy. Or it's 328 00:20:57.359 --> 00:21:02.599 people who understand the value and the attributes of the farmer, which we talked 329 00:21:02.599 --> 00:21:03.839 about earlier, or is it probably been a both. I think it's a 330 00:21:03.839 --> 00:21:07.519 little bit of both. And I think there's some women out there, myself 331 00:21:07.519 --> 00:21:11.079 included, who genuinely would love to meet and marry a farmer, Like I'm 332 00:21:11.119 --> 00:21:14.400 still on that mission for my future husband. Right, what is the life 333 00:21:14.480 --> 00:21:18.160 of a farm wife? Oh man? Well for me, you gather the 334 00:21:18.200 --> 00:21:22.000 eggs me maybe. Yeah. I mean when I dated the farmers, you 335 00:21:22.039 --> 00:21:25.279 know, we were very much a good team, you know, like I'm 336 00:21:25.359 --> 00:21:26.599 kind of a night owl, so I would check the calves and the lambs 337 00:21:26.640 --> 00:21:30.160 until you know, midnight, two in the morning, and then he would 338 00:21:30.160 --> 00:21:32.599 pick up the five am shift, and so we're kind of just teams. 339 00:21:32.599 --> 00:21:34.920 We farmed together, and then I did farmers' markets and sold beef and lamb 340 00:21:34.920 --> 00:21:38.440 direct. So I think if you're working with the farmer together together, I 341 00:21:38.480 --> 00:21:41.680 see that. But if you're just a farmer's wife and he's doing the farmer, 342 00:21:41.799 --> 00:21:44.359 I think that's incredibly boring. Well, most of the time, they're 343 00:21:44.359 --> 00:21:48.440 moms, so like they're the farmers wives because they're taking care of kids because 344 00:21:48.799 --> 00:21:52.279 a lot a lot of it's very family oriented. So yeah, like stay 345 00:21:52.279 --> 00:21:56.319 at home moms that take care and raise the kids around the family. Maybe 346 00:21:56.319 --> 00:22:00.000 they're homeschooling their kids. Homeschools common in small towns because the farm the schools 347 00:22:00.000 --> 00:22:03.559 too far. Yeah yeah, or like they raise the kids on the farm, 348 00:22:03.720 --> 00:22:07.720 you know, so they're homeschooled because they're ranchers also, or they're you 349 00:22:07.759 --> 00:22:14.039 know, harvesters or whatever. So yeah, so the farm, that's that's 350 00:22:14.039 --> 00:22:17.160 what you want, the farm wife fantasy with the kids, or you just 351 00:22:17.279 --> 00:22:22.359 want to watch your man rise to the rooster and have at it at five 352 00:22:22.400 --> 00:22:27.160 am. Sounds good? No, I mean, I just love agriculture. 353 00:22:27.200 --> 00:22:30.640 It's just my passion. So for me, I want to marry a farmer 354 00:22:30.759 --> 00:22:33.000 because I love the farm life and that's what I do and that's who I 355 00:22:33.039 --> 00:22:36.960 am. And like I love animals, I love plants, I love everything 356 00:22:37.000 --> 00:22:40.279 about farming is just who I am and it's such my passion. You love 357 00:22:40.319 --> 00:22:42.759 animals with the purpose of the animals as you meat. It's a circle of 358 00:22:42.759 --> 00:22:45.440 life, I suppose. Yeah, I meant or whatever. People used to 359 00:22:45.440 --> 00:22:48.720 ask me that at farmer's markets are like, how can you Well, first 360 00:22:48.720 --> 00:22:51.039 of all, I think people think when you eat lamb, they think it's 361 00:22:51.079 --> 00:22:55.000 like this adorable little snugly thing. But lambs are actually about a year old. 362 00:22:55.000 --> 00:22:56.839 They look like a grown sheep, and so they're not. We're not 363 00:22:56.960 --> 00:23:00.839 like people think, you're just like these little snugly it's not. It's not 364 00:23:00.880 --> 00:23:04.000 a Disney movie, you know what I mean. But like they're they're big. 365 00:23:04.119 --> 00:23:10.480 But you know, I love cats and dogs just like I love cattle 366 00:23:10.519 --> 00:23:12.680 and sheep, and like they all die, right, so we love the 367 00:23:12.759 --> 00:23:18.039 animals, but eventually everything dies, and then some die and they just come 368 00:23:18.039 --> 00:23:25.759 with ust. These people, people who are in that business, even people 369 00:23:25.799 --> 00:23:29.519 who are in horse world, horse racing, they learn very on. These 370 00:23:29.559 --> 00:23:34.119 are not pets, right, yeah, And you know we're only sixty seventy 371 00:23:34.200 --> 00:23:40.400 years into dogs being allowed in the house in They were working animals for most 372 00:23:40.440 --> 00:23:45.599 of civilization. Only sort of during after World War two did people like have 373 00:23:45.759 --> 00:23:48.559 dogs as like their real pet and sleep in the bad north. These were 374 00:23:48.599 --> 00:23:52.799 outside animals. These were these are purpose working breeds, that's what they have. 375 00:23:52.960 --> 00:23:56.839 So you can like animals and you can. I like animals because they 376 00:23:56.920 --> 00:24:00.799 taste fantastic. Yeah, me too, Yeah, absolutely, But you bet 377 00:24:00.839 --> 00:24:03.440 your ass. I'm going to respect the shit out of them when I'm taking 378 00:24:03.440 --> 00:24:07.119 care of them. What's your favorite animal? The cow? Yeah? Absolutely? 379 00:24:07.519 --> 00:24:11.799 Yeah, And we owe them all the respect in the world for And 380 00:24:11.960 --> 00:24:14.640 it's not just meat, you know, we get cosmetics, lotion, soaps 381 00:24:14.680 --> 00:24:15.920 like hey sun, let's toss around the old pig skin, you know, 382 00:24:17.000 --> 00:24:19.119 like footballs. I mean, it's like we it's all animal agriculture, it 383 00:24:19.200 --> 00:24:22.359 is. And I think the animal would be happy that I enjoyed them so 384 00:24:22.440 --> 00:24:26.680 much, exactly all the way to the leather in your car. So you 385 00:24:26.720 --> 00:24:32.000 could not date? Are there any this is probably really oxy Warren. Have 386 00:24:32.079 --> 00:24:37.200 you ever met a vegan farmer? I don't think so. Could you date 387 00:24:37.240 --> 00:24:42.160 a vegan farmer? I don't think so. I mean, I'm sure there 388 00:24:42.200 --> 00:24:48.400 are other people just do lifests or are there people that who do it that 389 00:24:48.440 --> 00:24:52.480 are like I know how the sausage gets made, No pun, I'm not 390 00:24:52.559 --> 00:24:56.319 eating what I cook. I mean there probably is something like that, Like 391 00:24:56.640 --> 00:25:00.880 I know what the chicken taste, you know, I see it all. 392 00:25:00.119 --> 00:25:03.599 Yeah, I do see the slaughter of it, and so I'm like a 393 00:25:03.640 --> 00:25:04.400 mouse, I've seen it all. But you know, a lot of the 394 00:25:04.559 --> 00:25:10.279 negativity around, like slaughter videos and stuff are is usually kind of like vegan 395 00:25:10.359 --> 00:25:14.279 propaganda type stuff, or like it's out outdated, or it's from another country, 396 00:25:14.359 --> 00:25:15.920 or like they paint it to they make it look way worse than it 397 00:25:15.960 --> 00:25:19.319 is. When you actually tour slaughterhouses, which I have. I've been to 398 00:25:19.359 --> 00:25:22.319 some of the largest, some of the smallest, you name it. I 399 00:25:22.400 --> 00:25:26.279 know the process forwards and backwards, and it is extremely humane. Like if 400 00:25:26.279 --> 00:25:30.680 there's one thing I wish more people understood, it's like and it's common sense. 401 00:25:30.720 --> 00:25:34.160 Like from a business perspective, you want to take care of that animal. 402 00:25:34.440 --> 00:25:37.039 You want it to go through a very low stress environment because it makes 403 00:25:37.039 --> 00:25:40.960 the best meat. Like you want to make a good product, Like a 404 00:25:40.960 --> 00:25:42.839 guy who builds a table isn't going to scratch up his table and make it, 405 00:25:44.119 --> 00:25:45.960 you know, like and then try to sell it. So you want 406 00:25:47.000 --> 00:25:51.119 that low stress, that good genetics, that like treated very well, managed 407 00:25:51.240 --> 00:25:53.480 very well, because ultimately you can get more money for your stake. Right, 408 00:25:53.559 --> 00:25:57.559 So it's it's all common sense as a business to do the best we 409 00:25:57.640 --> 00:26:03.359 can and it's it's a pretty human per okay, So what is your other 410 00:26:03.480 --> 00:26:07.440 than the knowledge of it? So the knowledge of you know, a lot 411 00:26:07.480 --> 00:26:11.279 of people wanted to date what they know. A lot of people are like, 412 00:26:11.440 --> 00:26:18.279 I work in finance. I want to have a finance. Do you 413 00:26:18.359 --> 00:26:22.599 feel when you are dating these farmer farmer dudes I believe is the correct term. 414 00:26:23.839 --> 00:26:27.920 Do you feel that you're either have to prove or getting challenged on your 415 00:26:27.960 --> 00:26:32.599 farm cred as? No? No, not not as the farm babe. 416 00:26:32.640 --> 00:26:33.839 No, because they're was like, oh my god, it's the farm baby. 417 00:26:33.880 --> 00:26:37.240 They know you know your shit. Yeah, I've been doing this almost 418 00:26:37.279 --> 00:26:41.559 a decade now, so like does that matter to them though? Or they're 419 00:26:41.599 --> 00:26:44.759 just like like if you sit down, if you're on a date with a 420 00:26:44.799 --> 00:26:47.720 farmer and you're the farm babe, are you talking about farm stuff? I 421 00:26:47.799 --> 00:26:52.279 talked about real housewives stuff, mostly farm stuff, and it sounds kind of 422 00:26:52.279 --> 00:26:55.200 funny, but like I think, how hot is that? Do you? 423 00:26:55.440 --> 00:26:56.799 I mean? I love it. I could talk farming all day. It's 424 00:26:56.839 --> 00:27:00.400 my passion. I feel like sometimes though, guys get a little bit intimidated 425 00:27:00.400 --> 00:27:04.279 by that though. Right Like I was randomly out at the bar and this 426 00:27:04.359 --> 00:27:07.839 guy was talking to me and I said, oh, what do you do 427 00:27:07.920 --> 00:27:10.480 for a living? Kind of stuff? And he told me that he was 428 00:27:10.519 --> 00:27:14.079 a farmer, and I was like, oh, like, I'm in social 429 00:27:14.119 --> 00:27:15.519 media, I'm an advocate for farmers. He says, oh okay, And 430 00:27:15.559 --> 00:27:18.839 then I told him my platform and he had never heard of me before. 431 00:27:18.880 --> 00:27:22.440 Well, then that night he went home and googled me. And then the 432 00:27:22.480 --> 00:27:23.839 next time I talked to him, you know, he texted me, Oh, 433 00:27:23.880 --> 00:27:26.880 my god, you're a really big deal. Holy shit, and he 434 00:27:26.920 --> 00:27:30.440 was all like nervous. We went on our first date and he was like 435 00:27:30.480 --> 00:27:33.440 asking me all these questions. He's like like he was like star struck a 436 00:27:33.480 --> 00:27:36.720 little bit. You know. Is it tough to balance though, your your 437 00:27:37.079 --> 00:27:41.359 credibility as an advocate for the industry with your very open about your farmer fetish. 438 00:27:41.519 --> 00:27:45.799 I took a farmer fetish. I don't need to date a farmer, 439 00:27:45.920 --> 00:27:49.680 I prefer but I don't need to shoot my last sort of like you know, 440 00:27:49.759 --> 00:27:53.960 somebody who's a woman sports reporter, she's told not to date the athletes, 441 00:27:55.480 --> 00:27:57.000 but a lot of them end up doing it because they got attracted to 442 00:27:57.000 --> 00:28:00.359 sports. Because they got attracted to well, yeah, you know, my 443 00:28:00.480 --> 00:28:06.200 ex, my most recent ex was a was a professional golfer, and so 444 00:28:06.279 --> 00:28:07.799 that was fun because but then the more I thought about it, I was 445 00:28:07.799 --> 00:28:11.880 like, wait a minute, that's agriculture, like golfish grass. I'm speaking 446 00:28:11.920 --> 00:28:17.680 at the turf Grass Association in January, so you know a greenskeeper is theoretically 447 00:28:17.680 --> 00:28:19.920 a farmer. Yeah. Absolutely, it's all agriculture. And so now I'm 448 00:28:19.960 --> 00:28:25.960 like, you know, looking deeper into like can I get more into the 449 00:28:26.000 --> 00:28:30.359 sports industry, Like can I like promote turf grass farming? That's neat. 450 00:28:30.599 --> 00:28:36.400 Does a fisherman have the same appeal as a farmer? Is it sort of 451 00:28:36.440 --> 00:28:44.319 the same? Right? Yeah? Maybe, but home I don't know how 452 00:28:44.400 --> 00:28:47.240 good is the farmer. I was just going to say, like I love 453 00:28:47.319 --> 00:28:51.200 the smell of dairies and beef, but I don't really like the smell of 454 00:28:51.240 --> 00:28:55.200 fish. So salmon, you're out. If it smells like trout, back 455 00:28:55.240 --> 00:29:00.440 out, Okay. So that's oh my god. Yeah, I think that's 456 00:29:00.480 --> 00:29:03.119 the thing. Like a lot of women like farmer, I don't hear too 457 00:29:03.119 --> 00:29:07.880 many who are like I want to date the commercial fishermen. I think that 458 00:29:07.920 --> 00:29:11.559 could be the smell unless you'd be gone all the time, and I feel 459 00:29:11.559 --> 00:29:14.400 like it would like I don't know, I just get visions of seasick and 460 00:29:14.440 --> 00:29:18.240 like, I don't know. Yeah, it's weird that appeal. It's cool, 461 00:29:18.319 --> 00:29:19.480 but I don't know. I feel like I never see him. Like 462 00:29:19.519 --> 00:29:22.519 it's you know, with a farmer, I can be out there in the 463 00:29:22.519 --> 00:29:25.119 combine or tractor with him, you know, we can farm together. But 464 00:29:25.160 --> 00:29:26.960 with the fishermen, it's like, am I just going to be out on 465 00:29:26.960 --> 00:29:30.640 this fishing boat all day? So a date a farmer if he tells the 466 00:29:30.680 --> 00:29:33.519 girl like you want to go for riding my tractor, I'm in But women, 467 00:29:33.720 --> 00:29:37.559 that's all right. I love that I could do that all day. 468 00:29:37.119 --> 00:29:41.200 And you know what, nowadays, these tractors and combines are so expensive. 469 00:29:41.240 --> 00:29:44.799 You know, nowadays, get a combine like half a million dollars, cotton 470 00:29:44.839 --> 00:29:48.519 pickers a million dollars. Ladies, got yourself a cop You don't need the 471 00:29:48.759 --> 00:29:52.119 Bentley. You need to go finding guys at the John Deere. Go to 472 00:29:52.160 --> 00:29:55.519 the John hang out the John Deere dealer and the ones who were dropping half 473 00:29:55.559 --> 00:29:57.960 a million dollars on some piece of equipment, that's your boy. There was 474 00:29:59.000 --> 00:30:02.160 a great meme out there of a bunch of like stripper looking type chicks and 475 00:30:02.160 --> 00:30:07.759 these skimpy little dresses there amber. They were all hanging off this combine and 476 00:30:07.799 --> 00:30:11.240 it was like they just found out this costs more than a BMW. Yeah. 477 00:30:11.160 --> 00:30:15.039 I think there's a farmer named Dark. He's probably an yeh beefcake. 478 00:30:15.279 --> 00:30:18.480 Right. But they're so expensive. But the good news is that with that 479 00:30:18.559 --> 00:30:26.880 expense comes really comfortable buddy seats. Right along, I got a nice little 480 00:30:26.880 --> 00:30:29.559 air seat. You got heating and air conditioning, nice and cooling. You 481 00:30:29.599 --> 00:30:33.720 know it's we're gonna let you. We're gonna let you plug your farm Bay 482 00:30:33.759 --> 00:30:36.519 world in a second. But you have been on this podcast before. I 483 00:30:36.599 --> 00:30:40.119 believe that you did play worst date or first date with us, but that 484 00:30:40.200 --> 00:30:41.079 was a couple of years ago, and I'm sure you've had a lot of 485 00:30:41.119 --> 00:30:45.279 bad dates since then. No offense to anybody. If you've been dating, 486 00:30:45.279 --> 00:30:48.559 you've had some bad dates or good dates. So give me either your worst 487 00:30:48.680 --> 00:30:53.680 date or your best first date that you have either ever had or had since 488 00:30:53.839 --> 00:30:57.119 your last appearance. Oh, great love debate. I've got a good one, 489 00:30:57.279 --> 00:31:00.920 all right. So last time I did my best first This time I'll 490 00:31:00.920 --> 00:31:04.440 do my most recent worst, which was this was literally the most recent date 491 00:31:04.480 --> 00:31:07.319 I went on. Was So, I went on two dates with this guy 492 00:31:07.359 --> 00:31:12.079 who was originally from Morocco, and the dates were good. He was nice, 493 00:31:12.119 --> 00:31:15.240 we had a great, great time, but it was he was two 494 00:31:15.319 --> 00:31:18.240 into me too fast. Like it was like two dates and he's like, 495 00:31:18.279 --> 00:31:22.559 oh baby, you know, texting me every morning, good morning. I 496 00:31:22.599 --> 00:31:23.359 can't wait to see you. I said, hey, I'm leaving and go 497 00:31:23.400 --> 00:31:26.640 on like this month long business trip. He's like, I will wait for 498 00:31:26.680 --> 00:31:29.279 you, baby. Like I was like, okay, this is a little 499 00:31:29.319 --> 00:31:30.880 suspect. Like he's it's like, you've known me for four hours, Like 500 00:31:30.960 --> 00:31:34.200 chill out, you know, Oh my god. I mean i'd want to 501 00:31:34.240 --> 00:31:38.440 marry me after four hours also, but just kidding. But anyway, so 502 00:31:38.640 --> 00:31:41.559 it just seemed like red flag all over it. So, you know, 503 00:31:41.559 --> 00:31:45.039 there's these social media groups out there right full of single women that like So 504 00:31:45.319 --> 00:31:48.799 I post about this guy on one of the groups and I was like, 505 00:31:48.839 --> 00:31:51.839 hey, I went on a couple of dates with this guy. Something seems 506 00:31:51.880 --> 00:31:56.200 off. These women came out of the woodwork. So come to find out, 507 00:31:56.559 --> 00:31:59.200 he gave me a fake name, a fake age. He told me 508 00:31:59.240 --> 00:32:01.160 that he had never been married, There is this one girl in the comment 509 00:32:01.200 --> 00:32:06.720 section who like she or she DMed me his marriage license. This other woman 510 00:32:06.759 --> 00:32:08.799 in the comment section was like, he's my ex, and this other girl 511 00:32:08.880 --> 00:32:12.559 was like, he's my ex. And they found out that he was cheating 512 00:32:12.559 --> 00:32:15.960 on both of them at the same time in the comments, and this other 513 00:32:15.000 --> 00:32:17.279 girl was like, I just broke up with him on Friday, and I 514 00:32:17.319 --> 00:32:22.359 was like, I'm talking to this. We were able to find Facebook dating. 515 00:32:22.440 --> 00:32:24.559 This was Facebook dating, which normally I feel like is one of the 516 00:32:24.599 --> 00:32:29.880 more safe options. But so I found all this out and then I guess 517 00:32:30.079 --> 00:32:32.960 and there was probably like a dozen women that were like run right, and 518 00:32:34.039 --> 00:32:37.640 so yeah, he gave me a name, and he gave me fake name, 519 00:32:37.720 --> 00:32:40.240 and he gave me like a fake Moroccan name, and I mean it 520 00:32:40.319 --> 00:32:45.680 was so bad. And so then I guess a couple of the girls went 521 00:32:45.720 --> 00:32:49.200 back and told him off and then he like blocked me. He must have 522 00:32:49.240 --> 00:32:52.279 figured out like that. I was the one that figured it out, and 523 00:32:52.359 --> 00:32:53.799 so yeah, I mean it was only two dates. I wasn't invested, 524 00:32:53.880 --> 00:32:57.000 right, Like, all I did was kiss the guy, like no big 525 00:32:57.000 --> 00:33:00.000 deal, it was nothing. I wasn't I wasn't invested but so I wasn't 526 00:33:00.039 --> 00:33:04.559 like my feelings weren't hurt, but I was like, he blocked me on 527 00:33:04.640 --> 00:33:09.480 everything. Well, this guy's bad guy. However, for every guy that 528 00:33:09.519 --> 00:33:14.160 you guys complain about that they don't text me the next day and they don't 529 00:33:14.160 --> 00:33:16.240 and you're like, he told me he liked me too much, that was 530 00:33:16.279 --> 00:33:20.839 a that was a bad thing, or because you sense some bullshit. I 531 00:33:20.880 --> 00:33:22.359 sense bullshit. Yeah, no, I love that. I do love a 532 00:33:22.480 --> 00:33:27.599 nice guy, but he took it to such an extreme level. Like I 533 00:33:27.759 --> 00:33:30.920 like, I like a guy that sends a good morning text every day. 534 00:33:30.960 --> 00:33:34.920 I like a guy that shows interest, that's really kind. But he was 535 00:33:35.039 --> 00:33:37.839 just like, oh, baby baby, Like you know, I was just 536 00:33:37.319 --> 00:33:40.160 something seems off about this guy. I had to trust my intuition and I 537 00:33:40.240 --> 00:33:44.920 was right there. You go, all right, plug your farm Babe world, 538 00:33:45.279 --> 00:33:51.400 The farm Baby the Farmbabe dot Com launching a new Puncast with you Brian 539 00:33:51.440 --> 00:33:57.440 Howie, my new pun Cast, producer, producer podcast to spread the wisdom 540 00:33:57.559 --> 00:34:01.799 of the farm world. Yes heard it. The Farmbabe podcast drops November seven. 541 00:34:02.000 --> 00:34:07.279 I get it. And then I'm also on Farmbabe. So I'm Farmbabe 542 00:34:07.319 --> 00:34:12.159 on Facebook and at the Farmbabe on Instagram, TikTok YouTube, you name it 543 00:34:12.199 --> 00:34:14.639 at the Farmbabe, but the farm Babe dot com is the best place to 544 00:34:14.679 --> 00:34:16.360 go. 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