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I'm at the one in Boca Ratone, Florida. It's very nice here this
time of year. If you got some miles saved up, go to Bogo,
Ratone, Florida. Anyway, I I remember about eight years ago.
I don't remember the circumstance. Maybe I got a resume or something and the
name on the resume was like Amber or Brittany or something like that, and
I just assumed that person was good looking because of the name, which is
insane. You know, no offense any names out there. I just assumed.
And there's no way that should correlate at all, that like no offense
to a Martha or something like that, but that there was a name on
it, and you just assume certain names go with attractive people. I don't
know why that is. There's also a thing that I was thinking about that
certain occupations are more attractive, and I don't think it has anything to do
with money. And I'll get into the ones that I think from male perspectives
like, oh wow, she must be hot because of that. And I've
always been fascinated by the jobs that women are attracted to. So I'm bringing
in a pro who has so many insight and all that. She has been
on this podcast before. She's doing a lot of good work for what we
eat and how we eat it. She's known as the farm babe, far
and wide Michelle Miller. How are you, hey? Good? How are
you doing? That's a thing, right, Women are like, I wanna
fireman, I want a cowboy, I want a farmer. I want a
baseball player. I know a girl who married a baseball player because she thought
he's gonna go pro. He doesn't go pro. He teaches high school baseball
and coaches high school baseball. He teaches Jim. She's just like, I
don't know, I always want to marry a baseball player. Yeah, and
the chances of them making it are so slim, right, So that's why
I think I don't think it's about the money. Yeah, not necessarily,
but there's definitely some sexiness to something like that. Okay. On the topic
of names, numbers are usually really pretty guys. Hi, Guys named Luke
are really hot. Yeah, that's a good point. Luke's are hot.
I would think a Dylan is better looking than a Bob or Brian, you
know, I think so like. I think that's so bizarre because you're just
deeming. And most of the time the parents have chosen the child's name before
they even born. It's not like they looked at him was like, oh
I got a hot daughter. She's Tiffany. Every Amber and Luke listening right
now is so stubby they are. I know. I think if you have
a so op opera name, you're just better looking. In walks, McKay,
that's a good looking guy's name, right, yep. If your name
McKay, I think you're better looking than if you're just Joe. Yeah.
Probably no offense to Joe. That's how screwed up we are. That's how
we project on things. I wish I was named McKay. Yeah, anyway,
McKay on the controls back there, I do fire fireman farmers. There
was a show about farmers dating recently, right, I can talk all about
it, all right, we'll get into that in a set. What was
that show called Farmer Wants a Wife? Farmer Wants a Wife and then one
of the bachelor's souls was a farmer. Like, there's a thing. Do
farmers make good money? They can, but generally speaking, not too much.
I think. You know, you can look at it and say,
oh, that farmer made a million dollars last year, but they don't tell
you that the input costs were like one point one million, you know what
I mean, right, And you know that subsidies. But supposely if you
have land, you have a farm, you have property, you have animals,
something that is attractive. Oh yeah, I mean like asset rich and
cash poor is generally how you can put it. You know, like if
they sold out, they'd probably you know, make millions of dollars, but
it's all tied up in the farm and they're implements their tractors and stuff.
And there's a lot of myths around the subsidy thing too, Like I think
a lot of people think that they get all these crazy subsidies, but that's
really not true. Yeah, I think that if if there's a bad rainy
season, or there's a drought, they just get a check anyway from the
government. Is that not srue? Not necessarily, No, it's it kind
of varies by region, but generally speaking, it's like a cost share program
for like their crop insurance, so like they have to carry these massive crop
insurance policies if their crop is damaged, but that's really expensive, and then
the government might say, well, like we'll pay for part of that,
or they might do like if they're doing a conservation program, they might say,
well, it's twenty five dollars an acre to do cover crops, but
we're going to give you fifteen of that just because it's good for the environment
and the planet and stuff. So they're trying to like encourage more environmentalism.
See Great Love listeners. You come here for the love and we give you
farm subsidy information. You never know what you're gonna get here. You're a
female. Is it something about women? On one hand, have you know,
preferences on whether they did a white collar guy or blue collar guy or
whatever, But almost overwhelmingly they are attracted physically, sexually or whatever to the
blue collar guy, to the guy who can get a little dirty, the
guy who can work with a tool set, the guy who's not me,
the guy, that guy who can fix shit. Is that something that goes
back to he can take care of not just me, but whatever I need?
Oh? Yes, absolutely. I think it's so sexy, and I
think to it depends upon how you're raised. Maybe you know, like,
I don't know if this is true. What are your thoughts on women are
attracted to men like their fathers. Do you think there's truth to that,
because that's something people say. I don't know. My dad was an interesting
dude. So he was an engineer background worked at IBM, which is the
traditional dark suit, white shirt, buttoned up as you know, Fortune five
hundred company or whatever. But he could also build and fix anything. I
got neither of those skills from him or whatever. But I always have been
like, wow, I don't I was always like, where did he learn
that? How did he learn that? Why is there something that he knows
how to do with tools? He didn't go to, you know, And
it's just the way his brain worked that. I think he had to like
doing it and doing it. I think that probably is an attractive attribute that
somebody. You know, there's something I'm pretty good at figuring shit out.
But I'm not pretty good at you know, waxing a boat, you know,
Right, But there's something be said, like you see a man who
has a very defined occupation and a very unique skill set and is something like
I am going to physically work hard. I think that's a good thing.
If you have a job where you have to get up at early, I
think that's attractive human being because the laziness isn't going to kick in. Yeah,
I think so too. And you know, I think about like the
way I was raised, Right, if you think about women are attracted to
men like their fathers, Like my dad is pretty cool. Like my dad
can do anything, Like he's really hard work or he's retired. He can't
sit still. The guy's like seventy years old and he just rode his bike
for seventeen miles, you know what I mean. Like he's just he's a
beast, like in the best way possible. And I'm like, I need
to find a guy that's cool like my dad, that's like funny and works
hard and it's smart and like takes care of me, you know what I
mean. So is that what's about? It's about the getting up in the
working hard is ambition? Is ambition the word sexy? Yeah? Yeah,
I think it is too. Yeah. Like, you know, two of
my exes are farmers, right and yeah, and I'm talking to another farmer
now, apparently I have a type. And they're all corn and soybean guys,
by the way, Like, what the heck? Oh, so you
have a specific type with any type. I mean, not that I'm trying
to be You're not like cattle person. Well no, I mean they've raised
cattle too. Oh yeah, a little bit very talented farmers. Gorn zoibe
get the milk out of the cow has some attractiveness beef cattle. You know
a lot of dairy cows are milked by robots nowadays. I'm sure they are.
They are. So a guy who deals a cattle guy is both a
farmer and a cowboy. Uh so, No, not necessarily, that's just
so like a rancher would be like somebody that has thousands of acres where they're
more pasturais like a cow calf like where they're but beef cattle farmers are more
like feed lots where you're finishing them out for Marketwait, and then you also
have cowboys, which are the guys that check on the cows. So if
you have a ranch, the cowboys, the guy on the horse, a
farmer's not a rancher, but a rancher is kind of a farmer. They're
both working land. Yeah, I mean it. There's definitely some differences,
but it's yeah six and one half time. So if you see a guy
in a sports car or you see a guy on a two hundred thousand dollars
tractor, you're turned on by the tractor. The sports car is fine too,
you know, I don't know. I guess I guess what I'm getting
at is, I don't think it's about the money. I think it's about
the what we said, the ambition. It's about working hard. I think
that is a a attribute that is positive in anything because it means I can
count on this person to be motivated by themselves. They are motivated to get
up in the morning, get a job done, do that. I always
like that. I always you know, there's a lot of guys who are
very lazy and sort of fall ass backwards into a lot of money, especially
in you know, I was in Hollywood a long long time. There's a
lot of people who are morons, and they fail upward and they get money.
And if I'm a woman, I almost said girl, and everybody gets
mad when I say girl, I'm a girl. You're initially attracted to maybe
the flash of it, or the cash of it, or the watch or
the car or the house. But is there a core There is there a
core work ethic that's going to been like when we are married and we have
three kids and we're struggling here, that you're going to figure out a way
to get it done. Yeah, And I'm not sure Hollywood agent's doing that.
Yeah. And I think the other thing too about farming and agriculture is
that they're very family oriented people, which is also very sexy, you know
what I mean. So it's like they there's not a lot of good looking
single farmers out there because they all get married when they're twenty and they have
like one hundred kids, you know, So there's there's oh they're not single,
but they're good looking but married. Well, yeah, there's a lot
of good looking, like married farmers out there for sure. Yeah. Like
I go on farm tours all the time, and I'm like, oh,
that's so much. It's so easy to listen to him talk because we'll also
so easy on the eyes, but just nice guys. So I drive when
I drive through America and I see these farms, I'm like, where do
these kids go to school? Where's cause you seem like you're very isolated.
Where do you go to You're not going to Trader Joe's. I don't know
where you're going to the store. Like where you're going You're fairly isolated.
So the family unit probably matters. The people that you interact with are the
people you are working with on your farm and the family. Yeah, where
I was farming, I used to farm in northeast Iowa, and there's so
many small towns that the name of the high school was called MFL Marmack,
which was Minona, Farmersburg, Gluayna, Marquette, and McGregor everybody combine.
It's literally like five little farm towns. And yeah, shout out to anybody
from and if you have a farm and it's been, it's been you know
in your family for generations. You're not just moving, you're not just packing
it up. And I'm like, you know, I think i'd like to
live in Hartford. Yeah, there's there's stability. There is stability and you're
like, this is what I'm going to do. It's my job to raise
the family. I could see how that can be attractive. Yeah, the
problem is the numbers. There's not a nightclub full of like fifty farmers,
right or if you do see a bunch of farmers, they probably worked their
ass off all day and they're drinking nine beers at five o'clock. There is
some truth to that too. Well that it was funny. You know my
ex Doug that I was with for like seven or eight years, we were
farmers together and that's when I started my farm Babe social media platform. And
yeah, I mean he met me in Florida right, like I was his
bartender. He was on vacation. It's like, yeah, how do you
meet women? You meet? Right? How do you mean you know?
You know you're fairly I say so like guys who work on a on a
ship. We're in Florida right now. If you look out on the coast
here, there's these big freighters. How many people are on those? And
how long are they on those? Yeah? Are they just sitting out there
for months? Is it eight dudes? Is it fifties at one? Really?
Yeah? And then they come back to the land and they just spend
stupid money at the bars. Now do farmers have a lot of time off?
It depends what they farm and when. If you are not a livestock
person, then yeah, you can get away like in the winter, you
know, but uh, it depends climate matters, what they're what they're doing
matters. I remember so my ex and I Doug he uh he actually got
rid of his livestock. This is the first year that he hasn't had livestock,
which is so weird. He and I are still friends, and I
was in Iowan a business trip, like I don't know, a month or
so ago, and I popped in and it was so weird to see no
animals. But He's like, yeah, but I have a little bit more
time. I'm getting close to retirement. Like I'm like, hm, so
you can do whatever you want now in the winter. But you know,
when he when we had livestock though, it was like also we were raising
lambs and calves, and there is nothing sexier than like this big, rugged,
strong, calloused hand farm boy, like handling water delicate calves. No,
not flattering, just like like nursing or helping them. Like when when
a newborn. When a newborn lamb is like struggling and is sick, and
he's like out there at two in the morning with like bottle feeding this lamb
that's struggling. You know, it's really sweet. Like we had we would
bring lambs into the house like by the fireplace to warm them up or like
take care of them. And you know what I mean. It's like there's
a lot of there's a lot of sensitive things. Yeah. Viticulture, Yeah,
somebody who owns a winery or they a farmer, yeah, like a
grape grower. Yeah, they would call them growers. Now, somebody brought
this up to me on a podcast I guessed on. They said that they
like men in those occupations. I think they were a bourbon maker because they
have to have incredible patience for payoff. A bourbon guy might have to wait
years to see if the fruits of their labor turned in anything. Same with
the winemakers, same with a farmer. That you are not getting immediate result
of your labor and patience is a very good quality to have in a relationship,
I think. Yeah, And it depends again, it depends what you're
growing when where you know, where you're selling it to you know. I
know, I was just out at a vineyard in Washington and they were selling
something. They were making their owns. They were able to process it right
away. But then they also sell direct, so they would sell off to
the distributors, which would then go off to like you know, like a
cupcake wine or you know, something like that. So all right, I
got to take a quick break so we can pay for wine and things around
here. I am here with the farm babe, Michelle Miller. We were
talking about what people do and why we like it. And I've got a
little interesting point to make when we come back after the break, right after
this and we are back, So if somebody farmers are also there's science involved.
They're very educated. You know, there's a lot of education that goes
on. You learn a lot growing up in it, but there is a
lot to go you're a meteorology, there is all kinds of things in there,
and you have to balance it with instinct and you have to balance it.
So, you know, we're talking about farm because that's your specialty.
But there's something attractive about somebody who has mastered a craft, no matter what
that is. Yeah, the old film critic Roger Ebert once said that one
of the most interesting things in a movie that's underrated is to watch something do
a job. Somebody do a job that you're really not familiar with, like
a safe cracker, like a glass blower, somebody who's like, I don't
know how they do that or never seen them do it, and it's you
know, they spend six minutes in a movie showing that, and we're all
fascinated by stuff like that, right, Yeah, for sure if somebody went
and spent a day at a farm, they would have no idea how this
happens. Yeah, it's so cool. I know. I love what I
do. I get to share their stories and create the content around where our
food comes from. Now one issue I have where our food comes from?
And again this is related to dating here. I go to a farmer's market
or a street fair anywhere in the world, and it is cheap. Farmers
market in America is the most expensive place to buy food. Why is that?
There's usually a lot more costs involved in like the processing and the shipping
and the packaging, and then there's all some there is when you send it
to the store, though, So why is a farmer like the farmer's market
is because Americans are fooled into thinking fresh means more money. Yeah. I
think there's some truth to that too, but you know, it's like they
also have to hold licenses and certifications, and then you have to pay your
market fees and there's a lot more money, and then with your sales and
marketing, your social media, your time, you know, but your one
business running all of that, Whereas if you're mass producing it and you're selling
it to just a wholesaler, it's like a one stop and they're buying everything
for like cheap, and that's how they're able to mass feed the world.
Well, the reason why I'm a fan of a farmer's market is not just
because I'm fat and I like free samples. I think it's a good date
thing. It is such a great date thing. It's such an underrated day
thing. People love farmers markets, yeah, because not only do you see
things you're familiar with. It's like, oh, fried donuts, but you're
like, what is that? And the people who work the farmer's markets are
really both passionate and knowledgeable about things. You can learn things at a farmer
market, you can try things at a farmer's market. You can learn what
kind of stimuli turns on your partner or date at a farmer's market. It's
a really good thing to do. Yeah, Like, you know, I'm
from Wisconsin, so just take me to a cheese stand and I'm set.
That's true. Hotter than a girl at a cheese stand, I agree.
Sampling and you know, be a little more generous with the toothpick farmers market
people. I feel like they've cut back on the samples in a lot of
things inflation. Yeah, like don't touch that. I'm like, can I
try this? No? No, But it's a good date spot all right.
Back to the Farmer show that was on TV. Who were the women
that were supposed to be on the show? Women who always dreamed of being
a farmer or they were It was farmer first, like farmer, find me
a wife, and then these women had no knowledge of farm life. Most
of them had no knowledge of farm life. And actually they interviewed me to
be one of the daters on that show. Oh really yeah, Actually the
producers reached out to me and they were like, hey, we're looking we're
casting this new show and we're looking to cast tall, good looking single farm
boys. Do you know of any, to which I responded, yes,
I know all five of them. Like is it that bad? I'm like,
yeah, it's pretty bad. I'm like, they're farmers. They get
married when they're twenty, they have one hundred kids, and like that's it.
There's like no good looking, tall single farmers. And they were like,
well, well, if you refer one to us and they get cast,
we'll pay you a referral feed. They they're like, we see you
have a really big following with farmers, and like like yeah, you know.
So I posted on my social media and I did throw maybe about twenty
thirty guys up the ladder to the producers well there you go, and uh,
and then I pocketed one for myself, who turned out to be a
total douchebag, but that's another story. So so then all these guys,
none of them made it. But I watched the show, and personally I
didn't really find the guys attractive, like the farmers, Like they weren't really
my type, you know, like I like more of like the tall,
pretty boy kind of thing, you know. But anyway, they they interviewed
me to be one of the daters, and I don't like farmers are pretty
boys, well, like you know, the tall, broad shoulder Midwest,
like you know, like, ok, I got a couple of my axes.
They're pretty hot, you know, the good the chanting Chris Soles is
really hot. Yeah, he lived like a half hour away from me.
Okay, yeah, I met him a few times actually. But so anyway,
what was I saying? So the daters? And I was like,
I'm freaking perfect for the show, Like, but no, they didn't pick
me because they picked the Yes, there was a show on uh a while
ago on TBS, and I know because my friend Marissa was on the show
called was it Outback Jack? Where it was like The Bachelor but for some
rugged, ausy guy who like killed snakes with his bare hands. And I'm
like, are the girls just signing up to be on a reality show or
is there some fetish that like I want that level ruggness. Probably a bit
of both. Yeah, And that's why like the farmer thing there is,
I mean, is far what's the what's the dating site? Is it a
real thing? Oh? Like farmers only dot com? Yeah is that a
real thing? Oh yeah, yeah, I've got a funny story about that
too. So farmers only dot Com that's women who really don't know anything about
farm life and they're like, I am I have this fantasy. Or it's
people who understand the value and the attributes of the farmer, which we talked
about earlier, or is it probably been a both. I think it's a
little bit of both. And I think there's some women out there, myself
included, who genuinely would love to meet and marry a farmer, Like I'm
still on that mission for my future husband. Right, what is the life
of a farm wife? Oh man? Well for me, you gather the
eggs me maybe. Yeah. I mean when I dated the farmers, you
know, we were very much a good team, you know, like I'm
kind of a night owl, so I would check the calves and the lambs
until you know, midnight, two in the morning, and then he would
pick up the five am shift, and so we're kind of just teams.
We farmed together, and then I did farmers' markets and sold beef and lamb
direct. So I think if you're working with the farmer together together, I
see that. But if you're just a farmer's wife and he's doing the farmer,
I think that's incredibly boring. Well, most of the time, they're
moms, so like they're the farmers wives because they're taking care of kids because
a lot a lot of it's very family oriented. So yeah, like stay
at home moms that take care and raise the kids around the family. Maybe
they're homeschooling their kids. Homeschools common in small towns because the farm the schools
too far. Yeah yeah, or like they raise the kids on the farm,
you know, so they're homeschooled because they're ranchers also, or they're you
know, harvesters or whatever. So yeah, so the farm, that's that's
what you want, the farm wife fantasy with the kids, or you just
want to watch your man rise to the rooster and have at it at five
am. Sounds good? No, I mean, I just love agriculture.
It's just my passion. So for me, I want to marry a farmer
because I love the farm life and that's what I do and that's who I
am. And like I love animals, I love plants, I love everything
about farming is just who I am and it's such my passion. You love
animals with the purpose of the animals as you meat. It's a circle of
life, I suppose. Yeah, I meant or whatever. People used to
ask me that at farmer's markets are like, how can you Well, first
of all, I think people think when you eat lamb, they think it's
like this adorable little snugly thing. But lambs are actually about a year old.
They look like a grown sheep, and so they're not. We're not
like people think, you're just like these little snugly it's not. It's not
a Disney movie, you know what I mean. But like they're they're big.
But you know, I love cats and dogs just like I love cattle
and sheep, and like they all die, right, so we love the
animals, but eventually everything dies, and then some die and they just come
with ust. These people, people who are in that business, even people
who are in horse world, horse racing, they learn very on. These
are not pets, right, yeah, And you know we're only sixty seventy
years into dogs being allowed in the house in They were working animals for most
of civilization. Only sort of during after World War two did people like have
dogs as like their real pet and sleep in the bad north. These were
outside animals. These were these are purpose working breeds, that's what they have.
So you can like animals and you can. I like animals because they
taste fantastic. Yeah, me too, Yeah, absolutely, But you bet
your ass. I'm going to respect the shit out of them when I'm taking
care of them. What's your favorite animal? The cow? Yeah? Absolutely?
Yeah, And we owe them all the respect in the world for And
it's not just meat, you know, we get cosmetics, lotion, soaps
like hey sun, let's toss around the old pig skin, you know,
like footballs. I mean, it's like we it's all animal agriculture, it
is. And I think the animal would be happy that I enjoyed them so
much, exactly all the way to the leather in your car. So you
could not date? Are there any this is probably really oxy Warren. Have
you ever met a vegan farmer? I don't think so. Could you date
a vegan farmer? I don't think so. I mean, I'm sure there
are other people just do lifests or are there people that who do it that
are like I know how the sausage gets made, No pun, I'm not
eating what I cook. I mean there probably is something like that, Like
I know what the chicken taste, you know, I see it all.
Yeah, I do see the slaughter of it, and so I'm like a
mouse, I've seen it all. But you know, a lot of the
negativity around, like slaughter videos and stuff are is usually kind of like vegan
propaganda type stuff, or like it's out outdated, or it's from another country,
or like they paint it to they make it look way worse than it
is. When you actually tour slaughterhouses, which I have. I've been to
some of the largest, some of the smallest, you name it. I
know the process forwards and backwards, and it is extremely humane. Like if
there's one thing I wish more people understood, it's like and it's common sense.
Like from a business perspective, you want to take care of that animal.
You want it to go through a very low stress environment because it makes
the best meat. Like you want to make a good product, Like a
guy who builds a table isn't going to scratch up his table and make it,
you know, like and then try to sell it. So you want
that low stress, that good genetics, that like treated very well, managed
very well, because ultimately you can get more money for your stake. Right,
So it's it's all common sense as a business to do the best we
can and it's it's a pretty human per okay, So what is your other
than the knowledge of it? So the knowledge of you know, a lot
of people wanted to date what they know. A lot of people are like,
I work in finance. I want to have a finance. Do you
feel when you are dating these farmer farmer dudes I believe is the correct term.
Do you feel that you're either have to prove or getting challenged on your
farm cred as? No? No, not not as the farm babe.
No, because they're was like, oh my god, it's the farm baby.
They know you know your shit. Yeah, I've been doing this almost
a decade now, so like does that matter to them though? Or they're
just like like if you sit down, if you're on a date with a
farmer and you're the farm babe, are you talking about farm stuff? I
talked about real housewives stuff, mostly farm stuff, and it sounds kind of
funny, but like I think, how hot is that? Do you?
I mean? I love it. I could talk farming all day. It's
my passion. I feel like sometimes though, guys get a little bit intimidated
by that though. Right Like I was randomly out at the bar and this
guy was talking to me and I said, oh, what do you do
for a living? Kind of stuff? And he told me that he was
a farmer, and I was like, oh, like, I'm in social
media, I'm an advocate for farmers. He says, oh okay, And
then I told him my platform and he had never heard of me before.
Well, then that night he went home and googled me. And then the
next time I talked to him, you know, he texted me, Oh,
my god, you're a really big deal. Holy shit, and he
was all like nervous. We went on our first date and he was like
asking me all these questions. He's like like he was like star struck a
little bit. You know. Is it tough to balance though, your your
credibility as an advocate for the industry with your very open about your farmer fetish.
I took a farmer fetish. I don't need to date a farmer,
I prefer but I don't need to shoot my last sort of like you know,
somebody who's a woman sports reporter, she's told not to date the athletes,
but a lot of them end up doing it because they got attracted to
sports. Because they got attracted to well, yeah, you know, my
ex, my most recent ex was a was a professional golfer, and so
that was fun because but then the more I thought about it, I was
like, wait a minute, that's agriculture, like golfish grass. I'm speaking
at the turf Grass Association in January, so you know a greenskeeper is theoretically
a farmer. Yeah. Absolutely, it's all agriculture. And so now I'm
like, you know, looking deeper into like can I get more into the
sports industry, Like can I like promote turf grass farming? That's neat.
Does a fisherman have the same appeal as a farmer? Is it sort of
the same? Right? Yeah? Maybe, but home I don't know how
good is the farmer. I was just going to say, like I love
the smell of dairies and beef, but I don't really like the smell of
fish. So salmon, you're out. If it smells like trout, back
out, Okay. So that's oh my god. Yeah, I think that's
the thing. Like a lot of women like farmer, I don't hear too
many who are like I want to date the commercial fishermen. I think that
could be the smell unless you'd be gone all the time, and I feel
like it would like I don't know, I just get visions of seasick and
like, I don't know. Yeah, it's weird that appeal. It's cool,
but I don't know. I feel like I never see him. Like
it's you know, with a farmer, I can be out there in the
combine or tractor with him, you know, we can farm together. But
with the fishermen, it's like, am I just going to be out on
this fishing boat all day? So a date a farmer if he tells the
girl like you want to go for riding my tractor, I'm in But women,
that's all right. I love that I could do that all day.
And you know what, nowadays, these tractors and combines are so expensive.
You know, nowadays, get a combine like half a million dollars, cotton
pickers a million dollars. Ladies, got yourself a cop You don't need the
Bentley. You need to go finding guys at the John Deere. Go to
the John hang out the John Deere dealer and the ones who were dropping half
a million dollars on some piece of equipment, that's your boy. There was
a great meme out there of a bunch of like stripper looking type chicks and
these skimpy little dresses there amber. They were all hanging off this combine and
it was like they just found out this costs more than a BMW. Yeah.
I think there's a farmer named Dark. He's probably an yeh beefcake.
Right. But they're so expensive. But the good news is that with that
expense comes really comfortable buddy seats. Right along, I got a nice little
air seat. You got heating and air conditioning, nice and cooling. You
know it's we're gonna let you. We're gonna let you plug your farm Bay
world in a second. But you have been on this podcast before. I
believe that you did play worst date or first date with us, but that
was a couple of years ago, and I'm sure you've had a lot of
bad dates since then. No offense to anybody. If you've been dating,
you've had some bad dates or good dates. So give me either your worst
date or your best first date that you have either ever had or had since
your last appearance. Oh, great love debate. I've got a good one,
all right. So last time I did my best first This time I'll
do my most recent worst, which was this was literally the most recent date
I went on. Was So, I went on two dates with this guy
who was originally from Morocco, and the dates were good. He was nice,
we had a great, great time, but it was he was two
into me too fast. Like it was like two dates and he's like,
oh baby, you know, texting me every morning, good morning. I
can't wait to see you. I said, hey, I'm leaving and go
on like this month long business trip. He's like, I will wait for
you, baby. Like I was like, okay, this is a little
suspect. Like he's it's like, you've known me for four hours, Like
chill out, you know, Oh my god. I mean i'd want to
marry me after four hours also, but just kidding. But anyway, so
it just seemed like red flag all over it. So, you know,
there's these social media groups out there right full of single women that like So
I post about this guy on one of the groups and I was like,
hey, I went on a couple of dates with this guy. Something seems
off. These women came out of the woodwork. So come to find out,
he gave me a fake name, a fake age. He told me
that he had never been married, There is this one girl in the comment
section who like she or she DMed me his marriage license. This other woman
in the comment section was like, he's my ex, and this other girl
was like, he's my ex. And they found out that he was cheating
on both of them at the same time in the comments, and this other
girl was like, I just broke up with him on Friday, and I
was like, I'm talking to this. We were able to find Facebook dating.
This was Facebook dating, which normally I feel like is one of the
more safe options. But so I found all this out and then I guess
and there was probably like a dozen women that were like run right, and
so yeah, he gave me a name, and he gave me fake name,
and he gave me like a fake Moroccan name, and I mean it
was so bad. And so then I guess a couple of the girls went
back and told him off and then he like blocked me. He must have
figured out like that. I was the one that figured it out, and
so yeah, I mean it was only two dates. I wasn't invested,
right, Like, all I did was kiss the guy, like no big
deal, it was nothing. I wasn't I wasn't invested but so I wasn't
like my feelings weren't hurt, but I was like, he blocked me on
everything. Well, this guy's bad guy. However, for every guy that
you guys complain about that they don't text me the next day and they don't
and you're like, he told me he liked me too much, that was
a that was a bad thing, or because you sense some bullshit. I
sense bullshit. Yeah, no, I love that. I do love a
nice guy, but he took it to such an extreme level. Like I
like, I like a guy that sends a good morning text every day.
I like a guy that shows interest, that's really kind. But he was
just like, oh, baby baby, Like you know, I was just
something seems off about this guy. I had to trust my intuition and I
was right there. You go, all right, plug your farm Babe world,
The farm Baby the Farmbabe dot Com launching a new Puncast with you Brian
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