Don Luis, mine with us today, on this Tuesday that we are 30
July of the year two thousand twenty- four. Don Luis, good morning,
good morning, how you are well we walk here, very well,
very well what you were talking about. Right now it' s a Steven
Spielberg movie. Or done, it' s real stuff. It' s
not worth the dope. The perrandula is only like a social alcimer, discoteril.
All that stuff. I hear him talking about that and here' s
what you' re talking about, that' s where his country, Don
Luis, is going. Well, today we' re going to do an
act of creativity and mix two themes. The father theme, because we just
celebrated Father' s Day last Sunday and as we have been talking about postmodern
management and There is an interesting theme, which is the role of business owners,
the role of the general manager or a siol in the case of large
medium- sized enterprises. It' s just one message I want to tell
you to be a father. There are a number of expressions that is not
just pregnant, it is not to go to the child, it is not
to keep it. Yeah, that' s all there is to it.
I think everyone knows. What worries today with the father issue and I do
the simile with the sun is that number one, a father is head of
family and head of family is like assuming that everything that is going to happen
here in my house, I have a very important fee. The school is
concerned, let' s say, with the scientific technical part. The University
gives you a profession, teaches it, prepares it, works, prepares it,
but the part that worries is and is all that you have been talking
about these programs. It' s ethics, morals, values. Then times
change. Yeah, everything changes, but ethics doesn' t change. Morality
doesn' t change, Values don' t change. Love doesn' t
change. You can change the shape. It' s a little bit like
cake. The biscocho of the last century. It' s the same as
now. What changes is that they are now more elegant, they are more
beautiful, but real things don' t change. Then the figure of the
father. I think that' s one of the most difficult roles that people
can take on in their lives. First you have to understand that it is
voluntary, it is free. You chose and you accept that. Therefore,
all the consequences and all that implies have to be assumed. Then a lady
would say yes to me, but the problem is that we don' t
have a rule, we don' t have an annual. One gets into
this without knowing, well, but the one who gets into the company finds
out about the company and cares about things that suit him and that he tastes
good, because then with the role of the father it is the same.
I just want to say two things. With the role of the father.
You have to read about the father figure. What it means to be a
parent, what it means for you to have a child. What is the
pleasure, what is the pride that you have of having a child and that
you want to teach your son, that you want him to be that son.
I' ve always said here that the family is like the oven where
the good bread comes from, or whatever comes out on the street is say
the product, but the oven, where that is cooked, where that is
made day by day, is at home. So, we, the parents,
have a commitment from the time we have the child or from the time
we get married until we get received up there, that is, we are
parents 24 hours a day and while one is alive and in fact, the
father, the father is the one who dies. The father always stays in
the heart and brain. I think everything you' re here one can'
t forget one' s dad, the one you have in your heart and
your head. Then investigate what it means to be a father. Read about
that there is too much book and you have to take care of that for
you to know and above all, what you want to leave your children.
Then there is a theme, for example, that it is interesting that children
in the house do not learn what they see on television, or what they
hear on the radio, or what they see in school, but what they
see in their home. That is, if you, the child, show
them model example, teach them values, teach them principles. I always tell
him if you were taught to read, teach, and it went well?
Teach your children to read if you were taught religion that went well? Teaching
your children if they taught you to respect? Teaches children to respect. I
mean, I don' t have to panic. I know people who say
no, because I want my son, when he' s big, to
choose the religion he wants to believe, and because he won' t let
him choose the school he wants. No. No, no, no.
Don' t give him any shots. I hope you don' t put
him on when they fix the house, because if I wanted to understand the
people who say well, I' m not going to baptize my son,
because I want him to decide and I respect that. But then it comes
to you with a lot of rules that they have that they' re going
to basically come out of that moral aesthetic scheme that' s dominated and that
' s the one that rules the West. So, if you grow in
respect, grow in good habits, grow in love of neighbor, you are
appealing to me to all the questions that arise from the code of ethics,
ethical Jewish Christian morals that from where all that has been detached in the West.
So, I don' t see anything wrong with him. I am
not a religious man, but if I had a son I would go every
Sunday with him still worshiped in a church or mass. Or I will gather
because I grew up within the Catholic religion, is that I do not believe
that I had any negative influence in my life. Look what I saw there.
On the contrary. Listen well, I mean, it seems absurd to
me that I choose whenever he wants. I grew up in a Catholic and
movie home and didn' t follow religion like I did. But I chose
that after the twenty years of my own tradition, a challenge for the albertos
And whoever it is and is identify me five great things, good with which
you agree, which are healthy, which are real, which are good.
And I challenge you to tell me to look in the Bible says the opposite
of that, that is, where neighborly labor says, whatever you have done
in your life. If what you do in your life is right, it
' s healthy, it' s true and it' s real, it
' s in the Bible. Because I agree, there is no way to
find in the Bible any psychological theory, any that goes against what it says
in the Bible. It is a lie, because the Bible is the document
of life that is written in a good way. Blessed be God, if
you write it in a language that you understand, the Christian of the century
when Jesus was born. Now we wouldn' t understand. I mean,
it has to be written and that' s the big advantage it has.
But let us return to the point where our exchange begins. You say that
if you were induced to read and did well, why not do it with
your son. Exactly if you were inculcated and raised in an environment of contact
with faith, religion, etcetera, and you did well, why not?
Driven too and I' m complete you like classical music, why it won
' t be a step. If I like food Sara is that, that
is, I have to pass on to my children not only my best,
but what didn' t happen to me for whatever reason it was. I
mean, my dad left me free will and I decided when I went to
high school that I was going to work and my dad respected me and today
I regret it. So you have to have two things, that is,
spend the best you have and be firm on that because I think there'
s now a concept. I don' t know where it has come from,
but what I' ve seen, I' ve heard from many friends,
like fatherhood is to let like that fero that happens and that happens freely
and then, when the person is aware that he chooses the group of criteria
concepts that respect whom to obey, which hierarchy within the house. I mean,
it looks like that' s the new rule. The question is,
it doesn' t teach him the language, it doesn' t teach him
to read, it leaves what when he grows up chosen the language and they
don' t realize that that attitude is an absolutely irresponsible attitude, because they
hear well, what the point is. A child from zero to three and
from three to seven is that he learns to choose then you precisely at the
time of teaching him to learn to use his brain and use his heart.
You' re gonna let him loose. Then at what point he' s
going to form that. So, if you leave it open, it means
that if he feels sugar is sweet, I want sugar. If he feels
like chance is salty, I don' t want to use it because you
' re going to leave him some of his own decisions, then that'
s a mistake. You do it in your daughter' s life exactly,
so that' s a comfort. Another problem I see today is also the
children from zero to ten, from zero to three until before the seven.
One is teaching him how to educate him to live in the future. I
mean, I can' t be complacent about everything, because at this stage
you have to learn, to live, to choose, to have limits,
and I' m training so that when I' m that old you are
capable. I mean, how do you think a child without limits in the
house is going to get to school and he' s going to respect the
prophecy. How you think that a child who doesn' t respect the father
figure, that there' s no hierarchy exactly how you think that when that
boy goes to work, he' s going to respect anyone, no boss,
he' s going to put him in place and tell him what he
believes, because he' s at home, because they understand, understand,
what we do outside the house is exactly what we learn inside the house,
because there' s no other room for that. So you have to assume
that model. I mean, I have to show my son what I want
him to do daddy calls you tell him I' m not here. You
can' t watch TV here at such an hour and the first one you
learn it from him. So understand, the kids, they record what they
see just like us, that is, we watch an adult movie, and
everything we' re here we know that reality is a lie, that that
' s a movie that can be anecdotal, that can represent, but we
all know that it' s not. It' s a recreation, it
' s a recreation of a reality. Then the son, when he goes
out on the street, must understand that all the madness he sees out there
is not reality. Then you have to read how to be a good father.
There' s just one way to get the taste of being a parent,
that is, when you get the taste for it, get up early,
take it to the play, watch the doll and laugh along with it,
go to birthdays and be there to say that doesn' t matter.
Stand up, keep going to play. That' s being a dad,
that' s me I have to be wherever I want to be, that
they stand that he feels the most important thing about a father. When you
feel in your heart that teas don' t matter, you feel that someone
is there for you if something happens to you. When I visit my children
out of the country, although they already stay and have, I always make
a side and tell them you will always be my son and any problem that
is present, you can count on me and you can call me at any
time in any situation I am going to give you what I always give you
what I have, then pass that on to a child knows the sense of
security that gives him. It' s like when you have a friend,
that you know he has a problem, that you know that let me call
a friend. So I don' t know if this is an example that
fits, but hopefully and that many people of the people who are listening can
understand clearly. What I mean is so important what you point out and for
you and you started by saying that where one first starts, where one learns
everything and where one emulates everything and who is its main influence, is your
mom, your dad and what happens is that the exact home and that gets
to such a degree that maybe a lot of people don' t know.
I have a lot of friends who tell me. Well, I voted.
I' m a fighter because Mommy Daddy was a fighter and I always believed
in the one I grew up in that influence. Or I' m an
eagle because Daddy and Mommy were an eagle. Or in my house there'
s a problem like I called myself better with Papil was a liseist and I
and Mommy was an eagle and that' s why I went with ELISEI.
That, of course, speaks of the impact and scope that a child has
when he feels that he shares clearly and goes according to the things that are
pleasing and that are rewarding to his mother and father. So, if you
lose sight of that, let' s just remind you of how you made
the decision to go to one team or another. Well, because it might
well have been at school, it' s just that a pana told you
you should be fucked exactly, and you didn' t choose to be the
team that was the pana, but the team that saw your dad break a
chair. My dad. I remember watching the sagi games being paid for by
the television and when I was losing and I was squeaking out and you were
going out, I was a savvy eagle and that' s how I was
paying for you. But that still has a huge influence on the same way
you go with the rest. I mean, it seems like Don Luis in
Plantaparti is counting on me. I agree with what you say. What I
tried was perhaps the example in a proper way, but I completely agree with
no. What you say brings up my personality. What one is exactly.
There' s a percent that comes in your genes that you' re going
to have at the time of conception, because it has to be made clear
that people aren' t born female or male is conceived the moment they conceive
you. There' s everything. Yeah, there' s your sex,
your color. It' s all there. There' s a hundred and
sixty seventy that' s inheritance comes in your gennes. But there' s
another one you mean is the one he sees, the environment, the life,
everything he sees and hears well. As long as when I' m
recruiting people and I have to evaluate their character, you always ask and that
strong character to the woman of what is my dad' s and that was
here. You think everyone has to have who. You came out of a
fight that you' re gonna look like an old woman that Dad' s
gonna show up to his mom. So that' s the big responsibility you
have. So there' s a component that' s learning, observation,
repetition, because that you gave a San Antonio in your house, that'
s no problem. The problem you did every day. I am because they
wouldn' t let me say it. But after I had freedom and he
ate me, I became self- sufficient. But in my house was the
San Antonio a f a flor de fur. Then mine, too, you
don' t put me in my house. It' s why you say
bad words. I mean who this bot has gone out to where he'
s heard the two of you like where you' ve heard it. Once
my mom was listening to the rhythm of the morning and I stayed dominating.
He even told me in the pleberia. You think there' s your dad.
Then we have a big commitment to being a parent, because it'
s that you' re passing on to someone really part of you the part
that he brought in. And for God' s sake, I' ll
reassure you that you spend more time outside the house and living your own life
than at home. Then you have to form it and you have to understand
that. They are going to repeat and they are going to do what they
see you do and being a parent is one of the tasks I repeat more
complicated, because it involves a lot. So, in the case of the
general manager, it' s the same point read about general get, the
fact that you were the one who put the company and you know business and
you know about it and you know how to import and you know how to
build and you know how to manage and you know how to make money.
That doesn' t necessarily prepare him to be a good general manager, because
the general manager, like the dad, that is, the general manager,
is responsible for everything that happens. I' ve had some very interesting cases.
When I' m talking to the general manager, I tell him there
' s only one problem. You are the owner, that is, how
you think I can accept a complaint to the father that the children, that
my son does not want to obey that son. But, bless God,
who I' m talking to. I' m talking to the guy,
I' m talking to the dad. So that the employees here don'
t meet the standard they see, but you' re the owner, you
' re the general manager, so the function of the general manager in the
broad sense is to hire people who believe in him in what he believes in
his vision, because that' s his company. Sometimes I get spoiled employees.
He' s really getting that way. I think it' s simple
to set up a company or a company so that in that company of yours
you make and raise salary. Every six months you raise salary in your company,
you put it and if the performance was good, no, no,
no, no, it' s not like that, then the general manager
has a weight that you can' t complain about absolutely anything. I'
m exaggerating people, but you understand the concept. I mean, it doesn
' t matter. It' s the general manager exactly and I agree.
There' s a question. When you are a student and you are not
yet, you are not producing your own income or not. It is very
fond of the division of capital, the extraction, the distribution of equitable profits
and sva, etc. Until you cash the first check you realize the state
gets a pretty high percentage of what you charge and you ask yourself, but
why you have to keep my money my son to redistribute. And the son
learned to save gas when he had his first car. Ah when he paid
the first tank I remember that last century there in Liseia, to the middle
that one of the group had cart and the parents and was a very advanced
family in that and they lent us the car a convertible that was of trujis.
I don' t know how it came to his hand, and I
remember my friend sending me to tell Dad to lend it to the key,
and Dad was telling me to look. He' d pass me the key
and tell me, look, why that one' s on and this one
' s on the gas. Ah, if I remember before the expensive they
had two javings at Delanta' s stage. So I was telling you,
look, that was a power key, and this is the gas chart for
gas. Then yes, it is true that there is always that spirit.
But the point a father, for example, the same thing we already told
him a cable from the gasoline fleet, the cable he wired me, the
cable. That function of responsible, that is, the general manager, as
a parent, is the one who creates culture, said in a way in
a company, has to happen whatever he decides. Obviously, that union with
him has to be careful that what he said, that he decides is real,
be practical, be honest, be ethical. But after that he doesn
' t know what' s going on. Well, young general managers aren
' t getting ready to be managers, they' re getting ready to have
a company. And since they have good relationships, they get contracts that'
s okay. And that' s all right. The problem is that you
are general manager and over twenty years ago Peter Broock wrote the book called management.
Then everything in this world has principles, rules and rules. What is
happening to today' s society, which is violating all human principles and norms.
And that' s not going to look good, because they' ve
wanted to convert society is one of the societies. Yes, booklet, yes,
everything is free. Yeah. The problem is that everyone who goes out
for the moon knows that there is a law called the Law of Gravity,
and everything that is done from here to the moon. If they violate that
law, that thing won' t come in then there are a number of
human principles. Of course, a girl who comes to the menarch can start
clear and can enjoy and can do anything you want. But that' s
against nature. Nature collects it. It' s not God, it'
s not God who collects it. It' s nature. Same as what
happens with the theme of trees, rivers and everything you do, nature collects
it. So, general manager, you have to be expert at being general
manager and believe me there' s no other way than to study, there
' s no way. It is not possible because common sense is not going
to be clear that there are many of them that can arrive, but it
takes fifteen years. So, when what my experience has been, I loved
it with one giving, a coaching to a sixty- year- old lady
in Panama. She works here, that is a local company, but she
' s in Panama and at the second session she tells me that lady.
But blessed be God, if I had had that conversation with you fifteen years,
ten years ago, I wouldn' t have been going through this thing
that I' m going through now. He spent ten years violating human principles.
You can' t talk bad to people. People stay here and they
' re gonna obey you, but that' s not gonna stay that way.
You can' t make arbitrary decisions and of course it' s going
to work, but that' s going to have its consequences. Everything in
this world that you do violating a principle is going to have a consequence.
Or you think a hernia you have, you' re going to be a
crazy goat. Yeah, yeah, there' s gonna be a time when
that ethnicity burst. So that' s some famous crisis you' re going
to emergency and the doctor said, but they' re like ten years old
with that there, and they always make you the same story. Life doesn
' t jump, life doesn' t jump. Like I was fine now
and I got depressed, not that I had my money and I didn'
t owe anyone and all of a sudden, now it turns out that I
owe half the world. No. No, that was so. That wasn
' t like that. So look read instruct yourself what it means to be
a parent, read and instruct and Formese has to read, has to study
and, obviously, today there are professionals like us who don' t have
to do magic. We just shorten your way, so I' m not
gonna stop you. We shorten it and make it somehow as nice as it
is and not as frustrating and you don' t keep using it. Maybe
an example of the friend next door using a flour that doesn' t go
for that cake. And then you never get that bad guy in vic,
so there' s people who throw what it isn' t. And then,
when you get to the teacher and say but blessed is God, but
of course that' s never gonna come out, because the one you'
re using the ingredients that aren' t right, so don' t intrude
so is that now there are people who defend up to that of the kids
and two more, two five. He decided that five and it' s
five of violence as a kind of violence, an equal violence, a lot.
Everything puts it all by some label in the background, In the fodo,
as the character of Chespirito said is to avoid fatigue. Being a dad
is complicated. Being a dad is hard, especially from zero to ten is
complicated. But today the wonder. If you' re doing well, from
zero to ten, from eleven to fifteen, it' s going soft.
And if later, in college, in difficult times, you get over that,
then you' re going to have some grandchildren, happy, kids who
will always want to go where mom and dad will always want to be with
you and they' ll always be willing to support you and collaborate with you.
Like my gifts they gave me, they gave me my vial. I
asked them for a vitrola, a radius to m FM, that I only
have to turn on a single button, a vitrola. Daddy was the last
person I heard from civitrola. Okay, okay. Thanks to Don Luis Minaya.
As always very interesting here, Don Luis, today allowed us a small
debate. I' m good that it' s every now and then you
don' t say it. Of course, of course I agree. What
you believe many things. The thing is, my way is I don'
t. What happens is that my path is tortuous to reach the agreement,
Don Luis, thank you very much, Luis Minaya, see already rayita below se o