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Hey, Hey, I'm back with
something for you to think about. I

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hope everyone is doing well. You, your family, your friends. I

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hope everyone is doing well. I
wanted to talk about something today, and

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I tell you I have a heavy
heart because I've been listening to different situations

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and it really saddens me that people
feel as if they don't wanna go on

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with life. People feel that they're
at the end of their robes. And

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now I talked a little bit about
suicide a d just a little while ago,

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maybe a week or two weeks or
something like that. Time goes so

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fast you can hardly keep up.
But I'm not in particularly talking about suicide.

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I'm just talking about pep people who
just feel that they cannot move from

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that old place to something and somewhere
better. You have to be willing to

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let go. That's the bottom line. You must be willing to let go.

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Nothing is that bad. I know
people have been in some horrendous situations.

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They have been in some very very
awful and traumatic situations. I mean,

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just unthinkable things have happened to people. But but what I want people

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to understand is you went through what
you went through. It's done. Where

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people fail themselves. Is when they
keep carrying the pain as if the still

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live in that situation. You must
be willing to go. You must be

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willing to let go. The reason
so many do not become better mentally is

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because they are in the same place. They are living vicious cycles over and

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over and over and over again,
because they're holding on to those memories and

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they have given power to those memories
that have turned into those thoughts that you

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keep reliving day in day out.
You have to be willing to let go.

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It does not matter what you went
through or how traumatic it may have

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been. You have to leave that
stuff behind. I'm not saying you won't

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forget. I'm not saying that I'm
not saying that you will forget. But

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if you don't forget them those things, if you don't forget them, what

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happens is if you're not giving power
to those memories and thoughts, what is

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going on is they lessen they've saved, some of them will go away altogether.

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What they will never do that when
you keep fueling the fire, when

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you continue to give power to those
memories and that forms those thoughts, you

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are feeling the fire. The more
you give power to them. The more

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power and control your memories and thoughts
have over you and your life because you

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have gave your power to those things. So many people are at the end

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of their road when they don't have
to be. That is what really,

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really, really sits hard. It's
tough for me because I love people,

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and I know no one on the
face of the earth have to live with

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depression. And you know anxiety and
thoughts of harming themselves are harming others.

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No one, but the power you
give to your thoughts, they will consume

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you. I actually cried when I
heard about this man who had thought about

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killing up a lot of people,
but instead of killing people, he just

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killed himself and wrote a note to
say he wasn't a killer. That touched

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me so deeply. Although his life
was lost, he took his own life.

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That still touched me because it didn't
have to get to that point.

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When you know that you have unresolved
issues and you do not handle those issues,

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you do not heal from those issues
so you can move on, you

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remain the same, and you remain
that same person full of self doubt,

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self neglect, self hate, self
loath, insecurities, fear, believe in

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things, that are not true.
You're so worried about you don't have support,

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No one loves you, no one
likes you. You should never think

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like that because this is your life. It's not the other person's life.

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It is your life, and therefore
or you have the opportunity to make it

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the best that you can. People
complaining, Oh, it's hard, it's

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hard out there, it's hard trying
to make it. Yes, it's hard

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for everyone. But you still can
make it if you choose to. And

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I can say that because I,
at one point in my life with two

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little kids, struggled, but I
paid every bill. I made it work

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because I always chose home. I
didn't think about other things spending my money

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foolishly. I thought about home and
my children. So you have to get

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your priorities right. When you don't
have your priorities right, then it messes

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up everything else. You spend bill
money knowing you need to pay your bills.

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That cause of stress, so much
stress, financial stress. But people

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keep doing it instead of choosing to
be better. Individuals have all of these

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things inside that they're holding on to. Your mom didn't love you, your

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dad didn't love you. They talked
about you, they beat you, They

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abuse you in every single way possible. This and that you're holding on to

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those things and you're an adult,
you're still angry as an adult when you

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could have let that mess go.
Anytime someone hurts you, whether past or

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present, it's because of that individual
and their own unresolved issues. You can

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not take ownership of their pain.
You cannot allow yourself to be a victim

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to their pain. When we were
kids, and for those who have gone

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through situations, bad situations, traumatic
situations, bad experiences, however you want

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to label them. When we were
children, little kids, we didn't have

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control over a lot of things.
But as you progress through life, you

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have to make a decision. This
is my life. I came from hell.

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I'm not going to keep going through
it. I want to make it

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better. I want things to be
different. You have to choose that for

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yourself, but so many people don't. They don't choose better. But what

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they do is they continue down the
same road and then they get into relationships

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with people who are similar to them. When I say similar, I mean

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with the same problems, such as
unresolved issues that's plaguing them. So when

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you get involved with someone who has
their own unresolved issues. You're gonna have

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nothing but friction in your relationship.
Your relationship is going to be plagued with

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chaos and drama. So you power
all of that on top of what's already

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bothering you. Then you get jobs
and you have a bunch of people in

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the workplace who have unresolved issues.
We can have it in the workplace from

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the top down. Then you take
in that makes your life even worse.

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I mean, you go through life
just powering, powering, powering the problems

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of others onto your own unresolved issues. You keep taking other people problems and

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bringing them into your life as if
they were yours. If a person don't

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like you, so what if they
don't support you, so what? If

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they don't love you, So what
if they don't want you? So what?

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You never ever have to take disrespect
from anyone. You can handle a

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situation in a nice way, but
yet in a way where they get the

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point. You never have to be
anyone's toilet, meaning you don't have to

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let people just dump on you with
nonsense and negativity. You do not,

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you do not. You don't have
to entertain foolishness, You don't have to

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be that individual that's easily brainwashed and
influenced because you have all of those insecurities

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inside of you. Anything that sounds
good or looks good, you're willing to

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follow. No one has to be
like that. So when people go through

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life with all of these issues,
and not only your own, you're taking

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on the problems of other people.
You're taking on the behaviors of other people.

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When I say you're taking on those
things, I mean you are allowing

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them to affect your life negatively.
And all it does is pushes you further

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and further down. Your soul is
more and more vexed. You're in that

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dark place. This is what happens
when you allow people and things to drain

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you of your energy. This is
what happens when you do not heal from

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your past pains. All of the
current pain and those things that you allow

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people to bring into your life,
they affect you because the mindset is not

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in a healthy place from the start. That's why I tell you all your

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storms is not the problem. They
may be something, but they're not the

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problem. That's Your storm is not
why you can't get through the storm.

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The problem is your mindset entering into
the storm. When your mindset is not

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in a good place entering into the
storm, you're gonna have a hard time

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in the storm. You're gonna have
a hard time. You're gonna make that

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storm way worse than it has to
be because of the mindset that you had

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going into it. It's harder for
people to see their way. But people

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don't understand this. That's why I
tell you all of the time. Your

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mindset is everything. If your mindset
is not right, your soul is not

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at peace. Your soul is restless. There is no way you have peace

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within your soul when you have hate
in you, when you're jealous and envious,

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when you are full of toxicity and
negativity. There's no way on earth

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your soul is at peace. People, you have to let it go.

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You have to stop giving power to
people who have hurt you, because those

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people someone hurt them, Those people
that hurt you, they were powerless people.

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They seemed powerful in your life at
some point, but really they weren't.

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They were not. They were not, But in your mind, you

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have given them so much power to
continue to hurt you, even though you're

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not even in it anymore. You're
not in the tragedy, the trauma,

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the bad experience. You're not even
in it anymore. But now you're creating

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your own because of your self inflicted
pain because you won't let go. You

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won't let go, and it saddens
me because my heart is very sincere.

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I love people, and I know
people are strong. I mean I see

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it all around me every single day. I know people are struggling. I

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know they are. But I also
know, without a shadow of a doubt,

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no one on the face of the
earth has to get to that point

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of no return or that point where
they're so barbed down that they end up

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losing their mind. No one,
no one. Whatever you open yourself up

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to is exactly what you're going to
get. Let me say it again,

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and I want to make it clear. Whatever you open yourself up to is

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exactly what you're going to get.
If you keep giving power to your past,

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it's going to affect you. It's
not the past, it's the memories

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of the past that you've given power
to as if the past is still in

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exact when it's not. You gotta
think about what I'm saying. Don't just

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hear me, understand, Let it
resonate deep within you. Your life can

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be better, but you have to
want it. When you start getting those

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thoughts of your past, say to
yourself past, you're no more. I'm

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not giving any power to you.
I was unfortunate. I had a mom

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that didn't love me. Or I
had a mom who abused me. I

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had a dad who didn't love me. I had a dad who abused me.

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I had parents that were not in
my life no matter the situation,

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I was chained up, I was
abused in every form, no matter the

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situation. Stopped giving power to it. It is over. It's the memories

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that you are keeping fresh through your
thoughts, and it's causing you sickness,

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physical, emotional, mental sickness.
We all see it every day when people

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commit road rage, when people commit
murder, when people all forms of murder,

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suicide, homicides, parents killing their
children, children killing their parents,

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boyfriend killing girlfriend, girlfriend killing boyfriends, husband killing wives, wives killing husband,

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people just killing period. We see
it. We see it with people

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who are in relationships who desperately loving
someone who don't even love his or herself

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because they don't know what it is. But you're desperately loving that person being

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treated like crap. But you still
wanna be with him or her. That

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comes from a bad place within you. And because you're going through so much

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with that person, you're taking in
things as if you're the problem. You're

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not the problem. You're a part
of the problem. But the biggest issue

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is your mindset, how you think
you can't change him or her. You

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could only change you. But you're
trying to love that person. Half of

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the time, they don't even deserve
you, and they don't know what love

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is, just like you don't know
what it is, because if you did,

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you wouldn't even put yourself through it. But so many people take that

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in and then they bring all of
that negativity and pile it up and they're

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so hurt and devastated. You know, people they fall apart when they're cheated

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on, They fall apart when people
die. That's because you've given so much

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power to that person when you never
should do that. Because one fact is

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it's a hard pill to swallow,
but it is the truth. No one

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can change it. We all are
going to die. Yes, people die

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suddenly unexpectedly to us, unexpectedly,
but God knows people die unexpectedly, and

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suddenly people can shorten their lives.
But one thing for sure, we're all

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giving up out of here one of
these days. We're all going to die

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one day. So when people give
power to individuals who pass and they just

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allow it to consume them because they
feel they can't live without that person,

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that's wrong. I'm sorry, but
it is. According to the word of

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God, it's wrong. When you
give power to someone that's causing negative in

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your life, that's never good.
I don't care who it is. It's

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never good. If it's causing negativity
in your life in any form, it's

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not good. If the person you're
with causing negativity in your life is no

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good for you. If on your
job it's pure negativity and causing you stress,

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it's no good for you. I
mean, I can go on and

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on and on. So what I'm
trying to say to you people go through

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things in life and because of unhealed
hearts and mind, they power all of

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this other stuff on them, And
as I said earlier, it just pushes

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you down further and further and further, and then you feel like you can't

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take it anymore. You don't wanna
be on this earth, you wanna die,

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or you're just so unhappy and miserable
and stressed out and depressed because you

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have given your power. That's the
only reason why, the only reason why

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you feel like that you have given
your power to someone or something. And

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it is heartbreaking to me because I
know no one have to live this way.

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I mean, some people have gone
through I mean super traumatic what I've

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gone through, and I went through
some traumatic things, but it's nothing compared

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to some people. But me,
I just refuse to give people my power

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or anything my power. I just
refuse. I don't care. I don't

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care. I don't care. I'm
not saying I'm made of stone. I'm

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not saying none of that. But
what I don't do is give my power

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to people and too things. I
don't care if you don't like me.

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I don't care if you don't love
me. I don't care if you don't

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want to hear me. I don't
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I don't care if you support me. I don't care at all.

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And I'm not just talking. I'm
telling you what God knows, and I'm

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telling you what he loves, and
that's the truth. I don't care.

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I stand on my own and with
the Father and the Son and the Holy

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Spirit. Now that's me. Everyone
is not like that. But even if

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you don't believe, you still should
believe in yourself. Don't let no one

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take that away from you. The
ability to believe in yourself, that's what

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most people do. You give that
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You let them take that from you, The ability to love yourself, the

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ability to get to know yourself.
You allow someone else to take it from

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you because you believe all the negativity
they say it to you, because you

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believe you're not worthy, because all
the things they've done to you. Stop

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giving your power away from this moment
forward, Stop it. You're worthy.

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You're not put on this earth to
suffer. You're You're not put on this

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earth to be turmoil mentally because of
past pains or people that you have opened

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yourself up to and allow into your
life that weak have it. That's not

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what God intended for us. So
this has been on my heart and I

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really wanted to talk about it.
You have to let it go and sometimes

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gotta keep it real. You have
to let people go. I mean,

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it don't matter who it is.
Sometimes you have to let people go.

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I never would say stop loving them, because that would be wrong. You

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love them, but you have to
let them go. Let go and let

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God. I'm just telling you sometimes
you have to move on and leave all

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the drummer in the mess behind.
But the problem is people try so desperately

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to hold on to people who treated
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Think about it. You're trying desperately
to hold on to someone who's treating

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you like crapp? What seriously,
what's the good in that You're waiting on

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him to change? You're waiting on
her to change? What about you changing?

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Because they may never change. We
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our life. But I promise you, when you're in a better mindset,

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it does not matter what come to
you, what tragedy, what unexpected comes,

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You'll be able to handle it because
your mindset is in a better place

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to receive anything. I'm not saying. Sometimes you you may cry, sometimes

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you may kind of feel bad,
but you'll never stay there. You'll never

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stay there. When I lost my
mom for a split moment, I was

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like, how do I even live? I'm just being honest with you,

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and I still get emotional thinking about
my mom. She passed last year,

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and I really get emotional thinking about
my mom because she was a good,

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good mom. She was so unique. Anybody that knew her would tell you

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she was so unique. She's the
only person I know in the world that

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was never disrespected. I don't know
anyone who ever disrespected my mom. And

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that's the god honest truth. And
she was close to all of her children.

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So I miss my mom. But
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She took a journey that I gotta
take one day, you gotta take,

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we all must take. Did it
hurt me? Yes, it slammed me

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straight to the floor for a moment, But then I remembered who I loved

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the most, and that's my father
in heaven. And you know what,

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I mentioned this before on episodes.
I told my mom that before she she

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died. It was it was a
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years. We were having a conversation
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much, cause my mom, ever
since I could remember, always told us

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all she love us. And I
said, I love you so much.

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I said, but I love God
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she was like quiet for a second, and then she said, oh,

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I can understand. That's the connection
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the son. So I missed my
mom. I do. I love her.

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I miss her so much, but
I don't get caught up in trying

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to talk to her every day,
looking at her picture and trying to you

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know, talk to her and you
know, got the little what you call

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them set up in the house for
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I don't worship my dad Mama.
I don't celebrate her birthday because she

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don't have any more birthdays. When
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You could say a person would be
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but to say happy birthday, mom
or dad or whoever, No,

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that's wrong because they don't have any
more birthdays. The last birthday had they

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had is when they died. Prior
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on their birthday. You get what
I'm saying. That's the last birthday they

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had it will ever have. So
I don't get into none of that.

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Even though I miss my mom and
I loved my mom. She was the

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best. But for a split second, because my face was to the ground,

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I felt like, I don't know, how do you live without your

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mom? Because the connection was so
strong, and when she passed, it

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was like I could feel I cannot
explain it, but it felt like I

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felt something taken from me. It
was so bizarre, But I got myself

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together. I remember who I belonged
to, and even though I get sad

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sometimes thinking about her, missing her, I don't stay there. You just

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can't give power to anything or anyone. You just can't because it will put

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you in a dark place, and
darkness belongs to the devil. That's what

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the devil wants. He wants your
mind all jacked up. He wants you

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hate in yourself. He wants you
hate in others. He wants you to

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be embassy and jealous of people and
not understanding it's not even about them,

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it's about you and how you feel
about yourself. But the devil wants you

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to think like that. So until
people start understanding that, they you your

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mindset is your worst enemy, and
you have become a prisoner to your own

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mindset. Until people understand that and
do something about it, we're gonna continue

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to see what we've been seeing,
and worse things are getting worse. People

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are not showing love. I mean, it's crazy. This world is crazy

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because of the people in it,
but that's because of unhealed hearts and minds.

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I believe it. I believe it. I believe it. Until people

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choose change, things are going to
remain the same. That's why we are

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all need Jesus. We all need
God. We need him. Whether you

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think you're do or not, we
need him. So again, I just

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wanted to talk about this. It
was on my hunt. I hope someone

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gets something out of it. And
listen. If you need to talk,

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please reach out to me. Reach
out to me. I will even give

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you my phone number if you need
to talk. I really would. I

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can't talk to everyone, but I
will answer emails and like I said,

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if a person really, really,
really really need to talk, I will

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give you my number because I do
have a business line as well. So

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I love each and every one of
you, appreciate you all. I just

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want you to know your life can
be better. You can live a beautiful

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life. You can live that life
with peace that surpasses all understanding. But

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you must want it. You gotta
let it go. You gotta let things

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go that mean you no good.
You have to let people go. That

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means you no good. You can't
hold on to those memories because they benefit

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you none. Look what they're causing
in your life. You're going out committing

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road range because you angry because of
what's inside of you. That's why you're

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committing road range. That's why you're
so angry when you go outside to drive,

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because of what's inside. The reason
you get all those negative thoughts because

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of what's inside. The reason you
hate because of what's inside, The reason

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you have self doubt, lack of
many things, the inability to love so

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many things because of what's inside.
Until you deal with what's inside, heal

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and let it go, nothing changes. And I'm leaving it right there.

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Thank you for listening again. Much
love to each and every one of you.

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Please reach out go to my podcast
page you to tell you how to

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contact me. I will most definitely
respond. Thank you again, much love.

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You know. I end every single
episode the same, and I pray,

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Father God in Heaven. Please,
Father God in the name of Jesus,

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touch hearts in mind's Lord, change
people, Lord, change him Lord,

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Let him seek after you, Jesus, let'em seek after you.

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Father in Jesus' name, I end
every episode the same, and I pray,

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I pray, I pray, I
pray, you do it, Thank

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God, it