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And I was just telling Jenny a
minute ago, welcome to the Minnesota Goodbye

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that after the show, I'm going
over to a pre k little class to

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read my book and do a couple
of magic tricks. And so I'm looking

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through my magic trick collection and a
lot of them are ones that little kindergarten

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kids don't They wouldn't get you,
I said. I was like, did

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you have to learn a new one
or are you just going to stick with

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a classic? But then I realized
that young kids are they need like the

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quarter behind the ear kind of trick. Well, I've got one where I

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put a ball, like a red
rubber ball into my hand and then I

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stuff it into my hand and I
open it up and it's a giant bunny.

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So kids love little things like that
that are very simple and that are

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cute. So I got a couple
of tricks. One of them was Tina

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used to love it because I did
it for Tina one time because we had

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like a kid's night here at the
radio station years ago, and Tina's like,

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oh, that's really cool. So
I'm doing that one and a couple

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of more. But reading my book
Little Dave's Amazing Day, and so it

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should be fun and it's very cool
to get asked to do something like that.

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What are you doing the rest of
day? I have the joyful opportunity

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to get an oil change, so
I will be doing that. At one

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point, I am a little overdue
on the mileage. How overdo are you?

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Well, because we just took my
car to the north Shore. I'm

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probably like twelve hundred miles. Fine, Okay, you're fine, that's what

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I assume. I've definitely stretched it
before. But I just I like bought

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my car out from this lease,
and I want to make sure I take

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really good care of it because it
needs to last me the rest of my

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life. Yeah, not the rest
of my life, but I want it

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to last a really long time.
So I don't want to be that person

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that's not taking care of it,
you know. And that's true. And

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I think that, you know,
I read that somewhere or heard from a

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mechanic. That's the suggestion that they
you know, of course, they want

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you to come in more frequently for
an oil change because they make more money.

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So if you work at Valvelen instant
oil change, I'm going to tell

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you to come in in two thousand
miles. I'm going to put a sticker

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on your door, on your window
because I want you to come back more

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often. But I've or you go
two thousand miles over your five. Yeah,

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but don't drive with your oil light
on for too long. Yeah,

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oil light's not on, right,
it's not on. But Andrew did point

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out that a different light was on
when he was driving my car over the

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weekend, and I was like,
I don't know, I think that's on

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all the time. I didn't even
pay attention to that. So I've got

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a light on in my car that's
been there for a year. It's the

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engine light. And I took it
into the local mechanic that I go to

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in Chan and they said that one
is a BMW specialized light. In other

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words, to get that one turned
off, we can't do it. You

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got to take it to a BMW
dealership. And I said why and he

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said, because they want you to
go and spend money at a BMW dealership.

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So I've left it on and I
stopped going to the BMW dealership.

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And this is not a rip on
them, but the experience that I've had

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was every time I went in,
they would say, oh, well,

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you got to get a new ABC. And I'm like really, they're like,

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oh, yeah, it's about to
go out, So i'd buy a

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new ABC. How much eight hundred
and fifty two dollars. While you're at

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it, you probably should get a
couple of new conveyor belts. Conveyor belts.

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Oh yeah, so how much is
that? Well that'll be twelve hundred.

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Fuck are you serious? So I
stopped going to the BMW dealership and

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I'm not going to say. There's
several in town, so I'm not going

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to say which one. But then
I started going to a local mechanic and

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they don't do that. Yeah,
and you don't know, Yeah, you

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don't know. You don't know.
If you don't know anything about cars,

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you're just like whatever. I remember
I used to have a Chevy Cruise and

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it would have recalls all the time, and i'd take it in for the

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recalls and then they'd be like,
oh, well you might want to get

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this and this and that checked out
too, and I was like, I'm

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good, thank you, though,
but I'm going to take my car home.

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As long as the recall part's done, We're good. No, totally,

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Because he's like, oh, the
gas cap doesn't seal all the way.

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Eh, well it's a gas cap. That's a bad example. All

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right, let's jump into the emails. Here's Leah. She says, I

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want to say I've been listen to
The Morning Show off and on since I

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was a little kid on the school
bus. I didn't listen. I was

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away at college, but then started
back up on my morning commute. Since

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I recently remembered that my sister and
I used to be so curious about what

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Dave looked like before social media.
We finally saw him on a billboard in

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the late nineties or so, and
our minds were blown. I had always

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pictured a blonde guy. Oh,
I get that. The DJ that I

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grew up listening to, and I
listened to many, I always pictured them

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as like kind of cool, looking
like surfer hair, blonde, whatever.

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And then I saw the guy on
TV and he looked like a normal guy,

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a little bit nerdy, and I
was like, bo, that's him.

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But once you get used to what
we look like, it usually turns

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out fine. Yeah, but it
is funny. Of course you're going to

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picture what we look like and then
But the great thing is now you can

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go on social media and see exactly
what we look like. And I think

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a lot of people think there have
been people who thought I was younger.

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Who people thought I was taller,
more handsome, blonde whatever. Steve used

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to get it like a lot of
like, WHOA, I didn't know you

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looked like that hm in a negative
way. Not really, I thought he

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was short. A lot of people
some people thought people thought that Chrisco was

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black. There were several people that
thought Chrisco was black. And you know,

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you see him online like, oh, doesn't look like what I thought.

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So if you want to see us, were on Dave ryanshow dot com.

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Next one. I'm writing in to
say that I agree this is from

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a woman. By the way,
I agree with Dave's one third on whether

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females like anal or not. I
would not say I would. I would

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like to say a lot of women
enjoy anal play such as a finger around

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or inside, licking, et cetera. This is getting naughty and I wasn't

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expecting it, but I didn't preread
it. Sometimes the penis is genuinely too

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big and is just uncomfortable, but
smaller items or acts can be extremely pleasurable.

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And I would highly recommend. Some
of my friends love it and some

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say absolutely not. But I would
say a majority like some anal play but

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not the penis, if that makes
sense. That is a very matter of

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fact email that I was not expecting
from Brooke. But SERI I said the

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other day, I said, my
experience is and nobody cares my experience.

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But I said, we were talking
about anal on the show, which is

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a little bit too vulgar honestly for
the podcast, but we'll talk about it

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once in a while in a funny
sort of way. And I said,

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I have found that one third of
women like it, one third will tolerate

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it. In other words, if
her partner wants to try it, she'll

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tolerate it, and one third say
no. That's my experience. And you

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didn't agree with that, well,
I would say, in my experience,

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most of my friends don't like it. They're lying. Maybe they're lying.

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They very much could be. I
would say that the friends that I talk

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about sex with, we have no
problem talking about sex, so like,

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I don't think they would lie about
that. So that's why I say,

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I think more people are probably on
the side of they don't like it.

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Yeah, No, I get it, I mean probably, I don't.

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I mean again, nobody wants to
really hear me talk about it, So

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let's move on to an email that
says, am I being petty. Now

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it's a little bit longer of an
email, but let's check it out.

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Don't say a name. I've been
listening to you guys since fifth grade on

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my analog clock radio. Now I'm
thirty, still a daily listener on iHeartRadio.

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Your show, and especially the Minnesota
Goodbye is such a bright spot in

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my day. I love how people
love the Minnesota Goodbye. And I'm not

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sure why why do people love the
Minnesota Goodbye? Why do you think it?

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Tell me? Write me an email
and tell me why you love the

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Minnesota Goodbye. I'm so glad you
do. I think it's just a lot

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of like unfiltered not like planned stuff. It's different doing a podcast versus a

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radio show, Yeah, because people
usually set they listen to a podcast when

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they have time to listen to something
in length. Radio often is so like

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you're in your car for ten minutes
as a commuting to take your kids to

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school, so you only catch a
quick segment and you don't always catch everything

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from the start to the beginning,
you know what I mean, Whereas like

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with the podcast, you're starting it
and you know exactly what's happening throughout the

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whole thing. It's just it's different. It is is different. We're a

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little bit more free form, and
I love the fact that we're not on

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a timeline, we're not up against
the clock, we don't have to play

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any commercials, and we can take
as long as we want on an email.

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This won will take a little bit
longer. So here we go,

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So tell me, am I being
petty, let's start. I have not

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pre read this. I loaned my
umbrella to my boyfriend two weeks ago.

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I had since forgotten about it because
it lives in my car. Typically.

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Fast forward to today. This would
have been yesterday. Yeah, yesterday I

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had to go to my office for
an in person customer meeting, which meant

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putting in extra time to getting ready. I get to work and it's pouring

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rain. No problem, I've got
my umbrella. Oh wait, it's not

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there. Yeah. After running through
the parking lot with my backpack on my

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head to protect my hair that I
spent a decent amount of time on and

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still getting decently wet. I texted
my boyfriend letting him know I had not

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gotten my umbrella back along with my
charger that I borrowed him. Side thing

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that I'm also annoyed about. He
started in with he thought I had two

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umbrellas. I don't, and he
forgot because I made a no attempt to

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get them back. It was not
really his fault and he has not returned

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it. Also, he told me
I was being petty. Yes, I

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had not asked for them back yet. I did sort of forget every time

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I saw him, but mainly because
when you borrow something from somebody, even

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your significant other, I believe you
should be returning it when you can.

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If if he had gotten my umbrella
back to me two days later when I

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saw him, this wouldn't have happened. So tell me, am I being

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petty? No, I don't,
no. No. When you're done borrowing

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something like a ukulele, Jenny,
you're supposed to give it back. Jenny,

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what, I don't know what you're
talking about. Like five four or

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five years ago, during the pandemic, Jenny's like, I'll borrow the land

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like and I was like, okay, sure. Months go by. Jenny

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doesn't give it back till finally I'm
like, Jenny, do you have my

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ukulele? And she actually said fuck
you and she threatened to hit me.

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I did do that, but prior
to that, I did say, hey,

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I'm gonna hang onto this for a
bit and keep learning because we had

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you, I had borrowed it for
a bit on the show. And You're

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like, yeah, go for it, keep it as long as you want.

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And I was like, but I'm
going to It's fine. You know

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what I've got. I've got a
dozen ukuleles at home. You can keep

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it. It's fine. What does
it look like? I don't remember?

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Do you remember? You remember what
it looks like? I mean, it's

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just brown. It's got a black
case, like a padded black case and

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stuff. But it's pretty basic.
There's not only a design or anything on

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it. Okay, gotcha? Yeah, probably like a forty dollars ukulele.

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You're welcome to it. Let's go
back to the umbrellas. I think that

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you're right. I think it's more
of like a like a screw up and

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an inconvenience. I don't think that
he was being too much of a jerk

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for not giving it back, but
he should have apologized said, you're right,

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I should have given it back to
you, because you know, nobody

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expected it to pour down rain yesterday
and it did. Susan didn't want to

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walk out of her shop to walk
to the car, and I looked outside

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in chan Hassen it was pouring right
yea last night, Yeah, yeah,

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Andrew had gotten home and he had
called me from the garage and I didn't

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see it because my phone's on silent
and I was watching TV, and so

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he had called me in Twenty minutes
later, I saw a call. I

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was like, did you need something? He's like, well, I just

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wanted to make sure that the door
was open because I didn't want to have

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to like unlock it and it was
down pouring. I was like, yeah,

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sorry, And I was sitting right
by the door. He was referencing,

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Oh really, I didn't see your
phone call. Uh whoop, Sorry

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about that. Let's see what else
we got here. Oh this is really

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cute. This is from somebody who
won tickets for the Shine Down cruise on

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they one earlier this morning. They
write in Morning, Dave Jenny Vont.

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Now that I've stopped shaking, I
want to send a quick email to thank

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you for the tickets for the cruise
on June eleventh for Shindown. My husband

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is a huge Shine Doown fan.
I'm a huge KDWB fan, so I

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think I'm more excited to meet you
than Shineedown. But Shine Doown does rock

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too. See you on June eleventh. Thank you again so so much.

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Have a great day, I know, I sure, am And that's from

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Paula. Paula, you know what. You're very sweet to write back.

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I appreciate that to let us know
that you're excited. That's who we want

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to come on cruises like that,
Yes, is people who are excited to

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go. So very happy you are
coming. Next one Amanda writes in and

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says, I was listening to the
afternoon show and I heard the ad for

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the morning show, Bigger, Better
More? What happened to Bigger, Better

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Blacker? Is that not hr approved? Appreciate you, guys. I can't

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even say. I will say that
the mystery will be solved tomorrow morning at

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seven a m. Yes, so
be here at seven am for a big

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announcement. There is a long email
from Donna about puppies and dogs, and

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I'll tell you what happens sometimes when
we're reading an email that's really long,

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is we get about one third of
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this is just not going to work, so and I should pre read these,

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and I have not got a chance
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maybe we'll try. Maybe I'll try
to read it tomorrow. And she

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does end up by saying ps what
another read it suggested? A reader suggested

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about ginormous Maxi pans and doggie diapers
for old dogs really does work. Disgusting,

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but better than pee everywhere because Josie
peas all over and she'll just now

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squat and peace. She doesn't even
care anymore. She's fifteen and you put

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a doggye diaper and she just peas
in it. Now she drips it all

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over the house. So somebody said, put a Maxi pad in there to

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absorb everything. It'll work better.
So good tip. Thanks for the email.

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We're gonna end it there. Wait, I have a question. Yeah,

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as you brought up, I think
earlier this week you're thinking about maybe

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getting a dog for Josie and for
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somebody said older dogs like puppies,
and I was talking to a friend of

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mine yesterday who's a dog lover.
She's got three dogs, and she said,

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maybe get a two year old rescue
dog because right now, you don't

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have time to train a puppy.
Yeah, and you're right, I don't

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have time. I don't have the
inclination to train a puppy. Puppies are

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very difficult and very frustrating, and
some do better than others. And I'm

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not good at training a puppy.
Susan trained all of our dogs to go

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outside, but you get a two
year old dog that's been trained. They're

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still young, they're still fun,
but they're not puppies that like will drive

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Josie crazy. Does that sound like
a better idea? It does sound good,

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so you're thinking more on it is
what you're saying, not ser We've

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got so much going on in our
life right now. It's honestly, it's

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driving me a little bit nutty because
I've over committed to myself. I've over

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obligated to agree to do this,
to agree to do that, to go

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to this, to hang out to
this and whatever, and because I don't

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like to say no, because my
problem is when I say no, I'm

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worried that people are going to go, God, what a dick. Like

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somebody hit me up yesterday and said, Hey, I'm going to do a

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freeway cleanup like you guys do.
Can you call me so I can pick

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your brain on the best way to
organize a freeway cleanup and how much time

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and how many people. And I
didn't even call him back, And I'm

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not going to call him back.
And the reason I'm not going to call

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him back is because right now I
don't have time to spend twenty minutes on

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the phone talking about a freeway cleanup. But I know I feel like a

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dick force for not calling him back. I just say time answer every question.

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Oh yeah, And you have to
set boundaries. I just set boundaries

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with someone like recently in my life
who I'm very close to that's a family

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member, because they were asking me
for help on something that like I've done

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my own research on and I was
like, okay, hollball, I'll give

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you a couple tips, but then
from here on you have to do your

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own research because it's up to you. Yeah. No, that's totally fair.

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What was it about, can you
say or would you rather not say?

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It was just about some like website
stuff. Okay, yeah, you

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know, and I think that.
And I'm not bitching because I'm really happy

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that people ask me for help and
favors. But I complain to Susan sometimes,

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like when does anybody ever do anything
for us? People don't take us

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to dinner, People don't buy us
dinner, people don't come over and do

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something whatever. And it's like Susan
and I are always asked to go do

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this, to volunteer for this,
to go do that, and it's like,

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I guess we're very blessed that people
reach out to us, but we

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just nobody does. I'm not whining
and crying, but nobody does anything for

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us. I mean, outside of
work, you do things for me,

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but nobody does anything for us.
Nobody says you know, like I don't

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know. And it's like I like
helping people, but fucking a sometimes got

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to find some friends that you can
benefit from, you know, because it's

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like friends with benefits. Yeah,
well that you find that, but then

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also friends who just like you could
benefit from their job perks. Like you

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know someone who's super rich and they
have a yacht and they can bring you

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out on their yacht like stuff like
that that's what I got to work on.

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You know, I will give you
one and this is I'm going to

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shout out this person and she took
photos of us last week and she took

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him for free. And there was
somebody who did something for us. Yes,

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so you know, I guess I
should stop bitching and kind of count

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my blessings. But yeah, I
don't know. We noticed that years ago,

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that like we would take people out
and buy them dinner, and nobody

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would ever offer to buy dinner for
us because people thought we were rich and

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we do well, but we're not
rich. But we go to dinner and

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people would kind of wait until we
reach for the check, but nobody would

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ever like even buy us a drink. And I remember one time, I

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think somebody took us out to dinner
at dinner and they paid, and we're

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like, holy shit, somebody bought
us dinner. Yeah, And it's not

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like we can't afford our own dinner. It's just nice. And you know,

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yeah, if you and I are
going to go out and have like

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drinks at happy hour, I know
you can afford a couple of drinks.

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That's not the issue. It's like
it's just nice to buy for somebody.

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All right, that's it. Did
we give you anything to think about,

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talk about, reflect upon? And
do you want to come on and a

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comment on anything. If so,
send your email to Ryan's show at KDWB

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dot com for the Minnesota goodbye.
We always love to hear from you.

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Thank you,