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All right, you guys, we're
going to Bloomfield second date. Update.

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Ben is on the line. He's
getting ghosted and we're going to try to

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find out why. Good morning,
Ben, Hey, good morning guys.

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How are we feeling good? That
were good? We're good, We're good.

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Listen. I hear you went on
a great, great first day with

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a girl named Sarah, and I
want to hear all about the date so

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we can find out while you're getting
ghosted. Yeah, I mean, oh

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my gosh, I can't even like, oh god, I just feel like

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I had a great time with this
girl, right like, all right,

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so yeah, so I went on
this date with this girl. Her name

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is Sarah, right, so she
was in West harp We went to West

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Harford. Was like, that's to
dinner, right like, we're just like

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got some It was just like a
great night though I don't know that.

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I feel like we really kind of
close. We're just having a good conversation

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and I like kind of flew by, like I don't know you doing just

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felt really good and I just I
just I just definitely want to do that

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again. I want to see her
again. But she kind of hit me

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back. I'm getting nothing out of
her, and I don't know what's help

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to do because I just I feel
like we had a great night, had

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a great date. So you hit
her up and she didn't hit you back.

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Yes, we had a great time. And then I hit her up

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the next day. I just wanted
to text and just kind of see,

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you know, how she's feeling and
stuff, and maybe get a vibe for

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a second date. And I just
never got a tip back. She hit

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me back with nothing. So I
just I don't know. When you say

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you guys had good conversation, was
it a good back and forth or do

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you feel like you did a lot
of the talking. I mean I felt

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like there was back and forth.
I didn't feel like I noticed me like

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leading the conversation too heavy. I
mean there was. I don't know.

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I mean, I feel like I
let a lot of it, but it

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was. It was just a good
time. Everything went well. It was

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really good. It was a good
night. And I just I definitely don't

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understand because I feel like there was
the back and forth. It was a

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good night and nothing nothing is happening
out of it. Don't don't know where

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a lot of talking. I think
I know, all right, So listen,

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Ben, I'm gonna I'm gonna put
you on hold. We're gonna call

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up Sarah. We're gonna ask her
what she thought about the date. I'm

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just gonna ask her to be honest
and tell us why she's ghosting you.

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Are you ready to find out why? Yes? Please? Absolutely? Just

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a lot. I'm exhausted listening to
him. She had to go home after

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that nap that date and take a
nap. What oh, I'm gonna see

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when he breathes, mm hmm.
Hello, Hi, is Sarah there?

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This is Hey Sarah. It's Courtney. Hey, Sarah's Walmart Jeff. What's

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up, Sarah? At Savannah.
We're coming from kissing. You're on the

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radio. Hey, you're on the
radio this morning, Sarah. Oh,

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okay, all right, what's going
on? I'm gonna fill you in.

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We do something called second date update, where if you go on a first

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date but you get ghosted and you
don't get a second date, and you

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really want answers, you call us. And so that's why we're calling you

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this morning, Sarah, trying to
get some answers for a guy named Ben.

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Oh Ben, Yeah, wow,
right out the gate, coming in

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hot well, Sarah, Ben told
us that the date was fantastic and he

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felt a connection, great conversation.
He reached out to you, and you're

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ghosting him. So he's a he's
a loser. That's awfully harsh. Look

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he lied about having a job.
I didn't ask what specifically, but he

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lives with his mom and he played
video games all day. Wait. Wait,

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so he doesn't have a job,
as far as I can tell,

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not really. Does he at least
like have his own apartment in the basement

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or is it like a bedroom situation. It's a bedroom situation. Oh okay,

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I'm gotta bring him on. He's
actually listening in, Sarah, Ben,

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are you there? Did you lie
about your job? Then? Okay,

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Look I'm not unemployed. Okay,
yeah, living with my you know,

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I'm a twitch streamer. I stream
online, Like that's how I make

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my money. That is my job. This isn't an issue with me,

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you know, loser playing video games
at home. This is me. This

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is like, I'm a winning dude. I make money playing video games.

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That's like once in a lifetime stuff. Like, you know, dude,

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just doing what I do for a
living eight hours a day. I get

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a live stream going there's thousands of
people watching me do my thing like I'm

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popular. I'm making it happen out
here. I can't then I don't have

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a job. That's insane. All
right, hold on, Okay, So

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I get so, Sarah, I
don't know if are you understanding the Sarah?

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He says he's making money streaming video
games in his mom's house, in

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his childhood bedroom. Look, it's
video games. You really can't be making

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that much. The thing is,
I'm not a loser, bro, Like

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I just made two hundred and fifty
dollars yesterday. Were eating a bowl of

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mustard. That's what I did live
on stream, Like guys gave me to

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do that. That's not losing stuff. I don't think there's anything luver about

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that. I ate a bowl of
Frankship for three hundred dollars. Who's doing

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that? That's winner? It's winter. That does not sound like a winner

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to me. Wow, very interesting, Ben, very interesting. So so

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Sarah, Now that Ben has described
to you what he does, like eats

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a bowl of mustard and plays a
video game against three hundred dollars, are

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you interested? Like? If you
want to go in a second day and

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I'll pick up the tab and pay
for it. No, I'm sorry,

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that's no, that's just so gross
to me. I don't understand how you

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could be making money off of that, especially enough to get out of your

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mom's house. Clearly you're not making
enough. I mean, yo, she

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got good internet? Why would I
leave? Do you get help? Do

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you get health benefit? I mean? Or is it just is this just

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what you do? I am so
confused. I mean no, I don't

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get like insurance or anything like that
out of it. But like, but

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I mean I don't need health benefits. I'm so healthy. You were to

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say, I ate a bowl of
mustard yesterday, I mean good health.

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Wait, so do you like take
breaks from gaming? Or like does your

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mom bring you up snacks? She
sometimes brings me up snacks, but like

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that, come on, that's sometimes
she can't hear me shout at her to

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bring me to snacks, so like
I have to go get it myself.

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But like most of the time she
brings me snacks coming, so like there's

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no reason for me to leave.
Like it's it's a good system. We

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got. Let's all help pay bills, I help, hey writ and stuff.

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Like I gave her twenty five bucks
the other night for the internet bills,

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so like I'm paying, I'm helpful, and like this is crazy to

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me, looks like I just I
don't understand how you're judging how I make

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my money, Like it doesn't even
matter. At the end of the date,

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I need took you out on the
date and we sot a great time.

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Ben. Can I just tell you
you live in the dream of every

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guy out there right now, because
I would love to stay at home and

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play video games all day and you're
making money. No, see what I'm

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saying. Thank you brothers, stick
up for it. Because that's the thing

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is that I'm out here doing something
special and I feel good about it.

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And I don't know if Sarah they
knew it or not, but I mean,

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I like what I do for a
living and I got no problems with

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it, all right, Can I
just can we just get I want to

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reel it in just to Chad Ben
as long as really, at the end

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of the day, if you're doing
something that makes you happy, that's all

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that's important. And Sarah, it
doesn't sound like it's a love match for

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you. I get that as well, and I appreciate you being honest.

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Sarah, and telling us why you're
ghosting them. Yeah, I'm sorry.

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I just I can't deal with that. I need someone who's a little more

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mature than that. Well, listen, keep us said Sarah on your search

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for love, and you too as
well. Okay, Ben, all right,

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Thanks guys, I appreciate you