All right, you guys, we're going to Bloomfield second date. Update.
Ben is on the line. He's getting ghosted and we're going to try to
find out why. Good morning, Ben, Hey, good morning guys.
How are we feeling good? That were good? We're good, We're good.
Listen. I hear you went on a great, great first day with
a girl named Sarah, and I want to hear all about the date so
we can find out while you're getting ghosted. Yeah, I mean, oh
my gosh, I can't even like, oh god, I just feel like
I had a great time with this girl, right like, all right,
so yeah, so I went on this date with this girl. Her name
is Sarah, right, so she was in West harp We went to West
Harford. Was like, that's to dinner, right like, we're just like
got some It was just like a great night though I don't know that.
I feel like we really kind of close. We're just having a good conversation
and I like kind of flew by, like I don't know you doing just
felt really good and I just I just I just definitely want to do that
again. I want to see her again. But she kind of hit me
back. I'm getting nothing out of her, and I don't know what's help
to do because I just I feel like we had a great night, had
a great date. So you hit her up and she didn't hit you back.
Yes, we had a great time. And then I hit her up
the next day. I just wanted to text and just kind of see,
you know, how she's feeling and stuff, and maybe get a vibe for
a second date. And I just never got a tip back. She hit
me back with nothing. So I just I don't know. When you say
you guys had good conversation, was it a good back and forth or do
you feel like you did a lot of the talking. I mean I felt
like there was back and forth. I didn't feel like I noticed me like
leading the conversation too heavy. I mean there was. I don't know.
I mean, I feel like I let a lot of it, but it
was. It was just a good time. Everything went well. It was
really good. It was a good night. And I just I definitely don't
understand because I feel like there was the back and forth. It was a
good night and nothing nothing is happening out of it. Don't don't know where
a lot of talking. I think I know, all right, So listen,
Ben, I'm gonna I'm gonna put you on hold. We're gonna call
up Sarah. We're gonna ask her what she thought about the date. I'm
just gonna ask her to be honest and tell us why she's ghosting you.
Are you ready to find out why? Yes? Please? Absolutely? Just
a lot. I'm exhausted listening to him. She had to go home after
that nap that date and take a nap. What oh, I'm gonna see
when he breathes, mm hmm. Hello, Hi, is Sarah there?
This is Hey Sarah. It's Courtney. Hey, Sarah's Walmart Jeff. What's
up, Sarah? At Savannah. We're coming from kissing. You're on the
radio. Hey, you're on the radio this morning, Sarah. Oh,
okay, all right, what's going on? I'm gonna fill you in.
We do something called second date update, where if you go on a first
date but you get ghosted and you don't get a second date, and you
really want answers, you call us. And so that's why we're calling you
this morning, Sarah, trying to get some answers for a guy named Ben.
Oh Ben, Yeah, wow, right out the gate, coming in
hot well, Sarah, Ben told us that the date was fantastic and he
felt a connection, great conversation. He reached out to you, and you're
ghosting him. So he's a he's a loser. That's awfully harsh. Look
he lied about having a job. I didn't ask what specifically, but he
lives with his mom and he played video games all day. Wait. Wait,
so he doesn't have a job, as far as I can tell,
not really. Does he at least like have his own apartment in the basement
or is it like a bedroom situation. It's a bedroom situation. Oh okay,
I'm gotta bring him on. He's actually listening in, Sarah, Ben,
are you there? Did you lie about your job? Then? Okay,
Look I'm not unemployed. Okay, yeah, living with my you know,
I'm a twitch streamer. I stream online, Like that's how I make
my money. That is my job. This isn't an issue with me,
you know, loser playing video games at home. This is me. This
is like, I'm a winning dude. I make money playing video games.
That's like once in a lifetime stuff. Like, you know, dude,
just doing what I do for a living eight hours a day. I get
a live stream going there's thousands of people watching me do my thing like I'm
popular. I'm making it happen out here. I can't then I don't have
a job. That's insane. All right, hold on, Okay, So
I get so, Sarah, I don't know if are you understanding the Sarah?
He says he's making money streaming video games in his mom's house, in
his childhood bedroom. Look, it's video games. You really can't be making
that much. The thing is, I'm not a loser, bro, Like
I just made two hundred and fifty dollars yesterday. Were eating a bowl of
mustard. That's what I did live on stream, Like guys gave me to
do that. That's not losing stuff. I don't think there's anything luver about
that. I ate a bowl of Frankship for three hundred dollars. Who's doing
that? That's winner? It's winter. That does not sound like a winner
to me. Wow, very interesting, Ben, very interesting. So so
Sarah, Now that Ben has described to you what he does, like eats
a bowl of mustard and plays a video game against three hundred dollars, are
you interested? Like? If you want to go in a second day and
I'll pick up the tab and pay for it. No, I'm sorry,
that's no, that's just so gross to me. I don't understand how you
could be making money off of that, especially enough to get out of your
mom's house. Clearly you're not making enough. I mean, yo, she
got good internet? Why would I leave? Do you get help? Do
you get health benefit? I mean? Or is it just is this just
what you do? I am so confused. I mean no, I don't
get like insurance or anything like that out of it. But like, but
I mean I don't need health benefits. I'm so healthy. You were to
say, I ate a bowl of mustard yesterday, I mean good health.
Wait, so do you like take breaks from gaming? Or like does your
mom bring you up snacks? She sometimes brings me up snacks, but like
that, come on, that's sometimes she can't hear me shout at her to
bring me to snacks, so like I have to go get it myself.
But like most of the time she brings me snacks coming, so like there's
no reason for me to leave. Like it's it's a good system. We
got. Let's all help pay bills, I help, hey writ and stuff.
Like I gave her twenty five bucks the other night for the internet bills,
so like I'm paying, I'm helpful, and like this is crazy to
me, looks like I just I don't understand how you're judging how I make
my money, Like it doesn't even matter. At the end of the date,
I need took you out on the date and we sot a great time.
Ben. Can I just tell you you live in the dream of every
guy out there right now, because I would love to stay at home and
play video games all day and you're making money. No, see what I'm
saying. Thank you brothers, stick up for it. Because that's the thing
is that I'm out here doing something special and I feel good about it.
And I don't know if Sarah they knew it or not, but I mean,
I like what I do for a living and I got no problems with
it, all right, Can I just can we just get I want to
reel it in just to Chad Ben as long as really, at the end
of the day, if you're doing something that makes you happy, that's all
that's important. And Sarah, it doesn't sound like it's a love match for
you. I get that as well, and I appreciate you being honest.
Sarah, and telling us why you're ghosting them. Yeah, I'm sorry.
I just I can't deal with that. I need someone who's a little more
mature than that. Well, listen, keep us said Sarah on your search
for love, and you too as well. Okay, Ben, all right,
Thanks guys, I appreciate you