1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:16,480 Made a decision face sunny sum I had a vision. What's up, everybody, 2 00:00:16,679 --> 00:00:21,359 It's a Patreon I mean no, it's not regular shows, our regular 3 00:00:21,359 --> 00:00:24,199 show. Yeah, it's all inclusive. Yeah, you're all welcome here. 4 00:00:24,359 --> 00:00:27,800 That's right. Yeah, we have a great Patreon for you this week. 5 00:00:27,879 --> 00:00:32,039 Oh, I highly suggest you go sign up for Patreon. We ain't fucking 6 00:00:32,039 --> 00:00:38,039 around this, no, because you listen. Just trust just trust us. 7 00:00:38,119 --> 00:00:42,359 You need to need to hear our yeah before you move on with with the 8 00:00:42,399 --> 00:00:45,880 rest of our shows this week. Right, you should hear the Patreon Yeah, 9 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:51,520 yeah, when it comes out right tomorrow, right right, yes, 10 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:56,039 Yeah, it's it's like, um, I'm gonna make a lot of things 11 00:00:56,079 --> 00:00:59,320 make more sense to you as the week goes on. Did you listen to 12 00:00:59,399 --> 00:01:02,960 us? Yeah? Mmmmm. And speaking of Patreon, we're gonna do our 13 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:07,840 hangout our zoom this Sunday at six pm. Yeah. And if you're on 14 00:01:07,879 --> 00:01:12,280 the Patreon at the ten dollar level, okay, do not fear. You 15 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:15,879 will get the link maybe the day of, but you will all get the 16 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:19,719 link to your page to wherever you're signed up for Patreon. You'll get it 17 00:01:19,799 --> 00:01:23,599 sent to you as a message and you'll sign on and it'll be super fun. 18 00:01:23,719 --> 00:01:26,159 Come hang out with us. We're gonna have fun. Yeah, like 19 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,879 Chicks to seven. Yeah, we're gonna chat with you guys. Yeah. 20 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:33,239 Get to know our audience. Sometimes we see some of the same faces and 21 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:37,040 sometimes there's new faces. And we love our zoom hangs. Oh my gosh, 22 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:42,879 we love it. Ye. Speaking of zoom hangs, mm, let's 23 00:01:42,879 --> 00:01:45,599 say hi to some of our people that we may see there. Yeah, 24 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:52,319 like Aaron Land Oh oh and Rachel newcomer. Yeah, maybe she'll be a 25 00:01:52,319 --> 00:01:56,959 newcomer to the zoom Zoom Zoom. Randy May aims her and all her names 26 00:01:56,959 --> 00:01:59,480 will be there. Her long hair. We used to say blue hair, 27 00:01:59,519 --> 00:02:02,840 don't care, but now hers hasn't been blue in a while. Lori Gory, 28 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:12,719 Nikki Kallya girlfriend, Ashley so Chic, Leslie's gonna cost you zoom possibly, 29 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:16,560 Oh my gosh. Yeah, come beyond the zoom. Uh. Jacob 30 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:21,000 is very growley. He's never come on of our zoom but he should. 31 00:02:21,199 --> 00:02:23,599 He's never he's been on our zoom hang out. I don't think, so 32 00:02:23,719 --> 00:02:28,840 what the fuck? I know? God damn it. Rita rocks that bassinet 33 00:02:29,479 --> 00:02:35,960 and Hero. Everybody loves you. Elizabeth Williamson has a lot of beautiful children. 34 00:02:36,039 --> 00:02:39,039 Yeah, all of them, most of them, like nine tenths of 35 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:44,360 them, right, a little joke, you know. Um Athena is a 36 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,639 great dancer and she is um so good at makeup. Polly, We Live 37 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:53,639 your Pancakes, Valerie, Bubba Fenwick, Katerina check that, Moller, Gabby 38 00:02:53,680 --> 00:03:02,120 and Missy Oh boy is Sean Bosbay Kelly Brandt, she will take you to 39 00:03:02,199 --> 00:03:08,479 a hip hop class. Alicia Escalante Leslie still coughing, but don't be coughing 40 00:03:08,479 --> 00:03:13,680 on our zoom on Sunday, Come Sarah's the funnel, Ni pies on, 41 00:03:14,039 --> 00:03:19,319 Jennifer, get up, Sandra, it's not easy being green. Krista get 42 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:24,000 the stroop. May want us and Stephanie Drinker Rinker she's come to our zooms 43 00:03:24,039 --> 00:03:30,960 before. Yeah, so, uh well, I'm very sore. Why thanks 44 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:38,560 to Julie Cason? What because I did? I went on a hike, 45 00:03:38,879 --> 00:03:44,599 okay, and I started going. I went three times in the week, 46 00:03:44,919 --> 00:03:49,520 and I got so I had I felt good about myself. And last night 47 00:03:49,599 --> 00:03:53,080 I said, let's sunny, let's go to the YMCA. I'm gonna Worklet's 48 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:57,000 I'm gonna go work out. So we go to the YMCA. He's off 49 00:03:57,120 --> 00:04:00,560 doing his you know, whatever he does, and I am, you know, 50 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:04,719 doing the weights. Of course, what happens I run into another parent 51 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:08,080 that I'm not really you know. It's like, I just want to be 52 00:04:08,159 --> 00:04:11,360 here alone. I just want to work it. And then she's missus powerhouse. 53 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,439 So she's like, oh, come on, I'll show you the circuit 54 00:04:13,479 --> 00:04:16,600 area. Oh no, yeah, yeah, yeah, no thing. Yeah. 55 00:04:16,639 --> 00:04:20,519 So I'm already sore from my hikes. I tell her. I'm like, 56 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,600 oh, I'm not just kind of taking it easy, and she's like, 57 00:04:23,639 --> 00:04:26,399 no, no, no, here, this is gonna want and she's 58 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:28,680 kind of right. You know, when you're sore, the best thing to 59 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:31,920 do is I guess is you know the best thing to do when you're sore 60 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:36,240 is watch TV TV. I know that's what I wanted to do, right, 61 00:04:36,759 --> 00:04:40,680 So I do this whole circuit thing, and now this morning, I 62 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:46,199 can't fucking move. I'm so sore from head to toe. I literally i'm 63 00:04:46,319 --> 00:04:48,319 driving here, I can't look over my shoulder, my neck is sore, 64 00:04:48,759 --> 00:04:51,759 my whole body is sore from head to toe. Thank you, Julie Cason. 65 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:56,680 It's her fault. I blame her, but I've been working out and 66 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:00,839 I feel I've been feeling good, which makes me happy about that. So 67 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:04,600 you know, um, Zander was going to work out with John. So 68 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:09,360 John makes this whole thing where he's like, I like, Xander, you 69 00:05:09,439 --> 00:05:12,240 ready to work out? You ready to work out? And Xander's always like 70 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:17,360 today like I just got this new thing in roadblocks and you know, and 71 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:21,480 John, I'm always like John, well, why don't you just go well 72 00:05:21,519 --> 00:05:25,399 the you know, I need Zander to Like I'm trying to get Xander to 73 00:05:25,399 --> 00:05:28,519 go. It's like, oh, you could go by yourself. But so 74 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:30,560 he'll get Zander to go. And the problem is is once you get to 75 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:35,720 the gym, especially with guys, I think he has to go at like 76 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:40,160 ten, like he has to jat like he can't just if he even if 77 00:05:40,199 --> 00:05:43,920 he hasn't been there in a while. See like I can just be like 78 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:46,240 I haven't been to the gym in a while, So I'm gonna do like 79 00:05:46,319 --> 00:05:50,920 twelve minutes on the you know, legitimately take it easy. But like the 80 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:54,600 guys, he has to like go all out, and he doesn't think he 81 00:05:54,759 --> 00:05:57,519 is. He's just like, what I just do level ten on the bike, 82 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,720 Like that's just normal. It's like, so what hows Xander goes with 83 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:05,560 John and then gets completely exhausted and like, you know, tie like it's 84 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:11,959 too hard. But if he tries to tell John like we just like take 85 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:15,319 it easy, John's like, we are taking it easy, which is my 86 00:06:15,439 --> 00:06:18,160 point. I know we're gonna take it easy. We're just we're just back. 87 00:06:18,199 --> 00:06:21,000 But taking it easy to him is like, let's just go forty five 88 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:25,319 minutes at like level twelve on the bike and you know, right now. 89 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:29,240 And he complains because then Xander's like, well, Xander will walk on the 90 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:32,120 treadmill and play play on his phone, which I'm like, yeah, me 91 00:06:32,199 --> 00:06:35,600 too, like I feel him, you know. But John's like, well, 92 00:06:35,639 --> 00:06:39,399 I tried to tell him, like you're not. You're gonna sleep better 93 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:42,920 and you're gonna feel better if you're getting that cardio in right. And speaking 94 00:06:42,959 --> 00:06:46,639 of sleeping better, I didn't sleep very good last night because I was so 95 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:50,040 freaking sore. I don't know why I thought I would be sleeping better. 96 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:55,120 But again, like remember you were waking up at three four o'clock. I 97 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:57,839 felt like I had so much energy, Yet at four o'clock this morning, 98 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:00,120 I could have taken on the world, and I never went back to sleep. 99 00:07:00,319 --> 00:07:03,600 I got up and I did laundry, I did I got stuff done, 100 00:07:03,639 --> 00:07:06,920 I you know, clean, I answered emails, I did my thing, 101 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:10,879 and then I had to do the podcast today. Now I'm ready for 102 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:15,480 a fucking nap. I'm tired and sore. I can't move. Yeah. 103 00:07:15,639 --> 00:07:21,000 Mondays are hard for me because if I don't sleep the night before, I 104 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:26,439 have hours of talking here on our podcast. Then I have to go home 105 00:07:26,439 --> 00:07:30,199 and I have to watch The Bachelor, which now has the audacity to start 106 00:07:30,279 --> 00:07:35,600 airing for nine pm to eleven Jesus, Stephanie, do you feel like you're 107 00:07:35,639 --> 00:07:40,040 cursed by the Bachelor? Like? Is it? I feel like you're the 108 00:07:40,639 --> 00:07:44,839 guy in the what's his name? The guy in the Twilight Zone who always 109 00:07:44,959 --> 00:07:47,360 just wanted to read his books, and he just all he wanted to do 110 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:51,439 was read, and he got locked in the library and then the world came 111 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:56,680 to an end and he bends down and hold on and he's so happy. 112 00:07:56,639 --> 00:08:01,759 Yeah, he's like, that's fine, I'm gonna library surrounded by books. 113 00:08:01,839 --> 00:08:07,480 Yes, you've seen this one literally told some friends. Get used this as 114 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:11,639 an example. Yeah, that's what I feel like happened to you. And 115 00:08:11,639 --> 00:08:13,319 and then and then tell them what happens. And then at the very end 116 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:18,040 he goes and he's got these thick glasses. I can't see without him. 117 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:22,000 He bends down to get a book and his glasses fell off, all off 118 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:28,160 and crack and break. Yeah, and he's like, no, no, 119 00:08:28,639 --> 00:08:33,440 is that you with the Bachelor? Like meaning like I got stuck, Like 120 00:08:33,519 --> 00:08:37,360 it's like a great thing, and oh how great I get to like for 121 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,679 for a job, I get to watch the show that I like. But 122 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:41,919 now it's like, oh no, now I'm stuck watching the show and it's 123 00:08:41,919 --> 00:08:48,600 horrible. Now, um, yes and yes and no, I also hate 124 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:54,279 watching for Rose Pricks And just like that, Oh I wanted to ask yes, 125 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:58,440 yes, So it's so bad. Yeah, we tried to watch it. 126 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,159 I know I tried, so so bad And then we tried to watch 127 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:03,360 the second season. Then I think we got through, like we didn't even 128 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:07,120 get through one episode. Yeah. But the best part about that, and 129 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:09,840 I'm I will circle back to your question, but the best part about that 130 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:15,480 is we're hate watching it because it's so bad that it's hilarious, like we're 131 00:09:15,519 --> 00:09:18,200 taking a part like what are the writers thinking? And you know this whose 132 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:22,399 fault is this and why is this scene? And Cecily my Cecily Nobler, 133 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:28,240 my partner on that show, was like a huge section in the City Madmatic 134 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:33,879 like knows, like knows all these obscure facts about the show. So it's 135 00:09:33,879 --> 00:09:37,799 even worse for her because she's like, how could you be rooting my show? 136 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:41,320 Now? I wasn't Like. I watched Sex in the City and I 137 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:45,639 liked it, but like, right, I didn't have anything to lose, 138 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,440 Like, hey, if they wanted to make and just like that a great 139 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:52,080 show. Great if they don't, fine, So it's kind of fun to 140 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:58,039 hate watch, right, But The Bachelor, very early on I genuinely like 141 00:09:58,159 --> 00:10:03,000 like the show. Not that not that I was watching it earnestly like oh 142 00:10:03,039 --> 00:10:05,559 my god, these people are going to find love, more like, oh 143 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:09,399 my gosh, this is a fun social experiment. Now The Bachelor has not 144 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:13,000 changed with the times. It's very stale. It's such an old formula. 145 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:18,799 It doesn't work for anybody. It is cooked just yesterday. Caitlin Um Caitlin 146 00:10:18,919 --> 00:10:22,799 Bristow, who, as you might remember from Nick Vile season. Yeah, 147 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:26,879 so she almost picked him, Then she picked Sean Booth, and then I 148 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:33,399 loved her. She was Chris Caitlin was one of the first women to have 149 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:39,399 sex with somebody like just a random person on her season, not fantasy suites, 150 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:41,919 just like went on a date. It was freaking hot, Like she 151 00:10:43,039 --> 00:10:45,879 ended up sleeping with him, did the walk of shame back to her hotel 152 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,840 room the next day, and then had to tell the guy that she ended 153 00:10:48,919 --> 00:10:58,720 up picking just one of the hope this doesn't hurt, which is which I 154 00:10:58,759 --> 00:11:01,519 remember at the time thing being like, Okay, well, what difference does 155 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:03,240 it make if she waited until the fan Like how does that make us? 156 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:05,919 What? Because like, how is he going to be able to go? 157 00:11:07,159 --> 00:11:11,240 You did what it's like, but at the fantasy suite she so she didn't 158 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:16,159 wait one week like whatever, I loved her. So she was with Sean 159 00:11:16,279 --> 00:11:20,360 Booth for a long time, engaged, then they broke up. Then for 160 00:11:20,399 --> 00:11:24,480 a long time she was with Jason Tardik, who you might remember with the 161 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:28,840 slicked back hair. He was like I think from Becca's season. Anyway, 162 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:33,960 they've been engaged for like forever, lots of breakup rumors surrounding them, just 163 00:11:33,159 --> 00:11:39,440 yesterday breakup. So I really can't think of like any Bachelor people that went 164 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:45,080 together. So in answer to your question, I've shifted from being disappointed that 165 00:11:45,159 --> 00:11:46,559 the show. Like each season, I'm like, wait, you're gonna make 166 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:50,799 who the lead? Right, Well, that's gonna suck. But I've I've 167 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:52,879 accepted it. I've gotten into acceptance where I'm like, well, all the 168 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:56,559 leads are gonna suck because it's a stupid show now, but it's still kind 169 00:11:56,559 --> 00:12:01,240 of fun to watch it and just kind of make fun of it, right, 170 00:12:01,519 --> 00:12:03,320 yeah, okay, all right, And I do think that a lot 171 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:07,960 of people listen to the listen to the recap that don't even watch the show 172 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:11,919 anymore, because, right, so you can kind of keep up with sometimes 173 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:16,159 you want to keep up with these people because what's still fire is Bachelor in 174 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:20,080 Paradise. Oh so you kind of need to know who the contestants are on 175 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:24,200 the regular show, right, but you can get that just from listening to 176 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:28,639 a recap. Oh okay, I might like Bachelor in Paradise. Oh it's 177 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:31,519 fun. Yeah, it's really fun. Even though I don't know any of 178 00:12:31,519 --> 00:12:33,559 the people, it'll still be good. Well, so that's the problem. 179 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:37,279 If you don't I get Yeah, it's still like any reality show where you 180 00:12:37,279 --> 00:12:39,399 you know, if you watch too, How to Handle or any of these 181 00:12:39,399 --> 00:12:43,360 shows. Do you really know these people? That's true, that's true. 182 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:46,960 Figure it out. Yeah. Yeah, I'm just still in Jersey Shore, 183 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:52,240 like going down that rabbit hole. I've been watching all of it. Sammy's 184 00:12:52,279 --> 00:12:56,919 back this season, new season really yes. Yeah, And we're gonna have 185 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:03,720 Vinny on our show, on our special guest show. I am so budo. 186 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:07,320 I can't wait. He's so cute, adorable. You know, this 187 00:13:07,399 --> 00:13:13,519 is a weird connection. Do you remember that there was like a that Vinnie 188 00:13:13,919 --> 00:13:18,799 was romantically tied to Gabby Windy, who was one of the leads of The 189 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:24,039 Bachelorette I heard about seasons ago. Yeah, but she is now, so 190 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:28,360 that was not actually true because she just came out as a lesbian and has 191 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:35,759 a girlfriend and went a TikTok public had launched her girlfriend on social media, 192 00:13:35,879 --> 00:13:41,039 which I'm all for. I love Gabby. Oh okay, she's hilarious. 193 00:13:41,039 --> 00:13:43,480 She's like quirky and funny. But I think we all thought like that'd be 194 00:13:43,519 --> 00:13:46,799 kind of a cute match her and Vinnie. Yeah, but like now, 195 00:13:46,799 --> 00:13:50,240 they weren't together, but well we could ask him, Yeah, that'll be 196 00:13:50,279 --> 00:13:54,480 fun. Yeah, Um, you've seen him naked. I have seen him 197 00:13:54,519 --> 00:13:56,720 naked. I did. I saw him at he did he stripped for us 198 00:13:56,879 --> 00:14:01,279 at at his Chippendale's. We went to his chip Dale's show. Yeah, 199 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:03,919 that was fun. I'm so jealous. Right, oh my god, he's 200 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:07,519 doing he's doing another residency he is. Yeah, and at the end of 201 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:11,679 August. Should we go? Yeah, let's go. He'll totally hook us 202 00:14:11,759 --> 00:14:13,240 up. We'll be vi ip and everything. My god, now that you 203 00:14:13,279 --> 00:14:16,159 don't have to go to Vegas, maybe you'd want to go to Vegas. 204 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:20,559 Yeah, right, let's go. Yeah. Oh, we could do a 205 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:24,159 meet and great out there or something. We should Yeah, we should do 206 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:28,240 that. That would be so fun. Let's make this happen. That's like 207 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:31,360 coming up. Yeah it is. We got a planet. We could do 208 00:14:31,399 --> 00:14:35,159 it in the beginning of December. I think he's going to be there too, 209 00:14:35,159 --> 00:14:37,200 Oh he is. Yeah, I don't know. We can look it 210 00:14:37,279 --> 00:14:39,759 up, but he's gonna be all right. Well, look, I think 211 00:14:39,759 --> 00:14:43,320 we're all going out there for Bravo Coon too, so yeah, or I 212 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:46,600 think we're in the starting stages of planning that out with you know, Patrick 213 00:14:46,639 --> 00:14:48,480 and Dale and bad TV, so we might be doing that as well. 214 00:14:48,639 --> 00:14:52,879 Oh, weckers. I want to go to Bravo con. Well, when 215 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:56,159 is that? Is that it's October? Oh? Oh, it is October. 216 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:58,000 Yeah, I don't know when exactly, but I think it's in October. 217 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:01,919 Oh my god, I would love to go to bravocon. Well, 218 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:05,600 let's talk about something else that's pretty exciting. You know with your hair, 219 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:11,200 you know you need healthy hair. Let's talk about Neutraful because Neutraful is something 220 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:16,200 that I have been on religiously. I still take it for months, over 221 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:20,399 well over a year now, and I've noticed thicker, healthier, shiny. 222 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:26,360 My hair has visibly gotten thicker around my edges, around my face where a 223 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:31,679 hairline, yeah, my hairline. And I've also noticed less shedding in the 224 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:35,679 shower, which is a big deal. 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Nutriful 242 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:59,360 dot com spelled nu tr afol dot com promo code FCLLL. That's neutriful dot 243 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:07,920 com promo code fcll Yeah, So I have been seeing these ads all over 244 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:11,599 my Facebook just just speaking of working out, bringing it back to working out. 245 00:17:11,839 --> 00:17:17,680 Have you seen this like wall pilates now constantly in my Facebook feed? 246 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:22,240 And I don't know. It's like I just keep seeing these people doing these 247 00:17:22,279 --> 00:17:27,160 exercises like against a wall and showing these transformations in thirty days. I'm like, 248 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,880 that sounds kind of fun and easy and maybe even could I do that 249 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:34,839 with a broken foot? Oh yeah, you caught cold, So it's a 250 00:17:34,839 --> 00:17:38,519 workout you can do at home. I'm freaking out that I haven't I get. 251 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:45,599 I'm honestly turning into veal right now. My fat is like I've just 252 00:17:45,759 --> 00:17:49,200 marbleized because I can't do any I used to just at least walk. I 253 00:17:49,759 --> 00:17:55,200 can't do anything. I'm like sitting or in bed or you know, tell 254 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:59,519 how much longer? One more week? That's to me, it went by 255 00:17:59,559 --> 00:18:02,759 fast, I'm sure for you, it's been like almost two months. I 256 00:18:02,799 --> 00:18:06,920 can't believe it's been two months. Yeah, it was early June that this 257 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:11,599 happened. Oh my god. And so in one week is when I was 258 00:18:11,599 --> 00:18:15,880 supposed to wear the boot twenty four to seven. I'm sleeping in it for 259 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:19,000 three weeks and then I can try to walk again, and he said I 260 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:22,400 should not be feeling pain. Maybe a little sore, but not pain. 261 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:27,000 And if I feel pain, I gotta go back in and have another X 262 00:18:27,079 --> 00:18:30,920 ray. But if no pain then I can then I'm good to go. 263 00:18:30,279 --> 00:18:33,960 Oh okay, well hopefully you'll be fine. Oh it's like I'm praying. 264 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:37,480 Yeah, and you're probably gonna have to take it easy when you get the 265 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:41,920 boot off anyway too after I know, yeah, you know what, let's 266 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:45,880 I want to I'm not excited about school starting again. And like when does 267 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:49,119 your kids go back to school? Okay, so my kids go back to 268 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:55,359 school? So you're listening to this on Tuesday, Monday? Really, yeah, 269 00:18:55,400 --> 00:19:00,720 my kids go back next week. Yeah. It's come so fast because 270 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:04,079 I did nothing with my kids this summer, while you couldn't, I know, 271 00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:07,359 but I just feel like I thought about like taking some little trips, 272 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:11,720 like some little like a couple overnights, maybe going to like Palm Springs or 273 00:19:11,759 --> 00:19:17,920 doing something I've been able to do. Nothing not a I know, but 274 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:22,079 you know it's it's it's fucking with me that my kids are gonna be seniors. 275 00:19:22,759 --> 00:19:26,720 They're both going to they're both seniors. Most people got one kid that's 276 00:19:26,799 --> 00:19:30,519 younger or something like, my kids are going they're gonna be gone, and 277 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:33,000 you know in a year, and it's gonna be sad. I feel. 278 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:37,240 I know. I know our show. We have been doing our show for 279 00:19:37,279 --> 00:19:41,039 so long. We literally have talked about almost every stage. I know, 280 00:19:41,279 --> 00:19:45,839 like because my kids were practically babies when we started. I mean, now 281 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:51,240 they're gonna be sophomores. It's crazy, but your kids are gonna be seniors. 282 00:19:51,279 --> 00:19:53,960 I've been through that with LB already. I know. It's it's a 283 00:19:55,079 --> 00:20:03,680 lot. Yeah, people underestimate like how that hurts your heart. Like I'm 284 00:20:03,799 --> 00:20:07,880 happy that they are their own person and that they are adults, but like 285 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:12,160 it's also very sad it is. I know, I know they're gonna be 286 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:17,599 seniors, and uh, you know when Italian and I are going to start 287 00:20:17,599 --> 00:20:21,400 looking at colleges to go look at, which will be fun. Do some 288 00:20:21,559 --> 00:20:23,559 visits yeah, yeah, you gotta do, Like you gotta clear it with 289 00:20:23,599 --> 00:20:29,000 the school and stuff like what I mean we never did. You just went. 290 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:33,160 Yeah, but we did a few in junior year. But yeah, 291 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:36,240 you just go. They kind of expect it, right, they know you're 292 00:20:36,279 --> 00:20:38,799 gonna miss some school. Yeah, and do you have to make schools to 293 00:20:38,839 --> 00:20:42,799 look at. She's going to Miami unit in a couple of weeks. Really 294 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:48,480 yeah, sure, one of our very close friends or their families going and 295 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:52,920 they invited in Italian. Oh wow with them just to go for the just 296 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:56,559 to see the college, just to see on a tour. Yeah, yeah, 297 00:20:56,559 --> 00:20:59,200 I gotta book or travel for that. But yeah, she's gonna be 298 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:03,440 going doing that at um, she wants to go to Arizona. Okay, 299 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:08,119 see those schools, and then Sonny wants, I don't know, Sonny's thinking 300 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:14,000 about Boulder, Colorado? Makes sense? Yeah, something like that. But 301 00:21:14,079 --> 00:21:17,720 I got times too, so right, I'm gonna be I mean, I 302 00:21:18,079 --> 00:21:21,119 bet me on the fucking road all the time. Now with these two, 303 00:21:21,279 --> 00:21:26,680 well, I mean, oh what a lot of people do well? Also, 304 00:21:26,759 --> 00:21:30,680 can Adam do any of the tour maybe? Or is he like against 305 00:21:30,079 --> 00:21:34,160 No, he would he would because like John took some like we kind of 306 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:38,880 divided, Yeah, like I did, but Elbe wanted local, so I 307 00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:45,079 did Santa Barbara and John did Berkeley, and I did San Diego and John 308 00:21:45,079 --> 00:21:48,319 did like the I forgot what they're called. Um, this like group of 309 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:52,279 the Claremont colleges. I don't know, so none of them she got into, 310 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:56,359 so it doesn't really matter. Yeah, all the waste the time. 311 00:21:56,519 --> 00:22:00,799 Right the college that she got into, Santa Cruz, we we didn't go 312 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:04,079 see until after, way after she was accepted. Right, So I mean 313 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:08,640 there's a different schools of thought. You could apply to the colleges, and 314 00:22:08,839 --> 00:22:12,799 you could if there's something that's like a target school for her with her grades, 315 00:22:12,799 --> 00:22:15,519 that the count you have a counselor. If the counselor says this is 316 00:22:15,559 --> 00:22:19,519 a target school, then before you apply to like too many, you should 317 00:22:19,559 --> 00:22:22,119 go see that school and make sure it's somewhere she wants to go right before 318 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:26,319 you waste your time, right, if it's something she's considering, right, 319 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:30,720 other schools, I think it's more like if they're more of a I would 320 00:22:30,799 --> 00:22:33,480 say my advice would be, if it's a little more of a reach, 321 00:22:33,839 --> 00:22:36,440 don't bother going to see it, right, If she gets in, then 322 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:37,960 you go see it. Okay, all right, because that's what I was 323 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:41,519 wondering too, Like how important is to go see these schools? Can't you 324 00:22:41,559 --> 00:22:45,599 just got a look? It's on the map here, this is the environment 325 00:22:45,599 --> 00:22:51,559 it has. This is a Google Watch Virtual Tours so how important if she 326 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:55,720 if you really like that school, especially if it's a private university. A 327 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:59,680 lot of them like you to show interest in the school, so they're recording, 328 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,960 they're taking note of if you've gone in person to see the school. 329 00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:07,000 All right, but I mean, yeah, I don't. I mean I 330 00:23:07,039 --> 00:23:11,799 don't know, right, we didn't. I mean we saw a bunch of 331 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:14,960 ucs and they could give a fuck if you're They don't know, they don't 332 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:18,880 think, they don't consider that right, So they don't even know if you 333 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:22,200 went to see them or not. Right, Okay, Wow? If is 334 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:26,319 there any that are sticking out in her mind already of like, oh I 335 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:30,839 like this college. I think Arizonas Okay, yeah, Like for me, 336 00:23:32,079 --> 00:23:34,359 I don't think even working with a counselor, I don't. I think it's 337 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:40,519 such an abstract It's like these how do you know? This is just my 338 00:23:40,599 --> 00:23:42,440 opinion. I read this, you know, paying for college one on one 339 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:47,960 stupid ridiculous Facebook group, and these people are all delusional and out of their 340 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:51,079 minds, and like, you know, everybody's kids got like a four point 341 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:56,240 eight right GPA, And I just don't know how they know the difference of 342 00:23:56,279 --> 00:23:57,880 like, oh my kid really wants to go to this college. It's like, 343 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:03,680 why, right, they've never experienced anything outside of high school right now, 344 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,960 how would they even understand what that college is like aspared to this college, 345 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:11,400 you know, Right, some kids really know what program they want and 346 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:17,119 they've heard that like such and such a college has the best engineering program for 347 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,720 this niche thing I want to do. And maybe for Sunny that would be 348 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:25,599 like the case maybe if he was like, listen, there's this sports broadcasting 349 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:30,119 program that's at this particular school, and I really that's famous for that, 350 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:33,319 and they place a lot of kids in jobs like yeah, yeah, but 351 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:37,359 he also probably doesn't need help placing him in jobs. Well, I'm sure 352 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:41,240 he could use it. Yeah, Like Colombia and Chicago, I guess they 353 00:24:41,279 --> 00:24:48,079 have a really good broadcasting I think it's broadcasting, yeah, something along those 354 00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:52,920 lines and program, and they have a great alumni program out here, which 355 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:56,119 I think would be good for Sonny. Okay, So if Sonny is like 356 00:24:56,359 --> 00:25:00,640 I like the sounds of that school, I've googled it, and that seems 357 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,880 like somewhere I could see myself, you know, it's the right side, 358 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,000 Like I want to go to a big school. I want to go to. 359 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,400 I want to go to a really small school whatever it fits his that 360 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:14,000 criteria that he doesn't know for sure. Like for Elbe, we wanted her 361 00:25:14,039 --> 00:25:17,200 to see what is the feeling of being on a huge at a huge school 362 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,759 on campus. Yeah, what's the feeling of being at a really small school? 363 00:25:21,079 --> 00:25:23,519 She likes a big school, That's what she said, but like maybe 364 00:25:23,759 --> 00:25:26,759 that's why you see a school so that Sunny could be like, Okay, 365 00:25:26,799 --> 00:25:32,359 I like the idea of this school. It sounds perfect for me. You 366 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:34,799 go see it and it either he goes like, oh, this is cool, 367 00:25:34,839 --> 00:25:37,920 like I like the type of kids that I'm seeing here. I like 368 00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:44,000 I've got into a classroom whatever, or he goes, fuck this the weather 369 00:25:44,039 --> 00:25:48,759 sucks and I don't. It wasn't my vibe. Yeah, yeah, okay, 370 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:53,200 Well that's pretty good advice. Thank you. Yeah. I don't know 371 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:57,359 if I'm the best man. Thank you are at advising on this because it 372 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:03,240 didn't really work out well for us. But yeah, I ran into an 373 00:26:03,319 --> 00:26:07,720 old friend. Not Natalia is one of her closest friends that she grew up 374 00:26:07,759 --> 00:26:12,319 with and her mom. I ran into her over the weekend and she because 375 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:17,720 her daughter is a lot like Natalia. They're very OCD. They're they have 376 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:22,279 like, they have this a lot of anxiety, especially around social you know, 377 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:26,880 fomo and that kind of stuff. And her older daughter is very calm, 378 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:30,640 cool, collected. She's off to college and doing very well. She's 379 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:34,599 really worried about her daughter that's the same age as Natalia, because of her 380 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:40,440 anxiety and OCD and all of that, you know. So she had a 381 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:44,279 whole assessment done, and it was she had to drag her daughter. Her 382 00:26:44,319 --> 00:26:45,759 daughter didn't want to do it. She had to tell her, you don't 383 00:26:45,759 --> 00:26:49,000 have a choice. You're gonna go meet with this therapist. You're gonna have 384 00:26:49,039 --> 00:26:53,440 a whole assessment because she wants her to be in the best mental health state 385 00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,799 when she goes off to college next year. And I was like, wow, 386 00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:00,720 that's such a great idea, Like I like that, like and it 387 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:06,720 also helped her daughter realize, like, oh, I didn't realize that this 388 00:27:06,839 --> 00:27:10,839 whole fomo that I get is part of my anxiety. It she didn't put 389 00:27:10,839 --> 00:27:15,440 that together, and now she understand, Like it's it's helped her a lot, 390 00:27:15,839 --> 00:27:18,160 even though she was dragged the whole way. I mean, there was 391 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:21,240 times where her and her daughter would fight. She would put her in the 392 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:22,480 car and her daughter would get out of the car and go, you're wasting 393 00:27:22,519 --> 00:27:26,039 money doing this. I'm not. I'm you know, dropping her off at 394 00:27:26,079 --> 00:27:30,319 the therapy and blah blah blah. And but after you know, a couple 395 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,960 months of doing it, she's really got her anxiety under control. And I 396 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:38,440 think that's something I need to probably maybe look at for Natalia because she I 397 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:45,000 can't imagine just now sending her off to college and now like just thinking that 398 00:27:45,079 --> 00:27:48,200 she's just I mean, she's very self sufficient. She is, and she 399 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:55,440 is very um, she's she's very like she can what do you call it, 400 00:27:55,960 --> 00:28:02,200 uh navigate. Yeah, she's a very good navigator. Well she is 401 00:28:02,279 --> 00:28:07,200 handle her shit and handle her shit. She's she's self sufficient sufficient. But 402 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:11,119 uh, she's you know, she eats healthy, she works out all right, 403 00:28:11,279 --> 00:28:15,079 right, Okay, so she can regulate herself. But when it comes 404 00:28:15,079 --> 00:28:18,279 to her friends, they come first, and you know, and she's gotta 405 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,960 she's got a lot of anxiety. And now it's like she's gonna be but 406 00:28:22,039 --> 00:28:26,319 she's been around all her friends. Now what she's gonna they're gonna go off 407 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,160 to college. Now they're not going to be around their friends, they're gonna 408 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:30,960 be all alone and they're gonna have you know, is she gonna have a 409 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,680 lot of anxiety around that? You know, how does she gonna you know, 410 00:28:34,759 --> 00:28:41,759 handle that and regulate that anxiety. I think that's so I have a 411 00:28:41,759 --> 00:28:45,079 bunch of thoughts about that. Number one. I think it's great that, 412 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:48,440 like you're investigating that. Think about the fact that, like when we were 413 00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:52,359 young, yeah, nobody, Like first of all, like autism, how 414 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:56,559 often was autism diagnosed, Like when we were kids, Like it wasn't no 415 00:28:56,559 --> 00:29:00,960 matter how if you were neurodivergent, you were just thought of as like kind 416 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,880 of weird, or you're not or you were yelled at for like how come 417 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,279 you're not You're just not trying hard enough. Like I can tell you that 418 00:29:07,519 --> 00:29:15,440 for sure I had ADHDS me too, But the way it manifested in me 419 00:29:15,599 --> 00:29:19,440 was just that I was constantly bored, like and I couldn't study, so 420 00:29:19,599 --> 00:29:26,400 I got horrible grades. I am smart, you know, objectively, like 421 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:30,480 I'm bright and can figure shit out if I have to and understand things, 422 00:29:30,559 --> 00:29:34,279 but like presented with it into having to sit in a class, I couldn't. 423 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:38,000 It was but I didn't think of it that way, as it wasn't 424 00:29:38,039 --> 00:29:41,759 like I was like constantly tapping my toes or like had a bunch of energy. 425 00:29:41,799 --> 00:29:45,039 I didn't. It was just that my mind was like, oh my 426 00:29:45,119 --> 00:29:48,160 god, I'm bored. I'm thinking about other things. I only want to 427 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,720 do what I want to do, Like I could read a book ye, 428 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:56,400 and hyper focus on books, but not if the subject, but not learn 429 00:29:56,519 --> 00:30:00,640 math. Right. And it's only now, like in my fifties, that 430 00:30:00,799 --> 00:30:06,160 I can go have some compassion for the kid that I was. But like, 431 00:30:06,319 --> 00:30:08,960 now we can look at our kids and I don't think it's that we're 432 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:15,319 over diagnosing. I think it's just that we are diagnosing, like we're seeing 433 00:30:15,599 --> 00:30:18,480 anxiety in our kids and we're addressing it right, like, which I think 434 00:30:18,559 --> 00:30:22,000 is a great, great thing. It just because it might seem like, 435 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:26,319 oh my gosh, every kid has an anxiety, Well maybe they do, 436 00:30:26,519 --> 00:30:30,000 but like, isn't it better that we help them? I agree, give 437 00:30:30,039 --> 00:30:32,680 them tools to deal with it, rather than just go, oh, you're 438 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:36,119 making it up or like oh not everybody has anxiety. They lock it off 439 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:41,359 to Yeah I know, I agree. I agree. Yeah, So I'm 440 00:30:41,359 --> 00:30:45,440 gonna look into it and talk to an Italia about it. And another thing 441 00:30:47,599 --> 00:30:51,559 with this going off to college, which I've noticed is, yeah, like 442 00:30:51,799 --> 00:30:55,359 these kids are still young. You know, they're eighteen years old, seventeen, 443 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:59,079 eighteen years old. I mean I was on a July birthday, so 444 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:02,559 I graduated high school at seventeen, too. Would have been going off if 445 00:31:02,599 --> 00:31:06,799 I'd gone to college zoom, as I would have been seven. Well, 446 00:31:06,799 --> 00:31:10,240 I would have been very newly turned eighteen years old. Yeah, I mean, 447 00:31:10,319 --> 00:31:14,799 as it was. I moved to La on my own. So a 448 00:31:14,799 --> 00:31:18,200 lot of these kids, right, they have their friend group. They have 449 00:31:18,559 --> 00:31:22,359 especially senior year, right, they have all these things. They have homecoming, 450 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,440 and they have senior Prom, and they have all these senior activities, 451 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,920 and they're bonding with their friend group more than ever. Then all of a 452 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:32,440 sudden, like I look at Elbe and Elbie's like, I'm you know, 453 00:31:32,519 --> 00:31:36,240 she's so sad, like all my friends are leaving me, you know they're 454 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:41,279 all but I'm like, yeah, but they're also leaving their friends too, 455 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,000 And Elbe's like, yeah, but they're going to have the distraction of being 456 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:48,039 in college. And I'm like yes, but it's also going to be a 457 00:31:48,119 --> 00:31:52,960 huge adjustment for all these kids. Like everybody has it rough. This is 458 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,839 this is a hard time. Like we need to acknowledge that all of these 459 00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:00,599 kids, whether they get into the college they like, whether they're elbe who's 460 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:06,359 going to go to community college for a year and feels bereft that all of 461 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,119 her friends are moving on with their lives and she's stuck here, you know, 462 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:15,400 in her bedroom at her same job, going to a community college. 463 00:32:15,519 --> 00:32:21,240 It's like, but your friends are leaving all of their friends, their house, 464 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:25,240 everything, they know, their moms and dads, somebody who does their 465 00:32:25,319 --> 00:32:30,680 laundry, somebody who groceries that appear in the fridge, and suddenly they're in 466 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:37,960 a brand new college with all brand new friends, a roommate. Right, 467 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:43,200 they've maybe never shared a room before, suddenly they're sharing their space with somebody. 468 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,559 They're going to having to find their way through a brand new school, 469 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:51,759 navigating all teachers, having no parent right with them. That's it. Yeah, 470 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:53,559 some of them are moving thousands of miles away from home to do it 471 00:32:53,799 --> 00:32:58,440 right now. I think it's got to be really hard. I think we 472 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,759 should have like a lot of empathy. Yeah as all these kids. I 473 00:33:00,799 --> 00:33:05,200 agree, Yeah, it is, And I was like I can't, I 474 00:33:05,559 --> 00:33:07,400 mean, how are they going to do it, but they do it. 475 00:33:07,519 --> 00:33:10,240 I mean, obviously the kid's going off. I mean we didn't like people 476 00:33:10,279 --> 00:33:15,480 do people do Kalen didn't do it. I tell us what it's like, 477 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:27,640 guys. I mean I moved to La with like. I know I've told 478 00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,160 you this story before, but it sounds so crazy to me looking back. 479 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:36,480 I had nine hundred dollars. Six hundred of it I saved from like waiting 480 00:33:36,519 --> 00:33:39,839 tables and quitting jobs like if they didn't pay me, and like if I 481 00:33:39,839 --> 00:33:43,799 wasn't going to make tips there. I knew I was leaving like town in 482 00:33:43,839 --> 00:33:45,759 a month, so I'd work at like a Chinese restaurant. I'd work like 483 00:33:45,799 --> 00:33:49,240 two shifts. I'd be like, I'm not going to make any cash here. 484 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,119 See, you get to go up the street get a different job. 485 00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:57,440 I managed to come up with six hundred dollars. My mom gave me three 486 00:33:57,519 --> 00:34:01,680 hundred dollars. I got in my beat Maza GLC with my friend Heidi, 487 00:34:01,759 --> 00:34:07,279 who was seventeen years old, who dropped out of high school. I'd forgotten 488 00:34:07,279 --> 00:34:08,960 about that tidbit she never finished high school. She was like, yeah, 489 00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:13,280 fuck this, I'm coming to California with you. We got in the car, 490 00:34:13,559 --> 00:34:15,400 drove across the country. We're like, we don't have enough money to 491 00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:20,519 stay at like proper motels. So two different nights we slept in the car. 492 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:22,920 We literally pulled over on the side of a road and fell asleep, 493 00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:28,760 like honestly, just like catnip to a serial killer. I don't know what 494 00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:32,000 we were thinking. Yeah, we were thinking like we've never been the victim 495 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:37,159 of a violent crime up until that point, like probably fine, Yeah, 496 00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:44,079 probably weren't fine. Then we pull up to La. We go. All 497 00:34:44,159 --> 00:34:47,159 we know is that we're meeting my other friend who I'd been best friends within 498 00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:52,119 Spokane, Washington. We'd been talking back and forth with her. She's like, 499 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:58,079 I'm in La staying at my aunt's house, who was like some alcoholic 500 00:34:58,679 --> 00:35:01,760 drug addict. Of course, She's like, come on down and you guys 501 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:06,880 can stay at my aunt's house. So we we we arrived in La, 502 00:35:07,079 --> 00:35:09,880 like, what's up? Like we figure out from the Thomas Guide how to 503 00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:14,480 get to this woman's house on Beechwood Canyon. Oh, we roll up. 504 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:17,119 It's like a one bedroom apartment And every time people come to LA, they 505 00:35:17,199 --> 00:35:21,840 roll up to Beechwood Canyon, Like that's the place that when you get to 506 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:25,920 Lamon Street, like right, like Beechwood Canyon is the street that you just 507 00:35:27,079 --> 00:35:30,440 look all the way down and there's the Hollywood sign. Yes, yes, 508 00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:34,039 So you pull up in La that's where you get out. It's a very 509 00:35:34,119 --> 00:35:38,280 cool part, very hipster, hipster part. But this lady lived in like 510 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:43,400 a one bedroom apartment. I don't think she knew we were coming. So 511 00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:47,519 my friend was like, okay, so like these are my friends, and 512 00:35:47,599 --> 00:35:52,440 she was just like, what the fuck is happening. I think we lasted 513 00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:55,679 there one night, like we all slept on the floor in this apartment, 514 00:35:57,079 --> 00:36:00,960 and then she was like, you guys need to get out, and we 515 00:36:00,039 --> 00:36:02,360 didn't have a phone. Oh, and she took her phone with her, 516 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:07,920 so we needed to find an apartment. We were using my friend Heidi's bought 517 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:12,079 Mitzvah money, but she had taken out of the bank at seventeen, much 518 00:36:12,079 --> 00:36:14,840 to her mom was horrified. Right, she was like, I'm bringing my 519 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,679 bot Mitza money. That's how we made a deposit on an apartment. We 520 00:36:19,079 --> 00:36:22,800 found this apartment from just calling on a pay phone, using the newspaper calling 521 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:29,760 on payphones old school. We find this apartment off of Hollywood Boulevard. We 522 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:34,079 don't know anything. I was nineteen. I had just turned nineteen, like, 523 00:36:34,639 --> 00:36:37,159 right, I'm like Lbie's age. Yeah, I'm like all right, 524 00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:40,400 So in a way, I didn't go to college, but I didn't know 525 00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:45,039 anybody. We made friends with our neighbors, right we I mean I got 526 00:36:45,079 --> 00:36:47,960 a job selling office supplies. We've talked a lot about that, and then 527 00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:52,360 at a movie theater. My life was a crazy Yeah. I started doing 528 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,440 a bunch of cocaine, right because, like as you do, I'm in 529 00:36:55,519 --> 00:37:00,280 Hollywood. All my neighbors were like doing coke glen in Rome. Oh my 530 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:04,199 god, I developed like like a coke problem at nineteen. I'm like, 531 00:37:04,519 --> 00:37:07,320 if I keep doing this, I'm gonna be a cocreps. We've talked about 532 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:10,199 this many times. I'm like, I'm gonna quit doing cocaine. I quit 533 00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:14,840 doing cocaine. I started and stopped cocaine at the age of like nineteen, 534 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:20,119 right, I know. I mean it was crazy. Yeah. And meanwhile, 535 00:37:20,159 --> 00:37:22,760 our kids at this age or at home, like barely they can barely 536 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:27,639 function making themselves a bagel. I know, this is what I'm saying. 537 00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,519 So like you take those kids, like, in a way, like we 538 00:37:30,519 --> 00:37:35,119 were much more prepared to go off to college. Yeah than our kids. 539 00:37:35,199 --> 00:37:37,119 Now, I was trying to get out of my house because my mom's beating 540 00:37:37,199 --> 00:37:40,760 me up, like giving me the back end a karate chopping shit. Yeah. 541 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:45,519 Like we didn't have that soft place to fall back at our house. 542 00:37:45,679 --> 00:37:50,400 No, we were like, we're already feral. Yeah exactly, let's get 543 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,480 out. Yeah, I know. So are we doing our kids at disservice 544 00:37:53,519 --> 00:37:57,960 by making their home life good? I get, I don't know. Maybe, 545 00:37:58,079 --> 00:38:00,599 I hope not. I need people to weigh in on this. Yeah, 546 00:38:00,679 --> 00:38:07,079 but first let's talk about zoc doc. Yes, oh my god. 547 00:38:07,519 --> 00:38:12,119 This is a service that was a long time coming. It's if you think 548 00:38:12,159 --> 00:38:15,760 about, like all the different types of specialists you need. This is a 549 00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:21,320 doctor service that helps you find medical professionals, right, And all you have 550 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,599 to do is put in like what kind of doctor you want and what's your 551 00:38:23,639 --> 00:38:27,679 zip code? Yes, and you will find they will look up do they 552 00:38:27,679 --> 00:38:31,039 take your insurance? How far are they are they taking new patients? It's 553 00:38:31,079 --> 00:38:34,599 so great, And then you can go through and look up, look at 554 00:38:34,599 --> 00:38:37,199 the reviews, and it's free. So why wouldn't you do it? Yes, 555 00:38:37,599 --> 00:38:40,960 all kinds of doctors you can find therapists, you could find dentists, 556 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:46,280 you could find a dermatologist, you could find PCPs. Right, yeah, 557 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:52,320 yeah, it's so great. I told you I found I found a dermatologist 558 00:38:52,639 --> 00:38:55,039 through there, and I was going to go to a PCP and then I 559 00:38:55,039 --> 00:39:00,599 went I went back to our our doctor first. But it was so great. 560 00:39:00,639 --> 00:39:04,599 It was really really easy. Yes, it's seamless. You can find 561 00:39:04,639 --> 00:39:07,559 the perfect doctor and you can make your doctor's appointment right there on the app 562 00:39:07,599 --> 00:39:13,239 as well. Right, so yeah, zoc doc is a free app where 563 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:17,599 you can find amazing doctors and book appointments online. We're talking about booking appointments 564 00:39:17,599 --> 00:39:22,599 with thousands of top rated patient reviewed doctors and specialists. You can filter specifically 565 00:39:22,639 --> 00:39:27,280 for the ones who take your insurance, are located near you, and treat 566 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:31,960 almost any condition you're searching for. Go to zoc dot dot com slash fcl 567 00:39:32,079 --> 00:39:37,000 and download the zoc doc app for free. Then find and book a top 568 00:39:37,119 --> 00:39:44,800 rated doctor today. That's ZocDoc dot com slash fcol zoc doc dot com slash 569 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:53,920 fcol. So speaking of a like helping our kids navigate life, Kalin any 570 00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:59,719 updates on swim lessons, Oh the swim lessons were going so good. They 571 00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:02,239 were doing such a good job. There's you know, some teenage girl that's 572 00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:06,360 been doing the swim lessons with them at the YMCO. Okay, hold on 573 00:40:06,519 --> 00:40:09,760 backup, because weren't you was that always at the YMCA, because last time 574 00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:14,880 you talked about this it was a disaster. Yeah, I wasn't there the 575 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:16,199 last time. I just heard about it, remember, but that was that 576 00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:22,199 that was the first time. Yeah, my girlfriend had gotten the pool, 577 00:40:22,199 --> 00:40:24,800 got in the pool. So they've gone, like, I guess three weeks 578 00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:28,719 since then, about that twice a week for two or three weeks, and 579 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,760 they've all gone very well. And both my daughters, like Samantha, that's 580 00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:37,199 the teenager that you know, is teaching them how to swim. And then 581 00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:42,440 last week, Um, Samantha couldn't do it. So it was like a 582 00:40:42,559 --> 00:40:46,440 guy, like a nice teenage boy instead and they just freaked out. Oh 583 00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:52,599 no, knocket in the pool. They both started crying. One didn't want 584 00:40:52,639 --> 00:40:53,840 to go first and the other one didn't want to go first, and they 585 00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:58,039 were screaming, crying, and so we just left. We just left, 586 00:40:58,079 --> 00:41:01,239 and it was horrible. You were both there. Yeah, we both wanted 587 00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:06,360 to pay for the lesson. They refunded us. Oh really that's nice that, 588 00:41:07,519 --> 00:41:14,000 Um so yeah that I wouldn't have refunded, would you. I mean, 589 00:41:14,119 --> 00:41:16,840 I don't know, it depends or they rescheduled. It was like you 590 00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:20,960 can come back and do it another time and well they will credit credit or 591 00:41:21,199 --> 00:41:24,519 okay, And so yeah, that was a disaster. And since then, 592 00:41:24,679 --> 00:41:28,639 Blake is not. Blake was always the one that loved the water. She 593 00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:31,559 was the one that would run like charged straight into the ocean when she was 594 00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,880 you know, like a baby, didn't know how to just run right in 595 00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:37,119 and just jump in a pool. Um, and now she's not doing as 596 00:41:37,159 --> 00:41:40,400 well with the swimming lessons, but I was doing very well. She's like 597 00:41:40,519 --> 00:41:45,679 almost she seems like she's almost there. So yeah, I was doing fantastic 598 00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:49,480 Blake. I don't know. Maybe she's just a bit too young. Yeah, 599 00:41:49,599 --> 00:41:52,159 she's not doing so well anymore. Well, they show those videos like 600 00:41:52,199 --> 00:41:55,639 if you're on I would say TikTok, but whatever Instagram. You see these 601 00:41:55,719 --> 00:42:01,440 videos where there's like a like a six month old baby that floating Yeah exact, 602 00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:06,239 you know, hey they throw the baby in the water and turning, 603 00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:14,159 so like none of that now so much now, Yeah, It's interesting with 604 00:42:14,639 --> 00:42:19,239 kids because I remember when my kids were young, and Natalia always loved the 605 00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:23,440 female instructors, and Sonny did not want anything to do with the female instructors. 606 00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:27,880 Really. He wanted a guy all the time. And in fact, 607 00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,320 in like second grade, I remember there was a teacher in second grade that 608 00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:35,360 everybody loved. He was a dude, and Sonny's best friend got the teacher 609 00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,920 and he didn't, and he got, you know, a female teacher. 610 00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:42,719 And I was like, I actually I was the Scott Karen where I went 611 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:44,400 to the school, and I was like, you know, my son does 612 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:46,719 better with male teachers. Can he be in the class with his best friend 613 00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:52,760 and the male teacher that everybody likes. And they're like nope, of course, 614 00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,159 And they're like no, like school starting, we already you already got 615 00:42:55,199 --> 00:42:59,719 your you know, your assignment of what teacher you get. That was it. 616 00:43:00,199 --> 00:43:02,159 And Sonny for a long time, he just didn't, you know, 617 00:43:02,599 --> 00:43:06,920 and it wasn't him on purpose. It was just kind of like he just 618 00:43:07,199 --> 00:43:10,320 he'd always clicked better with the mail, no matter what was sports or what 619 00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:15,920 like, he just clicked better with the mail instructors. And Natalia always loved 620 00:43:15,199 --> 00:43:19,719 the pretty and the hard ass ones, the ones that were hard on her, 621 00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,239 she loved. It's weird, that is so Sonny grew out of it 622 00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:25,719 obviously, but you know, he was a little misogynistic when he was a 623 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:30,760 little baby. It's funny because and male teachers are kind of rare, I 624 00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:34,960 know, I know. Well. And then the other thing too is Sonny 625 00:43:35,079 --> 00:43:37,800 was grew up with his sister in his bed. You know, they shared 626 00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:42,119 a bedroom, and anytime there was a barbie on the floor or something pink 627 00:43:42,199 --> 00:43:45,199 on the floor, he would walk in and he'd turn around and walk out 628 00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:47,679 and say, not walking in that room, Natalia's got to pick up that 629 00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:51,920 thing off the floor. And then I mean it was very quirky that way. 630 00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:54,239 And then he would always be with his trucks and his toy his cars 631 00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:59,519 and shit, and that was that and Natalia just always with the pink and 632 00:43:59,559 --> 00:44:05,519 the frill and yeah, yeah, oh my gosh. L both Elbie and 633 00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:10,199 Sadie went through it's so gender stuff is just so weird how some you know, 634 00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:14,760 they both went through their two two phase where they would just wear the 635 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:19,480 two two every day, never taken off that tutu. And also both of 636 00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:23,400 those girls went through Ariel. They loved Ariel. They had to have aerial 637 00:44:23,559 --> 00:44:29,440 everything, aerial t shirts, Ariel. They remember the Disney nightgowns. Oh 638 00:44:29,519 --> 00:44:34,719 yeah, the Satni Satin nightgowns. Yeah, oh my god. Yeah. 639 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:38,400 Elbie was obsessed. I remember we got her one like for I don't know, 640 00:44:38,519 --> 00:44:43,280 for some like her birthday or whatever Christmas, and she just net like 641 00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:46,159 kept it on for it, like for weeks. She only wanted to wear 642 00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:50,639 that, and then it was and then Sadie went through the same thing, 643 00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:54,960 right, yeah, Ariel Ariel. Yeah, Natalia was all about Katie Perry. 644 00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:02,920 Oh honesty, pica cock cock, yea pica cock. She would sing 645 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:07,440 those songs all the time and not even knowing what she's saying. I know, 646 00:45:07,519 --> 00:45:08,679 I remember when you took him to the concert. Yeah, they were 647 00:45:08,679 --> 00:45:14,239 like five, yeah, teen ex dream and you know she would sing about 648 00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,000 like touching her you know all that, like in a broadm like, oh 649 00:45:16,119 --> 00:45:22,679 my god, you little slut. She didn't know what she's singing. And 650 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:27,199 then Sonny was just an angry bird, right right, an angry bird before 651 00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:29,880 it was a thing. Right, he learned how to play it on the 652 00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:34,599 app. Yeah that was that. Yeah. Oh yeah, Xander had an 653 00:45:34,599 --> 00:45:38,800 angry Bird's T shirt and I want to say five and he wore all the 654 00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:44,719 time, right, obsessed with that in cars, right, Pixar, Pixar's 655 00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:47,400 car Cars. Oh Kaylin, do you watch that movie You're with dear kids? 656 00:45:47,519 --> 00:45:50,840 That's a great they're not they don't like cars. Now, they would 657 00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:53,719 watch a lot of movies, but cars, they liked them. They're young, 658 00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:57,480 they're too young for Yeah. They like the things with songs in them, 659 00:45:57,639 --> 00:46:00,000 right, so yeah, you know trolls was big for a while. 660 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:05,559 Oh yeah yeah, trolls. Um. Yeah. Yeah, there's this one 661 00:46:05,559 --> 00:46:08,000 called Ugly Dolls that has a lot of They like that one, so yeah 662 00:46:08,079 --> 00:46:15,079 you got it sing? Yeah yeah, I like that too. Yeah yeah. 663 00:46:15,199 --> 00:46:16,760 So they're like those are those are kind of their favorite ones? Yeah, 664 00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:22,400 that's kyote. I have a movie recommendation for you guys, theater Camp. 665 00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,480 Really have you heard of this movie? Oh my god, it's so 666 00:46:25,559 --> 00:46:34,000 good. It is really good. It's um Ben Platt is in it and 667 00:46:34,079 --> 00:46:37,800 I think wrote it. It's like a it's like a mockumentary. I love 668 00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:47,320 mockumentary about this theater camp for kids that uh almost goes under one like it's 669 00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:53,440 one summer at this summer camp and you know about what happened and like you 670 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:59,440 know the teachers and it's yeah, it's shot like mockumentary style and it's laugh 671 00:46:59,519 --> 00:47:04,679 out loud funny. I laughed a lot, Like I went with Sadie. 672 00:47:05,519 --> 00:47:09,199 So Xander's been kind of busy, Sadie's having a really boring summer, and 673 00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:13,199 like the other night, we kept talking about wanting to go see a movie 674 00:47:14,039 --> 00:47:19,639 and I Cecily on four d af had told me that theater Camp was funny, 675 00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:22,199 so I looked it up and it was playing like near our house, 676 00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:24,519 and then Elbe was kind of dissing us, and it was one of those 677 00:47:24,559 --> 00:47:29,039 things we just spur the moment. I was like, Sadie was all bummed 678 00:47:29,079 --> 00:47:30,519 and like I have nothing to do, and I was like, you want 679 00:47:30,519 --> 00:47:34,559 to just go to a movie? It starts in twenty minutes. But it 680 00:47:34,599 --> 00:47:38,480 was right by our house, you know, in Encino there's a Lemley and 681 00:47:38,559 --> 00:47:43,400 it's and it was so funny because Sadie was like, mom, I was 682 00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:45,199 like, there's a theater. She's like, where are we going to get 683 00:47:45,199 --> 00:47:47,280 to be able to get to a movie in twenty minutes? I go, 684 00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:52,559 it's four minutes from our house. It's at where Michael's is, and she 685 00:47:52,639 --> 00:47:54,400 was like, there's no movie theater there, and I was like, bitch, 686 00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,639 I've lived here twenty years. I was like, there, sure is 687 00:47:57,639 --> 00:48:00,039 a movie theater. She's like, mom, no, there isn't like there's 688 00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:04,679 And I was like, okay, can you trust me? So we drive 689 00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,639 over there and we park, and the whole time she's just a doubting Thomas. 690 00:48:07,679 --> 00:48:10,920 She's like, I don't know where this and I was like, you 691 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:14,719 really still don't believe, Like do you think I'm tricking you? Like, 692 00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:16,320 we're just going to Michael's. We're going to the movie, right. So 693 00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:20,840 we go down these stairs and there's the movie theater and I'm like, oh 694 00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:24,159 yeah, it's a smaller theater. Yeah, but anyway, we go in 695 00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:28,880 and oh my god, got our popcorn and stuff, and I love that. 696 00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,960 From minute one of the movie, we were both laughing so hard and 697 00:48:32,079 --> 00:48:37,079 Sadie was like looking at me. I was laughing so hard during some parts 698 00:48:37,079 --> 00:48:39,960 that Sadie was like, um like, and I'm like it's okay, everybody's 699 00:48:40,039 --> 00:48:44,480 laughing, Like we're all having a good time. Nobody's gonna begrudge me for 700 00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,159 laughing too. Loud, but she was getting a little embarrassed. Yeah, 701 00:48:47,159 --> 00:48:50,519 that's how much fun I was having, right right, Oh, that's a 702 00:48:50,519 --> 00:48:53,119 great idea. I'd love to go see a movie. It's really fun. 703 00:48:53,159 --> 00:48:58,119 All these movies are fucking three hours long, and she is ninety min on. 704 00:48:58,599 --> 00:49:01,800 Yeah, that's that's ninety minutes. It's cute. I love that happens 705 00:49:02,079 --> 00:49:07,880 and then see that. You have to go see it. I'm so Xander's 706 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:13,559 at Groundlings today and they're bringing home there. He's bringing home his friend, 707 00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:16,559 this girl I think I told you they did last time. They're bringing her 708 00:49:16,599 --> 00:49:21,280 home, and I was like, Sadie was like, Xander would love this 709 00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:22,679 movie. I was like, well, you guys should all go, right, 710 00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:25,599 So they're bringing I think they're gonna go. Oh that's great. They 711 00:49:25,599 --> 00:49:29,719 can walk there. Oh that's great. That's good. Yeah, so it's 712 00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:31,480 kind of a perfect thing to do. But I'd see it again, right, 713 00:49:31,559 --> 00:49:35,000 Like, it was just fun. Right, Oh, I love that. 714 00:49:35,079 --> 00:49:37,400 All right, I'm gonna go see it. I think other than Barbie, 715 00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:43,079 this is this was like, honestly, like the first movie Barbie was. 716 00:49:43,119 --> 00:49:46,559 I think the first movie I've seen since COVID. Yeah, right, 717 00:49:47,039 --> 00:49:50,679 I know, I don't think I've been in the movie since COVID. I 718 00:49:50,679 --> 00:49:53,880 haven't been in the movies a long time. I think COVID is totally over 719 00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:58,719 though. Yeah, it's kinds of making a comeback. This says it. 720 00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:01,039 Yeah, do you know people that have gotten it? I do know somebody 721 00:50:01,039 --> 00:50:05,519 that has it. Yes, I've heard a couple of people have gotten it, 722 00:50:05,639 --> 00:50:09,000 like friends of friends, and I hear it's making a comeback, but 723 00:50:09,159 --> 00:50:13,480 not bad. No, No, that's the good thing. What if I 724 00:50:13,519 --> 00:50:15,719 just became like a serious COVID denier all of a sudden, I'm like, 725 00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:21,239 I mean, don't get vaccinated. Okay, this is going to sound like 726 00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:24,840 the most ignorant question ever, but do people are people still getting vaccinated? 727 00:50:25,079 --> 00:50:29,360 Are there? Like? I think it's the people that have gotten wanted to 728 00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,800 getten vaccinated have already gotten it. But like, okay, do you remember 729 00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:36,239 for a while they kept updating the vaccine. Yeah, okay, I sound 730 00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,840 so ignorant right now. But for a while it was like, oh, 731 00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:43,280 you got vaccinated, but now a new strain, so get your booster. 732 00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:47,920 But I haven't heard anybody talking about boosters either. Yeah. No, I 733 00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:52,280 don't know. I feel like I wouldn't do any of your health and news 734 00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:58,400 from us. Oh my god, it's our health update corner. Yeah, 735 00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:00,679 we should get doctor Bruce on the Yeah, he'd be perfect for this. 736 00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:06,239 Yeah, i'ls update with doctor Bruce. I feel like I would have heard 737 00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:08,519 about people getting vaccinated. You know, I was like first in line. 738 00:51:08,599 --> 00:51:13,480 Remember remember when I was obsessed with getting vaccinated. I was like, Oh 739 00:51:13,519 --> 00:51:15,119 my god, how am I gonna get it? I went and stood in 740 00:51:15,199 --> 00:51:19,480 line at that clinic. Yeah, got up at like six in the morning 741 00:51:19,519 --> 00:51:22,239 so I could get there with Elby. Dragged Elby with us because she was 742 00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:27,559 sixteen and they were pulling the sixteen year olds out of line first. Yeah. 743 00:51:27,679 --> 00:51:34,360 Yeah, hook got us hooked up. All right, Well, this 744 00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:37,519 is a good show, really fun. Yeah. Before we go, though, 745 00:51:37,559 --> 00:51:40,480 we do want to remind you, and I think we said this at 746 00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:43,960 the beginning of the show, but we're going to do a zoom hang. 747 00:51:44,199 --> 00:51:49,480 Yes we are this Sunday Night be there or b Square. Yeah, this 748 00:51:49,519 --> 00:51:52,000 is gonna be epic. It's gonna be really fun. You need to be 749 00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:54,559 at the ten dollars level on Patreona. But one thing that you need to 750 00:51:54,639 --> 00:51:59,239 know is that if you're not on Patreon right now and you join Patreon. 751 00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:06,000 It's honestly going to be worth it for our Patreon this week. Okay, 752 00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:09,559 yes, because some tea is spilled right like in a serious way. Yeah 753 00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:14,760 yet seriously, Yeah, we're not fucking around, No, we're being serious. 754 00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:16,639 Now, Oh god, I listen to the Patreon this week. You 755 00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:21,159 need to listen to it before the rest of the week. Week and so 756 00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:24,280 yeah, so just put a doll Yeah. So if you want to sign 757 00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:28,760 up at the five dollars level so you can listen, just listen even whatever. 758 00:52:29,199 --> 00:52:30,920 Fine, but if you are going to sign up, why not sign 759 00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:34,800 up at the ten dollars level and join us for the zoo. So if 760 00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:37,239 you don't sign up, then yet, it's your own dumb fault. For 761 00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:39,840 if you're all out and you're confused later on in the week, then that's 762 00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:44,559 your fault. Absolutely. Okay. Before we go, though, I want 763 00:52:44,559 --> 00:52:49,599 to give a shout out to um my friend Adam Lerner. Yes, so 764 00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:54,599 teaser. Yeah, Adam helped me buy a car and uh we bought a 765 00:52:54,639 --> 00:53:00,360 car, so nice. I will tell you that story on Friday. So 766 00:53:00,519 --> 00:53:05,880 Adam Lerner and hold on, I want to get his phone number for you. 767 00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:09,320 His phone numbers three one zero nine nine eight seven zero four eight. 768 00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:15,559 He's a car broker. He will hook you up whatever you want. He's 769 00:53:15,599 --> 00:53:19,519 like a car whisperer. So if you call him and you're like, well, 770 00:53:19,559 --> 00:53:21,679 I don't really know what I want, I don't know what's out there, 771 00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:24,000 he will tell you, Okay, this is what's out there for you 772 00:53:24,079 --> 00:53:27,840 for your lifestyle. These are the deals that are out there. This is 773 00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:30,000 what you're gonna pay for a lease, this is what you're gonna pay, 774 00:53:30,159 --> 00:53:32,199 and then he can find you a car. I use card, new card, 775 00:53:32,639 --> 00:53:37,719 lease, buy whatever. Okay. Also his website is Adam's Got a 776 00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:42,679 Car. Also, we have a newer person, our friend Christine Black. 777 00:53:43,119 --> 00:53:47,760 She's with Storybook World Travel. She can help you book some travel. It 778 00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:52,559 doesn't cost you anything, no cost for her services. She does more than 779 00:53:52,599 --> 00:53:55,519 just theme parks. She can help you take any kind of trips, travel 780 00:53:55,599 --> 00:54:00,639 all around the world, and you can email her. She's Facebook or Instagram 781 00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:06,400 Christine Black with the HC H R I S T I N E. Her 782 00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:12,960 email is Christine b at storybook world travel dot com. And then there's of 783 00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:15,760 course Basic Becky. I love our girl, Basic Becky. Yeah, I 784 00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:19,199 got a bunch of t shirts from her. I know, and I have 785 00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,320 a bunch of mugs and I got a mug too. Yeah, I have 786 00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:29,119 a cabinet full of mugs and I have to re redo my Scott Baio blocked 787 00:54:29,119 --> 00:54:32,280 me on Twitter. Mouse patch she does mouse pads nice if your old school 788 00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:36,960 like me, so go to just basic Becky dot com or Basic Becky on 789 00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:40,800 Facebook. And also last one at least this week, Kelly woman frieda. 790 00:54:42,199 --> 00:54:45,519 I love Woman Fried to Palm Springs or Palm Desert. It's a restaurant, 791 00:54:45,519 --> 00:54:49,880 it's a diner. It's a brunch place. It's not a dinner. It's 792 00:54:50,039 --> 00:54:55,239 such it's so good, so good, salmon wings, all made desserts that 793 00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:59,679 are phenomenal. I know, Oh my god, made on the premises, 794 00:55:00,679 --> 00:55:04,000 delightful. And if you mentioned for crying out loud, get you a free 795 00:55:04,199 --> 00:55:07,199 latte or mimosa. Yeah I love that. All right, thanks everybody, 796 00:55:07,199 --> 00:55:15,039 it's Kaitlin. You're parent now, don't off at us. Let'