Do. You got to do some conscious searching more than anything else. You
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big events that did this. The book that you mentioned shows you very clearly
how to look at it in a move. But it's really about becoming involved
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You are listening to watching the Financial Survival Network. I'm your host, Carrie
Letts. Well, Judy, Welcome. Smith is on with us again and
we're talking about money DNA, emotional DNA and her book is Decoding your Emotional
Blueprint, a powerful Guide to transformation through disentangling multigenerational patterns. That sounds pretty
daunting there, Judy, but just briefly tell us what it's about and how
do we do it. It's a big mouthful and it's really simple. So
what it is is you don't just inherit your physical DNA, You also inherit
your emotional DNA, and along with that, as a subset, you inherit
your financial money DNA. So your patterns of thoughts, feelings, actions in
and around money, or for that matter, or anything in your life.
But for today it's money. You inherit a whole bunch of that. And
the trick is it will often limit you. So you've got to be able
to identify it, and they decide what it is that you want to do.
So you're pretty unconsciously entangled with the patterns. We just show hard to
get out of those, all right, So how do you get out of
this? And how bet are these patterns? Really? Well, they pretty
much run the way that you act. So again, because we're talking about
money, they pretty much run the way that you will think, feel,
an act or our money. So if you heard your mother and father screaming
about money because there was never enough, that becomes your There's never enough,
there's never enough, There's never enough. But where did it come from?
Was it on one side or dad's side? Did mom have some but dad's
side didn't? And he heard it was never enough. It's never enough,
and it goes all the way back. So now it comes through to you,
and for you, it's like there's never enough, there's never enough.
You don't know when you lit get to enough, because you've just got that
one pattern cycling through. In fact, I have a billionaire person, a
billionaire client, and I said to him, so what are you going to
do with all of this wealth that you have? And he's his home,
I shouldn't What are you're going to spend it? On? Said no,
no, no, that's not the point. So I said to all what
was We had to be safe and secure? So I said are you safe
and secure? Well, I don't know, can you spend this all in
your lifetime? He said, well, yeah, if you're not careful.
I said, okay, are you careful? Yes? Well, then can
we look at that because safe and secure has been met? And he said,
well what don I do now? I said to them, how about
you and the next chapter? And oh, I didn't think of that.
So it's about you identifying, disentangling, and then going so what can I
do with this? All? Right? So how do you get rid of
these lingering things that are multigenerational that you don't even know you have. So
first of all, of course you've got to identify them. Secondly, you
don't want to get rid of them because they become a source of wisdom that
becomes the door you don't want to go back through. So you actually needed
there just to remind you not here. But they're so. One of the
things I tell people to do is sit down and write down all your thoughts
about money. I would see into them. Because your language in and of
itself is unique to you and your family system. You may say very odd
sounding things about money. It's telling you something. So write down your thoughts,
write down your feelings, write down your actions, and then have a
look at and go, oh, these don't feel good? That feels good?
What do I really want to do or have or be in terms of
finances? And then you write down those thoughts, feelings, actions, reactions.
Now you're sitting with two sets, the one that wants to stop and
the one that wants to start, and those two are always right next to
each other. So once you identify them in things like I'm so annoyed when
I've only got X amount in my bank account, or those rich people just
annoy me, you begin to see exactly what your financial or money DNA is,
then you can decide what you Here's the thing in systems, we know
that what you really do deeply want and desire is the system's way of pushing
you forward. And when I say a system, that's your family system.
So it's busy pushing you forward. It's also saying to stop the old pattern.
It doesn't work anymore. It's over. So one was once a solution
in one generation, it's no longer a solution. Very often in the next
generation. Your grandfather they have said, you know what, everything's collapsing,
Take your money out the bank, hide it under the mattress. Well,
these days, with decent earnings on your savings, that doesn't really work anymore.
So you've got to be able to language. Yeah, okay. So
you diagnose the situation and then you come to terms with it. You list
it, How does it work? How do you actually get over it?
Well, what you do then is you look at what it is you do
want, and you've then got to create a bigger want than the place that
you're at at the moment. So I'm always living paycheck to paycheck to paycheck,
I actually want financial freedom. I want to build a nest egg show.
If something happens, I'm not panicked. Okay, that next egg sounds
really really exciting. It sounds far more exciting than this living from paycheck to
paycheck. How do I make it happen. I'm gonna take just a little
bit each month and I'm going to start building that. Well, then it
becomes more and more intriguing because now this has got a stronger pull than the
old pull of it comes, it goes, or I've always only gotten up
from month to month. So you're building out a healthy pattern and that migrates
you've passed your limitations and into where you want to be, into a healthy
money DNA. All right, So all right, and then is it just
solved at that point or do you have to keep doing the work. That's
a great, great question if you've solved it. And I'll tell you why.
Because I had somebody who said to me, I want to do EX
and I said, to okay, good goal. So she gets to X,
she achieves it, and she says, well, now I'm in a
funk. So I said, all why she said, because now what I
said, No, it doesn't stop. You keep building and you keep building
and you keep expanding. The minute you stop, you're going to start reverting.
And then she said to me, well, that's hard work. And
if it's a hope, oh no, one said it was going to be
easy. But it's not just that. Is it really hard work or is
it going to be harder work when you're living from paycheck to paycheck, because
you can do either, and she would, oh no, I don't want
to do that anymore. So we're doing the work all the time, but
we're either going backwards or forwards. It's just a matter of what you pick.
So the choice is really up to you, then, isn't it.
It's very much about choice, and it's about making your choice strong enough to
make you so excited that there's no way you're going to go back to that
way because that just isn't cool anymore. Okay, So these beliefs, basically
you're dealing with false beliefs. To have that correct, you're dealing either with
false beliefs or outdated beliefs. Often it's outdated beliefs. An event happened,
an ancestor made a choice and said this is the way we handle money,
and it was good for then, but it's not good for now. It's
not. What you've got to do is go, okay, that was then,
this is now okay. So you really really got to do some soul
searching to the bottom of this, then, don't you. Absolutely you've got
to do some conscious searching more than anything else. You know, you can
look in your genealogy. You can see if there were big events that did
this. The book that you mentioned shows you very clearly how to look at
it and then moves. But it's it's really about becoming involved in your own
money adventure. And it is an adventure. Oh yes, it's an adventure.
I can speak from personal experience there, Judy. So how do you
get the book? How do we connect with you? Do you provide any
support in this arena? I do actually quite a lot. So you can
get the book all over the place, Amazon, Kindle, Audible, all
of the big ones, Bonds and Noble, any of those meditations are also
there if people are looking for those to help them. And then in November,
I'm teaching money DNA down at Disney World, and that is for people
to come in and we actually go through what is your money DNA? Where
did it come from how is it affecting you? What do we need to
do so that you could switch it up? And then you start walking towards
your new money adventure. So it's four days of really becoming immersedy in who
am I financially? And who do I want to be financially? And how
do we migrate from the one to the other. Okay, so there's a
website. How do we how do we connect with you Judy wi Kins hyphensmith
dot com. And you'll also see that my Bad live event in November is
listed there and it's filling so people who want to come and play, but
it's working hard during the day, playing hard during the night because we're on
site at Disney. But they're more than welcome. This is open to the
public. Oh excellent. Well, I love what you're doing. It sounds
like a real adventure. I think for many of you out there, past
is indeed prologue. But it's up to you to make the decision whether that
continues to rule your life or whether you actually do something about it. Hey,
if you got a question for Judy myself, shoot us an email k
l at krylots dot com. We'll get you an answer. Quickly. You'll
find a link to Judy's site in the show notes this interview on Financial Survival
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Period is always a pleasure to be with you. Let people go and grow
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