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Do. You got to do some
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know. You can look in your
genealogy. You can see if there were

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big events that did this. The
book that you mentioned shows you very clearly

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how to look at it in a
move. But it's really about becoming involved

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You are listening to watching the Financial
Survival Network. I'm your host, Carrie

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Letts. Well, Judy, Welcome. Smith is on with us again and

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we're talking about money DNA, emotional
DNA and her book is Decoding your Emotional

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Blueprint, a powerful Guide to transformation
through disentangling multigenerational patterns. That sounds pretty

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daunting there, Judy, but just
briefly tell us what it's about and how

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do we do it. It's a
big mouthful and it's really simple. So

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what it is is you don't just
inherit your physical DNA, You also inherit

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your emotional DNA, and along with
that, as a subset, you inherit

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your financial money DNA. So your
patterns of thoughts, feelings, actions in

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and around money, or for that
matter, or anything in your life.

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But for today it's money. You
inherit a whole bunch of that. And

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the trick is it will often limit
you. So you've got to be able

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to identify it, and they decide
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So you're pretty unconsciously entangled with the
patterns. We just show hard to

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get out of those, all right, So how do you get out of

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this? And how bet are these
patterns? Really? Well, they pretty

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much run the way that you act. So again, because we're talking about

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money, they pretty much run the
way that you will think, feel,

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an act or our money. So
if you heard your mother and father screaming

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about money because there was never enough, that becomes your There's never enough,

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there's never enough, There's never enough. But where did it come from?

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Was it on one side or dad's
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side didn't? And he heard it
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and it goes all the way back. So now it comes through to you,

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and for you, it's like there's
never enough, there's never enough.

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You don't know when you lit get
to enough, because you've just got that

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one pattern cycling through. In fact, I have a billionaire person, a

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billionaire client, and I said to
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do with all of this wealth that
you have? And he's his home,

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I shouldn't What are you're going to
spend it? On? Said no,

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no, no, that's not the
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was We had to be safe and
secure? So I said are you safe

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and secure? Well, I don't
know, can you spend this all in

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your lifetime? He said, well, yeah, if you're not careful.

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I said, okay, are you
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we look at that because safe and
secure has been met? And he said,

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well what don I do now?
I said to them, how about

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you and the next chapter? And
oh, I didn't think of that.

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So it's about you identifying, disentangling, and then going so what can I

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do with this? All? Right? So how do you get rid of

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these lingering things that are multigenerational that
you don't even know you have. So

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first of all, of course you've
got to identify them. Secondly, you

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don't want to get rid of them
because they become a source of wisdom that

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becomes the door you don't want to
go back through. So you actually needed

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there just to remind you not here. But they're so. One of the

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things I tell people to do is
sit down and write down all your thoughts

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about money. I would see into
them. Because your language in and of

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itself is unique to you and your
family system. You may say very odd

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sounding things about money. It's telling
you something. So write down your thoughts,

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write down your feelings, write down
your actions, and then have a

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look at and go, oh,
these don't feel good? That feels good?

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What do I really want to do
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finances? And then you write down
those thoughts, feelings, actions, reactions.

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Now you're sitting with two sets,
the one that wants to stop and

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the one that wants to start,
and those two are always right next to

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each other. So once you identify
them in things like I'm so annoyed when

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I've only got X amount in my
bank account, or those rich people just

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annoy me, you begin to see
exactly what your financial or money DNA is,

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then you can decide what you Here's
the thing in systems, we know

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that what you really do deeply want
and desire is the system's way of pushing

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you forward. And when I say
a system, that's your family system.

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So it's busy pushing you forward.
It's also saying to stop the old pattern.

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It doesn't work anymore. It's over. So one was once a solution

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in one generation, it's no longer
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generation. Your grandfather they have said, you know what, everything's collapsing,

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Take your money out the bank,
hide it under the mattress. Well,

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these days, with decent earnings on
your savings, that doesn't really work anymore.

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So you've got to be able to
language. Yeah, okay. So

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you diagnose the situation and then you
come to terms with it. You list

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it, How does it work?
How do you actually get over it?

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Well, what you do then is
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want, and you've then got to
create a bigger want than the place that

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you're at at the moment. So
I'm always living paycheck to paycheck to paycheck,

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I actually want financial freedom. I
want to build a nest egg show.

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If something happens, I'm not panicked. Okay, that next egg sounds

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really really exciting. It sounds far
more exciting than this living from paycheck to

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paycheck. How do I make it
happen. I'm gonna take just a little

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bit each month and I'm going to
start building that. Well, then it

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becomes more and more intriguing because now
this has got a stronger pull than the

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old pull of it comes, it
goes, or I've always only gotten up

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from month to month. So you're
building out a healthy pattern and that migrates

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you've passed your limitations and into where
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money DNA. All right, So
all right, and then is it just

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solved at that point or do you
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a great, great question if you've
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Because I had somebody who said to
me, I want to do EX

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and I said, to okay,
good goal. So she gets to X,

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she achieves it, and she says, well, now I'm in a

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funk. So I said, all
why she said, because now what I

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said, No, it doesn't stop. You keep building and you keep building

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and you keep expanding. The minute
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And then she said to me,
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if it's a hope, oh no, one said it was going to be

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easy. But it's not just that. Is it really hard work or is

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it going to be harder work when
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you can do either, and she
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to do that anymore. So we're
doing the work all the time, but

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we're either going backwards or forwards.
It's just a matter of what you pick.

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So the choice is really up to
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It's very much about choice, and
it's about making your choice strong enough to

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make you so excited that there's no
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way because that just isn't cool anymore. Okay, So these beliefs, basically

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you're dealing with false beliefs. To
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false beliefs or outdated beliefs. Often
it's outdated beliefs. An event happened,

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an ancestor made a choice and said
this is the way we handle money,

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and it was good for then,
but it's not good for now. It's

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not. What you've got to do
is go, okay, that was then,

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this is now okay. So you
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searching to the bottom of this,
then, don't you. Absolutely you've got

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to do some conscious searching more than
anything else. You know, you can

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look in your genealogy. You can
see if there were big events that did

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this. The book that you mentioned
shows you very clearly how to look at

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it and then moves. But it's
it's really about becoming involved in your own

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money adventure. And it is an
adventure. Oh yes, it's an adventure.

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I can speak from personal experience there, Judy. So how do you

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get the book? How do we
connect with you? Do you provide any

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support in this arena? I do
actually quite a lot. So you can

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get the book all over the place, Amazon, Kindle, Audible, all

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of the big ones, Bonds and
Noble, any of those meditations are also

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there if people are looking for those
to help them. And then in November,

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I'm teaching money DNA down at Disney
World, and that is for people

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to come in and we actually go
through what is your money DNA? Where

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did it come from how is it
affecting you? What do we need to

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do so that you could switch it
up? And then you start walking towards

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your new money adventure. So it's
four days of really becoming immersedy in who

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am I financially? And who do
I want to be financially? And how

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do we migrate from the one to
the other. Okay, so there's a

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website. How do we how do
we connect with you Judy wi Kins hyphensmith

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dot com. And you'll also see
that my Bad live event in November is

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listed there and it's filling so people
who want to come and play, but

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it's working hard during the day,
playing hard during the night because we're on

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site at Disney. But they're more
than welcome. This is open to the

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public. Oh excellent. Well,
I love what you're doing. It sounds

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like a real adventure. I think
for many of you out there, past

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is indeed prologue. But it's up
to you to make the decision whether that

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continues to rule your life or whether
you actually do something about it. Hey,

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if you got a question for Judy
myself, shoot us an email k

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l at krylots dot com. We'll
get you an answer. Quickly. You'll

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find a link to Judy's site in
the show notes this interview on Financial Survival

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newsletter. Judy, always a pleasure, Thanks so much for stopping by.

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Period is always a pleasure to be
with you. Let people go and grow

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