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What's up everybody, It's our special guest show with our favorite Meredith Lynch
in studio. Oh my god. We were talking so much before the MIC's
heated up that we had to like, we're so professional. Yeah, let's
wait and put it on air. Yeah yeah, Meredith, thank you for
coming in. Oh my god, thank you guys for having me. Very
yeah, very big. On social media, I don't know about that.
I did get a comment, uh. I think it was Friday that was
like, wow, your face is really heading downhill. And I was like,
to be honest with you, I just got four syringes of filler.
I'm feeling pretty fucking good. Like I was just saying. A friend that
just text me and was like, you need to fix yourself. You're on
cam right, you look so schlubby. And I was like, oh,
thanks, I think you look great. I think and we come rolling in
and you know, Monday morning, I didn't get an appearance thing lately,
but somebody did. Although I mean I have believe me, but somebody over
on bad TVs Facebook group for no reason, they were talking. Somebody flagged
me did you see this, Kayla? Somebody said, oh, they were
apropos of nothing because they were talking about the mother God. Yes, sure,
and then somebody wrote Stephanie can go kick rocks, like how did I
get hurt? Like I was talking about a documentary? What it's just so
fifth grade to go kick rocks. I was like, okay, so you
don't like me. I have no idea why, Like that's weird. It
is weird, I know. I just feel like I think, like you
know, we all have these moments during the day where we like can't say
shit right, like where you want to be like what right, but you
can't. So I think sometimes people take it out like on I remember when
I first started doing TikTok and stuff like very beginning, I wasn't used to
like the negative comments. So this girl left me a comment and she was
like do you have botox? And I was like fuck, yeah, are
you kidding me? So I was like, yeah, I have botox,
Like let me know if you have questions, Like I was so innocent,
and she was like, okay, this makes sense because your face is looking
very puffy and it's clear that it's been overdone. And I was like,
oh, my god. So she had her like full government name on there,
and like I like found her Facebook, which like had her contact email
on it like public, and I like emailed her and I was like,
Hey, I just want to let you know, like that comment actually really
hurt my feelings, Like it really hurt. And she wrote me back and
she was like, I have to be honest with you, Like I actually
don't think your face looks puffy at all. I had just had like a
really bad day with like my own body, and I saw you and something
just triggered me. So she was like, I just said it to say
it. You see how these fucking trolls are. That's why you can't read
it. I know you can't. You just got to ignore it. You
can't. And so then after that I was like I'm gate, well right
while, but like for the most part, I was like, oh,
this is your ship. It's the same thing that you have to like teach
your kids in middle school now, I know, right, true, Like
your kids are all over the shit now right Yeah? Well yeah, I
mean they're all over my specially my daughter, you know, on social media.
But yeah, you gotta you just got to teach them. Just ignore
well, Xander the other day found an Instagram post that I had made that
had nothing to do with anything, where somebody went off on me like my
parenting, specifically my parenting him in the comment of like an old post,
and like he found it and it was like a public why would you why
don't you call out my child? Of course I didn't see it because I'm
not expecting that. I'm not like police. It's an old and the posts
had nothing to do with anything, right, It was like a meme about
like white men, but white men's voices on public like social media. And
then Xander had to bring it to me, and I was like, oh
my god, I'm so like delete, you know, but I was like,
what is wrong with people? People? Are? These are kids?
Yeah? Well, especially our kids. We've had to teach them at a
very young age, like you just got to like, you know the truth,
you know who your family is. You know that there's bad people out
there, there's trolls out there. You know. I tried to block them
from Reddit for so long, but you know, they're almost eighteen, like
they're gonna yeah they you know, but they know the truth, they know
who they're you know, their parents are, So I'm just lucky. I
don't think like kids are interested enough in my life. I don't think I
don't I think my kids are interested that much either. But you know,
you know, my daughter was just telling me that she was at a party
and there's she has a beef with this kid, this one boy, because
of a friend that you know, he she he broke up a relation.
I don't know whatever. I was fighting with guys like the way to go,
don't girls. But she's got a beef with this boy it and they
he's yelling at her at a party and he's like, your parents don't give
a shit about your parents don't care about you, and she was like don't.
She's like like full on, will Smith, like you keep my parents'
name out Joe mouth, Like she just went off on my god. Yeah
yeah, Like honestly, that's the thing though, like I can't think like
both of you are people who I think your entire lives are for your children,
and I think that's very apparent, rightly, yes, no, but
I mean like, and so I think it's like when kids are confronted with
something that they know is not the truth, and to be honest with you,
that kid probably knows that's not true, and there's probably a level of
jellousy, right right, right, everything that you have done, everything with
this podcast, everything with other stuff, it's all been for them so they
can go to fucking college, so they can I don't know, only have
to work part time at the laser tag place. Like it's all for them.
You can't win though with people now, and you know you're never gonna
win because the same people. If I ever see reddit stuff on Reddit about
me, it's either the people complain like other two into their kids, like
they do everything for their kids. They're like God, like you know,
you're so codependent with your kids and like you want it, you do everything
for them. But then other people will be like, oh, they're they're
they're the worst parents. They're never there for their kids, Like they don't
even want to go do stuff with their kids. Like they're always talking about
how they're glad when their kids leave them alone. It's like, well,
which is it right? Which are you gonna Which are you hating me for?
Which makes you think that I'm a horrible person that needs to be called
out on, you know, that needs to be trolled. Which thing depends
on the day stuff and how their day is with their kids, right right,
right, right right, So let's talk squid games. Yeah, let's
talk about squid games. Yeah, would you go in the games with your
kid? Oh? Your kids? Yeah? I was rooting for that.
That to the mother son team. I loved it. I was say,
there's not going to be too many spoilers. I'm just gonna say if you're,
if you're, if you haven't watched it yet. Yeah, let's not
say who gets eliminated now, because I don't we want to know, because
I'm not done. No, we don't have to talk about who gets dominated.
But yeah, I was rooting for the mother son team because I was
picturing me and Sonny doing it together someday. Yeah. I thought it would
be fun. But uh, they are very competitive with each other, which
is crazy. She used to play basketball. Yeah, she's got an edge
and like the best possible good way. Yeah, in a healthy way.
She's a healthy competitive streak to her, which I'm And we have a fan
of our shows whose son is on the show get Out. He's number one.
Name is Justin And thus far that I've gotten to he's had like no
screen time at all, like not one interview, and I'm like, how
is it possible that they went from like cause where I am Now they're down
to thirty from four fifty six. Okay, I think I have two more
episodes. I'm caught up. Yeah, okay, And so you're done right,
it's done well now the final episode. Oh it hasn't hasn't he yet?
Okay? So, but I have been like watching for this person that
we know, our friend Catherine's son. I mean, it's like a longtime
listener of our show. Her son is literally there and I know he's still
there, but I'm like, how do you get to that many people?
And you've wished he's never had any camera time? Yeah, probably because he's
too normal. Yeah. I think what happens is is there's people that are
getting, you know, further in the game, so then they sit down
and interview them, and then next thing, you know, they can get
eliminated, and so now they're focusing on the other person that they were up
against. It's that's how it's going, right. But it started out with
fucking four hundred people. It's crazy. Are you enjoying it? I am
kind of enjoying it, But like, here's the message did you watch the
original Netflix show? Yes, okay, I didn't watch it. I watched
half of it. I got through like half like four episodes. I know.
My friend was like, how are you understanding anything if you've never seen
it. I was like, I don't know. I mean, I'm just
rolling with it, but like I had, I didn't know of like what
the cookie challenge meant. I was like, this is disgusting and they're spitting.
I know, I couldn't watch it, but I am kind of enjoying
it. But like, do don't you feel like it's like not to like
in this day when the like thing blows up in the chest, I'm not
getting anything away and then they like have to fall to the ground. I'm
like too much, Like I don't know, it's a little too real,
right right, right real? In squid Game, yeah, it's basically the
exact same thing, only everybody dies. They do get shot. Yeah,
so they get shot and they die, but they're actors, and like this
like feels a little too really like in a weird way, you see.
I find it silly fun and they have to like they like I have to
lay down and like it's like you know that they're like really, like,
right, I'm tired. Do I have to really pretend to have a death
scene? It's I jump when when the things go off? Yeah, but
I am kind of addicted to it and I'm fascinating. Are you watching it?
GLA? I told you I just watched that first episode, and I
did watch the show, and I thought it was like I thought something was
going on, like how they got eliminated in that first game. It seemed
like very arbitrary to me, like who they were setting the things off for,
Like one, exactly are they starting and stopping? There's too many people
here to be really monitoring, like who's really So I haven't really watched anything
past that that first game, the first perspect Yeah, but then the other
way, Yeah, they're going to keep the people that they want, like
they're going to keep It's like American Idol, Like all of a sudden,
you're like, why does everyone in the top twelve have trauma? And like
I knew a girl who did American Idol and she made it to like I
don't know, top one hundred or whatever, and so they were like all
right, like would you talk about she had like a family situation that was
like really tough, and they were like, would you talk about that on
camera? And she was like, no, I'm not talking about that on
camera, and she's like and then sure enough she gets like I don't get
through the next round, right, you know. So they want people that
they can sell the sell a story on. So like four point thirty two,
who was like the Clemson football player, which, by the way,
my husband looked him up and he's like, yeah, I don't think he
actually ever played in a game because he was injured like when when they started.
So he's like, I'm a football player, I'm d one, I'm
this, and like, now I've got this one doing the research for me,
Like I love that. There's this one scene and I'm not going to
give anything away, but it's it's in the marble, right, m okay.
So basically, two people get eliminated and I was like, this is
so suspect because this wouldn't actually happened. And it was one of those moments
where I'm like, oh, this is what they did. They had two
players that were already eliminated because there's so many that they can't do, they
can't follow all of them, right, So they took two people who got
who got eliminated, and then they put them together and they're like, here's
the scene. You guys can't decide, like who's going to do what?
So you're both going to get eliminated because it was so acting like this was
real and you were real and there was four million dollars on the line.
There's no way that you wouldn't be swearing at each other, like you wouldn't
be like, well, I can't just say it. And I was like,
you should have found some people that had better acting chops for that,
because you know, it's but it's kind of fun to be able to figure
that stuff out, and like, honestly, what else am I going to
fucking watch? I know, right, I know? And I had to
go look at the old Squid game just so I could see like some of
the challenges because here to understanding. Yeah, I was like wait what but
anyway, I just it's it's very and now they're getting sued or something.
What are they getting sued for? Oh? They are, yeah, because
somebody claimed that they got like hypothermia because something was really cold, and I
didn't see anything being very cold than being in Have you guys watched Special Ops?
No? But I watched like enough of the clips that I feel like
I've watched. I watched that shit. I loved it, and I didn't
really I don't watch vander Pump Rules. Yeah, so I was like,
this guy's a babe, and Sandal like, he's a babe, but he's
so dumb. He's the dumbest fucking which makes him even more cuter at some
point, I don't know. And then there's the Nick Bachelor Nick, who
I've never really watched before, and I was like, I started liking him,
and yeah, it's really good. He's a podcast that's pretty good.
He does. Yeah, he got interrogated and they like they were like taking
it seriously, like what do you do for a living, And he's like,
I have a podcast and he like started laughing and JoJo's on it.
Jojo Siwa. Yeah, yes, she's Queen's Killer. Yeah yeah. And
who is the woman? Is it? Kelly Rizzo who was married to Bob
Saget. Oh it was that yeah with the blonde hair. Oh, I
didn't know that he Oh my god, I had no idea. It was
a lot of these like she was married to him when when he passed away.
Yeah, An actress. She's like a food blogger. She's very cool.
Yeah, you guys should have her on. Do we think that Bob
that was suspicious? Right? It was a little strange, wasn't it.
Well? Yeah, but when he died in the hotel room. Yeah,
and then and then they wouldn't know. They stopped commenting about it, like
they wouldn't like, we never really found out how he died, right,
he hit his head? Right? Yeah, you know someone else who died
very suddenly after hitting their head the day before, and then like years later,
people were like, wait a minute, maybe it was the car accident
he got in the day before that. He was like, I'm fine,
I'm fine. Oh yeah, I've heard of it. I've heard that.
Yeah. No, Doctor Drew's talked about head injuries can be very serious.
Yeah, and you think you're okay, and the next thing you you just
hit it in a certain spot and the next thing you know, you're you're
gone. Yeah. I don't know. I think foul play anyway, what
else is Golden Bachelor? I'll talk about foul play? Oh my god.
Okay, So you know I do a Patreon for my rose Pricks. Our
Patreon was all about Golden Bachelor, but that was behind a paywall. I'm
up for I know everything. Okay, you're going to bring it. I
mean, like, I never watched it. Why is it rigged? What
do you mean? No, didn't you read the like, no I'm about
him? No, I haven't. I don't know anything about him. He
looks like a nice guy to me with hearing aids Fool's Golden Bachelor. Really
wait what i mean listen and I've I've I've listened to both sides some people
that are like okay, but like he's still like you know, it's still
okay. The tea about him, go to give you yea. The tea
about him is that, you know how he pretended well, I don't know
if he made it seem as if he's never had another relationship since his wife,
right, yeah, like maybe he implied that he dated a little bit,
like because when he was with not Kathy, Kathy was the when he
was with Faith, they had a little quick conversation about how, oh the
apps you must have seen some crazy stuff like and he was like, yeah,
well, apparently as soon when his wife died, he had a girlfriend,
Like he started dating somebody a month after his wife died a month.
Yeah, and they ended up. They dated for a for like ten months,
then they lived together for like a year and a half. And the
story that she tells, which is not necessarily it's from her point of view,
sure, but she says that he was very, very stingy with money,
like that they had to split all the bills, and that when they
went to a restaurant she he made her pay in advance, venmo him money
and then he would pay for the meal so he could look like put in
the bill. Wow. Also, she's out in the press saying this stuff.
Yeah, and Hollywood Reporter covered it and they verified they had a lot
of stuff to back it up. It wasn't like I don't know, they
had text messages, they had well, Hollywood report, it wouldn't reported if
they didn't think that valid. Right, let's take a quick break, then
we have more. Okay, we're back. Yes. So Also, the
way they broke up apparently was just very acrimonious and he would oh apparently they
were supposed to be going to his high school reunion and his high school his
high school reunion, like whatever, that's pretty serious, right, I wouldn't
bring my own husband to that sixty years high school, maybe his six year
right, Yeah, and he told her he was He basically told her that
he didn't want to bring her because she'd gained ten pounds and he felt embarrassed.
That's according to her. And then, but then I think bigger than
the other things to me is the fact that he's billed as a restauranteur like
that, How what he does? I didn't even know what he did.
Well, he's supposed to be a retired restauranteur, Okay, so wealthy,
right that he doesn't need to work anymore, right, Okay. In actuality,
he's on a restaurant tour. He owned briefly many years ago. Okay,
so he sold He had a franchise of a burger place that he had
worked at when he was like in high school, and he worked his way
up and he eventually bought the franchise, like one burger restaurant, sold it
in nineteen eighty four. That's the year I graduated high schools a long ass
time ago, because I'm old. Yeah, he sold that in nineteen eighty
four. After that, he was working as like a sales guy. He
did, like was in like meat sales and then he was installing hot tubs,
and he was installing hot tubs. Then he was a maintenance worker at
a mental health facility, and that's and then he met that's how he met
the woman who ends up being the girlfriend for the brief period of time.
So when his wife died, he was a maintenance man at the mental health
facility and started liking the like receptionist. So here's here's my take on it.
Okay, I feel like he probably went in and was honest and said,
hey, this is what I do for a living, or this is
what I recently retired from, and they were like, yeah, that's not
sexy enough, right, So what else have you done? And he was
like, well, when I was thirty five, I owned you know,
burger joint that i'd worked at since high school. And okay, cool retired
restauranteur. Because when you watch all these things, yeah, like they want
to give them the cool name. They want to build them as the cool
thing. So I actually put that one on production a little bit. Okay,
right, But you know I would think that they would would be like,
obviously we're gonna get this this, We're good, Yes, we're gonna
I agree with you, Meredith. But I also think that they would think,
well, eventually he's gonna get found out. They're gonna people are gonna
dig into his past. I think that I honestly think that these places don't
think we're that smart that people aren't going to poke around. Yes, like
I really don't care. They don't care. Yeah, yeah, I really
think they don't care, right, I think they think. I think that
it's starting to be to come out. But I bet somebody else had already.
I bet let like people dig on TikTok, people share these things,
right, and so I bet they think, Oh, at that point,
he'll be such a big star, he'll be so beloved. And it's I
think it's the combo of the two things too, right, Like if you
just found that one thing out, No, well now you have sympathy,
like, oh, he's not the cool restauranteur, although I'm like he could.
He could fix your toilet that actually like voluble, But learning that he
was not that into Teresa until she was until she he found out she was
like a commodities traders, and then he was like oh it was his eyes
lit up like Christmas morning. He was like waw. And then she says.
She's like, but I mean, Gary, I will quit my job.
And you can see that. He was like, oh no, no,
you're not going anywhere, no wonder. He's moving to South Carolina to
be with her. We're going to get married as soon as possible. Then
we're going to change the life in shirts lock that down, and then he's
getting a free honeymoon, right. I mean, wow, I did not
know any of this. I just looked at him as just like this nice,
sweet guy in his later years. I didn't even think about I didn't
know he was stingy and cheap. So when I was a little bit like,
I did notice that his you know, his ears perked up when she
told him what she does, right. Yeah, and then all of a
sudden and he didn't tell her he loved her, but then then he did.
Then he was all in with her. Right. I thought he was
going to go for faith, the one that the third one. But yeah,
that's insane, that's crazy. I did not know that. Wow,
get your bag, Gary, I will say this. I remember when the
show first started, they kept billing him as a single dad. It was
like, he's a a fucking single dad. His kids are like in their
fifty grandcho like his wife died, Like and I don't mean that, but
like as someone who like, you know, my mom passed away when I
was young, so like my dad was a single dad, right, Like
you're not like figuring out like who to take to ballet get You're not a
single dad, right, yeah, all the way off. And I will
say, like, because I have so many friends that I've like because I
I collect them. I'm drawn to people who also have my trauma. I
love other kids with dead moms. When you talk to them, oftentimes you
find out like dad moved on immediately. Like I've talked to girls who are
like my dad was flirting at the wake, my dad had a girlfriend for
later and then straight don't do well alone, so they like, I am
not shocked. And when he was like, oh, I haven't really had
any relationships, I was like, bullshit, Yeah, it's bullshit. Yeah,
you're right about that. Did your dad move on fast? My dad
started like he went on a date like a year and a half after my
mom died. Oh mcually a fast at all. It's not that fast,
but like at the time felt really fast, you know what I mean,
Like at the time I was like, this is weird. Also, like
it was my dad and he wasn't going to like online date, so it
was like one of my friend's moms. Oh convenient, right, yeah,
so that was like kind of weird too. Yeah. But at the end
of the day, like you like, men don't do well on like no
offense, dad, but like men don't do well on their own, so
like you want, I wanted him to like have someone, and now he's
remarried, but he waited ten years. Okay, he actually remarried. Oh
really? Yeah? So how old was he when your mom died? Do
you know? Forty six? Okay, wow, that's young. Yeah,
so he didn't get remarried till he was fifty six. Yeah, oh okay,
and even then, like we were, we were kind of brats about
it at first, really yeah, just he told us on text message,
who had he been with this woman for a while and they were living together
and I love her, She's amazing. But like I was at the grocery
store on a Sunday night and I was not you guys, it was like
dark days at Team Lynch Okay, Like it was like it was like I
was in my like hot mess days so like Sunday meant like I would go
to the grocery store and like try to put my life back together after like
a hot mess weekend, like I had probably overdrawn my checking account, and
I'm standing in the cereal aisle and I get this text message. It's like,
Hey, just want to let you know I'm getting married in two weeks.
I hope you'll be there. It's like, what the fuck? Like,
I just it was really hard to process on text message. So you
know, yeah, and you as sister too. Yeah, And so what
he did was he sent a group text because he was like, I was
afraid you guys would fight if I told one of you first. I was
like, hey, yeah, I don't know if you told another one first,
I really wouldn't have cared. Like it was way way calling, all
right. It was so bad and so that I'm just like I didn't know
what to do either, Like I was like do I like, I can't
to keep grocery shopping, Like how do I wrap my head around this?
Right? So I just left the grocery. I just love it felt sad,
like you felt like he was betraying your mom, I guess at the
time, And now I don't feel this way, but I was just like,
I don't care if you want to be with someone forever, but like,
why do you have to have like a new wife, like you know
what I mean, Like what like it just felt so strange, like and
it was you know, I think it also like made me realize like,
oh wow, like even though it had been ten years, like I was
like, oh, my mom's really not coming back. Yeah you know what,
I like, I know that sounds awful and I'm so glad that he
did. And the way like we pulled it together two weeks later, we
had a really nice, nice time. It was a really small, intimate
thing. I loved it. But yeah, at the moment, it was
just like it wasn't the way I mean men, okay, matter of fucking
shit it stuff like that, right, like they don't straight men, Like
yeah, they have a hard time. Yeah. So now I'm really glad
And even at the time, like I knew to put it in perspective,
but oh yeah, you know, yeah, how did your siblings feel about
it? I think they felt the same as me. And now we're so
glad because like what if you know, I didn't go home for Thanksgiving?
Like, if he didn't have someone, I would feel like I had to
go home. Right, was your dad who passed away? Your mom passed?
My mom passed away. But they got divorced. My dad moved out
and he never dated again because he was too cheap. He was like,
I can't he didn't. He couldn't afford any She'd gone on the Holden Bachelor.
I know how he should have gotten killed in Bachelor. He lived in
an apartment and then he moved into a trailer and then that was that,
and he never dated. He was just I would tell him I would hate
it because he was always alone. Right, I hated it. I felt
so guilty. But my nephews always went to visit him with their girlfriends and
now their wives. They would always go and like, you know, their
grandfather, they get, you know, bring them Sunday dinner and take care
of them. But for a while I had to, you know, step
in, and I hated it. And I'm like, dad date and he's
like, I can't afford it. I can't afford it, and I'm dating,
you know. So he just sat at home, watched news all day
and slept after he retired. See that's like why they need someone, Yeah,
we could have. Then he died, Yeah, and that was that.
Yeah, it's hard, and it's hard when you're building your own family
to like feel like you have parents that almost has that need, right Like
you guys were like the kids were probably little, right, like, and
you're like, I fucking have to take Natalia to dance, all right,
I got to pick up my dad first, because you know, that's just
anyway. So i've i've I love my stepmom. She was a friend of
my mom's. Had they been dating for a while before they decided to get
married, Yes, they had been dating. They lived together, like,
so it had been so he only moved on to this woman, Like,
wait, how long had they been together? Like four years? He dated
a couple, he dated like maybe one other person, and then he got
together with this woman who had been like a friend of the family, and
yeah, they'd been together for like six years by the time. Now,
so he moved on like four years after your mom like having a serious relationship.
Yeah, so that's still a long time kind of And also, your
mom was sick for a long time. My mom was sick for four years,
so like, your marriage isn't even the same anymore, you know,
like if you have a spouse who is terminally ill, it really changes so
much. I'm sure. I mean, I can't wrap my head around it.
So, you know, I think that my dad was like, I
want to get all my kids out of the house and launched, and that's
what he did. After my sister moved to college, he moved in with
my now stepmom. And she's amazing, Like she and my mom were friends.
She knew my mom when she was pregnant with me, Like she went
to visit me in the hospital when I was born. Like, how lucky
am I to have someone like that? Like I am so fucking lucky.
That's true. You look at it, that's great. That's a good way
to look at it. My mom moved on when she got divorced from my
father with friend of the family who was my father's like best friend, who
also was around like when I was born. He was he had been my
father's roommate and he also lived in like our back house for a while.
Because and I thought it was really fucking weird. Yeah, that's crazy.
Yeah, when you're a kid, I think you don't realize, like what
is she like? You know, how do you meet a new person,
Like I realized, whoever my father's gonna end up with, Like I said,
it's probably gonna be someone that I know. So it's like, you
know what, Gary, I feel like we could have just, I don't
know, found a nice woman. Well why don't you stick with the nice
lady from the mental health facility? I will say though. The Hollywood Reporter
interviewed several people who worked with him at the mental health facility, and they
said he was just a delight and a wonderful employee. Sah, that's nice,
okay, a nice guy. Yeah, he is an ex girl friend
who says that he did he you know, judged her for gaining ten pounds
Like that could be her interpretation and she could just be mad, right,
Yeah, but he is cheap though, huh, I mean according to her,
But maybe he just didn't have money. If your maintenance mad at a
mental health facility, how much can that pay? That's true, and he's
making minimum wage and it's just like, look, I can't afford to be
taking you to like nice restaurant. Maybe she's we don't know, yeah,
but then have like enough of being able to like check your ego enough that
you're not, like, oh, and don't forget to venmomy before we walk
into the lobby, Like that's fucking bullshit, right, Like that's so embarrassed,
that's so gross, or like, come, if you're going to live
with someone, like find out a way to like split the expenses so you
don't feel like that, Like that's totally fine. Apparently they negotiated the expenses
because he told her he needed her to pay one thousand dollars a month and
she like negotiated him down to like eight fifty. Oh, I'm sorry,
pretty cheap rent if that's nice. But they live in like Nebraska, Joseph,
isn't that where he's from? Like some nowhere? Noonder, he doesn't
want to move back, of course, shitty weathers. He could be living
it up in Charles. He's probably gonna be on Southern Charm him and chef
hit in the town. Oh my god, that's funny. Wow, And
are they going to I thought maybe they were going to announce that they were
going to do a bachelorette golden bachelorette. Who do we like? I like
Leslie Ilie too. I know a lot of people feel like she's too much
of a mess and she's you know, but I like her. Yeah,
I think she I like her. I apologize she needs it, she needs
she needs to be chosen. And if you got like thirty guys, you
know one of them is going to fall for her. Yeah what if they
don't do Golden Bachelorette? Like, is that where the series like we really
finally can just say this series is like hates women. And Casey was like,
it should have been a woman first, and she's right, it should
have been a woman first Golden Bachelorette. It should have been Golden Bachelor up
before Golden Bachelor. Okay, but here's the problem, and I'm gonna get
in trouble for saying this. I don't care. Here's the problem. Women
look better for longer because they they because like all these women on the show
had work done right. So like the guys, they can't wear makeup.
They're like unless they're like really into like getting hair plugs, and like,
you know, you're gonna get a bunch of like broken down if you get
like all guys in their seventies, they're not gonna hold up as well.
Guys though they do. Guys do age well, some do, but you
need to find thirty garys, like you're not gonna find like think about how
most women who are seventy look it's yeah, they but it's it's easier I
think for women to get work. You know, women are more gonna have
like facelifts and do like anti aging things. So you feel like that.
I think they were looking for women. I think they've been They've been trying
to do this show for like four years. Oh really, Oh yeah,
they would. They were like advertise it like years. At the end of
the episode, they put up a thing that said, do you have an
older person in your life? You say, guy or girl? They just
said, you have an older person in your life, go to the ABC
casting So I'm just wondering if it was easier for them to find a bunch
of beautiful older women than it was to find all these older guys. Older
guys compete for one woman, give them like I don't know, three thousand
dollars in freaking ale rewards for botox points, which, by the way,
if you're not doing the botox coupons, you guys, you're missing out.
Unlet Oh my god, So I have this trick and I get like so
much free bot spill it. Do we need another break? Real break and
switch to Botox? Okay, we're back. I'm dying okay. So twice
a year the Botox goes on sale. It's a buy one, get one
gift card. Okay, okay, so buy one per customer. So what
do you mean just talks in general, there's like Botox is like a brand
name, okay. So like if you go on the Botox website, you'll
like see that you could. There's like a way you can sign up so
you get notified about deals. So twice a year, November and May,
they do two promos where you can do buy one, get one free fifty
dollars gift cards, so you can actually cash in as many gift cards as
you want. But you can only buy one set of gift cards with an
account. So I have like a bunch of different accounts and I went to
go get it the other day and they were like, oh, let's see
if you have any gift cards. They were like, you have eight gift
cards. I was like, fuck, yeah, I do. I know.
So, but then you can bring them to your local person. Every
provider takes them. Really, every provider takes them because it's like it's it's
the discount is on the like medicine. It's, oh, yeah, you
can take it to your person. Yes, you don't have to like go
to some like get you one you've never been inside. And it's like is
this a seven eleven or yeah, no, it's it's like genius. I'm
like, I need to tell George Santos about this, but anyway, what
I'm saying is give the most stipend a botox and filler stipend, right,
and then have them on and just like instead of staying in the nicer places
like you don't, you know, put them in a slightly shittier hotel when
you know, or something like that. I'm old enough to remember when The
Bachelor going on, the bouchler was like you were going to get like you're
going around the world like every like right away they're like Bachelor mansion is done
with After like week one, you're like we're going to Paris. Yeah.
Now it's like we're going to Bakersfield. Pack your bag. It's like,
oh, this is a very vintagey looking town. Like you know, I
was at ABC when The Bachelor was created. Really yeah, I saw the
treatment I read it, and I was like this, and I'm not really
this like feminist type person, but I was a little offended. I was
like, wait, what, They're gonna get twenty five women and he's gonna
choose which one based off looks or what on dates? And that's that.
Like I was just like, this is never gonna fly, never gonna fly.
I think people are gonna hate it immediately, and now look at me.
I was totally wrong. But but what they did do in the very
early days, I don't know what they still do, is they had twenty
five, twenty five women, They cast twenty six women, and they fly
them out to LA and at the very last, like the night before,
they have to let one go. Oh they still do that. They still
do that. Mm hmm. Yeah. Can you imagine you're got picked.
I got picked to be on The Bachelor, I'm going to LA. I'm
excited, and then that you don't even make it today, don't even get
the limo walkout now right. Well, I think the reason they do that
for a couple of reasons is because some of these people bail, like you,
happens almost every season, and somebody like night one is like, yeah,
I'm not I'm not doing it right right, and so they they don't
they they they were scared that somebody would bail, like right before it started
or whatever, and they needed the twenty five women. And yeah, I
felt the same way as you. But then the second that they did the
Bachelorette and Trista was the Bachelorette, I was watching this, I was like,
oh, now fight with each other. That's the best. It's the
best. Yes, yeah, I was, Yes, that was great.
Yeah, I turned on all the time. I was like, look at
this guy. I love the runner up and he was kind of a scoundrel,
but Charlie, Charlie was his name. He was like so cute.
And I was like, oh, I wonder what she's going to do because
this guy's kind of a bad boy and he's and and Ryan is like the
nice guy guy because he's boring, right, And then she picked him and
they're still married and they're still together. She actually picked the nice guy I
know, but she's always like that poor woman. She still has to be
out there with like Rosy and doing the bachelor's shit. Like don't you think
at a certain point you'd be like, I don't want to do this.
Shit. I know, I know it's been how many years, it's been
like twenty years, at least twenty years, and she's still out there,
yes, working hustling. He'll probably do like a like I don't know,
twenty five year anniversary for their marriage, and they'll have like a party,
and then they'll make it have like fake drama, right, right, because
like there's always like there's gonna be fake drama with Gary's wedding, yeah,
right, Like they're gonna have to create they'll make it a serious like a
special right, right, And so what will happen Like it'll have to be
like, oh, I keep thinking maybe I'm making the wrong choice, and
it'll turn out like the choices about the flowers or some shit. Right,
it will be like, oh, you know, I had a little beef
with his granddaughter. I don't know what it was, but every time they
panned to her. So it was his daughters, the two daughters and then
the two granddaughters in the audience, and the all three were fine. The
one granddaughter at the end, in the end, she had a puss on
the whole time, and to the point where when they were when they talked
a little bit, just a little got spicy with between uh the Bachelor and
his girl Teresa. They like they would like, pan mo, my audi,
my family's here. The girl was like like just she had to look
on her face like she just ate shit, and it's like, bitch,
you're on fucking National TV life and live it up. Like, come on,
he probably own her money's right, he was. He probably owes her
money. Yeah, probably exactly. She's probably like I gave him all my
baby's side, right. I don't know. I just noticed, like,
yeah, I can puss on the whole time. Come on. Well,
it is kind of weird because they really do have to vet the whole families
because, like you know, you get to those hometowns and some of them
are like remember when Dean who's kind of a weird guy, Dean who's married
now just got married to Caitlin kaitlynd Bristow. No, no, no,
no, Caitlyn. It was it was a whole season or I don't I
forgot okay, Dean who anyway, this was like many seasons ago. He
his dad was like a real weirdo and he was all scared because he was
gonna have to take her home his family and it was just like the dad
was like such a weirdo and kind of mean, and and it seemed like
he was like in a colt. He was like doing some weird like chanting
and wearing like anyway, the whole thing was really weird and uncomfortable, and
I think everybody was like, you got to check out these families. I
can't like put this on TV right if you're gonna make me stay in this
guy's house, right unless he's in this the TikTok cult. Oh my god,
we really we we really wanted Meredith to talk about this TikTok cult that
we heard about these dance these dance at this dance house. And she doesn't
know anything about it. Yeah, and I don't know really anything about it
either. Well, I'm gonna spend next week researching it. Next time week
when we until we come back. Yeah, any like TikTok, any influencer
gossip that we need to know about. Oh, we were going to talk
any house? Oh Matt right, Oh yeah, let's talk about Matt right,
Rife right, right, whatever his name is? Rife? Yeah,
well he really talk. Yes, I think he's haid Buckle fat removal.
Really yeah, right, what kind of removal buckle fat, you know what
I mean, right round the waiste. No, no, no, they
take out the middle of your they take out this. Oh really like that,
like they take out like the your cheeks, like cheek fillers out buckle
fat removal in Oh, it makes you look like kind of sunken. Oh,
I know, I don't know. Maybe a lot of what I know
is that he's supposed to be hot, and then I went and looked him
up and he's not to me, not, I don't think he's that.
So then it's weird when a lot of his stand up involves him saying,
I know, all the guys are like, who's this guy? He's too
pretty to be funny, and it's like, no, you're not right,
you're normal, You're I don't know, I don't see. So he grew
up on TikTok. I think he kind of blew up on TikTok because he's
like, his big thing is crowd work, and crowd work is like so
popular on TikTok because I think that people like it because it's like of the
moment, right like it TikTok, Like you don't want to feel like things
are so rehearsed on TikTok, so crowd work feels like, oh, it's
so random, right, even though the clip is very produced. So anyway,
it's also great for comedians too, because then they don't have to show
their material to the world. It's just CrowdWork, so they don't have to
burn those jokes and stuff. Oh that's so smart, right, It's just
like, oh, what do you do for a living? And then it's
like, okay, I can riff on that for three minutes, right,
right, So anyway, now he's gets the Netflix special and it's really just
I mean, here's the thing. I'm like a free speech girl, and
I really like, if you want to make a domestic violence joke, I
guess go the fuck ahead, right, like you wanted to say it,
fine, but here's the thing, like it's so dated. Yeah, and
he's not even that funny. He's not even that funny, so you can't
even go, Okay, well he's kind of finding his voice whatever. But
like, I don't I don't want to censor people. I really don't believe
in it. So what exactly did he say He's made? The joke was
something to the effect of that he was at a restaurant and he and also
he was using a lot of he he kind of likes to talk black in
like the vernacular that's not really his. So he's like, yeah, I'm
at this place and it's like ratchet or whatever, and you know, he's
kind of being any And then there was the woman who is the front of
the house comes out and she the hostess or whatever, has a black eye.
And then somebody was like, yeah, I wonder why she they should
keep her in the back cooking, and he was like, well if she
if she could cook, she wouldn't have a black guy at it, which
is just like wow, yeah, exactly. It's like a joke from like,
I don't know, nineteen seventy six, right right, totally okay,
right right. So so the basically the thing is that people found that joke
to be like offensive or whatever, but nobody was canceling him. It was
just they were just like, the joke's not funny, right. So then
and then people started to realize, oh, the whole special's not funny and
kind of offensive and apparently there's like a very homophobic rant in there, and
like whatever, it's just wasn't good. So then his whole thing is like,
oh, people are trying to cancel me and free speech and the cancel
culture, like the anti cancel culture. People are like, no, we
don't want you either. You're just not funny. So now it's just kind
of a bat. So now he's really like, you went on Jordan Peterson's
podcast, and so now he's really trying to crumble down the double down on
it. But like a lot of people are like, dude, you're not,
like you're not funny, right, Like you weren't you didn't you weren't
out there. You know, Comedians are not having respect for him because they're
like, you blew up on TikTok because you had these quick moments, but
like you haven't really built an act, like your actual stand up isn't funny.
And then didn't he do something where he said supposedly apologized but didn't apologize.
So he said he made an apology for the joke, and he said
like, here's a link to my apology. And then it was a place
that sells helmets to people with special needs children, so like he basically made
a making fun of special needs kids joke, which caused further backlash. And
then he was like, well, fuck all, y'all, you're just trying
to cancel me. And it's like, you're not canceled. He's having a
Netflix special that's done really well and you've made sixteen million dollars. You're not
canceled. You already got the money. Like nobody's there's no deals, nobody
pulled their deal from you. Netflix didn't take your special off the air.
It's it's like that kind of thing makes me so crazy. Yeah, well,
cancel culture is like now a rallying cry because I'll make a video about
somebody and be like, oh, you know, isn't it weird that Meryl
Streep stood up to applaud Roman Polanski when he got an award because he couldn't
come back in the country and she's like congratulations, like like that was kind
of weird, and people are like, don't you dare cancel Meryl Streep.
I think Meryl Streep is like not gonna get a gig because Meredith Blinche had
a fucking TikTok that called this out it right, And so I think that
people get almost like it's a it's a rallying cry now of like don't cancel
me, Like no one, And honestly, like, I don't really believe
that people get canceled. Like look at that Colleen Ballinger girl. She's back
now. She threw out the ukulele and she's back and she's you know whatever.
Like, yeah, Harvey Weinstein is canceled because he's in prison, right
right, yeah, right? And Bill Cosby was only canceled when he was
because he went to prison. Y he was out there touring and people were
showing up in droves to go see Bill Cosby do his set, even though
like fifty thousand women had accused him of rape. He was not canceled,
right, So they're really I think, for the most part, is no
such thing. But it's a rallying cry. And now he's going to go
where the money is. He's going to be like a Joe Rogan type or
go to Tryan wants him, Oh, don't think joke and wants to either,
but he knows and Netflix knows where the money is. I think the
special was designed for middle school boys. Yeah, I think so too.
But even like I asked Sonny, I said, you do you and your
friends like this guy? And they think he's a joke because Sonny's too old,
Sonny's too and also like Sonny, like, your kids are kind of
different because they grew up with dans, like they know good comedy, so
like they're they're they're a little top tier, right. But I do think
it's like, let's get the boys who are like eleven years old. They're
like a funny domestic violence joke, and maybe my mom won't hear it,
and like, you know, that's Beavis and butt Heads, right, That's
what I think it is. And I don't even think the joke was strong
enough to be like an edgy domestic violence joke. It's just kind of stupid.
No, she can't. It sounds like it sounded like a joke from
uh, what's his name? You know, uh, oh you know,
hey, hey, oh my wife. Yeah, it sounds like some Dice.
It's like weak Andrew Dice right, right, right, like Andrew Dice
Clay's starter kit, Like you watched him and you're like, oh, what
you want to do? You want to say naked so somebody has a black
eye and then yeah, yeah, listen, I got a Type five on
Rachel Zoe that killed the other night. So I'll let me tell you there's
no domestic violence joke, but someone does get hurt me legally. Wow.
So what's up with you? What are you doing or you're doing your videos?
Do you have any big topics because last time you were here you were
in trouble for talking about Bethany. Yeah. I haven't been in a lot
of trouble lately, thank God. Right now, wait, let me I'll
tell you like some good tea. Okay. So I was doing all this
stuff about do you know soul Cycle? Yeah? Okay, So the two
women who founded soul Cycle, they sold soul Cycle and now they have this
thing in New York City. It's called Peoplehood and it's basically group therapy.
Right, So, like you go and you sit in a circle and you
all introduce yourself and you abide by these rules. Does that sound like anything
to you? Yeah, yes, yeah, exactly. Okay, but you
have to pay to go. It's like thirty five bucks or something. And
I think it's very weird. And it's led by Soul Cycle instructors for the
most part. Okay. Anyway, I was like doing a deep dive on
it because these people are not like trained, but group therapy is really complex
and people have come out and criticized it, like you know, professors of
therapy and things like that, event like this is actually what this specific group
of is doing is dangerous. So I did a bunch of content about it,
and then I got a comment that was like, you need to stop
talking about this basically. So I was like, oh, I get that,
like every day, so whatever. But for whatever reason, I clicked
on the username and it was I'm not gonna say who it was, but
it was someone who lives in the home of one of those two founders of
the company. Oh wow. Yeah, And I was like, oh,
I'm scaring Okay, all right, just go ahead and leave that over there,
all right. That means the conversation is happening at home. I am
terrified. These women sold soul Cycle for like eighty million. I can destroy
They could drown you, They could drown me. And I was like,
oh, no, never mind, okay, just kidding. Could you take
anything down or no? I didn't take anything down. Yeah, I didn't
take anything down. But like, I mean, I do feel like they're
copying. They're kind of copying twelve Step. Yeah, and you know in
a dangerous way, right, Yeah, I know, because you're pretending to
have a leader, you know you do. You've got to find a Vanity
Fair reporter and have them investigate. Yeah, you're right, I need to
Like, there's a there's a couple of well, there's a don't worry,
there's a couple of conversations that are happening. Okay, Yeah, so I
do have a couple of things that are hopefully happening. Stay tuned hopefully soon.
But yeah, do you have a podcast yet? No? I don't
have a podcast. Are you starting one? Hopefully soon? Hopefully something's coming
soon. Okay, Well where okay? So give us your all your yeah,
and we tell you where to find me. I am Meredith em Lynch
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tell you who left that comment. Oh yeah, there you go. Oh
I love it. I love it. So you spill extra tea. Oh
that's where the good ship is. Okay, I got it. Come.
I am first and last names over there. I love it. Well,
this was so super fun. Please come love love you guys. Thank you
regular? Yeah, please, I would love to be a regular. I
tried to get you back really soon after the last one, but then things
kept happening, and you got COVID. That's ridiculous. I'll be back,
yeah all right, yeah bye bye everybody,