1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:15,359 Made a decision face Sunny Sun on Ihad a vision. What's nice too weak? 2 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:20,719 What's up everybody, It's our special guest show with our favorite Meredith Lynch 3 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:25,320 in studio. Oh my god. We were talking so much before the MIC's 4 00:00:25,359 --> 00:00:30,719 heated up that we had to like, we're so professional. Yeah, let's 5 00:00:30,719 --> 00:00:33,960 wait and put it on air. Yeah yeah, Meredith, thank you for 6 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,840 coming in. Oh my god, thank you guys for having me. Very 7 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:40,439 yeah, very big. On social media, I don't know about that. 8 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:44,439 I did get a comment, uh. I think it was Friday that was 9 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:47,799 like, wow, your face is really heading downhill. And I was like, 10 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,920 to be honest with you, I just got four syringes of filler. 11 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:56,200 I'm feeling pretty fucking good. Like I was just saying. A friend that 12 00:00:56,359 --> 00:00:59,600 just text me and was like, you need to fix yourself. You're on 13 00:00:59,679 --> 00:01:02,399 cam right, you look so schlubby. And I was like, oh, 14 00:01:02,479 --> 00:01:07,319 thanks, I think you look great. I think and we come rolling in 15 00:01:07,359 --> 00:01:12,840 and you know, Monday morning, I didn't get an appearance thing lately, 16 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:18,640 but somebody did. Although I mean I have believe me, but somebody over 17 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:23,280 on bad TVs Facebook group for no reason, they were talking. Somebody flagged 18 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,560 me did you see this, Kayla? Somebody said, oh, they were 19 00:01:26,799 --> 00:01:30,879 apropos of nothing because they were talking about the mother God. Yes, sure, 20 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:37,319 and then somebody wrote Stephanie can go kick rocks, like how did I 21 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:44,359 get hurt? Like I was talking about a documentary? What it's just so 22 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:47,920 fifth grade to go kick rocks. I was like, okay, so you 23 00:01:47,959 --> 00:01:51,400 don't like me. I have no idea why, Like that's weird. It 24 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:55,200 is weird, I know. I just feel like I think, like you 25 00:01:55,239 --> 00:01:57,879 know, we all have these moments during the day where we like can't say 26 00:01:57,879 --> 00:02:00,959 shit right, like where you want to be like what right, but you 27 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:05,719 can't. So I think sometimes people take it out like on I remember when 28 00:02:05,719 --> 00:02:09,000 I first started doing TikTok and stuff like very beginning, I wasn't used to 29 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:13,400 like the negative comments. So this girl left me a comment and she was 30 00:02:13,439 --> 00:02:16,960 like do you have botox? And I was like fuck, yeah, are 31 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:20,520 you kidding me? So I was like, yeah, I have botox, 32 00:02:20,599 --> 00:02:23,520 Like let me know if you have questions, Like I was so innocent, 33 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:27,000 and she was like, okay, this makes sense because your face is looking 34 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:30,080 very puffy and it's clear that it's been overdone. And I was like, 35 00:02:30,319 --> 00:02:35,000 oh, my god. So she had her like full government name on there, 36 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:42,719 and like I like found her Facebook, which like had her contact email 37 00:02:42,759 --> 00:02:45,000 on it like public, and I like emailed her and I was like, 38 00:02:45,039 --> 00:02:47,840 Hey, I just want to let you know, like that comment actually really 39 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:52,680 hurt my feelings, Like it really hurt. And she wrote me back and 40 00:02:52,719 --> 00:02:54,080 she was like, I have to be honest with you, Like I actually 41 00:02:54,159 --> 00:02:57,639 don't think your face looks puffy at all. I had just had like a 42 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:01,360 really bad day with like my own body, and I saw you and something 43 00:03:01,479 --> 00:03:05,360 just triggered me. So she was like, I just said it to say 44 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:07,960 it. You see how these fucking trolls are. That's why you can't read 45 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,639 it. I know you can't. You just got to ignore it. You 46 00:03:10,719 --> 00:03:15,159 can't. And so then after that I was like I'm gate, well right 47 00:03:15,319 --> 00:03:15,759 while, but like for the most part, I was like, oh, 48 00:03:15,759 --> 00:03:20,039 this is your ship. It's the same thing that you have to like teach 49 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:23,599 your kids in middle school now, I know, right, true, Like 50 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:25,919 your kids are all over the shit now right Yeah? Well yeah, I 51 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:30,759 mean they're all over my specially my daughter, you know, on social media. 52 00:03:30,879 --> 00:03:36,000 But yeah, you gotta you just got to teach them. Just ignore 53 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:42,439 well, Xander the other day found an Instagram post that I had made that 54 00:03:42,479 --> 00:03:46,360 had nothing to do with anything, where somebody went off on me like my 55 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:54,039 parenting, specifically my parenting him in the comment of like an old post, 56 00:03:54,560 --> 00:04:00,400 and like he found it and it was like a public why would you why 57 00:04:00,439 --> 00:04:04,719 don't you call out my child? Of course I didn't see it because I'm 58 00:04:04,759 --> 00:04:09,840 not expecting that. I'm not like police. It's an old and the posts 59 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:13,800 had nothing to do with anything, right, It was like a meme about 60 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:18,120 like white men, but white men's voices on public like social media. And 61 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,720 then Xander had to bring it to me, and I was like, oh 62 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:25,240 my god, I'm so like delete, you know, but I was like, 63 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:28,600 what is wrong with people? People? Are? These are kids? 64 00:04:28,759 --> 00:04:30,920 Yeah? Well, especially our kids. We've had to teach them at a 65 00:04:31,079 --> 00:04:35,600 very young age, like you just got to like, you know the truth, 66 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:39,920 you know who your family is. You know that there's bad people out 67 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:43,920 there, there's trolls out there. You know. I tried to block them 68 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,959 from Reddit for so long, but you know, they're almost eighteen, like 69 00:04:47,439 --> 00:04:51,560 they're gonna yeah they you know, but they know the truth, they know 70 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:56,079 who they're you know, their parents are, So I'm just lucky. I 71 00:04:56,079 --> 00:04:59,120 don't think like kids are interested enough in my life. I don't think I 72 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:01,279 don't I think my kids are interested that much either. But you know, 73 00:05:01,439 --> 00:05:04,759 you know, my daughter was just telling me that she was at a party 74 00:05:04,879 --> 00:05:10,160 and there's she has a beef with this kid, this one boy, because 75 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:14,040 of a friend that you know, he she he broke up a relation. 76 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,600 I don't know whatever. I was fighting with guys like the way to go, 77 00:05:16,639 --> 00:05:21,480 don't girls. But she's got a beef with this boy it and they 78 00:05:21,519 --> 00:05:25,959 he's yelling at her at a party and he's like, your parents don't give 79 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,399 a shit about your parents don't care about you, and she was like don't. 80 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,560 She's like like full on, will Smith, like you keep my parents' 81 00:05:32,639 --> 00:05:36,560 name out Joe mouth, Like she just went off on my god. Yeah 82 00:05:36,639 --> 00:05:40,639 yeah, Like honestly, that's the thing though, like I can't think like 83 00:05:40,759 --> 00:05:45,519 both of you are people who I think your entire lives are for your children, 84 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:49,399 and I think that's very apparent, rightly, yes, no, but 85 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:53,120 I mean like, and so I think it's like when kids are confronted with 86 00:05:53,199 --> 00:05:55,480 something that they know is not the truth, and to be honest with you, 87 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:59,319 that kid probably knows that's not true, and there's probably a level of 88 00:06:00,079 --> 00:06:02,680 jellousy, right right, right, everything that you have done, everything with 89 00:06:02,759 --> 00:06:05,879 this podcast, everything with other stuff, it's all been for them so they 90 00:06:05,879 --> 00:06:09,920 can go to fucking college, so they can I don't know, only have 91 00:06:09,959 --> 00:06:12,639 to work part time at the laser tag place. Like it's all for them. 92 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:17,319 You can't win though with people now, and you know you're never gonna 93 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:21,240 win because the same people. If I ever see reddit stuff on Reddit about 94 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:27,720 me, it's either the people complain like other two into their kids, like 95 00:06:27,759 --> 00:06:30,720 they do everything for their kids. They're like God, like you know, 96 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:32,959 you're so codependent with your kids and like you want it, you do everything 97 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:36,680 for them. But then other people will be like, oh, they're they're 98 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:41,399 they're the worst parents. They're never there for their kids, Like they don't 99 00:06:41,399 --> 00:06:44,560 even want to go do stuff with their kids. Like they're always talking about 100 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,000 how they're glad when their kids leave them alone. It's like, well, 101 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:50,480 which is it right? Which are you gonna Which are you hating me for? 102 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:55,079 Which makes you think that I'm a horrible person that needs to be called 103 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:59,199 out on, you know, that needs to be trolled. Which thing depends 104 00:06:59,199 --> 00:07:01,519 on the day stuff and how their day is with their kids, right right, 105 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:04,120 right, right right, So let's talk squid games. Yeah, let's 106 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:09,720 talk about squid games. Yeah, would you go in the games with your 107 00:07:09,759 --> 00:07:13,720 kid? Oh? Your kids? Yeah? I was rooting for that. 108 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:17,480 That to the mother son team. I loved it. I was say, 109 00:07:17,639 --> 00:07:21,319 there's not going to be too many spoilers. I'm just gonna say if you're, 110 00:07:21,439 --> 00:07:25,240 if you're, if you haven't watched it yet. Yeah, let's not 111 00:07:25,279 --> 00:07:27,839 say who gets eliminated now, because I don't we want to know, because 112 00:07:27,839 --> 00:07:30,480 I'm not done. No, we don't have to talk about who gets dominated. 113 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:34,680 But yeah, I was rooting for the mother son team because I was 114 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:39,480 picturing me and Sonny doing it together someday. Yeah. I thought it would 115 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:43,480 be fun. But uh, they are very competitive with each other, which 116 00:07:43,519 --> 00:07:46,360 is crazy. She used to play basketball. Yeah, she's got an edge 117 00:07:46,399 --> 00:07:49,560 and like the best possible good way. Yeah, in a healthy way. 118 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:55,000 She's a healthy competitive streak to her, which I'm And we have a fan 119 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:59,680 of our shows whose son is on the show get Out. He's number one. 120 00:08:00,079 --> 00:08:03,600 Name is Justin And thus far that I've gotten to he's had like no 121 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:07,800 screen time at all, like not one interview, and I'm like, how 122 00:08:07,879 --> 00:08:11,720 is it possible that they went from like cause where I am Now they're down 123 00:08:11,759 --> 00:08:16,439 to thirty from four fifty six. Okay, I think I have two more 124 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:20,720 episodes. I'm caught up. Yeah, okay, And so you're done right, 125 00:08:20,759 --> 00:08:24,519 it's done well now the final episode. Oh it hasn't hasn't he yet? 126 00:08:24,639 --> 00:08:30,920 Okay? So, but I have been like watching for this person that 127 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:33,879 we know, our friend Catherine's son. I mean, it's like a longtime 128 00:08:33,919 --> 00:08:37,879 listener of our show. Her son is literally there and I know he's still 129 00:08:37,919 --> 00:08:41,919 there, but I'm like, how do you get to that many people? 130 00:08:41,919 --> 00:08:46,000 And you've wished he's never had any camera time? Yeah, probably because he's 131 00:08:46,039 --> 00:08:50,559 too normal. Yeah. I think what happens is is there's people that are 132 00:08:50,639 --> 00:08:54,879 getting, you know, further in the game, so then they sit down 133 00:08:54,879 --> 00:08:58,639 and interview them, and then next thing, you know, they can get 134 00:08:58,639 --> 00:09:01,879 eliminated, and so now they're focusing on the other person that they were up 135 00:09:01,879 --> 00:09:05,960 against. It's that's how it's going, right. But it started out with 136 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:09,639 fucking four hundred people. It's crazy. Are you enjoying it? I am 137 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,759 kind of enjoying it, But like, here's the message did you watch the 138 00:09:11,799 --> 00:09:16,000 original Netflix show? Yes, okay, I didn't watch it. I watched 139 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:20,399 half of it. I got through like half like four episodes. I know. 140 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:24,559 My friend was like, how are you understanding anything if you've never seen 141 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:26,279 it. I was like, I don't know. I mean, I'm just 142 00:09:26,399 --> 00:09:28,120 rolling with it, but like I had, I didn't know of like what 143 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:33,039 the cookie challenge meant. I was like, this is disgusting and they're spitting. 144 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:35,879 I know, I couldn't watch it, but I am kind of enjoying 145 00:09:35,919 --> 00:09:39,840 it. But like, do don't you feel like it's like not to like 146 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:43,919 in this day when the like thing blows up in the chest, I'm not 147 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,720 getting anything away and then they like have to fall to the ground. I'm 148 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:50,679 like too much, Like I don't know, it's a little too real, 149 00:09:52,039 --> 00:09:56,399 right right, right real? In squid Game, yeah, it's basically the 150 00:09:56,480 --> 00:10:00,399 exact same thing, only everybody dies. They do get shot. Yeah, 151 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:03,960 so they get shot and they die, but they're actors, and like this 152 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:07,000 like feels a little too really like in a weird way, you see. 153 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:11,080 I find it silly fun and they have to like they like I have to 154 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:16,320 lay down and like it's like you know that they're like really, like, 155 00:10:16,639 --> 00:10:18,720 right, I'm tired. Do I have to really pretend to have a death 156 00:10:18,759 --> 00:10:24,240 scene? It's I jump when when the things go off? Yeah, but 157 00:10:24,279 --> 00:10:28,440 I am kind of addicted to it and I'm fascinating. Are you watching it? 158 00:10:28,519 --> 00:10:31,120 GLA? I told you I just watched that first episode, and I 159 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:35,440 did watch the show, and I thought it was like I thought something was 160 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:39,080 going on, like how they got eliminated in that first game. It seemed 161 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:41,879 like very arbitrary to me, like who they were setting the things off for, 162 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:46,799 Like one, exactly are they starting and stopping? There's too many people 163 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:50,720 here to be really monitoring, like who's really So I haven't really watched anything 164 00:10:50,759 --> 00:10:54,320 past that that first game, the first perspect Yeah, but then the other 165 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:56,600 way, Yeah, they're going to keep the people that they want, like 166 00:10:56,639 --> 00:10:58,039 they're going to keep It's like American Idol, Like all of a sudden, 167 00:10:58,039 --> 00:11:03,320 you're like, why does everyone in the top twelve have trauma? And like 168 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:05,519 I knew a girl who did American Idol and she made it to like I 169 00:11:05,519 --> 00:11:07,799 don't know, top one hundred or whatever, and so they were like all 170 00:11:07,879 --> 00:11:09,879 right, like would you talk about she had like a family situation that was 171 00:11:09,879 --> 00:11:13,000 like really tough, and they were like, would you talk about that on 172 00:11:13,039 --> 00:11:15,159 camera? And she was like, no, I'm not talking about that on 173 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:16,879 camera, and she's like and then sure enough she gets like I don't get 174 00:11:16,879 --> 00:11:20,759 through the next round, right, you know. So they want people that 175 00:11:20,799 --> 00:11:24,799 they can sell the sell a story on. So like four point thirty two, 176 00:11:24,039 --> 00:11:26,600 who was like the Clemson football player, which, by the way, 177 00:11:26,759 --> 00:11:30,039 my husband looked him up and he's like, yeah, I don't think he 178 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:33,679 actually ever played in a game because he was injured like when when they started. 179 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:35,720 So he's like, I'm a football player, I'm d one, I'm 180 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:39,799 this, and like, now I've got this one doing the research for me, 181 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:46,279 Like I love that. There's this one scene and I'm not going to 182 00:11:46,399 --> 00:11:50,759 give anything away, but it's it's in the marble, right, m okay. 183 00:11:50,879 --> 00:11:58,000 So basically, two people get eliminated and I was like, this is 184 00:11:58,039 --> 00:12:01,000 so suspect because this wouldn't actually happened. And it was one of those moments 185 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:03,799 where I'm like, oh, this is what they did. They had two 186 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:09,240 players that were already eliminated because there's so many that they can't do, they 187 00:12:09,279 --> 00:12:13,279 can't follow all of them, right, So they took two people who got 188 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:16,480 who got eliminated, and then they put them together and they're like, here's 189 00:12:16,519 --> 00:12:20,720 the scene. You guys can't decide, like who's going to do what? 190 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:26,120 So you're both going to get eliminated because it was so acting like this was 191 00:12:26,279 --> 00:12:30,320 real and you were real and there was four million dollars on the line. 192 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:33,120 There's no way that you wouldn't be swearing at each other, like you wouldn't 193 00:12:33,159 --> 00:12:37,919 be like, well, I can't just say it. And I was like, 194 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,799 you should have found some people that had better acting chops for that, 195 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:43,279 because you know, it's but it's kind of fun to be able to figure 196 00:12:43,279 --> 00:12:46,399 that stuff out, and like, honestly, what else am I going to 197 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:50,759 fucking watch? I know, right, I know? And I had to 198 00:12:50,799 --> 00:12:52,840 go look at the old Squid game just so I could see like some of 199 00:12:52,879 --> 00:12:56,960 the challenges because here to understanding. Yeah, I was like wait what but 200 00:12:58,399 --> 00:13:01,679 anyway, I just it's it's very and now they're getting sued or something. 201 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:05,039 What are they getting sued for? Oh? They are, yeah, because 202 00:13:05,159 --> 00:13:11,279 somebody claimed that they got like hypothermia because something was really cold, and I 203 00:13:11,399 --> 00:13:16,879 didn't see anything being very cold than being in Have you guys watched Special Ops? 204 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:20,320 No? But I watched like enough of the clips that I feel like 205 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:24,600 I've watched. I watched that shit. I loved it, and I didn't 206 00:13:24,639 --> 00:13:28,679 really I don't watch vander Pump Rules. Yeah, so I was like, 207 00:13:28,799 --> 00:13:33,360 this guy's a babe, and Sandal like, he's a babe, but he's 208 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:37,519 so dumb. He's the dumbest fucking which makes him even more cuter at some 209 00:13:37,639 --> 00:13:41,440 point, I don't know. And then there's the Nick Bachelor Nick, who 210 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:46,480 I've never really watched before, and I was like, I started liking him, 211 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:50,320 and yeah, it's really good. He's a podcast that's pretty good. 212 00:13:50,639 --> 00:13:52,639 He does. Yeah, he got interrogated and they like they were like taking 213 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:56,080 it seriously, like what do you do for a living, And he's like, 214 00:13:56,279 --> 00:14:01,960 I have a podcast and he like started laughing and JoJo's on it. 215 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:07,600 Jojo Siwa. Yeah, yes, she's Queen's Killer. Yeah yeah. And 216 00:14:07,759 --> 00:14:11,720 who is the woman? Is it? Kelly Rizzo who was married to Bob 217 00:14:11,759 --> 00:14:16,159 Saget. Oh it was that yeah with the blonde hair. Oh, I 218 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:18,080 didn't know that he Oh my god, I had no idea. It was 219 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:22,360 a lot of these like she was married to him when when he passed away. 220 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:26,519 Yeah, An actress. She's like a food blogger. She's very cool. 221 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:30,559 Yeah, you guys should have her on. Do we think that Bob 222 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,960 that was suspicious? Right? It was a little strange, wasn't it. 223 00:14:35,759 --> 00:14:39,360 Well? Yeah, but when he died in the hotel room. Yeah, 224 00:14:39,399 --> 00:14:43,399 and then and then they wouldn't know. They stopped commenting about it, like 225 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:46,759 they wouldn't like, we never really found out how he died, right, 226 00:14:46,879 --> 00:14:50,360 he hit his head? Right? Yeah, you know someone else who died 227 00:14:50,879 --> 00:14:56,879 very suddenly after hitting their head the day before, and then like years later, 228 00:14:56,960 --> 00:15:00,320 people were like, wait a minute, maybe it was the car accident 229 00:15:00,399 --> 00:15:01,399 he got in the day before that. He was like, I'm fine, 230 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:05,519 I'm fine. Oh yeah, I've heard of it. I've heard that. 231 00:15:05,639 --> 00:15:09,759 Yeah. No, Doctor Drew's talked about head injuries can be very serious. 232 00:15:09,919 --> 00:15:13,039 Yeah, and you think you're okay, and the next thing you you just 233 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:16,639 hit it in a certain spot and the next thing you know, you're you're 234 00:15:16,679 --> 00:15:20,440 gone. Yeah. I don't know. I think foul play anyway, what 235 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:26,399 else is Golden Bachelor? I'll talk about foul play? Oh my god. 236 00:15:26,799 --> 00:15:31,440 Okay, So you know I do a Patreon for my rose Pricks. Our 237 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:35,600 Patreon was all about Golden Bachelor, but that was behind a paywall. I'm 238 00:15:37,159 --> 00:15:39,120 up for I know everything. Okay, you're going to bring it. I 239 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:43,759 mean, like, I never watched it. Why is it rigged? What 240 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:46,080 do you mean? No, didn't you read the like, no I'm about 241 00:15:46,159 --> 00:15:50,240 him? No, I haven't. I don't know anything about him. He 242 00:15:50,279 --> 00:15:54,639 looks like a nice guy to me with hearing aids Fool's Golden Bachelor. Really 243 00:15:54,679 --> 00:16:00,840 wait what i mean listen and I've I've I've listened to both sides some people 244 00:16:00,879 --> 00:16:03,519 that are like okay, but like he's still like you know, it's still 245 00:16:04,039 --> 00:16:08,120 okay. The tea about him, go to give you yea. The tea 246 00:16:08,159 --> 00:16:11,559 about him is that, you know how he pretended well, I don't know 247 00:16:11,559 --> 00:16:17,639 if he made it seem as if he's never had another relationship since his wife, 248 00:16:18,159 --> 00:16:21,559 right, yeah, like maybe he implied that he dated a little bit, 249 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:26,720 like because when he was with not Kathy, Kathy was the when he 250 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:30,200 was with Faith, they had a little quick conversation about how, oh the 251 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:36,159 apps you must have seen some crazy stuff like and he was like, yeah, 252 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:38,960 well, apparently as soon when his wife died, he had a girlfriend, 253 00:16:40,399 --> 00:16:44,639 Like he started dating somebody a month after his wife died a month. 254 00:16:44,879 --> 00:16:48,159 Yeah, and they ended up. They dated for a for like ten months, 255 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:51,600 then they lived together for like a year and a half. And the 256 00:16:51,639 --> 00:16:56,039 story that she tells, which is not necessarily it's from her point of view, 257 00:16:56,080 --> 00:17:00,360 sure, but she says that he was very, very stingy with money, 258 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:03,160 like that they had to split all the bills, and that when they 259 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:11,680 went to a restaurant she he made her pay in advance, venmo him money 260 00:17:11,759 --> 00:17:15,519 and then he would pay for the meal so he could look like put in 261 00:17:15,519 --> 00:17:21,000 the bill. Wow. Also, she's out in the press saying this stuff. 262 00:17:21,079 --> 00:17:26,119 Yeah, and Hollywood Reporter covered it and they verified they had a lot 263 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:27,640 of stuff to back it up. It wasn't like I don't know, they 264 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:32,160 had text messages, they had well, Hollywood report, it wouldn't reported if 265 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:34,880 they didn't think that valid. Right, let's take a quick break, then 266 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:41,599 we have more. Okay, we're back. Yes. So Also, the 267 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:48,920 way they broke up apparently was just very acrimonious and he would oh apparently they 268 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:53,839 were supposed to be going to his high school reunion and his high school his 269 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:57,599 high school reunion, like whatever, that's pretty serious, right, I wouldn't 270 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:02,440 bring my own husband to that sixty years high school, maybe his six year 271 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:07,519 right, Yeah, and he told her he was He basically told her that 272 00:18:07,599 --> 00:18:14,319 he didn't want to bring her because she'd gained ten pounds and he felt embarrassed. 273 00:18:15,279 --> 00:18:19,119 That's according to her. And then, but then I think bigger than 274 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:25,359 the other things to me is the fact that he's billed as a restauranteur like 275 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:26,440 that, How what he does? I didn't even know what he did. 276 00:18:26,799 --> 00:18:32,599 Well, he's supposed to be a retired restauranteur, Okay, so wealthy, 277 00:18:33,039 --> 00:18:37,000 right that he doesn't need to work anymore, right, Okay. In actuality, 278 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:42,240 he's on a restaurant tour. He owned briefly many years ago. Okay, 279 00:18:42,279 --> 00:18:47,319 so he sold He had a franchise of a burger place that he had 280 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,240 worked at when he was like in high school, and he worked his way 281 00:18:49,319 --> 00:18:56,160 up and he eventually bought the franchise, like one burger restaurant, sold it 282 00:18:56,240 --> 00:19:00,119 in nineteen eighty four. That's the year I graduated high schools a long ass 283 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:04,079 time ago, because I'm old. Yeah, he sold that in nineteen eighty 284 00:19:04,079 --> 00:19:08,319 four. After that, he was working as like a sales guy. He 285 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:14,079 did, like was in like meat sales and then he was installing hot tubs, 286 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:18,640 and he was installing hot tubs. Then he was a maintenance worker at 287 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:22,680 a mental health facility, and that's and then he met that's how he met 288 00:19:22,799 --> 00:19:26,799 the woman who ends up being the girlfriend for the brief period of time. 289 00:19:26,319 --> 00:19:30,279 So when his wife died, he was a maintenance man at the mental health 290 00:19:30,319 --> 00:19:37,039 facility and started liking the like receptionist. So here's here's my take on it. 291 00:19:37,079 --> 00:19:40,680 Okay, I feel like he probably went in and was honest and said, 292 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:41,839 hey, this is what I do for a living, or this is 293 00:19:41,839 --> 00:19:45,480 what I recently retired from, and they were like, yeah, that's not 294 00:19:45,519 --> 00:19:48,119 sexy enough, right, So what else have you done? And he was 295 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:52,640 like, well, when I was thirty five, I owned you know, 296 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:56,200 burger joint that i'd worked at since high school. And okay, cool retired 297 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:59,319 restauranteur. Because when you watch all these things, yeah, like they want 298 00:19:59,319 --> 00:20:00,759 to give them the cool name. They want to build them as the cool 299 00:20:00,799 --> 00:20:04,559 thing. So I actually put that one on production a little bit. Okay, 300 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:10,880 right, But you know I would think that they would would be like, 301 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:14,279 obviously we're gonna get this this, We're good, Yes, we're gonna 302 00:20:14,279 --> 00:20:17,519 I agree with you, Meredith. But I also think that they would think, 303 00:20:17,559 --> 00:20:19,839 well, eventually he's gonna get found out. They're gonna people are gonna 304 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:23,279 dig into his past. I think that I honestly think that these places don't 305 00:20:23,279 --> 00:20:26,279 think we're that smart that people aren't going to poke around. Yes, like 306 00:20:26,319 --> 00:20:29,839 I really don't care. They don't care. Yeah, yeah, I really 307 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:32,839 think they don't care, right, I think they think. I think that 308 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,440 it's starting to be to come out. But I bet somebody else had already. 309 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:38,519 I bet let like people dig on TikTok, people share these things, 310 00:20:38,759 --> 00:20:41,079 right, and so I bet they think, Oh, at that point, 311 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:45,240 he'll be such a big star, he'll be so beloved. And it's I 312 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:48,240 think it's the combo of the two things too, right, Like if you 313 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:51,640 just found that one thing out, No, well now you have sympathy, 314 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:53,359 like, oh, he's not the cool restauranteur, although I'm like he could. 315 00:20:53,799 --> 00:21:00,079 He could fix your toilet that actually like voluble, But learning that he 316 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:04,480 was not that into Teresa until she was until she he found out she was 317 00:21:04,519 --> 00:21:11,440 like a commodities traders, and then he was like oh it was his eyes 318 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:15,839 lit up like Christmas morning. He was like waw. And then she says. 319 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:18,640 She's like, but I mean, Gary, I will quit my job. 320 00:21:18,759 --> 00:21:22,200 And you can see that. He was like, oh no, no, 321 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:26,160 you're not going anywhere, no wonder. He's moving to South Carolina to 322 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,559 be with her. We're going to get married as soon as possible. Then 323 00:21:29,559 --> 00:21:33,039 we're going to change the life in shirts lock that down, and then he's 324 00:21:33,039 --> 00:21:36,680 getting a free honeymoon, right. I mean, wow, I did not 325 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:40,160 know any of this. I just looked at him as just like this nice, 326 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:44,680 sweet guy in his later years. I didn't even think about I didn't 327 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:48,400 know he was stingy and cheap. So when I was a little bit like, 328 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,359 I did notice that his you know, his ears perked up when she 329 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:53,079 told him what she does, right. Yeah, and then all of a 330 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,079 sudden and he didn't tell her he loved her, but then then he did. 331 00:21:56,480 --> 00:22:00,160 Then he was all in with her. Right. I thought he was 332 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:06,160 going to go for faith, the one that the third one. But yeah, 333 00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:08,319 that's insane, that's crazy. I did not know that. Wow, 334 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:12,440 get your bag, Gary, I will say this. I remember when the 335 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:17,319 show first started, they kept billing him as a single dad. It was 336 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,759 like, he's a a fucking single dad. His kids are like in their 337 00:22:19,839 --> 00:22:25,680 fifty grandcho like his wife died, Like and I don't mean that, but 338 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,000 like as someone who like, you know, my mom passed away when I 339 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:30,519 was young, so like my dad was a single dad, right, Like 340 00:22:30,599 --> 00:22:33,839 you're not like figuring out like who to take to ballet get You're not a 341 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:38,640 single dad, right, yeah, all the way off. And I will 342 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:42,559 say, like, because I have so many friends that I've like because I 343 00:22:42,559 --> 00:22:45,920 I collect them. I'm drawn to people who also have my trauma. I 344 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:51,440 love other kids with dead moms. When you talk to them, oftentimes you 345 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:55,039 find out like dad moved on immediately. Like I've talked to girls who are 346 00:22:55,039 --> 00:22:56,599 like my dad was flirting at the wake, my dad had a girlfriend for 347 00:22:57,039 --> 00:23:03,960 later and then straight don't do well alone, so they like, I am 348 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:04,960 not shocked. And when he was like, oh, I haven't really had 349 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,279 any relationships, I was like, bullshit, Yeah, it's bullshit. Yeah, 350 00:23:08,319 --> 00:23:12,119 you're right about that. Did your dad move on fast? My dad 351 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:15,160 started like he went on a date like a year and a half after my 352 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:18,759 mom died. Oh mcually a fast at all. It's not that fast, 353 00:23:18,839 --> 00:23:21,960 but like at the time felt really fast, you know what I mean, 354 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:25,000 Like at the time I was like, this is weird. Also, like 355 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:26,200 it was my dad and he wasn't going to like online date, so it 356 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:33,319 was like one of my friend's moms. Oh convenient, right, yeah, 357 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:37,079 so that was like kind of weird too. Yeah. But at the end 358 00:23:37,079 --> 00:23:40,039 of the day, like you like, men don't do well on like no 359 00:23:40,079 --> 00:23:41,440 offense, dad, but like men don't do well on their own, so 360 00:23:41,599 --> 00:23:45,599 like you want, I wanted him to like have someone, and now he's 361 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,079 remarried, but he waited ten years. Okay, he actually remarried. Oh 362 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:52,720 really? Yeah? So how old was he when your mom died? Do 363 00:23:52,759 --> 00:23:56,359 you know? Forty six? Okay, wow, that's young. Yeah, 364 00:23:56,400 --> 00:24:00,480 so he didn't get remarried till he was fifty six. Yeah, oh okay, 365 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:03,400 and even then, like we were, we were kind of brats about 366 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:07,680 it at first, really yeah, just he told us on text message, 367 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:11,119 who had he been with this woman for a while and they were living together 368 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:15,160 and I love her, She's amazing. But like I was at the grocery 369 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,160 store on a Sunday night and I was not you guys, it was like 370 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:21,599 dark days at Team Lynch Okay, Like it was like it was like I 371 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:23,720 was in my like hot mess days so like Sunday meant like I would go 372 00:24:23,759 --> 00:24:26,960 to the grocery store and like try to put my life back together after like 373 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:30,240 a hot mess weekend, like I had probably overdrawn my checking account, and 374 00:24:30,279 --> 00:24:33,920 I'm standing in the cereal aisle and I get this text message. It's like, 375 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:37,559 Hey, just want to let you know I'm getting married in two weeks. 376 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:41,200 I hope you'll be there. It's like, what the fuck? Like, 377 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:45,839 I just it was really hard to process on text message. So you 378 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,759 know, yeah, and you as sister too. Yeah, And so what 379 00:24:48,839 --> 00:24:52,799 he did was he sent a group text because he was like, I was 380 00:24:52,799 --> 00:24:56,200 afraid you guys would fight if I told one of you first. I was 381 00:24:56,240 --> 00:25:00,440 like, hey, yeah, I don't know if you told another one first, 382 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:03,680 I really wouldn't have cared. Like it was way way calling, all 383 00:25:03,839 --> 00:25:07,920 right. It was so bad and so that I'm just like I didn't know 384 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,519 what to do either, Like I was like do I like, I can't 385 00:25:10,799 --> 00:25:12,279 to keep grocery shopping, Like how do I wrap my head around this? 386 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:17,200 Right? So I just left the grocery. I just love it felt sad, 387 00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:21,519 like you felt like he was betraying your mom, I guess at the 388 00:25:21,559 --> 00:25:22,480 time, And now I don't feel this way, but I was just like, 389 00:25:22,519 --> 00:25:25,880 I don't care if you want to be with someone forever, but like, 390 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:29,599 why do you have to have like a new wife, like you know 391 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:33,640 what I mean, Like what like it just felt so strange, like and 392 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,519 it was you know, I think it also like made me realize like, 393 00:25:36,599 --> 00:25:38,240 oh wow, like even though it had been ten years, like I was 394 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,720 like, oh, my mom's really not coming back. Yeah you know what, 395 00:25:41,759 --> 00:25:45,039 I like, I know that sounds awful and I'm so glad that he 396 00:25:45,079 --> 00:25:48,519 did. And the way like we pulled it together two weeks later, we 397 00:25:48,599 --> 00:25:51,319 had a really nice, nice time. It was a really small, intimate 398 00:25:51,319 --> 00:25:52,759 thing. I loved it. But yeah, at the moment, it was 399 00:25:52,839 --> 00:25:56,079 just like it wasn't the way I mean men, okay, matter of fucking 400 00:25:56,079 --> 00:26:00,559 shit it stuff like that, right, like they don't straight men, Like 401 00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:07,119 yeah, they have a hard time. Yeah. So now I'm really glad 402 00:26:07,319 --> 00:26:10,519 And even at the time, like I knew to put it in perspective, 403 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:15,400 but oh yeah, you know, yeah, how did your siblings feel about 404 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,680 it? I think they felt the same as me. And now we're so 405 00:26:17,839 --> 00:26:21,559 glad because like what if you know, I didn't go home for Thanksgiving? 406 00:26:21,799 --> 00:26:23,720 Like, if he didn't have someone, I would feel like I had to 407 00:26:23,799 --> 00:26:27,599 go home. Right, was your dad who passed away? Your mom passed? 408 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,839 My mom passed away. But they got divorced. My dad moved out 409 00:26:32,079 --> 00:26:34,799 and he never dated again because he was too cheap. He was like, 410 00:26:34,839 --> 00:26:38,000 I can't he didn't. He couldn't afford any She'd gone on the Holden Bachelor. 411 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,079 I know how he should have gotten killed in Bachelor. He lived in 412 00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:45,440 an apartment and then he moved into a trailer and then that was that, 413 00:26:45,599 --> 00:26:48,960 and he never dated. He was just I would tell him I would hate 414 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,599 it because he was always alone. Right, I hated it. I felt 415 00:26:51,599 --> 00:26:55,839 so guilty. But my nephews always went to visit him with their girlfriends and 416 00:26:55,839 --> 00:26:59,160 now their wives. They would always go and like, you know, their 417 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:02,400 grandfather, they get, you know, bring them Sunday dinner and take care 418 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,279 of them. But for a while I had to, you know, step 419 00:27:04,319 --> 00:27:07,359 in, and I hated it. And I'm like, dad date and he's 420 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,960 like, I can't afford it. I can't afford it, and I'm dating, 421 00:27:11,039 --> 00:27:14,839 you know. So he just sat at home, watched news all day 422 00:27:14,839 --> 00:27:19,079 and slept after he retired. See that's like why they need someone, Yeah, 423 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:22,759 we could have. Then he died, Yeah, and that was that. 424 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,720 Yeah, it's hard, and it's hard when you're building your own family 425 00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:30,200 to like feel like you have parents that almost has that need, right Like 426 00:27:30,319 --> 00:27:33,440 you guys were like the kids were probably little, right, like, and 427 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:37,880 you're like, I fucking have to take Natalia to dance, all right, 428 00:27:37,079 --> 00:27:41,039 I got to pick up my dad first, because you know, that's just 429 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:45,119 anyway. So i've i've I love my stepmom. She was a friend of 430 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,519 my mom's. Had they been dating for a while before they decided to get 431 00:27:48,599 --> 00:27:52,759 married, Yes, they had been dating. They lived together, like, 432 00:27:52,839 --> 00:27:57,000 so it had been so he only moved on to this woman, Like, 433 00:27:56,880 --> 00:28:00,319 wait, how long had they been together? Like four years? He dated 434 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:04,039 a couple, he dated like maybe one other person, and then he got 435 00:28:04,079 --> 00:28:08,559 together with this woman who had been like a friend of the family, and 436 00:28:08,799 --> 00:28:11,680 yeah, they'd been together for like six years by the time. Now, 437 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:18,480 so he moved on like four years after your mom like having a serious relationship. 438 00:28:18,559 --> 00:28:22,160 Yeah, so that's still a long time kind of And also, your 439 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,880 mom was sick for a long time. My mom was sick for four years, 440 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:27,519 so like, your marriage isn't even the same anymore, you know, 441 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:32,759 like if you have a spouse who is terminally ill, it really changes so 442 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:34,960 much. I'm sure. I mean, I can't wrap my head around it. 443 00:28:36,039 --> 00:28:38,359 So, you know, I think that my dad was like, I 444 00:28:38,359 --> 00:28:41,359 want to get all my kids out of the house and launched, and that's 445 00:28:41,359 --> 00:28:45,319 what he did. After my sister moved to college, he moved in with 446 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,319 my now stepmom. And she's amazing, Like she and my mom were friends. 447 00:28:48,759 --> 00:28:52,720 She knew my mom when she was pregnant with me, Like she went 448 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,599 to visit me in the hospital when I was born. Like, how lucky 449 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,400 am I to have someone like that? Like I am so fucking lucky. 450 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:03,079 That's true. You look at it, that's great. That's a good way 451 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:08,720 to look at it. My mom moved on when she got divorced from my 452 00:29:08,839 --> 00:29:15,960 father with friend of the family who was my father's like best friend, who 453 00:29:17,039 --> 00:29:19,319 also was around like when I was born. He was he had been my 454 00:29:19,359 --> 00:29:25,400 father's roommate and he also lived in like our back house for a while. 455 00:29:25,599 --> 00:29:29,200 Because and I thought it was really fucking weird. Yeah, that's crazy. 456 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:30,240 Yeah, when you're a kid, I think you don't realize, like what 457 00:29:30,799 --> 00:29:33,759 is she like? You know, how do you meet a new person, 458 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:37,440 Like I realized, whoever my father's gonna end up with, Like I said, 459 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:38,359 it's probably gonna be someone that I know. So it's like, you 460 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:41,279 know what, Gary, I feel like we could have just, I don't 461 00:29:41,319 --> 00:29:45,400 know, found a nice woman. Well why don't you stick with the nice 462 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,160 lady from the mental health facility? I will say though. The Hollywood Reporter 463 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:52,440 interviewed several people who worked with him at the mental health facility, and they 464 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:56,160 said he was just a delight and a wonderful employee. Sah, that's nice, 465 00:29:56,279 --> 00:30:00,440 okay, a nice guy. Yeah, he is an ex girl friend 466 00:30:00,519 --> 00:30:04,039 who says that he did he you know, judged her for gaining ten pounds 467 00:30:04,039 --> 00:30:08,079 Like that could be her interpretation and she could just be mad, right, 468 00:30:08,519 --> 00:30:14,359 Yeah, but he is cheap though, huh, I mean according to her, 469 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,599 But maybe he just didn't have money. If your maintenance mad at a 470 00:30:17,599 --> 00:30:19,559 mental health facility, how much can that pay? That's true, and he's 471 00:30:19,559 --> 00:30:22,319 making minimum wage and it's just like, look, I can't afford to be 472 00:30:22,319 --> 00:30:26,720 taking you to like nice restaurant. Maybe she's we don't know, yeah, 473 00:30:26,759 --> 00:30:30,599 but then have like enough of being able to like check your ego enough that 474 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:33,039 you're not, like, oh, and don't forget to venmomy before we walk 475 00:30:33,119 --> 00:30:37,079 into the lobby, Like that's fucking bullshit, right, Like that's so embarrassed, 476 00:30:37,079 --> 00:30:40,319 that's so gross, or like, come, if you're going to live 477 00:30:40,319 --> 00:30:41,880 with someone, like find out a way to like split the expenses so you 478 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:47,400 don't feel like that, Like that's totally fine. Apparently they negotiated the expenses 479 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:49,680 because he told her he needed her to pay one thousand dollars a month and 480 00:30:49,759 --> 00:30:55,400 she like negotiated him down to like eight fifty. Oh, I'm sorry, 481 00:30:55,680 --> 00:31:00,799 pretty cheap rent if that's nice. But they live in like Nebraska, Joseph, 482 00:31:00,599 --> 00:31:03,559 isn't that where he's from? Like some nowhere? Noonder, he doesn't 483 00:31:03,599 --> 00:31:07,880 want to move back, of course, shitty weathers. He could be living 484 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:12,039 it up in Charles. He's probably gonna be on Southern Charm him and chef 485 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:18,640 hit in the town. Oh my god, that's funny. Wow, And 486 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:21,839 are they going to I thought maybe they were going to announce that they were 487 00:31:21,839 --> 00:31:26,559 going to do a bachelorette golden bachelorette. Who do we like? I like 488 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:30,599 Leslie Ilie too. I know a lot of people feel like she's too much 489 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,359 of a mess and she's you know, but I like her. Yeah, 490 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:37,920 I think she I like her. I apologize she needs it, she needs 491 00:31:37,279 --> 00:31:42,079 she needs to be chosen. And if you got like thirty guys, you 492 00:31:42,119 --> 00:31:45,640 know one of them is going to fall for her. Yeah what if they 493 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,559 don't do Golden Bachelorette? Like, is that where the series like we really 494 00:31:48,599 --> 00:31:53,359 finally can just say this series is like hates women. And Casey was like, 495 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:56,599 it should have been a woman first, and she's right, it should 496 00:31:56,599 --> 00:32:00,160 have been a woman first Golden Bachelorette. It should have been Golden Bachelor up 497 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,440 before Golden Bachelor. Okay, but here's the problem, and I'm gonna get 498 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:07,519 in trouble for saying this. I don't care. Here's the problem. Women 499 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:13,240 look better for longer because they they because like all these women on the show 500 00:32:13,319 --> 00:32:16,279 had work done right. So like the guys, they can't wear makeup. 501 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:21,279 They're like unless they're like really into like getting hair plugs, and like, 502 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:23,599 you know, you're gonna get a bunch of like broken down if you get 503 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:28,400 like all guys in their seventies, they're not gonna hold up as well. 504 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,599 Guys though they do. Guys do age well, some do, but you 505 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:36,400 need to find thirty garys, like you're not gonna find like think about how 506 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:42,920 most women who are seventy look it's yeah, they but it's it's easier I 507 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,240 think for women to get work. You know, women are more gonna have 508 00:32:45,359 --> 00:32:51,720 like facelifts and do like anti aging things. So you feel like that. 509 00:32:52,759 --> 00:32:54,880 I think they were looking for women. I think they've been They've been trying 510 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:58,599 to do this show for like four years. Oh really, Oh yeah, 511 00:32:58,599 --> 00:33:00,680 they would. They were like advertise it like years. At the end of 512 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:04,279 the episode, they put up a thing that said, do you have an 513 00:33:04,319 --> 00:33:07,920 older person in your life? You say, guy or girl? They just 514 00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:12,400 said, you have an older person in your life, go to the ABC 515 00:33:12,559 --> 00:33:15,680 casting So I'm just wondering if it was easier for them to find a bunch 516 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:22,599 of beautiful older women than it was to find all these older guys. Older 517 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:25,119 guys compete for one woman, give them like I don't know, three thousand 518 00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:30,319 dollars in freaking ale rewards for botox points, which, by the way, 519 00:33:30,319 --> 00:33:34,920 if you're not doing the botox coupons, you guys, you're missing out. 520 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,920 Unlet Oh my god, So I have this trick and I get like so 521 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:44,920 much free bot spill it. Do we need another break? Real break and 522 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:49,440 switch to Botox? Okay, we're back. I'm dying okay. So twice 523 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:52,279 a year the Botox goes on sale. It's a buy one, get one 524 00:33:52,319 --> 00:33:59,279 gift card. Okay, okay, so buy one per customer. So what 525 00:33:59,319 --> 00:34:01,400 do you mean just talks in general, there's like Botox is like a brand 526 00:34:01,519 --> 00:34:05,599 name, okay. So like if you go on the Botox website, you'll 527 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:07,199 like see that you could. There's like a way you can sign up so 528 00:34:07,199 --> 00:34:13,039 you get notified about deals. So twice a year, November and May, 529 00:34:13,559 --> 00:34:17,320 they do two promos where you can do buy one, get one free fifty 530 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:22,199 dollars gift cards, so you can actually cash in as many gift cards as 531 00:34:22,199 --> 00:34:25,559 you want. But you can only buy one set of gift cards with an 532 00:34:25,559 --> 00:34:32,000 account. So I have like a bunch of different accounts and I went to 533 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,119 go get it the other day and they were like, oh, let's see 534 00:34:35,119 --> 00:34:37,599 if you have any gift cards. They were like, you have eight gift 535 00:34:37,639 --> 00:34:43,159 cards. I was like, fuck, yeah, I do. I know. 536 00:34:43,679 --> 00:34:45,760 So, but then you can bring them to your local person. Every 537 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:51,719 provider takes them. Really, every provider takes them because it's like it's it's 538 00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:55,199 the discount is on the like medicine. It's, oh, yeah, you 539 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:59,079 can take it to your person. Yes, you don't have to like go 540 00:34:59,159 --> 00:35:01,639 to some like get you one you've never been inside. And it's like is 541 00:35:01,679 --> 00:35:06,960 this a seven eleven or yeah, no, it's it's like genius. I'm 542 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:12,280 like, I need to tell George Santos about this, but anyway, what 543 00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:16,320 I'm saying is give the most stipend a botox and filler stipend, right, 544 00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:20,599 and then have them on and just like instead of staying in the nicer places 545 00:35:20,639 --> 00:35:23,280 like you don't, you know, put them in a slightly shittier hotel when 546 00:35:23,639 --> 00:35:28,679 you know, or something like that. I'm old enough to remember when The 547 00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,000 Bachelor going on, the bouchler was like you were going to get like you're 548 00:35:31,039 --> 00:35:37,320 going around the world like every like right away they're like Bachelor mansion is done 549 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,800 with After like week one, you're like we're going to Paris. Yeah. 550 00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:45,400 Now it's like we're going to Bakersfield. Pack your bag. It's like, 551 00:35:45,519 --> 00:35:50,159 oh, this is a very vintagey looking town. Like you know, I 552 00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:53,599 was at ABC when The Bachelor was created. Really yeah, I saw the 553 00:35:53,639 --> 00:35:59,480 treatment I read it, and I was like this, and I'm not really 554 00:35:59,519 --> 00:36:04,480 this like feminist type person, but I was a little offended. I was 555 00:36:04,519 --> 00:36:08,159 like, wait, what, They're gonna get twenty five women and he's gonna 556 00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:13,199 choose which one based off looks or what on dates? And that's that. 557 00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,880 Like I was just like, this is never gonna fly, never gonna fly. 558 00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:20,760 I think people are gonna hate it immediately, and now look at me. 559 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,199 I was totally wrong. But but what they did do in the very 560 00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,960 early days, I don't know what they still do, is they had twenty 561 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:32,480 five, twenty five women, They cast twenty six women, and they fly 562 00:36:32,599 --> 00:36:37,599 them out to LA and at the very last, like the night before, 563 00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,920 they have to let one go. Oh they still do that. They still 564 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:45,920 do that. Mm hmm. Yeah. Can you imagine you're got picked. 565 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:49,360 I got picked to be on The Bachelor, I'm going to LA. I'm 566 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:51,880 excited, and then that you don't even make it today, don't even get 567 00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:54,000 the limo walkout now right. Well, I think the reason they do that 568 00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:59,159 for a couple of reasons is because some of these people bail, like you, 569 00:37:00,119 --> 00:37:02,119 happens almost every season, and somebody like night one is like, yeah, 570 00:37:02,159 --> 00:37:06,400 I'm not I'm not doing it right right, and so they they don't 571 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:09,559 they they they were scared that somebody would bail, like right before it started 572 00:37:09,639 --> 00:37:14,719 or whatever, and they needed the twenty five women. And yeah, I 573 00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,079 felt the same way as you. But then the second that they did the 574 00:37:17,119 --> 00:37:22,559 Bachelorette and Trista was the Bachelorette, I was watching this, I was like, 575 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:25,480 oh, now fight with each other. That's the best. It's the 576 00:37:25,559 --> 00:37:30,280 best. Yes, yeah, I was, Yes, that was great. 577 00:37:30,599 --> 00:37:32,440 Yeah, I turned on all the time. I was like, look at 578 00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:37,199 this guy. I love the runner up and he was kind of a scoundrel, 579 00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:40,719 but Charlie, Charlie was his name. He was like so cute. 580 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,000 And I was like, oh, I wonder what she's going to do because 581 00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,519 this guy's kind of a bad boy and he's and and Ryan is like the 582 00:37:47,639 --> 00:37:52,800 nice guy guy because he's boring, right, And then she picked him and 583 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,519 they're still married and they're still together. She actually picked the nice guy I 584 00:37:54,559 --> 00:37:58,199 know, but she's always like that poor woman. She still has to be 585 00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:01,199 out there with like Rosy and doing the bachelor's shit. Like don't you think 586 00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:04,400 at a certain point you'd be like, I don't want to do this. 587 00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:07,840 Shit. I know, I know it's been how many years, it's been 588 00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,360 like twenty years, at least twenty years, and she's still out there, 589 00:38:10,519 --> 00:38:15,599 yes, working hustling. He'll probably do like a like I don't know, 590 00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:19,159 twenty five year anniversary for their marriage, and they'll have like a party, 591 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:22,119 and then they'll make it have like fake drama, right, right, because 592 00:38:22,119 --> 00:38:25,079 like there's always like there's gonna be fake drama with Gary's wedding, yeah, 593 00:38:25,119 --> 00:38:29,079 right, Like they're gonna have to create they'll make it a serious like a 594 00:38:29,119 --> 00:38:31,800 special right, right, And so what will happen Like it'll have to be 595 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:36,159 like, oh, I keep thinking maybe I'm making the wrong choice, and 596 00:38:36,199 --> 00:38:38,360 it'll turn out like the choices about the flowers or some shit. Right, 597 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:42,159 it will be like, oh, you know, I had a little beef 598 00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:46,440 with his granddaughter. I don't know what it was, but every time they 599 00:38:46,559 --> 00:38:51,000 panned to her. So it was his daughters, the two daughters and then 600 00:38:51,039 --> 00:38:54,480 the two granddaughters in the audience, and the all three were fine. The 601 00:38:54,519 --> 00:38:59,679 one granddaughter at the end, in the end, she had a puss on 602 00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,320 the whole time, and to the point where when they were when they talked 603 00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:07,679 a little bit, just a little got spicy with between uh the Bachelor and 604 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:12,639 his girl Teresa. They like they would like, pan mo, my audi, 605 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:15,440 my family's here. The girl was like like just she had to look 606 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,880 on her face like she just ate shit, and it's like, bitch, 607 00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:22,039 you're on fucking National TV life and live it up. Like, come on, 608 00:39:22,519 --> 00:39:27,440 he probably own her money's right, he was. He probably owes her 609 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:30,440 money. Yeah, probably exactly. She's probably like I gave him all my 610 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:35,840 baby's side, right. I don't know. I just noticed, like, 611 00:39:36,199 --> 00:39:38,880 yeah, I can puss on the whole time. Come on. Well, 612 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:43,280 it is kind of weird because they really do have to vet the whole families 613 00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:45,480 because, like you know, you get to those hometowns and some of them 614 00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:51,400 are like remember when Dean who's kind of a weird guy, Dean who's married 615 00:39:51,639 --> 00:39:55,079 now just got married to Caitlin kaitlynd Bristow. No, no, no, 616 00:39:54,840 --> 00:40:00,840 no, Caitlyn. It was it was a whole season or I don't I 617 00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:07,840 forgot okay, Dean who anyway, this was like many seasons ago. He 618 00:40:07,079 --> 00:40:12,440 his dad was like a real weirdo and he was all scared because he was 619 00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:19,559 gonna have to take her home his family and it was just like the dad 620 00:40:19,679 --> 00:40:24,000 was like such a weirdo and kind of mean, and and it seemed like 621 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:28,519 he was like in a colt. He was like doing some weird like chanting 622 00:40:28,599 --> 00:40:31,280 and wearing like anyway, the whole thing was really weird and uncomfortable, and 623 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:35,719 I think everybody was like, you got to check out these families. I 624 00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:38,039 can't like put this on TV right if you're gonna make me stay in this 625 00:40:38,079 --> 00:40:44,119 guy's house, right unless he's in this the TikTok cult. Oh my god, 626 00:40:45,039 --> 00:40:50,000 we really we we really wanted Meredith to talk about this TikTok cult that 627 00:40:50,039 --> 00:40:52,719 we heard about these dance these dance at this dance house. And she doesn't 628 00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:55,400 know anything about it. Yeah, and I don't know really anything about it 629 00:40:55,440 --> 00:41:00,239 either. Well, I'm gonna spend next week researching it. Next time week 630 00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:02,840 when we until we come back. Yeah, any like TikTok, any influencer 631 00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:06,239 gossip that we need to know about. Oh, we were going to talk 632 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:09,360 any house? Oh Matt right, Oh yeah, let's talk about Matt right, 633 00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:13,679 Rife right, right, whatever his name is? Rife? Yeah, 634 00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:17,079 well he really talk. Yes, I think he's haid Buckle fat removal. 635 00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:22,880 Really yeah, right, what kind of removal buckle fat, you know what 636 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:24,599 I mean, right round the waiste. No, no, no, they 637 00:41:24,639 --> 00:41:29,800 take out the middle of your they take out this. Oh really like that, 638 00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:34,719 like they take out like the your cheeks, like cheek fillers out buckle 639 00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:38,960 fat removal in Oh, it makes you look like kind of sunken. Oh, 640 00:41:39,119 --> 00:41:42,239 I know, I don't know. Maybe a lot of what I know 641 00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:44,920 is that he's supposed to be hot, and then I went and looked him 642 00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,199 up and he's not to me, not, I don't think he's that. 643 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:52,440 So then it's weird when a lot of his stand up involves him saying, 644 00:41:52,039 --> 00:41:54,360 I know, all the guys are like, who's this guy? He's too 645 00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:58,480 pretty to be funny, and it's like, no, you're not right, 646 00:41:58,519 --> 00:42:00,960 you're normal, You're I don't know, I don't see. So he grew 647 00:42:00,039 --> 00:42:04,920 up on TikTok. I think he kind of blew up on TikTok because he's 648 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:07,960 like, his big thing is crowd work, and crowd work is like so 649 00:42:07,159 --> 00:42:12,679 popular on TikTok because I think that people like it because it's like of the 650 00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,519 moment, right like it TikTok, Like you don't want to feel like things 651 00:42:15,559 --> 00:42:20,760 are so rehearsed on TikTok, so crowd work feels like, oh, it's 652 00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:24,840 so random, right, even though the clip is very produced. So anyway, 653 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:28,840 it's also great for comedians too, because then they don't have to show 654 00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:31,719 their material to the world. It's just CrowdWork, so they don't have to 655 00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:35,719 burn those jokes and stuff. Oh that's so smart, right, It's just 656 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:37,639 like, oh, what do you do for a living? And then it's 657 00:42:37,679 --> 00:42:39,119 like, okay, I can riff on that for three minutes, right, 658 00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:45,559 right, So anyway, now he's gets the Netflix special and it's really just 659 00:42:45,679 --> 00:42:47,440 I mean, here's the thing. I'm like a free speech girl, and 660 00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,559 I really like, if you want to make a domestic violence joke, I 661 00:42:51,559 --> 00:42:53,280 guess go the fuck ahead, right, like you wanted to say it, 662 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:57,679 fine, but here's the thing, like it's so dated. Yeah, and 663 00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:01,159 he's not even that funny. He's not even that funny, so you can't 664 00:43:01,159 --> 00:43:05,320 even go, Okay, well he's kind of finding his voice whatever. But 665 00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:07,519 like, I don't I don't want to censor people. I really don't believe 666 00:43:07,519 --> 00:43:12,480 in it. So what exactly did he say He's made? The joke was 667 00:43:12,519 --> 00:43:15,320 something to the effect of that he was at a restaurant and he and also 668 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:20,760 he was using a lot of he he kind of likes to talk black in 669 00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:24,599 like the vernacular that's not really his. So he's like, yeah, I'm 670 00:43:24,599 --> 00:43:29,559 at this place and it's like ratchet or whatever, and you know, he's 671 00:43:29,639 --> 00:43:31,880 kind of being any And then there was the woman who is the front of 672 00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:36,760 the house comes out and she the hostess or whatever, has a black eye. 673 00:43:37,079 --> 00:43:40,159 And then somebody was like, yeah, I wonder why she they should 674 00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:43,840 keep her in the back cooking, and he was like, well if she 675 00:43:44,039 --> 00:43:45,519 if she could cook, she wouldn't have a black guy at it, which 676 00:43:45,559 --> 00:43:50,599 is just like wow, yeah, exactly. It's like a joke from like, 677 00:43:50,639 --> 00:43:54,280 I don't know, nineteen seventy six, right right, totally okay, 678 00:43:54,840 --> 00:44:00,440 right right. So so the basically the thing is that people found that joke 679 00:44:00,559 --> 00:44:05,960 to be like offensive or whatever, but nobody was canceling him. It was 680 00:44:06,039 --> 00:44:08,119 just they were just like, the joke's not funny, right. So then 681 00:44:08,639 --> 00:44:13,119 and then people started to realize, oh, the whole special's not funny and 682 00:44:13,199 --> 00:44:16,239 kind of offensive and apparently there's like a very homophobic rant in there, and 683 00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:21,599 like whatever, it's just wasn't good. So then his whole thing is like, 684 00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:25,079 oh, people are trying to cancel me and free speech and the cancel 685 00:44:25,159 --> 00:44:29,079 culture, like the anti cancel culture. People are like, no, we 686 00:44:29,079 --> 00:44:32,599 don't want you either. You're just not funny. So now it's just kind 687 00:44:32,599 --> 00:44:36,840 of a bat. So now he's really like, you went on Jordan Peterson's 688 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,880 podcast, and so now he's really trying to crumble down the double down on 689 00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:44,360 it. But like a lot of people are like, dude, you're not, 690 00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:47,000 like you're not funny, right, Like you weren't you didn't you weren't 691 00:44:47,039 --> 00:44:51,960 out there. You know, Comedians are not having respect for him because they're 692 00:44:52,000 --> 00:44:55,639 like, you blew up on TikTok because you had these quick moments, but 693 00:44:55,760 --> 00:45:00,360 like you haven't really built an act, like your actual stand up isn't funny. 694 00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:05,960 And then didn't he do something where he said supposedly apologized but didn't apologize. 695 00:45:06,039 --> 00:45:09,639 So he said he made an apology for the joke, and he said 696 00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:14,880 like, here's a link to my apology. And then it was a place 697 00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:20,599 that sells helmets to people with special needs children, so like he basically made 698 00:45:20,599 --> 00:45:25,000 a making fun of special needs kids joke, which caused further backlash. And 699 00:45:25,039 --> 00:45:28,400 then he was like, well, fuck all, y'all, you're just trying 700 00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,800 to cancel me. And it's like, you're not canceled. He's having a 701 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:37,360 Netflix special that's done really well and you've made sixteen million dollars. You're not 702 00:45:37,519 --> 00:45:42,239 canceled. You already got the money. Like nobody's there's no deals, nobody 703 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,679 pulled their deal from you. Netflix didn't take your special off the air. 704 00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:47,000 It's it's like that kind of thing makes me so crazy. Yeah, well, 705 00:45:47,039 --> 00:45:51,840 cancel culture is like now a rallying cry because I'll make a video about 706 00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:53,679 somebody and be like, oh, you know, isn't it weird that Meryl 707 00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:58,880 Streep stood up to applaud Roman Polanski when he got an award because he couldn't 708 00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,920 come back in the country and she's like congratulations, like like that was kind 709 00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:05,679 of weird, and people are like, don't you dare cancel Meryl Streep. 710 00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:09,639 I think Meryl Streep is like not gonna get a gig because Meredith Blinche had 711 00:46:09,679 --> 00:46:15,159 a fucking TikTok that called this out it right, And so I think that 712 00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:19,079 people get almost like it's a it's a rallying cry now of like don't cancel 713 00:46:19,159 --> 00:46:22,280 me, Like no one, And honestly, like, I don't really believe 714 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:24,840 that people get canceled. Like look at that Colleen Ballinger girl. She's back 715 00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:28,960 now. She threw out the ukulele and she's back and she's you know whatever. 716 00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:32,639 Like, yeah, Harvey Weinstein is canceled because he's in prison, right 717 00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:37,239 right, yeah, right? And Bill Cosby was only canceled when he was 718 00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:40,079 because he went to prison. Y he was out there touring and people were 719 00:46:40,119 --> 00:46:44,920 showing up in droves to go see Bill Cosby do his set, even though 720 00:46:45,199 --> 00:46:49,159 like fifty thousand women had accused him of rape. He was not canceled, 721 00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,639 right, So they're really I think, for the most part, is no 722 00:46:51,679 --> 00:46:53,199 such thing. But it's a rallying cry. And now he's going to go 723 00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:57,320 where the money is. He's going to be like a Joe Rogan type or 724 00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,800 go to Tryan wants him, Oh, don't think joke and wants to either, 725 00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:02,400 but he knows and Netflix knows where the money is. I think the 726 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:06,880 special was designed for middle school boys. Yeah, I think so too. 727 00:47:07,199 --> 00:47:09,280 But even like I asked Sonny, I said, you do you and your 728 00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:14,000 friends like this guy? And they think he's a joke because Sonny's too old, 729 00:47:14,039 --> 00:47:16,760 Sonny's too and also like Sonny, like, your kids are kind of 730 00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:21,000 different because they grew up with dans, like they know good comedy, so 731 00:47:21,119 --> 00:47:24,880 like they're they're they're a little top tier, right. But I do think 732 00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:29,039 it's like, let's get the boys who are like eleven years old. They're 733 00:47:29,119 --> 00:47:31,800 like a funny domestic violence joke, and maybe my mom won't hear it, 734 00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:35,800 and like, you know, that's Beavis and butt Heads, right, That's 735 00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:37,639 what I think it is. And I don't even think the joke was strong 736 00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:42,920 enough to be like an edgy domestic violence joke. It's just kind of stupid. 737 00:47:43,039 --> 00:47:47,440 No, she can't. It sounds like it sounded like a joke from 738 00:47:47,599 --> 00:47:52,360 uh, what's his name? You know, uh, oh you know, 739 00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:58,400 hey, hey, oh my wife. Yeah, it sounds like some Dice. 740 00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,760 It's like weak Andrew Dice right, right, right, like Andrew Dice 741 00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:06,880 Clay's starter kit, Like you watched him and you're like, oh, what 742 00:48:07,039 --> 00:48:09,840 you want to do? You want to say naked so somebody has a black 743 00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:14,079 eye and then yeah, yeah, listen, I got a Type five on 744 00:48:14,199 --> 00:48:15,920 Rachel Zoe that killed the other night. So I'll let me tell you there's 745 00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:22,159 no domestic violence joke, but someone does get hurt me legally. Wow. 746 00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:27,639 So what's up with you? What are you doing or you're doing your videos? 747 00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,079 Do you have any big topics because last time you were here you were 748 00:48:30,119 --> 00:48:34,559 in trouble for talking about Bethany. Yeah. I haven't been in a lot 749 00:48:34,599 --> 00:48:37,440 of trouble lately, thank God. Right now, wait, let me I'll 750 00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:42,400 tell you like some good tea. Okay. So I was doing all this 751 00:48:42,519 --> 00:48:45,679 stuff about do you know soul Cycle? Yeah? Okay, So the two 752 00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:50,559 women who founded soul Cycle, they sold soul Cycle and now they have this 753 00:48:50,679 --> 00:48:53,719 thing in New York City. It's called Peoplehood and it's basically group therapy. 754 00:48:54,119 --> 00:48:58,280 Right, So, like you go and you sit in a circle and you 755 00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,239 all introduce yourself and you abide by these rules. Does that sound like anything 756 00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:07,280 to you? Yeah, yes, yeah, exactly. Okay, but you 757 00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:10,960 have to pay to go. It's like thirty five bucks or something. And 758 00:49:13,199 --> 00:49:16,639 I think it's very weird. And it's led by Soul Cycle instructors for the 759 00:49:16,679 --> 00:49:22,480 most part. Okay. Anyway, I was like doing a deep dive on 760 00:49:22,559 --> 00:49:25,239 it because these people are not like trained, but group therapy is really complex 761 00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:30,119 and people have come out and criticized it, like you know, professors of 762 00:49:30,199 --> 00:49:32,840 therapy and things like that, event like this is actually what this specific group 763 00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:38,199 of is doing is dangerous. So I did a bunch of content about it, 764 00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:45,239 and then I got a comment that was like, you need to stop 765 00:49:45,119 --> 00:49:47,880 talking about this basically. So I was like, oh, I get that, 766 00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,480 like every day, so whatever. But for whatever reason, I clicked 767 00:49:51,519 --> 00:49:54,000 on the username and it was I'm not gonna say who it was, but 768 00:49:54,079 --> 00:49:58,000 it was someone who lives in the home of one of those two founders of 769 00:49:58,079 --> 00:50:01,760 the company. Oh wow. Yeah, And I was like, oh, 770 00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:06,599 I'm scaring Okay, all right, just go ahead and leave that over there, 771 00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,039 all right. That means the conversation is happening at home. I am 772 00:50:09,199 --> 00:50:13,840 terrified. These women sold soul Cycle for like eighty million. I can destroy 773 00:50:14,079 --> 00:50:15,440 They could drown you, They could drown me. And I was like, 774 00:50:15,519 --> 00:50:20,719 oh, no, never mind, okay, just kidding. Could you take 775 00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:23,119 anything down or no? I didn't take anything down. Yeah, I didn't 776 00:50:23,119 --> 00:50:25,440 take anything down. But like, I mean, I do feel like they're 777 00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:30,559 copying. They're kind of copying twelve Step. Yeah, and you know in 778 00:50:30,639 --> 00:50:35,599 a dangerous way, right, Yeah, I know, because you're pretending to 779 00:50:35,639 --> 00:50:37,320 have a leader, you know you do. You've got to find a Vanity 780 00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:43,039 Fair reporter and have them investigate. Yeah, you're right, I need to 781 00:50:43,159 --> 00:50:45,719 Like, there's a there's a couple of well, there's a don't worry, 782 00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:49,119 there's a couple of conversations that are happening. Okay, Yeah, so I 783 00:50:49,519 --> 00:50:52,159 do have a couple of things that are hopefully happening. Stay tuned hopefully soon. 784 00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:55,280 But yeah, do you have a podcast yet? No? I don't 785 00:50:55,280 --> 00:51:02,360 have a podcast. Are you starting one? Hopefully soon? Hopefully something's coming 786 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:07,239 soon. Okay, Well where okay? So give us your all your yeah, 787 00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,440 and we tell you where to find me. I am Meredith em Lynch 788 00:51:10,599 --> 00:51:15,639 on TikTok and on Instagram and also over on the Patreon, where I will 789 00:51:15,679 --> 00:51:21,719 tell you who left that comment. Oh yeah, there you go. Oh 790 00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:24,079 I love it. I love it. So you spill extra tea. Oh 791 00:51:24,559 --> 00:51:27,800 that's where the good ship is. Okay, I got it. Come. 792 00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:31,679 I am first and last names over there. I love it. Well, 793 00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:37,800 this was so super fun. Please come love love you guys. Thank you 794 00:51:38,079 --> 00:51:42,239 regular? Yeah, please, I would love to be a regular. I 795 00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:45,199 tried to get you back really soon after the last one, but then things 796 00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:49,320 kept happening, and you got COVID. That's ridiculous. I'll be back, 797 00:51:49,519 --> 00:51:52,960 yeah all right, yeah bye bye everybody,