So you went on the first date with David Goud ghosted on. That's where
we step in hopefully make a second date happen. C K Carmen being outy
five talk to us. Yeah, I did, and it was pretty It
was great. Actually, Okay, he worked with my sister, and my
sister kind of set us up because she thought we would hit it off and
nice and we did, so that was awesome. Yeah, we had a
really great time. Um. We had some sushi, which is like my
favorite food, and and then we just chilled. We had some drinks back
at my place and um, and you know, we really hit it off.
Well, I mean it sounds like you hit off. When you tell
me you went from sushi to having drinks back at your place, that's a
sign. Like once you tell me drinks at your place, come on,
now, I already know where this is going. Uh huh. So how
did you guys wrap up the night? Yes, we went to my room
and um and wrapped it up. Oh um and um. But you know
he left kind of fast. Okay. You know, one of my kids
woke up and you know it's it's really gonna big deal, you know,
seeing a mom with kids and I did think they were sleeping, but um,
you know, it's not a big deal. And I mean, well,
how loud were y'all? Well, I didn't think we were that loud.
Well, I mean, you know, you got kids in the house,
you're doing your thing. Did he know that you had kids? Oh?
I don't think so. Um, he didn't know that there I had
kids at the house. No, because I thought they were asleep, you
know, but I didn't think it would you know, a big, big
deal. And I thought him, Okay, that could be it right there.
So here's what we're gonna do, Laura. We're gonna call David.
We're gonna get him on the phone. We're gonna see if we can make
a second date happen and see where we go from here. Okay, okay,
okay, cool. What's David gonna say? You're gonna find out next
HEK and Carmen. It's being ninety five. They were in the middle of
a second date update please, So we were able to track down David,
c kN Carmen. Second date update is B ninety five. Hello, Hey,
David, how you're doing a c K and Carmen from B ninety five?
Good morning Punch up, guys. I mean I already know. I
think I know what's going on here. Okay, you think you know what's
going on here? Yeah? I know the show. So I go,
are we going with the War of the Roses? We're going with a second
date update? What do you think is going on here? You're calling about
Laura? Right? Okay, well, you know what, I'm happy that
you listen to the show so closely and understand what's happening. I have to
ask this next part, then, which do you give us the permission to
continue his phone call use your voice on the radio. Yeah? Yeah,
all right, all right, So with that being said, tell us a
little bit about how your day went. Okay, So, I mean everything
was good. I mean, sushi was the bomb. I was feeling her
big time. So you know, we went back to her place, drink
one thing to another. Still, we went into a room or kind of
getting into it, and then um, one of her kids woke up.
Things, that is daddy in there with you and she has kids and the
kid just saw me having text with her mom. So not good. So
that's when I dipped. Yeah that's that's weird. Like, yeah, I
mean not your daddy, but her daddy for the night. Yeah, but
the thing is like that has to be weird, like inside, Okay,
I have to word it differently. Yeah, yeah, but to be in
the house and then they have someone I don't remember, but I'm not ready
to jump into like a real relationship with some of you as a kid,
and especially if someone says, is daddy in there with you? I had
to dip at that point. I I just I couldn't. I left fast.
I mean, there's nothing else I could think of to do. Okay,
all right, you didn't explain your sab You were like, uh,
you got kids. He may have just been shocked, like what the heck
just happened? You know, you like you caught with your pants down,
like what what just happened? And then I don't know, I don't know
how old the kids are, but I mean depending on maybe the age of
a child. Yeah, it's like imagine if I mean again, you know
the way the second date update works. Laura's on the phone right now,
she's listening. But imagine, like, especially if it's a slightly older child,
like you may be able to excuse, like a young kid that says,
is that daddy in there with you. But let's say it's like a
twelve or thirteen year older. Yeah, they daddy, I've been there with
you. Yeah, just I mean it's a second way to start off,
Yeah, getting to know each other. So Laura, Yeah, now that
you kind of have an understanding and you heard him say what happened, I
mean, in my opinion, it makes sense why he would get up and
say, you know what, it's time for me to go ready for that?
Yeah? Well, I mean you could. You could have said that
this ghost to me like you've been doing. I mean, you know,
just tell me. I agree. And I didn't. I didn't think the
kid was a big deal. I didn't you know, if you know what
you know, like you should. Those are the type of things that,
especially when you're out there dating and I understand that maybe you're like, hey,
I'm just going out and having a good time, and maybe I don't
feel it's important to say anything at this point. I think it seems like
that should have been a conversation from the from the jump at least to let
them know, like like to let him know that their whole Yeah, well
he didn't ask, so I know, but I mean, don't you think
that maybe like if your kids are there and you know about to hit that,
like just so you know, we gotta be a little quiet. My
kids are in the next room. I don't I don't know. Did you
feel weird about telling him about it is? Is that why? Well?
I didn't think it was a big deal. So and I just I knew
they were asleep, and you know they they they usually sleep pretty good and
they usually sleep through it. Let me just say she was not quiet,
so oh okay, well obviously they had drinks and stuff, so I'm sure.
Yeah, so now now you understand. So obviously she's not trying to
make you no step daddy. Clearly she's like, hey, listen, I
was just there for the moment, having fun and join the moment knowing that.
Does that still make you feel some type of way or does it make
you feel like, okay, well maybe there is a connection here. I
mean, because clearly you connected. The connection was there, it was I'm
not I don't want to be in a relationship with somebody Whu's kids at this
point. I understand that Laura's like probably taken back a bit, but some
people aren't built to be in a relationship with other people's children, and I
think that what we have to start doing as adults is being honest and being
able to accept situations like this. Some people can step in and be like,
man, I have no problem helping you raise your kids. I like
you, I love you. We're gonna do this. For some they're like,
nah, that's not really my thing. Yeah, and that's okay,
like you said, however, yeah, it definitely is one of those things
where if I'm dating, I'm letting you know I yeah, And that's another
place, you know, another conversation I have to say, like, hey,
I have kids, but I'm not looking for a stepdad right now.
I just want to have fun and enjoy myself. Or Hey, I have
kids and in the future I want to be able to give my kids a
Vault figure or even one of those things like this. Look, I'm trying
to go ahead and hit this real quick. I have kids here. We
gotta keep it down. Some dudes are gonna be like, cool, I'm
with it. I'm with it. Yeah, and I would have been,
but you just wanted the heads up. Well, look obviously we know here
are you guys are on two different pages? It is mad right now,
I can sense it. But Laura, don't be mad, don't be frustrated.
I understand your frustration, but I really think a lot of this could
have been solved if you would have told them from the jump, I have
children. We're going back to my place where my children are sleeping. Yeah,
we went back to my place. See, I mean, not anymore,
right, or unless you're still down to have fun, just for the
fun fun? Yeah you there, You've offended, aren't you a little bit?
Yeah? All right, but you have to admit this, Laura,
do you think that you should have told him from the very beginning that you
have children and that you go back to your place your children may be sleeping.
Now understand Now, now I'm starting to decipher this. I realized one
thing. You didn't have a babysitter there. That tells me your children are
older. So knowing that your kids are older, they may have heard some
things. And I mean, I don't know. Well, now I know
I should have. I didn't think it would be a big deal, but
now I know. So moving forward, do you guys want to kid get
again? Yeah? I'm fine with that. I don't. This isn't cool.
It just it was weird, right, I mean, it was weird,
weird, it's weird all the way around, all the way around,
it's weird. But I could respect it, and I get it, and
I understand your frustration. Is what it was. Yep, it was that
it happened and that it got awkward fast, and that's it. So I
guess there's no second date. No, no, So there you go.
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