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So you went on the first date
with David Goud ghosted on. That's where

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we step in hopefully make a second
date happen. C K Carmen being outy

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five talk to us. Yeah,
I did, and it was pretty It

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was great. Actually, Okay,
he worked with my sister, and my

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sister kind of set us up because
she thought we would hit it off and

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nice and we did, so that
was awesome. Yeah, we had a

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really great time. Um. We
had some sushi, which is like my

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favorite food, and and then we
just chilled. We had some drinks back

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at my place and um, and
you know, we really hit it off.

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Well, I mean it sounds like
you hit off. When you tell

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me you went from sushi to having
drinks back at your place, that's a

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sign. Like once you tell me
drinks at your place, come on,

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now, I already know where this
is going. Uh huh. So how

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did you guys wrap up the night? Yes, we went to my room

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and um and wrapped it up.
Oh um and um. But you know

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he left kind of fast. Okay. You know, one of my kids

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woke up and you know it's it's
really gonna big deal, you know,

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seeing a mom with kids and I
did think they were sleeping, but um,

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you know, it's not a big
deal. And I mean, well,

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how loud were y'all? Well,
I didn't think we were that loud.

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Well, I mean, you know, you got kids in the house,

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you're doing your thing. Did he
know that you had kids? Oh?

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I don't think so. Um,
he didn't know that there I had

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kids at the house. No,
because I thought they were asleep, you

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know, but I didn't think it
would you know, a big, big

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deal. And I thought him,
Okay, that could be it right there.

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So here's what we're gonna do,
Laura. We're gonna call David.

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We're gonna get him on the phone. We're gonna see if we can make

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a second date happen and see where
we go from here. Okay, okay,

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okay, cool. What's David gonna
say? You're gonna find out next

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HEK and Carmen. It's being ninety
five. They were in the middle of

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a second date update please, So
we were able to track down David,

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c kN Carmen. Second date update
is B ninety five. Hello, Hey,

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David, how you're doing a c
K and Carmen from B ninety five?

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Good morning Punch up, guys.
I mean I already know. I

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think I know what's going on here. Okay, you think you know what's

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going on here? Yeah? I
know the show. So I go,

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are we going with the War of
the Roses? We're going with a second

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date update? What do you think
is going on here? You're calling about

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Laura? Right? Okay, well, you know what, I'm happy that

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you listen to the show so closely
and understand what's happening. I have to

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ask this next part, then,
which do you give us the permission to

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continue his phone call use your voice
on the radio. Yeah? Yeah,

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all right, all right, So
with that being said, tell us a

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little bit about how your day went. Okay, So, I mean everything

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was good. I mean, sushi
was the bomb. I was feeling her

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big time. So you know,
we went back to her place, drink

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one thing to another. Still,
we went into a room or kind of

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getting into it, and then um, one of her kids woke up.

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Things, that is daddy in there
with you and she has kids and the

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kid just saw me having text with
her mom. So not good. So

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that's when I dipped. Yeah that's
that's weird. Like, yeah, I

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mean not your daddy, but her
daddy for the night. Yeah, but

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the thing is like that has to
be weird, like inside, Okay,

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I have to word it differently.
Yeah, yeah, but to be in

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the house and then they have someone
I don't remember, but I'm not ready

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to jump into like a real relationship
with some of you as a kid,

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and especially if someone says, is
daddy in there with you? I had

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to dip at that point. I
I just I couldn't. I left fast.

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I mean, there's nothing else I
could think of to do. Okay,

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all right, you didn't explain your
sab You were like, uh,

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you got kids. He may have
just been shocked, like what the heck

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just happened? You know, you
like you caught with your pants down,

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like what what just happened? And
then I don't know, I don't know

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how old the kids are, but
I mean depending on maybe the age of

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a child. Yeah, it's like
imagine if I mean again, you know

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the way the second date update works. Laura's on the phone right now,

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she's listening. But imagine, like, especially if it's a slightly older child,

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like you may be able to excuse, like a young kid that says,

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is that daddy in there with you. But let's say it's like a

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twelve or thirteen year older. Yeah, they daddy, I've been there with

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you. Yeah, just I mean
it's a second way to start off,

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Yeah, getting to know each other. So Laura, Yeah, now that

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you kind of have an understanding and
you heard him say what happened, I

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mean, in my opinion, it
makes sense why he would get up and

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say, you know what, it's
time for me to go ready for that?

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Yeah? Well, I mean you
could. You could have said that

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this ghost to me like you've been
doing. I mean, you know,

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just tell me. I agree.
And I didn't. I didn't think the

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kid was a big deal. I
didn't you know, if you know what

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you know, like you should.
Those are the type of things that,

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especially when you're out there dating and
I understand that maybe you're like, hey,

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I'm just going out and having a
good time, and maybe I don't

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feel it's important to say anything at
this point. I think it seems like

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that should have been a conversation from
the from the jump at least to let

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them know, like like to let
him know that their whole Yeah, well

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he didn't ask, so I know, but I mean, don't you think

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that maybe like if your kids are
there and you know about to hit that,

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like just so you know, we
gotta be a little quiet. My

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kids are in the next room.
I don't I don't know. Did you

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feel weird about telling him about it
is? Is that why? Well?

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I didn't think it was a big
deal. So and I just I knew

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they were asleep, and you know
they they they usually sleep pretty good and

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they usually sleep through it. Let
me just say she was not quiet,

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so oh okay, well obviously they
had drinks and stuff, so I'm sure.

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Yeah, so now now you understand. So obviously she's not trying to

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make you no step daddy. Clearly
she's like, hey, listen, I

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was just there for the moment,
having fun and join the moment knowing that.

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Does that still make you feel some
type of way or does it make

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you feel like, okay, well
maybe there is a connection here. I

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mean, because clearly you connected.
The connection was there, it was I'm

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not I don't want to be in
a relationship with somebody Whu's kids at this

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point. I understand that Laura's like
probably taken back a bit, but some

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people aren't built to be in a
relationship with other people's children, and I

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think that what we have to start
doing as adults is being honest and being

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able to accept situations like this.
Some people can step in and be like,

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man, I have no problem helping
you raise your kids. I like

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you, I love you. We're
gonna do this. For some they're like,

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nah, that's not really my thing. Yeah, and that's okay,

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like you said, however, yeah, it definitely is one of those things

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where if I'm dating, I'm letting
you know I yeah, And that's another

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place, you know, another conversation
I have to say, like, hey,

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I have kids, but I'm not
looking for a stepdad right now.

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I just want to have fun and
enjoy myself. Or Hey, I have

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kids and in the future I want
to be able to give my kids a

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Vault figure or even one of those
things like this. Look, I'm trying

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to go ahead and hit this real
quick. I have kids here. We

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gotta keep it down. Some dudes
are gonna be like, cool, I'm

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with it. I'm with it.
Yeah, and I would have been,

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but you just wanted the heads up. Well, look obviously we know here

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are you guys are on two different
pages? It is mad right now,

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I can sense it. But Laura, don't be mad, don't be frustrated.

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I understand your frustration, but I
really think a lot of this could

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have been solved if you would have
told them from the jump, I have

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children. We're going back to my
place where my children are sleeping. Yeah,

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we went back to my place.
See, I mean, not anymore,

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right, or unless you're still down
to have fun, just for the

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fun fun? Yeah you there,
You've offended, aren't you a little bit?

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Yeah? All right, but you
have to admit this, Laura,

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do you think that you should have
told him from the very beginning that you

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have children and that you go back
to your place your children may be sleeping.

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Now understand Now, now I'm starting
to decipher this. I realized one

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thing. You didn't have a babysitter
there. That tells me your children are

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older. So knowing that your kids
are older, they may have heard some

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things. And I mean, I
don't know. Well, now I know

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I should have. I didn't think
it would be a big deal, but

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now I know. So moving forward, do you guys want to kid get

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again? Yeah? I'm fine with
that. I don't. This isn't cool.

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It just it was weird, right, I mean, it was weird,

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weird, it's weird all the way
around, all the way around,

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it's weird. But I could respect
it, and I get it, and

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I understand your frustration. Is what
it was. Yep, it was that

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it happened and that it got awkward
fast, and that's it. So I

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guess there's no second date. No, no, So there you go.

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Second date update Skin Carmen's being eety
five that did not work out.