WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.880 --> 00:00:05.360 Well, we just had a little incident here in the studio that you want 2 00:00:05.360 --> 00:00:09.199 to call it an incident. It was an incident, and you're gonna if 3 00:00:09.240 --> 00:00:12.679 you go. Probably I'm going to guess right now it should be on Dave 4 00:00:12.759 --> 00:00:17.519 Ryan's show on Instagram. But I will give you a little preview. Ah, 5 00:00:17.640 --> 00:00:20.719 gotta hesitate too. I feel like you shouldn't. I'm not going to 6 00:00:20.719 --> 00:00:23.640 tell you able to go. Look, yeah, I'm upset with Dave. 7 00:00:23.839 --> 00:00:29.199 Yeah, well rightfully so. And we just played a little prank on Jenny 8 00:00:29.239 --> 00:00:33.640 and you need to go see it on Dave Ryan Show on Instagram. And 9 00:00:34.520 --> 00:00:38.560 I will leave the rest up to you. So let's dive into the emails. 10 00:00:38.560 --> 00:00:41.479 Did I miss anything powerful? Interesting? Good last week on the Minnesota 11 00:00:41.479 --> 00:00:47.240 Goodbye? And he really like hardcore topics come up? Honestly? Probably not. 12 00:00:47.719 --> 00:00:50.560 Okay, we got to know Drake a little bit better because Drake's not 13 00:00:50.600 --> 00:00:53.840 always on the Minnesota Goodbye and someone email then ask some questions about him. 14 00:00:54.359 --> 00:00:58.520 So that was fun, but I was side of that. Nothing like groundbreaking. 15 00:00:58.719 --> 00:01:03.000 Okay, let's see what we got this week. Here we go, 16 00:01:03.079 --> 00:01:07.480 hello, lovely people, and this is really not Minnesota Goodbye stuff, so 17 00:01:07.480 --> 00:01:10.959 it might be good to put on the show too, but I'll love read 18 00:01:11.000 --> 00:01:12.959 it. Say. A lot has been going on in the news about scams, 19 00:01:14.000 --> 00:01:19.079 particularly one called pig butchering. It means a victim is fattened up by 20 00:01:19.120 --> 00:01:23.560 creating a relationship with them before the slaughter of taking all their money. Because 21 00:01:23.599 --> 00:01:26.519 anybody can be duped by a scam artist or crime syndicate, I thought it 22 00:01:26.599 --> 00:01:30.920 was great to use your platform to give everyone some tips on avoiding scams. 23 00:01:30.959 --> 00:01:34.760 Hopefully it'll start some conversations and protect the people in this area. Here are 24 00:01:34.799 --> 00:01:37.519 some things I came up with and you can add your own. I don't 25 00:01:37.519 --> 00:01:41.280 know what her qualifications are, but possibly she works in an industry where she 26 00:01:41.359 --> 00:01:44.879 knows about this. Number one, If you think you cannot be scammed, 27 00:01:44.879 --> 00:01:51.079 you are wrong. Smart people fall for scams all the time. I saw 28 00:01:51.120 --> 00:01:53.120 something on Netflix a few months ago where it was like all these like you 29 00:01:53.159 --> 00:01:59.079 know, normal, wonderful, intelligent, educated women would fall for these guys 30 00:01:59.159 --> 00:02:02.920 that would basically let them think that they were in a loving relationship, and 31 00:02:04.000 --> 00:02:06.120 then they would ask for money. How much did you send him? While 32 00:02:06.120 --> 00:02:08.919 I send him two hundred thousand dollars over a year. So it does happen. 33 00:02:09.599 --> 00:02:13.680 Next one, do not give out your phone number. Tell the person 34 00:02:13.719 --> 00:02:19.159 you only communicate via the app you are on example, selling something on Facebook, 35 00:02:19.199 --> 00:02:22.639 Marketplace via Messenger. So in other words, don't give me your phone. 36 00:02:22.719 --> 00:02:24.560 Yeah, that's like a huge thing because people will say, oh, 37 00:02:24.599 --> 00:02:29.919 can you get can I get your phone number and I'll send you a code 38 00:02:30.639 --> 00:02:34.240 to verify your real or something. You send them the code, they have 39 00:02:34.400 --> 00:02:37.599 your information on your phone number and they clearly just signed you up for something, 40 00:02:37.599 --> 00:02:39.400 but you needed the code that was sent to your phone. So that's 41 00:02:39.439 --> 00:02:43.439 a huge scam on Facebook. Wow, isn't that crazy? Like, Yeah, 42 00:02:43.479 --> 00:02:46.599 I've never thought about that. I worry about Susan because I am skeptical 43 00:02:46.639 --> 00:02:53.240 about everything and she is not. So she'll look at something and even if 44 00:02:53.280 --> 00:02:58.520 it seems real, like if Wells Fargo writes and says, hey, you're 45 00:02:58.560 --> 00:03:00.400 overdrawn this month, go ahead and log in and we can fix that, 46 00:03:01.479 --> 00:03:04.919 I'm like, fuck you, I'm not going to do that. If I'm 47 00:03:04.960 --> 00:03:08.879 really overdrawn, I'm probably going to get a phone call or something, but 48 00:03:09.000 --> 00:03:14.280 Susan will be much more so I do worry about that. Do not respond 49 00:03:14.319 --> 00:03:16.240 to any request for a code sent to you, like Jenny just said. 50 00:03:16.639 --> 00:03:20.759 Example, a person on Facebook Marketplace asks you to reply with a code that 51 00:03:20.800 --> 00:03:23.680 is sent to your phone. They can use that as a way to verify 52 00:03:23.759 --> 00:03:28.360 your identity when they're trying to hack into an account. Number four, the 53 00:03:28.360 --> 00:03:31.879 police, court's government will never communicate with you via text message, or phone 54 00:03:31.919 --> 00:03:36.960 call or email. They will ninety nine percent of the time send you a 55 00:03:37.039 --> 00:03:39.199 letter in the mail. If you did not receive a phone call, email, 56 00:03:39.240 --> 00:03:44.159 text, do not ask them for a number to verify. So if 57 00:03:44.199 --> 00:03:47.199 you okay here this is. If you do receive a phone call, email, 58 00:03:47.280 --> 00:03:51.599 or text, do not ask them for a number to verify. Look 59 00:03:51.680 --> 00:03:54.879 up your own local precinct to contact. Example, they say they have a 60 00:03:54.919 --> 00:03:59.439 failed to show up for jury duty and unless you immediately pay a fine over 61 00:03:59.520 --> 00:04:01.759 the phone, you will be arrested. So what you do is you call 62 00:04:01.919 --> 00:04:04.680 your own jurisdiction. You don't say, hey, give me your phone number 63 00:04:04.719 --> 00:04:09.080 to call, because they'll give you a fake phone number. Next one, 64 00:04:09.240 --> 00:04:13.479 If a person you're communicating with exclusively online tells you in less than a month 65 00:04:13.520 --> 00:04:17.879 they love you, or mentions cryptocurrency or investing, you should probably assume it's 66 00:04:17.879 --> 00:04:26.480 a scam or a character flaw. Yeah, my friend Nate, his mother 67 00:04:26.839 --> 00:04:33.000 got totally hooked into a online fake romance. Yeah, and it was almost 68 00:04:33.000 --> 00:04:40.480 comical because it was with the actor James Spader, and she actually believed that 69 00:04:40.560 --> 00:04:45.879 she was engaged and was going to marry James Spader. And there was no 70 00:04:45.959 --> 00:04:51.959 convincing her that what are the odds of famous actor younger than you, twenty 71 00:04:53.040 --> 00:04:56.480 years younger than you, James Spader is going to find a random woman that 72 00:04:56.600 --> 00:05:00.079 lives in you know, I don't know, Saint Anthony, Minnesota, and 73 00:05:00.160 --> 00:05:01.680 is going to fall in love and want to marry you even though you've never 74 00:05:01.759 --> 00:05:05.399 met. But she did not want to believe it, and she sent thousands 75 00:05:05.439 --> 00:05:10.360 of dollars till they finally figured it out. Six. If your love what 76 00:05:10.439 --> 00:05:14.560 has been kidnapped or otherwise threatened or needs bail money, do not give them 77 00:05:14.600 --> 00:05:17.480 money. Contact authorities. So if you get a phone call from like, 78 00:05:17.560 --> 00:05:20.079 you know, Andrew, and he's saying I've been kidnapped, I need bail 79 00:05:20.079 --> 00:05:25.800 money or whatever, call the police because sometimes they can clone your voice with 80 00:05:25.879 --> 00:05:30.000 AI. Yeah, so Andrew would then be able to call you and say, 81 00:05:30.079 --> 00:05:33.519 Jenny, it's me, I need money, right right. No one 82 00:05:33.680 --> 00:05:38.399 legitimate will ever accept payment in the form of gift cards. If you're ever 83 00:05:38.439 --> 00:05:41.879 directed to purchase a gift card, it is definitely a scam that happened here 84 00:05:41.879 --> 00:05:46.480 at iHeart remember, yeah, there was people were getting texts from like Tom 85 00:05:46.560 --> 00:05:50.560 Pullman or waitman, yeah, Bob Pittman, and it was like, hey, 86 00:05:51.680 --> 00:05:56.040 Jessica, is Bob I need you to like buy these gift cards real 87 00:05:56.120 --> 00:05:58.519 quick and send them to me and whatever. And Bob Pittman's like the head 88 00:05:58.519 --> 00:06:00.759 of the company. So you think, like for a second, like oh 89 00:06:00.759 --> 00:06:02.480 god, I should probably help Bob Pittman out, but then you realize the 90 00:06:02.519 --> 00:06:06.800 scam. Last one, do not be afraid to run the message or scenario 91 00:06:08.000 --> 00:06:10.560 through with someone else in your life to see if it makes sense, or 92 00:06:10.680 --> 00:06:14.079 Google to see if this is a common scam. Thought this might help. 93 00:06:14.160 --> 00:06:16.040 Thank you for all you do. Thank you, Rachelle. That was very 94 00:06:16.079 --> 00:06:25.399 interesting And I think one of the easiest ways is number one, suspect everything. 95 00:06:26.439 --> 00:06:31.120 Number two, there's almost always bad english or an unnecessary comma or run 96 00:06:31.160 --> 00:06:38.279 on sentences or letters that aren't capitalized that show you that this is not the 97 00:06:38.319 --> 00:06:42.519 person's not legit. Because kemps is going to send you an email. Kemps 98 00:06:42.560 --> 00:06:47.040 is going to have somebody who knows how to write in good English, but 99 00:06:48.680 --> 00:06:56.360 a scammer would not. So okay, next one, I'm going to delete 100 00:06:56.360 --> 00:07:00.600 that one. Here we go. Jenny was talking about Madeline Island on Friday. 101 00:07:00.199 --> 00:07:05.800 I'm wondering if someone's emailing to correct me, but go ahead, you 102 00:07:05.959 --> 00:07:10.120 were correct. Madeline Island is a part of the Apostle Islands. Madeline is 103 00:07:10.120 --> 00:07:13.279 off Bayfield, Michigan, and you can drive cars around that island. I 104 00:07:13.319 --> 00:07:17.480 believe you met Mackinaw Island in Lake Michigan. Yes. If you haven't been 105 00:07:17.560 --> 00:07:20.480 to Madeline, I highly recommend it. I went last year in camp to 106 00:07:20.519 --> 00:07:25.519 the state park and we explored Bayfield and the island. We had a lot 107 00:07:25.519 --> 00:07:28.800 of fun. Actually going back again this summer and camping at the city park. 108 00:07:28.800 --> 00:07:30.680 Bayfield is only four hours from the Twin Cities, so it's definitely a 109 00:07:30.720 --> 00:07:33.680 doable weekend trip, and if camping isn't your thing, there of course cabins 110 00:07:33.680 --> 00:07:38.120 and arapean bees. We actually stayed one night on a sail boat in the 111 00:07:38.160 --> 00:07:41.600 marina and it was a really unique experience and fun. We also did a 112 00:07:41.680 --> 00:07:44.800 kayak tour of the caves and a boat tour of the islands with the National 113 00:07:44.800 --> 00:07:47.800 Park Service. Loved all the shops and restaurants off and the beach off of 114 00:07:47.839 --> 00:07:51.480 Vandeland Island was so beautiful. And yes we swam in August. It's cold, 115 00:07:51.480 --> 00:07:55.360 but so worth it. I'm a dull Luthian, never heard that word 116 00:07:55.399 --> 00:07:58.959 before. So lake superior in Michigan water is no joke, but so clean 117 00:07:59.040 --> 00:08:03.360 and refreshing. I will say I've been to Madeline Island two or three or 118 00:08:03.360 --> 00:08:07.399 four times. I fly there. They have an airstrip there, and it's 119 00:08:07.439 --> 00:08:09.959 really cool because you fly. I don't think we made a fluent flowing over 120 00:08:09.959 --> 00:08:15.360 Bayfield, but I know we stopped in Ashland, got fuel, then went 121 00:08:15.399 --> 00:08:18.639 on to Madeline Island, packed a little pick and nick lunch and hung out 122 00:08:18.639 --> 00:08:20.759 of the airport for a little while, which was scenic. And I think 123 00:08:20.759 --> 00:08:24.240 we saw bears off in the distance. Oh cool, huh. And I 124 00:08:24.279 --> 00:08:28.480 think one time we took a shuttle into town because it's too far to walk. 125 00:08:28.319 --> 00:08:33.960 But I didn't find the town to be terribly interesting. Oh yeah, 126 00:08:33.960 --> 00:08:39.399 yeah, I think there's probably a restaurant in a little gift shop. Secondly, 127 00:08:39.559 --> 00:08:41.600 but it is a really cool place. Secondly, you ask when people 128 00:08:41.679 --> 00:08:45.919 listen to the show. I work weekend, so Sunday mornings, I'll typically 129 00:08:45.960 --> 00:08:50.919 catch up on either Friday show if I missed it, or Minnesota goodbyes as 130 00:08:50.919 --> 00:08:54.360 I get ready in the morning. Hope you had a good weekend. Look 131 00:08:54.440 --> 00:08:58.639 forward to hearing day back tomorrow. Unofficial staff writer from Sonya, thank you 132 00:08:58.679 --> 00:09:05.799 Sonya. Andrew regular staff writer says, trying to figure out how you guys 133 00:09:05.840 --> 00:09:07.480 actually do it. I'm listening to your show on Friday and lo and behold 134 00:09:07.519 --> 00:09:13.639 you play a clip of Lil YACHTI and Dram Broccoli. It was for Mixtap 135 00:09:13.720 --> 00:09:18.759 Game. It was a song choice for Mixtape Game. Oh okay, not 136 00:09:18.799 --> 00:09:20.399 twenty four hours before that, I heard a song on a different podcast for 137 00:09:20.440 --> 00:09:24.320 the first time in several years. So be honest, guys, what's your 138 00:09:24.360 --> 00:09:28.240 superpower for connecting with your listeners' lives all at the same time, Because I 139 00:09:28.279 --> 00:09:31.120 know I'm not the only one who listens to you and here's connections to other 140 00:09:31.120 --> 00:09:33.320 parts of their life all the time. Because I've noticed it happens more and 141 00:09:33.360 --> 00:09:35.960 more when I'm listening to your show and podcasts that I hear some sort of 142 00:09:35.960 --> 00:09:41.799 reference to something that I'm watching, reading, or sometimes even thinking, and 143 00:09:41.919 --> 00:09:46.519 he goes right. Jenny and Drake did late a great last week. That 144 00:09:46.600 --> 00:09:50.360 is Andrew in Ohio. Andrew, I have a simple explanation. There's no 145 00:09:50.440 --> 00:09:56.320 superpower at all. It's because you pay attention to what you're looking for. 146 00:09:56.919 --> 00:10:03.919 So it's the old analogy of when you buy a yellow car, now, 147 00:10:03.080 --> 00:10:05.200 all of a sudden, you see a ton of yellow cars. When you 148 00:10:05.200 --> 00:10:09.840 buy a black Assuv, all of a sudden, now you see a ton 149 00:10:09.960 --> 00:10:13.840 of black SUVs. And that's really all it is. And I'll give you 150 00:10:13.879 --> 00:10:20.960 one more thing. We talk about so many many common things on this show. 151 00:10:20.639 --> 00:10:26.440 That's our job. I don't talk that much about my magic hobby or 152 00:10:26.480 --> 00:10:31.120 my ukulele because it doesn't interest that many people. But we'll talk about Taylor 153 00:10:31.159 --> 00:10:37.759 Swift, or we'll talk about Saltburn, or we'll talk about American Nightmare because 154 00:10:37.039 --> 00:10:43.200 so many people watch and engage in those. So if you hear us talking 155 00:10:43.200 --> 00:10:48.360 about something you engage in, it's only because we talk about all kinds of 156 00:10:48.840 --> 00:10:52.840 shit, and we try to talk about the most common things for sure. 157 00:10:52.960 --> 00:10:56.399 Okay, next one. This one just came in. Let's see what it 158 00:10:56.399 --> 00:11:01.120 says. And Jenny in the Morning Zoo. What was the quote that you 159 00:11:01.200 --> 00:11:05.480 said this morning that I said next time we played the Jenny in the Morning 160 00:11:05.559 --> 00:11:07.960 Zoo. You're like, I'm gonna take my boobs and spin them around or 161 00:11:07.000 --> 00:11:09.480 something like that. No, it was about, yeah, I go home 162 00:11:09.519 --> 00:11:11.960 and play with my jugs or something like that. Okay, good, Yes, 163 00:11:13.200 --> 00:11:16.519 I would like to shout out my best friend, Whitney. Many of 164 00:11:16.519 --> 00:11:22.120 our conversations are did you hear what Dave said? We basically feel like you 165 00:11:22.399 --> 00:11:26.960 are our friends. That is amazing and wonderful and I love that because I 166 00:11:26.960 --> 00:11:31.360 think that we should feel like your friends, because we should feel like we 167 00:11:31.440 --> 00:11:35.480 have things in common. And I love that. Second catching up on the 168 00:11:35.480 --> 00:11:39.120 podcast, it was the day you had Bailey's mother on the show. Correct 169 00:11:39.159 --> 00:11:41.720 me if I'm wrong, But didn't Bailey tell us a while back that her 170 00:11:41.759 --> 00:11:46.120 mom used to put her feet in hotel toilets? Yes, she did. 171 00:11:46.320 --> 00:11:52.000 We talked about how Bailey's mother would soak her feet in hotel room toilets because 172 00:11:52.000 --> 00:11:54.879 it was cool after a long day of standing up on the convention floor. 173 00:11:56.600 --> 00:11:58.519 When listening to that day show, is waiting for Dave to ask her about 174 00:11:58.519 --> 00:12:01.440 that. If she comes back, will you ask her to clarify? Ha 175 00:12:01.480 --> 00:12:07.360 ha, I guess I forgot, but yeah, we had Bailey's mom on 176 00:12:07.360 --> 00:12:09.600 a month or so ago last time she was here, and I forgot to 177 00:12:09.600 --> 00:12:15.000 ask her about that. So anyway, thank you for the amazing shows and 178 00:12:15.039 --> 00:12:18.200 for keeping us entertained. That is from Militia, and I will send you 179 00:12:18.279 --> 00:12:28.840 a staff writer sticker next one. Okay, this is long, but it's 180 00:12:28.840 --> 00:12:35.879 interesting. Don't say a name. My husband and I got married in twenty 181 00:12:35.919 --> 00:12:39.679 twenty two, two years ago. We did all this stuff combined in our 182 00:12:39.679 --> 00:12:43.000 accounts, purchasing our first home, and all that fun and expensive stuff couples 183 00:12:43.039 --> 00:12:46.639 do. I realized since I've been married, my husband has grown to be 184 00:12:46.759 --> 00:12:50.799 so paranoid about money and spending, which I completely understand. We've had open 185 00:12:50.840 --> 00:12:54.159 conversations about money and spending, but he works himself up so much. We've 186 00:12:54.200 --> 00:13:00.440 been doing well with having the same threshold. We've been doing well with having 187 00:13:00.519 --> 00:13:03.600 the same threshold every time right before payday. All bills are paid on time 188 00:13:03.639 --> 00:13:07.759 with some elbow room and cushion. But he gets very worked up when we 189 00:13:07.799 --> 00:13:09.840 do spend a larger amount of money due to going out to dinner with friends 190 00:13:11.240 --> 00:13:13.080 or going to the store to buy necessities. He will give me crap for 191 00:13:13.159 --> 00:13:18.440 buying things like clothes at Target or some shoes that I actually need for going 192 00:13:18.480 --> 00:13:22.399 to nice events. For example, I got three dressy outfits for a few 193 00:13:22.440 --> 00:13:24.480 weddings we have this summer on Amazon, and yes, in total, it 194 00:13:24.519 --> 00:13:28.320 was a bit expensive, maybe one forty five for three dressy outfits, but 195 00:13:28.360 --> 00:13:31.879 it was a treat and I could definitely wear them more than once. However, 196 00:13:33.399 --> 00:13:35.840 I use my credit card because I didn't want to answer questions to my 197 00:13:35.919 --> 00:13:39.120 husband's of what and how much I spent since he doesn't have access to my 198 00:13:39.200 --> 00:13:43.240 credit card, only our joint account. Do any of you do this with 199 00:13:43.320 --> 00:13:48.879 your significant other? No, I don't. I don't hide money spending from 200 00:13:48.919 --> 00:13:52.960 Susan, and I hope she doesn't hide any from me. Yeah, I 201 00:13:52.960 --> 00:13:56.840 mean, Andrew and I don't have anything combined yet, so that's not anything 202 00:13:56.919 --> 00:14:00.480 that happens in our relationship. I think if we got married married and did 203 00:14:00.480 --> 00:14:05.360 start combining things, it would be a little bit different. But I'll be 204 00:14:05.399 --> 00:14:07.679 honest, if I was in a combined account with my partner, I would 205 00:14:07.720 --> 00:14:11.360 probably be like monitoring it a lot too. Only because I didn't grow up 206 00:14:11.360 --> 00:14:16.840 with money, and if I'm now responsible for someone else's money spending and my 207 00:14:16.879 --> 00:14:20.600 own, like, I would be monitoring it a lot, just because I'm 208 00:14:20.720 --> 00:14:24.759 very weird with money, having not grown up with any. Andrew also grew 209 00:14:24.840 --> 00:14:28.879 up very similar in means as I did, but he just like doesn't get 210 00:14:28.879 --> 00:14:31.720 stressed about money the way I do. But I grew up in a very 211 00:14:31.720 --> 00:14:37.759 stressful environment that. Yeah, my parents fought constantly about money, and it 212 00:14:37.840 --> 00:14:41.720 has scarred me, like in terms of how I look at money, Like 213 00:14:41.879 --> 00:14:43.919 absolutely is a huge thing for me. Oh, I'm sure, because you 214 00:14:43.960 --> 00:14:48.399 were kind of traumatized in a way by even thinking about money or worrying about 215 00:14:48.440 --> 00:14:52.720 money. My mom and dad thought about money because my mom loved to spend 216 00:14:52.879 --> 00:14:58.080 kind of recklessly and my dad was such a tight wad. I mean, 217 00:14:58.120 --> 00:15:01.360 I made a joke when we were in Hawaii because you're gonna laugh at me, 218 00:15:03.039 --> 00:15:05.320 go ahead. You know the little hotel bars of soap. Yeah, 219 00:15:05.320 --> 00:15:09.039 it was a nice bar of soap, and we only used a little bit 220 00:15:09.080 --> 00:15:15.759 of it, so you barely could notice. I wrapped it up in Kleenex 221 00:15:16.440 --> 00:15:20.360 and put it in my carry on and brought it home and my wife, 222 00:15:20.399 --> 00:15:24.879 Susan said, oh my god, that's something your dad would have done. 223 00:15:24.919 --> 00:15:26.480 And I said, no, it's totally something my dad would have done because 224 00:15:26.519 --> 00:15:31.720 he was so frugal. Huh. And I didn't do it because we can't 225 00:15:31.720 --> 00:15:37.120 afford soap. I was like, it's just be a toss thrown out. 226 00:15:37.159 --> 00:15:39.799 It's a whole bar of hotel room soap, you know, which is not 227 00:15:39.840 --> 00:15:43.440 a regular sized bar. But I didn't want to throw it away because you 228 00:15:43.480 --> 00:15:46.440 could still use it, you know, it was a good one. I 229 00:15:46.480 --> 00:15:50.960 feel like most hotel soaps are not of quality, so I would not take 230 00:15:50.960 --> 00:15:54.879 that home. But I've definitely taken shampoo and condition our little bottles that they 231 00:15:54.879 --> 00:15:58.840 give you. I have definitely taken those before home with me because I don't 232 00:15:58.360 --> 00:16:00.720 like to waste it, and it's an opportunity for me. I just pay 233 00:16:00.759 --> 00:16:03.279 to use this hotel. Yeah, Like, why would I not take it. 234 00:16:03.360 --> 00:16:07.840 I've got dozens of bars of soap from hotels. Usually they're still in 235 00:16:07.879 --> 00:16:11.720 the wrapper. But I'm like, shoot, I paid for it's mine, 236 00:16:11.879 --> 00:16:15.600 it's free, let's go h Okay. She goes on to say he is 237 00:16:15.759 --> 00:16:18.799 very frugal. I've come to find out he would prefer not spend any money, 238 00:16:18.799 --> 00:16:22.879 which is great, but I like to enjoy my hard work money and 239 00:16:22.919 --> 00:16:26.679 not just work to live. I'm not out here dropping one hundred dollars dollars 240 00:16:26.720 --> 00:16:29.039 on the time an unneeded crap. I'm not trying to give my wonder of 241 00:16:29.039 --> 00:16:32.399 her husband a bad rap. He is amazing, He is not controlling. 242 00:16:32.519 --> 00:16:36.279 I think he just gets paranoid because how expensive everything is. He thinks the 243 00:16:36.320 --> 00:16:41.200 worst, like he's going to get hacked and it gets into his He's also 244 00:16:41.320 --> 00:16:42.399 like this when it comes to being hacked, and he gets in his mind 245 00:16:42.399 --> 00:16:47.200 about updating your password and how a certain safe website can be blah blah blah. 246 00:16:47.519 --> 00:16:51.039 So my questions are, how do you handle money convo topics like this 247 00:16:51.159 --> 00:16:55.080 with your significant other. I think it's one of the most important things you 248 00:16:55.159 --> 00:16:59.519 have to agree on before you get married. If not, then it is 249 00:16:59.559 --> 00:17:04.759 going to be a constant battle, especially if one is one extreme and the 250 00:17:04.839 --> 00:17:08.160 other is another extreme. And you're not an extreme, but it sounds like 251 00:17:08.559 --> 00:17:15.440 he definitely is. Yeah, what do you consider a treat splurge in your 252 00:17:15.480 --> 00:17:18.279 life? And how often for us it was the vacation for sure. We 253 00:17:18.400 --> 00:17:22.759 don't really go on expensive vacations, but this one we kind of went all 254 00:17:22.799 --> 00:17:26.079 out and just because we hadn't been on a vacation a long time. And 255 00:17:26.079 --> 00:17:30.880 I agree with you the writer who says I want to enjoy my hard work 256 00:17:30.920 --> 00:17:33.960 money and not just work to live. So what is your splurge, Jenny, 257 00:17:34.079 --> 00:17:37.720 mineus trips to I don't spend my money on literally anything besides what I 258 00:17:37.799 --> 00:17:45.519 need in life. And then vacations, so definitely vacations. Not sure if 259 00:17:45.559 --> 00:17:52.880 you've read these next two, but they are dated from earlier, so I 260 00:17:52.880 --> 00:17:56.599 think we actually filled our time on the Minnesota Goodbye, and not that we 261 00:17:56.720 --> 00:17:59.039 stop. It's not like we go, God, thank God, it's over, 262 00:17:59.119 --> 00:18:02.359 let's stop. We just try to be respectful and send an expectation of 263 00:18:02.440 --> 00:18:06.799 like, okay, it's fifteen minutes probably minimum and average, but if it 264 00:18:06.839 --> 00:18:10.200 goes over it, that's fine. Sometimes we'll go thirty minutes, not very 265 00:18:10.240 --> 00:18:12.680 often. But one thing that makes our podcast much better no matter how long 266 00:18:12.720 --> 00:18:18.319 it is, is your emails. So send those in to Ryan's show at 267 00:18:18.440 --> 00:18:23.240 KDIWB dot com. 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