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Hey, hey, hey, I'm
bad with something for you to think about.

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Let me start off by saying hello
to everyone. I hope everyone is

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doing well. I hope everything is
good with all of you. Thank you

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for stopping by. This episode is
about falling too quickly, falling too quickly

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for that significant other. Some people, they are so busy seeking and chasing

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significant others, so busy worrying about
when you're gonna fall in love. When

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is your sweet thing coming to youth? So many people are very eager and

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desperate for a significant other. You
meet and you're so happy, at least

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in your mind. You're so happy. You you're giddy. You just have

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this feeling inside of you, feeling
all Google, Googly Google. You're just

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so happy and excited. You meet
this person, and you fall too quickly.

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You do not take time to build
a solid foundation. You do not

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time to get to know the person. All you want is to be with

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him or her. That's all you
can think about. You're focused on them

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all of the time. Make your
heart skip a beat, make you have

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butterflies in your stomach. You know
you heard of that, butterflies in your

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stomach. When you meet someone you're
feeling it all. You're feeling every bit

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of it. Then you meet this
person and you fall entirely too quickly.

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A lot of people have done it
and is doing it. You're following too

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quickly for your significant others, and
you end up losing yourself in your relationships.

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You end up giving everything you have
to your significant other. You end

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up blind by how you think.
You find yourself in an unhealthy situation and

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unhappy place. A lot of people
are living this truth. When you meet

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someone and you really start feeling that
person, it's up to you what you

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do, how you do it,
It is up to you. But the

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problem is many people are lad truly
by their significant others. What I mean,

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you lose focus. You don't think
about yourself, You don't think about

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what you're going through. All you
think about is pleasing that person, satisfying

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that person, trying to make that
person want you, trying to make that

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person want to stay in the relationship. That's your focus. You totally forget

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about yourself. You are not thinking
because you're focused totally on your significant other.

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You're falling too quick. Some of
you will say you're in love,

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I mean so quickly, and to
me it's clear indication you don't even know

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what love is. I'm not saying
or trying to say that. Sometimes it's

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like everything falls into place love at
first sight, you know, quote unquote.

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Sometimes times people do have that special
bond, but that's rare. The

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other times it is your own loins. You know, it's you, your

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feelings, your fire and desire.
It's you most of the time. And

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when I say you, i'm talking
about you, I'm talking about the other

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person, because it may be the
other person who's fallen too quickly. This

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episode is just about fallen too quickly
into a relationship, so it could be

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either person that's joined us. So
many people find themselves in unhappy relationships because

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they failed too quickly. You didn't
look at the things that you should have

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been looking at. That didn't You
didn't get to know the individual. They

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didn't get to know you. You
fell into it based on superficial things.

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There's a lot of things at play, but the bottom line is you fell

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too quickly. You think you're so
in love, you think the person is

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so in love with you. Half
of the time they don't even want to

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be in a relationship with you.
They're using you they have an agenda,

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but you can't see it because you
want what you want. Ninety nine percent

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people are driven by self gratification.
What they want, what they desire,

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how they feel, how they think. Because remember I've told you, if

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you've listened to me before, I've
told you that lust, because that's what

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most people are feel by self gratification. Of the flesh is a bottomless pit.

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You can never ever feel it.
You're always seeking, You're wanting more,

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always nothing. That's never enough,
not when you're trying to satisfy that

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flesh. So a lot of you
get into relationship and you fall too quickly

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because of your mindset, because of
your hearts. They're unhealed, So you're

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gonna think things that you shouldn't think. It's gonna be irrational, it's gonna

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be distorted because your mindset is not
the mindset of a healthy individual, a

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healed individual. So people want what
they want and they go along with whatever

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because they want him, they want
her. They fall too weekly. You

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didn't adhere to any of the signs
or the red flag. Some of you

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see them, you still won't adhere
to them because you want who you want.

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You fall entirely too quickly. You
know, there's a TV show Nanny

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Day Fianc or something like that.
I'm not saying it's impossible. I'm just

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saying I wouldn't do it. I
wouldn't do it. There's another show called

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Love After lock Up. People meet
these individuals while they're in prison, some

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of them serving hard time, and
they fall in love through being pinpowered written

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communications. People are falling in love. People can tell you anything, talking

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to them in their faith, what
you think they can embellish on paper.

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You fall in love because of who
you are as an individual and where your

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mind is. That's why people fall
in love too quickly. People fall in

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love over written words. That person
on the end of that letter may not

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feel anything of what they're saying.
In a lot of times they don't,

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but they have an agenda. They
need something from you. So you communicate

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with the person and they tell you
all of the right things, and bam,

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you've fallen in love. You've fallen
in love with someone you don't know.

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They don't know you, but you
think you do. You think you're

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in love because of the nine words
they said to you, or they wrote

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to you. Sweet as a honeycomb
and now you believe you're in love.

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I always tell you when people do
this, sooner or later, and a

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lot of times for people it's later. Sooner or later, you will feel

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the consequences of your bad choices and
decisions. Oh, you're gonna suffer a

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consequence sooner a labor You're gonna suffer
those consequences because people always show you who

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they really are. At some point
or another, they become who they really

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are. They leave who they pretended
to be behind, and the real person

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come for now you realize, oh
my goodness, who or what you're really

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with? Nothing like you thought they
were. Nothing. All you know is

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they lie, they deceived, they
manipulated all of that. You couldn't see

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it then because you failed too quickly. You just wanted him, you just

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wanted her. But I'm telling you
it is the wrong way to enter into

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a relationship. It is the wrong
way. If you do not lay a

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solid foundation, if you do not
love yourself, know who you are,

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get to know who you're with,
You're going to have a terrible time,

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you know. I always want to
throw God in their Jesus, the Son,

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God, the Father. I always
want to throw them in there.

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I know a lot of people don't
believe. When you hear me say you

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you're a significant other, and I
don't say anything else. God is always

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in the midst of everything. I
do say everything, but I know everyone

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don't believe, so I don't try
to force Jesus down your throat in every

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episode. But know that he's first
in my life, and I believe that

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he should be first and foremost the
beginning. The mental definitely a part of

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any relationship. But for those who
don't believe, still, you've got to

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get to a point where you love
yourself, know yourself. So many of

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you spend all of your time and
energy ignoring yourself, but trying desperately to

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figure out who you're with. You're
just fooling at it backwards. You fall

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in what you think are perceived as
love, Then you want to get to

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know the person. Then you want
to have requirements and all of these things,

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when you should have done that in
the beginning. You fall in love

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quickly, Then you want to try
to change the person, where if you

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had gotten to know them, you
would know that they're not who they pretended

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to be because they showed you.
You just didn't take heed people are desperate.

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They're so desperate because some people are
afraid to be by themselves. I'm

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not talking about necessarily just afraid of
being alone because they don't want to be

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by themselves. I'm talking fearful of
being alone because of the things going on

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in this world, and because of
so many insecurities and things that they tature.

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They're fearful to be by themselves,
so they would rather be with anyone

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just to have someone. Then you
have those who truly don't want to be

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by themselves, not because they fear
being by themselves of what's going to happen,

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but they just don't love self enough
to be able to be alone,

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so they rather be a relationship with
anyone as long as they have someone.

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That is why so many people are
unhappy. I will stand on it.

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I believe it. Most people are
unhappy in their relationships and they have just

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decided to settle. They've been together
so long they've decided this is it.

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I'm not going anywhere. Although many
are doing their own things. He's doing

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his, she's doing hers. That's
not a healthy relationship. I don't care

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about you naysayers who are going to
say when he works for some people bull

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bull bull. Anytime you're going outside
of your relationship, marriage or relationship,

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you are going to run into some
problems. You're going to when you're bringing

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in other people, you are going
to run into some problems because they gonna

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be with that other person that you
are brought into the relationship, and they

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may start liking that person more than
you. Now you're mad and you're upset,

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but you probably was the one who
wanted to do it. It happens

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all of the time, people meeting
behind your back. But people will go

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along with anything just to be in
a relationship. Some of you should run,

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I mean you should run like something
behind you. With some of these

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individuals you're with, you should meet
them and run like your life depend on

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it. In some of your life's
depin on it. Because people be showing

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you. They show you who they
are liars, cheaters, manipulators. They

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are nasty, vile, I mean, they're moochers. They want everything you

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have, they want you to take
care of them. They embellish everything.

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I mean, the list is endless. It's endless. But so many people

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blind because of unhealed heart to mind. They want what they want. They

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don't care, so they fall in
love too quickly. Then it's like,

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what will you find that you're in
a bad situation. Then you have the

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nerve to wonder how you got there. You know how you got there?

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You failed too quickly. Oh he's
fine, Oh she is pretty? So

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what when you're mature, you know
who you are as the person you love

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yourself. Please believe you know they
gotta come better than just having good looks.

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And you know it. You know
it. Yes, you you want

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to be with someone that you can
tolerate looking at. I agree with that,

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But some of you go solely on
how pretty she is, how fine

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she is, how handsome he is, how sexy he is, and that's

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it, never mind, And that
they're crazy as a I mean as crazy

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can be nuttier than a Snickers bar. You don't you don't see that.

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You don't see that at all.
You don't see how they treat people terrible.

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You're not listening to how they're talking
to you, how they're disrespecting me.

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They're just so fine. You just
can't help it. You just got

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to have them. I candy arm
candy, and you fall in love for

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the wrong reasons, and you fall
in love too quickly. Now you find

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themselves in a terrible situation. A
lot of the situations are toxic, unhealthy,

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loveless, no type of affection.
You get to a point that you

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don't even care no about yourself.
That's how tired you are of the individual.

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You just want out. Some of
you are ran to the ground.

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Literally, you're ran to the ground. You're exhausted, you're you're just broken,

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drained in every way because you failed
too quickly for that person. Wake

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up, grown people, wake up. It's time to start seeing what the

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eyes you have. It's time to
mature and act like grown men and grown

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women. Stop chasing after someone who's
not chasing after you, and if they

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are chasing after you desperately, you
sholl you should still run because something's wrong

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with that situation too. I've told
you so many times. If you get

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to know yourself and love yourself,
your eyes will they will open. You

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will see things. You will understand
things that you didn't before. Some of

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you have gone through and gone through
and gone through and gone through and guess

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what you're still going through because you
never learned from your bad situations, your

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bad experiences. You never learned.
You just drag your butts right on to

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the next relationship, carrying bad juju
received and bad juju because you don't ever

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learn anything. You're too busy and
focused on the other person. You never

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take time for yourself to grow into
mature. Like I said a million times,

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we all, all of us,
we mature in our bodies. I

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don't care how much you nipping,
tucking, take off and put on.

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That body is gonna age. That's
the way it's meant to be. It's

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gonna age. So we mature in
our bodies, and our brains mature because

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our bodies are mature. But that
don't mean that you mature mentally. A

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lot of people don't still immature as
adults. They think they're mature, but

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many are not. So you go
through life experiencing the same things over and

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over because you don't learn, you
keep doing it the same way. You'll

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go right out and fall in love
quickly again, only to find yourself right

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back to square one again. Stop
it, stop it. Look at the

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world we're in these days, and
this is for all of you all over

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the world. Look at the world
we're in these they look at the condition

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of what's going on in the world. Look at the condition of the people

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in the world. Heartless, don't
think for themselves, old pressed, easily

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brainwashed, easily influenced, follow wrong, all types of same negative things.

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You have to be careful. You
have to be careful. You have to

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get to know who you would you
fall in love with this person. They

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look one way when they're another.
Never told you, you, never asked.

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It's too much going on in the
world for people to remain the same.

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But they're doing just that, remaining
the same, doing things the same,

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experiencing similar people because your mindset has
not changed. You know, It's

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just unbelievable to me. Yet I
believe it because I know people. It

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never seemses to amaze me what people
do, the things people open themselves up

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to, the doors they open in
their lives, the most that creates.

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It never ceases to amaze me.
All I can do is just shake my

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head. Oh my goodness. People
are so desperate. You should be desperate

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to know yourself. You should be
desperate to fall in love with yourself.

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That's the first relationship you need to
build. But yourself, No thyself,

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but no, no, no,
no, no, no self gratification.

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Lust of the flesh, can't see
what the eyes you have because you're blind.

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Then you get into these relationships too
quickly, and you know what,

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some people know exactly what they're doing. They are shucking and jiving you,

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manipulating you, making you feel good, making you think they want you,

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making you think they are in love
with you, when it's all in your

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head. They don't feel how you
feel. But you got something to offer

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them. If if you're out there
and you suspect that's what's going on in

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your relationship, reach out to me. Let's talk about it. I'll help

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you figure it out, honey.
For free people go to their graves the

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very same, the very same.
And I've told you so many times you

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can gain this. You can gain
that, you can accomplish all these great

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things, have all this material stuff
and still go to your grade the same,

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because your mindset is the same,
your heart is the same. You

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acquired all these things that you can
do nothing with once you leave this world.

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So you went through life, get
in all of this stuff, and

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you die the same. Never really
experience love, never been completely happy.

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There's no way you can be when
you're unhealed. There's no way you can

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be truly happy. I don't care
what no one says. If you are

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not healed mentally in your mind and
heart, there's no way you're living a

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peaceful, happy life. And I
see it every turn I take, left,

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right, front, back, up, down. I see it in

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the choices that people make in their
lives. I see it and what people

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allow and accept, how they just
let people treat them any kind of way,

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do anything anything in this world to
be in a relationship with someone who's

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not even worth it, I see
it. But that's it. I'm done

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on this. I'm leaving it right
there. Thank you for listening. Much

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love to each and every one of
you. Listen. Your life is your

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life. You live it how you
choose. But when you see that you're

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on that vicious will and you stay
there. The only person you can look

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at to blame is you. I
don't care what your significant other is doing

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or have done. You have to
look at yourself if you took it.

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So thank you again for listening.
Please share this episode and do me a

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favor, just one favor. Check
out Relatable Life Chronicles and share. Thank

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you so much again. I end
every episode the same, and I hope

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I truly truly hope you do it. It's up to you think going it