1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:14,800 Made a decision. I'll face the sunny sum I had asion my nice so 2 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:21,679 rich looks at my body. Who whoo whoo Friday. It's Friday, Friday. 3 00:00:21,879 --> 00:00:27,559 It's been a long week. Been a long week, that's for sure. 4 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:33,200 My schedule has been so packed with stuff. I thought, my kids, 5 00:00:33,439 --> 00:00:37,560 Okay, it's good and it's bad. My kids' school, they're high 6 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:42,600 school. I really love it, like I really love it. But unlike 7 00:00:42,679 --> 00:00:46,439 Elbie's school. When Elbie was in school, at the big public high school, 8 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:51,119 where it's kind of like nobody's asking you to do anything, because you 9 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:55,479 know, there's certain go getters who have been like volunteering for stuff since their 10 00:00:55,560 --> 00:01:00,640 kids were in you know, elementary school. But I volunteered for stuff elementary 11 00:01:00,679 --> 00:01:03,280 school, middle school. Then I got tired and I was like, oh 12 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:07,599 good, Elby's fine. You know, I never did a day a day 13 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:11,640 at that school. I didn't help with anything. I don't even think I 14 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:14,239 gave them money. I was just like, it's a big school. There's 15 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,079 a lot of people. Someone else is going to do it right. But 16 00:01:17,239 --> 00:01:21,599 with our school, with the Sadie Xander School, it's a much smaller school. 17 00:01:21,799 --> 00:01:25,120 But the thing is that I love is they have so much going on, 18 00:01:25,239 --> 00:01:27,040 Like my kids are involved in a lot of things, right, but 19 00:01:27,239 --> 00:01:32,439 also my kids are involved in a lot of things. It's always something to 20 00:01:32,439 --> 00:01:38,439 go to and I have to kind of talk myself into because my kids are 21 00:01:38,519 --> 00:01:41,719 cool, like if I say, like, oh, do you want me 22 00:01:41,719 --> 00:01:46,680 to go to that like tonight. So we're actually recording this on Monday. 23 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:53,400 So there's a it's not really a play. There's this thing where a bunch 24 00:01:53,439 --> 00:02:01,719 of people wrote these plays about gun violence. Oh interesting in America. In 25 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:06,760 America, well, probably gun violence other places, but there's not a lot 26 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:09,000 of other places with as much gun violence. But let's not get on a 27 00:02:09,039 --> 00:02:14,479 soapbox about that right now. The point is people wrote these plays and then 28 00:02:15,039 --> 00:02:20,280 it's like a national thing and certain high schools get chosen every year to do 29 00:02:20,319 --> 00:02:23,680 this put on this production, and there's going to be like a news station 30 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:28,840 there. It's going to be small. But anyway, so Xander's not actually 31 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:31,360 in one of the plays, but he's reading stage story. He got asked 32 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:38,960 to read stage direction. But he also composed a song that in the pre 33 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:42,840 show. It's a song that has to do with the theme. So he 34 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:46,039 and his and a friend of his are performing a song. That's cool. 35 00:02:46,199 --> 00:02:47,840 It is cool, right, but there's a lot of cool stuff I've just 36 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:52,159 got. I've got. I go to stuff at the school often, so 37 00:02:52,319 --> 00:02:54,319 part of me was like, do I have to do? You need me 38 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:59,919 to go to that? Which is funny because, like you, I loved 39 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:01,599 to go see my kids do stuff, but when they're in stuff, there 40 00:03:01,879 --> 00:03:06,560 seems to be always something going on. I brought him to like this is 41 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:09,680 when I was complaining on our Tuesday episode about he had to go to a 42 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:14,439 thing from four to eight. It was the tech rehearsal for this thing that's 43 00:03:14,439 --> 00:03:20,080 happening tonight that they didn't feed them. You know. My point is, 44 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:23,560 I'm like, you have to buy tickets, like it's a cashaky you know. 45 00:03:23,719 --> 00:03:27,360 And it's like so then Xander was like, Mom, I think it's 46 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:30,120 sold out already. So then I was kind of like, oh, oh 47 00:03:30,319 --> 00:03:34,199 really, So I was like, I don't know if we can go it 48 00:03:34,319 --> 00:03:36,719 sold out, And then I said, I guess I should do my due 49 00:03:36,759 --> 00:03:39,159 diligence and just like see if there's any tickets. Sure enough, there are 50 00:03:39,159 --> 00:03:44,680 tickets, right, Like me with the football game, Yeah it's sold out, 51 00:03:44,759 --> 00:03:47,599 its home coming. How are we're never going to be able to get 52 00:03:47,599 --> 00:03:53,319 into nowy of seats. Then I'm like, okay, so we're gonna go 53 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,280 John, And I was like, John, do you want to go to 54 00:03:55,319 --> 00:03:58,840 this thing? Like or should we just like have one parent cone He's like, 55 00:03:58,879 --> 00:04:00,000 no, I'll go. So I'm like okay. So I'm like, 56 00:04:00,039 --> 00:04:03,000 well, Sadie for sure won't want to go like you. You're gonna want 57 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:05,759 to stay home, right, She's like no, I'll go. I'm like 58 00:04:08,479 --> 00:04:12,520 there's plenty of tickets. So then of course my brain is like, all 59 00:04:12,639 --> 00:04:15,520 right, when are we gonna eat? Like you know, I got to 60 00:04:15,599 --> 00:04:17,879 get the dog walk like the things that I just want to be home chilling 61 00:04:17,959 --> 00:04:21,040 to do. I was racky, is there anything else I'm supposed to be 62 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:24,759 doing? I'm all right, I'll go to my kids thing? But then 63 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:27,600 do you ever do this thing where you go like, well, now that 64 00:04:27,639 --> 00:04:30,399 everybody else is going, do I have to go? Like John can take 65 00:04:30,439 --> 00:04:34,639 it from here? Right? I know, yes, yes, But like 66 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:38,519 I feel like, well, I already started the train moving, and I 67 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:41,720 don't want to be the parent that didn't show up at that point. At 68 00:04:41,759 --> 00:04:44,439 that point, I'm like, well, I guess I don't want to miss 69 00:04:44,439 --> 00:04:46,879 out, like, yeah, now I'm going to send those two and they're 70 00:04:46,879 --> 00:04:48,560 gonna come home and go Xander was so good and I'm gonna be like, 71 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:54,240 oh, I was home watching The Voice, which was also really good. 72 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,720 I don't know. I'm playing it on my app. I got team members 73 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:00,839 on the way. I kind of want to see who gets picked off my 74 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:06,639 team, Like Xander understands that, Yeah, so no, we're all going 75 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:12,079 to go to that. But meanwhile, meanwhile, if I look at my 76 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:18,040 email right now, okay, it says there's a hey, uh, there's 77 00:05:18,079 --> 00:05:23,600 a thing about the the we need food and volunteers for tonight. It's like, 78 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:27,920 can't you bitch just find anything in advance. I know, because also 79 00:05:28,519 --> 00:05:30,720 this just leads me to tell you that. So I don't like, I'm 80 00:05:30,959 --> 00:05:35,759 going to probably ignore that because like I just did the staff breakfast once a 81 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:41,360 month, which you know you've heard of my tales about like how I stepped 82 00:05:41,399 --> 00:05:46,600 up to do it, because so I talked about this on Patreon. But 83 00:05:46,759 --> 00:05:50,160 basically I had said, like, hey, what what if we did like 84 00:05:50,199 --> 00:05:56,240 a sign up genius and people volunteer to like bring items, and the person 85 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:59,639 who's in charge of all the parent volunteering was like, I don't have the 86 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:01,600 band. You want to do that? You think people are going to volunteer, 87 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:05,160 you do it? So I was like okay, because I was like, 88 00:06:05,639 --> 00:06:09,560 I think she's wrong. I think people will step up. And you 89 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:13,319 guys, remember I guess it was a Patreon that I told it in depth 90 00:06:13,399 --> 00:06:16,360 story about how I said, I think people would kick in a little money. 91 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:20,160 Some people don't have time and they would like there to be a Venmo 92 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,560 account where they go. I don't, I can't, I don't want to 93 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:27,800 show up, but I'm happy to send ten bucks, which I was like. 94 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,560 I tried to make the argument, I think that would be very helpful 95 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:35,160 because if everybody kicked in ten bucks, then like the person, one person 96 00:06:35,319 --> 00:06:39,800 who loves to organize shit could be like, great, give me two hundred 97 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:44,199 dollars and I'll get everything right. Yeah, have a good day. Yes, 98 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,759 but no, this lady who runs the volunteering was like, no, 99 00:06:46,879 --> 00:06:48,720 it's not going to work that way. Okay, people aren't going to do 100 00:06:48,759 --> 00:06:53,000 it, and I was like, well let me let us try, and 101 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,439 then she said, well then you do it. Okay. So I've been 102 00:06:55,480 --> 00:07:02,079 doing it and it's working, except that it actually is kind of a hassle 103 00:07:02,439 --> 00:07:08,240 to like organize these parents. I'll tell you why. And this woman like 104 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:14,680 I kind of I kind of maybe over a mental apology because she's like, 105 00:07:14,759 --> 00:07:17,079 well, you know people, her attitude is like kind of people can't be 106 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,879 counted on, so she does everything herself, and my attitude is people can 107 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:27,920 be counted on. Well not so fast. Spoiler because so I've been doing 108 00:07:27,959 --> 00:07:30,399 this sign up Genius and yes it worked, but then this last one, 109 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:34,959 I'm like, you know what, I'm not going to micromanage people like they 110 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:39,279 signed up on this. They're adults, they signed up to bring an item, 111 00:07:39,519 --> 00:07:44,160 right the sign Up Genius reminds them. Because this woman was like, 112 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:47,920 you got to remind these bitches like you gotta ambassards this guy too, but 113 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:50,839 you got to follow up, you eat, even though the sign Up Genius 114 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:54,839 reminds them, you got to follow up with them and say, hey, 115 00:07:55,319 --> 00:07:58,879 just making sure you know whatever. Well, so this last one I was 116 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:01,959 like, I'm not going to do that because like, I'm not like her. 117 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:05,839 I'm going to treat people with the respect that they've earned. They signed 118 00:08:05,879 --> 00:08:09,920 They took the time to sign up on the sign Up Genius. They know 119 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:15,879 that they're responsible for bringing something. Well one of the main ingredients, which 120 00:08:15,959 --> 00:08:20,079 was cream cheese, cream cheese, and fresh fruit. That woman decided to 121 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:24,720 not show up. How do you know you can't do that though? Come 122 00:08:24,759 --> 00:08:30,600 on, and I split the coffee duty between two people, and the other 123 00:08:30,639 --> 00:08:33,080 person who was supposed to bring coffee also didn't show up. Oh, because 124 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:35,200 I was like, I don't want people I don't want. Listen, a 125 00:08:35,279 --> 00:08:39,799 traveler coffee thing is like twenty five bucks, twenty four to ninety five, 126 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:43,120 don't I thought, you know what, I'm going to be smart and go 127 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:46,240 like, hey, one person can bring one coffee and one person could bring 128 00:08:46,279 --> 00:08:50,600 another. Otherwise you're giving somebody a fifty dollars chore. That's right. Yeah, 129 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:54,799 But when one person does show up with their coffee and the other person 130 00:08:54,879 --> 00:08:58,279 doesn't, it's kind of fucked up because like you got, you know, 131 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:03,279 thirty people that want to have a cup of coffee and you only have enough 132 00:09:03,279 --> 00:09:09,080 for like twelve, right, right, Or you can't be the person that 133 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:13,159 like signs up for a bagel breakfast and says I'll bring the cream cheese and 134 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:18,240 then not show up. If it's okay for the person with the fruit blatter 135 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:22,320 but that's that's not that great either, But that's forgivable fine, because it's 136 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:26,919 not you can't or somebody just shows up with cream cheese and no bagels, 137 00:09:26,159 --> 00:09:30,840 that's even worse, Like right, come on, like you can't. So 138 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,120 this is the thing. So I get there and the person who brought the 139 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:37,840 bagels, I'm not excited about this. They decided to bring them the night 140 00:09:37,919 --> 00:09:41,879 before, which I understand you don't want to be inconvenienced, But next day 141 00:09:41,879 --> 00:09:46,519 bagels are not as great as day of bagels. Like, can we all 142 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:50,000 agree that, Like, if you're gonna sign up for bagels, go fucking 143 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,519 get them in the morning and bring them to school. Think about what people 144 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:56,399 like, if I'm greatbody want to have a rock in the morning bagels? 145 00:09:58,919 --> 00:10:03,879 Exactly when you go to your job and it's bagel Friday, are you like, 146 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:07,879 oh, it's bagels from yesterday Friday. No, it's like somebody brought 147 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:13,840 in bagels right with fresh cream cheese, Like okay, So they're already having 148 00:10:13,879 --> 00:10:16,080 to deal with the person that was like I don't want to get I don't 149 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,200 want to go there early in the morning. I'll I'm going to be a 150 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:22,320 genius and bring them the nighte boa, Hey, there are plastic bags. 151 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:24,240 You're gonna you got a toaster? I have a good time. No. 152 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:31,399 And then so now I got ghetto Dale old bagels. Sorry, no, 153 00:10:31,519 --> 00:10:35,759 that's a political I got yanky Dale old bagels and no cream cheese. And 154 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:41,399 I am in charge of this nonsense. So I've shown up and I got 155 00:10:41,399 --> 00:10:48,480 all these teachers and stuff looking at me like and I'm like no, sorry, 156 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:52,279 And now I'm like, okay, I could run to the store and 157 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,960 go get cream cheese. But now it's kind of too late because the time 158 00:10:56,320 --> 00:11:03,519 to have the breakfast is on us. Yes there while these teachers eat, 159 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:05,159 right, It's like, I'll go get you some cream cheese, and then 160 00:11:05,159 --> 00:11:09,519 you can have a bagel for lunch, a day old bagel for lunch, 161 00:11:09,519 --> 00:11:13,200 which now is going to be a day and a half old bagel. So 162 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:16,279 I was kind of bummed. I'm like, I feel a little let down. 163 00:11:16,919 --> 00:11:20,080 Then yeah, I did, right. I followed up with the woman 164 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:26,120 that didn't bring her fruit or el good or cream cheese. I was like, 165 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:28,360 the person who was supposed to bring the other coffee, I'm not gonna 166 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:33,440 bother with that. But this lady like put a damper on the festivities. 167 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:37,159 So I sent her. I sent her an email and I was like, 168 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:41,960 hey, did I just not find like the cream cheese and the fresh fruit, 169 00:11:43,039 --> 00:11:45,240 because like we didn't have it. It was kind of a bummer, 170 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:50,600 no answer, no answer, what a flake? Who is this person? 171 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:54,080 You can't do to give your first name? It's Erin Okay, I don't 172 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:58,799 know, but I was pretty bummed. And then in my mind, I'm 173 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:01,759 like, you know what, I forgot what I named her. But the 174 00:12:01,879 --> 00:12:03,440 lady who's kind of in charge of everything, I was like kind of or 175 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:07,480 a mental apology because she's kind of right, kind of got to stay on 176 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:11,200 top of these people. She has the attitude of like it's not going to 177 00:12:11,279 --> 00:12:13,519 get done if I don't do it. Well, now I feel like that 178 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:16,480 too, Like I'm like, do I have to micro manage people? Do 179 00:12:16,519 --> 00:12:18,720 I have to bring everything? No? I yeah. Now you can kind 180 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:22,600 of see where she was coming from, which you're like, damn it. 181 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:26,639 But the last couple of breakfasts, I brought certain things, but it was 182 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:30,320 like the people did show up and they brought their stuff, so it was 183 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:33,559 like too much. You know, Yeah, I guess you can't rely on 184 00:12:33,639 --> 00:12:37,080 everybody, No, you just can't. Kind of this is why you can't 185 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:41,440 have nice things. No, you can't unless you get it, you know, 186 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:46,240 unless everybody just pitches in money and someone schlub's got to do everything. 187 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:50,919 Like that's how it's kind of been, because now I feel like, oh, 188 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:54,679 this is a last minute ask for food and like that should have been 189 00:12:54,799 --> 00:12:58,840 organized. Yeah, like tonight's the show right now. You want these people 190 00:12:58,919 --> 00:13:01,639 to step up and bring food food, and and like you're asking for volunteers 191 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:05,600 a little late. Yeah, yeah, I get those people on the breakfast 192 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:09,919 like two weeks before, right right. Anyway, that's just one one little 193 00:13:11,879 --> 00:13:13,639 wait. Do we say hi to our peeps? No, we didn't. 194 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:18,039 Let's say hi to our people. Uh, we got my friend Aaron Sanchez. 195 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:20,840 I'm going to think of something funny to do with your name. She's 196 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:24,600 she's not the Aaron, not that Eron. This is a good er good 197 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:30,399 Eron, not bad Aaron. Aaron good Aeron. And Kelly Brandt, who's 198 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:33,600 also a good Kelly because she'll take you to plan parentie. Mm hm. 199 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:39,960 We're back on the open and they're so cutee paste so it was sexy Gabby 200 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:43,799 and Missy. Can't count on them though, no they don't. Don't sign 201 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:50,080 a show up with one toothpick and haffy and paid all of from your martini 202 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:56,279 last night, Katerina, check that Mowler just me to you, Valerie, 203 00:13:56,279 --> 00:14:01,279 Bubba Fenwick, Polly is with the pancakes Syrup, Missus Butterworth, Athena Ginjured 204 00:14:01,279 --> 00:14:05,960 with the dancing and the makeup and the things and the Elizabeth Williamson's got a 205 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:09,960 lot of kids like Bill Cosby and the things and the things in the cameal 206 00:14:11,879 --> 00:14:18,000 uh hero and he loves him. Rita rocks everybody's kids in her boats and 207 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:26,519 net Jacob is so growley but adorbs Leslie. Oh boy, she's coughing an 208 00:14:26,519 --> 00:14:33,080 accosting both. It's a bad combination. Can't quite be together. They can't 209 00:14:33,159 --> 00:14:37,840 quit their habits. Actually so she Nikki, call your girls, Lori Gory 210 00:14:37,919 --> 00:14:43,440 with all the ease you got. Four E's Aaron Landho not Anna Faris, 211 00:14:43,559 --> 00:14:52,559 Kelly, Lottie Da Katie Latti Die did I say easy kay already? He 212 00:14:52,639 --> 00:14:54,639 said? Coun yep. Stephanie's a stinker rinker. Christa, get to strap, 213 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:58,320 Sandra. It's not easy being green, Jennifer, get up, girl, 214 00:14:58,399 --> 00:15:03,720 don't fall down. Sarah Stefano and Alicia Escalante in the city of El 215 00:15:05,039 --> 00:15:11,240 Monte. Should we take a quick break, Sure, let's talk about Let's 216 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:16,879 talk about kudo popcorn. Yes, love the snack. It's really delicious and 217 00:15:16,559 --> 00:15:22,240 I'll tell you, Sonny's been loving it very good because it's got protein and 218 00:15:22,159 --> 00:15:26,799 and you know, it's not like the sugary snacks. 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Yeah yeah, so yeah, 234 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:41,879 Sadie, Oh my god, didn't Talia take her driving test yet? 235 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:48,080 Now she rescheduled it because when she got sick, she had the flu of 236 00:16:48,159 --> 00:16:52,200 the stomach flu. And then anyway, she's going this Wednesday to take her 237 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:56,159 final driving license because she's got to get the hours in before she goes and 238 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:59,879 takes Oh so she's taking her final lesson. Yeah, she has to take 239 00:16:59,919 --> 00:17:03,559 a final lesson first, and so she's done two lessons. They have to 240 00:17:03,639 --> 00:17:07,079 do three. They're okay, okay, So Sadie's catching up. She is, 241 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:14,599 she's taken she's done two DMV lessons. Her last lesson she drove for 242 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,960 So I think I told you the first couple times we drove around with her, 243 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:21,680 she was very tentative. You know, we stayed in the neighborhood, 244 00:17:21,799 --> 00:17:23,279 and I was like, oh my gosh, is this girl ever going to 245 00:17:23,319 --> 00:17:29,799 be like ready on the road. But then she had a second so her 246 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:33,200 first DMV, they kept her in the neighborhood because she was timid. Right 247 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:37,920 then, I drove with her around the neighborhood a bunch, and we drove 248 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:41,880 a little bit out of the neighborhood, but not much. We didn't go 249 00:17:41,960 --> 00:17:45,200 on any like real busy streets or anything. Mm hmm. So she went 250 00:17:45,279 --> 00:17:48,519 on the next driving lesson, and that man, he was great, took 251 00:17:48,519 --> 00:17:52,200 her all over town. Yeah, apparently he was like nope. As soon 252 00:17:52,279 --> 00:17:56,200 as we started driving, I was like, she's ready to go, and 253 00:17:56,319 --> 00:18:00,400 I was checking life three sixty. She was like everywhere she was by her 254 00:18:00,519 --> 00:18:04,799 school, she was like way out of the neighborhood, busy streets, all 255 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:07,839 sorts of street lights. So he was like, she was great. So 256 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:11,000 then John was like, Okay, well, you know what, if she's 257 00:18:11,039 --> 00:18:15,039 doing that good, I'm going to take her on the highway. Oh so 258 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:19,440 last night I'm trying to think if we drove with her in between, because 259 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:22,759 this was only a few days ago. She is like rare and to go. 260 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:26,440 Now she loves driving. She's like Natalia now she's just like, let 261 00:18:26,519 --> 00:18:32,119 me at it, let me drive. So John took her out last night. 262 00:18:32,279 --> 00:18:34,680 Waited till it was like after traffic was no traffic, so it was 263 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:38,559 Sunday night. Took her out at like nine p thirty. They drove all 264 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:41,200 over the place, and then he took her on the freeway and at first, 265 00:18:41,319 --> 00:18:45,119 apparently she was like she got scared. I was like, don't push 266 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:48,440 her, don't send her on the freeway before she's ready. It's scary. 267 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:52,920 Yeah, So I guess the first pass by the entrance she was like, 268 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:57,759 no, I'm not ready. And then they kind of circled around again, 269 00:18:57,839 --> 00:19:00,960 drove around a little bit, and then she was like all right, let's 270 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:03,759 go. Whoa yeah. And then she drove from our house and you're gonna 271 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:08,160 understand this to the tapanga mall wow, to them all wow. And then 272 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:14,680 and Bally, shit, Yeah, that's amazing. Yeah. Imagine being in 273 00:19:14,799 --> 00:19:18,839 the car with her at night time and then getting pulled over and then she's 274 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:22,519 going like like on to the left side of the freeway. Yes, that 275 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:26,079 was the most nerve wracking time I've ever had with my kids driving. Oh 276 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:30,680 my god. Yeah, but it makes me so it the whole thing makes 277 00:19:30,759 --> 00:19:34,079 me anxious. Now it's not any better. I thought I thought I did 278 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:37,640 a little better with Sadie when I took her. I've taken her a couple 279 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:40,519 of times now, and I thought I was feeling better and not feeling like 280 00:19:40,599 --> 00:19:44,000 we're going to take four mirrors off, right, But I still get that 281 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:47,880 feeling of just like, oh my god, we're close and it it just 282 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:52,000 makes me anxious. And I love when John goes, but I swear to 283 00:19:52,079 --> 00:19:53,799 God, I have like I'm always like I hope they don't get in an 284 00:19:53,839 --> 00:19:57,559 accident. You know, isn't that weird? Like how are they driving? 285 00:19:57,759 --> 00:20:00,799 Like you think of them like little kids, Like, I know, how 286 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:06,000 is it that they can get behind a wheel and drive a car? Yeah, 287 00:20:06,599 --> 00:20:10,279 you know, but they do and do. Yeah, but it's so 288 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:17,440 interesting. Xanders still hasn't got his permit. But see, I think the 289 00:20:17,599 --> 00:20:21,359 kids, I think that they are they put it off, they are a 290 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:26,839 little timid about it or whatever, but then once they start driving and they 291 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,319 get a taste of that freedom, then they're like, oh, hell, 292 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:33,599 yeah, this is great. Because that's how well Natalia has always been like 293 00:20:33,759 --> 00:20:37,119 wanting to go but Sonny was always like, hmmm, I don't know, 294 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:40,519 like, you know, like Sonny's very you know, hesitant about a lot 295 00:20:40,599 --> 00:20:44,519 of things, right, and he was always, you know, afraid to 296 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:47,279 dry. I would always say, Sonny, you want to try, you 297 00:20:47,319 --> 00:20:48,359 want to drive? You want to drive? No, no, good, 298 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:52,039 I'm good. But then he and then he got his permit and he was 299 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:56,240 like, oh, I passed before Natalia. So then he was feeling good 300 00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:59,960 about that. And then his friends were like driving and his friends were like, 301 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,599 you know, you can do it, blah blah blah. And then 302 00:21:02,799 --> 00:21:06,759 once he started getting behind the wheel and driving in his neighborhood and stuff, 303 00:21:06,799 --> 00:21:10,480 and then branching out a little bit, he was so scared to go on 304 00:21:10,559 --> 00:21:15,079 the freeway. Excuse me to go on the freeway. But once he started, 305 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:17,839 now he's on the freeway all the time. He goes. He drives 306 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:21,920 himself to the studio every week to do his podcast, which is crazy, 307 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,440 and he drives home at night, like you know, at nine o'clock at 308 00:21:25,519 --> 00:21:29,400 night, and and when he's going there there's bumper to bumper traffic. So 309 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:33,599 the point is, once Sadie starts, I think she's I and I think 310 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:37,240 that Xander needs that little taste because once he sees it, like you know, 311 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:41,799 it's not as hard as he thinks it could be or scary. Then 312 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:44,920 I think then once they go, they go, and then all of a 313 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:47,599 sudden, you now you got to buy cars for everybody, you know, 314 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:52,000 Like I gotta I gotta call Adam Lerner soon because Natalie's gonna take that car 315 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:56,680 right back from Sunny and then that's gonna be that right right, those two 316 00:21:56,799 --> 00:22:02,240 don't share very good, especially a car. Well, I'm wondering what's going 317 00:22:02,319 --> 00:22:07,440 to happen because so elb is you know, Elbie's applying for colleges right now 318 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:11,799 too, really yeah, because she did the one year program. She had 319 00:22:11,839 --> 00:22:15,119 all the aps and the dual enrollment and she'd already done English one to one 320 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:21,920 on one oh two. So she's doing her applications and I mean it's hard. 321 00:22:22,039 --> 00:22:25,359 She's having to like write that rewrite essays and do all the stuff, 322 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:30,680 and you know, she's pretty bummed about about it. But who knows, 323 00:22:30,799 --> 00:22:33,640 Like if she goes off to college, I don't know for sure if she'll 324 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:36,119 even be able. I mean, I guess she'll be able to have a 325 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:41,920 car there. I suppose she will, especially because she'll be a junior already 326 00:22:41,279 --> 00:22:45,599 R But like, I don't know if she'll want to have deal with a 327 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,960 car at the well, So it's possible that Sadie and Xander will have Elbe's 328 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:53,000 car to share, but if not, I'm screwed. Yeah, I'll have 329 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:57,480 two new drivers at the same time. Right, Oh yeah, I borrowing 330 00:22:57,519 --> 00:23:00,920 our car. You know. I go to these cars and it's like, 331 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,960 you know, need a car, you get it, you take the blue 332 00:23:03,079 --> 00:23:07,440 rail, blah blah blah. There's I mean, at ASU, they had 333 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:11,359 like no questions asked. Vans pick you up, take you off campus. 334 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:15,240 You can call them not too far, but like they'll call you, call 335 00:23:15,319 --> 00:23:18,400 them any time to come get you. Like there's no reason for there's market 336 00:23:18,519 --> 00:23:23,200 places. There's so many places to eat and food and groceries right there that 337 00:23:23,279 --> 00:23:27,000 you can take to your dorm. Like there's no reason to write a car. 338 00:23:27,319 --> 00:23:33,119 Really, So that's what I'm hoping that one or both are going to 339 00:23:33,319 --> 00:23:37,880 need a car, right, and they can just share this car. But 340 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:42,440 if Vitalia goes and goes to UH Community College in Santa Barbara, right, 341 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:47,440 she's gonna need a car. I mean, I would imagine she's gonna have 342 00:23:47,519 --> 00:23:52,200 to live, like have an apartment. Yeah, I guess, I don't 343 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,920 know. You'll see, we'll see, you'll see what happens. I'm thinking 344 00:23:55,960 --> 00:24:03,119 about thinking about hiring LB an essay coach, because it's a lot. It's 345 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,559 a lot to have to She's putting a lot of pressure on herself to you 346 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:10,359 know, she has to rewrite all these essays. I don't know why she 347 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,319 can't just use the same ones, but they've also she's kind of outgrown. 348 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:18,119 Even though it's only been one years, it's kind of things have changed, 349 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:22,200 and she's just putting a lot of pressure on herself because she really wants to 350 00:24:22,319 --> 00:24:26,920 go to UCLA or Berkeley. Yeah, even though I know, I know 351 00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:30,400 everybody, I know, she really really really wanted to go to Santa Barbara. 352 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:34,200 And now she's guaranteed admittance to Santa Barbara. But I don't know if 353 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:38,920 it has the same appeal as a transfer student as it did as a freshman. 354 00:24:41,039 --> 00:24:42,240 You know, I think now she feels like, well, I just 355 00:24:42,279 --> 00:24:48,599 stayed home for a year and did all this like hardcore intensive work, like 356 00:24:48,839 --> 00:24:51,559 I want to I want to now go to like a really good school, 357 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,079 so I don't know. We'll have to see what happens. But I'm yeah, 358 00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:57,599 it's making me nervous for her. So I'm thinking like that I don't 359 00:24:57,759 --> 00:25:03,160 necessarily want to be involved, right, Yeah, that she has to make 360 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:07,519 her own decision and well about what she's going to write about about, Like, 361 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,880 I don't know that I'm that trust. I don't know because I'm not 362 00:25:11,039 --> 00:25:14,400 like a college essay person, And I think I should hire somebody who just 363 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:18,000 to give her some feedback and input, you know, to her topics. 364 00:25:18,039 --> 00:25:18,640 Oh, I'm going to do it. I think I'm gonna do it. 365 00:25:18,799 --> 00:25:22,240 Yeah, some money at the problem. I feel like I was just talking 366 00:25:22,319 --> 00:25:26,279 to somebody about an essay coach. Maybe it was you were we talking about 367 00:25:26,319 --> 00:25:30,839 that? Maybe did your kid? But your kids probably got help with their 368 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:34,079 essays from their counselor, right, because we don't have a counselor. Now. 369 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:37,799 Yeah, by the way, I had a talk with Natalia about this 370 00:25:38,039 --> 00:25:42,440 kind of counselor. Oh what told me? Ask counselor? Well, she's 371 00:25:42,519 --> 00:25:48,200 just like, you know, make sure that Sonny's on top of his everything. 372 00:25:48,319 --> 00:25:51,000 She's like, I had to be on top of this guy. Like 373 00:25:51,559 --> 00:25:55,640 he She's like, there's times where we're on FaceTime and he's got a bad 374 00:25:55,720 --> 00:26:00,279 connection and he's like, you know, every other word is like but he's 375 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,559 cutting out. And he was like, so this will work, like right, 376 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:07,319 like you you like they set up something. She's like no, She's 377 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,079 like I had to get tough with him, like no, I can't hear 378 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:14,160 you. It doesn't work, So then let's reschedule when you're in an area 379 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:18,200 because he was on vacation or something and he didn't have good WiFi. She's 380 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:22,119 talking about Sonny, she's talking about the city that their they're college coach. 381 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:26,000 They have the same college coach. Oh, college counsel The college counselor is 382 00:26:26,039 --> 00:26:29,799 the one that's like, yeah, I can't hear. He can't hear, 383 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:33,400 and he's like he was on vaca. I thought the college counselor was complaining 384 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:38,559 about either Sonny or another kid. No. Oh, the college counselor being 385 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:44,119 like, yeah, oh, she gets worse. She was telling me that 386 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:48,440 was one thing, but he would go in and edit her essays, and 387 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:52,200 first of all, he would also like make things like like laying things like 388 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:56,920 you know. She was trying to she was trying to explain her dad and 389 00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:03,400 how he's a podcaster. So she said something like my father is a successful 390 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:08,200 podcaster, and then he wrote he said my my famous father or some or 391 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:11,599 my celebrity father, and N'tell. He's like, no, I take that 392 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:15,759 word out. Took that word out, and like lily like things like that. 393 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:18,599 She said put a damper on her essay. And I read him too, 394 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:23,599 and I was like, yeah, no, and then he would when 395 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:29,119 he would edit, then the words he wouldn't like space, so then there's 396 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:33,440 words that are misspelled because there's no space. Oh no, and n Tell 397 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:34,920 he's like hello. She's like I had to get mad at him and go 398 00:27:36,079 --> 00:27:40,519 like, you screwing up my essay, Like you have to make sure that 399 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:42,799 you spell check, you know, So that's why he n Tell He's like, 400 00:27:42,839 --> 00:27:45,559 you got to make sure Sonny's on top of it, because I had 401 00:27:45,599 --> 00:27:48,960 to be on top of this guy. She's like, and I was like, 402 00:27:48,079 --> 00:27:51,799 I want to get my shit done, I want to wrap this up, 403 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:53,359 I want to get everything submitted and blah blah blah. And she was 404 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,839 like she was like the one doing like on top of him. She's like, 405 00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:00,559 you didn't seem that great, So maybe that's who I was talking to 406 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:04,720 about college. I don't know. I don't know, but yeah, so 407 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:10,920 anyway, so she's good to go and Sonny's done, so we'll see. 408 00:28:11,279 --> 00:28:15,440 Well, you know how we always say like as a no getter, I 409 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,519 know that I seem like a go getter, but at heart I am not. 410 00:28:19,839 --> 00:28:22,519 Like at heart, I'm like, if somebody can make something easier for 411 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:26,759 me, I'll take it right, you know, Yes, when push comes 412 00:28:26,799 --> 00:28:29,039 to shove, I will do the work and I'll do the research, but 413 00:28:29,079 --> 00:28:32,799 I'd rather not like if somebody if I have a friend who does a lot 414 00:28:32,839 --> 00:28:36,880 of research and like figure finds the best thing, like sure, share it 415 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:38,640 with me, Like I don't need to be the one. I'm not going 416 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:42,480 to second guess, like yeah, doing my friend and I This goes back 417 00:28:42,559 --> 00:28:47,759 to like I remember and I wrote this about this and sippy cups, you 418 00:28:47,839 --> 00:28:51,440 know, like finding a pediatrician. I remember that, Like, you know, 419 00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:53,839 I would read these articles about finding a pediatrician and they're like, you 420 00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:57,160 know, you gotta go. You got to interview five different pediatricians. You 421 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:03,079 got to ask them about their philosophy. And I'm like philosophy, like are 422 00:29:03,119 --> 00:29:07,160 they going to keep the baby alive? Or do they have the latest technology 423 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:11,000 technology, and I'm like, do they have a jar of leeches on the 424 00:29:11,079 --> 00:29:14,799 counter? If not, they're probably good, like you know, like and 425 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,279 then so I had a friend who was like, oh, we have a 426 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:22,039 we use this pediatrician a lot of people. Some people don't like him because 427 00:29:22,039 --> 00:29:23,440 he's very laid back. And I was like, that's it, sign me 428 00:29:23,519 --> 00:29:26,720 up. I like that guy. You know, that's perfect. I like 429 00:29:26,799 --> 00:29:30,440 him. And then he's been our pediatrician like forever, right, He's great, 430 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,920 no problem. So I feel the same way about like an essay coach, 431 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,240 Like I that to me, that sounds very daunting to try to like 432 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:42,680 look up their credentials or seat. No. Just I have a friend whose 433 00:29:42,799 --> 00:29:45,960 kid was like a super go getter. She's very type A. She was 434 00:29:47,039 --> 00:29:49,359 like wanted the best for her daughter. So I called her this morning. 435 00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:52,599 I was like, Hey, I'm thinking about getting an essay coach. Who 436 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:56,000 you got? Yeah? See, and that's what I'll call right done. 437 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,720 You need a listen, mothers out there at the sound of our voices, 438 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,839 find that other mom. Maybe we call her the default mom, like the 439 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:07,920 default, yeah, the default mom, the default of the default Yeah, 440 00:30:08,359 --> 00:30:11,920 Because you need somebody that's going to do all that leg work because you no 441 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:15,960 my had that time. We're watching Netflix and listening to podcasts at the same 442 00:30:17,079 --> 00:30:22,640 time. It makes me tense to like make decisions like that and they're like 443 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:26,079 I want somebody, although sometimes it can bite you in the ass, right, 444 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:30,039 like the college counselor we used somebody else, like really swore by her, 445 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:33,880 but like then then later to ever tell you about that, I ran 446 00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:37,759 into that woman later and she was like, oh no, that woman was 447 00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,039 not good for us. Oh yeah. I was like, well, now 448 00:30:40,119 --> 00:30:45,200 you tell me I shouldn't have gone. This woman is not even somebody I 449 00:30:45,359 --> 00:30:48,720 know. This woman is a friend of Robin's. So I met her through 450 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:53,079 Robin and like I don't know her kid or anything really, but she seemed 451 00:30:53,079 --> 00:30:56,160 like she knew what she was talking about. So she was like, this 452 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:57,880 is the person we're using. She's really great. Yeah, But like I 453 00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:00,160 said, then, I didn't see her for a year and then I was 454 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,200 like, oh, we didn't have the greatest experience, and she's like, 455 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:07,559 oh, neither did I. God, but when you first meet him, 456 00:31:07,559 --> 00:31:10,319 you got stars in your eyes, going like I like you, all right, 457 00:31:10,359 --> 00:31:12,759 what's your number? Like, yeah, that's how we found this college 458 00:31:12,839 --> 00:31:15,319 counsel. I just asked one of the moms like, do you got any 459 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:19,440 recommendations? Yeah, call this person. So we did. And now it's 460 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,440 like this guy's a dud, right, right, dud right, So you 461 00:31:22,519 --> 00:31:27,400 gotta you gotta make sure that your referral is somebody who's like a little crazy, 462 00:31:29,039 --> 00:31:32,680 right, because like my friend, it's my friend Laura, that my 463 00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:37,000 one of my closest mom friends. She's nuts. She's like over does everything 464 00:31:37,319 --> 00:31:44,759 right. She's the she's very neurotic and very like you know, she's she's 465 00:31:44,839 --> 00:31:48,200 the kind of person who like if she's disappointed in like the essay coach, 466 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:49,720 she's like moving on, Yeah, Like I'm gonna go to another one. 467 00:31:51,079 --> 00:31:52,759 And then she'll have gone through like five of them and go like, oh, 468 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,240 this is the one we're using, this is the best one. That's 469 00:31:56,279 --> 00:31:59,880 what the mom you want, that's what you want, you want the craziestm 470 00:32:00,359 --> 00:32:04,440 Like nothing's good enough. Right. Then when they've come to the person that 471 00:32:04,519 --> 00:32:07,279 they're like, Okay, this person helped me, then you're like, okay, 472 00:32:07,319 --> 00:32:10,759 now can I have their number? Exactly? That's what you want. 473 00:32:10,839 --> 00:32:15,480 They put in like, you know, eight months research into this and then 474 00:32:15,599 --> 00:32:21,799 you reap their rewards of their attention to details. Make nutjob mom, that's 475 00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,240 what you want? Yeah, And then it takes like one text You're like, 476 00:32:24,279 --> 00:32:29,839 hey, who's that essay person that you ended up with after a bunch 477 00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:31,519 of tries and fails, Like I don't want to I don't need to go 478 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:37,319 through the trial and error process. Eliminate the heartache. Yeah right, Yes, 479 00:32:37,799 --> 00:32:40,759 you need a babysitter, you need this, you need that, Like, 480 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:46,680 call somebody who cares more than you do about the process their own app. 481 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:51,440 You know, they should have their own app. Yeah, that'd be 482 00:32:51,519 --> 00:32:54,279 great. I've tried one hundred different people and like I'm hard to please, 483 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:58,480 and I found this person, and now I passed the savings onto you, 484 00:32:58,799 --> 00:33:02,039 right, and to save let's not the money saving, right, charge money 485 00:33:02,079 --> 00:33:06,640 for that right. Yeah, but let's not stop with the kids. Let's 486 00:33:06,759 --> 00:33:08,519 let's let it bleed into our own lives, like, hey, I need 487 00:33:08,599 --> 00:33:12,359 a good breast doctor, you know what I mean? Or where do I 488 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,880 go to get a mammogram in this area? Or you know, like I 489 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:17,319 need mister knock around. I'm getting rid of him. I need a new 490 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:22,000 internest whatever it is you right, right? Doctor? They got one for 491 00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:28,440 you. Yeah, because like I have the friend that introduced me to doctor 492 00:33:28,519 --> 00:33:30,960 knock Around. Yes, she's more like us, that's the problem. So 493 00:33:31,119 --> 00:33:35,920 like she's like he's fine, you know, somebody recommended him to her. 494 00:33:36,079 --> 00:33:38,000 And she's like, yeah, he tells me about like getting knocked around a 495 00:33:38,079 --> 00:33:42,440 lot, but like it's fine. Like she's too lazy to go get a 496 00:33:42,519 --> 00:33:45,279 better doctor. So like that was probably the wrong person to go to. 497 00:33:45,519 --> 00:33:51,000 I probably should have gone to the person. In fact, my friend Laura, 498 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:55,880 I should find out who her internest is because she Okay, all right, 499 00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:00,279 long story short. I used to have a doctor. John and I 500 00:34:00,359 --> 00:34:02,200 had the same doctor and it was you know, in the valley, everybody 501 00:34:02,279 --> 00:34:07,400 uses the same people. I won't say his name, but let's call him 502 00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:12,280 doctor Beeswax. Doctor Beeswax was like the worst doctor that we stuck with forever 503 00:34:12,519 --> 00:34:15,599 because it was just too tight, because we couldn't figure out another way. 504 00:34:15,119 --> 00:34:19,440 And every time we'd go to him, we'd be like, this guy's like 505 00:34:19,599 --> 00:34:22,599 not a great doctor, Like I can't even explain why, but it would 506 00:34:22,599 --> 00:34:25,920 be you. He never had like a solid answer for anything. You know, 507 00:34:27,039 --> 00:34:30,199 these people that are like it could be this, or it could be 508 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,320 that and you're like, you're a doctor, just give it to me straight. 509 00:34:32,519 --> 00:34:36,840 Yeah, but it would be like I think I think I have the 510 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:38,280 flu, Well do you want to test for it? Like you know it 511 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:44,039 could be He just was so like Namby Pamby, like just like no, 512 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:46,760 like he didn't seem like he ever knew what he was talking about. So, 513 00:34:47,039 --> 00:34:51,280 my friend Laura had been with the same person, and when I told 514 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:52,239 her, like, oh, he used to be with this guy, she 515 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:55,320 was like, oh he was the worst. Oh. We we were with 516 00:34:55,440 --> 00:35:00,119 him briefly, but like, no, I hated him and I should have 517 00:35:00,199 --> 00:35:04,360 gone to her. Yeah, well I went to you. Now we're with 518 00:35:04,519 --> 00:35:07,519 doctor. I know what. I was like, He's really nice, so 519 00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:09,880 nice, and he does a thorough job. He's fine, you know, 520 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:14,360 does there's some things I do really like about him. Yeah. But I'm 521 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:16,360 just saying I'm not the kind of person who does a bunch of trial and 522 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:20,440 error, who's like, who doesn't I'm not the kind of person who doesn't 523 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,760 put up with that doctor, right, I'm the type of person that does 524 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:29,280 put up with it because I don't have another better idea, you know, 525 00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:34,239 true, I know, I know, yeah, you know what, let's 526 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:39,599 take a break, okay, and talk about Oh, honey Love. I 527 00:35:39,639 --> 00:35:43,880 don't want to make a pun, but I love Honeylove. 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Now, yes, yeah, because I watched The Bachelor Ben. 553 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:31,400 I watched his season, got into it and fast forward through most of 554 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:37,760 it, and then and then started watching like season three or whatever a Bachelor 555 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:39,480 in Paradise. But then when I was traveling, I was staying at the 556 00:37:39,519 --> 00:37:45,880 hotel, I had Netflix, so I started watching Oh boy, here we 557 00:37:45,039 --> 00:37:47,400 go. I can't. I can't remember the name of it. It was 558 00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:51,559 like so and so versus so and so it just came out. It's like 559 00:37:52,599 --> 00:37:55,559 the guy. The guy's name is Yan but it's spelled Ja, and he's 560 00:37:55,679 --> 00:38:01,760 German. Yon seafrig or Sea Free versus Oh, is it the Rolling Stone 561 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:07,280 guy? No, it's that's none. Yeah, this is it's new. 562 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:10,920 It just came out on Netflix. Okay, it's so and it's a tale 563 00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:15,679 of love or I don't know, but these two bet these they were young 564 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:22,960 and in love college students like and her parents ended up slaughtered in the in 565 00:38:23,159 --> 00:38:29,480 nineteen Now, I know it's a little far in decades. Okay, you're 566 00:38:29,519 --> 00:38:34,800 not going to believe this. But John back when he was like producing this 567 00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:40,800 documentary TV, he he produced a crime document a crime documentary on this story. 568 00:38:42,079 --> 00:38:45,079 No way. Yes, there they were in Germany, right, they're 569 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:49,519 German. He's Germans German. Yes, yes, And there was like a 570 00:38:49,639 --> 00:38:52,880 thing with like shoplifting. Yes, that's how they got busted. They got 571 00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:58,239 busted because they were they were on the run. John Germany. John literally 572 00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:02,000 produced this the real this one that you've watched, but like a show on 573 00:39:02,159 --> 00:39:07,800 some series. And so I was deeply into it because John was not a 574 00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:09,960 fan of like true crime stuff. This was a long time ago, like 575 00:39:10,119 --> 00:39:15,199 before it was even really before it was true like true crime podcasts were a 576 00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:19,960 thing. He did this documentary for this show, and I was like every 577 00:39:20,039 --> 00:39:21,840 detail, I'm like, oh my god, I want to hear all of 578 00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,039 it. And he's like, he doesn't like stuff that's like there's like a 579 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:30,000 rhymestone gruesome crime scene. Oh it was gruesome. And they show the pictures 580 00:39:30,119 --> 00:39:34,960 and it, I mean, these poor people their throats were slit like sorry 581 00:39:35,039 --> 00:39:37,440 if you guys like are squeamish, but it was there was blood. I 582 00:39:37,519 --> 00:39:44,199 mean it looked like satanic like crime. And they were just like you know, 583 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:49,519 they were in a high high society they ran and with a high society 584 00:39:49,639 --> 00:39:54,280 crowd. They lived in I want to say Bedford, Virginia, Yeah, 585 00:39:55,159 --> 00:40:00,840 something like that, in an upscale neighborhood and they were at home eating dinner 586 00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:07,000 and slaughtered and turned out the daughter did it and that's what this documentary is 587 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:10,360 about, or the son or the boyfriend did it or one versus. So 588 00:40:10,639 --> 00:40:15,360 it's three yep, I think it's three or four episodes. It's like they 589 00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:19,480 set up the crime. This is what happened. Then these two go on 590 00:40:19,559 --> 00:40:23,039 the run and they're in love, and my god, like the way this 591 00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:29,239 girl, she was twenty one or something at the time, she spoke like 592 00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:37,000 a scholar. I mean she were used like vcific what's that word? Fvestivious, 593 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,480 like just in her love letters to her boyfriend, you know, like 594 00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:44,320 she just like and she spoke with an English accent. She was very like, 595 00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:46,159 I wonder if she's available to help with college elsa. I was just 596 00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:52,039 gonna say, she's holler, yeah, give her a call, probably have 597 00:40:52,119 --> 00:40:57,239 plenty of time on her hands about Hey, you want to make a little 598 00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:02,920 extra commisarybody, Yeah, pay her five cents a word. Yeah. So 599 00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:08,159 anyway, it was said they had they go on the run, and but 600 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:12,119 they're love letters that they read between the two of them. It's like, 601 00:41:12,159 --> 00:41:15,079 who the hell talks like this? They're both geniuses. He's from Germany, 602 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:21,519 she's from here. I think she's Canadian or something. But anyway, yeah, 603 00:41:21,599 --> 00:41:24,239 and it's like a who did it? They go like, obviously they're 604 00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:28,360 on the run, they're guilty, but did she do it? So then 605 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:31,320 there's a whole episode of her on the stand. Uh huh, on trial. 606 00:41:31,519 --> 00:41:36,000 She gives her story. She points a finger at him. I wasn't 607 00:41:36,039 --> 00:41:38,159 there, he does, and then the whole episode on him. Then you 608 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:42,639 gotta find out what happens. And this sounds right up my alley. It's 609 00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:47,840 so good Netflix. Netflix. It took me three days to watch it because 610 00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:52,119 I was so exhausted from this weekend. Every time I went to my hotel 611 00:41:52,199 --> 00:41:55,159 room put my head down, I was out, like out so but it 612 00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,599 took a while to get through it, but I liked it. I've been 613 00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,559 like that these days, like starting to watch something and then like, what 614 00:42:02,079 --> 00:42:06,000 was I even watch? I don't even remember. And you know what the 615 00:42:06,079 --> 00:42:08,960 other thing Netflix does to you is it thinks you finished it because you were 616 00:42:09,079 --> 00:42:13,159 out right, so then you can't call it again. And I'm like, 617 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,920 wait, it's two people that like are on the run. How am I 618 00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:19,400 going to find that? I don't know the name of it. How am 619 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:22,840 I supposed to find it again? It took me a long time. I'm 620 00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:25,880 like, so and so versatile. The guy's name was Yawn, so let 621 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:30,639 me spell his name, and then like thank god it came up, because 622 00:42:30,679 --> 00:42:34,280 otherwise I would have to go moving on to Gotti or something. Like I 623 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,800 would have been done. Like I guess I'll never find out what happened that. 624 00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:40,320 Thanks a lot. Netflix. Don't do that, I know, why 625 00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:44,440 does it do that? Just put it in us? You know it goes 626 00:42:44,599 --> 00:42:46,840 Oh, because you like true crime, you're gonna like these because you like 627 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:51,360 reality or like there should be a little file that's like, remember you were 628 00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:54,480 watching this, Yes you want to watch it again? Yeah? Yes, 629 00:42:54,880 --> 00:43:00,719 because and thought you finished it, but you didn't. Just watched our boyfriend. 630 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:04,880 Al wouldn't do that to us now, Never do that. No, 631 00:43:05,119 --> 00:43:07,559 Al's like, it doesn't even matter if you already bought the sweater. Like 632 00:43:07,679 --> 00:43:10,159 two weeks ago, I was like, but look at the sweater again, 633 00:43:10,199 --> 00:43:14,320 do you want to buy another one? You know there's different colors? Yeah? 634 00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,639 Yeah, all reminds you, likemember, remember when you were buying that 635 00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:20,519 sweater? Didn't that feel good inside? Like here? But here it is 636 00:43:20,599 --> 00:43:23,559 again? Just in case right, Like so sometimes you if you go and 637 00:43:23,639 --> 00:43:27,840 you put something in your cart and you like, and ol even could think 638 00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,239 you bought it. Ye, No, they're just like just in care. 639 00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:31,760 Yeah, I know I do that all the time. I put it in 640 00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:35,679 a car, I walk away two days later, I'll be like him, 641 00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:40,920 remember me, how about five percent off you? I love you, sweetie, 642 00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:45,599 sweety buye. He would never do us dirty. Like Netflix. It's 643 00:43:45,639 --> 00:43:50,519 a lot. Netflix, it's ridiculous. HBO is the same way. By 644 00:43:50,559 --> 00:43:54,280 the way you were in cahoots. HBO doesn't remind you. HBO. HBO 645 00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,679 will bring up a bunch of stuff and go like, look at all this 646 00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:00,320 great stuff that's right up your alley to watch. Then the next time you 647 00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:04,239 turn on HB and you're like, oh, I'm gonna watch that thing that 648 00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:07,239 I just saw that thing that then I don't remember, and then it's like 649 00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:08,719 a whole new batch of things. I know. It's like, oh, 650 00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:13,519 here's what else we have nowhere? But go there wreck thing that I never 651 00:44:13,639 --> 00:44:16,719 watch. Yes, yeah, listen, if there was a strike, we 652 00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:20,840 would be like hunkering down, you know, we would have a lot of 653 00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:23,360 shit to watch. Yes, exactly, because but but again, yeah, 654 00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:29,320 they got it. There's got to be something like even Hulu does that too. 655 00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:30,599 I think sometimes when I'm like, oh, you know what, you 656 00:44:30,679 --> 00:44:35,559 know what Hulu does to me? I like watching twenty twenty on Hulu and 657 00:44:36,159 --> 00:44:39,079 I'll watch it like the next day, and then I fall asleep like at 658 00:44:39,199 --> 00:44:45,599 night, and then it's like on episode thirty four, yes of date Line 659 00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:49,639 Daylight of twenty twenty. But at least it's stayed there, you know, 660 00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:53,840 at least it's stayed on the show, right. But if it's not Dateline 661 00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:58,400 or twenty twenty that has a million seasons and it's only got like ten episodes, 662 00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:00,719 it'll end and then it'll start something else, and I'll wake up and 663 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:05,880 go, oh, the Chippendale's murders. This looks good. Start to watch 664 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:07,199 that, and I'll go, well, wait a second, what happened to 665 00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:10,599 the other thing I was watching when I fell asleep? Right like a darted 666 00:45:10,679 --> 00:45:19,559 Barry went away? My podcast app my Apple podcast thing. So if I 667 00:45:19,599 --> 00:45:22,679 don't remember to set the time to the timer on it to go end after 668 00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:28,000 this episode, it will go. It will Sometimes it'll be done with that 669 00:45:28,159 --> 00:45:31,159 episode. It'll just go to another show like that I have in my queue, 670 00:45:31,599 --> 00:45:34,960 and then it will go through all the episodes of that. So I'll 671 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,760 be like that one disappeared, and I'm like, there's no new episode this 672 00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,360 week, and then it'll show everything has played because I'll have listened. I'll 673 00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:45,239 have apparently listen to like fourteen episodes of something yes, and I'm like, 674 00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:46,960 wait, I never even heard that. What are you talking about? I 675 00:45:47,079 --> 00:45:50,920 never even got to that show. It's like just something that I follow. 676 00:45:51,079 --> 00:45:53,519 Well, see that's Alice sleep at the Wheel. He needs to like that. 677 00:45:53,679 --> 00:45:57,000 They got to fix that. Yeah, it's not good. Yeah, 678 00:45:57,360 --> 00:46:01,280 Caylin, you watching any Have you watched anything mostly like horror stuff? Still? 679 00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:10,239 Yeahtheart? You know what I do? Every year, there's a certain 680 00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:16,119 app that only has horror movies and TV shows. It's called Shutter, specifically 681 00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:21,079 for horror content. So every October I sign up for it, and then 682 00:46:21,159 --> 00:46:24,440 after October I cancel it. So I have like a couple of days left 683 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:27,599 until my subscription ends. I'm like, well, I guess I might. 684 00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,039 You might as well just keep going with the horror content until I can't watch 685 00:46:30,079 --> 00:46:35,800 these anymore. So anything good? Yeah? Yeah, there's a really good 686 00:46:36,039 --> 00:46:43,119 movie, two of them actually, except they're both well one's like half subtitled 687 00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:46,719 and the others fully subtitled. One is called Revenge, which is about a 688 00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:52,519 girl that kind of goes out to like there's these three douchebags having like a 689 00:46:52,679 --> 00:46:54,440 hunting party out in the middle of the desert, and she kind of goes 690 00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:58,159 out with them, thinking she's gonna leave early. Well, they kind of 691 00:46:58,199 --> 00:47:01,440 do her wrong and try to kill her. So in the movie she spoiler 692 00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:06,159 alert, doesn't die and comes back after them again. And it's just really 693 00:47:06,199 --> 00:47:08,559 well made, really good. I want to see that, yeah, shuddered. 694 00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:12,679 No, it's that's called Revenge. Yeah, it's on Shutter. I 695 00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:17,119 don't know, but it's very good, very violent. And then another great 696 00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:22,960 newish horror movie that fondly recommended to me is called When Evil Lurks and it's 697 00:47:23,079 --> 00:47:30,679 just a very very messed up horror movie. Like title for a horror movie 698 00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:32,679 it does. Yeah you'd think so, but I watched it and I was 699 00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:37,079 like, wow, I've never seen a horror movie really do this kind of 700 00:47:37,079 --> 00:47:40,599 ship before. Really, yeah, I was really messed up. Is that 701 00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:44,639 on like regular? Can we find that streaming somewhere? I don't Probably not, 702 00:47:45,159 --> 00:47:47,679 it's on this shutter. I mean you can rent these movies probably for 703 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:52,159 like two or three dollars, you know, on anywhere, but for free 704 00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,119 to stream it, it's probably only on Shutter. Got it? Oh? 705 00:47:54,599 --> 00:48:00,719 Probably it's not really free of paying for Shutter, but if you want, 706 00:48:01,199 --> 00:48:06,239 because I would do this too, I used to. You know, I 707 00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:09,639 used to go every October. I'd sign up for Shutter with a different email 708 00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:14,360 account, so I'd get my free thirty day trial and then I cancel it 709 00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,400 before But then they I think they caught winded that, so they reduced the 710 00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:21,000 trial time to only a week. Oh so you can. You'd start the 711 00:48:21,079 --> 00:48:23,119 trial and then during that week you can watch those two movies and then cancel 712 00:48:23,199 --> 00:48:29,000 before it's over. But uh, my problem is I'd watch half of half 713 00:48:29,039 --> 00:48:30,280 of that and half of this, and then my trial would be over and 714 00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:35,199 I'd be like, well, now I can't finish anything exactly. I get 715 00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:40,480 I very rarely actually sit down and watch an entire entire thing. Yeah, 716 00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:44,920 yeah, every once in a while. Yeah, But I don't know if 717 00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:46,719 it's just like the add or what it is. But I'm like, I 718 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:50,519 either get bored, or I lose track, or I go, I'm going 719 00:48:50,599 --> 00:48:52,840 to turn this off for a while and I'll finish it later, like it's 720 00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:57,800 hard to keep my attention for or or I get tired and go, I 721 00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:00,199 gotta go to bed. I'm starting to fall asleep. I'll finish this tomorrow 722 00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:04,199 and then I forget I was ever even watching something. Right that. You 723 00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:07,239 know. What I do is I just know myself. So when I get 724 00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,440 in bed and I'm really tired, I'll just put on like a date Line 725 00:49:09,639 --> 00:49:13,079 and I'll go I can listen. I can listen to it. I can 726 00:49:13,199 --> 00:49:15,480 just close my eyes and listen. I don't see anything, and then the 727 00:49:15,559 --> 00:49:17,920 next thing and I wake up in the morning, I'm like, on season 728 00:49:19,039 --> 00:49:22,679 twelve thousand of Dateline, well it is so funny because you really don't need 729 00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:25,320 to see. That's why I listen to the podcast, and it does me 730 00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:30,039 just as well. That's true. Every so often I'm listening to Dateline and 731 00:49:30,159 --> 00:49:32,519 I'm like, they're just they're showing something that you and I'm like, I 732 00:49:34,159 --> 00:49:37,199 feel like I kind of need to see what they're talking about. But by 733 00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:38,800 the time I would like get home, I'll be like out with the dog. 734 00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:42,559 I'm not going to go look up what episode was that? How can 735 00:49:42,599 --> 00:49:45,079 I find it? Stead right? I'm not going to do that right right 736 00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:50,599 right? Oh are you watching Beverly Hills Housewives. I haven't started it yet. 737 00:49:50,639 --> 00:49:52,480 All right, you got yeah, we got to kick at old school, 738 00:49:52,599 --> 00:49:55,159 like how we used to talk about the Housewives, because there's it's pretty 739 00:49:55,239 --> 00:50:00,960 ridiculous. Lisa Rinna is off, so it's more watchful, okay, but 740 00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:06,000 Erica is still a disaster? Is she? She's a disaster. It's kind 741 00:50:06,039 --> 00:50:09,280 of interest. I don't know. It's a little bit interesting because Kyle is 742 00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:14,400 separated and they show that on the show. Not really, not not yet, 743 00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:16,880 but you can see how she's really annoyed at Mauricio. Really. Yeah, 744 00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:21,079 you can tell that their marriage is not going well. Oh boy, 745 00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:27,400 yeah, yeah, good stuff. And then there's rumors about Derrie. Oh 746 00:50:27,559 --> 00:50:34,440 yeah, yeah, that seems that seems very probable. Yeah, yeah, 747 00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:37,400 all right, I'm gonna watch it. Yeah, all right, Well let's 748 00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:40,480 before we Before we go, let me just tell you about Adam Lerner again. 749 00:50:40,639 --> 00:50:44,400 You mentioned him in the show. You need you need to get your 750 00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:45,719 kid a car, You need to get yourself a car. You want to 751 00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:47,719 lease, you want to buy a new one, you want to buy a 752 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:52,199 used one. Adam can help you. 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She and her husband have a small bakery and 760 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:35,079 gift shop on the island of Kawaii in Hawaii, So if you're vacationing there, 761 00:51:35,159 --> 00:51:37,039 you can check them out, or you can like and follow their Instagram 762 00:51:37,119 --> 00:51:43,679 page at sugar Skull eight zero eight and they'll give you fifteen percent off if 763 00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:46,639 you use the code FCL. They do wedding cakes as well. Nice. 764 00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:52,719 Yeah, and that's it all right, Well, thanks everybody, Thank you. 765 00:51:53,079 --> 00:52:00,760 Go check out our clips on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, l podcast. 766 00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:04,599 That's right, yeah, thank you everybody. Your parent now, don't 767 00:52:04,639 --> 00:52:09,559 if it up. It's good. Let a go.