WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.560 --> 00:00:17.760 Hi guys, and welcome to an emergency season on the Latch podcast. Today. 2 00:00:17.760 --> 00:00:23.519 It's me. Your host is JP longhand I'm at guy Puzy reporting for 3 00:00:23.600 --> 00:00:29.679 duty. This is John will said List and last one not least, it's 4 00:00:29.800 --> 00:00:40.479 David Baby. We are socially distanced. We are in the cloud. Go 5 00:00:40.520 --> 00:00:47.719 white, size about my mum in the cloud. We're in the cloud, 6 00:00:47.759 --> 00:00:51.159 and we recording an episode of On the Latchet. I I thought we'd do 7 00:00:51.200 --> 00:00:54.719 again, to be honest, No, no, I don't think anyone did 8 00:00:56.759 --> 00:01:02.039 it. No, there wasn't. It's give it fun. It's really interesting 9 00:01:02.200 --> 00:01:04.640 for me because I know that some of you, you know, tell me 10 00:01:04.799 --> 00:01:08.439 to listen to the podcast afterwards, but I've never listened to an episode of 11 00:01:08.519 --> 00:01:15.599 On the Last that makes me scream. So this is this sort of process. 12 00:01:15.920 --> 00:01:19.319 It feels like I'm listening to it. It's amazing. Oh my god, 13 00:01:19.640 --> 00:01:23.920 And you want to turn off. I'm sure I'm gonna log out. 14 00:01:25.519 --> 00:01:37.400 It was nice. Yeah, stay safe by it. I don't want to 15 00:01:37.480 --> 00:01:42.439 dwell too much on the absolute shit show that is twenty twenty m how is 16 00:01:42.439 --> 00:01:49.159 everyone's Christmas? Oh my god? Time I felt joy in it? M 17 00:01:49.799 --> 00:01:55.439 No, I mean go on so I'm just gonna say, how's everyone holding 18 00:01:55.560 --> 00:01:59.680 up? I mean, it's just I just think the planet's been turned upside 19 00:01:59.719 --> 00:02:04.079 down and it is absolutely bizarre, like, and I do think that it's 20 00:02:04.319 --> 00:02:07.239 definitely come on quick. I know it's been creeping up, but the last 21 00:02:07.719 --> 00:02:14.280 two weeks is just completely just changed everything. The fact that schools will be 22 00:02:14.360 --> 00:02:17.759 closed, you know, the fact that restaurants, bars, clubs, like 23 00:02:19.520 --> 00:02:23.120 people losing their jobs. My job has completely changed because of a lot of 24 00:02:23.159 --> 00:02:25.960 what I do is face to face training and to just have to adapt. 25 00:02:27.080 --> 00:02:30.520 So many people are just adapting and it's just changing a way of life in 26 00:02:30.599 --> 00:02:36.000 a way that none of us have ever experienced before. And it's just it's 27 00:02:36.039 --> 00:02:39.680 super overwhelming. It can be it's quite stressful and anxiety inducing. So just 28 00:02:39.759 --> 00:02:46.800 for everybody who is feeling that solidarity, love you. Hopefully this mindless trash 29 00:02:46.960 --> 00:02:57.199 will distract you from the pandemic. Yeah, it's it's a mare. That's 30 00:02:57.520 --> 00:03:05.120 good to You're teacher. M Yeah, has it been. I mean it's 31 00:03:05.280 --> 00:03:09.000 it's been. I think. I mean we've tried to keep the kids as 32 00:03:09.520 --> 00:03:13.639 as calm as possible. Really, I mean they are all aware. I 33 00:03:13.719 --> 00:03:15.400 mean the amount of times I've asked them to wash their hands, and they're 34 00:03:15.400 --> 00:03:20.879 all sneezing and coffee and every time I just look look behind me or looked 35 00:03:20.879 --> 00:03:23.400 to the left or looked at the right, and I give them the stair 36 00:03:23.560 --> 00:03:28.879 and then they already know that they have to wash and wash like twenty twenty 37 00:03:29.199 --> 00:03:35.000 hours if possible. But yeah, but we've tried to keep them as calm 38 00:03:35.039 --> 00:03:38.879 as possible. I mean, it was really sad because I don't know if 39 00:03:38.080 --> 00:03:43.000 that would be the last time I get to see them in the in the 40 00:03:43.840 --> 00:03:53.039 year before oh gosh, guy, before the end of the afters. It's 41 00:03:53.039 --> 00:03:55.400 a bit mental. But yeah, I still have to go in on Monday, 42 00:03:55.719 --> 00:04:02.479 so it's a bit I mean, yeah, gut it. Yeah, 43 00:04:02.680 --> 00:04:09.520 why everyone else's social distancing, I'm I'm cuddling kids and stuff like. Well, 44 00:04:09.599 --> 00:04:15.480 don't don't heed them about a broom's length apart, that's what my mom 45 00:04:15.680 --> 00:04:24.199 keepsake length of the broom a bit more, just to stay there, broom 46 00:04:24.240 --> 00:04:30.160 out, walk around the massive sucking broom. Stru to me. Oh yeah, 47 00:04:32.279 --> 00:04:35.480 yeah. Obviously this this week or last week when this goes out, 48 00:04:35.600 --> 00:04:40.560 was absolutely wild. Obviously the pub's been ordered to close. Um, it's 49 00:04:40.600 --> 00:04:44.600 just nuts. It's absolutely nuts. Um, and if you're very stressful and 50 00:04:44.600 --> 00:04:46.480 it's it's it's been a really weird situation because half of it has been. 51 00:04:47.319 --> 00:04:50.600 Um. I've got to hope the pub's not too busy because I don't want 52 00:04:51.120 --> 00:04:56.040 a whole bunch of people with coronavirus in the pub and never half of it. 53 00:04:56.120 --> 00:05:00.240 So it can't be. It can't be too quiet because I was aren't 54 00:05:00.240 --> 00:05:05.519 pay anybody. And then obviously on Monday when when Boris Johnson told people not 55 00:05:05.639 --> 00:05:10.600 to go to the pub, it's just been it's just been absolutely wild. 56 00:05:10.680 --> 00:05:14.040 And also the pub's clothed, so I you know, I've got nothing to 57 00:05:14.079 --> 00:05:15.839 do on board out of my mind. That's why this is on, isn't 58 00:05:15.879 --> 00:05:30.160 it. That's the I'm grateful, Yeah, guy, how are you fine? 59 00:05:30.399 --> 00:05:32.639 Yeah? No, I'm fine. I feel I feel bad saying that 60 00:05:32.759 --> 00:05:38.399 I'm fine, and I know that I will kind of get affected by it 61 00:05:38.519 --> 00:05:43.160 in a sort of longer period of time. But my work is very office 62 00:05:43.240 --> 00:05:46.160 based. It's very structured, and so we have been working from home. 63 00:05:46.240 --> 00:05:49.879 We have been starting at nine, we have been finishing at six. So 64 00:05:50.160 --> 00:05:57.079 I haven't been going crazy because I haven't really lost that sort of daily routine, 65 00:05:57.879 --> 00:06:00.079 um, and then in the evenings in the weekend. So far, 66 00:06:00.319 --> 00:06:04.839 I've been exercising and doing kind of creative stuff and just sort of trying to 67 00:06:04.879 --> 00:06:10.680 fill the time. So at the moment, I'm feeling absolutely fine, but 68 00:06:11.600 --> 00:06:16.959 like I inevitably that will change. Yeah, I mean, it's just for 69 00:06:17.160 --> 00:06:19.879 me. The one thing that does kind of freak me out about it is 70 00:06:19.920 --> 00:06:27.079 it's just like we just don't have a clear end date. Is that I'm 71 00:06:27.160 --> 00:06:30.959 finding the most tricky to navigate my own head. Like, you know, 72 00:06:31.120 --> 00:06:33.600 Okay, if if I knew for a fact that twelve weeks we could go 73 00:06:33.680 --> 00:06:36.800 back to normal, we could like you know, have the latter part of 74 00:06:36.879 --> 00:06:42.800 the summers like back to kind of some kind of normality, then I could 75 00:06:42.839 --> 00:06:46.319 probably process this. But it could be a much longer thing. And so 76 00:06:46.920 --> 00:06:49.079 that's kind of what's what's freaking me out a bit, to be honest. 77 00:06:49.480 --> 00:06:54.240 Yeah, yeah, there's no specific time period. It could be like to 78 00:06:54.759 --> 00:06:59.720 what you're saying, like two months to six two six months or something like 79 00:06:59.800 --> 00:07:02.879 that. Yeah, exactly. My gosh, it's it's just ridiculous, like 80 00:07:03.120 --> 00:07:06.959 everything has decided to stop. I mean, east Enders has stopped recording and 81 00:07:08.040 --> 00:07:12.160 it's two episodes a week, and I am at my wits end right now. 82 00:07:13.600 --> 00:07:16.600 Cannot satisfy me. I always think, how the fount that people have 83 00:07:16.720 --> 00:07:20.519 the time to watch that watch I mean, I know, because when Love 84 00:07:20.560 --> 00:07:24.680 Island's on, I'm like, how the funk? This is like madness when 85 00:07:24.720 --> 00:07:27.199 I think about it, Like how am I actually managing to watching them? 86 00:07:27.240 --> 00:07:30.720 That's on every day? Soaps is the same and there's no relief, there's 87 00:07:31.480 --> 00:07:35.759 non stop. But yeah, I think that for me, that actually definitely 88 00:07:35.879 --> 00:07:40.519 shook me more than some of the other things like fuck Me, Corry and 89 00:07:40.600 --> 00:07:46.000 EastEnders have stopped, Like yeah, I mean, it's doctors still going because 90 00:07:46.040 --> 00:07:51.439 the people need it. I canceled Be, They've canceled Casualty, all the 91 00:07:51.560 --> 00:07:58.759 medical dramas they're gone. Well, I'm sure some new foking material where they 92 00:07:58.800 --> 00:08:03.399 get back, let me tell you that anyway. Like, I mean, 93 00:08:03.439 --> 00:08:07.199 the one thing I just think we should probably just the shouldn't just be a 94 00:08:07.360 --> 00:08:13.759 Corona podcast. But the one thing I would say is it's there's a real 95 00:08:13.920 --> 00:08:16.279 mixture, isn't thereof you get in terms of crisis, You really get to 96 00:08:16.319 --> 00:08:20.199 see the best in society, those who are really going out of the way 97 00:08:20.279 --> 00:08:24.480 to kind of to look after people, to check in on their neighbors, 98 00:08:24.600 --> 00:08:28.680 to buy shopping for their neighbors, to be thinking about those who are isolated 99 00:08:28.720 --> 00:08:33.360 and on their own. And so I think that is something that is definitely, 100 00:08:33.440 --> 00:08:37.639 really really great, and I would encourage people to do more of it. 101 00:08:37.000 --> 00:08:43.039 I think as a society, we are naturally quite individualistic, quite headonistic, 102 00:08:43.159 --> 00:08:46.159 so we like to do things for our own immediate gratification, often sometimes 103 00:08:46.200 --> 00:08:50.960 at the detriment of wider community. But this is a kind of thing where 104 00:08:52.360 --> 00:08:56.080 it could affect anybody in everybody's family, and so we all just have to 105 00:08:56.159 --> 00:09:01.879 try and practice that kind of collectivist community kind of thinking. And even if 106 00:09:01.960 --> 00:09:07.080 you want to do it, think about what the potential on everyone else might 107 00:09:07.200 --> 00:09:09.759 be. And I need to practise what I preached, So I'm booking giving 108 00:09:09.759 --> 00:09:13.679 it out here. But yet I've not been the best at it, and 109 00:09:13.759 --> 00:09:16.799 so that's why I'm really good, like coming from Monday, I've really got 110 00:09:16.919 --> 00:09:22.840 to commit to that and that on that as well. It's like the obvious 111 00:09:22.960 --> 00:09:26.399 kind of first people to look after are the elderly and people like that, 112 00:09:26.639 --> 00:09:31.240 but the other you know, there's a long list of sorts of people that 113 00:09:31.360 --> 00:09:35.279 we need to take care of. Like I have friends who have addiction issues 114 00:09:35.320 --> 00:09:39.240 who can't go to their AA meetings, and so you know, think about 115 00:09:39.519 --> 00:09:43.240 think about the other people who might be struggling and give them a call, 116 00:09:43.799 --> 00:09:46.240 look at you know, pay attention to them as well, because like it's 117 00:09:46.279 --> 00:09:50.200 not just all people who will struggle, Like there are people who depend on 118 00:09:50.399 --> 00:09:56.159 seeing people that we should be able to everybody and anybody really, I mean 119 00:09:56.360 --> 00:10:01.320 yeah, it doesn't have like yeah, it's it's crazy. It's crazy. 120 00:10:01.360 --> 00:10:05.120 It's absolutely crazy. There's nothing. There's nothing anyone can really do, is 121 00:10:05.200 --> 00:10:11.240 there, Like well, well we stay staying doors, but have you seen 122 00:10:11.360 --> 00:10:16.519 Richmond with everybody just going out in the sun. It's ridiculous. It's like 123 00:10:16.799 --> 00:10:20.279 it was a lovely days, like yeah, I mean it should have been 124 00:10:20.320 --> 00:10:28.120 passing it down yea month and now we need everyone to say the fucking doors. 125 00:10:28.159 --> 00:10:33.919 It's glorious. The most British thing I really don't like that is such 126 00:10:33.039 --> 00:10:37.720 classic os And you know this time of year, the April's the maze. 127 00:10:37.759 --> 00:10:43.759 They're the nicest bits of the summer. Um, so it's just it's a 128 00:10:43.840 --> 00:10:48.519 night. But like, just I hope everyone's staying safe and yeah, like 129 00:10:48.639 --> 00:10:50.879 this could be a fantastic opportunity for us to you know, with things like 130 00:10:52.320 --> 00:10:56.200 house Party, I'm seeing a lot of like people doing by a zoom. 131 00:10:56.559 --> 00:10:58.919 This could be a new time while people are connecting with those they've fallen out 132 00:10:58.919 --> 00:11:01.679 of touch with or wouldn't talk to that much, or would feel a bit 133 00:11:01.720 --> 00:11:05.639 self conscious reaching out too normally. I think this could provide it an opportunity 134 00:11:05.679 --> 00:11:11.120 where we do make those connections and we stay in torch and yeah, so 135 00:11:11.320 --> 00:11:13.159 that could be a positive that comes out of it. Yeah you say that 136 00:11:13.279 --> 00:11:18.039 though, but like some people have used this as an opportunity to get back 137 00:11:18.080 --> 00:11:20.759 in touch and to be like, oh my god, now we have time 138 00:11:20.879 --> 00:11:24.320 to speak and I'm like, no, God. Issue, the issue for 139 00:11:24.480 --> 00:11:33.399 me was not that I did not have time screen issue was that I didn't 140 00:11:33.440 --> 00:11:39.720 want to speak to you. I want to either that that house Party app 141 00:11:39.960 --> 00:11:50.279 is truly truly Wild Lives willis no. You can just open the app and 142 00:11:50.320 --> 00:11:52.440 then suddenly just to have a look and then like one of my old flatmates 143 00:11:52.519 --> 00:11:56.279 just appeared on my screen earlier and I was just like what the and it's 144 00:11:56.320 --> 00:11:56.840 like hello. I was like, no, I'm not doing this, not 145 00:11:56.960 --> 00:12:00.240 doing this, and I swiped up to get rid of the screen. I 146 00:12:00.279 --> 00:12:03.000 was like, what wait, hold on, so the app. You just 147 00:12:03.200 --> 00:12:07.320 open the app and then people's places are just there, like you don't you 148 00:12:07.360 --> 00:12:11.840 can't even click on someone first. And you can lock the room. You 149 00:12:11.919 --> 00:12:15.840 can lock the room, so if you're in a conversation with someone, you 150 00:12:15.919 --> 00:12:18.440 can like lock the room. So like you don't have like you know, 151 00:12:18.639 --> 00:12:28.720 your old mates brother, like anyone can join the room. They're friends with 152 00:12:28.919 --> 00:12:33.039 you, David. I mean, yeah, obviously if they're on your contact 153 00:12:33.080 --> 00:12:39.279 list or something, you have to accept them as well. But actually, 154 00:12:39.320 --> 00:12:41.799 no, you don't. Like if you're having a chat with someone like they're 155 00:12:41.919 --> 00:12:48.320 like, you know, they're Grandma's like best friend can pop in because they're 156 00:12:48.480 --> 00:12:52.399 friends with it. You're like, all right, yeah, okay, actually 157 00:12:52.519 --> 00:12:54.840 that's a great opportunity to open up a conversation. How are you doing? 158 00:12:56.600 --> 00:13:01.320 Do you need toilet paper? By the way? Okay, well I hope, 159 00:13:05.120 --> 00:13:09.600 Oh my god. Anyway, enough enough with the correct I'm sick to 160 00:13:09.720 --> 00:13:11.360 the back tea because that's the other thing. That's all people can fucking talk 161 00:13:11.399 --> 00:13:16.799 about one thing though? Can I ask? Can I ask our listeners just 162 00:13:18.240 --> 00:13:22.960 one thing. Um, First of all, like, yes, get off 163 00:13:22.000 --> 00:13:26.720 Grinder, stop having sex, blah blah blah. Yes, But second, 164 00:13:28.759 --> 00:13:33.879 can people stop going on Grinder telling Ben when people message them to say do 165 00:13:33.879 --> 00:13:37.440 you want to come over and fuck? And they reply and say no, 166 00:13:37.679 --> 00:13:41.399 I'm social distancing, and then they screen grab it and tweet it sort of 167 00:13:41.480 --> 00:13:48.600 like look how good I am those sluts in my area are on Grinder. 168 00:13:48.000 --> 00:13:52.120 You are encouraging it. Stop it. It's so exhausting and so lame. 169 00:13:52.279 --> 00:13:54.759 But can I also just say I want to widen that? And I did 170 00:13:54.799 --> 00:14:00.039 a tweet about it the other day, Like ninety percent of the screenshots of 171 00:14:00.159 --> 00:14:03.519 grand screen shots I see on Twitter need to stay in your camera role. 172 00:14:03.600 --> 00:14:09.840 They're not funny playing, they're not enlightening. They are just often self serving 173 00:14:09.080 --> 00:14:15.399 and boring. Um, thank you over and over again, and it's like, 174 00:14:15.600 --> 00:14:18.399 Okay, tired of it? What's next? True for yourself? And 175 00:14:18.519 --> 00:14:22.759 it's yeah, it's usually just self gratifying, like you said, like exactly, 176 00:14:24.240 --> 00:14:28.879 yeah, exactly. Imagine how tired we are, Like really imagine how 177 00:14:30.000 --> 00:14:37.240 tired we are? Josh, Josh, how are you how are you feeling 178 00:14:37.279 --> 00:14:41.399 about being isolated with with Nile? Like do you know what, it's so 179 00:14:41.559 --> 00:14:46.039 funny because now actually was self isolating two weeks before most people were because he 180 00:14:46.080 --> 00:14:56.320 had a chest in patch. That's not funny how we laughed until he yeah, 181 00:14:56.559 --> 00:15:00.159 so he was not isolating for two weeks. And I think now he's 182 00:15:00.200 --> 00:15:03.159 coming up to he will have basically self isolated near on a month, basically 183 00:15:05.440 --> 00:15:07.559 because the minute he was going to go back to work, I thought I 184 00:15:07.720 --> 00:15:11.440 had a cough. Well I did have a cough, um, but then 185 00:15:11.559 --> 00:15:13.879 I know, so then he was like staying off for another week. But 186 00:15:13.919 --> 00:15:16.960 of course he's a mental health nurse. He works in accident an emergency. 187 00:15:18.360 --> 00:15:20.759 You know, the NHS is in a president crisis, and so of course 188 00:15:20.799 --> 00:15:24.440 he wants to kind of go in and help. But it's like if you 189 00:15:24.679 --> 00:15:28.360 go get a respiratory virus when you've already got a weakened chest infection, and 190 00:15:30.360 --> 00:15:33.480 it's for me, that's just not clever, um. And it's like, 191 00:15:33.639 --> 00:15:35.360 of course, you know, you've got to think about the greater good, 192 00:15:35.360 --> 00:15:37.720 but it's like you're my fucking boyfriend, I don't want you going in as 193 00:15:37.759 --> 00:15:41.679 well, Like I care about you first and foremost, like and I care 194 00:15:41.720 --> 00:15:45.720 about the people you're talking to So if you you know, someone comes in 195 00:15:45.799 --> 00:15:48.799 with severe anxiety about getting corona, they talked to you and if you have 196 00:15:48.919 --> 00:15:52.279 it, then that thought. So you're not doing anyone favors. So he's 197 00:15:52.639 --> 00:15:56.840 like, I think, you know, he's doing self isolating again this week 198 00:15:56.879 --> 00:16:00.279 and then he's going back. Um. But so I've already been new to 199 00:16:00.399 --> 00:16:03.000 him in the house. I mean, one thing I would say is he's 200 00:16:03.200 --> 00:16:04.919 just a lot of shifts, so I have sometimes when he'll do nights, 201 00:16:04.960 --> 00:16:07.799 I'll have that that or he'll do long day so we won't come back till 202 00:16:07.840 --> 00:16:12.679 ten. And for me that means that I have the house to myself quite 203 00:16:12.720 --> 00:16:19.759 a few evenings, which I do like I do here we go. So 204 00:16:19.960 --> 00:16:25.879 it has been a challenge just because we've been definitely on top of each other. 205 00:16:26.679 --> 00:16:30.919 But at its essence, we get on very very well. Like we 206 00:16:30.039 --> 00:16:33.279 have lots of laughs, we like, we like watching the same stuff. 207 00:16:33.399 --> 00:16:37.440 We're like doing the same stuff. We like the cozy nights in films, 208 00:16:37.080 --> 00:16:41.960 making dinners. We get on well in each other's company. Of course, 209 00:16:41.000 --> 00:16:44.679 sometimes we'll have things where we're getting on each other's nerves. Like earlier today, 210 00:16:44.679 --> 00:16:47.320 I think we were just a bit both bit by because we were hungover. 211 00:16:48.039 --> 00:16:52.320 Um. But like all in all, it's been it's been good. 212 00:16:52.440 --> 00:16:55.679 I mean I love spending time with him, so it's it's it's fine. 213 00:16:55.759 --> 00:16:56.960 But of course there's times when you just want a bit of you time. 214 00:16:57.159 --> 00:17:02.600 Like I was in the bath for like two hours the other um, like 215 00:17:02.960 --> 00:17:07.519 you know, doing sink or swim on my own. I actually might do 216 00:17:07.599 --> 00:17:11.119 it. I might. I might do a live in the bath because everyone's 217 00:17:11.160 --> 00:17:14.480 doing lives at the moment. I'm just really scared that I'll like show hole 218 00:17:14.559 --> 00:17:21.880 by accident. I mean you'd have to stand up and perch. But how 219 00:17:21.960 --> 00:17:29.799 it is loses all watchers. Um. But yeah, so like I was 220 00:17:29.839 --> 00:17:30.880 in there for two hours and I think it was just like nice, just 221 00:17:32.039 --> 00:17:34.559 have a bit of time. I mean we've been going on house party in 222 00:17:34.640 --> 00:17:44.519 different rooms in the same group anyway, so yeah, that's time. I'm 223 00:17:44.559 --> 00:17:48.480 coping. What about you, John, It's it's a lot. I mean, 224 00:17:48.519 --> 00:17:52.000 I'm quite lucky. Obviously. I've kind of got the entire pub to 225 00:17:52.160 --> 00:17:56.839 rome obviously because because I live in the pub. So for me, I've 226 00:17:56.880 --> 00:18:00.039 been trying to get up at a normal time and just go away. He 227 00:18:00.240 --> 00:18:03.640 Sprouse, working from the lounge. Um, so yeah, I don't know. 228 00:18:03.920 --> 00:18:07.119 I really liked me time and I'm so used to obviously doing a job 229 00:18:07.200 --> 00:18:12.039 where I'm constantly interacting with people that I'm just I'm getting quite aggy already. 230 00:18:14.240 --> 00:18:19.519 That's that's weird. We went for a walk today, like around the city. 231 00:18:19.680 --> 00:18:25.119 We've obviously absolutely deserted, which is good social distancing. It's just gonna 232 00:18:25.119 --> 00:18:26.680 be trying to get out of the house, I think, um, and 233 00:18:26.799 --> 00:18:30.880 just not bingled the shows in the first couple of weeks. I think it's 234 00:18:30.920 --> 00:18:33.279 gonna be a test. It's gonna it's gonna be like a massive test for 235 00:18:33.359 --> 00:18:37.720 our relationship because I'm I'm a pain in the ass to spend time with it 236 00:18:37.759 --> 00:18:41.160 the best of times when I've been cooped up in the same sport off, 237 00:18:41.519 --> 00:18:49.880 especially in the same four walls. Um, I don't know how solidarity really 238 00:18:51.880 --> 00:19:02.319 just huge? Yeah, like my thought impressed? Are with him? Do 239 00:19:02.359 --> 00:19:07.920 you think you're drinking more? We haven't been drinking. We haven't been drinking 240 00:19:07.960 --> 00:19:11.160 in the week, but we did get pissed on the Friday and we had 241 00:19:11.200 --> 00:19:18.799 a few drinks in the park yesterday. You got pissed on from a from 242 00:19:18.839 --> 00:19:29.640 a clear distance from two. Great, aim, but yeah, like, 243 00:19:29.759 --> 00:19:33.599 so have you been drinking more? Guy? No, I quit drinking and 244 00:19:34.119 --> 00:19:41.240 at the beginning of January. Oh dad, yeahs, I mean is it 245 00:19:42.599 --> 00:19:47.400 well? Yeah? Well I I well, I did drive January and I 246 00:19:47.480 --> 00:19:51.599 just kept it going. And um, I'll definitely have a glass of wine 247 00:19:51.640 --> 00:19:55.960 at some point here and there, but I haven't been. I haven't drank 248 00:19:56.000 --> 00:20:00.119 all year really, and I oh god, I'm on this month. I'm 249 00:20:00.160 --> 00:20:07.559 on this like it's called hole thirty. W Are you going to get through 250 00:20:07.640 --> 00:20:11.279 thirty? Men? I did it, and I did it in the first 251 00:20:11.319 --> 00:20:18.519 five days. But it's just really boring detox that you cut out loads of 252 00:20:18.599 --> 00:20:25.599 bad food. So no no alcohol and no tobacco and no carbs or dairy 253 00:20:25.839 --> 00:20:30.160 or sugar or gluten or grains. So I've done that for the main days. 254 00:20:30.160 --> 00:20:34.720 Then well you can still eat meat, fish, eggs. Oh yeah, 255 00:20:37.160 --> 00:20:41.599 basically like a kind of akinned five. Yeah, it's like paleo. 256 00:20:41.799 --> 00:20:45.759 So I'm on day twenty two. So I've lost a time of weight and 257 00:20:45.880 --> 00:20:49.559 I feel really good and I'm running a lot. By the time of this 258 00:20:49.799 --> 00:20:56.200 quarantine. Honestly, I'm gonna be oh my slat, I mean truly, 259 00:20:56.720 --> 00:20:59.400 Yeah, I mean, I'll still be alone, but I'll be thick. 260 00:21:02.160 --> 00:21:07.599 Isn't that the gay way. I can't change my personality, but I can 261 00:21:07.799 --> 00:21:18.000 change my stomach. I'm not even do that. I'm I'm not drinking because 262 00:21:18.039 --> 00:21:22.079 I drunk too much from Friday night and I won't Friday night. What this 263 00:21:22.240 --> 00:21:26.480 Friday? You mean? Yeah? Well yeah, but I've got the whole 264 00:21:26.480 --> 00:21:27.720 pub, haven't I. So we've got those of booze that he's drinking. 265 00:21:30.200 --> 00:21:32.720 But I woke up in the morning brucely hungover, and I was like, 266 00:21:32.920 --> 00:21:36.039 is this a hangover? I do? I have coronavirus. So I've just 267 00:21:36.160 --> 00:21:38.480 like, I can't. I can't do so much. Yeah, I know, 268 00:21:38.680 --> 00:21:47.640 I can't. I can't do with the anxiety. It's an absolute wild 269 00:21:47.680 --> 00:21:52.440 time. But today is Mother's Day. On day of recording um as, 270 00:21:52.480 --> 00:22:00.599 everyone spoke to their moms. No, wow, really no, I mean 271 00:22:00.000 --> 00:22:06.960 I sent a card. I'm sure she's fine. I mean, I mean 272 00:22:07.200 --> 00:22:11.440 you're good terms anyway, that's first of all. Yeah, yeah, we're 273 00:22:11.519 --> 00:22:18.279 fine. Yeah, fine, you got both of them? You got two 274 00:22:18.400 --> 00:22:22.319 moms? Yes? No, no, well my mom my mother is a 275 00:22:22.440 --> 00:22:27.720 lesbian, but I don't have two mothers. I was sired by her heterosexual 276 00:22:27.880 --> 00:22:33.920 man who is my father, and they divorced when I was a teenager and 277 00:22:34.039 --> 00:22:38.359 he moved to Australia. So he's messaging now as if it's the Apocas. 278 00:22:38.400 --> 00:22:44.799 Oh my god, you know what awful. And my mother is in Wales 279 00:22:45.119 --> 00:22:49.640 continuing to be a lesbian but socially distant. That's wild. Or the third 280 00:22:49.720 --> 00:22:56.079 person I've heard this week who's had apparent reached out, that's wild. People 281 00:22:56.160 --> 00:23:02.720 are crazy. People are crazy. Um so yeah, so um yeah so 282 00:23:02.920 --> 00:23:06.559 but you so you get on, you get them, Well, yeah, 283 00:23:06.680 --> 00:23:08.599 no, we get on. I do care about my family, but I 284 00:23:08.759 --> 00:23:17.000 also I'm not a very warm person. That's true. I don't think that's 285 00:23:17.079 --> 00:23:21.480 true either. I think you are. I think I don't think I am. 286 00:23:21.680 --> 00:23:23.759 I think I have a sort of I mean with my family. Maybe 287 00:23:25.000 --> 00:23:27.319 maybe it's just family about it, but yeah, there's a sort of like 288 00:23:30.920 --> 00:23:36.720 I'm the London one exactly from outside London. Sometimes they'll have the old yeah 289 00:23:36.759 --> 00:23:40.880 they live in London now, yeah exactly. They all think I'm an absolute 290 00:23:41.920 --> 00:23:47.200 which is probably true. And then every every year I go down for Christmas 291 00:23:47.279 --> 00:23:51.920 and give them piles of presents from all the goodie bags I've been receiving all 292 00:23:52.039 --> 00:23:56.680 year and they're like and they like me for a day and then and then 293 00:23:56.799 --> 00:24:00.240 I leave in side think you're very kind to you guys. Got to be 294 00:24:00.359 --> 00:24:06.480 honest. What about you, John, I mean you're a bit like me. 295 00:24:06.599 --> 00:24:10.440 I think you're very like your mom, aren't you. I've said to 296 00:24:10.480 --> 00:24:14.119 my mom every day this week, probably three times most days because I am 297 00:24:14.200 --> 00:24:17.880 while I'm bored. And two she she works in Sainsbury so she is going 298 00:24:18.200 --> 00:24:22.839 through it. So yeah, I faced under this morning and her FaceTime this 299 00:24:22.920 --> 00:24:25.160 afternoon and she's like, well you just fuck off and in me alone trying. 300 00:24:27.480 --> 00:24:30.400 She's fine, she's good, but yeah, it's it's it's horrible like 301 00:24:30.720 --> 00:24:36.519 not going there and to see them. But I think that's more. That's 302 00:24:36.720 --> 00:24:38.119 yeah, my Mum's like, yeah, don't you dare come over your London 303 00:24:38.200 --> 00:24:42.839 germs. So my mom has been desperate to get me back, like she 304 00:24:44.079 --> 00:24:47.200 was like, do you know what I've got to say? I mean she 305 00:24:47.279 --> 00:24:48.119 won't listen to this, I don't think. But I need to issue a 306 00:24:48.200 --> 00:24:52.519 public apology to my mom because I mean, long over you anyway, I'm 307 00:24:52.519 --> 00:25:00.240 sure you're Basically the other week it was my cousin's birthday and we did karaoke. 308 00:25:00.799 --> 00:25:03.039 Anyway, We had an after us back at mine. We were all 309 00:25:03.119 --> 00:25:07.480 completely pissed. We got in a few different taxis. My mom got in 310 00:25:07.519 --> 00:25:11.160 the first taxi. By the time I got into the it got home. 311 00:25:11.440 --> 00:25:15.799 Someone rushed out, like your mom climbed on a Boris bike that was outside 312 00:25:15.839 --> 00:25:22.559 the house, drunk, immediately fell off it, and he's saying, she's 313 00:25:22.599 --> 00:25:26.599 broken its. We don't think it's broken, but she is. She's being 314 00:25:26.759 --> 00:25:33.319 quite dramatic, so I'll call me a bro broke. Don't stop the party, 315 00:25:33.400 --> 00:25:37.839 but I've broke it. I was like, Mom, I think you're 316 00:25:37.839 --> 00:25:41.720 over It's like, I'm not fucking over it broken. Can you wiggle your 317 00:25:41.759 --> 00:25:45.720 fingers? She was like and they were wiggly, and I was like, 318 00:25:45.920 --> 00:25:48.480 I don't know if it's broken. I think you're all right. Come on. 319 00:25:48.960 --> 00:25:52.000 She was like oh. And then another friend, that lovely girl, 320 00:25:52.039 --> 00:25:56.119 Olivia, was looking after She's like, you're being kinder to me than my 321 00:25:56.240 --> 00:26:00.640 own shitty kids. I was like, mom, comer on, like, 322 00:26:00.440 --> 00:26:06.000 he definitely sprained it, but let's not over egg. Anyway. The next 323 00:26:06.079 --> 00:26:10.119 day it looked fucking swirled as fuck. Was like, oh, I think 324 00:26:10.160 --> 00:26:14.400 I might have underestimated the impact. And then she went and got X rays 325 00:26:14.480 --> 00:26:21.720 and it was broken. Oh I know, I felt like worried. So 326 00:26:21.960 --> 00:26:25.200 then a lot of making up to do. And of course, you know, 327 00:26:25.759 --> 00:26:27.319 like then when I told I was like, I literally was like on 328 00:26:27.440 --> 00:26:32.000 the brink of tays, like I literally feel so fucking guilty that I wasn't 329 00:26:32.200 --> 00:26:36.920 like more immediately sympathetic. Um. And but then at that point she was 330 00:26:36.960 --> 00:26:38.519 like, no, it's fine, you were fine, Like we were all 331 00:26:38.559 --> 00:26:41.799 really drunk, bla la la lah. So she didn't even make me feel 332 00:26:41.839 --> 00:26:45.400 bad, which of course made me feel even worse. Um. But yeah, 333 00:26:45.480 --> 00:26:49.400 like now she's got six weeks six though off work, which is for 334 00:26:49.519 --> 00:26:52.119 me actually quite reassuring. It. Well, all this is going on, 335 00:26:52.880 --> 00:26:56.720 um, and she had to have an operation on it, and it's currently 336 00:26:56.759 --> 00:27:00.480 in her castle. So like I just have to say, of your mom, 337 00:27:00.559 --> 00:27:03.400 and I'm a little shit. But yeah, and while we've got this 338 00:27:03.519 --> 00:27:06.920 time in technology in our hands, actually we should definitely get your mum onto 339 00:27:07.000 --> 00:27:11.400 the podcast because definitely has some stories to tell. Oh my god, John, 340 00:27:11.519 --> 00:27:15.519 just while we're talking about family injuries, why didn't you fill us in 341 00:27:15.640 --> 00:27:21.599 on a little a little thing that went I can't viral. Yeah, and 342 00:27:23.400 --> 00:27:32.759 David, I'd heard about it social from social media. So a few weeks 343 00:27:32.799 --> 00:27:36.920 ago and me and Show went back to my back to my mom's. This 344 00:27:37.039 --> 00:27:38.759 is stay over for the first it's first and we stayed there. He'd met 345 00:27:38.839 --> 00:27:42.440 them before, and we had like this really cute but quite boring day. 346 00:27:44.839 --> 00:27:48.039 We went just around a few shops, went back to my arms, had 347 00:27:48.079 --> 00:27:51.559 a bottle of wine, all went to bed, and my stepdad had gone 348 00:27:51.559 --> 00:27:56.200 out down the pub for some neighbor's birthday, and my sister had gone somewhere 349 00:27:56.240 --> 00:28:02.160 else anyway, So we went We went to bed about eleven and then like 350 00:28:02.359 --> 00:28:06.960 two half two in the morning, we woken up to my sister slamming the 351 00:28:07.039 --> 00:28:11.960 front door, a dog running into living room, heaving and being sick everywhere, 352 00:28:11.559 --> 00:28:15.119 and my sisters stood there in the doorway like, oh my god, 353 00:28:15.519 --> 00:28:18.119 dad's naked. Dad's naked in the hallway. He's been sick. Everywhere is 354 00:28:18.160 --> 00:28:21.160 covered in sick. I was like, Zobie, please, can you just 355 00:28:21.240 --> 00:28:26.880 like get the dog out, the dog that was naked or my stepdad was 356 00:28:26.920 --> 00:28:33.559 naked in the hallway, pissed out my dog. Yeah, yeah, So 357 00:28:33.839 --> 00:28:36.200 our dog with my mom's. My mom's got four, so one of the 358 00:28:36.279 --> 00:28:41.440 dogs was was like heaving everywhere and being sick. So I'm trying to try 359 00:28:41.480 --> 00:28:42.880 and get the dog out because me and trial as see film, is inflatable 360 00:28:42.880 --> 00:28:47.680 mattress, which was really comforted by the way would recommend in the living room. 361 00:28:48.160 --> 00:28:49.160 So we're trying to get the dog out anyway. The dog throws up, 362 00:28:51.000 --> 00:28:53.640 Mum gets up like Steve, goes to goes to bed. We cut 363 00:28:53.680 --> 00:28:59.759 out the dog sick and we go back to bed Um and then a half 364 00:29:00.200 --> 00:29:03.400 far him, there's this massive like crash and bang and smashing his glass, 365 00:29:03.440 --> 00:29:07.640 and I thought we were being burgled, So I like leapt out of bed, 366 00:29:07.880 --> 00:29:11.400 open open the living room door, and my stepdad is at the bottom 367 00:29:11.400 --> 00:29:15.640 of the stairs. Start bullock naked. He's falling down the stairs. On 368 00:29:15.759 --> 00:29:18.960 the way down. His name is to grab hold of a picture fan. 369 00:29:18.039 --> 00:29:21.519 Mom's got a picture of us as kids going up the stairs. He's grabbed 370 00:29:21.559 --> 00:29:26.200 a picture frame and like sliced his neck open. There was blood everywhere. 371 00:29:26.799 --> 00:29:32.160 Um, I just didn't know what to do because he's obviously like naked. 372 00:29:32.559 --> 00:29:37.960 My brother has appeared in just his pants, so I've like thrown a tee 373 00:29:37.960 --> 00:29:41.559 toe at him and the blanket him to like cover my stepdad's bits and stem 374 00:29:41.680 --> 00:29:45.720 the bleeding. Um. Yeah, and then he actually to hospital and had 375 00:29:45.759 --> 00:29:55.880 thirty stitches. I'll send you the picture. Don't don't think he's gruesome. 376 00:29:56.599 --> 00:30:00.960 And then and then and then finally we're like the avians came, they took 377 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:03.480 him away, and then we were getting back into bed and we've got this 378 00:30:03.640 --> 00:30:07.240 like really old staffy. He's like sixteen years old. He can't see a 379 00:30:07.359 --> 00:30:11.519 thing. He's he's like on Deak Store. Anyway, he's walks his live 380 00:30:11.599 --> 00:30:15.519 room. It takes his shit right next to my bed. As I was 381 00:30:15.559 --> 00:30:25.599 going what is going on? It was it was wild and I was like 382 00:30:25.720 --> 00:30:27.920 really, I was like super calm and super chill about it. I'm obviously 383 00:30:29.000 --> 00:30:36.880 losing my mind, Like this is mortifying. Hours all in about six hours, 384 00:30:37.599 --> 00:30:44.119 it was a week off work. Um yeah, that really really back 385 00:30:44.160 --> 00:30:48.359 concussion. Yeah. I do think what we're talking about family as well. 386 00:30:48.480 --> 00:30:52.799 It is worth saying that it is important, like do call your grandparents and 387 00:30:53.000 --> 00:31:07.000 make sure that they've checked they their will, that will. I absolutely hate 388 00:31:07.039 --> 00:31:14.240 you, but it is important that people do have their important It's very very 389 00:31:14.279 --> 00:31:21.240 important you make sure you have all that stuff started. Can I also just 390 00:31:21.279 --> 00:31:30.720 say, well, we're talking about had secure the bagsss so heartless? Can 391 00:31:30.759 --> 00:31:33.920 I just say solitary to anyone who has already lost somebody? But I also 392 00:31:33.000 --> 00:31:38.240 wanted to say, um on, like on a more serious note, like 393 00:31:38.519 --> 00:31:45.799 I think that Mother's Day and Father's Day can be just a really like triggering 394 00:31:45.000 --> 00:31:49.839 all sort or touch point of emotion and memory and trauma for lots and lots 395 00:31:49.839 --> 00:31:53.400 of different people, for loads of different reasons. People are arranged, people 396 00:31:53.480 --> 00:31:59.559 who aren't able to be parents and would love to be, people who's you 397 00:31:59.640 --> 00:32:01.759 know, parents have died, and so I just want to say if anyone 398 00:32:02.200 --> 00:32:07.559 has found Mother's Day to be particularly difficult, that you know you loved and 399 00:32:07.279 --> 00:32:10.799 you'll get you'll get get through it. So yeah, it's just just look 400 00:32:10.839 --> 00:32:17.839 after yourself. Basically, do you think people are masturbating more? Oh gosh, 401 00:32:19.119 --> 00:32:23.599 but yes, I mean I don't think I'm a bit like you guy. 402 00:32:23.640 --> 00:32:28.480 I've just been doing the working the work, like more of the working 403 00:32:28.640 --> 00:32:35.880 date Niles here as well, So that's that. Yeah, But yeah, 404 00:32:36.039 --> 00:32:38.920 I mean what about what about you? What about you? Have you been? 405 00:32:39.640 --> 00:32:52.319 No? I mean I am right now. I think, oh my 406 00:32:52.440 --> 00:32:59.319 god, that's furious furious. Wow. No, I no, I don't 407 00:32:59.359 --> 00:33:02.119 think I am actual. If anything, it's less. I think I don't 408 00:33:02.160 --> 00:33:07.200 know why I've lost the urd. Yeah, I've got this. Like my 409 00:33:07.359 --> 00:33:13.119 concern at the moment is before the quarantine started, I was supposed to go 410 00:33:13.200 --> 00:33:16.359 for a drink with this guy and hint. But we've obviously we've obviously kind 411 00:33:16.400 --> 00:33:21.799 have held we've held it back obviously until it's over, but we're sort of 412 00:33:21.920 --> 00:33:25.519 maintaining contact. So by the time we meet, we'll have sort of been 413 00:33:25.599 --> 00:33:34.359 talking for like four months. That sounds like like bing, Like yeah, 414 00:33:34.480 --> 00:33:37.400 like what if he's so boring and like he's not ugly, He's definitely not 415 00:33:37.519 --> 00:33:43.039 ugly, but what if he's dull? I mean you'll find it's four months, 416 00:33:43.240 --> 00:33:49.319 Yeah, pretty quickly, if anything, it will, because sometimes if 417 00:33:49.319 --> 00:33:52.079 you really buncy someone in the sex, it's amazing. It's only like a 418 00:33:52.160 --> 00:33:53.359 couple of weeks. Then you're like, oh my god, we've got four 419 00:33:53.440 --> 00:33:58.119 calls. Yeah, that happens to me all the time. Yeah, I'm 420 00:33:58.119 --> 00:34:07.440 sure they find that about you. I didn't. They didn't pornhorb give Italy 421 00:34:07.679 --> 00:34:14.360 or premium membership. I think they did when they were like when everyone was 422 00:34:14.480 --> 00:34:22.559 ordered to stay indoors I mean solidarity. Yeah, they I just think it's 423 00:34:22.639 --> 00:34:25.119 generally led to an upswinging horniness. I think like a lot of the gaze 424 00:34:25.159 --> 00:34:30.639 on the socials, they're in the house. Y have started replying again Yeah 425 00:34:31.440 --> 00:34:37.639 yeah, yeah, like three months has decided. Yeah they're can message and 426 00:34:37.679 --> 00:34:42.880 then disappear again. So yeah, you know what else people have been doing. 427 00:34:42.960 --> 00:34:49.679 All those respond to this, respond to this with an emoji, and 428 00:34:49.760 --> 00:34:52.760 then literally not everyone. So I'm just saying this so don't feel triggered. 429 00:34:53.199 --> 00:34:55.840 But so many of them are just to see if white twinks. I'm like, 430 00:34:57.119 --> 00:35:07.280 imagine I'm dying. We are Everyone looks not the same. But yeah, 431 00:35:07.320 --> 00:35:09.280 I was like, wow, fucking diverse friendship group you all have. 432 00:35:10.039 --> 00:35:16.480 Um, I just found that funny. But yeah, like people have got 433 00:35:16.559 --> 00:35:20.559 to do what they've got to do, right. People are just finding ways 434 00:35:20.599 --> 00:35:23.320 to entertain themselves. I might get a TikTok, I might sell Yeah, 435 00:35:23.400 --> 00:35:30.360 I'm tempted by TikTok. Actually, what I'll do innovate or if you'll leave 436 00:35:30.400 --> 00:35:34.199 it too late, I'll feel like I'm the I'm the granny and I'm not 437 00:35:34.519 --> 00:35:39.639 keeping up with the keeping up with the kids. I think I'm thinking, 438 00:35:40.840 --> 00:35:45.159 so, you know, the money's there, you know, everyone's indoors now, 439 00:35:45.199 --> 00:35:53.320 and you know, definitely all my friends David whenever they see pictures of 440 00:35:53.400 --> 00:35:58.239 the on the latch people, they all say, which who is that? 441 00:35:58.599 --> 00:36:00.679 And it's always Date. I mean, I'm right here, but okay, 442 00:36:04.719 --> 00:36:07.440 no, t I absolutely agree. I mean I would start with an introductory 443 00:36:07.480 --> 00:36:17.000 offer, a fifty pay per month just to get Yeah, you're gonna have 444 00:36:17.119 --> 00:36:29.800 to read, you're gonna have to watch things inside yourself. I mean, 445 00:36:29.880 --> 00:36:32.480 does anyone actually does anyone pay for them? Oh, We've had this conversation 446 00:36:32.559 --> 00:36:37.039 before. I'm sure does anyone actually pay for it only fans or is anyone 447 00:36:37.519 --> 00:36:44.079 subscribe? Well, I mean I think actually yeah, at this point, 448 00:36:44.239 --> 00:36:47.440 I think it's actually really important to support sex workers. Like if you have 449 00:36:47.639 --> 00:36:52.159 money, like and they have an only fans, you don't have to watch 450 00:36:52.280 --> 00:36:57.480 it. You can just subscribe and help them eat, you know. Yeah, 451 00:36:57.840 --> 00:37:00.719 And I think we do need to definitely think about support its local and 452 00:37:00.960 --> 00:37:05.679 and and and and a lot of small businesses that are really on their knees 453 00:37:06.559 --> 00:37:10.159 and the set work is also on their knees indeed, indeed, But so 454 00:37:10.320 --> 00:37:15.199 we do need to kind of think about that, um, because it's really 455 00:37:15.239 --> 00:37:21.880 troubling times, particularly for a lot ful Oh my god, awful it really. 456 00:37:22.559 --> 00:37:24.840 If you haven't any fans, if you just dropped the link below this 457 00:37:24.960 --> 00:37:35.280 episode and we'll just retweet it, yeah, if you eat. Yeah, 458 00:37:35.480 --> 00:37:37.400 but if you you know, if you run a restaurant, like and people 459 00:37:37.440 --> 00:37:40.840 can buy vouchers now to use when this is over, or if you're a 460 00:37:42.280 --> 00:37:45.719 business, like you know, you're selling things that you want to or like 461 00:37:45.840 --> 00:37:47.599 whatever it might be, if it's like you know, safe and well, 462 00:37:47.719 --> 00:37:52.039 like you know, yeah, if we can draw attention to anything that you're 463 00:37:52.079 --> 00:37:57.199 doing, then please, yeah for sure, let us know. Absolutely. 464 00:37:58.239 --> 00:38:00.800 Should we wrap up for today, then, I don't think we've really got 465 00:38:00.880 --> 00:38:05.039 a schedule for like when we could have recorded these episodes. I guess it's 466 00:38:05.079 --> 00:38:07.400 just when we're bored, right, Yeah. We'll be back when people need 467 00:38:07.559 --> 00:38:15.280 us, when people lead us, because we will never be back. Um, 468 00:38:16.960 --> 00:38:20.559 like, let's let's see how we go, because we've got like literally 469 00:38:20.679 --> 00:38:23.800 like our plates have just kind of become a little bit more yeah, a 470 00:38:23.880 --> 00:38:30.440 little less. Yeah, And I just want our fans to know that we 471 00:38:30.599 --> 00:38:40.440 wouldn't have returned. I didn't get the old team back together. But yeah, 472 00:38:42.000 --> 00:38:45.519 um also yes, um Raheem and Ben aren't here, just to mention 473 00:38:45.639 --> 00:38:52.679 that obviously they wish that they could. They also they also chose not, 474 00:38:53.559 --> 00:39:02.599 but we'll see them on face party later is fat Face Party Flushing Path see 475 00:39:02.679 --> 00:39:19.079 one people? Oh by Yeah, I'm joking not chat latte. That was 476 00:39:19.119 --> 00:39:22.039 another one, wasn't it? Just okay? To wrap up, we offer 477 00:39:22.159 --> 00:39:28.920 one piece of quarantine advice for the for the audience. Yes, okay, 478 00:39:29.599 --> 00:39:38.480 well do you want to go away from me? Thank you? I love 479 00:39:38.519 --> 00:39:45.400 how accessible we are to our audience. Stay away. My one would just 480 00:39:45.639 --> 00:39:50.639 be like to check in on people really and consistently check in, Like I 481 00:39:50.800 --> 00:39:53.960 think it is really important. Loneliness is a real thing, and don't just 482 00:39:54.079 --> 00:39:58.760 check on those of you perceived to be kind of um like, Okay, 483 00:39:58.840 --> 00:40:01.960 There'll be a lot of people who are potentially extroverts or you know, like 484 00:40:02.159 --> 00:40:06.840 in really difficult situations with their jobs, who just really need a friend or 485 00:40:06.880 --> 00:40:09.079 a laugh or a destruction. So I would just say, like, take 486 00:40:09.119 --> 00:40:15.400 the opportunity to reach out. Basically, mine would be I've kind of I've 487 00:40:15.440 --> 00:40:21.119 written myself as schedule for the week, so I'll so I don't just sit 488 00:40:21.159 --> 00:40:23.719 and watch TV basically, so work out or you know, I've got bits 489 00:40:23.760 --> 00:40:27.360 of work I need to do, but also punctuating that with things I enjoy 490 00:40:27.480 --> 00:40:30.760 doing. So yeah, just try and stick to a routine and don't say 491 00:40:30.800 --> 00:40:36.800 in bed all day, I'm have that. I do have one other than 492 00:40:36.920 --> 00:40:39.159 get that will thought? No, yeah, well, I mean yeah, 493 00:40:39.280 --> 00:40:45.119 number one, I would say, um, do call friends and stuff. 494 00:40:45.159 --> 00:40:49.400 But also there are organizations that you can go up go to if you know, 495 00:40:49.559 --> 00:40:52.239 if you feel that you're losing control of an eating disorder, or if 496 00:40:52.320 --> 00:40:55.719 you feel that you've got addiction issues, you know you will already know the 497 00:40:55.880 --> 00:41:00.960 places to go, and there are several. Um and then second, I 498 00:41:01.119 --> 00:41:10.199 suppose I don't know, like maybe I don't know, Maybe get like a 499 00:41:10.360 --> 00:41:14.679 jam jar and every time you masturbate, do it into the jam jar and 500 00:41:15.159 --> 00:41:29.079 then throw it throw it someone you don't know. I have no idea. 501 00:41:29.239 --> 00:41:35.239 Do you know what? I never should through you on the spot. Please 502 00:41:35.320 --> 00:41:40.800 no want to do that. Probably it's only a hate crime if you do 503 00:41:40.960 --> 00:41:47.920 it, Like yeah, no, don't do that. I'm only joking. 504 00:41:49.000 --> 00:41:52.400 I just it was you put me on the spot. They're just one kid 505 00:41:52.440 --> 00:41:55.400 to a jam jar. Wow, I got to be called guy. Could 506 00:42:01.119 --> 00:42:06.400 this was a bad idea? Actually, do you know what? If you 507 00:42:06.480 --> 00:42:09.039 want more stunning advice like that, while it's like to do our your cat 508 00:42:09.119 --> 00:42:14.480 is still going, you can message yours because we will. I kind of 509 00:42:14.480 --> 00:42:16.920 want to see if there's any specific like these are really challenging time, So 510 00:42:17.199 --> 00:42:22.320 if anyone wants any advice, then of course we are experts in all things 511 00:42:22.400 --> 00:42:27.880 life. Um so yeah, just drop us a bell, like more more 512 00:42:27.960 --> 00:42:36.039 jump jars? Oh good lord, wrap it up, wrap it up, 513 00:42:36.639 --> 00:42:44.360 more good advice ruck sake. Oh you know what. Actually, I'm really 514 00:42:44.440 --> 00:42:50.639 annoyed because I I'm I ordered. It's you know, I got. I 515 00:42:50.760 --> 00:42:54.280 bought a batch like online, which is all fine, and it's legitimate, 516 00:42:54.360 --> 00:42:58.119 and I follow all the instructions and if you're going to get prep you should 517 00:42:58.119 --> 00:43:02.079 obviously follow all the instructions. And since it arrived, I have not even 518 00:43:02.159 --> 00:43:08.360 had the opportunity to test to make it work. It arrived and that was 519 00:43:08.440 --> 00:43:13.760 the beginning of a dry spell. I can't I can't find anything anyone. 520 00:43:16.159 --> 00:43:19.840 Well, do you know what, It'll just be there like hopefully it'll keep. 521 00:43:22.840 --> 00:43:27.599 Yeah, I don't know. That's a good piece of advice. I'll 522 00:43:27.639 --> 00:43:31.480 find out for next episode. You by then, so it's not it can 523 00:43:31.559 --> 00:43:37.679 wait, Yeah, I can wait. It can definitely wait. I been 524 00:43:37.840 --> 00:43:43.519 you guys. This has been wild. Of course, follow us on Twitter 525 00:43:43.679 --> 00:43:47.559 at on the Latch. Email us if le's doing emails, email us on 526 00:43:47.639 --> 00:43:52.039 the Latch podcast at gmail dot com. If you need anything, just at 527 00:43:52.119 --> 00:43:55.000 us on Twitter. Someone will respond. It will be Josh. Yeah, 528 00:43:55.719 --> 00:44:07.920 yeah, I'm Gary. Um I love like, oh yeah, okay, 529 00:44:07.079 --> 00:44:15.400 Well I'll see you when I see you. What's What's absolution? Twice