WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.120 --> 00:00:04.200 For thirty five years, Cindy Stumpo has been a female homebuilder with a passion 2 00:00:04.240 --> 00:00:07.839 for design, a mastery of detail, and a commitment to her crack. 3 00:00:07.960 --> 00:00:11.359 With daughter Samantha Stumpo by her side, I don't need my whole family on 4 00:00:11.400 --> 00:00:14.000 a date with me. That's a good note. It's goddemn weird. See. 5 00:00:14.000 --> 00:00:18.480 Stumpo Development is the only second generation female construction company in the country. 6 00:00:18.600 --> 00:00:23.160 You're crazy, You're a wacko, You're insane. I mean, it just 7 00:00:23.199 --> 00:00:27.920 doesn't end together. Cindy and Samantha welcome guests to explore the world of construction, 8 00:00:28.239 --> 00:00:32.119 real estate, development, design and more. Unpredictable. Every time I 9 00:00:32.119 --> 00:00:34.359 think I know what you want, you'd switch it out. But that's what 10 00:00:34.439 --> 00:00:38.159 makes your houses all your day. Discuss anything that happens between the roof and 11 00:00:38.200 --> 00:00:41.920 the foundation. Nothing is off limits. You truly do care about everybody. 12 00:00:42.000 --> 00:00:44.240 She can yell and you can scream, but when you get her alone, 13 00:00:44.439 --> 00:00:53.159 she's the best person on the planet. Cindy Stumpo is tough as nails. 14 00:00:54.399 --> 00:00:59.200 Welcome to Cindy Stuffo Toughest Nails on WBZ News Radio ten thirty. Now. 15 00:00:59.439 --> 00:01:03.320 Guys, So when they made that opening they've taken bits and piece of all 16 00:01:03.320 --> 00:01:06.799 the shows we've done to the years, and that's how all your voices around 17 00:01:06.799 --> 00:01:11.319 there got it. We're going to create a new one cause we don't name. 18 00:01:15.359 --> 00:01:19.200 So you know how we have the meetings in the office where we literally 19 00:01:19.280 --> 00:01:22.959 like crap on each other for like two three hours and then we all leave 20 00:01:23.000 --> 00:01:25.879 friends. So it's kind of like what we do once a year here. 21 00:01:26.239 --> 00:01:30.439 So we're gonna go. We could actually start with clockson. Let me ask 22 00:01:30.439 --> 00:01:34.000 you this question, of course, get on the mic, Mike, Get 23 00:01:34.000 --> 00:01:37.879 on the mic. Get on the mic. Where are originally from? Talking 24 00:01:37.920 --> 00:01:42.359 to the mic, I'm from a zoo. How long you've been this country? 25 00:01:42.400 --> 00:01:46.719 Three years? How long you've been working with the Stumple Development more than 26 00:01:46.760 --> 00:01:49.079 twenty? Yes, so three years after you came to this country, you 27 00:01:49.120 --> 00:01:53.079 came on board this company. How'd you build up your company? Build my 28 00:01:53.159 --> 00:01:57.519 company a lot with your help? Because you build a really good name. 29 00:01:59.040 --> 00:02:02.959 You understand these neighbors over here, the people you work around over here understand 30 00:02:04.680 --> 00:02:08.759 and the and the and the and the house you build over here something everybody, 31 00:02:09.240 --> 00:02:15.159 every single people wanted the same look house because you have a good eyes 32 00:02:15.680 --> 00:02:19.840 and you bring that like from nothing. We got a meeting over there. 33 00:02:20.039 --> 00:02:23.199 We're going to do over here, Clark said one of these I think it's 34 00:02:23.240 --> 00:02:24.639 too much. No, clok, say want to like that? And the 35 00:02:24.800 --> 00:02:30.319 end the house is farming. So basically, though, you built your business 36 00:02:30.400 --> 00:02:37.759 off of working with Cidney Stumple. No, there's no together. I was 37 00:02:37.800 --> 00:02:43.280 out, you came out. So let's get something clear right now. I've 38 00:02:43.280 --> 00:02:46.000 been there for thirty six years. You've been out there for twenty three years. 39 00:02:46.159 --> 00:02:49.199 You came to work with Sea Stumple twenty years ago. Then you ran 40 00:02:49.319 --> 00:02:52.599 all over the city and said I do Cidney Stumble's work. I said, 41 00:02:52.719 --> 00:02:54.879 oh, you do Sidney Stumble's work. Then you got the door open field. 42 00:02:55.639 --> 00:03:00.240 Correct, that's true. Okay, and we're still together all these years 43 00:03:00.319 --> 00:03:04.639 later. How many divorces you think we probably could have had along the way. 44 00:03:05.319 --> 00:03:08.280 I have divorced every one of you guys at some point. We've taken 45 00:03:08.280 --> 00:03:12.560 a break for a year and I come back. We were separation for a 46 00:03:12.599 --> 00:03:15.719 break for for a year. Maybe one house to it. She did to 47 00:03:15.719 --> 00:03:23.800 me too, because you know you're not about that. Sometimes we because we 48 00:03:23.479 --> 00:03:30.680 build something really really strong together and for that for that for that ships something 49 00:03:30.719 --> 00:03:35.960 like that, it becomes beautiful. We create some good guys to you and 50 00:03:36.319 --> 00:03:39.240 good companies, and we create like a good opportunity. And that's a good 51 00:03:39.280 --> 00:03:45.159 point about your studient since because you're not closed the door for this all the 52 00:03:45.240 --> 00:03:49.879 contractor, you understand like like you did with w as with with a lot 53 00:03:49.919 --> 00:03:53.360 of Padro, a lot of guys around over here. You a door right 54 00:03:53.400 --> 00:03:58.840 on there. But you give a chance to everyone. Yeah, okay, 55 00:03:58.960 --> 00:04:01.560 if you're too busy, I'm might have gave them one chance and then gone. 56 00:04:02.759 --> 00:04:08.360 Because my loyalty is always wife. No, no, here's my loyalty 57 00:04:08.400 --> 00:04:14.520 speaking the mic to who with me? Oh? Okay always. That's a 58 00:04:14.560 --> 00:04:17.160 long time in every single I've been with you longer than I was married. 59 00:04:17.199 --> 00:04:20.519 You spoke about the job too, you understand, and we agree on that 60 00:04:20.600 --> 00:04:26.199 like you read it right. That's why we got just he is true. 61 00:04:26.439 --> 00:04:30.000 You understand, Okay, I am well sure, I take that. But 62 00:04:30.079 --> 00:04:35.759 I can be nasty. You can say it. Can I be nasty? 63 00:04:36.160 --> 00:04:40.279 You didn't have to agree with me. I tarn that, you know, 64 00:04:40.959 --> 00:04:46.199 Yeah, that would be you second that. No, three, he left 65 00:04:46.279 --> 00:04:50.920 he left. Everybody knows Wait, hold on, yeah, except you guys 66 00:04:50.959 --> 00:04:53.959 only get for eight hours to day. I get it for twenty four. 67 00:04:54.319 --> 00:04:58.959 Could be the worst, but you still love each other. True, you 68 00:04:59.040 --> 00:05:03.800 have talking about bend down your six five. Everybody knows that family could be 69 00:05:03.879 --> 00:05:08.560 the worst, but we still love each other. So you're saying we're family. 70 00:05:08.600 --> 00:05:11.439 Are here? I would have to say, yeah, I would. 71 00:05:11.519 --> 00:05:15.319 I would have to go. I'm gonna ask you guys that you produce with 72 00:05:15.399 --> 00:05:17.600 us? Yes? Okay, So here's my question. All the builders you 73 00:05:17.639 --> 00:05:23.360 work for, you've been an h VC guy for thirty something years. What 74 00:05:23.560 --> 00:05:28.639 other builders you work with that you can say runs their company like a family? 75 00:05:29.079 --> 00:05:31.879 No? None, Do we fight? We don't, but we fight 76 00:05:31.959 --> 00:05:34.639 like brother and sister. Yeah, of course, and we start doing that, 77 00:05:34.759 --> 00:05:38.920 and funny, me and you will fight an hour later. How's going 78 00:05:39.199 --> 00:05:44.040 great? Good? People? Might people might think I'm bipolo. We all 79 00:05:44.079 --> 00:05:46.480 are. Maybe we all are, but that is the truth. I don't 80 00:05:46.519 --> 00:05:51.879 think anybody else has a company that has sustained over thirty five years, right, 81 00:05:53.360 --> 00:05:56.199 and we've most of us have been together even the same. When you 82 00:05:56.199 --> 00:05:58.759 say thirty six again, I'm gonna knock you through those records. Okay, 83 00:05:58.879 --> 00:06:01.759 I get older, you get older, yeah, well, we're gonna just 84 00:06:01.759 --> 00:06:04.319 cut a thirty five years. That's it. I'm not aging anymore. But 85 00:06:04.480 --> 00:06:08.360 when you think about this, when we go there and we look at a 86 00:06:08.360 --> 00:06:13.160 guy like Neil Johnson, he started with me, he was the first guy 87 00:06:13.240 --> 00:06:16.839 with me as much to want to kick his divorced him the most. Oh, 88 00:06:16.879 --> 00:06:19.199 I divorced him so many times, and I go running back right, 89 00:06:19.360 --> 00:06:24.480 just how it is. But I've treated this company like a family and no 90 00:06:24.480 --> 00:06:27.800 one can take that away from me. I might yell, I might scream, 91 00:06:28.120 --> 00:06:31.240 I might carry on, but sorry, if you guys just do all 92 00:06:31.279 --> 00:06:35.560 your jobs without me babysitting, I need to get my boots off the ground. 93 00:06:36.040 --> 00:06:40.439 I don't want a Microman's jobs. Maybe they're all a menopose with you. 94 00:06:40.879 --> 00:06:43.680 Oh, they're aging out with me too. Okay, here's the next 95 00:06:43.720 --> 00:06:47.240 question. Who's tired? Oscar? You're feeling it, honey, you're looking 96 00:06:47.519 --> 00:06:51.800 you're looking a little there, all right, and you're how old, Oscar? 97 00:06:54.079 --> 00:06:57.240 Okay, that's the age you start to feel it, John you're feeling 98 00:06:57.279 --> 00:07:00.519 it. I feel it, but I feel it? But why I work 99 00:07:00.519 --> 00:07:02.560 out so I don't have to? Yeah, so you work out, you 100 00:07:02.560 --> 00:07:05.839 feel better, much better, Okay, Wachie my favorite plumber, and I 101 00:07:05.839 --> 00:07:11.399 want to bust his head all the time. Go ahead, feeling it? 102 00:07:11.480 --> 00:07:13.519 Is it good? Of course, it's show. There's a show till eleven 103 00:07:13.560 --> 00:07:18.480 o'clock nowadays. Okay, can we admit? Can we admit you're on your 104 00:07:18.519 --> 00:07:23.959 texts like this lately? Yes? Yes? Why is that just because I'm 105 00:07:24.000 --> 00:07:28.079 on point? No? It was because a month ago I said I'm done, 106 00:07:28.639 --> 00:07:30.759 I'm done. You say that every week. I gonna say that a 107 00:07:30.800 --> 00:07:34.319 lot, but I there's gonna come a point where I go, I'm done. 108 00:07:34.839 --> 00:07:36.839 I think you guys start to feel that. In the less going on, 109 00:07:38.800 --> 00:07:41.800 you thought it meant it because you saw other guys, new guys coming 110 00:07:41.839 --> 00:07:46.680 and going. Yep, okay, I hired them. They were actors. 111 00:07:48.279 --> 00:07:51.680 Okay, I'm going to hire some really big, good looking stuts to come 112 00:07:51.720 --> 00:07:56.160 on the job. Some hire some jots. What are they gonna do? 113 00:07:56.199 --> 00:08:01.800 Absolutely nothing but look pretty right off? Okay, Muscles, he's gonna throw 114 00:08:01.839 --> 00:08:07.800 the guys right out. I'm gonna bring Look as he's running away, he's 115 00:08:07.800 --> 00:08:13.800 like, I want no smoke. Okay, okay, So let's talk about 116 00:08:13.680 --> 00:08:20.160 Mikey. I think Mikey gets a the biggest reward out here, Mike. 117 00:08:20.199 --> 00:08:24.720 You started here how many years ago? Now? Two? Right now? 118 00:08:24.800 --> 00:08:28.519 Actually, Okay, when you came on, you didn't know what a two 119 00:08:28.519 --> 00:08:31.279 by four was, a two by six, a nail, a screw, 120 00:08:31.439 --> 00:08:35.159 a hammer, nothing, pretty much. That's pretty accurate. And how much 121 00:08:35.159 --> 00:08:37.840 have you learned enough to feel proud of yourself? Yeah? I mean, 122 00:08:39.600 --> 00:08:41.440 obviously a lot of the people in the room right now we just die just 123 00:08:41.600 --> 00:08:46.080 version. Yeah, a lot of the people in the room are definitely the 124 00:08:46.120 --> 00:08:48.879 reason that I've learned a lot, not just you, but you know, 125 00:08:50.000 --> 00:08:52.240 Posey Richie, Oscar Clarkson. I never said you learned anything from me. 126 00:08:52.279 --> 00:08:54.320 I'm the worst teacher. No, no, no, I learned a lot 127 00:08:54.360 --> 00:09:00.440 from you. I learned that everything looks beautiful with Clarkson, even if it 128 00:09:00.480 --> 00:09:07.240 doesn't. No, but even though that would be Clockson's remark, beautiful beautiful, 129 00:09:07.279 --> 00:09:11.000 Cindy, rip it down. It's not all over again. But seriously, 130 00:09:11.240 --> 00:09:13.080 I think you've come a long way in two years, and I think 131 00:09:13.080 --> 00:09:18.559 everybody needs to give you the adavoid that. Okay, Okay, I gotta 132 00:09:18.559 --> 00:09:22.720 go to commercial break call That thought sponsored by Flora Decore, National Lumber and 133 00:09:22.840 --> 00:09:41.320 Village Bank and welcome back to Toughest Nails on w BS. Who's Radio tent 134 00:09:41.360 --> 00:09:43.000 third And I'm Cindy. I'm here with John, I'm here with osc I'm 135 00:09:43.000 --> 00:09:46.200 here with Richie. I'm here with Mike. I'm here with Clarkson. I'm 136 00:09:46.240 --> 00:09:48.200 here with Sammy. I'm here with Jason. I'm here with my handsome son 137 00:09:50.039 --> 00:09:52.279 Chanan. I'm here with Mark. He's here in Shaw's here. I don't 138 00:09:52.320 --> 00:09:56.320 know where she went to. But okay, so you've got everybody's name rate 139 00:09:56.440 --> 00:09:58.799 I know this is That was a good moment. I must have some testas 140 00:09:58.799 --> 00:10:01.559 from going with my body right now. So, Mikey, I want to 141 00:10:01.559 --> 00:10:03.879 tell you on ear in public that I'm very proud of you, even though 142 00:10:03.919 --> 00:10:09.840 I call you. What's the names I call you? Some of them aren't 143 00:10:09.000 --> 00:10:13.320 fit for air, but stupid for lack of better term. I don't even 144 00:10:13.360 --> 00:10:16.720 think he knows his real name on the job site. Okay, how low? 145 00:10:18.159 --> 00:10:20.960 I think I made you cry one time he left? Uh yeah, 146 00:10:22.000 --> 00:10:24.879 actually I think that might have happened, but it was more because of our 147 00:10:26.000 --> 00:10:28.919 argument. But you and I argue every day. So okay, and what 148 00:10:28.960 --> 00:10:33.440 do I say? What's the biggest thing I say to you one of yours 149 00:10:33.480 --> 00:10:35.200 and I want to put my hand up. Don't want you. Just tell 150 00:10:35.240 --> 00:10:39.759 me to shut up. Don't talk. That's it, don't talk, Mike. 151 00:10:41.000 --> 00:10:43.480 Pat Jane has not learned to read the len eyes. Yes, I 152 00:10:43.559 --> 00:10:48.519 have no No, I'm like this. The eyeballs are crossing before you get 153 00:10:48.559 --> 00:10:54.240 It's like, dude, dude, Rael doesn't know those eyes. I know 154 00:10:54.279 --> 00:10:58.120 what's wrong with him. Everybody knows those Chad, you did. Everybody's like 155 00:10:58.759 --> 00:11:03.600 what I just say? Okay, that's that's that's Mike, Chad. Let 156 00:11:03.600 --> 00:11:07.320 me ask you a question. Yeah, we're going there. We all in 157 00:11:07.360 --> 00:11:11.360 this room love real estate? Could we all say we love real estate? 158 00:11:11.519 --> 00:11:15.879 We love our jobs? Absolutely? Yes, Okay, besides marrying a very 159 00:11:15.919 --> 00:11:20.120 wealthy woman of being born into generational wealth, are you all happy where you 160 00:11:20.159 --> 00:11:24.399 are in your careers? Absolutely? Yeah, Okay, I'd agree with that. 161 00:11:24.960 --> 00:11:26.799 Somebody asked me if I had to do over, what would I do 162 00:11:26.799 --> 00:11:30.279 different? Not much of anything, because we get to go out there, 163 00:11:30.320 --> 00:11:33.360 we get to scream left and then we get to have fun. We do 164 00:11:33.720 --> 00:11:37.120 right and Yep. It's been a tough three years. It has been product 165 00:11:37.159 --> 00:11:41.840 delays, COVID. We were all working out the air. We were essential, 166 00:11:41.519 --> 00:11:45.440 and Mike you weren't even with the company, but you have to help 167 00:11:45.480 --> 00:11:48.519 in Chad. You guys were figuring all out if he was going back to 168 00:11:48.559 --> 00:11:54.440 Florida. I mean we were. I mean, yeah, it's crazy, 169 00:11:54.559 --> 00:11:58.559 right, we're hiding cars in garages so we can work. Work. Don't 170 00:11:58.639 --> 00:12:03.759 turn the lights on, don't I think? I think I uber in one 171 00:12:03.840 --> 00:12:11.279 day, everybody, nohlight, hold on the ball pain. We're shipping him 172 00:12:11.440 --> 00:12:15.600 in like in like trucks, dropping the guys off, putting the back door 173 00:12:16.000 --> 00:12:18.879 and then letting them go out the front door. Because that was you know, 174 00:12:18.919 --> 00:12:22.000 the new mirror she made it. We weren't essential, but Brookline and 175 00:12:22.000 --> 00:12:24.120 reals fall Governor Baker's rules. But of course her. But that's okay. 176 00:12:24.159 --> 00:12:28.759 I'll get my own pick, my own bone to pick with that that holy 177 00:12:28.080 --> 00:12:33.600 regime over Newton. But anyways, I was saying the Chad, Chad, 178 00:12:33.639 --> 00:12:41.240 we gotta try to convince Chad like to learn to stay around. Yes, 179 00:12:41.399 --> 00:12:46.919 exactly. And I think that the more he feels secure, what he learns. 180 00:12:48.360 --> 00:12:52.159 I think we as all men in here except me. I could be 181 00:12:52.240 --> 00:12:56.120 partial, man, I don't know, Hey, hold on, I'm partial, 182 00:12:56.159 --> 00:12:58.120 man. Somebody said, that's me in the way, oh shot did 183 00:12:58.639 --> 00:13:01.879 but way when you guys didn't know the lingo, right, you didn't know 184 00:13:01.919 --> 00:13:05.559 the lingo of what you were doing. You had no confidence, right Richie? 185 00:13:05.919 --> 00:13:11.279 Yeah, when did the confidence gain for you? Pull up the mic. 186 00:13:11.399 --> 00:13:16.600 When I got more knowledge and confidence in my field? There you go, 187 00:13:16.080 --> 00:13:20.519 and prior to that, you want the other way when you're not confident 188 00:13:20.600 --> 00:13:24.960 something. And that's why I try to explain to Chad. When you take 189 00:13:24.120 --> 00:13:28.720 action, you learn more knowledge. Then you take the knowledge and it turns 190 00:13:28.720 --> 00:13:33.879 into more action and before you know it, action knowledge knowledge, action, 191 00:13:33.080 --> 00:13:37.840 action knowledge, you stop making lots of money. Does everybody in this room, 192 00:13:37.879 --> 00:13:43.559 as a subcontractor or work for C. Stumpo make a great living? 193 00:13:43.399 --> 00:13:46.879 Yes? Yes, yes, okay. We come out of school, we 194 00:13:48.000 --> 00:13:50.799 have no debt, we owe nobody money, a little bit of money here 195 00:13:50.799 --> 00:13:56.679 and there, and we make more money than the average doctor, average lawyer, 196 00:13:56.159 --> 00:14:01.240 average accountant and a story. We can still dictate our lives, do 197 00:14:01.320 --> 00:14:05.200 what we want. We know when we have to be responsible, liable, 198 00:14:05.240 --> 00:14:07.440 dependable. We all have a lot of stress on our back, but we 199 00:14:07.480 --> 00:14:11.120 can come and go and do what we want when we want to do it, 200 00:14:11.519 --> 00:14:13.320 and we got the money to do that. Am I correct? Most 201 00:14:13.360 --> 00:14:18.000 important thing about your business, you're in control of your own time, exactly, 202 00:14:18.840 --> 00:14:20.879 exactly. No one can dictate your time to you. You'll get so 203 00:14:20.960 --> 00:14:28.759 much time in life. It's all unless I call. If I call or 204 00:14:28.799 --> 00:14:33.159 I text, everything stops. But that's the idea that we got to implement 205 00:14:33.320 --> 00:14:35.679 the parents today is to push these kids go into that mic I need to 206 00:14:35.679 --> 00:14:43.159 hear it asking bring it home as go to trade schools. Absolutely get into 207 00:14:43.200 --> 00:14:46.519 the trades. Our community right now is you know, having a big vote 208 00:14:46.519 --> 00:14:52.960 about redeveloping a trade school and you know, can you resolve the torne up 209 00:14:52.960 --> 00:14:56.080 about it? Why do we have to spend money on building trade schools because 210 00:14:56.279 --> 00:14:58.960 parents are idiots? Yeah, well, let me tell you what's going to 211 00:14:58.960 --> 00:15:01.519 happen to college the next time years. They're going to become obsolete. How's 212 00:15:01.559 --> 00:15:03.919 that? I gotta be honest. I think high school shou just start te 213 00:15:03.919 --> 00:15:07.559 shirt and trade. They shouldeat. They did chat. But here's the problem. 214 00:15:07.840 --> 00:15:11.960 Here's what schools aren't teachers. No one really cares about Napoleon and all 215 00:15:11.960 --> 00:15:13.600 that stuff. Back in the day, like wet n I always said, 216 00:15:13.679 --> 00:15:18.279 to make money is dissecting this frog going to get me dead in my life 217 00:15:18.759 --> 00:15:22.200 because I failed, right because I went to dissect the frog. Guess what, 218 00:15:22.440 --> 00:15:24.279 I'm fifteen years old. The line of work I went into, I 219 00:15:24.320 --> 00:15:28.159 would never have to dissect the frog. I wasn't becoming a doctor or a 220 00:15:28.159 --> 00:15:30.840 scientist. What the heck that I need to do that? It was stinking 221 00:15:30.840 --> 00:15:33.360 and smelly. The point is because you figured out then you didn't want to 222 00:15:33.360 --> 00:15:35.480 do that. I did because I knew back then I wasn't going to do 223 00:15:35.519 --> 00:15:39.879 anything with turtles and frogs and it was so stupid. But you just said 224 00:15:39.879 --> 00:15:43.679 a chat. But we did have trades in our schools back then, and 225 00:15:43.679 --> 00:15:46.799 then they took it out, and then I had to disagree with that. 226 00:15:46.799 --> 00:15:50.039 I think they should bring it back absolutely. Half bring in is that if 227 00:15:50.080 --> 00:15:54.559 you went to a trade school when I went to school, you weren't you 228 00:15:54.600 --> 00:15:56.440 know, you were the dummy. I actually did. I went to trade 229 00:15:56.440 --> 00:16:02.000 school. So when we went down that end of the school chat, you 230 00:16:02.039 --> 00:16:04.960 know, you called a grease monkey because you're a mechanic. You were the 231 00:16:06.039 --> 00:16:08.639 dummy all he's going, you know, And there was that stigma. And 232 00:16:08.679 --> 00:16:14.360 here's the problem to this day, if parents butt out if you see your 233 00:16:14.480 --> 00:16:17.720 kids or a tinker and they can do things. No chat, I'm never 234 00:16:17.759 --> 00:16:25.120 budding out of your life. So what okay, till tell me? Will 235 00:16:25.159 --> 00:16:27.120 you miss me if I go back to the European Tour? No? But 236 00:16:27.200 --> 00:16:30.720 you No, I'd be so happy you've been on the European Tour. But 237 00:16:30.879 --> 00:16:33.919 at the end of the day, we have to live in today's world, 238 00:16:33.919 --> 00:16:37.080 the real world, and make a living today, okay, And we can 239 00:16:37.120 --> 00:16:38.919 all have our dreams. And if you decide to that, you want to 240 00:16:38.960 --> 00:16:42.320 go back, and you want to take your invitational to the Live tour and 241 00:16:42.360 --> 00:16:48.720 go try that out in the intim if you had worked englfed at the same 242 00:16:48.759 --> 00:16:52.799 time, you would have gained different work ethics. We all need to work 243 00:16:52.480 --> 00:16:56.919 and have a purpose. When you don't get up in the morning and have 244 00:16:56.960 --> 00:17:00.759 a purpose, Jason, you've dealt with booze and your passed as a young 245 00:17:00.840 --> 00:17:03.279 kid, right, you know, when there's no purpose, you're going to 246 00:17:03.359 --> 00:17:07.039 get yourself into a gym. Every one of us as young kids did stupid 247 00:17:07.119 --> 00:17:11.640 things. Richie, Oh yeah, why hey, because I was young and 248 00:17:11.680 --> 00:17:15.519 stupid. And what happens when you're young and stupid, got nothing to do? 249 00:17:15.640 --> 00:17:22.640 In my case, I got depressed and good well just didn't go the 250 00:17:22.920 --> 00:17:27.079 way I wanted it to, and drink and partying in wasting time right time 251 00:17:27.079 --> 00:17:30.119 that you can never get back, never get back. And if you had 252 00:17:30.119 --> 00:17:37.640 a joova, oh I had a good everything different And you're only how old 253 00:17:37.640 --> 00:17:41.279 today? I just turned forty seven the other day. So at forty seven 254 00:17:41.519 --> 00:17:45.920 you even would to do a joover? Okay, agreed? Yeah, clocks, 255 00:17:45.920 --> 00:17:48.519 and you feel like you've done everything right out here all this time. 256 00:17:48.680 --> 00:17:55.079 The box is just beautiful. Clocks is just beautiful, per but clocks. 257 00:17:55.119 --> 00:17:59.079 And here's the difference. We're all Americans in this room. You came from 258 00:17:59.079 --> 00:18:03.559 the country Brazil. Yes, you came here with work ethic. You came 259 00:18:03.599 --> 00:18:06.480 here and want to make a better life for you, your wife and your 260 00:18:06.559 --> 00:18:10.319 children. Yes. When you look at Americans, you and your wife, 261 00:18:10.359 --> 00:18:14.680 when you talk at home at night, you say lazy. They have all 262 00:18:14.759 --> 00:18:21.880 the opportunity. No, never, you're a liar. No I have because 263 00:18:21.920 --> 00:18:25.920 American kids nowadays, they're lazy kids coming out the way they act. Oh 264 00:18:26.720 --> 00:18:29.599 and Clarkson, honestly, I got to get flowers. I have to give 265 00:18:29.599 --> 00:18:32.880 flowers to your son. I'm very proud of your son, JP. He 266 00:18:32.960 --> 00:18:37.960 has worked his butt off and he hustles. Tell you, but I had 267 00:18:37.960 --> 00:18:41.119 to get in a conversation another two hours. I'm kno getting back in my 268 00:18:41.160 --> 00:18:45.839 life because the son doesn't recognize that from his father that he is doing a 269 00:18:45.839 --> 00:18:49.119 great job. And the son and the father side to put them together on 270 00:18:49.160 --> 00:18:52.200 the phone for two hours, two hours, I'm never going to get back. 271 00:18:52.559 --> 00:18:55.480 Clarkson, you can't look at your son like he's your son anymore. 272 00:18:55.519 --> 00:18:57.960 You got to look at it as a man growing into a businessman, which 273 00:18:59.000 --> 00:19:02.319 sometimes it's hard to do. But let me tell you when Samantha crossed that 274 00:19:02.440 --> 00:19:08.400 line. Boom, so JP, if you listen, I'm proud of you 275 00:19:10.200 --> 00:19:14.839 JP. Yeah, Chad absolutely absolutely. But at the end of the day, 276 00:19:15.519 --> 00:19:18.599 if we could all rally around Chad to get him up, get him 277 00:19:18.599 --> 00:19:22.240 to the job in the morning, even if we all just take a piece 278 00:19:22.279 --> 00:19:27.680 and say Chad this that boom boom boom, shove all the work on him. 279 00:19:27.720 --> 00:19:32.400 He's out kill him. Okay. Anyways, we're going to break I'm 280 00:19:32.400 --> 00:19:34.920 seeing's company. Listen to have his nails on w BV his radio tenth right 281 00:19:34.960 --> 00:20:02.880 back sponsored by Pillow Windows of Boston, Next Day Molding and Kennedy Carpet and 282 00:20:02.960 --> 00:20:07.000 Welcome to Tumpes Nails on w B Zenas right now ten thirty and I'm Sidney 283 00:20:07.039 --> 00:20:11.039 Stumpo and I'm here with my daughter Samantha, my son Chad. I got 284 00:20:11.119 --> 00:20:17.440 John Oscar, Richie, Mikey Clarkson, Jason and Mark and I don't know 285 00:20:17.480 --> 00:20:21.720 what shower into again, guys, let's talk. We're gonna talk on the 286 00:20:21.799 --> 00:20:26.519 third as we call this what's this the third one segment segment? Okay, 287 00:20:26.599 --> 00:20:33.960 we're in segments. Oscar pull the mic. You say I make you nervous 288 00:20:34.279 --> 00:20:38.039 in the very beginning being the newbie. Yeah, you can intimidate me a 289 00:20:38.079 --> 00:20:45.240 little bit because you're a very intelligent woman that had visions that we all gotta 290 00:20:45.839 --> 00:20:48.680 going to the mic. The MIC's there, you have to see your vision. 291 00:20:48.759 --> 00:20:53.319 And it was a little bit. It was a lot of a learning 292 00:20:53.440 --> 00:21:02.680 curve coming on boardstand it's the premium quality that I've seen going into these homes. 293 00:21:02.920 --> 00:21:07.319 Was like I've never seen and work with builders before, and and that 294 00:21:07.559 --> 00:21:10.640 took me back a little bit. I was like, because you don't see 295 00:21:10.680 --> 00:21:12.480 that from other builders. A lot a lot of builders are about the bottom 296 00:21:12.559 --> 00:21:17.559 line and you know, you know, let's face that the net profit at 297 00:21:17.599 --> 00:21:21.759 the end. And these guys kind of like they they ve jobs to the 298 00:21:21.799 --> 00:21:25.440 point that where they can save, they're gonna save. And I didn't see 299 00:21:25.440 --> 00:21:27.839 that with you. I see that you're using all the top, top of 300 00:21:27.839 --> 00:21:32.279 the line products, all the top of the line windows. Everything that's going 301 00:21:32.279 --> 00:21:34.039 in is like I'm like, wow, there's a ton of money being spent 302 00:21:34.119 --> 00:21:38.200 there, and it was very and there is and there is. So then 303 00:21:38.200 --> 00:21:42.640 when we get a stupid things, Yeah, that's that's a good point where 304 00:21:42.839 --> 00:21:47.920 he's being there because what are you doing? That would be called the mic 305 00:21:48.000 --> 00:21:52.720 not Samitha's head. Oh everyone is doing the same way, bringing our best 306 00:21:52.839 --> 00:21:57.400 to the jobsand you all think that you bring your best every day of the 307 00:21:57.480 --> 00:22:03.720 job, even on Saturday, no clot his work says he practices the Jewish 308 00:22:03.759 --> 00:22:06.759 holidays. The only guy I know from Brazil that practiced the Jewish holidays. 309 00:22:08.799 --> 00:22:14.960 That's not Jewish. By the way. Okay, look, I always say 310 00:22:14.960 --> 00:22:18.039 to you guys, if one guy falls down, we all fall down. 311 00:22:18.640 --> 00:22:22.599 That's it. Right. Like we're moving back to Doug. Hate to tell 312 00:22:22.640 --> 00:22:25.960 you, Ray, but Doug will be coming back on board, right, 313 00:22:26.960 --> 00:22:30.839 Yes, because I Doug is a phenomenal painter. Yes, yes, yes, 314 00:22:32.920 --> 00:22:37.799 I have seen him O. Doug and I needed a divorce for a 315 00:22:37.839 --> 00:22:42.119 bit. We had it. But see now I have to respect as a 316 00:22:42.160 --> 00:22:47.920 painter. You know why, because you don't know what you got until you 317 00:22:47.960 --> 00:22:52.440 don't have it anymore, right, That's when you realize. So it took 318 00:22:52.519 --> 00:22:56.599 me, obviously to reach out to him and say, well, he actually 319 00:22:57.240 --> 00:23:03.319 put a story up, which gave me to go and make a comment and 320 00:23:03.359 --> 00:23:06.599 then call him on the phone and say, okay, you ready to put 321 00:23:06.599 --> 00:23:11.200 this marriage back together. That's it. We've had three years apart from each 322 00:23:11.200 --> 00:23:12.759 other, barely two and a half years. You guys must have a great 323 00:23:12.759 --> 00:23:18.279 prenup, and we had a good prenup. But as much as he can 324 00:23:18.400 --> 00:23:21.799 get under my crazy skin and want to kill him, not a better painter 325 00:23:21.880 --> 00:23:26.599 out there, not, just not. And he knows what you expect with 326 00:23:26.640 --> 00:23:30.240 that, which knows what I expect. So that's it. That's it. 327 00:23:30.440 --> 00:23:33.640 So you know, I could probably interview another ten to fifteen painters. I 328 00:23:33.640 --> 00:23:37.279 don't want to. I'm going to go back to the guy that I know 329 00:23:37.880 --> 00:23:41.160 that can put the quality work I want out there. Jason. You and 330 00:23:41.200 --> 00:23:45.799 I we've been together since you're how old you now? Fifty? You're fifty, 331 00:23:47.720 --> 00:23:52.359 he's fifty. I can't believe he's only eighty as I was twenty five 332 00:23:52.559 --> 00:23:56.759 or twenty six games. And one of my first description of you was from 333 00:23:56.839 --> 00:24:00.440 a woman you were building a house for. She got recommended me. Yeah, 334 00:24:00.640 --> 00:24:03.880 you know, someone recommended a friend recommended her to call me, and 335 00:24:03.920 --> 00:24:06.839 she said, you're gonna meet with my builder tomorrow, but you gotta be 336 00:24:06.920 --> 00:24:10.839 careful. She's a man in a woman's body. That's all I'm gonna say. 337 00:24:11.000 --> 00:24:14.759 That was the delivery. That was the delivery. Twenty Yeah, that's 338 00:24:14.799 --> 00:24:17.319 what she told me. She said, she's a be careful. She's a 339 00:24:17.359 --> 00:24:22.519 man in a woman's body, so hey, hold on. She literally said, 340 00:24:22.720 --> 00:24:25.480 I'm going to put you with my builder, which is a spect house 341 00:24:25.519 --> 00:24:27.759 I was doing, and they hand an allowance they could go anywhere they wanted, 342 00:24:30.559 --> 00:24:33.400 but be careful because she's like a man and a woman's body. Correct 343 00:24:33.720 --> 00:24:37.240 exactly what she said to me, and that's I still remember it to this 344 00:24:37.319 --> 00:24:41.400 day. That was my first explanation of what I was running into. And 345 00:24:41.400 --> 00:24:44.920 then you met me. Yeah, I met you at the house behind stamat 346 00:24:45.200 --> 00:24:48.240 okay, but then you met me, and what'd you say? You grilled 347 00:24:48.279 --> 00:24:52.680 me? Grilled? Oh yeah, like you do you know what you're doing? 348 00:24:53.440 --> 00:24:56.640 Yeah? Like, yeah, you grilled me to make sure I knew 349 00:24:56.640 --> 00:24:59.440 what I was doing. Okay, that's about the extent that I remember, 350 00:25:00.079 --> 00:25:03.359 But other than that, it was blur. No. So was I did 351 00:25:03.400 --> 00:25:07.079 you driveway going? Oh my god, she is a man in woman's body. 352 00:25:07.319 --> 00:25:11.880 No, ya, No, I mean I grew up in a household 353 00:25:11.880 --> 00:25:15.960 of assertive women. So you just came across to me as an assertive woman 354 00:25:17.039 --> 00:25:18.839 who, like, you know, I was like, I was dealing with 355 00:25:18.880 --> 00:25:22.559 my mom? Is that twenty five years ago? That's what I felt like? 356 00:25:22.640 --> 00:25:23.880 He said, twenty five years ago. Do you know how old I 357 00:25:23.920 --> 00:25:29.640 was twenty five years ago? Thirty six or no, four, twenty five 358 00:25:29.799 --> 00:25:33.920 minus fifty eight. We're all in the math equation of building. I remember 359 00:25:33.960 --> 00:25:38.559 he was little. He was like this, Okay, I remember I even 360 00:25:38.599 --> 00:25:44.759 she was Yeah, I was thirty three years old. Yeah I was okay, 361 00:25:45.119 --> 00:25:48.960 she had a lot of Yeah, so thirty three. I don't even 362 00:25:49.000 --> 00:25:52.039 think I was a woman yet. A you're a woman at thirty three back 363 00:25:52.079 --> 00:25:56.720 then, I don't know cha had you always make a comment. You always 364 00:25:56.759 --> 00:25:59.920 have these comments out there in the field. I don't know, like the 365 00:26:00.799 --> 00:26:03.319 don't tell me what to do. I know what to do. Can everybody 366 00:26:03.359 --> 00:26:07.920 please tell Chad? We sometimes we've been in the business how many years? 367 00:26:07.039 --> 00:26:10.720 Listen, I don't know everything, but when I speak, you know, 368 00:26:10.799 --> 00:26:14.319 I'm telling you I know what I know. Okay, because honestly, would 369 00:26:14.359 --> 00:26:18.240 you apologize for me the other day? Driving by a sight, remind me 370 00:26:18.359 --> 00:26:22.119 one of your neighbors. Oh, there's the ferns. What was it? 371 00:26:22.680 --> 00:26:26.119 Waite? Say that again? You said that was a fence that was going 372 00:26:26.240 --> 00:26:30.920 up in Gay Jean's house. That was a fence. What was actually going 373 00:26:30.000 --> 00:26:37.200 up in the backyard? You remember? Was this recently? Yeah? My 374 00:26:37.279 --> 00:26:41.039 brain grapevine all that. Oh you mean when they put the wood up. 375 00:26:41.160 --> 00:26:45.039 Yeah, that's a fence. The other day. That was like eight nine 376 00:26:45.039 --> 00:26:48.359 months ago. Okay, and then they got in trouble because they built your 377 00:26:48.440 --> 00:26:52.000 life. We don't have to listen, we don't have to get technical with 378 00:26:52.079 --> 00:26:56.400 it right now. Okay, you said, yes it is, I said, 379 00:26:56.440 --> 00:26:59.519 I said the other day. My other day is different. Okay, 380 00:26:59.720 --> 00:27:06.319 Okay, listen, I'm changing my name out to how many times she says 381 00:27:06.359 --> 00:27:10.799 it. Listen, at the end of the day, we all have I 382 00:27:11.000 --> 00:27:15.000 see Oscar's got kids in his business. Oscar again, you're how old? 383 00:27:15.240 --> 00:27:18.880 Okay? John, your son's getting into your business and you're how old? 384 00:27:21.359 --> 00:27:26.200 And he's how old? Okay? Which he's the latest he had the baby? 385 00:27:26.319 --> 00:27:30.359 How old is the baby now? Three? Okay? I'm year behind. 386 00:27:30.440 --> 00:27:37.880 I mean clockson. Okay, how old your son? Okay? So 387 00:27:37.200 --> 00:27:41.319 here is the rule how it's going to go. We're eventually got about ten 388 00:27:41.400 --> 00:27:45.640 years. If we're lucky, then we want to pass these companies down to 389 00:27:45.720 --> 00:27:51.880 what our kids. Right. So the problem is is your kids are not 390 00:27:52.039 --> 00:27:55.640 going to make a living off my kids if Chad doesn't throw it into fifth 391 00:27:55.680 --> 00:27:59.640 gear, because then Samiela's left all by yourself out here. But Chad, 392 00:27:59.680 --> 00:28:03.000 we've we both women in my family. We've all taken votes that you are 393 00:28:03.039 --> 00:28:08.240 a man's man, and the guys like you right or wrong? Can you 394 00:28:08.319 --> 00:28:12.599 speaking to the speaker I'm over here, you're definitely right. Yep. Well, 395 00:28:12.599 --> 00:28:18.799 I'll take my flowers from everyone I like to work for good guys. 396 00:28:19.599 --> 00:28:23.119 Right, you're a gentleman out there. Listen, how I run is I'll 397 00:28:23.119 --> 00:28:26.119 give you three strikes. You mess up out to that, I'm gonna pull 398 00:28:26.160 --> 00:28:30.319 the Cindy on you. Yeah yeah, but you'll hurt people. I don't 399 00:28:30.359 --> 00:28:36.079 hurt people. I just annihilate with their mouth. But as I see the 400 00:28:36.079 --> 00:28:41.119 way this is going right. For sure, Mikey wants to be part of 401 00:28:41.119 --> 00:28:45.680 this company, and Samantha and I hope chat right. I hope so too. 402 00:28:45.759 --> 00:28:47.920 But at the end of the day, I'm going to make this very 403 00:28:47.920 --> 00:28:49.680 clear to everybody in the room. Actually we're on radio, but we're kind 404 00:28:49.680 --> 00:28:55.160 of having a meeting like back in the office. My feet and my boots 405 00:28:55.200 --> 00:28:57.440 need to be off the sites. If you want me to set us up 406 00:28:57.440 --> 00:29:02.279 for work for the next five years, I gotta get off the job sites. 407 00:29:02.640 --> 00:29:07.279 I can't micro manage the job sites anymore. That's it. Can't micro 408 00:29:07.680 --> 00:29:11.160 anybody anymore. Or we're going to run out of work eventually, and I'm 409 00:29:11.160 --> 00:29:14.440 going to move to Florida and I'm going to start to work down there, 410 00:29:14.480 --> 00:29:17.440 and whoever wants to come down that Florida can come down. But I don't 411 00:29:17.440 --> 00:29:19.880 think you want to start now you say that, oh yeah, we're going 412 00:29:19.880 --> 00:29:25.559 in that direction. But we're gonna still keep this company over and then you 413 00:29:26.000 --> 00:29:29.680 told me no, no, no, No. That means I go back 414 00:29:29.680 --> 00:29:32.440 to golf and still do this. No, you could take off, go 415 00:29:32.519 --> 00:29:34.240 to fall like mom does for two months, we could still be I can't. 416 00:29:34.319 --> 00:29:42.319 Oh yeah, I got to go to break. Here. I'm City 417 00:29:42.319 --> 00:29:47.480 Stumple and you're listening to the Crazy Crew, the Stumpo Crew and w b 418 00:29:47.640 --> 00:29:49.559 Z is Rare ten thirty and we will be right back. Sponsored by new 419 00:29:49.559 --> 00:29:55.680 Brook Realty Group, Boston Wood Smaller Insurance, World Auto Body and Tosca Drive 420 00:29:55.720 --> 00:30:21.839 Auto Body. I've just written it all and welcome back to the Toughest Nails 421 00:30:21.880 --> 00:30:27.079 on w b Zena's Radio ten thirty and I'm here with everybody, Gomantha Child, 422 00:30:27.599 --> 00:30:30.640 Okay, wow, you guys think a bunch of like, I'll do 423 00:30:30.680 --> 00:30:34.359 it all right. We're here with j'are on, Oscar, Mike, Richie, 424 00:30:34.480 --> 00:30:41.599 Sammy clockson, Jason and Chad. Okay, now for the last segment, 425 00:30:41.920 --> 00:30:45.000 right, because I'm always really crapping on you guys. Chad, you 426 00:30:45.039 --> 00:30:48.480 Getta's Digest version. No, I need to go last. You need to 427 00:30:48.519 --> 00:30:52.720 learn Reader's Digest version. Oh wait, you guys all to do that, 428 00:30:52.759 --> 00:30:55.039 but you don't do that. Go ahead, start with you, Sammy, 429 00:30:55.079 --> 00:30:56.519 what's your problem with me? You need to answer. When you tell me 430 00:30:56.519 --> 00:30:59.799 you're going to answer somebody, you have to respond to them. I am 431 00:31:00.039 --> 00:31:03.039 into stock you until you respond. But meanwhile, you brought tulips into me 432 00:31:03.160 --> 00:31:07.160 tonight in the studio for stalking you. Yes, you do it? No? 433 00:31:07.960 --> 00:31:11.559 No, because she torched me for hours set me home last night, 434 00:31:11.680 --> 00:31:15.079 would you do sam? She didn't respond. Was going to oh yeah, 435 00:31:15.640 --> 00:31:19.119 So it's we're working on We're working on a major go ahead, go ahead, 436 00:31:21.359 --> 00:31:25.559 optical migraine. Okay, she tortured me. Okay, go ahead, 437 00:31:25.799 --> 00:31:29.839 clocks. I was just gonna say, listen, at least Chad feels bad 438 00:31:29.880 --> 00:31:32.799 about it when he tortures you. I mean, at least Sammy feels bad 439 00:31:32.839 --> 00:31:34.440 about it. Chad doesn't, I know. Okay, So we haven't got 440 00:31:34.480 --> 00:31:38.519 to him yet, factually needs to work on his communication skills and wouldn't also, 441 00:31:40.119 --> 00:31:42.039 we're working on it. It's on me. You get you get a 442 00:31:42.119 --> 00:31:49.400 minute to fry me? Go ahead, you got one shot? Oh yeah, 443 00:31:49.799 --> 00:31:53.079 good, he needs more than a minute. What about me that you 444 00:31:53.079 --> 00:31:57.920 can't handle? Seemed like, get off front of the mic? Can you 445 00:31:57.960 --> 00:32:01.960 get on the micro? Thing to say? I just to answer more the 446 00:32:02.000 --> 00:32:07.240 text message. I have to answer your texts more. No, because you 447 00:32:07.279 --> 00:32:10.039 only text about money. You come for money. It can be Monday and 448 00:32:10.079 --> 00:32:20.599 Wednesday, Friday, Thursday, No, no Friday, clockwork right there right? 449 00:32:20.759 --> 00:32:22.319 No, No, he's Monday, Tuesday, Wednesdays. There. I 450 00:32:22.359 --> 00:32:23.680 pulled up and the just the other day. Go what are you doing here? 451 00:32:23.680 --> 00:32:28.119 It's Monday. I come to say, Hi, I went f off. 452 00:32:28.440 --> 00:32:30.480 Get out of my pocket while I'm going to a meeting. I want 453 00:32:30.519 --> 00:32:35.480 to know clock some one thing if you could change about Cydney stumpo. Go 454 00:32:35.480 --> 00:32:38.880 ahead, you got a genie in the bottle. Change Yeah, one thing? 455 00:32:42.079 --> 00:32:49.039 Nothing? Nothing really okay, Sure, I don't go there. We're 456 00:32:49.079 --> 00:32:52.720 gonna get to you. Mikey. You have one thing you can change after 457 00:32:52.759 --> 00:32:54.880 being here two years, if you want to make it another two years, 458 00:32:54.880 --> 00:33:04.359 be very careful loading question open, let's go. There's really nothing to change. 459 00:33:04.440 --> 00:33:07.240 You're just harsh and aggressive. But besides, that's not going to change. 460 00:33:07.279 --> 00:33:13.200 So I guess nothing to fear and aggressive. Yeah, but you love 461 00:33:13.240 --> 00:33:15.480 a lot. There's nothing. I wouldn't change a thing because the good comes 462 00:33:15.519 --> 00:33:19.119 with the bad. If I tell you to stop being harsh and aggressive, 463 00:33:19.119 --> 00:33:21.680 then you won't love me as much, so I just take Oh, so 464 00:33:21.759 --> 00:33:27.000 I love it's just extremes like you. You're really harsh, really extreme, 465 00:33:27.079 --> 00:33:30.640 but you love more than anyone else. So you're just you're on. You're 466 00:33:30.799 --> 00:33:34.640 never in the middle. So on the opening when Jason says from another from 467 00:33:34.680 --> 00:33:38.160 another interview, we did back in the day, pretty much when you when 468 00:33:38.160 --> 00:33:43.160 she's not working, she's the greatest person. Is that lose your words? 469 00:33:43.759 --> 00:33:49.279 You're still you're cool while you're working. You just you're dealing. No one 470 00:33:49.319 --> 00:33:52.319 does what they're supposed to do. Thanks for Jesus. With Zammy. He 471 00:33:52.400 --> 00:33:54.440 said, that's because she not her son. I got to deal with her 472 00:33:54.480 --> 00:34:01.599 afterwards. Okay, so you can't. So do you sometimes get thank you? 473 00:34:01.680 --> 00:34:06.200 John? You should be lucky, Chap. Do you sometimes get insulted 474 00:34:06.279 --> 00:34:14.039 when I talk condescending? Not anymore like you should? So we didn't talk. 475 00:34:15.400 --> 00:34:19.840 We do as adults. I've always been consistent. I've always been consistent 476 00:34:19.880 --> 00:34:23.639 with it. Hold on, you know, you know I hold myself accountable, 477 00:34:24.159 --> 00:34:29.280 right so my nephew, maybe a couple of days later, whatever whatever 478 00:34:29.280 --> 00:34:31.679 it takes, Mike, Pat Jane, even I've said words to you that 479 00:34:31.800 --> 00:34:37.280 I resent regret, and I'm apologizing for that right now on air. Okay, 480 00:34:37.320 --> 00:34:38.719 on ear, I own it. But let me tell you something. 481 00:34:38.840 --> 00:34:43.599 There's no butts with this. When I apologize, I apologize. All I'm 482 00:34:43.639 --> 00:34:47.440 asking you guys to do is before you ask me a question for the fifty 483 00:34:47.440 --> 00:34:52.480 one thousand times, just think and say, have I asked this question before 484 00:34:52.119 --> 00:34:57.239 you answer is yes? Hold on, simmy. If the answer is yes, 485 00:34:57.360 --> 00:35:00.960 don't ask me again. If I've all already answer the question. We've 486 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:04.840 been around long enough together decades. If you've got to answer the same question 487 00:35:05.280 --> 00:35:08.639 after hundreds and hundreds of thousands of square feet we've built together, well, 488 00:35:08.719 --> 00:35:12.800 sometimes we have to because you change your mind and think you said something, 489 00:35:12.840 --> 00:35:15.159 but you didn't relay the information. I was just about to say that you 490 00:35:15.320 --> 00:35:19.800 change your mind fifty times a week. That's why we asked the same question. 491 00:35:19.880 --> 00:35:22.360 You all remember both, and I think that's the only problem I had 492 00:35:22.360 --> 00:35:23.760 with there. Well, we had a meeting. We had a meeting, 493 00:35:23.960 --> 00:35:27.920 and Mike, unfortunate you weren't here, but it was meeting like almost close 494 00:35:27.960 --> 00:35:30.119 to four to three and a half, right before COVID started, right as 495 00:35:30.199 --> 00:35:34.039 COVID, right before COVID and I had you all come to the office. 496 00:35:34.039 --> 00:35:39.199 I said, whatever I say that doesn't sound nice, Ignore it because it's 497 00:35:39.239 --> 00:35:45.800 all hormone related. Now, it's not hormone related. My patience bucket is 498 00:35:45.880 --> 00:35:50.679 empty. There's no more patience in the bucket. Okay, And don't tell 499 00:35:50.719 --> 00:35:52.480 me none of you are feeling that too, that your patience is going down 500 00:35:52.800 --> 00:35:57.119 as you get older. I just don't get how none of you get hurt 501 00:35:57.159 --> 00:35:59.760 by now. If you want an answer, and it's going to be dumb 502 00:35:59.840 --> 00:36:01.920 quest, don't ask at seven am. You ask at eight pm. She's 503 00:36:01.960 --> 00:36:07.159 a nicer person at a pm. How do you not know this? I'm 504 00:36:07.199 --> 00:36:15.719 sorry, I'm sorry always, Yes, I'm sorry you while working Gemini. 505 00:36:15.800 --> 00:36:19.599 If I want a nice answer, I text you at night. It's the 506 00:36:19.719 --> 00:36:24.159 easiest way. How do you not know this by now? Yeah? If 507 00:36:24.159 --> 00:36:29.239 you if you text me at nighttime or call me, which you know we 508 00:36:29.280 --> 00:36:36.079 go lait at night sometimes. Yeah, what's the nine thirty? Right? 509 00:36:36.599 --> 00:36:40.039 But I will give you this right because you're not it's not the pressure cooker, 510 00:36:40.719 --> 00:36:44.320 right. You're getting me all day long while I'm under a pressure cooker. 511 00:36:44.480 --> 00:36:46.480 And even if your answer is I can't be there, just respond the 512 00:36:46.559 --> 00:36:51.000 non response makes her want to eat you alive. That's what you just say. 513 00:36:51.280 --> 00:36:53.199 I know for a fact, Richie, if you want to change something, 514 00:36:53.320 --> 00:37:00.280 go ahead. You might want to pick the mic up to your mouth 515 00:37:00.320 --> 00:37:05.960 and your boobs are my problem with this? Goes up? Hunh Yeah, 516 00:37:06.480 --> 00:37:10.440 stop changing the master, bathrooms and kitchens after I pipe them in. No, 517 00:37:10.679 --> 00:37:14.840 make up your mind taking in an easy way. No, he's right, 518 00:37:14.920 --> 00:37:19.360 he's right. But that's what happens when you're a design builder. Listen, 519 00:37:19.559 --> 00:37:22.079 do you know what it costs me to change the lumber? Of course, 520 00:37:22.480 --> 00:37:25.719 but I don't care. I don't care. I want those houses to 521 00:37:25.760 --> 00:37:30.199 be perfect. To me, what I say is perfect. I went to 522 00:37:30.320 --> 00:37:35.480 Chad in Smith's house and perfect. The door was not sented. Chad's like, 523 00:37:35.519 --> 00:37:37.480 Mom, I don't think anybody's gonna see it, really, Chad, 524 00:37:37.840 --> 00:37:40.239 Somebody hold up a piece of tre piece of metal. Do you see it 525 00:37:40.280 --> 00:37:45.000 now? The minute you put the trim on boom, you're gonna see the 526 00:37:45.000 --> 00:37:47.519 door's not scented. Rip it out, take the rubber off the deck. 527 00:37:47.800 --> 00:37:51.880 But it's gonna cost so much money. It is what it is. I 528 00:37:51.960 --> 00:37:54.199 was in Florida when this house is being framed. It was eleven inches, 529 00:37:54.400 --> 00:37:58.840 but I will not accept more than a quarter of an inch. I will 530 00:37:58.920 --> 00:38:01.280 quarter of an inch. That's it. That's rule of thumb. And then 531 00:38:01.280 --> 00:38:07.440 we have the window on the other back of the oscar. Talking about Cindy, 532 00:38:07.679 --> 00:38:10.840 I texted her last week and say we're all done with the rough at 533 00:38:10.880 --> 00:38:15.840 Botsford. And then I come in Monday morning, I see the whole place 534 00:38:15.920 --> 00:38:21.400 refrained. I'm like, what just happened? Because she walked in the building 535 00:38:21.440 --> 00:38:23.159 and she wanted to get rid of all the softening. No, no, 536 00:38:23.239 --> 00:38:29.639 the headers. Okay, I built a modern house and his headers. Okay, 537 00:38:30.000 --> 00:38:36.280 wait now hold on, uh we did today. Oh so proud of 538 00:38:36.320 --> 00:38:39.119 you guys on the wall. Let me be better. Texting for a final 539 00:38:39.159 --> 00:38:43.239 inspection tomorrow. If you want to go to insulation clocks, if you want 540 00:38:43.239 --> 00:38:46.840 to be insulat on Friday, somebody text Bawn right now to get him get 541 00:38:46.840 --> 00:38:53.000 a final tomorrow, get a rough inspection so we can get oscar. You've 542 00:38:53.000 --> 00:38:58.599 been with us the shortest time you came in because why it was a lucky 543 00:38:58.639 --> 00:39:01.800 moment of your life. I think I was ready to retire exactly. So 544 00:39:01.920 --> 00:39:05.599 Mike, let me, let me, let's bring us back. Mike Garbelle 545 00:39:05.719 --> 00:39:08.599 was with me for thirty years. Love him. But Mike came to me 546 00:39:08.639 --> 00:39:13.400 and said, I'm ready to retire, Cindy, I'm taking on small jobs. 547 00:39:14.039 --> 00:39:16.840 Ask a perfect timing, which she didn't feel guilty calling you, putting 548 00:39:16.840 --> 00:39:21.440 you with me, and it's for magical the last seven houses we've done together 549 00:39:21.920 --> 00:39:23.639 magical. Yeah. And he was great, you know, trying to show 550 00:39:23.639 --> 00:39:27.960 me the ropes and getting started with you guys. But that's the way you 551 00:39:28.000 --> 00:39:30.639 do it. It's called loyalty. When he was ready to step out, 552 00:39:30.760 --> 00:39:34.719 then he got he got replaced, which was great. John. What do 553 00:39:34.760 --> 00:39:36.679 you have to say real fast? Because we go to chat, then we're 554 00:39:36.679 --> 00:39:38.599 gonna have to go to break Uh. Basically, like you said, a 555 00:39:38.639 --> 00:39:42.400 lot of times, you change things a lot and I have to move doc 556 00:39:42.480 --> 00:39:46.599 work, ripping out. That's about it just changes. Oh your personality. 557 00:39:46.679 --> 00:39:51.960 I know your personality. God, I mean thirty five years. You know 558 00:39:52.639 --> 00:39:54.199 you know what she says to me. I think it's like a marriage. 559 00:39:54.199 --> 00:39:59.039 Is that I want to divorce? Can I get one to you? Got 560 00:39:59.079 --> 00:40:01.199 ten seconds? I want to say? Is just you know remember what you 561 00:40:01.239 --> 00:40:05.360 say? That's all no other than that you're a perfect person. I love 562 00:40:05.400 --> 00:40:12.440 you more. You should record that. This is Sidney stuff. We listen 563 00:40:12.519 --> 00:40:15.840 Toughest Nails on WBZ News Radio ten thirty, and I want that played, 564 00:40:15.920 --> 00:40:30.559 replayed, overplayed, and I'll take it, and I'll take a bonus to 565 00:40:30.599 --> 00:40:36.960 take you. Please the backstead and welcome back to Toughest Nails on WBC News 566 00:40:37.039 --> 00:40:40.000 Radio ten thirty. There is a reason I'm playing that song. The reason 567 00:40:40.159 --> 00:40:45.599 is very clear. For all you builders out there listening that spire and everything 568 00:40:45.599 --> 00:40:47.400 I do. You reach out to one more my guys, You reach out 569 00:40:47.440 --> 00:40:52.000 to one more subcontractors or my vendors and try to go behind my back and 570 00:40:52.079 --> 00:40:55.519 steal my designs and steal my guys. I'm coming at you, buddy, 571 00:40:55.599 --> 00:41:00.679 okay, and I'm going to tell you real fast. You got the last 572 00:41:00.719 --> 00:41:01.920 call, right, We got the last call we did, and you strain 573 00:41:02.000 --> 00:41:06.639 that right out right. The loyalty is to stumble. That's it. And 574 00:41:06.679 --> 00:41:09.159 that was the email you wrote. I worked a stumpo and his answer back 575 00:41:09.159 --> 00:41:13.639 with is she owned everybody. No, I'm loyal and I expect it back 576 00:41:13.639 --> 00:41:16.559 from every one of you guys. That's when my only demand and command all 577 00:41:16.599 --> 00:41:21.599 these years, So all you builders stop doing it. Yourself and stay away 578 00:41:21.599 --> 00:41:24.800 from my guys. You are listening to Cindy Stumpo Toughest Nails WB's News Radio 579 00:41:24.880 --> 00:41:27.920 ten thirty and have a great, safe weekend.