WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.680 --> 00:00:07.719 This to two seventeen Recovery podcast with Corey Winfield. I think that's pretty fair 2 00:00:07.759 --> 00:00:11.400 for a guy once a quarter, four times a year, trimantails. If 3 00:00:11.400 --> 00:00:13.279 it needs to be done, it needs to be done. I'll think you 4 00:00:13.320 --> 00:00:17.000 that you can go buy the calendar year. You probably wish I would because 5 00:00:17.000 --> 00:00:21.079 I probably maybe really do it like twice a year. And Cole Holt Marnie 6 00:00:21.359 --> 00:00:25.440 Winfield the people that really are drawn to twelve step program. One piece of 7 00:00:25.480 --> 00:00:30.519 those twelve step groups is because it's people from all different varieties in lengths of 8 00:00:30.559 --> 00:00:39.520 time of sobriety. It is the twenty ninth of April twenty twenty three from 9 00:00:39.560 --> 00:00:44.600 Cory Winfield. An. I'm Marnie Winfield. Welcome to seventeen Recovery podcasts. 10 00:00:45.759 --> 00:00:50.920 Let's just thinking there's a way for us to get donations and have fun at 11 00:00:50.920 --> 00:00:56.039 the same time. Play little game. Yeah yeah. You can pick a 12 00:00:56.159 --> 00:01:00.159 day on a calendar and if that's the day I clipped my tonails again, 13 00:01:02.479 --> 00:01:08.560 you win the pot. Wow. Wow, a little raffle. It's a 14 00:01:08.560 --> 00:01:15.359 good idea. Thank you, Thank you for knowing that. It's pretty good, 15 00:01:15.640 --> 00:01:17.719 right, I just came up with that. Is there a way we 16 00:01:17.719 --> 00:01:22.400 can make it so it's like has to be drawn four times a year. 17 00:01:22.959 --> 00:01:26.040 That means you wish. Hey, I'm a month and a half into this, 18 00:01:26.159 --> 00:01:32.519 because we're just about I almost there. I should get a chip every 19 00:01:32.560 --> 00:01:36.319 month. I don't clip my toneails. It's self care, honey. It 20 00:01:36.359 --> 00:01:38.760 was your birthday, March seventeenth was the last time I clipped them. Oh 21 00:01:38.799 --> 00:01:45.280 my gosh, they're not bad. It's so scary that you know that information 22 00:01:45.319 --> 00:01:47.599 well because I remembered it, because I knew it was I was on your 23 00:01:47.599 --> 00:01:49.439 birthday. I would remember because I really want to know how many times a 24 00:01:49.480 --> 00:01:53.439 year I do it. That doesn't mean you need to do it. Last 25 00:01:53.920 --> 00:02:00.760 shout out to my friend Ron Robinson his Radio Days podcast because he said he 26 00:02:00.799 --> 00:02:06.599 wears socks at night to protect his wife. So I don't do that. 27 00:02:06.640 --> 00:02:08.879 I don't know if that's because he's funny, not as sweet as Ron, 28 00:02:09.479 --> 00:02:15.120 or I don't know, not as thoughtful is Ron. Not sure. Maybe 29 00:02:15.120 --> 00:02:17.319 it's a guy thing, and maybe it's just a Corey Ron thing. I 30 00:02:17.400 --> 00:02:22.400 don't know. As far as I know, all guys don't care about their 31 00:02:22.400 --> 00:02:25.400 tonails being clipped. Well you should, because Ron's the only person I think 32 00:02:25.400 --> 00:02:28.960 I've ever talked to you about it, So he's the only man. But 33 00:02:29.080 --> 00:02:38.719 I know, so all men that I know don't be clipping one time. 34 00:02:38.840 --> 00:02:44.280 And I don't know, I shouldn't even talk about that. Well, I 35 00:02:44.360 --> 00:02:50.159 kept ruining my socks because the tonail was poking through. Yeah, that took 36 00:02:50.159 --> 00:02:54.240 me like three or four pairs, Like realize, oh that's why. Yeah, 37 00:02:54.280 --> 00:03:00.919 because your shoes are not going to fit you anymore. It's really disturbing. 38 00:03:02.960 --> 00:03:06.560 Anyway, how are you doing any day recovery? So war work on 39 00:03:06.639 --> 00:03:09.719 that whole little bit thing. But I can't know that, Like whoever wants 40 00:03:09.759 --> 00:03:15.000 to raffle in on this or get a piece of it? Um email Marning 41 00:03:15.120 --> 00:03:20.599 because I can't know what day you pick. I don't know. Maybe that'll 42 00:03:20.639 --> 00:03:23.919 be something that we'll do at the two seventeen Recovery Center. Maybe let's have 43 00:03:23.960 --> 00:03:25.039 a calendar. I'm like, you want you want to end on this? 44 00:03:25.159 --> 00:03:30.479 Man, I don't know, but yeah, the two seventeen Recovery Center though 45 00:03:30.879 --> 00:03:37.360 it's coming along, there's gonna be some meetings starting not this coming week but 46 00:03:37.400 --> 00:03:42.240 the following week. And people are like, oh, you're doing like an 47 00:03:42.280 --> 00:03:49.439 A and A. It's like, nah, not really we're doing similar stuff, 48 00:03:49.439 --> 00:03:53.879 I guess, but it's more of UM, I don't want to say 49 00:03:53.000 --> 00:03:57.520 start your own meeting, but kind of like that. Yeah, I think 50 00:03:57.560 --> 00:04:00.360 that kind of the platform that we're going to start with is just that their 51 00:04:00.400 --> 00:04:09.000 twelve step groups and their peer lad and so um. Essentially lots of times 52 00:04:09.000 --> 00:04:17.680 are going to be geared towards gratitudes, so not specific to AA or NAUM. 53 00:04:18.120 --> 00:04:23.519 Obviously all those materials people can draw from that. You know, we 54 00:04:23.639 --> 00:04:29.680 have that literature available too in the office, but it's not going to be 55 00:04:29.720 --> 00:04:33.639 structured as one or the other. It's a little bit more kind of a 56 00:04:33.759 --> 00:04:40.600 free free form yeah, which I think will be cool. And you can 57 00:04:40.720 --> 00:04:44.920 join us on zoom too. We'll have all that stuff posted on our app 58 00:04:45.199 --> 00:04:47.680 and the website yeah to seventeen recovery dot com. So look for that, 59 00:04:47.839 --> 00:04:51.160 not like in a couple of days, but like the next one. You 60 00:04:51.160 --> 00:04:56.959 can look for the stuff at that posted this week sometime, but let be 61 00:04:57.000 --> 00:05:00.720 starting next week. It'll be pretty pretty fun, pretty interesting, and it'll 62 00:05:00.759 --> 00:05:03.920 be nice to see guys starting something in women that they want to do. 63 00:05:04.240 --> 00:05:10.000 Yeah, and we're gonna have a family meeting, a family support meeting every 64 00:05:10.000 --> 00:05:14.800 other week and that kind of coincides with addiction stream of services and what they 65 00:05:14.839 --> 00:05:17.839 do every other week, so like it'll be hitting every week pretty much. 66 00:05:18.079 --> 00:05:24.399 Yeah. So I think that's really good and gives him another option. And 67 00:05:24.439 --> 00:05:30.759 then we're gonna have a gamblers some group. Yeah, gambling addiction support group, 68 00:05:30.800 --> 00:05:35.879 which I think is huge. And Marshall who his name is Mitchell, 69 00:05:35.920 --> 00:05:41.160 That's all I was gonna say, OK, come on, honey, you 70 00:05:41.160 --> 00:05:45.639 didn't even let me get it out there. There's much all right there, 71 00:05:46.519 --> 00:05:54.639 but he's starting a spirit spirit of recovering there again, he didn't let me 72 00:05:54.639 --> 00:06:00.160 finish it. I didn't even go nasty there. I wasn't even gonna do 73 00:06:00.199 --> 00:06:08.199 anything sexual, just like you know. So he's starting, wasn't this spirit 74 00:06:08.360 --> 00:06:15.279 of recovery And that's going to be on Saturdays at ten and yeah, like 75 00:06:15.319 --> 00:06:18.920 I said, if you want to jump on zoom, you know, our 76 00:06:18.920 --> 00:06:24.319 place isn't that huge and we're not trying to pack like fifty people into it, 77 00:06:24.639 --> 00:06:28.319 right maybe like ten if that, so if you want to come, 78 00:06:28.439 --> 00:06:32.079 I think, um Mitchell in his meeting, they have like seats that you 79 00:06:32.120 --> 00:06:38.319 can like reserve or something working on that the details, but I know that's 80 00:06:38.319 --> 00:06:44.199 like on zoom and stuff, so check that out. And then Adam still 81 00:06:44.199 --> 00:06:46.720 working on the name of his I believe it was up and at him. 82 00:06:46.879 --> 00:06:50.160 I really think it's cute. I like the name. And then it was 83 00:06:50.879 --> 00:06:59.680 up and and but I don't know. It was all like it was an 84 00:07:00.040 --> 00:07:03.120 AT symbol. Yeah, and then Adam something else and I don't know, 85 00:07:03.600 --> 00:07:09.360 and then he did Sunday Morning Huddle or something. Okay, that's cute too. 86 00:07:10.600 --> 00:07:12.959 Yeah, but he's working on the name, but that'll be Sunday Mornings, 87 00:07:13.079 --> 00:07:15.360 which I think will be cool. Ice to love going to Sunday morning 88 00:07:15.360 --> 00:07:17.920 meetings. Yeah, And I think the beauty of all of this is that 89 00:07:18.160 --> 00:07:23.199 they're peer led and so it's really you know, the facilitator is there to 90 00:07:23.279 --> 00:07:27.879 just make sure the meeting happens. And I think that the kind of piece 91 00:07:28.079 --> 00:07:31.800 of having these groups is they're gonna just they're gonna flow how they flow. 92 00:07:32.480 --> 00:07:35.720 I mean, there's going to be kind of an organic piece to it that 93 00:07:36.240 --> 00:07:39.480 it's just going to be people are going to go there and it's a safe 94 00:07:39.480 --> 00:07:43.439 place to talk about what's going on with you and you know, in your 95 00:07:43.480 --> 00:07:49.079 recovery, if good stuff, bad stuff, you know, trials and tribulations, 96 00:07:49.120 --> 00:07:56.680 you know, successes and celebrations, everything across the board, and really 97 00:07:56.720 --> 00:08:03.439 kind of with an emphasis on that support port of and empowering environment. I 98 00:08:03.480 --> 00:08:07.120 think it's really what we're going for, and I think it's gonna be great. 99 00:08:09.040 --> 00:08:15.399 Yeah. I was thinking about this the other day because sometimes when we 100 00:08:15.600 --> 00:08:18.319 because we are funded through grants, and you know, I was looking for 101 00:08:18.360 --> 00:08:26.279 some and it's said in there that they would support an organization that is following 102 00:08:26.519 --> 00:08:33.840 the proven methods for like meetings and stuff like that, and I started thinking, 103 00:08:33.960 --> 00:08:39.120 like I was driving today, I was thinking about that, like proven, 104 00:08:41.759 --> 00:08:48.000 like oh, AA's proven okay, and a's a proven okay. But 105 00:08:48.519 --> 00:08:52.600 even when somebody was thinking, hey, arn't therapy when they were first thinking 106 00:08:52.639 --> 00:08:56.679 that, you know, people are probably like, no, it's not proven. 107 00:08:56.720 --> 00:09:00.000 I don't know. And the guy was like, I like to pet 108 00:09:00.080 --> 00:09:01.799 horses that it really calls me down and it keeps me sober, and people 109 00:09:01.759 --> 00:09:07.039 are probably experiential therapy. Yeah, but is it proven. Yeah, it's 110 00:09:07.080 --> 00:09:11.919 an evidence based practice, you know. So that just means that there's been 111 00:09:11.960 --> 00:09:18.480 studies done that people that attend these groups fill in the blank there success that 112 00:09:18.559 --> 00:09:22.799 there is like one person that succeeds. No, it's measured. I mean 113 00:09:22.879 --> 00:09:30.159 it's it's because it's not. It's just it's just data that's been That's why 114 00:09:30.240 --> 00:09:35.279 there's all these journal articles all over the universe about what percent I don't ask 115 00:09:35.320 --> 00:09:37.399 them, Probably the wrong person, maybe you do know, but what percent 116 00:09:37.440 --> 00:09:41.759 will that have to be at to be a proven there's not. They do 117 00:09:41.799 --> 00:09:45.159 it in different ways. They'll do studies where they'll say, you know, 118 00:09:45.240 --> 00:09:48.360 either they're longitudinal where they have people that they follow for a certain amount of 119 00:09:48.360 --> 00:09:54.559 times, where they know that these people did attend to let's say peer led 120 00:09:54.600 --> 00:10:01.679 support group for whatever it is, and um that they gave him a survey 121 00:10:03.399 --> 00:10:05.279 at the beginning, and then they gave them a survey at the end, 122 00:10:05.360 --> 00:10:09.200 and then follow up. There's all different kinds of researches. So how do 123 00:10:09.240 --> 00:10:11.440 I get people to research me? Then? Because I got an idea, 124 00:10:11.480 --> 00:10:16.879 Oh, they don't have to research you. I mean pure support led recovery 125 00:10:16.919 --> 00:10:20.600 groups, like support groups in general, are evidence based. So let's say 126 00:10:20.679 --> 00:10:24.159 like if I we're okay, every time I was like, oh man, 127 00:10:24.200 --> 00:10:26.960 I'm having a moment. I want to go drink, and then I just 128 00:10:26.000 --> 00:10:31.080 went outside and threw a rock at somebody and I came back in. I 129 00:10:31.120 --> 00:10:33.159 was like, I didn't drink. That's awesome. And I started a little 130 00:10:33.200 --> 00:10:37.960 club and every time we get to urge or something, we run outside. 131 00:10:37.000 --> 00:10:41.639 We started throwing rocks at people. I'm like, hey, man, I've 132 00:10:41.639 --> 00:10:46.559 been sober for twenty years. It's proven. Okay, yeah, just give 133 00:10:46.600 --> 00:10:50.600 me PULSI okay something Probably not no, I think so I'm probably going to 134 00:10:50.679 --> 00:10:52.960 jail. I can't throw rocks at people. But you know what I'm saying, 135 00:10:54.000 --> 00:10:58.039 like, I don't know. I guess that's something that we'll have to 136 00:10:58.799 --> 00:11:03.559 figure out. Because I'm sure norm who's starting is what is that one of 137 00:11:03.600 --> 00:11:09.919 the spiritualities search for Serenity? Yeah, it's close that group. I'm sure 138 00:11:09.919 --> 00:11:15.120 he's gonna want that, like proven or is it already or you already said 139 00:11:15.120 --> 00:11:18.480 the pure lad, Well, it's pure, it's pure. It's pure lead. 140 00:11:18.879 --> 00:11:24.480 But it's uh that one in particular, it follows it's a he's using 141 00:11:24.679 --> 00:11:31.480 a book that is available just on Amazon, and it started off I guess 142 00:11:31.759 --> 00:11:37.360 essentially introduced and used maybe by alcoholics anonymous. And I'm just saying that because 143 00:11:37.360 --> 00:11:43.679 it's in if you look onlines what it says Um, but that it's veered 144 00:11:43.679 --> 00:11:50.039 off and it's been just used by different different populations or therapists even have given 145 00:11:50.080 --> 00:11:58.080 it to clients or used an individual sessions or groups. Um. But yeah, 146 00:11:58.159 --> 00:12:01.600 I mean it's I know a little bit about it. I don't know 147 00:12:01.639 --> 00:12:05.919 a lot about it, but from what I understand, I mean, he 148 00:12:05.000 --> 00:12:09.000 loves it and he thinks it's going to be a really good kind of um 149 00:12:11.480 --> 00:12:16.960 programming kind of to use for that group. Yeah, or through the book, 150 00:12:16.960 --> 00:12:18.799 it's gonna be great too. And if he loves it and yep, 151 00:12:20.159 --> 00:12:24.320 he's into it, and then that's that's a huge plus. And then Rachel, 152 00:12:24.440 --> 00:12:28.960 our very own Rachel Pee is going to be she's gonna be doing a 153 00:12:28.000 --> 00:12:33.399 smart Recovery group and she went through the training for that and she absolutely loves 154 00:12:33.600 --> 00:12:41.799 that pathway nice. So she's a certified trainer and trainer, she's certified facilitator. 155 00:12:41.399 --> 00:12:46.840 So she's gonna be running that group. That's amazing. So we're at 156 00:12:46.879 --> 00:12:50.200 all kinds of meetings that are going to happen. Those will be posted on 157 00:12:50.240 --> 00:12:56.440 our website probably next week, No, it will be this this coming week, 158 00:12:56.639 --> 00:13:01.279 coming week. Yes, so in our zoom idea will be on there. 159 00:13:03.519 --> 00:13:11.440 The more the merrier, So yeah, join us, join us, 160 00:13:11.840 --> 00:13:13.440 And especially for the family group, well, I guess for all of them, 161 00:13:13.480 --> 00:13:18.279 but the family group I think will be interesting because the people that are 162 00:13:18.279 --> 00:13:22.600 coming are from this area and they're kind of new to it, some of 163 00:13:22.639 --> 00:13:24.960 them, and you know, they're just trying to find out like what do 164 00:13:26.000 --> 00:13:28.159 we do? You know, my kids doing this or my my brother's doing 165 00:13:28.200 --> 00:13:33.320 this or whatever, you know, and I think they're going to be you 166 00:13:33.360 --> 00:13:35.720 know, okay, well when we went to California and we're like, well, 167 00:13:35.919 --> 00:13:39.919 same stories, you know, like if they're so similar. And then 168 00:13:39.159 --> 00:13:43.360 I remember jumping on when COVID is going on and I was like doing meetings 169 00:13:43.399 --> 00:13:46.480 all over the world and same stories, and you're like, but that dude's 170 00:13:46.480 --> 00:13:50.480 in Ireland. Yep, it works the same way. You know. That's 171 00:13:50.519 --> 00:13:56.080 so crazy. I think that I'll kind of be that'll be the reaction to 172 00:13:56.120 --> 00:13:58.440 some of the people in the family, Like if they're talking to somebody in 173 00:13:58.480 --> 00:14:01.159 Colorado, you know, and they're like hey, or you know don in 174 00:14:01.200 --> 00:14:03.559 Florida and they're like, what, like, you guys go through the same 175 00:14:03.600 --> 00:14:07.440 stuff too, and they're like, oh my gosh. Yeah, Yeah, 176 00:14:07.480 --> 00:14:11.240 it'll be very beneficial for everybody, I think. Yeah, so I'm pretty 177 00:14:11.240 --> 00:14:15.279 excited. And that'll be on Mondays every other week. But like I said, 178 00:14:15.279 --> 00:14:18.000 the schedule, check it out, come on come this coming week to 179 00:14:18.080 --> 00:14:22.759 seventeen recovery dot com. Yeah. So we watched a movie tonight too. 180 00:14:22.480 --> 00:14:28.240 We then and I want to review it, but first I want to hear 181 00:14:28.840 --> 00:14:35.360 how are you doing. I'm doing good. I'm doing good. I'm feeling 182 00:14:35.679 --> 00:14:41.840 the end of the semester kind of relief a little bit. Okay, it's 183 00:14:41.879 --> 00:14:46.039 not quite there yet, but yep. Going back to school for your masters 184 00:14:46.120 --> 00:14:50.679 and just about finished. I'm almost on. I'm in the homestretch for sure. 185 00:14:50.879 --> 00:14:56.200 Start on your doctor. No, not doing that kind of that's not 186 00:14:56.279 --> 00:14:58.759 in my future. I have no desire to do it. I mean, 187 00:15:00.159 --> 00:15:03.200 the thing is too is with that when I finally get my masters, there's 188 00:15:03.240 --> 00:15:09.120 always things to learn, you know, there's always continuing education and workshops and 189 00:15:09.200 --> 00:15:15.240 you know, conferences and and that part. That's part of the reason why 190 00:15:15.440 --> 00:15:20.159 I pursued this is because I love what I'm learning and it makes sense to 191 00:15:20.200 --> 00:15:26.840 me. So and it's it's kind of funny, and we're not funny, 192 00:15:26.840 --> 00:15:31.480 but when you are doing your thing, and you're like da da da da 193 00:15:31.519 --> 00:15:35.559 this and that, and I'm always like trying to go the way opposite of 194 00:15:35.720 --> 00:15:39.480 anything that's even an answer. I'm always like, well what about that? 195 00:15:39.519 --> 00:15:43.159 But how do you cover that? And what about bees? You just kind 196 00:15:43.159 --> 00:15:50.039 of look at me and you just kind of let it go. But I'm 197 00:15:50.080 --> 00:15:52.399 just like, well that doesn't make any sense, and you're just like look 198 00:15:52.440 --> 00:15:54.480 at me, and then you're just like back into your stuff, and I'm 199 00:15:54.480 --> 00:16:00.960 like, okay, I'll just shut up. She was just talking out loud. 200 00:16:00.960 --> 00:16:04.639 She wasn't asking me, okay, which guys that I'll save you a 201 00:16:04.639 --> 00:16:11.240 lot of arguments just saying, you know, just learn what. She's not 202 00:16:11.320 --> 00:16:15.679 talking to you. She's talking out loud, but she's not really looking for 203 00:16:15.720 --> 00:16:18.679 an answer. She doesn't want you to well, I'll save the day here, 204 00:16:18.759 --> 00:16:22.559 honey. You mean when I'm writing things, when you're writing things, 205 00:16:22.639 --> 00:16:25.000 or when you're talking, sometimes you just kind of talk out loud and I'm 206 00:16:25.000 --> 00:16:29.039 like, well, oh yeah, go ahead and suggest and you're on to 207 00:16:29.120 --> 00:16:30.279 the next. I'm like, well, then she wasn't wanting that, And 208 00:16:30.279 --> 00:16:33.000 then I'm like, no, she doesn't. Oh my gosh, that's adorable. 209 00:16:33.720 --> 00:16:37.279 I'm just you know, I just helped a lot of guys out actually 210 00:16:37.279 --> 00:16:41.120 if they can. Ah. But see here's another piece though. You shouldn't 211 00:16:41.200 --> 00:16:48.639 be I think you should be flattered because like you're my sounding board, yeah 212 00:16:48.240 --> 00:16:52.639 you know, and I kind of, like, I don't know, bounced 213 00:16:52.759 --> 00:16:59.960 ideas off of you or talk out loud about school and you listen so great. 214 00:17:00.440 --> 00:17:08.200 I'm just saying, guys, and my idol Gordon Keith once said the 215 00:17:08.240 --> 00:17:12.359 world will be a much better place if we took the advice that we give, 216 00:17:14.200 --> 00:17:17.920 and I do, Guys, I'm telling you it'll just she's not looking 217 00:17:17.920 --> 00:17:25.880 for you to save the day, just not in going you'll know when she 218 00:17:25.920 --> 00:17:30.559 wants an answer. We're not saving the day, guys. I'm just saying, 219 00:17:32.559 --> 00:17:37.799 well, that's good though that you're kind of moving forward to the graduation 220 00:17:37.839 --> 00:17:40.000 and then you still got a little bit more to do. But that's good. 221 00:17:41.400 --> 00:17:47.480 Yep, thanks are good. That is So. We watched a movie 222 00:17:47.519 --> 00:17:52.160 tonight, yes, called Champions, Yes, with Woody Harrelson. I'm a 223 00:17:52.240 --> 00:18:00.039 huge fan of his. I am too. And if you have peacock a 224 00:18:00.039 --> 00:18:07.720 peacock but just the channel used to be NBC whatever streaming it's free yea, 225 00:18:07.759 --> 00:18:11.440 So I had to watch it. I was pretty excited, so we watched 226 00:18:11.480 --> 00:18:18.000 it. We started watching it, and it was not what I thought was 227 00:18:18.000 --> 00:18:21.279 going to be. Calling off guard a little bit. I guess I should 228 00:18:21.279 --> 00:18:23.079 have watched the trailer. But had Woody Harrelson in it, it was free. 229 00:18:23.440 --> 00:18:30.200 Why not. He's the basketball coach and he gets kicked off this team, 230 00:18:30.440 --> 00:18:34.519 a college team where he was the assistant coach, and then he gets 231 00:18:34.519 --> 00:18:41.960 a drunk driving so he's made to do community service, and his community services 232 00:18:41.960 --> 00:18:44.839 the option to do community service or go to prison for eighteen months, So 233 00:18:44.839 --> 00:18:52.400 he chooses community service to coach this basketball team of what did they what does 234 00:18:52.440 --> 00:19:00.640 the judge call it? Special Olympics called it? She called it Disability Adults 235 00:19:00.720 --> 00:19:07.319 with the Community stir Community Center for Adults and Disabilities, something like that. 236 00:19:07.359 --> 00:19:14.839 Anyway, that's what it was, and overall there was some funny moments. 237 00:19:14.880 --> 00:19:18.720 We both laughed out loud a few times. It kind of felt like a 238 00:19:18.799 --> 00:19:23.200 kid movie but kind of didn't. Yeah, it also has the woman from 239 00:19:23.279 --> 00:19:29.799 It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, the one who's married to the guy from that 240 00:19:29.839 --> 00:19:33.799 show. But it was cute. I guess it was funny. It was 241 00:19:33.920 --> 00:19:41.680 kind of what do you want to say heartwarming? Yeah it was a feel 242 00:19:41.680 --> 00:19:45.599 good movie. Yeah, yeah, it really. It was cute. Um, 243 00:19:45.839 --> 00:19:49.880 he was good in it. It was probably made during COVID. Well 244 00:19:49.960 --> 00:19:53.839 yeah it was because so there's like, you know, it's got that feel 245 00:19:53.960 --> 00:19:57.000 that it was made during COVID. I don't know what it is where it's 246 00:19:57.039 --> 00:20:02.720 like the storyline's great, the that's great, Like the cast is great. 247 00:20:02.759 --> 00:20:07.200 They're incorporating you know, these all these individuals you know with disabilities that are 248 00:20:07.039 --> 00:20:15.440 hilarious and awesome and on point, but just the storyline sometimes didn't flow, 249 00:20:15.640 --> 00:20:19.720 and like the the camera work was not that good sometimes, but overall good 250 00:20:19.720 --> 00:20:23.200 movie. Yeah. It was like they should have had like what do you 251 00:20:23.200 --> 00:20:26.880 Harrelson has his assistant? First coffee? What do you Harrelson has? Somebody 252 00:20:26.880 --> 00:20:32.079 who dressed him? He had like five stand ins, He had his RV 253 00:20:32.279 --> 00:20:36.400 driver, he had his RV assistant driver. And it says it in the 254 00:20:36.400 --> 00:20:41.440 credits like Woody Harrelson's chef, what do you Harrelsons? Like everything was like 255 00:20:41.440 --> 00:20:45.119 what do you Harrelson's this what? I'm like, Jesus Man, how about 256 00:20:45.440 --> 00:20:48.839 See they spent so much money in just making Woody Harrelson happy. They forgot 257 00:20:48.839 --> 00:20:52.400 to get somebody to edit the script, and wow, edit the film. 258 00:20:52.559 --> 00:20:56.759 The thing is, if it wouldn't have been him, would you have watched 259 00:20:56.799 --> 00:21:02.720 the movie? No, there you go. So they're like, she's like, 260 00:21:03.400 --> 00:21:06.640 are we gonna do this? Come on in and just pitch dark outside, 261 00:21:06.680 --> 00:21:08.200 and then boom they cut to the bedroom when it's middle of the daylight 262 00:21:08.240 --> 00:21:11.039 and you're at his house, not hers, and you're like, wait what. 263 00:21:11.279 --> 00:21:14.640 And when he goes to her house there's always snow on the ground and 264 00:21:14.680 --> 00:21:18.240 you can like see their breath and it's like freezing cold, and there's like 265 00:21:18.240 --> 00:21:22.920 an inch of snow every time. And then when he goes on the opposite 266 00:21:22.920 --> 00:21:26.160 side of town or wherever it is, it's not her house. It's fall. 267 00:21:26.240 --> 00:21:30.799 It's fall. Yeah, not even snow, none at all. Yeah. 268 00:21:30.839 --> 00:21:33.440 And then one time they were at her house, I think it was 269 00:21:33.720 --> 00:21:34.839 kind of at the end, and it was fall again, and you could 270 00:21:34.839 --> 00:21:40.039 tell by the way that the sunlight comes it's more of a warm light as 271 00:21:40.079 --> 00:21:45.200 a spring is more of a a whiter light. I'm just trust me on 272 00:21:45.319 --> 00:21:48.920 that. And it was weird because I'm like, it's fall and you can 273 00:21:48.960 --> 00:21:52.359 just tell it's fall and it's not spring, and yet it's supposed to be 274 00:21:52.440 --> 00:21:56.599 ninety days past when they just started it, so like wait what and then 275 00:21:56.599 --> 00:21:57.920 the snow again. It's like not just a little bit of snow, it's 276 00:21:57.920 --> 00:22:00.160 like a bunch of snow. And would have made sense if it would have 277 00:22:00.200 --> 00:22:06.599 like transparted throughout the movie, like went from it being fall to winter, 278 00:22:06.960 --> 00:22:10.200 but it was like the opposite, and there's no holidays in there, so 279 00:22:10.240 --> 00:22:12.640 you never really knew what season it was in. You're kind of in limbo 280 00:22:12.720 --> 00:22:18.000 with this basketball season and there's like it's Iowa. Maybe you're just supposed to 281 00:22:18.039 --> 00:22:23.960 know, yeah that it's just unpredictable. It's it definitely didn't do anything for 282 00:22:25.000 --> 00:22:29.079 Iowa that makes me want to go to Iowa. Because you even asked me, 283 00:22:29.119 --> 00:22:30.640 You're like, you want to go to Des Moines, Iowa, and 284 00:22:30.680 --> 00:22:33.759 I said, no, right, no offense to people in Des Moines, 285 00:22:33.839 --> 00:22:37.920 Iowa. I just don't ever want to go there. There's just not a 286 00:22:37.960 --> 00:22:41.079 reason. I don't think there's not a reason to go a lot of places. 287 00:22:41.240 --> 00:22:45.559 There's something cool there. I'm sure there is, Yeah, so enjoy 288 00:22:45.599 --> 00:22:49.799 it just all to yourself. De Moine. It looks like they have a 289 00:22:49.799 --> 00:22:55.240 really nice restaurant there. Yeah, one that they kept filming in. I've 290 00:22:55.319 --> 00:22:57.440 told you it's COVID movie. Yeah, I don't know. But if you 291 00:22:57.480 --> 00:23:00.119 can get past those little things and then, like you said, the shaky 292 00:23:00.160 --> 00:23:06.319 camera, and I was like, well, yeah, I'm not gonna say 293 00:23:06.359 --> 00:23:11.839 what I said, but because it's not important. But if you can get 294 00:23:11.880 --> 00:23:15.119 past that that stuff, cute movie. Yes, cute movie for sure. 295 00:23:17.400 --> 00:23:21.640 So I would give it a three out of five. I'm with you, 296 00:23:21.640 --> 00:23:26.839 equal six out of ten. I'm with you. Enjoy that. If you 297 00:23:26.880 --> 00:23:37.039 have peacock, it's free. Yeah, anything else, I yet nothing. 298 00:23:37.279 --> 00:23:41.920 I'm just enjoying. I'm enjoying the weekend. And got to see some family 299 00:23:41.160 --> 00:23:48.759 on Friday. Oh we got to see some familiar face from our history. 300 00:23:48.279 --> 00:23:53.000 Oh yeah about that? Okay, yeah, you go ahead, are you? 301 00:23:53.640 --> 00:24:00.400 Oh? I was just no. So we had my sister, who 302 00:24:00.640 --> 00:24:07.599 is I don't see very often, was coming down into Michigan from Washington, 303 00:24:07.680 --> 00:24:11.200 d C. And she was only going to be in town for a few 304 00:24:11.319 --> 00:24:15.640 days. But my dad also lives downstate, just Corey's father in law, 305 00:24:17.319 --> 00:24:23.920 and so we decided to We figured out that there was a ride that was 306 00:24:23.960 --> 00:24:27.240 going to be down in that area, so we decided to make the trip 307 00:24:27.240 --> 00:24:33.599 down there, and what's my dad? And we're able to our Stanford House 308 00:24:34.960 --> 00:24:42.599 and which is a treatment program, and it was a beautiful home. Was 309 00:24:42.720 --> 00:24:48.480 gorgeous home. I mean so much character, so much history. Really, 310 00:24:49.400 --> 00:24:52.480 I can't even imagine being able to have the opportunity to go there. It 311 00:24:52.519 --> 00:24:59.039 seemed really neat, and the staff was on point and amazing and very like 312 00:25:00.160 --> 00:25:06.799 solution focused and person centered and like, you know, in tune with what 313 00:25:06.880 --> 00:25:12.759 was going on. And the guy who runs it we both know from him 314 00:25:12.799 --> 00:25:17.720 being a I don't remember you would know what his title was when he was 315 00:25:17.759 --> 00:25:22.359 there and I was there, he had a couple of different titles. Yeah, 316 00:25:22.400 --> 00:25:25.440 but he was. He worked to the place I went to the last 317 00:25:25.440 --> 00:25:29.039 time I went to treatment, and he was like the HR assistant or something. 318 00:25:29.000 --> 00:25:34.920 I think he started out as Andy. He had to like t take 319 00:25:36.000 --> 00:25:38.279 notes from all the crazy stuff that I was telling him, because they had 320 00:25:38.279 --> 00:25:45.440 a security guard there that said that everybody in room two seventeen better be careful 321 00:25:45.480 --> 00:25:48.720 because he is our worst nightmare. And I was like, you know, 322 00:25:48.880 --> 00:25:52.839 my nightmare is man. So I like filed the complaint and then they came 323 00:25:52.839 --> 00:25:55.960 to talk to me about it, like okay, so what's what's going on? 324 00:25:56.119 --> 00:25:59.839 Like, man, he said that he's my worst nightmare. And he's 325 00:25:59.880 --> 00:26:02.799 like, you don't know about my nightmares. And I'll started talking about like 326 00:26:03.759 --> 00:26:07.319 what happens when the electric goes off. My electric gets shut off? You 327 00:26:07.319 --> 00:26:11.079 know, that's a nightmare. And then like I was like I could be 328 00:26:11.279 --> 00:26:15.000 you know, I had one dream and it was a nightmare that I kidnapped 329 00:26:15.400 --> 00:26:21.240 by a bunch of biker midgets and they like did things to me sexually in 330 00:26:21.319 --> 00:26:25.319 a basement at some house I didn't know, and I don't want him to 331 00:26:25.359 --> 00:26:27.119 do that to me. And like he's like writing all the stuff down, 332 00:26:27.119 --> 00:26:30.160 and I mean and I just kept coming with it, you know, because 333 00:26:30.160 --> 00:26:36.359 I was on I was. I was rolling with it that day and yeah, 334 00:26:36.400 --> 00:26:41.799 so that's the guy. And then later he was like he didn't hire 335 00:26:41.880 --> 00:26:47.119 me. It's gotta named Stephen did. But and then Stephen like a week 336 00:26:47.200 --> 00:26:48.799 later, I was like, well, I'm not Chboshton wore, I'm taking 337 00:26:48.839 --> 00:26:49.960 the Sloughter job. But I was like, dude, I like came here 338 00:26:51.000 --> 00:26:53.480 because you were my boss, Like this stupid. And then he took over 339 00:26:55.319 --> 00:26:56.440 that position, but you could tell he didn't really want it, and he 340 00:26:56.519 --> 00:27:00.359 was like doing like three other positions, and it's like, what the hell 341 00:27:00.359 --> 00:27:03.079 man is going on? And when it got to the point because that place 342 00:27:03.200 --> 00:27:07.599 was like a joke and a really bad joke for people going there for treatment, 343 00:27:07.640 --> 00:27:11.400 and I wouldn't recommend it. It's like a McDonald's of the treatment industry. 344 00:27:11.480 --> 00:27:15.680 That's my opinion as a professional radio broadcaster and as a human being. 345 00:27:17.240 --> 00:27:21.000 And it was work, it was it was messed with my sobriety. I 346 00:27:21.000 --> 00:27:22.400 couldn't take it no more. And so I was like just gonna quit, 347 00:27:22.759 --> 00:27:26.640 leave him behind dry and then Tyrone told me, no, I couldn't do 348 00:27:26.680 --> 00:27:30.480 that because I committed to it. So I said, damn you, Tyrone. 349 00:27:30.920 --> 00:27:33.319 Okay, I want my ninety day review. So I was like, 350 00:27:33.319 --> 00:27:36.559 I want my ninety day review. I want I'm a ninety day review. 351 00:27:37.240 --> 00:27:41.000 And then you know, Lance is the guy I was like, okay. 352 00:27:41.319 --> 00:27:45.359 So he meets with me and we're going you know, and I'm like a 353 00:27:45.359 --> 00:27:49.359 look man, and he's like, well, I think I said this is 354 00:27:49.480 --> 00:27:52.319 this is messed with my sobriety and not working out, and he was like, 355 00:27:52.359 --> 00:27:56.480 we're feeling the same way. I was like, cool, so you 356 00:27:56.480 --> 00:27:57.599 you know, but I didn't hold against Lance, and I could tell he 357 00:27:57.640 --> 00:28:02.240 hated that. He hated there too. Anybody that's serious about it hates working 358 00:28:02.279 --> 00:28:04.640 there. So I didn't take it personal. I you know, I would 359 00:28:04.680 --> 00:28:10.960 say I quit the right way, departed the right way, and I felt 360 00:28:10.960 --> 00:28:15.519 good about myself. And then Lance later on because I wasn't holding grudges or 361 00:28:15.880 --> 00:28:19.359 didn't take it personal, he didn't take it personal. We still kind of 362 00:28:19.400 --> 00:28:22.480 had that little friendship there, and he was listening to the podcast still and 363 00:28:23.920 --> 00:28:30.759 I knew he worked at Stanford House. And I interviewed Ray and she's like, 364 00:28:30.160 --> 00:28:33.480 well, I'm not like but she's the owner of Sanford House. W 365 00:28:33.559 --> 00:28:37.880 and her husband started it. And it was one of the best interviews I've 366 00:28:37.880 --> 00:28:41.440 ever had. And I don't even know it went maybe an hour and a 367 00:28:41.480 --> 00:28:45.319 half. We were just talking. You can look for that if you have 368 00:28:45.359 --> 00:28:48.559 the app, you can go back and listen to that podcast and the special 369 00:28:48.599 --> 00:28:52.200 guests or whatever. But it was it was really fun and like just to 370 00:28:52.279 --> 00:29:00.559 know that just by keeping it professional an adult like that was the only reason 371 00:29:00.559 --> 00:29:04.759 why I kind of got her on the podcast. So that was cool and 372 00:29:04.799 --> 00:29:11.039 there, Um, we had to go down there and get somebody. So 373 00:29:11.240 --> 00:29:14.440 we said what's up and he showed us around and it was really really cool. 374 00:29:14.599 --> 00:29:18.680 Yeah, it was neat and coming full circle that. Yeah. Like 375 00:29:19.559 --> 00:29:26.480 however, many four years ago from him writing down like if, like if 376 00:29:26.440 --> 00:29:29.559 you would have like popped in in that in that moment and like time out 377 00:29:29.599 --> 00:29:33.480 and just froze it like the movie Click. Just possibly look, Lance, 378 00:29:33.400 --> 00:29:37.039 you're gonna be talking with this dude. This dude that's talking about all this 379 00:29:37.160 --> 00:29:41.599 crazy stuff is his worst nightmare. Like he's gonna be kind of doing some 380 00:29:41.599 --> 00:29:45.359 pretty cool stuff and recovery. But just hear him out, but just trust 381 00:29:45.400 --> 00:29:47.680 me, Like he would have been like, whoa, whoa this guy? 382 00:29:48.200 --> 00:29:52.559 Yeah, like what are you talking about? How? Yeah sounds pretty funny. 383 00:29:55.079 --> 00:29:56.440 You're like, I guess man, No, it is funny, it's 384 00:29:56.519 --> 00:30:00.920 I think it's just really cool. It was just like kind of surreal. 385 00:30:00.839 --> 00:30:07.640 It was funny because he remembered my roommate and former co host of this podcast, 386 00:30:07.720 --> 00:30:08.799 Rob. He was like yeah, and Rob was freaking out, Like 387 00:30:11.079 --> 00:30:15.240 I was like, yeah, we made our impact, I guess, or 388 00:30:15.359 --> 00:30:21.000 we made our impression on him. That's how we got known as those two 389 00:30:21.000 --> 00:30:30.039 seventeen guys though, like people knew, ah fun recovery man, fun, 390 00:30:30.240 --> 00:30:37.400 recovery fun and recovery gotta have it so cool. Um, yeah that happened, 391 00:30:37.440 --> 00:30:41.720 so that it is nice to see people from early back in the day 392 00:30:44.039 --> 00:30:48.319 recovery and you know, and just like I see I like seeing people grow. 393 00:30:48.920 --> 00:30:52.799 You know, Jacob Sparks, who was I think gonna do rapping tonight? 394 00:30:52.400 --> 00:30:56.079 There's an a talent show and I told him I was going to go, 395 00:30:56.119 --> 00:30:59.119 but then I really wasn't feeling well and I was like, man, 396 00:31:00.039 --> 00:31:02.200 last time I went to one of those ended up with COVID, and what 397 00:31:02.319 --> 00:31:03.720 if I give us COVID to people? What if I have it? And 398 00:31:06.480 --> 00:31:07.839 so I was like, yeah, I'm not gonna go to that, but 399 00:31:08.279 --> 00:31:11.000 just to see where he came from, you know, and he just got 400 00:31:11.079 --> 00:31:18.519 us three years. So big props to Sparky there. That's awesome and hopefully 401 00:31:18.519 --> 00:31:23.039 he's tearing it up tonight. But you know, it's it is nice to 402 00:31:23.039 --> 00:31:26.880 see people like that kind of come up and where they were at and where 403 00:31:26.880 --> 00:31:30.400 they're at now. So I'm sure Lance kind of sees that with us and 404 00:31:30.440 --> 00:31:36.200 it's like, oh, that's really cool. Yeah, sure, all right, 405 00:31:36.240 --> 00:31:41.039 everybody, have a great night. That's gonna do it? All right? 406 00:31:41.119 --> 00:31:44.640 Well, yeah to seventeen recovery dot com. Check that out and then 407 00:31:44.759 --> 00:31:48.720 look for the tone no challenge. Maybe soon we'll keep you posted. 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