WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.640 --> 00:00:16.000 Made uh sanjo Oh thanks Sunny sun On I haddasione n so Nat. What's 2 00:00:16.079 --> 00:00:22.160 up everybody? Hey, it's our Friday show. Ho Hey ho spaking a 3 00:00:22.199 --> 00:00:26.039 house We want to say hi to somehow? Yeah? How about Stephanie Stinker 4 00:00:26.039 --> 00:00:31.239 Wrinker, she's a stinker and Christa you make me want to stree Buddy, 5 00:00:32.159 --> 00:00:36.079 remind me, I have to tell you something about lyrics. Sandra, it's 6 00:00:36.119 --> 00:00:41.240 not easy being green, Jennifer, get up, Aaron dirty Sanchez. We 7 00:00:41.320 --> 00:00:45.520 loved, We just love saying that, right, Sarah fun Oh, she's 8 00:00:45.600 --> 00:00:49.600 my bison. Leslie, enough with the coughing. COVID's on the Wayne. 9 00:00:49.799 --> 00:00:53.079 You can stop, You're not that's just for attention right at this point? 10 00:00:53.159 --> 00:00:58.039 Too much? And who's the other one, Leslie? Oh accosting people? 11 00:00:58.640 --> 00:01:03.079 Oh my god. She was at a Super Bowl party, lingering outside in 12 00:01:03.120 --> 00:01:07.280 the driveway. I was like, come on now, Amy's a cunt. 13 00:01:08.159 --> 00:01:12.799 Katie's rolling on me? Yeah? Not Anna? Faris Aaron? Who is 14 00:01:15.079 --> 00:01:22.040 Alicia Escalante? Kelly is not your aunt, but she will give you a 15 00:01:22.079 --> 00:01:29.719 mentors yeah, and take you a plan for an abortion. But we just 16 00:01:29.719 --> 00:01:37.480 got canceled on that one. Gabby and Missy. I heard that they were 17 00:01:37.640 --> 00:01:40.840 volunteers at the Super Bowl this year, Oh, doing the half for the 18 00:01:40.879 --> 00:01:42.319 half of a half time. Yeah, they ran on the stage and set 19 00:01:42.359 --> 00:01:48.000 up all the chairs. And I heard they're still in Vegas though, waiting 20 00:01:48.000 --> 00:01:53.280 for the busy exactly the greyhound, Katerina, check that bowler, Valerie bub 21 00:01:53.280 --> 00:01:57.400 of Fenwick, Polly, we love your pancakes andcakes now, me too, 22 00:01:57.519 --> 00:02:04.599 so hungry. Athena, we love your dancings. Yes, and Elizabeth Williamson, 23 00:02:04.640 --> 00:02:07.240 you have a lot of kids and we love them too. Yeah. 24 00:02:07.439 --> 00:02:10.560 I just saw a picture of her whole family and they're adorable. Ah, 25 00:02:12.840 --> 00:02:15.159 and Rita rocks half of them in her basinette. That's all she can fit. 26 00:02:15.199 --> 00:02:21.599 They are fully grown now kids. Jacob is so growley, and yeah, 27 00:02:21.680 --> 00:02:23.759 Ashley is so chic and sheer bear and do you want a Hershey bar? 28 00:02:23.879 --> 00:02:35.759 And Kelly lad and that's it nice? Uh, doctor Ruth, Oh 29 00:02:35.840 --> 00:02:43.199 my god. So I was at getting my hair done last week and m 30 00:02:43.319 --> 00:02:46.439 hm hmm. So when I when I have to sit for a while, 31 00:02:46.560 --> 00:02:49.800 I go sit outside, you know, in their little patio area, and 32 00:02:49.800 --> 00:02:52.400 my guys like, I'll meet you out there, we'll go sit. So 33 00:02:52.639 --> 00:02:54.680 I get like they get the cappuccino for me, and I go sit outside 34 00:02:54.840 --> 00:03:00.919 and there's a guy standing in their courtyard. This place is like they're on 35 00:03:01.639 --> 00:03:08.919 Beverly and they're in West Hollywood. Okay, Beverly and Librea. So there's 36 00:03:08.960 --> 00:03:14.840 this guy. He's put together. I mean, I mean, he's just 37 00:03:14.879 --> 00:03:19.240 wearing a black jacket, black pants, He's got a black backpack. He's 38 00:03:19.280 --> 00:03:25.120 a white dude in his forties, and he's got like a skaterboard hat that 39 00:03:25.240 --> 00:03:30.319 says suicidal tendencies on the thing and it's flipped up. The bill is like 40 00:03:30.360 --> 00:03:34.520 flipped upwards, so it says it. And he's just standing out there. 41 00:03:34.520 --> 00:03:37.639 And I was like to my guy Chris, I goes is this guy? 42 00:03:38.039 --> 00:03:39.319 And he's like, I don't know. And then the lady was like, 43 00:03:39.800 --> 00:03:43.800 I was, I wanted to take the trash out, but I don't want 44 00:03:43.800 --> 00:03:45.960 to walk past him. I don't know who he is. He's been standing 45 00:03:45.960 --> 00:03:49.599 out there for a long time. So I go, nobody knows who this 46 00:03:49.639 --> 00:03:53.199 guy is. So my guy, Chris that does my hair him and I 47 00:03:53.240 --> 00:03:55.240 go out there and Chris is like, you know what's going on, dude, 48 00:03:55.240 --> 00:04:00.400 and he's like immediately pulls out his id and He's like, dude, 49 00:04:00.840 --> 00:04:05.120 I'm hiding from MS thirteen? Is it thirteen or fourteen? Eighteen? MS 50 00:04:05.199 --> 00:04:10.319 thirteen. He's like, they're trying to kill me. I was like, 51 00:04:10.439 --> 00:04:12.280 and Chris is like, well, what do you do? Why are you 52 00:04:12.319 --> 00:04:15.159 in here? If they're chased? He's like, they're after me, and 53 00:04:15.280 --> 00:04:17.160 I ducked. I wanted to get away. They've been following me, so 54 00:04:17.199 --> 00:04:21.040 I ducked into here and I'm just waiting it out. But why does any 55 00:04:21.199 --> 00:04:28.680 like pulled his id? But like, so Chris is like, let's go 56 00:04:28.759 --> 00:04:30.959 outside into the alley and talk. So he's like, well, first, 57 00:04:31.000 --> 00:04:33.399 Chris goes, do you want should we call the police? You know? 58 00:04:33.920 --> 00:04:36.839 And he's like, yeah, yeah. They want to murder me. They 59 00:04:36.839 --> 00:04:41.519 want to chop me up. And Chris is like, okay, well let's 60 00:04:41.519 --> 00:04:44.920 go in the alley, right. So Chris is facing me. So I 61 00:04:46.199 --> 00:04:48.120 go inside and I'm like this is crazy. To the front desk girl. 62 00:04:48.199 --> 00:04:50.720 She goes, oh my god, now everybody's coming out to look at the 63 00:04:50.720 --> 00:04:55.560 guy. And now she's like I called nine one one, and I was 64 00:04:55.600 --> 00:04:58.639 like, okay, So I go in my mouth to Chris nine you know, 65 00:04:58.759 --> 00:05:00.879 police are on their way. Chris like she's talking to the guy. 66 00:05:01.199 --> 00:05:09.639 The guy lives get this at the Cecily Hotel. You mean the Cecil the 67 00:05:09.680 --> 00:05:14.279 Cecil Hotel, that's where he lives. Yes, that's where he's staying. 68 00:05:14.639 --> 00:05:17.680 So now Chris is like, okay, tweaker, Like this guy's on drugs. 69 00:05:17.959 --> 00:05:21.240 Maybe they are after him, maybe not, we don't know. He's 70 00:05:21.279 --> 00:05:27.199 like, but I didn't get the like vibe that he was like freaking out 71 00:05:27.519 --> 00:05:31.839 in the Cecil Hotel where the night stalker. Yes, and also where the 72 00:05:31.879 --> 00:05:40.240 girl who was have like a psychotic break and founder in the water tower. 73 00:05:40.839 --> 00:05:44.839 Isn't that the same? Yes, there's that whole documentary. Yes, of 74 00:05:44.920 --> 00:05:48.279 course with my favorite guy, Josh Dean, who's so cute. He was 75 00:05:48.319 --> 00:05:51.879 like them journalist. Yes, yeah, I'm a little obsessed with him. 76 00:05:53.000 --> 00:05:55.759 Yeah, I want to get him on our podcast. Sorry that that's like 77 00:05:55.759 --> 00:06:00.160 a diversion, But I think I tried to reach out to him on Instagram 78 00:06:00.279 --> 00:06:03.360 and got no response. But he's got a couple of podcasts you think you'd 79 00:06:03.360 --> 00:06:09.839 want to promote. Maybe he's very cute and he's like he knows a lot 80 00:06:09.879 --> 00:06:14.160 about cases that we're interested in. Maybe he didn't see your DM Maybe all 81 00:06:14.240 --> 00:06:15.759 right, I'll try again. I mean, do you look at the dail 82 00:06:15.879 --> 00:06:19.160 off. I don't look at him that often. Yeah, I do check 83 00:06:19.199 --> 00:06:23.920 mine. But yeah, I tried to friend him on Facebook too, I've 84 00:06:23.959 --> 00:06:28.240 tried anyway. That is so beside the point gone, well, I mean 85 00:06:28.319 --> 00:06:32.000 that's kind of basically what happened. And uh, and then I'm taking pictures 86 00:06:32.000 --> 00:06:34.879 of the guy just in case. You never know, like what if something 87 00:06:34.959 --> 00:06:39.000 happens, right, I can save the day. Hey, I took pictures 88 00:06:39.040 --> 00:06:44.399 of him. Yeah. But so then then like Chris was like, sent 89 00:06:44.560 --> 00:06:46.839 the text, send a text to the front desk girl. He's like, 90 00:06:46.199 --> 00:06:50.839 I don't think the police need to come, Like he seems like okay, 91 00:06:50.920 --> 00:06:56.240 and he's leaving. He's going on his way. So he left. But 92 00:06:56.279 --> 00:06:58.279 it was like that was the exciting. I was like, wow, this 93 00:06:58.360 --> 00:07:00.839 is pretty exciting, like you know, it was a whole thing. But 94 00:07:01.240 --> 00:07:08.079 yeah, I had a little This is so weird because this is ever so 95 00:07:08.240 --> 00:07:14.839 slightly similar. Literally two days ago, I was going to it doesn't really 96 00:07:14.920 --> 00:07:16.480 matter why, but I was going to Big five to get some sneakers. 97 00:07:16.839 --> 00:07:20.279 I park the car. I'm just not venturable of ard, like in the 98 00:07:20.319 --> 00:07:27.399 middle of a normal neighborhood and there's a there's a guy who seems off right, 99 00:07:27.519 --> 00:07:30.199 like he's dressed in all black, he's got a backpack, and he's 100 00:07:30.279 --> 00:07:34.759 kind of like walk like he's walking in the street sort of towards the car, 101 00:07:34.800 --> 00:07:38.959 but then he's kind of going on the sidewalk then going back in the 102 00:07:38.959 --> 00:07:42.240 street like you know there, you just see there's something is off about him. 103 00:07:42.240 --> 00:07:45.680 And I'm like, okay, So I wait till he walks by, 104 00:07:46.600 --> 00:07:49.240 and then I get out of the car, and then I'm starting to like 105 00:07:50.519 --> 00:07:57.000 walk up the sidewalk, but now he's like lingering, so he waits until 106 00:07:57.000 --> 00:08:03.000 I get in front of him, and I'm like, okay, what's he 107 00:08:03.120 --> 00:08:05.800 doing. Now there's another woman on the sidewalk with me, and she sees 108 00:08:05.839 --> 00:08:11.079 the same thing, and he's he's just being sus like he's but you can 109 00:08:11.120 --> 00:08:16.120 tell that there's that he has mental illness because he's like not talking to himself, 110 00:08:16.120 --> 00:08:20.759 but just you can just see by the erratic like he's just walking weird 111 00:08:20.839 --> 00:08:24.120 and then going over and then walking around a car, but then sort of 112 00:08:24.120 --> 00:08:30.439 looking like he's like watching me. He's watching us for sure. So I 113 00:08:30.560 --> 00:08:31.919 go in. So I go in. I get to Big Five and I 114 00:08:31.960 --> 00:08:35.799 walk in. The guy walks in behind me, and I'm like, oh 115 00:08:35.000 --> 00:08:41.480 no, because I'm thinking, listen, people with mental illness are more likely 116 00:08:41.519 --> 00:08:46.519 to be victims of a crime than commit crimes. But they're also unpredictable and 117 00:08:46.600 --> 00:08:50.440 I don't know what. I don't know why, and he's following me. 118 00:08:50.799 --> 00:08:54.360 Now, he's clearly following me. Like, so I walk in and I 119 00:08:54.440 --> 00:09:00.480 just walked straight to the counter. There's like an older guy. It's all 120 00:09:00.879 --> 00:09:05.600 guys working the counter that day, and weirdly, there were seemed to be 121 00:09:05.679 --> 00:09:09.919 like four or five employees and there was no hardly anyone in the store. 122 00:09:09.240 --> 00:09:15.039 But I walked right behind the count you know how there's places it's like there's 123 00:09:15.039 --> 00:09:18.240 an opening for you to walk behind the counter. So I start to walk 124 00:09:18.279 --> 00:09:20.039 behind the counter, and of course now they're all like, oh, can 125 00:09:20.080 --> 00:09:24.240 we help you? And I was like, I think that guy's following me. 126 00:09:26.600 --> 00:09:31.399 And they were so cool about it. They're like, oh, just 127 00:09:31.840 --> 00:09:35.759 stay here. And then the guys kneels down right by where I'm standing and 128 00:09:35.759 --> 00:09:41.159 he looks like he's looking at flashlights and he's picking them up, and we're 129 00:09:41.200 --> 00:09:43.440 all just watching him to see what he's going to do boy, and he 130 00:09:43.600 --> 00:09:48.879 just and I just sat there and waited it out, and then he sort 131 00:09:48.879 --> 00:09:52.879 of walked more closer to the front door, so I went over to start 132 00:09:52.879 --> 00:09:56.919 looking at the sneakers. I wasn't like that freaked out. I was just 133 00:09:56.960 --> 00:10:00.480 like and then it was really sweet. Then the guy then I I watched, 134 00:10:00.519 --> 00:10:05.039 I kept checking, and then the guy walked out, and then two 135 00:10:05.039 --> 00:10:07.120 of the employees came over to me and they're like, hey, the guy 136 00:10:07.240 --> 00:10:11.720 left, but like where you parked. When you're ready to leave, we'll 137 00:10:11.759 --> 00:10:13.799 totally walk you to your car. Like I mean, it was so nute, 138 00:10:13.799 --> 00:10:16.759 it was so sweet. Yeah, yeah, but anyway, the guy 139 00:10:16.960 --> 00:10:20.919 laughed, but it was just a weird thing that he fought. He for 140 00:10:20.000 --> 00:10:22.840 sure followed me into the store, right, and I don't know if it 141 00:10:22.879 --> 00:10:28.960 was just because he was like, yeah, not after me, but just 142 00:10:28.000 --> 00:10:31.519 because he was like, oh, you were walking in the store. Well 143 00:10:31.559 --> 00:10:33.960 I guess I'll walk in this like if he even knew where he was. 144 00:10:35.480 --> 00:10:39.519 But it was creepy, yeah, of course, Like it's unpredictable. You 145 00:10:39.559 --> 00:10:41.039 don't know what's going to happen. Yeah, you don't know if he's got 146 00:10:41.080 --> 00:10:46.799 a weapon or if he's just like gonna do something erratic. Yes, I 147 00:10:46.879 --> 00:10:54.080 know, yeah, well yeah, that's our show. That's our show. 148 00:10:54.639 --> 00:11:01.679 You know. What I was thinking about earlier, was uh with with the 149 00:11:01.720 --> 00:11:05.759 song lyrics? I was, Yes, I was thinking about the fact that 150 00:11:07.320 --> 00:11:09.480 I have, you know, such a poor memory, and I was thinking, 151 00:11:09.519 --> 00:11:13.759 as I'm getting older, like I just don't have as good a memory, 152 00:11:13.600 --> 00:11:16.559 and that I was thinking about the fact that my kids, well, 153 00:11:16.559 --> 00:11:20.919 a song will come on the radio that they like, and they know all 154 00:11:20.960 --> 00:11:22.879 the words to all these songs right, And I'm like, God, they 155 00:11:22.919 --> 00:11:26.960 didn't know all the words to these songs. And then I thought, well, 156 00:11:26.000 --> 00:11:28.879 I knew all the words to songs too when I was young. So 157 00:11:30.080 --> 00:11:33.080 then I was thinking, well, is it because like I'm you know, 158 00:11:33.159 --> 00:11:35.720 starting to lose my memory. But then I had this other thought. I 159 00:11:35.799 --> 00:11:41.919 kind of reframed the whole losing my memory to be like what if I'm not 160 00:11:43.120 --> 00:11:46.879 What if when we get older we're not losing our memory. What if our 161 00:11:46.919 --> 00:11:50.679 brains What if the memory is full right? What if we've learned so much? 162 00:11:50.720 --> 00:11:54.879 Like you think about how many songs like Xander knows the words too? 163 00:11:56.240 --> 00:12:01.799 Well, guess what bitch for fifty some odd years. That's a lot of 164 00:12:01.919 --> 00:12:03.840 songs, right, that are in my brain, right, Like I've got 165 00:12:03.879 --> 00:12:07.039 all the songs from the age that he is because I think about the fact 166 00:12:07.039 --> 00:12:11.240 that, like it's six seven five three oh nine, I'm never gonna forget 167 00:12:11.240 --> 00:12:15.679 that phone number. I've never if you put if you put on Jenny, 168 00:12:15.679 --> 00:12:18.360 I got your number. I would know all the lyrics, right, But 169 00:12:18.440 --> 00:12:22.720 yet I also know all the lyrics to many many songs that have come since 170 00:12:22.759 --> 00:12:28.159 then, and they don't. I don't remember all this stuff. I've got 171 00:12:28.200 --> 00:12:33.840 so much information in my brain. So many things have happened in our lifetime 172 00:12:33.879 --> 00:12:37.960 that we know tons of details about. Maybe our brains are just like I'm 173 00:12:39.000 --> 00:12:41.600 good, Yeah, we're full, Like I don't we don't need to know 174 00:12:41.679 --> 00:12:45.480 the lightest Travis Scott song, right, yeah, right, So like maybe 175 00:12:45.519 --> 00:12:50.360 when we we've become better at like screening things out so that when it's you're 176 00:12:50.399 --> 00:12:52.559 on like a need to know basis, Yes, and it's harder to keep 177 00:12:52.600 --> 00:12:58.159 things in your brain because we're full, right, And I still thinking I've 178 00:12:58.159 --> 00:13:03.519 stopped player hating myself about like like when I forget the lyrics the game, 179 00:13:03.000 --> 00:13:07.320 Like I know a lot of songs, yes, I know way more songs 180 00:13:07.360 --> 00:13:11.720 than you will ever than you've forgotten. At this point, it's like crazy, 181 00:13:11.799 --> 00:13:13.480 how many songs they come on? If I'm listening to yacht rock, 182 00:13:13.879 --> 00:13:18.440 I know a lot of lyrics to a lot of songs. What how many? 183 00:13:18.720 --> 00:13:22.600 I mean the human brain is probably only capable of so much. How 184 00:13:22.600 --> 00:13:24.919 many songs can it handle in one brain? Right? And it's like, 185 00:13:24.960 --> 00:13:28.360 if one more song comes into my brain and I try to memorize it, 186 00:13:28.399 --> 00:13:33.320 I'm going to lose my social Security number. That's that's probably a fact, 187 00:13:33.720 --> 00:13:35.399 you know, And then I'm going to be like, oh my god, 188 00:13:35.440 --> 00:13:39.360 I can't remember my social Security number. Well, no wonder because now I 189 00:13:39.360 --> 00:13:45.320 have a new usher song in my head that I didn't want in the first 190 00:13:45.360 --> 00:13:48.519 place. Nobody asked me to learn the lyrics to dunt dunt, dun't, 191 00:13:48.559 --> 00:13:54.240 dun't, even though he is yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, shows up 192 00:13:54.399 --> 00:13:58.919 right, and now I know, like I got my peaches down in jooja. 193 00:13:58.240 --> 00:14:03.679 Yeah that's a you know. See, That's the thing is, I 194 00:14:03.720 --> 00:14:09.039 don't listen to any of that music, so I wouldn't listen to it over 195 00:14:09.120 --> 00:14:16.200 and over enough to hear the lyrics, right, But yeah, I anyway, 196 00:14:16.279 --> 00:14:22.320 I've just my self esteem was raised from that's good how I've reframed, 197 00:14:22.440 --> 00:14:26.440 Yes, because my memory is going I know, like I can't. Like 198 00:14:26.559 --> 00:14:31.360 it's because because you know so much, right, Like you know and they 199 00:14:31.360 --> 00:14:35.039 always go last four digits of your social security At one point, I've known 200 00:14:35.080 --> 00:14:39.639 my social Security number since I was a kid, right, But now it's 201 00:14:39.679 --> 00:14:43.120 like, oh, is it? Is it for this? For I couldn't 202 00:14:43.559 --> 00:14:48.080 but yeah. But by the way, I want my kids to memorize their 203 00:14:48.080 --> 00:14:52.279 social Security number and their license number. It'll be so much easier if you 204 00:14:52.360 --> 00:14:56.399 go through life memorizing your social Security number. So I've told them I've taken 205 00:14:58.039 --> 00:15:01.120 I'm like that mom that prints it out and I put it on their desk 206 00:15:01.159 --> 00:15:03.240 in their bedroom, and I circle it and right memorize it. And then 207 00:15:03.240 --> 00:15:07.840 I find it like in their trash or like at the bottom of their desk 208 00:15:07.960 --> 00:15:11.200 drawer, and I'll go, did you memorize your social Security number? No? 209 00:15:11.159 --> 00:15:13.919 I think I'm like, it'll make your life, Kaylin. Do you 210 00:15:15.039 --> 00:15:18.240 have your social number? Yeah? I have a memorized and yeah you do 211 00:15:18.320 --> 00:15:24.320 too, of course, Yeah, Like I think I know John's too, 212 00:15:24.559 --> 00:15:26.879 just from all the amount of times I've had to put in his right. 213 00:15:28.080 --> 00:15:30.720 I'm pretty I mean, I know I know the last four digits of his 214 00:15:31.000 --> 00:15:33.559 yes, saying sometimes I have to be reminded of the other if but if 215 00:15:33.559 --> 00:15:35.559 he tells me the beginning, I'm like, Okay, I got it, 216 00:15:35.600 --> 00:15:39.320 I got it. Yeah, it's simple. Just we know a lot of 217 00:15:39.360 --> 00:15:43.639 things, right. You know what kills me is when kids, like like 218 00:15:43.720 --> 00:15:50.360 grade school age, don't know their address. Wow. I remember back in 219 00:15:50.399 --> 00:15:54.120 the day when you drive a kid home from like basketball or whatever, and 220 00:15:54.200 --> 00:15:56.559 you'd be like, Okay, what's your address? They're like, oh, 221 00:15:56.600 --> 00:15:58.679 I don't I don't know. How much fuck do you not know your address? 222 00:16:00.120 --> 00:16:03.279 What kind of parenting is that you don't tell your kid? You want 223 00:16:03.320 --> 00:16:06.679 other people driving your kid home, but they don't know their own address, 224 00:16:06.720 --> 00:16:10.080 And then you have to like text the parent like do you know their phone 225 00:16:10.120 --> 00:16:14.559 number? I supposed to what? That's crazy? It is crazy? Do 226 00:16:14.639 --> 00:16:21.720 you know your kids is cell phone numbers? No? Right? No? 227 00:16:22.480 --> 00:16:26.240 Right? But I know I don't know my kids know me too? Oh 228 00:16:26.279 --> 00:16:32.840 my god? I and I think I know Elbie's but I you know what 229 00:16:32.960 --> 00:16:36.559 I'm gonna think. I'm going to say it's well, I'm not going to 230 00:16:36.600 --> 00:16:41.679 say that let's say nine. I think it starts with nine one six, 231 00:16:42.759 --> 00:16:47.360 but I uh, it's bad now. And I definitely don't know Sadie and 232 00:16:47.399 --> 00:16:51.000 Xanders. Well, I know Sunny and Italians are like one number off, 233 00:16:51.799 --> 00:16:53.639 but I don't know, like I can't. And by the way, like 234 00:16:55.360 --> 00:16:59.759 the last four, I get it wrong all the time and I screw it 235 00:16:59.840 --> 00:17:03.159 up like it's one is oh one and the other one's O two. But 236 00:17:03.240 --> 00:17:07.039 I'll go like O two and O three because I never have to dial the 237 00:17:07.720 --> 00:17:11.079 ever. I know that's bad. Shouldn't we know they're at their phone just 238 00:17:11.119 --> 00:17:12.640 in case if you lost our phone and we needed to get a hold of 239 00:17:12.680 --> 00:17:15.599 them from somebody else's phone. Yes, I think about that all the time, 240 00:17:15.759 --> 00:17:19.920 right, but I know John's so then I would just call John and 241 00:17:19.960 --> 00:17:22.799 I'd be like, get a hold of the kids. Right, But no, 242 00:17:22.920 --> 00:17:30.000 that is probably something I should know. But again, no room room 243 00:17:30.039 --> 00:17:33.759 at the end, right, it's we're done, We're done done, so 244 00:17:33.039 --> 00:17:37.480 having things inked into our brains. I feel like it's getting easier right now. 245 00:17:37.519 --> 00:17:41.160 Though, as far as parenting a little, I mean, if they're 246 00:17:41.240 --> 00:17:48.440 they're kind of like on autopilot doing their own thing. M you know, 247 00:17:48.519 --> 00:17:55.240 the sunny situation with the school and stuff. That's a whole other cashat But 248 00:17:55.240 --> 00:17:57.359 but other than that, like they're doing I think they're doing okay. You 249 00:17:57.400 --> 00:18:02.039 know, it's so weird to me. We were talked about it a little 250 00:18:02.039 --> 00:18:06.799 bit on Patreon, But like you do all this intense parenting for all these 251 00:18:06.920 --> 00:18:11.119 years, and when they go to college. I mean I've seen this with 252 00:18:11.160 --> 00:18:15.559 my friends. I guess you go back, you but then they're just suddenly 253 00:18:15.599 --> 00:18:18.920 like moved out, and like that's it. Like you can't expect to know 254 00:18:18.960 --> 00:18:22.200 where they are every single night. You can't talk to them every single day. 255 00:18:23.480 --> 00:18:27.400 But I can have them on my three sixty can I? Yeah? 256 00:18:27.440 --> 00:18:32.400 I mean I plan to. But like I feel like if the kids say 257 00:18:32.400 --> 00:18:33.759 I don't want to be on your life through sixty anymore, you got to 258 00:18:33.799 --> 00:18:37.839 respect it. Like you can't be like nope, I get to watch what 259 00:18:37.880 --> 00:18:44.559 you're doing. I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. I can't 260 00:18:44.599 --> 00:18:48.079 imagine them being gone. So weird, I know. And then it's like 261 00:18:48.680 --> 00:18:52.759 you go from every single day like you're their parent to oh, they don't 262 00:18:52.839 --> 00:18:56.319 live with you. They have their own schedule, they're doing their own thing, 263 00:18:56.400 --> 00:19:02.079 they're making different friends that you might not for a long time unless they 264 00:19:02.079 --> 00:19:07.079 bring them, yeah back home. I just I watched too much twenty twenty 265 00:19:07.079 --> 00:19:10.599 and Dateline. A lot of Dateline, is it? You know? So 266 00:19:10.640 --> 00:19:14.160 if you go to Peacock you can watch all the other Dateline episodes that have 267 00:19:14.279 --> 00:19:17.839 aired. So I go through the list and like, oh, I remember 268 00:19:17.839 --> 00:19:22.319 this one. It's a lot of fuck freaking college students, even boys, 269 00:19:22.960 --> 00:19:25.839 you know, go missing. There was one that's this kid, this boy 270 00:19:25.880 --> 00:19:30.559 would miss was walking from one dorm to back to his dorm and just disappeared, 271 00:19:30.920 --> 00:19:33.319 you know, like and a lot of like females like getting in the 272 00:19:33.359 --> 00:19:37.720 wrong uber you know. I mean, it's just it's a lot of college 273 00:19:37.720 --> 00:19:42.640 students. Yeah, and stuff happening at parties, college parties, college parties, 274 00:19:42.960 --> 00:19:47.039 I mean, I know. And then we can't like keep them safe. 275 00:19:47.079 --> 00:19:51.799 We have to just hope that we've instilled enough knowledge and that our kids 276 00:19:51.799 --> 00:19:56.119 are careful, right, But like what if somebody slips a mickey in one 277 00:19:56.160 --> 00:19:59.680 of their drinks? You know, I know that's scary. I know, 278 00:20:00.440 --> 00:20:06.640 maybe we should just not allow them to college. I'll teach them home school, 279 00:20:06.960 --> 00:20:11.200 homeschool college, yes, yes, school college. How come that's not 280 00:20:11.279 --> 00:20:14.880 a thing that should be a thing. Yeah, all right, let's let's 281 00:20:14.920 --> 00:20:18.680 take a quick break. All right, we're back. During the break, 282 00:20:19.319 --> 00:20:23.000 we all figured out a way to home do a homeschool program for college. 283 00:20:23.599 --> 00:20:27.559 I'm gonna come up with some curriculum. Okay, with a curriculum, I'm 284 00:20:27.559 --> 00:20:30.240 just gonna I think, what's your major? What should the major be? 285 00:20:30.680 --> 00:20:34.759 Well, I think I would hire some law. I could do pre law. 286 00:20:34.799 --> 00:20:37.160 You could, I could do pre law. You should do medical. 287 00:20:38.759 --> 00:20:42.440 I like law. You want to do law? Okay, we could do 288 00:20:42.559 --> 00:20:48.640 like a homeschool college community. Yeah, and just in one neighborhood. They 289 00:20:48.680 --> 00:20:51.880 don't need to go out somewhere for that. Well, we'll bring it to 290 00:20:51.920 --> 00:20:56.200 them. Yeah, it's like our reverse cult. We're doing our own, 291 00:20:56.480 --> 00:21:00.279 our own right from college. Right, and then they can stay in our 292 00:21:00.359 --> 00:21:07.640 community like law with us, though under our tutelage. Yeah. Like I 293 00:21:07.680 --> 00:21:11.799 can show them the trial of the Michigan shooters parents. Yes, the Jennifer 294 00:21:12.400 --> 00:21:18.240 Jennifer Crumblely trial. The dad's going on trial in March. Okay, wait, 295 00:21:18.359 --> 00:21:21.400 beginning of March. Soon enough, it's gonna be like Christmas for me. 296 00:21:22.039 --> 00:21:25.960 I'm like obsessed with this trial. So yeah, I could like show 297 00:21:26.000 --> 00:21:30.480 them like we could break down the film, you know, the like like 298 00:21:30.480 --> 00:21:33.319 like they do with the in the NFL. We could watch the game footage, 299 00:21:33.839 --> 00:21:37.880 watch the day in court, watch the opening arguments, you know, 300 00:21:37.960 --> 00:21:41.039 and then break it down and do critical thinking. It sounds like something. 301 00:21:41.119 --> 00:21:47.279 And depending on how well they do is whether they earn a degree right from 302 00:21:47.319 --> 00:21:55.720 our university and Stephanie University. Listen, I open this up to all parents 303 00:21:55.920 --> 00:21:57.599 to do this for their kids. Do you love your kids. If you 304 00:21:57.680 --> 00:22:02.799 love your kids, school them, give them an education. Are you good 305 00:22:02.799 --> 00:22:06.759 at financial literacy? Bring it on? Come to our community. Oh, 306 00:22:07.119 --> 00:22:08.880 we could bring in some teachers. Yes, we could bring in teachers. 307 00:22:08.920 --> 00:22:12.559 It'll be our audience. I'm sure our audience has a lot of you know, 308 00:22:12.599 --> 00:22:17.359 a lot of people are professionals in different fields. They can teach our 309 00:22:17.440 --> 00:22:22.200 kids. Yeah. Absolutely, there's no need to go to some expensive No, 310 00:22:22.400 --> 00:22:29.319 I would deal with all that headache. I'll give you merit. I'll 311 00:22:29.319 --> 00:22:32.640 give financial aid. When your kids go out into the world, they can, 312 00:22:32.839 --> 00:22:34.480 you know, get their first job and they'll go where'd you go to 313 00:22:34.519 --> 00:22:41.680 school in Encino? Yeah, Stephanie and Lynnette School of Community College. Yeah, 314 00:22:41.680 --> 00:22:44.920 that's really good. I learned a lot of things I can. First 315 00:22:44.920 --> 00:22:48.240 of all, I can practice medicine without a license, but we don't worry 316 00:22:48.240 --> 00:22:52.119 about that. Yeah, they've given me the self confidence. Right. We 317 00:22:52.200 --> 00:22:57.079 watched a lot of back episodes of Er and study the tape. We watched 318 00:22:57.119 --> 00:23:02.880 House. Yes, so we're very good. I've got a special a minor 319 00:23:03.000 --> 00:23:07.720 and infectious diseases from House University. Learned that you can give a toddler Mochren 320 00:23:07.759 --> 00:23:15.759 and Thailand all to bring fever down. Yep, stock them. Come on. 321 00:23:15.160 --> 00:23:19.640 Yeah great, that's early childhood development. Yes, that's a whole that's 322 00:23:19.680 --> 00:23:26.039 a whole section. And we're both good at psychology. So good, so 323 00:23:26.119 --> 00:23:30.279 good. Yeah, if you go to I don't know, a year of 324 00:23:30.359 --> 00:23:36.400 us, you could be giving You're not going to be an official therapist in 325 00:23:36.440 --> 00:23:41.079 that sense of the word, but you're going to be a romantics. Yes, 326 00:23:41.240 --> 00:23:45.119 you could be a life coach right right. Yeah, Well we'll break 327 00:23:45.160 --> 00:23:49.240 down. We can watch like game film of Real Housewives. Yes, watch 328 00:23:49.279 --> 00:23:56.519 how nutty people you know interact and how to pick out somebody with a personality 329 00:23:56.559 --> 00:24:00.480 disorder you know, absolutely, yes, Oh my god, we got all 330 00:24:00.559 --> 00:24:06.559 kinds of we'll come up with some like quizzes that are like is this personality 331 00:24:06.599 --> 00:24:15.200 disorder A narcissism? Right, B, grandiosity, ce, borderline right h 332 00:24:15.440 --> 00:24:18.559 D hysteria. Yeah, I mean we know we know a lot about right. 333 00:24:18.880 --> 00:24:25.079 Oh my gosh, yes, oh in criminology, Oh good about it? 334 00:24:25.839 --> 00:24:29.519 Oh my god. We'll watch the YouTube videos. I thought we were 335 00:24:29.599 --> 00:24:33.359 friends, Steven. I thought we'll teach you how to interrogate. Oh my 336 00:24:33.480 --> 00:24:37.920 gosh, yes, yeah, we can teach you interrogation tactics. Good bad 337 00:24:37.960 --> 00:24:44.079 cop? You and I could, Yes, we'll be good roll play you 338 00:24:44.200 --> 00:24:45.559 be do you want to be good cop about it? We should figure this 339 00:24:45.599 --> 00:24:48.799 out out because I don't want to fight later. Okay, we can flip 340 00:24:48.799 --> 00:24:52.599 a coin. I don't you'd be good cop. Okay, I feel like 341 00:24:52.599 --> 00:24:55.160 you'd be good at that'll be good. I'll be bad cop. I'll come 342 00:24:55.200 --> 00:24:57.759 in and just be confrontational as rock. Yeah. They Yeah, we'll show 343 00:24:57.799 --> 00:25:02.960 the kids and then they can just for themselves, if you know, if 344 00:25:02.960 --> 00:25:06.559 this is a tactic they want to use. Also, we could be like 345 00:25:06.880 --> 00:25:11.319 a training ground for like CIA, FBI, Like we'll run programs. Right, 346 00:25:11.519 --> 00:25:12.920 We'll find somebody in the FBI and we'll be like, listen, we've 347 00:25:12.920 --> 00:25:15.880 got a batch, a new batch of students. Yes, yeah, can 348 00:25:15.920 --> 00:25:19.400 you come over? And then when they go they go for their go for 349 00:25:19.480 --> 00:25:23.079 interviewing at the CIA agency, they can say they went to the schools. 350 00:25:25.079 --> 00:25:27.759 Yeah. Also, I just want to put out there that I feel like 351 00:25:27.799 --> 00:25:32.759 there's no stopping us. We could also do graduate degrees. Oh of course, 352 00:25:33.039 --> 00:25:34.920 you know, yes, you know, get into a good grad school. 353 00:25:36.000 --> 00:25:38.599 Yeah, don't our grad school, our grad school. Don't let those 354 00:25:38.680 --> 00:25:44.440 kids leave home just yet. It's not yet, not yet, no, 355 00:25:44.480 --> 00:25:49.000 not so fast. You ain't going nowhere, kid, I mean, listen, 356 00:25:49.039 --> 00:25:52.039 it's all fun and games until they actually do go a way to school, 357 00:25:52.039 --> 00:25:55.359 and then I'm gonna be crying every day, going like why couldn't I 358 00:25:55.359 --> 00:25:59.920 really make that happen? It was like oh ha ha and the paw. 359 00:26:00.480 --> 00:26:03.680 But I'm kind of serious right now, like why do you need to go 360 00:26:03.720 --> 00:26:08.440 to North Carolina? What's in North Carolina that's not here right in good old 361 00:26:08.720 --> 00:26:15.079 Nina, in Sino San Fernando Valley. I know, I feel like I'm 362 00:26:15.079 --> 00:26:18.000 a little spoiled by the fact that Elbe's still home. Yeah. Yeah, 363 00:26:18.039 --> 00:26:23.160 even though so this happened. We were at our Super Bowl party and one 364 00:26:23.200 --> 00:26:29.000 of the moms. My my sister in law is like one of her BFFs 365 00:26:29.559 --> 00:26:34.960 was there with her daughter who's thirteen and elb. So Elbe came to the 366 00:26:34.960 --> 00:26:40.720 Super Bowl party, which I mentioned on Monday, and I was shocked. 367 00:26:41.039 --> 00:26:45.079 The last two years she hasn't come because she's worked, right, So this 368 00:26:45.240 --> 00:26:47.960 was the first year that she was like, well, I get out early. 369 00:26:48.039 --> 00:26:51.759 She was like, I'll come and you. I was like really, 370 00:26:52.400 --> 00:26:53.160 She's like, yeah, I want to come, and I go, I 371 00:26:53.200 --> 00:26:56.279 said, I swear to God. I was like why, and she's like, 372 00:26:56.279 --> 00:27:00.160 because it'd be fun, like right, And I said great, okay, 373 00:27:00.240 --> 00:27:03.920 So then I was drive for her too. It was she yes, 374 00:27:03.960 --> 00:27:07.640 Santa Clarita, but but she's been driving. Yeah, she's nineteen, she's 375 00:27:07.920 --> 00:27:11.240 been driving since she was sick. She's been she drives a lot. I'm 376 00:27:11.279 --> 00:27:15.559 pretty comfortable with her driving now, but anyway, not with me in the 377 00:27:15.599 --> 00:27:19.559 car too. But I'll still always want to drive. But anyway, so 378 00:27:19.599 --> 00:27:23.240 she gets there and she comes later than us. She met us there and 379 00:27:23.279 --> 00:27:26.960 she walks in and I was like, oh, hi, and then I 380 00:27:26.960 --> 00:27:29.640 gave her a hug. You know, I didn't really talk to her much 381 00:27:29.680 --> 00:27:32.960 the whole time. Well, this other mom comes up to me later and 382 00:27:33.000 --> 00:27:34.920 she's like, oh my god, I just want to say that, like 383 00:27:36.000 --> 00:27:38.599 when your daughter came in and then she gave you a hug and like she 384 00:27:38.720 --> 00:27:42.200 was excited to see you. And I was like, oh no, no, 385 00:27:42.200 --> 00:27:45.960 no, don't get it twisted. I was like, that is this 386 00:27:45.160 --> 00:27:48.559 That was not how it normally is. Oh, because she was telling me 387 00:27:48.640 --> 00:27:52.680 that her daughter like wants nothing to do with her thirteen, and she doesn't 388 00:27:52.720 --> 00:27:56.319 hang out with her and she just hangs out in her room. And I 389 00:27:56.400 --> 00:27:59.720 was like, oh, girl, no, don't get the wrong idea. 390 00:28:00.160 --> 00:28:03.160 This is not my normal life. I was. And then I told her, 391 00:28:03.200 --> 00:28:03.799 I was like, if it makes you feel any better, I was 392 00:28:03.799 --> 00:28:07.720 shocked out of my mind that she wanted to come. She doesn't. I 393 00:28:07.759 --> 00:28:11.079 was like, I have to bribe her with like to get her to go 394 00:28:11.119 --> 00:28:15.119 do stuff with me. It has to involve food, buying clothes like some 395 00:28:15.359 --> 00:28:21.319 you know, Like she's not just and she used to be. She used 396 00:28:21.319 --> 00:28:22.359 to be like, oh you're going to the store, I'll come with. 397 00:28:22.559 --> 00:28:26.799 And she still is a little bit, but oh it's changed. Yes, 398 00:28:26.200 --> 00:28:33.720 yeah, she's definitely much more independent. She doesn't if she comes into my 399 00:28:33.799 --> 00:28:36.839 room now to hang out with me or just talk to me. I'm like, 400 00:28:37.640 --> 00:28:41.279 oh, I never get always in my room. How are you? 401 00:28:42.200 --> 00:28:47.359 It's almost like I'm on a job interview. I'm just like, how's your 402 00:28:47.480 --> 00:28:51.000 day? Are you? You got to sit here, lay down, you 403 00:28:51.079 --> 00:28:57.240 have any questions? Yeah, So I was like for anybody, it's it's 404 00:28:57.319 --> 00:29:00.759 always the like, oh he wasn't like that when she was younger, but 405 00:29:02.440 --> 00:29:04.240 the like wanting to hang out with me. I mean, she was like 406 00:29:04.240 --> 00:29:07.000 that when she was younger, and now she's really not now. And I 407 00:29:07.039 --> 00:29:11.200 hear from other people that their kids were not like that when they were thirteen, 408 00:29:11.640 --> 00:29:15.400 and then suddenly they're nineteen and they're like best friends with their mom right 409 00:29:15.839 --> 00:29:19.319 right. I'm not sure which is worse, But like, I don't know 410 00:29:19.519 --> 00:29:25.720 anybody who has a kid that's been like their best friend all the way through. 411 00:29:26.039 --> 00:29:30.519 Yeah, no, I know, Sonny. I guess it's like Natalia. 412 00:29:30.680 --> 00:29:36.160 No, Sonny's been pretty consistent about wanting to like I think because he 413 00:29:36.240 --> 00:29:38.400 like, he's a talker and he likes to talk, and I feel and 414 00:29:38.720 --> 00:29:41.880 Adam used to be this way. I get trapped in the kitchen. I 415 00:29:41.920 --> 00:29:45.319 get like that too, Like I'm about to go to bed, I go 416 00:29:45.400 --> 00:29:48.720 in the kitchen, Sonny, He's like, what are you doing making a 417 00:29:48.759 --> 00:29:51.480 snack and he's like, yeah, I want a bowl of cereal. And 418 00:29:51.519 --> 00:29:53.160 then I don't want to leave him sitting in the kitchen alone, even though 419 00:29:53.160 --> 00:29:56.720 he's guy's earbuds and he's gonna watch his YouTube whatever. But then he starts 420 00:29:56.759 --> 00:30:02.160 talking and then I'm you know, so he he does like to like talk 421 00:30:02.240 --> 00:30:04.960 and hang out, Like he'll come in my room and well he'll say it's 422 00:30:06.000 --> 00:30:08.279 to see Phil, because Phil follows me everywhere, and Phil's next to me 423 00:30:08.359 --> 00:30:11.160 all the time when I'm home, and then he'll just talk and stuff. 424 00:30:11.200 --> 00:30:15.720 But it was, you know, it's it's he's been kind of consistent, 425 00:30:15.880 --> 00:30:18.440 but he's a guy, Like I think it's different like girls. No, 426 00:30:18.759 --> 00:30:25.160 Natalia doesn't want anything to do with me, like the Patreon this week we've 427 00:30:25.200 --> 00:30:29.359 talked. I've been doing a lot more with her. She's been coming around 428 00:30:29.400 --> 00:30:32.680 a lot more, and I think because she's noticing that she's going to be 429 00:30:32.759 --> 00:30:36.240 leaving, you know, for college. So I think she's doing what I'm 430 00:30:36.240 --> 00:30:38.839 doing, like trying to take this time to like hang out more, spend 431 00:30:38.920 --> 00:30:45.279 more time, you know, therapy for hers helping too, So yeah, 432 00:30:45.480 --> 00:30:51.200 I just think that I don't know. I mean, it's so scary to 433 00:30:51.240 --> 00:30:56.599 me that within a few months I'll be will be moved out. Yeah, 434 00:30:56.640 --> 00:31:00.279 and I know that everybody went through that. I should have gone through that 435 00:31:00.519 --> 00:31:03.440 last month, but I didn't. Yeah, I mean last year. Yeah, 436 00:31:03.720 --> 00:31:07.039 I got this extra year. But it's like I'm not I'm not like 437 00:31:07.200 --> 00:31:11.240 feeling it, do you know what I mean. It's because she is also 438 00:31:11.480 --> 00:31:17.119 kind of detaching and planning for, you know, becoming her own person. 439 00:31:17.160 --> 00:31:19.519 And I know that has to happen. They have to like become individuals, 440 00:31:19.240 --> 00:31:23.559 and I get that, right, And she's much more sort of self contained, 441 00:31:23.599 --> 00:31:27.400 and she's you know, like she's planning next month she's going to some 442 00:31:27.559 --> 00:31:32.720 rave and like staying overnight. And it's weird that she and she has another 443 00:31:32.799 --> 00:31:36.400 friend who's staying at home for a year after college, and she told me 444 00:31:36.480 --> 00:31:40.039 that that other friend's mom said she can't go to that thing, and I 445 00:31:40.079 --> 00:31:42.680 was thinking, like, Elbie's going to be twenty this year. I just 446 00:31:42.680 --> 00:31:47.200 can't imagine being like, no, her mom said that her daughter couldn't go. 447 00:31:47.359 --> 00:31:51.640 So Elbe's friend who's the same age as Elbe and in the same situation 448 00:31:51.720 --> 00:31:55.519 as Elbe's didn't go to didn't go away to college, is doing community for 449 00:31:55.559 --> 00:32:00.039 one year. Elbe's going to a rave with this other friend of hers and 450 00:32:00.119 --> 00:32:04.599 that friend that can't go because she was like, my mom says, I 451 00:32:04.640 --> 00:32:08.720 can't do that. Wow. It's interesting though, because it's like, okay, 452 00:32:08.759 --> 00:32:12.039 but then next year when your kid goes to college, you're gonna have 453 00:32:12.119 --> 00:32:15.880 no set like it's it seems. I can't imagine telling Elbie like, yeah, 454 00:32:15.920 --> 00:32:22.799 I'm not comfortable with that because she's nineteen, right, like she wants 455 00:32:22.839 --> 00:32:27.720 to go. I mean she's gone on trips before. Yeah, even even 456 00:32:27.799 --> 00:32:30.759 if it makes me nervous, I just can't imagine being like no, I 457 00:32:30.799 --> 00:32:36.000 mean she's over eighteen years old. And also, you trust everybody's different, 458 00:32:36.039 --> 00:32:39.319 like you know, you trust I would trust Elbe like she's even if I 459 00:32:39.480 --> 00:32:45.440 didn't. I can't imagine being like no, like you, I guess if 460 00:32:45.440 --> 00:32:47.599 they live in the house, then they got to respect the rule kind of 461 00:32:47.640 --> 00:32:52.240 thing, right, so then I could make a rule like you're not allowed 462 00:32:52.279 --> 00:32:55.480 to if you don't trust her. But you know, she seems like she's 463 00:32:55.519 --> 00:32:59.920 got a good head on her shoulder, Like I wouldn't. I just remember 464 00:33:00.079 --> 00:33:04.440 the little hubbub that came up from the show Caitlin, can you turn it 465 00:33:04.480 --> 00:33:09.680 off? Thank you? I remember that what came up where when Elbe was 466 00:33:09.680 --> 00:33:14.400 sleeping over at her boyfriend's house and a lot of people were weighing in on 467 00:33:14.440 --> 00:33:16.480 the fact that, like I could put my foot down. Well, she 468 00:33:16.599 --> 00:33:22.440 was staying out really really late till like four in the morning, and I 469 00:33:22.599 --> 00:33:25.480 was concerned about her driving, and I told her to just sleep over if 470 00:33:25.519 --> 00:33:29.720 she wanted to sleep because she wanted to sleep over. Yeah, and she 471 00:33:29.960 --> 00:33:35.240 was eighteen, right, she wasn't like she was sixteen, but whatever. 472 00:33:35.480 --> 00:33:38.400 And I remember people being like, you should be saying no, and it 473 00:33:38.559 --> 00:33:43.960 was like, well, I mean, I know what she's doing, Like 474 00:33:44.400 --> 00:33:46.720 what I'm going to stop that from? I mean to me, it was 475 00:33:46.799 --> 00:33:52.319 like, she's her own person, and I'm not going to I don't. 476 00:33:52.680 --> 00:33:57.720 It's not that I feel like I couldn't say to her, hey, that's 477 00:33:57.720 --> 00:34:00.759 something you're doing something that's not safe, but like what I'm not I don't 478 00:34:00.799 --> 00:34:07.799 have ownership over like her body, her decisions. Like I have to hope 479 00:34:07.839 --> 00:34:15.599 that I've instilled respect for herself and safety, right, And and then you 480 00:34:15.880 --> 00:34:17.760 have to leave your kids to decide what's right for this. Yes, and 481 00:34:17.800 --> 00:34:22.639 everybody like can people can weigh in, but the but at the bottom, 482 00:34:22.880 --> 00:34:27.320 the point is that the heart of the matter is is that you know what's 483 00:34:27.320 --> 00:34:30.719 best for your child. You make your own decisions, she makes her own 484 00:34:30.760 --> 00:34:34.920 decisions. You trust her, and that's that. And when we don't know 485 00:34:34.960 --> 00:34:39.320 what's best for our child, we have to trust that. We've like sometimes 486 00:34:39.360 --> 00:34:44.280 we don't know what's best. We think we do or we or there's times 487 00:34:44.280 --> 00:34:47.199 where I'm like, I don't know what's best, Like there's times that I 488 00:34:47.280 --> 00:34:52.519 think that I, let's say, I'm worried about my kid, you know, 489 00:34:52.880 --> 00:34:54.920 and this goes back to being happy that they're in therapy, you know. 490 00:34:55.039 --> 00:35:00.239 But sometimes I don't know whether to pry, like whether to push it 491 00:35:00.280 --> 00:35:04.480 with an issue with one of my kids, whether to be how worried to 492 00:35:04.559 --> 00:35:08.039 be and you know what I mean, or whether to push them in one 493 00:35:08.079 --> 00:35:12.719 direction or another, Like I don't know is that me encouraging or is that 494 00:35:12.840 --> 00:35:16.840 me persuading or is that me pushing? Like I don't know sometimes when to 495 00:35:16.840 --> 00:35:21.360 step back and you have to just instinct you have to just go, well, 496 00:35:21.360 --> 00:35:23.679 I'm going to try this right, and I hope it's not the wrong 497 00:35:23.719 --> 00:35:28.239 decision. Right. Yeah, you have to just listen to your gut, 498 00:35:28.639 --> 00:35:31.639 I guess, and see Kaylin, what you have to look forward to. 499 00:35:34.639 --> 00:35:37.760 Kaylin, you had a story for us. We should should we take another 500 00:35:37.920 --> 00:35:44.280 break? Real quick? Take a break? Yeah, it's it was just 501 00:35:44.760 --> 00:35:49.039 a little bit of like an awkward interaction that I had. Sorry, love 502 00:35:49.079 --> 00:35:53.039 an awkward interaction. Have you met me? So we are wanting to get 503 00:35:53.039 --> 00:35:58.960 some curtains for the studio. The light comes in and it just messes with 504 00:35:59.000 --> 00:36:00.239 all the lightings. So I'm like, Okay, I need to get some 505 00:36:00.280 --> 00:36:05.760 curtains installed in the studio. And I kind of looked online. I kind 506 00:36:05.760 --> 00:36:08.400 of saw pricing, and then Amy told me, oh, do you know 507 00:36:08.440 --> 00:36:12.320 like our next door neighbor, that's what he does. He does curtains and 508 00:36:12.360 --> 00:36:15.559 blinds. And I go, oh, okay, great. So my goal 509 00:36:15.679 --> 00:36:19.679 was to just kind of like ask him, Hey, what's the best route 510 00:36:19.719 --> 00:36:24.079 to go about getting these Like would you recommend this website or you know something 511 00:36:24.079 --> 00:36:27.360 I could just do myself. I just get all the parts, or you 512 00:36:27.400 --> 00:36:29.719 know, hire this person, and like how much does it generally cost? 513 00:36:29.880 --> 00:36:32.119 I kind of just wanted all that info, so I asked him to come 514 00:36:32.119 --> 00:36:37.039 by, and I pretty much said that to him, but it seemed like 515 00:36:37.119 --> 00:36:40.599 he was taking it as I'm asking him to do the job, like I 516 00:36:40.639 --> 00:36:45.639 need you to come and do the job, when that wasn't really my intention. 517 00:36:45.760 --> 00:36:50.679 But I'm like, okay, I I guess that's okay now that you're 518 00:36:50.719 --> 00:36:54.400 the one that's going to come and do it. So that was like three 519 00:36:54.559 --> 00:37:00.480 maybe four weeks ago, and then I saw him on Super Bowl. He 520 00:37:00.519 --> 00:37:01.400 was outside, and so I kind of walked up him and go hey, 521 00:37:01.719 --> 00:37:04.840 just like because I gave him all the measurements and everything too. I was 522 00:37:04.880 --> 00:37:06.800 like this, how long is I go? Hey, is there any you 523 00:37:06.800 --> 00:37:10.199 know, the blinds, the curtains, what's going? And he clearly had 524 00:37:10.239 --> 00:37:15.519 not like thought about it at all since that since we talked oh yeah, 525 00:37:15.599 --> 00:37:20.880 sorry, And I was like, okay, well, you know, I'm 526 00:37:20.960 --> 00:37:22.840 kind of needing me soon because I'm doing a lot. But I just said 527 00:37:22.840 --> 00:37:24.599 to him like, oh, okay, well this is the kind of color 528 00:37:24.639 --> 00:37:27.480 that I want. He goes, okay, well, let me get your 529 00:37:27.519 --> 00:37:30.360 number and I'll text you a few samples. And then he never texted me 530 00:37:30.440 --> 00:37:35.079 that either. So now I'm like, okay, like, do I go 531 00:37:35.199 --> 00:37:39.679 over again? Do I just this? Just I would just get I mean, 532 00:37:39.840 --> 00:37:45.440 I don't buy curtains at like Target. Yeah, it's one it's just 533 00:37:45.599 --> 00:37:50.000 one thing. I just need to put up the I mean, like I 534 00:37:50.039 --> 00:37:52.880 need to drill like a curtain rod into the wall. And then does Patrick 535 00:37:53.119 --> 00:38:00.679 Patrick can I don't Patrick? Yeah, but Patrick's yeah, but Patrick too, 536 00:38:00.079 --> 00:38:02.280 it is, but I don't think Patrick. I mean, he doesn't 537 00:38:02.280 --> 00:38:06.840 need it because they tape all their shows at night. So like he's very 538 00:38:06.920 --> 00:38:08.079 much like, yeah, go ahead you if you want to do it, 539 00:38:08.119 --> 00:38:13.199 go ahead, but like you, you know, he doesn't need the curtains, 540 00:38:13.760 --> 00:38:15.880 so you don't know how to put the curtain pole up. No, 541 00:38:15.480 --> 00:38:19.840 that's easy. I can get Roberto over here in two seconds. Okay, 542 00:38:20.079 --> 00:38:22.559 I'll put it up. Okay, so let's just buy the pole. You 543 00:38:22.679 --> 00:38:25.079 got the measures, and then you can buy we can buy curtains off of 544 00:38:25.639 --> 00:38:30.599 Amazon. Yeah, that's going to pretty much block out all. Yeah, 545 00:38:30.599 --> 00:38:34.639 you get blockout curtains. Yeah. So so but now I need to go 546 00:38:34.679 --> 00:38:38.119 back and tell him like, yeah, I took care of it. I 547 00:38:38.119 --> 00:38:40.960 don't need you to do it anymore. I don't know if he's still working 548 00:38:42.000 --> 00:38:45.760 on it or I don't know. Yeah, just say like, hey, 549 00:38:45.760 --> 00:38:49.239 oh hey, just don't worry about the curtain thing. We got it. 550 00:38:49.679 --> 00:38:52.960 Yeah, took care of it all right. I mean it's been weeks. 551 00:38:52.199 --> 00:38:55.719 Yeah, yeah, that is a little awkward. The one thing though, 552 00:38:57.079 --> 00:39:00.880 is if you get the thick blackout curtains, it might well I wanted to 553 00:39:00.880 --> 00:39:02.039 get. I wanted to get ones that were the same color as that couch, 554 00:39:02.159 --> 00:39:07.960 like a dark blue. Oh yes, dark blue curtains. They're like 555 00:39:08.000 --> 00:39:12.840 a thicker material and then you just have a thing a hook on the side 556 00:39:12.880 --> 00:39:16.719 so that during the day you just he can put them aside. It's really 557 00:39:16.760 --> 00:39:21.039 the curtain rod like installing that that was I get it. I got you, 558 00:39:21.360 --> 00:39:22.840 and I would have done it sooner, except you know, I thought 559 00:39:22.840 --> 00:39:27.360 he was on it, right, He wasn't on it, so now I'm 560 00:39:28.480 --> 00:39:30.760 so Then I reminded him, so now he might be on it. But 561 00:39:30.840 --> 00:39:31.679 now I got to come back and be like it, don't worry about it. 562 00:39:31.960 --> 00:39:36.119 You know what we should do. We should get Roberto on our show. 563 00:39:36.159 --> 00:39:39.599 Now I'm kidding. We get Ray to be on our show and have 564 00:39:39.679 --> 00:39:44.320 him put up the curtains the same time. Oh, yeah, I'll do 565 00:39:44.400 --> 00:39:47.039 it in two seconds too. Yeah, yeah, I'll figure it out. 566 00:39:47.039 --> 00:39:50.400 Well, get everything we need and we'll get it up. Yeah, all 567 00:39:50.440 --> 00:39:52.280 right, it takes two seconds. What is up with the kids? What's 568 00:39:52.360 --> 00:39:57.599 new? They had a great time at Patrick's. We came over here for 569 00:39:57.639 --> 00:40:00.280 the Super Bowl, uh huh. And if you look behind Lynette, Patrick 570 00:40:00.400 --> 00:40:06.840 bought like like an inflatable bounce house, so he set that up right there 571 00:40:06.880 --> 00:40:10.199 and they had a great time. Patrick got a lot of people, Like, 572 00:40:10.199 --> 00:40:13.360 I wasn't expecting that many people. There was a lot of people here 573 00:40:13.360 --> 00:40:15.599 and a lot of kids. Really yeah, Like I couldn't even really like, 574 00:40:15.679 --> 00:40:20.599 I mean, I watched the game. Did everybody watch it in here? 575 00:40:20.679 --> 00:40:22.880 There was like half the people were watching in here, the other half 576 00:40:22.880 --> 00:40:24.239 were watching it in the living room. I watched it in the living room, 577 00:40:24.360 --> 00:40:27.880 but it was so kind of crazy and chaotic that I think people that 578 00:40:28.000 --> 00:40:30.639 just wanted to watch the game, they all came in here and they were 579 00:40:30.679 --> 00:40:34.360 just watching it and here like the halftime show, I didn't even really like. 580 00:40:34.599 --> 00:40:36.760 I kind of saw Usher, but I couldn't even really hear him, 581 00:40:36.800 --> 00:40:40.480 so I didn't. But it was fun. It was fun. But at 582 00:40:39.079 --> 00:40:44.199 one he sure does. Yeah. At one point though, I mean it 583 00:40:44.239 --> 00:40:47.159 was getting late, Blake was starting I love no problems, but Blake was 584 00:40:47.199 --> 00:40:51.360 starting to get pretty cranky by the end of the night, and I was 585 00:40:51.360 --> 00:40:53.159 like, I think we're gonna need to go soon. So at one point, 586 00:40:53.400 --> 00:40:55.960 I'm in the living room. I'm watching the game. It's probably about 587 00:40:57.159 --> 00:41:00.360 it's overtime, like it probably the game just is about to go into overtime, 588 00:41:00.960 --> 00:41:07.280 and Amy goes off to the bathroom and I look over and some guy 589 00:41:07.320 --> 00:41:10.760 who I don't know is carrying Blake, who is screaming, crying into the 590 00:41:10.880 --> 00:41:15.280 room, like whose kid is this? And I had to like flag him 591 00:41:15.280 --> 00:41:19.800 down, like give her here. He's like hit her head or something. 592 00:41:20.480 --> 00:41:22.800 I think she bumped her head on the steps. But it was funny just 593 00:41:22.880 --> 00:41:25.880 seeing some random guy carrying my child, screaming child into the room. Someone 594 00:41:25.960 --> 00:41:30.519 helped this kid. Yeah, and prays back memories because you know, I 595 00:41:30.599 --> 00:41:35.719 loved watching the Super Bowl with the kids, especially Sonny because he's so into 596 00:41:35.760 --> 00:41:37.400 it. And now every year I don't, I'm not with them for the 597 00:41:37.440 --> 00:41:40.519 Super Bowl. They're always you know, especially Sonny's with his dad. But 598 00:41:42.480 --> 00:41:46.280 I remember when they were when they were like toddlers. They were probably like 599 00:41:46.400 --> 00:41:51.920 four, and they were at Jimmy's house. I wasn't there for some reason, 600 00:41:51.920 --> 00:41:54.559 but there was a game was going on, the super Bowl, and 601 00:41:55.719 --> 00:42:00.519 Sonny so Natalia, So Jimmy has a bathroom with no windows, so you 602 00:42:00.559 --> 00:42:04.960 turn the light on, you turn it off. It's pitch black if you're 603 00:42:04.960 --> 00:42:07.239 in there, right, So Natalia's in the bathroom, Sonny comes in as 604 00:42:07.280 --> 00:42:14.880 tacopy. Natalia leaves, shuts the light, locks the locks him. I 605 00:42:14.880 --> 00:42:19.360 think she just shuts the light and closes the door. And Sonny was in 606 00:42:19.360 --> 00:42:24.079 there for a while screaming hysterically, and Bill Simmons at one point goes, 607 00:42:25.000 --> 00:42:30.039 I think I hear a kid crying. What's going on? So he's like, 608 00:42:30.280 --> 00:42:32.599 he gets closer. He goes, there's a kid in the bathroom. 609 00:42:32.639 --> 00:42:38.119 So he opens the door and Sonny is just like hyperventilating, and he would 610 00:42:38.159 --> 00:42:42.559 not move from the toilet. He would he wouldn't try and get out of 611 00:42:42.559 --> 00:42:45.679 the bathroom because it was so he was terrified. He was just in the 612 00:42:45.719 --> 00:42:50.639 one spot. And Natali's like laughing her ass up. Oh my god, 613 00:42:51.559 --> 00:42:54.280 you know it's so sad. I know, but you weren't there. I 614 00:42:54.320 --> 00:42:57.679 heard about it was the Super Bowl. I think it was just a football 615 00:42:57.719 --> 00:43:00.119 Sunday. Yeah, I heard a lot about it. Yeah yeah, yeah. 616 00:43:00.159 --> 00:43:02.519 So Adam brought Sunny because we were up the street. I mean, 617 00:43:02.840 --> 00:43:07.360 so Adam brought Sunny home, so Sunny wanted to come home. I'm surprised 618 00:43:07.400 --> 00:43:10.039 even likes football to this day. It was not traumatized. Oh my god. 619 00:43:10.400 --> 00:43:14.440 Yeah no, that's uh. But yeah it's sad, like I never 620 00:43:14.480 --> 00:43:21.159 watched Super Bowl with them. But it's fine. Ah, So they're getting 621 00:43:21.280 --> 00:43:27.960 are they? Uh? When is when is Isla's birthday? June twenty sixth, 622 00:43:28.320 --> 00:43:34.480 she'll be five? Yeah, wow, I know. Wow. Then 623 00:43:34.519 --> 00:43:38.400 she goes to kindergarten. Yeah. We're looking at schools for him, and 624 00:43:38.719 --> 00:43:43.119 I think we I think we found one. But it's good. Yeah it's 625 00:43:43.119 --> 00:43:45.840 a religious school, but we don't really. It's Catholic school. Yeah. 626 00:43:45.960 --> 00:43:51.000 Yeah, they're better than the than the public schools that are around our neighborhood. 627 00:43:51.119 --> 00:43:53.480 Yeah, so we're going to go that route and neither of us really 628 00:43:53.559 --> 00:43:58.599 care. That's good. My dad put me in a Catholic school when we 629 00:43:58.639 --> 00:44:01.840 first moved to California. My dad's an atheist and he's like, yeah, 630 00:44:01.920 --> 00:44:07.800 Christian Way or whatever in Kunoka Park. So I was there for like I 631 00:44:07.800 --> 00:44:09.400 don't know why, but I was only there for like a couple of months. 632 00:44:09.760 --> 00:44:13.559 And I remember like, I gotta read the Bible now, like what, 633 00:44:14.239 --> 00:44:17.320 Like I never went to church, and then and then he found another 634 00:44:17.360 --> 00:44:20.920 school and took me out of that. It was just right when we moved 635 00:44:20.960 --> 00:44:24.840 to like to California and I was really young, but yeah, I went 636 00:44:24.880 --> 00:44:30.000 to a yeah Christian Christians. I remember my first crush was at that school 637 00:44:30.360 --> 00:44:34.920 really mm hmmm, yeah, yeah, Ben, his name was Ben. 638 00:44:35.800 --> 00:44:40.599 But and then I and then I just went to a regular school. Yeah, 639 00:44:40.719 --> 00:44:45.239 I've my mom threatened to put me in a Catholic school at one point 640 00:44:45.960 --> 00:44:52.119 because I was from high school. Mm hmm. And that sounded like the 641 00:44:52.159 --> 00:44:57.880 worst like punishment. Ever, I don't they didn't because I don't think they 642 00:44:57.920 --> 00:45:00.320 wanted to pay for me to go to school, right, because they were 643 00:45:00.320 --> 00:45:02.280 like, if you don't get your grades up, we're taking you out. 644 00:45:02.320 --> 00:45:07.119 We're putting you in this Catholic school. And I did not get my grades 645 00:45:07.199 --> 00:45:09.519 up. But I never went to a Catholic school, so I know I 646 00:45:09.519 --> 00:45:14.000 wouldn't have known, Like I just remember thinking that would be a horrible punishment. 647 00:45:14.400 --> 00:45:16.239 Yeah, I just I didn't know the difference at that time. I 648 00:45:16.280 --> 00:45:20.400 was like, Okay, this is another school whatever. But they were I'm 649 00:45:20.440 --> 00:45:22.800 like, why are they giving me the Bible? Like why do I have 650 00:45:22.840 --> 00:45:24.440 to like memory? It was weird. I was like, I'm not. 651 00:45:24.599 --> 00:45:28.320 My dad was like yeah, yeah, all right. It took me out 652 00:45:28.320 --> 00:45:31.480 and took me to someplace else and then I ended up at the alternative school, 653 00:45:31.559 --> 00:45:37.840 right right right, Yeah, I've got to say the school where my 654 00:45:37.960 --> 00:45:43.840 kids are. I was very worried about it because, you know, all 655 00:45:43.920 --> 00:45:45.960 of a lot of our listeners were always like, the reason your kids aren't 656 00:45:45.960 --> 00:45:51.840 doing well socially is because they should be going to a big public school. 657 00:45:52.559 --> 00:45:58.079 And that did not work out. That was actually the worst period. That 658 00:45:58.199 --> 00:46:00.559 was the one year that they were. At the end, I have to 659 00:46:00.559 --> 00:46:05.559 say that this small, kind of cozy high school is like the greatest thing 660 00:46:05.719 --> 00:46:09.159 for them. Now. Elbe would have been miserable, miserable, and she 661 00:46:09.440 --> 00:46:15.280 loves she thrived at the big school. But Sadie and Xander are doing the 662 00:46:15.320 --> 00:46:21.119 best they've ever done in school with school work, but also just just socially, 663 00:46:21.400 --> 00:46:27.400 and I don't know what you would call it. Like emotionally feeling like 664 00:46:27.480 --> 00:46:30.960 they fit, feeling like there's a lot that they can be involved in and 665 00:46:31.199 --> 00:46:37.159 love. I love the aspect of it for them. That's that's like there's 666 00:46:37.159 --> 00:46:40.360 all these things that they offer, but there aren't so many kids that the 667 00:46:40.360 --> 00:46:45.559 things are super competitive. Like Sadie's in an art program at the school. 668 00:46:45.639 --> 00:46:51.199 She takes art and it's and she's Sadie's a really good artist, but there 669 00:46:51.199 --> 00:46:57.599 are other people, like she could have moved into another, like a higher 670 00:46:57.679 --> 00:47:00.880 level art class, but she was like, Mom, some of these people 671 00:47:00.920 --> 00:47:06.239 are amazing, Like I'm there's people that are better than me in this class, 672 00:47:06.280 --> 00:47:07.679 which I think as long as you're not, like you don't want to 673 00:47:07.679 --> 00:47:12.519 be the best in your school at everything. But so there's people that are 674 00:47:12.519 --> 00:47:15.280 doing better that she can look up to, and there's also people that she 675 00:47:15.400 --> 00:47:20.360 can bring up right, And I think that. But but you don't have 676 00:47:20.440 --> 00:47:23.639 to feel so intimidated to join an activity because like, oh, everybody's going 677 00:47:23.679 --> 00:47:28.559 to be so much better than me. They've been doing it their whole lives. 678 00:47:28.840 --> 00:47:30.320 It's a very inclusive school where like, hey, you want to try 679 00:47:30.360 --> 00:47:34.719 speech and debate, like Xander tried it. This is his first he's a 680 00:47:34.719 --> 00:47:38.039 sophomore. Yeah, and there's kids that have been already doing it. But 681 00:47:38.079 --> 00:47:42.280 it's okay, right, yeah, that's nice. It's just been a nice 682 00:47:42.920 --> 00:47:45.599 great I think you just have to find the right fit for your kids, 683 00:47:45.679 --> 00:47:50.639 right right. I mean your school was super tiny and like offbeat, but 684 00:47:50.800 --> 00:47:54.880 like it's fine, right. I was fine. Yeah, I loved my 685 00:47:55.000 --> 00:48:00.760 teachers. I wasn't doing well in a big I was going to Columbus Junior 686 00:48:00.840 --> 00:48:05.800 High and I was just not I was getting lost, you know, whereas 687 00:48:05.880 --> 00:48:10.920 the Alternative Magnet school was like focused on individuals more, you know, even 688 00:48:10.920 --> 00:48:15.599 though there was no i EP or ADD or any of that back then, 689 00:48:15.639 --> 00:48:19.039 but like they recognize, like, okay, I'm not great at math, 690 00:48:19.079 --> 00:48:21.920 so they put me in the right math class that I could keep up in, 691 00:48:22.119 --> 00:48:23.599 you know that kind of thing. Yeah, you made some of your 692 00:48:23.599 --> 00:48:28.599 best friends. Oh yeah, yeah, and I'm still friends. Worked out 693 00:48:28.840 --> 00:48:32.039 some of the teachers on Facebook, Like I say, yeah, I just 694 00:48:32.199 --> 00:48:37.440 saw one of them yesterday. Yeah. There's teacher that would sit shirtst watch 695 00:48:37.480 --> 00:48:43.760 you guys. Was that guy Don oh Don sitting there making fun of everybody? 696 00:48:44.480 --> 00:48:47.960 God Leslie Chevron. He would take role and make fun of everybody's names. 697 00:48:49.400 --> 00:48:54.719 Leslie Chevron, our gas station. Chevron, like you know, called 698 00:48:54.760 --> 00:48:59.679 me the cruise, and and Wendy was the floater because we just cruised and 699 00:48:59.719 --> 00:49:02.559 flowed it around time. Right. We didn't do anything. We didn't play 700 00:49:02.559 --> 00:49:06.760 the sport. We just kind of walked around. It's the cruise and the 701 00:49:06.800 --> 00:49:10.639 float. And then he'd sit he'd sit in his in his chair like with 702 00:49:10.679 --> 00:49:17.199 the the three panel silver thing to get the tan right right, his orange 703 00:49:17.239 --> 00:49:21.800 Guido tan. And he'd just sit there and you're like, you'd be talking 704 00:49:21.800 --> 00:49:23.920 to him and you go. 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