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Yea, who what's up, beautiful
people? Is your baby mama, favorite

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baby Mama, Stormy Pe And this
is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip

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the modern day female perspective. Dam
Song back at it again. You know,

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one day I'm really gonna make my
own drop so that I don't have

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to say that every episode, and
like it really is just gonna chime in

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like Dryam's son. In my mind, it sounds like the guy who'll be

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like daramn song by drink it.
That's one. Do it sound like that

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to y'all, because that's what it's
That's what it sounds like to me.

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So I just want to say before
we get started, shout out to everybody

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who's on live. You still got
time to buy a badge and support your

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black queen, all right, and
make sure you guys chime in because I

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got a lot of stuff. I
feel like you'll you'll have points to like

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reach out and say things about.
So yeah, let's get it. So

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first I want to say, we're
recording this on December fourteenth, and this

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week is very special to me,
y'all because December sixteenth, it's Chocolate Chip

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and SIPs four year Ana VERSUSU bump
dump but dump bump bun. Y'all,

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what shop be hating on me?
Y'all? Shot really be hating on me?

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Because it just add that sound effect. Yes, no, I want

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to I can be boxed, Okay, I can be in pitch perfect.

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I got it, I got the
skills. You know, it's so crazy

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this podcasting thing has. Uh.
I really feel like it's one of my

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babies. Like I feel like it's
my second or third child, because my

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grandma's probably my second child, so
yeah, it will be my third child.

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Because like I really watched this little
thing grow from like me recording in

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my living room on my living room
floor, to like me selling out shows,

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or me doing events with Tonight's Conversations, or me like going around fifty

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million times and me being able to
quit my nine to five job and really

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just focus on this like it's crazy. It's crazy, Like I really in

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four years dog and I can't sit
here and act like it's all me.

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So I want to thank Shy,
I want to thank seven, I want

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to thank Kyle dan Kevin. I
also want to thank Courtney or CCMs,

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like thank you to everybody who's been
a part of this journey. Because it

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has been ridiculous and I have loved
and sometimes hated every single minute of it.

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So yeah, thank y'all. Four
years. What's up? Five years?

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We gotta celebrate, like we gotta
go on vacation together, Like we

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all gotta like we gotta put together
some type of you know, like for

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us and the people who be on
live chiming in every week and stuff like

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that, Like we have to all
go on vacation together and make it a

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thing. Shot while you're rolling your
eyes cause you don't like people. Shot,

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don't like people. But we're gonna
drag his ass too, and he

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won't come with us because we are
family. Malby Lion said, let's go

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to Vegas. Yo. Did y'all
see jodasy As having a Vegas Bay residency?

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He's taking spot? No, no, no, they're not in the

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same venue. I don't think it's
this. I don't even think it's the

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same size. Yeah, uh sure, just in his residency, but I

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think it's a smaller venue. But
they do have a residency coming up in

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Vegas, and I'm not gonna hold
y'all guess whos gonna be in there singing

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front row, acting like fucking Keiki
Palmer me me, I'm being that bitch,

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singing my heart out, ass cheeks
out and all with that, I'm

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gonna do it. I'm gonna do
it. Dark Man seventeen said it's Shod

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Batman. Yes, yes, yes, Shod is Batman, very much,

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very elusive. Dark Okay, born
and bread in the shadows. Okay,

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yeah, that's shot. That's that's
okay. So y'all know, I like

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to come on here week that we
can give y'all updates on my life.

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What's been going on with me and
uh him, y'all ain't gonna lot of

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this week been hard this week,
these past few weeks have been hard,

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and it's because I feel like this
is a safe space. I love y'all.

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Y'all love me. We appreciate how
we can communicate to one another.

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So, y'all, I reached the
point where I was woman enough to acknowledge,

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bitch, you ain't having no sex. Okay, you ain't having no

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sex. The kushi is dry,
there are spiderwebs, tumbleweeds, everything,

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you ain't having no sex, okay. Now realizing that I'm not having any

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sex. At that same time,
I also realized I'm just going through some

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things. So I was like,
fuck it, I'm just gonna stop taking

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my birth control. Fuck right,
like taking my birth control. Initially this

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whole time when I wasn't having sex, it was like, okay, but

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at least I know what day my
period comes on, Like at least I

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know. But now I'm like,
I don't even feel like that shit,

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no word, so I stop taking
my reference ow y'all. And I have

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never been so horny in my life. I have never in all my day

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y'all, my cushi been so hard. Oh my god, my cushi has

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been so fucking hard. Like I'm
not gonna lie in a the beginning,

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I thought it was like, oh, you're just being in your head because

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you're not having sex, and like
you know, you know your hormones off

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because you stopped your birth show.
But no, y'all, Like I found

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myself like rocking in chairs like low
key trying to rub one out, and

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I'm like, bro, what is
happening to me? I'm becoming a sexual

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dedo? Like things are happening.
My cushi has been so hard, y'all,

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so fucking hard. Right, So
then like yesterday, I started getting

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this pain like I started getting this
pain and back, and then I got

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paranoid because I was like, oh
my god, what if I'm getting blue

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walls. Listen to me. Listen
to me. You know how like men

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get blue balls, what if I'm
getting blue walls? And that's what this

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pain is. It's like bulding up
in my lower Backus, Yo, listen,

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I'm struggling. I'm having a hard
time. Right. So I didn't

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get a chance to do as much
research as I wanted to. But y'all

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think blue walls is a real thing. I think I got blue walls,

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y'all. I think I got blue
walls. The Blue Professor says, Welcome

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to the Sexual Deviant Club. We
meet twice a month. I think I'm

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in that bitch kiing me. J
says blue walls is crazy. Tell that

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to my vagina. Okay, I
know it's crazy. Mark will be real,

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said cut said what I do,
y'all? I'm struggling, like I'm

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really struggling, So like, okay, now this is gonna sound crazy,

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but I try to answer. I
want to try to answer honestly. Right,

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How do how what? How do
you cure blue balls without ejaculating?

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I just have to rub one out. So for me to cure my blue

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walls, I have to rub one
out. Well, I mean, yeah,

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the point of having blue balls is
because you're backed up. Now I'm

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back the fuck up. You know
what? You know? Not only did

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I start my birth control, I'm
not having sex. I also threw away

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my rose. Y'all. I know, I know it's his teeth over something

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else. But you you would have, you would have broken ship. Listen,

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I think that whed Listen. I'm
not even gonna hold you like I

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think. Okay, this is gonna
sound crazy for hear me out right.

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I think my cuschi is gonna do
like an earring hole, Like if you

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don't put an earring in it,
it close up. Like two more months.

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I'm gonna be a born again virgin, like two more months. Say

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my number in your phone as the
virgin marry because I'm near like I feel

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it. I feel it. It's
gonna close like an earring hole. I

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feel it. We're on Amazon,
that's sure. Kingmy j said someone found

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it and it's using it. Now
that's disgusting. That is gross. It

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didn't think though, and it was
clean. It was clean, so but

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this is completely off topic and off
the rails, But I just wanted to

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get this out because so I'm very
particular with my toys, even though right

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now I don't have any toys because, like I said, I threw the

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more away. So when I'm finishing
with my toys, each time, I

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wipe them off, right, But
like with my wines or my actual dildos

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or whatever, Not so much my
wines, but definitely my dildos, like

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and like, my, what are
these things? Cause it looks like a

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j kind of I don't know what
it was a call, but I'll be

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using a condom? What what that
makes me weird? I know it make

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me weird. I don't know why
I freaky. I know it makes me

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weird because I use a condom.
That makes me a freaky auntie. How

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how it makes clean up? First
of all, a lot of y'all striking

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because y'all don't clean your toys,
and that's why it'd be smelling like moldy

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cheese, the fish market and everything
else. Okay, when they pause,

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we wouldn't know anything about that.
I'm just saying, like, in order

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to, you know, not have
to put all your toys in a dishwasher

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or in order to not have to
so oakum like a pair of bloody jeans,

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your shoes like hundom and just take
it off, go to trash.

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Okay, guys, when you open
the drawer, yeah, no, Seriously,

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if your girlfriend toy stink, it's
because she's not cleaning them like seriously.

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Heavy Ec says safe sex, not
trying to have battery babies. Do

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the hell? I thought this was
a safe face. You're not begging in

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safe space, and I don't like
space for us to talk. Marco b

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Real says, auntie want to stay
safe and not wanting to stay safe.

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It's you know, shortening cleanup time. Fuck y'all. Dark Man seventeen says

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you're going to get me in trouble
with my wife talking about your cuchie like

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that out loud. Oh my bad, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Renut

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to six seven cent, that's smart. Renut I don't known a breezy two

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three five seven says you put a
condom on a dildo and do and do.

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First of all, let me to
make things clear right, I don't

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care. Right, I'm a type
of person where when I pleasure myself with

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my toys. I use the condom. It makes clean up a lot easier.

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Okay, in order to have to
prevent you wiping everything down, putting

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in a dishwasher, X, Y, and Z, just use a condom

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and then take it off and throw
it in the trash. Now, you

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still would have to periodically from time
time just wipe everything down just to make

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sure you're getting all the juices and
natural berries off of it. But you

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know, I sometimes then in your
man's trash can, I said, if

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you found the condom in your man's
trash can, he said that he was

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masturbating in the condom. Because you
don't make a mess, you believe him.

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That's a tough one. That's a
tough one. So Sean said,

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if I found a used kindom in
my man's trash can and he said he

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was using it to masturbate, what
I believe? I mean, that's that's

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a mess, Savor. It is
a mess, Savor. It is a

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mess, Savor. But hopefully when
not getting man, we don't got to

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masturbate no more. But if you're
going on the show or like on the

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road, that's a good point.
I don't know, I want to mess.

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Blessed Bodies Fitness, says, so
is the blue walls due to the

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main one acting up, lack of
viable options or personal goal? Says raw

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I'm gonna be real, the the
blue walls is because I'm just not dating

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nobody right now. And I know
a lot of times people will be like,

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oh, you know that's cat.
You got so many fucking options.

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These men want to fuck me,
and I don't feel like sifting through the

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niggas that want to fuck me to
find my husband. So I'm gonna take

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accountability and say, for the past
few months, I have just not been

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dating. Like I've just been sitting
in my house watching Hulu. And you

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know, I lost just like that. I'm now Hulu ambassador. You know,

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I'm just yourking. But no,
I don't know. I've just really

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been in my house. I've been
happy with myself, and I know that

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that's not the way to find my
husband. But whatever, I just may

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having myself. I'm gonna get back
out there. Damn give me a chance.

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Okay, I'm gonna get back out
there. Crazy, I'm gonna wait

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to podcast off your ass. See
I thought this was a safe space.

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It is just you. So I
mentioned that you know, I haven't really

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been dating, and I'm really just
been in the house. And you know,

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when you take time and find comfort
in your solace, that's when you

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have the best epiphanies. Okay,
that's when all the good thoughts come right.

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When you are really truly happy and
content with being by yourself and enjoying

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your own company, this is when
you have the best ideas. This is

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when you have a better communication with
God, because this is direct violine when

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you got all this static noise going
on in the background. So during this

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time period, I had some great
thoughts, made some great revelations. One

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of them, y'all, praise yourself. I made. I made an amazing

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discovery. Okay. I figured out
why all the healed or people who've worked

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on themselves, Like I really figured
out. I'm trying to figure out how

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to say this without sounding like a
dick. Okay, I figured out why

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all the people who's worked on themselves
and healed and X, Y and Z.

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I figured out why they're all single. It's because I'm going to go

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outside. It's because I'm going to
go outside. I figured out why all

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the people are healed and have worked
on themselves why they can't find a relationship.

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It's because we don't go outside.
Now. I don't know. Maybe

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I'm just speaking for me. This
message gonna reach somebody. Maybe it's not

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okay for me personally. There are
a lot of factors that make me not

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want to go outside. Number one
is people, Okay, because I want

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you people. Number two, if
the parking situation is not solidified. Maybe

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if I got stuck on the block
too many times, okay, if the

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parking is too high. If the
parking is too high, I'm going home.

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Okay, I'm not gonna do it. I'm not gonna do it.

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And then when I sit back and
think about all the goodness that comes with

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my home, Okay, baby,
you can't beat this ship and clothes bro

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bruh, not to miss. I
hate when I have company. If I

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have to put on a bra and
it's a lackluster environment. I have an

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attitude. Okay, I have an
attitude. Like I don't know about y'all,

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but my house is lit. Okay, the alcohol is free, all

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right, the snacks is fire.
The crime rate is low, Like what

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the fuck? It is late over
here? Okay? I got all the

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streaming services, like come on,
come on internet jumping. Okay, what

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what like business class? What's up? Come on? Like my house is

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very tempted. But I realized all
the people who are running to who are

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really solid individuals, and anyone would
love to be in a relationship with them.

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It's like we're all single because we
don't go outside. We like being

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in the house, y'all. We
gotta get outside. We gotta get outside.

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Like me, personally, I really
was like on a tangent like yo,

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I just know one of these days, my husband's just gonna knock down

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this fucking door and be like,
yo, I was looking for you,

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and I'm like, yeah, here, I am, hey here, i

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am, like you know, And
then I had to be real with myself

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and realize that's not gonna fuck hamp
it. You gotta get your ass up

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and go outside, right So,
I know it pains me, it really

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it pains me to say this,
but y'all, we gotta go outside.

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Ill ill I'll try next year.
Marco b Real says having your own places

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life exactly exactly. Dart Man seventeen
says, Okay, I'm coming to your

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house. Then listen. I'm just
saying, Hayvy ec says, being hell

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requires your person to commit a B
and E to get you yes, yes,

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Like, bro, just come knock
down my door. No, don't

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say that. I'm not gonna say
that, and I'm not I take that

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back. A Breezy two three five
seven says speaking speaking truth to the tenth

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power Outfite says her Hulu is at
home. Sherlockin says, outside is weird,

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so weird, so weird. Marco
b Real says, because ain't nobody

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worth finding outside Adonna's and Noba says
they gotta go outside and talk to people

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like ugh, and talk to people
like going outside always reminds me that it's

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a lot of people who weren't raised
the way I was, and that in

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itself is a doozy. I don't
feel like explain it to nobody who ordered

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quote unquote the gratuity. I don't
feel like explaining nobody how we should split

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the bill. Okay, Like you
don't understand how hold works, bruh,

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You don't know how. You don't
know that if you use cash, they

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gonna charge your shit a little of
money. You're gonna get mad about it,

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bruh. And not even that I
don't feel like trying to split the

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bill seventeen ways. I don't feel
like trying to explain why you know what

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this this is me personal, this
is this is my own personal right right.

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I feel like for the past few
years, even before I've elevated where

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I am now, I just felt
like, yo, I'm that bitch,

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right, And when you go outside, I feel like there are women who

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crave attention and there are women who
garner attention right. And I feel like

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the women who crave attention is like
a few drinks and they talking about like

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yea, I'm trying to figure out
what bitch is looking at, or like

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they just try and trick upside down
to like cause the crowd. And then

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there are women who just naturally get
attention by just being dope, being cute,

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being themselves. And that's me.
So when I go out and you're

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trying to shake your ass, they
have a whole bunch attention, Like baby,

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you make it a block hot.
I don't want that. I don't

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want that. Now. I'm not
saying we can't dance. We can enjoy

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ourselves, we can have a box, we can have a groove, but

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you're throwing an ass on a circle. You pussy popping in the handstand like

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you're doing your best sexy red impersonation, like baby you respectfully. That doesn't

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go with my vibe. It next
to me, yes, right next to

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me. Sneeze. Now you got
people thinking we came together. So what

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we came into uber together the way
you acting, we didn't? All right,

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that's it in that's all these girls
like that in front of me.

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I'll ascribe to that. Dark Man
seventeen says, I don't like going outside.

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Just spend money. That's another thing. I Lennox says, so you

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got it? Thing cool? Oh
man, I pressed a wrong button.

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Sorry, y'all, Sorry y'all.
Heavy ec says outside smell like people.

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And that's another fucking thing with outside. All Right, I said it before

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and I'll say again. I feel
like, just how, just how we

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have a separate compartment or not a
separate compartment. What would they be called?

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You know how we have like smoking
and non smoking zone. I feel

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like we should have aluminum and aluminum
free deodorant zones. Okay, I don't

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care. I don't care. I
don't care about how bad you're trying to

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fight cancer. I don't care about
how bad you want to fucking increase the

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environment. I don't care. Y'all
stink. Okay, I feel like we

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should have different zones. Okay.
Maybe I know you're trying to keep your

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body pure. Okay, I know
you're trying to eliminate putting all these toxins

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in your body, and you know, prevent cancer and X, Y and

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Z. That's cool, But like
you can't reapply. This is a genuine

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question about yo. The one thing
you're trying to figure out to make it

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last long. When you use this
aluminum free deodorant, are you not allowed

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to reapply? Because I'm all for
whatever journey you're on, I'll support you

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in that, but when you start
infringing upon my nostrils, we have to

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renegotiate because something isn't sitting well with
me. Like it, don't it,

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don't do it. Like I'm all
for you going outside smelling like natural juices

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and berries, but once they start
to mold, baby, we need to

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figure out something else. Something else
needs to happen here. Outfits says preach

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them natural doo folks be mega right, smelling like immediate rejection. Rejection ha

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ha. Aaron Nash says, some
people you have to tell them, let

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that water braid your ass. Scott
People says, yeah, you're supposed to

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reapply. I don't think they know
that they are supposed to reapply. I

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think that's something that we haven't just
you know, got to go. Ham

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two one two six says I just
upgraded my ten year old sun deordering.

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Told them that Vegas shit ain't cutting
it. I'm not gonna hold you.

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Last year, I had to upgrade
my son deodorant too. We was on

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that Tom's Natural deodorant. We was
on that tussy. Okay, the real

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ones know what that tussy is.
You know what that tussy is, that

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roll on tussy. But the rad
top those are the real ones, all

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right. I said, yeah,
you've grown, baby, you gotta use

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grown deodorant. Now you gotta cut
all that shit out. Okay, we're

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gonna get you some adult yodorant.
Now you done did it? Congratulations.

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You didn't graduated. You didn't graduated, baby, you didn't graduated. Hold

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on you, I'm trying to swipe
down. Give me one second. Winds

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of Change says aluminum free deodorant doesn't
make me smell bad. Your body has

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to get used to it. Okay, whatever it is, all right.

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This is a good point, though, This is a good point. And

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to be clear, aluminum free deordorant
does not make you smell bad because sometimes

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your body do have to get used
to it. But while you're in your

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transitioning period, you should do that
at home. Okay, transition at home,

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all right, because when you come
outside smelling like the Hogy factory.

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Okay, when you come outside smelling
like a fucking bowl full of tears from

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cut onions, that's not fair to
us. That's that's that's that's not fair

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to us. It's not it's not
and it's not all right, hold on,

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heart break, CJ said, not
mold, yes, mold xx the

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plug? What's up? So yeah, I'm not sure how we got here

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or the things that took place,
But long story short, single people who

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are good, qualified single people and
look for a relationship. Unfortunately, we

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gotta go outside, y'all. And
I know I hate that for me,

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I hate that for you, I
hate that for us, But we gotta

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go outside. Oh my god,
Sky People says, your diet can't be

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horrible either. If if you want
to wear a lumina free deordorant. Yes,

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yes, And I'm not even gonna
say to the alumina free deorderant people,

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like just period, Like if your
diet is trash, women know,

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men know, we know, right, Like if when you go to the

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bathroom, I gotta let that bitch
breathe, Okay, if when you go

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urinate, like not even like a
number two, if you go number one,

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and I gotta air this bitch out
light a match X Y and Z

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spraight of air freshener. Baby,
What the last time you had a glass

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water? When the last time?
When the last time? And I feel

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like water is a it's becoming a
forgotten trade amongst our people. And when

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I say our people, I mean
humans, okay, like and not even

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that even more specifically, like black
people, y'all not drinking enough water.

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And I know because some of y'all
black is starting to crack. Oh some

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of y'all, some of y'all,
y'all the black is cracking. And I

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hate that for us, all right, it's because you are fucking dehydrated.

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Stop this. I hate this for
us, Like at yourself, how much

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water did you drink today? How
much water did you drink today. Shot,

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how much water did you drink today? Like a bottle? See,

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we need to drink more water,
y'all, drink more water. Outfit says,

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who you aren't needing all the periodic
table elements? A lot of people,

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honestly, that's the unfortunate part.
A lot of people. A lot

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of people. Ones up Change says, how you don't drink water when your

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body is compromised of like sixty percent
water? You needed to function? Baby.

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I know, but I'm starting to
think that the universe doesn't know,

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or majority these people out here don't
know because it's trash. It's trash,

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it's trash, and it's like trash, and I hate that for us.

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Trashide. Oh oh oh, it's
gross, it's gross. I'm happy that

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we were able to have this talk
today. Outfite says, that's cracking,

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Porcelain. I'm so happy that we
were able to have his talk today and

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we were able to come to certain
conclusions. I love this for us,

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y'all. I feel like I hinted
to it earlier, but I feel like

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the universe now just be sending me
content like it's no rhyme or reason to

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it. Like the universe knows.
Hey, girl, that's not your husband,

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that's not your man. This ain't
even gonna be somebody you can get

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a booty cheeks too, But you
know what it is gonna be content.

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Okay. So I started talking to
this guy and we exchanged social media's and

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things are going great. It's very
lighthearted. It's not consistent. First red

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flag was my man wanted to be
on the phone all the time. Baby,

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I'm busy, okay, I'm an
entrepreneur, I'm a mother, I

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take care of my grandmother. I
can't talk to you on the phone all

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day. I just can't do it
right. But you know, when I

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had time, I was making time
for him, send him a text like,

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Hey, I got this meeting today, I got that meeting today.

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Here's when I have time to talk. I got this coming up. Blah

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blah blah blah. Right. So
my man, like literally on day one,

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was like, hey, I just
feel like it's a red flag.

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You don't have enough talking for me. And I'm like, bro, first

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of all, today's day one.
We had a few conversations like you're being

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a little bit fucking toxic. But
I digress, right, So y'all know

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I don't like when people be off
the back super sexual me. Like,

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if dick is all you have to
offer, just say that. And unfortunately

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it's not gonna work here because I
don't even want that shit. Like I

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I the dick is not enough.
The dick isn't enough. The dick isn't

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enough. Like as hard as my
couchie is, the dick isn't enough.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah, the
android screenshots. You should clarify yourself to

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be clear. The dick isn't enough
because I am overwhelmed with dick. I

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have dick falling out of my pockets. I'm not taking it. I have

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an abundance of dick that I don't
want. When I say I don't want,

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it's just like, what else do
you have to offer other than dick?

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Like, bro, come one dick
again? Aid pictures, You niggas

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with these android pictures getting on so
uh long story short, like day two,

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day three, you talking and something
says, hey, just go through

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his Instagram page. Hey, take
the time, go through his Instagram page.

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Maybe there was something that you missed
that picked up on like this nigga

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is a little you know out there, right y'all. I go through these

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pictures. This. I go through
this nigga's pictures, right, I hit

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like picture four on his timeline and
this nigga snatching his waisting on his pictures.

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Y'all, I cannot make this stuff. Okay, This ron man is

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using photoshop, face tune something and
sucking his waist it all right. And

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he's a gym nigga. He being
a gym heavy. His whole profile is

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like, you know, fitness stuff, firefighter Barbie R Smash smash, smash

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smash will yo yo yo yo A
breezy two three five seven saying, wait,

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what bro this man, this man
who is in the gym consistently,

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he has muscles, he has a
nice shape. I can see he's snatching

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his waist in in his photos.
Yeah, and then that wasn't even it.

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As I'm going through, y'all know, I'm a content creator. I

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know the tips, I know the
tricks, I know everything. So imagine

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my surprise when I see this guy
I'm talking to is snatching his waisting on

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Instagram. Imagine my surprise when I
see this man is snatching his waist in

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like a bad bitch bruh. Imagine
my surprise when I see this man snatching

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his waist in like a battye And
that's not even the worst part about it.

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You aren't even doing it well.
Like I can see the machines in

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the background on the gangstanling like you
in front of the Smith machine, and

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the Smith machine is gonna lean back, like baby, no, no,

403
00:31:56.119 --> 00:32:00.680
what is happening right now? So
then as I'm scrolling through where I see

404
00:32:01.440 --> 00:32:07.279
all your like up close selfies are
filtered, like you're using the no filter

405
00:32:07.400 --> 00:32:14.920
on Instagram or you're using enhance on
face tune, like as a content creator.

406
00:32:14.960 --> 00:32:17.759
Baby, I know, Baby,
I know, but it was the

407
00:32:17.920 --> 00:32:24.400
multiple photos of you snatching your waist
in poorly for me. We both can't

408
00:32:24.400 --> 00:32:29.960
be the bad bitch. We both
can't be a battie like we have to

409
00:32:30.000 --> 00:32:38.160
take turns like yeah, I'd rather
just y'all heavy, he says, A

410
00:32:38.279 --> 00:32:44.200
matrix waiste is wow, poppy smooth. Ford says, wait a minute,

411
00:32:44.400 --> 00:32:46.319
so what the gym not doing for
him? And this is what I was

412
00:32:46.319 --> 00:32:51.680
confused about, right, I just
want to reiterate, this is a man

413
00:32:51.720 --> 00:32:59.519
who's in shape and you're snatching your
waist into unbelievable portions like even mister Universe

414
00:32:59.559 --> 00:33:02.920
don't look like this baby, what
are you doing? Like, what's happening

415
00:33:02.960 --> 00:33:13.960
here? No? Seriously, Nero
domind seven one seven says Wayste trainer William

416
00:33:14.319 --> 00:33:23.000
Wayte trainer William is wild right now. Wilin Wilin Wolins tractor villain said bad

417
00:33:23.039 --> 00:33:30.400
bitch Ben bad bitch Man is crazy. Yeah, A breezy two three five

418
00:33:30.480 --> 00:33:34.640
seven says Waite Snatcher for real,
I rob a on one says I went

419
00:33:34.680 --> 00:33:38.519
to high school with a brother that
does this. It's outlandish for a man

420
00:33:38.559 --> 00:33:49.079
to embrace the dad bye broachers.
Photoshop pop is crazy, y'all. I'm

421
00:33:49.119 --> 00:33:52.440
not gonna lie, y'all gotta be
I'm gonna put on the shirt that's a

422
00:33:52.480 --> 00:33:55.599
good one. Seriously, when I
get my beer gray photoshop popping out,

423
00:33:55.920 --> 00:34:04.640
says the face Tune Goon altered all
the photos like, yeah, this is

424
00:34:04.640 --> 00:34:07.400
gonna get them right here. And
you know what, this gives me to

425
00:34:07.480 --> 00:34:13.400
my next This gives me to my
next point. Right. I felt so

426
00:34:13.559 --> 00:34:15.639
betrayed and I'm like, yo,
fellas, I got an honest question.

427
00:34:15.920 --> 00:34:20.960
How do y'all feel when y'all meet
women on the internet and when you meet

428
00:34:21.039 --> 00:34:25.599
her in person, she don't look
the way her pictures look like she you

429
00:34:25.639 --> 00:34:30.239
know, might not have the clearer
skin, or she might not have the

430
00:34:30.280 --> 00:34:35.079
smallest waist, or she might have
a little bit of a tummy more than

431
00:34:35.079 --> 00:34:37.400
she does in her photos. Like
does that effect your because I'm not gonna

432
00:34:37.400 --> 00:34:45.760
lie I felt betrayed. No,
I felt betrayed. I felt hoodwinked,

433
00:34:45.039 --> 00:34:52.480
swing the door like bemboozled like catfish, but I wasn't exactly like catfish,

434
00:34:52.519 --> 00:34:57.000
but I wasn't. You was a
ten, but you're really a six in

435
00:34:57.039 --> 00:35:01.440
a head? What y'all be or
it's just me and I know this is

436
00:35:01.480 --> 00:35:05.199
gonna be like like you say you
five to six, but that's only what

437
00:35:05.280 --> 00:35:08.440
he's on. First of all,
don't talk about height because every nigga who

438
00:35:08.519 --> 00:35:13.760
said he's six' one is actually
five eleven. Six one doesn't exist.

439
00:35:14.039 --> 00:35:19.599
Okay, I'm here standing on six'
one as a height does not exist.

440
00:35:20.039 --> 00:35:24.719
You're either five eleven okay, six
foot or six two okay. The six

441
00:35:24.800 --> 00:35:29.239
to one category, it doesn't exist. Because every man who I ever ran

442
00:35:29.320 --> 00:35:31.840
into who was six to one,
he was five eleven six foot with Tim's

443
00:35:31.880 --> 00:35:37.000
on stopped cap. That's crazy.
Stop it. I've had enough all right.

444
00:35:37.960 --> 00:35:40.480
A Breezy two three five seven says
not gonna lie that shit does irk

445
00:35:40.559 --> 00:35:47.559
me? J nine two one five
says catfish candy, Poppy Smooth says treat

446
00:35:47.639 --> 00:35:52.800
bag me, Damn I rob it. On one says as a woman,

447
00:35:52.840 --> 00:36:04.960
you should have heavy EC says those
are called decepticons. Yo yo yo,

448
00:36:05.360 --> 00:36:08.559
I am crying. J ninety one
five says if a nigga competing to be

449
00:36:08.599 --> 00:36:15.360
sexier than you, that's a problem. That's crazy. But I'm serious,

450
00:36:15.400 --> 00:36:21.159
Like, what do y'all say when
y'all run into women who don't look like

451
00:36:21.159 --> 00:36:24.440
they're pictures? I'm curious because in
my mind, first of all, a

452
00:36:24.480 --> 00:36:27.559
long story short, we end up
stop talking because my man really wanted to

453
00:36:27.559 --> 00:36:29.400
be able to HOMEE twenty four seven
like, baby, I'm busy, I'm

454
00:36:29.400 --> 00:36:31.559
making money now I'm worried that you're
not doing the same. So, you

455
00:36:31.599 --> 00:36:35.239
know, eventually went back and forth. I'm like, hey, respectfully,

456
00:36:35.320 --> 00:36:37.559
I just feel like I'm not the
girl for you. I don't have the

457
00:36:37.599 --> 00:36:39.880
time that you are requiring right now. We're at different points in our lives.

458
00:36:40.239 --> 00:36:46.440
Y'all know my favorite line, good
luck on your journey, Because one

459
00:36:46.480 --> 00:36:50.519
thing I'm gonna do, baby is
I'm gonna wish you well in your journey

460
00:36:50.559 --> 00:36:52.679
because it ain't with me, all
right, respectfully, And it's no shade

461
00:36:52.840 --> 00:36:55.480
other than him snatching in his waist. That was a little bit of shade,

462
00:36:55.599 --> 00:36:59.679
but it's no shade. It's just
I'm not the girl for you,

463
00:36:59.760 --> 00:37:04.519
right. But I really say all
this to get to be snatching a waist.

464
00:37:04.599 --> 00:37:07.679
Nigga, What y'all do when y'all
run into women who don't look like

465
00:37:07.679 --> 00:37:13.719
they pictures? Let me know.
Aaron Nash seven three says a shape shifter.

466
00:37:15.719 --> 00:37:21.199
Cool Laklan says, I smile and
grin and never talk to her again.

467
00:37:21.639 --> 00:37:29.079
That's what I am crying. Seven
and says, you just got a

468
00:37:29.119 --> 00:37:32.760
squint and ask him where you know
them from. Oh my god, y'all

469
00:37:32.840 --> 00:37:40.320
are fucking She just got to the
restaurant she's about to eat. I robbed

470
00:37:40.519 --> 00:37:45.880
on one says the time where I
was meeting a woman that was initiated online,

471
00:37:45.360 --> 00:37:49.280
I scope out from a distance to
see her before she sees me,

472
00:37:49.639 --> 00:37:52.760
and if she cappin, I'm dipping. Strifted villain says, Honestly, I

473
00:37:52.800 --> 00:37:58.679
tell them I ain't interested. I
respect that I'll face I wish to show

474
00:37:58.840 --> 00:38:04.800
MTV next was around on your episode
would be bananas, we should do it?

475
00:38:05.440 --> 00:38:09.239
That would be I like that.
J ninety five said, it's already

476
00:38:09.360 --> 00:38:15.199
enough transformers out here. I'm too
old to be catfish going to jail today.

477
00:38:15.400 --> 00:38:22.559
King Crest says for you. From
Temp says, by stranger, I

478
00:38:22.599 --> 00:38:29.440
don't know who you are. Listen. Nigrodama says, broboard it back with

479
00:38:29.480 --> 00:38:32.840
the MTV shows. Well, listen, that's that's good. I feel like,

480
00:38:32.920 --> 00:38:39.920
you know, we got I think
I am. That's good. I

481
00:38:39.960 --> 00:38:45.239
feel like the best part of this
conversation is knowing that I'm not alone and

482
00:38:45.280 --> 00:38:49.320
feeling like I've been Bam. You
attract a lot of sass. You know

483
00:38:49.400 --> 00:38:52.599
what. I ain't gonna hold you
like I don't even like saying that word,

484
00:38:52.679 --> 00:38:57.000
but like for throw, like from
the nigga who cried in bed and

485
00:38:57.039 --> 00:39:01.039
then and then the ball and then
now you face snash waistass nigga and then

486
00:39:01.079 --> 00:39:05.599
the bul cry in bed was a
firefighter like he was holding. He was

487
00:39:05.639 --> 00:39:07.760
holding, he was hold niggas over
his shoulders, moaning. He didn't cry,

488
00:39:07.880 --> 00:39:12.599
he was moaning. Bro. He
was moaning at a different octave than

489
00:39:12.599 --> 00:39:15.079
I'm used to that's a girl.
He held niggas over his shoulder with a

490
00:39:15.159 --> 00:39:22.079
mask on. But you know what
of respectfully, I I don't think that

491
00:39:22.320 --> 00:39:28.519
I attract a lot of sassy niggas. I think that I provide a safe

492
00:39:28.519 --> 00:39:35.119
space for men to be themselves.
And it doesn't always go bad until you

493
00:39:35.159 --> 00:39:39.840
know you phone number? No no, no, no, no no,

494
00:39:40.519 --> 00:39:44.000
you want to talk on the phone, Like what are you doing? Shut

495
00:39:44.079 --> 00:39:45.519
up? But thin It's eight o'clock
in the morning, even got to get

496
00:39:45.599 --> 00:39:49.360
ready for work, yo, And
I'm not gonna hold you like. I'm

497
00:39:49.360 --> 00:39:51.920
like, yo, I'm in a
meeting. My meeting's running over. I'm

498
00:39:51.960 --> 00:39:54.280
an his short. When I'm done, he says, okay, and then

499
00:39:54.280 --> 00:39:58.519
he hit me up like two hours
later, like damn, I'm still alive.

500
00:39:58.559 --> 00:40:00.679
I exist, And I'm like,
bro, this is day two?

501
00:40:01.480 --> 00:40:06.119
What the fuck is happening? How
do you feel? What you mean?

502
00:40:06.199 --> 00:40:10.880
I feel to be an? How
I feel? Seriously, I feel that's

503
00:40:10.880 --> 00:40:15.039
how women be. Stop. How
does it feel? How to feel?

504
00:40:15.519 --> 00:40:16.719
How to feel? Girls gonna be
like, da, how's it feel?

505
00:40:16.760 --> 00:40:22.320
I don't believe you. How's it
feel? How's it feel? Said?

506
00:40:22.320 --> 00:40:23.320
How does it feel? How the
feel? Is that? How women be

507
00:40:23.440 --> 00:40:28.440
all, especially when you stop talking
to them. If I say I'm busy

508
00:40:28.480 --> 00:40:30.960
and I got things to do,
especially when you stalking attention two hours later

509
00:40:31.119 --> 00:40:35.360
some nonsense. How's it feel?
Oh damn, you're doing too much.

510
00:40:35.840 --> 00:40:39.880
I'm talking to you getting ghosted.
I don't like it. Out feel says

511
00:40:40.039 --> 00:40:46.360
good job Shot Bello question wow,
Scotland Rocks says yes, y'all do Excellent

512
00:40:46.480 --> 00:40:51.840
one says yes. Aaron Age seventy
three says a hundred. Eric Sawyer says

513
00:40:51.880 --> 00:40:58.199
that's how they be. Wow,
I just keep going. Rod says yes,

514
00:40:58.239 --> 00:41:00.440
that's how a lot of women are. It's a splicit. Bias says

515
00:41:00.559 --> 00:41:05.840
not early on though, thank you, sis uh. At least one says

516
00:41:05.880 --> 00:41:09.159
girls be doing the fucking most for
you. From Temp says go touch some

517
00:41:09.280 --> 00:41:15.159
grass, shorty, I'm busy.
A Breezy two three five seven says hell

518
00:41:15.559 --> 00:41:19.519
yeah, wow, I feel it. Feel overwhelmed right for no reason,

519
00:41:19.639 --> 00:41:21.679
like you're just like yo, I
just want to be mean to you,

520
00:41:21.719 --> 00:41:23.559
So something like what is wrong?
Would you? It's that bad out here?

521
00:41:23.920 --> 00:41:29.559
Yo? You know what I'm I'm
gonna say the ones you least expect,

522
00:41:29.559 --> 00:41:32.159
the thuff, the douggest baddest dawns. You'd be like, yo,

523
00:41:32.280 --> 00:41:35.840
like you won't even giving me no
attention like that. Now all of a

524
00:41:35.880 --> 00:41:38.199
sudden, you on my phone acting
like this is crazy. Like I'm gonna

525
00:41:38.239 --> 00:41:43.679
say, I know that sometimes I
speak from a place of privilege, and

526
00:41:43.760 --> 00:41:49.599
I speak from experiences that may be
one sided. I didn't know that there

527
00:41:49.599 --> 00:41:52.519
are a lot of women doing that
to the point where you know, everybody

528
00:41:52.639 --> 00:41:57.159
chimed in in the shed. I
didn't know, you know how you how

529
00:41:57.239 --> 00:42:00.480
y'all say that when a guy says
that when him and acting too masculine,

530
00:42:00.679 --> 00:42:05.039
but that's because they're in front of
the wrong guy. It's the same thing

531
00:42:05.079 --> 00:42:08.000
with y'all when y'all we get we
know like how you ask me how you

532
00:42:08.000 --> 00:42:10.320
know she's the one? I know? I do to cracked the cold when

533
00:42:10.360 --> 00:42:14.880
you acting like that, especially when
it's like catching me off guard, because

534
00:42:14.880 --> 00:42:16.559
I'm like, oh, you really
fuck with me, because you know,

535
00:42:16.599 --> 00:42:21.360
when you first meet somebody that chases
like, I ain't going too much for

536
00:42:21.400 --> 00:42:23.960
the other person. But when she
do that, it's like that's fun by

537
00:42:24.000 --> 00:42:27.239
smile. Okay, but what about
women who do that right off the bat?

538
00:42:27.320 --> 00:42:31.079
Yeah, you're doing too much okay, right, okay, Heavy Eat

539
00:42:31.239 --> 00:42:35.000
says once he starts, what are
you doing to death, it's over for

540
00:42:35.119 --> 00:42:39.599
me. That's a that's crazy,
that's the thing. Four three two X

541
00:42:39.639 --> 00:42:45.119
says, yeah, y'all doing too
much, and y'all are very hypocritical.

542
00:42:46.320 --> 00:42:50.360
That's crazy. I'm so sorry that
you guys have to deal with that.

543
00:42:51.480 --> 00:42:55.559
Negro domind seven one seven says,
let you not say good morning by nine

544
00:42:55.599 --> 00:43:00.719
am? You get in the whole
course out text. Yeah, that's crazy.

545
00:43:00.119 --> 00:43:06.639
I'm so sorry. I hate that
for you. Sorry, y'all allergies,

546
00:43:06.639 --> 00:43:09.559
I don't care. Fuck y'all,
I did not know. I'm so

547
00:43:09.760 --> 00:43:15.000
bewildered right now. I am taking
aback. I'm taking aback. I can't

548
00:43:15.000 --> 00:43:19.719
believe it. Ladies. We gotta
stop. We gotta stop, ladies,

549
00:43:19.800 --> 00:43:22.519
right now, right now, right
now, right now. Okay. And

550
00:43:22.039 --> 00:43:27.000
to the few men who act like
this to pay attention, that's when you

551
00:43:27.039 --> 00:43:31.239
first meet somebody, you cannot expect
them to give you their full attention because

552
00:43:31.239 --> 00:43:35.960
they don't know you. Not even
because they don't know you. At the

553
00:43:36.039 --> 00:43:38.960
end of the day, you should
never enter somebody's life and you're their number

554
00:43:38.960 --> 00:43:42.639
one priority. What the fuck was
they doing before you came here. You

555
00:43:42.639 --> 00:43:45.320
don't think that's a little suspicious.
You don't think that's a little weird.

556
00:43:45.840 --> 00:43:50.920
You don't think that's a little off. Okay, if you walk into somebody's

557
00:43:50.960 --> 00:43:53.239
life and they're able to give you
twenty four to seven access to them,

558
00:43:53.360 --> 00:43:57.440
whether it be phone, text,
FaceTime call at the drop of a dime,

559
00:43:58.639 --> 00:44:01.639
what are you doing? Fuck is
he doing? What is she doing?

560
00:44:02.320 --> 00:44:07.960
What are they making money? How
are they making money? Like I

561
00:44:07.000 --> 00:44:10.800
purposely don't answer messages because I know
I'm not gonna be able to continue the

562
00:44:10.800 --> 00:44:15.320
conversation, so I'm literally gonna leave
you there so when I'm not busy,

563
00:44:15.400 --> 00:44:21.400
I can answer it. And it's
a difference between someone having talk to you

564
00:44:21.480 --> 00:44:25.800
all day. It's a difference between
someone having a life, someone having standards,

565
00:44:25.960 --> 00:44:30.639
boundaries, etc. And someone just
ignoring you. We're not talking about

566
00:44:30.639 --> 00:44:37.800
somebody ignoring We're talking about someone who
has a fulfilling life that you're entering.

567
00:44:37.199 --> 00:44:39.800
Maybe there's no reason why you should
be able to talk ten them twenty four

568
00:44:39.880 --> 00:44:44.000
seven. That's a little strange me
personally, I don't never want to be

569
00:44:44.079 --> 00:44:47.320
your number one. Just having a
kid cut your time off percent. If

570
00:44:47.360 --> 00:44:51.519
we are just meeting. I never
want to be your number one priority.

571
00:44:51.960 --> 00:44:55.119
I want you to be your number
one priority. And then I fall where

572
00:44:55.119 --> 00:45:00.320
the chips lay because at the end
of the day, you being you is

573
00:45:00.360 --> 00:45:05.360
more important than you trying to appease
to me, because that's never gonna end

574
00:45:05.400 --> 00:45:10.480
well. Given attachment, it's given
very much. PFA on the way,

575
00:45:12.000 --> 00:45:16.039
Okay, it's giving very much.
I'll see you at the courthouse. Okay.

576
00:45:16.519 --> 00:45:20.239
It's not gonna end well. It's
not gonna end well. And we

577
00:45:20.320 --> 00:45:23.239
have to make sure that we are
recognizing these red flags early. Is that

578
00:45:23.320 --> 00:45:29.719
considered malelu like when males when lulu, is that them being emotional bitch ass

579
00:45:29.800 --> 00:45:30.760
niggas? Or is there no,
no, no, no no no.

580
00:45:30.920 --> 00:45:34.400
I don't. I don't think it's
no such thing as a male bitch ass

581
00:45:34.440 --> 00:45:38.239
nigga. I think there are men
who don't have appropriate standards and boundaries when

582
00:45:38.280 --> 00:45:44.519
it comes to their emotions, whether
it be them exerting too much or them

583
00:45:44.559 --> 00:45:47.239
withholding too much, because I think
both can go into you being a bitch

584
00:45:47.280 --> 00:45:54.639
ass nigga. Like being sassy isn't
always because a man wants to express himself

585
00:45:55.039 --> 00:45:59.800
or tell you what's going on or
tell you how he feels or you know,

586
00:46:00.159 --> 00:46:02.400
because he wants to do the things
that he likes. Being sassy to

587
00:46:02.440 --> 00:46:06.559
me is also you withholding your emotions, because, bro, what the fuck

588
00:46:06.679 --> 00:46:09.800
is this holding your emotions? Didn't
having an attitude? Bro, you wentholding

589
00:46:09.840 --> 00:46:14.960
your emotions, not you having a
temper tantrum? Hold on, hold on,

590
00:46:15.239 --> 00:46:17.880
This is sassy to me, like
you'll be talking about oh men who

591
00:46:17.920 --> 00:46:22.159
eat the bread that come out first
at the restaurant in sassy. No.

592
00:46:22.679 --> 00:46:25.880
No, If a man does not
know how to express his emotions and feelings

593
00:46:25.880 --> 00:46:31.920
to me and communicates, maybe you're
being sassy. You you acting very feminine

594
00:46:31.960 --> 00:46:36.719
right now. Now you're throwing a
temper tantrum, syst I don't like that

595
00:46:37.599 --> 00:46:40.239
we communicate over here, big done, Like, yeah, it's cool to

596
00:46:40.280 --> 00:46:45.599
take a moment to gather your thoughts, but don't have an attitude the like

597
00:46:45.599 --> 00:46:49.960
Okay, listen, I can't really
talk to you right now. And you

598
00:46:49.960 --> 00:46:52.800
know what, I'm glad you said
that because I'm all for you singing to

599
00:46:52.840 --> 00:46:55.960
me. Hey, I'm not able
to articulate my feelings properly right now.

600
00:46:55.960 --> 00:47:00.039
I'm just gonna take a second,
cool, take the time. Thank you

601
00:47:00.079 --> 00:47:06.079
for communicating that to me. But
if you just gone look at me calling

602
00:47:06.119 --> 00:47:08.960
your phone three times, or look
at me texting you or not answer,

603
00:47:09.760 --> 00:47:15.039
and that's you, baby, that's
you being sassy. I don't like that.

604
00:47:15.800 --> 00:47:17.760
I don't like that, and I
rarely call him in sassy, but

605
00:47:17.920 --> 00:47:22.599
certain behavior is very sassy to me. Communicate you're an adult, like,

606
00:47:22.639 --> 00:47:32.159
what the fuck? G four?
What that's why I took my refe your

607
00:47:32.199 --> 00:47:37.239
red receipts Oh no, I still
got my red receivers being read and I

608
00:47:37.239 --> 00:47:40.280
don't be. I don't be on
my phone some time I get back,

609
00:47:40.400 --> 00:47:46.000
you be reading them. But you
don't like God? Please, outfit says

610
00:47:46.079 --> 00:47:54.320
this dialogue here top tier SIPs PINOI
yeah, my face a breezy two three

611
00:47:54.360 --> 00:47:58.679
five seven says God, first,
yourself, second, your family third,

612
00:47:58.760 --> 00:48:04.400
and then her yes, yes yes, dash forward three sixty five says I

613
00:48:04.440 --> 00:48:07.800
don't like hearing as soon as we
meet, she says she dating with a

614
00:48:07.840 --> 00:48:10.320
purpose off the top. Uh,
you know what, can I just touch

615
00:48:10.360 --> 00:48:14.800
on this for a second, right
vocabulary, I just want to touch on

616
00:48:14.840 --> 00:48:17.679
this for a second. Ladies,
when you first meet a man, stop

617
00:48:17.719 --> 00:48:22.920
telling him you dating with intentions.
Stop telling him you dating with a purpose,

618
00:48:22.760 --> 00:48:29.440
show him, show him. Like
if you telling this man, I'm

619
00:48:29.519 --> 00:48:32.960
dating with a purpose, you're telling
this man, I'm dating with a purpose,

620
00:48:34.559 --> 00:48:36.840
but you's fucking him on the first
night. What are we doing?

621
00:48:37.800 --> 00:48:40.199
What are we doing? What are
we doing? You telling this man I'm

622
00:48:40.239 --> 00:48:45.119
moving with intentions, but you're sending
him naked photos on day two. It's

623
00:48:45.119 --> 00:48:49.840
crazy when you walk into a situation
and I expecting sex and get sex stone

624
00:48:49.880 --> 00:48:52.599
at you. Yeah, it's crazy. Like as a man, you're like,

625
00:48:52.840 --> 00:48:54.719
do I take this? No,
I didn't hear. I wasn't here

626
00:48:54.760 --> 00:49:00.559
for this, Like what exactly?
Like you you know how? And I

627
00:49:00.599 --> 00:49:04.639
hate this phrase, but you know
how they say you know what's understood and

628
00:49:04.679 --> 00:49:10.159
ain't gotta be said right your standards
and stand on that ship. The way

629
00:49:10.199 --> 00:49:14.679
you move will go on a way
more respect than whatever you're saying out your

630
00:49:14.719 --> 00:49:17.840
mouth, because words are one thing, but your actions is another. Okay,

631
00:49:19.000 --> 00:49:22.920
And you telling me you out here
moving like my Angelo, but you're

632
00:49:22.039 --> 00:49:27.039
actually out here moving Like I don't
want to say sexy Red because I feel

633
00:49:27.039 --> 00:49:29.719
like I keep saying sexty red a
lot and shout out to sexy Red like

634
00:49:29.719 --> 00:49:32.639
no, shade sa, it's not
shade, but like you're out here acting

635
00:49:32.719 --> 00:49:37.920
like you moving like my Angelo,
but you actually out here moving like you

636
00:49:37.960 --> 00:49:40.480
know, somebody who's trying to get
their bills paid. So what's up,

637
00:49:40.519 --> 00:49:45.880
what we're doing, What we're doing, Let's bureau honestly, honestly, like

638
00:49:45.920 --> 00:49:49.760
you got you gotta set your standards
and stand on that shit for real,

639
00:49:49.800 --> 00:49:52.880
for real, fellas, Come here
for a second. We need to talk.

640
00:49:55.599 --> 00:50:00.320
We need to talk, fellas.
And this is something that's been sitting

641
00:50:00.320 --> 00:50:05.199
on my heart for a minute,
and I hate it has to come to

642
00:50:05.239 --> 00:50:08.800
this, but I feel like if
an't nobody else gonna tell you, you

643
00:50:08.880 --> 00:50:14.119
know, your big dog story got
you okay? And I just want to

644
00:50:14.119 --> 00:50:19.599
say, I don't know who needs
to hear this, but just because that

645
00:50:19.639 --> 00:50:23.039
girl got tested, don't mean you
don't need to get tested. You still

646
00:50:23.119 --> 00:50:31.039
got it, You still got okay, you can still have it all right,

647
00:50:31.559 --> 00:50:36.519
you can okay, but hold up. Her test results came back negative.

648
00:50:36.559 --> 00:50:39.360
You still got it. You still
got it, okay, hold up,

649
00:50:39.400 --> 00:50:43.760
but I ain't even got no symptoms. You still got it, okay,

650
00:50:44.159 --> 00:50:46.880
you could still have it all right? Hold up, but I did

651
00:50:46.880 --> 00:50:51.400
the ear wax test and it came
back negative. You still got it your

652
00:50:52.559 --> 00:50:53.639
yeah, like, okay, so
this is something down south, shit right,

653
00:50:54.440 --> 00:50:58.199
hear me out, hear me out. Okay, listen to me.

654
00:50:59.599 --> 00:51:02.840
Okay, you put airwax on your
ding, ding, and if it don't

655
00:51:02.880 --> 00:51:09.079
burn you good, Okay. But
I did the peroxide test. It came

656
00:51:09.159 --> 00:51:13.360
back cool. It didn't bubble,
no nothing. You still got it.

657
00:51:13.760 --> 00:51:16.159
Okay. I don't care if you're
doing the air wax test, peroxide tests,

658
00:51:16.280 --> 00:51:22.320
anything, baby, you still could
have it, all right. And

659
00:51:22.360 --> 00:51:25.440
this mentality that a lot of y'all
have, well, okay, but my

660
00:51:25.519 --> 00:51:29.480
girl came back cool, so I
don't need to get to that's false,

661
00:51:30.519 --> 00:51:36.480
false accusations. Okay, it's not
real. It's not real, and I

662
00:51:36.519 --> 00:51:38.559
hate that for y'all. I hate
that for y'all. It's like, oh

663
00:51:38.719 --> 00:51:42.480
oh, but I ain't got no
symptoms and you still could have it.

664
00:51:43.079 --> 00:51:46.800
You still got it. You still
could have it. Like it's the wildest

665
00:51:46.840 --> 00:51:52.199
shit ever to me. Long story
short, if you are going Monday night

666
00:51:52.440 --> 00:51:58.079
raw, you still could have it. Go get tested. Thank you?

667
00:51:58.480 --> 00:52:05.039
All right? Out, Fie says
Noah, say what's understood as well?

668
00:52:05.199 --> 00:52:12.880
Communication and clarity all the way.
Negrodmond seven one seven says unexpected, unexpected

669
00:52:13.159 --> 00:52:19.960
pussy be like playing with Flora's lava. I hate y'all so much. I

670
00:52:20.000 --> 00:52:22.920
really hate y'all. H hold on
week Oh wait, let me score down,

671
00:52:23.000 --> 00:52:25.400
y'all. I'm one like two conversations. I like, I like your

672
00:52:25.480 --> 00:52:34.679
chat On one says Monday Night Raw, Yes, Monday Night Raw, and

673
00:52:34.760 --> 00:52:38.119
the lab Sport says we're part of
down South, not North Carolina. I'm

674
00:52:38.119 --> 00:52:44.440
still, I'm still. It's a
thing. It's a thing. Riley dot

675
00:52:44.760 --> 00:52:47.960
d Roacher says, hey, yo, how old are? Respectfully? I

676
00:52:49.000 --> 00:52:54.119
can't tell if you hello wise have
just been through a lot. I've been

677
00:52:54.119 --> 00:53:00.360
through a love baby a lot like
it's Devin one on one says in the

678
00:53:00.440 --> 00:53:07.920
nineteen forty two Steve Ergo Transformation Chamber, BS is that crazy, y'all?

679
00:53:07.920 --> 00:53:12.440
Get on my nerves Outfice says,
goes to the white lab coats meet with

680
00:53:12.480 --> 00:53:17.360
the scrubs. Cask Jack one says, because they stopped teaching sex at negro

681
00:53:17.400 --> 00:53:22.480
Domin seven one seven says, go
get tested fellas every six months at least

682
00:53:22.639 --> 00:53:27.159
time to treat man. Seven and
five says air wax tests. That's wild

683
00:53:27.559 --> 00:53:30.000
different, listen, I ain't even
hear the peroxide, think I just go

684
00:53:30.000 --> 00:53:36.840
to the doctors. Listen, No, seriously like that fellas, Like seriously,

685
00:53:36.840 --> 00:53:38.519
if y'alln't hear nothing else on this
chat, nothing else today, Like

686
00:53:38.760 --> 00:53:43.000
I don't care how many times you'll
surety come back when negative tests. You

687
00:53:43.079 --> 00:53:47.199
need to get tested yourself. And
I know that for whatever reason, y'all

688
00:53:47.199 --> 00:53:52.480
like to use this as a measure
of healthy statistics. But I am telling

689
00:53:52.519 --> 00:53:54.960
you your surety can be negative and
you can be positive. Yeah, trust

690
00:53:54.960 --> 00:53:59.079
for valide. But also there could
be other things picked up on that,

691
00:53:59.199 --> 00:54:01.960
Like it might not just be like
sex. Yeah, I have other things

692
00:54:01.960 --> 00:54:05.519
wrong. And you know what,
that's why half y'all got hot blood pressure

693
00:54:05.559 --> 00:54:12.719
here they might see something seriously,
but that's why that's why half y'all got

694
00:54:12.760 --> 00:54:15.159
hot blood pressure and you don't know
it. Okay, walk around here with

695
00:54:15.199 --> 00:54:19.239
hot cholesterol. Okay, walk around
fatty arteries because you don't gonna get tested.

696
00:54:20.039 --> 00:54:22.400
Go get tested, go get go
get it annual. When the last

697
00:54:22.400 --> 00:54:23.800
time you hit an annual? Bro, When the last time you had some

698
00:54:23.840 --> 00:54:27.719
blood work? Bro? And before
you go get your blood work, make

699
00:54:27.760 --> 00:54:30.800
sure you drink a lot of water
because it makes your blood come out easier

700
00:54:30.559 --> 00:54:36.320
prostet Thank you, thank you.
I think it's all funny games too.

701
00:54:36.320 --> 00:54:40.400
You gotta turn around and cough?
Then what then? What then? What?

702
00:54:42.239 --> 00:54:45.880
Exactly? Stracted villain says, I
do it before every new partner.

703
00:54:46.760 --> 00:54:51.880
Uh for you from tempt says niggas
always coming up with fake tests. Yeah.

704
00:54:52.400 --> 00:54:54.639
If you out here still faking your
my chart, go to hell.

705
00:54:55.519 --> 00:54:59.519
If you are out here faking your
results, go to hell. That's okay.

706
00:55:00.039 --> 00:55:02.039
I don't know who needs to hear
this, but everything that was around

707
00:55:02.480 --> 00:55:12.320
in nineteen ninety five when they took
easy e's still here. Go get tested.

708
00:55:12.360 --> 00:55:17.760
My niggas, damn damn nigger domind
seven one seven said that's a jail

709
00:55:17.800 --> 00:55:21.960
sentence, and I hope it is. If you are your faking test or

710
00:55:21.960 --> 00:55:23.760
if you are purposely passing ship.
I don't care if it's the clap,

711
00:55:23.840 --> 00:55:28.280
gonorrhea, syphilis, whatever, it
don't always have to be the blicker.

712
00:55:28.800 --> 00:55:31.360
If you are passing things and you
know you have it, you deserve jail.

713
00:55:32.400 --> 00:55:37.039
Jail, that's aggravated. All I'm
saying is the winter time is when

714
00:55:37.039 --> 00:55:40.679
everyone likes to cuddle in the house, hibernate, and make poor decisions.

715
00:55:40.880 --> 00:55:45.199
Okay, make sure you're getting tested
for sure? For sure? All right,

716
00:55:45.280 --> 00:55:49.079
guys. So now we're going to
get into the edible portion of the

717
00:55:49.119 --> 00:55:52.800
show. So the edible portion is
where we like to read questions, stories,

718
00:55:52.880 --> 00:55:57.719
comments that you guys sit in and
we'll usually put a prompt up on

719
00:55:57.960 --> 00:56:00.559
whatevery day that we record. But
if you have a story that you want

720
00:56:00.599 --> 00:56:04.639
to put in and it's not on
the day that we put a prompt up

721
00:56:05.239 --> 00:56:08.159
or it's too long to fit into
the prompt, you can always email me

722
00:56:08.320 --> 00:56:15.480
at inquiries at stormyp ea dot com. Okay, so before you ask a

723
00:56:15.599 --> 00:56:21.440
question, you should you should look
at episodes because because you guys asked the

724
00:56:21.440 --> 00:56:23.199
same questions everything. Yeah, I'm
not gonna lie, y'all, I know,

725
00:56:23.239 --> 00:56:25.159
we I know, we don't know. We said it before, and

726
00:56:25.159 --> 00:56:29.519
I'm gonna say it again. Every
week. Y'all ask me the same three

727
00:56:29.679 --> 00:56:36.840
questions. Are you single? Do
you like anal? Okay, it was

728
00:56:36.880 --> 00:56:40.440
the third one shot nothing. I
just didn't want I just want to tell

729
00:56:40.440 --> 00:56:45.840
you that you're beautiful, yes,
yes, no question. I just want

730
00:56:45.880 --> 00:56:50.239
to say you're beautiful, hey,
guys, or we could progress, Okay,

731
00:56:50.360 --> 00:56:54.800
can I ask you twenty one questions
and all about us, or you

732
00:56:54.800 --> 00:57:02.800
can ask me questions to progress the
fucking to the gap between the relationship dating

733
00:57:02.840 --> 00:57:07.320
pool. Okay, so let's do
that instead of just asking the same questions.

734
00:57:07.920 --> 00:57:12.800
It's never going to be about them
cowboys. Somebody don't allow So how

735
00:57:12.800 --> 00:57:16.239
about them cowboys? Never never about
the cowboys? Okay, So the first

736
00:57:16.280 --> 00:57:22.800
question, what is it about me
in a relationship that attracts single women?

737
00:57:24.760 --> 00:57:30.480
Fellas, if you have some insight, please tapping on alive. Ladies,

738
00:57:30.519 --> 00:57:32.960
if you have some insight, please
tap on alive. I'm going to ask

739
00:57:32.960 --> 00:57:38.039
the question again, what is it
about me and a relationship that attracts single

740
00:57:38.079 --> 00:57:43.800
women? Men? Women like men
the relationship or being men, and y'all

741
00:57:43.840 --> 00:57:46.159
want that, baby, These single
women want to be in a relationship.

742
00:57:46.559 --> 00:57:50.239
Okay, it ain't got nothing to
do with you. I don't care how

743
00:57:50.280 --> 00:57:52.920
fine you think you are. I
don't care how much you think you have

744
00:57:53.039 --> 00:57:58.360
going for yourself. If you are
publicly displaying you treating your girl, right,

745
00:57:58.840 --> 00:58:01.320
there are a multitude of single woman
who want that goddamn spot, all

746
00:58:01.400 --> 00:58:07.719
right. I don't care if you
are putting on a facade, and it's

747
00:58:07.719 --> 00:58:10.760
not even how you move in real
life. If a woman sees you treating

748
00:58:10.840 --> 00:58:17.599
another woman good and it ties into
what she feels like she deserves. Baby,

749
00:58:17.679 --> 00:58:22.599
she gonna try you. She gonna
try you shoot or shoot my god,

750
00:58:22.079 --> 00:58:30.559
okay, respectfully shooters shoot. And
you know what a lot of times

751
00:58:30.639 --> 00:58:34.519
y'all really be moving like y'all think
y'all that nigga and you're not your fault

752
00:58:35.079 --> 00:58:37.760
yo, Like y'are really not that
nigga. You just treat it crazy.

753
00:58:37.760 --> 00:58:40.480
The fact that y'all know y'all be
doing that, but the don't wonder why

754
00:58:42.159 --> 00:58:46.599
the yeah, why you're here?
Yes, yes, ask me why,

755
00:58:46.760 --> 00:58:51.559
like respectfully. As much as you
think you're that nigga, I guarantee if

756
00:58:51.599 --> 00:58:53.960
you did not have a girl,
you wouldn't get that much play on your

757
00:58:54.000 --> 00:58:58.679
page like as And don't get me
wrong, I know that the allure of

758
00:58:58.719 --> 00:59:04.639
being single is is plentiful as well. I know you get attention from per

759
00:59:04.679 --> 00:59:08.960
per. I know you get attention
from portraying that you are single, but

760
00:59:09.000 --> 00:59:13.679
it's never going to be as much
attension you're gonna get for showing that you

761
00:59:13.719 --> 00:59:17.639
are in a loving relationship. And
I still ain't give them enough play,

762
00:59:20.400 --> 00:59:25.639
ruh. There is there is outfit
says, a lot of Lady Draymond's out

763
00:59:25.639 --> 00:59:30.000
here lurking and waiting. You gotta
relax, you gotta relax. I don't

764
00:59:30.039 --> 00:59:34.000
agree with how they're changing Raymond Green, just so you know. But that's

765
00:59:34.159 --> 00:59:37.840
the conversation for another time. A
breezy two three five seven says women want

766
00:59:37.880 --> 00:59:43.159
what they can't have for you from
temp says, or some people just like

767
00:59:43.199 --> 00:59:49.079
competition that chases everything they don't even
really want the person. Sometimes My only,

768
00:59:49.400 --> 00:59:54.679
my only, my only pushback with
that is I feel like that might

769
00:59:54.719 --> 01:00:00.840
pertain to men, but when it
comes to women specifically, like especially because

770
01:00:02.920 --> 01:00:07.519
the playing field is bad for us, right it's it's real bad. So

771
01:00:07.559 --> 01:00:10.960
when we see something that aligns with
what we feel like we deserve, there

772
01:00:12.000 --> 01:00:15.679
are some women, there are a
lot of women who are absolutely gonna go

773
01:00:15.719 --> 01:00:22.280
for it. Absolutely. Nigrodamins seven
one seven said women like that definitely beat

774
01:00:22.360 --> 01:00:30.920
niggas and do and do and do. Dash for three sixty five says facts,

775
01:00:30.000 --> 01:00:32.639
I have more fun when I had
a girl versus now being single.

776
01:00:34.039 --> 01:00:39.360
See see see it's a real thing. As much as you think you are

777
01:00:39.440 --> 01:00:45.559
that man, there's a woman who
is desiring the intimacy, the company,

778
01:00:45.000 --> 01:00:50.039
the gratification that comes with a man. That's why you go to the club

779
01:00:50.079 --> 01:00:52.480
with your girlfriend's gonna try. She
definitely gonna try to strip. Club is

780
01:00:52.480 --> 01:00:57.679
the best thing because that's what they
do. Self spit Fire says not all

781
01:00:57.719 --> 01:01:00.840
women are bold enough for real,
and the ones that do who are aggressive,

782
01:01:00.280 --> 01:01:05.159
listen, it cus to be the
most baby. You gotta have something.

783
01:01:06.400 --> 01:01:20.119
You gotta have something like push back
right next one? Uh what uh?

784
01:01:20.920 --> 01:01:23.800
Dating in your thirties is trash?
What are some ways to make it

785
01:01:23.920 --> 01:01:27.920
less trash? And I'm very curious
to what you guys have to say in

786
01:01:27.920 --> 01:01:31.480
Alive, so I'm read again.
It says dating in your thirties is trash?

787
01:01:31.840 --> 01:01:38.280
What are some ways to make it
less trash? I feel like the

788
01:01:38.320 --> 01:01:45.440
only reason dating period is trash it
is because we're not standing on business.

789
01:01:46.760 --> 01:01:54.159
We're not we're not standing on business. All right, Jordan, how did

790
01:01:57.760 --> 01:02:00.159
you like a light skin? But
guys, let me tell you why,

791
01:02:00.280 --> 01:02:05.800
right, especially women, we'd be
like, oh, in order for a

792
01:02:05.880 --> 01:02:07.440
guy to get my time, my
body, my x Y and Z,

793
01:02:07.960 --> 01:02:10.280
he gotta do this, this,
this, this and this. Okay,

794
01:02:12.920 --> 01:02:15.360
until you run into a man who
over six feet, got a gold chain,

795
01:02:15.480 --> 01:02:17.639
got a pretty smile. Now,
all of a sudden, all those

796
01:02:17.679 --> 01:02:22.400
standards is out the window, right, I feel like we're not standing on

797
01:02:22.800 --> 01:02:27.119
business right. And for the fudda, It's like a lot of times you'd

798
01:02:27.119 --> 01:02:30.079
be like, oh, all these
women want it's gold diggers, or all

799
01:02:30.119 --> 01:02:32.800
these women want is my money and
they just want me to spend a bag

800
01:02:32.800 --> 01:02:36.639
at X, Y and Z.
There are plenty of women who don't.

801
01:02:37.119 --> 01:02:40.360
You're choosing to go after these type
of women. You're not standing on business

802
01:02:40.639 --> 01:02:45.880
all right. I'm acting like we
don't want certain things. We don't want

803
01:02:45.920 --> 01:02:50.159
certain things from certain people. Bruh. Like when girls say I don't want

804
01:02:50.159 --> 01:02:52.599
thirsty niggas, No, no,
you do. You just want the right

805
01:02:52.639 --> 01:02:53.880
nigga to be thirsty. I agree. So we need to like make that

806
01:02:54.519 --> 01:02:58.480
a thing, Like yeah, I
like when girls all over me. I

807
01:02:58.559 --> 01:03:00.199
just I just want to like you
back, like I need to like you

808
01:03:00.400 --> 01:03:07.360
where you like me. That's all
I agree, one thousand percent. We

809
01:03:07.519 --> 01:03:10.920
also have to start dating the people
we like, like y'all be saying like

810
01:03:10.960 --> 01:03:15.920
Shad said, like you know,
oh, I don't want a guy that's

811
01:03:15.960 --> 01:03:19.559
all over me acting thirsty. I
don't want a girl who hits me up

812
01:03:19.599 --> 01:03:22.440
twenty four to seven, always on
my line until it's a girl or a

813
01:03:22.440 --> 01:03:29.039
god that you like that it's fine. The steak is out here, moving

814
01:03:29.039 --> 01:03:31.760
with a purpose. Okay, the
steak is out here building all right.

815
01:03:32.000 --> 01:03:36.079
So I feel like we need to
be real with ourselves and recognize that we're

816
01:03:36.119 --> 01:03:39.480
not standing on business. Where's the
accountability? People? Where is it?

817
01:03:39.920 --> 01:03:45.039
And ain't here people? And ain't
here? And I needed to be here.

818
01:03:45.199 --> 01:03:49.639
The only way the dating pool is
going to be better is if we

819
01:03:49.679 --> 01:03:54.559
start taking accountability and standing own business. That's it, like for real Outfiz

820
01:03:54.679 --> 01:03:59.559
says, there's homeless dudes right now
smashing the way out the cold. You

821
01:03:59.639 --> 01:04:04.480
gotta genuine. Are you done?
Are you? Are you finished? No?

822
01:04:04.519 --> 01:04:14.039
You're not finished? Nope. Cool. Your favorite Holiday says dating trash

823
01:04:14.079 --> 01:04:17.119
because people don't date for real.
They playing a game. Scared to be

824
01:04:17.239 --> 01:04:21.800
genuine. Bruh. Yeah, dear
future wife, be dating each other,

825
01:04:21.920 --> 01:04:30.719
not social media. Bruh. I
don't even think it's I really don't.

826
01:04:30.280 --> 01:04:33.719
When we say people aren't dating to
be genuine, I'd like it to take

827
01:04:33.760 --> 01:04:40.239
it a step further and just say, you know, yeah, you know

828
01:04:40.280 --> 01:04:43.880
what that's that's that's a good spot
to be in. People aren't dating to

829
01:04:43.920 --> 01:04:46.880
be genuine. We're dating to align
with what we see is cool on social

830
01:04:46.920 --> 01:04:51.039
media. You like when that nigga
hits you up. You like when that

831
01:04:51.079 --> 01:04:54.880
girl makes you fool to be waiting
for you to come for the club and

832
01:04:54.920 --> 01:04:58.880
it's like still up for you.
You like all these things if you like

833
01:04:59.000 --> 01:05:01.440
that person, right, But if
it's somebody you're not feeling like that.

834
01:05:01.639 --> 01:05:06.760
All that shit is annoying, right. We like when men show it.

835
01:05:08.320 --> 01:05:12.920
We like when men show us interests
and bring us flowers and do these things

836
01:05:12.920 --> 01:05:15.880
and X, Y and z if
it's somebody we like, but if it's

837
01:05:15.880 --> 01:05:18.920
not, we don't like that.
Ship and fellas. You'll like when a

838
01:05:18.960 --> 01:05:21.800
girl is all on you, worrying
when you're gonna be home, checking your

839
01:05:21.840 --> 01:05:25.960
line, making sure you ain't out
running the streets when it's someone you like

840
01:05:26.880 --> 01:05:30.559
with reason. But yeah, when
when it's not, you don't like that,

841
01:05:30.800 --> 01:05:34.400
you know what I mean, So
it's just stop stop stop trying to

842
01:05:34.400 --> 01:05:38.480
be a city boy and a city
girl. Okay, you're a lover.

843
01:05:38.719 --> 01:05:41.840
We had also another season of all
Us Couple Goals, and all these people

844
01:05:41.840 --> 01:05:45.360
are broken up now Yeah yeah,
yeah yeah. DJ Renny says, my

845
01:05:45.480 --> 01:05:51.840
unattractive coworkers started flirting with me and
I told hr yo, no real shit

846
01:05:51.960 --> 01:05:55.960
though, right. I just checked
myself her time post some on Facebook and

847
01:05:56.000 --> 01:05:58.760
the girls were hopping on my DNC
in a wild and shit like Yo,

848
01:05:58.840 --> 01:06:03.360
that's so no. But I feel
like we are all old enough to recognize

849
01:06:03.400 --> 01:06:11.000
that the only difference between harassment and
admiration is if you like that person.

850
01:06:11.039 --> 01:06:14.800
And I so let's be real and
just say, have your standards, have

851
01:06:14.920 --> 01:06:17.679
your boundaries, and be adult enough
to recognize if you like that person or

852
01:06:17.679 --> 01:06:24.320
not stand on business if you don't
let them go, period period. A

853
01:06:24.440 --> 01:06:27.599
Breezy two three five seven says,
do you feel like they getting that shit

854
01:06:27.639 --> 01:06:31.840
from what they see on social media? Absolutely? Absolutely. A lot of

855
01:06:31.920 --> 01:06:39.920
times y'all don't even be really wanting
to, agreeing to, or willing to

856
01:06:40.039 --> 01:06:43.639
fulfill the shit that y'all be putting
out there. It's just whatever you saw

857
01:06:43.719 --> 01:06:46.639
on social media. You don't even
feel that way you're talking about. Oh

858
01:06:46.679 --> 01:06:50.199
well, a nigga. If a
nigga can't afford to take me to a

859
01:06:50.199 --> 01:06:56.440
five star restaurant on the first date, sis, I've seen you give it

860
01:06:56.519 --> 01:06:58.840
up to a nigga who gave you
a pack of gummy bears and that was

861
01:06:58.920 --> 01:07:03.519
his y'all, didn't he come one? Come on, wine, you were

862
01:07:03.559 --> 01:07:06.360
talking about if a nigga can't buy
me a bag, sist you can't even

863
01:07:06.360 --> 01:07:12.320
buy you a bag? Come on, Like, when are we gonna be

864
01:07:12.360 --> 01:07:15.159
adult enough to say? Social media
isn't in real place and all that shit

865
01:07:15.239 --> 01:07:17.320
you be yepping about online ain't real
because I've seen you getting taken down for

866
01:07:17.440 --> 01:07:26.000
less. Let's be real. Okay, everybody wants to be in love,

867
01:07:26.000 --> 01:07:28.920
and I'm gonna tell you something else, fellas. You want to be in

868
01:07:28.960 --> 01:07:32.639
love, be in love, Be
in love of who you are attracted to

869
01:07:32.760 --> 01:07:36.119
and who you feel for. I
don't care what social media say. A

870
01:07:36.119 --> 01:07:41.480
lot of y'all like them thick pitches, and not just thick bitches, I

871
01:07:41.519 --> 01:07:45.639
mean the plump bitches. Oh no, shade to the blump pitches. A

872
01:07:45.679 --> 01:07:49.079
lot of them be so fucking gorgeous. God right, I mess some gorgeous

873
01:07:49.119 --> 01:07:55.440
bous. But you'll be out here
and moving like they're beneath you. But

874
01:07:55.480 --> 01:07:59.880
when you get off social media,
you're beneath them. Hold on, hold

875
01:07:59.920 --> 01:08:03.760
on one let's start loving out loud
and moving with intentions. You're not happy

876
01:08:03.800 --> 01:08:10.880
because you're not following what you're happy
with. Come on, h come on.

877
01:08:11.639 --> 01:08:14.599
I rob ad On one says,
just because a man can't afford to

878
01:08:14.639 --> 01:08:16.760
do something doesn't mean he needs to
do it for a woman he just met.

879
01:08:17.119 --> 01:08:21.560
I'm not mad at that. Your
favorite holiday says thick Thy save lives.

880
01:08:21.920 --> 01:08:27.520
Agreed, dick Thy save lives.
And you know that. You know

881
01:08:27.600 --> 01:08:35.760
that. So the next question says, how do you know if she's the

882
01:08:35.800 --> 01:08:41.239
one? Uh So, I'm about
to not answer this question, but I

883
01:08:41.279 --> 01:08:45.159
do have a very nice story.
It's not a nice story, right,

884
01:08:45.680 --> 01:08:49.520
So I feel like a lot of
times we be so stuck on this whole.

885
01:08:49.960 --> 01:08:55.239
I want to love like my grandparents. You know, I wanted to

886
01:08:55.279 --> 01:08:58.479
stay in the test of time,
Okay, But a lot of times we

887
01:08:58.520 --> 01:09:02.199
aren't able to acknowledge that Grandma may
hand no way out. Okay, she

888
01:09:02.399 --> 01:09:08.039
have shit else to do but put
up whatever pop popad going on because she

889
01:09:08.119 --> 01:09:10.640
wasn't able to make money verse off, she couldn't take care of these kids.

890
01:09:10.680 --> 01:09:15.720
Okay. So I see all that
to say, my grandparents were married

891
01:09:15.760 --> 01:09:19.680
for sixty five years from North Carolina
and South Carolina. Right. So,

892
01:09:19.840 --> 01:09:25.119
before my grandfather passed away, I
asked him, I said, how did

893
01:09:25.159 --> 01:09:30.720
you know my mom was the one? And he looked me dead in my

894
01:09:30.800 --> 01:09:43.920
face and he said, what you
mean, she was pregnant. So before

895
01:09:45.079 --> 01:09:55.600
you starting question bruh, before we
started idolizing and asking questions that we don't

896
01:09:55.640 --> 01:09:59.920
really want the answer to. I
can't tell you how you know when she's

897
01:10:00.079 --> 01:10:03.560
the one. I can only tell
you how that person should make you feel

898
01:10:03.600 --> 01:10:06.880
like no one else. That's it, and that's all. You should be

899
01:10:06.920 --> 01:10:11.159
willing to move the suns, the
stars, and the mountains for her.

900
01:10:11.760 --> 01:10:14.920
You should be willing to do whatever
it takes to make her happy. If

901
01:10:14.960 --> 01:10:18.119
you wake up in the morning and
you find yourself thinking about when's the next

902
01:10:18.119 --> 01:10:21.359
time you're going to see her,
the things you're going to do when you're

903
01:10:21.359 --> 01:10:26.800
with her, something nice that you
can do or give to her, or

904
01:10:27.520 --> 01:10:30.359
a specific way that you can touch
her, or something special that you want

905
01:10:30.399 --> 01:10:34.760
to say to her. Like if
you find yourself moving in these type of

906
01:10:34.800 --> 01:10:40.800
ways, yeah, that's it.
If you find yourself considering her when you're

907
01:10:40.840 --> 01:10:45.000
planning future moves, or taking her
into consideration when you're planning out the rest

908
01:10:45.039 --> 01:10:49.159
of your life. That might be
her, that might be her, that

909
01:10:49.279 --> 01:10:53.880
might be her for real. I'll
fiz said, she ain't kneel from the

910
01:10:53.920 --> 01:11:00.840
matrix. Bruh. Just make her
your one. You'll know. Doctor three

911
01:11:00.960 --> 01:11:04.720
says, when you think about her
before yourself, that's love. DJ Rennie

912
01:11:04.720 --> 01:11:09.800
says when she dies and you're happy
that she didn't have to bury you and

913
01:11:09.920 --> 01:11:14.279
go through that pain, that you
are well. God damn. A breezy

914
01:11:14.319 --> 01:11:16.800
two three five seven says everything you
just said. Basically, if she says

915
01:11:16.880 --> 01:11:21.720
that is corny or sent that she
ain't the one, true, true that,

916
01:11:21.840 --> 01:11:26.560
and true that. And you know, we also have to acknowledge just

917
01:11:26.600 --> 01:11:30.239
because you think someone is the one
for you doesn't mean that they gonna think

918
01:11:30.239 --> 01:11:32.800
that you're the one for them,
Okay, And a part of being an

919
01:11:32.840 --> 01:11:38.079
adult and dating responsibly is acknowledging that. All right, I don't care if

920
01:11:38.119 --> 01:11:41.680
you say all the right things,
do all the right things, buy her

921
01:11:41.720 --> 01:11:44.640
all the right things. If she's
decided that you're not the one, fire,

922
01:11:44.720 --> 01:11:48.039
you have to talk that and don't
become a red pill ranger and go

923
01:11:48.119 --> 01:11:53.720
on the internet and say a whole
bunch of bullshit about how women don't deserve

924
01:11:53.960 --> 01:11:57.119
X, Y and z. Okay, just because you do nice things does

925
01:11:57.199 --> 01:12:00.600
not entitle you to that woman.
Just because you treat a woman and nicely

926
01:12:00.920 --> 01:12:03.880
does not entide you to that woman. Bruh. Just be a good fucking

927
01:12:03.960 --> 01:12:08.479
person to keep it moving, all
right. And because you have that mentality,

928
01:12:08.600 --> 01:12:10.840
she probably picked up on it at
some point. That's why you're not

929
01:12:10.920 --> 01:12:15.439
one for her, all right.
You can't say, do or force a

930
01:12:15.479 --> 01:12:17.600
way in anybody's life. If they're
the person for you, they're not the

931
01:12:17.600 --> 01:12:24.760
person for you. Like God damn. Jayden Moto said, I just doom

932
01:12:24.960 --> 01:12:29.439
to be the last romantic A breezy
two three five seven says, you'll let

933
01:12:29.479 --> 01:12:32.680
the relationship happen and flow like a
river. Four three two X says I'm

934
01:12:32.720 --> 01:12:36.600
sorry, I can't put another female
before my piece. Fuck that. Whoever

935
01:12:36.800 --> 01:12:42.119
is right is she'll come every day. Doctor three says, where you get

936
01:12:42.199 --> 01:12:45.199
that stormtrooper mug storm repete, This
ain't mine? This shot shot where you

937
01:12:45.239 --> 01:12:51.600
get this? Don't worry, he
said, don't worry about the sweetheart he

938
01:12:51.640 --> 01:13:01.439
said, yeah, man. Last
question, when should I change the Amazon

939
01:13:01.600 --> 01:13:08.359
Prime password after a breakup? Yeah? Immediately, I'm gonna ask it again.

940
01:13:09.760 --> 01:13:14.039
It says, when should I change
the Amazon Prime password after a breakup?

941
01:13:15.039 --> 01:13:23.239
Immediately, immediately, and just like
we were talking earlier, Should I

942
01:13:23.239 --> 01:13:30.439
said, listen, change the Netflix
password right before her new show or her

943
01:13:30.520 --> 01:13:33.880
favorite show. Change the Netflix password
right before her favorite show comes out?

944
01:13:33.920 --> 01:13:36.520
You should do it after So she
thinks she's gonna get it next week.

945
01:13:36.560 --> 01:13:41.600
And no, no, no,
no, you got to change that Netflix

946
01:13:41.680 --> 01:13:45.159
password right before her favorite show dropped. Oh she thinks she about to watch

947
01:13:45.199 --> 01:13:51.079
the new season of Bridgerton. Absolutely
not, absolutely not. You done,

948
01:13:51.119 --> 01:13:55.399
got gotten? That's it. You
break up with me, You break up

949
01:13:55.399 --> 01:14:00.479
with everything. Ain't no ID channel
for you, bitch, No more surgery

950
01:14:00.520 --> 01:14:04.640
shows you like to watch her.
Ain't no Flick No, Ain't no Netflix,

951
01:14:04.840 --> 01:14:11.960
no Hulu, no Disney Plus,
Amazon Prime, Discovery, Khbo Max,

952
01:14:12.279 --> 01:14:15.359
none of it. You're done,
son, You're done, dash past

953
01:14:15.800 --> 01:14:21.119
fucking done. All right. I
feel like we talked about a lot of

954
01:14:21.119 --> 01:14:29.199
things today. Yeah, first of
all, happy birthdays to me, chocolate

955
01:14:29.279 --> 01:14:32.880
Chip and sent will be four years
old on December sixteenth. I'm so thankful

956
01:14:32.960 --> 01:14:39.039
to everybody and everything that we've accomplished
over these past four years. And I

957
01:14:39.079 --> 01:14:43.840
can't wait for you all to see
what's coming next. I am overjoyed.

958
01:14:45.520 --> 01:14:49.399
Next, I stopped taking my birth
control, and uh my kuchi's been hard

959
01:14:49.439 --> 01:14:54.000
ever since. I'm very very horny, that's all. It means. I'm

960
01:14:54.079 --> 01:14:59.680
very very horney all the fucking time. I figured out why the he'll qualified

961
01:14:59.720 --> 01:15:03.399
people still aren't in relationships. It's
because we don't go outside. And you

962
01:15:03.439 --> 01:15:06.000
know that's okay. We're gonna work
through it and we're gonna get over it.

963
01:15:08.239 --> 01:15:12.359
Just because your girlfriend got tested doesn't
mean you don't have to get your

964
01:15:12.439 --> 01:15:17.439
ass up and go get tested.
Okay. Next, if you're wondering what

965
01:15:17.520 --> 01:15:23.680
attracts single women to men in relationships, it's men in relationships. We don't

966
01:15:23.680 --> 01:15:27.399
really want you, We just want
to be in a relationshipship. Yeah,

967
01:15:27.640 --> 01:15:31.479
that's it, and that's all.
Also, dating your thirties is trash.

968
01:15:31.600 --> 01:15:36.319
Why because we don't stand on business, that's why. And how do you

969
01:15:36.319 --> 01:15:39.640
know when someone is the one?
I don't know. But if you ask

970
01:15:39.680 --> 01:15:42.520
my grandfather while he still was alive, he would tell you when they get

971
01:15:42.520 --> 01:15:47.199
pregnant. Okay. My message is
always going to be the same. Follow

972
01:15:47.279 --> 01:15:51.720
me on the gram at Stormy p
Pea at chocolate ship and sent And if

973
01:15:51.720 --> 01:15:57.760
you don't remember anything else, please
remember I got blue walls. I love

974
01:15:57.760 --> 01:16:02.239
you, and I see you next
week. Peace yet, be happy. Wors