Or am I? It' s O s or Hello How' s it
going? What taste am I? Luis Miguel Salgado, welcome, one more
chapter of what. Good I' m really happy. Good morning, Mexico,
good afternoon, Spain, good night, Japan. I' m sure
Japan is already at night. For me it is a pleasure, the privilege,
because today I am accompanied by a spectacular woman, a woman who has
worked in a very interesting way, a woman who vibrates, very high,
a woman who infects, who animates. He' s a wonderful human being,
because it' s those human beings that I' ve touched and filled
him with energy and good vibes and good stuff. For me it is a
pleasure and a privilege to introduce Johanna Ferrero, Johanna welcome. How are you,
because I' m delighted to be here more with this super show come
on. I am unhappy and happy you will be able to share this time
with you that we will have listened to you and that we bring a lot
of value, a lot of courage. Thank you very much for accepting the
invitation and let me introduce Johanna Ferrero as she deserves to look. I'
m going to tell you that he sent me a real presentation with an impressive
humility of about three lines. But actually, Johanna, I' m going
to introduce you differently because you deserve something a lot more. She studied political
science in Granada and I enjoy two Erasmus scholarships in Finland and Brussels. She
is a creator of experiences now at Johanna Ferrero com su sitio, which I
invite you to connect, because you will not only learn, you will have
skills and you will be able to live differently through everything you do, follow
your social networks. Right now, we' re going to give them to
her and, obviously, connect with her. Joanna is an entrepreneur, mentor,
speaker, connector, writer and expert in young healthy relationships. Ladies,
gentlemen, we all need healthy relationships. Beyond the fact that we have relationships
that are worth it. We need to have healthy relationships. She works with
strategic thinking and accompanies you, accompanying you with different routines for your well-
being through your leadership, to achieve what you yearn for, and not only
on a professional level, but on a personal level. She is an intense
entrepreneur, she is in you clear direct, with a super practical style and
truly has a very open mind and be proposed, proposed, pardon, break
molds and be brave. Even if it costs you for your shyness, do
me a favor shy Johanna. Everyone share, comment connect we are in what
good question I am Luis Miguel Salgado and, as I always tell you,
if it' s okay with you, we start Johanna Ferrero. He'
s here with us. Welcome back and good to open mouth. I love
asking this question. It' s done to everyone, to all my guests,
beyond what you' ve studied, from what you' re working on.
Please, tell us, who Johanna Ferrero is And before you answer us,
I want to tell all of you, gentlemen, you' re looking
for Bride, you' re looking for a boyfriend, you' re looking
for a partner. Nothing works for them. He has a wonderful book on
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have to look at it 200 pesos in Mexico, at least in Mexico it
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to Cigars. You' re gonna like it. But besides, we have
a little gift from Johanna that won' t give it later, but it
' s going to get really good this Johanna talk, who is Johanna Ferrero
Adelante Giovanna Ferrero. I have made a social coffee cami that despite that,
I will shy away and now well, because much more worked, because it
faces things that it does not want many times I, as introvert, like
to be in my house, with my books, with my conferences and so
on. But I realize that at the same time I am a very social
person and then, in this process of self- knowledge, I went from
speaking very little, being shy and giving myself a lot of fear, because
I thought I had nothing to contribute to this part of engaging in relationships.
So, when someone tells me it' s not that shy guy I'
m telling you, don' t give me any bullshit, because I'
ve already done that job. So, I know that you can do it,
you can enjoy it and that when we' re in tribe with interesting
people, with open- minded concerns, it makes us the most beautiful life.
Therefore, we have to go that way, stop complaining and start moaning.
How you broke that barrier between shyness and standing on a stage and talking
to many people and infecting yourself with that energy that, evidently, there are
certain abilities that one is born and others are made, perfected. How you
went through this. It was easy. It was hard to talk to us.
Someone shows you what you saw on YouTube, tell us no, no,
what' s going on, then look. I always say that in
the comfort zone no one wants to get out of it. And the more
our mind tells us don' t move. It doesn' t get to
that charlatan part of your mind where it tells you everything' s going to
go wrong. But if you don' t get out of there, there
' s no growth, and therefore there' s no happiness. So what
I started doing is modeling people I was interested in and I can' t
set an example for you. Just me, from a very young age,
I' ve been looking at people with charisma people who are leaders, people
who get what they want despite fear. Then I started to try, I
started to fail, I started to screw up. And in that process I
realized that nothing happened, that I was embarrassed, obviously, because we all
wanted to look very good and so on, but that still nothing happens.
Just yesterday this in a scene of strangers and at one point I didn'
t express myself properly and there was a little one I didn' t understand.
But I mean, very much this and my mental part you' ve
already read it. When I don' t know what' s going on,
it' s okay, I don' t have to be perfect,
it' s okay. Then at one point I said I don' t
think I' ve expressed myself well. What I meant was this and this,
but I love how you explained it that you explained it so much better
than I did. So, when we connect with our warmth, our vulnerability
and our naturalness by shutting down that part of our mind that tells us that
everything wrong was going to go out that I call it lía and intuitive,
then I say aía we have to silence her because she comes to protect us.
Let' s team up with that part of our mind, but let
' s not get carried away, because then we don' t enjoy the
moment. So how I managed to communicate this way and practice good, because
I have about four thousand videos in Tiktok and on Instagram I will have another
three thousand. So it' s not that I have a gift that I
surely do, that I have a certain skill, that I didn' t
know I had when I was little, but practical, practical, practical and
I' m sure you see My first video and it' s sad or
I' m not going to take it away. It is part of the
process of learning, of failure and of moving forward, of getting out of
your comfort zone and not being afraid to fail because there you go up to
level without you noticing. You' re telling us that then being vulnerable is
a superpower, if we know, to cause well that yes, of course,
to be vulnerable is not to be weak. Being vulnerable, i e
failing or doing the best I can with the resources and training I have now.
But not weak, because weakness is from victimism. I just can'
t, I just don' t have the strength to do it, and
at some point we' ve all felt that way. But you get a
little bit of victimism and hope that life passes and here we have come to
have fun and to grow. Hey, Johanna, look at something that really
catches my attention. You say my first video wasn' t like video number
three thousand or four zero. Not because you' re getting better and you
' re gonna pass everything. But here one thing that is also very interesting
is this topic of saying avientate do live life here and now, right now.
Why I don' t know it' s so difficult it' s
going to be that today technology has come to expose what we really are and
what we really have, that is, a person who is malicious on social
networks manifests and exposes himself, but a person who is struggling to be better
also enables it. No, but tell us, how your effect on technology
has been for you has come to detonate, to boost you. Or maybe
you' d like to do more things and you lack technology. What your
experience with technology has been like. I considered myself an untechnological person and in
the two thousand six I opened my first blog thanks to these blogs and I
had three or four, which was by chance, because I worked in a
consultancy. A client came and told me we need a blog shop and let
' s slash. Me. I have to open a blog and I started
opening blogs and from there I already had a blog people, a blog of
the things that I painted hand Jun blog where I exhibited, because my clothes,
my trips and the events I mounted and suddenly it was like wow give
me people who don' t know me. You' re seeing a skill
that my friends, my family, have seen, but not beyond and suddenly
that I grew up. Thanks to that he hired me well, because companies
like Microsoft and also allowed me to believe more in me, because when you
are in little, in your own environment, in that comfort zone, okay,
you know that you have certain skills, but your neighbor also looks good
or the other also makes beautiful birthdays when you start to expand that because you
reach many people who, obviously, you get the wrong part and the good
part. But it is a process of brutal self- knowledge. So to
me, when you tell me that you' re an influencer on Instagram ors
red that I get to laugh. Not because I say good, I don
' t know what I am. I' m a daily currant, a
video every day or half? Every day or a half, and that allows
me to reach a lot of people. We can you now that when I
stop down the street I hallucinate because I say wow, you know me that
person who is not in my circle and I have shocked him because everyone tells
me a different video to me. I loved that video, or yesterday I
found that one person told me is that I changed the photos of my Tinder
profile thanks to a video of you wow, thanks to my experience, my
knowledge comes to another and changes it positively. Life is wonderful and I want
you to know this. You are positively impacting other countries, that is,
I approached you, because I saw just that energy, that ability to communicate,
that way so pleasant, so pleasant, so sincere, so open,
so vulnerable, because it is very you. I don' t know if
this will be practiced later, if it' s part of a character and
a digital strategy. Or you' re a hundred percent, but I see
you' re very authentic, very you. Now I want to ask you
this look you' re an entrepreneur, you do interviews, you have a
group of NED Working in Madrid, very important. You train with faiths personal
connections, help us connect in a special way. You write blogs, you
have podcasts where so much energy comes from, woman, what you eat,
how you feed, how you use, you are from this planet or from
which planet you come from tell us. Please, well, I' m
passionate about life. I didn' t have a very good time until I
was twenty, not because I had a horrible childhood, or anything like that,
but because my internal dialogue was not enough. Then, at twenty-
one, I left home. Things daughters, I surprised him very much because
she was a good girl, she was a good student, she was doing
the piano career at the same time and it was like what is happening then.
It is as if I had accumulated knowledge until I was twenty- one
years old, following all that was expected of me and suddenly I said flashing,
that is, how far we have come now. I really want to
be me with the whole process of personal growth. It gives me time to
organize myself, but I am also very wild and very much to see how
to say it. I am very routines and habits, but I also skip
it perfectly, that is, yesterday I left until four in the morning,
which I do not usually do. And today I' ve been working ten
to eleven and a half in bed, answering messages, that is, I
know a super. No. No, no, I didn' t get
up, because now I had a meeting and so on and today it'
s festive here, but I don' t differentiate between my professional and personal
life, because I do the same. I connect. Yesterday I' m
having dinner with friends and then we set up a group of whatsapp and I
' m there Hey, come on and what do we do? Yes,
as such, because I have this social part. But tomorrow no one will
see me and I will be confined in my house and I have met a
close friend to take a walk in the park of the retreat my seven thousand
steps. So I' m combining this strict part of habits with this part
of letting me flow. And when you have to work, I' m
the one who works the most. But when you have to rest, I
' m the one who rests the most. How rich, what a father
hears, please tell us why it costs people so much work, to live
in the here, in the now, why always in our mind, our
heart, our longings or being in the past in things that we can no
longer change, but that' s where most people live or are in the
future. Looking forward to a change in things, yearning for the lottery to
win me. Looking forward to why we can' t live in the here,
in the now? What about humanity, because that' s wow,
that' s generality. No, although everyone, of course, is not
vulnerable, we say no. No. No. I live in it here,
in the hour. But not really. Why it takes so much work
for humanity to do that, because we want to control and control comes from
fear. We want to be like we' ve been told, it'
s movies. Or as we see on Instagram, everyone has to put on
their film on demand, but that' s it, with two things,
with a lot of compassion for oneself. But at the same time striving and
repulsing my mind cards. I talk a lot about squeezing my ass and doing
the extra mile saying wow we' re leaving. I mean, there are
times when you tell him it' s okay because you' ve messed him
up, it' s okay, but now come on, it' s
just that life happens. Then we are not aware of the amount of beautiful
things, the luxury we have in our day to day. I mean now
that a fellow entrepreneur who had a doubt about Zoom has come here and I
don' t know what half an hour has already come here to be with
me to put oysters. This is a luxury, this is you a friend,
a real friend, or tomorrow on the ride that I am going to
give myself the retreat or breakfast that I have made myself my bacon with my
egg, my avocata, my salad and my yo work of stras opens to
go to is the snowy and be able to do this and have an hour
while listening to a podcast. It' s a luxury And what we are
going to see is when I get to the million euros, to see when
I don' t know what, to see when I have such a couple
to see, but let' s see that you are creating your future today.
Today. So, if you' re in the future, you'
re not enjoying it today and enjoying it is an energy that is creative.
So we have to start seeing the little things and this is how it'
s done that we haven' t been taught in the coll they teach us
math. I don' t know what doesn' t stay to work for
others and, above all, to be very obedient. And I, if
I don' t tell you the same thing the other way around. If
people do a weekly podcast, you do it every day. If people don
' t work in time, if they' re where I work, yes,
do the opposite, because really what everyone does is like sheep they do
and sheep are carried by a shepherd. And we want to be the wolf
or the lioness or yesterday just set an example of how we can be Thompson
' s Jealouses and all of them really cool. Oh, that' s
nice of you and all of you, all the same. We can be
lioness like Shakira in New York singing there we go. Not good, because
of this I have to tell you that if I were to be again I
would certainly ask to be Spanish. I love the vibe you get. I
don' t know Spain. I have to go and greet you personally,
cross the ocean so I can greet you and meet you personally and meet all
the Spanish people who don' t know how well I like them. I
greet everyone, all Spanish Spaniards who live anywhere in the world, because they
truly are a blessing to the planet. Now I want to ask you.
Evidently, there have been trials and I want you to please evoke your first
blog post, the first page you had on the Internet, the first conference
I understand. Evidently, there was nerve, there was some uncertainty. I
want you to evoke that moment and share with us what you thought about that
future, what you thought about the future. If I' m going to
do it, I' m not going to do it as far as I
want to go, because the second question I ask you together with this is
you broke paradigms. It was what you expected, or it was more than
you expected, or it is today less than you still lack, because I
have to tell you that I must have a different way of thinking than everyone
else, because yesterday at dinner they were talking about it and you said that
I don' t think that way. I' m my social consciousness,
I' m very implementive, I mean, I' m told you have
to write. Well, as I' ve written for the Huphington Post and
I write and write then. The first post I wrote was an unconscious one.
I wrote because it comes out of my heart and I don' t
think anyone' s going to read me. When I started reading hallucinatedly,
I mean, it was like wow, I can be a half- journalist.
Without being clear. This was in two thousand six. It' s
just that I' ve been here for many years, I know them,
and the first conference, because I' m going to tell you the story.
There was a friend of mine who was also mentoring a marketing crack and
then I had called her to give a workshop at an event and suddenly I
got carried away by my intuition. Suddenly I said I want to give a
lecture. There I don' t know how it came to me, but
I said this and I said hey I want to give a speech and I
said, because it proposes a topic and it was like that. Like I
said, I can talk a lot of parties. I do more thermalds secrets
with entrepreneur, because I' m going to tell about networking, but I
didn' t know about networking. I had not trained myself and at the
same time had a lot of training, because I had been watching people for
twenty years. Then my target told me okay. I' m a nates
researcher to say, if I' ve given a lecture, I' ll
inform myself, I' ll go there all prepared. I put myself in
my American Zara, when I had been dependent on Zara, that I looked
great. I there, with all this, put me on the paper and
I made a liw presentation because from there I started to get lectures and from
there I got things coming out. But I always think the future is going
to be a lot better. That I' m in the friend and every
time it' s going to be better. So, when I wrote my
book, that I self- edited it, because time came in an editorial
and we' ll see if I write a book with an editorial, then
I always think it' s going to be better. Even when I fall
and I can' t stand it anymore and I give up and I'
m crying that happens to me at least once every six months that I'
m there I don' t know if I' m going to be able
to bear it, then I say come this for something will be and I
throw it for you, right now, we' ll talk in a few
more minutes how you do to get up, because, obviously I told you
in Broma if you were from this planet, because it seems like you don
' t suffer it seems that life to you is always full of roses and
the truth is that, like every human being, I imagine you also go
through sadness, out of worries, and we' ll talk a little bit
later. What I want to ask you right now is that you don'
t leave us with a very clear idea at all. You learn by swimming.
Even if you watch a YouTube video, even if you see the best
influence on Instagram, even if I tell you and explain with and even if
you watch the video to swim, you learn to swim, to give lectures,
you learn to give lectures, to write books, you learn by writing
and, obviously, everything is perfectable. Now someone taught you this. You
took some course from someone who was talking to us, if you took a
course from someone with whom you were. But if you don' t tell
us please, who you admire, who you see as an example, if
you say if he can also me, because here the important thing about this
talk is that there are people who are coming and that there are people who
still say son. I write the book or not. I give the lecture
or not. I wind up doing a podcast or not. It' s
just that there' s already a lot of blogging. He has the opportunity
and you are seeing a living testimony of how things can be done. Who
do you admire, please, who are your anchor points or don' t
have it, where do you believe not without anything to admire others. I
look a lot in nets. This is typical of people I' ve been
banging for hours, and I' m not going in. I look at
a little lame examples. I have different folders, of papers, of sales,
of habits, of I don' t know what then I am taking
ideas from here and there, but I wouldn' t tell you that I
admire someone, as well as look. Today I discovered I think his name
isÁlvaro, because I am going to tell you nowÁlvaro Muñoz, but
I just got an interview that I am seeing you here now. What'
s the name of this guy, wait till I really don' t know.
That' s me and I' ve freaked out, I don'
t know what it' s really called to see that I don' t
getÁlvaro Núñez. Now I just found out and I say wow, what
a guy, because he' s dedicated to a luxury experience thing and so
on and how they do it right on that level. Honestly, I think
I' ll never be able to get there, but it inspires me how
well you do, how professional, how excellent. I am always amazed by
excellence, because I am very wild. I' m pretty much gonna do,
I' m gonna do pretty much. I do it rather, made
than perfect. So, when I see the people who do it so well
it' s like wow, then I wouldn' t know what I do,
what I tell you I do is I invest a lot of money,
in formation, a lot or. For example, I am now training in
sales, but also in thought models, but also in injuries. I mean,
I always have a lot of childhood injuries, because I think it'
s the basis of relationships. I know a lot, but I want to
know more in such a way that I for my students and my formations at
the end call me as the oracle doesn' t matter. I' m
not what we ask you because you' ve either lived it, or you
' ve studied it, or I' m very good at catalyzing information.
Then I invest a lot of money and for many years I have not gone
on vacation, neither I nor my daughters. So, this is it,
this is it, so it' s all very nice and it' s
very positive. But I come from a philosophy that is we all have garbage
bags, crap, various in our areas of life, whether in money,
in love or in health. In the weak part that you have, it
' s the one that you' re going to have to train more,
because if you have it weak, it' s that you lack information.
Identify first which weak part you have and become a champion or champion so that
in this way you can raise your level if your life is better. That
' s a life on the one hand, but on the other hand,
you have to start wondering, making a romantic date with yourself, sitting down
and saying it' s important to me what I really like, because,
maybe you have a job that you don' t like, but it'
s a nutritional job that allows you, for example, to start doing.
So it' s like many times you don' t start, and we
' re gonna have a little bit of a head. We need money,
which is the little paper to exchange things. Var Let' s make a
plan, what I like, what skills I have where I want to go.
I' m going to make a plan, I' m going to
model someone, I' m going to lower an idea of Johanna, I
' m going to get an idea of not what they want and come.
You' re already starting to change this part of the mentality, because if
you work hard your intuitive part, will you get along with it? That
part of playing the felling you' re doing the minor? It influences the
environment we are in, the circumstances, the people we meet with out there
say you are the product of the five people you meet with. Evidently,
they also say that if you get together with five people who get drunk,
the sixth, you' re going to do it. If you get together
with five people who curse, the sixth, are you gonna do it?
But if you get together with five people who read, five people who are
positive, five people who are very likely text you are, you influence circumstance,
environment and place geography. Yoema totally influences. But of course it is
also true that people are social people. So if you spend a lot of
time with your mother, your son and the toxic neighbor, and you in
your neighborhood don' t have anyone else to start with. Well, you
have my lyrics, my mind cards, you have social media now, but
let' s not waste time on social media watching kittens or people like they
pack great bags, because we all waste time yesterday and it' s as
it comes, let' s focus a little bit on time. That'
s not this, on the one hand. On the other hand, the
garbage bags that we each have in our area, we do not release them
to another. That' s what therapists are for You go there with your
bags, you let them go, you pay them. And that' s
because to create this new tribe these five or more people are going to have
to start bringing this into the relationships that they give me is that those people
are not that the rules of relationships don' t work. That' s
how relationships work. First I know myself, first, I love myself,
first I fill my vessel and I' m congiate that I am the milk
and balance of the world. And when I go out into the world,
I will contribute because I am brimming with knowledge, joy and so on.
So people want to be with you and then what' s going to happen
is that you' re going to have to say yes, you' re
not, you' re not, you' re not. And there you
' re gonna be able to start creating a better tribe. So be selective
both from the space of the people with whom you share the only resource that
is not renewable in your life, what is time. You spit with who,
yeah, with who? I don' t love it because you help
us to have healthy relationships, whatever the relationship is, whether it' s
a business relationship, networking, healthy relationships, because there are certain networkings around
the world where you' re one more and you' re more than anything
to live with, not to feel part of but you help us see if
you' re going on business. Let' s do business, if it
' s a personal relationship, let' s make a personal relationship that'
s healthy. And I love it because today you have worked with many brands,
not with Hock mar of this truly impressive platform, with Spanish radio and
television, with chain being from Huffington Post, the University of Seville, crú
of bad mothers, town hall was labra, Red Cross, cosmopolitan among many
more. How does it feel, Johanna, how does it feel that Hijole
and now they called me as such now they hired me here now such a
mark not this one and there are people who do it to say look at
my medals. I' m not the big one and the powerful one,
but in your case, how do you connect with people from the plate,
what do you feel when a brand calls you and now they call you to
such a place, when you travel and say hey, how nice it feels,
how nice you feel, Father, tell us about the ci Your story,
because I, I mean, I have to put all that stuff in
so that they see that I' m not here from the beginning or when
Hotmar arrived in Spain, she told me as ambassador, because I was connecting
many entrepreneurs and sponsoring my dinners and then, well, they invited me to
create a course to relate better not and I said how I' m going
to do it. I and I applied everything about neverworking, that my way
of life is not that a big company hires me or with red, for
example, that it was rather an altruistic thing, that it was for immigrant
people and others it is that I don' t care that it is.
For me it' s the same big business as the person who' s
helped you just to feel better or see that suddenly you don' t have
to relate like this because you have a wound or because you' re connecting
with a person since your trauma. It just doesn' t feed my ego.
This I have to tell you, I mean, my ego. That
part, then, is that every time you have these things. I don
' t care I mean, I don' t care. It just took
me a long time to get here. I studied politics and had to transform
myself until I got here. Even when some hayster put me on look at
the expert. I don' t know what it is that moves me nothing.
I don' t care. I know what I' m worth,
I know what I' m bringing. I know what I know who serves
well and who doesn' t, too. What has been the most recurring
feature why we do not relate well to people call themselves business, because I
understand that you give trainings to join teams, to communicate that it is then
well important. It seems like a joke, but in what I think,
where I come from, what I am what I believe, my limitations,
my limiting thoughts when I communicate it. There' s a dissociation there.
The message doesn' t come from here in the mouth and after what comes
out of me the message itself, when it comes with you to your universe,
with what you think, what you are, with what you from,
where you were born, etcetera. It influences the message, it distorts frights,
helps companies, helps people, helps couples. What has been the recurring
theme, the lack of listening, the lack of speaking the context well,
the internal wounds pláctícanos. A little bit of that good. The basis of
everything and it gives, as it is in professional or personal enterprise, it
is always the same is we all have certain childhood wounds that have not been
well covered so to speak. So this should be taught at school because it
' s the basis of our communication, it' s the basis of our
seduction, it' s the basis of how we sell or how we say,
of absolutely everything of that connection from where we do it, it'
s worth from that part of me missing a little piece and the little piece
that is usually missing more or less. It' s either I don'
t feel enough or I don' t, or I' ve felt abandoned
more or less. Then, of course, you, when interacting with another
person, are as you have said very well, interpreting with your mental translator,
which depends on your experiences, your family and your environment. So it
' s how I speak English, you speak Swedish and it' s just,
because we don' t understand each other. So, when someone speaks
more or less, the same language is like wow What connection is that we
understand each other at first. The goal is that we understand each other as
many people as possible and this is done by making the opposite person feel good.
Either this is very important to make you feel the protagonist in front of
you for what, so that your wounds do and trust and that your injured
child doesn' t activate and then you feel threatened in these two parts in
I don' t feel enough and, therefore, either I' m going
to make you super smart or I don' t have enough inner strength and
I need someone else to feel valid. It' s okay then when you
make the other one feel good, when you put him in hearing value.
But it can be from the earrings to the ear, how well you speak
or how well you have introduced me or that the wounded inner child gets off
and everyone says. Okay here I' m in comfort zone So the other
person can start showing up and you can start listening to that person from empathy,
without putting your translator on the go again I read that I' m
telling you, is that since there' s birth it' s better,
then very important to call people by their name, do the protagonists. If
you' re wrong to say that I didn' t explain myself well,
because as the example I gave you before, I didn' t explain myself
well. Sorry look then you' re getting like under yourself, if you
' re more important, you' re okay and then you' re clear,
for example, to me people who hook up a lot and talk a
lot and don' t say anything. It makes me very nervous. So
what I do is I' m sorry, is that I love being told
you can explain it shorter for me to understand. It' s a protagonist
' s way. I really want to listen to you, but half-
short, because it' s that if I don' t disconnect and something
that' s very, very, very important. Gentlemen, apart from what
you have told us, enter Geovan to Ferrero point. Com Come in,
please, because they' re gonna take a surprise. Now I want to
ask you something that came the important moment. You help us link up efficiently
with people, because then even for that we' re bad. There are
no hideous profiles in Tender that say I don' t want any sex.
I can' t stand it, nothing, I can' t, so
of course not. If you can' t even sell avocados well, then
not how they' re gonna get close to you. What has been the
recurrence in this topic, the shyness, the lack of creativity, the lack
of self- love, because it seems that these platforms mumble tinder and any
other have been demonized no And then, obviously, it is like you don
' t get there because you run your life at risk. There have been
no very unfortunate issues, such as life itself. But all of a sudden,
son, one meets every profile that' s even sad, you don
' t say, don' t tarnish how you want to flirt. So,
so we say in Mexico, don' t tell us how you help
us on this issue. Well, it' s a process of self-
knowledge and I tell everyone if you want to start meeting new people, first
work your self- esteem part, get to know yourself well and then get
to understand, because it' s a battlefield where you' re going to
get a lot of sns, where suddenly they' re going to stop talking
or they' re going to tell you. Listen, what I want to
do is I' ve been told to go home and make you a potato
cake and whatever comes up, because we don' t have to keep in
mind that we have to have good pictures. We have to put a good
description, which is a showcase of what you are is part of your personal
brand. You can' t put a picture with the face of the sun,
a landscape that doesn' t see anything, a photo with friends or
in the bathroom like this, making yourself a little bit at the top of
the open bathroom doesn' t make any sense. Then you' re going
to get into, delegate cut it out, that is, work put it
on love put it on energy. Another thing I say a lot says you
open the app, that you' re okay, if you' re stressed,
if you' re distressed, don' t open the app, because
your energy is really going to impact. Then once you do this, play
with life Have fun. See what people you find. See how they express
themselves, what they tell you, what they ask you. And then one
thing we do on a regular basis is that when we meet someone, we
do a job interview for you and what you like to do. I'
ll tell you what this is. I' ve had explos with staff where
they didn' t ask him what you were working. I don' t
give a shit. I' m known to you as a person and I
' m already seeing more or less where you' re going and if the
theme of great work comes out. But if it' s not that I
don' t have any kind of expectation with whom you don' t seem
attractive to me, you' ve got the description as blas Tar. Okay
let' s see and from here we' ll see and can come out
a leader, can come out a relationship can come out a friend being or
a working contact that has also happened to me, but we have to differentiate
very well between life relationships, that is, with this person I want you
to accompany me and love relationships, which may be that you have a wonderful
adventure of two months and say, because that' s already learning and then
I bring it to my life relationship. You' re talking about a subject
that practically nobody talks about, that is, these platforms would suffer from being
hidden, not that everyone has used or used or not. And obviously,
it' s kind of not that you don' t know it today has
opened up more when you suddenly say where they met, because understanding is already
a little more normal. However, talking about the subject is very interesting there,
by the way, and I want to invite you to download the book.
They will find it in Johanna Ferrero, they will download the ligro,
because they believe and they will take a pleasant surprise, regardless if you are
looking for the love of your life or not. You' re looking for
him Believe me, it' s going to do you a lot of good
right now Talk to us nice, Johanna, think nice, treat us good,
take care of us. You have a series of daily reflections. You
have certain tools that help us to live better, to feel better. I
' m very against it and I don' t want to point out anyone,
I' m not going to say names, but I am against that
coach or pseudo coach who saw a YouTube video and it' s already called
coach and who tells you to go in the mirror and fuck yourself and say
yes, I can be the best. I' m against that because the
minute you walk out of your door and you see the neighbor' s dog
already made in front of your house, that spark of good life is over.
These tools that you give us do not focus on that go they have
focused a little bit more in depth not to change us from inside tell us
a little bit of these tools. Well, I' ve always been quite
positive, but I say because I haven' t had another one left,
that is, before adversities. I' ve had many adversities, either I
looked at it positively or I didn' t get out of bed. So,
in my opinion, I' m not a coath, I' m
not a psychologist, I' ve studied politics and that' s why I
say I' m an inventor of relationships, because I show what I'
ve learned and what I' ve experienced. I have to start thinking differently,
and it' s always thinking in your favor, think well and you
' ll hit this thing that' s always said wrong and you' ll
accept. He doesn' t think well you' ll be right, because,
as you think, this is what' s going to happen. And
that' s the way it is, and that' s the way we
can check it out. So, if the neighbor is a heavy one and
you' ve told me that I' ve weighed the neighbor, we can
start to say how pretty the neighbor, who is alone and whenever it'
s something she just wants to talk to me, start doing this translator in
our favor. So the goal, this doesn' t mean that we'
re not going to say stupid things, that we' re all telling each
other, because since school they' re telling us what we need to improve
they haven' t made us positive efforts that we just have to change,
first with us and then with others. I mean, when we fall,
it' s very easy to say yes of this I have to learn already,
but chopped a lot, then we can say okay. It' s
stinging me now with passion It' s worth what I can get out of
this. Come on, I' m gonna learn and I' m gonna
try to do better. I' m gonna sit down and this romantic date
with me and I' m gonna do my best. So it' s
a process, This is a habit of thinking in your favor, which then
the result is that when you look in the mirror, in my case,
at forty- seven years old, well wrinkled, I' m not thin,
and I look great and it cost me I look like thirty women forgive
me for interrupting you. Please, but what I want to tell you is
that it' s taken me many years because I now see pictures of myself
as young for all young people, please look at you with love, because
you' re never going to be so horrid. He looked at me beautiful
gel, it was my God and I looked horrible. I was one of
the people who couldn' t look me in the mirror so much, so
little that he loved me. Then we have to do this job I was
thinking in our favor and the time comes for us to look in front of
the mirror and say ole ole because the beauty for women much more, because
we have that stigma since we are small, that we have to be perfect,
but really, especially for the men who come to me a lot is
that I am ugly, that I have no money and that you don'
t beg with bullshit because the attitude is what we have to work. And
the attitude is how I express myself, how I' m saying the ideas
that I' m saying from the inside that I give you all the love
so that you get the maximum number of people. And this is what we
have to work on. And this I' ve worked on working on post
- piva mentality. It' s not a process and a habit. Forty
- eight percent of the things we do are habits. We don' t
realize and when we' re taking our coffee, so they' ve half
- slept that it' s a lot to go to work. I don
' t know what this is a habit. Coffee with bad thoughts. Okay,
well, I' m gonna get the coffee and I' m gonna
say okay if they' re normally dumb thoughts. I' m gonna start
thinking I' m gonna bring something new to the job. I' m
going to, even if it' s a nutritional job you don' t
like. Yesterday I was at a place where I was having dinner and the
waitress was putting and dancing, which is that she liked, she was dancing
more than those who were out drinking drinks, because that' s the attitude.
Then the important thing is to have a better attitude. And that doesn
' t mean you have the attitude of Johanna, who' s been working
for years, but every day better attitude. Controlling this one which is very
difficult. How you get up, how you get up from a sadness,
from bad news, from a sudden drop in energy, because all these consume
you, consume a lot of intellectual energy, emotional energy, not motor,
etcetera. And when you' re down, when that happens all of a
sudden, those moments you know you' re not in the corner and how
you' re berriesy and you say what I' m doing, no,
what you' re doing you read rest, yeah, to see the first
order and self- care, that is, you' re sick you don
' t want to get out of bed. You get up, you go
to the bathroom, you take care of the bed and from there you can
be, for example, read It' s very good, because you'
re already getting new ideas. But the second step has to do yes or
yes, which is evil and antidepressants. Move your ass, I mean,
make yourself, there' s no other one left and exercise by saying.
I can, I can, of course I can? I can, of
course, tell your bastard mind, you' re not gonna stop me.
I want to win more, I want to conquer a good woman, I
want to have better health. I can, I can, without stopping until
the goal is to feel here in your stomach the certainty that it' s
possible, because when you' re underneaded, what happens is that you don
' t think it' s possible, is that you don' t believe
it, so you need to move, first your body, your internal chemistry,
which is what' s making you, that you can' t move.
And the second, of course, to rest, eat properly, not
eat shit, because eating good protein stuff, good vegetables and watching where your
energy is going, because many times we leave with bad habits. It'
s going the way I' m wrong. I' ll have a pizza.
Well, you' re getting hydrates when it doesn' t touch that
you' re going to feel heavier, because the hydrates we take and then
it hasn' t entered a dream that you can' t process self-
knowledge. So, the biggest antidepressant pirtor, you move the body and if
you can' t get out, you make ten jumps, ten jumps and
the chemistry is already changing, and well water and leave the sugar the things
we hear it, but it' s a vent. So how I'
m wrong, because since you' re wrong, you have to be even
more written and have better habits. What a jewel. Thank you so much
for sharing us now in this part of the interview or the question talk.
There are no good or bad answers. Ok I would ask you to answer
it as soon as possible, as quickly as possible to know a little more
about Johanna Ferrero and I would love to ask you we all have a superpower.
What do you think is yours to catalyze information. I take information,
make it very simple and explain it to you. What a super power you
wish you had that you don' t have to be invisible and listen to
things. That way you don' t listen, it would be amazing.
Hey, tell me something. Imagine when you die. When you die,
you' d like to listen. Tell yourself, you' d like to
hear what they say around you in the no because I already know. I
do, to ask my friends a lot, and when I broke up,
I made a birthday. Thank you. I' m celebrating nine October and
I did it in February and I made up a Thanksgiving and then I told
them today to do it again. I' m reliving, but I want
you to do what it' s called. I don' t get the
word. When you die, they give you a few words. Yeah,
yeah, yeah, I just don' t get it on the orbital.
And something like that is that if you tell me lephy and it is very
difficult for me, I passed a book where they wrote everything to me,
then I already have it then. But I think they' re going to
talk good about me in general, and whoever talks bad, because there'
s no connection and it' s okay to tell us, please, if
you were famous, famous Shakira type, three days of overwhelming fame, what
you' d do with such fame, what oysters would do, divulge about
relationships, oysters, meet politicians and say guys. You don' t see
that the issue of war is very good, your interests that you use,
but this is bullshit. And what else, because I think it' s
good relationships and that the world is getting a little better, but it'
s fine. What a movie you' ve seen once and fifty times and
you' d see again without getting tired, eat loving prays and singing in
the rain. Okay, hey, you remember your favorite childhood game, yeah,
playing grocery stores selling candy on the street. I have always been my
entrepreneur as you are with table games you are good, Oh, fatal,
fatal, fatal, letters and table fatal, because in my house you have
encouraged us maximum the parcisco, which no no and makes us feel that yes
less smart. Not that I' m a very smart person. It'
s not like that. No, no, okay, you remember your favorite
stories from your childhood. Coleo of yours Martina, Martina with some drawings,
Martina and the party of flowers with their spectacular drawings and beautiful colors, and
your daughters read it. You know him, yeah, I already bought him.
He came as a mother. Hey, imagine you' re winning the
lottery. You earn an amount, I don' t know Let' s
think four billion euros. A thing like that. What do you do with
so much money oysters invest like there is no tomorrow, well, help the
people who need most and I don' t know already I would, but
let' s be clear, make a trip with friends, but yes,
especially invest to stay calm with the money that I, as a single mother
that during separating suddenly you ostracized. It' s not easy having a business
and keeping your two daughters is nothing. I know it and what effort,
what dedication and what great love, because also a greeting to your daughters,
not to be given that your mother throws all the kilos of the world.
So we say in Mexico. Come on, listen, tell us. Please,
you would like to suffer in the history books of Spain and how.
You' d like them to say what it is that I really don'
t care about is that part of me. So, a little bit like
I don' t give a damn, well, but I do, well,
well, well, well, well, well, well, it'
s kind of a person who helped to have better relationships, to collaborate more
in society and, therefore, that society has more power, that no one
has to come and send us how to do things. Honestly, some invention
you wanted to make for humanity, something you would say how I' d
love to have this oysters I don' t know this I have to think
about. I' m not fast for this. You don' t know
what. Don' t worry. Yeah, already teleporting me somewhere else.
UFFF of course I' ll be a father and that' s what you
can' t imagine. I' m going to burn some tacos to Mexico
and come back. Imagine that would be great. I love it is your
favorite dessert, the pyramid, gentlemen, so that you listen, ladies,
so that you listen if you want to be a good dessert to Johanna.
There' s the Tiramisu. It' s not a good opportunity and I
think you also have a super power woman who is eating and not getting fat,
that is, life. You can' t ask any more, you
can ask Triana for everything. Hey, I got to take care not to
lose too much weight. Yeah, yeah, the truth is, yeah,
okay, well, imagine, you have to take care of yourself so you
don' t hit on scary cheeks. What was the best advice you'
ve been given, Johanna, because we were just talking about it yesterday.
And I don' t think I' ve been given much advice. I
would have loved it and had been given advice. And yesterday talking about this
and I said because I would give the advice to my teenage part and I
would say believe in you you have super talented, super smart. They believe
you and that' s what I would say to everyone. They think you
fucking jaca you. I can trust we all have it. You remember the
ugliest ugly gift you' ve ever been given, whether it' s Christmas
at any one, in some I don' t know you can get some
gift without saying no, men, who you' re telling you about?
You remember yes, I just got it from Mira, the father of my
daughters, who went on a trip to Mexico and brought me a command that
I didn' t like at all. And of course, who said"
pola" here, I said that I don' t like it, because
with a pair of teak areas, it' s very nice. Just like
I' m super Cooki and since I' m not anymore, please,
the truth is. If you had to learn some new skill, bro,
I' m gonna change it. If tomorrow you had to wake up already
by osmosis, imagine by a miracle that you suddenly have a new skill,
what you would like to be stability wow, because look at cooking very rich
or being very organized with all the accounts and yet carry it all super well,
because this part I have as delegate and when I have to supervise it.
It' s hard for me, it' s hard for me,
I don' t have it very well, but yes, I think I
cook and be very organized, already, very square, that you don'
t know respect. If you had to spend a full day with a professional
athlete, a professional athlete of those high performance, who you would be with
and what your ideal day with this athlete would be. That you' d
ask him where you' d take him to eat. I don' t
know southern I didn' t put it on. It' s very difficult
to hear a lot of sports, ay, but what an athlete already so
you can be a runner, basketball player s I' m thinking why don
' t you think that this I don' t have to think and calmly
I' m going to spend a day in but I don' t really
go to school. No. No, no, no, no, as
long as you think about it, how about we do another one and how
you are with the surprise parties you like, you don' t like,
I don' t like anything. And besides, they didn' t get
a place to throw a surprise party. You always find out. I think
it would be better for him now, but until my 40s they haven'
t made it. The truth. Now I think it would flow much more,
but I' ve been very controlling, I' ve been like a
little bird with a lot of fear and then I wouldn' t allow it
now, so yes. I think that now, then, it would flow
perfectly and I wouldn' t care. But before it was surprising And where
we go and what clothes I take and what I ask flows and it'
s not yesterday yesterday that every night fails. I came with all the remake
so important not and I pass that said already, but you come with covers
and I say to me this is work. He' s a partner to
you, but it' s work to me. Not then, because this
I can not tell you the real athlete and then it will come and it
will give me anger, but now not tense, no, it does not
keep thinking and if not, in the second interview or in the third talk
you will surely remember. What' s more, it may be possible that
even at night and say ay clear why I didn' t say no to
all of us that happens I' m kind of slow then for this ah
hey tell us, please. What' s the richest thing you cook,
so you say, imagine you' re inviting me to lunch or you have
a super special guest and you say I' m going to cook. Which
is the richest thing I just told you that I' m nothing Look at
you. I make good salads if I have time. I make good moves
if I have time, and then I have a recipe that' s the
worst. I am from Valencia, although I live in Madrid and Valencia is
typical paella and parella is done as long and so on. I' ve
invented a jaepa that I jujuo i' ve fried it by colliding with chicken
and I get a jaepa in ten minutes, or my daughters say. But
Mom, he' s rich, because I' m a fracticator, I
' m quick. I have a broccoli recipe for people who don' t
like broccoli. Very good, which is to suffer well from garlic, to
throw the broccoli, to brown it a little bit, to pour a little
water, to cover it, to put it to one or you have tried,
the popcorn of broccoli uy are very good in the part is so little
not the same, a little garlic first the ones that boil well I noticed
in softy, the offerries, you put tantita, butter, little ones and
you can, obviously, for those who can not eat fried things or that
can not eat things empanized like that alone and you do not know what delice
to see a very good movie, how rich not anything that this is very
easy and to which I days it told me a friend and it is very
good. Yeah, yeah, I have fried eggs, that' s almost
every day for breakfast, because there' s one more dirty thing going on
with people who play deselin' the fried egg with a little bit of butter.
I put it on top of it that melts and I put some pepper
on it and that other kind of fried egg. Ah look how rich that
rich, not good and soon we will pass other recipes. Listen tell us,
please, what your teacher has been or who or what your toughest teacher
has been, the teacher who has taught you already know tougher things, because
don' t be my father. Without doubt my father has been very demanding,
but at the same time I am who I am thanks to what I
have suffered with his demand. And so on, if there' s any
doubt about my father. Okay, hey, we' re getting to the
final straight. It' s been a delight to talk to you It'
s really impressive Everything you have to give us. I really want to thank
you for telling me publicly that I admire you that there' s obviously a
lot to learn from you and I' d love to get to this final
straight that you told us. Please imagine you' re going to give a
half message to the whole planet. This message is going to be broadcast on
the Internet, on radio, on television. This message will be translated into
all languages, dialects, languages, etcetera. Ján expression what a price you
' ll see. The message I' d say is you' ve come
to shine, but to shine you' re going to have to do things
better than how you' re doing it. When you think it' s
so good, it' s not right, you still have to do better.
Really, when something fails, you' re missing information. But the
message is you' ve come to shine, but that' s why you
have to try harder or if you' re being brutal. You' re
not doing it the way you owe. Then, please, we have come
to shine each one with our abilities and knowledge. Give it all, because
we all need you what wonders. Thank you very much, Joanna, and
thank you very much for the time, for the opportunity to speak in a
second third fifth. There are many things to talk about with you woman already
idea of Spain, greet you there to Madrid, but I want, please,
to remind us of your social networks. Please, if you are so
kind to people that nothing else is listening to us where they can contact you,
they can contact me at instagram or at tiktok en. Johanna Ferrero,
sofías, there you have it, but above all where I would like you
to be is in my house, in my letters of mind, in that
news Lette that you have it there in Gioanna Ferrero, com or bar,
gift in letters where every day I give you advice to have better relationships and,
therefore, better life, and I want it to reach many people so
that we will relate much better and create a wonderful society. There' s
Johanna Ferrero, com' s been a pleasure, a privilege. Thank you,
thank you. I truly send a hug in many blessings to You and
your beautiful family and all of you. Thank you again for being with us
in this new chapter. What a good question you share. Really comment here.
The idea is that you can meet personalities. I do call them because
it' s truly an impressive story. What my guests have to share.
Come in and see all the interviews. Share this interview with Johanna Ferrero.
Get in touch with her because I' m sure something very good will leave
you. I am Luis Miguel Salgado, see you and listen to us in
a next chapter Good morning, good afternoon, good night where you want to
meet, jovan a una besa, many blessings and see you in a next
chapter goodbye moch please by money or