WEBVTT 1 00:00:05.839 --> 00:00:09.119 Whoa, what's up, beautiful people. It is your baby mama, favorite 2 00:00:09.119 --> 00:00:14.240 baby Mama, Stormy Peat and this is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip 3 00:00:14.960 --> 00:00:22.239 the modern day perspective Again. I gotta work with my explosions. But listen, 4 00:00:22.519 --> 00:00:25.480 um, back at it again. You know who it is. It's 5 00:00:25.480 --> 00:00:30.559 Smithie Girl, Stormy Peat and holding down the ones and two's audio and visual 6 00:00:30.640 --> 00:00:33.799 by himself. Today. We got kept kidding to build a hay calf. 7 00:00:33.960 --> 00:00:39.039 Hey, we'd be trying. Bless us, little heart man. Listen before 8 00:00:39.039 --> 00:00:43.280 we jump into it. You already know Philly, Chocolate Chip and Sip is 9 00:00:43.320 --> 00:00:47.840 back in your city March tenth at World Cafe Live. It's going down, 10 00:00:48.039 --> 00:00:52.759 Okay, not basement, not wine cellar, Core of the Earth. Okay, 11 00:00:52.920 --> 00:00:55.359 we want to see you guys there. It's gonna be live giveaways, 12 00:00:55.520 --> 00:01:00.159 it's gonna be live demonstrations. It's gonna be all types of craziness that you've 13 00:01:00.200 --> 00:01:03.039 seen in these clips and in all the past shows. But it's going to 14 00:01:03.079 --> 00:01:06.959 be times ten. Okay, don't hit me up the day before acting for 15 00:01:07.079 --> 00:01:08.799 tickets. No, I do not have them. Yes, we're going to 16 00:01:08.920 --> 00:01:12.159 be sold out, just like we've sold out for every other freaking show in 17 00:01:12.159 --> 00:01:17.280 Philadelphia. So click the link in my bio or go to stormyp dot com 18 00:01:17.280 --> 00:01:22.840 and get your tickets right now. Okay, I don't care if your grandmama 19 00:01:23.079 --> 00:01:26.840 call a church and tell them that I did not give you tickets. I 20 00:01:26.879 --> 00:01:32.640 don't care. Okay, you and system Mary Clarence can suck my deck. 21 00:01:32.680 --> 00:01:34.959 There are no more tickets, so get them now, okay, before they're 22 00:01:34.959 --> 00:01:44.200 sold out. That's it. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 23 00:01:45.319 --> 00:01:49.920 Listen in the building. I got one of my favorite pink ladies. Okay, 24 00:01:51.439 --> 00:01:56.480 it is the owner and CEO of Fairy Garden mindset my girl Mare from 25 00:01:56.480 --> 00:02:02.280 the Love and then one podcast. Hey girls, thank you. I just 26 00:02:02.359 --> 00:02:06.439 knew Kevin was gonna play the plause real late. So that's why I clap 27 00:02:06.599 --> 00:02:09.919 for you. Say exactly how we have to clap for ourselves. Sometimes we 28 00:02:10.000 --> 00:02:14.680 have to clap for ourselves. That's absolutely right. I'm working video and audio 29 00:02:14.680 --> 00:02:16.439 over here. I got two things doing great. You're doing. You're doing 30 00:02:16.520 --> 00:02:20.520 great, sweetie. Don't let anyone tell you any different. Fight them. 31 00:02:20.639 --> 00:02:23.319 Okay, thank you. Mark, what's up? How you been grossing with 32 00:02:23.360 --> 00:02:24.360 the light time you came here? Oh? You know, I'm good. 33 00:02:24.439 --> 00:02:30.520 I'm excited to be back, even though I drove to the completely wrong place 34 00:02:30.759 --> 00:02:35.120 they got here. Well, you know what's the thought that counts? Yeah, 35 00:02:35.199 --> 00:02:38.919 I'm listening. I just want to jump right into it because I feel 36 00:02:38.919 --> 00:02:42.960 like as you grow, you learn different things about yourself. Yes, right, 37 00:02:43.120 --> 00:02:47.960 and so definitely I learned that I'm an adult, right. And I 38 00:02:49.039 --> 00:02:53.120 knew I was an adult because I don't mind having sex with the lights one 39 00:02:53.159 --> 00:02:58.080 anymore, you know, Like I knew I was a grown up when I 40 00:02:58.120 --> 00:03:01.039 didn't mind having sex with the lights anymore. Like when I was a young 41 00:03:01.080 --> 00:03:06.439 boy, Like I would be so self conscious about riting because I just knew 42 00:03:06.800 --> 00:03:09.639 that, like my titties just look like donkey ear swaying over them like that. 43 00:03:09.759 --> 00:03:12.680 And then I'd be so upset when he would like trying to catch a 44 00:03:12.719 --> 00:03:15.199 titty in their mouth, like it would make me so self conscious, not 45 00:03:15.280 --> 00:03:17.800 knowing that gravity is going to do that to your tits. I'm talking about 46 00:03:17.759 --> 00:03:22.159 these is before the kids, because before the kid, right, and I 47 00:03:22.240 --> 00:03:25.280 just was so self conscious or like I would really hate when they would like 48 00:03:25.360 --> 00:03:28.479 fold me up. I'm like, oh my god, I knew I look 49 00:03:28.520 --> 00:03:31.680 six months pregnant, not knowing that everyone right, like, hello, you're 50 00:03:31.719 --> 00:03:37.080 an accordion style. I'd like accordion style. What I mean, like, 51 00:03:37.120 --> 00:03:39.800 what would you think would happen? I always say the pretzel, but I 52 00:03:39.840 --> 00:03:44.319 think I'm gonna start saying accordion style. I like that. It's funny because 53 00:03:44.360 --> 00:03:47.280 I had the opposite, like, really, well, I have no boobs, 54 00:03:47.360 --> 00:03:52.680 like I literally just have nipples. So when I was younger, like 55 00:03:53.039 --> 00:03:57.439 I was like so insecure about being on top because I'd be like, my 56 00:03:57.439 --> 00:04:00.719 titties ain't titian, you know. But now I'm like, let's go, 57 00:04:01.360 --> 00:04:04.560 it doesn't matter. Yes, like they worked for me. That's so. 58 00:04:04.680 --> 00:04:09.719 What about the cordions? Did that ever make you feel subconscious? Yeah? 59 00:04:10.039 --> 00:04:13.960 I mean even still I'll be like, oh my god, you know I 60 00:04:14.080 --> 00:04:17.000 need to be like so key right now. Meanwhile, You're like, it's 61 00:04:17.000 --> 00:04:23.399 been a while, but we're here now, what's suck? In my imagination, 62 00:04:23.439 --> 00:04:28.920 I remember how good I like. I would literally like make excuses if 63 00:04:28.959 --> 00:04:31.600 the lights were on when we started having sex. I got to get the 64 00:04:31.600 --> 00:04:35.240 bathroom, legit. I would get up and act like I had to go 65 00:04:35.279 --> 00:04:39.040 to the bathroom, and then on my way from the bathroom would just flicked 66 00:04:39.079 --> 00:04:43.439 the light off. And then now we're making love in the dark. It 67 00:04:43.480 --> 00:04:47.600 ain't no way no mmm, well, I mean you gotta do it with 68 00:04:47.800 --> 00:04:53.600 enough you know, suaveness so that they don't notice that you're turning the lights 69 00:04:53.600 --> 00:04:56.639 off every time. But you know what's crazy. I know, looking back, 70 00:04:56.720 --> 00:04:59.000 certainly, we're probably like here this bitch God trying to cut the lights 71 00:04:59.000 --> 00:05:02.120 over again, just kind of off or just say you want them off and 72 00:05:02.199 --> 00:05:05.319 just call it a day. But whatever that was done, this is now. 73 00:05:05.360 --> 00:05:08.639 That was then, this is now now. Also, I'm a sucker 74 00:05:08.680 --> 00:05:12.600 for morning sex, so like you can't off the lights in that moment, 75 00:05:12.839 --> 00:05:16.600 sunshine. Yeah, it's like we're here now. Morning sex is different because 76 00:05:16.600 --> 00:05:20.439 I feel like if I'm having sex with you in the daytime period, right, 77 00:05:20.480 --> 00:05:26.079 I obviously like you right right right? This is this is us bonding 78 00:05:26.360 --> 00:05:30.600 where take get there? Now? If we made it to this point accordion 79 00:05:30.639 --> 00:05:36.399 style, it is um. So I really want to talk about we had 80 00:05:36.439 --> 00:05:44.680 a very interesting conversation a few weeks ago about the internet's hot topic right now, 81 00:05:45.879 --> 00:05:48.879 high value men. Right, Yeah, before we start, I just 82 00:05:48.920 --> 00:05:54.439 want to give this a disclaimer. Okay, this is not a high value 83 00:05:54.519 --> 00:05:59.079 man or men period bashing party. No, And that's why I texted you 84 00:05:59.680 --> 00:06:01.480 because I was like, I know Stormy loves men too, and so do 85 00:06:01.560 --> 00:06:08.800 I. And I love women and I love building up women. But that 86 00:06:08.839 --> 00:06:12.079 doesn't mean taking down men, you know, like I can't when people are 87 00:06:12.120 --> 00:06:15.360 like these men are trash da da da da da Like, babe, the 88 00:06:15.800 --> 00:06:19.040 law of polarity exists. So for every trash man there is, there has 89 00:06:19.079 --> 00:06:25.399 to be an exquisite man also, absolutely, So like, maybe you just 90 00:06:25.439 --> 00:06:30.040 suck at picking men. Okay, let's start here, and we're off what 91 00:06:30.160 --> 00:06:33.399 I want to stop happening, right, I want everyone to stop saying that 92 00:06:33.439 --> 00:06:38.920 the dating pool is trash, right, or that there are no high value 93 00:06:38.959 --> 00:06:43.319 men, when in actuality, you're just not good at picking men. Let's 94 00:06:43.319 --> 00:06:45.600 call a spade a spade. Let's call a spade to spade. Let's take 95 00:06:45.639 --> 00:06:51.800 some accountability, like you know, so good men do still exist, and 96 00:06:53.360 --> 00:06:59.319 high value men still exists, right, Yes, The problem is I think 97 00:06:59.360 --> 00:07:02.000 we all have different definitions of high value men. I think that's where we're 98 00:07:02.000 --> 00:07:05.600 getting stuck at. That's the thing. Yeah, so what's your definition of 99 00:07:05.600 --> 00:07:09.920 a high value man? Okay? So I've been thinking a lot about this 100 00:07:10.079 --> 00:07:15.879 because I've been getting introduced to different like podcasts that different. Obviously, we 101 00:07:15.000 --> 00:07:17.920 got the whole Andrew tape thing going on right now, which I'm not really 102 00:07:17.959 --> 00:07:23.199 sure how this man how is he tweeting from jail? Can someone please explain 103 00:07:23.240 --> 00:07:26.319 this to me. I'm not going to talk too much shit because my homie 104 00:07:26.360 --> 00:07:28.360 and jail and he be tweets too, so I'm gonna let him have you 105 00:07:28.480 --> 00:07:30.720 Okay, so you just have your phone in there? Is that just like 106 00:07:30.720 --> 00:07:34.800 what it is? Listen? It depends on the level of security, okay, 107 00:07:34.879 --> 00:07:38.720 because I'm like genuinely curious. I'm like, yo, he's going off 108 00:07:39.120 --> 00:07:41.759 like still every day, and there are things that he says that I, 109 00:07:42.879 --> 00:07:46.240 you know, I can get behind, but not everything at all. Hey, 110 00:07:46.240 --> 00:07:50.000 Amira, heymir, I'm listening. So a high value man to me 111 00:07:50.800 --> 00:07:56.879 is someone that well is. So then I started thinking about it, like 112 00:07:57.000 --> 00:08:00.759 before I start delving into what I think a high value man is, I'm 113 00:08:00.759 --> 00:08:03.000 like, okay, fuck a high value man, fuck a high value woman. 114 00:08:05.199 --> 00:08:07.800 What if it was just like a high value human? Okay? You 115 00:08:07.879 --> 00:08:11.160 know, okay, because like I don't even want to like dance with the 116 00:08:11.199 --> 00:08:16.839 idea of like hating on either either or like, I'm just gonna give my 117 00:08:16.920 --> 00:08:22.319 attention to high value humans. Okay. So it's like someone who is emotionally 118 00:08:22.360 --> 00:08:30.399 intelligent, able to communicate, has like aspirations for themselves that they're like actively 119 00:08:30.439 --> 00:08:35.360 pursuing. Okay, someone who values themselves like so they're you know, conscious 120 00:08:35.399 --> 00:08:41.320 of like what they're eating, what they're listening to or reading, or how 121 00:08:41.360 --> 00:08:48.120 they're moving their body. These things, those to me are like bare minimum 122 00:08:48.240 --> 00:08:54.080 of a high value human. Yes, I agree. So then my question 123 00:08:54.159 --> 00:09:01.639 becomes what if we go into the high value It's like, what makes you 124 00:09:01.679 --> 00:09:03.840 a high value man? Like you have money? I want you guys to 125 00:09:03.879 --> 00:09:09.639 hear this. If you don't hear nothing else throughout this whole podcast, listen 126 00:09:09.720 --> 00:09:13.759 to this right here. Just because you have money does not make you a 127 00:09:13.840 --> 00:09:16.519 high value man, not at all. And I'm gonna repeated, and I'm 128 00:09:16.559 --> 00:09:18.879 gonna repeat it because I know it's somebody out here like what you mean, 129 00:09:18.960 --> 00:09:20.279 what you mean? What you mean? I'm gonna tell you what I mean. 130 00:09:22.000 --> 00:09:24.879 Just because you have money does not make you a high value man. 131 00:09:26.159 --> 00:09:28.960 And some of y'all gonna be tight about this, but it doesn't, like 132 00:09:30.559 --> 00:09:35.039 y'all be thinking just because you got a couple of dollars, automatically, you've 133 00:09:35.200 --> 00:09:39.120 entered the top ten percent. Okay, here's the other thing. When they 134 00:09:39.200 --> 00:09:43.240 don't even have a couple of dollars actively right now, but they got, 135 00:09:43.559 --> 00:09:48.080 they're setting themselves up for it in the future. Per love life for you 136 00:09:48.320 --> 00:09:56.519 the fuck? Okay, you literally lack emotional intelligence, kindness, and fucking 137 00:09:56.600 --> 00:10:01.000 human decency to other people. You don't even I can say thank you or 138 00:10:01.080 --> 00:10:05.279 please every time you got an STD check like these are my questions, what 139 00:10:05.399 --> 00:10:16.799 book are you reading? What is motherfucker spending? What the fuck? Respectfully? 140 00:10:16.240 --> 00:10:20.919 I agree one hundred percent, you cannot be a high value man. 141 00:10:20.039 --> 00:10:24.919 And you don't know how to articulate your emotions, you cannot be a high 142 00:10:24.000 --> 00:10:28.000 value man. If you don't have empathy, you cannot be a high value 143 00:10:28.039 --> 00:10:33.320 man. If you have not if you don't have a PCP, you cannot 144 00:10:33.399 --> 00:10:37.200 be a high value man. If you don't know the difference between there there 145 00:10:37.240 --> 00:10:39.200 and there, Oh my god, oh my god, I don't. I 146 00:10:39.279 --> 00:10:43.519 don't care how much money you have. I don't care how much money you 147 00:10:43.600 --> 00:10:48.240 have. You can't Okay, And a lot of y'all internet trolls are not 148 00:10:48.799 --> 00:10:54.320 high value men. And I know it just gets your little dick moist hopping 149 00:10:54.399 --> 00:10:58.279 on these fucking keyboards and typing all this trash. Well, let me tell 150 00:10:58.320 --> 00:11:01.159 you something, sir. It ain't you. It ain't you. I don't 151 00:11:01.159 --> 00:11:05.639 know what you want me to say, like do better. So it's like 152 00:11:05.759 --> 00:11:11.440 with the fit and fresh and the aer tate stuff, like if you are 153 00:11:11.679 --> 00:11:18.720 a high value man, you have more shit to say other than conversations about 154 00:11:18.799 --> 00:11:22.399 high value men. If you are a high value man, if you are 155 00:11:22.440 --> 00:11:26.720 a high value man, you aren't always in women's business, Like yeah, 156 00:11:26.759 --> 00:11:33.559 you're busy. You're like building your empire. Like I just I don't get 157 00:11:33.600 --> 00:11:39.000 it. And the crazy part is, I don't know many high value men 158 00:11:39.759 --> 00:11:46.440 who proudly claim that they're high value men. Thank you. They rule Gee's 159 00:11:46.480 --> 00:11:50.159 moving silence like Lasagne. It's like what's known doesn't need to be said, 160 00:11:50.320 --> 00:11:54.879 babe, Like we know, we feel it, like we feel safe around 161 00:11:54.960 --> 00:11:58.480 you, like you teach us things. This is how you would know you're 162 00:11:58.519 --> 00:12:01.679 fucking with a high value man. Yes, yes, yes, high value 163 00:12:01.679 --> 00:12:07.960 men have They can't help it. They automatically admit this aura. Yeah, 164 00:12:07.120 --> 00:12:16.279 it's big dick energy without the egomm and I think that the men who have 165 00:12:16.480 --> 00:12:22.279 to constantly yell that their high value men are the ones who subconsciously know, 166 00:12:22.200 --> 00:12:26.200 Yeah, like you're lacking and slacking babe, Like you don't have to tell 167 00:12:26.240 --> 00:12:30.759 me. I already know unless you tell me a thousand times. And now 168 00:12:31.279 --> 00:12:33.039 now I'm questioning what I know? Why am I even talking to you? 169 00:12:33.240 --> 00:12:37.679 Now? I have a question? Does high value have a monetary amount for 170 00:12:37.759 --> 00:12:43.240 you? I think that I was thinking about this on the way over because 171 00:12:43.279 --> 00:12:46.159 I'm like, Okay, money's obviously going to come up in this conversation, 172 00:12:46.960 --> 00:13:01.320 and I feel like with the education and like emotional intelligence and like accountability, 173 00:13:01.200 --> 00:13:05.399 the like money is going to be secondary, Like you're not going to have 174 00:13:05.600 --> 00:13:11.320 those things and not have money, So there isn't actually like a money simunts. 175 00:13:11.840 --> 00:13:16.840 It's just like inevitable. Yes, Like these characteristics equal X, Y 176 00:13:16.879 --> 00:13:20.519 and Z. It'd be like the same as like you being like going to 177 00:13:20.639 --> 00:13:24.000 the gym and you know, you're like, oh, I'm working out because 178 00:13:24.080 --> 00:13:28.639 my body deserves to move and I would like to be agile and I want 179 00:13:28.639 --> 00:13:35.159 to be able to breathe and be able to like experience life in a body 180 00:13:35.279 --> 00:13:39.080 that is able to do that. A like side effect in a sense of 181 00:13:39.200 --> 00:13:43.000 that is going to be that you're fit. I wanted to tap in with 182 00:13:43.200 --> 00:13:46.960 some people on a live it says a high value men. Don't say they 183 00:13:46.000 --> 00:13:50.080 are high value. They exuded amen. That's what we're saying. It'd be 184 00:13:50.159 --> 00:13:54.159 the so called high value men talking down on the emotionally intelligent men, saying 185 00:13:54.200 --> 00:13:58.519 they're too soft. I agree with this one thousand percent. If you are 186 00:13:58.639 --> 00:14:01.879 not emotionally intelligent, you do not qualify as a high value mans. Now 187 00:14:03.279 --> 00:14:05.519 it's more than money, it's more than money. Well, that's the problem. 188 00:14:05.639 --> 00:14:13.440 It's like the whole high value man thing goes off of your esthetically pleasing 189 00:14:13.639 --> 00:14:18.080 like you're attractive, cool, congratulations you have money, and like you get 190 00:14:18.120 --> 00:14:24.679 women Like I feel like that is like what the Internet has been like painting 191 00:14:24.919 --> 00:14:30.000 as high value men. It's like we're not even considering spirituality, Like we're 192 00:14:30.039 --> 00:14:35.039 not even considering the bare minimum of what it is to be like a kind 193 00:14:35.879 --> 00:14:41.200 human. Yes, yes, you know you know who I blame who I 194 00:14:41.360 --> 00:14:43.559 blame the corny niggas that got money. Okay, and I'm gonna tell you 195 00:14:43.600 --> 00:14:50.000 why the corny niggas got money and then proceeded to ship on all the attractive 196 00:14:50.080 --> 00:14:54.639 women who didn't want them when they were growing up, right, Yeah, 197 00:14:54.200 --> 00:15:01.399 and then they saw the same women who didn't want them growing up start going 198 00:15:01.519 --> 00:15:05.840 through hoops a fire to get their attention, and they're like, oh, 199 00:15:05.919 --> 00:15:09.639 well, now I must be it. Right, if you were a corny 200 00:15:09.720 --> 00:15:16.879 nigga before you got money, when you get money, you now become a 201 00:15:16.039 --> 00:15:18.600 corny nigga with money. I don't understand why y'all think you'all high value. 202 00:15:18.639 --> 00:15:22.440 It's not it. That's not the way it goes like. That's not that's 203 00:15:22.480 --> 00:15:28.000 not the mask there. So yeah, it's really frustrating. Now let me 204 00:15:28.000 --> 00:15:33.039 ask you a question. Is there a way for a man who is not 205 00:15:33.679 --> 00:15:37.519 culturally high value meaning I'm just gonna say, he just don't got the funds, 206 00:15:37.720 --> 00:15:41.879 right, but he's emotionally intelligent, intelligent, he's attractive, um he 207 00:15:43.559 --> 00:15:48.759 um, he got a physical this year. Okay, you got a good 208 00:15:48.840 --> 00:15:54.000 job, he knows God right, just because he doesn't have the money, 209 00:15:54.200 --> 00:15:58.679 is there a way for him to transition into the high value tier? I 210 00:15:58.799 --> 00:16:03.559 think that yeah, you would've because if you're getting all of those things in 211 00:16:03.720 --> 00:16:08.240 order, I feel like the money would just come eventually and That's the thing 212 00:16:08.519 --> 00:16:15.799 is like a lot of the high value men right now are not fully even 213 00:16:17.480 --> 00:16:22.480 in the tax bracket that they're like proclaiming for high value men. So you 214 00:16:22.519 --> 00:16:25.360 know what, I feel like we should add into the high value requirements. 215 00:16:25.759 --> 00:16:30.080 I feel like you should add in determination or motivation, maybe valiation exactly because 216 00:16:30.159 --> 00:16:33.879 a high value man is never going to have enough. Well, it's like 217 00:16:33.559 --> 00:16:37.320 and it's not even about having enough. I feel like it's just like the 218 00:16:37.440 --> 00:16:41.279 motivation for more and like building. It's like looking at things through like um 219 00:16:42.720 --> 00:16:47.840 like not lack mentality. You know, like it's like okay, Like it's 220 00:16:47.879 --> 00:16:52.519 like I want more. You have to want more, not just for myself, 221 00:16:52.679 --> 00:16:56.840 so that I can give to others and teach others and put other people 222 00:16:56.879 --> 00:17:00.279 in positions that maybe they wouldn't be able to put themselves in. You know 223 00:17:00.320 --> 00:17:03.960 what I mean? One more thing, if in order to be a high 224 00:17:03.039 --> 00:17:07.440 value man, you also got to be able to teach somebody something, teach 225 00:17:07.640 --> 00:17:14.480 me something like please, I don't want to talk to you about what a 226 00:17:14.599 --> 00:17:17.720 woman's places and what a man's places. I don't want to talk to you 227 00:17:17.720 --> 00:17:21.160 about why we should be splitting these bills and who cooking this food now because 228 00:17:21.200 --> 00:17:23.440 it's gonna just come now. It's like a an EBB and a flow, 229 00:17:25.079 --> 00:17:29.359 and I just want to take a little tangent real fast, going around this 230 00:17:29.440 --> 00:17:36.640 corner real quick. So I don't want to have conversations of who should be 231 00:17:36.680 --> 00:17:40.519 cooking, who should be cleaning, who should be doing these household duties? 232 00:17:40.680 --> 00:17:44.519 Right, Like the shot is where you're losing me even are you an adult? 233 00:17:45.039 --> 00:17:48.200 Right? Like do you handle your shit? Do you want a girlfriend 234 00:17:48.279 --> 00:17:49.920 or do you want a maid? Do you want a girlfriend or do you 235 00:17:51.000 --> 00:17:55.960 want a mom? Do you want a partner or do you want like a 236 00:17:56.079 --> 00:17:59.799 personal assist? That let me know? Because most people get paid for this, 237 00:18:00.359 --> 00:18:03.359 And I feel like the conversations that it's just funny too, because like 238 00:18:03.519 --> 00:18:07.920 even if like I have guy friends and they'll be like, you know, 239 00:18:07.440 --> 00:18:11.559 they'll like run through a list of things that they like want right now or 240 00:18:11.640 --> 00:18:12.839 like need, and they'll be like, I need a girlfriend. I'm like, 241 00:18:12.920 --> 00:18:17.759 babe, you just listed things of an assistant that is not a girl, 242 00:18:17.960 --> 00:18:21.519 Like no, no, that's not the same. And my whole thing 243 00:18:21.640 --> 00:18:26.880 is get an assistant. To expect your partner to cook for you every day 244 00:18:27.680 --> 00:18:33.480 and you never cook is wild to me because this is a basic human necessity. 245 00:18:33.720 --> 00:18:37.359 You're like, you should what if I wasn't here? You're not going 246 00:18:37.400 --> 00:18:40.400 to live like you can't live without me. That's where we are now. 247 00:18:40.640 --> 00:18:45.599 You are unable to live without a caretaker. And different people have different like 248 00:18:45.920 --> 00:18:51.759 assets. Yes, my asset is not cooking, yes, personally, so 249 00:18:52.000 --> 00:18:56.319 like my man is gonna need to be able to cook and teach me how 250 00:18:56.359 --> 00:18:59.480 to cook so then I can cook for both of us. But like you're 251 00:18:59.519 --> 00:19:00.880 not just gonna go get a fish, You're gonna teach one how to fish? 252 00:19:02.000 --> 00:19:07.720 Yes, or that. There's so many options, like teamwork is the 253 00:19:07.839 --> 00:19:12.599 dream work. So um. Somebody says some men want the old school ways 254 00:19:12.839 --> 00:19:18.079 in this new generation. I agree one thousand percent because y'all be looking at 255 00:19:18.160 --> 00:19:22.079 Okay, Well, my mom and my grandmam, they cooked and cleaned, 256 00:19:22.119 --> 00:19:25.839 it did everything for my dad and my granddad. But you're leaving out the 257 00:19:25.880 --> 00:19:29.759 part where dad and granddad was paying all the fucking bills so mom could stay 258 00:19:29.799 --> 00:19:32.039 home. Yeah, it shouldn't have none to do but cook, clean and 259 00:19:32.079 --> 00:19:33.680 take care of these kids. Exactly. You want me to split the bills 260 00:19:33.720 --> 00:19:37.119 and cook all the food and clean the whole house. Like I am taking 261 00:19:37.200 --> 00:19:41.200 on way more in this relationship than a lot of you are. And it's 262 00:19:41.240 --> 00:19:44.920 not always gonna be a fifty fifty split. Like we are aware of that. 263 00:19:45.119 --> 00:19:48.599 Some days one person's gonna give thirty, the other person's gonna give seventy, 264 00:19:48.640 --> 00:19:52.160 and some days in my foot flop, I think every day everybody should 265 00:19:52.160 --> 00:19:55.640 be giving a hundred percent. Well, that's like, That's what I try 266 00:19:55.680 --> 00:19:57.640 to do, is like assume that everyone's doing the best that they can. 267 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:03.960 But sometimes I know you're all ain't doing the best, struggling and I know 268 00:20:04.160 --> 00:20:08.039 y'all struggling. That's it. Yeah, Like I don't get it. Um, 269 00:20:08.240 --> 00:20:12.079 So I just want to switch topics for a bit, um speaking of 270 00:20:12.200 --> 00:20:15.640 well not really, like thanks for just letting us get that off. Yeah, 271 00:20:15.759 --> 00:20:21.039 yeah, vincing. Vincing is important. Better ly throw up in Stormy. 272 00:20:22.000 --> 00:20:26.839 We had a great conversation. It was it was the STD one was 273 00:20:26.079 --> 00:20:30.240 my favorite point on your end. I just want to a high value man 274 00:20:30.319 --> 00:20:34.160 gets tested, yes, and you know what, and reads books. I'm 275 00:20:34.200 --> 00:20:41.079 sorry, those are might two for whoever is listening right now. If you 276 00:20:41.160 --> 00:20:47.680 were one of those people who doesn't get tested because your partner gets tested, 277 00:20:47.799 --> 00:20:48.839 and you're like, oh, well, if they don't have nothing, then 278 00:20:48.880 --> 00:20:52.960 I don't have nothing. You need to grow up. Grow the fuck up. 279 00:20:53.279 --> 00:20:57.440 Like there is a population of people who will not get an STD test 280 00:20:57.519 --> 00:21:03.720 because they know that one of their partners or their partner is getting STD tests, 281 00:21:03.720 --> 00:21:04.279 so they're like, oh, or if they're cool, then I'm cool. 282 00:21:04.640 --> 00:21:07.759 Everybody knows someone like that, and that is trash. And I'm not 283 00:21:07.799 --> 00:21:11.640 gonna lie y'all, no Amy, it's mostly men, y'a'll be doing it. 284 00:21:12.000 --> 00:21:15.400 But I think it's also because they don't have like a private part doctor. 285 00:21:15.960 --> 00:21:18.640 Well, I mean it's like I think you can get it for free 286 00:21:18.680 --> 00:21:23.880 at planned parenthood. You can men and women can get free STD checks at 287 00:21:23.960 --> 00:21:27.960 planned parenthood. Just so you know. I'm like, so like you should 288 00:21:29.559 --> 00:21:33.000 to me, that's we're running that quarterly. Like you get an oil change 289 00:21:33.079 --> 00:21:37.480 like maybe every other oil change, babe, yes, yes, yes, 290 00:21:37.839 --> 00:21:41.559 Now question if you are in a relationship, do you still get routine STD 291 00:21:41.720 --> 00:21:45.880 checks. So that was my other thing that I was thinking about today because 292 00:21:45.240 --> 00:21:55.000 I have been like celibate right now for the past almost four months, and 293 00:21:55.160 --> 00:22:02.519 I got one like after like I I haven't had sex as soon as I 294 00:22:02.559 --> 00:22:04.799 got this last STD check, I'm like, y'all are done. I know 295 00:22:04.880 --> 00:22:10.519 I'm good. Ain't nobody fucking touching me? No one's touching me. So 296 00:22:10.880 --> 00:22:12.880 since then, I'm like, I think I'm good. But if I were 297 00:22:12.920 --> 00:22:17.200 to get a new partner in the next like month or two, like, 298 00:22:17.759 --> 00:22:19.799 yeah, I'd probably run it again, honestly, Yeah, what do you 299 00:22:19.880 --> 00:22:22.480 think? I don't know. I mean, like, if you are in 300 00:22:22.680 --> 00:22:26.920 a like full blown relationship, like you partner have been together for a year, 301 00:22:27.519 --> 00:22:30.680 Okay, then I think like one a year, I was gonna unless 302 00:22:30.680 --> 00:22:36.200 you think they're running game or like the possibility is there, right, if 303 00:22:36.279 --> 00:22:40.599 everything is good and I have no where flags in the relationship, is nothing 304 00:22:40.640 --> 00:22:44.200 to give me anything, you know, any type of suspicions. I personally 305 00:22:44.240 --> 00:22:47.680 would only get an STD check at my annual Yeah, because I'm here, 306 00:22:48.319 --> 00:22:49.759 I'm not gonna go on my way to keep getting tested. But like, 307 00:22:49.880 --> 00:22:53.519 if it's text messages in your phone, yes, bitches coming to me as 308 00:22:53.559 --> 00:23:00.279 a woman, like I'm going to frequent like how often I'm being Yeah, 309 00:23:00.400 --> 00:23:03.920 you know what's crazy? I know, well I have recently heard based on 310 00:23:03.039 --> 00:23:08.119 some of the listeners, there are some people who use condoms all the way 311 00:23:08.200 --> 00:23:11.640 up until marriage, like even in their mind. I have a lot of 312 00:23:11.680 --> 00:23:14.920 friends that are like, yeah, in la, I didn't know that was 313 00:23:14.960 --> 00:23:18.960 a thing. Me neither. I can't relate. I'm gonna be honest, 314 00:23:18.000 --> 00:23:21.200 Well, what's the benefit of being in a relationship at this point? I 315 00:23:21.279 --> 00:23:25.079 feel like if I can't, I feel like, if I can't go raw 316 00:23:25.200 --> 00:23:27.759 dog, jamal, what are we doing here? And I was like spoiled 317 00:23:27.799 --> 00:23:33.000 because I was in like a five year relationship and that's where I like, 318 00:23:33.039 --> 00:23:37.240 he was pretty much the first person that I was having sex with, So 319 00:23:37.359 --> 00:23:44.480 I was having sex with him for five years, which I in retrospect probably 320 00:23:44.519 --> 00:23:47.519 should have been using condoms. But you were young, I was, and 321 00:23:47.759 --> 00:23:51.160 so but like I got spoiled kind of. So then when I was not 322 00:23:51.319 --> 00:23:53.920 in the relationship, and then I'm like, you know, being a woman 323 00:23:55.000 --> 00:23:57.599 and an adult and making decisions if I want to have sex with someone or 324 00:23:57.640 --> 00:24:02.039 not. Then I'm like trying to use these condoms, and I'm like, 325 00:24:06.119 --> 00:24:11.759 oh, fuck, it smells like someone's blowing balloons in here. I hadn't 326 00:24:11.799 --> 00:24:15.599 read some stuff in Alive, so it says um, at least annually, 327 00:24:17.640 --> 00:24:21.119 UM, guessing we're talking about the STD tests. Most men pride won't let 328 00:24:21.200 --> 00:24:25.400 them get it done. Um, but a lot of diseases can lie dormant 329 00:24:25.440 --> 00:24:30.119 for years. The turner's commented, Yeah, that's dead over here. Okay, 330 00:24:30.680 --> 00:24:33.720 cool raw dog, jamal it is. Um yeah, I'm not. 331 00:24:33.880 --> 00:24:36.400 I'm not knocking it. I just don't know if that would be something that 332 00:24:36.480 --> 00:24:40.720 I would want to partake him. If I'm not having any red flags, 333 00:24:40.960 --> 00:24:42.799 you know, I can't do that. I don't think I want to. 334 00:24:44.119 --> 00:24:45.839 No, I don't want to do I don't want to. But I don't 335 00:24:45.839 --> 00:24:48.119 think I want to do that at all. Um. You know, no 336 00:24:48.279 --> 00:24:51.279 judgment, no, no, no, no judgment. I'm just saying for 337 00:24:51.400 --> 00:24:53.640 me personally, I would not be able. That would not be What would 338 00:24:53.640 --> 00:24:56.519 you do if your partner was like, yo, like I really don't want 339 00:24:56.519 --> 00:24:59.480 to have any kids. I had a few pregnancy scares on my last one. 340 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:03.160 So if it's cool, we shoot, I just cool out using condoms, 341 00:25:03.720 --> 00:25:07.240 pull out and put it anywhere the fuck else. That's another thing because 342 00:25:07.440 --> 00:25:11.039 women will be on birth control and then they'll be like, oh yeah, 343 00:25:11.039 --> 00:25:14.000 I just like let him go with me. I'm like, are you on 344 00:25:14.160 --> 00:25:18.319 meth? I'm just wondering I think I may be on meth, don't We 345 00:25:18.519 --> 00:25:23.680 talked about that. Well, that's like after that last episode when we talked 346 00:25:23.720 --> 00:25:29.039 about yes that yes, yes, I hooked up with this guy that I 347 00:25:29.160 --> 00:25:33.160 was hooking up with. He watched that clip in front of my face. 348 00:25:33.960 --> 00:25:40.720 We went into my room, we hooked up without a condom, and he 349 00:25:40.839 --> 00:25:47.480 came in me. That was the last time, and just like that privilege 350 00:25:47.519 --> 00:25:49.960 revoked. I'm not gonna lie I may be on because like if I like 351 00:25:51.119 --> 00:25:53.160 got it like a steady partner, like and I only have one steady partner. 352 00:25:53.240 --> 00:25:56.519 Are you on birth control? I am on birth control? Okay, 353 00:25:56.039 --> 00:26:00.160 but I know girls that I've got I'm pregnant on birth control. You're not 354 00:26:00.160 --> 00:26:03.920 gonna lie yo, yes, yes, yeah, no, like a plus 355 00:26:04.000 --> 00:26:11.920 B equals sick sperm egg baby. Put right. But what I'm saying is 356 00:26:11.000 --> 00:26:17.799 like I'm also, like, um like almost religious about my birth control. 357 00:26:18.319 --> 00:26:22.119 I have a timer on my phone right like every day every time, like 358 00:26:22.319 --> 00:26:26.839 I make sure I'm in the right weight range so that it's one effective, 359 00:26:26.960 --> 00:26:29.440 like right, I am very strict on it. You know what I mean? 360 00:26:29.599 --> 00:26:32.400 Well, and I mean honestly, if you like pay attention to your 361 00:26:32.519 --> 00:26:37.640 cycle. Anyways, there's really like three days that you're able to like actually 362 00:26:37.680 --> 00:26:40.759 get pregnant. Yes, it's a very small window. So it's like if 363 00:26:40.799 --> 00:26:45.640 you're looking at your stuff and you're on birth control, the world like go 364 00:26:45.799 --> 00:26:48.079 off. And if it's like really something that you're like scared off, you 365 00:26:48.079 --> 00:26:52.720 could always take a plan B too. But you know, I just don't 366 00:26:52.759 --> 00:26:56.000 want a baby right now. No, no, no, no, no, 367 00:26:56.279 --> 00:26:59.559 I definitely I don't want those problems at all. Yeah, So I'm 368 00:26:59.680 --> 00:27:03.720 like baby stuff, I am good do anything else. And like, how 369 00:27:03.799 --> 00:27:07.519 presumptuous of people to automatically think like, oh, if you get pregnant, 370 00:27:07.519 --> 00:27:14.599 like you're gonna keep it? Who said that? Sir? Who said that? 371 00:27:15.119 --> 00:27:17.839 Well, it's funny because when he did that, When that man did 372 00:27:17.920 --> 00:27:19.400 that to me, I'm like, okay, so do you want like a 373 00:27:19.440 --> 00:27:23.440 boy or a girl? And he's like what, I'm like, I mean 374 00:27:23.519 --> 00:27:27.640 you came in May. That is a good scheme. That is a good 375 00:27:27.759 --> 00:27:32.559 and he's like, we wouldn't keep Oh we wouldn't. That's weird. We're 376 00:27:32.720 --> 00:27:37.680 assuming that I would upboard my unboard child. Don't full crazy bitch on it? 377 00:27:38.039 --> 00:27:41.799 Yes, like fuck out of here. I'm gonna use this the next 378 00:27:41.839 --> 00:27:45.880 time somebody like like dumps to me against my will, Like, do you 379 00:27:45.960 --> 00:27:48.119 have a name picked out already? Because if it's a boy, we're gone 380 00:27:48.160 --> 00:27:53.039 with jet Yo Jet Jackson. Did you watch that show? No? I 381 00:27:53.160 --> 00:27:56.160 love Jet Jackson. Man, that's crazy. I just love that name. 382 00:27:56.279 --> 00:28:00.119 But seriously, that's what I said. I'm like, but it's crazy as 383 00:28:00.160 --> 00:28:02.640 you say that, because I'm going off to like, you know, men 384 00:28:02.799 --> 00:28:06.279 reacting to our clips. So you know I had that clip, you know, 385 00:28:07.240 --> 00:28:10.519 you know I had that clip that one viral about like how they did 386 00:28:10.599 --> 00:28:15.240 a survey and fat men last longer. Right, So I'm hooking up with 387 00:28:15.319 --> 00:28:18.799 this guy and we are going in extremely long time, right, and I'm 388 00:28:18.799 --> 00:28:21.880 not gonna lie. I know I got some good coochie. So I'm like, 389 00:28:22.200 --> 00:28:25.400 something's off here, right, and I'm talking about I'm wet. The 390 00:28:25.519 --> 00:28:29.000 mood is right, it's not awkward. What a saked song? Right, 391 00:28:29.119 --> 00:28:30.319 right? Right? Y? So funnily, I'm just like, baby, 392 00:28:30.359 --> 00:28:33.200 please, how can I help you get there? Yes, I'm done. 393 00:28:33.640 --> 00:28:38.519 I've had enough. I'm tired. I'm tired of doing this. Grandpa like, 394 00:28:38.680 --> 00:28:45.599 I'm done. That's a real thing. And he was like, I'm 395 00:28:45.680 --> 00:28:48.359 not gonna lie. I just was doing that because you said fat men last 396 00:28:48.400 --> 00:28:52.319 longer. I just was trying to prove a point. I'm tired, sir. 397 00:28:52.599 --> 00:28:56.039 You ain't gonna do all that, not you abusing my pussy for no 398 00:28:56.200 --> 00:29:00.720 reason. Okay, I'm done. I'm done. I'm I'm done. I'm 399 00:29:00.799 --> 00:29:06.039 done. Done. It doesn't short and sweet, it's the thing. It 400 00:29:06.160 --> 00:29:10.559 exists, bro, it doesn't exist. Bro. Now I gotta go take 401 00:29:10.599 --> 00:29:14.319 a bath, sit on some ice. Okay, Oh my god, for 402 00:29:14.400 --> 00:29:17.559 a while, because you want to be out here prooven it got damn point. 403 00:29:18.000 --> 00:29:22.839 We could have talked about this. I hate it here. I hate 404 00:29:22.839 --> 00:29:26.119 it here. I'm glad that you were because the last time that we talked 405 00:29:26.200 --> 00:29:37.839 you weren't. Um. I have a time or two. I love that 406 00:29:37.039 --> 00:29:41.240 for you. Yeah, you know I'd be doing things or whatever or whatever 407 00:29:41.759 --> 00:29:48.640 shit. So um, So he wasn't fat. He wasn't that he. 408 00:29:48.880 --> 00:29:51.880 Have you ever hooked up with a fat guy? No? Me, neither. 409 00:29:52.039 --> 00:29:53.680 So I honestly I don't know, and I'm not this. This is 410 00:29:53.720 --> 00:29:59.119 not a disc This is not shade. This is genuine me being This is 411 00:29:59.200 --> 00:30:03.799 genuinely me being inquisitive. Right when you hook up with a fat guy I 412 00:30:03.960 --> 00:30:07.160 have. I don't know how it would work. I have so many questions. 413 00:30:07.359 --> 00:30:12.920 Where's the stomach go? Apparently on your back? What if he's on 414 00:30:14.039 --> 00:30:18.079 top of me? I don't know? And then like my other question is, 415 00:30:18.200 --> 00:30:22.519 right, what if my legs are not flexible enough to straddle him when 416 00:30:22.559 --> 00:30:26.240 I'm on top? You know what I mean? Well, like, and 417 00:30:26.720 --> 00:30:30.480 if you were on well, wouldn't it wouldn't the stomach be on it? 418 00:30:32.480 --> 00:30:33.519 See, this is what I'm saying. I didn't account for the stomach. 419 00:30:33.960 --> 00:30:38.519 I think that we always they always have these classes where it's like teaching women 420 00:30:38.559 --> 00:30:41.960 how to ride dick and teaching women how to suck dick. Where are the 421 00:30:42.079 --> 00:30:47.279 classes about how to have sex with fat men? Because don't think like we 422 00:30:47.559 --> 00:30:49.640 just because we're skinny, we'd be discriminating. No, like we are just 423 00:30:49.920 --> 00:30:53.359 genuinely apprehensive because we don't know what to do. Well, yeah, I've 424 00:30:53.359 --> 00:30:57.480 just never been presented with the situation. And then like what's appropriate and what's 425 00:30:57.599 --> 00:31:02.119 not appropriate? Is it okay for me to stick my finger in his belly 426 00:31:02.160 --> 00:31:03.839 button? And before you ask, I will stick my finger in the skin 427 00:31:03.960 --> 00:31:07.240 take a belly button, So it's not like a fat thing. I want 428 00:31:07.279 --> 00:31:10.839 to see how deep it is. I've never been with a fat guy. 429 00:31:10.839 --> 00:31:12.400 I want to see what's up with it, Like, I want to know. 430 00:31:12.759 --> 00:31:17.039 I never considered that it would be deeper, yes, because it's more 431 00:31:17.160 --> 00:31:19.519 stomach like. And then like, wow, you just blewing my mind. 432 00:31:19.880 --> 00:31:23.039 If I'm what a fat guy, is it okay for me to rub his 433 00:31:23.119 --> 00:31:27.119 titties squeeze his nipples? Like, because I do squeeze the fit nigga's nipples. 434 00:31:27.160 --> 00:31:30.240 They like that. The fit niggas like when you rub their nipples. 435 00:31:30.519 --> 00:31:33.880 So it's like, what a fat nigga like that? Or would he be 436 00:31:33.039 --> 00:31:37.200 you know, self conscious? Like what are the roles? Hole? It's 437 00:31:37.240 --> 00:31:41.400 teacher in this class? You're right, I really I never even considered that. 438 00:31:41.880 --> 00:31:47.000 The belly belt ones really thrown me. And then like I really do 439 00:31:47.119 --> 00:31:48.240 have so many questions. I'm not even trying to be funny, Like I've 440 00:31:48.319 --> 00:31:51.640 lived my whole life and never had sex with a fat man, So these 441 00:31:51.720 --> 00:31:53.640 things are just accumulate. Like it's like before you have regular sex, you 442 00:31:53.720 --> 00:31:57.279 have questions, right, Yeah, And so then I'm like, is it 443 00:31:57.400 --> 00:32:02.000 inappropriate for me to bring snacks? Oh? Yeah, she's trying to get 444 00:32:02.039 --> 00:32:07.440 fat. You already know, y'all already know I'm definitely trying to get fat. 445 00:32:07.519 --> 00:32:09.480 Like and then what if you like, oh, you assumed I wanted 446 00:32:09.559 --> 00:32:12.519 snacks, bitch, I'm like, no, no, no, I actually 447 00:32:12.599 --> 00:32:16.519 wanted the snacks. It was for me. It was me, Jessica, 448 00:32:19.920 --> 00:32:22.720 please feed me. Yes, So I don't know. Man, if y'all 449 00:32:22.720 --> 00:32:27.119 find some classes about, you know, being intimate with fat man, please 450 00:32:28.000 --> 00:32:31.759 send them my way. Apparently from the back they put their stomach on your 451 00:32:31.799 --> 00:32:36.640 back and it like makes you have a better arch. Oh see, that's 452 00:32:36.640 --> 00:32:38.240 too much pressure. I now, what if it makes me give me too 453 00:32:38.359 --> 00:32:42.000 much of an arch? And then like I can't what if I can't carry 454 00:32:42.039 --> 00:32:45.039 them that weight? And then what if he thinks like I can't take dick, 455 00:32:45.119 --> 00:32:46.519 but in all actuality, I can't take a stomach. And it's like 456 00:32:46.640 --> 00:32:50.880 fucking my arch up, you know what I mean? Like this is about 457 00:32:51.000 --> 00:32:52.640 you, not me. Now all of a sudden, I leave this encounter 458 00:32:52.839 --> 00:32:57.200 scoliosis, like how these are these are things that we need to talk about, 459 00:32:57.359 --> 00:33:01.640 like very valid points. But it's no contrimination. I would definitely have 460 00:33:01.720 --> 00:33:07.640 sex with the fat man. I just would need one to teach me I'm 461 00:33:07.680 --> 00:33:13.039 sure that he would. If you got a fat guy, he would definitely 462 00:33:13.200 --> 00:33:15.160 like put you on game. You probably would learn some things, honestly, 463 00:33:15.599 --> 00:33:21.720 And then like where where you meet fat guys? Also, it's like how 464 00:33:21.839 --> 00:33:24.920 fat? Because like, are we doing Dad Bob? Or are we doing 465 00:33:25.160 --> 00:33:30.559 fat? Are we doing like obese? If I'm gonna do what I'm gonna 466 00:33:30.599 --> 00:33:35.200 do it, I need fat, like thirty percent body fat or sixty exactly. 467 00:33:35.480 --> 00:33:42.400 You know, I'm gonna say anybody who is above Umbaku from Black Panther 468 00:33:42.720 --> 00:33:46.039 like Umbaku, We're up. Like that's what I want because I've never had 469 00:33:46.359 --> 00:33:52.000 anything even halfway close to umbacco. Imbaku is not really too big, but 470 00:33:52.119 --> 00:33:54.400 I feel like if I'm going past there, then I'm definitely with the fat 471 00:33:54.519 --> 00:33:58.519 niggas. And it's like, hold on, let me tap into the live. 472 00:33:58.559 --> 00:34:01.000 I haven't redad And I'm sorry, y'all, I'm sorry, don't laugh. 473 00:34:01.119 --> 00:34:08.519 I was okay, um it says not stick your finger in its belly 474 00:34:08.559 --> 00:34:13.679 button? Right. I had questions. I dated a person that lost a 475 00:34:13.719 --> 00:34:16.199 lot of weight and had a lot of extra skin and they didn't want to 476 00:34:16.239 --> 00:34:20.639 do anything about it, and that threw me for a loop. Okay, 477 00:34:21.159 --> 00:34:23.119 I feel that that would throw me for a loop too. Okay, now, 478 00:34:23.280 --> 00:34:27.280 at what point are we just being accepting of them in their bodies? 479 00:34:27.320 --> 00:34:30.639 Though? No, I know this is I don't know. I feel like 480 00:34:30.679 --> 00:34:35.280 I'd be uncomfortable if the curtains opened every single time you had a you know, 481 00:34:35.880 --> 00:34:40.400 have sex with someone. You know what I'm saying so inappropriate? Well, 482 00:34:40.440 --> 00:34:43.719 I don't think curtains would open. It would be like, um, 483 00:34:43.920 --> 00:34:45.000 it would be like a drape situation, like I would have to go to 484 00:34:45.079 --> 00:34:50.440 one side. Yeah, you know, yeah, that also makes sense. 485 00:34:50.880 --> 00:34:52.800 Okay, No, back to the fat niggas a guy. One more thing. 486 00:34:52.880 --> 00:34:55.280 This made me think of them right sometimes right when I lay down, 487 00:34:55.679 --> 00:35:00.920 sometimes my titties go on my armpit and then like you both gonna be laying 488 00:35:00.960 --> 00:35:04.559 down with titties in our armpits? Like who readjusts the titties? Do I 489 00:35:04.639 --> 00:35:07.400 readjust mine and his at the same time? Like these are questions? Is 490 00:35:07.440 --> 00:35:12.039 that inappropriate? I don't know. Also, I just feel like when you 491 00:35:12.280 --> 00:35:19.159 have more masks, your body reaches higher temperatures at a quicker rate. Oh 492 00:35:19.360 --> 00:35:23.519 yeah, so I'm assuming they're gonna be sweating in they sleep a lot. 493 00:35:27.079 --> 00:35:30.480 It depends what time of year. It is when my beneficial I'm gonna lie, 494 00:35:30.039 --> 00:35:36.199 not gonna lie. Someone saying I'm good on the nipple rubs, who 495 00:35:36.440 --> 00:35:42.159 got let me feed you? Are you fat? Honestly, respectfully, I'm 496 00:35:42.159 --> 00:35:47.079 not. I'm not trying to be funny. The shit birds one stone Um 497 00:35:47.639 --> 00:35:51.960 someone said we out here, I'm assuming that person is fat. Um. 498 00:35:52.840 --> 00:35:57.840 I mean, obviously they'd be fucking. It's a difference between a big dude, 499 00:35:58.039 --> 00:36:02.559 husky and obese. Percent of men out here are above that above unbackle, 500 00:36:04.360 --> 00:36:07.800 No, y'all are not like what no, no, because have you 501 00:36:07.880 --> 00:36:13.559 ever hooked out with like a skinny dude too? Um? So I'm not 502 00:36:13.639 --> 00:36:15.880 gonna lie, Like, if we're gonna talk about the fat guys, we 503 00:36:15.920 --> 00:36:16.960 have to talk about the skinny guys. We're gonna talk about the fat guys. 504 00:36:16.960 --> 00:36:20.960 We have talked about the skinny guys, right, but unfortunately I am 505 00:36:21.199 --> 00:36:27.480 extremely shallow. Okay, So I have not hooked up with just oh I 506 00:36:27.559 --> 00:36:30.639 hooked up with one skinny guy, like just straight skinny guy. All right? 507 00:36:30.760 --> 00:36:34.280 Yeah, how is that? Two straight skinny guys? Okay? And 508 00:36:34.480 --> 00:36:37.400 you know what I found out based on the two skinny guys, skinny niggas 509 00:36:37.440 --> 00:36:44.039 got the big dicks. I feel that. Yeah, yeah, oh why 510 00:36:44.159 --> 00:36:45.559 y'all be talking about this on the internet, But like, you know what, 511 00:36:46.440 --> 00:36:50.360 if you're throwing it back, I'm scared they're going through the wall, 512 00:36:51.119 --> 00:36:53.400 bro. And that's why I don't fuck with skinny niggas. Like if my 513 00:36:53.760 --> 00:37:01.519 if I'm bent over and my um like uh bend region is wider than you 514 00:37:01.599 --> 00:37:07.280 were hip area, We're gonna have an issue. My whole thing is skinny 515 00:37:07.320 --> 00:37:09.719 men are cool, But Bro, I ain't really trying to have you knocked 516 00:37:09.760 --> 00:37:15.400 my back wall out every time. Like, I don't know how y'all be 517 00:37:15.480 --> 00:37:17.000 putting up with this. Like, and I'm a girl who are respectfully, 518 00:37:17.159 --> 00:37:22.760 like women are always like, oh I need the two niches inches respectfully. 519 00:37:22.800 --> 00:37:25.400 I don't want the inches. I don't want my back wall knocked out every 520 00:37:25.519 --> 00:37:30.519 time. Sometimes I want to enjoy myself. Sometimes I just want to have 521 00:37:30.719 --> 00:37:35.480 fun, yep. And then it's like especially from the back, and then 522 00:37:35.519 --> 00:37:37.840 you know, like a lot of times guys were like the big big big 523 00:37:37.920 --> 00:37:42.320 johnes have had women who are just in love with the big jeans, so 524 00:37:42.360 --> 00:37:45.880 they haven't had to master moving the big johnes. Yeah, so it's like 525 00:37:46.039 --> 00:37:50.719 you just in there demo and all my walls and shit, I don't got 526 00:37:50.800 --> 00:37:52.440 time for that. You messing it up for the next man I'm gonna be 527 00:37:52.519 --> 00:37:58.440 with, Like I I don't know, I don't know. No, I 528 00:37:58.519 --> 00:38:01.800 can't do a pig like that either. This brings me so much joy because 529 00:38:01.800 --> 00:38:04.719 I thought it was just me. No, no, no, I don't 530 00:38:04.760 --> 00:38:07.079 want it, no because I want to. I want to fuck, like 531 00:38:07.119 --> 00:38:12.159 I want to have sex, so like I can't do that if you're ruining 532 00:38:13.639 --> 00:38:16.199 my space. There. Oh, this just made me feel so good, 533 00:38:16.440 --> 00:38:21.719 like it needs to be. When people are like eating up, I'm like, 534 00:38:22.199 --> 00:38:25.519 I really, I don't. I don't want it. I don't I 535 00:38:25.519 --> 00:38:30.840 don't want that. I don't want that respectfully, respectfully not to say that 536 00:38:30.920 --> 00:38:32.280 there's a problem with any of those things, well, because like you learn 537 00:38:32.400 --> 00:38:36.840 it when you have that and that's who you're like hooking up with. Like 538 00:38:37.000 --> 00:38:42.440 I did see this one guy for like six months and his was very large. 539 00:38:43.079 --> 00:38:44.880 This is a while a gay so when I was younger, but like 540 00:38:45.480 --> 00:38:52.000 you know, you like learning how to maneuver in the situation. But yeah, 541 00:38:52.039 --> 00:38:54.119 I don't want to do that forever. But I mean, like I 542 00:38:54.480 --> 00:39:00.679 can't do microscopic. I just can't also do anything bigger than like, like 543 00:39:00.840 --> 00:39:05.239 this will probably be the biggest I could deal with, like a decent sized 544 00:39:05.280 --> 00:39:07.199 water bottle. This is big though, even Yeah, this is big, 545 00:39:07.599 --> 00:39:15.320 Like I don't want a big dick, respectfully, respectfully right now. That's 546 00:39:15.400 --> 00:39:19.039 not to say that every man who has a big dick doesn't know how to 547 00:39:19.119 --> 00:39:21.639 work his big dick. I know that is not a thing. I know. 548 00:39:21.760 --> 00:39:23.840 There are plenty of men who know how to make sure a woman is 549 00:39:23.920 --> 00:39:28.360 enjoying herself and having a great experience. Yes, I just ain't met a 550 00:39:28.440 --> 00:39:32.000 lot of them. So in order to protect myself and my uterus, right, 551 00:39:32.440 --> 00:39:37.760 I usually would prefer not to Yeah, real quick back to you saying, 552 00:39:37.920 --> 00:39:44.480 like how to have a woman's experience be good too. High value men 553 00:39:44.679 --> 00:39:50.320 also fuck for the woman. I'm sorry, Yeah, like, yeah, 554 00:39:50.800 --> 00:39:53.320 you can't just be fucking for yourself. No, No, it's a wee. 555 00:39:53.880 --> 00:40:00.280 It's a wee. Like, honestly, if you're still exting women, 556 00:40:00.400 --> 00:40:04.440 did they come, you're not a high value man because or if you're not 557 00:40:04.519 --> 00:40:09.000 even asking, honestly, you shouldn't have to ask, right it should you 558 00:40:09.079 --> 00:40:13.840 should know? You should know if you still have to ask a woman did 559 00:40:13.920 --> 00:40:15.719 she come. You're not a high valuman. And don't get me wrong, 560 00:40:15.719 --> 00:40:21.039 you're not gonna know every time. But bro, if every time you are 561 00:40:21.159 --> 00:40:27.960 still asking, not a high value man um. So someone said, what's 562 00:40:28.000 --> 00:40:30.519 big? You talking length or girth or both? Okay, this is a 563 00:40:30.559 --> 00:40:37.960 good question. I am specific I am specifically talking about length. I don't 564 00:40:37.039 --> 00:40:39.760 mind girth, Like even if you have a small one in this girl, 565 00:40:40.000 --> 00:40:43.639 I will try to make something happen. Oh, I feel like you could 566 00:40:43.719 --> 00:40:46.360 make something. Yeah, but but like a skinny long deck is a scary 567 00:40:46.440 --> 00:40:52.199 thing too that I'm just long period. I feel that long period, long 568 00:40:52.280 --> 00:40:57.159 period girth is good. Someone said, y'all, if y'all scared, just 569 00:40:57.280 --> 00:41:00.880 say y'all scared. We're not scared. I've been there. I did it 570 00:41:00.239 --> 00:41:06.840 and it was trash. I like it. Someone says, does the hand 571 00:41:06.920 --> 00:41:10.599 placement on the hip mean it's too big? The hand placement on the hip 572 00:41:10.760 --> 00:41:15.199 means whose hand your hand on, like their hip or their stomach? O. 573 00:41:16.360 --> 00:41:21.920 The hand placement means you're not doing something right. Y'all aren't in sync 574 00:41:22.079 --> 00:41:24.960 at that moment, because she could put that hand there and you can readjust 575 00:41:25.079 --> 00:41:29.920 yourself and she'll have the time of her life. She might even come in 576 00:41:30.000 --> 00:41:34.000 three seconds. Yeah, I'm thinking that could be like a maneuver. That's 577 00:41:34.000 --> 00:41:37.079 like an attempt. Yeah, that's like um an olive branch. Whatever you're 578 00:41:37.079 --> 00:41:45.840 doing right now isn't working, and she's not gonna be like right there we 579 00:41:45.960 --> 00:41:49.119 go, please, thank you, thank you, and don't act like y'alln't 580 00:41:49.159 --> 00:41:52.639 see our hand there. We know y'all see our hand. We know we 581 00:41:52.840 --> 00:41:59.119 know. God hilarious. Well I thought you saw there's like water on my 582 00:41:59.280 --> 00:42:05.800 chest or sea. Shut up at ain't water. Someone said, it's not 583 00:42:05.960 --> 00:42:15.480 the size of the wine, it's the magic that's in it. But I'm 584 00:42:15.519 --> 00:42:19.760 not trying to find out what magic is in all two inch one. I'm 585 00:42:19.800 --> 00:42:22.760 sorry. You know I'm not gonna lie. I saw catch me if you 586 00:42:22.840 --> 00:42:25.679 can. I don't need to anymore magic. I just want to have a 587 00:42:25.760 --> 00:42:31.000 good time. That's it. And that's all. Okay. Um so wow 588 00:42:31.199 --> 00:42:35.000 that we just got away from everything I had on newspaper, so give me 589 00:42:35.039 --> 00:42:40.599 a second. Um oh yeah, so my next point, right, and 590 00:42:40.840 --> 00:42:45.719 ladies, a lot of y'are not gonna like this. But accountability is key, 591 00:42:45.920 --> 00:42:50.639 self reflection is key, right, Yes, major. I feel like 592 00:42:50.679 --> 00:42:54.639 we don't talk about friends who don't bring anything to the table enough, right, 593 00:42:55.360 --> 00:43:00.559 And I feel like mooching friends are a thing, right And honestly, 594 00:43:00.840 --> 00:43:06.119 what perks come with your pussy? Right? Like if I can't get into 595 00:43:06.199 --> 00:43:10.159 a club on your pussy, okay, I don't never get no special treatment 596 00:43:10.280 --> 00:43:15.440 on your pussy. Like I can't be the only COUCHI bringing benefits to this 597 00:43:15.599 --> 00:43:19.239 friendship, okay, right, Yeah, so it's like if your couchie don't 598 00:43:19.239 --> 00:43:24.199 come with a six Flags fast pass, Okay, so free drinks when we 599 00:43:24.320 --> 00:43:30.280 go out, Like I can't be the only person bringing something and benefits into 600 00:43:30.440 --> 00:43:35.039 this friendship. Yeah, I think you're I think they would fall off. 601 00:43:35.519 --> 00:43:45.320 Noh huh, Like I'm confused, right, and everybody knows exactly what I'm 602 00:43:45.320 --> 00:43:50.119 talking about. You got one friend, she always gonna bring the fine niggas. 603 00:43:50.679 --> 00:43:53.000 One friend she gonna make sure when you go out, y'all gonna get 604 00:43:53.000 --> 00:43:58.400 free drinks. One friend she gonna make sure y'all get in free to any 605 00:43:58.440 --> 00:44:01.119 club in the city. She know all the bouncers. Right. You got 606 00:44:01.239 --> 00:44:05.679 one friend, she gonna make sure y'all stay at the flyest resorts and go 607 00:44:05.760 --> 00:44:10.400 to the most exclusive events, right, and then there's that one friend usually 608 00:44:10.480 --> 00:44:19.920 that's a friend is funny though, No, I because I feel like people 609 00:44:19.960 --> 00:44:22.920 can bring value in different ways. I agree, I agree, I agree, 610 00:44:24.159 --> 00:44:31.039 but I'm gonna I'm gonna take that back because the funny friend is a 611 00:44:31.159 --> 00:44:37.800 benefit in itself, because the funny friend usually bags the niggas. The funny 612 00:44:37.880 --> 00:44:39.639 friend, she might not have a man who's interested in her, but she 613 00:44:39.679 --> 00:44:43.880 will make sure to find men come to where wherever we at. She gonna 614 00:44:43.880 --> 00:44:47.800 make sure to find men, stay around right and entertain. We do love 615 00:44:47.840 --> 00:44:52.639 a funny friend, we really do. So now we're back to this other 616 00:44:52.840 --> 00:44:59.800 friend who doesn't bring the niggas, doesn't give you like you know, it's 617 00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:06.079 elusive, like perks like what your friends is a thing like when you when 618 00:45:06.119 --> 00:45:10.039 you hear this, I want y'all to stop and think, what does what 619 00:45:10.239 --> 00:45:15.639 pussy? What perks comes with your pussy? Like that's a good question. 620 00:45:15.519 --> 00:45:22.280 Moral what perks come pussy? Um? Yeah, I like stay by myself 621 00:45:22.320 --> 00:45:28.679 a lot. So it's like I feel like I I'm like the friend that 622 00:45:29.199 --> 00:45:32.840 puts you in situations you wouldn't put yourself in, but not dangerous ones or 623 00:45:32.920 --> 00:45:37.920 scary ones. But just like you bringing experience, Yeah, that's fine, 624 00:45:37.440 --> 00:45:42.360 you're bringing something. You're still bringing something. If you are the friend who 625 00:45:42.480 --> 00:45:46.400 makes sure you have the fly trips or the good experience, the great time, 626 00:45:46.760 --> 00:45:50.280 you know exactly where to go, what to do, you know what 627 00:45:50.519 --> 00:45:52.880 not to do. We're not to go. That's still a benefit. Oh 628 00:45:52.920 --> 00:45:55.800 when you know what else is a good benefit for me is I can de 629 00:45:57.000 --> 00:46:00.960 escalate any situation. That is one of my superpowers. Me too, that 630 00:46:00.119 --> 00:46:05.920 is one of my superpowers. I am a problem solver. So if we're 631 00:46:06.039 --> 00:46:09.800 if shit starts to get rowdy, you know, there's the friend we know 632 00:46:09.880 --> 00:46:15.679 who's gonna start swinging, and then there's me. I am a de escalator, 633 00:46:15.320 --> 00:46:22.840 but only because one of my defense mechanisms is honestly humor. So I'm 634 00:46:22.880 --> 00:46:25.360 honestly just gonna make everybody laughing. Now we're no longer one to fight, 635 00:46:25.480 --> 00:46:30.039 like I've done that multiple times. Yes, and I didn't even realize I 636 00:46:30.159 --> 00:46:32.199 was that person until about four or five years ago. Like I didn't know 637 00:46:32.320 --> 00:46:36.440 that was one of my superpowers. Yeah, yes, it's important. One 638 00:46:36.880 --> 00:46:43.840 percent. Cruise Shaw very resourceful. It is because people be getting mad, 639 00:46:44.199 --> 00:46:47.239 so like you need that you need the little like fairy kind of honestly in 640 00:46:47.360 --> 00:46:51.480 the group. Also, you know what I mean, like the one that's 641 00:46:51.480 --> 00:46:54.760 gonna make sure like everyone's like having fun, but like in a good way 642 00:46:55.000 --> 00:47:00.079 and then like steering away from like just bad John's ladies. Tap in on 643 00:47:00.159 --> 00:47:05.760 a live right now and let me know what do you bring? What perks 644 00:47:05.800 --> 00:47:08.840 comes with your pussy tapping on a live right now? Um, so someone 645 00:47:09.000 --> 00:47:13.480 says, I'm getting us the free drinks. A queen, Yes, a 646 00:47:13.599 --> 00:47:15.960 queen important, you see that. And she knew her role, she knew 647 00:47:16.000 --> 00:47:19.960 what role she played, and she owned up to it, and she said, 648 00:47:20.159 --> 00:47:23.920 I'm getting us the free drinks. I'd lick storms baby here. Well, 649 00:47:24.119 --> 00:47:31.760 okay, it's giving calic vibes and you have count Now, okay, 650 00:47:32.920 --> 00:47:38.239 we're outside. Um, what if that's the friend that's there in case ish 651 00:47:38.320 --> 00:47:44.159 pop off? Listen, that means you're still bringing something. You're the enforced 652 00:47:44.199 --> 00:47:47.559 So long as you're not the friend that is there in case shit pops off, 653 00:47:47.599 --> 00:47:52.039 but you're also the friend that makes shit pop off. Don't be problematic. 654 00:47:52.519 --> 00:47:55.559 As long as you're not the friend who's telling honestly, that's all, 655 00:47:57.119 --> 00:48:00.559 that's all that matters. Here, all group of friends should definitely have roles 656 00:48:00.639 --> 00:48:05.719 and understand them and understand their role in their group. I agree, like 657 00:48:05.840 --> 00:48:08.519 that was a way better way to say that all friend groups should have roles. 658 00:48:08.719 --> 00:48:13.280 You have to know what role you play in your particular friend group. 659 00:48:13.599 --> 00:48:16.360 Yeah, and you gotta play on his strength. And if I can't benefit 660 00:48:16.599 --> 00:48:22.039 from anything from you, it's not gonna work because what perks does your pussy 661 00:48:22.079 --> 00:48:24.199 come with? Like, that's what it comes down to for me. You're 662 00:48:24.280 --> 00:48:30.840 done. I'm the protector and the driver. Oh the drivers, I can 663 00:48:30.920 --> 00:48:34.239 relate to that. Okay, but do you be driving sober? And because 664 00:48:34.719 --> 00:48:37.960 some people will say that a driver and still get just as late as you 665 00:48:37.119 --> 00:48:39.920 and telling you yank them all take most shots, bitch, I thought you 666 00:48:40.039 --> 00:48:46.559 was driving right, told one. So do y'all discuss y'all roles before y'all 667 00:48:46.599 --> 00:48:50.159 go out? No? Because I think if y'all are real friends, you 668 00:48:50.239 --> 00:48:52.119 already know this is like the high value man like y'all gotta say it. 669 00:48:52.440 --> 00:48:57.239 We're just now. Yeah, yeah, and everyone has like their time to 670 00:48:57.320 --> 00:49:00.320 shine. I feel like too. Yes, Yes, ladies got the rule. 671 00:49:00.440 --> 00:49:07.039 We come together, we leave together, Okay, right, I'm leaving 672 00:49:07.119 --> 00:49:10.960 by myself. I'm out now. I'm not telling anybody. I feel like 673 00:49:12.199 --> 00:49:16.920 the older you get, the more we came together, we leaving together no 674 00:49:17.119 --> 00:49:21.800 longer applies. And I'm not talking about you in a foreign country or something 675 00:49:21.880 --> 00:49:23.480 like that. I'm talking about it was just like casual, you know, 676 00:49:23.679 --> 00:49:28.079 hang out between you and your girls, a spot that you frequently before. 677 00:49:28.360 --> 00:49:31.039 Right. I feel like the older you get, that rule no longer applies 678 00:49:31.159 --> 00:49:37.239 because somebody got a disappointment set up, somebody going to the gym in the 679 00:49:37.320 --> 00:49:43.000 morning, somebody got to work in the morning. Like unfortunately, it's not 680 00:49:43.679 --> 00:49:46.199 easy for us all to leave at the same times anymore. I get it 681 00:49:46.320 --> 00:49:51.280 though, of like, okay, you gotta walk somebody out like there. 682 00:49:51.719 --> 00:49:53.719 I get that, Like you leave together, like okay, if someone's leaving 683 00:49:53.800 --> 00:49:58.280 by themselves, like maybe someone walks into their car and then they both get 684 00:49:58.320 --> 00:50:01.000 in the car and then they get dropped back off things like that. But 685 00:50:01.159 --> 00:50:05.800 I'm with you. I don't think that you need to leave come together, 686 00:50:06.199 --> 00:50:09.039 leave together type of Yeah, like if we came together, we leave together. 687 00:50:09.280 --> 00:50:13.440 The older you get, the more that no longer applies. Yeah, 688 00:50:14.079 --> 00:50:16.920 um, so would you like to get into some edibles? Oh, I'm 689 00:50:16.920 --> 00:50:24.119 always in edibles, all right, are we talking? The edible version of 690 00:50:24.199 --> 00:50:30.000 the show is when we re in questions that people say, God, I 691 00:50:30.119 --> 00:50:37.519 knew that, God le goddamn are we having mushrooms? Jesus so um. 692 00:50:37.719 --> 00:50:44.079 The first question, would you give your partner a Hall Pass four times a 693 00:50:44.199 --> 00:50:50.599 year? Me? Desinitely, Yeah, I would four times. I'm like, 694 00:50:50.719 --> 00:50:55.400 not monogamous though, Okay, we're talking about in a in a monogamous 695 00:50:55.480 --> 00:50:59.960 relationship, would you give your partner a Hall pass four times a year? 696 00:51:00.360 --> 00:51:08.199 Quarterly? Yeah, seasonally? Yeah? Maybe that's crazy to me. Why 697 00:51:08.280 --> 00:51:14.320 do you need if we're in a monogamous relationship, why do you need quarterly? 698 00:51:14.400 --> 00:51:15.960 New Kuchi? Is it like a neater? Is it a one? 699 00:51:16.480 --> 00:51:21.400 Well, they just said a whole pass, so I think it needs to 700 00:51:21.480 --> 00:51:24.519 be discussed because my whole thing is like it's gonna be like spring. You're 701 00:51:24.559 --> 00:51:27.639 like, oh, yeah, I want that bitch for the fall her right 702 00:51:27.679 --> 00:51:30.440 here. I'm gonna keep her, keep her around so I can have her 703 00:51:30.840 --> 00:51:34.920 ride and sweat a weather. Yeah, she's gonna look real nice. Yeah, 704 00:51:34.960 --> 00:51:37.119 she's gonna look real name. Like, Now I got a problem. 705 00:51:37.320 --> 00:51:40.679 You're planting on bitches for winch or time, Like, I don't like it. 706 00:51:42.760 --> 00:51:45.119 I'm not against the whole pass, but I think four times a year 707 00:51:45.199 --> 00:51:49.840 is a lot. Oh yeah, I can see that. What's appropriate number 708 00:51:49.840 --> 00:51:52.760 for you? If it was a monogamous relationship, I would just be like, 709 00:51:53.079 --> 00:51:55.000 you know, you have to feel it out. I don't see I 710 00:51:55.039 --> 00:52:00.639 don't see someone coming to me more than like two or three times. If 711 00:52:00.679 --> 00:52:02.280 that's like not what we're built on. You know, if we're built on 712 00:52:02.400 --> 00:52:07.679 it's me and you don't come to me more than two times. There was 713 00:52:07.719 --> 00:52:14.679 this amazing there's this amazing allure of the hall pass for men. Right, 714 00:52:15.039 --> 00:52:17.039 So when you ask, what, I give my partner a Hall pass four 715 00:52:17.079 --> 00:52:21.880 times a year, does he honestly want me to have a Hall pass four 716 00:52:21.920 --> 00:52:23.840 times a year? That's another question. I mean I probably wouldn't want to 717 00:52:23.880 --> 00:52:28.920 have all. Like I think if I really got with someone and like that 718 00:52:29.039 --> 00:52:31.519 was my person, I don't really know that I would be that drawn to 719 00:52:31.599 --> 00:52:36.119 anybody else. And then that's another thing. If you're really my person and 720 00:52:36.239 --> 00:52:39.320 I love you enough to give you a Hall Pass, at that point, 721 00:52:39.400 --> 00:52:45.639 I feel like unless we've been in like twenty years or like some ridiculously long 722 00:52:45.760 --> 00:52:46.800 time, I don't think I will want one, you know what I mean? 723 00:52:46.920 --> 00:52:50.079 Like, if it's something okay, you know what, I take this 724 00:52:50.199 --> 00:52:52.840 back. I take this back. If it's a specific person. No, 725 00:52:53.280 --> 00:52:57.719 if it's something going on where like maybe I'm going through menopause or like maybe 726 00:52:57.719 --> 00:52:59.760 like I don't get wet. No, more like maybe I got something going 727 00:52:59.800 --> 00:53:02.679 on right, then I might outsource the pussy. Yeah, yeah exactly, 728 00:53:02.760 --> 00:53:06.360 like yeah, there's your resources. Yeah yeah, yeah, I feel that 729 00:53:06.639 --> 00:53:09.000 for sure. That's like a thing too, because people don't have the same 730 00:53:09.039 --> 00:53:12.280 sex drives, and then they'd be like, you know, you got a 731 00:53:12.360 --> 00:53:14.719 man that wants to fuck every day, and then you got a woman who 732 00:53:14.880 --> 00:53:17.480 is, like, you know, has thyroid problems and she can't. Yes, 733 00:53:17.760 --> 00:53:21.159 it's like, well, I don't know what you do in that situation. 734 00:53:21.559 --> 00:53:22.679 I don't know, y'all. Tap in, let me know, would 735 00:53:22.679 --> 00:53:30.719 you do it or not? Next, I thought this was interesting because this 736 00:53:30.920 --> 00:53:36.239 person says, if a female shows you a pick of her vagina, excuse 737 00:53:36.320 --> 00:53:38.039 me, If a female shows a pick of her vagina to a guy, 738 00:53:38.239 --> 00:53:44.320 does that mean she wants to fuck him or she's just flirting. I honestly 739 00:53:44.800 --> 00:53:49.760 read that and said, bro, you just got friend zone, like because 740 00:53:50.039 --> 00:53:53.400 if I send you a picture like does this look weird to you? Or 741 00:53:53.480 --> 00:53:59.840 if I send you a picture like he really messed my wax up this time? 742 00:54:00.400 --> 00:54:05.280 Like you know what I mean, I'm not sending a If you're getting 743 00:54:05.320 --> 00:54:07.440 a pussy pick, like, it's because that's what type of time we're on. 744 00:54:07.840 --> 00:54:12.000 I don't think so. I don't think so. If you have to 745 00:54:12.119 --> 00:54:15.440 question if she wants to fuck you or if she's just being nice, I 746 00:54:15.519 --> 00:54:21.079 think you just got friend zoned. Wait, so people are sending pussy picks 747 00:54:21.239 --> 00:54:22.559 just to be like, hey, look at my wax. You know, 748 00:54:22.920 --> 00:54:27.000 I think I think I think the couccie pick is a little wild. I 749 00:54:27.079 --> 00:54:29.480 think it is a little extreme, right, because I don't think people are 750 00:54:29.599 --> 00:54:37.039 randomly sitting couccie picks, right, but say, like m lingerie titties just 751 00:54:37.199 --> 00:54:44.320 inappropriate pictures. Sometimes that is women's way of friends zoning you, Like really, 752 00:54:44.639 --> 00:54:47.280 you see, I'm using that kind of stuff to I would hope bag 753 00:54:49.599 --> 00:54:53.239 whatever. I'm like, if if you don't like me after you see me 754 00:54:53.320 --> 00:54:57.719 in lingerie, like you just don't happen. But it ain't gonna happen. 755 00:54:57.760 --> 00:55:01.000 It that's wild. Hold on, I'm about to read some stuff from the 756 00:55:01.280 --> 00:55:07.760 live it says, wait, read it again, right, that's what I'm 757 00:55:07.880 --> 00:55:12.920 fucking saying. I'm like, I'm confused. Someone says it's a cash app 758 00:55:13.039 --> 00:55:15.920 trap. Now that is the most honest answer I've heard so far. It's 759 00:55:15.960 --> 00:55:22.280 a cash ap trap. I agree. Oh, that's going back to the 760 00:55:22.440 --> 00:55:27.039 whole past thing. Okay, women don't send vagina picks two dudes. They 761 00:55:27.119 --> 00:55:30.840 aren't interested in fucking. That's how I feel. And then you know what 762 00:55:30.920 --> 00:55:35.920 else, I will have a question about what we say vagina. We're talking 763 00:55:36.000 --> 00:55:37.440 full lips and that's what I was thinking too, Like is it from the 764 00:55:37.519 --> 00:55:43.039 top or am I spreading and like coming from the bottom? Yeah, if 765 00:55:43.079 --> 00:55:45.119 my lips are spread, then yeah, Okay, I get that. But 766 00:55:45.920 --> 00:55:52.559 sometimes women do say inappropriate pictures just the friends on you. I don't know 767 00:55:52.639 --> 00:55:57.880 who these women are. Have you done that? No? Not me. 768 00:55:59.000 --> 00:56:05.760 I just started taking nudes again, right, And the problem is they so 769 00:56:06.119 --> 00:56:09.480 fire? Right, I told needs today, I've no one to send them 770 00:56:09.559 --> 00:56:12.719 too. I was sending them to my best friend, Like, bro, 771 00:56:13.400 --> 00:56:17.360 yo, nudes so fire and you don't have no one to send them to, 772 00:56:17.679 --> 00:56:22.199 So now you just put them in the group chat like y'all, like 773 00:56:22.400 --> 00:56:27.239 I really that's really me. Look what I'm made. Look what I'm like 774 00:56:27.360 --> 00:56:30.800 sending nudes to your mom, Like we really did that, like we snap, 775 00:56:30.320 --> 00:56:37.519 you snap say, like collab on a hundred thousand bro, like especially 776 00:56:37.960 --> 00:56:39.320 you know, because we've both been in the gym and like working on the 777 00:56:39.639 --> 00:56:44.079 stuff like that, Like when you start to see the changes, Oh my 778 00:56:44.159 --> 00:56:46.239 god, I'm not gonna lie. I went out and like some new underwear. 779 00:56:46.559 --> 00:56:50.119 Yes. I was like, oh no, this is a special location. 780 00:56:50.239 --> 00:56:52.760 Yeah, you're gonna cry. Because when I was getting ready to come 781 00:56:52.840 --> 00:56:55.519 here, I like put on one pair of underwear and they were like giving 782 00:56:55.599 --> 00:57:00.559 men, like these are like not my best underwear. And I literally was 783 00:57:00.599 --> 00:57:04.000 like no, babe, like these are not high value women underwear. Come 784 00:57:04.800 --> 00:57:08.280 on, somebody come home changed. Thank you, you know, thank you. 785 00:57:08.800 --> 00:57:14.239 I feel special now Mordan changed that underwear from me. Amen. Amen. 786 00:57:14.719 --> 00:57:16.840 I feel that though you should buy new things, like new bikinis. 787 00:57:16.920 --> 00:57:21.920 Ah, like you're putting in the time, you might as well. It's 788 00:57:21.960 --> 00:57:24.320 so crazy though, because I'll be thinking, like I wonder if my friend's 789 00:57:24.360 --> 00:57:28.280 like here, if you go pussy again, Like I'll be thinking like, 790 00:57:28.480 --> 00:57:42.280 yes, here I and here and did that shit is Wait, so the 791 00:57:42.440 --> 00:57:45.800 lives says, um, wait, so women be group chat and they pussy. 792 00:57:45.920 --> 00:57:49.920 That's a real thing. Yes, yes, we do not are like 793 00:57:50.119 --> 00:57:53.440 Labia, but like that cute bra and underwear set that we just got, 794 00:57:53.599 --> 00:57:57.960 or like maybe not, maybe we just got out of the shower and we've 795 00:57:58.000 --> 00:58:00.920 really been out here in the gym. Man, we just looked like that, 796 00:58:00.159 --> 00:58:07.119 like shit and not even that like. So sometimes girls will take fire 797 00:58:07.320 --> 00:58:10.639 nudes and then send them to the friends such a confirm that they're fire, 798 00:58:10.840 --> 00:58:14.679 or be like which one before I send them to the guy? Yes, 799 00:58:15.280 --> 00:58:17.159 yes, I would be like which one you like these X, Y and 800 00:58:17.280 --> 00:58:22.000 Z D school before I send them to the guy, Which is very dumb, 801 00:58:22.239 --> 00:58:28.119 because what we like and what men like aren't to say, that's very 802 00:58:28.199 --> 00:58:30.000 true. I never thought of that. Yeah, you know, you just 803 00:58:30.480 --> 00:58:35.880 just you need to get a general consensus. Though sometimes someone saying add me 804 00:58:35.960 --> 00:58:44.440 to the chat postuls don't get fat, I respect the respected. Uh what 805 00:58:44.960 --> 00:58:50.599 would you do somebody from one of your shoes? Um, I don't I 806 00:58:50.639 --> 00:58:52.519 don't think so, I don't know, I don't think so what's that even 807 00:58:52.639 --> 00:59:00.519 mean? I don't know? So who is in this group? None of 808 00:59:00.559 --> 00:59:04.599 your business while you learn something new every day. Listen, see you ain't 809 00:59:04.639 --> 00:59:07.679 know that. Now that's a real thing. It is a real thing. 810 00:59:07.880 --> 00:59:12.280 And I feel like technically I told you all about this, So y'all need 811 00:59:12.320 --> 00:59:15.199 to teach me about how to fuck fatman. So you're welcome, thank you. 812 00:59:15.880 --> 00:59:21.800 All right, y'all, listen, don't forget Philly March tenth Chocolate Ship 813 00:59:21.840 --> 00:59:24.199 and sip. It's coming to you at World Cafe Live we barker again. 814 00:59:24.639 --> 00:59:29.480 Okay. We want to see you there. We got a live BDSM demonstration, 815 00:59:29.760 --> 00:59:31.719 we got giveaways, and we got something special for the love us. 816 00:59:31.800 --> 00:59:35.320 Okay, so click the link in my bio and get your tickets now, 817 00:59:35.440 --> 00:59:37.800 or you can go to stormyp dot com. It's gonna be crazy. Okay. 818 00:59:38.320 --> 00:59:42.400 Please don't wait till last minute because it will be sold out and I 819 00:59:42.480 --> 00:59:44.880 will not feel sorry for you. All right, So click the link in 820 00:59:44.920 --> 00:59:47.119 my bio or go to stormyp dot com and get your tickets now. Okay. 821 00:59:49.400 --> 00:59:52.719 Also, Maura, yes, talk to me about Fairy Guard mindset. 822 00:59:54.280 --> 00:59:58.519 Um. There's a lot to say, but it's basically just you know, 823 00:59:59.119 --> 01:00:01.880 you start to get clear on the things that you want for your life and 824 01:00:02.039 --> 01:00:06.320 then you want those things because you could have them. That's how I feel. 825 01:00:06.519 --> 01:00:10.960 Oh shit, So I don't know. So it's just about like, 826 01:00:12.159 --> 01:00:15.000 you know, going after what you want, getting clear on what you want, 827 01:00:15.039 --> 01:00:17.440 and then like realizing like you want that because you could have it, 828 01:00:17.639 --> 01:00:23.920 and then starting to like become the person that would be there. So it's 829 01:00:23.960 --> 01:00:30.519 like being kind, loving on each other, working on your reactions. Don't 830 01:00:30.559 --> 01:00:32.920 be reacting to people, stop giving your power away. So all that. 831 01:00:34.360 --> 01:00:40.039 Oh my god, I just remembered Nemo. Okay, I've got March tenth 832 01:00:40.599 --> 01:00:44.880 Chocolate Ship and sip. It's coming to you ed World Cafe Live. And 833 01:00:45.199 --> 01:00:47.159 if you haven't gotten your tickets already, don't even worry about that. 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All right, the turner said, f that promo 843 01:01:25.159 --> 01:01:29.480 code because they always seem to get their tickets before I dropped the promo code, 844 01:01:29.519 --> 01:01:34.880 So sorry about that. Sorry about that, big um listen, I 845 01:01:35.000 --> 01:01:37.599 feel like back to the Ferry of Garden Mindset. I feel like you didn't 846 01:01:37.599 --> 01:01:39.400 also say that it is a bomb ass clothing line. Oh yeah, it's 847 01:01:39.400 --> 01:01:43.159 a clothing line. So it's really just like I have a podcast that I 848 01:01:43.199 --> 01:01:47.760 haven't put out in a while. But it's just like being mindful and intentional 849 01:01:47.920 --> 01:01:52.960 about what you're listening to, what you're reading, what you're wearing, and 850 01:01:53.159 --> 01:01:58.519 just so it's just messages that you know, what would love to do? 851 01:01:58.679 --> 01:02:00.039 Is the one I just put out. That one's my favorite, and there's 852 01:02:00.079 --> 01:02:06.199 like, uh, I love me because I you know, Valentine's Day, 853 01:02:06.239 --> 01:02:09.039 I was like, oh, live my Valentine, and I'm like, it 854 01:02:09.280 --> 01:02:14.400 me, it me, So we're gonna people find you it more. Um. 855 01:02:14.599 --> 01:02:21.039 I am on Instagram at marb XO or Fairy Guarden Mindset or you can 856 01:02:21.119 --> 01:02:23.639 watch me try and shut the ship down. On the Love and then what 857 01:02:23.800 --> 01:02:30.960 podcast? I mean, Justin Yin and Yang, Justin boom leave it. 858 01:02:31.360 --> 01:02:35.159 Yeah, he's gone, He's in LA. Do you have another now? 859 01:02:36.119 --> 01:02:37.119 Okay, shout out to Justin, Shout out to my man, mister, 860 01:02:37.199 --> 01:02:40.840 everybody, mister everybody, yep. Shout out to my girl Ash, Yes 861 01:02:42.039 --> 01:02:45.880 and Ash of course. Um listen, man, my message is always gonna 862 01:02:45.880 --> 01:02:47.320 be the same. Follow me on the Graham, at Stormy, pp A, 863 01:02:47.599 --> 01:02:52.639 at chocolate Chip and sip and if you don't remember anything else, please 864 01:02:52.719 --> 01:02:55.840 remember high value men have a PCP. I love you guys on a sei 865 01:02:57.320 --> 01:03:05.960 piece. H fucking