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What's up everybody? Hey, Hey, Hey, Hi, Stephanie. Hi,

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I'm back. It's been so long. It's been too long. I

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know, I feel like it's been
forever. How dare you be gone for

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two weeks? Seems has it been
two weeks? Yeah? Well last week

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we had Julie and you haven't you? I haven't seen you since the whole

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week before, Right, that's crazy. I know, it feels like it's

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been forever. I mean, I
feel like I've done a million things since

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i've been you know, I know
so much in God, and your life

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has changed. Yeah, a lot
of a lot of things. Let should

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we say hi to our people and
then get to it all? Right?

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Okay, We've got Dick Frolicker,
Rachel Beach Comber, Kelly Ladi Da Lauren's

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get his gold, Katie rolls on
E Aaron who it is? And Ho?

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Aaron is in my new writing group
that starts tomorrow. Really so I'll

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be seeing her every week? Yeah? Nice, Nicky, call your girl.

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Leslie? Was she and Cabo accosting
people? She was? I believe

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she could have been at the airport. Yeah, I'm at that Cabo airport

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and the other Leslie couldn't go to
Cabo because she was coughing too much.

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Jacob is so grappley. Rita's got
a face like a beautiful basset hound,

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which is so sweet. And Elizabeth
Williamson has many many kids. Athena Ginshirt

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is a great dancer. Yeah,
miss your dancing, send us a video,

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Polly, we love your pancakes.
Valerie hits it out of the park.

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Katerina just had oral surgery, so
she's good for her. Ye.

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Gabby and Missy were they also at
the airport. They were they were,

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you know, they were trying to
sneak onto the airplane. I'm busted by

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t t s A. Oh my
god, girls, Sean Vajpe, Kelly

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Brandt is you know you got you
got the story, Alicia as Galante.

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Stephanie is giving her shout out to
the Trevor Project and Pride. We love

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you, stephan The Trevor Project is
an amazing charity that helps the lgbt Q

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community. It's very very important.
They are there for any of our uh

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trans or all lgbt youth. You
know what I'm saying. They have hotlines,

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they do a lot of great things. Thank you stuff, Thank you

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step Sarah Stefano, She's our Paisano. Aaron is a dirty Sanchez, Jennifer,

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get up girl, Sandra. It's
not easy being green and christa buddy.

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Okay, so who tell us?
Tell us everything? Airything? So

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yeah, basically, let me think
the kids graduated high school. Graduation was

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on June sixth, and then on
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my sister in law, Wendy came
like a week before graduation to stay with

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me. And also she's good about, you know, helping me like decorate

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with the new house, like dial
things in and get the right you know,

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carpets here and there. Like she
totally like we got a lot done.

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When a lot of target runs throughout
the week, got a bunch of

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stuff, plants, stuff like that. And then her I need that.

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Oh it was great, Oh it
was awesome. The best thing she did

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for me was she I when I
go to her place in Chicago, she

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has this I robot, you know, vacuum thing, the roomba, right,

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yeah, and she's like hers would
go off at the same time every

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morning. She's like, you got
to get yourself when it's especially with Phil

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It's a great investment with those light
hardwood floors. So I got it and

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she helped me program it. There's
an app on my phone and it maps

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out the whole place and then you
can set it to go off early in

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the morning, which I do,
and then I wake up and the house

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is like vacuumed and the thing doesn't
get I need that. Oh it's the

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best. It's the best. You
know, all get some like knockoff brand

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though right now, Like yeah,
and you'll be like, this thing doesn't

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work. So can it get around? Like if it's let's say it's in

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your dining room, yeah, there's
chairs and the like. Can it get

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around? Yes, Because what you
do is it does a mapping to get

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to know the place. So it
just kind of maps itself out and itself

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empties. Is it gonna like start
inviting people over and stuff like like,

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well, you don't go anywhere and
have other robots over, starts making like

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calls friends AI friends exactly friends with
other vacuums in the paperhood. Suddenly you

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come home there's like four meeting in
your living room talking shit about my house.

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Man, I got a lot of
work to do in this house,

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Like you guys are just chilling.
This bitch has got a dog that sheds

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so much hate. Yeah, I'm
not getting paid enough to do this house.

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Everybody, they're all exchanging notes,
comparing, showing each other their video

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of the day, because it takes
like a video, I think, oh

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no, yeah, sending it out
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used to have this friend. Uh
you know how we both have our our

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Grace's mom. Yes, my Gracie's
mom was like a super OCD neat freak.

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While she gave me her housekeeper,
Like this was many years ago.

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I haven't had a housekeeper in years, but when I did, oh my

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god. She would get the same
amount of money to clean my friend's house

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who was never dirty, Like her
house was immaculate, she had one kid,

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and like there's never anything out of
place. And I was always like,

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what does she do when she comes
over? And she's like, I

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know, it's crazy, Like I
clean my own house. Meanwhile, my

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house was always crazy and a mess, and I always just felt like she

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must be like griping to her friends
just like this is such bullshit, Like

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I get the same amount for this
woman's house is a mess, right,

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Always, I walk into a disaster, you know, because she was my

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housekeeper when I had the twins were
really young. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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I always felt bad. I'm sure
when COVID happened, she just stopped

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calling, right and I paid her
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and then I was like, well, I can't afford to be paying a

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housekeeper. It's not here and she
never like. I eventually texted her and

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I was like, hey, how
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to come back? Never never heard? She goes to me why, And

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I was kind of like, I
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she's got that one house, but then

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she ainn't have to do much exactly
exactly. Yeah, So anyway, okay,

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I digress. So anyways, Yeah, so Wendy helped me a lot

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with getting the house. So we
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her oldest daughter, Jackie, lives
out here, so she came and hung

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out like a few days too,
and it was so nice having them having

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family, you know. The week
of graduation, I mean it's graduation week,

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it's it's birthday week, it's you
know, and just moved into this

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new house, like it was so
nice to have family there and that the

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kids loved it. The kids would, you know, instead of going to

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their rooms and hanging out with their
friends, they would come home and want

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to see everybody and like eat dinner
with us, and so it was really

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nice and then gradual relation was great. It was beautiful. It was a

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nice night. And was it so
long? Ours was so long? It

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was an I know, everybody was
like Suzanne. Everybody was like three hours.

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No, ours was an hour and
a half. That's it. That's

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it. They said it was going
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an hour and twenty five minutes.
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Now, I feel like they go
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my deal they did was they had
a few, they had a bunch of

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speeches, but they kept him to
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maybe, yeah, and then and
then they just went right in to call

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him the names. And do they
have anybody like famous come in and give

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a no. I feel like we
had you damns, but like I don't

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know, like representative No, but
some like city represent you know, oh,

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okay, government person. Well I
don't know, but it was the

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principal's last year, so he gave
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speech and he was like in the
like, Sonny and Italia were in the

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front row, and so they were
sitting, so Sonny and Natalia were in

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on opposite sides but not next to
each other, so that they would they

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would come up together, you know
kind of thing. So they did Sonny's

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names for Santino Richard Corolla and then
they did Natalia Natalie Ava Corolla. I

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was like wow. I was like, really, you couldn't have gotten.

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Natalia was like they got it right
at rehearsal, like what the fuck?

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I know that sucks. It does
suck, but it was fun. Olga

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was there, Jody was there,
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other schools came. Oh, yeah, it was really nice and yeah,

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and then we went to uh we
went to a restaurant after Mexican restaurant and

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they and I didn't like, I
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know, like I don't know,
seven thirty and we I didn't count on

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the fact that after graduation they're all
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Even though everybody is going off to
dinners with their family, right,

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But then no, they didn't want
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gotta go get our reservation, but
they were still like I couldn't find them.

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They were off with and they're like, we'll meet you at the restaurant.

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That's when I broke my foot,
by the way, I remember.

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I remember right after walking out to
try to find LB to meet up with

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her, when they all come out
onto the windor and yeah, and that's

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when I broke my foot. So
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yeah and find her and then let
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like, Okay, I gotta go, I think my foot's broken. I

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had to be like, no,
no, no, I'm go spend time

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with your friends, go take pictures. And you were in pain. Oh

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yeah, her so bad? Oh
my god. Not as much pain as

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the next morning when I woke up
and couldn't walk on it. I was

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still able to, like I was
still hobbling around, you know, and

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John kept going, are you sure
you're okay? And I'm like totally,

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I just can't like fully put weight
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getting around. Yeah, but then
we went home right right now, I

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remember you telling me. I remember
I thought about that. Yeah, And

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so we went to the restaurant and
so you did finally well then finally like

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so we're all sitting there ready to
order. Everybody's hungry. And then and

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then who got there for Oh,
Natalia was there and then she was like

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wanting to eat with She came with
her friend wanting to eat and then get

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going because there was a party afterwards. But then Sonny wasn't there yet,

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and Sonny's like, I'm with my
friend Andre trying to get his diploma because

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he didn't pay his library. Fine. Ah, it's like okay, but

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like your family's waiting, like let's
go, and uh he didn't. He

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didn't drive, he had he went
with his friends. So then I was

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like are you how are you getting
to the restaurant And then anyway, his

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friend dropped him off at his car
and then then drove. So so Natali

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was done eating by the time Sonny
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then I got them a birthday cakes, each of them their own cakes,

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and they didn't they didn't want and
I was like, actually, tomorrow's their

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birthday. Let's sell it. Let's
do the birthday cake tomorrow, because they're

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too like they're two, going,
like they want to eat and they want

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to go. They want to go
see their friends, right, So we

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did that, and then then the
next day I got like, uh,

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I don't know, sixty balloons and
like brought it inside the house before they

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woke up, and Wendy and I
put the balloons everywhere and they woke up,

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and then uh, then we did
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morning. In the morning and then
they were like, okay, well do

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you want any cake? And they're
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was off doing something with his friends, and she left to go to see

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her dad in Malibu. And then
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next day we left to go to
Cabo. Okay mm hmm. It was

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a mother daughter trip. God is
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so wait, so where was Aunt
Wendy. Well, then she left

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to go to her sister's house who
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that she was going to leave the
day I came back from Cabo. It

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was a short trip. It was
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a mother daughter trip with three other
girls and their moms. And you know,

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I've been on one vacation with one
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only met the other two moms once
at dinner. Oh wow, yeah,

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so I didn't know that. So
there were four moms, there were four

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miles and four girls. And the
one mom that planned it, she had

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everything, like she's gone to Combo
so many times, you know, with

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their family, Like she knew where
to go, where to stay, she

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got a great place. Like it
was a four bedroom like sweet thing.

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And but there's it's a four bedroom, right, so was it? Yeah,

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all the moms had to share a
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was gonna be the So there was
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beds and that was where the girls
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to sleep with their other But then
there was a three Then there was three

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other bedrooms but four moms. Oh, and I was like, I ain't

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sleeping with another mom And luckily two
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any of the other rooms. No, And then the other rooms were just

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single you know beds so I was
like, and I knew going in,

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like yeah, you know, unless
you want to sleep with another mom,

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you're and I'll have to be like
mother daughters sleep. But then then there's

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that one room with the two beds, like I don't know. So then

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once we got there, two of
the moms were like, we can sleep

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together. You know, they know
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they're like god like that. Yeah, they were like and I was like,

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oh, thank God, like because
I ain't not I don't sharing a

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room with another mom. Oh he'll
know. So anyway, it was a

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it was a great and then you
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like tonight we'll go to dinner here, and then tomorrow we can go to

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lunch here, and then you know, like everything was like she just planned

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it all and we just all.
I feel like for somebody else that might

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be like, well hold on a
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great, great, I don't know
like what time to get up and where

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to go, and I'm there.
That's all I had to do. And

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it was awesome. You know,
I don't want to get out map quest

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or the local I don't want to
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she knew it, she got it. She knows everything, and that's it.

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And it was fun and and we
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like we had dinners and lunches and
stuff like that. And then it was

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a lot of just sitting by the
pool or going to the beach. And

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then one night they did a booze
cruise, which I've never done before.

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And I remember your story about a
booze cruise. Horrifying. Yeah, bad,

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really bad. Was there a cock
fight? No, there was no,

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no, no, But uh,
what on what planet would it be

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relaxing and enjoyable to watch cocks fight? I know on a boat? Yeah?

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No, this was not like our
culture, right what? No?

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And you have to remember that that
was like the straw that broke the Campbell's

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back, Like that was a build
up. It was already horrible, and

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then it was like it culminated with
gather around and watch these chickens fight,

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right, and you're and you're stuck
on this boat. Oh yeah, and

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the music's loud, and the music
was loud, and people are drunk and

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people were drunk. Yes, yeah, but I mean it kind of would

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it try to make you play games
pretty fast? No, I don't.

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They did, like well they I
mean the DJ was doing his thing,

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you know, like you know,
sing along and like doing a lot of

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singalongs and stuff like that. And
it's a lot of music that I don't

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like. Like I'm like, do
you got any like Bruce Springsteen or do

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you have any I don't know,
seventies, Like let's do a yacht rock

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like come on anything like right,
you know they're doing like for the Window

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to the Wall, right, sweat
drip down my ball? Yeah? What

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is that song? I've heard that
song so many times on that trip,

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like something about let the sweat drip
down my balls and just like, oh

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my god, I don't know.
I guess I'm getting old. You're like,

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I know it's cobo and I know
it's warm, but this is not

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the vibe now I was looking for. No, how about some Steely Dan.

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Yeah, I would have loved that. Oh my god, I mean

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Lido, Yeah, yes, that's
a boss gags. Yeah yeah, I

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didn't mean yeah that it was actually
Steely Dan, but that's that's the vibe,

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right, yeah, little holler oates, Yeah, it would have been

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nice. But and then the moms
on the van ride home, they were

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like, oh, the Booskers was
so fun, and one of them goes,

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yeah, the music was great,
and I was like, what,

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really, I didn't know one song. The only song I knew was gold

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Digger that song. And then uh
oh oh baby got back. They played

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that, of course they did.
I was like, did they got any

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b C Boys something something that I
know of, Snoop Dog, ice Cube

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more Bounced to the Ounce something.
No, No, it's all this like,

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well, if we were DJing,
you know, we would have played

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much better music. Yes, we
would have, but it was more like,

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come with our playlist. Yeah,
it was uh, what was that

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that? There's that song to come
with our Shannon boom boom boom bomp.

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It's like it's it's in Spanish,
you know that song? So you don't

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even know that song? Only is
that the song no Despuscito? Yeah?

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And then yeah her Justin Bieber does. Yeah, I'm sure they played that.

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Yeah, of course they did.
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it all in all, and then
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Then we got back and then Wendy
was still in town. So I went

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and saw her and then that was
that's it. And then it's been just

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like you know, Natalia's going to
Spain with with her got invited to go

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with her family, and that's crazy. Yeah, your kids get invited to

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the best stuff. The best was
like when it last year and the year

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before or whatever, when Sonny was
like, Okay, I might be going

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to Egypt. Oh yeah, yeah
that never worked out. Oh yeah I

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didn't. No, he did go
somewhere though, with that family, right,

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No, he never did family.
No, he went to Japan with

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the school, okay, and he's
going to Japan and he's going to Japan

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in July this time, not with
the school, with his friends. So

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all right, well I want to
hear more about Let's let's take a quick

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break and talk about Tropical smoothie.
You know what I love? Tropical smoothie

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cafe. Oh my gosh, it's
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the time for something refreshing. If
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good choices for food. They have
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wraps, yes, raps, but
these drinks are so delicious. Have you

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you we've tried the moth Trisy took
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such good summer mocktails smoothies like the
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guava, passion fruit, mango,
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Cosmo Smoothie, which is mango,
strawberries, cranberry and lime. And my

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favorite is Watermelon Mohito, which is
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in the app, online, or
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baby, Okay, So Spain.
So this is with a close friend

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of hers, yes, so not
a Cobo friend now, one of the

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Cabo friends. This is like one
of her closest friends and their family is

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going to Spain because they got a
older She has an older brother that is

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like he's a you know a dirt
bike and he competes in competitions around the

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world in Switzerland when we were in
Cabo. So he's going to be in

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Spain and her parents are going and
they want they want her daughter to have

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a friend. So Natalia gets to
go and you know, I mean,

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she's living life like one of the
real housewives. I guess Cabo Spain.

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Like all she needs is to like
have some big fights right on film.

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Yeah, yeah, so fun,
yeah, it's fun. Yeah. So

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I but she needs the right like
traveling with her with her luggage and stuff.

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Like I gotta get her like situated
before this trip, and she can

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only bring she can't have anything more
than I think forty forty eight pounds because

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they're taking like a like a puddle
jumper to like one of the islands and

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stuff. So I gotta get her
like situated with that. How long is

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the trip? Ten days? Oh
wow? Oh okay, that's interesting because

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as you know Xander, well you
might not remember, but Xander's in des

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Moines right now. He oh yeah, for nine days. It's funny the

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difference between boys and girls the way
they pack. Because Xander was like,

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I'll just bring a carry on yeah. I was like no. He's like,

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well, let me just I can
just use a small suitcase. And

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I was like, I don't think
your stuff is going to fit into a

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small suitcase, you know, because
then he wanted multiple pairs of sneakers.

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He had he was wearing a pair
of sneakers, He had a pair of

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dress shoes with him. He also
had a nice pair of a nice pair

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of sneakers, and then he wanted
another one other pair of sneakers. So

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he's you know what I'm saying,
And I was like, you're not getting

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all that, Like where do you
Where are you going to have room in

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the rest of this It's like the
size of a carry on. I was

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like, you have, but we
don't have anything in between. So it

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was either the carry on size or
a big suitcase. I was like,

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you got to bring the big suitcase
and he was like, okay, so

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how is it going? Like,
hell, you know what I have barely

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heard from him. I love it. It's so cute. He's I think

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I told you he went with his
speech in debate speech and debate coach who

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is so great? I love her. She's just the she's cool, she's

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fun, she's really passionate and she's
so good with the kids. And then

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her sister is really funny and fun
kind of young, and so her sister's

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coming to be a judge. So
it's Xander, the kid, the older

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kid that he just graduated that qualified
for nationals, and Xander. So the

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four of them are in an airbnb. There's another girl who traveled there with

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her parents who is going to be
joining them, but not I know,

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maybe not until Wednesday. So he
left on Friday and he is there until

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this upcoming Sunday. Wow, that's
a long time. So I've texted with

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him a little bit, like I
keep checking in and are you having fun?

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And he's like so much fun,
and he'll just be like, we

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just made a target run and now
we're eating dominoes and working on our speeches

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and that's so great. And you
know, he's never been away from home.

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I know, he doesn't sleep over
at any He hasn't had a sleepover.

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I think he's had one or two
when he was in young elementary school.

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Really, he just doesn't. It's
just not his thing. He sleeps

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at home right always, and he
has friends come and sleep at our house,

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and he doesn't. But he's never
gone on a trip without us,

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He's never done anything. Wow.
But he was ready. He was ready.

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He's a fine cool as a cucumber. Were you nervous like a little

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bit with traveling and stuff? I
was, yeah, I was a little

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bit. And he said he was
nervous about like the airport. He wasn't

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nervous about the trip and being gone, but he wass about like the airport.

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And I said, well, that's
going to be the easy part for

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you. That's where I get anxious. But you you have adults with you.

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We're going to handle everything. Right. I go. You don't need

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to have your Your tickets are on
your teacher's phone. R like, yeah,

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you're good to go. Yeah,
like you just follow them along.

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And then he sent me a text
and he was like, life, milestone

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just got through security. I know. That was really cute. Yeah.

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And Natalia used to get nervous with
the airport too. I think it's just

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like, you know, put your
cheap you know, get everything, you

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know, put it into this tray, take a shoes off, take your

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pants, you know whatever this and
I think and you know, rushing through

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I think that gives maybe kids anxiety
a little bit. He was also like

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trying to be such a minimalist and
he wasn't going to bring his computer,

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and I was like, you know
what, you're going to want your computer.

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You have room for it. Because
he was checking a bag and then

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he was bringing a garment bag with
all his dress clothes and the competition.

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I was like, in a backpack. I go put your laptop up in

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your backpack. You're gonna be so
happy you have it. You're gonna want

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to watch a movie on the plane. You're gonna want to have a little

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comfort from home, like if you
want to like play Fortnite or do your

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thing. Because he was like,
I could do everything on my phone.

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I was like, but once you're
there, you're gonna be like, why

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didn't I take my computer? Yeah? And plus you need it for your

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speech and debate stuff, like you
just don't want to have to be doing

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everything from your phone, right,
And I did ask him if he was

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glad he brought his computer, and
he was like, oh my gosh,

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yes, yeah, so good.
Yeah, so he's he's good. It's

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weird though, with him not being
there isn't well because every time I'm thinking

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about dinner or whatever. I think, Oh, there's only four of us,

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right, you know, LB is
hardly of her home. So yeah,

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yeah, so gosh, but Natalia
is going to be gone for ten

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days. That's crazy. Yeah,
Oh she'll be fine. Yeah, she's

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she's in that family. She's she
loves that family, and they're so good

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to her. They're really sweet to
her. Yeah, and yeah, it's

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just you know, it's weird because
they're meeting up with this other they're meeting

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up with. So Nate Adam used
to work with at the studio and now

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him and his family live out there. Oh they know him because her because

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Nataia's friend's father works at Warner Brothers. So she he knows Nate and they're

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good friends. And also Nate hired
their oldest son to work at the studio

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for like a couple interns, like
a couple of summers. Oh wow,

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so they all like so it's so
she's so I know, like she's going

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to be at family's house, you
know, with other families and you know,

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and then she is traveling by herself
too there with with her girlfriend.

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That's just the two of them.
And then the parents are meeting all meeting

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at the airport in wherever they land, and then they're going to travel together

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to the next but they're going like
two different places. So wow. Yeah,

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yeah, it's gonna be social.
That's exciting. Yeah. So I'm

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happy, like, yeah, my
kids are going to be doing some traveling

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this summer, international traveling. I
feel like Saie. I feel like Xander

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is going to be having this kind
of fun summer and looking for a job.

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And I just hope Sadie, like
we don't have any trips planned nothing,

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but does she want to I don't
know. Yeah, she's a hard

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00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:33,599
read. So here's the thing about
Sadie, and I did a whole Patreon

407
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:44,119
about a situation that happened that's fucked
up. She's just she's she's a homebody,

408
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:47,240
but then she likes to have something
to do because then when she's home,

409
00:29:48,079 --> 00:29:51,599
she's clingy, you know what I
mean, She's like, what are

410
00:29:51,599 --> 00:29:53,400
you doing? I want to do
something, you know. But I feel

411
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:57,720
like I'm not the I can't like
I've got a life, you know what

412
00:29:57,759 --> 00:30:03,640
I mean. I'm busy, and
I just it feels like a pressure of

413
00:30:03,839 --> 00:30:08,920
I have to entertain her, whereas
my other kids really entertain themselves and don't

414
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:17,079
like Xander is very social and if
he's home he's bored. So he will

415
00:30:17,359 --> 00:30:19,759
call a friend and make a plan. And then the most he'll do is

416
00:30:19,799 --> 00:30:22,319
go like, hey, I want
to make a plan with so and so.

417
00:30:22,359 --> 00:30:26,559
Would you be available to drive us? You know? Where as sadies

418
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:30,720
just like is there anything to do? Like a little kid, you know,

419
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,519
And I'm like, I know,
make a plan, call somebody and

420
00:30:34,559 --> 00:30:40,279
do something. But then she doesn't
like the commitment being with a friend all

421
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:45,799
day because then she feels like well
social, yes, yes, so it's

422
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:51,640
it's tricky. I know I've been
dreading it being summer without reason. I

423
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:55,519
think school is good for her.
It gives her a social life that's built

424
00:30:55,559 --> 00:31:00,319
in beginning, middle, an end, and then she's not my kid who

425
00:31:00,359 --> 00:31:04,039
makes plans after school with friends except
for the weekend. Right, So she

426
00:31:04,119 --> 00:31:11,680
has she doing with driving? Okay, glad you asked, but also not

427
00:31:11,759 --> 00:31:19,319
glad you asked. So she we
yesterday. My driving anxiety with her has

428
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:25,079
kicked up. Well now John has
anxiety driving with her. Now. I

429
00:31:25,119 --> 00:31:29,240
think it's because the last couple times
we drove with her it wasn't fantastic or

430
00:31:29,279 --> 00:31:33,559
she made but even though John was
like, she only made like a couple

431
00:31:33,559 --> 00:31:38,200
of mistakes, but the mistakes she
made were kind of like jarring. So

432
00:31:38,279 --> 00:31:41,839
now he's a little he hasn't been
wanting to drive with her, but he

433
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,000
will. So I was like,
well, I got to drive with her,

434
00:31:45,039 --> 00:31:48,640
Like this girl's got to learn to
drive, you know. So I

435
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:52,599
think I told you the last time
she had an official driving lesson, she

436
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:56,079
had an extra one and they told
us, yeah, she needs more practice,

437
00:31:56,160 --> 00:32:00,039
don't go take the test yet.
I only think she has like a

438
00:32:00,079 --> 00:32:05,119
fifty to fifty chance of passing.
So since then we've literally not taken her

439
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,680
driving. But it was sort of
towards the end of the school year and

440
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,440
there was a lot of there were
finals, and there was always sort of

441
00:32:10,519 --> 00:32:15,079
she was always tired, you know. Yeah, so yesterday I was like,

442
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:19,680
Okay, we got a drive.
So I kind of came up with

443
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:24,079
this genius plan, which is that
Elbe was in charge. So Elbie can't

444
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:29,240
drive with her alone because she's not
twenty five. Okay, so there needs

445
00:32:29,279 --> 00:32:32,400
to be a licensed driver over twenty
five in the car. But check this

446
00:32:32,519 --> 00:32:36,440
out. I was like, how
about Elbe, you sit in the front

447
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:37,960
seat with her? And I'll just
sit in the back and like read a

448
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:43,240
book. So we did that.
So yesterday Sadie drove us to the Tapanga

449
00:32:43,279 --> 00:32:47,599
mall and I sat in the back
seat and like read real phone. You

450
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:52,839
could do that without I don't mean
there's a law, no, no no,

451
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:57,279
I mean like for your meant I
wouldn't want to go. Like it

452
00:32:57,319 --> 00:33:01,200
was better. It was better because
Elbe is a very good driver, and

453
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:08,319
she's also really patient with kids and
with her siblings, so she was so

454
00:33:08,519 --> 00:33:12,680
calm about it, she says.
Elvie said it didn't give her anxiety at

455
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:17,359
all. Nice and she just gave
Sadie like I had driven with Sadie a

456
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:20,640
little bit like the day before.
I don't know. We went to the

457
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:24,519
store, and even just going to
the store, I was like, uh,

458
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:29,519
you're a little close to this car. I was doing that thing that's

459
00:33:29,559 --> 00:33:34,480
so fucking annoying to other people and
it's not it cannot be relaxing for her.

460
00:33:34,559 --> 00:33:37,880
And I was like okay, And
then this is me. I'm like,

461
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:40,960
what put on your blinker? And
she's like I was about to mom,

462
00:33:42,039 --> 00:33:44,519
and I'm like okay, but you
were already like we're getting close to

463
00:33:44,559 --> 00:33:46,279
the door. I'm like, you
got to put it on before, but

464
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:50,839
it's it's got to be. I
hear myself from outside of myself, like

465
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,240
I would not be fun to drive
with. So then I try to keep

466
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:58,240
my mouth shut, but it's like
like my whole body. I grabbed the

467
00:33:58,359 --> 00:34:02,319
hand in the bar, you know. So I was like, Ohmi was

468
00:34:02,359 --> 00:34:07,079
like, how about I sit in
the front seat with her and write chill

469
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:10,280
in the back seat. No,
it really worked because I know I'm being

470
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:15,559
crazy, like I have the self
awareness to go. It's not it's not

471
00:34:15,679 --> 00:34:19,199
good for her to have me grabbing. So I was like, if I'm

472
00:34:19,199 --> 00:34:25,440
not I trust, I trust Sadie. Sadie told me that driving does not

473
00:34:25,559 --> 00:34:30,320
make her nervous, so that's good. That's good. So I don't want

474
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:34,119
to create anxiety in her, right, So I was like, but I

475
00:34:34,119 --> 00:34:36,920
don't know what the answer is.
So this, this seemed to really help.

476
00:34:37,159 --> 00:34:39,639
That's great. That's a great idea. So Sadie drove to them all,

477
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:43,679
did a perfectly good job. We
worked a little bit with her on

478
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:47,079
her parking and then but then she
was having period cramps and didn't want to

479
00:34:47,119 --> 00:34:52,920
drive home. Right, was she
really having period cramps? Or does it

480
00:34:52,039 --> 00:34:54,440
really kind of make her nervous,
but she doesn't want to let on.

481
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:59,519
We'll never know. Did she have
to get on the freeway? We did

482
00:34:59,559 --> 00:35:01,760
not take the freeway. No,
we just took streets. Yeah yeah,

483
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:05,760
yeah, I get it. Well, I mean, like it is nerve

484
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,679
wracking. I mean that's a bridge
too far. Yeah, I'm only I'm

485
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:13,000
only one person. I can't like, I know, we're not driving the

486
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,320
freeway with me in the car.
She can do that with John, but

487
00:35:15,559 --> 00:35:19,599
don't they need like a certain amount
of hours with an instructor behind the wheel.

488
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,599
So she's already done. So she's
done that. She's had her freaking

489
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:28,280
permit since last July, so she
has to try to get her license in

490
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:31,000
July in the next few weeks.
She has to try. Otherwise she has

491
00:35:31,039 --> 00:35:36,039
to get she has to retake her
permit test right right, which is not

492
00:35:36,119 --> 00:35:38,320
fair to her. No, well, she needs to go out like as

493
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:42,960
much as possible. But to be
fair to us, a lot of times

494
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,360
we ask her if she wants to
drive, and she's like, oh,

495
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,519
I'm really tired right now, or
there's like a reason. She has a

496
00:35:47,559 --> 00:35:52,960
reason, So she's not really rare
and to go all the time, right.

497
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:57,119
I remember that too with my kids, Like they would like drive to

498
00:35:57,199 --> 00:36:00,159
one place and then be like,
Okay, I'm done, I'm done for

499
00:36:00,199 --> 00:36:05,320
the day. Yeah, you can
drive home. So for a while we

500
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,480
were taking Sadie out for like an
hour at a time, like just driving

501
00:36:07,519 --> 00:36:10,760
around everywhere, and I think she
was more used to it, And now

502
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,800
that she hasn't gone as much,
it is more like Okay, I'll drive

503
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:19,159
there and then you drive home.
Yeah. So, but the plan is

504
00:36:19,159 --> 00:36:22,840
to drive with her like every day
for the next couple of weeks and then

505
00:36:22,119 --> 00:36:25,079
schedule the test and go do it. That's good, that's good, or

506
00:36:25,159 --> 00:36:30,480
we might I might schedule it like
even today for two weeks from now.

507
00:36:30,559 --> 00:36:32,880
Yeah, you should just have it
on the books and then just knowing it's

508
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:36,719
coming up, we'll just drive drive
drive. Yeah. And you know the

509
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:43,639
good the good DMVs to go to
right, Wittier, Well, the Sherman

510
00:36:43,679 --> 00:36:47,960
Way one in Kanunga Park is supposed
to be good. Oh okay, okay,

511
00:36:49,039 --> 00:36:52,960
and Wittier. What am I thinking? Connect that's the one I was

512
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,719
trying. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's to that one. That's the

513
00:36:55,719 --> 00:37:00,480
one on Sherman Away. Probably it's
almost Yeah, Yeah, that's what I

514
00:37:00,519 --> 00:37:06,360
hear is the best one, so
I'll try for that one. I Elbie

515
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,079
did it in the Van Eys one
and it went fine. They got their

516
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562
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Yeah? It was nice. Father's
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563
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It was kind of like a party
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564
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565
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Saturday for me and we just went
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566
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:15,000
Nice. That's it. That's it. That's all I wanted. Amy

567
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got me another surf lesson, so
I'm gonna be doing that on Wednesday.

568
00:41:19,679 --> 00:41:22,079
Oh my gosh. As I've said
before, I want to get into surfing.

569
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:24,480
So really, have you done it
yet? I took one lesson a

570
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:28,440
few weeks ago. Did you stand
that? Yeah? Sure, Wow,

571
00:41:29,639 --> 00:41:34,599
it's so hard, but it seems
very hard. Yeah. I guess it's

572
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:37,199
a little tough, but you know, but it seems very satisfying when you

573
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:40,239
stand up and catch a wave.
Yeah, yeah, it's it is,

574
00:41:40,559 --> 00:41:43,599
and you know, you just fall
in the water, so it doesn't hurt

575
00:41:43,599 --> 00:41:46,159
that bad, that's true. Yeah. I took a surf lesson when I

576
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:52,440
was doing parental discretion, uh huh, and I could not I couldn't stand

577
00:41:52,519 --> 00:41:57,719
up. I did an entire lesson
and never stood up once. It was

578
00:41:57,840 --> 00:42:00,199
lame. I was lame. It's
it seems like you have to you have

579
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:05,800
a good balance, not really actually, corese strength, No, not really.

580
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:09,079
Actually I don't have either of those
things. But you know, I

581
00:42:09,119 --> 00:42:12,639
was like dedicated to do it.
So and the board that they give you

582
00:42:12,679 --> 00:42:16,400
when you're practice just giant, like
eight foot really. Yeah, it's it's

583
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:20,440
not like a little it's a big
giant surfboard. It's a little easier.

584
00:42:21,039 --> 00:42:22,760
It also seems like a lot of
work, like you would be out of

585
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:28,519
like how do you manage that big
ass board? It's in the water,

586
00:42:29,199 --> 00:42:31,679
waves are carrying it down to the
carrying is like I'd be like, I'm

587
00:42:31,679 --> 00:42:36,079
good, yeah, and then then
you got to put it into the water,

588
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:38,639
and then you've got to wrangle this
ship like and then you got to

589
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:43,679
catch it at the right time.
Yeah. Yeah, it seems like a

590
00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,320
lot. Then you got to remember
all the surf terms. You gotta be

591
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:52,159
like hang ten right, you know, I don't know. Maybe it's like

592
00:42:52,199 --> 00:42:57,920
a ten inch surfboard. No,
ten inch surfboard would be very ten foot

593
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:01,920
ten. But yet still that'sike antic
I, who am six feet tall was

594
00:43:02,159 --> 00:43:07,960
using an eight foot surfboard. Okay, so forget the whole hang ten meaning

595
00:43:07,159 --> 00:43:13,639
meb it means like hang your ten
toes onto the board? Oh could that

596
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:20,159
be it? Can you find out
and report back. I have friends that

597
00:43:20,159 --> 00:43:23,119
that I grew up with that they
to this day because one of them is

598
00:43:23,159 --> 00:43:27,440
a manager at the gels. Oh, you're actually right. It means to

599
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:31,039
ride a surfboard with all ten toes
curled over the board's front edge. Wow,

600
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:37,960
hang me out? What what upp
even a blind pig finds a truffle?

601
00:43:44,679 --> 00:43:45,840
Yeah? Maybe I know a thing
or two. I don't know,

602
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:51,159
honestly, that was a guess.
But I do have friends that I grew

603
00:43:51,199 --> 00:43:53,480
up with. One of them is
he's a manager at the at my Gelson's

604
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:57,599
in my neighborhood. And when it's
once in a while, I go in

605
00:43:57,639 --> 00:44:00,480
there and I see him. When
you go in there to spend forty yeah

606
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:06,000
exactly, they do have good birthday
cakes. But he I would see him

607
00:44:06,079 --> 00:44:08,920
and he'd be like, what up, Lynette, Like still the surfer dude

608
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:13,920
who I grew up with, married
to the same woman for all these years,

609
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:19,480
goes surfing every morning before Wow like
gets up at like that's a four

610
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,039
fat yeah, And he lives in
the valley, lives by you and Wow,

611
00:44:23,199 --> 00:44:30,679
goes every day to Malibu and surfs
every day. It's a lifestyle.

612
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:34,840
I mean, this guy's like and
he's like sixty by now. That's what

613
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:37,159
my the other podcast that I do, the only one in the room,

614
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:40,400
the producer Scott, that's what he
does. He gets it before thirty every

615
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,719
day, or not every day,
but he gets it before thirty. He

616
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,199
drives to Malibu and he goes surfing
there. And I'll see him on like

617
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:49,880
Mondays at like one and he'd be
like, oh, yeah, I went

618
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:52,199
surfing this morning. I was like, you drove all the way to Malibu

619
00:44:52,559 --> 00:44:54,079
and went surfing and then came home
and it's like one. He's like,

620
00:44:54,159 --> 00:44:59,840
yeah, wow, terrible. Yeah. First of all, you have to

621
00:44:59,880 --> 00:45:02,440
be packed, like you have a
wet suit. Yeah, the amount of

622
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:07,159
equipment unless I lived on the beach, I can see and you just put

623
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:12,880
really only a wet suit and a
surfboard and a towel. Yeah, but

624
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:20,559
for us, you need a chair. Well you've got to rest take a

625
00:45:20,559 --> 00:45:24,639
whole time. Yeah, don't you
got to take a break from Facebook.

626
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:30,880
Yeah, we're all calls and go
on Facebook. Yeah. I mean you

627
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:34,039
would think you need to take a
break and have something. Call your mom,

628
00:45:34,079 --> 00:45:36,119
friends, just be like, what
are you guys doing this morning?

629
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:40,119
Brag about you got up? Yeah, shame everybody. I've been up for

630
00:45:40,159 --> 00:45:45,639
two hours surfing. But that not
for me, not for me and stuff.

631
00:45:46,559 --> 00:45:52,360
No, well that's for me.
Yeah yeah, yeah, Well it's

632
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:53,960
a good way to keep in shape, I think. Oh yeah, it's

633
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:58,880
a hell of workout. Yeah.
Yeah, and it's fun. I've been

634
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:02,199
going to the y m c A
you have. Yeah, I've been getting

635
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:07,519
even like during the week with Wendy
and stuff. I was like, I'm

636
00:46:07,559 --> 00:46:10,079
just gonna go to the gym,
trying to go like at least three or

637
00:46:10,079 --> 00:46:14,679
four days a week just to get
some cardio. That's it. I just

638
00:46:14,679 --> 00:46:17,800
want to get like my cardio going
because it's good for the heart. As

639
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:22,599
my doctor told me, our doctor, our doctor told me. Yes,

640
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:30,199
interesting, I'm gonna see our guy
doctor knock around. I'm gonna see him

641
00:46:30,199 --> 00:46:34,960
because I'm having eye surgery on the
twenty seventh, and I have to have

642
00:46:35,639 --> 00:46:39,400
I guess this this Friday, so
today's Tuesday for you guys. Yeah,

643
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:45,000
I have to have one of those
like a physical before you you know,

644
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:47,719
where they check everything, make sure
you're not gonna die under anesthesia. Mm

645
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:52,679
hmmm hmm, not that you can
ever be sure of that. But what

646
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:55,440
are you So you're having eye surgery? Mm? So you know how in

647
00:46:55,480 --> 00:47:00,639
the past, like year or so, I always glasses. Now I used

648
00:47:00,679 --> 00:47:07,639
to wear contacts and then put on
readers to Yeah, so I can't.

649
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:12,119
I have double vision because I have
something wrong with my eye muscle. And

650
00:47:12,199 --> 00:47:15,519
John has the exact same thing.
Wow, it's called strabismus. For some

651
00:47:15,599 --> 00:47:20,840
people it looks like a laundry and
eye looks like a lazy eye. I

652
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:25,519
have that, but it doesn't show
so apparently, and I developed it as

653
00:47:25,559 --> 00:47:30,239
an adult only a couple of years
ago. Nobody knows why. Could be

654
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:34,679
from looking at my phone really close
all the time, but still don't know

655
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:39,280
looking at computer. I don't know, but it's bad and I can't.

656
00:47:40,079 --> 00:47:45,599
I have to have special a prism
in my glasses and it's just it's expensive

657
00:47:45,639 --> 00:47:49,079
to make the glasses. I can't
have like several pairs because they have so

658
00:47:49,159 --> 00:47:52,239
much to make and it's a pain
in the ass where they're going to fix

659
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:58,599
it. That's interesting, Well good
and this strip. So I had a

660
00:47:58,639 --> 00:48:05,280
friend that had lazy right that Ray
met at a party. Huh And I

661
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,599
was like, don't I knew where
he was going to say something? And

662
00:48:07,599 --> 00:48:15,639
then of course Ray goes, what's
up stra business? Ray? Mind your

663
00:48:15,639 --> 00:48:19,840
own strip business? Like shut up. I knew he was going to say

664
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:22,280
something. It's like, nice to
meet you. I was like, you

665
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:23,960
had to do that, and he
was like, I don't think he knew

666
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:28,960
what I was talking about. I'm
sure he did. He did. Anybody

667
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:32,239
that has stra business probably knows it's
actually that that's the medical term for you.

668
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:36,800
Yes, yes, but yeah yeah. I mean he's like a twelve

669
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:38,760
year old. But I was like, why do you have to do?

670
00:48:39,039 --> 00:48:43,079
I knew I felt it in my
bones when he was going to say something.

671
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,039
And he's like, yeah, what's
up stra business? Oh my god,

672
00:48:45,559 --> 00:48:52,639
unbelievable. There's a there's a dateline
about this woman I think who killed

673
00:48:52,639 --> 00:48:58,719
her husband. Pretty sure, yeah, you know, and her their last

674
00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:01,800
name is something very close to strabismus. I've heard it on a bunch of

675
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:04,920
different and I always think of that. I'm always like, oh, it's

676
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:07,440
like strabismus business. Yeah, I
wonder if she gets that a lot.

677
00:49:07,599 --> 00:49:12,280
So now I always tell you.
She's like, no, it's strabismus.

678
00:49:15,079 --> 00:49:19,840
God, all right, yeah,
so that's happening. I get some shows

679
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:23,159
I'll tell you about on Friday.
Okay, yeah, I've been watching something

680
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:29,000
so stupid that I will tell you
about on Friday. But before we go,

681
00:49:29,679 --> 00:49:31,920
how about give Mike Christine a shout
out. Oh my pounds, I

682
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:35,559
did it for you. Well,
yeah, thank you. And by the

683
00:49:35,559 --> 00:49:38,639
way, he's been getting a ton
of f c OL people. Good.

684
00:49:39,119 --> 00:49:42,599
Every time he gets one, he
sends me a text. Got another one.

685
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:45,679
I was like, awesome, Yes
you. If you have any questions

686
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:51,559
plumbing questions, Mike is your guy. You can go. You can text

687
00:49:51,599 --> 00:49:55,320
him, you can call him.
Go to Phoenix Plumbing Solutions dot com and

688
00:49:55,400 --> 00:50:00,880
all his information is right there.
Get her effect. And also Adam Lerner

689
00:50:00,039 --> 00:50:05,639
go to Adam's got a car.
He also deals with tons of f col

690
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:08,559
people and he's always like, your
listeners are so nice. I know It's

691
00:50:08,599 --> 00:50:12,800
like I love everybody that I've helped
get a car. Yeah. Yeah,

692
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:15,719
he'll help you, he'll educate you, he'll you don't, you don't.

693
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:17,639
It's no commitment. If he can't
help you get a car, it's not

694
00:50:17,639 --> 00:50:22,519
going to save you money. He's
not gonna charge there's no seven. Also,

695
00:50:23,159 --> 00:50:31,000
our our friend Kelsey has Fern candle
Fern candle fdr and candle at Ferncandle

696
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ferncandle dot com delicious smelling candle.
Yeah you know, I have him in

697
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:39,800
my house and I've been burning them
and we all love them. Yeah,

698
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so good. And they do it
with a soy wax so it's better for

699
00:50:44,639 --> 00:50:47,719
the environment and burns longer. Makes
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700
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:52,920
cute Mason jars. Yeah. Also
will mean Frida. If you're in Palm

701
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:55,000
Springs or Palm Desert, why not
stop, get some breakfast, get some

702
00:50:55,039 --> 00:51:00,519
brunch, treat yourself, have a
mimosa and ask for Kelly. Also,

703
00:51:00,559 --> 00:51:05,159
if you want to buy a T
shirt or a mouse pad or a mug,

704
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:08,280
I have so many funny Basic Becky
mugs around my house. You can

705
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:13,639
go to her website Justbasicbecky dot com
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706
00:51:13,679 --> 00:51:16,840
you can find her on Facebook at
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707
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:21,679
And also if you're going to plan
a trip, especially this summer,

708
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use Storybook World Travel. That's our
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709
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Facebook or Instagram Storybook World Travel.
Yeah. Nice, Hi everybody, We

710
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love you guys. Yep, you're
a parent now, don't f it up. Mandy
