WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.199 --> 00:00:04.320 Hello, sir, thank you, sir, my god, sir, Sir 2 00:00:04.519 --> 00:00:08.839 Sarah, Sir, mister Lott, mistert who that who miss the lot? 3 00:00:09.160 --> 00:00:13.599 Who's sir? I'm James and James's fifty plus right now in a month of 4 00:00:13.679 --> 00:00:19.320 January. It is a audio only series at the moment, Here are you 5 00:00:19.359 --> 00:00:23.960 find where you find fine audio podcasts. The first time I can't remember the 6 00:00:24.039 --> 00:00:28.399 first time I was called sir or missed a lot, but it was definitely 7 00:00:28.480 --> 00:00:35.200 in the nineties, late nineties. As I'm getting older and for some people 8 00:00:35.240 --> 00:00:37.520 it's a terminal to just say mister or whatever, just like this. I 9 00:00:37.520 --> 00:00:42.759 mean, that's fine, but I feel so young. I'm a grandfather of 10 00:00:42.799 --> 00:00:45.119 five, so I don't know, I just feel so young. But it's 11 00:00:45.159 --> 00:00:49.439 just sold, sir, mich long lost my father, which a lot of 12 00:00:49.439 --> 00:00:55.320 my uncles. But I'm I'm Jbie. You're like youth, I see you 13 00:00:55.320 --> 00:01:00.600 know some people I don't know. It's just it's yeah, it's just it's 14 00:01:00.880 --> 00:01:12.319 titles. Titles are It can be important sometimes also for people who are very 15 00:01:12.400 --> 00:01:23.040 much prone to talking to people, uh gay respect from the South. A 16 00:01:23.040 --> 00:01:26.439 lot of times it's a lot more of certain cultures, a lot more of 17 00:01:26.560 --> 00:01:30.680 the yes sir, yes, ma'am. How the star helmet, you know, 18 00:01:30.760 --> 00:01:38.280 like that kind of thing. It's just gonna be you know interesting. 19 00:01:41.879 --> 00:01:45.359 I was just like, I don't I just feel old. It's because I 20 00:01:45.400 --> 00:01:48.680 know, I know age and one the number blah blah. But when you're 21 00:01:48.719 --> 00:01:53.239 the age when they it just feels older. You know, everybody is younger 22 00:01:53.280 --> 00:02:00.480 than you are. It's so crazy. Everybody's they're just younger. And that's 23 00:02:00.640 --> 00:02:04.680 just and so I should take it as you're an elder statesman. Now I 24 00:02:04.760 --> 00:02:07.280 was a young ANGENEU. Now I'm the older statesman. I'm you know, 25 00:02:07.319 --> 00:02:10.639 there's there's some respect that people have with my name a little bit that they 26 00:02:10.639 --> 00:02:15.240 didn't have if I was younger. I mean, it's just kind of how 27 00:02:15.280 --> 00:02:21.719 it is, the hierarchy mentality. Hello. So I don't know, it's 28 00:02:21.759 --> 00:02:27.080 just it's still hard get used to. I dream with the titles of course, 29 00:02:27.120 --> 00:02:29.840 like doctor a lot and I have Doctor in Divinity and things like that. 30 00:02:30.639 --> 00:02:32.039 I'm so used to that too. It's like these are all like it's 31 00:02:32.039 --> 00:02:36.000 just it's overwhelming. It's like, really, I just I just want to 32 00:02:36.039 --> 00:02:39.360 be James. I don't want to be sir or thank you sir, thank 33 00:02:39.400 --> 00:02:44.159 you for shopping here, sir, or the one it counts boss a boss 34 00:02:44.439 --> 00:02:49.719 Boss Boss Boss boss Boss, which is another tour dem dearman. There's some 35 00:02:49.759 --> 00:02:52.439 other ones that don't mind, like King, you know, we love you 36 00:02:52.560 --> 00:02:55.199 King. That's cute. I like that a lot. Of course, with 37 00:02:55.319 --> 00:03:00.240 the territory, I get the daddy and all that, and grahams a lot 38 00:03:00.240 --> 00:03:02.400 of stuff. So I mean, done it with my failure from people who 39 00:03:02.439 --> 00:03:06.479 you know, younger, and I'm used to that to you now at this 40 00:03:06.520 --> 00:03:12.039 point, but I just know that it's gonna get worse. I have gray 41 00:03:12.080 --> 00:03:15.159 in my beard. Someone told me today on a dating app I was very 42 00:03:15.199 --> 00:03:21.159 distinguished looking and they were forty eight and I'm fifty four. I'm like, 43 00:03:21.240 --> 00:03:24.879 dang it, I am older. I know. I know for some women 44 00:03:24.960 --> 00:03:30.240 it's really tough to hear ma'am a little bit. I'm not a ma'am. 45 00:03:30.000 --> 00:03:34.520 It does connelte that you're that you're older. I mean, we're lucky to 46 00:03:34.560 --> 00:03:38.919 be here, We're lucky to actually be able to talk and all that. 47 00:03:38.120 --> 00:03:43.400 So I guess I guess. You know, the alternat is very final, 48 00:03:44.159 --> 00:03:47.199 and they say, try about trying to do that. So I'm like, 49 00:03:47.240 --> 00:03:54.240 so it's kind of like, okay, you know, you you move a 50 00:03:54.280 --> 00:03:59.400 little slower, move a little differently. You start to do a lot more 51 00:03:59.439 --> 00:04:01.000 monologues. To get older, you try to be a little more honor. 52 00:04:01.080 --> 00:04:04.800 We get older and frumpy, and they just they're just like, yeah, 53 00:04:04.800 --> 00:04:11.520 it's like we're gonna be out right. I wants it's hilarious because I'm being 54 00:04:11.560 --> 00:04:14.479 older, and in my family especially, I'm one of the elder span I 55 00:04:14.520 --> 00:04:16.839 really want an elder statesman in my profession. I'm one of the elder statesmen 56 00:04:17.000 --> 00:04:20.120 in my career, like I'm one of the elders. It's just kind of 57 00:04:20.240 --> 00:04:24.720 it's it's you were stuff long enough, and that's what happens, and you 58 00:04:24.800 --> 00:04:27.800 become one of that. You become one of the endgame becomes you. You 59 00:04:27.879 --> 00:04:31.720 become the one. So I tried to get as children, dear man, 60 00:04:32.240 --> 00:04:38.040 I mean, you won't get any younger, and you know, it's just 61 00:04:38.160 --> 00:04:41.240 kind of how it is. I guess trying to deal with that. I 62 00:04:41.279 --> 00:04:45.040 mean, we called ma'am, they we called sir out there. I don't 63 00:04:45.040 --> 00:04:47.240 correct people when they do it. I just it's just it's children. They're 64 00:04:47.279 --> 00:04:54.839 being told me polite, and I don't I don't, I don't say nothing. 65 00:04:55.240 --> 00:04:59.279 My titles of Daddy, Daddy, Kin's, Papa, Jamie and that 66 00:04:59.319 --> 00:05:03.319 I love those go Jamie, I love that's Uncle James, all all that 67 00:05:03.439 --> 00:05:09.639 though, any of those works for me because that's those are titles I like, 68 00:05:11.079 --> 00:05:15.000 I'm James and James is fifty plus this monthly, just talk about different 69 00:05:15.000 --> 00:05:19.360 issues but being or fifty If you have any seriously, if you have any 70 00:05:19.480 --> 00:05:27.639 thoughts or suggestions for topics that hit them fifty plus community in a different way, 71 00:05:28.360 --> 00:05:32.199 tell me I would I would love to hear it, and maybe I'll 72 00:05:32.240 --> 00:05:36.199 talk about it on my show and you're your credit for it. 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