Hello, sir, thank you, sir, my god, sir, Sir
Sarah, Sir, mister Lott, mistert who that who miss the lot?
Who's sir? I'm James and James's fifty plus right now in a month of
January. It is a audio only series at the moment, Here are you
find where you find fine audio podcasts. The first time I can't remember the
first time I was called sir or missed a lot, but it was definitely
in the nineties, late nineties. As I'm getting older and for some people
it's a terminal to just say mister or whatever, just like this. I
mean, that's fine, but I feel so young. I'm a grandfather of
five, so I don't know, I just feel so young. But it's
just sold, sir, mich long lost my father, which a lot of
my uncles. But I'm I'm Jbie. You're like youth, I see you
know some people I don't know. It's just it's yeah, it's just it's
titles. Titles are It can be important sometimes also for people who are very
much prone to talking to people, uh gay respect from the South. A
lot of times it's a lot more of certain cultures, a lot more of
the yes sir, yes, ma'am. How the star helmet, you know,
like that kind of thing. It's just gonna be you know interesting.
I was just like, I don't I just feel old. It's because I
know, I know age and one the number blah blah. But when you're
the age when they it just feels older. You know, everybody is younger
than you are. It's so crazy. Everybody's they're just younger. And that's
just and so I should take it as you're an elder statesman. Now I
was a young ANGENEU. Now I'm the older statesman. I'm you know,
there's there's some respect that people have with my name a little bit that they
didn't have if I was younger. I mean, it's just kind of how
it is, the hierarchy mentality. Hello. So I don't know, it's
just it's still hard get used to. I dream with the titles of course,
like doctor a lot and I have Doctor in Divinity and things like that.
I'm so used to that too. It's like these are all like it's
just it's overwhelming. It's like, really, I just I just want to
be James. I don't want to be sir or thank you sir, thank
you for shopping here, sir, or the one it counts boss a boss
Boss Boss Boss boss Boss, which is another tour dem dearman. There's some
other ones that don't mind, like King, you know, we love you
King. That's cute. I like that a lot. Of course, with
the territory, I get the daddy and all that, and grahams a lot
of stuff. So I mean, done it with my failure from people who
you know, younger, and I'm used to that to you now at this
point, but I just know that it's gonna get worse. I have gray
in my beard. Someone told me today on a dating app I was very
distinguished looking and they were forty eight and I'm fifty four. I'm like,
dang it, I am older. I know. I know for some women
it's really tough to hear ma'am a little bit. I'm not a ma'am.
It does connelte that you're that you're older. I mean, we're lucky to
be here, We're lucky to actually be able to talk and all that.
So I guess I guess. You know, the alternat is very final,
and they say, try about trying to do that. So I'm like,
so it's kind of like, okay, you know, you you move a
little slower, move a little differently. You start to do a lot more
monologues. To get older, you try to be a little more honor.
We get older and frumpy, and they just they're just like, yeah,
it's like we're gonna be out right. I wants it's hilarious because I'm being
older, and in my family especially, I'm one of the elder span I
really want an elder statesman in my profession. I'm one of the elder statesmen
in my career, like I'm one of the elders. It's just kind of
it's it's you were stuff long enough, and that's what happens, and you
become one of that. You become one of the endgame becomes you. You
become the one. So I tried to get as children, dear man,
I mean, you won't get any younger, and you know, it's just
kind of how it is. I guess trying to deal with that. I
mean, we called ma'am, they we called sir out there. I don't
correct people when they do it. I just it's just it's children. They're
being told me polite, and I don't I don't, I don't say nothing.
My titles of Daddy, Daddy, Kin's, Papa, Jamie and that
I love those go Jamie, I love that's Uncle James, all all that
though, any of those works for me because that's those are titles I like,
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