1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:04,360 What is going on? I am Eric Dizzey and this is another episode of 2 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:09,679 Convo Behind the pod. We are still in the works of producing Fake Love, 3 00:00:10,839 --> 00:00:15,160 so to keep you entertained, I record conversations with the cast members and 4 00:00:15,199 --> 00:00:20,079 this episode features Shandrea Fine and my brother Firing Brother to the night Bond. 5 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,280 Thank you all so much for the love and support. I mean it, 6 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:27,679 I say all the time. That's because I mean it from the bottom of 7 00:00:27,719 --> 00:00:32,920 my heart. Again, we are still producing Fake Love, so until we 8 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:38,280 are finished, please enjoy these conversations. Please send us messages on Instagram at 9 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:43,600 blackwoodw podcast or me directly at Eric Dizzy dot Audio. We're gonna jump in 10 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,679 the middle of this conversation. I deleted all the born stuff and got straight 11 00:00:47,719 --> 00:00:53,759 to the good ship. Yeah, let's get to it. Interesting take. 12 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,039 Sorry, I how to fix some nightstand, But it isn't interesting. It 13 00:00:56,159 --> 00:01:02,079 is an interesting take to hear my homegirls talk about death. Yeah, because 14 00:01:02,119 --> 00:01:06,400 you you'll never know, Like, as a man, you never really know 15 00:01:06,599 --> 00:01:11,560 who your potty, something happened, what's happening. You never really know your 16 00:01:11,719 --> 00:01:15,719 who your homie is when he comes to like how they deal with women, 17 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:21,840 until you actually hear it from a woman one percent, and and and and 18 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:27,280 on top of that, I just feel like I feel like niggas is way 19 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:33,439 more creepy than we then we know the man know, because men aren't creepy 20 00:01:33,439 --> 00:01:38,879 to men and very seldomly do that a creepy around other men. And I 21 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:42,040 like it when my home girls tell me that hey keep an eye on this 22 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:46,599 nigga, or they give me some type of input so I can make sure 23 00:01:46,599 --> 00:01:52,640 that they're safe, because I don't know. I women can feel unsafe in 24 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,680 the room full of people. They know. That's and you know what I 25 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:59,680 mean, like just the vibes, and some niggas don't know how to read 26 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,400 the room. So but I wouldn't know how to. I wouldn't know how 27 00:02:02,439 --> 00:02:07,400 to navigate that space, that dating space as a woman with kids, because 28 00:02:07,439 --> 00:02:13,120 now I'm I can't defend myself and I can't defend my kids. Shit, 29 00:02:13,199 --> 00:02:16,919 this motherfucker go a wall. And that's that's something that I always think about, 30 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:20,360 Like whenever when I when I was single and I was fucking with women 31 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,439 who had kids rather we just fucking or not, and they would invite me 32 00:02:23,479 --> 00:02:27,280 to their house to you know, to clap the cheeks. I would be 33 00:02:27,599 --> 00:02:36,120 I would try to try my best to accommodate or be let them know that 34 00:02:36,159 --> 00:02:39,000 it's okay, Like I'm not I don't know that make do that makes sense? 35 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:42,120 Like I'm trying to let them know, like I understand your kids are 36 00:02:42,159 --> 00:02:44,719 here. I'm not trying to be loud. I'm trying to be respectful your 37 00:02:44,719 --> 00:02:47,039 space, this, this and that and that. But I can't imagine what 38 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:51,560 it must be like for a single mother to try to get their cheeks clapped 39 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:55,599 with children. I don't invite people to my house. It's where chefs get 40 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:59,719 clapped that. I mean, I don't really do casual sets either, but 41 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:04,080 like I don't invite people to like if I'm dating somebody, um, even 42 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:07,840 if my kids like not there, Like I don't trust everybody just knowing where 43 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:09,759 I live. I just don't, you know, like I might invite you 44 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,879 to my house and if you like, even if you said it cannot my 45 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:16,199 homie cannot be like who yeah, Like you know, Um, I don't 46 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:21,360 trust people with my kids. I just don't. I mean that's the way 47 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:24,680 the world is now. I mean I completely understand it. I mean, 48 00:03:25,599 --> 00:03:32,159 women, you gotta be careful about like yeah, especially your children is because 49 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:39,120 I mean you hit their horror stories. The horror stories too, is like 50 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:44,039 because you how do you even how do you? How do women? That 51 00:03:44,159 --> 00:03:47,400 was another thing with Black What Old that I couldn't understand, Like women are 52 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:53,680 writing ninety percent eighty percent of these episodes, and not one time have they 53 00:03:53,759 --> 00:04:00,280 ever mentioned inkling of fear of safety that makes sense, Like it's a lot 54 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,639 of one night stands, Like they're going to the bar, they're getting drunk, 55 00:04:02,639 --> 00:04:05,639 and then they're going back there. It's never an instance of I can 56 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:11,080 die a night bitch. It's never that. But I've been I've been in 57 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:15,759 instances where I'll be like, I don't know who in this bitch house. 58 00:04:15,319 --> 00:04:18,279 I don't know who in here. I don't know it's trying to set me 59 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,360 up. I ain't got nothing, But it don't matter, you know what 60 00:04:20,399 --> 00:04:25,240 I'm saying, don't matter. I got my phone and that's enough. I 61 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:28,519 don't think people really realize like that. And I might be scaring a few 62 00:04:28,519 --> 00:04:33,160 people, but you can rob a motherfucker blind just with their phone in their 63 00:04:33,199 --> 00:04:38,879 hand and in the thumb and their face and just take everything out of every 64 00:04:38,879 --> 00:04:43,920 account, beat them and send them about their way and maybe I was tweaking, 65 00:04:44,319 --> 00:04:46,199 but I thought about that because a lot of niggas is dying and I 66 00:04:46,199 --> 00:04:51,560 don't know if they dine because they're being set up by women in the instance 67 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:55,600 of where you think you abody gets some buns and then boom, your whole 68 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,839 life has changed. So it death happens, you know what I'm saying. 69 00:04:58,879 --> 00:05:02,319 So for me, I for me, like I said, I'm overly conscious 70 00:05:02,319 --> 00:05:06,600 about that when it comes to women, because I don't know, sometimes I 71 00:05:06,639 --> 00:05:11,560 feel guilty. Like the misogynistic pod shit I'd be sometimes when I listen to 72 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:15,639 it, I'd be like, damn, maybe maybe I cared too much because 73 00:05:15,639 --> 00:05:20,759 I'm always fearful about a woman's safety or something like that. But whoa, 74 00:05:21,199 --> 00:05:26,959 look, I fall into that misogynistic shit sometimes, you know what I mean, 75 00:05:27,079 --> 00:05:30,600 just because shit, I'm a man. What do you expect? What 76 00:05:30,639 --> 00:05:38,519 do you mean by that? I fall into that like, oh, like 77 00:05:38,639 --> 00:05:41,680 sometimes I have a show on this point of view, you know what I 78 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:48,959 mean? Example, Oh, I was tough to say what you were saying 79 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:56,680 earlier, Drea about a man, a man giving his opinion about a way 80 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,839 a woman should be. What what do you feel? Are you the kind 81 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:01,680 of man who like things, say he should dictate or have input on, 82 00:06:01,759 --> 00:06:06,399 like how a woman should like carry herself or maybe like dress or anything like 83 00:06:06,439 --> 00:06:16,920 that. Oh sometimes, yeah, I'm not gonna say that. I'm not 84 00:06:16,959 --> 00:06:20,720 gonna dictate how she does, but I know how I like my woman to 85 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:27,040 operate sometimes, you know what I mean? In certain sets, Yeah, 86 00:06:27,079 --> 00:06:30,519 you know what I mean. So it wouldn't if I saw somebody out like 87 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:32,879 that. I'm not gonna condemn her for how she dressed or whatever, but 88 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:39,000 that could never be my chick. What if what if the woman What if 89 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:41,399 she likes you and she said, you know, I just dressed like this, 90 00:06:41,519 --> 00:06:43,279 you know, because I want to. But if you don't, I 91 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:46,120 mean to keep it a buck that's full of I'm kind of full of shit 92 00:06:46,319 --> 00:06:50,959 on that too, just because like I'm glad he said it. She's because 93 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:55,519 when she's dressed like that, look, that's what you She was dressed like 94 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:58,800 that to pull me in, you know what I mean. And that's that's 95 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,519 what brought me there in a first place. So when you say my woman, 96 00:07:01,879 --> 00:07:05,240 that's why I said, you mean the woman, you're not your woman 97 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:10,480 because she don't belong to you. But that's okay, trying to get you. 98 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:17,240 You're right, but they go both ways because you can't own nobody. 99 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:20,399 But but explain to me why I do want my woman to call me her 100 00:07:20,439 --> 00:07:25,839 man though I am hers and she is mine. I do like I do, 101 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:29,000 I do theory. No, No, you are mine. And because 102 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:32,920 because I worried, there we go this me again. I love you too 103 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:36,439 much. I love you too much, and I'm not saying that you are 104 00:07:38,399 --> 00:07:43,560 you are mine legally you are mine, so whatever, and I am yours, 105 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:46,519 and we are representations of each other. So no, I'm not about 106 00:07:46,519 --> 00:07:50,120 to go out here with my dick print going crazy. But you also ain't 107 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:55,040 about to go out here with your camerato showing. I think you're talking about 108 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:59,199 something completely different though. No, but that's under the covenant of marriage, 109 00:07:59,519 --> 00:08:01,480 even if we were dating. I need to this is a practice. I 110 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:05,800 need to know that you understand that we are representations of each other. When 111 00:08:05,839 --> 00:08:07,439 we go out together, we look good. And I'm not about to be 112 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:11,120 on some bullshit, and I hope you're not about to be on some bullshit. 113 00:08:11,199 --> 00:08:13,439 But if you are going to be on some bullshit, that's fine, 114 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,920 but you're going to be by yourself, because I have to understand that you 115 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:20,079 understand. I have to understand that you understand that we are representations of each 116 00:08:20,079 --> 00:08:22,279 other and we both got brands. So if me and Dre are dating, 117 00:08:22,879 --> 00:08:26,839 I ain't about to go I'm not about to go in there and show my 118 00:08:26,879 --> 00:08:30,800 ass at her event, and a vice versa. I hope you don't come 119 00:08:30,839 --> 00:08:33,240 in mind. But let's say I do get drunk and at her event and 120 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:37,039 I show my ass. Now I embarrass my girl, and I also and 121 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:41,120 I also embarrass myself in front of her people, her friends, her family. 122 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:45,039 She got an answers to that. No, No, I don't expect 123 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:46,840 her to still be with me after I do some shit like that, because 124 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:48,960 Nick, you had one job, and that's to show up, give me 125 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:52,440 my flowers, to your ass down, clap very loud, and leave. 126 00:08:52,159 --> 00:08:58,639 I think a lot of the times people people misunderstand love comes with responsibility. 127 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,639 Dating comes with responsibility. And it's not just not cheating and cheating. Isn't 128 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:09,519 that that's the nigga, that's just one facet of it. But the possession, 129 00:09:09,639 --> 00:09:16,039 that possession thing. Yeah, you're mine, I'm sorry you mine and 130 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:18,559 I'm yours. It's not the fuck up about it. That's it. Yeah, 131 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:22,559 I'm mine and you're and I'm yours. It's not it's not all do 132 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:26,159 everything. I'm saying that make my dinner. No, no, no, 133 00:09:26,159 --> 00:09:28,840 no no. But he's not saying ownership. He made that clear before. 134 00:09:28,759 --> 00:09:31,519 I don't own you. But because if you do, but if you do 135 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:37,200 break, if you do break this nonverbal agreement, then maybe we shouldn't be 136 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:41,440 together. And I think sometimes women don't even like that that, Oh, 137 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:45,559 I can do whatever I want to do. Yeah, you can by yourself, 138 00:09:45,639 --> 00:09:48,720 by yourself. Yeah, And I think I think that's where to me. 139 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:54,080 I hear a lot of the women that I come across state. Yeah, 140 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:56,519 I hear that I'm a grown ass for Yeah. And I think a 141 00:09:56,519 --> 00:10:01,559 lot of it too is that I think that niggas don't say that, but 142 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:03,799 they definitely exhibit the same type of ship. But it's like I said, 143 00:10:03,799 --> 00:10:07,919 like we had a conversation earlier, we got the freedom of choice, right, 144 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,080 you could choose to do what you want, and you could choose not 145 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:16,360 the fuck with it fear you Like that's a person's right, right, But 146 00:10:16,759 --> 00:10:22,039 well, also where you laughing that? I think I just don't think that 147 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:30,559 people really understand dating and titles, because in my mind, I never really 148 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:35,279 wanted to be in a relationship until I knew that you were somebody that I 149 00:10:35,279 --> 00:10:37,679 could marry, because I knew what was next. As soon as we say 150 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:41,600 we go together, the clock is ticking on when we move in together, 151 00:10:43,039 --> 00:10:46,320 and when and when and when we started making plans to do this and this 152 00:10:46,399 --> 00:10:48,440 and this and this and this and this and this because we can't. We 153 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:52,000 ain't just free dating. It ain't just it ain't just motherfucking freelance dating. 154 00:10:52,039 --> 00:10:54,519 No. All of this ship comes with the time. And if you wasting 155 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:56,759 my time, wasting your time, if I'm wasting your time, I hope 156 00:10:56,799 --> 00:10:58,720 you tell me I'm wasting your time, you get the fuck out of here. 157 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:03,840 Keep the condom on the I'm not keeping a condom. See, that's 158 00:11:03,039 --> 00:11:09,360 but that is, that's when it's first. Uh take other top clock combs. 159 00:11:09,519 --> 00:11:16,200 Oh you that happened. I'm sorry, but because but but for me, 160 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:22,000 you're right. But what what made Sierra different was she was like, 161 00:11:22,039 --> 00:11:24,759 well, we can't do that because I'm opulating. And I was like, 162 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,879 oh, so you know your coucie, Yeah, all right, bet sweet, 163 00:11:30,399 --> 00:11:35,799 this responsibility. But I'm aware of I'm gonna wear a lambskin, but 164 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:39,080 as soon as you're done opulating, this lambskin is coming off, I'm sorry, 165 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,759 I'm not wearing I'm not wearing an if we, if we go together? 166 00:11:43,519 --> 00:11:46,679 Oh you were if if you said, if y'all go together, yeah, 167 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:50,320 But I'm saying, like if you if y'all not, if y'all just 168 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:58,000 casually just fucking rounds, you got to got to use the rubbers. I'm 169 00:11:58,039 --> 00:12:01,080 sorry, I might because as soon as the condom come off, next, 170 00:12:01,519 --> 00:12:05,720 what are we? That's fine? And ship that might be happening while y'all 171 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:09,039 with the condom, say, I must say that, just depend on she 172 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:11,919 might ask you that, nigga, nigga, nigga, day one, what 173 00:12:13,039 --> 00:12:15,799 are we? Depending on how good you are, nigga, you can fuck 174 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:20,559 You could be a piece of shit with a good piece of dick, And 175 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:24,879 regardless of how good the dick is, you might confuse her enough to make 176 00:12:24,919 --> 00:12:28,279 her ask you what are we, because she wants to know that if if 177 00:12:28,279 --> 00:12:31,559 she wants to let that dick go or not, and if she's making the 178 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:35,399 right decision. In my opinion, I've been in the instance where I've been 179 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:37,759 sucking a girl and nigga. She never asked me that because I wasn't who 180 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:41,679 she wanted. But I also been an instance to where a nigga I was 181 00:12:41,759 --> 00:12:46,879 knocking the breaks off of her and she instantly asked me, yo, what 182 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:50,240 a week? Because I like you, you inspire me that and I had 183 00:12:50,279 --> 00:12:52,679 to make a decision. Wait when she asked you that, you gotta make 184 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:58,200 a decision right there? Uh nod? When when have you ever asked that? 185 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:01,639 Drea? You don't seem you ever asked anybody what aren't you know what 186 00:13:01,639 --> 00:13:07,080 I mean, never asked anybody what they are? But yeah, you never 187 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:11,679 say what we're doing like during set? No no, no, no, 188 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:16,440 no no no. It's probably when I probably when I was younger. Um, 189 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:20,080 yeah, probably when I was younger. Probably once maybe I could think 190 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:22,679 of when I was younger after just dating somebody for a while. But that's 191 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:26,480 just feel like clarity, Like yo, if we just casually dating, that's 192 00:13:26,519 --> 00:13:30,039 cool. I feel like if you ask that question, it's okay. Just 193 00:13:30,039 --> 00:13:33,080 don't get pissed off if you give rejected right, Like, if they say 194 00:13:33,159 --> 00:13:35,320 I'm not looking at the series, then just be cool with it and they 195 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:39,440 act accordingly. But I think that should come out in the beginning, you 196 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,919 know what I mean, I should, boy if it don't. Yeah, 197 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:46,879 and you know, feelings are after change to you know what I mean. 198 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:50,000 But yeah, we're just kicking it at first and then I really like you. 199 00:13:50,159 --> 00:13:54,080 And you know, niggas like to operating the space of technicality. They're 200 00:13:54,159 --> 00:14:01,840 very good at it. That's how niggas operated. Say I'm wrong, Niggas 201 00:14:01,879 --> 00:14:05,879 like to operate technically. Well, technically we're not together, don't matter what's 202 00:14:05,919 --> 00:14:09,399 going on. If we had a conversation, it said, this is what 203 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:15,000 it is. It's a text. I'm talking about your as technicality. Yeah, 204 00:14:15,799 --> 00:14:18,399 you know so like but you're like, so sometimes it is good to 205 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:20,919 have conversations. But you also got to be smart, right because if you 206 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:24,600 got you get caught in that space of technicality. If you're younger and you 207 00:14:24,639 --> 00:14:26,720 feel like, oh but we're doing now, nigga, what that niggas say 208 00:14:26,759 --> 00:14:30,919 though, what he says, what it is, I've been I've been in 209 00:14:31,039 --> 00:14:35,759 that where. Man, that's just a good piece of pussy though, And 210 00:14:35,799 --> 00:14:39,240 I'm not really trying to let go of it. But I don't want to 211 00:14:39,279 --> 00:14:41,639 be with you. Thought. Yeah, so if you single and I'm single. 212 00:14:41,679 --> 00:14:45,519 Can we can we still? Please do this? And please don't try 213 00:14:45,559 --> 00:14:48,759 to make nothing out of this. Please. I love people who are probably 214 00:14:48,799 --> 00:14:54,039 perfectly fine with that, but you know there's something perfectly fine with it. 215 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:58,120 I know people who have said they perfectly fine with it and have not been 216 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:01,679 perfectly fine with it. You because, just like me and operating the space 217 00:15:01,679 --> 00:15:03,480 of technicality women out you only got one more time to say that, though, 218 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:09,080 I'm so sorry that let me said my last time. Men. You 219 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:16,679 know, women are real good for hearing one thing, seeing another thing, 220 00:15:16,279 --> 00:15:20,440 and going off of what they feel. But you know it'd be bullshit a 221 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:22,399 lot of times, because you got some niggas who are out here, and 222 00:15:22,399 --> 00:15:24,799 it's not just me and who manipulate writing. Me and the women both play 223 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:28,360 bullshit games, but we're talking about me and sometimes will tell them motherfucker something 224 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:31,799 and treat them a different way so that they don't lose that good piece of 225 00:15:31,799 --> 00:15:39,120 pussy over whatever the situation. No, it's not because just how women, 226 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:41,679 just how women say. It's hard to find good, good, good good 227 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:48,720 dick. It's really hard to find a girl that a woman that has good 228 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:54,799 snatch and doesn't irritate you. You don't think it's bullshit to manipulate somebody because 229 00:15:54,799 --> 00:15:58,759 you like the pussy. Byron and I go out to eat, I order 230 00:16:00,279 --> 00:16:06,559 first Byron. We go to Panda Express. I might buy Byron's food. 231 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:11,279 I might buy Byron's food. I don't want to fuck Byron. Me and 232 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:15,440 Byron go to the movies. He might pay for the movies. I'm getting 233 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:17,879 you back for the for the dinner. But we're going. We're going to 234 00:16:17,919 --> 00:16:19,919 the movies just on some study ship or whatever. We might go to the 235 00:16:19,919 --> 00:16:26,559 club. I might know somebody. It's so many different exchanges between guys of 236 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:33,200 money. That's that's just what friends do now, and a change you. 237 00:16:33,399 --> 00:16:36,600 We're not fucking, we ain't never gonna fuck. We ain't talking about fucking. 238 00:16:37,039 --> 00:16:40,120 We might do the exact same thing. I might go out. You 239 00:16:40,159 --> 00:16:44,000 brought me food one night. It's not looking at nothing. But as soon 240 00:16:44,039 --> 00:16:48,080 as that penis enters that vagina and then you bring me food at midnight, 241 00:16:48,799 --> 00:16:52,240 it changes everything. We go to the movies and I pay, it changes. 242 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:57,159 It's for some reason money spending money on the person, or spending time 243 00:16:57,200 --> 00:17:00,360 with the person. I might spend time with a nigga. We might just 244 00:17:00,399 --> 00:17:02,639 go and go to the hookah bar. We might not. I've been to 245 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:06,200 huokah bar and I said not one word to my nigga the whole entire time. 246 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:08,039 We just smoking hookah. Might show each other some means of ship, 247 00:17:08,079 --> 00:17:12,279 but it ain't like we're sitting there a conversating. I can't do that with 248 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:18,079 a woman that I'm fucking, because now it looks like something, and now 249 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:21,160 it's taking as something and it's not nothing. I'm treating you like a friend. 250 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:23,880 We just happen to be fucking, and I think the lines get blurred 251 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:27,440 sometimes when men try not to treat a woman like a piece of pussy. 252 00:17:29,039 --> 00:17:30,519 I do like you a little. I do like you enough to stick my 253 00:17:30,599 --> 00:17:36,400 penis in you. So I'm not going to treat you like a pocket pussy. 254 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:41,759 But the actions that come with the actions that come with that make you 255 00:17:41,839 --> 00:17:47,400 believe, Oh, I like like whatever whatever emotions a woman feel, it 256 00:17:47,519 --> 00:17:51,279 changes that you know what I'm saying. And I think that that's where that's 257 00:17:51,279 --> 00:17:55,359 where the manipulation come in. That unless we unless you're talking about nigga saying 258 00:17:56,279 --> 00:18:03,759 saying shit like to make you think intentional shit like saying saying and don't get 259 00:18:03,799 --> 00:18:07,279 me wrong. It's like I said, it's not just me. And sometimes 260 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:10,200 women know that niggas have a certain liking for them too. You know, 261 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:14,240 people play the game, but I don't believe in manipulating nobody intentionally for your 262 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:18,440 own personal game, like doing that intentional shit like you said, telling people 263 00:18:18,519 --> 00:18:22,480 shit certain making shit look a certain kind of way when you know, like 264 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:26,400 that's all you know, Yeah, that's all this he is. Or you 265 00:18:26,400 --> 00:18:29,440 feel like you're about to lose the motherfucker, so you do a little have 266 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:32,839 a little ploy over here to reel the motherfucker back in. Like, nah, 267 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:37,039 that's too we have big Asians. Don't do that and don't fall for 268 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:41,400 it. Don't fall for it. That's the that's to me. Who is 269 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:48,400 more at fault the manipulator or to manipulate it or is it equal or fault? 270 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:53,599 It depends on how naive you are what they gotta do me. But 271 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:59,480 if you come outside to play and you get played, yeah, maybe you 272 00:18:59,519 --> 00:19:00,359 didn't come out side to play, ma, if you just went outside, 273 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:08,160 nah, you know what's up when you get to play in the game. 274 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:12,400 Yeah. But I sometimes I sometimes I've encountered women who didn't know that they're 275 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:18,279 playing like definitely, they all they all wrought rom coms. They're all this. 276 00:19:18,519 --> 00:19:22,599 That's the thing man, y'all. So the dream from the jump, 277 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:26,880 it's not about being still a dream from a drum. Niggas like to sell 278 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:30,599 dreams. Women like to buy dreams, absolutely everybody likes. I don't like 279 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:34,319 to buy dreams. This is the American dream is like the slogan for where 280 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:38,000 we fucking leave. Who don't like to buy a dream? Oh tell me 281 00:19:38,079 --> 00:19:44,200 what it is. I don't like to buy dreams either, but I'm saying 282 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:45,240 they seem nice. Just like we were talking earlier. You want to do 283 00:19:45,279 --> 00:19:48,519 this, you want to do that. Everybody like to buy a dream, 284 00:19:48,559 --> 00:19:51,920 even if you're doing in your subconscious. Nobody's like, fuck that positive, 285 00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:55,720 great sound and shit. Nobody says, but what is dating like today? 286 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:59,680 Is it? Is it? What is it? Are you? I feel 287 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:04,559 like they it has always been trash. They didn't is a tiring what's the 288 00:20:04,559 --> 00:20:15,880 tiring part? You need some oil man about the For me, it's just 289 00:20:15,039 --> 00:20:21,799 um filtering through different stuff, trying to um and I entered again. I'm 290 00:20:21,839 --> 00:20:23,720 not really, like really a dator, Like I'm not a person who's like, 291 00:20:23,799 --> 00:20:26,759 oh I'm out here dating. I'll go, you know, like if 292 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:30,880 asked um, somebody who I'm like, oh you cool. Yeah, we 293 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:34,000 can go try a date to see how that goes. I go. But 294 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:37,000 it's like an interview for you see interview for for both people. We can 295 00:20:37,039 --> 00:20:41,039 see if we got, you know, some kind of commonality. No, 296 00:20:42,079 --> 00:20:45,440 she probably she's probably really good at finessing an interview though, but it's definitely 297 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:48,480 an interview. Now, he said, I'm good at finessing. Now, 298 00:20:48,519 --> 00:20:49,759 I'm just a cool ass person. But this is the thing with me, 299 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:53,240 is I can find commonality. Like I'm just that kind of person. I 300 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:57,920 can just sit and talk to anybody, you know, but I'm not about 301 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:02,480 finessing them. The problem, but that's the problem that I had was that 302 00:21:02,519 --> 00:21:06,079 I can talk to anybody and that they're talking that talk. I can draw 303 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:10,160 shit out of women that maybe a lot of men can't. That's why I 304 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:11,839 thought podcasting was a good thing for me, because I can talk, and 305 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:15,720 I can bring things out of women. And then me bringing things out of 306 00:21:15,759 --> 00:21:18,559 women made women believe that I liked it. Yeah I wanted them and I 307 00:21:18,599 --> 00:21:22,359 didn't, and then then we have sex. And then if it wasn't trash 308 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:26,960 because I am trashed. But if it wasn't trashed that time then but if 309 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:30,440 it wasn't trash that time, then they then it's like, oh shit, 310 00:21:30,519 --> 00:21:32,839 well I don't want him to you know what I'm saying, and I do 311 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:38,839 not bringing out I'm not a woman like what I inspire bitches for sure. 312 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:45,559 I feel like now I just feel like I inspire women. I just feel 313 00:21:45,599 --> 00:21:49,119 like I feel like I because I only know how to communicate with women. 314 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,680 I know how to communicate with women because I was raised by nothing but women, 315 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:56,559 so I know how to communicate with them. So a lot of the 316 00:21:56,599 --> 00:22:00,440 times they just they let their guard down way quicker than they will with an 317 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,240 other nigga who don't know how to talk. Because let's be real, a 318 00:22:03,279 --> 00:22:06,279 lot of the times, guard down means asking enough questions for me to believe 319 00:22:06,319 --> 00:22:08,559 that you really want to know who I am. So I feel I feel 320 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:11,839 I feel like, oh, niggas be asking what's your favorite color? Which 321 00:22:11,839 --> 00:22:14,640 your favorite song? What'll school you want to? I don't give a fuck 322 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:17,000 about none of that. I'm trying to figure out, nigga, where your 323 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,960 trauma come from? Why you laughter what you do? Well? Shit, 324 00:22:21,039 --> 00:22:25,440 what else we're talking about you, because I don't. I gotta. When 325 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:27,599 I was dating, I had to figure I realized that I didn't have money 326 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:30,359 going for me. I didn't had that going for me. So a lot 327 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:34,079 of the times niggas niggas and take somebody downtown to get them a nice steak 328 00:22:34,079 --> 00:22:37,400 and this and that and then that and pull them up, pull up in 329 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:44,319 a nice car. Niggas is doing that? You think? So? Absolutely? 330 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:45,920 Yeah, I'm an energy But you know I always talk about energy. 331 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,200 I'm an energy person. Like I usually know if I want to encounter a 332 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:52,440 person again after the first encounter, I don't even really had to a lot 333 00:22:52,519 --> 00:22:55,799 of times. Um and then when we but if you feel but if you 334 00:22:55,839 --> 00:22:57,839 feel like a person, really, if if I like you, if I 335 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:02,480 like you and we've been this, ain't this ain't Oh I met you on 336 00:23:02,559 --> 00:23:04,160 Tuesday. We didn't talk at all, and then I asked you to go 337 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:07,319 out. We go on a date on Wednesday. No, we've been texting, 338 00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:11,000 so you've been getting we've been doing each other. Then that's going to 339 00:23:11,079 --> 00:23:14,319 date and then now I'm pulling out the big guns, right, So what 340 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:15,920 you know what I mean? Why you feel like boom boom. If we're 341 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:19,440 getting into the mix of it, I'm making forget everything is around it's motherfucker, 342 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:23,359 that's my that's I'm trying to fuck. But I'm also trying to let 343 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:26,960 you know that I am. I am interesting who you inter who you are? 344 00:23:27,079 --> 00:23:30,799 Yeah, for sure because a lot of niggas don't know how to talk. 345 00:23:30,839 --> 00:23:33,960 So I had, but I realized that I don't have money going for 346 00:23:33,079 --> 00:23:37,279 me. So it's the goal. I always the fuck for both of y'all, 347 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:41,799 like, no matter, So it's day even if I don't like you, 348 00:23:41,839 --> 00:23:44,440 but that's the end. I'm not going on a data phone like you. 349 00:23:44,559 --> 00:23:45,519 Yeah you know what I'm saying. When you get there, like if 350 00:23:45,519 --> 00:23:48,440 it's like, oh we cool, we get there, but it's like it 351 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:56,759 ain't really the other kind. No, Okay, how good she look like 352 00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:03,519 she look? Because her could you might change my mind if you annoy it 353 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:08,920 and it's not happening. An annoying woman is ridiculous because not only is she 354 00:24:10,039 --> 00:24:12,759 annoying that, but is a private investigator. So I don't like that. 355 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,640 So I have to let you down easy because I don't want you snooping around. 356 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:19,160 I don't want you to telling people we talked. Every woman is a 357 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:23,200 private invested I know. But if she annoying and a private duest investigating. 358 00:24:23,279 --> 00:24:27,960 Now she all in my comment, she texted me, she bro no no, 359 00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,559 no, no no, but I know, I know if you annoy 360 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:34,079 him before we go on in the first date though, for sure one percent, 361 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:38,480 I wouldn't. You wouldn't. I would because I don't like a dude 362 00:24:38,519 --> 00:24:41,279 a lot of talking, you know what I mean. So it's like our 363 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:45,240 first date, that's what we're gonna do our talking through. So I ain't 364 00:24:45,279 --> 00:24:48,000 gonna be texting shit all day whatever not. So you're not asking about trauma 365 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:51,519 when you get there, because you gotta start. You gotta start from you 366 00:24:51,519 --> 00:24:52,920 gotta start from day one. You gotta start from now. I'm not starting 367 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:56,359 from step one. I don't got that going from me. He tall, 368 00:24:56,759 --> 00:25:00,680 dark skinning, and you got all his hair, and it's I ain't got. 369 00:25:00,799 --> 00:25:02,839 I don't have that out of my hair. Yeah, I don't, 370 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:07,880 I don't. I don't. I have to recognize my strimps. I come 371 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,400 in. I got to recognize my strimps and I don't have. I don't. 372 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,279 I don't. I feel like I ain't got. I don't think that 373 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:18,240 really little. It helps you, know what I mean? But nigga being 374 00:25:18,279 --> 00:25:26,519 six plus nigga definitely helps helps you. Yeah, nigga, I am. 375 00:25:26,599 --> 00:25:32,759 I am only asking questions. I just that's it. But I think I 376 00:25:32,799 --> 00:25:36,680 think more or less. Man It like if that's what's gonna draw you in, 377 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:40,960 but it ain't gonna keep you who whoever? A woman? Yeah, 378 00:25:41,039 --> 00:25:44,279 cap, I don't think so. Cap. If you look like if you 379 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:49,079 look like somebody, if you look if you look like somebody that she could 380 00:25:49,079 --> 00:25:53,759 be with, she might decide to tolerate you or Notoh, do you know, 381 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,480 pussy, I have a super cap for you. What I'm speaking, 382 00:25:57,599 --> 00:26:02,440 I'm speaking for me, ain't no fucking Yeah. I was about to say, 383 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:07,559 you know how much pussy, I've talked to myself out of tell us 384 00:26:07,559 --> 00:26:15,400 your story, tell us about doing what being missogynistic? Nah, goofy being 385 00:26:15,519 --> 00:26:18,960 too funny? Yeah, I thought it was funny. It was he just 386 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:23,359 thought us it was missogyn thought I thought it was funny. I thought it 387 00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:29,359 was funny. I was crazy. Yeah, I thought that she was funny. 388 00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:30,880 So it was like, fucking I gotta let this shit out. Is 389 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:36,079 that hard for you to figure out a woman's sense of humor. Sometimes I 390 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:42,799 just don't be careedt nothing. You didn't burn it. Yeah, but sometimes 391 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:47,279 I mean sometimes that is that. Sometimes I'll be like, I gotta make 392 00:26:47,279 --> 00:26:52,839 her not like me on purpose. I have I gotta aboard, aboard, 393 00:26:52,839 --> 00:26:56,839 aboard. So why you just don't go with the I'm good men can't do 394 00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:00,559 that well, he said, you have to talk to save seemed like a 395 00:27:00,599 --> 00:27:03,359 strenuous situation for this man. I was just one. I'm talking. It 396 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:07,400 wasn't intentional, okay, okay, you know what I mean. It's just 397 00:27:07,799 --> 00:27:11,720 we was talking or whatever. I thought something was funny and I had to 398 00:27:11,799 --> 00:27:14,519 let it out and she ain't fly that shit funny and I've done that, 399 00:27:14,799 --> 00:27:15,799 like well, he was like, then that's crazy. I can see your 400 00:27:15,839 --> 00:27:22,519 tracks, like, and you thought that was gonna be okay? I definitely, 401 00:27:22,559 --> 00:27:26,319 I've definitely said that. I've definitely said something like that. It's rude. 402 00:27:27,039 --> 00:27:30,640 But but I'm not just the first day. I'm not doing on the 403 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,720 first date though. I didn't say that. This was on the approach like 404 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:41,160 crazy that It was just like, man, you look good, but is 405 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:48,319 that all you? You know, everything you say before but doesn't before but 406 00:27:48,559 --> 00:27:56,440 doesn't count. But it's but but it's so crapy that's crazy. But that's 407 00:27:56,599 --> 00:28:00,400 crazy. No, I mean that, I mean shit, that is a 408 00:28:00,519 --> 00:28:07,480 very valid fucking question. If I can walk up and look six three and 409 00:28:07,519 --> 00:28:14,599 then get home and be five eight, that's crazy. That's crazy. So 410 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:18,880 yes, niggas should be able to ask, hey, before I invest time 411 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:23,279 and money and energy, is this all you? But maybe not just be 412 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:32,400 like because all right, because because you and your head is big, but 413 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,759 that bun is killing it, so you cute, It's fucked. If you 414 00:28:34,799 --> 00:28:40,119 took that bun off, I would be shitty, That's what I'm saying, 415 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,160 because at night I look like Seeley from the tele Purple, my nigga. 416 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,799 But you but I've seen you look good. But it's all I've seen you 417 00:28:47,839 --> 00:28:52,880 look good, So it's it's straight. But if you took boom oh, 418 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:56,880 so you're saying like, if this detached from your I know it's so, 419 00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:00,240 I accept. I accept the come over here to record like, oh she 420 00:29:00,279 --> 00:29:04,400 looked good. But if you took that off and your forehead was huge and 421 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:07,519 the bun is like this, you got the post rod, you got the 422 00:29:07,519 --> 00:29:11,559 post rod. Pony, respect the past, for they're doing the best they're 423 00:29:11,559 --> 00:29:17,599 doing the best. But but the nigga. But that might sound crazy, 424 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:22,519 but I do see why some guys ask. I try to do as much. 425 00:29:22,759 --> 00:29:26,240 That happened to me in sixth grade, seventh grade, I dated a 426 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,200 girl. Her name was Tiffany. She had the fresh braids to the back. 427 00:29:29,359 --> 00:29:33,480 This one uh boom boom was going crazy on on the radio. That's 428 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:37,720 only that's that's what year it was. Man, we don't, we don't. 429 00:29:37,759 --> 00:29:38,839 We went on spring break. The whole spring break. We're talking on 430 00:29:38,839 --> 00:29:41,480 the phone all day every day. She come back from spring break that Monday, 431 00:29:41,599 --> 00:29:48,720 braid's gone hair crazy, nappy, super duper dumb, short, nothing, 432 00:29:48,759 --> 00:29:56,319 but she looked like a nigga inmate. That just like Tray songs taking 433 00:29:56,319 --> 00:29:59,759 the braids out, like I don't want to leave Tray just gotta make it. 434 00:30:00,079 --> 00:30:04,440 Yeah, she and songs references. I don't know what anybody anybody anybody, 435 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:11,720 Yeah, but yeah, but dating dating, dating is a dating is 436 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:18,720 is weird because you just get to see us side of a person that they 437 00:30:18,759 --> 00:30:22,960 don't never show anybody else, like a mask. Yeah, and that dating 438 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,440 mask, like the questions, the questions that get the master to come off, 439 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:33,119 the questions that get the master to come off, and then you know 440 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:37,880 some people are good. Yeah. Is it a mask or is it that 441 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,319 you present your best self? Right? They say that you want to present 442 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:45,920 your best self. It's not about like necessarily being dishonest, right, especially 443 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,960 in using hair. If y'all dave black women, that's a horrible fucking example. 444 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:55,599 No, that's not I fuck with at all, because if it's weaves 445 00:30:55,839 --> 00:30:57,920 whatever, like, that's that's an expressive thing. So it's like whatever, 446 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:03,440 So I'm not gonna do what you talk about the mmate. That's serious. 447 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:07,240 But I think that's a horrible example for y'all to use. But I don't 448 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,880 think example. I think it's a horrible example special. I think if you 449 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:14,200 can say it's not, I think it's a horrible. If I took off 450 00:31:14,319 --> 00:31:18,079 my waves when we got to the crib, my nigga and I was bald, 451 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,079 you would be shitty. What are you talking about? Put your waves 452 00:31:21,119 --> 00:31:22,559 back on when we go out? That'd be a strange out there. You're 453 00:31:22,839 --> 00:31:30,519 lying, brou If you found out that I was in the barbershop getting the 454 00:31:30,599 --> 00:31:33,759 lace front to fill up my George Jefferson gap, you would be shitty. 455 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:37,519 What are you talking about I would not give a fu. First of all, 456 00:31:37,519 --> 00:31:38,359 it would be weird because specially, I mean, that's not something to 457 00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:41,359 me and traditionally did, even though they got all kinds of shits right in 458 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:45,599 that new day. Um, so that would just be different, weird, 459 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:52,519 like like that's whatever. But um I'm talking about with black with black women 460 00:31:52,559 --> 00:31:55,799 in their hair, I think, And you can say you don't. I 461 00:31:55,839 --> 00:32:00,599 don't fucking care. I think that's a terrible Let me so much. Let 462 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:04,599 me let me rephrase it. That was seventh grade. As an adult today, 463 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,880 I do not want to date a woman who do not know what to 464 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:10,519 do with their hair. Okay, that that that is sexist stuff. What 465 00:32:12,079 --> 00:32:15,599 like you said, you said the nigga cat can do that? Who said 466 00:32:15,599 --> 00:32:16,640 that? I said, put your ways back on you. I an't say 467 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:21,079 that. He said, you're pulling this. You're pulling his way, you're 468 00:32:21,079 --> 00:32:23,920 pulling on his tracks while y'are sucking. No, No, that shit glued 469 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:30,519 down. Okay, don't pulling my ship that now. It's just it's because 470 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:34,200 for me, the reason why I said the woman know how to do her 471 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:37,240 hair, that just lets me know, like watching a woman do her hair 472 00:32:37,279 --> 00:32:40,240 in the mirror before we go out like, oh, so you really know 473 00:32:40,279 --> 00:32:44,839 what makes you look good? Like y'all? For a woman to know what 474 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,799 ear rings that brings out our cheek bones and the color of her nails that 475 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:51,559 bring it, y'all gotta do a whole y'all. Y'all don't have to do 476 00:32:51,599 --> 00:32:54,160 shit. Y'all do a whole lot of shit to look good. Yeah, 477 00:32:54,160 --> 00:33:00,359 and I like that, I agree. But if you don't know how to 478 00:33:00,359 --> 00:33:04,480 do your hair and you take out your hair and you look like Trey songs, 479 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:09,400 I am upset. That's what I'm saying. I think at the age 480 00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:14,680 that we are now though, that's something that you should have picked up about 481 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:19,319 that. Yeah, if we if we're forty years old and you can't cook, 482 00:33:20,559 --> 00:33:22,039 it's not a it's not about it's not a it's not even about gender 483 00:33:22,119 --> 00:33:27,359 roles. I can cook, but if we have children, I got to 484 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,400 be the sole per person I cook or are you gonna try to cook? 485 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:31,799 But how you don't how to feed yourself? And for that's that's the more 486 00:33:32,599 --> 00:33:37,799 I think when people talk about cooking, I think that's what they that's what 487 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:40,240 man mean, you don't how to feed yourself. I don't think that's what 488 00:33:40,319 --> 00:33:43,680 I think. That's what you mean, and I and I and I love 489 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,880 that that's what you mean. I don't think that's what most niggah, I 490 00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:51,480 want you to feed me. Oh yeah, no, no, no, 491 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:53,519 shout out to you for being that, But you don't know how to feed 492 00:33:53,559 --> 00:33:58,240 yourself. That's scary, my cousin. Cooking is a life skill. Everybody 493 00:33:58,279 --> 00:34:01,880 should know how to do it, some kind of basic cooking, some kind 494 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:06,759 yeah, some kind of. Basically it's a life skill. Uh. It 495 00:34:06,799 --> 00:34:09,599 tells me a lot about how you cooked, though, all one thousand percent. 496 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:14,760 Yes, yes, that definitely. It's definitely a character attribute to see 497 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:21,239 how how I want my cook because if you're taking all these shortcuts to to 498 00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:25,960 to make some shit like what like gravey out the package. Yeah, hey, 499 00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:30,280 I used to use Verby out the package for a long time, but 500 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,800 I've been deliverous. Say used to, but you know what, stove stop, 501 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:37,480 stovetop stuffing's fire man. Hey, we could turn these mics off right 502 00:34:37,519 --> 00:34:44,039 now. Man, that is a fucking line. You never heard that before 503 00:34:44,079 --> 00:34:46,400 the FIRS. When I was a kid, one of my friends just told 504 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:50,119 me she was eating some if she listened to this, because she listened to 505 00:34:50,199 --> 00:34:53,880 it. She was eating scalloped cheese potatoes at the box. Now, wow, 506 00:34:54,599 --> 00:35:01,840 that's crazy. Now, now with that being said, I might make 507 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:09,320 some stuff. This stuff out the box. It's the massilee just just because 508 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:17,960 because I don't I don't know how all this to say. But he already 509 00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:22,239 told us what it was that hot with it. That's funny. But if 510 00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:24,800 you like it out the box, but don't make you don't. Don't make 511 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:29,199 me. No mashed potatoes out of no box? Hold the phone? Whoa 512 00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:35,159 why they got mashades in the bag? The Idaho garlic. Don't do that 513 00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:38,039 when I tell you out? Wait? What what's she supposed to do? 514 00:35:39,199 --> 00:35:46,039 Boil some mash I do it all the time. Why don't you make the 515 00:35:46,039 --> 00:35:50,559 potatoes? Then I do it all the time. You do what I boiled 516 00:35:50,599 --> 00:35:53,360 mashed potatoes, Chop them up, boil them, mash them. Ships myself? 517 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:57,639 You're feeling that's what stuff? I don't feel out? So what is 518 00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,559 she like? The peels and their ship? Don't be lazy, go all 519 00:36:00,599 --> 00:36:04,679 the way for most parts. Now see you see you see having this nigga? 520 00:36:04,679 --> 00:36:07,239 You can't eat it where you can't tell us in the bag, then 521 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,440 I can tell. But definitely tail if that's the only meal you do know 522 00:36:09,519 --> 00:36:13,400 how to make, don't give me, yeah, really, don't. Don't 523 00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:19,800 get me no box macaroni and cheese. Don't give me enough what we're saying. 524 00:36:20,079 --> 00:36:22,599 Don't give me no Kraft macaroni and cheese, not even the the luxe. 525 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:28,639 Are you crazy? Who grap and cheese? And who do you know? 526 00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,960 You don't how much it costs real macaroni and cheese for three people could 527 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:37,800 feed y'all for three foods. That's if you're making that big ass page. 528 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,639 That's if you're making any kind of good macaroni and cheese, you want you 529 00:36:40,639 --> 00:36:45,239 want her to boil them, boil them pasta because you can't tell me cheese, 530 00:36:46,159 --> 00:36:49,239 that's it. That's why she don't putting milk and cheese in there. 531 00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:52,920 And stern it, don't you mean what and cheese? You just wanted to 532 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:54,639 boil some pasta? Didn't put some some milk and some cheese in there? 533 00:36:54,639 --> 00:36:59,079 In third? Yeah, okay, don't don't give me no crash kind of 534 00:36:59,159 --> 00:37:01,760 cheese cheese. I don't give a fuck about all that shit. Just because 535 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:06,000 if the bitch throws some craft singles and then you're gonna be shitty. Yeah, 536 00:37:06,119 --> 00:37:10,679 because you whites and that's not my ministry, you know what I mean? 537 00:37:12,159 --> 00:37:14,719 Nah, don't do that. What she should need. That's what I'm 538 00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:21,400 trying to say. And I prefer a rule. This is he was about 539 00:37:21,159 --> 00:37:28,559 to say, I prefer us. If that's not what you're into, Okay, 540 00:37:28,639 --> 00:37:35,679 hey sir, if that's not what you're let's just funny. Deep. 541 00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:42,000 I say that for me when when I want to eat like that, for 542 00:37:42,039 --> 00:37:44,480 the most part, I just go out and buy it. When you say 543 00:37:44,519 --> 00:37:46,400 you want to eat like what like the like the rule and all of that 544 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:51,719 stuff. Okay, I'll just go buy it, okay, because that's funny. 545 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:53,719 I'm not about to do that shit, that's funny. This is black. 546 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:58,119 What do y'alls? This is my niggas for sure, for sure. 547 00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:01,000 Now that's but But the thing think about it. The thing about social media 548 00:38:01,079 --> 00:38:05,639 and y'all can y'all can help me out because I'm not dating. But you 549 00:38:05,679 --> 00:38:09,719 don't know if my fucking can cook. It's like LinkedIn of dating kinda, 550 00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:14,360 and you don't know if it my fucking cook. Like imagine you shooting your 551 00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:17,480 shot. This is girl on Instagram. No, you know there's a girl 552 00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:22,079 on Instagram. She finds how she dances. She dances and I put the 553 00:38:22,079 --> 00:38:27,920 lotion and the splash on there every time, spank paint every single time. 554 00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,920 It's funny. We cool. It's not like she a stranger. I know 555 00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:34,280 who she is. She finds it funny or whatever. But what if? 556 00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:37,000 What if? What if I was single and then I was able to go 557 00:38:37,079 --> 00:38:39,920 out with this girl and I find out that she wanted a bitch that we're 558 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:44,119 talking on the speaker phone in Walmart? What if you find that out? 559 00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:49,800 What like you? Because you don't, you won't know that. But what 560 00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:54,159 if That's what I'm saying. What if you're shooting your shot and she liked 561 00:38:54,159 --> 00:38:57,960 to sit in the front row of the movie theaters. You won't know this, 562 00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,400 No, you won't until you go in the movies theaters and her crazy 563 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:06,519 ass water ignorance, she walked to the front of them. You know about 564 00:39:06,599 --> 00:39:08,559 You're gonna know about the cooking, though, because when the motherfucker know how 565 00:39:08,599 --> 00:39:13,039 to cook, they'd be putting them a little tutorials, not a single cooking. 566 00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:20,039 Anybody who knows me, I am a real cook. Called Thanksgiving then 567 00:39:20,119 --> 00:39:23,039 it was real cook at car Britney right now, but she always ate, 568 00:39:23,119 --> 00:39:25,400 but you don't. That's what I'm saying. Like some people who really can 569 00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:29,880 get down, they don't really post like that Instagram and wanted to play to 570 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:35,840 nothing. But maybe because but maybe because of who you but because you do, 571 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,039 we do, we do content. So you your content is played, 572 00:39:38,079 --> 00:39:42,880 so you didn't necessarily your page is different with it now my Facebook maybe on 573 00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:46,159 my story zone, but my Instagram nowhere, not even the story, but 574 00:39:46,199 --> 00:39:51,239 it's somewhere on that on social media, on your social media, my Facebook, 575 00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:52,079 I probably put it on the stories. Yeah. See, that's what 576 00:39:52,119 --> 00:39:57,199 I'm saying you everybody. I just got you my Instagram. You don't have 577 00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:00,760 my Facebook. I know. I'm just saying. I'm saying, if I 578 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:06,559 like you, I'm finding If I like you, I'm finding your Facebook page. 579 00:40:06,639 --> 00:40:12,639 That might maybe, But if I if I like you, I'm definitely 580 00:40:12,679 --> 00:40:15,519 going I'm definitely searching. But you just won't know. Like you find out 581 00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:20,239 you like a girl and you find out she wanted the ones that's always arguing 582 00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:27,400 on Facebook, just all all the kind she's suspended from Facebook every week because 583 00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:31,199 she just always on their arguing. I don't like that because those people that 584 00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:36,280 be like that, never talking person. I've never met a person that talked 585 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,559 that much on Facebook that talked in person. Never. Most of the times 586 00:40:39,599 --> 00:40:44,159 it's because you haven't got no friends in real life. I don't know about 587 00:40:44,159 --> 00:40:47,639 that. I think if you're sitting there and you arguing with these people that 588 00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:52,639 you quote unquote, no that like, because I could, butcher, I'd 589 00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:55,840 much rather have with dialogue with people that I'm actually cool. Didn't be talking 590 00:40:55,840 --> 00:41:00,239 to these people that I don't even know. If we saw each other out 591 00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:02,440 in person, we wouldn't be talking it all right, you know what I 592 00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:06,960 mean? It might be a high yeah, yeah, like a motherfucker talked 593 00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:08,440 to you all day on Facebook or whatever, and then when you see him 594 00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:13,480 in person, they'd be acting lengd it ship ship shop. That's what you 595 00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:15,519 really up. A good point. We only got two more minutes. Do 596 00:41:15,559 --> 00:41:21,280 you believe that the two world should stay apart? No, me neither, 597 00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:24,960 but I but I have I have been in I have been I have been 598 00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:30,840 in situation to where I saw somebody and I was like about to initiate the 599 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:36,239 conversation, and then the day the energy was like nah was it man? 600 00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:40,320 There present? Nah? Even no instances I think it should be and not 601 00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:44,360 in that instance, like if you're cool, like I see people all the 602 00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:46,960 time, I we like, I'm sorry, I can't get your name, 603 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:50,119 but no I know your face. You know I speak. But like, 604 00:41:50,559 --> 00:41:55,280 as far as the world's being separate, So if I, if I think 605 00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,480 with Byron is saying, it's different. Like if we talk, if we 606 00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:00,960 arguing or talking on face book every single day and I see you in person 607 00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:05,119 and you do not talk, we need to be talking. We need to 608 00:42:05,159 --> 00:42:08,320 be talking because someone but some people don't know how to talk in person though, 609 00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:15,719 or they breathstink. Hey, you know, here's some gun. Let's 610 00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:19,960 talk. Yeah. Yeah, I haven't been. I haven't really been out 611 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,679 well because because of the shows, because of podcasts, and whenever I go 612 00:42:23,679 --> 00:42:27,760 out in the city, I kind of know somebody out everywhere, so I 613 00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,960 always find somebody to latch onto and talk to him. But for the most 614 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:36,440 part, I'm I'm gonna try to talk through this situation. I don't really 615 00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,559 want to be here, so I've learned that about you. Yeah, I 616 00:42:38,559 --> 00:42:42,519 don't really I don't really want to be here. So I'm gonna find somebody 617 00:42:42,559 --> 00:42:45,679 and talk to this person the entire time because I got really I get real 618 00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:51,719 bad social anxiety. Then it's not necessarily anxiety, it's just maybe that's it. 619 00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,079 I don't I feel obligated to entertain everybody. If I'm not talking to 620 00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:58,239 one person, I gotta make sure everybody's okay, and I don't really like 621 00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:00,119 that. That's why I have really my birthday gatherings, none of that ship. 622 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,719 I want to make sure everybody's having a good time, and that's too 623 00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:07,840 much for me. I enjoyed being there, but I don't. I'm gonna 624 00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:13,159 nigga on the wall, Yeah you know what I mean, but I'm gonna 625 00:43:13,199 --> 00:43:15,840 moving around, I'm gonna speak, Hey, what's up, hell are you 626 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:21,639 doing? Or whatever. But when I spend I'm most comfortable like just sitting 627 00:43:21,679 --> 00:43:25,280 on the side and watching everybody else in the right. That time we was 628 00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:30,280 at Dowdy's numb event. Shorty got drunk so bad. I followed her wherever 629 00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:38,199 she went because she was a walking She was a walking disaster piece. Everywhere 630 00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:40,480 she bout to too was a disaster and I just wanted to watch it. 631 00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:45,480 But other than that, I'm I'm like, I'm kind of like that or 632 00:43:45,559 --> 00:43:49,719 talking to one person, Drea, what kind of person are you? Are 633 00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:54,039 you a tworker? I'm an exceptional person. Oh, I'm sorry I went 634 00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:58,639 for the party. No, I just I mean so I'm a homebody mostly. 635 00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:00,840 Um, I don't really go I like that no more. I like 636 00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:04,400 to have people over. Like my people weren't real cool, but I like 637 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,719 to have like come over. I like to cook and maybe have some drinks. 638 00:44:07,039 --> 00:44:08,800 If I do go out, like, I don't really do the club 639 00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:15,360 Scotlett Potatoes. He listen, listen is crazy. My son lives off that 640 00:44:15,679 --> 00:44:20,079 yes, right now at my house. If you came over, assuming that 641 00:44:20,159 --> 00:44:22,159 the four boxes of macaroni and cheeseman I couldn't cook, you would be sadly 642 00:44:22,199 --> 00:44:27,599 mistaking my son's lunch. But um, everybody you would to don't worry. 643 00:44:27,599 --> 00:44:30,280 I'll bring you a plate next time you want see her. But ucause I'm 644 00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:37,480 not doubting you, not fully because somebody said that somebody could cook, but 645 00:44:37,519 --> 00:44:40,280 then I found out that their mom couldn't cook. They really wasn't a good 646 00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:44,599 judgment of who could cook. I'm real confident. Well, I think that's 647 00:44:44,599 --> 00:44:46,719 still I think as a child, you know what I mean, you all 648 00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:50,320 the ways think that your parents can cook. You know what I mean just 649 00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,840 because that's what you used to until you get outside of the house and you're 650 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:57,760 like, oh damn, that wasn't ship. Go ahead and called your favorite 651 00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:00,480 cousin because he can vouched to Yep. Yeah, I'm where. It's my 652 00:45:00,519 --> 00:45:05,760 dog. But no, I like to just go out to you. I 653 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:07,880 don't. I don't like to be out like that. I'll go Um. 654 00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:10,079 I prefer to stay home. And if I do, God, is it 655 00:45:10,119 --> 00:45:12,840 the older you get, the more you like to be in the house. 656 00:45:13,119 --> 00:45:16,360 Yeah. Yeah, And the crowds throw me off. Sometimes it's not anxiety. 657 00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,559 But like I said, I'm energy person. So if it feels like 658 00:45:19,559 --> 00:45:23,079 a bad environment, well I one thousand percent. But everywhere I go out 659 00:45:23,079 --> 00:45:27,719 for, like I know, depends on who's Like, if it's a podcast 660 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,800 an event, ain't nothing happening here. I have realized that, Like, 661 00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:34,480 if it's a room for the podcasters, ain't notything to happen. But if 662 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:37,400 it's some niggas in there, dad just there, I'm not staying here. 663 00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:40,840 I don't know you, bro, But DJ was Djan was hard because I'm 664 00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:46,559 there to provide a service. Yeah, and I I'm trying. I'm trying 665 00:45:46,559 --> 00:45:52,440 to control the energy but liquor always fucked that up for people, like people 666 00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:55,519 sucked that up like drunk people sucked that up. They do. They fucked 667 00:45:55,519 --> 00:45:59,079 that up a lot. They fucked me up, and I don't like that. 668 00:45:59,079 --> 00:46:01,400 That's why I kind of to get away from that a bit. Try 669 00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:07,800 to spit on me because I wouldn't play Bootsy at an R and B set. 670 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:14,360 She was mad and I had to like so you had to set it 671 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,239 off. Sorry, I was right there. It was by the rampause. 672 00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:22,719 But yeah, like DJ and yeah, I had to know I'm good. 673 00:46:23,639 --> 00:46:29,360 I enjoy it and sometimes I just enjoy telling people no, yeah, you're 674 00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:35,119 seen like the type. No oh, he for sure. Like it was 675 00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:38,159 a dude, what's the weirdest request you got? Well, it's just something 676 00:46:38,199 --> 00:46:44,079 that I consistently get at the club that I work at. Uh, niggas 677 00:46:44,119 --> 00:46:49,800 want to come up and pay me to play their music, and like, 678 00:46:50,119 --> 00:46:52,679 off top it's one hundred and fifty dollars, you know what I mean off 679 00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:57,360 the dribble, and dude was like, uh, why why are you trying? 680 00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:00,199 Why? Like he's like, I got ten dollars for you to play. 681 00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:02,719 I said, nigga, what ten ten? Nigga? It's a hundred 682 00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:07,320 dollars at the very mental just because nobody here wants to hear your song, 683 00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:13,320 bro right, and I'm gonna have to restart the whole party after that. 684 00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,639 That's not true. It's three niggas with him that's gonna get in the middle 685 00:47:15,679 --> 00:47:19,480 of the floor. I got exactly, I got there. I gonna have 686 00:47:19,519 --> 00:47:24,039 to restart the whole party, trash bro to play your goddamn song. So 687 00:47:25,079 --> 00:47:30,400 no, and don't stand by me. Don't stand by me waiting for me 688 00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:34,760 to play the song either. Don't request the song and stand there. Uh, 689 00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:37,159 that's that's a woman, though. Women do that more than anything. 690 00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:42,039 I was at the spot of white man stood right there. He has me 691 00:47:42,079 --> 00:47:46,480 to play motherfucking dangerous minds. Nigga. Gangs is paradise, Yes, nigga. 692 00:47:52,559 --> 00:47:57,440 I smoked it though, because he paid me fifty. He paid me 693 00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:00,519 fifty. After he was standing there though, he was like, what you 694 00:48:00,559 --> 00:48:05,239 need money? Yeah, I said, oh, Ben, spend spend it 695 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,360 right out of whatever came. Oh fifty right there, you got it right 696 00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,199 here. I didn't know that people did that unless it was like a private 697 00:48:10,199 --> 00:48:14,679 party. I didn't know that people in clubs went up to Jason, I've 698 00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:16,000 gone up to a DJ and asked if it would be cool to do a 699 00:48:16,039 --> 00:48:21,679 birthday shout out, but not like, actually play a song. It's it's 700 00:48:21,679 --> 00:48:24,880 a it's a common thing. And they motherfucker went up to the booge and 701 00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:30,599 asked them to play atomic dog. Bro not not a not a cute dog 702 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:35,840 nigga, not no person in the frat nigga, an old nigga came the 703 00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:37,199 bug and was like can you I said, Bro, how often do you 704 00:48:37,199 --> 00:48:39,800 get this? He was like, Bro, every night, at least two 705 00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:43,519 or three times every night. This is before I was DJ. Everybody. 706 00:48:43,559 --> 00:48:45,239 I was like, bro, this is crazy. And then they want you 707 00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:50,400 to play a song that you played an hour ago. I wan't here yet, 708 00:48:50,599 --> 00:48:53,239 so hey, can you play? Can you play one more song? 709 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:59,159 I want to hear this before I leave. All right, you're just gonna 710 00:48:59,159 --> 00:49:07,880 have to leave and make some box potatoes. Crazy ass. Now, what 711 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,480 about if you was in the club, would you would you want to Niget 712 00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:15,000 Holland and you in the club? Oh uh, I mean it happens. 713 00:49:15,599 --> 00:49:22,159 I was about to say we was just in the club, and yeah, 714 00:49:21,119 --> 00:49:24,360 yeah, I mean it happens. What what was she wearing I was my 715 00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:30,599 birthday. You start, oh death with the orange fish stocking with two five 716 00:49:30,679 --> 00:49:37,840 skirt, for sure, I'm getting a little tired. Ain't broken death. 717 00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,559 I was like, okay, I see what type of time you are. 718 00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:44,360 I defin see what type of time you are thousand and five. I was 719 00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:47,559 committed, but I mean it's cool, but I wouldn't say that I ever, 720 00:49:47,679 --> 00:49:52,880 like, talk to nobody that I meant it. Why you just don't 721 00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:55,239 gonna wearn't going nowhere? I mean, nothing is wrong with it, just 722 00:50:00,079 --> 00:50:01,880 why is that? Yeah? Why I'm thinking about it now, like I've 723 00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:05,360 never really I don't know, it's not I mean I used it for years. 724 00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:08,119 I wouldn't get my number out like I just I just weird. Man. 725 00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,719 You know, you get one time you'd be like, you know, 726 00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:15,880 I'm gonna. I think most of whom like most people when you meet them 727 00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:20,159 off rip now, they don't give out numbers no more. My Instagram is 728 00:50:21,159 --> 00:50:23,199 so I'm old right, and when people ask me that, I'm automatically like, 729 00:50:23,519 --> 00:50:29,920 oh what Like when people say let's do social media, um I do. 730 00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:31,840 I don't only do that if I like I like. It throws me 731 00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:36,800 off because I'm the phone, I used to, but um, I only 732 00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:38,440 do that if I meet like a creator out and we're talking about that, 733 00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:42,239 then I'll be like, let's exchange social media so we can like follow each 734 00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:45,000 other. Shit. But I don't know why I don't go nowhere like that 735 00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:46,519 many people who have actually given my number out. I probably can count on 736 00:50:46,639 --> 00:50:51,119 one hand. Legit like in my maybe two hands in all of my adult 737 00:50:51,159 --> 00:50:58,039 life. It's just really never goes nowhere. It's hold up, I'm calling 738 00:50:58,119 --> 00:51:04,199 cap on that swear you say you can count on two hands how many people 739 00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:07,119 you gave your number? Right number? Yes, my club in the club 740 00:51:07,159 --> 00:51:12,119 in the club specifically, not it's not cappa. I'm telling you. I 741 00:51:12,159 --> 00:51:15,519 didn't give my number out for you. I wouldn't give it out, okay. 742 00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:17,519 I would be like I've packed yours, and then I wish I can 743 00:51:17,519 --> 00:51:23,000 control how's it caused? Because when you called me, I'll get your number 744 00:51:23,159 --> 00:51:28,840 if if you come, Okay, I got you because the nigga call you 745 00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:31,239 right there? Yeah, I want I went through so many phases growing up, 746 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:35,039 like figuring out my boundaries, figuring out shit. They're like like no, 747 00:51:35,159 --> 00:51:36,840 like tell them a fucker, you don't want that you know what I 748 00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,840 mean. That's circling back to what I was talking about cards to like women 749 00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:45,320 having to protect I'm learning how to protect themselves against niggas that want to holler 750 00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:49,440 at it or want to do them and men don't. Men don't necessarily have 751 00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:52,239 to do that, and uh, I am thankful for that. But I 752 00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:58,960 do believe I do believe that most I don't. I don't. I do 753 00:51:59,039 --> 00:52:04,960 believe that men should be more m I don't know the word I'm trying to 754 00:52:05,039 --> 00:52:09,000 say, but they should care more about you get more a couchie if you 755 00:52:09,159 --> 00:52:14,840 if you if you protect the COUCHI if you seem like you'll protect the couchie, 756 00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:20,519 you'll get more of it opposed opposed to being scary or very aggressive because 757 00:52:20,519 --> 00:52:22,719 a lot of a lot of men make it hard. Like if I mean, 758 00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:24,920 if I if I'm out in the club, I'm not. I'm not 759 00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:28,440 trying to be on a rape ship or nothing like that. But if I 760 00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:30,880 see a girl that I that I'm that I'm having a good time with, 761 00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:36,280 she might be terrified to even walk away from me. I don't even know 762 00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:38,039 if she really if she really liked me, because she might be scared to 763 00:52:38,079 --> 00:52:42,000 walk away from it because the last NAT she walked away from punching her ship. 764 00:52:42,559 --> 00:52:45,559 You know what I'm saying. So I'll overanalyze in the club too. 765 00:52:45,559 --> 00:52:47,320 It sad, that's what I'll be in the club. I think it's all 766 00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:52,079 in an approach, you know what I mean. How you approach doing me 767 00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:58,000 is going to determine you know, where you go from there? You know 768 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,159 what I mean? Here, hear this with your best one. I don't 769 00:53:00,199 --> 00:53:05,280 got one. I definitely don't go. Yeah, that's to say, oh, 770 00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,920 you said like you had a thing. One they got know about news. 771 00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:08,960 When they find the thing that works for them, that's what they do. 772 00:53:09,079 --> 00:53:13,800 So I ain't know. So what works for me? I'm jovial. 773 00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:20,519 Yeah, I'm a happy Any nigger that used jovial is jovial, six foot 774 00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:24,599 jovial and talking off and trying to get pussy. The pussy is just get 775 00:53:24,639 --> 00:53:30,960 off of me, pussy. Nah, that's not it. Come They don't 776 00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:35,480 come that. It don't come that easy. But you know, I'm just 777 00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:37,960 I'm a funny dude, you know what I mean. So mostly the time 778 00:53:38,039 --> 00:53:40,840 when I approach, think you funny, we already discovered. Yeah, most 779 00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:44,760 of the time when I'm approach. It's gonna it's gonna be on joke. 780 00:53:45,079 --> 00:53:47,159 Yeah, yeah, definitely. A joke is definitely, definitely the best ice 781 00:53:47,199 --> 00:53:50,920 breaker. A joke is always, to me, the best ice because that's 782 00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:52,239 all I got. I'm talking to you. I make you laugh. Yeah, 783 00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:55,599 my god, once you laugh, it's over. Keep her. If 784 00:53:55,599 --> 00:54:02,000 you keep her laughing, she can't see because she's laughing like this, I 785 00:54:02,119 --> 00:54:07,239 can't see me for I had to. I had to. I think being 786 00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:13,519 insecure coming growing up, I think I had I think I think I had 787 00:54:13,519 --> 00:54:17,519 to be more funny than I actually had to be, or talk more than 788 00:54:17,559 --> 00:54:21,079 I actually had to, because a lot of think some women be like, 789 00:54:21,119 --> 00:54:22,199 I want to fuck you. I didn't know you wanted to have sex. 790 00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,920 I was like, damn, that's crazy, that's why. But a lot 791 00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:30,239 of the times too men men, men have this and women have this. 792 00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:32,480 But I think I've only heard women talk about it. But a lot of 793 00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:36,840 men don't approach women because I don't think I fit the bill that you like. 794 00:54:37,519 --> 00:54:38,920 I don't seem like the type of guy that you like. I know 795 00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:42,440 a lot of women be like, I don't seem like you're type. I'm 796 00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:45,760 like, you gotta cooch you don't you do you are my type? You're 797 00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:50,800 cool? Like I feel too. I am joking, but I do feel 798 00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,239 like I wouldn't even you wouldn't even be in my You wouldn't even be around 799 00:54:53,239 --> 00:54:59,440 me like that to even shoot a shot if you wasn't my type? Do 800 00:54:59,519 --> 00:55:00,840 you do? You do you keep man? Do you keep me in that 801 00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:06,239 bay? Mike? You would? You would? You would fuck with him 802 00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:10,119 if you shoot a shot? So he kind of like always under like a 803 00:55:10,159 --> 00:55:15,039 test run, I guess or no, Na, I don't. I don't. 804 00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:16,360 I don't really, I don't really have time, Like I really don't 805 00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:21,400 be in the streets like I really just don't. Uh. I try not 806 00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:24,039 to be. I try not to like be a rude though I'm real big 807 00:55:24,039 --> 00:55:29,280 on like trying to be respectful because rejection is already hard, you know what 808 00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:30,559 I'm saying. So I try to be like, oh, you know, 809 00:55:30,599 --> 00:55:31,360 thank you for the compliment, but I'm okay, you know, no, 810 00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:35,599 thank you over that. That's usually how I do it. That's some nigga 811 00:55:35,599 --> 00:55:37,440 still don't care. Though. Some nigga still get saucy with it, but 812 00:55:38,039 --> 00:55:40,519 you know whatever, But no, I don't. I don't really do that, 813 00:55:40,639 --> 00:55:45,559 like that's that bullshit. But like, especially if he was that respectful 814 00:55:45,559 --> 00:55:51,159 and yeah yeah, like like I just be like, and I'm like, 815 00:55:51,159 --> 00:55:53,559 I'm real sicky, So I'm like, whoa. That escalated quickly. I've 816 00:55:53,599 --> 00:55:59,039 seen I've seen that happen. One time in person, a girl rejected or 817 00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:04,719 she rejected my roommate in college. He was like. He was real loud 818 00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:06,920 too. He was like, well, fuck you then, bitch, and 819 00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:09,960 she got real like they almost fought. I'm like, man, he about 820 00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:14,960 to get kicked out. Man, I come back home and they and they're 821 00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:22,039 fucking I swear to god, I was like, what the fuck happened between 822 00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:27,199 two thirty and eight fifty? He was like, I don't know. They 823 00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:30,760 was in there going crazy, and I was like, damn, so that 824 00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:37,159 fucking bitch that sometimes that shit work, Hey, praise God. Oh no, 825 00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:39,559 I don't know, man, that shit toxic as hell. I do 826 00:56:39,679 --> 00:56:43,920 realize too, this last thing, we'll let you go. I do realize 827 00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:46,920 too that a lot of the times I have been shot down because I'm not 828 00:56:47,039 --> 00:56:52,079 toxic, because I am too, because I am nice, I'm too caring, 829 00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:55,280 and sometimes I don't they don't know. Some women don't identify with that 830 00:56:55,320 --> 00:57:01,639 shit that don't make you not toxic. You are correct, But I wasn't 831 00:57:01,639 --> 00:57:06,800 the toxic that they wanted. Okay, that is correct. You are right, 832 00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:10,119 because I was toxic still, just not the future toxic. I might 833 00:57:10,159 --> 00:57:17,119 have looked like Chris Brown toxic. No maybe no. I might have said 834 00:57:17,119 --> 00:57:21,199 it, hey, excuse me, miss, and then been on some toxic 835 00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:27,119 kit and not. I might have appeared two nice. The approach was different. 836 00:57:27,199 --> 00:57:29,800 The approach was yeah, the approaches I know you don't know me, 837 00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:31,639 but excuses me, man. Yeah, yeah, but I definitely on something 838 00:57:31,679 --> 00:57:35,400 on some other ship. But I still want to get that bussy. Yeah 839 00:57:35,559 --> 00:57:37,679 we can get it popping. Give me that. Give me that because nobody 840 00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:44,400 say there's a dichotomy because Chris rere give me that. Yeah, that's why. 841 00:57:44,639 --> 00:57:49,400 Yeah, give me that. Yeah, it's three and then yeah, 842 00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:54,719 and don't be on no bullshit for sure. You know. Oh that was 843 00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:58,440 good. That is a trifector. All right, man, I'm gonna tru 844 00:57:58,559 --> 00:58:00,400 go. I got kids screaming in the background. Yeah, but I'll see 845 00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,199 y'all what we will see. Yeah, when we see y'all, man, 846 00:58:02,199 --> 00:58:02,599 Pi's up.