Hi everyone, and welcome to between us Gurly's podcast. My name is Bran,
I'm Lindsey, Hi, I'm Bailey, and I'm Casey and we are
so excited to be sitting here and filming our first episode. It's really not
our first time sitting in these chairs. For anyone at home who was listened
to a podcast or tried to start a podcast, bless your soul, because
this is hard, so hard. We filmed an episode last week that was
supposed to be our launch and we just listened to it back we were like,
nope, we're gonna do a take two of that. And one thing
we failed to do last week was kind of tell everybody listening who the fuck
we are. So I figured we could start with like a little icebreaker.
We'll just share our name, our job, occupation, and make things spicy.
How about a little weekend regret. I'll go first. My name is
Bran. You guys might know me as brand Flakes. I am a full
time TikToker, content creator, influencer, whatever the fuck you want to call
it, and I'm twenty seven years old. I guess we should tell them
our age too. My weekend regret, and you guys This will not be
a regret that I have often, So take this and appreciate it, because
I'm not going to come with this energy every week. I didn't get drunk
enough this weekend. You did, didn't, and you want to know why?
And maybe this is another deeper regret. My friends were acting like fools
at the bar. And if I have ever put in the position again where
I need to have therapy sessions with my friends one on one at the bar,
take me aside and give me a shot, because I wasn't that fucked
up. I loved not being hungover yesterday. But that is my weekend regret.
And for those listening, I don't know when this is gonna air,
but it was just Halloween weekend for us, which is the weekend to get
extremely fucked up. So my weekend regret is not living up to my full
potential as a blackout gang and popcorn casey. Okay, I'm casey, I'm
twenty seven. I feel like I'm on a dating show. I'm a social
media marketing manager unemployed right now, but that'll change. And my weekend regret
is trusting an absolute blacked out bartender to make my drink. Okay, we
went to like the Divius die Far and I should have known when she had
a backwards cap and two pigtails, like braided pigtails, it was not going
to be a good drink. And I was like, oh, can I
have a tequilatonic? My typical? And as she's making my drink, she's
making our friends drink. And he ordered a Tequila tonic and a Vodkatonic.
And when she hands the two drinks to him, she's like, I honestly
don't know which one is which, so you're just gonna have to smell them
before you drink them. And she was like, but I'm pretty sure this
one is tequila, and she was wrong. She absolutely was not tequila.
And that was the worst drink I've ever had in my entire life, so
I, unfortunately was drunk. Yeah, it's crazy. You guys had two
separate weekends even though we were together, but you missed out because the drinks
were six dollars. Absolutely, and there were probably two leaders. I slugged
my drink. I don't know if I am just a raging alcoholic or obese.
It's it's spoiler alert, it's both. My tolerance up to here,
I know that shit was strong, but I was not seeing double the way
I wanted to be. I also feel like a few a minute to get
a drink, Like once we got there, I kind of had just had
to rip the band aid off. I was like, if I don't get
a drink now, I'm never going to And then you like waited it out,
and by then everyone else was three SIPs in and blacked out. So
I only had one drink. You got the same I had, actually,
so let me stop. Oh wow, all right, Well what was your
weekend? Lindsay? Well, tell us your name, aged, sex location.
First, I'm Lindsay. You guys might know me as Bran Flick's roommate
twenty seven and I am a project manager at a tech company I work.
Ask for a working girl, I would say that my weekend regret was so
I invited a friend to come play, and she is a Philly local and
she is oodles of fun. But she decided to be out of control this
weekend, which is fine because when you come to the party, you should
show up, you know, with the energy. But I decided to have
sleepover this weekend, and you know what, Bailey, you know, we'll
save that for every time you didn't sleep at our apartment, is what Lindsay
sank. I did not sleep at cassa day. Brandon, Lindsay and I
woke up to twenty seven miss calls from her, and there was a lot
of drama this weekend, so I was definitely worried. It turns out that
she did sleep outside of my door at six am, outside on the steps.
You guys, the listeners don't know this, but Brandon and I have
a more industrial feel to our apartment. There's nothing comfy about it. Concrete
floors and walls. The question, how did you not wake up after twenty
seven misscalls? Like that's a lot. I do have a drinking but I
was gonna say, what's worse was I was home and this girl was banging
on the door. No, yeah, And you know what, I'm really
glad I didn't wake up because if I had woken up and I heard someone
banging on my door at six dur in the morning and she never texted me,
I would have like shit a brick. So I can't judge because I
was actually in the apartment and she's a loud girl like she she makes an
entrance up, she has a presence like that's my girl. But that's why
we can regret. So you need to turn your bringer up. Well,
I don't like a baby because like a drunk sleep, you're out. You
can't feel here. Call because I was sleeping, Beauty, I was out
like a light. Oh wow, like a pop bay me, it's Bailey
on the mic. I'm twenty seven as well, getting up there in age.
I'm a full time finessor though I've work in finance. My weekend regret,
it's not really regret, but I cured my hangover with five espresso Martini's
yesterday. It is your heart. Okay, Well, no sleep last night
I did. It was kind of hard to get to bed, but no,
it was I started with an espresso Martini, then dirty Martini, then
than a pumpkin spice, expressed Martin. Everything at home. No, everything's
good because I usually don't leave the house on a Sunday. You guys know
this. It's a Sunday. That's Bailey's day, the Sabbath day, the
Lord's day. But I don't want to take that from him. But my
friend texted me and was like, Hey, come to the restaurant across the
street. Run up my tab, get as much drink and food as you
want to. I can't not say yesterday that was an order. That the
thing I even like debate. I was like, should I just go back
to bed really quick? So it was like one in the afternoon and I
was like, no, Bailey, just get up out of bed. I
even saw a Casey store. I'm like, she's out and about. I'm
like, let me be like a regular civilian. So my goal was I
just put on the sweatshirt, leggings, nothing crazy, and I'm really any
makeup. I was like, let me go have one drink and go on
home. That's where you failed. And I think by the second or third
sip of that second drink, I was like, you know what, I
might as well stay out watch the rest of the Eagles game. Let's go
Philadelphia. But then it just turned into like that restaurant bar. I was
there for four hours. I feel like longer like I feel like by the
time you texted us, and then by the time you went home. I
was like, right, this girl's outside. Well because I text you guys
as soon as I got there, saying I have a story for you guys.
So I am with my friend who let's just call him JP Morgan,
and you guys got it. Yeah, Oh no, that's good, that's
bad. Good. So I was with this fellow, he's a nice young
man, we're friends, and all of a sudden, I look up at
the door. And remember how I was telling you guys about my stocker the
other day. I can go into that another time about my stalker. But
I look up the door and the stalkers walking in with his mother to watch
the game. His mother, I saw him, No way, I So
I also went out, and when I was leaving the bar that I was
at, I saw this guy and his mom walking and my first thought was
like, wow, that guy's like pretty like. At first I was wondering
if they were dating because it was an old man. And then I saw
the guy and I was like, wow, he looks so familiar. He
has a recognizable face. Oh my god. So my heart's pounding right now.
No, I'm literally I'm getting nervous. I was like, oh,
this is why I don't leave the house on Sundays. Hello. And so
I'm looking and I see him go in like the back room because I'm sitting
at the bar. But apparently they couldn't find one of the many open tables,
so they come and sit at the bar right across from me. And
this guy, him and his mother are sitting at the bar across from us,
like right you can, We're looking at each other, like me and
Brandon and so I'm drinking espresso martini and this the guy I'm with, is
drinking a bloody Mary. I look across. They have an espresso martini and
a bloody Mary. They stayed there for the entire game. Had you guys
already made eye contact at this point, yes, yeah, did you say
what's up? Hey across the bar? Just hey, how you doing?
And then like it was just I kept like looking at him, just looking
down the whole time. I was like, I don't know what to do.
But he finally left when the game was over. But that was my
story, and that was only the beginning of the day, mind you.
So you can ever go back there, because that's the second time we've seen
him in that area in I know, in two days. Yeah, I
know, so unfortunate you have to move. It's been nice knowing you guys.
That is crazy, insane. My heart is pounding. I was like,
what are the odds it was wild. Well, we're gonna rely on
you for some chaotic stories because Bailey's the only single, one fully single.
We don't know what Lindsay is. Yeah, leave me alone. No,
I didn't mean to say that. I liked it. So last week,
as we mentioned, we tried to film an episode and we were hype as
fuck. We started posting on Instagram stories like little clips of us and some
some people were d having us a little bit some crazy shit. Bailey,
I think you said an interesting screenshot. If you feel comfortable sharing, oh
I do. But it's crazy because posting that opened up a can of like
dis quite literally can of worms. They've just been waiting for something to like
like have an opportunity to say something to you, and this was like different
than your normal posts. So every guy was probably like, this is my
chance. Yeah. I got a few Oh I want to hear what you're
saying up there, or you look like a natural up there. Then the
one I sent it to Lindsay, but someone was like, oh, I
can't wait to hear your voice. Sounds like what mind you? I post
voiceover workout videos on my Instagram, so I was like, wait, what
And the one guy I even hooked up with, he was like, Oh,
I can't wait to hear your voice. What do you mean? Now,
let me just ask you would the would these have been people you would
have talked about on this podcast? Like wait, no, that and that
is my think and like I'm so over the term ick, but if I
was to ever date again, my like deal breaker deal breaker ick is people
with this false sense of importance that like think that they are like the shit,
like they think that you were the first person in their mind, like
have you ever been on a date with somebody? And like they're so cocky,
like they're talking about their job and they're like oh yeah, like I'm
like so good at my job. Like and like I that is like the
ultimate like red flag deal breaker, Like I will never talk to you again.
Like if you think that, like your ego is way too big for
what to be, you know. That's like my biggest turn off is when
people are just like trying so hard. And then it's even when you're like
out with your girls and you're texting a guy that you just went on a
date with and you're like, oh, I'm with my girlfriends and they're like,
oh, are you talking about me, like trying to be like cute.
It's like no, actually not at all, or I was shitting on
you. So oh my god, Kasey, leave these men some hair.
And I feel like it's just like repeated pattern, Like we're not even going
to give this man a nickname or anything. But there is this guy that
works out the bar that we frequent every weekend. Yes, like we're not
even gonna get into it because I actually will get angry, my blood pressure
will spike. But he thinks he is so cool because he works at this
bar. Mind you, he does not work the door, he does not
work behind the bar. I think he wipes the tables, which is fine,
but for what he does, he acts like he is not only the
CEO of that bar, he acts like he is like the mayor of Philadelphia.
The dms that he is sent are wild. But we'll table that.
Let's let's start nice, let's over and cool it down. Let's just get
her I'm hot, So the name of our podcast between us girlies. We'll
go into like a little story of how that happened. But I just know
someone is going to come in these comments and be like, you're not a
girl. Why are you calling yourself a girly? So, first off,
let's set the record straight. Girly is non gender. It's it's it's a
mindset, it's a vibe. If you're listening to the Whoa, if you're
listening to this at home, you are a girly by default only girlies listened
to this podcast. If you're listening, you're a girly afuriod. Does anyone
have like another definition for girly? I don't know. I feel like I
agree with like the mindset thing, Like it's like an action. It's like,
oh, I'm having like a girly day, and it could just be
like you doing things for yourself. It's like similar to like a hawk girl
day. Like it's just the personality you put on for that day, doesn't.
You don't have to be a girly forever. You can be like anything,
but when you're with your girls, when you're listening to this, and
I would say it's like synonymous. Is that the way to say it?
Like synonymous for like a bestie, like oh that's my bestie, that's my
girlly like and not like someone you trust like sometimes to walk into my house
and I have three two brothers. Oh my god, I have two brothers
and a dad, And I'll be like, hey, girls, and it's
like, obviously they're not girls, but like they're my girls. So I'm
like, yeah, think miss girl. You know. It's like also when
you see something, when you see someone doing something that you would do,
be like, oh, she's such a girly, Like if you're out in
a girl's checking her lipstick in a mirror, it's like, love that curly.
And it's also like a collective thing to say, like like when we're
like, let's be the girls who leave. If you're a group of friends
and you just all of a sudden the sign on the same exact thing,
like, let's be the girls who go get burger king, Like just be
those just be those girls, be that girl. I think that's like such
a good like overall arc for it. Yeah, so welcome everybody who's listening.
We're all girlies together. So I kind of touched on this earlier,
but I'm a full talk it's full time TikToker an influencer, and I was
actually thinking about this last night. The first video I ever posted on TikTok
literally still up there to this day is a video of the four of us
at I want to say you Casey and Bailey's twenty fifth birthday and I'm doing
this, I think tequila shot at Button Maryland's outside. It was like,
and this is how little I knew about TikTok. I did like a slow
mo of me doing this tequila shot and I put Harlem shake in the back
and that was my first ever video and then the reason why I finally caved.
And I was like late to download TikTok like most people were on it
in twenty twenty during like the peak of the pandemic. I knew I was
going to get addicted to it and I didn't want to download it, so
I waited until January twenty twenty one, when Casey and Bailey's birthday was,
and I was I just got so many messages from people all the time who
would watch our Instagram stories, our Snapchat stories, and they were like,
you and your friends are so funny. You guys act fucking crazy when you're
out. I've seen it online, I've seen it in person. What are
you doing like post some of the videos that you guys take on TikTok?
And I was like you know what, fuck it, Like my nine to
five job at that time was super casual. They knew I was a partier.
I was like gonna upload videos. And we had like a fantastic twenty
twenty at least I did. Had a great twenty twenty one, Like Summer
twenty twenty one was my Roman Empire. We had so much fun. We
were going out all the time. Lindsay and I had just become roommates.
We moved to Philadelphia, Casey and Bailey had already lived there, and we
were just thriving, and people would like, I don't remember when it was,
but we made a TikTok eventually being like strengths and Weaknesses of the girlies
and did funny clips of like all of us and like put our strengths and
weaknesses, and then we just kept doing them and they kept going viral,
and like everyone was commedying as if we were like characters in a show.
They're like, I'm faily, I'm yeah, and like it was so crazy.
Like Lindsay, you'll find out she likes to go home early. She's
a little bit more responsible, and like people in the comments like, is
Lindsay a cancer? Like they they knew, they knew immediately. So eventually,
like I quit my full time job and became a full time TikToker and
one day I got this crazy email from this media company that was like,
Hey, are you ever interested in like media production or television? Like we
want to have like an exploratory call with you. I had no idea like
what this was going to be, but it turned out they were this huge
media company and they were working with a network. They wouldn't say who,
but they said it was a big prime network that wanted to develop a TV
show around an LGBT lead. And they were like, we've seen your TikTok,
so we think you're so funny. You have such a great group of
friends, Like are you able to like kind of put together a roster of
people in your life that you think would be good for this. So of
course I said, you guys, and they I don't know anything about productions,
so people at home are probably nodding their head, but they were like,
we want to come and film a sizzle, which it's it's not like
a trailer, but it's like a five minute like almost like very mini episode.
So lindsay over here, like we said, she's very motherly. She
plans this whole beautiful by night, and it was it was pretty chaotic.
They came and filmed us. They had lights, camera crew, everything,
and the four of us were micd up, which was crazy and we didn't
really know what was going to happen like after that, but they were like
they interviewed me after, like almost as if I was in a confessional and
were like asking me questions like who are all these people at your house?
Like how did you all become friends? And I was like, oh my
god, like this is crazy. And this was last October, so fully
a year ago, and I never had any experience with like reality TV or
anything like that. So that was really crazy. And that actually led into
how this podcast started because a few weeks later they get back to us and
they're like, listen, we're about to hit a recession. We don't know
if it's a great time to pitch this as a reality show, which at
first I thought they were bullshitting me. I was just like, you can
just tell us that, like we're not that great, but they were just
like, no, to be honest, you guys are perfect, but like
the people at the network, they're older, they want to see more data
and numbers, like do you think the four of you meaning me, myself,
Casey, Bailey, Lindsay would start a podcast first, and then we
can use your data, like your streams, your downloads to pitch to the
network that like you have an audience. And we were like, I forgot
that was Yeah, I forgot about that too until recently. So that's kind
of how the podcast came about. They were like, let's start a podcast,
and we came up with the name between Us Girlies because everyone on TikTok
called us the girlies already, and like, we felt like it would be
fun to create a space where like we can talk and spill gossip and tea
and keep it between us as a tell anyone yeah thing we say, here's
a secret just for us. Yeah, so you guys are in on the
bit everything that we talk about between us obviously, But anyway, we ended
up not going forward with the production studio. If anyone's ever done anything with
showbiz, like things get complicated. When it got down to the funds,
how we were gonna get split up revenues, it got really sticky, and
I was just not really loving the vibe and it just made sense to kind
of part ways. But we got so hype to do a podcast in the
process of it. It was such a tease. Yeah. So we finally
got the show rolling and here we fucking are today, give yourself to Snap.
Yeah, Like we did it, and I think that teas made us
want it more, No, made us like have that drive to like,
all right, let's find this and do it, like let's actually get sitting
down and recording, because I feel like we would have these like weekly meetings
with this production company and they would like pitch us stuff, and first off,
we never were into it like we would they were. Just the silence
on our end was always insane. Literally everything they would pitch, I feel
like we would be texting in the group chat like I think we should do
it this way, and then they would pitch something else and be like I
don't like that, I think we need And every time it felt like we
were just forming this like our own podcast and moving further away from what they
thought was should be the pod. Yeah, they had like a bunch of
They literally sent us a document of like potential names, and most of them
are like things that I had said in my own Tiktoks, which like,
even though we are all best friends, all of our brands are very different.
Like the things that I say on TikTok are not the things that you
guys wouldn't necessarily say some pasta and some dick was like they literally like I
don't I'm like that going to be the name of a podcast. Yeah,
Like what would people think the podcast is about? You even introduce that's like
pasta and some day. Do you imagine the merch just like honestly they might
have done here. Yeah. I mean like if anyone at home wants to
steal that idea and start a podcast where you eat pasta and talk about dick,
like, go for it. I will fucking watch. You can take
my idea, but let's trade that on the side. Want to have that
he take that back, do not take that idea from us. But yeah,
so this is where we are today. I feel like we should go
into like a little origin story and then enough background information. But how we
all met. So Lindsay and I met first. The year was two thousand
and one. I had just moved to the suburbs. I feel like you
need to take it from it. Yeah, I got you, so We
grew up in a neighborhood where it was like grossly men boys with no girls
in the neighborhood. It was really just me and like two other girls,
but they didn't like to come outside. I have two brothers, so obviously
I wanted to fit in and play with them. And Brandon was so lucky
to live in our cul de sac or like keyhole, whatever you want to
call it, and that's where where Ruckus happened. So that's where everybody would
play. And one I was thrown off of a scooter by this boy in
my neighborhood. Hope he's having a blessed day, and all the boys just
left me there to cry on the curb. And I saw this kid run
out of his house and he was so cute and he runs over to me
and he's like hi, and I'm like hi, and he's like are you
okay? And I was like no, and he's like, well, do
you like Brat's dolls? And I was like, now, wait a minute.
I was like I do, and he's like okay, okay. So
he runs up this hill like his Brandon's house, sorry, his Brandon's house
sits on a hill, and he It's important because he literally runs down the
hill with this big, ignorant tupperware, like I'm gonna bring my college clothes
in this bin down the driveway, and I'm like, what is in this?
It is every every single brat's doll, accessory, doll, you know,
like it was a collection of It was a masterpiece. I ripped myself.
I was like, this is my new best friend. And we played
every single day from that day. Yeah, I was a collector. Every
little girls dream used to have a friend who has Especially it was perfect too,
because like I had just moved to the neighborhood and I was looking for
friends. And when I saw Lindsay get pushed off the scooter, I was
like, this is my open Why didn't you help me? I mean I
did it. I raced out, made sure you're okay, and then rewarded
you with Bratt's galore. You're absolutely right. So Lindsay and I we grew
up together. We've been friends for twenty two years. We're roommates now.
We didn't go to college together, though. Lindsay went to penn State,
where basically everyone in the state of Pennsylvania went except for me, Casey and
Bailey, we went to we did in your dreams. We went to a
tiny liberal arts college. At the time, it was called Philadelphia University Now
it's Thomas Jefferson University East Falls campus. They got bought out if you're familiar
with and yeah, it used to be textile. It was. It was
a glorified high school. It was miniature. It was probably two thousand students
undergrad like aka, like probably five to six hundred people in each grade.
And like, you don't we're referring to it as a grade because, like
Casey said, it was literally high school. Sometimes I feel like I went
there, like I'll meet you people and I'll be like, oh, I
went to Filly you It was like the best decision ever. I love it.
But it was and people's stories, I'm like, oh my god.
Yeah, like big school, little school. There's perks to both. We
obviously, like were super intimate, for for better or for worse. You
know, sometimes if someone knew about you at school, everybody on campus knew
about it. But it's so funny because I met Bailey before school even started.
The school had invited us to an overnight orientation. It was the July
before freshman year. So like you're split up into these groups, you're meeting
everybody for the first time. It's like your first taste of like what college
experience will be. Like. We literally slept in the dorms and I remember
we did an icebreaker where we had a partner with somebody and Bailey and I
were both trying to partner the same girl, and I was like, who
the fuck is this Bailey bitch like already stealing my number one friend, God
forbid. But something I learned about Bailey really quickly was there's more than met
the eye. Because Bailey was wearing this Charlotte rus kimono. She seemed so
trendy, so sweet. I mean, you are trendy, but she seemed
very wholesome, and I was like, oh, like, this girl is
going to be like a straight a student. She's going to like be on
her best behavior. Like that was not the case. That was also my
second time in Philadelphia. It's only my second time, yeah, in the
city, so you're right, that was not the case. I ended up
seeing Bailey at every single party that existed at our school, and not just
seeing Bailey like Bailey is a force, Like she is standing on the staircase.
She's standing on a table, and so was I, and we were
always like like waving across from each other. We were in two separate friend
groups, but we were like the dickhead of the friends. So when everybody
would leave the bars or bars, oh my gosh, when everybody would leave
the house parties, Bailey and I would be like the last people there.
So we would always like just be together, Yeah, take our ubers back
to campus together. We saw each other or we texted them like, hey,
where you gonna be at tonight because we're just like yeah with like the
popular kids and frustrating yeki. It's so weird like quotations around, more like
degenerates like we were just we never went home, like no, it was
it was very much a suitcase school. Like people would go home on the
weekends. Not Bailey and I. We would stay at school. And I
would always be like, Okay, if it's Friday at eight o'clock, I'm
texting Bailey, I'm seeing what's going on if I don't already have a plan.
Yes, And then this casey transferred, which just adds to the high
school layer, because like you know, when there's a new girl in school
and like it's just like, oh my gosh, a fresh new hottie came
in the villa. Yeah, welcome to the villa, Casey. I met
you through the person you were dating at that time, which is super chaotic,
a story for another time, but I just instantly remember I saw a
picture of you at Maid in America, which is the Philadelphia Music Festival,
and I was like, oh my gosh, she goes to Philly. You.
I was like, I've never seen her before. And next weekend I
see her in person getting down at this party. She was wearing leather pants
booties, like and she was. I mean, you were just a force
to be recommended. We were just like tworking, getting low and I was
like, oh, she's an idiot. I was like, I want to
be her friend. YEP. I literally remember being in the middle of the
dance floor and I like didn't really know anyone because I transferred and I didn't
really I lived in a weird situation where I lived with sophomores and we were
all freshmen at the time or whatever it was. I lived with junior or
whatever, lived with people not in our grade, so I didn't really have
a ton of friends and I remember I met you, and I came home
that night and I told my roommate. I was like, oh my god,
I met this guy and she was like, oh, yeah, that's
brand Flakes, like he goes to all the parties like you know who he
is. And then I was like, oh okay. And the next weekend
we like ended up texting each other and going out. The first party we
went to, we did get denied from Yeah, which was really that took
the wind out of my sale Yeah, because I was like, oh my
god, I'm going out with this new girl. I'm going out with Casey,
And when we got denied, I was like, Oh, this girl's
never going to go out with me again. Be like, oh, I'm
not going out with Brandon. He can't get into parties. No, we
had so much fun. I felt like we just had we like think about
things the same way. We're both like very like deep thinkers but also like
really stupid, and we loved to party and just be so extra. So
I feel like we instantly clicked. And you and I were in like the
same friend group and you would always see Bailey out like you were saying,
and I remember, like my very first memory of Bailey. So we were
at a party, and you know in college when you'd get like stuck in
a room for three hours and then you leave and like the parties over and
all of your friends had left. Me and Brandon were in a situation like
that. We were upstairs and we go we walk out and there's no one
left downstairs. So we're like getting ready to leave and we walk into the
kitchen and Bailey was just by herself having the time over life. She's like,
Okay, where are we going next? And we all like went to
another party together. I think, yeah. So I also I fin like
twenty fifteen, twenty sixteen, it was just a very different time for just
life in general. So I also the same come up story with Casey as
well, because I also saw her on Instagram and she was friends with this
girl I used to be I was close with freshman year, so I was
like, okay, my replacement. But I loved her Instagram like, look,
I'm like she has a good presence. Anyways, I see this girl
at a party getting down, because at first I was the only one who
was like dancing at our house parties. But when I saw this girl talking
getting down, I'm like I have someone to dance with. I'm like yes.
So we became friends. I remember we were in we were at another
party as me, you and our other friend. We were sitting there.
You were drinking tequila and orange juice, and I started drinking tequia and orange
juice after that short after, and you were like we should be friends,
and I was like we should. And then after that, like after college,
we lived together and we just stopped living together this pastly. Yeah.
Yeah, we lived together for like four years. Yeah, four years.
We were like pretty close before we moved in together, but we had our
house was like three stories and me and Bailey lived on the same floor.
And I feel like just living together and like sharing a bathroom and always just
like seeing each other. We got so close. We were like we realized
we're so similar and we like hate the same things and like the same thing.
So we got super close. And they moved into our own little shoe
box apartment. Yeah, that we lived in for like way too long.
That was like a honeymoon suite. Like you know when people like just get
bare in their early twenties, they're like, all right, let's move in
together. The Swallow apartment that was us. That apartment was electric. Though
we had some of the best times, the greatest memories. Yeah, in
that place, I missed the parking so too. That's actually good to note.
So Lindsay didn't know Casey and Bailey like because Lindsay and I were the
type of friends were in college. We kind of were just like we would
text each other here and there, but like we would see each other when
we saw each other, like we were always going to be best friends,
we were always going to be neighbors. But Lindsay moved home after graduating from
Penn State, and Casey and Bailey moved into their own place. But I
also moved home, so me and Lindsay would start hanging out because you know
when you move home after college and it feels like all your freedom is taken
away again. It's like, wait, I now have to tell my mom
where I'm going. So I told Lindsay right away. I was like,
listen, my two best friends, Casey and Bailey have a house in the
city. We're not on this fucking suburb type of time. Like they're so
chill. They'll let us sleep over, They'll let us pregame like anything we
want, and Lindsay's like bet, so I was like, we got to
hit it off and it happened so naturally. And let me just say that
not everybody always gets along, and there is a reason why there are four
of us and not ten of us. We have lost some soldiers along the
way America's next Top Model the fade out. These are the four remaining models.
Yeah, but you guys got along. Casey, Billy got along great
with Lindsay. I feel like so Casey and Bailey. When Casey was referring
to the house where her and Bailey lived on the same floor, that house
was it was a staple in our friend group and in our larger friend group
as well, Like that was the turn up spot. That was where you
went. That was where you hooked up with someone. In that house,
you you loved. In that house, you drank like it was it was
fun, and I remember I would go there, but like I wasn't super
super close with you guys. Like I remember like meeting you Bailey for the
first time and I was like, oh, like she's black, so like
I don't there are no cons go on that period. And then when I
met Casey, it was like the same energy that Brandon and Bailey were talking
about where it was like drop it energy, like sometimes Casey is full blown
light skin where you just feel it's the same same reason I liked Bailey,
like, oh, Casey's a little black. So I mean, like obviously
that was an attraction that I had to both of you. You guys were
just very fun and then a little and then when you guys moved to your
shoe box apartment, that was where things really got lit. Like that's where
Brandon and I just like we became the third and fourth roommate in that apartment.
And I just think that our friendship blew up from there. And it
because it was kind of around the time of COVID when everything was closed and
like we were trying to find our way, Brandon and I were trying to
find our way, you know, navigating out of the suburbs. It was
just like you guys were kind of like our angels. I guess, like
our are like, I don't know, like our little fab So yeah,
that was really great. I just remember, you know, hitting it off
really well with you guys. So yeah, I had like the same energy.
Yeah, that's the thing, Like it's a beautiful moment when you look
around and you're like, oh, she's an idiot, or like he's so
stupid. Like that's what we feed off of. I think that's what keeps
our friendship going. And people who don't get that are just like you guys
are weird. But it's like, yeah, yeah we are. And we
use idiot in the most endearing term in this friend group. Like if we
call you an idiot, like oh, you're an idiot, like that means
we love you, like you have like chaotic energy that like we just resonate
with. Yeah, you know those thoughts you have and you're like, oh
my god, I cannot say this in front of this group of people,
like they will think I'm so dumb, or they'll think I'm so weird,
Like that doesn't exist in this friend Now I can tell you guys the most
absurd thing, the darkest secret, like anything, and you guys be like,
oh god, I just thought that the other day. I get some
kickback from you guys. Sometimes sometimes you're the kickle. You're nasty, there's
something mean like that. But I think we also have a genuine respect.
Like I can hang out with you guys because you guys know when I'm hungover,
don't push the buttons. Like not many people know that we have a
genuine love and respect for each other. But I can be around you guys
in any given situation. We know each other's pressure points. The beauty of
Casey and Bailey is that both of you hate loud, Like if somebody,
if somebody asks me, like, oh, what's Casey and Bailey's pet peeve?
Like they are so aligned like true Capricorn's sisters. They do not like
loudly. If you if you calm, you need to come correctly because it's
not a fun time. Yeah, Like when somebody comes screaming into a room,
like there is a few select amount of people that can do that and
carry the energy that that volume brings. But if you lack the energy that
how loud your voice is, Like if those two things don't match up,
I would really prefer you just it's it's a little scary sometimes when the two
of you are like in that moment because Casey does this thing where I call
it the finger pistol, where you know, she'll make the little gun with
her hand and it will go up in the air, and it is just
like shut up, like shut up and Bailey will just look at you,
and that look is like if her superpower was lasers coming out of her eyes
like they are. I can tell when Bailey's in a bad mood. I
can tell like when I can push Bailey's buttons and I can tell them.
M hmm. Yeah. I'm like, Okay, We've gone on enough vacations
and trips together to like know like the inner workings of our friendship, Like
we're not Surfercevel. We've lived together. We know how you guys can paint
my body for I feel like everyone always asks us why we live in Philly.
I don't really know how to describe it. Like I personally love Philly.
I think it's like just a gritty city wherever is chaos, similar to
like how me, Casey and Billy were talking about going like a smaller school,
like Philadelphia is like the sixth biggest city, but like I've always resonated
with, Philadelphia is small town, big buildings. If you go out,
which most people here do, and it's a very sports binge drinking city.
Yep, you are going to run into the same friend groups week after week.
You're gonna hook up with someone's ex it's gonna get messy. You even
have those people where you'll like run into someone at the bar, someone you've
never met before. You just see them and you're like, Yo, what's
up. And you don't know where they where they come from, or like
what their steez is, but like that's your home inge. That's just reminded
me. At the restaurant I was at yesterday, so many people ended up
coming in. I was like, oh my god, what are you doing
here? It just turned into like a full fest. Yeah, it's hype.
It's like you're a local celebrity everywhere you go here, like everyone knows
you. Yeah. I love that feeling. I love, Like just feels
like everyone's on the same page in this city. Like if you're you want
to drink, so does the rest of the city. If you're staying in
and having a chill night. Honestly, so was the rest of this.
Like it's crazy how it works. It's so weird when you really think about
it. The fact that it could be a random Friday night. It could
the weather could be fine, like nothing really keeping anyone in, but the
energy in the air, like you just smell it's like, oh, it's
movie night. You know. So I don't know. It's just such a
fun especially for our age and like where we are in our lives. I
think this is like such a fun city. It's like it just makes sense.
I feel like it's our age demographic is really prominent here. I feel,
yeah, there's a lot of people between like twenty five to thirty four.
I know this because my TikTok analytics say that that is a majority of
my audience and they live in Philadelphia. So if you're listening in your between
those ages, everyone, should we do a segment, you guys. I
actually start with so I do this series on TikTok that honestly, Lindsay should
get partial credit for because I go into the kitchen while this girl is working
her nine to five and I say, Lindsay, let me tell you a
subject and rank the order of what it should be in. So I do
these pyramid rankings inspired by Abby Lee Miller, where I'll say a topic,
yes, I don't know about little. So I figured, in the spirit
of Halloween, we could do ranking the most basic Halloween costumes we saw this
weekend. So for those the bottom of the pyramid would be not so basic,
a little more creative. The midpoint would be pretty basic, and the
top slot goes for what you think, by far is the most basic.
I think we should say the first. I think that we should all at
the at the same time say what we think the most basic, because I
want to say all the lot there, but I can say that. I
think we all can say that first one okay, ready, one, two,
three, that red dress and you know, the hoodie with Justin.
I have no disrespect, no ill will towards anybody who chose to do that
costume a lot if you ate it the fuck up. But oh my god,
I think if I had that costume plan for Saturday and I woke up
and saw every single person do it on Friday, I would have switched.
Yeah, I would have switched. I did not expect that costume to be
the most blown up of the year. I told you three weeks ago.
I was like, if we go out for Halloween, I really wanted to
be Hailey Bieber and Justin or whatever. But I know that everyone in the
world is going to be Yeah, that's a good idea, But I didn't
think everyone in the world literally a good idea. Easy if your boyfriend doesn't
care and he like it's easy. I get it. But the problem with
having a basic Halloween costume is like the more people who do it, the
easier it is to compare who did it bad obscure costume. You can get
away with looking like shit because no one even won knows who you are or
no one can compare. But when it's like your timeline is only red dresses
and crocs, it's like wow that those crocs are orange and the real outfits
yellow. Where like you can just really pick it apart. You can compare
who went more effort on it, and if you got a krispy Kreme box
as er a prop like that something to it, but no one's going to
do. I have one that I don't think was basic at all. I
thought it was so creative. And I don't know if this was on anyone
else's TikTok a list of them, so I hope it's on here. I
saw two gay men be Tiffany Gomez aka the woman on the plane who said
that is not real, and they ate it. They got her whole outfit.
The one man I wish I remembered his at the commitment that him and
his friend group gave to it. They were on a party bus and he
got up. The whole party bus was signed like he told everybody shut the
fuck up filming something, and it was it was a masterpiece that what was
yours? I have a few my I almost want to say first either say
your favorite. Maybe Gypsy Rose Gypsy Rose plants are thought that was the best.
I'm sound like, only like a few people do Becuparently she's getting out
this year for her Yeah, so my friends like you should do it.
But there were so many good people. I saw someone like it was Gypsy
Rose, like the mother. They were like wheeling her. I'm like a
like a wheeling chair, like an office chair. And I was like,
please, it's not a little messed up, it's a little I saw the
post removing, you know what. I was a little interested with some of
the costumes, Like I saw a lot of people wear like hospital gowns and
they were like sick of you or something like they were. It was like,
you know, maybe I'm too sensitive. I kind of thought that was
a little like pushing it. Well. I remember during COVID, I was
like, remember I was like, I don't think people should dress up as
like nurses or doctors this year, because I'm like, I feel like it's
a little insight Like during COVID, I was like, I feel like service
people like don't dress up. That's valid. Yeah, but we're twenty twenty
three. You're saying some people just have no like gauge for that, Like
and my boyfriend's like slack. Today they were all sending their family Halloween costumes
and these are like people being buzz light Year and woody, like full And
this girl sent a picture of her and her boyfriend and she said we are
cokey and smoky, and she had white dust all over her face and her
outfit and her boyfriend had like joints in his hand and they were movie and
she said, hr in slack in slack. She sent that picture and I
was like, oh my god, she has no gauge for like what is
appropriate in any context. It was the craziest thing I've ever seen in my
life. I'm actually blown away. That's oh my god, I'm so so
on the bottom of the bid. Most creative we have, Tiffany Gomez Gypsy
Blue. Does anyone have another WHI that's a bar? Oh my god?
Take he out. He wrote, not me talking about a full ass bar.
You know you have a drinking problem. Okay, wait, I kind
of had a good one, Okay, so I had to. I'm a
huge Proud Family stand and I saw Penny Proud and fifteen cent and if you
watch the Proud Family movie you will know that that is an iconic outfit,
like they ate down on this. And then I saw another one. I
think his name was Tibo or t Bow, but he is the bageld guy
from ICAR who has big I thought that was so fun. I like that.
Yeah. I saw Nicole Kidman from the a MC commercial That is like
my favorite. Such good that commercial. One last one before we move on
to the basic the mid pyramid. I saw my queen Monae Nick Michael was
Jordan Woods and had her friend v Khylie and they filmed a mock t n
Z skit that When I first saw it, I was like, oh my
god, Monee's and TMZ like good for I, so well done, money.
I don't think you'll be listening or watching it. If you are,
you ate that ship now have home. Yeah, it was amazing. One
Moready mentioned that's it for me. It was a rose vibrator. I don't
know if you guys saw that some guy dressed up as like a rose vibrator
and I was like, that's so creative. Wow, it's a little scary,
but I think the midpoints, I think we will probably all agree.
Barbie and Ken, Yeah, yeah, Taylor and Travis. Yeah, that
wasn't as overplaced Taylor and Travis. I was expecting more. I feel like
everyone was like, we're so sick of seeing this in the news that we're
gonna give it a break, which I appreciate it. It's also harder than
it looks like one. Capturing the essence of Taylor Swift is a job in
itself. Like girls broke their throats dressing up for her tour, so it's
like dressing up as her is already a challenge, but then dressing up as
King Travis, like you have to have the aesthetic in the looks and no
way. Yeah, like, not everybody can do it. I did see
one person where half of them was Travis, Like they had like their cut
their hat in half and have like half a jersey and then the other half
was Taylor Swift. I was like, that was really fun. Yeah,
that's clever. Barbie and Ken this was the year to do it, like
we all knew it was coming and it was such a good fucking movie.
Yeah, and I really do love the sound where it's like this is Barbie's
dream house and right is always like I would say this, if your a
boyfriend agrees to do that tiktoks and maybe this is just me having bare minimum
expectations, I think that's a green flag. I think it's a green flag
if he's willing to do the Barbie TikTok with you, any TikTok for that
matter. Yeah, so many tiktoks where you can tell that boyfriend does not
give a fuck about what is happening, Like if your boyfriend can just buy
in and please you and learn a few lyrics like that, Yeah, that's
a good sign. Like if he's not judging you and it's like why are
you posting this or like I don't want to take this photo. Like if
he's giving you TikTok energy, that's a green flag. That is a ladies,
gays and days. That is a very big green flag. I'm going
to add that to my wish list. Do we have any other ones that
we think we're super mid like kind of basic. Those are the ones I
feel like the like, and this is I feel like torn about this because
if I was in college, I feel like I would kind of do the
same thing, but like the fashion nova like mini versions of every costume.
Casey, casey, No, because I feel passionately about this. I was
just telling Brandon the little diaper pants like buzz Lightyard. No, you aree.
You want some cheeks, And I get it. There is nothing more
fun than finding a nice man or woman to go home with in a Halloween
costume. But that, sweetie, just a bathing suit as buzz Lightyear.
Yeah, that should know. It should be banned for those costumes. I
it is my Oh my god, I'm gonna scream like I want to throw
the microphone front of day. Get my Flintstones costume for a few years.
That doesn't count fashion that went hard. It does not count you looked great,
that it was a ten out of ten costume. I'm talking about the
act. They look like a leap No, not even that would be giving
them more fabric. Yes, it's like pull ups, like you know when
you put a pull up on a toddler. That's what it looks like.
And it's like listen. I get it. Like I was in college,
I threw cat ears on a black outfit and called myself a cat. But
like, if you're going the mile to buy a costume, just like personalize
it a little bit. Don't just buy the like one size fits all costume.
And then ever you're on your timeline, stop half asking your Halloween costume
here. I heard it here be this year, So it's so funny.
My most viral video ever on TikTok was something that the four of us came
up with, and it leads us into what we were for Halloween. So
we were Survivor. I was Jeff Propes. You guys were tribe mates.
I thought we ate it up. I thought our video deserved a fucking oscar.
You guys were acting. But if anyone has been living under a rock
and has never seen the show's Survivor, I feel very passionate about Survivor.
It was the theme of my bar Mitzvah. The premise of the show is
very simple. You live on an island and every three days you vote someone
off. The only way you can protect yourself from not being voted off is
if you win an immunity challenge and are granted the immunity necklace, then you
are safe. And we use this term ammunity necklace to describe basically, it's
a warning text. We send this in a group chat, ammunity necklace,
and that signals to everybody in this room that what is about to come.
It's not necessarily kind, it's not necessarily smart, politically correct, it's not
going to be very very nice. It might also I think this is what
we need to stress. It might also be weird, like I have something
weird to say. Can you guys not judge me? It could be a
hot take, and I think we need to do an immunity necklace segment and
don't feel free, like feel free to jump in if you have one.
If you don't have one this week, that's okay. But I have one
that is grinding my gears. Let's hear it. I And this, like
I said, it can be a little bit of a hot take. I
think the cap cut templates are ruiningtoks. And this is why I'm going to
say this. What makes TikTok so fun is that you can create meme culture,
but you yourself can create it with a trending sound, yourself and your
own thought generated caption. Now that these cap cut templates are taking over,
I feel like I'm on Twitter again, and I love Twitter. When I'm
on Twitter, when I'm on TikTok, I want to be on TikTok,
and I'm seeing people just remake memes. And then there is one level higher,
these AI photos. Here we go. You saw the Pixar template with
the little You Got a Friend toy story background, even who I love so
much, Taylor Swift, the nineteen eighty nine templates. I love Taylor Swift.
I want to see her gorgeous face on that blue screen with the swans.
I don't care what you look like on the nineteen eighty nine Sorry,
my best. And that's the beauty of Immuni necklaces. No one has to
agree, but I am sick of seeing cap cut templates with all of these
AI photos, your book photos. Listen. I understand the appeal. Oh,
I want to see what I would look like if I was in a
nineties year book. Do it? Make it? Send it to your mom,
Send it to your mom, mom. How cute is this? Don't
post it? But some of them get like so many, like many.
This is the fifth one I've seen, like I don't get it. How
about people making them like they're like LinkedIn photos. No they're not really,
yes they are. Okay. Oh now that is where I separate because if
you're going to use the template and not post on TikTok, I don't care
if you do AI. If you do AI make a fake LinkedIn photo,
get your back. But I don't want to see it on TikTok. I
don't care what you and your situationship's baby may or may not look like yeah,
I'm sorry. And then there's also the ones that are like kind of
fake too, right, like you can put in what photo it'll be like
what celebrity do I look like? And then you can put in what celebrity
you want it to say, and then people act surprised like yeah enough.
There is one now that I think about it, the caf cut template where
it was like the banana or something falling out of the out of a plane.
It was like, oh, it was like, it's like me when
I see Dredheads go to a party like that was funny. But my thing
is I don't like it because I can't do it because whenever I go to
Canta work for me, it doesn't work. And also, what AI are
we downloading? Is there paying like seven dollars? Yeah? You like no,
because I did try for the for the fun of just knowing that I
knew you weren't going to post them. Yeah, never in my life.
And the people who took it a step further and posted on their Instagram feed,
great, Yeah, they should be blocked from Instagram for thirty days.
Yeah. I just it goes back to that false sense of importance. Babe.
I just I don't care. And yeah, there's my Muni necklace.
The viewers at home are probably like, wow, he's a bitch. Does
anybody else have one? Please? I have the Queen related one. I
cannot stand when people don't reference their Halloween costume when they post it on Instagram.
I am nosy, okay. I want to know what you are.
I want to see how good you did it. I want to see if
it's relevant. And when people just post one picture and it's just what they
were in a caption and it's quotes from a movie I've never I don't know
what the fuck you are and now I have to go google it or try
to figure it out or look at the comments and I don't want to do
that. Just swipe. Instagram put that feature for a reason. Put if
you're doing a meme or quote, like give the viewers some context. I
feel like this goes back to what you said earlier. I feel like the
people who do not post a swipe know that they did a shit job.
They were I don't want you to know. They go into the swipe and
they're like, oh wow, this looks nothing like what I was actually trying
to be. So I'm just gonna take that l and I'm just gonna post
that's true, that might be what they're thinking, but just like add context.
Yeah, I'm nosy. I want to know what you're doing. Like
it's like an astronaut, though I don't want to see all right people on
the moon? Yeah no, if it's like a cat or like a firefighter,
like so funny. We didn't We didn't plan on dressing up. And
I only wanted to dress up because my whole TikTok for You page was people
in costumes and I was like, damn, that really is Like I think
TikTok is now the new Halloween post. Like I used to be Instagram,
like my Instagram halloweens would always pop up off so hard. But now I'm
like, I get way more excited to post on TikTok on Halloween now that
Instagram it's like perfect for transitions, like you, it's like what that is
made for. It's also fun, like it gives you an idea of what
you might want to be like next year, how to wear your costume.
People are always ahead of it. I love those tiktoks where it's just a
bunch of swipes and it's like costumes for you and your friends, costumes for
yourself, costumes for you and your man, like ten out of ten.
And I just love that we're entering the era of like hot girls can be
ugly like they they like hawt girls aren't wearing that like all the hot costumes
anymore. Like these amazing beautiful girls are dressing up as like dudes. As
I saw. I said, you have a TikTok this morning that was like
sexy Steve Harvey and it was like girl hate Harvey, but she had on
fish nets and boots, like no, I do love that hot to be
hot all the time. I love when people are weird Halloween, like we
were weird, like what do you mean your survivor we're fucking weird. We're
weirdo, And like I wanted to do spid like I want you to like
weird costumes this year, I'm gonna do either prison like or Sea Harvey.
And I was like I usually feel like something like ooh, let's show the
like least skin as possible. Let me just switch it up. Yeah,
everyone knows what I look like as a who Halloween to prove that. Yeah,
that's like I love that. I love that. It's like I saw
this was so long ago, and this is such an old like reference.
But like hot girls looking ugly is like the equivalent of like big dick energy,
Like if you know you're hot, but you can go out and look
ugly as fuck and you don't care anymore. Like I feel like in college,
I never left the house looking ugly. I was always so scared.
And now I feel like I do not give a fuck what I look like.
I would be willing to be something ugly for Halloween. Like girls who
are hot and can be ugly, that's like a top tier girl. Yeah,
I mean I just kind of accept it. Sometimes without the makeup,
like I can't do anything about it. I can't do anything about this face.
I'm not always a ten, but like listen, that's why I feel
about my clothes make me this way. I'll look in the mirror and I'll
look at Brandon and I'll go wow, like I'm really going out like this,
and I will sometimes I'll post it to just to make myself feel better,
like if you see me in these streets, No you didn't? You
know what was? Did you have an ammunia necklcensay? I don't know.
I feel like I'm going to be really be hurtful, so I might have
to keep mine to myself. You can't just tease that maybe next week.
So yeah, I'm gonna think it through because either way you want to say
it, let's let's not get you in trouble episode. That's something that's wrong
with me, and the listeners will soon realize that sometimes I trip over my
words and I say things that are offensive or hurtful and I don't realize or
just out of pocket, like out of control. And I don't want to
do that episode one, So that's fair. I'm gonna keep it chill.
I have one written down, but I looked at it again it's very disgusting.
So I don't want to bring that to episode one yet, just yet.
Let's are you sure no, it's like kind of st I think you
took a pass. Come on, I don't know if we want to jump
into like dirty websites already. I don't think that's the episode. You have
to use an episode two to hear both of their Yeah you got okay.
Next week, you two come prepared with an immuni netlist. Okay, I'll
make mine as sick as yours. I feel like good vibees coming. It's
like I was like, let me write this down. I was like,
wait, this is on the nasty. As I was writing it down,
I just looked at it and I was like, whooh, but I'm gonna
say it. I feel like we should end just like kind of filling everybody
in on like where we're at in life now, and I'll get this show
started. So, like I said earlier, I'm a full time TikTok creator.
One thing that's going to be very interesting about me is I'm in my
first relationship. Anyone else at home is in their first relationship. It's a
really like exciting phase, but like also an interesting phase because you learn so
much about yourself. So my boyfriend, his name is host Sway. He
lives in this in Philly too. But I don't want anybody to think that
I'm not fun because I still am very fun and I have a lot of
really funny stories from my past when I was a CW a certified warr and
I will definitely not be shy to share because like earlier how we were talking
about boyfriends who were down for tiktoks, my boyfriend is a walking green flag.
I'm a proof to say what pretty much whoever I want. He hasn't
had a problem with any of my tiktoks yet, So I'm not nervous about
this past, at least I don't think I should be. But yeah,
I'm really excited to have this podcast. We already spilled some tea that only
you guys know now because I've never talked about on TikTok us almost having a
TV show, so insider t for y'all, and we are going to be
spilling a lot of insider tea. I will say this, I get asked
a lot of questions that I will never answer on TikTok but I will answer
them. Here. So that's where I'm going to leave off. Popcorn.
Lindsey. Okay, So, as I said before, I have a full
time job nine to five. I work as a project manager at a tech
company. And right now I would say I'm in a situationship. I guess
it's not like a full relationship. It was, but sometimes when you just
have those ups and downs, it becomes like a relationship to a breakup to
a situationship to a relationship, and it just it's freak. Yeah, it
just keeps coming back to you. So I don't really know what I'm doing.
We'll figure it out along the way, but hopefully I figure it out
soon because it's a stressful time to be a lot that we're gonna grow with.
Lindsay, Yeah, that's fun, and I like, I like honestly
that for you, because I do know that a lot of people can definitely
relate to that. I mean, before I was in my relationship, I
was in the exact same boat, and situationships are so much harder to get
over there. They're just like I've always had a boyfriend, and like coming
out of so many relationships that have been such flups and like no shade to
those guys, like I respect all most of them, but it's like I've
never been in a relationship that's been super healthy or super strong, and that
really sucks. It says a lot about who I choose and a lot about
my person. So hopefully this year, like this podcast, getting my feelings
out, being surrounded by my girls will really help me push through and figure
it out. But we'll grow together. It'll be fun. I love.
Yeah, I might go to his house after this. Everyone pray for me.
Popcorn. So I'm easy? WHOA wait, I was gonna say I'm
easy. I'm mean to say like I'm just single, of like my my
situation, situation is easy, kind of ish. I'm a single right now.
I feel like it's went over my whole job aide, sex, loucation,
all that. H I don't really know. I don't know how to
say this, not saying it. I don't know. I'm just like looking
and dating around. I'm having such a good time right now because I feel
like I used to be. I was in a very disgusting, toxic situationship
for like three years, and so just trying to get out of that.
I mean, it's a lot like it really sucks. I'm not as easy
as it seems. But after like getting out of that and just like taking
a step back and like knowing what I want and I'm not out there like
chasing guys, I feel like I have like a big inflow right now.
Guys. I feel like I can see like my like confidence radiating hopefully.
I don't know. Yeah, I feel good right now. Yeah, you're
it was like a hot girl. Yeah, twenty seven years. I'm excited.
I've been bullying Bailey every day. I'm like, we need a Bailey's
Boys segment. So she's gonna think of some code words and some nicknames.
Yeah, I'm gonna talk about some of your suitors. Yeah, because I
that is my favorite thing to hear Bailey talking. Do you have some tea
after this episode to tell you guys? Okay, well, Keith, you
hurry up. Well, we love the tea. Because Brenda and I are
both in relationships. So I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a
half. We just moved in together, which is such a fun, completely
different like journey. I will love to talk about that at some point because
there are some things you just like don't think about until you live with someone
and you're like, oh shit, this is so different living with a boy.
It's fun, but I'd like living with girls too. But I I'm
really excited for this podcast. I feel like it's a really good chance for
us all to just like talk and hang out and catch up. And like,
I love our dynamic and I'm really excited to like share it with everyone.
I feel like people can relate to each one of us. We're all
in really different stages of our lives as you just heard. Yeah, but
we're all also twenty seven and figuring it the fuck out. I don't think
any of us would say we're one hundred percent like yeah, figured out about
everything. Like that's important to note too, Like, especially for our listeners
at home, who I'm sure relating to this, Like this is a weird
age, like it's a transitional age, and like I feel I personally keep
getting told like, oh, when you're thirty, it gets crazy again.
But like right now, I feel like in this time, like everyone's like
kind of finishing off like the first part of their career, and like wondering
do I want to continue this career? Do I want to switch paths?
Like there's a lot of like a quarter life crisis, honestly. And I
feel like since we're like pandemic kids, like we the early part of our
twenties, we missed like two years of it, and like now we're kind
of feeling a little bit of a ripple effect. Does anyone else Does anyone
else on like pandemic skip TikTok No? Okay, So this is where we
also want to talk about TikTok's because I love the fact that everyone has a
different for you page. Yeah, because my for you page right now is
all about the pandemic skins. So it's this theory that psychologists made and I
could be getting this wrong to your own research, but that like whatever age
you were when the pandemic started is like where you're at mentally, so like
because three years were wasted. So these women that were like twenty seven when
the pandemic started and then it's three years later and they're thirty and everyone around
them is having kids, They're like, oh my god, I'm not ready
to have kids. I'm still young. I'm twenty seven. And it's this
total difference of like ages and stuff. And so I feel like we were
in our early twenties when the pandemic started, and we took a big chunk
of like the early twenties figuring your life out phase, and now we're twenty
seven and we're still figuring it out. So we can all do that together
with the listeners, because I know nobody has their shit together in a good
way. That's a really good point in casey yeaheah, like I feel that
too, I'm twenty four, I'm twenty five. Well, I think this
went a lot better than our first start, really, like much better,
y'all are so we saved you. Guys, you did not have to listen
to that first episode because you would not be back for episode two. But
this between us gurlies, and like the title, keep everything between us gurlies.
Let's drop our socials personal ones first. We fucked this up. Yeah,
but my name is bran on TikTok. I am brand double Underscore Flakes
with choosies on Instagram, just one underscore brand Underscore Flakes with choosies. I
love that Lindsey Black truffle with no C so it's like Blake Truffle b l
a k on TikTok and Instagram. I'm gonna make my super simple because I
messed it up the first time. My Instagram is Bailey Witherspoon, my TikTok
is Bailey Fit with three t's. I'm gonna post more work up videos on
there, but for now it's just a little chaotic content. I'm at case
crowden on both Instagram and TikTok with just two ends at the end, and
I'm trying to get to twenty thousand followers on TikTok before my birthday, so
everyone go follow me, guys. That's we can do that. Yeah,
it was. I had the other day. I was like setting goals and
I was like, you know what, I'm a fifteen point five K and
I really want to get to you two thousands by my birthday. So easy
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