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Hi everyone, and welcome to between
us Gurly's podcast. My name is Bran,

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I'm Lindsey, Hi, I'm Bailey, and I'm Casey and we are

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so excited to be sitting here and
filming our first episode. It's really not

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our first time sitting in these chairs. For anyone at home who was listened

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to a podcast or tried to start
a podcast, bless your soul, because

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this is hard, so hard.
We filmed an episode last week that was

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supposed to be our launch and we
just listened to it back we were like,

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nope, we're gonna do a take
two of that. And one thing

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we failed to do last week was
kind of tell everybody listening who the fuck

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we are. So I figured we
could start with like a little icebreaker.

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We'll just share our name, our
job, occupation, and make things spicy.

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How about a little weekend regret.
I'll go first. My name is

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Bran. You guys might know me
as brand Flakes. I am a full

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time TikToker, content creator, influencer, whatever the fuck you want to call

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it, and I'm twenty seven years
old. I guess we should tell them

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our age too. My weekend regret, and you guys This will not be

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a regret that I have often,
So take this and appreciate it, because

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I'm not going to come with this
energy every week. I didn't get drunk

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enough this weekend. You did,
didn't, and you want to know why?

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And maybe this is another deeper regret. My friends were acting like fools

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at the bar. And if I
have ever put in the position again where

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I need to have therapy sessions with
my friends one on one at the bar,

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take me aside and give me a
shot, because I wasn't that fucked

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up. I loved not being hungover
yesterday. But that is my weekend regret.

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And for those listening, I don't
know when this is gonna air,

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but it was just Halloween weekend for
us, which is the weekend to get

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extremely fucked up. So my weekend
regret is not living up to my full

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potential as a blackout gang and popcorn
casey. Okay, I'm casey, I'm

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twenty seven. I feel like I'm
on a dating show. I'm a social

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media marketing manager unemployed right now,
but that'll change. And my weekend regret

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is trusting an absolute blacked out bartender
to make my drink. Okay, we

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went to like the Divius die Far
and I should have known when she had

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a backwards cap and two pigtails,
like braided pigtails, it was not going

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to be a good drink. And
I was like, oh, can I

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have a tequilatonic? My typical?
And as she's making my drink, she's

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making our friends drink. And he
ordered a Tequila tonic and a Vodkatonic.

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And when she hands the two drinks
to him, she's like, I honestly

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don't know which one is which,
so you're just gonna have to smell them

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before you drink them. And she
was like, but I'm pretty sure this

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one is tequila, and she was
wrong. She absolutely was not tequila.

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And that was the worst drink I've
ever had in my entire life, so

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I, unfortunately was drunk. Yeah, it's crazy. You guys had two

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separate weekends even though we were together, but you missed out because the drinks

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were six dollars. Absolutely, and
there were probably two leaders. I slugged

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my drink. I don't know if
I am just a raging alcoholic or obese.

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It's it's spoiler alert, it's both. My tolerance up to here,

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I know that shit was strong,
but I was not seeing double the way

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I wanted to be. I also
feel like a few a minute to get

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a drink, Like once we got
there, I kind of had just had

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to rip the band aid off.
I was like, if I don't get

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a drink now, I'm never going
to And then you like waited it out,

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and by then everyone else was three
SIPs in and blacked out. So

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I only had one drink. You
got the same I had, actually,

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so let me stop. Oh wow, all right, Well what was your

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weekend? Lindsay? Well, tell
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First, I'm Lindsay. You guys
might know me as Bran Flick's roommate

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twenty seven and I am a project
manager at a tech company I work.

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Ask for a working girl, I
would say that my weekend regret was so

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I invited a friend to come play, and she is a Philly local and

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she is oodles of fun. But
she decided to be out of control this

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weekend, which is fine because when
you come to the party, you should

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show up, you know, with
the energy. But I decided to have

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sleepover this weekend, and you know
what, Bailey, you know, we'll

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save that for every time you didn't
sleep at our apartment, is what Lindsay

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sank. I did not sleep at
cassa day. Brandon, Lindsay and I

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woke up to twenty seven miss calls
from her, and there was a lot

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of drama this weekend, so I
was definitely worried. It turns out that

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she did sleep outside of my door
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You guys, the listeners don't know
this, but Brandon and I have

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a more industrial feel to our apartment. There's nothing comfy about it. Concrete

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floors and walls. The question,
how did you not wake up after twenty

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seven misscalls? Like that's a lot. I do have a drinking but I

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was gonna say, what's worse was
I was home and this girl was banging

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on the door. No, yeah, And you know what, I'm really

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glad I didn't wake up because if
I had woken up and I heard someone

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banging on my door at six dur
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I would have like shit a brick. So I can't judge because I

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was actually in the apartment and she's
a loud girl like she she makes an

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entrance up, she has a presence
like that's my girl. But that's why

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we can regret. So you need
to turn your bringer up. Well,

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I don't like a baby because like
a drunk sleep, you're out. You

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can't feel here. Call because I
was sleeping, Beauty, I was out

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like a light. Oh wow,
like a pop bay me, it's Bailey

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on the mic. I'm twenty seven
as well, getting up there in age.

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I'm a full time finessor though I've
work in finance. My weekend regret,

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it's not really regret, but I
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yesterday. It is your heart.
Okay, Well, no sleep last night

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I did. It was kind of
hard to get to bed, but no,

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it was I started with an espresso
Martini, then dirty Martini, then

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than a pumpkin spice, expressed Martin. Everything at home. No, everything's

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good because I usually don't leave the
house on a Sunday. You guys know

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this. It's a Sunday. That's
Bailey's day, the Sabbath day, the

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Lord's day. But I don't want
to take that from him. But my

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friend texted me and was like,
Hey, come to the restaurant across the

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street. Run up my tab,
get as much drink and food as you

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want to. I can't not say
yesterday that was an order. That the

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thing I even like debate. I
was like, should I just go back

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to bed really quick? So it
was like one in the afternoon and I

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was like, no, Bailey,
just get up out of bed. I

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even saw a Casey store. I'm
like, she's out and about. I'm

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like, let me be like a
regular civilian. So my goal was I

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just put on the sweatshirt, leggings, nothing crazy, and I'm really any

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makeup. I was like, let
me go have one drink and go on

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home. That's where you failed.
And I think by the second or third

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sip of that second drink, I
was like, you know what, I

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might as well stay out watch the
rest of the Eagles game. Let's go

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Philadelphia. But then it just turned
into like that restaurant bar. I was

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there for four hours. I feel
like longer like I feel like by the

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time you texted us, and then
by the time you went home. I

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was like, right, this girl's
outside. Well because I text you guys

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as soon as I got there,
saying I have a story for you guys.

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So I am with my friend who
let's just call him JP Morgan,

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and you guys got it. Yeah, Oh no, that's good, that's

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bad. Good. So I was
with this fellow, he's a nice young

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man, we're friends, and all
of a sudden, I look up at

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the door. And remember how I
was telling you guys about my stocker the

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other day. I can go into
that another time about my stalker. But

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I look up the door and the
stalkers walking in with his mother to watch

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the game. His mother, I
saw him, No way, I So

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I also went out, and when
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at, I saw this guy and
his mom walking and my first thought was

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like, wow, that guy's like
pretty like. At first I was wondering

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if they were dating because it was
an old man. And then I saw

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the guy and I was like,
wow, he looks so familiar. He

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has a recognizable face. Oh my
god. So my heart's pounding right now.

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No, I'm literally I'm getting nervous. I was like, oh,

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this is why I don't leave the
house on Sundays. Hello. And so

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I'm looking and I see him go
in like the back room because I'm sitting

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at the bar. But apparently they
couldn't find one of the many open tables,

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so they come and sit at the
bar right across from me. And

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this guy, him and his mother
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like right you can, We're looking
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Brandon and so I'm drinking espresso martini
and this the guy I'm with, is

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drinking a bloody Mary. I look
across. They have an espresso martini and

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a bloody Mary. They stayed there
for the entire game. Had you guys

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already made eye contact at this point, yes, yeah, did you say

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what's up? Hey across the bar? Just hey, how you doing?

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And then like it was just I
kept like looking at him, just looking

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down the whole time. I was
like, I don't know what to do.

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But he finally left when the game
was over. But that was my

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story, and that was only the
beginning of the day, mind you.

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So you can ever go back there, because that's the second time we've seen

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him in that area in I know, in two days. Yeah, I

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know, so unfortunate you have to
move. It's been nice knowing you guys.

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That is crazy, insane. My
heart is pounding. I was like,

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what are the odds it was wild. Well, we're gonna rely on

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you for some chaotic stories because Bailey's
the only single, one fully single.

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We don't know what Lindsay is.
Yeah, leave me alone. No,

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I didn't mean to say that.
I liked it. So last week,

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as we mentioned, we tried to
film an episode and we were hype as

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fuck. We started posting on Instagram
stories like little clips of us and some

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some people were d having us a
little bit some crazy shit. Bailey,

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I think you said an interesting screenshot. If you feel comfortable sharing, oh

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I do. But it's crazy because
posting that opened up a can of like

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dis quite literally can of worms.
They've just been waiting for something to like

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like have an opportunity to say something
to you, and this was like different

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than your normal posts. So every
guy was probably like, this is my

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chance. Yeah. I got a
few Oh I want to hear what you're

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saying up there, or you look
like a natural up there. Then the

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one I sent it to Lindsay,
but someone was like, oh, I

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can't wait to hear your voice.
Sounds like what mind you? I post

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voiceover workout videos on my Instagram,
so I was like, wait, what

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And the one guy I even hooked
up with, he was like, Oh,

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I can't wait to hear your voice. What do you mean? Now,

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let me just ask you would the
would these have been people you would

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have talked about on this podcast?
Like wait, no, that and that

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is my think and like I'm so
over the term ick, but if I

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was to ever date again, my
like deal breaker deal breaker ick is people

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with this false sense of importance that
like think that they are like the shit,

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like they think that you were the
first person in their mind, like

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have you ever been on a date
with somebody? And like they're so cocky,

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like they're talking about their job and
they're like oh yeah, like I'm

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like so good at my job.
Like and like I that is like the

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ultimate like red flag deal breaker,
Like I will never talk to you again.

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Like if you think that, like
your ego is way too big for

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what to be, you know.
That's like my biggest turn off is when

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people are just like trying so hard. And then it's even when you're like

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out with your girls and you're texting
a guy that you just went on a

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date with and you're like, oh, I'm with my girlfriends and they're like,

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oh, are you talking about me, like trying to be like cute.

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It's like no, actually not at
all, or I was shitting on

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you. So oh my god,
Kasey, leave these men some hair.

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And I feel like it's just like
repeated pattern, Like we're not even going

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to give this man a nickname or
anything. But there is this guy that

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works out the bar that we frequent
every weekend. Yes, like we're not

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even gonna get into it because I
actually will get angry, my blood pressure

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will spike. But he thinks he
is so cool because he works at this

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bar. Mind you, he does
not work the door, he does not

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work behind the bar. I think
he wipes the tables, which is fine,

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but for what he does, he
acts like he is not only the

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CEO of that bar, he acts
like he is like the mayor of Philadelphia.

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The dms that he is sent are
wild. But we'll table that.

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Let's let's start nice, let's over
and cool it down. Let's just get

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her I'm hot, So the name
of our podcast between us girlies. We'll

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go into like a little story of
how that happened. But I just know

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someone is going to come in these
comments and be like, you're not a

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girl. Why are you calling yourself
a girly? So, first off,

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let's set the record straight. Girly
is non gender. It's it's it's a

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mindset, it's a vibe. If
you're listening to the Whoa, if you're

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listening to this at home, you
are a girly by default only girlies listened

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to this podcast. If you're listening, you're a girly afuriod. Does anyone

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have like another definition for girly?
I don't know. I feel like I

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agree with like the mindset thing,
Like it's like an action. It's like,

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oh, I'm having like a girly
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like you doing things for yourself.
It's like similar to like a hawk girl

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day. Like it's just the personality
you put on for that day, doesn't.

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You don't have to be a girly
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but when you're with your girls,
when you're listening to this, and

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I would say it's like synonymous.
Is that the way to say it?

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Like synonymous for like a bestie,
like oh that's my bestie, that's my

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girlly like and not like someone you
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and I have three two brothers.
Oh my god, I have two brothers

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and a dad, And I'll be
like, hey, girls, and it's

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like, obviously they're not girls,
but like they're my girls. So I'm

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like, yeah, think miss girl. You know. It's like also when

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you see something, when you see
someone doing something that you would do,

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be like, oh, she's such
a girly, Like if you're out in

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a girl's checking her lipstick in a
mirror, it's like, love that curly.

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to say, like like when we're

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like, let's be the girls who
leave. If you're a group of friends

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and you just all of a sudden
the sign on the same exact thing,

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like, let's be the girls who
go get burger king, Like just be

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those just be those girls, be
that girl. I think that's like such

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a good like overall arc for it. Yeah, so welcome everybody who's listening.

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We're all girlies together. So I
kind of touched on this earlier,

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but I'm a full talk it's full
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actually thinking about this last night.
The first video I ever posted on TikTok

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literally still up there to this day
is a video of the four of us

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at I want to say you Casey
and Bailey's twenty fifth birthday and I'm doing

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this, I think tequila shot at
Button Maryland's outside. It was like,

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and this is how little I knew
about TikTok. I did like a slow

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mo of me doing this tequila shot
and I put Harlem shake in the back

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and that was my first ever video
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And I was like late to download
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in twenty twenty during like the peak
of the pandemic. I knew I was

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going to get addicted to it and
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I waited until January twenty twenty one, when Casey and Bailey's birthday was,

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and I was I just got so
many messages from people all the time who

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would watch our Instagram stories, our
Snapchat stories, and they were like,

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you and your friends are so funny. You guys act fucking crazy when you're

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out. I've seen it online,
I've seen it in person. What are

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you doing like post some of the
videos that you guys take on TikTok?

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And I was like you know what, fuck it, Like my nine to

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five job at that time was super
casual. They knew I was a partier.

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I was like gonna upload videos.
And we had like a fantastic twenty

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twenty at least I did. Had
a great twenty twenty one, Like Summer

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twenty twenty one was my Roman Empire. We had so much fun. We

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were going out all the time.
Lindsay and I had just become roommates.

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We moved to Philadelphia, Casey and
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were just thriving, and people would
like, I don't remember when it was,

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but we made a TikTok eventually being
like strengths and Weaknesses of the girlies

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and did funny clips of like all
of us and like put our strengths and

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weaknesses, and then we just kept
doing them and they kept going viral,

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and like everyone was commedying as if
we were like characters in a show.

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They're like, I'm faily, I'm
yeah, and like it was so crazy.

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Like Lindsay, you'll find out she
likes to go home early. She's

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a little bit more responsible, and
like people in the comments like, is

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Lindsay a cancer? Like they they
knew, they knew immediately. So eventually,

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like I quit my full time job
and became a full time TikToker and

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one day I got this crazy email
from this media company that was like,

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Hey, are you ever interested in
like media production or television? Like we

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want to have like an exploratory call
with you. I had no idea like

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what this was going to be,
but it turned out they were this huge

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media company and they were working with
a network. They wouldn't say who,

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but they said it was a big
prime network that wanted to develop a TV

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show around an LGBT lead. And
they were like, we've seen your TikTok,

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so we think you're so funny.
You have such a great group of

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friends, Like are you able to
like kind of put together a roster of

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people in your life that you think
would be good for this. So of

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course I said, you guys,
and they I don't know anything about productions,

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so people at home are probably nodding
their head, but they were like,

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we want to come and film a
sizzle, which it's it's not like

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a trailer, but it's like a
five minute like almost like very mini episode.

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So lindsay over here, like we
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plans this whole beautiful by night,
and it was it was pretty chaotic.

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They came and filmed us. They
had lights, camera crew, everything,

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and the four of us were micd
up, which was crazy and we didn't

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really know what was going to happen
like after that, but they were like

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they interviewed me after, like almost
as if I was in a confessional and

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were like asking me questions like who
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Like how did you all become friends? And I was like, oh my

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god, like this is crazy.
And this was last October, so fully

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a year ago, and I never
had any experience with like reality TV or

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anything like that. So that was
really crazy. And that actually led into

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how this podcast started because a few
weeks later they get back to us and

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they're like, listen, we're about
to hit a recession. We don't know

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if it's a great time to pitch
this as a reality show, which at

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first I thought they were bullshitting me. I was just like, you can

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just tell us that, like we're
not that great, but they were just

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like, no, to be honest, you guys are perfect, but like

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the people at the network, they're
older, they want to see more data

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and numbers, like do you think
the four of you meaning me, myself,

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Casey, Bailey, Lindsay would start
a podcast first, and then we

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can use your data, like your
streams, your downloads to pitch to the

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network that like you have an audience. And we were like, I forgot

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that was Yeah, I forgot about
that too until recently. So that's kind

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of how the podcast came about.
They were like, let's start a podcast,

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and we came up with the name
between Us Girlies because everyone on TikTok

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called us the girlies already, and
like, we felt like it would be

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fun to create a space where like
we can talk and spill gossip and tea

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and keep it between us as a
tell anyone yeah thing we say, here's

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a secret just for us. Yeah, so you guys are in on the

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bit everything that we talk about between
us obviously, But anyway, we ended

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up not going forward with the production
studio. If anyone's ever done anything with

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showbiz, like things get complicated.
When it got down to the funds,

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how we were gonna get split up
revenues, it got really sticky, and

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I was just not really loving the
vibe and it just made sense to kind

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of part ways. But we got
so hype to do a podcast in the

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process of it. It was such
a tease. Yeah. So we finally

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got the show rolling and here we
fucking are today, give yourself to Snap.

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Yeah, Like we did it,
and I think that teas made us

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want it more, No, made
us like have that drive to like,

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all right, let's find this and
do it, like let's actually get sitting

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down and recording, because I feel
like we would have these like weekly meetings

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with this production company and they would
like pitch us stuff, and first off,

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we never were into it like we
would they were. Just the silence

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on our end was always insane.
Literally everything they would pitch, I feel

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like we would be texting in the
group chat like I think we should do

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it this way, and then they
would pitch something else and be like I

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don't like that, I think we
need And every time it felt like we

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were just forming this like our own
podcast and moving further away from what they

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thought was should be the pod.
Yeah, they had like a bunch of

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They literally sent us a document of
like potential names, and most of them

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are like things that I had said
in my own Tiktoks, which like,

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even though we are all best friends, all of our brands are very different.

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Like the things that I say on
TikTok are not the things that you

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guys wouldn't necessarily say some pasta and
some dick was like they literally like I

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don't I'm like that going to be
the name of a podcast. Yeah,

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Like what would people think the podcast
is about? You even introduce that's like

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pasta and some day. Do you
imagine the merch just like honestly they might

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have done here. Yeah. I
mean like if anyone at home wants to

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steal that idea and start a podcast
where you eat pasta and talk about dick,

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like, go for it. I
will fucking watch. You can take

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my idea, but let's trade that
on the side. Want to have that

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he take that back, do not
take that idea from us. But yeah,

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so this is where we are today. I feel like we should go

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into like a little origin story and
then enough background information. But how we

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all met. So Lindsay and I
met first. The year was two thousand

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and one. I had just moved
to the suburbs. I feel like you

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need to take it from it.
Yeah, I got you, so We

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grew up in a neighborhood where it
was like grossly men boys with no girls

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in the neighborhood. It was really
just me and like two other girls,

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but they didn't like to come outside. I have two brothers, so obviously

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I wanted to fit in and play
with them. And Brandon was so lucky

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to live in our cul de sac
or like keyhole, whatever you want to

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call it, and that's where where
Ruckus happened. So that's where everybody would

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play. And one I was thrown
off of a scooter by this boy in

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my neighborhood. Hope he's having a
blessed day, and all the boys just

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left me there to cry on the
curb. And I saw this kid run

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out of his house and he was
so cute and he runs over to me

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and he's like hi, and I'm
like hi, and he's like are you

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okay? And I was like no, and he's like, well, do

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you like Brat's dolls? And I
was like, now, wait a minute.

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I was like I do, and
he's like okay, okay. So

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he runs up this hill like his
Brandon's house, sorry, his Brandon's house

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sits on a hill, and he
It's important because he literally runs down the

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hill with this big, ignorant tupperware, like I'm gonna bring my college clothes

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in this bin down the driveway,
and I'm like, what is in this?

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It is every every single brat's doll, accessory, doll, you know,

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like it was a collection of It
was a masterpiece. I ripped myself.

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I was like, this is my
new best friend. And we played

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every single day from that day.
Yeah, I was a collector. Every

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little girls dream used to have a
friend who has Especially it was perfect too,

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because like I had just moved to
the neighborhood and I was looking for

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friends. And when I saw Lindsay
get pushed off the scooter, I was

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like, this is my open Why
didn't you help me? I mean I

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did it. I raced out,
made sure you're okay, and then rewarded

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you with Bratt's galore. You're absolutely
right. So Lindsay and I we grew

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up together. We've been friends for
twenty two years. We're roommates now.

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We didn't go to college together,
though. Lindsay went to penn State,

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where basically everyone in the state of
Pennsylvania went except for me, Casey and

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Bailey, we went to we did
in your dreams. We went to a

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tiny liberal arts college. At the
time, it was called Philadelphia University Now

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it's Thomas Jefferson University East Falls campus. They got bought out if you're familiar

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with and yeah, it used to
be textile. It was. It was

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a glorified high school. It was
miniature. It was probably two thousand students

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undergrad like aka, like probably five
to six hundred people in each grade.

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And like, you don't we're referring
to it as a grade because, like

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Casey said, it was literally high
school. Sometimes I feel like I went

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there, like I'll meet you people
and I'll be like, oh, I

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went to Filly you It was like
the best decision ever. I love it.

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But it was and people's stories,
I'm like, oh my god.

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Yeah, like big school, little
school. There's perks to both. We

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obviously, like were super intimate,
for for better or for worse. You

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know, sometimes if someone knew about
you at school, everybody on campus knew

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about it. But it's so funny
because I met Bailey before school even started.

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The school had invited us to an
overnight orientation. It was the July

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before freshman year. So like you're
split up into these groups, you're meeting

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everybody for the first time. It's
like your first taste of like what college

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experience will be. Like. We
literally slept in the dorms and I remember

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we did an icebreaker where we had
a partner with somebody and Bailey and I

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were both trying to partner the same
girl, and I was like, who

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the fuck is this Bailey bitch like
already stealing my number one friend, God

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forbid. But something I learned about
Bailey really quickly was there's more than met

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the eye. Because Bailey was wearing
this Charlotte rus kimono. She seemed so

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trendy, so sweet. I mean, you are trendy, but she seemed

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very wholesome, and I was like, oh, like, this girl is

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going to be like a straight a
student. She's going to like be on

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her best behavior. Like that was
not the case. That was also my

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second time in Philadelphia. It's only
my second time, yeah, in the

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city, so you're right, that
was not the case. I ended up

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seeing Bailey at every single party that
existed at our school, and not just

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seeing Bailey like Bailey is a force, Like she is standing on the staircase.

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She's standing on a table, and
so was I, and we were

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always like like waving across from each
other. We were in two separate friend

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groups, but we were like the
dickhead of the friends. So when everybody

407
00:26:07.200 --> 00:26:11.720
would leave the bars or bars,
oh my gosh, when everybody would leave

408
00:26:11.720 --> 00:26:12.799
the house parties, Bailey and I
would be like the last people there.

409
00:26:12.839 --> 00:26:17.400
So we would always like just be
together, Yeah, take our ubers back

410
00:26:17.440 --> 00:26:19.680
to campus together. We saw each
other or we texted them like, hey,

411
00:26:19.720 --> 00:26:22.839
where you gonna be at tonight because
we're just like yeah with like the

412
00:26:22.880 --> 00:26:26.599
popular kids and frustrating yeki. It's
so weird like quotations around, more like

413
00:26:26.640 --> 00:26:30.359
degenerates like we were just we never
went home, like no, it was

414
00:26:30.720 --> 00:26:33.000
it was very much a suitcase school. Like people would go home on the

415
00:26:33.000 --> 00:26:36.960
weekends. Not Bailey and I.
We would stay at school. And I

416
00:26:37.000 --> 00:26:38.359
would always be like, Okay,
if it's Friday at eight o'clock, I'm

417
00:26:38.359 --> 00:26:41.240
texting Bailey, I'm seeing what's going
on if I don't already have a plan.

418
00:26:41.400 --> 00:26:48.079
Yes, And then this casey transferred, which just adds to the high

419
00:26:48.119 --> 00:26:51.880
school layer, because like you know, when there's a new girl in school

420
00:26:52.359 --> 00:26:55.799
and like it's just like, oh
my gosh, a fresh new hottie came

421
00:26:55.799 --> 00:27:00.960
in the villa. Yeah, welcome
to the villa, Casey. I met

422
00:27:00.000 --> 00:27:03.599
you through the person you were dating
at that time, which is super chaotic,

423
00:27:03.640 --> 00:27:07.000
a story for another time, but
I just instantly remember I saw a

424
00:27:07.039 --> 00:27:11.680
picture of you at Maid in America, which is the Philadelphia Music Festival,

425
00:27:11.000 --> 00:27:14.160
and I was like, oh my
gosh, she goes to Philly. You.

426
00:27:14.759 --> 00:27:18.240
I was like, I've never seen
her before. And next weekend I

427
00:27:18.279 --> 00:27:23.960
see her in person getting down at
this party. She was wearing leather pants

428
00:27:25.359 --> 00:27:29.079
booties, like and she was.
I mean, you were just a force

429
00:27:29.119 --> 00:27:32.400
to be recommended. We were just
like tworking, getting low and I was

430
00:27:32.440 --> 00:27:33.839
like, oh, she's an idiot. I was like, I want to

431
00:27:33.839 --> 00:27:37.039
be her friend. YEP. I
literally remember being in the middle of the

432
00:27:37.119 --> 00:27:41.119
dance floor and I like didn't really
know anyone because I transferred and I didn't

433
00:27:41.119 --> 00:27:45.200
really I lived in a weird situation
where I lived with sophomores and we were

434
00:27:45.240 --> 00:27:48.000
all freshmen at the time or whatever
it was. I lived with junior or

435
00:27:48.039 --> 00:27:49.640
whatever, lived with people not in
our grade, so I didn't really have

436
00:27:49.640 --> 00:27:52.839
a ton of friends and I remember
I met you, and I came home

437
00:27:52.839 --> 00:27:55.400
that night and I told my roommate. I was like, oh my god,

438
00:27:55.440 --> 00:27:56.400
I met this guy and she was
like, oh, yeah, that's

439
00:27:56.400 --> 00:28:00.400
brand Flakes, like he goes to
all the parties like you know who he

440
00:28:00.519 --> 00:28:03.000
is. And then I was like, oh okay. And the next weekend

441
00:28:03.079 --> 00:28:04.960
we like ended up texting each other
and going out. The first party we

442
00:28:06.000 --> 00:28:08.559
went to, we did get denied
from Yeah, which was really that took

443
00:28:08.599 --> 00:28:11.000
the wind out of my sale Yeah, because I was like, oh my

444
00:28:11.000 --> 00:28:14.400
god, I'm going out with this
new girl. I'm going out with Casey,

445
00:28:14.920 --> 00:28:15.799
And when we got denied, I
was like, Oh, this girl's

446
00:28:17.079 --> 00:28:18.200
never going to go out with me
again. Be like, oh, I'm

447
00:28:18.200 --> 00:28:22.519
not going out with Brandon. He
can't get into parties. No, we

448
00:28:22.599 --> 00:28:25.000
had so much fun. I felt
like we just had we like think about

449
00:28:25.000 --> 00:28:26.920
things the same way. We're both
like very like deep thinkers but also like

450
00:28:26.960 --> 00:28:30.519
really stupid, and we loved to
party and just be so extra. So

451
00:28:30.519 --> 00:28:33.920
I feel like we instantly clicked.
And you and I were in like the

452
00:28:33.960 --> 00:28:36.880
same friend group and you would always
see Bailey out like you were saying,

453
00:28:36.880 --> 00:28:40.599
and I remember, like my very
first memory of Bailey. So we were

454
00:28:40.599 --> 00:28:41.880
at a party, and you know
in college when you'd get like stuck in

455
00:28:41.880 --> 00:28:45.039
a room for three hours and then
you leave and like the parties over and

456
00:28:45.039 --> 00:28:48.960
all of your friends had left.
Me and Brandon were in a situation like

457
00:28:48.000 --> 00:28:52.400
that. We were upstairs and we
go we walk out and there's no one

458
00:28:52.480 --> 00:28:55.079
left downstairs. So we're like getting
ready to leave and we walk into the

459
00:28:55.160 --> 00:28:57.880
kitchen and Bailey was just by herself
having the time over life. She's like,

460
00:28:57.880 --> 00:29:00.559
Okay, where are we going next? And we all like went to

461
00:29:00.599 --> 00:29:04.000
another party together. I think,
yeah. So I also I fin like

462
00:29:04.039 --> 00:29:07.599
twenty fifteen, twenty sixteen, it
was just a very different time for just

463
00:29:07.720 --> 00:29:11.519
life in general. So I also
the same come up story with Casey as

464
00:29:11.559 --> 00:29:15.599
well, because I also saw her
on Instagram and she was friends with this

465
00:29:15.680 --> 00:29:18.000
girl I used to be I was
close with freshman year, so I was

466
00:29:18.000 --> 00:29:22.480
like, okay, my replacement.
But I loved her Instagram like, look,

467
00:29:22.519 --> 00:29:26.400
I'm like she has a good presence. Anyways, I see this girl

468
00:29:26.519 --> 00:29:29.400
at a party getting down, because
at first I was the only one who

469
00:29:29.480 --> 00:29:32.680
was like dancing at our house parties. But when I saw this girl talking

470
00:29:32.880 --> 00:29:34.839
getting down, I'm like I have
someone to dance with. I'm like yes.

471
00:29:34.920 --> 00:29:37.920
So we became friends. I remember
we were in we were at another

472
00:29:37.960 --> 00:29:41.559
party as me, you and our
other friend. We were sitting there.

473
00:29:41.599 --> 00:29:44.200
You were drinking tequila and orange juice, and I started drinking tequia and orange

474
00:29:44.240 --> 00:29:47.480
juice after that short after, and
you were like we should be friends,

475
00:29:47.839 --> 00:29:51.559
and I was like we should.
And then after that, like after college,

476
00:29:51.599 --> 00:29:55.519
we lived together and we just stopped
living together this pastly. Yeah.

477
00:29:56.039 --> 00:29:57.160
Yeah, we lived together for like
four years. Yeah, four years.

478
00:29:57.200 --> 00:30:00.240
We were like pretty close before we
moved in together, but we had our

479
00:30:00.279 --> 00:30:03.039
house was like three stories and me
and Bailey lived on the same floor.

480
00:30:03.319 --> 00:30:07.400
And I feel like just living together
and like sharing a bathroom and always just

481
00:30:07.519 --> 00:30:10.640
like seeing each other. We got
so close. We were like we realized

482
00:30:10.680 --> 00:30:14.039
we're so similar and we like hate
the same things and like the same thing.

483
00:30:14.119 --> 00:30:17.559
So we got super close. And
they moved into our own little shoe

484
00:30:17.559 --> 00:30:19.359
box apartment. Yeah, that we
lived in for like way too long.

485
00:30:19.440 --> 00:30:22.880
That was like a honeymoon suite.
Like you know when people like just get

486
00:30:22.920 --> 00:30:25.000
bare in their early twenties, they're
like, all right, let's move in

487
00:30:25.000 --> 00:30:27.319
together. The Swallow apartment that was
us. That apartment was electric. Though

488
00:30:27.759 --> 00:30:30.720
we had some of the best times, the greatest memories. Yeah, in

489
00:30:30.759 --> 00:30:34.880
that place, I missed the parking
so too. That's actually good to note.

490
00:30:34.920 --> 00:30:40.960
So Lindsay didn't know Casey and Bailey
like because Lindsay and I were the

491
00:30:40.960 --> 00:30:42.559
type of friends were in college.
We kind of were just like we would

492
00:30:42.599 --> 00:30:45.119
text each other here and there,
but like we would see each other when

493
00:30:45.160 --> 00:30:48.119
we saw each other, like we
were always going to be best friends,

494
00:30:48.119 --> 00:30:51.880
we were always going to be neighbors. But Lindsay moved home after graduating from

495
00:30:51.880 --> 00:30:55.000
Penn State, and Casey and Bailey
moved into their own place. But I

496
00:30:55.119 --> 00:30:57.920
also moved home, so me and
Lindsay would start hanging out because you know

497
00:30:57.960 --> 00:31:02.680
when you move home after college and
it feels like all your freedom is taken

498
00:31:02.680 --> 00:31:03.519
away again. It's like, wait, I now have to tell my mom

499
00:31:03.559 --> 00:31:07.599
where I'm going. So I told
Lindsay right away. I was like,

500
00:31:07.640 --> 00:31:10.240
listen, my two best friends,
Casey and Bailey have a house in the

501
00:31:10.279 --> 00:31:12.839
city. We're not on this fucking
suburb type of time. Like they're so

502
00:31:14.079 --> 00:31:17.960
chill. They'll let us sleep over, They'll let us pregame like anything we

503
00:31:18.000 --> 00:31:21.119
want, and Lindsay's like bet,
so I was like, we got to

504
00:31:21.160 --> 00:31:23.799
hit it off and it happened so
naturally. And let me just say that

505
00:31:25.359 --> 00:31:29.039
not everybody always gets along, and
there is a reason why there are four

506
00:31:29.079 --> 00:31:32.799
of us and not ten of us. We have lost some soldiers along the

507
00:31:32.839 --> 00:31:37.799
way America's next Top Model the fade
out. These are the four remaining models.

508
00:31:37.240 --> 00:31:41.559
Yeah, but you guys got along. Casey, Billy got along great

509
00:31:41.559 --> 00:31:45.720
with Lindsay. I feel like so
Casey and Bailey. When Casey was referring

510
00:31:45.759 --> 00:31:48.359
to the house where her and Bailey
lived on the same floor, that house

511
00:31:48.599 --> 00:31:52.559
was it was a staple in our
friend group and in our larger friend group

512
00:31:52.559 --> 00:31:56.000
as well, Like that was the
turn up spot. That was where you

513
00:31:56.039 --> 00:32:00.640
went. That was where you hooked
up with someone. In that house,

514
00:32:00.680 --> 00:32:02.119
you you loved. In that house, you drank like it was it was

515
00:32:02.160 --> 00:32:07.720
fun, and I remember I would
go there, but like I wasn't super

516
00:32:07.759 --> 00:32:12.200
super close with you guys. Like
I remember like meeting you Bailey for the

517
00:32:12.200 --> 00:32:14.400
first time and I was like,
oh, like she's black, so like

518
00:32:14.640 --> 00:32:16.960
I don't there are no cons go
on that period. And then when I

519
00:32:17.000 --> 00:32:20.920
met Casey, it was like the
same energy that Brandon and Bailey were talking

520
00:32:20.920 --> 00:32:23.319
about where it was like drop it
energy, like sometimes Casey is full blown

521
00:32:23.400 --> 00:32:28.799
light skin where you just feel it's
the same same reason I liked Bailey,

522
00:32:28.880 --> 00:32:31.920
like, oh, Casey's a little
black. So I mean, like obviously

523
00:32:31.960 --> 00:32:35.599
that was an attraction that I had
to both of you. You guys were

524
00:32:35.640 --> 00:32:42.480
just very fun and then a little
and then when you guys moved to your

525
00:32:42.519 --> 00:32:45.279
shoe box apartment, that was where
things really got lit. Like that's where

526
00:32:45.359 --> 00:32:51.519
Brandon and I just like we became
the third and fourth roommate in that apartment.

527
00:32:51.680 --> 00:32:54.400
And I just think that our friendship
blew up from there. And it

528
00:32:54.960 --> 00:33:00.359
because it was kind of around the
time of COVID when everything was closed and

529
00:33:00.400 --> 00:33:02.200
like we were trying to find our
way, Brandon and I were trying to

530
00:33:02.240 --> 00:33:07.079
find our way, you know,
navigating out of the suburbs. It was

531
00:33:07.160 --> 00:33:09.480
just like you guys were kind of
like our angels. I guess, like

532
00:33:09.519 --> 00:33:15.119
our are like, I don't know, like our little fab So yeah,

533
00:33:15.119 --> 00:33:17.880
that was really great. I just
remember, you know, hitting it off

534
00:33:17.880 --> 00:33:22.359
really well with you guys. So
yeah, I had like the same energy.

535
00:33:22.640 --> 00:33:24.480
Yeah, that's the thing, Like
it's a beautiful moment when you look

536
00:33:24.519 --> 00:33:29.559
around and you're like, oh,
she's an idiot, or like he's so

537
00:33:29.759 --> 00:33:31.359
stupid. Like that's what we feed
off of. I think that's what keeps

538
00:33:31.359 --> 00:33:35.119
our friendship going. And people who
don't get that are just like you guys

539
00:33:35.119 --> 00:33:37.640
are weird. But it's like,
yeah, yeah we are. And we

540
00:33:37.759 --> 00:33:40.920
use idiot in the most endearing term
in this friend group. Like if we

541
00:33:42.000 --> 00:33:44.640
call you an idiot, like oh, you're an idiot, like that means

542
00:33:44.640 --> 00:33:49.759
we love you, like you have
like chaotic energy that like we just resonate

543
00:33:49.799 --> 00:33:52.880
with. Yeah, you know those
thoughts you have and you're like, oh

544
00:33:52.880 --> 00:33:53.799
my god, I cannot say this
in front of this group of people,

545
00:33:53.839 --> 00:33:57.160
like they will think I'm so dumb, or they'll think I'm so weird,

546
00:33:57.200 --> 00:33:59.960
Like that doesn't exist in this friend
Now I can tell you guys the most

547
00:34:00.200 --> 00:34:02.720
absurd thing, the darkest secret,
like anything, and you guys be like,

548
00:34:02.720 --> 00:34:05.920
oh god, I just thought that
the other day. I get some

549
00:34:06.000 --> 00:34:12.760
kickback from you guys. Sometimes sometimes
you're the kickle. You're nasty, there's

550
00:34:12.800 --> 00:34:16.199
something mean like that. But I
think we also have a genuine respect.

551
00:34:16.280 --> 00:34:20.320
Like I can hang out with you
guys because you guys know when I'm hungover,

552
00:34:20.599 --> 00:34:22.639
don't push the buttons. Like not
many people know that we have a

553
00:34:22.679 --> 00:34:25.800
genuine love and respect for each other. But I can be around you guys

554
00:34:25.800 --> 00:34:30.719
in any given situation. We know
each other's pressure points. The beauty of

555
00:34:30.920 --> 00:34:35.079
Casey and Bailey is that both of
you hate loud, Like if somebody,

556
00:34:35.280 --> 00:34:37.800
if somebody asks me, like,
oh, what's Casey and Bailey's pet peeve?

557
00:34:37.880 --> 00:34:42.039
Like they are so aligned like true
Capricorn's sisters. They do not like

558
00:34:42.119 --> 00:34:45.480
loudly. If you if you calm, you need to come correctly because it's

559
00:34:45.519 --> 00:34:47.960
not a fun time. Yeah,
Like when somebody comes screaming into a room,

560
00:34:49.039 --> 00:34:52.280
like there is a few select amount
of people that can do that and

561
00:34:52.400 --> 00:34:55.760
carry the energy that that volume brings. But if you lack the energy that

562
00:34:55.800 --> 00:34:59.559
how loud your voice is, Like
if those two things don't match up,

563
00:35:00.119 --> 00:35:05.559
I would really prefer you just it's
it's a little scary sometimes when the two

564
00:35:05.559 --> 00:35:08.480
of you are like in that moment
because Casey does this thing where I call

565
00:35:08.519 --> 00:35:12.719
it the finger pistol, where you
know, she'll make the little gun with

566
00:35:12.760 --> 00:35:15.280
her hand and it will go up
in the air, and it is just

567
00:35:15.360 --> 00:35:20.519
like shut up, like shut up
and Bailey will just look at you,

568
00:35:20.719 --> 00:35:23.920
and that look is like if her
superpower was lasers coming out of her eyes

569
00:35:23.960 --> 00:35:27.719
like they are. I can tell
when Bailey's in a bad mood. I

570
00:35:27.719 --> 00:35:30.199
can tell like when I can push
Bailey's buttons and I can tell them.

571
00:35:32.719 --> 00:35:36.960
M hmm. Yeah. I'm like, Okay, We've gone on enough vacations

572
00:35:36.960 --> 00:35:39.480
and trips together to like know like
the inner workings of our friendship, Like

573
00:35:39.519 --> 00:35:43.760
we're not Surfercevel. We've lived together. We know how you guys can paint

574
00:35:43.800 --> 00:35:51.480
my body for I feel like everyone
always asks us why we live in Philly.

575
00:35:52.440 --> 00:35:55.599
I don't really know how to describe
it. Like I personally love Philly.

576
00:35:55.639 --> 00:36:00.360
I think it's like just a gritty
city wherever is chaos, similar to

577
00:36:00.440 --> 00:36:04.480
like how me, Casey and Billy
were talking about going like a smaller school,

578
00:36:04.519 --> 00:36:08.079
like Philadelphia is like the sixth biggest
city, but like I've always resonated

579
00:36:08.079 --> 00:36:12.920
with, Philadelphia is small town,
big buildings. If you go out,

580
00:36:12.960 --> 00:36:16.199
which most people here do, and
it's a very sports binge drinking city.

581
00:36:16.320 --> 00:36:22.440
Yep, you are going to run
into the same friend groups week after week.

582
00:36:22.639 --> 00:36:25.280
You're gonna hook up with someone's ex
it's gonna get messy. You even

583
00:36:25.320 --> 00:36:29.280
have those people where you'll like run
into someone at the bar, someone you've

584
00:36:29.320 --> 00:36:31.199
never met before. You just see
them and you're like, Yo, what's

585
00:36:31.280 --> 00:36:34.599
up. And you don't know where
they where they come from, or like

586
00:36:34.599 --> 00:36:37.519
what their steez is, but like
that's your home inge. That's just reminded

587
00:36:37.559 --> 00:36:39.519
me. At the restaurant I was
at yesterday, so many people ended up

588
00:36:39.519 --> 00:36:40.960
coming in. I was like,
oh my god, what are you doing

589
00:36:40.960 --> 00:36:45.039
here? It just turned into like
a full fest. Yeah, it's hype.

590
00:36:45.639 --> 00:36:47.920
It's like you're a local celebrity everywhere
you go here, like everyone knows

591
00:36:47.960 --> 00:36:52.199
you. Yeah. I love that
feeling. I love, Like just feels

592
00:36:52.199 --> 00:36:54.519
like everyone's on the same page in
this city. Like if you're you want

593
00:36:54.519 --> 00:36:57.760
to drink, so does the rest
of the city. If you're staying in

594
00:36:57.800 --> 00:36:59.880
and having a chill night. Honestly, so was the rest of this.

595
00:37:00.400 --> 00:37:02.920
Like it's crazy how it works.
It's so weird when you really think about

596
00:37:02.960 --> 00:37:06.440
it. The fact that it could
be a random Friday night. It could

597
00:37:06.440 --> 00:37:08.880
the weather could be fine, like
nothing really keeping anyone in, but the

598
00:37:09.000 --> 00:37:12.920
energy in the air, like you
just smell it's like, oh, it's

599
00:37:13.000 --> 00:37:15.800
movie night. You know. So
I don't know. It's just such a

600
00:37:15.840 --> 00:37:17.840
fun especially for our age and like
where we are in our lives. I

601
00:37:17.840 --> 00:37:21.920
think this is like such a fun
city. It's like it just makes sense.

602
00:37:21.960 --> 00:37:25.320
I feel like it's our age demographic
is really prominent here. I feel,

603
00:37:25.400 --> 00:37:30.320
yeah, there's a lot of people
between like twenty five to thirty four.

604
00:37:30.400 --> 00:37:32.719
I know this because my TikTok analytics
say that that is a majority of

605
00:37:32.719 --> 00:37:37.840
my audience and they live in Philadelphia. So if you're listening in your between

606
00:37:37.840 --> 00:37:43.719
those ages, everyone, should we
do a segment, you guys. I

607
00:37:44.800 --> 00:37:50.840
actually start with so I do this
series on TikTok that honestly, Lindsay should

608
00:37:50.840 --> 00:37:53.599
get partial credit for because I go
into the kitchen while this girl is working

609
00:37:53.639 --> 00:37:58.119
her nine to five and I say, Lindsay, let me tell you a

610
00:37:58.159 --> 00:38:00.519
subject and rank the order of what
it should be in. So I do

611
00:38:00.559 --> 00:38:06.079
these pyramid rankings inspired by Abby Lee
Miller, where I'll say a topic,

612
00:38:07.239 --> 00:38:12.559
yes, I don't know about little. So I figured, in the spirit

613
00:38:12.599 --> 00:38:17.360
of Halloween, we could do ranking
the most basic Halloween costumes we saw this

614
00:38:17.440 --> 00:38:22.960
weekend. So for those the bottom
of the pyramid would be not so basic,

615
00:38:22.079 --> 00:38:27.440
a little more creative. The midpoint
would be pretty basic, and the

616
00:38:27.480 --> 00:38:31.400
top slot goes for what you think, by far is the most basic.

617
00:38:31.719 --> 00:38:36.480
I think we should say the first. I think that we should all at

618
00:38:36.519 --> 00:38:39.440
the at the same time say what
we think the most basic, because I

619
00:38:39.519 --> 00:38:42.800
want to say all the lot there, but I can say that. I

620
00:38:42.840 --> 00:38:45.800
think we all can say that first
one okay, ready, one, two,

621
00:38:45.320 --> 00:38:52.800
three, that red dress and you
know, the hoodie with Justin.

622
00:38:53.000 --> 00:38:57.920
I have no disrespect, no ill
will towards anybody who chose to do that

623
00:38:57.960 --> 00:39:01.360
costume a lot if you ate it
the fuck up. But oh my god,

624
00:39:01.639 --> 00:39:06.719
I think if I had that costume
plan for Saturday and I woke up

625
00:39:06.760 --> 00:39:09.360
and saw every single person do it
on Friday, I would have switched.

626
00:39:09.599 --> 00:39:15.119
Yeah, I would have switched.
I did not expect that costume to be

627
00:39:15.559 --> 00:39:19.840
the most blown up of the year. I told you three weeks ago.

628
00:39:19.880 --> 00:39:21.800
I was like, if we go
out for Halloween, I really wanted to

629
00:39:21.800 --> 00:39:23.960
be Hailey Bieber and Justin or whatever. But I know that everyone in the

630
00:39:23.960 --> 00:39:27.519
world is going to be Yeah,
that's a good idea, But I didn't

631
00:39:27.519 --> 00:39:31.360
think everyone in the world literally a
good idea. Easy if your boyfriend doesn't

632
00:39:31.400 --> 00:39:35.480
care and he like it's easy.
I get it. But the problem with

633
00:39:35.800 --> 00:39:37.679
having a basic Halloween costume is like
the more people who do it, the

634
00:39:37.719 --> 00:39:43.079
easier it is to compare who did
it bad obscure costume. You can get

635
00:39:43.079 --> 00:39:45.880
away with looking like shit because no
one even won knows who you are or

636
00:39:45.920 --> 00:39:49.400
no one can compare. But when
it's like your timeline is only red dresses

637
00:39:49.400 --> 00:39:52.760
and crocs, it's like wow that
those crocs are orange and the real outfits

638
00:39:52.840 --> 00:39:54.360
yellow. Where like you can just
really pick it apart. You can compare

639
00:39:54.679 --> 00:39:58.559
who went more effort on it,
and if you got a krispy Kreme box

640
00:39:58.599 --> 00:40:00.239
as er a prop like that something
to it, but no one's going to

641
00:40:00.280 --> 00:40:04.320
do. I have one that I
don't think was basic at all. I

642
00:40:04.320 --> 00:40:07.079
thought it was so creative. And
I don't know if this was on anyone

643
00:40:07.079 --> 00:40:09.199
else's TikTok a list of them,
so I hope it's on here. I

644
00:40:09.239 --> 00:40:15.119
saw two gay men be Tiffany Gomez
aka the woman on the plane who said

645
00:40:15.239 --> 00:40:20.559
that is not real, and they
ate it. They got her whole outfit.

646
00:40:20.880 --> 00:40:24.559
The one man I wish I remembered
his at the commitment that him and

647
00:40:24.599 --> 00:40:28.360
his friend group gave to it.
They were on a party bus and he

648
00:40:28.440 --> 00:40:30.480
got up. The whole party bus
was signed like he told everybody shut the

649
00:40:30.639 --> 00:40:38.480
fuck up filming something, and it
was it was a masterpiece that what was

650
00:40:38.519 --> 00:40:43.440
yours? I have a few my
I almost want to say first either say

651
00:40:43.440 --> 00:40:47.880
your favorite. Maybe Gypsy Rose Gypsy
Rose plants are thought that was the best.

652
00:40:49.000 --> 00:40:51.400
I'm sound like, only like a
few people do Becuparently she's getting out

653
00:40:51.400 --> 00:40:53.880
this year for her Yeah, so
my friends like you should do it.

654
00:40:53.920 --> 00:40:58.280
But there were so many good people. I saw someone like it was Gypsy

655
00:40:58.320 --> 00:41:00.400
Rose, like the mother. They
were like wheeling her. I'm like a

656
00:41:00.639 --> 00:41:01.599
like a wheeling chair, like an
office chair. And I was like,

657
00:41:01.679 --> 00:41:05.559
please, it's not a little messed
up, it's a little I saw the

658
00:41:05.599 --> 00:41:09.800
post removing, you know what.
I was a little interested with some of

659
00:41:09.800 --> 00:41:14.199
the costumes, Like I saw a
lot of people wear like hospital gowns and

660
00:41:14.199 --> 00:41:16.760
they were like sick of you or
something like they were. It was like,

661
00:41:17.559 --> 00:41:21.320
you know, maybe I'm too sensitive. I kind of thought that was

662
00:41:21.360 --> 00:41:24.199
a little like pushing it. Well. I remember during COVID, I was

663
00:41:24.239 --> 00:41:27.360
like, remember I was like,
I don't think people should dress up as

664
00:41:27.360 --> 00:41:29.360
like nurses or doctors this year,
because I'm like, I feel like it's

665
00:41:29.360 --> 00:41:30.880
a little insight Like during COVID,
I was like, I feel like service

666
00:41:30.960 --> 00:41:34.960
people like don't dress up. That's
valid. Yeah, but we're twenty twenty

667
00:41:34.960 --> 00:41:38.320
three. You're saying some people just
have no like gauge for that, Like

668
00:41:38.599 --> 00:41:44.119
and my boyfriend's like slack. Today
they were all sending their family Halloween costumes

669
00:41:44.119 --> 00:41:46.840
and these are like people being buzz
light Year and woody, like full And

670
00:41:46.920 --> 00:41:51.199
this girl sent a picture of her
and her boyfriend and she said we are

671
00:41:51.320 --> 00:41:55.719
cokey and smoky, and she had
white dust all over her face and her

672
00:41:55.760 --> 00:42:00.760
outfit and her boyfriend had like joints
in his hand and they were movie and

673
00:42:00.880 --> 00:42:05.159
she said, hr in slack in
slack. She sent that picture and I

674
00:42:05.199 --> 00:42:07.719
was like, oh my god,
she has no gauge for like what is

675
00:42:07.760 --> 00:42:13.199
appropriate in any context. It was
the craziest thing I've ever seen in my

676
00:42:13.239 --> 00:42:19.880
life. I'm actually blown away.
That's oh my god, I'm so so

677
00:42:21.119 --> 00:42:23.000
on the bottom of the bid.
Most creative we have, Tiffany Gomez Gypsy

678
00:42:23.039 --> 00:42:29.920
Blue. Does anyone have another WHI
that's a bar? Oh my god?

679
00:42:30.360 --> 00:42:34.559
Take he out. He wrote,
not me talking about a full ass bar.

680
00:42:35.119 --> 00:42:38.400
You know you have a drinking problem. Okay, wait, I kind

681
00:42:38.400 --> 00:42:42.480
of had a good one, Okay, so I had to. I'm a

682
00:42:42.559 --> 00:42:46.320
huge Proud Family stand and I saw
Penny Proud and fifteen cent and if you

683
00:42:46.360 --> 00:42:51.119
watch the Proud Family movie you will
know that that is an iconic outfit,

684
00:42:51.239 --> 00:42:54.119
like they ate down on this.
And then I saw another one. I

685
00:42:54.159 --> 00:42:59.480
think his name was Tibo or t
Bow, but he is the bageld guy

686
00:42:59.480 --> 00:43:02.239
from ICAR who has big I thought
that was so fun. I like that.

687
00:43:02.760 --> 00:43:09.639
Yeah. I saw Nicole Kidman from
the a MC commercial That is like

688
00:43:09.679 --> 00:43:14.719
my favorite. Such good that commercial. One last one before we move on

689
00:43:14.800 --> 00:43:20.760
to the basic the mid pyramid.
I saw my queen Monae Nick Michael was

690
00:43:20.840 --> 00:43:25.559
Jordan Woods and had her friend v
Khylie and they filmed a mock t n

691
00:43:25.719 --> 00:43:29.920
Z skit that When I first saw
it, I was like, oh my

692
00:43:29.960 --> 00:43:34.880
god, Monee's and TMZ like good
for I, so well done, money.

693
00:43:35.199 --> 00:43:37.360
I don't think you'll be listening or
watching it. If you are,

694
00:43:37.840 --> 00:43:43.960
you ate that ship now have home. Yeah, it was amazing. One

695
00:43:43.960 --> 00:43:46.920
Moready mentioned that's it for me.
It was a rose vibrator. I don't

696
00:43:46.960 --> 00:43:52.000
know if you guys saw that some
guy dressed up as like a rose vibrator

697
00:43:52.159 --> 00:43:54.599
and I was like, that's so
creative. Wow, it's a little scary,

698
00:43:54.679 --> 00:43:59.679
but I think the midpoints, I
think we will probably all agree.

699
00:44:00.360 --> 00:44:05.719
Barbie and Ken, Yeah, yeah, Taylor and Travis. Yeah, that

700
00:44:05.800 --> 00:44:10.000
wasn't as overplaced Taylor and Travis.
I was expecting more. I feel like

701
00:44:10.039 --> 00:44:13.519
everyone was like, we're so sick
of seeing this in the news that we're

702
00:44:13.519 --> 00:44:15.480
gonna give it a break, which
I appreciate it. It's also harder than

703
00:44:15.519 --> 00:44:19.800
it looks like one. Capturing the
essence of Taylor Swift is a job in

704
00:44:19.840 --> 00:44:23.039
itself. Like girls broke their throats
dressing up for her tour, so it's

705
00:44:23.079 --> 00:44:28.159
like dressing up as her is already
a challenge, but then dressing up as

706
00:44:28.480 --> 00:44:30.559
King Travis, like you have to
have the aesthetic in the looks and no

707
00:44:30.599 --> 00:44:34.079
way. Yeah, like, not
everybody can do it. I did see

708
00:44:34.079 --> 00:44:37.639
one person where half of them was
Travis, Like they had like their cut

709
00:44:37.639 --> 00:44:39.039
their hat in half and have like
half a jersey and then the other half

710
00:44:39.079 --> 00:44:42.480
was Taylor Swift. I was like, that was really fun. Yeah,

711
00:44:42.519 --> 00:44:45.360
that's clever. Barbie and Ken this
was the year to do it, like

712
00:44:46.159 --> 00:44:50.000
we all knew it was coming and
it was such a good fucking movie.

713
00:44:50.239 --> 00:44:52.199
Yeah, and I really do love
the sound where it's like this is Barbie's

714
00:44:52.280 --> 00:44:58.079
dream house and right is always like
I would say this, if your a

715
00:44:58.079 --> 00:45:00.719
boyfriend agrees to do that tiktoks and
maybe this is just me having bare minimum

716
00:45:00.719 --> 00:45:05.599
expectations, I think that's a green
flag. I think it's a green flag

717
00:45:05.880 --> 00:45:08.519
if he's willing to do the Barbie
TikTok with you, any TikTok for that

718
00:45:08.519 --> 00:45:12.719
matter. Yeah, so many tiktoks
where you can tell that boyfriend does not

719
00:45:12.719 --> 00:45:15.000
give a fuck about what is happening, Like if your boyfriend can just buy

720
00:45:15.039 --> 00:45:19.239
in and please you and learn a
few lyrics like that, Yeah, that's

721
00:45:19.239 --> 00:45:21.639
a good sign. Like if he's
not judging you and it's like why are

722
00:45:21.679 --> 00:45:23.000
you posting this or like I don't
want to take this photo. Like if

723
00:45:23.000 --> 00:45:28.119
he's giving you TikTok energy, that's
a green flag. That is a ladies,

724
00:45:28.159 --> 00:45:30.000
gays and days. That is a
very big green flag. I'm going

725
00:45:30.039 --> 00:45:34.320
to add that to my wish list. Do we have any other ones that

726
00:45:34.360 --> 00:45:38.519
we think we're super mid like kind
of basic. Those are the ones I

727
00:45:38.760 --> 00:45:43.440
feel like the like, and this
is I feel like torn about this because

728
00:45:43.440 --> 00:45:45.320
if I was in college, I
feel like I would kind of do the

729
00:45:45.320 --> 00:45:49.320
same thing, but like the fashion
nova like mini versions of every costume.

730
00:45:50.320 --> 00:45:54.239
Casey, casey, No, because
I feel passionately about this. I was

731
00:45:54.400 --> 00:46:01.360
just telling Brandon the little diaper pants
like buzz Lightyard. No, you aree.

732
00:46:01.559 --> 00:46:06.119
You want some cheeks, And I
get it. There is nothing more

733
00:46:06.119 --> 00:46:08.519
fun than finding a nice man or
woman to go home with in a Halloween

734
00:46:08.559 --> 00:46:14.679
costume. But that, sweetie,
just a bathing suit as buzz Lightyear.

735
00:46:14.840 --> 00:46:16.440
Yeah, that should know. It
should be banned for those costumes. I

736
00:46:16.679 --> 00:46:20.920
it is my Oh my god,
I'm gonna scream like I want to throw

737
00:46:20.960 --> 00:46:23.440
the microphone front of day. Get
my Flintstones costume for a few years.

738
00:46:23.519 --> 00:46:28.360
That doesn't count fashion that went hard. It does not count you looked great,

739
00:46:28.440 --> 00:46:30.840
that it was a ten out of
ten costume. I'm talking about the

740
00:46:31.000 --> 00:46:35.920
act. They look like a leap
No, not even that would be giving

741
00:46:35.920 --> 00:46:37.880
them more fabric. Yes, it's
like pull ups, like you know when

742
00:46:37.880 --> 00:46:42.079
you put a pull up on a
toddler. That's what it looks like.

743
00:46:42.360 --> 00:46:44.960
And it's like listen. I get
it. Like I was in college,

744
00:46:45.039 --> 00:46:46.639
I threw cat ears on a black
outfit and called myself a cat. But

745
00:46:46.760 --> 00:46:51.320
like, if you're going the mile
to buy a costume, just like personalize

746
00:46:51.360 --> 00:46:53.639
it a little bit. Don't just
buy the like one size fits all costume.

747
00:46:53.679 --> 00:46:57.920
And then ever you're on your timeline, stop half asking your Halloween costume

748
00:46:58.000 --> 00:47:02.639
here. I heard it here be
this year, So it's so funny.

749
00:47:02.920 --> 00:47:07.039
My most viral video ever on TikTok
was something that the four of us came

750
00:47:07.119 --> 00:47:10.480
up with, and it leads us
into what we were for Halloween. So

751
00:47:10.480 --> 00:47:14.760
we were Survivor. I was Jeff
Propes. You guys were tribe mates.

752
00:47:15.440 --> 00:47:19.599
I thought we ate it up.
I thought our video deserved a fucking oscar.

753
00:47:19.679 --> 00:47:23.760
You guys were acting. But if
anyone has been living under a rock

754
00:47:24.000 --> 00:47:28.880
and has never seen the show's Survivor, I feel very passionate about Survivor.

755
00:47:28.920 --> 00:47:30.840
It was the theme of my bar
Mitzvah. The premise of the show is

756
00:47:30.920 --> 00:47:35.000
very simple. You live on an
island and every three days you vote someone

757
00:47:35.039 --> 00:47:38.480
off. The only way you can
protect yourself from not being voted off is

758
00:47:38.480 --> 00:47:43.239
if you win an immunity challenge and
are granted the immunity necklace, then you

759
00:47:43.280 --> 00:47:49.039
are safe. And we use this
term ammunity necklace to describe basically, it's

760
00:47:49.079 --> 00:47:52.320
a warning text. We send this
in a group chat, ammunity necklace,

761
00:47:52.440 --> 00:47:57.679
and that signals to everybody in this
room that what is about to come.

762
00:47:58.039 --> 00:48:05.760
It's not necessarily kind, it's not
necessarily smart, politically correct, it's not

763
00:48:05.840 --> 00:48:08.360
going to be very very nice.
It might also I think this is what

764
00:48:08.400 --> 00:48:10.840
we need to stress. It might
also be weird, like I have something

765
00:48:10.880 --> 00:48:14.320
weird to say. Can you guys
not judge me? It could be a

766
00:48:14.360 --> 00:48:21.360
hot take, and I think we
need to do an immunity necklace segment and

767
00:48:21.679 --> 00:48:23.400
don't feel free, like feel free
to jump in if you have one.

768
00:48:23.400 --> 00:48:27.480
If you don't have one this week, that's okay. But I have one

769
00:48:27.639 --> 00:48:30.639
that is grinding my gears. Let's
hear it. I And this, like

770
00:48:30.679 --> 00:48:34.159
I said, it can be a
little bit of a hot take. I

771
00:48:34.199 --> 00:48:39.400
think the cap cut templates are ruiningtoks. And this is why I'm going to

772
00:48:39.400 --> 00:48:45.519
say this. What makes TikTok so
fun is that you can create meme culture,

773
00:48:45.760 --> 00:48:50.360
but you yourself can create it with
a trending sound, yourself and your

774
00:48:50.400 --> 00:48:53.960
own thought generated caption. Now that
these cap cut templates are taking over,

775
00:48:54.199 --> 00:48:58.639
I feel like I'm on Twitter again, and I love Twitter. When I'm

776
00:48:58.639 --> 00:49:01.280
on Twitter, when I'm on TikTok, I want to be on TikTok,

777
00:49:02.000 --> 00:49:07.239
and I'm seeing people just remake memes. And then there is one level higher,

778
00:49:08.119 --> 00:49:14.280
these AI photos. Here we go. You saw the Pixar template with

779
00:49:14.320 --> 00:49:19.800
the little You Got a Friend toy
story background, even who I love so

780
00:49:19.960 --> 00:49:23.559
much, Taylor Swift, the nineteen
eighty nine templates. I love Taylor Swift.

781
00:49:23.800 --> 00:49:28.719
I want to see her gorgeous face
on that blue screen with the swans.

782
00:49:28.960 --> 00:49:34.519
I don't care what you look like
on the nineteen eighty nine Sorry,

783
00:49:34.519 --> 00:49:37.599
my best. And that's the beauty
of Immuni necklaces. No one has to

784
00:49:37.639 --> 00:49:44.960
agree, but I am sick of
seeing cap cut templates with all of these

785
00:49:45.000 --> 00:49:49.840
AI photos, your book photos.
Listen. I understand the appeal. Oh,

786
00:49:49.880 --> 00:49:51.639
I want to see what I would
look like if I was in a

787
00:49:51.719 --> 00:49:54.360
nineties year book. Do it?
Make it? Send it to your mom,

788
00:49:54.880 --> 00:49:59.360
Send it to your mom, mom. How cute is this? Don't

789
00:49:59.400 --> 00:50:02.239
post it? But some of them
get like so many, like many.

790
00:50:02.280 --> 00:50:05.440
This is the fifth one I've seen, like I don't get it. How

791
00:50:05.480 --> 00:50:08.480
about people making them like they're like
LinkedIn photos. No they're not really,

792
00:50:08.719 --> 00:50:13.840
yes they are. Okay. Oh
now that is where I separate because if

793
00:50:13.840 --> 00:50:16.360
you're going to use the template and
not post on TikTok, I don't care

794
00:50:16.360 --> 00:50:20.480
if you do AI. If you
do AI make a fake LinkedIn photo,

795
00:50:20.840 --> 00:50:23.880
get your back. But I don't
want to see it on TikTok. I

796
00:50:23.920 --> 00:50:29.199
don't care what you and your situationship's
baby may or may not look like yeah,

797
00:50:29.400 --> 00:50:31.159
I'm sorry. And then there's also
the ones that are like kind of

798
00:50:31.199 --> 00:50:34.639
fake too, right, like you
can put in what photo it'll be like

799
00:50:34.679 --> 00:50:37.079
what celebrity do I look like?
And then you can put in what celebrity

800
00:50:37.280 --> 00:50:40.719
you want it to say, and
then people act surprised like yeah enough.

801
00:50:40.800 --> 00:50:45.199
There is one now that I think
about it, the caf cut template where

802
00:50:45.199 --> 00:50:49.800
it was like the banana or something
falling out of the out of a plane.

803
00:50:49.840 --> 00:50:52.440
It was like, oh, it
was like, it's like me when

804
00:50:52.480 --> 00:50:55.199
I see Dredheads go to a party
like that was funny. But my thing

805
00:50:55.280 --> 00:50:59.599
is I don't like it because I
can't do it because whenever I go to

806
00:50:59.679 --> 00:51:02.000
Canta work for me, it doesn't
work. And also, what AI are

807
00:51:02.000 --> 00:51:08.400
we downloading? Is there paying like
seven dollars? Yeah? You like no,

808
00:51:08.840 --> 00:51:14.119
because I did try for the for
the fun of just knowing that I

809
00:51:14.159 --> 00:51:15.880
knew you weren't going to post them. Yeah, never in my life.

810
00:51:15.880 --> 00:51:19.440
And the people who took it a
step further and posted on their Instagram feed,

811
00:51:19.760 --> 00:51:22.679
great, Yeah, they should be
blocked from Instagram for thirty days.

812
00:51:22.639 --> 00:51:30.599
Yeah. I just it goes back
to that false sense of importance. Babe.

813
00:51:31.320 --> 00:51:36.039
I just I don't care. And
yeah, there's my Muni necklace.

814
00:51:36.039 --> 00:51:37.880
The viewers at home are probably like, wow, he's a bitch. Does

815
00:51:37.920 --> 00:51:44.599
anybody else have one? Please?
I have the Queen related one. I

816
00:51:44.639 --> 00:51:49.679
cannot stand when people don't reference their
Halloween costume when they post it on Instagram.

817
00:51:49.840 --> 00:51:52.280
I am nosy, okay. I
want to know what you are.

818
00:51:52.360 --> 00:51:53.239
I want to see how good you
did it. I want to see if

819
00:51:53.239 --> 00:51:57.760
it's relevant. And when people just
post one picture and it's just what they

820
00:51:57.760 --> 00:52:00.960
were in a caption and it's quotes
from a movie I've never I don't know

821
00:52:00.000 --> 00:52:02.559
what the fuck you are and now
I have to go google it or try

822
00:52:02.559 --> 00:52:05.639
to figure it out or look at
the comments and I don't want to do

823
00:52:05.679 --> 00:52:08.079
that. Just swipe. Instagram put
that feature for a reason. Put if

824
00:52:08.079 --> 00:52:12.960
you're doing a meme or quote,
like give the viewers some context. I

825
00:52:13.000 --> 00:52:15.840
feel like this goes back to what
you said earlier. I feel like the

826
00:52:15.880 --> 00:52:19.280
people who do not post a swipe
know that they did a shit job.

827
00:52:19.719 --> 00:52:22.239
They were I don't want you to
know. They go into the swipe and

828
00:52:22.239 --> 00:52:25.119
they're like, oh wow, this
looks nothing like what I was actually trying

829
00:52:25.119 --> 00:52:29.239
to be. So I'm just gonna
take that l and I'm just gonna post

830
00:52:30.960 --> 00:52:34.000
that's true, that might be what
they're thinking, but just like add context.

831
00:52:34.079 --> 00:52:36.000
Yeah, I'm nosy. I want
to know what you're doing. Like

832
00:52:36.119 --> 00:52:37.519
it's like an astronaut, though I
don't want to see all right people on

833
00:52:37.559 --> 00:52:40.679
the moon? Yeah no, if
it's like a cat or like a firefighter,

834
00:52:40.840 --> 00:52:45.400
like so funny. We didn't We
didn't plan on dressing up. And

835
00:52:45.719 --> 00:52:49.800
I only wanted to dress up because
my whole TikTok for You page was people

836
00:52:49.800 --> 00:52:52.519
in costumes and I was like,
damn, that really is Like I think

837
00:52:52.639 --> 00:52:57.639
TikTok is now the new Halloween post. Like I used to be Instagram,

838
00:52:57.679 --> 00:53:00.960
like my Instagram halloweens would always pop
up off so hard. But now I'm

839
00:53:00.960 --> 00:53:04.039
like, I get way more excited
to post on TikTok on Halloween now that

840
00:53:04.119 --> 00:53:07.639
Instagram it's like perfect for transitions,
like you, it's like what that is

841
00:53:07.679 --> 00:53:09.320
made for. It's also fun,
like it gives you an idea of what

842
00:53:09.320 --> 00:53:12.880
you might want to be like next
year, how to wear your costume.

843
00:53:13.280 --> 00:53:15.880
People are always ahead of it.
I love those tiktoks where it's just a

844
00:53:15.920 --> 00:53:19.719
bunch of swipes and it's like costumes
for you and your friends, costumes for

845
00:53:19.760 --> 00:53:22.320
yourself, costumes for you and your
man, like ten out of ten.

846
00:53:22.440 --> 00:53:24.159
And I just love that we're entering
the era of like hot girls can be

847
00:53:24.239 --> 00:53:30.800
ugly like they they like hawt girls
aren't wearing that like all the hot costumes

848
00:53:30.800 --> 00:53:36.039
anymore. Like these amazing beautiful girls
are dressing up as like dudes. As

849
00:53:36.159 --> 00:53:37.000
I saw. I said, you
have a TikTok this morning that was like

850
00:53:37.000 --> 00:53:39.960
sexy Steve Harvey and it was like
girl hate Harvey, but she had on

851
00:53:40.000 --> 00:53:44.199
fish nets and boots, like no, I do love that hot to be

852
00:53:44.280 --> 00:53:46.199
hot all the time. I love
when people are weird Halloween, like we

853
00:53:46.199 --> 00:53:50.760
were weird, like what do you
mean your survivor we're fucking weird. We're

854
00:53:50.760 --> 00:53:52.440
weirdo, And like I wanted to
do spid like I want you to like

855
00:53:52.480 --> 00:53:55.840
weird costumes this year, I'm gonna
do either prison like or Sea Harvey.

856
00:53:55.840 --> 00:53:58.800
And I was like I usually feel
like something like ooh, let's show the

857
00:53:58.880 --> 00:54:00.360
like least skin as possible. Let
me just switch it up. Yeah,

858
00:54:00.360 --> 00:54:06.119
everyone knows what I look like as
a who Halloween to prove that. Yeah,

859
00:54:06.159 --> 00:54:07.920
that's like I love that. I
love that. It's like I saw

860
00:54:08.000 --> 00:54:10.360
this was so long ago, and
this is such an old like reference.

861
00:54:10.400 --> 00:54:15.679
But like hot girls looking ugly is
like the equivalent of like big dick energy,

862
00:54:15.960 --> 00:54:17.119
Like if you know you're hot,
but you can go out and look

863
00:54:17.199 --> 00:54:20.760
ugly as fuck and you don't care
anymore. Like I feel like in college,

864
00:54:20.800 --> 00:54:22.039
I never left the house looking ugly. I was always so scared.

865
00:54:22.280 --> 00:54:24.199
And now I feel like I do
not give a fuck what I look like.

866
00:54:24.239 --> 00:54:28.880
I would be willing to be something
ugly for Halloween. Like girls who

867
00:54:28.920 --> 00:54:32.760
are hot and can be ugly,
that's like a top tier girl. Yeah,

868
00:54:32.920 --> 00:54:36.000
I mean I just kind of accept
it. Sometimes without the makeup,

869
00:54:36.119 --> 00:54:38.320
like I can't do anything about it. I can't do anything about this face.

870
00:54:38.360 --> 00:54:42.599
I'm not always a ten, but
like listen, that's why I feel

871
00:54:42.599 --> 00:54:44.840
about my clothes make me this way. I'll look in the mirror and I'll

872
00:54:44.840 --> 00:54:47.119
look at Brandon and I'll go wow, like I'm really going out like this,

873
00:54:47.159 --> 00:54:51.119
and I will sometimes I'll post it
to just to make myself feel better,

874
00:54:51.320 --> 00:54:52.599
like if you see me in these
streets, No you didn't? You

875
00:54:52.639 --> 00:54:58.760
know what was? Did you have
an ammunia necklcensay? I don't know.

876
00:54:58.840 --> 00:55:00.239
I feel like I'm going to be
really be hurtful, so I might have

877
00:55:00.280 --> 00:55:05.880
to keep mine to myself. You
can't just tease that maybe next week.

878
00:55:07.719 --> 00:55:10.320
So yeah, I'm gonna think it
through because either way you want to say

879
00:55:10.320 --> 00:55:13.920
it, let's let's not get you
in trouble episode. That's something that's wrong

880
00:55:13.960 --> 00:55:16.480
with me, and the listeners will
soon realize that sometimes I trip over my

881
00:55:16.519 --> 00:55:21.840
words and I say things that are
offensive or hurtful and I don't realize or

882
00:55:21.920 --> 00:55:23.599
just out of pocket, like out
of control. And I don't want to

883
00:55:23.639 --> 00:55:27.199
do that episode one, So that's
fair. I'm gonna keep it chill.

884
00:55:27.920 --> 00:55:30.800
I have one written down, but
I looked at it again it's very disgusting.

885
00:55:31.880 --> 00:55:35.559
So I don't want to bring that
to episode one yet, just yet.

886
00:55:35.639 --> 00:55:37.760
Let's are you sure no, it's
like kind of st I think you

887
00:55:37.800 --> 00:55:39.280
took a pass. Come on,
I don't know if we want to jump

888
00:55:39.280 --> 00:55:45.719
into like dirty websites already. I
don't think that's the episode. You have

889
00:55:45.719 --> 00:55:49.079
to use an episode two to hear
both of their Yeah you got okay.

890
00:55:49.119 --> 00:55:52.920
Next week, you two come prepared
with an immuni netlist. Okay, I'll

891
00:55:52.920 --> 00:55:55.760
make mine as sick as yours.
I feel like good vibees coming. It's

892
00:55:55.840 --> 00:55:59.519
like I was like, let me
write this down. I was like,

893
00:55:59.519 --> 00:56:00.679
wait, this is on the nasty. As I was writing it down,

894
00:56:00.679 --> 00:56:02.199
I just looked at it and I
was like, whooh, but I'm gonna

895
00:56:02.199 --> 00:56:07.639
say it. I feel like we
should end just like kind of filling everybody

896
00:56:07.679 --> 00:56:14.559
in on like where we're at in
life now, and I'll get this show

897
00:56:14.679 --> 00:56:19.599
started. So, like I said
earlier, I'm a full time TikTok creator.

898
00:56:19.639 --> 00:56:22.480
One thing that's going to be very
interesting about me is I'm in my

899
00:56:22.599 --> 00:56:27.239
first relationship. Anyone else at home
is in their first relationship. It's a

900
00:56:27.360 --> 00:56:30.840
really like exciting phase, but like
also an interesting phase because you learn so

901
00:56:30.039 --> 00:56:35.960
much about yourself. So my boyfriend, his name is host Sway. He

902
00:56:36.039 --> 00:56:39.639
lives in this in Philly too.
But I don't want anybody to think that

903
00:56:39.719 --> 00:56:44.880
I'm not fun because I still am
very fun and I have a lot of

904
00:56:44.960 --> 00:56:50.480
really funny stories from my past when
I was a CW a certified warr and

905
00:56:50.559 --> 00:56:53.599
I will definitely not be shy to
share because like earlier how we were talking

906
00:56:53.599 --> 00:56:57.639
about boyfriends who were down for tiktoks, my boyfriend is a walking green flag.

907
00:56:57.920 --> 00:57:00.480
I'm a proof to say what pretty
much whoever I want. He hasn't

908
00:57:00.480 --> 00:57:04.880
had a problem with any of my
tiktoks yet, So I'm not nervous about

909
00:57:04.920 --> 00:57:08.199
this past, at least I don't
think I should be. But yeah,

910
00:57:08.239 --> 00:57:13.760
I'm really excited to have this podcast. We already spilled some tea that only

911
00:57:13.800 --> 00:57:16.159
you guys know now because I've never
talked about on TikTok us almost having a

912
00:57:16.159 --> 00:57:20.280
TV show, so insider t for
y'all, and we are going to be

913
00:57:20.280 --> 00:57:23.559
spilling a lot of insider tea.
I will say this, I get asked

914
00:57:23.599 --> 00:57:28.880
a lot of questions that I will
never answer on TikTok but I will answer

915
00:57:28.960 --> 00:57:32.119
them. Here. So that's where
I'm going to leave off. Popcorn.

916
00:57:32.119 --> 00:57:37.199
Lindsey. Okay, So, as
I said before, I have a full

917
00:57:37.199 --> 00:57:39.320
time job nine to five. I
work as a project manager at a tech

918
00:57:39.320 --> 00:57:45.880
company. And right now I would
say I'm in a situationship. I guess

919
00:57:45.960 --> 00:57:50.679
it's not like a full relationship.
It was, but sometimes when you just

920
00:57:50.719 --> 00:57:53.599
have those ups and downs, it
becomes like a relationship to a breakup to

921
00:57:53.639 --> 00:57:58.679
a situationship to a relationship, and
it just it's freak. Yeah, it

922
00:57:58.760 --> 00:58:01.119
just keeps coming back to you.
So I don't really know what I'm doing.

923
00:58:01.360 --> 00:58:05.920
We'll figure it out along the way, but hopefully I figure it out

924
00:58:05.960 --> 00:58:09.719
soon because it's a stressful time to
be a lot that we're gonna grow with.

925
00:58:09.760 --> 00:58:14.880
Lindsay, Yeah, that's fun,
and I like, I like honestly

926
00:58:15.079 --> 00:58:17.800
that for you, because I do
know that a lot of people can definitely

927
00:58:17.800 --> 00:58:21.480
relate to that. I mean,
before I was in my relationship, I

928
00:58:21.639 --> 00:58:25.000
was in the exact same boat,
and situationships are so much harder to get

929
00:58:25.039 --> 00:58:30.599
over there. They're just like I've
always had a boyfriend, and like coming

930
00:58:30.639 --> 00:58:36.639
out of so many relationships that have
been such flups and like no shade to

931
00:58:36.719 --> 00:58:43.039
those guys, like I respect all
most of them, but it's like I've

932
00:58:43.079 --> 00:58:46.920
never been in a relationship that's been
super healthy or super strong, and that

933
00:58:47.239 --> 00:58:51.599
really sucks. It says a lot
about who I choose and a lot about

934
00:58:51.639 --> 00:58:54.800
my person. So hopefully this year, like this podcast, getting my feelings

935
00:58:54.800 --> 00:59:00.000
out, being surrounded by my girls
will really help me push through and figure

936
00:59:00.119 --> 00:59:01.960
it out. But we'll grow together. It'll be fun. I love.

937
00:59:02.760 --> 00:59:07.440
Yeah, I might go to his
house after this. Everyone pray for me.

938
00:59:08.440 --> 00:59:14.400
Popcorn. So I'm easy? WHOA
wait, I was gonna say I'm

939
00:59:14.440 --> 00:59:15.360
easy. I'm mean to say like
I'm just single, of like my my

940
00:59:15.400 --> 00:59:22.039
situation, situation is easy, kind
of ish. I'm a single right now.

941
00:59:22.079 --> 00:59:23.920
I feel like it's went over my
whole job aide, sex, loucation,

942
00:59:24.000 --> 00:59:29.559
all that. H I don't really
know. I don't know how to

943
00:59:29.599 --> 00:59:31.199
say this, not saying it.
I don't know. I'm just like looking

944
00:59:31.239 --> 00:59:37.679
and dating around. I'm having such
a good time right now because I feel

945
00:59:37.679 --> 00:59:40.320
like I used to be. I
was in a very disgusting, toxic situationship

946
00:59:40.320 --> 00:59:45.280
for like three years, and so
just trying to get out of that.

947
00:59:45.400 --> 00:59:49.960
I mean, it's a lot like
it really sucks. I'm not as easy

948
00:59:49.960 --> 00:59:52.280
as it seems. But after like
getting out of that and just like taking

949
00:59:52.280 --> 00:59:54.920
a step back and like knowing what
I want and I'm not out there like

950
00:59:54.960 --> 00:59:59.440
chasing guys, I feel like I
have like a big inflow right now.

951
01:00:00.079 --> 01:00:02.800
Guys. I feel like I can
see like my like confidence radiating hopefully.

952
01:00:04.760 --> 01:00:07.079
I don't know. Yeah, I
feel good right now. Yeah, you're

953
01:00:07.199 --> 01:00:09.079
it was like a hot girl.
Yeah, twenty seven years. I'm excited.

954
01:00:09.119 --> 01:00:13.159
I've been bullying Bailey every day.
I'm like, we need a Bailey's

955
01:00:13.199 --> 01:00:16.599
Boys segment. So she's gonna think
of some code words and some nicknames.

956
01:00:16.679 --> 01:00:21.280
Yeah, I'm gonna talk about some
of your suitors. Yeah, because I

957
01:00:21.320 --> 01:00:22.760
that is my favorite thing to hear
Bailey talking. Do you have some tea

958
01:00:22.760 --> 01:00:25.360
after this episode to tell you guys? Okay, well, Keith, you

959
01:00:25.440 --> 01:00:30.719
hurry up. Well, we love
the tea. Because Brenda and I are

960
01:00:30.719 --> 01:00:32.480
both in relationships. So I've been
with my boyfriend for a year and a

961
01:00:32.480 --> 01:00:37.519
half. We just moved in together, which is such a fun, completely

962
01:00:37.519 --> 01:00:40.480
different like journey. I will love
to talk about that at some point because

963
01:00:40.480 --> 01:00:43.760
there are some things you just like
don't think about until you live with someone

964
01:00:43.800 --> 01:00:45.920
and you're like, oh shit,
this is so different living with a boy.

965
01:00:46.000 --> 01:00:51.360
It's fun, but I'd like living
with girls too. But I I'm

966
01:00:51.360 --> 01:00:53.039
really excited for this podcast. I
feel like it's a really good chance for

967
01:00:53.119 --> 01:00:57.320
us all to just like talk and
hang out and catch up. And like,

968
01:00:58.000 --> 01:01:00.480
I love our dynamic and I'm really
excited to like share it with everyone.

969
01:01:00.559 --> 01:01:02.800
I feel like people can relate to
each one of us. We're all

970
01:01:02.800 --> 01:01:07.199
in really different stages of our lives
as you just heard. Yeah, but

971
01:01:07.239 --> 01:01:09.440
we're all also twenty seven and figuring
it the fuck out. I don't think

972
01:01:09.440 --> 01:01:14.400
any of us would say we're one
hundred percent like yeah, figured out about

973
01:01:14.440 --> 01:01:17.480
everything. Like that's important to note
too, Like, especially for our listeners

974
01:01:17.480 --> 01:01:20.599
at home, who I'm sure relating
to this, Like this is a weird

975
01:01:20.639 --> 01:01:23.519
age, like it's a transitional age, and like I feel I personally keep

976
01:01:23.519 --> 01:01:27.159
getting told like, oh, when
you're thirty, it gets crazy again.

977
01:01:27.239 --> 01:01:30.559
But like right now, I feel
like in this time, like everyone's like

978
01:01:30.079 --> 01:01:34.119
kind of finishing off like the first
part of their career, and like wondering

979
01:01:34.159 --> 01:01:36.400
do I want to continue this career? Do I want to switch paths?

980
01:01:36.440 --> 01:01:38.760
Like there's a lot of like a
quarter life crisis, honestly. And I

981
01:01:38.800 --> 01:01:43.519
feel like since we're like pandemic kids, like we the early part of our

982
01:01:43.519 --> 01:01:45.000
twenties, we missed like two years
of it, and like now we're kind

983
01:01:45.000 --> 01:01:47.880
of feeling a little bit of a
ripple effect. Does anyone else Does anyone

984
01:01:47.920 --> 01:01:52.000
else on like pandemic skip TikTok No? Okay, So this is where we

985
01:01:52.039 --> 01:01:54.599
also want to talk about TikTok's because
I love the fact that everyone has a

986
01:01:54.639 --> 01:01:58.960
different for you page. Yeah,
because my for you page right now is

987
01:01:59.000 --> 01:02:01.880
all about the pandemic skins. So
it's this theory that psychologists made and I

988
01:02:01.880 --> 01:02:06.800
could be getting this wrong to your
own research, but that like whatever age

989
01:02:06.840 --> 01:02:09.880
you were when the pandemic started is
like where you're at mentally, so like

990
01:02:10.199 --> 01:02:14.519
because three years were wasted. So
these women that were like twenty seven when

991
01:02:14.559 --> 01:02:16.679
the pandemic started and then it's three
years later and they're thirty and everyone around

992
01:02:16.679 --> 01:02:19.760
them is having kids, They're like, oh my god, I'm not ready

993
01:02:19.760 --> 01:02:22.039
to have kids. I'm still young. I'm twenty seven. And it's this

994
01:02:22.119 --> 01:02:24.840
total difference of like ages and stuff. And so I feel like we were

995
01:02:24.840 --> 01:02:29.000
in our early twenties when the pandemic
started, and we took a big chunk

996
01:02:29.039 --> 01:02:31.280
of like the early twenties figuring your
life out phase, and now we're twenty

997
01:02:31.320 --> 01:02:36.199
seven and we're still figuring it out. So we can all do that together

998
01:02:36.199 --> 01:02:38.000
with the listeners, because I know
nobody has their shit together in a good

999
01:02:38.039 --> 01:02:42.079
way. That's a really good point
in casey yeaheah, like I feel that

1000
01:02:42.199 --> 01:02:47.639
too, I'm twenty four, I'm
twenty five. Well, I think this

1001
01:02:47.679 --> 01:02:52.639
went a lot better than our first
start, really, like much better,

1002
01:02:52.800 --> 01:02:54.360
y'all are so we saved you.
Guys, you did not have to listen

1003
01:02:54.400 --> 01:02:59.199
to that first episode because you would
not be back for episode two. But

1004
01:02:59.719 --> 01:03:04.599
this between us gurlies, and like
the title, keep everything between us gurlies.

1005
01:03:05.159 --> 01:03:07.880
Let's drop our socials personal ones first. We fucked this up. Yeah,

1006
01:03:09.280 --> 01:03:14.559
but my name is bran on TikTok. I am brand double Underscore Flakes

1007
01:03:14.559 --> 01:03:20.760
with choosies on Instagram, just one
underscore brand Underscore Flakes with choosies. I

1008
01:03:20.840 --> 01:03:28.960
love that Lindsey Black truffle with no
C so it's like Blake Truffle b l

1009
01:03:29.000 --> 01:03:34.840
a k on TikTok and Instagram.
I'm gonna make my super simple because I

1010
01:03:34.880 --> 01:03:38.280
messed it up the first time.
My Instagram is Bailey Witherspoon, my TikTok

1011
01:03:38.480 --> 01:03:44.239
is Bailey Fit with three t's.
I'm gonna post more work up videos on

1012
01:03:44.239 --> 01:03:47.360
there, but for now it's just
a little chaotic content. I'm at case

1013
01:03:47.440 --> 01:03:52.159
crowden on both Instagram and TikTok with
just two ends at the end, and

1014
01:03:52.199 --> 01:03:54.119
I'm trying to get to twenty thousand
followers on TikTok before my birthday, so

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everyone go follow me, guys.
That's we can do that. Yeah,

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it was. I had the other
day. I was like setting goals and

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I was like, you know what, I'm a fifteen point five K and

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I really want to get to you
two thousands by my birthday. So easy

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peasylemon squeeze. And if you loved
this podcast, which obviously you did,

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make sure to follow us on Instagram
at between us Curlies pod and on TikTok

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01:04:16.000 --> 01:04:18.599
Between us Curlies. Yes, I'm
looking at my notes. I promised we're

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going to get better, So don't
forget to like and subscribe on YouTube please

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and all listening platforms. And we'll
see you guys next week for another episode.

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Bye guys. Bye,