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Welcome. Once again, I' m Luis Miguel Salgado. I'
m brand new glasses look you not for anything. I look extremely good.
It is a pleasure, a privilege to accompany us in a new chapter of
what a good question. I am truly happy because today I am accompanied by
a person who is going to greatly expand the way in which we conceive our
life, the way we understand the processes and who, at the end of
the way, will help us greatly to improve personally and, of course,
through our brand, company or business. For me it is a pleasure in
privilege to present today to Hector Castillo how you are sector Welcome, Hello Hello,
Luis, thank you very much. In the heat of Mexico City.
It seems to you in Yucatán, but that' s how it is cannon,
indeed welcome, how nice to let me introduce you please, Hector as
he deserves. Hector Castillo is a coach of life and career. He is
an advisor and trainer in soft skills, intengible management and personal improvement. She
has more than fifteen years supporting people and organizations internationally to achieve her goals and
the truth is that it is going to be a very interesting talk. So
I invite you not only to stay, but to share and to comment.
Obviously, and all the questions you want to ask Hector, let' s
also put his social networks. If it' s okay with you, as
I always say, yes, it' s okay with you, we start
my dear, Hector again welcome, what a pleasure and pleasure to join us
It' s today, in this talk we' re going to have And
well, I want to tell you that to all my guests, the first
question I ask them is always the same. And beyond what you studied,
in what you have prepared, beyond all your credentials, I would like to
know who Hector Castillo is welcome, as a person who likes to help.
I think a life without service is useless. Okay, so there' s
something we' re here for. No, we have to take advantage of
it. And I rely heavily on nature. If you see in nature,
the trees, the fruits are not for them. They' re given by
the sun, by their side energy so that we can live the seas.
I mean, nature is giving and it doesn' t expect anything. In
return, and that' s what I' m trying to do to help
people beyond the business that you have to eat, because you were really a
human being. How can I help you all the best I can do to
help these people, both in the impersonal coach and in the part in the
companies. Not training, all that, but that part is not a human
being. I tell him to be sentient. We say there in Buddhism anything
else, because it exists, you have to respect it, you don'
t label it anything. So then, you are a person who likes to
give suddenly, because it does not come out as one wants. But you
' re always trying to do your best. No, hey, Hector,
tell me something You think right now I heard you say we' re here,
we' re here to give. I want to ask you this question.
You believe that the human being came to be happy to this planet earth
or to what came the human being to why we are here, For everyone
is free to think, believe what he prefers, not who conceives different things,
for there are masters of life, there are no teachers, teachers everywhere.
So, there are people who are not happy, no, but their
mission is to teach other things. No. Then I have seen many people
who live like this. Just recently he talked to an old man, because
he lives alone very bitter, very angry, always leaving his family. My
family is already very close, but against me he laughs still and you see
him and you say very happy and he' s already gone, he'
s more than eighty years old. I wish and soon not then, in
those cases you say sonjole, for we should all be happy, for yes,
I would be very sorry. No, but there are people I'
ve met. I deal apart from work, I work a lot with people.
I don' t help places where there are little drugs today, I
go to the streets, say hello in the dumpsters, children in the street,
give food and you see a suffering that said I hope there are these
little people soon because they wake up and can be happy. It' s
not what I do anymore. I wish all beings to be happy, to
have peace and quiet, to have everything to be happy. But I'
ve seen that you don' t. No. So that I' ve
heard and there are some phrases out there that say many of them about this,
about peace and there' s one in particular that says if you want
peace, get ready for war. No, and at the end of the
way, it is a very important issue, because I think that the cruelest
war they have to be human with themselves is the judgment that there is about
us, the allowing other people to think, the allowing other people to say,
do and dictate what they do not, for each one' s life,
knowing that each one is a universe and we are a set of universes
coexisting and coexisting and that, in another way, we share a certain ideology,
but in the end the path is a universe and I think we deserve
that respect which you speak about. But that' s true. To have
peace, we must prepare for war. Hector, this is like going to
the gym. No, I tell my clients that' s why he'
s coach, not sports. The cost says to watch you' re going
to do so many series of so many repetitions. And yeah, over there,
right now, we' re having an Internet issue there. We'
ll be right back. Forgive Hector, you didn' t tell us how
it happened. Yeah, no, we' re having a little problem with
the Internet connection. There we are back. But I' m always going
to put Paul on the Internet. Then there' s some bad play there,
but we' re back. I' m talking to Hector Castillo and
I' m telling you, Hector, then this phrase if you want peace,
get ready for the war, you' re not there. You'
re giving your point of view and we seem to agree. No yes,
because it' s the first thing I have to fix, or all I
have to fix is myself, my judgments, my attitudes and others leave sentences.
Live and let live. Thank you very much for that very thing.
Not wanting to fix others' lives, because people suffer, because you see
things carrying angry things, breaking relationships, blaming. It' s just that
you didn' t do it and you didn' t feel it. People
do nothing else, it' s neither good nor bad. People make life
is not a topic. It' s just that I' m doing really
bad or I' m doing really well. You' re not. Life
is life is not lived and you always live forward. I want to ask
you something. What skill you think, it would be indispensable for everyone to
have if it were for you to say see. I think this skill is
very important to everyone and maybe it would change the scenario of our existence.
Lackounkability, which is held responsible, ceases to occupy and hold responsible. There
is no book in the principle of God that is based on margo deos,
but they have applied in companies. And that' s living like a mole,
not like a puppy. To be loyal, to be calm, to
be brave, to smell, to listen, to be empathetic, to be
affectionate, all that the little animals do, not the little dogs, which
are wonderful. That' s the best way. Not here now is not
waiting for you, yes, but here you never forget. What I want
to ask you is that you learn, or that' s what you'
re born with. Why do we see that some people get very easy.
For example, you don' t tell us this and it sounds like one.
Would you like to live like this? But why isn' t it
so hard. I want to, I want to scratch it a little bit
more, because at the end of the way this one sounds very nice,
it sounds even romantic. But the truth is that ninety percent or more of
people don' t live like this. No, no, and it'
s important. We' re not iron. No, I mean, I
have emotions, I get angry at the watering. I' m an ordinary
human being. I slip, I fall, I pay back, I mean,
it' s not that either. No, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
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no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no, no, no. No, like
everyone else, the difference is to make me conscious. No, I mean
to understand that people don' t make me do things, not that people
do things and in my mind it' s where I start to get bad
and I can destroy relationships. There are no couples who have been destroyed for
nothing. You don' t say they didn' t do anything else to
you, and they bring it in and they do courage and guilt. You
' re responsible, you don' t bring a abandonment wound, a rejection
wound. Better, scratch your past that you did, what happened to you,
no, who abandoned you. You bring so much hanging And it seems
and for that it' s important to go with experts, because many times
there are people who even dare to say I' m fine, I feel
good. I met a person who, according to her, was perfect,
she qualified herself and qualified herself as an almost perfect being. No. And
then it' s a hoax and it' s also a part of hiding
wounds, as you say, from children. And here then the recommendation would
be yes. We need people who have prepared themselves, who have studied,
who live what they preach, because that too is very important. Today we
see many coaches who are I call them YouTube coach. They don' t
watch a YouTube video of someone, Anthony Robbins or someone else and they already
feel coach and put them on their business cards. I' m coaches,
no, but the truth is, it' s going way beyond that.
No, Hector, yes, because it' s years and years I work
first of my own, not to suffer it, to live it, that
is usually the people who already live better. He had a background of suffering,
something happened that the Cak thundered and had to be reborn. Very difficult.
If a person has not reached that background, that place, that track
in his life, because he will remain the same and the worst is that
they confuse self- esteem with self- centeredness. I' m not perfect,
I' m the ultimate human soluuaries, I risk it, I have
emotions. I get angry, I' m one more. That' s
humility. They think humility is being poor. There aren' t people with
much money, very humble, very cool, very cute. There are people
with no money who are super bocentric, because not taking care of that.
Self- esteem is I love myself, but I love others self- centeredness
is I love myself more than others. I' m more, I love
myself more, and the others make balls. Not like this. I'
m holding on. You don' t have to give the best version.
And if the watering detected accepted correct, yes, just with my sister.
I had a little one there, so we' re changing houses. And
there are some things, because if you speak not a hug, forgive Hermanita,
you rege. I' m not a human being. My plane'
s gone. Forgive me, yes, little brother, little hug, but
in order for them to work, they have to be both parts. If
my brother had been unconscious maybe he gets angry, we don' t fight,
then the relationships are two or more. It doesn' t depend on
what we' re talking about. If you notice that one thing that interests
me very much is finding out how the human being is changing, because,
obviously, there are people who if I am not going to change ever.
Right now, you were telling us about this gentleman, no, this bitter
old man who says and I don' t even want to live anymore.
But obviously, for many years ago, when you and I were babies or
not, many years, at least some, then we ate exactly. We
barely ate. We had a special meal, a different meal. We can
' t chew because we didn' t have teeth. Then we began to
grow and began to change. We begin to see many changes in our body
and physically, the same trees are seedlings that grow and become shrubs and then
become robust trees. But what I mean by this is that there are times
when we fear change. According to your experience, my dear Hector, with
so many talks, conferences, workshops that you have given and with so many
years of experience, why it costs us human beings to adapt to change.
If a little plant then becomes a shrub and then becomes a tree, because
it adapts to those changes, and even the tree can already receive among its
branches birds, be creators even of life, etc, Why the human being
is the only one who opposes so many changes, for our species is the
one that is most disconnected from mother earth. The so many are completely connected
to the earth, are with their feet on the ground and well planted.
No more then. Today, I do not say, many things have happened,
no, but well, it would have to be. We have three
brains, not clear, and limbic and neoportes, and that' s where
the crazy thing about the house can come, too, because we have three
talking at the same time. So the other species don' t have the
neoportex. Then you don' t have to fight with that other party to
get in. Ah good for the thesis. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
It' s good that right now, right now, you' re calling
this crazy house thing. I like it very much, because it is a
term in which we allow the mind thoughts and allow them freely. And then,
that' s why this crazy house term is a very, very successful
term, because imagine that you have a crazy one in your house and she
' s pulling and she' s screaming and she' s screaming and she
' s suddenly shutting up and suddenly she eats and suddenly throws the food and
suddenly she' s like, like, crazy inside your brain. And then
they' re thoughts, beliefs that we' re putting on because maybe Chico
told us or didn' t tell us, hug us or didn' t
hug us, they corrected us and we took it as something very personal,
when it really was something that even benefited us. And then, as you
' re going through all that, we' re allowing thoughts. I don
' t know if you' re seeing us and you' re listening to
us. It' s happened to you, that you' ve thought many
times about things that don' t even happen. Hector, how do we
order the crazy woman in the house, how do we keep her still,
how do we put a brake on her, how do we tell her to
pour you, quiet, you tooth, you look prettier, yes, the
mind, the crazy, then the mind. Not that abstract thing. Yes,
in Buddhism they speak of a chango who is like a chango, then
the madman, the chango is the madman. Go rink Brinn over here,
prayer and meditation and understand that it is thought. It excited an attitude to
take care of my thoughts and first take care of my physical, mental,
and spiritual nutrition. I mean, if I spend it listening to the radio
that they hit, that they killed to destroy. Well, pure poison,
I' m getting in and that' s what I' m gonna start
thinking. No, it' s important, well, but what can I
do to help. I can' t change the war in Ukraine, but
I can go help people in the cache. Don' t tell me,
I can' t tell me how, as if you can do it and
stop blaming me. It' s the worst, not the poor thing about
me, and I want it to be the result of your decisions. Then
comes the thought to poop. Yeah, I' m a human being and
there' s the chango or the mind like they want to call it quiet
summer. Here I try with me, so settle down to fix my chango,
see what you' re going to achieve if you don' t feel
and you' re going to fix the bench, don' t believe,
shut your mouth and bite your tongue and don' t bother you not hard
and with others. Try to be very flexib cool, very cute, but
obviously, never talk when you' re in your eyes and never promise when
you' re happy. If you' re not gonna hit her, then
take care of that kind of thing and conscience. Not words, semantic conflicts.
Everyone has different words to express the same people who start to fight is
not that word, as that person expresses it. Leave it, it'
s not assaulting you, it' s not insulting you and trying to see
beyond so you don' t get into conflict over things that really don'
t have a case. Not in fact, so that I can, so
that someone can assault me, so that someone can offend me, I would
have to care first. But if it' s something external that I don
' t even care about, why do I take it personally. I mean,
there are times when we take things so personal. It' s just
that what you were saying at first is that he' s yelling at me.
No, no, he' s not yelling at you, he'
s screaming. The person screams. No. The person doesn' t yell
at you. Auntie, no one can yell at you. It' s
the person he screams at. It' s just that the person is offending
me. No, no. The person offends. That' s her context,
her principle, reality is that she screams and throws gruesome rudeness, but
that doesn' t have to include in your ecosystem. Now something that'
s important. I want to talk to you. I understand that thoughts take
a speed, feelings take another speed, and that you can be a catalyst
to slow down from the speed of thought. I give you a very clear
example. You were talking about the reptilian system and the limbic system of the
brain. Not the reptilian system is what allows you to burn down the house
and allow you to run. The limbic system is in all feelings. When
we watch a video, of a puppy, a kitten, the feelings are
there and the Neocortex is the analytical way we solve. However, I think
that is also very important my dear Hictor, because there are times that we
want to solve something analytical with the feeling, that is, with the neocorte,
that we want to solve with the Indian and things that have to be
solved in the Lippic we want to solve with the reptilian and total that we
have a disorder. I think that part would help my dear Hector, too,
because that is to raise awareness, not to understand that there is nothing.
There is logic in many logics, not or that is wrong. Not
bad. It' s different than you think. It' s another way
of looking at things. No one is right or wrong, least of all
if we are talking about human relationships or something as subjective as non- classically
insane. If it were, I don' t know, it' s
just that there' s got to be so much pressure from the spaceship'
s screw. If it doesn' t explode like that, it does,
or it explodes, and people die. But speaking of soft Havities is not
very important. Speaking of relationship, he won' t be judging. The
thought does come and activate the system, but they are connected. I can
' t separate myself from my emotions unless I' m a psychopath who feels
nothing. There I have them, because the thought comes, it generates an
emotion, but that is where the emotional intelligence comes. Not that my emotion
was still smart. It' s still emotion, but having the ability to
grab it before it' s gonna be seen. So far, quiet,
how cool where you' re going, how to the puppies who have educated
me not to be calm here, here, until you understand and already walk
next to you give the emotions are going to be today the changuito is going
to stay there next to you, talking to you, telling you the same
way it grinds him, but you already have it. How you learned all
this, who taught you, where you read it, how you did it
to control it, because, at least today I consider myself a little less
wild. Not a little less wild. However, I have a long way
to go, but in your case, how did you do it, because
I started going to therapy, to read books. Thanks to life- masters
who passed by, I gave myself the stops. I didn' t get
a lot of chips. Getting to that moment of being sad not with something
you see today and you say I don' t have to be. But,
as the little plants say, one is very immature, not unconscious in
this society. If you listen to love songs, I' ve never listened.
I made a challenge with some friends on an emotional intelligence course we'
re going to look for a single song that talks about real love. Love
is the greatest apprehension that exists. Love is pure, it is clean.
Love doesn' t hurt. Love is something else we don' t find.
We haven' t found a single commercial song that talks about love,
that heeds those songs. Love is suffering. If you leave me now I
' m not going to survive that codependency, that disease, because I'
m going to suffer, because I need to start taking care of what I
read, what I hear, yeah, what how, because the body is
the same. If I' m gonna get sick, I' m gonna
get sick It' s good, and sometimes it' s going to go
there They' re really tasty little lemons. Yeah, but every day eating
that' s the same mind. If all of a sudden I hear a
song that talks about codependency, you don' t happen and maybe I'
ll raise it and say no. That' s not love. But all
the time I' m putting that in my mind. That kind of lyrics
and philosophies and so on. Yes, of course, I' m going
to get sick, not I' m going to walk all anxious, neurotic
and the worst thing is that it' s lookout Tell me, tell me,
please, and tell us what has been the greatest pride of everything you
' ve worked that you can talk to us about. I know that,
obviously, there are many things that, as time goes by, are causing
you pride and you are achieving goals and you are achieving goals and that,
in the end, this helps to consolidate a career. But there are things
that in the professional sphere pass on to the personal subject. I can tell
you that on the subject of communication, for example, I have been fortunate
enough to be in important media. However, there have been very particular interviews
that have marked me and have even motivated me to change the course of my
life. In your case, tell us some story, some anecdote about what
has happened to you and how it has positively impacted you to the degree that
you are where you are today, because in professional life, Ahorita, a
person comes to mind, a boy that I gave a kind of market.
I had many years ago and years later he looked for me. Well,
right now, I remember someone else, but it was good. Thank you
very much for bringing you closer after the years, already with good work and
all our thanks. Without you I would not have achieved these some who had
problems with authority in the classroom. Well, I don' t pay attention.
I don' t want to. Years later I don' t remember
one who came in a library and got it coming you remember me, yes,
I want to apologize and give you gas where what, because I was
like that. I tell him, uh, yeah, well, yeah,
but you were absolutely right, not what a reason you were because of your
advice. Hey, I' m here for that kind of thing. They
feed you the same way in the personal trainings that come to you, to
ask you questions, to ask for life tips for the couple, for work
and finally they come back happy and it worked for me. I didn'
t get the job. I already fixed the problem with my partner. I
' ve already done this, and I' ve never been in my life
trying to coerce. I' m not saying. There are people who think
you want to bully him. I don' t listen to anyone, because
that' s my job, it' s not for free, but some
people in their minds think you want to terapeate it and say no, I
mean, you' re not that important to understand, no, no,
it' s not personal. I' m talking about what I live and
I feel you. I don' t want to bother anyone. Then that
kind of thing, because it helps a lot to grow up and in the
part of social work, once a little boy arrived and a place where it
is a house of recovery, I wear clothes and things not yes. Then
they made the Christmas dinner and then I went to the posolito that they did
and in that comes a boy who had come from the street completely beaten or
dorado dirty and suddenly with that to me his suit and that suit I donated
says Mira, that is the suit that you gave me. Thank you,
I already have a full job from the street to a person who is producing.
So those things are the ones that, because they help you a lot
not to be conversing, because every time my mind tells me poor little thing
about you that you complain don' t remember the boy with the girl who
was in the dumpster. I don' t agree that' s pain,
you, that you complain in your bed with the fridge full of food.
Poor thing of me and in the professional part, because all that I have
learned from my life in the research books, because to take it and give
it to full hands, because, because, first help and also obvious,
because one has to work, no, but the first is how I can
help you. Is there an image that you have surely seen that if you
know her that is a boy walking and turns to see one of the bicycle
and the one of the bicycle turns to see one that has a car And
the one that has a car, turns to see another that has a sports
car? And the one who has a sports car, turns to see the
one who has a boat? And the one with a boat, turn to
see the one with a plane? We don' t always crave it.
We' re looking for more, more, but right now, you just
said something that really connected with me, because how unthankful we are with God,
with life, with the Universe, the conception we have with ourselves,
that is, if you have a roof, a bed, hot food,
hot food whatever, no matter if it' s too little too much or
if it' s the most expensive and stratospheric in the Universe. Having food
in front of a cold and cruel reality that millions of people don' t
have to eat today and you and I do think that would be enough to
be pleasantly living differently. Not sure, yes, grace changes your life and,
of course, we can slip. We' re human. It wasn
' t yesterday you told me that someone started to lack me authority, he
' s a supervisor and I had to put a stop to him. I
' m not saying the aggressive, you insulted him, nothing more. I
told her calmly. So far. I' m the boss and they do
things here. I didn' t mean it, there wasn' t.
He' s moving over the line and we have to set limits. We
' re not reading in Buddhism either. You' re hardly gonna get criticized
if you talk. If you fall down to criticize yourself, yes, they
' ll always be geticating you. And the people who criticize, because they
are the most damaged. That' s where you have to have things.
If I criticize my mind, that' s where the problem is. I
have to stop them that moves me in people if I know her, many
times not the limits, I understand that they are not for the person with
whom we live. The boundaries are for us. I think that' s
where many times people don' t exactly understand the concept of boundaries. We
think the limit is me. I put it on you, when it'
s really me. I put it on myself and so far I allow certain
circumstances, I give you an example. I don' t let the mother
lie to me on social media. You can' t tell me what you
want, that I' m wrong, that I don' t do things
right and I can with a deep analysis say you' re right or you
' re right I' m going to improve on this, that I am,
but when someone already starts with a mother' s letter, I'
m there, that' s my limit for me, for me, not
for the person. The person can say whatever he wants, but for me
that' s my limit and at that moment I block you and you never
have contact with me again. It' s not like that. The limit
is for one or yes, I have to walk him. Putting limits on
everyone is exhausting. I don' t mean, there are people we know,
we know, we know a lot, and I think putting limits on
all people would be exhausting. Better work with your limits. No, yes,
I mean. The only thing I can change is my judgments and attitudes.
I can' t change people. A person who starts to throw all
his wounds at me to blame me for all his pains. Yeah, I
did the best I could, I gave him the best of me, I
did all the good I got. I gave it to him, yes,
I can do more, not anymore. Those are demands and more than putting
a limit, I mean and addicted, I turn around, I walk away
ok ok, but I must be fine working on that, not watering it,
because I am a human being. For a healthy person an apology,
excuse me the wrapper, for that is enough. It' s okay,
I' m sorry to say no that, I can' t fix anything,
I mean, I can' t do any more, I gave you
the best of me, it' s the best of it. The thing
is, relationships are two, no, fifty counts. If the person is
passing that fifty, there is no other person. That' s when we
have to go put the barrier on him. No and yes, or I
saw how far there are people who don' t set limits. No,
and they' re doing it. And so and also careful, there are
times that yes, they are hurting us, forgive you it hits you And
so the nose because I do directly miss many times that people do nothing.
It is not the mind that is interpreting things that do not really exist.
How many times we have fallen into catastrophic thoughts that never happen. I have
to tell you that I come from there and it' s a very complicated
area. It' s an area that, when you' re there,
is amazing. How I return the subject the crazy woman in the house begins
to take possession of your whole being and it is a terrible thing not to
think of situations of accidents that do not happen, of incidents that do not
happen, of assumptions that do not happen. And I' m gonna tell
you something. They taught me what a cannon. I was taught as a
little boy to always foresee the bad and then always put my attention to the
bad. In case it happens, then you already have A B and C.
But if B happens, you have DF. And it' s really
an unviviable life, because at the end of the road today, at the
end of time and a pretty hard and brave job, let me tell you
today, at least already when I have to do something and suddenly my thoughts
come. I tell you to wait for how many years and it won'
t happen anything calm. Now it' s not about being exposed to the
fullest. No, but, for example this I think that, as life
is, what has to happen is going to happen the moment it has to
happen. Either you do or you don' t do or whatever. No,
obviously, things are going to happen, because that' s how they
have to happen. You live better this way. No, Hector, of
course, the power of the hour right now is all I have. Not
the same way, right now, I' m fulminating. That may happen,
Ahorita, You spent a few days of direct death so we normally saw
in the future. We' re in the past and we never live.
No. I don' t know if that' s why zombie series are
so successful. No, I' m not living, I' m dead
in life. No and this moment and enjoy it will be the best of
you and that is very important. The four agreements say so. Always do
the best you can, all the best you can give, because, as
they say, although if you talk they criticize you, if you notice,
nothing is good or bad. That' s very important. Nothing else is,
if I think differently, then also regarding your very interesting idea. I
think this is very good. I respect yours very interesting, but I think
different and as friends as always, there is nothing, you have to tempt
it that even in different thoughts, suddenly you can learn very interesting things.
There are things I say I don' t know if it happened to you,
but it happened to me that suddenly I don' t know. I
think ay you think b and all of a sudden I say to Caray,
because the see isn' t so bad, so if I see it from
that point of view, from that perspective, there' s an exercise that
has a symbol that, on one side it looks six and on the other
side it looks nine. Not then, if we put it here and you
' re going to say no, because it' s new, I'
m going to say no, because it' s six. If you put
yourself on the other side, you' re going to see it as nine,
and then life is a little different and that difference marks a grand universe
that can thrill you. I want to tell you, my dear Hector,
that here on what good question, there are no questions, no good or
bad answers. We' re going into a part of the talk where I
' m going to ask you questions. I' m going to ask you
to answer them as quickly as you can and where there are no good or
bad answers, and I' d love to know that you would tell us,
please, which movie is the one you' ve seen over and over
and over and you' d see again fifty times more. Amadeus ok so
I am musicians as a child. Then, in time, Mozart was what
instrument you play or ah Oko, I lowered him a lot. Yeah,
of course the job all of a sudden we all do gigs. Orale O.
If you had a chance to have dinner with someone famous from the past
or the present, who you' d like to have dinner with and ask
him some interesting questions. I hear, then, with Buddha, ok Ok
and what would you ask him. What would you ask Buddha if you had
him in front of you, for what techniques can recommend me meditation to be
at peace, No Ok Ok Balance serenity for grifins you like superheroes, because
yes, I am not a fan. At some point I bought some comics,
but, okay, what' s your superhero or what your favorite superheroes
are, Superman, Ok, the wonder woman, Batman are the ones right
now. But that' s not how Wow doesn' t like Mozart,
no, okay, you think all human beings have superpowers, because we'
d have to define super powers. But I don' t. There are
even studies that the brain is the most powerful pharmacy there is, because maybe
I' m loose alive via and what you think your super power is.
No, I don' t feel like you have, because giving the best
of me not helping people. But there are times when as much as one
sees best nothing. He likes it. No, of course it' s
super power. I' d be a father, all the people could have
lived you happy and some fear that you' ve had very marked and that
you' ve already overcome it or that at least you' re very close
to getting over it that you can tell us. You have some identified fear,
for many years ago the fear of parents dying ok Ok. Well,
don' t die on the PS. He' s gonna die and we
' re all gonna die. Not well, back then, if you'
d told me that, how to believe this. Right now, that'
s it, because it' s the truth. It' s not gonna
happen what you have to go through. So, yes, I remember that
a long time ago and that we passed it seems a lot of fear,
not fear. Fear is a real thing. Not if the fear shakes you
out the fear nothing else here ok hey and if you could, in your
case, travel, imagine that you' re going to travel for six months,
you wouldn' t travel to one place and you would stay there or
you would take a tour of several places. No, as much as I
can get to know a little bit, not little by little it' s
worth if I keep a place that way. No, well, enjoy yourself.
You' re not, you don' t like, for example,
a trip to Europe for fifteen days. You prefer to go to three countries
or two countries and enjoy them to the fullest. Well, if it'
s six months, you give carlos a 15 days place, okay, just
15 days, you stay there, yeah, see if I know you.
Note that one thing that is interesting is that many people want to live,
many adventures in very little time, and there are other people who want or
want to live a good adventure, but very good, even for a short
time. And that' s not only by preference, but it also talks
about your personality, it doesn' t talk about and it gives you certain
threads to tell us because we' re right as we are. You don
' t think the human being. We have lost the ability to amaze,
for perhaps different things amaze us. I don' t know sad. All
of a sudden watch so much video of violence. Not right now youtuber who
scowled at him. Not one I start and then share. I got here
from Whatsapp. I' ve had to tell people well don' t send
me that, I don' t want to see a poor boy run over.
There' s no father. Seeing a suffering being is not clear what
comes. Not violence sells much yes, violence, sex, gossip, morbidness.
Unfortunately, we are in this roulette of life that changed, and I
would like to ask you now imagine that you have the possibility to be the
director that you are, the protagonist and producer of the film that is called
Hector Castillo of your life. What things you' ve taken away, what
characters you' ve removed, what characters you' ve put in to make
your film a movie, because the best thing you can do, because people
who prove that there isn' t really a empathy, a love, a
love. I don' t just walk away, I don' t try
to give my best, but if they don' t want anything me and
him sometimes ugly not. But no way you' re not going to be
with a person or in an environment where he doesn' t want you,
without judging, without bothering you with anything. Well here they don' t
want me away from anything that turns me around. No. I don'
t smoke, I don' t drink, I don' t use any
kind of chemicals, nothing, anything, anything that would make my life physically
something spiritual, get away, get away in jail, what to look for
things that would do you good, not go to the gym, go on
a trip, go swimming, talk to your brothers, give them the best,
sometimes at risk, because I' m always human to give the best.
Not if someone doesn' t value it, doesn' t care about
it, or goes on too much, because that' s not the demand.
I want more, I want you to do it the way I want
it. Or it' s better for the armies to hear and some important
fact, some mischief that you remember as a young or child, of those
pranks that you say son, was very good for them. I wasn'
t practically punished. I think six months. But the truth is, I
' d do it again. You remember one of those. We all have,
we all have to be Híjale No. If you remember, the Lindon
peel him with my cousins, they listen to me. Greetings, we salute
to ring bells if we line up and hide. It wasn' t Lindon
her and we had a great time. No, but not to do it
again, I mean, it' s disrespectful. Not kids. We were
six eight years old, not what time, because it was so today that
I don' t remember, I mean, how bad the ladies didn'
t come out and there was no one, no, no father, not
that they do that to you. But a trio of light children, because
they didn' t have that very good vision. Listen and tell us,
please, if you had a chance to tell some young man what mischief they
would have to do, because they' re also part of not being part
of growth, that' s part of it. What would you say they
do have to do pranks to do. Not any, some that come to
mind, for if not, tell us, please, what has been the
best advice of life that you have been given and that you continue to apply
it to this day. Well, there' s a lot of them.
One if you don' t know what to do, don' t do
anything, ok ok this one don' t talk when you' re angry
and don' t promise to be happy. You can be working, doing
it or you already do it more naturally, because you make an effort,
because, then, you have emotions, because the emotion feels, arrives and
throws, not that is the chango means. But that' s where I
don' t say anything, because you can hurt and then you can repent.
And then the fact of not judging. No, okay, there are
parents where you can get your emotions out Write them down. There' s
no letter to that person tell him everything you feel, but you' re
never gonna give it to him, you' re going to a nice place
and you' re afraid of luck. No, but no, don'
t hurt, it' s not all of us stop hurting. Imagine how
we could do things. What is your opinion about the validation that many people
now need on social media. I mean, I think that today, before
any other stage of life, today society needs a validation on social networks that
has truly become a currency for a like, for a positive comment, and
so on. Why is this happening to us? What is your opinion about
this, as there are many factors. No, it' s not the
brain disorder. Not neurotransmitters. If we give him a little person of three,
four or five years, a nipad, a cell phone, we'
re altering the whole chiimire of the brain. So they don' t sleep
well, there' s no right synapses, and then we have functional illiterate
adults. They may know, read and enroll, but the function may be
leaving us. I' ve also seen documentaries there. We are going today
too, that we no longer need to make any effort to go to the
movies. In my time it was necessary to walk to the magazine port,
buy the newspaper return, investigate or jear, search, scratch, then go
to the cinema, form a whole effort. Today I want to see a
movie I grab this grass thing no longer talks, no and then says some
colleague. That' s where I heard tough times. They form strong people.
But, right now, there are no difficult times. Everything is very
easy, very immediate. I want to eat gougle orale, bring me food
just, hands style. I want to go to the bank Transfer Doctor.
I no longer have to make an effort, and that is something that needs
to be raised. Not what I can do to be better face and effort,
the law of least effort at the end of the road. There'
s also a theory out there. The other day I heard less work,
earn more. Don' t work hard works cleverly synonym, Making the synonym
of intelligently, work less, with less effort with less. And the truth
is that we' ve seen people who apparently don' t cost them anything
and make a lot of money, like influencers and so on, but it
' s really an empty life, that we' ve seen cases of influences
that have killed themselves by having an impressive amount of money because of the huge
void they have. Then we do see how in the harvest what is sown.
Yes, it is harvested and then it is a very high price,
not to say this trend. Let' s make it quick and easy can
turn against our yes. Balance is the key. I don' t think
my dad used to work before, and get to work and get down and
get some rest Enjoy. Hurtfully, a while lives life and then breaks the
bance. No, don' t work enjoy it, it doesn' t
matter anything. No yes, it is good to have passive income, work
less and earn more, because it scares well, but at the same time,
that free time we have four sides. No, and that fourth is
because we are in a material world, because if not in me that physical,
such spiritual and financial, is a four- legged one. Any leg
that' s chueca, you' re off the table, you' re
breaking the balance, then sobriety. And it' s there on the Internet,
not the cross of sobriety and it' s nothing religious. Everyone who
' s free to think he wants is not that. What you did today
for your spiritual part, no, because I already meditated, I already went
to my therapy, and something that makes me feel good. What you did
for your family and your partner. If you have a partner, not love
and family. No, I already went to my brother' s for breakfast.
I already gave him a hug, I told him I want to.
I already sent him a whatsapp. I told my partner that I love her
or I don' t know. Not the part of the financial work.
You worked it already, you won already and the fun you already had fun
whatever you wanted. Don' t go to the gym, run, go
to a show, go to the movies, but those four sides, physically
to the spiritual and financial. You have to be very attentive. Not because
if we break our balance, that' s where the table falls off.
No. Ok hey, we' re coming to the final straight of the
talk, but I would very much like, please, to help us and
if you would be kind enough to share one last thought, one reflection,
but with a small difference, that this final message is going to hear it
all over the planet, it' s going to be translated into all languages,
languages, dialects, it' s going to reach every corner of the
planet. What a final message you would give to all the inhabitants of this
planet, for I have a philosophy. No. If you oppose, propose,
do not judge, do not disturb, no, no, no,
do not mind mothers, no, do not hurt something. I don'
t like how we make him better without bothering anyone. If you oppose it,
you propose, yes, but that proposal is with respect, not with
fights and with the vibe is to improve together, to make synergy, not
to break. I think we' re living a very special stage of life.
Rumors of war are heard, as economic issues, political issues, social
issues have been heard for many years. But I think this message that Hector
Castillo gives us is relevant, it' s very interesting and I think that
if we put it into practice, in our lives, it can be different
if you or you put what you propose, and I think it' s
very interesting. My dear Hector, I send you a big hug, thank
you very much. These microphones are open for a second, a third,
a fifth conversation. There' s a lot to talk about and I think
today you told us a number of very important things that you gave us some
guidance to live a better life. I' ll send you a big hug,
thank you very much, and we' ll be listening soon. Thank
you very much, and if someone likes some kind of support and training or
something, there are social networks, because we can help you a lot.
Very good, very good, because you heard. Hector Castillo is here with
us, there are his social networks. I' d like to comment.
For those people who just listen to us, their mail is Héctor Castillo,
point consultant I com I repeat, Héctor Castillo, consulto com there they can
locate him. I' m Luis Miguel Salgado. I would like to thank
you very much for your kindness, your attention. See you and we'
ll hear each other in a next chapter here. Good question that you have
very good morning, good afternoon, good night wherever you are Hector, many
blessings sprout, a hug n o