Made a decision a face, Sonny sun On, I had vision night to
Rich Let's have everybody. Hey, hey, hey, hey hey, let's
say hi to Okay, yeah past Let's step fast Stephanie Stinker Wrinker, Christa,
you make me want a stroop. Santa, it's not easy being green,
Jennifer, get the hell up already, Sarah Stefano, Leslie stop coughing
and the other Leslie get away from Ikea. That's not don't go do something
else. People are getting the wrong idea. Aaron Sanchez, love you,
You're my girl. Alicia scat Alante from the City of Almonte. Kelly Brandt
will take you up. He don't go. Gabby and Missy they're doing it.
They're hosting a pickleball tournament. They've gotten their ship together and they're taking
down the road. Valerie, Bubba Fenwick, Polly, we love your pancakes.
Athena. We love your dancing and your makeup skills. Elizabeth, we
love all your kids. They're sweet. Hero, Your your kids are great
too. Rita. Like your Basinette or your Bassett Hound, whatever you want
to do with that name. Jacob or Growley, Ashley or Chic Nikki call
your girls, Lori Gory, Aaron Hood is not Anna Faris Kelly Ladita,
Katie Murphy, Amy's a Hunt and Hi share Bear. Ah yeah, I
gotta pause. Okay, okay, phone is rigging. Oh my god.
Oh we just went and did a funny thing in between. We started singing
a rap song. Yeah, did that? So we're done with all our
peeps, Yes, okay, we are all right. We did that.
So you didn't watch the twin Flame thing on Netflix? Yeah, well there's
two. I watched one on Amazon, but this is a The Netflix one
is different, right, it's a little different. It's kind of the same.
They talk, you know what. The Netflix one talks to the people
that we heard from in the in the podcast. Remember the girl that went
to the nightclub and then she got arrested for stalking. Yes, yeah,
she's in it. And the other girl that was paired up. I mean
a lot of them were paired up with other women and stuff. But yeah,
but they I really want to see the one. Did we see her
in the other one? The one that changed her gender that like was told
that she has to be a man. There's a few of them, like
in Netflix. They there's one she had top surgery and they talked to a
transgender expert about all that too, So they go really into the trans stuff,
which is interesting, and it just shows how much they exploit people.
They are anti trans. Those two they are the leaders of the cult.
Yes, they pretend that they're very you know, supportive. They're not sick.
They're sick human, they're sick people. Yeah, he but I don't
know. It's so hard to understand being like, oh, you're telling me
that I need to I need to be a man. Okay, I know,
Oh what name should I pick? Like what the right? How do
you not go like no, I've always been a woman up to this point,
Like yeah, I don't really love wearing dresses, but like, yeah,
I think that you you see a little bit more of how people can
fall into that, because I think that's a lot of a lot of women
too that are feeling lonely and they find a community and they find that they're
a part of it, and then they make them feel like you're empowered and
you can be a coach as well, and then you can get a job
working for us as a coach, and then and then your whole identity and
every thing and all your friends are all wrapped up in this community. And
they show more in the Netflix that they had retreats and stuff, and they
talk about their child, their third twin flame. Wouldn't that be a triplet
flame? Yeah, between the two the the the cult leaders, they had
a kid. Yeah, you gotta watch it. Oh, okay. And
then you guys were saying that you both saw Reptiles. I watched Reptile.
It's a movie. Yes, it's on Netflix. It's been out for a
while. Okay, but if you haven't seen it, it's great about drug
cartels. No, no, okay, good kinda. I guess I didn't
know what it was about at all. Okay, So in the very not
this is not spoiling, but in the very beginning, it's kind of weird.
What's going on? And then the woman takes her shirt off and she's
got like a reptile tattoo on her back. Okay, so I'm like thinking,
is this sci fi? Or these people reptiles? And then at one
point, justin Timberlake's eye, look like they could be a lizard in the
right lighting in the very beginning, and I'm like, are they lizard people?
What's happening? But it's not spoiler alert, it's not it's not sci
fi, thank you, because I would I would feels going into if I
was wondering, am I being tricked into watching sci fi? Like under the
guise of this is a good movie. No, it's a mystery. It's
a murder mystery. Okay, okay, a real estate woman gets murdered at
like her open house. Essentially, well, now I'm not gonna watch it.
And Benici al Delterro is fantastic. I love him so much. And
you're gonna go back and forth. You're gonna go justin Timberlake did it Bunny
Star. It's like one of those like, uh, oh, it's the
other guy did it? Oh? I don't know that she killed herself.
Like it's all over the place. It's a little slow, but it ends
it. I honestly don't mind. I don't mind slow. Where am I
going? What am I going to target? After? Like the kids are
watching you know he ie a downstairs? Yeah, I have a movie to
watch, Like, yeah, it's like two hours or something. But I
like a movie that takes its time. Yes, I let yeah, let
let me let there be some character development. I hate these movies where all
of a sudden, you're like, wait, it's the end. Yeah,
how do we wrap up? How do we wrap that up? Like I
never even got to know any of these people? Yeah, where you don't
care either either. Movies are way too long, like where it's like,
okay, it didn't need to be three and a half hours, like we
could have done some editing, or they're just too short. You're like ninety
minutes is too short for like a drama. Yeah, yeah, to really
get into it. I know, I know, but I love that.
And so after I watched The Twin Flames for some reason, I was like
craving more cult docs and I was like, you know, I fell asleep
a lot during the Gwen Shamblain The Way Down, do you remember? Oh
yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah, that's a great that's a
good one, real good one. And it's on Max if you haven't seen
it, So that one's crazy the Way on Max. Yeah, she started
her own evangelical church. Yeah, and she started off doing weight loss yeah,
and uh yeah, and then comedy Ensue I got very rich and got
very rich rich and her hair got higher, like really And luckily I could
probably watch that one again because I only want. I watched it like a
year ago. Yeah, you could watch It's gonna be pheel brand new to
me. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I watched it again, yeah
yeah, and I was like, wow, I forgot about all about this.
And then of course I had to go watch it on Lifetime on Hulu.
You know, when you open Hulu, it's like, hey, look
at you know, here's a here's Gwen Shamblin's documentary. But it's not.
It's a Lifetime movie. Right, It's been sitting up there for hours,
I mean for years, for hours. It's been sitting up there for every
time I opened Hulu. It's always up there. So finally I was looking
for a cult done. I was like, well, let me watch the
Lifetime one, which is only like an hour and fifteen minutes. Oh,
and then I also watched Murdoch's movie, right, the second one, right
now, this one is Bill Bill Pullman plays him. This is a movie
movie, okay, okay, yeah, the drama, the actual Yeah,
and so of course they have to act out the murder situation. It's crazy
if that's how it really went down, Like wow, because they show the
murders happening and how it happened. Oh, you know, and it according
to the movie, it was like they knew he was they were killing being
killed by their dad and husband. You know, he just showed up.
But but yeah, I watched like there was a lot of that, uh
documentaries and stuff that I watched over the weekend. So John told me that
he was reading some stuff that and maybe there'll be a documentary about this.
But that about how a lot of these TikTok dancers. Have you heard about
this? Basically a lot of these TikTok dancers that do TikTok dancing videos or
in a cult. What did you hear about that? No, google TikTok
dancers cult. They so they live in some house, a lot of these
and they're yeah, they live in a house and they get like they have
to disconnect from their families and it's like a thing. And my kids knew
Mike. John was telling me this and I was like, wait, what,
I've never heard of this, and he was like yeah, And then
I asked the kids about it, and they're like, oh, yeah,
we know about this. It's something called like I want to say, it's
called like three M or seven M. I'm seeing a bunch of articles from
March of twenty twenty two where someone is a dancers sue seven M Films,
claiming owner runs a cult girl Wow TikTok dancers family claim she's a victim of
La based cult. TikTok star Miranda Derek brainwashed by cult. Holy shit?
Right, And they leave their homes to go live in a house. That's
a common thing. A lot of influencers will go in together on like one
big house and they'll all live together and then set up you know, rooms
where they can do their social media videos and help each other with their social
media videos, and they like editors. That's that's a pretty common thing among
influence, like the Popular Influence US. I was gonna say, we all
live in a house right together? What a real world? What? We
just started living here in Patrick's studio. And Patrick's like, and I have
just like you know, a little matt that on the couch you sleep on
this couch. Caln sets up a little roll away bed. He's like,
oh no, we're fine. And we just have little corners where we're just
constantly like can we start a call? Though? How we do it?
We have to we have to get to make money. Yeah, forget the
telethon idea, bring other people in. We're like, we're gonna need a
little more square footage, Patrick, can we get into a little just the
back of the house at us just say the yard. We need more room
to do our stuff. We got to bring more influencers in, right,
But they're like layman, squirrel again, I'm being stalked by squirrels. Sirrel
on you. I swear to God. Okay, for next week, I
am going to learn more about like what's going on, how we can start
a call? Yeah, and what's going on with these TikTok dancers. Yeah,
I want to know what's going on. We've got to get Meredith.
She probably knows. Let's get her in. Yeah, let's get her in,
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Okay, oh okay, this is uh not cont like content related.
Well, I'll while we're talking about content, I will tell you that I
went back to rewatch six Feet Under because it's one of my favorite shows of
all time. Yes, I was thinking about doing that too, almost all
the way through season one. Really yeah, and I really had I remember
loving it, but I'm loving it again. I'm like obsessed. Okay,
every minute I have I'm like, oh, let me watch another episode.
Yes, I love I was thinking about it, but I didn't know if
it was if it would hold up. It does hold up, Okay,
it does hold up now. Season one there was a little bit more of
like fantasy sequences and stuff, but there I remember that they calmed down from
that in season two, right, so I'm looking forward to that. Yeah.
I just remember when that show ended. I was like, that was
like one of the best shows of all time I've ever seen. I remember,
like, and I thought about watching it again. Yeah, I'm really
liking it. It doesn't feel old to me, but then I'm gonna watch
it. I'm old. So like stuff does hold up. But I think
some of our people on our page have talked about watching it or wanting to
watch it again. You know what I watched at my condo last week?
I was like, I want something light. I watched Fleabag on Amazon.
Oh that's good. Oh my god, it's hilarious. It's so good.
It's so I get this like routine now that after we're finished here on Mondays.
I have been craving ever since Kaylin has told me like Panda Express.
I've been on a Pan Express kick. So I go order a Pan Express
lunch and I watch a couple episodes a Fleabag and it's great. And if
you haven't seen it, it's on Amazon, and it's like it's like a
modern Sex in the City, like or something like. Yeah, I would
say, well, not a modern, but like a different it's kind of
like a Sex and the City but a British version even that year. Yeah,
and Edge City. Yeah. You must feel like you have a new
lease on life that you don't ever have to go to your kid's school and
bring them lunch. Yeah. I remember when that was your life. I
can't. I made them lunch last night, though, But remember when you
would go when they would call you from school and go, we don't have
lunch, and then you would go get them like a subway or whatever,
bring it to school. No. Now they drive home and eat lunch at
home. They do every day. Yeah. Yeah, Natalia makes her lunch
sunny. You'll warm up the like chicken and rice from the night before whatever,
or might order a slice of pizza or something, but like, yeah,
they come home, eat lunch and go back. They don't want to
like hang out and eat lunch with their friends. Their friends come with them.
Oh yeah, so they all go eat lunch at your house. Yeah,
there's like four of them, yeah, being a friend and then her
and her boyfriend or her and her friend, and yeah, they're there for
Like. I like it though, because when I'm there they come home.
They're there for like I don't know, forty minutes. I mean right,
lunch is not very long. But luckily the school is so close that they
can come home for lunch. I like it. I'm just wondering, like,
what's going to happen with Natalia and her boyfriend? That's what I was
wondering, And I asked her, I'm so bitter, Like it's like,
yeah, everybody says, you know, well, you know, they break
up and then they go to college, and it's like, see, yeah,
easy for easy for us to say, because we haven't been to college
in a while, and we have been that age in a while, right,
haven't been break up like that? It really hard on these days,
you know, really hard. I know, we talked about it. We
talked about it. Did yeah. Yeah, I was like, what,
you know, what are you thinking? And she's like, well, I
don't know. She goes if I'm still he and going to community college and
he might be doing I don't know, or he might go off, and
she's like, I'm not I'm bracing myself for us to separate, and just
you know, but he loves her, so he's like so good to her.
I love this kid. I just love him. He's so good to
her. He's like part of the family. Sonny loves him. They're all
good friends. We've known him since sixth grade. I love his mom.
You know, it's what they do to be with the same person. That's
what Natalia is saying. Like she's kind of cold that way. I don't
know, but yeah, she's just like bracing herself that you know, they're
gonna have to go their separate ways. She's gonna have to go to college
and go through a hoe phase. Oh boy, thank god, Like I
love this she all do. Yeah, she hasn't had a hoe phase.
Yeah, well, as far as you know, as far as I know
what about Elvie. But that's the thing is, like I wish I'll we
would have a whole face like she's she's she's not there, you know what
I mean? Yeah, she she's the kind of girl LB that like has
to be friends with somebody first, just feel a level of comfort and like
friendship, right, I think before she lets her guard down. Yeah,
the girl's guarded. Yeah yeah, well, I mean I just remembered I
was supposed to give them a check this morning for us uh for they're doing
like a Disney thing for seniors. But they can wait till tomorrow. But
anyway, yeah, I And where's Sunny's girlfriend? Like I want him to
get a girlfriend? I asked him his friend about and he's like, we're
working on it. Missus Corolla. It's like okay, good, And he
got a haircut, he's looking sharp. Has he had some dates or no,
he's had a few girls that he's been hanging out with. But I
don't know what happens. I think that they like him as a friend.
I don't know, I get friends zone maybe, I don't know. He
doesn't call me hesxy and I has like a great voice and he's funny.
Oh and Natalia's friends all love Sonny. They love like they did these videos
while we were in Arizona, Like she sent it to me by accident,
and she's like, send it to side, and it's like, Sonny,
I see you walking around the neighborhood. You're the shit. We love you
like you know? Right? Yeah, But I don't know. I don't
know. Does he not have game? Do you think? I don't think
he doesn't see? No, he doesn't. He doesn't have any swag,
he doesn't care. I buy him nice clothes, but he just he's like
his dad. He just wears it like he doesn't seem to. It doesn't
move the needle for him. You don't have to like, yes, get
famous or something. He's gotta do something. Trust me. Natalia has been
talking to him about it, so I don't think he feels like. We
talk about a lot of things. But I don't know. I think he
gets uncomfortable. So I don't push it with him, but I do say,
like, what's up, Sonny? When are you gonna meet a girl?
You know? How's he doing in the football league? He's doing well.
Actually, Sonny and I made a big trade about like five weeks ago,
and ever since I was in last place, he was pretty much right
next to me, and ever since then we both went undefeated. He lost
this week and I won this week. So now me and him are tied
for second. Oh really so yeah, our trade with one another worked out
very well for the both of us. Wow, we turned our seasons around.
Nice. Yay Sonny, yay Kaylin. Does anybody have that player?
That's me, Taylor. I have that player, and it's the most infuriating
thing in the world. Yeah, he's supposed to be one of the best
players in the league. Now he's distracted. All you're a Taylor slip?
Really? Yeah, he was my first pick. No, he's not doing
good. Oh really yeah, I mean he's doing fine, but quarterback.
No, he's a tight end Okay, but compared to what he was doing
last year, it's not even close. Really Yeah, that sucks. Uh
huh. He's distracted, poor guy. Yeah. I think he's doing for
I don't think anybody feels don't cry for him, Argentina. No, he's
getting a lot of brand deal. He's in every other commercial I see on
TV. Right, yeah, right, he's cute. He is cute.
Then there's this other football player. Oh, like Nata is telling me all
about skims that Kim Kardashian does, like, uh, you know that skim
care line, that skim underwear line. Okay, but now she has it.
She had it for women, now she has it for men. And
that Uh. She was showing me some football player. There's a football player,
soccer player, and a some baseball player and she was showing me all
the different underwear and like, how hot one of the guys is. I
can't I don't know the name of the football player, but I'll let you
know, Okay, okay, Uh, I know, I'm trying to think
of there's one football player that everybody thinks is really hot. Uh I,
he's cute, he's a bag. Yeah, he's a really c Yeah yeah
what what what team is he on? He's on the Las Vegas Raiders right
now. They're doing so he's got he's got some downtime. Ye oh.
A lot of these sports players get like hurt and whatnot. Oh my god.
You know. Natalia was telling me that one kid that she did she
went to homecoming with a while back. She's still friends with, and he's
like a big football He goes to a different school, but he's a big
football player. He got recruited to Stanford to play and just got his a
c L whatever torn it's always a cl that's a bad one. Yeah,
and now he's they it might affect I guess is. I don't know.
It might affect something about you know, he wouldn't be able to play,
or he won't be getting accepted. I don't know, something is. But
that's sad. Imagine it is sad. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but
I also hear about. You know, what's more common than you think is
these kids that play their sport all through high school and like work really hard
and are like performing at a high level in their senior year, and then
they just don't want to They're just done right, like Natalia volleyball done like
just like nope, don't want to play it in college, even though they
could be like recruited or or play get a good scholarship. A lot of
a lot of these kids, they get just burnt out. I know,
I get emails all the time for scholarship for her, and it's sad.
And I asked her if I'm like, do you miss volleyball? She goes,
I missed the club, but not the high school like that that coach
ruined it for her. But you know, Uh, she wasn't. She's
like, rather it was the coach or not. I don't. I don't.
I didn't want to go play in college. It's not what I want
to do. So I was like, Okay, well that's good. But
yeah that is Like is it just because it's just they has it gotten like
more intense now? I think they get burned out, That's what I'm thinking.
And I think when they go to college, they don't want to be
still being you know, unless they're really driven. You know, there are
a few boys that I know of that are in our high school football team
that are going to play football, and you know they want you in college.
So but I guess that's your whole life. You know, you're playing
foot if you're a college football player, like that's all you do? You
do, right, But then you probably have to keep your grades up.
Yeah I love that. I know nothing about this. I'm like, that
must be the most basic conversation. Wow, you probably play a lot of
football if you're a college football player, right, but that's a lie.
That must suck. I don't know. I think depending on your talent too,
the school will kind of help you out with your grades. If you're
not. You do have to maintain like a level of you know, academic
you know, integrity or whatever, keep up a certain GPA. But I
think if you're a big enough star athlete, a couple of the teachers will
wave some of those and stuff like that, Wow. Really do they do
like special classes for you? Like probably, I probably, Yeah, they
fudget for you, they help, they help. Maybe Elbe should play football,
Alby, it's not too late. You hear about some of these kids
that don't start playing their sport. Here's the problem, I bet you.
We start our kids in these sports so young, you know whatever it is,
basketball, football, you know, you start them at like three years
old. And then by the if, if they really that becomes a sport
and they're really good at it and they love it. But I'm imagining by
the time you were a senior, you're like fuck this, Like I've given
I had. Albe had a friend who was a gymnast from a young age,
and like that's she loved it, you know, but lived in breathed
gymnastics and and did it for you know, hours a day every single day.
Was at a very high level, performing at a at a place,
at at a certain gym and like you're either you're either on track to do
it in college or you know, even go to the Olympics or whatever,
or you quit right and she quit in like in a middle school like end
of middle school, because she was like, I want to not do gymnastics
sometimes, Like gymnastics is one of those sports and I'm sure a lot of
sports where if you even miss a week, like it just sets you way
back, Like you can't just not go. You can't just go like today
I want to go to my friend's house and hang out. Yeah, exactly,
it's like no, every day you have to train, right right,
that seems like a lot. It is as for me, you know,
you know too is you know, like we were talking about how I want
to do everything with these kids as much as possible now and it's like Italia
will send me a text from time to time like I want to go to
pilates at twelve thirty. I'm like, really, no, how about we
watch TV? Like so I go just to go, but then like it's
like you know, I mean and then or like pilates is fine, but
like like Barry's boot Camp or something, you know, she wants to do
all the time, right, you want to go on Tuesdays at five And
I'm like not five am though, right? No, but we did at
six am recently. Like it's just you know, I can't keep up with
her. I'm not eighteen. You know Barry's book, let's can we go
to yoga? How about that? Right, let's yoga? But I have
been seeing I've been looking at Instagram quite a bit, and somehow the way
it's the algorithm for me is that I all these like hip hop dance classes.
I get a lot of these videos and it looks so fun, and
I have been going to the gym so like, but it seems like a
bridge too far to go. Like, Okay, well I go to the
gym and I go on my little pre core and I do some weights.
But now I'm like, oh, could I like go to like a hip
hop Yeah? Yeah, but like a baby what? You know? There
was that look like they're for older people, you know, where you like
you might hold like a three pound weight in your hand while you do something,
you know what I mean? But not like a Barrie's boot camp.
That's crazy, that's crazy. I can't do that. No, I don't
want to feel like the word Remember I told you, like years ago,
I took a zoomba class because a friend of mine was an instructor. You
gotta come to my zoom but you gotta come, you gotta come. And
it was all like women in their seventies and they were kicking my ass.
It's just the worst hit on your self esteem when you're like, these bitches
are not breaking a sweat. And I was literally like in the corner of
the room having to take breaks where you're like they're like continuing going, and
you know, the instructor goes like if you need to rest, like,
don't be afraid to rest. I'm like, don't be afraid, Like I
can not rest. I'm in the corner like bent over going and you look
over and there's Grandma, Grandma Moses, I know, who's like what do
you what do you and down for? She's like speed, no music.
Those zoom buzz are intense. Yeah, it's too much, too much.
I don't like. But what do you see on Instagram? What are these
like dance like these foot There's one called like fly Fitness or something you do
it online. No, it's like they have these studios. Okay, but
I feel like my gym LA Fitness probably has a dance like dance like classes
my IMCA does. Yeah, And I've thought about it, but I'm I'm
afraid it's intimidating, Like I don't want to show up with a bunch of
teenagers. These are these seem like people kind of of all ages, the
ones that I see. So I feel like maybe my gym might have something
warm up my speed like that. But then that creates the anytime I have
to be somewhere at a certain time, I start getting nervous about it.
Like earlier, it becomes a thing, Oh I gotta do that hip hop
even though I don't have to do anything, But like now I've created a
plan in my head that's like Thursday, I'm going to hip hop classes three
pm. And then I'm like, oh, I gotta go to hip hop
bus, you know what I mean? Yes, Then it becomes a half
to instead of and then somehow I can't get back to that place where I
was like, no, that was something you wanted to do. I went
and looked it upright and figured out a time, and like, now what
am I gonna wear? I know, I know, I was like,
you know, like Natalia, like with this all this work, I need
to be I want to streutch. There's like a place called Stretch Lab or
whatever, and they're like for sixty bucks, you get two half hour sessions
or whatever, and I was like, okay, let me try it.
So then I go on the app, I sign up and it's like,
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in the afternoon. So I'm like, ah, right, I'll wait until
that. So then then Tuesday goes along, it's like I can't do anything
because I gotta go to my stretch thing at four o clock. Right,
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right right, but it turns into stress right. Wouldn't it be great if
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miss Phil so much. Oh what's going is Sam? When does he come
back? I think the house. I think after the house sells, I
think and we I think I think this is the last week, thank god.
But then we're leaving for Chicago on Monday. Okay, so he comes
back because then you have a break for Thanksgiving and there's not going to be
any showings now. But I think we might have an offer I don't know.
I don't want to jinx it, but okay, see, okay,
yeah, but yeah, I just get the offer he can come back.
I think he can. Well. I think he's only booked until like the
the next week, until the beginning of next week. Have you visited him
as he Oh? Yeah, so is he's still living his best life.
He's living a great life. I saw him on the Instagram, was like
he popped up and it was like black Lab love and it was like him
like with another lab black Lab Daisy is her name, and they're like,
you know, holding on to the same toy, but with their mouths.
It's cute. Now, so I'm like, uh, there he is.
About time. That's bitch fucking posted a picture of him. But anyway,
I mean, come on, I keep looking at that Instagram every day.
She posts all these other dogs and never fill so anyway, but she does
send me pictures and we did go visit him, and I took him to
my condo, which I might take him to my condo tonight now that I
think about it. Nice, Yeah, I gotta go black all the way
over there and go get him. But whatever, But yeah, I miss
him. It's sad. Like when you walk in the door, Like every
time natalian I walked in the door, she's like, I kind of miss
Phil like I know, because he's always there to greet us. Yeah,
her little grinch heart, I know. Right, she's the one that discovered
him on the Instagram. She's like, Mom, we were at Target.
She's like, finally she posed something. I was like, oh, you
care too, Yeah, I know it'll be hard. You know what's going
on with Pepo? What's going on? So we hired so giving people.
Gets really dirty and I'll tell you why, because our backyard is just dirt
because it used to be a lawn. I mean years ago we had it
landscaped and there was a lawn, but then our sprinklers weren't really working that
well, so then it started like dried out, and then we had work
done and the lawn it just died. And we were like, we're never
back here anyway. But you know who is back there? Pepo, Right,
And she rolls around in the dirt to scratch her and she's filthy all
the time. But she hates baths. She doesn't like the water. She
will cry and get scared even just to go into the bathroom. Where there's
where the bathtub is, because she knows it's like a torture chamber for her.
So I hired a mobile groomer that came with a truck and they it's
you know, she was scared, but she went in there and she got
groomed. And anyway, while she was getting groomed, which was great,
by the way, and she got really clean, the groomer was like,
hey, did you see this on her ear? Her ear is all was
all filled with fluid. So I was like, whoa, what is that?
So we took her to the vet. Like the next day, I
called the vet. I was like, hey, her ear flap, her
ear flap was all full of fluid, right, like blown up like a
little balloon hematobin things, and so it's called a hematoma. So they made
a little incision apparently and drained all the fluid out, and they said it
might come back, but it'll resolve on its own, but like not the
next day, but like definitely by the day after that, it filled back
up and it's just as full as it was before. And then I was
reading on the internet. I really like our vet, but I was reading
on the internet, which is never a great place for me, But like
no, I mean it can resolve on its own, but it's going to
develop like scar tissue and become like deformed and like cauliflower ear, but on
a dog, and you have to find out what the cause is. They
say that the reason they get it is because it's a broken blood vessel and
it's from dogs that are shaking their ears. But I haven't noticed her doing
that, or like rubbing their ears because they're itchy, but I have not
noticed her doing that, and so I don't know why she's got it.
And anyway, so this was the weekend, right, Well, I feel
like we noticed it on a We brought her in on Friday, so by
the time we really saw it again, probably by late Saturday, it was
already starting to come back, and by yesterday it was full. And so
we have to call This morning. John was supposed to have called, but
I don't know what. But then I read that when you drain it,
it oftentimes doesn't work. So what are you supposed to do? I don't
know. Well, there's like a surgery they can do to prevent it from
refilling, but it's not any like antibiotic thing or something. No, Wow,
I don't know. Dogs get weird hit all the time. I mean,
listen, that's how they caught Murdoch is because the dog had a hot
spot on his tail and he was like, cam here, Roscoe came here.
And then you hear his voice in the background to bring it back to
the Murdoch martyrs. But wait what remember that's how they that's how they they
solidified that this guy was at the kennels and must have been the one to
shoot and kill his wife. It's not because there was a snapchat video at
like eight forty five. The killings happened at like eight fifty five, and
it's and he says he wasn't there, and he's saying he wasn't there.
He was like a sleep or he was at his mom's house or whatever,
right, and there's a video because the kid, his friend said he was
he was kennel. He was why are they keeping him in kennels anyway?
But whatever that he was keeping his dog over the weekend for him and his
friend was like, he was telling his friend there's something wrong with Roscoe's tale,
and his friend was like, well, send me a of face timing.
He couldn't FaceTime him, so he had to do a snapchat video.
So he's doing the snapchat, He's like, come here, Roscoe, and
then you can hear his mom going, uh, Bubba's gotta gotta uh.
He's got a bird in his mouth. And then you hear him going the
dad going that's not a bird, that's a that's a chicken, or that's
a guinea or whatever. And then that's his voice. And during the trial
they kept everybody that went up on stage, I mean on the trial on
the stand. They said, Hey, by the way, while you're up
here, here's the voice. Do you recognize this voice in the background.
Yes, that's you know, that's Alec Murdoch. You know, like ten
people don't snapchat videos disappear. Well, they got into his phone and it
was a snapchat and it was on the phone, and they took Paul Murdoch's
phone and it was on there and the already you have it, do doo
doo. Yeah. I think it disappears to the person you send it to,
but it stays in your in your videos, in your videos snapchat videos.
Okay, yeah, yeah, Because I just made a cameo for someone
not to brag, but somebody heard me. For twenty five bucks to do
a cameo. Really, I want to do cameos. We should do them
together. Yeah, we should for crying out cameos. Okay, yeah,
all right, but you should also start your own account. Why not.
I'm gonna go on. I get a bunch of requests. Yeah, you
know, you could do your mom's boys, you could do special requests,
that's right. Yeah. Uh so I did a cameo, but they live
on my phone. So when I go into my own videos on my phone,
even though I send them up onto the app and they go to the
person, but then they're just there. Is still exist on my phone.
I don't want to see this. Yeah, see me doing it talking to
camera like yeah, just like Instagram. I think it does. An Instagram
video. Stay in your Instagram, Yeah, in your phone, in your
phone. Yeah, you're right. Okay, So note to self. Yeah,
if you're gonna don't say, you know, the dog's got a burden,
if you know that your alibi is going to be I wasn't there.
Yeah, it wasn't me. It's not the zeat So, Kaitlin, I
keep meaning to ask you this because we were talking about the whole sports thing
and I know you're pretty like hard driving sports dat. You started your kids
very early with the soccer, But tell us what's going on. The season
is coming to an end. It's already over. Ila's last game was on
Saturday. And yeah, this, this soccer program we put her in is
a little like. There was a lot of canceled practices. One was canceled
because it was daylight Savings. Like I was like, what, how does
that happen? Yeah, we're not having practice today. It's daylight savings,
okay, and so it just like Christmas daylight Savings both equally. Yeah,
wait, they need their rest or they're out of their clocks messed up.
I don't know, but the Daylight Savings have we gained an hour? I
know, clocks are messed up, and these kids are like you know,
they're Yeah, and all the other teams get qualified for I mean there's no
scores or anything, but they all get qualified to go to playoffs or whatever
that means for the four year olds, but our team didn't. Yeah,
we didn't get we didn't get selected to do playoffs because Amy and her dad
went to go line the fields one day. They spent like hours lining the
fields and for whatever reason, Like it didn't it didn't like they didn't count
it. Like if you do something that helps out the you know, the
program or whatever, that's like, oh, okay, you get points for
your team and your team gets to play in the playoffs where they're like,
oh, yeah, you didn't do it well enough, so we're not counting
your your contribution. Yeah racket, yeah, hours doing it, and they
go, this doesn't count. Wow, that's insane. Yeah, so your
team doesn't get to make playoffs, like your season's over. She wasn't as
mad as she should have been. She just kind of told me that off,
you know, she just kind of said it, let's be so,
you know whatever. I mean, they enjoyed practice. But the like,
ILO's doing really well. At the beginning of the season, she would score
like one or two sometimes three goals, and I don't know what happened,
but she just kind of stopped caring, like towards the last couple of games.
That's what happened. She she didn't wait for high school to become a
senior season. She she I think she figured out that as long as she
still ran around and like followed them, then that counts. Then she's then
she's playing, she'd run around and follow them, and then when the she'd
get up to the ball, she'd just kind of stare at it without kicking
it. And then me and her mom are yelling like kick the ball,
get the ball, and she just kind of stare at it, like I
don't know you want me to. This guy's running over here, and this
guy's running over here. They're looking at me, what do you want for
me? And I think our team was the worst team in the league too.
There was like even when Ili stopped trying and was just running around,
it was like her and one other girl were okay, and the rest of
them would just kind of walk off and hold hands and start doing their own
thing. And me and Amy are going like, is this is this a
coach thing? Is this the coach not doing I'm seeing other coaches put putting
their team into like soccer forms and all that. And then our coach,
I think was arguing with his wife at one point. She got in there
at one point to try and coach the game. That didn't work very well
either. No, yeah, and uh so that's fun. So then all
the kids just kind of stopped trying. So then I'm like noticing myself getting
frustrated, like why aren't you trying anymore? And like I'm getting frustrated the
other girls and I'm having to calm myself down, going like they're four years
old. They're four year old's calm down. That's hilarious. So, yeah,
the end of the season kind of didn't end as well as Yeah,
do you think she wants to do it again? Will she do it next
season? I don't know. She really liked practice. She was having fun
at the practice, but the game she just did not care for. And
the one thing she hated more than anything is you know when the parents make
the tunnel at the end and all the kids like to run through it.
She wouldn't do it. She wouldn't run. No, I wouldn't do it.
I don't know. Why give her a little time, put her back
into it next year. Yeah, soccer at that like a really young age.
I want to say, like five. When she was five, I
remember and her friend, oh, Julie Caseum, Julie was the coach.
Julie and her husband coached, and uh yeah, and Albi was like really
good, but also didn't wasn't one hundred five, So she was like she
made a couple of goals, but I don't even think she completely understood what
was right. Like if they don't feel like running at that age, they
just don't like there. You know, she would have some energy and do
it, but then other times she would just not really. And I remember
when I was like, do you want to do because with soccer you can
do there's sequential seasons, like you can do summer spring. I feel like,
right once I think there's two, I think, yeah, her spring,
but then like the next season. Even though I was like, she
could be really good at this, she was like, no, yeah,
thinks Suzanne's daughter. She did it since this, since like five, she's
still playing in high school. She's a senior, still playing, still playing
soccer. Does she want to do it in college? Yeah? Oh really?
It all the way through? Yeah? Or maybe she doesn't. I
don't know. I keep track of all these kids' goals. I think no,
I don't think. Maybe. I don't know, but she's still playing.
I think she just wants to play out her senior year, right,
I think she'll be done. But yeah, she loved it when all else
is in Italian's best Friend too, Soccer the whole way through. Oh yeah,
still playing. Yeah, crazy mobile muffins on that team. Oh interesting,
but they're not. They're definitely they're on the outs. Yeah. Oh
so it's an actual thing. It didn't just drift. Now they're done.
Oh no, I think it's a little toxic. Okay, all right,
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