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Sure, it's not beautiful people.
It is your baby mama, favorite baby

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Mama, Stormy Pee. And this
is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip

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the modern day female perspective drm Son
Back at it again, Back at it

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again. Don't talk shit. I
know I haven't uploaded the past few episodes.

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Give me a second. Okay,
I'm a drop like four the time.

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Just just you got something to listen
to do at work today. That's

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all you need to worry about.
Okay, we're here, We're back.

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That's it. All right, speaking
of we are here, we are back.

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That's it, y'all. I know
we mentioned it briefly, but I

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am very committed to being back outside, back outside. The three or fours

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are at it again. Hold on, hold on, hold on. Okay.

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When I say back outside, I
mean and we were talking about this

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on a live before we started.
I am very committed to putting myself out

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there to find my person. Okay. Previously, I'm not gonna lie,

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y'all. I'll be on the internet
talking a whole bunch of shit about relationships

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and doing very little to find a
relationship. Okay, I really be sitting

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up in my room waiting for my
future husband to commit a B and me.

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So I've decided, yeah, yeah, yeah, I've decided that I

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have to go outside as much as
it sucks, as much as it stinks,

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and as much as the Internet tells
me that, you know, the

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dating pool has all types of fequal
matter in it. I told myself,

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like, yo, I'm really gonna
try. And yeah. So a part

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of going outside, and you know, making yourself available is just that going

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outside, making yourself available. And
that doesn't always mean you got to go

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out with your girlfriends and shake ass
over pancakes while you're at brunch. You

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also can just link up with people
and hang out. So this past week,

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me and Seid had a brand shoot
setup that didn't really fall through.

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So I'm like, all right,
you know, let's just go grab some

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food, right, So I take
shot to my favorite restaurant, UH,

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and I order some oysters. First
of all, y'all know I love oysters.

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Y'all know I will sit at a
table and clear forty eight by myself

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with no problem. I love oysters. That's my thing, that's my guilty

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pleasure. I don't care. I
don't care. I don't care, Right,

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So I order oysters and I'm just
vibing out, you know, and

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shops looking around and be like you
used to come here and eat forty eight

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of these and then go home and
be sad. And I'm like, yeah,

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yeah, dead And I did,
and I really did, y'all.

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Like if y'all know, I do
take myself out on dates, like I'm

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not that girl like, oh,
I just want to hang out with you

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so you can feed me. I
want that, but I also can feed

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myself, right, So I really
would go out to this particular restaurant and

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I really would have like forty oysters
and then I would go home and I'll

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be SAgs. I'm like, damn, ain't nobody see me clear these Junes

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sun shots Like, yo, you
come here, you ain't forty eight it

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is and you're gonna be sad.
I'm like, yeah, he's like I

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can see why no shot. Get
on the mic and tell him why you

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told me that? Tell him why
you told me that shot? No on

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the mic? On the mic,
I truly don't remember why. Wow,

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So you just would me. I
honestly think it's because it was a dope

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ast spot it is do just alone
slurking slurking forty eight Jaws like Paul's play

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No Diddy, But you just it
was a nice ass vibe. Yeah,

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like it's just a nice ass vibe. So and then like you're on your

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journey that you've been on for mad
long. So you know, I couldn't

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just imagine put down forty forty and
home, Like damn, I wish you

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had somebody showed somebody so like and
so you know, like I said,

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I don't understand, like it's on
the street and like it be dogs,

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yeah, like walking by and everything. It's the perfect vibe for her.

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And yet she'd be a I don't
care, okay, but whatever. Right,

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So I'm like, all right,
you know this outing inside because you

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know it's different when you're a shot
or you with a man, like you

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know, it decreases your chances of
finding, you know, your husband.

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So I'm like, all right,
you know, I'm gonna keep going out,

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y'all. Like I'm not gonna sit
up in my room. I get

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invited to stuff. I'm actually gonna
go. So I go out to well

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Crafted, shout out to Lamont,
shout out to mo Moby. Outside,

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I'm gonna go outside to well Crafted. Right, So I'm sitting at the

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bar by myself again, right,
and so I meet a nice young lady.

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We start talking. Boom. Now
we're like having a great conversation.

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We're like kicking in all night.
It's a bomb time, right. So

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somebody sends us over some shots and
I'm like okay. So we're both scaling

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the bar trying to figure out whos
sending shots and it's like two guys.

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So they like cheers us. We
cheer from across the bar. We take

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our shot. That's it, right. So the guy comes over and was

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like hey, Stormy. Hey.
So he's like, hey, Stormy,

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you know, I just wanted to
come and sing you a shot because you

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keep talking about me. I said, I keep talking about who I'm sorry,

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waits what's your screen name? Like
I'm thinking he's just one of the

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people we'd be going back and forth
and the stories with like I'm like,

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I'm sorry, Like I can't put
the face. So I'm like, I

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be talking about you? What's your
name? Again? And he was like,

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yeah, you keep saying that.
You know you're looking for your future

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husband, so you got ah?
I said, okay, that was that

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was? That was that was?
That was pretty smooth. That was pretty

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smooth. And when I say I
chuckled like that, y'all know, I

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laughed like a donkey with asthma.
So I was at that bar doing that

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laugh exactly, like, oh that
was funny, that was cute. So

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yeah, shout out to Rob does
Events. Thank you for the I appreciate

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it. That's it, and that's
all completely. I'm related. I also

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wanted to tell y'all the story.
I don't know if y'all remember me.

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And Stan was on the pod talking
about this a while ago, and he

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was talking about how girls got,
you know, fifty million pairs of tights,

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and well, I said girls got
fifty million pairs of tights. He

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said they only got one pair,
and I was like, no, they're

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just all black, right, So
I didn't counter with okay, and niggas

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be swearing they got a whole bunch
of jeans, but really they only can

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fit three, right, Like you
can have nineteen pair of jeans as a

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man, but you're only gonna be
able to fit three paiers of jeans.

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I don't care. I don't care. Argue with your mom, argue with

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your homies. You and your boys
already know you can't fit all them fucking

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gens in your closet. I love
y'all, but y'all can't, right so

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completely. I'm related, y'all know
I've been on my fitness journey too,

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right, So my homie iss me. I was like, yo, bro,

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I just want to say I appreciate
you so much. You don't know,

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like the little stuff you say goes
a long way. And I was

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like, why you say that?
And' like, yo, bro, I

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lost Steve Pearls. I'm like,
oh my god, I love this for

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you. What was the change?
He was like, you told me I

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only could fit three pairs in my
jeans, and I really can only fit

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two. I'm out here changing lives, y'all, changing lives, Thank you

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very much. Thank you all.
Heroes don't wear capes. Okay, I'm

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out here doing the Lord's work,
thank you very much. I'm just saying,

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so, yeah, I'm now about
to start doing like, you know,

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fitness packages because apparently I'm a veitness
influencer now, y'all. So yeah,

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that's it, and it's all all
that aside. I had a very

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pitiful pivotal moment in my outside journey
occurred this week and I'm not gonna lie,

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y'all. It really touched me.
It really touched me. It really

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really touched me. A guy I
was talking to told me that he didn't

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think we were a good fit.
And do you know what, I did

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fucking nothing, because that's how you're
supposed to date. I love this for

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me. I love this for me. I love this for me. Okay.

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A guy I was talking to told
me, hey, y'all like hanging

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out with you, but I don't
think we're a good fit. And you

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know what, I did nothing,
nothing, nothing I said. You know

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what. I respect that. Good
luck on your journey, King, Thank

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you very much. Okay. I
feel like if we had more of these

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conversations, people wouldn't be going around
saying to day the pool got pissing it.

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Tell me it ain't for me,
big dog. Tell me I'm not

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going for you. Don't be a
pussy and just ghost me. Don't start

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acting weird. I don't talk to
you every day for the past two weeks.

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Now all of a sudden, I
don't hear from you in three days,

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but you and my stories every time
I upload some. Don't be weird.

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Don't be weird, Just say we're
not a good fit. I'm not

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the one for you. I love
this for me, but even more so

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I love this for him. Stand
on your shit, king, Yes.

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Yes. If our values are not
aligning, okay, if our lifestyles don't

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match, if the communication is not
there, if something just doesn't fit your

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needs, I love this for you, and more importantly, I love this

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for me. Yes. Yes.
Shout out to the adults in the room.

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Come on, somebody, that was
some adult ass shit. I'm not

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gonna hold you. That might have
been one of the most adult conversations I've

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had in the past two years when
it came to dating, like yeah,

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yeah, instead of someone saying like, yo, oh you know, I

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really be trying to get back to
you, but I just miss my granny.

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Suck my dick. Okay, suck
my dick. You don't miss your

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granny. I'm just not hitting all
the buttons for you in that spot.

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And the same thing goes for me, same things go for women. Stop

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acting like I just be so busy
with my kids and blah blah blah,

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but a big dick tyrone hit you
up. You got all the free time

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in the words, stop at It's
just not him, and that's fine.

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That's fine. I think we need
to have more of these conversations because this

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is really why people be saying to
day the pool got pissing it. It

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don't We're just not having adult conversations. I love this for me. And

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the next time you not feeling somebody
and you don't feel like wasting any time,

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just say hey, I like hanging
out with you, but this just

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isn't it for me. Good luck
on your journey. I love that for

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him. Hm. Going back to
talking about the guy, I think that

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even though that situation didn't work out, really pleasurable from start to finish,

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from start to finish, not just
the maturity, but it was the thought

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process. Right. So y'all know
I'm a nerd, right, So first

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date, Hey, like, yo, you want to go do something cool?

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I'm like yes. And he took
me to like one of those restaurants

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where you make the drinks in like
the Witch's cauldron and you're like, wear

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a cloak and they have ones,
and shit, I have the time of

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my life. Okay yo, I
had so much fucking fun. Y'all already

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know always interacting, I god damn
fool. But I like stuff like that,

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like people always talking about like,
oh, you know, I want

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to go out to a restaurant,
you gonna take me to Stick forty eight

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or something five star, Like,
bro, I want to do some cool

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shit. I'm gonna do some cool
shit with you. I'm gonna some cool

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shit together. Like I like that. I like that a lot. All

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that aside, I think that and
this is not pertaining to this particular person.

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This is just in general. I
don't know about y'all, but to

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me, like the worst part about
ending, like a talking situation, relationship,

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situationship, whatever. I think the
worst part is like when something funny

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pop up on your timeline and you
want to send it to him, but

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you can't cause y'all talk no more. It's like, ah, god damn,

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nobody else is gonna understand why squirtle
holding a tangerine is gonna be funny

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but you. Nobody else is gonna
get sttank what money long say? Nobody

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knows me like you dude, No, yes, yes, I be hating

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that shit. I'm not gonna hold
y'all. That'd be like the hardest fights,

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Like oh man, I only got
one of my niggas who watched the

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office and we'll talk no more.
So Now who I'm iss saying shit about

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the office? Damn, nobody else
is gonna get it. Identity theft is

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not a joke, Jim, Like
nobody else is gonna get it. Like

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I don't know, seap, what
should think The hardest part about, like

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stopping the talking phase is the mic
though. I don't know what y'all think

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while Shot is making his way over
to the microphone. What y'all think.

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What's the hardest part about, like
stopping your talking phase or stopping you know,

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a relationship, situationship, whatever the
case may be. Dating go along

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same lines as the routine. Yeah, get up at five in the morning,

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but I know she don't get up
to like eight thirty. Oh you'll

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be sending that good morning sex,
you know what I mean? Like I

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got work it all in and I
was like, oh, do that or

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I or if if it was mutual, he is, I gotta watch how

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I talk. Yeah, I'm trying
to respect that. You're not talking like

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you want to bust your cheeks anymore. Yeah, got you, got you,

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got you got you. When y'all
stop watching anime, low key,

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I'm crying hollering, hollering. I
don't know, but I think the routine

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part is like it's real because like
even if you're not the person who's sent

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in the text, like sometimes you
get used to receiving like a good morning

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text, and then you're not getting
that anymore. It's like, is this

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actually a good morning any fucking more? Like what's happening? Like, h

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I don't know. Routine is a
big part of it, stoles BG says,

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sorry, just tune back in,
but I gotta question what is the

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best We're not doing questions right now. Yeah, wait, we're not there

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yet. Hold on, save it, save it, put it, click

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the question mark and put it there. But yeah, I think it's just

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routine, like or even if it's
like yo, I know that on my

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way home, I call him or
he calls me on the drive home when

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we talk about how that lady in
HR got me fucked up? Okay,

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Like, routine is a big part
of it, and I think that's why

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a lot of people just be in
unhappy situations, don't I may feel like

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starting the fuck over, Like now
I gotta learn a whole bunch of other

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stuff about somebody else, like damn, now I gotta learn how another nigga

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like his eggs cook, Like what
the fuck? God damn, I can't

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go to the restaurant, And now
I'm the hold of the staff. Come

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bring Oh that's another thing. Any
of my spots. Yes, think I'm

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out here doing I'm not exactly that's
my that's my more. Yes, talk

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about her, and that's another thing. Like then you gotta go through the

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whole rigamarola telling everybody that, hey, you and Tyrone are no longer together?

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Hey baby, how Tyrone doing?
Bruh bruh. And it's always the

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sweetest oldest lip. Hey baby,
how you and Eric doing? Fuck Eric?

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Fuck Eric? I don't know about
what Eric doing, Okay, I

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don't care. I don't care.
I don't care. Like we always talk

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about, you know, the dating
pool being trash. But I think another

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interesting and very important point. It's
like yo, breaking up or like stopping

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the talking phase is trash too,
maybe even more trash, Like what the

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fuck Rinsberg arc says, who exactly
how you? And I don't know who

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you're talking about. I'm hit the
Mariah Carey. I don't know her,

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I don't I don't know her.
That's it, and that's all. But

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yeah, I think, like I
said, I think a lot of times

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we really just be scared to start
over. And that's you be swearing niggas

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in love. But now they just
scared. They just scared to start over.

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That's it, And that's all.
Being as though I'm entering this more

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purposeful, I probably say the most
purposeful point in my life. I've decided

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there are a few things I really
need to crack down on. Right.

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I feel like the only way I'm
gonna find my person is if I stopped

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playing with me and I stopped letting
niggas play with me. And when I

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say niggas, I mean bitch just
too I do, I mean friends,

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I mean family, kids, Okay, especially when fucking kids. Everybody,

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everybody has to stop playing with me, right And I feel like I'm entering

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a season of say what you fucking
mean, because that's what I'm gonna do.

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That's what I'm gonna do every time, every time where I'm going right

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now, don't play with me.
Please don't say what you mean to me,

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baby, because I'm gonna make you
stand on that, all right.

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I don't want to hear no.
Oh, I don't really want to go,

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and then it's oh my god,
it's really women women, women,

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women women. It's crazy how it's
cool when y'all want to do wants to

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do. He's an asshole because you
don't do it nicely. Why are you

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being nice to somebody wasting your time? You know who I am? You

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know anything about me? Them niggas
probably know more about me. You'll niggas

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sak y'all about to come out face
to race my time and not catch this.

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Don't niggas ever see my face.
You don't have to do it passive

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aggressively. I don't even think it's
passive. I think you just do it

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aggressively. Oh my god, ladies, Okay, I don't want to hear

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no. Oh I don't really feel
like going. And then you see me

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post it up out somewhere going,
Oh you wasn't going to ask me?

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No fuck though you said you didn't
want to go, so I'm not going

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to ask you. Okay, And
ladies, ladies, ladies, ladies,

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you have to start standing on what
you are saying. Okay, stand on

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it all right. I don't want
to hear no. Oh she fake,

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she ain't never no I'm not.
I'm following your wishes, big dog.

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I'm respecting you. That's it.
That's it, fellas. I don't want

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to hear no. Oh, I
just don't think you're the one for me.

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Okay, well wait a minute,
you're not gonna ask me what happened.

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No, that's what you're saying.
That's what you feel, stand on

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it. I'm good. No,
No, the conversation we had. The

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conversation. I don't have nothing to
say. You don't voice your opinion,

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like bro't don't tell me. Oh, I don't really want to go.

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All right? When you see me
out, don't hit me up saying,

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well, why you ain't asked me
to go? You say you ain't want

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to go. Okay, don't tell
me. I don't think we're a good

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fit for one another. I just
don't want to do this anymore. Okay,

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you ain't gonna ask me to set
No, fuck now, absolutely not.

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I'm respecting your wishes. I'm following
your lead. Sir, ma'am whoever

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you got this, listen, say
what you mean to me. I'm in

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my accountability era. I'm in my
accountability era. Okay, that's it.

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That's it, that's it. I
feel like it's really this whole population of

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people who says things simply because they
want people to beg them or ask them

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to do shit. Y'all, don't
think that's weird. Y'all, don't think

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that's weird, because I think that's
very weird. You want someone to invite

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you somewhere. Yes, I'm a
nice guy, yes, yes, yes,

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yes. My mama always told me, if they don't ask, you

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don't go. If you are not
invited, don't ask, like that's it,

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like conversations, outings, whatever,
bat mitzps, okay, whatever.

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If they are not asking, you
don't go. Nothing is applied. I

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can't assume anything you said no.
The answer is no. The answer is

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no. That's it, and that's
all. DMBR says, damn reflecting now,

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Workman ninety ten says facts. I
just feel like it's very weird behavior,

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and I don't think it will be
classified as pick me, but it's

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definitely something like you. Yeah,
it's definitely the cousins of cousins that grew

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up together, hung together. Yeah, like y'all have sleepovers at grandma house

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for for sure? For sure?
Yeah yeah yeah, yeah yea, yeah

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yeah yeah yeah. I don't know
what that is, but I don't like

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it. Don't like that. Bruh, Yeah, it's given very much,

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Brent Fiass. I don't like it, Brent Fiasing at home Like, I'm

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like, damn, why do you
say for me at home? Like me,

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how fuck did I get in this? No, Brent Faas, it

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wasn't for you, it was for
them cousins. But yeah, no,

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man, all I'm saying is I
ain't with that shit, like maybe I

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got thick thighsand thin patients. If
you say no, it's a no for

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me too. I'm like Reddy Jackson, it's a nod for me, big

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dog, like, no, No, it's gonna be a no for me.

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Dog. No, I'm not begging, I'm not asking. That's not

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the energy that I'm putting out there, So that's is not the energy that

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I'm trying to take. Like the
fuck gross gross speaking of energy that I'm

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that I'm no longer receiving. Uh, ladies, I feel like a lot

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of you have not learned a very
important lesson and it's having a major impact

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on your life. Okay, and
don't want to try to listen to me,

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Listen to me very closely. What
I'm about to say, because it's

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gonna help you. It's gonna help
you find your person, it's gonna help

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you stop going back and forth for
people who don't understand what you're trying to

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say, simply because they don't want
to understand what you're trying to say.

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It's gonna stop people from calling you
a hoe. Okay, And I don't

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wanna I want to. I don't
want to blanket this because it's probably not

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for everybody, but it's for enough
of them that the rule applies. Okay,

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So ladies, stop talking to popular
niggas, Okay, just stop stop

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Okay, stop talking to popular niggas. Okay. Nine times out of ten

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they don't want to settle down.
And once you talk to them, you

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can't talk to none of their friends. And they know every fucking body.

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Now you ain't got nobody anybody who
talked to afterdayday you are ho. Now

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you are hoe. Stop talking to
popular niggas. That's it. That's thank

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you for coming to my ted talk. Okay. Now, I know,

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I know, I know, I
know it's gonna be about three or four

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of themen in in comments talking about
who I'm a child of god, Okay,

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I'm looking for my queen. Okay. On the contrary, popular niggas

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are just as ran through as popular
girls. First of all, popular niggas,

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I like to call them a hot
potato niggas. You just pass them

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around. Okay, It's like a
yes, all the same, all the

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same. The emotions take a little
longer to hit. For the record,

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popular niggas are just as ran through
as popular women. But ladies, you

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don't care if niggas ran through,
you still be wifing them. These niggas,

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they be acting like they give a
fuck in public. In private,

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we know they love you. But
in public because everybody likes a freaking the

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sheets. Bruh, bruh, bruh. Okay, so let's make life simple

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for ourselves. Okay, let's start
there. Let let's let's just start from

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the beginning. Let's make life simple
for ourselves by saying, stop talking to

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popular niggas. Okay, nine times
out of ten, they are not looking

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for a girlfriend. They're looking for
their next situationship. Okay. Because when

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you mention anything about getting serious,
having a relationship, blah blah blah blah,

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I'm just working on me right now. You know, I'm just trying

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to catch a vibe and see where
things go. And you know, I

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just feel like, you know the
way my life is set up. Actually,

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I'm not gonna hold you. I'm
about to move to Houston. No,

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like I really would try to settle
down with you. It's just I'm

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about to move to Houston. So
I don't really want to get nothing started

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because, like you know, I
just don't. Don't, don't, and

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don't let it be a popular nigga
who played basketball, Oh my god,

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every man he didn't ever play ball
with is now his homie, his best

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friend, his bro. You can't
talk to nobody. Half the niggas in

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the city is off the list now, and if he plays ball, all

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the niggas on in the city is
off the list now. So what did

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we learn from this? What did
we gain from this? We didn't added

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another body and have been canceled out
for many other new ones without the fucking

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fear of being called a hoe.
Just don't do it, don't do it,

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don't do it, don't do it. I'm gonna say it. The

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niggas, they will call you a
hoe. The niggas, the niggas.

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No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no

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no, Actually it will probably be
him, because the funny thing about popular

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men is that they don't want to
settle down, but they also don't want

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you settling down to anyone else,
which is why once you talk to them,

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you're not allowed to talk to anyone
else without being considered a who And

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I know, I know, oh, these immature conversations in general till we

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hit like seventeen. It's not seventeen, I'm going we're supposed to stop that

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at like oh yeah, yah yeah, first show show sure. Now,

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now to be clear, I know, oh these conversations. Is that mature

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as shit? Oh my god,
I can't believe you're out here spieling this

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nonsense. Okay, show me a
conversation between you and your boys. Then

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tell me you don't have at least
one friend who is mad that somebody is

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homie hopping, yes or no,
let me know, don't worry. I

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wait, okay, then okay,
cool, cool. You can't just talk

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to nobody. They know if they're
popular, they know everybody. So now

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who are you talking to? Okay, now, now hear me out though,

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right, you said that's a lie. Every everybody know them at I

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one thousand percent agree until they find
out you are now talking to somebody they

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went to high school with and had
biology class with in ninth grade. Now,

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all of a sudden, A bro
you trifling? How were you to

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the ball trying to talk to you? Or the nigga that's in his feelings,

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Because the only person that's gonna come
to you and tell you that you

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a hoe now is a nigga in
your feelings. I hear you. Ain't

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gonna be the nigga talking to you, and ain't gonna be other niggas trying

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to talk to you. I hear
you, and I agree with you,

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right, And I feel like this
is another conversation that's not had frequently.

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It's like, Yo, the nigga
that should talk to not gonna think you

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a hole, but it is he
strong enough to withstand everybody else calling you

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a hoe and still trying to wife
you. Nine times out of ten they

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don't be Peer Pressure is a motherfucker
at any age. And I'm not saying

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it's okay, and I'm not saying
I agree with it, and I'm not

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saying it's everybody, but I'm saying
it's a significant amount. It is one

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thousand percent is a significant amount.
I think that we always had these conversations

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of choosing at her, and I
think that the first conversation should be,

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if you were interested in a relationship, make sure you're indulging in entertaining people

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who are also interested in a relationship. And if it's a popular nigga,

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run okay, that's it, and
that's all square pegs going square holes,

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that's it. Hey h mister right
O two says absolutely uh and Vester Brad

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says the game on lo O L
Styles BG says, yes, you're gonna

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have to day outside your race.
I ain't gonna hold your big dog.

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I'd be like, yo, I
want black love, but do black love?

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What me? Because the way y'all
be moving, jesus, I'm just

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saying, it's a bunch. It's
a bunch. You're a good looking brother.

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I ain't gonna hold you. I
ain't saying I can known it.

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I ain't saying I win it.
I'm just saying I understand, especially like

403
00:29:02.640 --> 00:29:06.319
you know, I won't get into
that. That's a conversation for another day,

404
00:29:06.559 --> 00:29:10.759
conversation for another day. Investor Brad
says, just got to accept the

405
00:29:10.839 --> 00:29:15.000
cheater. I'd rather eat shit on
a Sunday afternoon, But thank you,

406
00:29:15.799 --> 00:29:18.359
thank you. How you gonna smark
it when I got your fucking lighter.

407
00:29:21.279 --> 00:29:26.160
Folks think it's easier to throw a
woman away than to defend them, agreed.

408
00:29:26.440 --> 00:29:30.720
Investor Bred said, what's the body
fat percentage on a faithful man?

409
00:29:32.039 --> 00:29:36.759
And you know what? And you
know what? Thank you so much for

410
00:29:36.880 --> 00:29:41.000
reminding me of that. Okay,
so you know what I don't like.

411
00:29:41.759 --> 00:29:48.200
I don't like this narrative that if
a man wants to be monogamous, faithful,

412
00:29:48.559 --> 00:29:53.519
family oriented, marriage minded, he
has to be overweight, unattractive,

413
00:29:53.599 --> 00:29:57.759
and doesn't have anything going for himselves. Baby, you just a hope?

414
00:29:57.920 --> 00:30:03.200
Say you a hope? Don't make
it seem like anybody who wants those things

415
00:30:03.640 --> 00:30:08.440
is less than and not valuable.
Like, who, what's wrong with y'all?

416
00:30:08.799 --> 00:30:12.799
Why y'all be saying that? What
is this? What is this?

417
00:30:14.160 --> 00:30:18.240
I don't understand that, Like there
are plenty of good looking, attractive men

418
00:30:18.319 --> 00:30:22.720
out here who want relationships, Monoga
must relationships, and it's like, just

419
00:30:22.720 --> 00:30:26.400
because you want to be a hoe, don't put it like, oh,

420
00:30:26.480 --> 00:30:29.839
well I'm cute, so I can't
be settled down more. You know,

421
00:30:29.920 --> 00:30:33.079
it's not in the man's nature to
be just tied down with one woman,

422
00:30:33.359 --> 00:30:40.039
and anyone who does it's real beta. It's that a babe, just say

423
00:30:40.079 --> 00:30:47.000
you a how just say that that's
a weird statement, but honestly, if

424
00:30:47.039 --> 00:30:49.079
you keep it a being, when
you talk about cheating, it's all about

425
00:30:49.160 --> 00:30:56.920
temptation and it's all about discipline and
the fact that you literally lack. I

426
00:30:56.960 --> 00:31:00.960
watched this movie and this oldhead was
in a bar. I saw the clip

427
00:31:02.000 --> 00:31:04.119
on YouTube and oh he was in
a bar and young niggas fucking with him.

428
00:31:04.279 --> 00:31:07.000
And he was like, I killed
mad niggas, I did this,

429
00:31:07.079 --> 00:31:10.759
that and the third and I only
love one woman. And I started thinking

430
00:31:10.759 --> 00:31:17.160
to myself, like, you wanna
put all that you put? I resisted

431
00:31:17.200 --> 00:31:22.720
all this pussy with I killed mad
niggas and niggas and I only fucked one

432
00:31:22.759 --> 00:31:26.240
woman. I love one woman.
I'm like, I love that for him.

433
00:31:26.319 --> 00:31:30.240
Yeah, that was that. Niggas
go on Facebook and start talking all

434
00:31:30.240 --> 00:31:33.720
the other ship. Carolina Cash says, man, if that nigga getting peer

435
00:31:33.799 --> 00:31:40.119
pressure at any big age over twenty
five, he probably wanna I wanna be

436
00:31:40.279 --> 00:31:48.160
with the nigga calling Oh he Diddy. He did he effect, I don't.

437
00:31:49.599 --> 00:31:52.759
Yeah, oh man, Now I
can't find out where I am.

438
00:31:52.759 --> 00:32:02.279
Hold on, y'all, I can't. I missed half the the I know.

439
00:32:02.680 --> 00:32:07.279
But like, I hate that.
I really hate that rhetoric, Like

440
00:32:07.279 --> 00:32:12.480
if a man wants to be monogamous, he has to be unattractive. Like

441
00:32:13.000 --> 00:32:15.960
and here's the thing that really be
getting me, right, it be the

442
00:32:16.039 --> 00:32:20.559
men saying it though. It be
the men saying it, And I feel

443
00:32:20.599 --> 00:32:22.720
like y'all be trying to do some
fucking Jedi mind trick shit on us,

444
00:32:22.759 --> 00:32:27.000
Like yo, if you like find
niggas, it means you're going to have

445
00:32:27.039 --> 00:32:31.000
to respect him not wanting to be
one woman? Like what the fuck we

446
00:32:31.039 --> 00:32:39.680
talk about, y'all? This is
crazy. It's disgusted to me. All

447
00:32:39.720 --> 00:32:43.640
my homies are married, so I
don't. It's a little like, I

448
00:32:43.680 --> 00:32:45.920
don't. That's weird. I feel
like for you to feel that way,

449
00:32:46.599 --> 00:32:50.680
like you said, should like just
say you do not have the discipline to

450
00:32:50.720 --> 00:32:54.279
be with one woman and that's okay. It seem lifestyle and no, but

451
00:32:54.359 --> 00:32:57.799
no, I want to I want
to clarify that real fast, right,

452
00:32:58.279 --> 00:33:01.359
because it's not to say that if
you don't want those things like you're a

453
00:33:01.400 --> 00:33:04.200
bad person. Like it's not to
say like, oh, if you're a

454
00:33:04.200 --> 00:33:07.559
Polly, you are a horrible individual. That's not what I'm saying. You're

455
00:33:07.559 --> 00:33:10.279
a cheater. Don't call a life
exactly, that's what I'm saying. I'm

456
00:33:10.319 --> 00:33:15.960
saying in regards to men who are
cheating, not ones in a lifestyle,

457
00:33:15.319 --> 00:33:20.640
like if you think a man has
to cheat on his woman, and that's

458
00:33:20.640 --> 00:33:22.359
what it has to be. Because
when I say cheat, I don't mean

459
00:33:22.400 --> 00:33:27.519
like okay, or I say cheat
because you could also go to your woman

460
00:33:27.559 --> 00:33:30.000
say hey, these are some things
that I were exploring. I want to

461
00:33:30.039 --> 00:33:32.119
know if you will be interested.
You're not doing that. You're purposely just

462
00:33:32.160 --> 00:33:36.839
fucking other bitches behind her back.
That's that weak shit. I don't like

463
00:33:36.920 --> 00:33:42.799
that. I'm not interested. Ell
y'all got no dick control. That's girls.

464
00:33:43.359 --> 00:33:46.240
I don't like that. I don't
like that. I Am number four

465
00:33:46.359 --> 00:33:52.200
says it's sad because I think there
is a realm where and it's only because

466
00:33:52.200 --> 00:33:58.079
them niggas have loud mics the minority
mm hmmm M. And I hope y'all

467
00:33:58.119 --> 00:34:02.640
know that like women and men like
them, people that be pushing those narratives

468
00:34:02.680 --> 00:34:07.920
like no, I'm not gonna lie. Why do you think certain podcasts and

469
00:34:07.000 --> 00:34:10.599
certain topics do so well cause niggas
want to be in love? Like we

470
00:34:10.639 --> 00:34:14.159
are a generation that grew up on
nineties R and B. You think we

471
00:34:14.159 --> 00:34:16.119
don't want to be in love,
my nigga just cheating? Shit ain't in

472
00:34:16.199 --> 00:34:22.679
us? Like we we grew up
on a generation where singers had to lie

473
00:34:22.800 --> 00:34:28.719
about their wives and husband. Come
on, girls, we grew up in

474
00:34:28.760 --> 00:34:32.320
a generation where singers were lying about
their wives to protect their image of being

475
00:34:32.360 --> 00:34:37.920
single and available. Like you know, we grew up in a society where

476
00:34:37.960 --> 00:34:40.639
like niggas was singing in the rain
and grabbing three they homeboys and going in

477
00:34:40.719 --> 00:34:45.239
the desert and singing for they bitious
back because they didn't there for the phone

478
00:34:45.280 --> 00:34:50.559
in an hour like this whole Oh, men cannot be with one woman is

479
00:34:50.679 --> 00:34:53.480
dumb? Don't believe that it's men
out there who can do and will get

480
00:34:53.519 --> 00:35:00.079
you one sis? Like what what
uh? Internet? Watch these like clips,

481
00:35:00.079 --> 00:35:04.440
these hot clips of dudes talking like
that, and you see these comments.

482
00:35:04.559 --> 00:35:06.760
It's mad sad because it's like ire
be thinking about something like yo,

483
00:35:07.360 --> 00:35:09.800
it's full of It's the world full
of sheep shout out to my mom.

484
00:35:10.320 --> 00:35:15.400
It's it's mad sad because a lot
of people are also just keyboard warriors who

485
00:35:15.440 --> 00:35:19.920
don't mean any of this shit.
Tyg Grin says he grew in the desert

486
00:35:20.159 --> 00:35:22.480
area. Uh. Someone else says, however, nineties R and B was

487
00:35:22.519 --> 00:35:28.800
also a eighty percent cheating and getting
cheated on too, though. Workman ninety

488
00:35:28.800 --> 00:35:34.199
ten says, niggas trying to use
jiu jitsu on the females. Ruxas Stamp

489
00:35:34.400 --> 00:35:37.199
says, kN and will I know
that's right, baby, this is what

490
00:35:37.239 --> 00:35:43.800
I'm saying. Yes, yes,
I think that the difference is going back

491
00:35:43.800 --> 00:35:46.000
to the person who said, like
nineties irn B niggas, we ain't cheated

492
00:35:46.039 --> 00:35:53.519
on and doing the cheating. I
think the difference is they weren't saying like

493
00:35:54.119 --> 00:35:59.440
it was about That's what I want
to say, like I still love my

494
00:35:59.480 --> 00:36:02.119
girl though fucked up, but I'm
going back to my girl like it wasn't

495
00:36:02.159 --> 00:36:05.119
like I fucked up and I'm gonna
keep sucking up. And just so you

496
00:36:05.159 --> 00:36:07.840
understand, I'm never gonna be monogamous. I'm never gonna be faithful to you.

497
00:36:07.840 --> 00:36:09.719
You can either be with me or
not knowing that's not the conditions you

498
00:36:09.760 --> 00:36:13.239
got her on, Like, that's
the fucked up part about it to me,

499
00:36:13.519 --> 00:36:15.480
Like you didn't meet this swim's like, yo, I'm never going to

500
00:36:15.519 --> 00:36:17.639
be faithful to you. You still
want to be in a relationship or no,

501
00:36:19.679 --> 00:36:22.599
y'all like fuck her over once she's
already in two kids deep. Another

502
00:36:22.639 --> 00:36:28.000
one on the way, like Dal, Yes, you are lying out there

503
00:36:28.039 --> 00:36:31.159
doing something and it's men and women
literally doing something that you know is gonna

504
00:36:31.239 --> 00:36:34.679
hurt them. Like it's not a
it's not like a question. I like,

505
00:36:34.760 --> 00:36:38.320
oh my god, I just like, you know, behaving that way,

506
00:36:38.360 --> 00:36:43.719
it's going to definitely m h m
hm. And then some of them

507
00:36:43.719 --> 00:36:45.880
have kids by you. Bruxas Sandpe
says, I grew up when niggas was

508
00:36:45.880 --> 00:36:51.559
grabbing air and dancing in the rain
exactly. Ty Grind says, they play

509
00:36:51.679 --> 00:36:59.039
that on the radio today. I'm
hollering, mister WHITEO two says JOHNY need

510
00:36:59.119 --> 00:37:01.079
to cut that shit off. Yeah, man, I do think that's where

511
00:37:01.159 --> 00:37:05.840
some of the disconnect is. Like
a lot of us still have these core

512
00:37:05.960 --> 00:37:09.159
values of nineties R and B love
that was instilled in us, and it's

513
00:37:09.280 --> 00:37:14.119
just now we're in like a city
Boy city Girl era and it's not connected.

514
00:37:15.000 --> 00:37:20.079
Yeah, yeah, I don't care
what the y'all say. Nineties R

515
00:37:20.119 --> 00:37:23.440
and B is the only kind of
love for me. That's it. Hell

516
00:37:23.559 --> 00:37:30.639
yeah, helly, that's a different
vibe altogether. Like yes, yes,

517
00:37:30.679 --> 00:37:35.920
we're talking about like what we're talking
about, Like I want that that that

518
00:37:36.039 --> 00:37:42.599
Casey and Jojo all my life type
ship? What production like that? What?

519
00:37:42.599 --> 00:37:52.079
What? Come on? Come on? What the he shot shots?

520
00:37:52.280 --> 00:37:57.880
I'm not play with you right now. Shot shot R and B wise you

521
00:37:58.039 --> 00:38:00.960
know, but you know what,
there are a lot of artists that are

522
00:38:00.039 --> 00:38:04.000
still making very good R and B
music. They're just not as popular,

523
00:38:04.360 --> 00:38:07.800
But there are a lot of good
R and B artists Xavier Omar, Oh

524
00:38:07.840 --> 00:38:15.519
my god, yes, because Top
ten it was mixed. It was like

525
00:38:15.840 --> 00:38:20.800
they had like this new joint.
Yeah, like every three songs it was

526
00:38:20.800 --> 00:38:22.440
an R and B joints you had
in your face all the time. It

527
00:38:22.559 --> 00:38:30.480
was like mm hmm, it's it's
some it's some dope like smaller artists.

528
00:38:31.280 --> 00:38:34.760
That's the thing. You're right,
if you know, you know for sure,

529
00:38:34.800 --> 00:38:39.480
for sure, Please I'm not giving
Brent no more play on this fucking

530
00:38:39.800 --> 00:38:49.559
today. Uh case it guess what
I did today. You have to make

531
00:38:49.639 --> 00:38:52.719
your own R and B scene today. I agree. Like, if you

532
00:38:52.800 --> 00:38:54.840
got a good R and B list, send it to me. If you

533
00:38:54.920 --> 00:38:58.360
got a bomb ass R and B
playlist, send it to me. That's

534
00:38:58.400 --> 00:39:00.920
sitting there all all right, So
now we're going to get into the edible

535
00:39:00.960 --> 00:39:05.559
portion of the show. So the
edible portion is when I read in questions

536
00:39:05.559 --> 00:39:07.519
that you guys, and and and
all the day that we record, I

537
00:39:07.599 --> 00:39:12.400
usually put a prompt up until you
guys send us some questions. If you

538
00:39:12.480 --> 00:39:15.519
have something to write in and it's
not on the day that we record,

539
00:39:15.119 --> 00:39:21.159
you can always email me at inquirease
at stormyp ea dot com. Or if

540
00:39:21.159 --> 00:39:22.320
it's too long to fit in the
box, you can always email me at

541
00:39:22.320 --> 00:39:30.599
increase at stormype a dot com.
And uh yeah, first question, Uh,

542
00:39:31.039 --> 00:39:37.400
how did you recover from a bad
breakup? Uh? And I'm gonna

543
00:39:37.400 --> 00:39:42.400
ask you guys on a live curious
to know what you think. How did

544
00:39:42.440 --> 00:39:46.320
you recover from a bad breakup?
Shot? Go, how did you recover

545
00:39:46.360 --> 00:39:54.400
from a bad breakup? Self accountability? And I gave myself grease. Okay,

546
00:39:54.800 --> 00:39:59.840
Okay, see I knew the burpose
coming now, No, it's not

547
00:40:00.960 --> 00:40:08.239
I lied. I like site guys
site I. Pearl Wood says, Jim,

548
00:40:08.599 --> 00:40:12.559
have you in the gym. Let
me tell you something. Don't nothing

549
00:40:12.639 --> 00:40:15.119
jump start a good weight loss,
kick like a good heartbreak. Okay,

550
00:40:15.199 --> 00:40:19.760
let me tell you all right,
thank you very much. Uh. Taurus

551
00:40:19.880 --> 00:40:24.119
Lifestyle said weed and self reflection.
I can't do too much self reflecting when

552
00:40:24.159 --> 00:40:30.559
I'm on weed, because you know, I get paranoid. I start thinking

553
00:40:30.559 --> 00:40:35.079
everybody's against me. All right,
Ty Grown says I worked on my craft

554
00:40:35.079 --> 00:40:39.840
through it. I love that your
boy. Tame McCoy says, define a

555
00:40:39.880 --> 00:40:45.079
bad breakup. Your chest was hurting. Okay, your chest was hurting.

556
00:40:45.800 --> 00:40:51.639
Somebody cried in the car. Niggas
wasn't eating like bad breakup? Bad breakup?

557
00:40:52.800 --> 00:40:59.000
Uh? One chance says Pray.
I like pray, praise good.

558
00:40:59.800 --> 00:41:06.599
So Jesus said, Nigga, I
sent you like five different signs. Don't

559
00:41:06.639 --> 00:41:13.000
be crying now. I don't want
to hear that shit like I. So,

560
00:41:13.320 --> 00:41:16.880
how did you recover from a bad
breakup? I ain't gonna hold you.

561
00:41:16.960 --> 00:41:22.039
I don't think I'm the best person
to answer this because I told myself

562
00:41:22.079 --> 00:41:30.440
my ex died in order to get
over him. I did. I did

563
00:41:30.519 --> 00:41:34.199
y'all, when I say bad breakup, your girl was going through it.

564
00:41:34.400 --> 00:41:38.639
Okay, I was going and I
just started a new job. Bro,

565
00:41:38.760 --> 00:41:43.800
I was in a stairwell crying.
I don't know how they didn't fire me.

566
00:41:43.960 --> 00:41:47.239
Honestly, I'm gonna be real with
you. I was down so bad.

567
00:41:47.400 --> 00:41:52.320
I wasn't eating, I wasn't sleeping, and I was so fucked up

568
00:41:52.360 --> 00:41:55.800
because I said I didn't want to
be with him, and I didn't understand

569
00:41:55.800 --> 00:41:59.880
why he didn't want to be with
me back that same shit we was so

570
00:42:00.679 --> 00:42:06.440
and then to get it out of
fucking fun, I said I didn't want

571
00:42:06.440 --> 00:42:08.360
to be with him, but I
didn't understand why he didn't want to be

572
00:42:08.400 --> 00:42:15.199
with me back, because it's like
you serious, hold on, hold on,

573
00:42:15.239 --> 00:42:16.960
hold on, wait when I said
it, like I was playing.

574
00:42:17.079 --> 00:42:20.719
I thought we was just gonna take
a break. Nigga, you you you

575
00:42:20.800 --> 00:42:30.199
really don't want to get back together? Insanity okay, absurdity okay, bruh,

576
00:42:30.360 --> 00:42:35.639
bruh. I literally she did that. Ship. I literally got my

577
00:42:35.639 --> 00:42:37.599
shot out the room because I knew
she was gonna come home from work and

578
00:42:37.639 --> 00:42:39.199
lock the door. So I got
my shot out the room, and then

579
00:42:39.280 --> 00:42:44.440
she came home I can't. I
came back. I left, I put

580
00:42:44.480 --> 00:42:47.239
the key on the dresser, kiss
from the forehead, dip no, no,

581
00:42:47.239 --> 00:42:50.280
no, no no. Let me
tell you what pissed me the fuck

582
00:42:50.360 --> 00:42:52.480
off? Right. I didn't hear
from him for like the rest of the

583
00:42:52.559 --> 00:42:55.679
day. The next day I had
like, left the crab. We're gonna

584
00:42:55.679 --> 00:42:59.440
stay my grandma house. The next
day I text him like, since you

585
00:42:59.440 --> 00:43:05.400
don't give up fuck, since you
don't give a fuck, have your ship

586
00:43:05.760 --> 00:43:08.800
out the house by the end of
the week. Rent money's doing the such

587
00:43:08.840 --> 00:43:14.760
and such. He said, Okay. I came home like three days later,

588
00:43:15.199 --> 00:43:17.440
all his ship was already out the
fucking crid. I said, Oh,

589
00:43:17.480 --> 00:43:22.000
this nigga, he want me to
stay him. He wanted me to

590
00:43:22.039 --> 00:43:30.639
put my fuckings on him. Let
me tell you, I told y'all this

591
00:43:30.039 --> 00:43:34.480
months ago. When I be telling
all these stories and I'll be giving y'all

592
00:43:34.480 --> 00:43:37.440
advice, I went to therapy.
Okay, I learned this ship is not

593
00:43:37.559 --> 00:43:42.840
Okay, ladies, Okay, listen, hope went through that, so hopefully

594
00:43:42.880 --> 00:43:45.000
you wouldn't have to go through that. All right, I'm telling y'all what

595
00:43:45.119 --> 00:43:49.280
y'all can't do no fucking more because
it doesn't make sense. You should put

596
00:43:49.280 --> 00:43:53.559
speaker from experience on a shirt.
Bruh, bruh, bruh. Let me

597
00:43:53.599 --> 00:44:01.960
tell y'all, ladies, bride that
Nigga had me with the own over verse

598
00:44:02.039 --> 00:44:09.639
so fast, not for me,
not for mean. So so yeah,

599
00:44:09.719 --> 00:44:15.639
how did I handle a bad breakup? I was in a space where the

600
00:44:15.679 --> 00:44:19.519
only way I could get over him
was to pretend he passed away, and

601
00:44:19.559 --> 00:44:22.039
it helped, right, Because what
a lot of people don't talk about is

602
00:44:22.599 --> 00:44:25.760
when you break up with somebody,
you really have to grieve them, like

603
00:44:25.800 --> 00:44:30.320
you have to go through a season
of grieving because you are losing something.

604
00:44:30.360 --> 00:44:34.519
You are losing someone, not just
someone, but you're losing a specific part

605
00:44:34.519 --> 00:44:37.039
of your life that you're not gonna
fucking get back. So you really do

606
00:44:37.119 --> 00:44:40.840
have to grieve and mourn and move
past that shit. If you don't get

607
00:44:40.880 --> 00:44:44.840
past that, it's not gonna work. And grieving looks different for everybody,

608
00:44:44.960 --> 00:44:47.119
right, So for me, literally, I had to grieve and more than

609
00:44:47.199 --> 00:44:52.320
this nigga and afterwards and with therapy
like it helped, but I also had

610
00:44:52.360 --> 00:44:54.880
to take accountability and be like,
bitch, boll, why did you say

611
00:44:54.920 --> 00:45:00.559
you wanted to break up that was
dumb. That was dumb. Accountability is

612
00:45:00.599 --> 00:45:06.719
so important. Accountability is so important. It's hard, but you have to

613
00:45:06.840 --> 00:45:08.880
have it. You have to get
through it, and you have to make

614
00:45:09.039 --> 00:45:13.440
those important points in your life known, like, yo, what did I

615
00:45:13.519 --> 00:45:15.719
do to get here? Because if
you don't, you gonna keep saying,

616
00:45:15.719 --> 00:45:19.840
oh, niggas is waste them my
time. Women is wasting my time,

617
00:45:20.039 --> 00:45:22.639
but they're not. Life keeps giving
you the same lesson and you're not learning

618
00:45:22.639 --> 00:45:25.480
from it. So you're saying people
are wasting your time. But baby,

619
00:45:25.519 --> 00:45:30.039
really you're wasting your own time.
That's it. That's really what it is.

620
00:45:30.519 --> 00:45:36.559
So yeah, yes, how to
get through a bad breakup accountability,

621
00:45:37.000 --> 00:45:42.119
grace, grieving therapy, and you
also have to be kind to yourself,

622
00:45:42.519 --> 00:45:45.920
like do something that feels good to
you, read a book, take a

623
00:45:45.960 --> 00:45:49.360
bath, get a massage if you
got the funds, go on a trip,

624
00:45:49.440 --> 00:45:52.000
do something that feels good to you
so you can get back into the

625
00:45:52.039 --> 00:45:54.239
spirit of being good to yourself.
So yeah, those are my tips.

626
00:45:57.119 --> 00:46:00.000
Wise woman trying to tell you the
stove is hot, baby, that's so

627
00:46:00.239 --> 00:46:05.119
but hot and shit, Okay,
I'm trying to tell you, man,

628
00:46:05.559 --> 00:46:08.519
Ladies don't do that no more.
Don't do that. It's dumb. Don't

629
00:46:08.559 --> 00:46:12.280
do it. Don't fucking do it. Don't do it, don't do it,

630
00:46:12.320 --> 00:46:19.400
don't do it. Next question,
what is considered too much slash too

631
00:46:19.400 --> 00:46:25.800
little to spend on a date?
Does she like you? Do you like

632
00:46:25.880 --> 00:46:29.760
her? Okay? I feel like
these are two important questions. A lot

633
00:46:29.760 --> 00:46:32.639
of people leave out when they had
these conversations of too lunch, just been

634
00:46:32.719 --> 00:46:37.559
on a date, blah baby,
nothing is too much or too little if

635
00:46:37.599 --> 00:46:42.119
you like each other. Okay,
Cause if she likes you and you like

636
00:46:42.199 --> 00:46:45.079
her and you want to build her
a little picnic in the park on a

637
00:46:45.119 --> 00:46:47.920
nice sunny day, nigga, you're
going right in the group chat. Hell,

638
00:46:49.000 --> 00:46:51.679
yeah, I think I found on
my husband. He's here, he's

639
00:46:51.719 --> 00:46:53.360
here, I found my man.
Okay. Now, if she ain't really

640
00:46:53.360 --> 00:46:58.320
feeling you like that, that shit
was corny. Okay, you're probably not

641
00:46:58.320 --> 00:47:00.559
gonna see her anymore. But the
niggas she like and do it, and

642
00:47:00.679 --> 00:47:05.360
she gonna think it's popping, right, So we gotta pay attention. Right,

643
00:47:05.679 --> 00:47:07.960
Ladies, don't want you to stop
going on dates when niggas you don't

644
00:47:07.000 --> 00:47:10.199
really like cause you're bored, cause
you're lonely, cause you're hungry. We're

645
00:47:10.199 --> 00:47:13.840
gonna stop that. We're gonna stop
that. That's not gonna help you find

646
00:47:13.840 --> 00:47:15.400
your person. Okay. And I
want you to stop going on dates with

647
00:47:15.480 --> 00:47:19.119
men who don't want the same things
as you. Okay, fellas, I

648
00:47:19.199 --> 00:47:21.840
want you to stop back and like
you don't know that girl don't like you.

649
00:47:21.119 --> 00:47:23.360
You know, you know she text
you back when you want to.

650
00:47:23.880 --> 00:47:27.760
Okay, she don't really be giving
a fuck when y'all together. All she

651
00:47:27.840 --> 00:47:30.639
doing is getting her pictures and videos
for the gram. You know, she

652
00:47:30.679 --> 00:47:34.760
don't like you, you know,
you know. And now you outside telling

653
00:47:34.760 --> 00:47:37.320
people that she used you when really
you spent more than what you should have

654
00:47:37.400 --> 00:47:40.920
cause you know she didn't like you. You know, you were over extending

655
00:47:40.960 --> 00:47:45.480
yourself because you felt like you had
to go to extra mile because you already

656
00:47:45.480 --> 00:47:49.440
felt like you were inadequate because she
didn't like you. And that's fine.

657
00:47:49.519 --> 00:47:52.159
I just want us, both men
and women, to stop doing all that

658
00:47:52.199 --> 00:47:54.119
shit. Stop it, okay,
number one, I'm sit hearing about it

659
00:47:54.159 --> 00:47:59.440
on outgors Internet. Okay, painting
one another to be out the bad person

660
00:48:00.000 --> 00:48:05.360
when you're both playing yourselves. Okay, thank you. My next standpoint is

661
00:48:05.440 --> 00:48:07.280
a fellas. If you are going
to go above and beyond for the first

662
00:48:07.440 --> 00:48:12.159
few dates, understand that you have
now set the tone and she's gonna expect

663
00:48:13.079 --> 00:48:17.039
this level of behavior for the all
of eternity. Your whole dating experience ain't

664
00:48:17.039 --> 00:48:21.199
gonna be No. Oh, you
take me to stake forty eight and some

665
00:48:21.239 --> 00:48:23.400
five star restaurants for the first few
dates, and then now all of a

666
00:48:23.440 --> 00:48:25.960
sudden, you want to pull out
a walk in the park, nigga,

667
00:48:27.079 --> 00:48:30.480
No, I want somewhere I go. I don't understand, Like, where

668
00:48:30.480 --> 00:48:32.639
did y'all niggas like learn how to? Like? Where do we not go

669
00:48:32.760 --> 00:48:37.840
to court school? I don't know, because how we're having a conversation.

670
00:48:37.679 --> 00:48:42.559
I don't know, because in the
nineties, that's not what they're doing.

671
00:48:42.840 --> 00:48:46.880
Yeah, we all grew up on
this type time, So why are I

672
00:48:46.880 --> 00:48:51.920
don't know? I don't I don't
know. I don't know. Yeah,

673
00:48:52.840 --> 00:48:57.639
uh hmm. To answer your question, what's too much or too little uh

674
00:48:57.960 --> 00:49:00.159
to spend on a date? I
think that if the two of you are

675
00:49:00.239 --> 00:49:05.119
vibing, there's no such thing as
too much or too little for sure.

676
00:49:05.159 --> 00:49:10.280
For sure. Styles by G says
toxic level is over nine thousand vegeta voice.

677
00:49:12.199 --> 00:49:15.480
Shut up. Last question, Oh, my live is about the time

678
00:49:15.519 --> 00:49:17.440
out. This is the last question, So I'm not gonna start a new

679
00:49:17.440 --> 00:49:23.039
live. I'll just see you guys
next week. Last question. Do you

680
00:49:23.119 --> 00:49:28.880
think people get in relationships to fill
a specific void in their life? Is

681
00:49:28.920 --> 00:49:32.320
it elephant heavy? Okay? When
we talked about dating people that you actually

682
00:49:32.440 --> 00:49:37.360
like, Sometimes we be dating because
we be bored. Sometimes we be dating

683
00:49:37.400 --> 00:49:42.199
because it provides an escape for whatever
it might be going on in our home

684
00:49:42.239 --> 00:49:45.400
lives. And I'm guilty of at
too. Like sometimes I at some points,

685
00:49:45.440 --> 00:49:47.840
especially when I was struggling with taking
care of my grandma rot bad,

686
00:49:49.199 --> 00:49:51.599
I know I was entertaining me in
that I didn't really like. I just

687
00:49:52.000 --> 00:49:54.920
didn't want to be like wrapped up
in my grandma. So yes, they

688
00:49:54.960 --> 00:50:00.000
do. To answer your question,
and this school's back to paying at time

689
00:50:00.360 --> 00:50:04.199
to what people are doing or not
doing. Right now, I do want

690
00:50:04.199 --> 00:50:10.400
to add a little a little caveat
here. There are some women who are

691
00:50:10.920 --> 00:50:16.920
master level manipulators, right, So
some women are going to be so thick

692
00:50:17.039 --> 00:50:22.000
and deep into the game that they're
gonna have you all wrapped up in thinking

693
00:50:22.079 --> 00:50:27.480
you are their person. When you
run into one of these women. You

694
00:50:27.519 --> 00:50:30.519
can't look at surface level behaviors.
You gotta pay attention to the small,

695
00:50:30.679 --> 00:50:37.760
little underlying things that she does or
does not do. Okay, does she

696
00:50:37.800 --> 00:50:42.079
ever talk about a future with you? Does she ever have future plans like

697
00:50:42.159 --> 00:50:44.880
oh, you know, if this
summer you're free blah blah blah blah blah

698
00:50:44.920 --> 00:50:46.480
blah. And now before you say, oh, maybe she's just not one

699
00:50:46.559 --> 00:50:50.760
to live in a moment, this
is the same one who has planned two

700
00:50:50.840 --> 00:50:53.519
trips with her girlfriends this summer.
To pay attention, my brother, you

701
00:50:53.639 --> 00:51:00.079
gotta pay attention. Okay. There's
always signs, always tunds for sure.

702
00:51:00.719 --> 00:51:05.519
And to answer your question, do
I think people get in relationships to feel

703
00:51:05.519 --> 00:51:07.679
a specific weight in your life.
People fuck to fill a specific void in

704
00:51:07.719 --> 00:51:12.719
their life. People eat to fill
a specific void in their life. So

705
00:51:12.960 --> 00:51:16.119
like, yeah, I think they're
getting relationships for sure, for sure,

706
00:51:16.159 --> 00:51:24.519
for sure. So what did we
learn today? Probably nothing, So listen,

707
00:51:24.559 --> 00:51:27.840
My message is always going to be
the same. Follow me on the

708
00:51:27.880 --> 00:51:30.800
gramd ask storm, repeat pea,
ad, chocolate, ship, and sip.

709
00:51:30.079 --> 00:51:35.000
And if you don't remember anything else, please remember Hope went through that,

710
00:51:35.079 --> 00:51:37.920
so hopefully you wouldn't have to go
through that. I love you guys,

711
00:51:37.920 --> 00:51:38.079
that I see next week. Peace,