Hey, hey, I'm back with something for you to think about. I
want you to really think about this. A troubled mind always intensifies, magnifies
suicidal thoughts. When individuals are suffering mentally, they have overloads of mental stress
in their minds, they feel that the only way out is suicide. They
think about it, they ponder over it. See, this is what I
talk about, or what I mean when I talk about the power you give
to your thoughts. Knowing that you are constantly thinking about suicide is enough for
you to seek help. To know that you have those thoughts. It's enough
to seek help, go and talk to someone, say you need help,
Say you're suffering, Say you're going through But don't think you have to go
through alone, because you do not have to go through it alone. But
the devil wants you in that mindset. He wants you to think you're so
broken. He wants you to feel like you're at the end of the road
and there's nowhere else to go but to take your own life. That's what
the devil wants you to do, because you know if you take your life,
there's no chance for heaven. When you get that thought in your head,
you cannot give life to it. What I mean by that is you
cannot give power to it to continue to let that thought to constantly come to
you. We all have thoughts. We can't control the fact that thoughts are
gonna come. But you don't have to hold on to any negative thought.
You do not You do not have to give power to negative thoughts. When
you give power to negative thoughts, it leads you to doing negative things.
People who commit mass murder, people who commit murder, suicide, people who
commit murder period, you have that negative thought in your head. I know
some people are automatically thinking, well, everybody who commits murder, don't,
you know, constantly think about it, which is true. Some people commit
murder boom on the spot, whatever situation they're going through, because of their
mindset. That's the type of person you are, because that's what you've gravitated
to in your life. So you're just on the edge for anything to happen,
and boom in a moment, you've taken someone's life. I'm not necessarily
talking about those people, but it still relates because that comes from the mindset.
It comes from the mindset. I'm talking about individuals who ponder over these
negative thoughts, especially suicide, if you know you are experiencing this, if
you're having fleeting thoughts, those thoughts that's coming and going. The more you
entertain those thoughts, the more power you give to them. People who are
going through and have not dealt with what ails them so they can heal from
whatever it is, they are more than likely the ones who would end up
giving power to suicidal thoughts because of the mindset where you are mentally. That's
why I've told you before, it's not the situation. It's your mindset going
into the situation that makes the situation so hard. It's not the situation itself,
it is your mindset going into the situation. Because you can make it
through anything if you have the mindset to do so. The problem with many
people is they have that negative mindset going into situations and they struggle in the
midst of them. They struggled so hard because the mindset was not healthy going
into the situation. Anyone who's contemplating taken their own life needs to seek help.
There's no shame in seeking help, none whatsoever, no shame at all
in seeking help. It is not a weakness, it's a strength. If
you are going through and you're at that point where you've thought about suicide,
you need to seek help, talk to someone. Let that low go.
So many of you have given power to powerless people. Powerless people are those
people who caused you pain or hurt in any kind of way. They did
it to you because of what someone done to them. You should not give
anyone control and power over your life to have you in that negative mindset.
You are not your situation. You are not what you went through. What
you went through does not dictate the rest of your life unless you continue to
be a victim. Some people choose to be a victim for a lifetime,
and not only that, they go forth and victimize. Instead of dealing with
what has caused them to have the mindset they have in order to heal from
it, they hold on to the negativity and they choose to victimize Others.
People choose suicide as a permanent solution, a permanent fix to problems that are
only temporary. Listen, they are temporary. Troubles come and troubles go.
They don't last always. The reason it seems that they last always is the
power that you give to your issues when you're going through it's the power you're
given to your situation. Because of the mindset that you have, people feel
that they're at the end of their ropes. They feel that they can't go
any further. They feel that the weight of the world is on their shoulders.
They feel that everything, everything, and everyone has turned their back.
They feel that they're in a point of no return. You feel like that
because that's the mindset that you have adopted. You feel like it's the end
of the world. Because you have not dealt with your issues and let them
go. You're still holding on to them, and you go through life compiling
all of these things, these other things. That's causing you more and more
and more and more and more stress. You have stress, you have anxiety,
you have depression because you have not let go. I've told you all
so many times, it does not matter what your mom or your dad did
or didn't do, or whoever did it. It does not matter what they
did or didn't do. What matters is you accepting you went through what you
went through and not allowing it to affect the rest of your life. No
one has to live that way, not one single person, not one person.
But when you hate and you're better, and you're angry for all of
your life. It's just like a boulder sitting on you. You're so bobbed
down, will hurt and hate because you won't deal with it and let it
go. You're giving power to those powerless people. And like I've said many
times, sometimes those people are dead and gone and you're still angry about it
because you've gotten comfortable with the discomfort. You've gotten comfortable with it. Your
abnormal is normal to you because you've gotten comfortable with it. You go through
life, you have chosen a free will, a life sentence of suffering mental
suffering because when you suffer mentally, it ultimately affects your body physically. Mental
stress forms or can form mental illnesses. This is why so many people in
the world world around the world says, oh, I have this mental illness.
I have that mental illness because of the stressors, because of the things
they're holding on to inside. They formed that anxiety, that depression, and
many other illnesses. People can go through so much traumatic things in life and
don't know how to cope with them that they have. They turn schizophrenic,
They develop all types of issues mentally because you're holding on to that stuff so
tightly. Now it has really changed you. It has changed you mentally.
A person can only take so much before it breaks them down. As long
as you're given to things, you give power to it. The more power
you give to something, the more it has the likelihood of controlling you.
There is nothing, and I mean nothing a person can go through that should
cause them to want to commit suicide. Nothing. Nothing is that bad.
It's only that bad because you think it's that bad. It's only that bad
because of the power you've given to that pain. And most times you're not
even going through it. It's the memories of it that you will not let
go because you so comfortable in that pain. You go through life you're trying
to love people who are not loving you back. That causes problems for you.
You go through life full of insecurities, but you're trying to love someone
and you're being mistreated. You're being mistreated because you don't love yourself. You
don't love yourself because you won't let go of all of the stuff that you're
holding inside. And these things, all of the trauma, all of the
negativity, all of the bad experiences forms are mindsets. If you think you're
worthless. You're never gonna mount up to anything. You're no good, nobody
will ever love you, and all these negative things. That's what you're gonna
start believing about yourself because you're giving power to that. Now you're feeling alone,
you're feeling confused, you're hurt. You just got so much going through
your mind because you keep feeding it. It's like a fire. You keep
putting kennel on the fire, and it grows and grows and grows. Those
thoughts come more frequently and more powerful. But it's nothing but the devil,
and it's what you have given power to of your own tree will. This
is why so many people around the world, millions upon millions, are so
broken because they refuse to deal with self. They want to deal with everyone
else. They want to have relationships with all types of people, but they
fail to deal with self. They fail to let go of all of that
pain. How do you let go by facing it? It's over. You're
holding on to the memories, and you constantly give power to those memories.
The more you think about it, you get angry over something that happened to
you when you were little lefto. You have to learn how to love yourself.
You must remember, or you must understand, because some people never understood.
But you must understand that this life is yours, yours, regardless if
someone contributed to your pain and suffering, regardless if someone hurt you to the
core. This life belongs to you, and no one else can live your
life. If you choose to allow your past to just cause you so much
drama in your present moment, that's all on you, because you don't have
to live like that. What you went through don't dictate the rest of your
life. What you went through has no effect on you unless you allow it
to. Please, don't misunderstand. I know things could hurt, I know
things could cut like deep, like a knife, But when you're not going
through those things, it's the memories that forms the thoughts that you're having.
See people go through life where all of the unresolved drama inside. Then they
go through life and they try to find love and it's just a battlefield.
They try to have relationships with people, friendships. They can't, so they
keep picking up all of this hurt from situations from other people, and they
just power it upon themselves, powered upon themselves, power it upon themselves,
and they can't take it anymore, and they want out. They want out,
they don't want to face anything anymore. They're at their last witth end.
They feel that they're at the end of the road. But that's all
because you have not dealt with whatever that pain is. You have to let
it go. It happened, they did it, but you have to let
it go. Forgive yourself most of all, for falling prey to your situation
mentally. Forgive yourself for all of the years that you beat yourself up over
something somebody else did to you. Forgive yourself for not loving yourself because someone
else made you feel you were not good enough to be loved. You allow
a broken person or broken people. They have to be broken to do what
they did. You have allowed these broken people or this broken individual to keep
you in a state of brokenness. It makes no sense to give power to
powerless people. They may have seen at the time that they have power over
you, but they were really powerless. Any adult or any person that is
causing you hurt, harm or danger, they're weak, they're broken. What
So many people in the world have given power to these people. You don't
have to. This is your life. You make it the best that you
can. Mean, you have to let people go. You love them,
but you have to let them go for your own peace. You have to
love yourself. When you love yourself, oh my goodness, everything changes.
You wouldn't dare give your power to anyone. You would not give your power
to anyone. When you love yourself, you can love the people that hurt
you. That don't mean you have to deal with them. You do not
have to deal with them. There are many people in my life that I
absolutely love, but I don't deal with them because they are too full of
drama, or they're faker than a three dollar bill, So I don't have
that. I love them, I pray for them, and I keep it
moving. You have to get to that place of peace, complete peace.
You have to have peace within yourself. So many people don't have peace.
They have all of the things that they need and many of the things they
want, of the things they want, and many people have everything they want,
but they have no peace. When you have no peace, you can't
enjoy anything. You can't even enjoy no one. Some of you have pushed
away the best thing that you will ever have in your life. You have
pushed that person away. Because of your unwillingness to deal with yourself, to
deal with your inner peace. You're still giving power to the past when it's
none existent. You have to be willing to let go if people don't want
to be in your life, so what, it's not the end of the
world. You have to live this life for you, no one else but
you. I don't care if you have children, your parents, your siblings,
I don't care who who. You have to live this life in a
peaceful state for yourself first, for yourself. But most people are not.
That's why many are in relationships with people that they don't want, don't love,
and most times that person don't love them. Constant turmoil, constant,
constant, constant, but they won't go anywhere because they don't love self.
They have no inner peace, full of insecurities and all kinds of things,
so they remain in that unhealthy state with that unhealthy person because they feel that's
the best that they can do. That's because of your mindset. Then when
things get harder and harder because of all of the stuff you're piling up on
yourself, you feel like you can't take it anymore and you just want out.
You want to exit this world. That's horrible, that's a horrible state
of mind and unnecessary because this life is yours, it belonged to you,
no one else. You shouldn't give anyone or anything power over you or your
life. No one. They're not worth it. It's not worth it.
And I pray, I pray, Lord Jesus, that people open their eyes,
that they open their eyes and they see the truth. I pray that
people accept you as their Lord and Savior. And even if they don't,
Lord, I pray that they let go of the hurt and stop giving power
to people in things to keep them imprisoned in their minds, being their worst
enemies in their own way for a lifetime. Lord, I pray that they
let loose the shackles that's on them, that they let the scales fall off
of their eyes. Lord, let them understand that they're no longer living in
the past. It's gone forever. But they are giving power to the memories.
They're given power to people, they're given power to things. They're always
looking outward, and the person that they let the most is self. God.
Let them see the light. Father, let them understand that no one
can do it for them but them. That no one can make change in
their life but them, That no one can give them a new way of
thinking, but them, that they are the only ones who can change their
mindset. No one else can do it other than self, No one else
can do it other than you. And Lord, you know, I know
that everyone don't believe, But God, when they've tried everything, and everyone,
Lord, I just wish they would try. You. Just give them
strength, Lord, to know that suicide is not the way. Is wrong,
It is not the way. It is not the right choice. And
it's only as bad as you think it is. It's never as bad as
you think it is. But it's only as bad as you think it is.
And you think it's so, so, so bad because of that mindset
you have adopted. Touch the Lord. Give them peace, Lord, give
them relief. Lord, shower them with love. Lord, Jesus, Father
God, we need you, Oh, we need you. This world needs
you. Lord, Show up and show out. Lord. We need you,
like right now, so many broken people in the world Lord that is
looking for the quickest way out as a form of relief. Father God,
but they don't realize once you exit this natural body, you're gonna step out
into immortality, and what you've done on this earth and this natural body determines
what you step out into as an immortal being. Lord, touch them,
Please pick them up where they're torn down, and strengthen them where they're weak.
Lord. We need you, Lord, every second, every minute,
every hour. Lord, we need you. Soothe them. God give them
peace. These words I pray God in your son Jesus' name. Amen.
You have to want change for yourself. You have to want change for yourself.
Anyone who's thinking of harming his or herself. You've given way too much
of your power, and it's never too late to gain it back. It's
never too late to love yourself. Those people that did you wrong, that
hurt you, they're not worth the mental anguish you're going through. You have
to learn to let it go and learn to love yourself and let things go
and move on in life. Start afresh, become the best you that you
can be. Don't look for anyone else to make you happy. You have
to make yourself happy. Don't look for anyone else to love you. You
have to love yourself first. So I pray. If you are feeling at
the end of your rope, please seek help. Please please, Please seek
help. It does not matter who you are, Please seek help. You
have everything you need to become better. All you have to do is grab
hold. You can never change your mindset by remaining the same. You can
never become the best you can be by giving power to powerless people. So
that's all I'm gonna say. I pray your strength. I love you.
God loves you. We don't want anyone to hurt his or herself, not
one single person, because you deserve better. You are worthy of better.
But you have to want it. You have to want it. Stay strong,
stay strong, and if you feel that you can't, talk to someone,
but stop giving power to people that's just as broken as you are.
Those that hurt you were just as broken as you are right now. If
they were not, they would have never did whatever they did. Stop giving
power to it. Stop giving power to them. This is your life.
You deserve to be the best you can be, mind, body, and
soul. Much much, much, much much love to each and every one
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