Hey, hey, I'm back. Oh, yes, with something for you
to think about. Listen, real talk for you. If you don't get
to know and love yourself, you will always have that void inside of you
always. Many of you have listened to me, and you know that I
believe in Jesus. I believe in God, so that is the ultimate.
But I know a lot of people don't, and I'm not sitting here trying
to push it on anyone. Outside of that, I don't think anyone's life
will ever be exactly what it could be without Jesus in it period. However,
I do understand that many people don't believe. For those who don't and
those who say they do, but they're ways of living shown something else.
If you do not get to a point of loving yourself and knowing yourself,
you will always have that boy, You will always feel that place that is
unfulfilled. You will never have a peace of mind because people are constantly,
constantly, constantly on the chase. They're constantly looking for things and other individuals,
thinking that other individuals will fulfill them, only to find out it's not
the truth. If people would only exert the time and energy investing in self,
getting to know and love self. Oh my goodness, their lives would
be so much better, so much better. Not the best that it could
be, because I don't believe you could get to that point without Jesus,
without God, but it would be better. The problem is, I've said
it many times. People look outwork to those people who they feel can fulfill
them, those people who they believe can feel the void inside them, only
to find out it is not the truth. I guarantee you I could talk
to a million of people today and every last one, if they are honest,
will tell you that they have not been fulfilled, that void has not
been filled. That's why so many people, more than you could ever imagine,
are walking amongst you who are miserably unhappy. They so they are so
unhappy and sad inside. Many are in relationships mirrorsable because they're desperately wanting their
significant other to love them, to support them, to be there, for
them, to feel about them the way they feel about their significant others.
But it just don't work that way. You cannot get in a relationship with
someone who have their own issues and expect for them to love you like you
want to be loved, like you deserve to be loved. You will never
be loved the way you deserve it until you love yourself, and you will
never figure that out. If you don't try, you will never figure it
out. If you keep going through life the same exact way, you'll never
figure it out. You will never receive the love that you deserve, that
you want, that you crave for it, you will never receive even it's
all imitation, all of it. It's all imitation because you have to love
yourself first. You must. When you love yourself, you see the signs
and the red flags that you need to see. When you love yourself,
you're not quick to be bamboozled and fooled and deceived. He's just not.
But until people understand that knowing and loving self is very important, many would
go through life still chasing after love, after material things, possessions, money,
all types of things that they think will bring them happy, only to
receive it and realize they're still miserable. They're still hurting you. It's because
you have not dealt with what ails you. You have not dealt with the
pain inside. You have not let go of those horrible traumatic memories that you
keep giving power to. You think it's more important to try to figure out
someone else, get to know someone else, than to figure figure out yourself
and get to know yourself. With that type of mindset, you will never
have peace within With that type of mindset, you will never ever feel as
if you're fulfilled, you're satisfied within your soul. If you will never get
to that point ever feeling good about yourself, truly feeling good about yourself,
loving yourself, you will never get to that point until you stop looking for
things and other people that you should possess within yourself first and without a doubt.
This is why we see what we're seeing in the world today. We're
seeing all of these behaviors and actions from individuals all over the world because they
have not dealt with that unresolved inside of them. People are doing all types
of things, murder, suicide. Nothing is worth that, No one is
worth it. If you're that angry, If you're that angry, go off
by yourself, go off by yourself somewhere. You should not get so into
your own head, being a prisoner of your own mindset, letting demons take
over your mind because you have given them interests, you have allowed them to
enter. When you do that you lose all control. Then you start just
meditating on those bad, negative thoughts. I'll take them out if I can't
have her or him, I'm taking us all out. Or this world is
so horrible, I don't want us to live in this world. You make
the decision to take out everybody. Those are demons speaking to you because that
is what you've given power to. You have not chosen to become better.
So what you do is you give in to the negativity. You give in
to the demonic forces. You give in to all of that chatter because of
that mental warfare that's going on inside of you. You give into it.
You succumb, it overtakes you because you allow because instead of choosing to become
better, you you dove deeper into the darkness. And that is what's wrong
with most people of today. Love is at the window. Hearts have waxed
cold. The Bible tells us is gonna happen. Hearts have waxed cold within
relationship ships, love relationships, within friendships, within family ships, workmanships.
There's no passion. Come passion. I mean, hearts have wax cold,
cold, up, really really really cold. It's all about self. Although
self is messed up people still seeking gratification in all types of ways that flesh,
and because of it, they are not fulfilled. They are not at
peace. That's why you see some people. They cannot sit down for nothing.
They are doing everything for everyone all of the time. They have no
peace, no peace, just cannot sit down and enjoy self, cannot sit
down and enjoy life because they're living through others. They're codependent through the life
of others because they are really dissatisfied with self. They have no peace with
them self, so they live vicariously through others, or they're so co dependent
on others to feel good about self. They want people to pump them up,
to give them accolades for all the things that they do that makes them
feel good. But they cannot spend time by themselves every day just ripping and
running, ripping and running, ripping and running every day, no peace.
You have individuals who will go along with anything. They will follow people who
they know are doing wrong just because they want to belong. People who try
to course you into rome. They ain't mean you no good. I don't
care if it's your husband, your wife, your boyfriend and your girlfriend,
your family member or someone else. They mean you no good. Anyone who
tried to invite you into doing wrong. They are not right for you.
I don't care what you feel about it. They're not right for you.
People going and join some of the most terrible groups because they think, oh,
these people showing me love. We have a brotherhood or we have a
sisterhood, or we're family. No, that makes no sense logically. When
someone is is making you do the wrong things, breaking the law, committing
all types of crimes, they don't love you. They're using you. They're
taking advantage of your vulnerability you have. Some people do all types of things
to gain notoriety, when all you really should care about is loving yourself,
not what other people think about you, but what you think about yourself,
what you feel about you. But people got it all backwards. They're just
searching, searching, searching, search been searching for years and years and years,
but never looking that self, never dealing with why they have the mindset
that they have. Until you know yourself and love yourself, you will never
be fulfilled. You will always, always, always stay on the wheel,
living that cycle. This is what people do, This is what families do.
Then they say, oh, it's a generational curse. It was in
the bloodline. Get out of here with that. It's habitual lifestyles that people
pass down from generation to generation. It's not a generational curse. It's habitual
lifestyles that people pass along and instead of breaking chains, people just continue doing
the same things. You go through life the same way, carrying all of
the bitterness to anger, being mad, sad, depressed, suicideal, homicidal.
I've said it a billion times. You go through life day after day,
week after week, month after month, year after year. I mean,
the same way, still angry at yourself, still manage yourself, Still
cannot love yourself because you're not giving yourself the opportunity to become better. No
one and I mean no one that includes me and you, everyone. No
one can become better by remaining the same. You must do something about it.
You must be willing to work on you. I can't work on you.
You have to work on you. Your significant other can't work on you.
You have to work on you. Your therapists can't work on you.
You have to work on you. Your pastor can't work on you. You
have to work on you. I mean it takes you to do the inside
work. I've told you many times. People can influence you, motivate you,
encourage you, and all of that inspire you positively, but you still
have to do the work. And what I found is many people don't.
They don't choose to do the work, and therefore they remain the same,
taking all of that negativity everywhere they go. I mean, some people are
just flat out angry. It is so very, very sad to see how
some people just I mean, you see them and they just talking noise,
just mad, just have attitude, thinking they're bad and all kind of foolishness
and getting knocked out at the very first chance because they think people are gonna
take it, but instead people knocking them out left and right. Just crazy
because you're messing with the wrong people because you think you can carry your attitude
to everyone, and some people are just not having it. Some of you.
As soon as you lay eyes on someone, you're falling in love.
Don't know the person from anything, but you're falling in love. Oh you
want him, you want her. You don't know them, you don't know
yourself, and you don't know what love is. If that's all it takes
for you to see someone Because ninety nine percent of what you see is not
what it is. Until people deal with self become better, I'm telling you
for a fact, they will forever have that void. They would never have
peace, and they will always feel that they need more. I've told you
on several episodes, how you see rich people filthy rich, but they can't
sit down. They still want more and more and more and more. That
is a problem. Something is wrong, something is terribly wrong inside of them.
When you have all of the money that you could ever spend, but
you want more, it's not enough. You should be giving away money to
help people. I mean, with no problem, I just say give it
all. But you definitely should be helping people because you won't spend all of
that money in a lifetime. But yet you have no peace within that you
feel that you have to keep grinding, grinding, grinding, RND. No,
it's not that, oh, you such a lucrative businessman or businesswoman,
entrepreneur or whatever. It's not all about that you have no peace within.
You can't sit down and enjoy your life because you have no peace within,
just doing everything, don't care who you step on at oh, because you're
still trying to make money. And not only rich people. Some people would
do it to get money, and I mean anything. If you're willing to
do anything, you have no peace within you none, And unfortunately this is
the truth about most people. When you know yourself and love yourself, it
changes you. It changes how you see people in the world and yourself.
You realize that the things you thought were so important they're not as important as
you you actually think they are. You won't worship people and things, you
won't chase after the flesh, because you know most people are not who they
pretend to be any ways. You know that people have their own issues.
Therefore, they love for you to worship and praise them because they're getting something
out of it. They're getting monetary benefit, or they're getting their egos stroked.
They're getting something from you worship and praising them. But if you feel
that you need to worship and praise any man or woman, you got an
issue about yourself. That's the problem with a lot of people in the world.
They're chasing after the Beyonces and the Rihannas and the Drakes and all of
these people who have clearly their own issues. Those people shouldn't be more important
to you. Than yourself. You should love and care about yourself far greater,
But unfortunately some people don't. They live and breathe other people who know
nothing about them, care nothing about them. They just tell you they do
because they're getting something from it. When you're willing to get on a social
media platform, life deceive, fake, pretend for subscribers, views, money.
You have an issue inside. If you're a person that all day long
all you doing is scrolling, scrolling, scrolling, you have an issue with
yourself. I see it every day, you see it every day. I've
told you many times. The person that's that is neglect them the most itself
because people make other individuals way more important. But I'm here to tell you
will no doubt. Until you know yourself and love yourself, you will always
have that void. You will always be seeking more and more and more.
You will never be satisfied. You will never be happy. All of your
happiness will always be short lived because you're not truly happy inside. Yes,
people can make you smile, laugh and feel good and happy for a moment,
but it will not last because you're not happy inside. It starts on
the inside of you. You have to change your mindset to change your life.
Some people just don't want to do the work, and without doing the
work, change will not occur. Period. I don't care who you are,
I don't care how powerful you think you are or what you have.
You will remain the same inside. And let me tell you what's inside of
you has formed that mindset. They go hand in hand. Your mindset and
what's inside of you, they go hand in hand. How you think determines
your thoughts, your feelings, your actions. How you think came from all
of your experiences. And most times it's those bad ones or those traumatic ones
that people hold on to. People don't hold on to and gravitate towards the
good ones, because if people did, lives would be so much better.
People wouldn't think if someone left them or wanted out of the relationship it would
be the end of the world. People won't feel if their mom, dad,
sister, brother, child, grandparent, friend die that it's the end
of the world for them. You wouldn't feel like that. You will know
better. If people love self, they wouldn't do any and everything for love
to be a friend to someone. If you loved yourself, you will not
allow people to do any and everything to you. Until you love yourself and
know yourself, you will always have that void. You will always feel something
is lacking, something that's missing. You're never satisfied, and you will continue
to chase Some of you will stay in relationships for years and years and years.
Some people have died in their unhappy relationships because you have not fixed you.
It's clear these types of people haven't fixed themselves because there is no way
on this earth that they will be in unhappy relationships if they fixed self.
No way, no way. So they stay in the relationships, hoping,
praying, wishing, doing rituals, all kind of stuff for the person to
love them. It's never gonna work because Bill loving you is not more important
than you loving yourself. And that's all I'm gonna say on this. Let
me say it one more time. Until you know and love yourself, you
will never be fulfilled. You will always have that. Boys, you will
have no peace. You will continue chasing other individuals, money, all types
of things. You will continue chasing that because you have no peace within,
You have no self satisfaction, you have no self love. You still holding
on to negativity. So please share this episode. People need to hear it
around the world. Thank you in advance, much much much much love to
each and every one of you. If you want to talk about it further,
please reach out to me. Go to my podcast page you to tell
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Thank you so much again. Stay safe in this world, Be vigilant.
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