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Second date update, Ck and Carmen's
being einety five. Hopefully we could play

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the role of Cupid this morning.
Yeah, you know, we we actually

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we met on Tinder and we just
clipped over the fact that, like,

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we both love to travel, so
I was excited to meet someone else who

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like that. And you know,
she's a CPA, which is pretty cool.

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I work in a bookstore, and
yeah, we just we went to

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dinner, had a really great time, and you know, I thought it

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went so great that I actually invited
her back to my place. Were a

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little netflicks and chill, okay,
okay, yeah, yeah, and I

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thought we had this amazing time,
not a real connection, and I mean,

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honestly, I'm really pumped on her, and I was hoping that she'd

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get back to me, so we
get to get together again, like real

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soon. But havn't heard a thing. So at your place, it was

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obviously a good connection. It was
heading the right direction too, right,

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That's what I was saying. But
I don't know. I don't know if

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she's too busy with the work,
you know, master phone, or I

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just I don't know what. It's
driving me crazy. So I was hoping

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y'all, Well, you came to
the right spot, man, CK and

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Carmen Being ninety five. Is what
we do inside a second date update.

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We try to play the role of
Cupid. Now, you're right, there's

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so many different things that could have
happened here, busy at work, lost

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the phone. But whatever the case
may be, we're gonna get to the

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bottom of things. We're gonna figure
it out. We're gonna get Sarah on

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the phone and see if we can
make it happen. Awesome, I really

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appreciate it. So what's Sarah gonna
say? You're gonna find out next HEK

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and Carmen. Here we are inside
this second date update. Like I said,

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trying to play the role of Cupid. It's Being ninety five, so

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he got ghosted on by Sarah.
But I believe we got Sarah on the

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phone right now. CK and Carmen
Being ninety five. Hello, Hello,

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is this Sarah? Hey Sarah,
how are you doing it? Ck and

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Carmen from Being ninety five. Good
morning, Hey you guys, Hey,

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good morning, and we love you
too, Yes, we do. Well,

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you know what Sarah. We are
calling because we do this thing called

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a second date update. If you
love us then you know it, and

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you happened to be on a second
date. Update. Oh okay, I

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think I know what this is about. Is this about Derek? Yes,

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it is. But before we go
any further, I do have to ask

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your permission to continue this phone conversation
on the radio. Are you good with

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that? Yeah, I'm good with
that. Alright, alright, alright,

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now tell us about this date with
Derek. Oh, my gosh, I

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mean the Derek. The Derek.
The date was good with Derek. Uh,

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we definitely had a connection, and
I mean he had a lot of

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good quality that loved his traveling spirit. The thing is, I wasn't early

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in love with the fact that he
lives with his mom. You know,

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when we were out, he mentioned
nothing of it, nothing is living with

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his mom, or that he even
had a roommate, just that he had

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this awesome two bedroom house, normal
in Clovis. And so when we went

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back to his house, I was
just expecting it to be us. Well

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then here we were with his mom
in the kitchen. So it's like more

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like Netflix and she'll turned into milk
and cookies. Yeah, that's a little

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bit off. His mama was giving
y'all milk and cookies. Yes, and

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like he would keep yelling for her, like what show did we watch with?

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Can you bring us finish that?
The other? Like mom the meat

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loaf? Like I was just really
uncomfortable. Oh wow, you know so

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his mom is for real, like
kicking him at the house, like living

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with him like a legit roommate.
Yes. Yes, at one point I

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even sat like the opposite side of
the couch hoping he would catch it him.

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But no, Vanoville. Well he
thinks it's a normal thing, because

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for him to invite you over like
is nothing. Didn't even mention it that

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so he seems comfortable. Yeah,
real comfortable, And I'm sorry, I

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just I'm not at that point.
Okay, Well here's the thing, and

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you know the second date update works. Derek has been listening in on this,

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Derek, Yeah, you couldn't give
it her heads up? Wow,

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I mean you just know, or
even being a homeowner, like well,

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like that big of a deal,
you know, like it allows me to

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leave the life that I really want
to live. You know, she doesn't

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charge me rant which is awesome.
And wait, wait, wait, wait,

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hold on a second. Yeah,
so this whole time I thought you

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were the homeowner. You said she
doesn't charge you rent. Well, I

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mean I am a homeowner because it's
my child's at home, so it will

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be mine one day some day,
Okay, all right, okay, so

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that's why you've been able to do
so much travel. Okay, now I

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get it, all right, so
it all makes sense now. So you

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know this is not normal, right, Derek? You know this is not

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something that uh, most of dolts
just fine like, oh this isn't this

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is normal? And you know I
live with my mom, not even you

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live, you know, with your
mom because she lives with you. No,

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you live with her and that's her
house. Yeah, but my point

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is, Carmen, when he said, yeah, we went back, we

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went we did the Netflix and chill
thing. Come on now, yeah,

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come on, yeah, yeah,
this isn't what way? Really, this

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isn't what we mean when we say
netflix and chill. Right. It was

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really awkward more than anything else.
So you don't find it weird at all,

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Drek, that she's awful off by
this. Why would it be weird?

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I'm I'm a loving person. I
love my mom, you know,

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I take care of women. Like, what's weird about that? I think

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she takes care of you. Actually, how do you dare? Yeah,

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I'm thirty one, thirty one,
okay, and listen, no shame,

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you know what I mean. It's
just that it's not it's not common for

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you to say that's Netflix and chill
when you still live with your mom and

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you didn't explain that to her,
you didn't give her heads up. It's

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just and then on top of that, your mom was mingling with you guys

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right, making cookies. My mom's
great, Like, of course she's gonna

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mingle with it. I mean,
I get it. Your mom is great.

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You love your mom, and that's
gonna be your home one day.

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Yeah, but it's just not something
Sarah's into. Yeah, I don't think

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there's gonna be a second day and
just for future, like that's not really

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meant flixing and chilling. Yeah,
it's not teach them true, true,

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true, No, this is true. I'm sure you can find someone that

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will be okay with this. It's
just for Sarah. It's not grown enough

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for her. You know what I
spoke for you, Sarah. Um,

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I'm gonna let you speak for you. So our job is to make a

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second date happen. I know.
Derek is really into you. Um,

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he traveled until this obviously, he
travels the world. As you can see,

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he's a world traveler because all his
money goes to doing all sorts of

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fun stuff. He doesn't pay rent
and bills. Right, but would you

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like to go on another date with
Derek? You know it's a no for

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me. I'm sorry, Derek,
I just, um, I think we're

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in different places. Yeah, yeah, that's all it is. Yeah,

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different places. You know what I'm
saying in life right now. And it's

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just it's not gonna make sense for
you guys to link up again. I

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mean, that's that's fine. You
know you're gonna miss out. My mom's

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a terrific cook and she would have
cooked for you. But you know whatever,

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Well I cooked too, so I
think I'll be all right. Yeah,

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not as good as Sarah, but
okay, alright, alright, alrighty.

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Well, you know what, Derek, I'm sorry we couldn't make a

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love connection happen for you today.
I know that you're a homeowner in Clovis

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and that's gonna be your house one
day. Well he's not a homeowner just

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yet, true, but it's his
childhood home. It's been his rooms my

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childhood home for a long time has
been his room, same poster has been

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there since he was twelve. Say
again to each his own, it's just

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not for Sarah and many women out
there and no women out there. Um,

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sorry, I shouldn't have said that. I'm sorry. We couldn't make

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sure you are a great person.
It's just not for Sarah. I'm sorry

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we couldn't make it happen. All
right, Um, there you go.

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Second date update and CK and Carmen's
being ninety five.