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It's just like the old radio show
with the additibility to swear a lot from

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a mac of All Trade studio in
Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler Dots jup

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Ram. It's bilified the Bill Moran
Podcast. Well, hello and welcome.

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Thanks for getting your pot on,
Thanks for telling a friend. That's how

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we spread the word about the pirate
ship. I was trying to update something

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on the Facebook live and it changed
it the last minute. Just before we

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were going on the air, I
was going in to find somebody's phone number

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and I said to Danny Ago,
I have two mike thus that were listeners

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to the show. You and I
were part of the break room back in

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the early two thousands or mid two
thousand, two thousand and eight to two

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thousand. Fourteen. Yeah, fourteen
was the thirteen. At the end of

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third December seventh, twenty thirteen,
Bill miranded his last broadcast during a Christmas

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party. It was a Wednesday night. Oh wow, and that was it?

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And that isn't that a pearl hard
Billy torpedoed and I didn't torpedo.

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Go ahead. They did a great
day've had, did a great job and

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have crushed since then. They have
crushed since I left. They crushed.

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Seriously, Yeah they have. Yeah. I mean it's unbelievable, but it's

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so funny. So I look and
I go Mike the Dad. Mike the

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Dad was a listener or a participant. He came in the studio. He

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would tell us stories, some funny
ship with that guy. Like you thought

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he was like a walking sitcom,
Like, Mike, are you serious?

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Yeah, I remember he was like
out prowling around the neighborhood. He gave

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us almost chet. He's still the
machete he never gave me. I still

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have it in its plastic case.
Yeah, yeah, I think I still

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have it. I was. I
was amazed with the size of those things.

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That's like a yard stick. So, Mike the Dad, uh is

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no longer with us. Mike the
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a guy I always called Mike the
Hammer and hammer had come and done some

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things around my house. Helped put
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sun room. Uh, did some
stuff with the uh when I did the

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tree house, and just a good
guy. And he was I think he

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passed. Wow, Yeah, he
got ill and passed. And then and

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had a young son who was a
big baseball player. Uh back in high

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school. I'm just thinking of glory
days. Uh. So then I think

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he was probably that kid's gotta be
around my son Jordan's age or a little

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bit younger, not much. And
then, uh, you just brought up

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show are a lot. Sure's Jesse
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He died huh oh man ago a
little while ago. And then you

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brought up Noel who was the queen
of the silver Dollar. And I will

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admit this now that there was a
time where I just killed a bug and

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what it was I didn't I thought
it would fly away. I was gonna

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try to shoot it off. I
didn't know that my big finger would hit

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it and then die. He's got
a bay attention, so she Uh.

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There was a time where we had
set up a whole thing with like actors

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on the phone. It was a
pretty elaborate bit where we had a kid

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who was desperate for a prom date
and she heard it and she agreed to

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come in. So she came in
and modeled dresses. But we never let

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her in on that there really wasn't
this kid. It was just some some

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actor on the phone, and then
we had some other actress play the kid's

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mom and get all pissed off that
this twenty eight year old woman was gonna

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take your son to the prom.
And that's how we kind of got out

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of the bit and never never,
you know, and like she got so

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worked up about it, and Noel
got worked up on the kids the Feds

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and tried on these dresses in front
of our use stream camera and we broke

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records. Yeah, we actually froze
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so many creeps were tuning in to
see what Noel looked like. It was

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dresses. It was funny because you
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say that I think that a lot
of times we lose I think in this

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form of entertainment is it was radio
and so there was just you showed up

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and you did your whatever, right, you did the music or and you

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did your shift and you laughed.
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theater and I saw it as a
playground and an opportunity to play and manipulate

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and have fun and entertained. I
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big thing, was entertained. It's
a lost art now. Yeah, Well

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but it was entertainment, and I
think there was a lot of times that

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there was this authenticity, which I
think is true. I think there's a

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real piece of that. I mean, certainly all of us had been very

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vulnerable and open about our lives and
things like that. But then the entertainment

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part of it, to me was
sometimes he manipulated these things and maybe it

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was fake and no one knew it, and who cared? It was entertaining

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and it was serial and you tuned
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And I think it's time time has
gone on things like war the roses

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that I think Seacrest does and some
others. It was all actors and stuff

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like that. But but who cares. It's just it's entertainment and you take

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it for that. And I think
there were other people who wanted to I

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want to expose you. It's not
real, you're being duped. Oh who

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gives a shit? And that I
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out of it, because who cares? Most of this this would be art

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imitating lot if, which is what
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be real and and I mean,
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she found out that there really wasn't
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It was just some young sounding guy
who we found and put him on

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the phone and told him what to
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write all these things and you and
I would go upstairs and I think that,

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uh, I don't know. It
was just it was just funny.

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It was hysterical. There was just
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and oh god, the black comic
black Head, black Head, black Jeff.

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Yeah, but then he was a
real comedy and he wanted to come

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in for real. He wanted to
refuse and we couldn't. We couldn't get

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him in it because he was in
New York or something and we couldn't get

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him. Boy, So he said
he was trying to get booked at the

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club. Oh okay on his own. He used to call me and we

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used to talk. He wanted to
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And there was So we did a
comedy show or I think it was Phil

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damber or one of those guys like
opened up or clothes the show and there

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was this one black guy there and
well, the well among ten other people

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walked up to are you black Head? Are you black Head? And I

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had opened up the comedy like introduced
everybody right, and I'm not a comic,

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and part of me goes, do
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just ask him if he's black Head? Just for you know? No?

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I didn't, and laughterwards, like
you know what, I just should?

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I should just say, hey,
do you mind if we set this up

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ahead of time and go I'm gonna
get this question answer what's it for all?

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Are you black Head? Oh?
That's funny because if we kept ask

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are you blackhead? The poor black
guy, one guy, one black dude,

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it's funny. Black Head was hilarious. We didn't tell Tommy either,

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but Tommy was kind of smart enough
to figure out what was what black Head's

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not realized because I think I did
shout with him on its back and like

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Jupiter and in seventy two. But
yeah, we had a blast with some

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of them. Yeah, we did
remember the guy we had where like he

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goes, hey, I got the
he was a Puerto Rican sounding guy and

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he goes, yeah, I got
a problem. What's what's the matter?

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He goes, So, my brother's
a real motro man, Well he had

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a kidney trans land. All of
a sudden, he's gay. I think

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he got a gay kidden forever.
Like we came up with some fucked up

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shit. Man, we wrote some
really funny things, and that was is

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entertainment. Well that's how I always
and I always thought, like, you

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know, people get upset that there
was enough real stuff, like I talked

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about my kids, and you talked
about things in your life and Tommy and

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his there's enough real stuff that you
know, sometimes sometimes real life can be

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kind of boring. If you think
about anybody, right, everybody goes I

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could be a reality show. Well
maybe you couldn't. You know. You

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got a few highlights throughout the week. Maybe you got one on Monday,

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possibly one on Thursday. And that's
it. And so today I'm going to

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the posting, you know what,
I'm going to buy some stamps. I

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got a mail letter to my mom. All right, so those are the

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so to me, this was this
was just fun. And then there was

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a way to come up with content, and I enjoyed, like really trying

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to come up with some stuff that
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then you had the really deep listens
to go that was real was everyday.

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Oh tell her, Mary, that's
illegally. You can't do that. I

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can't do that, Mary, stupid
because there was a documentary. Oh god,

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it's just funny. And I do
think like for radio itself, come

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on, man and radio, I
don't I don't know how to say it

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because I don't want to. I
love it, and I this would be

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an extension of that, you know
what I mean. So I don't ever

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I never begrudge radio. I never
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medium itself. Maybe some of the
people in it, but the mediums in

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the room with microphones creating something.
That's what it's all about. Forget all

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the superfluous management at all the other
garbage. The greatest thing you could do

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is collaborate with people. Right.
If you can collaborate with people and build

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something, that's that's the greatest stuff. So that's that's what we were doing.

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But at the same time, it
was fun for me to try to

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pull I love to manipulate shit and
set things up. I mean, I

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set all kinds of things up.
When even when I was on the Wii

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show that he wasn't aware of that. I would manipulate that would become like

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I guess if you could catch the
host off guard, well, I could

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reacts exactly. I could never get
in So everything everybody was hearing was authentic

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because they didn't know that the person
on the other end calling up about Bobby

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Joe saying something bad about a sponsor
or a SPA that she's like, oh,

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they were horrible, and then you
know, other things. And then

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to have someone call up the next
day and go, I can't believe that

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she said all that. Oh my
god, what happened? And then to

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hear oh, uh, my wife
and Billy's wife they called each other.

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They were shot right, that kind
of stuff, and that was where you

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know, you got you got the
real reaction, and I could get things

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that people wouldn't bring up to come
out that I knew were great content.

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Oh yeah, you know what I
mean. I had a cousin come up

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driving up to the Thruway and he
goes, which day she losten to you

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on? Cous I go nineties five. He's driving through. He called him,

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who's this condom? Kyle guy?
Man, that is hilarious. I

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don't remember what the condom Kyle bit
was, but man, and then the

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other stuff we would do. I
would play with the callers. If they

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had something, I would try to
get him to, like say something better

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than they would originally tell me.
So we had the Eric, the guy

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who called about Eric Holtz, the
guy who with the car he stole the

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cars, and then he would he
got out of the call to Sack when

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the cops had him cornered, and
Ed said, oh, he's a real

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douchebag. Eric Holts is a real
douchebag. So this kid, this guy

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kid calls me up. He goes, Yeah, this girl I'm banging.

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She went to school with Eric Colts
and she says he's a total douche.

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I go, you gotta tell Billy
that exactly how you told me. You

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go, Billy, this girl I'm
banging right if Tommy couldn't stop laughing.

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But that was it. I mean, it was so it was fun.

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And you don't hear that much in
radio, and you don't especially in Sports

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Rader, you don't hear anything any
of this just in just now. Okay,

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seven oh three pm is when we
were recording this on Thursday, August

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twenty fourth. If I say,
Bray Wyatt ww wrestler dead at thirty six.

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Oh wow, Yeah, I don't
know, Holy caw. Did you

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know? Was he a big wrestler? I know nothing about Gray Why?

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Yeah, he literally he was a
big dude, very big dude. And

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he had a run for a while
in the WW and then out of nowhere

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about a year or so ago,
Vince McMahon just released a bunch of wrestlers

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and he was one of them,
and there was a talk time world champion.

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Yeah, there was talk that he
was going to be brought back once

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Triple H took over, once Vince
was shown the door. Then he came.

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He actually came back into and a
lot of people really had high hopes

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for Bray because he looked like a
guy who could be a world champion and

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carry the company because when everybody laughs, well it's it's not real. No,

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it's real, it's just choreographed.
And when they hand you the championship

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belt, the idea is that you're
gonna be the biggest star or the biggest

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villain in the company. But also
ultimately you carry the company. You're the

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guy that they trust, You're the
main character. Now, kind of like

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Batman in the Batman series, got
you right, or Superman or whatever.

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And Bray Wyatt was a guy who
had a following and I hadn't seen him

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rustle in a while. Maybe he
was having health problems or something. Did

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they say why he died or I
said die unexpectedly? I don't know,

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Okay, I think there was some
speculation there and I didn't really because there

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was. There was an athlete named
Brodie Lee who passed away during the COVID

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era a couple of years ago.
He was from Rochester, but he had

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a heart or lung issue, lung
issue, and he passed away. And

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I may have actually accidentally met him
once when like those guys who do the

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wrestling show on Saturday mornings at HTK, these do the show, they'll bring

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these rustlers in. He got'm trying
off of the w and law behold,

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these guys would get in like years
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would get in, you know,
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but pray, why that's that's too
bad, That's too bad. He's a

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big dude. He had a lot
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my birthday, and I was trying
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stuff, bought, new sneakers,
getting the whole thing going, and you

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realize how old you're starting to get. And when you hear of a thirty

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six year old guy dying, it's
like a little scary, right, you

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said, you go, oh my
god. And I've actually had some people

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that I've gone to high school with
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you hear somebody died, the first
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Right? Exactly? Well? Were
they sick? Yeah, because if they

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were telling me it was no,
it was an alcohol poison. No,

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okay, it was it COVID.
Don't let it be anything. I was

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like, right, because, like, is it? Could that be any

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of us? Right? But then
I did, uh, I did hear

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your Kevin Hart did this whole piece
where he's sitting in a wheelchair and he

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was being funny. It's about two
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if I put a little uh pause
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Kevin, aren't you said to me
you gotta see shape. I'm pretty

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sure he works out all the time, had a personal trainer. I've watched

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some documentary that he did. I
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he's working out all the time.
And then Fabletics, which is supposed to

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be like Lulu Lemon for men,
but half the price is his company and

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he's I mean, Kevin works out
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Kevin's working out is more strength stuff. But listen to this, well you

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know it. Anytime somebody starts talking
by saying, well, it's bad lady

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and gentlemen. The age forty year
is real tall my men, women out

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there that forty years old and above, it's not a game. Respect that

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age. Respect that age or that
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I was just forced to respect it. It's just public service announcement because I

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know people may see me out and
I don't want you to be at long.

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But I'm in a wheelchair. Yeah, I'm in a wheelchair. Why

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would because I tried to jump out
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to go out there and do some
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I was told to sit my ass
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I'm gonna go to put this story
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Stephen we got into a little debate. This debate was based off of who's

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faster. Those that know me know
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ain't no where you're gonna beat me. Stephen, his ex NFL running back,

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played for the New England patrons.
Very good guy, I said,

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Steve, you get better, he
said back, I said back. We

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get out there, we go run
the forty year old dash. Forty yard

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dash. Guys. I blew all
my shit toward my lower abdomen. I

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my abductors are torn. I don't
even know what that is, but I

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tore him. I tore those two. I can't walk. Sit my ass

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there. Your doctors, I think, are in your hip like your hip

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abductors. Okay, so I don't
know, like you really gotta be stiff.

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I think to tear those we'd have
to get a physical therapist on.

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But I'm pretty sure that is the
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What you just lost, son,
You just lost every opportunity of me going

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to racing you anytime soon. It's
over, Kenneth, it is over.

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Sit down. What are we competing
for at this age? Why are we?

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Like? What am I doing?
Why do I even race? Stupid

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as shit of it? Now?
I can't walk because i'm somewhere trying to

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get the title of the fastest guy
getting the barbecue. What was I thinking,

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son, It got to be the
stupidest man alive. It is what

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it is, man, this is
life. Uh you know, I'm out.

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I a lost six to eight.
I blew my ship. Well,

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so when did you injure yourself at
an being older? Okay, maybe trying

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to do something. The first time
was in I think two thousand and six.

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I was twenty six years old and
I hadn't played competitive baseball in years,

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and I played softball with Brad Davies
and I was the third batter up

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and right out of the box there
was this uh it was at it was

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at the Henrietta Fields, and I
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Wasn't that deep, but it was
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I'm like, oh, you know, like, I'm like, I'm only

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twenty six, right, why north
stretched right? Because I think and I

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could do this. I'm still a
young Most guys are in their prime when

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they're twenty eight, you know,
yeah, you know. And so that

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was the first time. Second time, I'm working with you one morning and

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I'm living with my ex wife at
the time, and I go in to

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pick up my bag from work in
crack my back and I can't walk,

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and instead of giving me sympathy,
she's like, that's because you don't work

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out. Yeah, I'll take care
of or something like It's three o'clock in

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the morning, I gotta get to
work and I can't move. You know.

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Found out that what it was was
I have I had what I still

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have this issue? Uh, no, spine, that's not true. Crooking

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hip used to say that whatever time, when you got away the time,

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we used to say that all the
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helped me grow a spine. But
it also but like I was like on

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medications like muscle relaxes and stuff like
a week. I mean it was,

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it was bad. And then I've
had those back issues ever since. And

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that's what reminded me that I'm I'm
old. Alex has joined us. Alex

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is the producer of Games, debuting
in a couple of weeks, uh,

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which we taped a bunch of episodes
best Yeah, five episodes. Five episodes,

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just knocked out five yeah. And
it's some really interesting topics that they

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discussed and uh, it's usually based
around a game, like a normal game.

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But we were talking about Kevin Hart
and how he injured himself racing somebody

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who said he tore the abductors and
his hips the because I'm going, I

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remember trying to go out and run
like I used to be able to run

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the half mile in high school in
under two minutes. And I went twice

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around the track, right, yeah, and yeah, I did it in

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like a minute somewhere around one fifty
eight. And man, I went out

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and I was so fucking depressed when
I heard my first lap time, I'm

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like, fucking fucking I'm out.
I was so mad. But by then

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I'm like, I had kids and
stuff, and you just I think the

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biggest thing you can do for your
body, and I don't think this is

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one that Kevin Hart would do does
is stretch. It's stretching in yoga is

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the biggest thing. And I stretch. I even go on YouTube and I

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find uh wretches for stiff people.
But I do that stuff because it it

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like it really does help you.
And then I went and I've been having

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trouble with my achilles, like they
burn and they hurt sometimes si achillies.

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Yeah, so I when I went
to fleet feed. I talked to them

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about sneakers for that, and so
now I have it's his guard it's the

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old guy. These are old zero
pain. Yeah that was the what was

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that? That was? I'm a
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All of a sudden, I'm six
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Good story, good feed story.
Yeah. So this so I tell

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them more when I haven't, They
go, well, you want something with

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less of a drop to the heel, you want it more even, And

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then it even says with guardrail right
side, like I got old man stabilizing

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sneakers. But I've been running and
I feel great and I got it hurricanes

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for your feet. And I'm not
and I'm not running fast like I'm I

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don't know that I ever was really
smoking and you know, running that fast,

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But I just like it. It
just feels, I think, feel

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it feels good to be moving and
stuff. But I would make sure you

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stretch a lot, my buddy.
You're hearing that stretch a lot. My

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buddy, Steve just turned sixty.
He don't look sixty at all. He

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looks like in his late forties,
but he's he's always looked a little bit

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younger. He's always taking care of
himself, but his feet have always been

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an issue. So he's got to
wear these like special shoes. What's the

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one with the anonym new Balance.
Yeah, he's got to wear these new

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Balances with really thick, thick souls
and one shoe is thicker than them.

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But do you have dropped foot or
something like it's one foot not as like

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long or leg as not as long
as the other because yeah, because his

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feet, so he's got could be
any number of things, like he could

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have like like hip things, or
he could have like an achilles thing like.

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There could be a lot of reasons
why you're like you're uneven. But

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the guy still plays, He still
could plays competitive softball. He flies out

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every weekend to tournaments across the country
really to win money. Oh yeah,

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Steve Horton, Yeah that guy you
were in the band with. Yeah we

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got a new band name by the
way, but yeah, yeah, he

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yeah, he flies out. He's
very a very strong. He does not

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look like he's sixty years old.
But his feet, though, he's got

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to wear those special like feet or
eighty. Yeah, and my ears are

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like eighty. I can't hear shit. My wife says the same thing about

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me. What I have husband hearing. He's go on the podcast and talk

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about like men have men hearing,
men vision. When when you ask of

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like when I ask Lewis to find
stuff in the house, like can you

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can you see if you can find
my keys, They're always in the same

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spot. He'll go in the kitchen, they're hanging on in. I'll go

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in the kitchen. He'll look around. I don't know where the keys are.

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Did you look or did you boy
look right? Look? That is

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true? There is I guess that
is. Oh, yeah, it is.

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You have vision. And if you
like, come home and put your

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wallet and your keys on the counter, and and we move them a little

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bit a little to the left.
You can't suddenly can't find him anymore.

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Dress park dinosaur. I'm a big
it's a little. It's just based on

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movement. I was always that was
always my thing. Hang up your keys.

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I don't know. I don't so
much time on the planet, I

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don't want to spend it looking for
keys at all at all. I don't

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want to look for anything. No, So I always make sure I hang

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up my stuff. That way I
can just at least the life tells me,

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honey, we have a spot for
the remote or what you call the

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clicker. It's right here on the
coffee table. When you're done, put

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it right here on the coffee table. I know if it's not right here

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on the coffee table that you somehow
didn't put it right here on the coffee

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table, because I always put it
right here on the coffee table. Oh

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my god, I think I'd lose
my mind. I think I would lose

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my mind. I mean that's a
little like, Oh, she's not nag,

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and she's just saying like, well, yeah, because you're gonna pay

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this problem. You spend fifteen minutes
looking for the remote, and then you're

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frustrated, your heart rates up now
I don't want to watch TV. Fuck

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it. Yeah, then we gotta
spend forty five minutes decide of what we're

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gonna watch. Yeah, and it's
died fifteen. Well, we can't do

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a movie. Do you have a
system where like you, if you guys

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are watching a show together, you're
not allowed to watch an advance of her

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or she's not allowed to watch like
if you guys are both, she's not

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allowed to watch the new episodes of
Glee. Until you. Yeah, but

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we haven't really had to go through
that yet because we don't agree on many

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programs to begin with. Really,
yeah, we just don't. It just

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she's more into like she loves anything
with an acronym like N CIS and SCI

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or CSI rather like Lawn or SUV. Could you ever watch with her?

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I've watched it and CIS isn't a
bad show. Yeah, not at all?

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Actually, I okay, So what
happened to Gibbs? Like, like

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you actually care? Well, no, I'm just interested since you know you're

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watching this. I'm just reading here, But you know, it's kind of

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curious what happened to Gibbs? You
know, do you ever find out that

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you know more about the shows she
watches than you think you do? Oh

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yeah, oh yeah, where did
this lady come from? She's only out

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for like four episodes? Okay?
What I mean, like, all of

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a sudden, you've become a fan
of Big Brother even though you never watch.

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But now cable tv now has caught
onto the and they caught on a

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while ago to the binge watching thing. So let's just do episode like something

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like okay, like Family Guy on
Friday nights on Free form is all night,

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okay, or on Comedy Central,
it's like it's office Night, like

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every other night. So you'll go
through the entire series maybe three times in

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a week, you know. And
so she's like, didn't you watch this

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like like last week? Uh uh
No, I didn't. I don't.

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I don't remember that because no,
yeah, this is the one where Jim

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Todd. I'm like, yeah,
you're right, I'm sorry. You know.

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It sounds like you do a lot
of apologize. It give me a

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relationship that I do a lot of
goofing around and I'm an e Mark Okay.

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But then again, like the stuff
that I watch more like like when

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I when I'm by myself, I
don't watch regular television. I got to

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watch a show that really sucks me
in. Or I'm watching YouTube videos and

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learning things, or I'm watching football
tape, or I'm watching watch I watch

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economics videos, sales videos. Also
watched one ecod videos. You watch like

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how economics works the whole thing,
because you're r right, you gotta pay

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attention right now in the world,
Billy, Like you know, if interest

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rates are flying and Biden's falling asleep
at the switch, I don't like you've

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got You've got to be prepared for
the next election. You know. I'm

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00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,440
I'm in my forties now, I
gotta be ready for this. Okay,

409
00:27:15,519 --> 00:27:19,720
I guess that's good. How to
buy a car like because like you know,

410
00:27:19,839 --> 00:27:22,720
like how to buy a car?
Well, yeah, like negotiations,

411
00:27:22,799 --> 00:27:26,599
stuff like that, you know.
But I like learning stuff like that,

412
00:27:26,759 --> 00:27:30,319
yeah, and understanding how it works. I want why. I want to

413
00:27:30,759 --> 00:27:33,440
know why. I'm curious about the
why. Why is it the way it

414
00:27:33,559 --> 00:27:37,359
is? We're I'll watch video on
football, like I'll watch tape I've been

415
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:41,160
watching. Uh, I went to
look, is there another sea another episode

416
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,160
of Hard Knocks? Yeah, I
ran twos. They haven't seen it.

417
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,079
So I just went today to look
and I didn't see it. It was

418
00:27:47,079 --> 00:27:51,359
still showing me episode one. I
haven't seen episode two. This should be

419
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,640
three. Now, I thought,
I don't know why my hbio And so

420
00:27:53,720 --> 00:28:00,039
I went and watched Winning Time the
Other Lakers document or what not Fix a

421
00:28:00,279 --> 00:28:03,720
fictionalized version of that, but I
do love that. And then, uh,

422
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:07,279
I've started a show that I never
watched when it was on TV,

423
00:28:07,519 --> 00:28:11,119
and I just watched it all the
time and I just put it on.

424
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:12,640
Please tell me. It was Barry
on HBO. No, no, no,

425
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:18,279
worse, worse. Yeah. Suits. You know, it's funny.

426
00:28:18,319 --> 00:28:21,920
Everybody's watching Suits is because Netflix has
put it on its front page. Everybody

427
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:25,839
wants to watch because I try to
capitalize off the Megan Marco Harry what I

428
00:28:25,839 --> 00:28:30,720
mean. But I've gotten into the
show because they want it. It's a

429
00:28:30,799 --> 00:28:33,920
very simple. It's a very simple
show. Like I can see the writing

430
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:37,000
on it, you know, and
it's always this drama and they're fighting.

431
00:28:37,079 --> 00:28:41,599
It's just stupid. And I I
think I fell asleep and it ran through

432
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:45,039
maybe two episodes and I can still
figure out what was happening. And it's

433
00:28:45,079 --> 00:28:48,039
not is it lawyers, the lawyers, Yes, it's lawyers. It's this

434
00:28:48,119 --> 00:28:56,119
kid who didn't go to law school
but is absolute genius and took the LSATs

435
00:28:56,160 --> 00:29:00,599
for people they paid him, and
then he was running from some guys who

436
00:29:00,599 --> 00:29:03,920
were after him for drug money.
And he winds up in this interview,

437
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,079
does the interview, and the guy
goes, i'd give you the twenty five

438
00:29:07,119 --> 00:29:10,759
thousand. He goes, uh,
we only hire Harvard lawyers. He goes,

439
00:29:10,799 --> 00:29:12,160
ask me anything in that book right
now, and I'll tell you.

440
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:15,160
And he explains it all. The
guy goes, I'd give you the twenty

441
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,279
five thousand dollar bonus right now,
but we can't. He goes, well,

442
00:29:17,279 --> 00:29:18,799
you know what, I just graduated
from Harvard and so now it's a

443
00:29:18,839 --> 00:29:22,519
lie. So he's not. He's
never passed the bar, he's never done

444
00:29:22,519 --> 00:29:26,279
anything. They've somehow hacked in and
made all this stuff and that's the big

445
00:29:26,279 --> 00:29:30,519
secret. Now they like and that
that's the dilemma in suits. So it's

446
00:29:30,519 --> 00:29:34,559
a really simple, dumb show.
But they got good looking people in there.

447
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:37,319
Some of the chicks are kind of
hot. And that's it. It's

448
00:29:37,359 --> 00:29:40,359
all right, I tell you need. That's all I need. Was it

449
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:44,319
Ella law the big show in the
eighties where he's like lawyers slaping with each

450
00:29:44,319 --> 00:29:49,440
other off. We'll take a moment
when we come back. Fairport Music Fest

451
00:29:49,519 --> 00:29:55,640
kicks off tomorrow night and they've got
a whole bunch of stuff going on right

452
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:57,920
through Sunday when they're gonna do a
big jam at the at Iron Smoke.

453
00:29:59,319 --> 00:30:03,000
So Rob Work is gonna come in
and artist Jen Christie, who I know

454
00:30:03,079 --> 00:30:06,839
nothing about, but we'll find out
all about her. So that is next.

455
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:10,720
But first Iron Smoke Distillery right here
in Fairport, New York has something

456
00:30:10,839 --> 00:30:14,440
for everybody on their whiskey journey.
If you're just starting out, they got

457
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,799
something for you. If you are
somebody who is a whiskey connoisseur, they've

458
00:30:17,799 --> 00:30:22,000
got something for you that's gonna delight
your senses and ignite your passion because it's

459
00:30:22,039 --> 00:30:26,359
exceptional quality. Now. Ironsmoke Distillery
also has live music and this weekend is

460
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:30,119
the weekend to be in Fairport against
the Fairport Music Festival. It kicks off

461
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:34,240
tonight and over Ironsmoke Distillery. At
six o'clock you got Roy Wilson and the

462
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:38,000
Buzzards taking the main stage. They
play some rockabilly. At seven thirty will

463
00:30:38,039 --> 00:30:41,839
be Whiskey Treaty Road Show. It's
kind of an Americana roots folk band.

464
00:30:42,079 --> 00:30:47,240
And at nine thirty part of the
Fairport Music Fest it's North Side Johnny and

465
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,599
Rock in the stage. And then
be sure to come back tomorrow. Beginning

466
00:30:49,599 --> 00:30:53,319
at one o'clock you have Ethos and
there'll be a band on the main stage

467
00:30:53,319 --> 00:30:59,400
at Ironsmoke Distillery just about every hour
until eleven o'clock at night when it wraps

468
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:02,960
up with the time Tommy Burnette Ban
and Friends doing their alternative country and of

469
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:07,039
course Tommy Burnett is the face and
owner of Ironsmoke Distillery. But if you

470
00:31:07,039 --> 00:31:11,119
want to see who's playing when,
go to Ironsmoke Distillery dot com. You

471
00:31:11,119 --> 00:31:12,839
can find out one and you can
see band from the tavern. Part of

472
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:18,400
the Fairport Music Festival at Ironsmoke.
Chartwell will be over there as well again

473
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:22,000
Ironsmoke Distillery dot com. Click on
calendar and you'll see who's playing when.

474
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:27,599
Part of the Fairport Music Festival at
Ironsmoke Distillery Ironsmoke Distillery dot com. The

475
00:31:27,599 --> 00:31:32,839
Wings are home this weekend. Friday
features a Hawaiian shirt giveaway and fireworks.

476
00:31:33,119 --> 00:31:37,599
Saturday is Grateful dead Night with fireworks
and a jersey giveaway for kids. Sunday

477
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:41,480
has a backback giveaway for kids and
kids can run the bases. Poor tickets

478
00:31:41,519 --> 00:31:45,160
visit Red Wings Baseball dot com.
Victor Chrysler Dodgey Bram. You're gonna find

479
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,079
him on Route ninety six in Victor. You know, we're getting into that

480
00:31:48,119 --> 00:31:49,839
busy timmy year where there seems to
be more meetings than ever. Right,

481
00:31:51,039 --> 00:31:53,079
everybody has a requires a meeting.
You got to go from here to there,

482
00:31:53,119 --> 00:31:57,000
whether it be cub scouts or hockey
practices for the kids, pick up,

483
00:31:57,119 --> 00:32:00,680
drop off at school, and just
getting yourself off to where you need

484
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:04,240
to be. You need something safe
and reliable. Now here's the problem.

485
00:32:04,359 --> 00:32:06,759
You got needs and you got a
budget. How do you make those two

486
00:32:06,759 --> 00:32:09,319
things work together? You go to
Victor Chrysler dot sheep Ram. They have

487
00:32:09,559 --> 00:32:14,400
an excellent team there that's going to
help you get into something safe, reliable

488
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,359
that fits both your needs and your
budget. They've got a huge selection,

489
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:21,839
a huge selection there. I know
we keep hearing about how hard it is

490
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,160
to find that's not. At Victor
Chrysler dis Bram they have a huge selection.

491
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:28,319
They will get you into something that's
going to fit both your needs and

492
00:32:28,359 --> 00:32:31,160
your budget. You will find them
online at Victor c DJR dot com and

493
00:32:31,240 --> 00:33:23,960
in person on Route ninety six in
Victor. When it comes Wow, Jenny

494
00:33:24,039 --> 00:33:27,759
Christie, the name of the song
is Cross, will be playing at the

495
00:33:27,759 --> 00:33:31,000
Fairport Music Fest. And Jenny,
you gotta forgive me because I'm not familiar

496
00:33:31,279 --> 00:33:37,559
with your music, but I wish
I was because it's exactly my personal genre.

497
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:39,720
Like I love singer songwriter and I
kind of get that vibe. Would

498
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:44,319
that be fair to say. And
I'm a big fan of a guy named

499
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:47,240
John Hyatt that nobody really probably knows. And if you look behind you,

500
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:52,119
I love the song Tennessee Plates And
that's how I usually closed the podcast all

501
00:33:52,119 --> 00:33:55,160
the time. It's a nice tribute
to Elvis, and John wrote the songs

502
00:33:55,200 --> 00:34:00,319
that other people made famous. I
think probably Angelized in late eighties was one

503
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:05,359
that Jeff Healey did and he was
one. But god, this is beautiful,

504
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,159
really nice. Is it odd to
sit there and hear yourself? Right?

505
00:34:08,199 --> 00:34:13,039
I mean, I know it's kind
of like when you were you know,

506
00:34:13,039 --> 00:34:15,159
when I was in radio, you'd
have to sit in a in a

507
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,039
room just you and the program director
and listen to yourself, and you just

508
00:34:17,039 --> 00:34:21,280
wanted to find a way to just
slink out the fucking door and can I

509
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:24,679
slide out of here? But I
mean you're a pro. You've been doing

510
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:29,599
it for how long? Your whole
life? Well, I'm professionally about twenty

511
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:31,000
oh no, I don't like this
at all, like twenty three joint four

512
00:34:31,079 --> 00:34:35,079
years? Okay, yeah, but
I mean probably your whole life. I

513
00:34:35,159 --> 00:34:37,960
played my whole life. Yeah,
yeah, that's fantastic. And then you

514
00:34:38,039 --> 00:34:40,760
told me you're from Bloomington, Indiana, And so I said to you,

515
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:45,159
what are you? Always asked I
had to ask that John melleycam anything about

516
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:49,519
him? Yes? And sure enough? Right and and we were talking about

517
00:34:49,559 --> 00:34:52,519
Mellycamp But you toured with him in
Opening Up Blaye? How did that work?

518
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:57,239
I was actually a backup singer and
multi instrumentalist. Yeah. So have

519
00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:00,360
you ever watched the documentary on Netflix
called twenty Feet from Stardom? That's not

520
00:35:00,559 --> 00:35:05,280
great, it's fantastic. I love
that, especially when they get to uh

521
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,199
with the Rolling Stones, with the
yeah, with uh, what's your name

522
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:13,000
Mary Clayton? Yes, yeah,
and the story and they even kind of

523
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,440
confirm it in there is like they
woke her up in the middle of the

524
00:35:15,519 --> 00:35:17,119
night. She's living in France,
right, feels like pregnant too, Yeah,

525
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:23,880
And I had that and she didn't
exactly attribute that to the singing,

526
00:35:24,559 --> 00:35:29,840
but all over the years it was
and they weren't. That's my absolute favorite

527
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,480
album. I think that's Exile on
Main Street. I thought maybe, Yeah,

528
00:35:32,519 --> 00:35:36,280
I think so too that I love
that album, and I might be

529
00:35:36,320 --> 00:35:37,760
I might be wrong on that one, but I was always loved The Stones

530
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:42,559
and all that. So Rob Birch
is here and can we start at the

531
00:35:42,599 --> 00:35:46,559
beginning, because this everything starts with
an idea, right, everything starts with

532
00:35:46,559 --> 00:35:50,840
an idea, and there are many
ideas and a lot of them. You

533
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,760
just you ever, you're ever sitting
on your couch and you see something to

534
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:55,400
go, God, damn it.
I had that idea. Why I couldn't

535
00:35:55,400 --> 00:36:00,119
win a million fucking dollars? But
but like this was an idea to start

536
00:36:00,559 --> 00:36:06,360
the music festival? Whose idea?
How did it come about? And where

537
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:10,559
we are today? So about twenty
years ago, High Falls used to do

538
00:36:10,639 --> 00:36:14,159
the party in the park. Yeah, yeah, it was that High Falls,

539
00:36:14,199 --> 00:36:16,800
right. I was down there and
we had been doing a golf tournament

540
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:22,320
that benefited Galisano's Hospital. Yeah why
why why were you involved in that?

541
00:36:23,039 --> 00:36:27,280
The guy that ran at his daughter
had to go through the hospital. Yeah,

542
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:30,280
and everything's great. She you know, she had a bad cancer.

543
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:32,920
But okay, mother, now she's
had thirty three years. Fantastic. I've

544
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:37,400
always said about Galisano Children's Hospital,
I hope you never need it, but

545
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,079
man, I'm glad it's there.
And I had three boys. We practically

546
00:36:40,119 --> 00:36:43,519
had an easy pass at times getting
in and out of there. These guys

547
00:36:43,559 --> 00:36:46,239
were in and out for this that. I mean, my my middle guy

548
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:50,440
who's twenty one now, I was
having what we thought were seizures, turned

549
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:54,880
out to be severe food allergies,
man like right away, projectile, vomiting,

550
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:59,760
losing weight. So you're back in
the hospital and they're fantastic over there.

551
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,559
I mean, it was really really
great, right. So we were

552
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:07,519
involved in that golf tournament and I
was coming back from party in the park

553
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:10,800
and I go, how can we
incorporate music? You know? So we

554
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:15,719
batted around the ideas up at the
village in over a few beers came up

555
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:20,480
where all the best ideas always always
and it was more than a few beers.

556
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,559
It was late, that's even when
the better ideas. How do you

557
00:37:22,559 --> 00:37:27,159
think the Declaration Independence came about?
It's back when I could stay out late.

558
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:31,239
Yeah, I didn't even really remember
the conversation I had with an Andy

559
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:35,280
mcdgomot. I went to work the
next day and email Pops up, Hey,

560
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,039
let's meet for lunch and talk about
this thing, this music thing.

561
00:37:37,039 --> 00:37:40,960
I'm going, oh, okay,
it's always better when what you don't remember

562
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,800
is a good thing, exactly,
it's the bad thing though. Like,

563
00:37:45,159 --> 00:37:50,719
So we got together and hashed it
out. We decided I was on sabbatical

564
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,320
from my job. I had somewhere
off with pay okay, so I took

565
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:57,920
the kids little so I took him
the Disney World for ten days and went

566
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:00,840
broke. And when I came back, the rest of the time I work

567
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:02,519
done. I didn't know what I
was doing. Still don't really know what

568
00:38:02,519 --> 00:38:07,559
I'm doing. And those are always
the best. I always think that when

569
00:38:07,599 --> 00:38:13,480
you don't know what you're doing,
there are no rules, right, it's

570
00:38:13,519 --> 00:38:15,760
the people that know what they're doing
and start to incorporate the rules, which

571
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:20,119
I'll say is resistance, and then
ship doesn't get done right. So when

572
00:38:20,159 --> 00:38:23,000
there are no rules, we can
all you gotta live like that. Yeah,

573
00:38:23,079 --> 00:38:25,800
right, So it's only going to
be a one year festival because we

574
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:30,159
figured, you know, yeah,
I had the time and this is a

575
00:38:30,159 --> 00:38:32,480
lot of work. And then but
it went. It was very small.

576
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:36,000
You've been to it, Yeah,
it was like five hundred people there,

577
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:40,320
Yeah, probably, I think it
was at the first one, mainly in

578
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:44,719
this parking lot on the other side
of the canal from our studio right over

579
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:46,320
there. Right. We only had
two stages. A matter of fact,

580
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:50,920
our biggest area we had kids stuff
in it. We didn't even have music.

581
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:52,880
So yeah, this is some of
the bad ideas that we had.

582
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:58,320
I mean, it's all you never
get it wrong and you never get it

583
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,679
done. Yeah you know what I
mean. And I think we raised twelve

584
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:05,800
thousand dollars from it, and then
we just we we're on a one year

585
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:09,599
contract. We always like two weeks
from now, you'll hear us saying they'll

586
00:39:09,599 --> 00:39:13,079
talk about next year's music festival.
We don't know if it's going to happen.

587
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:17,800
Everybody's got a great idea immediately following
the festival, it's like, hey,

588
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:21,119
you know what you guys need to
do next year? Yea? And

589
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,239
our phrase is always if there is
a next year, But do you know

590
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:28,880
there's gonna be I mean because at
this point, guys Fairport, you know,

591
00:39:29,039 --> 00:39:30,480
and I know, I know you're
not from here, Jen, But

592
00:39:30,519 --> 00:39:36,559
the this this has turned into a
little Nashville I call it because it's there's

593
00:39:36,599 --> 00:39:39,960
so many restaurants and places that in
the summer there's so much live entertainment,

594
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:45,760
and our summer probably like Bloomington,
Indiana. I don't know, uh is

595
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:49,280
brief right, We've got a window
that's really about three to four months that

596
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:52,679
we can go out and do.
I always think we don't sell our fall

597
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:58,079
well enough, but because we can
go deep into October. But there's always

598
00:39:58,119 --> 00:40:01,039
live music and things around here.
And the Fairport Music Fest has kind of

599
00:40:01,079 --> 00:40:06,719
now become the fabric of this town. And you've got restaurants that are coming

600
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:10,360
in because of what a hotspot this
has become. And that's part of the

601
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:16,239
thing. Yea here Now, Well, I've had the town people in and

602
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:20,840
I know that during like I think
it's the fair Port Music Fest. Who

603
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:22,719
was the guy? Is there a
guy that was bringing out his golf cart?

604
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:27,119
Oh? Yeah, and you would
pay him and he would run you

605
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:30,920
up and down to the different venues
and things. And I think they're thinking

606
00:40:31,639 --> 00:40:37,119
of hiring people and buying golf carts
because the parking would be down in the

607
00:40:37,159 --> 00:40:40,400
old railroad bed. And I keep
saying, I'll find a bunch of guys,

608
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:45,199
let's invest I'd love to make some
money off a park, you know

609
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:47,599
what I mean. But but I
don't know if that'll happen. Yeah it

610
00:40:47,679 --> 00:40:52,039
should. Yeah, So how many
we're twenty years in? Yeah, there'll

611
00:40:52,079 --> 00:40:57,719
still be year nineteen nineteen, Okay, so nineteen years in and each year

612
00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,760
it gets bigger and bigger. I
mean now we've got jumbo screens and a

613
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:06,599
third stage behind and then is there
anything down by the cannery outside stage or

614
00:41:06,639 --> 00:41:12,119
just no? No, everything's in
those businesses, so you so but involved

615
00:41:12,199 --> 00:41:15,159
in there would be things in Iron
Smoke, Hot Chicks, so you can

616
00:41:15,199 --> 00:41:22,320
go in there and tin Cup?
So inside where would I see gen Where

617
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:27,599
won't you all? Really? Are
you playing? Are you playing? Yeah?

618
00:41:27,639 --> 00:41:31,280
So tomorrow I'm just gonna let that
sit there. It's rude to say

619
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:37,639
anything. Tomorrow what Iron Smoke.
We're gonna have a little jam okay,

620
00:41:37,639 --> 00:41:40,760
which you'll participate. We got about
three or four bands and then other so

621
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:46,079
we're actually gonna this. This piece
will drop for people to download Thursday,

622
00:41:46,159 --> 00:41:52,000
So tonight, yes, yeah,
tonight okay, And then and then on

623
00:41:52,079 --> 00:41:55,119
Friday we have Jumbo Shrimp and a
band called Magnolia Boulevard out of Kentucky.

624
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:00,719
Do you know them? I've been
here when they've one before. They're just

625
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:05,199
incredible, Okay, unbelievable. Jumbo
always does the opening party, is it?

626
00:42:05,199 --> 00:42:08,320
Where's that going to be? That'll
be behind Mulconneris that's the one stage

627
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:12,280
that we have? Well, hello, hell, yeah, it's always fun.

628
00:42:12,559 --> 00:42:15,519
It's not around, is he He
may pop up at anytime. He's

629
00:42:15,559 --> 00:42:19,840
everywhere, Yes he is, yes, And so we'll have a jam session

630
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,960
for the last two hours of that
and she'll participate then. And then on

631
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:28,000
Saturday, are you playing in the
morning jam on the B side? Probably

632
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:32,119
so eleven thirty at the B side, yeah, yeah, and then six

633
00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:36,760
o'clock on the south stage, which
is right over here, right over here,

634
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:39,920
yeah, yeah, yeah, and
then the afterburner which will be Sunday

635
00:42:40,079 --> 00:42:45,079
and iron smoke right and and how
do I find the schedule if I want

636
00:42:45,119 --> 00:42:50,679
to find It's on forport Music Festival
dot com. And it's got all the

637
00:42:50,679 --> 00:42:54,280
other venues on it too, not
just our stages, and then links links

638
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:58,360
to the bands and yeah, how
long does it take to put all this

639
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,280
together? And to go out and
do you scout bands? You know?

640
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:06,559
I remember going once to south By
Southwest with a guy, a local promoter,

641
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:09,039
and he was scouting bands to bring
here for party in the park or

642
00:43:09,159 --> 00:43:12,760
other other things. Do you go
do that? I used to do it.

643
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,119
Now I let my daughter do it. Yeah, she's all over the

644
00:43:15,119 --> 00:43:19,000
place and she loves it. Yeah, she's the one who turned me on

645
00:43:19,039 --> 00:43:22,360
the Magnolia Boulevard. Is there a
vision with this at all? I mean,

646
00:43:22,599 --> 00:43:25,239
obviously great fundraiser for the hospital.
They have to be so grateful for

647
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:29,519
what you've done and what this has
become. But is there a vision to

648
00:43:30,199 --> 00:43:35,760
maybe make it almost like a Northeast
by Northeast? I don't you know what

649
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:38,280
I'm saying. I mean something along
those lines or no, we would need

650
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:43,960
an infusion of youth, an infusion
of youth and the volunteer stuff that we

651
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,320
do to make it any bigger.
Okay, it's it's quite a chore,

652
00:43:46,519 --> 00:43:51,960
yeah, I know. I mean
I see the stuff and it's really impressive,

653
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:54,519
and it's such a fun. It's
just such a great vibe. Right.

654
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:59,519
There's something about music that is this
is gonna sound hockey but kind of

655
00:43:59,519 --> 00:44:01,639
healing in a way. And I
think does right? I mean, am

656
00:44:01,639 --> 00:44:06,119
I wrong? I really believe that, And I think that there's something about

657
00:44:07,519 --> 00:44:12,679
bringing the community together for a common
goal and everybody is just there to have

658
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:15,440
fun. Yeah, right, and
in the hospital brings that to you know

659
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:19,760
what the charity is. Yes,
I think that's very important. I don't

660
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,960
know if we would be that successful
had we've done with another charity. Yeah,

661
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,840
because they you know, you know, they're big around here. They're

662
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:30,000
they're big. And I would always
say this too. You know, there's

663
00:44:30,039 --> 00:44:34,239
lots of charities, but this is
one where the money stays local, right,

664
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:37,719
and so you're helping out. And
it's not just Rochester, but it's

665
00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:42,119
the greater Western New York region.
How many people do we hear about child

666
00:44:42,559 --> 00:44:46,119
dad in Canadegua ends up at Thompson
and they don't have what's needed, so

667
00:44:46,199 --> 00:44:50,639
they transfer the transfer them up here. And what they're doing at the hospital

668
00:44:50,639 --> 00:44:52,840
now is amazing. There's private rooms, they've tried to make it comfortable for

669
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:58,719
mom and dad stay there. They've
done some really innovative things over at Alicana

670
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:00,880
Children's Hospital, and a lot of
it has to do with this. And

671
00:45:01,159 --> 00:45:05,360
you know, the one thing I
think people aren't very aware of is that

672
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:08,079
a lot of times at hospitals,
they don't You can't turn anybody away if

673
00:45:08,119 --> 00:45:14,400
somebody shows up in need. So
sometimes where does that money come from?

674
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:16,199
Where does the money come from to
pay for someone who doesn't have the money.

675
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:20,239
And it's charities like this, you
know, And all we're doing,

676
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:23,239
when I think about it, is
Uh, making a better community, right,

677
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:27,039
You're making a better community. Yeah, I mean it's a better place

678
00:45:27,079 --> 00:45:29,920
to live. So that's pretty good. How did you get involved? Jen?

679
00:45:30,119 --> 00:45:32,239
Did they come out and find you
in Bloomington? How did they lure

680
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:37,159
you here? Well? I was
coming up doing theater shows in Rochester.

681
00:45:37,039 --> 00:45:42,079
We're doing Bruce Springsteen show. But
we're out at Marge's and my boss partner

682
00:45:42,159 --> 00:45:44,360
was up playing guitar and he comes
up and he was like, you have

683
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:45,159
nice hair. And I was like, oh, hey, what are you

684
00:45:45,159 --> 00:45:49,079
doing here? I'm with that guy
up there, you know, And then

685
00:45:49,199 --> 00:45:52,079
uh, toy about the festival.
And then a few years a few years

686
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:57,880
later, Yeah, invite me out. And I've stayed. Yeah, I

687
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:00,920
haven't moved in yet. How many
moved in? It's a nice area.

688
00:46:01,039 --> 00:46:05,159
I love it. I do too. I mean I'm not originally from here

689
00:46:05,199 --> 00:46:07,880
and went to college he or a
million years ago and just stayed. But

690
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:09,559
I love it. And the finger
Lakes are great. If you've been down

691
00:46:09,559 --> 00:46:13,119
into the finger Lakes. Yeah,
he always says it. But I always

692
00:46:13,119 --> 00:46:15,239
get here and they're like, I
don't want to leave Fairport. Yeah,

693
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,800
I mean Fairport itself. There's a
charm about it. It was funny because

694
00:46:19,199 --> 00:46:22,960
my youngest kid lives with his mom
at a state and he came to visit

695
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:27,400
and he was out talking to somebody. He would go do on the street

696
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:30,599
interviews for me. He's just a
kid, has no fear of anything.

697
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:34,000
So he's talking to this guy and
he said where he from. The guy

698
00:46:34,079 --> 00:46:37,440
was from Austin, had always learned
about the Erie Canal, wanted to come

699
00:46:37,519 --> 00:46:39,800
up and see the Erie Canal.
So my son Jamison says, oh,

700
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:43,599
yeah, well what do you think
of Rochester? And the guy goes,

701
00:46:43,639 --> 00:46:45,440
I'm not in Rochester, I'm in
Fairport. And Jamison goes, wow,

702
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,800
and then he goes and then Javison
said, now you're right, this is

703
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:54,519
a little safer. That's a little
scary. But we took our rackies for

704
00:46:54,639 --> 00:46:58,199
lunch today. So oh yeah,
that was an experience. I loved it.

705
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,639
Yeah, it's very good. I
ate my pasta. Yes, well

706
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:05,280
positive for the day you get.
You got a carbload, you got a

707
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:08,280
big weekend, you got a big
weekend coming soaking up everything else. Yes.

708
00:47:08,599 --> 00:47:13,639
So how many albums I've done?
Six? Six albums. One was

709
00:47:13,679 --> 00:47:16,280
a live one a live album.
What is that experience like doing a live

710
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:21,719
album. I've always wanted to capture
it because my memory is like an etch

711
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:25,320
a sketch, So definitely during shows, I don't remember a lot that happens,

712
00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:30,199
so to capture that moment. And
I love the human connection and everything.

713
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:31,760
So I say a lot of stupid
things when I'm on stage, and

714
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:34,960
I don't know what I'm talking about. So we canceled all that. We

715
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:37,880
took all that, but it was
just really cool to hear like the audience

716
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:43,360
response and get to experience the show
from an outside perspective, you know.

717
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:45,400
And I didn't pick myself apart or
anything else, like, It's just what

718
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:49,079
it was, and I loved it, love it. I always wanted to

719
00:47:49,079 --> 00:47:52,639
do one. Where can I go? Get Jen Christie albums? Modifying,

720
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:59,760
yeah, Apple, all of it. Yeah. So what's your background?

721
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:02,679
Like you're a kid parents musical?
Oh no, I'm adopted into a very

722
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:07,559
non musical family. Really. They
got up on the piano at around three

723
00:48:07,639 --> 00:48:10,960
and picked out trades fire and they
put me in lessons and then yeah classically

724
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:15,440
trained, yeah, and classically trained. Where did you go? I ended

725
00:48:15,519 --> 00:48:19,000
up going to IU for piano performance. Okay, I did it for semester

726
00:48:19,039 --> 00:48:22,800
because I had a full scholarship for
swimming, so I had to an athlete

727
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,320
and a musician. Well, I
was a swimmer. I can't do anything

728
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:29,920
else. A hall of fame as
really, Jen was just inducted into the

729
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:34,840
i U Sports Hall of Fame for
swimming. That's pretty cool. That's amazing

730
00:48:35,639 --> 00:48:39,880
because I'm going swimming to me is
so I many years ago I did a

731
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:44,360
triathlon, not like a mini one, not a not the full thing,

732
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:47,679
not the Iron Man. So the
running and biking, okay, the swimming.

733
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:51,400
I went out in the heat.
All of a sudden, they're swimming.

734
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:53,119
The next heat came out, they
were swimming over top me. I

735
00:48:53,159 --> 00:48:55,800
got kicked in the face. I
had to sit on the side of the

736
00:48:55,800 --> 00:49:00,920
thing at the end of just and
it was a half month. That's it.

737
00:49:00,039 --> 00:49:02,480
It was just a half mile.
I couldn't do it. I shouldn't

738
00:49:02,519 --> 00:49:08,280
do. I appreciate the swimming because
that's the running and biking. It would

739
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:12,159
be a team. Swimming is a
whole I mean, it's your whole body.

740
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:15,000
Yeah, you know that. That's
and talk about. I mean didn't

741
00:49:15,039 --> 00:49:20,199
I don't know much about swimming other
than Michael Phelps and what he used to

742
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:22,760
eat during training stuff. Man,
he burned some calories. My coach would

743
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:24,880
sit there at the end of the
lane and like, you're underweight and giving

744
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:29,079
peanut butter and stuff like that.
Really, because I mean, I just

745
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:32,079
what happens if you get underweight and
swimming. Well, it was a sprinter,

746
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:35,639
so all the other sprinters had big
legs and everything, and I was

747
00:49:35,639 --> 00:49:37,840
like a little stick and yeah,
like she'd always try to beef me up

748
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:42,159
a little bit, but yeah,
okay, it's it's just losing power when

749
00:49:42,199 --> 00:49:45,320
it comes to sprinting. So adopted
into a non musical family, I think,

750
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:52,239
to me, adoption is such a
wonderful thing because you get opportunities that

751
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:55,239
you may not have had. Did
you ever go Now? I have a

752
00:49:55,239 --> 00:50:01,639
friend who had given up a child
for adoption and and that kid is man

753
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:07,280
now and found this person and it's
been a wonderful reunion, it really has.

754
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:13,239
And sometimes I'm not sure about the
dad. They were teenagers and it

755
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:15,199
just wasn't, you know, the
right thing, And I always think,

756
00:50:15,519 --> 00:50:17,760
what a what a gift to somebody
else. It really was. My parents

757
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:22,639
were I think trying to get a
to adopt a kid for like six years

758
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:27,119
and then I came up on the
market, I guess, but uh well,

759
00:50:27,159 --> 00:50:29,760
and they it was like one day
visit and then they sent me home

760
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:31,559
with them. So you know,
it's always a joke going. You adopted

761
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:36,719
like a little older seventeen and a
half months old, Okay, okay,

762
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:38,519
okay, yeah, but I just
I mean, I just sent off in

763
00:50:38,559 --> 00:50:42,920
Tennessee. It was a closed adoption, so I couldn't I can't reach out

764
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:45,079
to my family. But I just
recently found out who, like where I

765
00:50:45,119 --> 00:50:47,280
came from, because they released all
the papers to me and I was like

766
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:51,920
one hundred pages of like just my
dad was a bassist and was in a

767
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:53,840
cover band in the Southeast. It
was just it was crazy to find out,

768
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:58,320
like it is nurture and it is
nature. Yeah, this isn't amazing,

769
00:50:58,559 --> 00:51:00,400
And it's nice that they were able
to nurture you enough that you were

770
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:05,760
to take piano, get classically trained, and be able to find this love

771
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:08,000
of swimming. And really it was
I got. I was very lucky.

772
00:51:08,079 --> 00:51:12,360
Yeah, and I have great two
older brothers. Thing. So yeah,

773
00:51:13,159 --> 00:51:17,440
and so you've never I think it
was twenty three and me or whatever is

774
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:22,400
how my friend found did you do
anything like that? Are you interested in

775
00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:24,840
doing it, I'm not really like
I I have a friend who's a PI

776
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:28,360
and he like was immediately like I
found a picture of your dad. I

777
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:30,440
found a picture of mode. I'm
like what and so that that was enough

778
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,800
for me. And okay, I
know a little bit of the background in

779
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:36,719
history just for you know, family, But yeah, I'm good. I'm

780
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:38,760
happy with my life. You know, everything worked out and you have the

781
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:42,760
pep your family right, and I
have friends and you know, I just

782
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:47,039
how supportive were the parents then for
musically and everything else, like when you

783
00:51:47,159 --> 00:51:51,000
started bands and things, because I
think a lot of parents kind of your

784
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:53,199
first thing is like you're gonna be
a what Yeah, you know, like

785
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:59,239
the ideas although you were going from
piano correct yeah, And I mean I

786
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:04,880
dropped out of that program pretty quickly, but Mellencamp hired me my fourth year.

787
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:07,960
I had finished my swimming career and
immediately hired me. So I didn't

788
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:10,199
finish my college career. My parents
were always I was. I was going

789
00:52:10,199 --> 00:52:13,760
for general studies at that point,
so okay, they're like, you need

790
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:15,880
to go back. And then finally
I have a company at home that does

791
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:20,599
tribute and reviews and stuff. Like
that, and they finally started coming to

792
00:52:20,599 --> 00:52:22,159
those shows and they're like, Okay, you've made a business out of this.

793
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:24,800
I mean, they're very supportive with
music, but they were always like

794
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:28,679
go back to school, geared to
something, and I'm like why, I'm

795
00:52:28,679 --> 00:52:31,920
perfectly happy and I had a great
career. Yeah, So how did Mellancamp

796
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:37,199
discover you? I was singing the
national anthem at an IU basketball game and

797
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:38,920
he was there. Yeah, and
he had heard me singing my sophomore year,

798
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:43,119
but then he heard me again my
senior year and then approached me or

799
00:52:43,159 --> 00:52:45,639
had me brought down to him.
And I didn't really know who he was.

800
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:49,440
I knew who he was, but
I didn't know I love it,

801
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:52,960
no, see, and he should
appreciate that too, right, it's not

802
00:52:52,039 --> 00:52:55,440
somebody dying to get on stage with
you. With someone who loves music,

803
00:52:55,679 --> 00:52:59,000
that's who I want next to me
or behind me. And it really was

804
00:52:59,079 --> 00:53:00,039
just like, hey, come out
of the studio. And then he was

805
00:53:00,079 --> 00:53:01,440
like, you want to go on
tour, you want to record on the

806
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:04,039
album? I was like, sure, why not? Like I haven't done

807
00:53:04,039 --> 00:53:06,920
that before and I'd never been to
a concert in my life. So my

808
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:10,000
first concert in my life. I
was on stage, so holy shit,

809
00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:15,280
Yeah, that's amazing. I learned
a lot. Wow, how old were

810
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:19,599
you? Twenty one years old?
Ye? Man, I mean it was

811
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,480
an introduction. We were on tour
during the when Night eleven happened, and

812
00:53:22,519 --> 00:53:27,119
so we did the concert for New
York and we did Today's show and so

813
00:53:27,159 --> 00:53:30,320
I was thrown into it very quickly, and it was an incredible experience.

814
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:32,400
And the fact I can say I've
played Red Rocks, you know, it's

815
00:53:32,559 --> 00:53:36,920
yeah, it's really it's cool Red
Rocks. It looks beautiful. I've never

816
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:40,480
been and I love the Rockies.
I spent some time in Park City,

817
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:45,480
Utah, and then I went over
I really, really really I went to

818
00:53:45,519 --> 00:53:49,159
college here. I had taken a
year off and I really wanted to go

819
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:52,960
to the University of Boulder at Colorado. So I went out. When I

820
00:53:52,039 --> 00:53:55,800
was in Park City was their first
summer and I went out there and I

821
00:53:55,840 --> 00:54:00,320
remember calling my mom. She's like, it's too far and there's no this

822
00:54:00,519 --> 00:54:02,119
and that size. I an't fuck. And then my sister goes to the

823
00:54:02,159 --> 00:54:07,239
University of South Carolina and it made
no sense. But uh, it made

824
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,719
no sense. Yes, it was
four hours away from where I grew up.

825
00:54:10,000 --> 00:54:13,800
But wow, what a what a? I mean, just it's right

826
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:16,239
place, right time, and talent
and talent well, and the talent.

827
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:22,559
The difference between classical music and all
of this. Yes, it's so drastically

828
00:54:22,599 --> 00:54:24,320
different. The chops are there because
of classical But yes, I had to

829
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:27,719
learn a lot. And I mean
I learned a lot from Pat Peterson,

830
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:29,719
who was the backup singer. I'd
watch her and be like, okay,

831
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:30,559
we're doing that now, all right, now, you know I'd learned all

832
00:54:30,559 --> 00:54:35,400
the moves and and now I just
act a fool. Were there? Were

833
00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:39,119
there? And you can see your
act a fool Saturday night at six o'clock

834
00:54:39,199 --> 00:54:43,199
south stage right here at the fair
Port Music Fest. Very good. Yeah,

835
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:45,400
there you go. Look at it. See come on, buddy,

836
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:52,760
I can sell it. So were
things choreographed for backup singers with meloncampinat was

837
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:54,280
slightly? I mean did they try
to know? I mean there was a

838
00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:57,880
lot of positioning and stuff like that. But dohn ever yell at you,

839
00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:00,960
Oh he yelled at everybody. Doesn't
getting No, I don't know. Do

840
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:04,440
you stay in touch? Not really? I stay in touch with a lot

841
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:06,679
of the band members. Yeah,
a lot of the band members and stuff.

842
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:10,159
Uh, because yeah, John was
I mean, did you ever watch

843
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:15,599
his daughter on Real Housewives? Yeah, I've never I've never watched it either,

844
00:55:15,679 --> 00:55:19,000
but I always was like wow,
And I think he showed up on

845
00:55:19,079 --> 00:55:22,719
a few episodes or certainly was talked
about. I think. Yeah, I

846
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:24,760
mean had in spec. His sons
were very tiny and I'd have to play

847
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:28,480
football on the ground with him when
I was because I was the youngest one.

848
00:55:28,519 --> 00:55:31,599
What were the kids names? HUD
and spec head Inspec HUD and spec

849
00:55:32,119 --> 00:55:37,840
Spec? What was spec short for? And anything? Spec? That's amazing,

850
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:40,480
isn't it? Yeah? I kind
of. I really like that because

851
00:55:40,519 --> 00:55:45,239
I've never like who's called spec spec. It almost sounds insulting in a way,

852
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:47,920
and it's an easy one to yell
out spec. Yeah it is.

853
00:55:49,119 --> 00:55:51,880
It is. It's one of those
that you can really call that name.

854
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:55,000
Wow. This is fascinating. And
how many have you been here before?

855
00:55:55,199 --> 00:55:58,760
Obviously you've mentioned that, but how
many years have you played art? I

856
00:55:58,800 --> 00:56:00,639
think my first one was in twin
team before the pandemic, and then I

857
00:56:00,639 --> 00:56:05,559
did an online one and then I
think this is maybe my fifth. Yeah,

858
00:56:05,599 --> 00:56:07,199
what happened during the pandemic? Rob? You I mean to keep this

859
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:14,519
going. So did they do an
online we did. We did Friday Night

860
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:19,360
online. Yeah right, yeah,
yeah, yeah, we did Friday Night

861
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:22,840
Online. And but during the course
of the summer we did these little things

862
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:27,719
we were calling pop ups. Yeah, and during the COVID thing, so

863
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:30,760
we'd go, we'd get a band
and a food truck going to somebody.

864
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:32,559
If you remember, this is when
you can only have one hundred people in

865
00:56:32,559 --> 00:56:37,159
your yard and you know, all
that or ship was going on. So

866
00:56:37,199 --> 00:56:44,559
we did about forty of those and
raised seventy five seventy five thousand dollars that

867
00:56:44,639 --> 00:56:46,760
summer. You had to be able
to present a check to the hospital for

868
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:52,119
seventy five thousand dollars during the middle
of a pandemic. How satisfying is it?

869
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:55,400
Frankly, it kind of dwarfs the
larger checks we've even when we've run

870
00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:59,920
the full festival, because it was
We've got a really good volunteer base,

871
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:07,079
and that's the entire organization is all
volunteers. But we got a dozen dozen

872
00:57:07,119 --> 00:57:10,760
and a half people who are kind
of regulars because we would have six popups

873
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:14,920
in a day, like on a
Saturday, we do one o'clock, three

874
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:19,519
o'clock and then four at five o'clock, and it was just people were just

875
00:57:20,039 --> 00:57:24,119
trying to get together with people again. Yeah, sure, and the pops

876
00:57:24,519 --> 00:57:30,400
and I mean there was such a
craving for that socialization. The bands loved

877
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:34,400
it because you can practice all you
want, but you weren't getting out in

878
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:37,599
front of anybody. The food trucks
loved it because they were essentially shut down

879
00:57:37,719 --> 00:57:44,280
during the pandemic. And so we
still do a few choice pop ups during

880
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:46,920
the course of any given year.
But now that bands are able to play

881
00:57:47,199 --> 00:57:52,280
normally, and now that food trucks
are doing graduations and bar Mitzvah's and everything

882
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:58,280
else, you know, there's there's
a little more planning into The popups were

883
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:01,000
truly just an organic. Hey,
we have this neighborhood party and we're wondering

884
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:06,039
if you'd like to come by and
sell some Fairport Music Festival merchandise. Really

885
00:58:06,119 --> 00:58:08,119
and and that happened the first time, and we met at the village in

886
00:58:08,199 --> 00:58:13,440
because that's where all of the good
thoughts happen, and we talked about we

887
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:15,840
don't have to get down to the
village in. We need some ideas.

888
00:58:16,079 --> 00:58:20,599
The first one it was like,
so how much money did we make yesterday?

889
00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:23,719
And and it was just over a
thousand dollars the first time. It

890
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:27,960
was like, all right, I
don't really have anything else to do this

891
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:32,199
summer? How about you? And
we It was probably about forty or fifty

892
00:58:32,239 --> 00:58:37,679
of them, and that the hospital
was blown away. Sure, how did

893
00:58:37,719 --> 00:58:42,199
this happen? Yeah? Oh,
that's great because it's it's beds that they

894
00:58:42,239 --> 00:58:45,360
need and those things, and there
are thousands and thousands of dollars and that's

895
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:51,400
uh, that's great. Tickets,
How do I get my bracelet to get

896
00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:55,519
in right now? Tickets are only
available online port Music Festival dot com.

897
00:58:55,639 --> 00:59:01,239
They're twenty five twenty five dollars and
you pick up the bands. We'll call

898
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:06,440
okay right over. It'll be at
the entrance of the festival, which is

899
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:08,880
Lift Bridge in Maine, Lift Bridge
of Main Yeah, okay, which is

900
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:12,480
just on the other side of the
lift bridge. Yes, it goes up

901
00:59:12,519 --> 00:59:15,480
and down. It's always fun with
the traffic. And then there's a train

902
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:17,880
and there's a train. I man, I watch one day because you know,

903
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:22,239
there's several ways to get in here, right that'll avoid all that stuff.

904
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:24,000
And I go, man, I
watch some people they get stuck at

905
00:59:24,039 --> 00:59:28,079
at the bridge because the boat's going
under. And then they get over the

906
00:59:28,079 --> 00:59:31,039
bridge and now train it's coming and
they go well, then they take the

907
00:59:31,119 --> 00:59:34,519
U turn and drive all away.
Yeah, I think it all pissed off

908
00:59:34,559 --> 00:59:37,880
and everybody's huffing. It's like,
give yourself a little extra time. It's

909
00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:39,119
a little bit of charm in fair
Port. That's what it is, a

910
00:59:39,159 --> 00:59:43,880
little bit of charm. Janet.
It's been a real pleasure talking to you.

911
00:59:44,159 --> 00:59:49,639
Are very interesting. What is another
song? Oh you do me in

912
00:59:49,679 --> 00:59:53,679
Bombie Bigee? Yeah? Can I
play that? Sure? I absolutely love

913
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:59,480
that song, and I love covers
of that. There's a thing like I

914
00:59:59,519 --> 01:00:04,280
remember an old radio host who's in
town, brother Weez, would always say

915
01:00:05,280 --> 01:00:07,920
a good you know, like cover
songs, Right, you had to do

916
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:10,599
a cover, And I never understood
why. And then I started hearing covers

917
01:00:10,639 --> 01:00:15,639
that were done in the vein of
the artist, not so much as a

918
01:00:15,639 --> 01:00:19,280
tribute. Right, it's not karaoke. And I loved it, and I

919
01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:22,840
my dad loved Janis Joplin. Uh, And so there were a lot of

920
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:27,519
it would be blasting throughout his Uh. I think he had a midlife crisis

921
01:00:27,519 --> 01:00:31,800
and bought a fiarro at one point, remember that, remember the ground that

922
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:35,719
high off the ground, and I
think that they had fires in the engine.

923
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:38,199
It was just like a real piece
of shit sports car. But he

924
01:00:38,599 --> 01:00:46,840
would blast Janis Joplin and uh,
I was always a fan. Is this

925
01:00:46,880 --> 01:00:53,960
on the live album? It is? Yeah? How fun is it to

926
01:00:54,039 --> 01:00:58,400
see the audience singing along too?
It's kind of a drug. It's definitely

927
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:01,679
a drug. Yeah, if I
could bottle it, Yeah, it's it's

928
01:01:01,719 --> 01:01:09,679
definitely definitely. I like this.
It's feeling news as now you splice a

929
01:01:09,679 --> 01:01:14,199
couple of different performances together. I
don't know about but at least video guys,

930
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:16,639
because you've just changed your outfit three
times in the video I'm watching.

931
01:01:17,039 --> 01:01:24,239
That's amazing. I should do that. Magician, none of my good and

932
01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:30,119
I was blaring so my Bobby sand
the Blue. Now do you have a

933
01:01:30,159 --> 01:01:36,280
full band here with you? I
actually have musicians from here really are so

934
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:40,920
generous and amazing and uh, they
learned my music and it's just another incredible

935
01:01:42,239 --> 01:01:45,000
Now, no pressure. But will
you do covers? You will? It

936
01:01:45,119 --> 01:01:50,639
will be one of them. It
will. We'll be there Saturday night,

937
01:01:51,000 --> 01:02:00,239
coming from good What's good enough for
me? Good enough for me? Love?

938
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:05,599
It. Wow, that's great you
are. That is fantastic. Fairport

939
01:02:05,719 --> 01:02:09,239
Music Fest. It all kicks off
Friday night, right or actually Thursday night,

940
01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:15,519
Thursday over at Iron Smoke with a
nice jam session and then Jumbo Shrimp.

941
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:21,079
Jumbo Shrimp ain't only a boulevard and
the FMF Jam is on Friday,

942
01:02:21,320 --> 01:02:24,960
then Saturday, the whole thing,
the full Monty goes. How many bands?

943
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:32,880
Over? Sixty sixty bands? Yeah? Did you start planning for next

944
01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:37,719
year? Right? Because I got
a few ideas there is a next year?

945
01:02:37,119 --> 01:02:40,480
Yeah right, all right, thank
you guys. It was a real

946
01:02:40,519 --> 01:02:55,840
pleasure and I can't wait to see
you perform. What's good enough for me?

947
01:02:59,159 --> 01:03:15,519
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948
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949
01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:22,239
really cool things going on at the
beer hall at ninety seven Railroad Street.

950
01:03:22,599 --> 01:03:27,880
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starts Friday, September six and it runs

951
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:30,559
through Wednesday, October twenty five.
Forty dollars for a team of two,

952
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:35,880
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953
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954
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:42,599
you're thinking to being part of this, step on it because registration closes on

955
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956
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957
01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:53,119
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958
01:03:53,480 --> 01:03:59,840
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959
01:04:00,079 --> 01:04:03,480
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960
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961
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:12,599
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962
01:04:12,639 --> 01:04:16,400
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963
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964
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965
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966
01:04:32,559 --> 01:04:36,360
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there one on nine West Main Street

967
01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:40,599
in the village of Webster. Dan
Bresnahan and his family have taken this eighteen

968
01:04:40,719 --> 01:04:45,800
hundreds Cobblestone Church and renovated into a
fantastic establishment. You've got a high end

969
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:50,440
bar that you can sit at comfortably, or you can have some intimate dining

970
01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:54,960
as well, nice table service.
I've gone on a couple of mandates there,

971
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:57,719
went with Kevin from the show one
night, went with my son another

972
01:04:57,840 --> 01:05:00,920
night. I've actually been there to
hang at the ball Are. It's a

973
01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:03,679
great place, Cobblestone on Maine,
and what I really really love is the

974
01:05:03,719 --> 01:05:10,199
fact that they're a local restaurant that
is supporting local businesses because it's all locally

975
01:05:10,239 --> 01:05:14,559
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976
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977
01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:21,960
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978
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979
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com. What is the lady?
You don't hurt me? Don't hurt no

989
01:06:13,679 --> 01:06:17,639
more? Danny, you're band?
I was gonna say, you're new band.

990
01:06:17,679 --> 01:06:23,559
But your band plays a lot of
nineties Ny chance you'd ever played this?

991
01:06:23,800 --> 01:06:26,199
I would love to play this,
you kid me. I would act

992
01:06:26,239 --> 01:06:29,480
the whole thing out. Hey you
you meet me? What's meet No?

993
01:06:29,639 --> 01:06:32,400
Himp him? Meet me? No? No, all right. I would

994
01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:35,719
definitely do this, but I'm dealing
with like four guys in there, like

995
01:06:35,840 --> 01:06:40,199
late fifties, sixties, so I
doubt it's gonna happen. What is the

996
01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:43,280
name of the band? Now?
The name of the band was don't know

997
01:06:43,440 --> 01:06:48,599
yet yeah, and then they shit
on that idea. So it's now called

998
01:06:49,079 --> 01:06:55,480
the vanity project. The vanity Projects. You know why, because all bands

999
01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:58,760
are vanity projects. Billy who came
up with the name, I did all

1000
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:01,239
right, and they liked it.
It's kind of like a wink wink to

1001
01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:04,320
like, come on, don't take
yourself too seriously. Okay, you're just

1002
01:07:04,360 --> 01:07:09,880
a cover band. Don't take yourself
too seriously. We start recording your own

1003
01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:12,559
stuff and putting it out and people
buying it, then I'll take you serious.

1004
01:07:13,119 --> 01:07:15,239
What's your number one hit? Our
number one hit? Well, we

1005
01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:18,559
have a lot of hits really,
but like do people are people are allowed

1006
01:07:18,599 --> 01:07:23,000
to like request? Well, there's
there's certain songs that like we have a

1007
01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:25,679
one hundred dollars roule on Freebird.
Then I into Nashville and found out that

1008
01:07:25,719 --> 01:07:29,159
they have a one hundred dollar rule
on Freebird too. But they're playing for

1009
01:07:29,199 --> 01:07:30,960
tips in Nashville. Like, nobody
that you get in the bar. You

1010
01:07:31,039 --> 01:07:33,480
just get to play. That's it. If you don't get make any money,

1011
01:07:33,519 --> 01:07:38,119
you're screwed. But nobody, nobody
gets paid except for by tips.

1012
01:07:38,199 --> 01:07:41,679
But with us, we do it. We do a version of La Woman

1013
01:07:41,719 --> 01:07:45,039
by the Doors that nobody does.
We do a version of Whipping Post by

1014
01:07:45,159 --> 01:07:48,800
the Allman Brothers that nobody else does. And we do a version of Rock

1015
01:07:48,840 --> 01:07:55,000
in the Free World where we used
to blend in Urgent by Foreigner and Lou

1016
01:07:55,119 --> 01:07:58,320
Graham that nobody else does. So
we have certain songs that we do that

1017
01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:01,119
nobody else does them the way we
nobody else, but other bands do the

1018
01:08:01,159 --> 01:08:05,840
same thing. We cover songs and
ways no nobody else does. Play like

1019
01:08:05,960 --> 01:08:11,039
wasn't that fifty fifties? Micauld played
the covers like Noah, I don't know,

1020
01:08:11,239 --> 01:08:14,440
I don't remember it. Yes,
probably. Do you have any originals?

1021
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:17,800
No, yeah, I should,
I don't. Is it hard to

1022
01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:26,800
do an original Rochester? Yeah,
because people people I have no sensibility writing,

1023
01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:30,000
you know what I mean. But
a music I'm thinking a musician,

1024
01:08:30,279 --> 01:08:32,920
it might be a little bit easier. It might maybe. There have only

1025
01:08:32,920 --> 01:08:36,439
been a handful of musicians and bands
who have gotten out of Rochester with their

1026
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:45,000
own stuff. Joy Wave is like
Danielle Ponder yeah LVO but with Daughtry Yeah,

1027
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:46,880
well he wrote songs for other people
though too, but he had like

1028
01:08:47,079 --> 01:08:51,800
he wasn't a band of way before
yea, they and they had their own

1029
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:59,000
original stuff, but they also mostly
played covers and then who else. There

1030
01:08:59,039 --> 01:09:00,319
was a band called Hard Rain for
a while. I don't know what happened

1031
01:09:00,359 --> 01:09:05,479
with them, and of course Black
Sheep Yeah, which led to luh.

1032
01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:13,359
Wegmans is pissing some people off.
Yea, So Wegmans put out signs in

1033
01:09:13,479 --> 01:09:17,680
certain places it says, our Wegman's
brand sodas contain aspartame and high fructose corn

1034
01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:24,039
syrup, artificial ingredients which do not
meet our food you feel good about requirements.

1035
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:29,039
For this reason, we've made the
difficult decision to stop offering Wegman's brand

1036
01:09:29,079 --> 01:09:32,920
soda or committed to helping our customers
live healthier, better lives through exceptional food,

1037
01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:38,279
and we want you to feel confident
in our Wegman's brand products. Some

1038
01:09:38,359 --> 01:09:42,479
people think this is big brotherish controlling
what you eat or drink or putting your

1039
01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:46,000
body, and I'm going, I'm
not sure about that exactly. I don't

1040
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:50,479
know why they're not doing that,
but uh, I don't think he's limiting

1041
01:09:50,479 --> 01:09:57,039
your choice, because there's certainly I
think they're just controlling, exercising control over

1042
01:09:57,079 --> 01:10:00,319
their brand of stuff. Yeah,
this isn't like Bloomberg in New York that

1043
01:10:00,399 --> 01:10:02,840
sodas can only be like a certain
size, right, that's kind of controlling.

1044
01:10:03,159 --> 01:10:10,399
Could be because there's recent studies that
are suggesting community in July cancer and

1045
01:10:10,439 --> 01:10:14,199
all kinds of other health problems.
And maybe Wegman soda does not want to

1046
01:10:14,199 --> 01:10:16,399
be attached to any kind of lawsuit, you know what I mean down the

1047
01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:20,800
line where people are like, I
only drank exclusively diet W cola. That's

1048
01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:24,079
why they put all them. That's
why they put all the ingredients on the

1049
01:10:24,119 --> 01:10:26,600
label. You're supposed to read it. So that's what what releases them from

1050
01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:31,720
liability. But the thing is like
aspartame, Like the FDA took them eight

1051
01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:36,319
tries to approve aspartame back in the
seventies and eighties. It took what they

1052
01:10:36,359 --> 01:10:40,079
shut it down eight different times,
and finally the right people came along with

1053
01:10:40,119 --> 01:10:42,800
the right amount of money and got
them to go along with it. It

1054
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:45,960
leads to autism and it leads to
pancreatic cancer, among other stuff. Here's

1055
01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:51,039
the thing that I don't I don't
like that that soda was eighty eight cents

1056
01:10:51,079 --> 01:10:59,600
for wasn't really never had it.
I don't drink Could it be because like

1057
01:10:59,640 --> 01:11:03,000
aspeare expensive. No, well,
I don't think. I don't know that

1058
01:11:03,039 --> 01:11:06,159
it's more expensive to make. I
do think that it has to do with

1059
01:11:06,159 --> 01:11:12,880
aspartain because it does make it kind
of cause pause and consider what you're putting

1060
01:11:12,880 --> 01:11:15,359
in your body, right, So
I went for people who don't know.

1061
01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:24,000
Aspartame is an artificial non sac ride
sweetener two hundred times sweeter than sucros and

1062
01:11:24,159 --> 01:11:28,399
is commonly used as a sugar substitute
and foods and beverages. It was approved

1063
01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:33,680
by the US Food and Drug Administration
in nineteen seventy four and then again in

1064
01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:38,079
nineteen eighty one, after approval was
revoked in nineteen eighty, so we had

1065
01:11:38,079 --> 01:11:40,960
it from seventy four to eighty.
It was revoked in eighty and then back

1066
01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:45,079
in eighty one, so it didn't
it wasn't gone that long like somebody was

1067
01:11:45,119 --> 01:11:48,640
making some money off this. Aspartame
is one of the most studied food additives

1068
01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:55,039
in the human food supply. Reviews
by over one hundred governmental regulatory bodies found

1069
01:11:55,039 --> 01:12:00,640
the ingredients safer consumption at the normal
acceptable daily intake. I don't know what

1070
01:12:00,680 --> 01:12:04,199
that is. Basically is based on
a two thousand calorie diet. If you're

1071
01:12:04,279 --> 01:12:11,439
drinking it maybe with one meal like
dinner or lunch. Ok, that's probably

1072
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:15,680
where they try to assume, okay, but most people don't. Most people

1073
01:12:15,720 --> 01:12:17,960
don't do that. No, most
people want the super gulp at the local

1074
01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:24,520
country fair. So I went to
a big jug according to NPR just last

1075
01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:28,119
month, and this is probably why
Wegman's now coming out and doing this.

1076
01:12:28,520 --> 01:12:31,680
The announcement this week by the World
Health Organization this was in July that the

1077
01:12:31,800 --> 01:12:36,520
artificial sweetener aspartame, used in such
low calorie products as diet coke, tried

1078
01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:45,119
and gum and sugar free jello is
possibly carcinogenic to humans has many wondering in

1079
01:12:45,199 --> 01:12:48,239
the if the food out of it
additive is safe to consume now. According

1080
01:12:48,279 --> 01:12:54,640
to doctor Francesco Bronca, director of
the Department of Nutrition and Food Safety for

1081
01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:59,279
the World Health Organization, said that
concern was only for high consumers of diet

1082
01:12:59,279 --> 01:13:05,640
soda. Now I knew somebody who
drank diet soda every day, probably damn

1083
01:13:05,680 --> 01:13:10,239
if it was twelve. I wouldn't
be surprised if they drink twelve a day,

1084
01:13:10,680 --> 01:13:12,760
or at least a six pack,
because I'll say at least a six

1085
01:13:12,800 --> 01:13:15,039
pack a day. Did they have
a lot of joint pain? I no,

1086
01:13:15,399 --> 01:13:20,840
they were a pain and everybody else's
joint. But I can think of

1087
01:13:20,960 --> 01:13:25,159
one person that I know like that, and it would be interesting to see

1088
01:13:25,399 --> 01:13:28,479
what happens. You're our lab rat, right, you know what I mean.

1089
01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:30,760
I know a lot of people that
drink like especially on set, Like

1090
01:13:30,840 --> 01:13:34,720
diet coke is like a commodity.
You have gotta have diet coke around,

1091
01:13:34,760 --> 01:13:39,399
and I don't know people. I
personally can't do anything diet or anything.

1092
01:13:39,720 --> 01:13:43,600
I can taste the aspertain. That
is the first thing I can and really

1093
01:13:43,760 --> 01:13:45,800
thing I can taste, and I
can't taste anything else. So I can't

1094
01:13:45,840 --> 01:13:48,600
do anything with fake sugar. If
it has fake sugar and any kind of

1095
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:53,239
fake sugar, I could tell really
instantly because I'm like, this doesn't taste

1096
01:13:53,279 --> 01:13:58,640
like it just tastes like chemicals.
Yeah it's bizarre, but yeah, it's

1097
01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:01,800
like like while you drink the diet
cherry PEPSI sometimes this is a little pick

1098
01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:04,239
me up. But I don't drink
a lot of soda. I hadn't drank

1099
01:14:04,359 --> 01:14:09,439
soda probably for years, and then
I just started doing the diet stuff again.

1100
01:14:09,680 --> 01:14:12,760
Yeah I know, I know,
people who are love diet coke.

1101
01:14:13,039 --> 01:14:15,800
I can't go near it. Yeah, yeah, I can't drink any I

1102
01:14:15,840 --> 01:14:18,000
don't drink soda anymore at all.
But when I did, I couldn't drink

1103
01:14:18,039 --> 01:14:21,079
the diet stuff. It was disgusting, but it made it made it sound

1104
01:14:21,079 --> 01:14:26,199
like those fewer calories everything else.
Well, yeah, because you couldn't measure

1105
01:14:26,319 --> 01:14:29,640
espert tame like you could sugar.
Right, that was the trick. But

1106
01:14:29,680 --> 01:14:32,199
the tradeoff is you're putting something in
your body that your pancreas doesn't know what

1107
01:14:32,239 --> 01:14:38,560
to do with, so over and
over the according to the International Agency for

1108
01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:43,079
Research on Cancer, it raised a
red flag for research to be done.

1109
01:14:43,119 --> 01:14:46,199
But they were talking about it only
being high consumers. But I think probably

1110
01:14:46,279 --> 01:14:50,119
anywhere in the world that consumes the
most diet coke right here in the good

1111
01:14:50,159 --> 01:14:53,760
old US of A. Yeah,
they say if you go to Europe and

1112
01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:57,239
just eat the same stuff you're eating
here, yeah, you'll lose like twenty

1113
01:14:57,239 --> 01:15:00,279
pounds over six months because they have
rules were there where you can't put certain

1114
01:15:00,319 --> 01:15:03,720
crap of the food. Well,
totally just passed a law where you cannot

1115
01:15:03,720 --> 01:15:08,840
have any lab grown food at all
in the country of Italy. No lab

1116
01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:13,399
grown food because they want to celebrate
their heritage of farmers and growing food from

1117
01:15:13,399 --> 01:15:15,800
the land and something they don't want. It taught the world how to eat

1118
01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:17,920
billy, it's right, so you
don't have that. It's just certainly like

1119
01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:21,199
I went over there and ate my
weight in pasta every day and came home

1120
01:15:21,239 --> 01:15:27,039
winging less shit. Yeah, because
it's all natural. There's no preservatives a

1121
01:15:27,079 --> 01:15:30,800
bullshit in it, all right,
mecanic pervatives. Stop? What have you

1122
01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:34,119
stopped eating? Is there anything you
don't eat anymore because you found out like

1123
01:15:34,159 --> 01:15:38,640
it's just not that good or you
don't feel is good when you eat it.

1124
01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:43,560
I don't drink anything that isn't water
pretty much or tea, craffee.

1125
01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:47,760
You're just a pussy. I'll be
cocktail once in a while, but I

1126
01:15:47,800 --> 01:15:50,560
don't drink any of that sugar.
Still. I don't drink milk anymore.

1127
01:15:50,680 --> 01:15:55,159
Yeah, there's hormones and milk.
I don't drink all the milk because I

1128
01:15:55,159 --> 01:15:59,199
found out that that could lead to
migraines. I don't I'm serious. There's

1129
01:15:59,199 --> 01:16:01,319
a lot of additives that stuff.
I did a whole video about all the

1130
01:16:01,359 --> 01:16:06,560
plant based milks and really basically what
about the plant based meats us. It's

1131
01:16:06,600 --> 01:16:11,520
all clue, not necessary. It's
meat. It's all meat glued. Look

1132
01:16:11,560 --> 01:16:15,520
at us. It's just it's not
natural, you know what I mean.

1133
01:16:15,560 --> 01:16:18,159
It's not like it's not a better
necessarily alternatives crap. Bill Gates is trying

1134
01:16:18,159 --> 01:16:20,239
to push on us. I'm not
joking, but they want to they want

1135
01:16:20,239 --> 01:16:24,279
to create meat in the lab,
and it's going to be disgusting. Yeah,

1136
01:16:24,279 --> 01:16:28,800
there's a lot of things I don't
know. I did that a diet

1137
01:16:28,840 --> 01:16:32,239
that was I think designed for people
on who had diabetes, right, and

1138
01:16:32,279 --> 01:16:38,479
so they had so I ate the
FLDS five hundred calories a day all in

1139
01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:42,880
quake role four. Maybe it was
seven hundred, seven hundred calories a day

1140
01:16:43,039 --> 01:16:47,000
for thirty days. And I lost, uh, forty pounds, you said,

1141
01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:50,680
I know, I was more like
thirty pounds and forty days, That's

1142
01:16:50,680 --> 01:16:54,319
what it was. I lost thirty
and forty So it was over forty days.

1143
01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:57,479
And I gotta tell you, like
what Jesus went through in the desert

1144
01:16:57,520 --> 01:17:01,920
when the Devil's trying to tap lost
thirty days, right, and he thanked

1145
01:17:01,960 --> 01:17:06,720
doctor man No. But this was
so you wound up like you were eating

1146
01:17:06,760 --> 01:17:14,479
you could eat eggs, avocado,
Uh, grass fed meat expensive yeah,

1147
01:17:14,600 --> 01:17:17,720
uh, salmon. Those are the
things I ate. So then over over

1148
01:17:17,800 --> 01:17:21,039
time, I didn't feel like it
was eating a lot. And it took

1149
01:17:21,039 --> 01:17:26,119
a couple of years, but I
put like all the weight back on and

1150
01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:30,039
I was like, wow, but
you felt so amazing. I slept better.

1151
01:17:30,439 --> 01:17:33,159
They have some It's not him a
Laan salt. It's some kind of

1152
01:17:33,199 --> 01:17:36,119
pink salt that I should probably go
back and get. It was the most

1153
01:17:36,159 --> 01:17:42,880
flavorable, flavorable stuff. No it's
not, it is, but this stuff

1154
01:17:42,920 --> 01:17:45,920
was like a Hawaiian What wasn't the
stuff that was making people like turn into

1155
01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:49,800
zombies? Right? No? This
was. It tasted so good and you

1156
01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:54,640
I put it on like blueberries and
almonds. It tasted like ice cream to

1157
01:17:54,680 --> 01:17:59,319
me. Yeah. And then I
ate peanut butter one day with dipped it

1158
01:17:59,359 --> 01:18:01,399
in strawberries, and I felt like
I was hung over the next day because

1159
01:18:01,479 --> 01:18:03,880
all the sugar and shit in there. And I go, God, damn,

1160
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:08,520
we poison ourselves in this country and
we don't know what sugar we think

1161
01:18:08,520 --> 01:18:13,239
we're eat and we're not eating healthy, and then we do all this stuff.

1162
01:18:13,279 --> 01:18:15,960
And now I've gotten to the point
where I go, I don't know.

1163
01:18:15,399 --> 01:18:19,079
You know, you can be low
carb and all that, you probably

1164
01:18:19,119 --> 01:18:24,000
should balance your carbs. I primarily
just eat wraps now. I eat like

1165
01:18:24,039 --> 01:18:27,119
a breakfast wrap that I make at
home. I ate a rap when you

1166
01:18:27,159 --> 01:18:30,840
came in here with hummus and turkey, and but I don't I even that

1167
01:18:30,880 --> 01:18:34,199
you wouldn't eat that on this diet
because it because of the carbs and ship

1168
01:18:34,479 --> 01:18:38,720
and the sugar that are that the
carbs are and we get fooled. But

1169
01:18:38,920 --> 01:18:42,760
if you kind of regulate everything and
move your body, I think we'd be

1170
01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:45,840
way better. But god, damn, are we fatten this country? Look

1171
01:18:45,880 --> 01:18:49,079
around? Oh look for this well, elks and are our generation is gonna

1172
01:18:49,079 --> 01:18:53,119
be the first one to not outlive
its parents. Yeah, what's true?

1173
01:18:53,239 --> 01:18:55,800
You didn't hear that? This is
like a statistical Yeah, I believe that's

1174
01:18:55,800 --> 01:18:59,520
true. Like our we'll become the
first generation that will not outlive its parents.

1175
01:18:59,520 --> 01:19:02,199
PERI. So I don't know.
They were giving us basically dessert for

1176
01:19:02,640 --> 01:19:08,039
breakfast every morning, like crunch.
Now, I wasn't allowed to have any

1177
01:19:08,039 --> 01:19:12,039
of that ship as a kid,
I had puffed rice or eggs. That

1178
01:19:12,119 --> 01:19:19,800
was just my mother went and got
no, no, there was no sugary

1179
01:19:19,880 --> 01:19:25,159
stuff. She would get one thing
of cookies and it had like four sleeves

1180
01:19:25,159 --> 01:19:28,680
in this one pack. We'd eat
that within an hour of a coming home

1181
01:19:28,760 --> 01:19:31,840
and that was it for two weeks. So you ate apples, you ate

1182
01:19:32,159 --> 01:19:39,159
like that was it. Milk came
straight from the farm, prepasteurized and used

1183
01:19:39,159 --> 01:19:45,359
to scrape the cream right off the
top. Were family. My grandmother was

1184
01:19:45,399 --> 01:19:51,199
a high rocks person like my dad's
mom, and my mom's mom was oreos

1185
01:19:51,920 --> 01:19:57,000
oreos. She had everything chocolate chip, the soft bats, the hard baked,

1186
01:19:57,039 --> 01:19:59,840
every kind of chocolate like. I
used to have a contest when I

1187
01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:03,159
would go see my mom's parents that
she would greet everybody at the door and

1188
01:20:03,199 --> 01:20:06,680
she'd be pinching your cheeks and doing
the whole grandma thing. I would try.

1189
01:20:06,760 --> 01:20:10,520
I would sneak in. I knew
exactly where the cookie jar was was

1190
01:20:10,600 --> 01:20:14,439
right behind the side door, so
everybody's waiting to get in. I'd hanging

1191
01:20:14,439 --> 01:20:16,439
in the back and I'd see how
many cookies I could shove my face for.

1192
01:20:16,560 --> 01:20:20,279
Grandma kissed me as a kid,
but we didn't have that in my

1193
01:20:20,319 --> 01:20:25,760
house. My other grandmother hidrocks,
and then she used to send in the

1194
01:20:25,840 --> 01:20:32,039
labels and get hydrock socks. Oh
yeah, yeahs my mother went into labor

1195
01:20:32,399 --> 01:20:35,920
wearing hydrock socks with my sister.
I'm pretty sure. I'm pretty sure.

1196
01:20:36,239 --> 01:20:40,720
I'm pretty sure. I'm pretty sure
that I just learned that the Hi Drocks

1197
01:20:40,800 --> 01:20:43,880
cookie came first. A lot of
people think like the oreo came first and

1198
01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:46,840
then Hidrocks is like the knockoff.
But actually the Hydrocks cookie came first,

1199
01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:50,239
and then the Oreo just came along
and did it better. Hidrocks were disgusting

1200
01:20:50,279 --> 01:20:55,840
Soreland. No one knows the origin
of the why. They don't know why

1201
01:20:55,840 --> 01:20:59,119
it's called an oreo, Like there's
no reason, no rhyme or reason for

1202
01:20:59,199 --> 01:21:03,039
it. I don't know why.
Uh yeah, I don't know. I

1203
01:21:03,079 --> 01:21:08,119
don't know why we had high Drocks. Maybe because it was the original.

1204
01:21:08,159 --> 01:21:11,720
It could be just because like maybe
that was like I understand you grew up

1205
01:21:11,720 --> 01:21:14,640
at like in a smaller town.
Well no, but this was they were

1206
01:21:14,920 --> 01:21:18,479
New York and Brooklyn and New Jersey, and so maybe just like was not

1207
01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:23,199
available in there, like there's things
that are not available in my grocery stores

1208
01:21:23,319 --> 01:21:26,439
living in on the upper west side
of Manette. And then you guys can

1209
01:21:26,439 --> 01:21:28,520
get at wegmans. I can't get. We used to have a saying in

1210
01:21:28,560 --> 01:21:31,279
school high drocks tastes like clorox.
I mean it had had that chemical taste

1211
01:21:31,279 --> 01:21:38,399
too. It was discussed. I
don't remember. I love, but I

1212
01:21:38,439 --> 01:21:42,840
haven't had anyone. Here's what I
take away from the World Health Organization and

1213
01:21:42,920 --> 01:21:46,079
NASPAR team. Just as long as
you don't overdo anything, you're gonna be

1214
01:21:46,119 --> 01:21:49,520
fine. Your body is resilient,
You're gonna it's gonna be able to do

1215
01:21:49,720 --> 01:21:55,119
stuff. Just trying to keep shit
in moderation, keep everything in moderation.

1216
01:21:55,439 --> 01:21:59,680
I didn't do a lot of moderation
on things, especially alcohol, during all

1217
01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:02,600
the bad Blue period or that,
and then I mean even during COVID Man

1218
01:22:03,319 --> 01:22:08,239
COVID was bad for me at times. I don't think anybody did anything in

1219
01:22:08,319 --> 01:22:12,199
moderation during COVID. Well, it
was hard. I tried to work out

1220
01:22:12,239 --> 01:22:16,239
and stuff and I kept I went
down. But I know who's one of

1221
01:22:16,279 --> 01:22:19,399
my best buddies, Damien, And
what does he own a bar? And

1222
01:22:19,439 --> 01:22:24,039
what did we do? We went
in there and we just we so they'd

1223
01:22:24,079 --> 01:22:28,119
be working on the floors and I
would get I would get so drunk that

1224
01:22:28,199 --> 01:22:31,640
I like, I wound up having
to spend spend the night in some places

1225
01:22:31,920 --> 01:22:35,159
I was I mean I was a
cop show up with the club. Hey,

1226
01:22:35,239 --> 01:22:39,600
Damien, now you will put her
close, coming to clean up a

1227
01:22:39,600 --> 01:22:43,279
little, you know. No,
everybody was No, it was like tight

1228
01:22:43,520 --> 01:22:45,560
right. It was just like people
there, but you were working, cleaning,

1229
01:22:45,600 --> 01:22:48,920
they were doing you were doing stuff. But we were drinking. And

1230
01:22:48,960 --> 01:22:53,199
most of it was because it was
gonna go bad. Well, can't get

1231
01:22:53,279 --> 01:22:55,159
rid of it. Some of the
beer and stuff is gonna go bad.

1232
01:22:55,199 --> 01:22:58,520
But I mean there were times I
was like I couldn't. I mean,

1233
01:22:58,640 --> 01:23:01,640
it was bad, and I remember
going, what am I doing? What

1234
01:23:01,680 --> 01:23:06,039
am I doing with Then the next
day yeah, I mean I did it

1235
01:23:06,079 --> 01:23:10,119
here in the beginning of the podcast
stuff, and I would get I mean

1236
01:23:10,520 --> 01:23:14,039
there were times where I was like
so hung over and I go and that's

1237
01:23:14,079 --> 01:23:16,720
the ship that I'm going. Nah, it's okay, just trying to keep

1238
01:23:16,760 --> 01:23:19,119
your ship in moderation. You know, when you see these old people.

1239
01:23:19,319 --> 01:23:23,479
I always love that guy drink and
drank every day. Yeah, but he

1240
01:23:23,520 --> 01:23:30,680
probably wasn't eating processed cheese and whatever
bullshit, whatever chemicals put into the dough

1241
01:23:30,760 --> 01:23:34,319
of whatever pizza you're shoving in your
face and pop tarts and your He probably

1242
01:23:34,319 --> 01:23:39,039
had a physical job where he had
he was like working his muscles all day

1243
01:23:39,359 --> 01:23:42,640
long. It could be yeah,
he may have had to walk the walking

1244
01:23:42,720 --> 01:23:45,039
stuff and from work. That's the
thing. It's like, well, you

1245
01:23:45,079 --> 01:23:51,000
know why, Like Europeans are probably
in shape and they say the Mediterranean diece

1246
01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:54,960
supposed to be the best. But
the walking, right, there's a lot

1247
01:23:55,000 --> 01:23:57,439
of walking, I'm do. You
must do a lot of walking in manhattanns

1248
01:23:58,359 --> 01:24:01,399
all walking basically, you know,
so that keeps you a little bit thinner,

1249
01:24:01,800 --> 01:24:04,239
a little healthier, keeps your blood
going. And say, sitting as

1250
01:24:04,239 --> 01:24:11,239
a new smoking Bro's how you believe
it that I see people sitting stuff like

1251
01:24:11,359 --> 01:24:14,119
that's why I see people sitting outside
for their break. Hey, you know

1252
01:24:14,159 --> 01:24:16,760
I'm just taking a break. Well, man, I love I love when

1253
01:24:16,760 --> 01:24:21,000
I see people go get all shit
shit all over Wegmans. I haven't been

1254
01:24:21,039 --> 01:24:26,000
there forever. In the comments,
I don't even go anymore. I haven't

1255
01:24:26,039 --> 01:24:28,520
been to Wegmans. I'm going.
I just went the other day and I

1256
01:24:28,560 --> 01:24:31,079
couldn't find a fucking parking spot.
So thanks for nothing. Let's a yogi

1257
01:24:31,119 --> 01:24:34,239
barrel. What's said about Mickey Mantles
restaurant. Hey, Yogi, you got

1258
01:24:34,239 --> 01:24:36,880
a Mantle's restaurant. All, No, nobody goes there anymore. It's two

1259
01:24:36,920 --> 01:24:42,239
crowded. Yeah right, it's the
same thing. I go. I love

1260
01:24:42,359 --> 01:24:45,960
like, I mean people or people
are just gonna sho on stuff all the

1261
01:24:45,960 --> 01:24:47,439
time. It doesn't mean it's bad. It's just I swear to God,

1262
01:24:47,479 --> 01:24:51,720
it's it's just like become the national
pastime. It's just clean. They'll make

1263
01:24:53,640 --> 01:24:59,039
Instagram real complaining about Wegmans and the
Wegman's produce section, like, oh,

1264
01:24:59,079 --> 01:25:02,479
I'm sure they It's like if somebody's
eating something and they're like, oh this,

1265
01:25:02,600 --> 01:25:08,319
don't go to this restaurant. This
thing is terrible. Yeah, I

1266
01:25:08,319 --> 01:25:11,239
don't. I don't understand all the
all the complaints all the time, but

1267
01:25:11,319 --> 01:25:15,680
that's what it is. So no
more Wegmans soldat Yeah you are. They

1268
01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:18,800
still going to do their sparkling water
though, because they're sparkling water is awesome,

1269
01:25:19,399 --> 01:25:24,159
probably because it doesn't have the aspertainment
in zero calories. Yeah yeah,

1270
01:25:24,800 --> 01:25:28,640
natural flavors. Yeah, yeah,
there you go. There's sparkling water is

1271
01:25:28,680 --> 01:25:31,239
awesome. Really, it is awesome. I drink about like seventy cases of

1272
01:25:31,279 --> 01:25:35,399
it because we have Wegmans in Brooklyn
and they'll deliver, so I drink.

1273
01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:39,640
So how much does it cost to
get Wegmans into So who does the delivery?

1274
01:25:39,760 --> 01:25:44,359
Is it a third party? Yeah? So Instacart will deliver and they're

1275
01:25:44,359 --> 01:25:48,119
actually opening a Wegmans in Manhattan in
October. End of October. I'm so

1276
01:25:48,119 --> 01:25:50,880
excited because it's much closer to me. So how much does it cost to

1277
01:25:50,920 --> 01:25:55,319
get shipped from Brooklyn? How long
does it take? It depends you can

1278
01:25:55,439 --> 01:25:59,239
schedule the time. The thing that
the reason that I don't use it is

1279
01:25:59,319 --> 01:26:02,560
because every time I go and put
stuff in my cart, the stuff I

1280
01:26:02,600 --> 01:26:05,960
know they have on the shelf,
the instat cart person always messages me and

1281
01:26:06,079 --> 01:26:09,399
is like they don't have this,
they have this, and I happen to

1282
01:26:09,439 --> 01:26:13,079
know. I went there myself.
I would find the self. So either

1283
01:26:13,119 --> 01:26:15,720
you don't want to look or whatever. But it's actually not that expensive.

1284
01:26:15,760 --> 01:26:19,000
It's like the delivery fees like eight
dollars. It's completely worth it. We

1285
01:26:19,000 --> 01:26:21,840
don't even buy them indeed, but
we have some Macup powder. Would you

1286
01:26:21,880 --> 01:26:26,479
like the Macup Power. I live
on the fifth floor of a walk up

1287
01:26:26,680 --> 01:26:30,520
and they'll bring it all the way
up the stairs. It's so lovely to

1288
01:26:30,600 --> 01:26:35,079
live a long time. Because I
did the delivery for I paid and I

1289
01:26:35,199 --> 01:26:40,039
never use it now. Walmart,
Yeah, yeah, you don't use it.

1290
01:26:40,159 --> 01:26:44,000
I don't. I paid for the
Walmart free delivery for the year,

1291
01:26:44,520 --> 01:26:48,319
like up front, and I haven't
been using Walmart. How many of those

1292
01:26:48,359 --> 01:26:51,640
services though? Do you do that
with where you're like, oh, I'm

1293
01:26:51,680 --> 01:26:56,399
just gonna pay for the whole subscription. And then I did that with NEWM

1294
01:26:56,399 --> 01:27:00,000
and I finally canceled it because it
wasn't working for me. What is now

1295
01:27:00,000 --> 01:27:03,439
You're gonna laugh at me, but
I actually have I have a medical reason

1296
01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:08,319
why it didn't work. As for
tame, No, the medication I was

1297
01:27:08,439 --> 01:27:12,359
on was was not conducive to new
Anybody else could probably use it, but

1298
01:27:12,479 --> 01:27:15,000
yeah I couldn't because of the medication
I was on. Well that the fact

1299
01:27:15,000 --> 01:27:18,479
that you shove about six donuts in
your face, about five that was different

1300
01:27:19,640 --> 01:27:24,119
mylor budget today it was very low. Let me just say this in terms

1301
01:27:24,119 --> 01:27:27,159
of your color budget, and it
was every donut you actually and I'm not

1302
01:27:27,399 --> 01:27:30,920
even donuts holes, I'm not or
they hold or munchkins. I don't know

1303
01:27:30,920 --> 01:27:34,760
what they are. Okay, I
like holes. Okay, if you actually

1304
01:27:34,840 --> 01:27:39,560
wrote down everything you ate, would
you surprise yourself? No? At the

1305
01:27:39,600 --> 01:27:42,600
amount you eat. I could tell
every single I could tell you what I

1306
01:27:42,720 --> 01:27:45,600
ate today, right, No,
but sometimes there's mindless eating. Yeah.

1307
01:27:45,199 --> 01:27:48,840
I don't eat. No, I
don't eat until like noon every day,

1308
01:27:48,960 --> 01:27:54,479
and my last meal is usually about
six o'clock. Yeah, so it's working.

1309
01:27:54,800 --> 01:27:57,800
You know I've lost I've lost twelve
pounds. There you go, that's

1310
01:27:57,840 --> 01:28:00,760
great. Yeah, what surprises me
is that calories whenever I do, like

1311
01:28:00,800 --> 01:28:04,560
every once in a while, I'll
especially after COVID when everybody was like thirty

1312
01:28:04,560 --> 01:28:09,479
pounds overweight, me especially. I
started doing my fitness Pal, which is

1313
01:28:09,520 --> 01:28:12,840
basically like a food diary, and
you just get it tracks your calories and

1314
01:28:12,840 --> 01:28:15,039
it's it's pretty comprehensive, like a
lot of food is listed in there,

1315
01:28:15,079 --> 01:28:18,560
so she could pretty much eat anywhere
and eat anything. I would be often

1316
01:28:18,600 --> 01:28:21,960
surprised at like how many calories.
I wouldn't I feel like I wouldn't eat

1317
01:28:23,039 --> 01:28:25,680
that much, but the calories would
be out of control. I'd be like,

1318
01:28:25,800 --> 01:28:27,720
well, that's there it is,
you know what I mean. So

1319
01:28:27,760 --> 01:28:32,079
you kind of learned, like ever
healthier pictures to yourself, like from from

1320
01:28:32,600 --> 01:28:36,359
like when I'm on When I was
we were all doing the break room,

1321
01:28:36,520 --> 01:28:40,560
all three of us. I would
go home at night, and I thought

1322
01:28:40,560 --> 01:28:44,039
I was doing myself a favor.
I would only have three guinness at night.

1323
01:28:45,680 --> 01:28:48,359
It's like an extra thousand calories.
Yeah, practically, you know somewhere

1324
01:28:48,359 --> 01:28:51,279
I think you're going two fifty,
so call it. But by the time

1325
01:28:51,319 --> 01:28:56,600
you you got a few munchies in
there, it's a shamrock shake, shut

1326
01:28:56,680 --> 01:28:59,640
up. Got to bed an extra
three. But like I did it,

1327
01:28:59,720 --> 01:29:01,840
think it was nothing. And I
remember seeing my face back then, I'm

1328
01:29:01,880 --> 01:29:05,079
like, oh my god, dude, whoa We tried to extra Remember like

1329
01:29:05,079 --> 01:29:08,520
when John h at the Downtown Fitness
Center. I even know if they still

1330
01:29:08,520 --> 01:29:11,840
exist. He tried to get us
all the media in a competition to try

1331
01:29:11,880 --> 01:29:14,439
to lose weight. So the break
Room was one of those teams, right.

1332
01:29:14,560 --> 01:29:15,399
We were, Yeah, we're going
to the final were going to the

1333
01:29:15,399 --> 01:29:19,159
final leg of the of the of
the competition, and we had a chance

1334
01:29:19,199 --> 01:29:24,840
to win. You gained like six
pounds and we lost. Damn it.

1335
01:29:25,079 --> 01:29:28,239
Rob that's Tommy, you guys,
because Tommy wasn't part of it. I'm

1336
01:29:28,239 --> 01:29:30,159
gonna watch you fat guys, I
can't contain. You're gonna lose, right,

1337
01:29:30,399 --> 01:29:34,119
So we go in and we lose
to like you lost to our news.

1338
01:29:34,279 --> 01:29:41,920
Seriously, the weather lady half of
hers on Channel eight. That was

1339
01:29:41,960 --> 01:29:45,079
Tommy's old joke choke. Yeah,
she's so bad. It was so big,

1340
01:29:47,359 --> 01:29:53,960
yeah, genel ten whatever whatever.
They were right between her left legs

1341
01:29:54,000 --> 01:29:58,920
on eight, her fat right cheeks
on ten that it's terrible. All right,

1342
01:29:58,960 --> 01:30:02,199
we'll take a moment when we come
back. Somebody who did something that

1343
01:30:02,239 --> 01:30:06,760
I wonder if just some people think
this is heroic and bold. I think

1344
01:30:06,760 --> 01:30:11,159
it's kind of a very weak move. We'll get to that and we'll check

1345
01:30:11,199 --> 01:30:13,520
in with Kevin, who was dropping
off his kid at college. We'll do

1346
01:30:13,560 --> 01:30:16,479
all that next. You're over the
tears. I don't under over on the

1347
01:30:16,479 --> 01:30:24,159
tears. I'm gonna say, I
don't know if they've left yet or not.

1348
01:30:24,600 --> 01:30:27,600
Okay, so that's where the tears
start. Now. I did see

1349
01:30:27,640 --> 01:30:32,359
my college roommate and his wife dropping
their youngest off at the University of Tampa,

1350
01:30:32,479 --> 01:30:36,720
and I could see the tears coming
down mom's cheeks. Okay, Yeah,

1351
01:30:36,880 --> 01:30:40,960
Dad stayed out of the pictures,
so I don't know. I took

1352
01:30:41,000 --> 01:30:43,720
the pictures. So I'm not sure
because Keiv was all, yeah, whatever,

1353
01:30:44,239 --> 01:30:45,760
Yeah, I'm like, I don't
believe he stopped that. In my

1354
01:30:45,920 --> 01:30:49,199
very limited interaction with Kevin, I
could tell you that he's very proud of

1355
01:30:49,199 --> 01:30:53,520
his kids, and he loves his
kids, and I could potentially see him

1356
01:30:53,560 --> 01:30:55,479
like, so, what are you
gonna say? Cry? I'm gonna say

1357
01:30:55,520 --> 01:31:00,239
cry. He won't a minute,
but I believe he cries. Yeah.

1358
01:31:00,239 --> 01:31:01,800
I think he gets. I think
he gets a little dust, he gets.

1359
01:31:02,319 --> 01:31:08,920
Yeah, the vapors papers. All
right, we'll find outboro. But

1360
01:31:09,079 --> 01:31:12,920
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the Malot Grease Ridge and they've got it

1376
01:32:18,159 --> 01:32:21,600
all. Last night, I was
shocked at how much I loved, and

1377
01:32:21,640 --> 01:32:26,239
I knew it was gonna be great. The bTB Caesar Pizza, Romaine Caesar

1378
01:32:26,319 --> 01:32:31,720
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1379
01:32:32,439 --> 01:32:35,720
So good. And he actually gets
some health in there, right.

1380
01:32:35,760 --> 01:32:40,279
You get the romaine lettuce, and
he got to try the Bill of Fried

1381
01:32:40,359 --> 01:32:43,399
This month, I mean, Come
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1382
01:32:43,560 --> 01:32:46,720
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aoli, spicy mustard, banana pepper,

1383
01:32:46,840 --> 01:32:51,800
served with chips. It is amazing
and in the sharable department this month.

1384
01:32:51,960 --> 01:32:57,279
You need to try the pickle wings
ten wings, brine and pickle juice smoked

1385
01:32:57,279 --> 01:33:00,880
and tossed in dill seasoning. You're
gonna find it all at bat Beats would

1386
01:33:00,920 --> 01:33:04,520
fire Pizza and Grill where they have
great brunch on Sunday's beginning at ten o'clock

1387
01:33:04,560 --> 01:33:10,199
with two for one mimosas and Bloody
Mary's during that time fifty TVs to see

1388
01:33:10,319 --> 01:33:14,000
all the action this football season.
Batb would fire Pizza and Grill in the

1389
01:33:14,000 --> 01:33:30,039
mall like Greece Ridge. Danny comes
out with his shirt out open, put

1390
01:33:30,039 --> 01:33:36,760
his arms out, Oh I do, and a little necklace. Are you

1391
01:33:36,800 --> 01:33:42,760
also on massive amounts of last?
No? No I do a drug free

1392
01:33:43,039 --> 01:33:48,640
n only just just drinks water.
Noom doesn't even work free maybe high drugs

1393
01:33:50,920 --> 01:34:03,439
Danny's high and after tam Danny's hild
life Kido works. Yeah. The funniest

1394
01:34:03,439 --> 01:34:08,479
thing about this song is that nobody
really there's a dispute on what the lyrics

1395
01:34:08,479 --> 01:34:12,760
are, Jim, really, is
it I just got into town about an

1396
01:34:12,800 --> 01:34:15,279
hour ago? Or is it did
a Little Down about an hour ago?

1397
01:34:15,680 --> 01:34:18,520
Now, Keano saw you and you
did this too. When I played at

1398
01:34:18,560 --> 01:34:21,920
East Innfest with Deaglar's Bridge, we
did this song and Keena goes, I

1399
01:34:21,920 --> 01:34:25,279
didn't realize the words were just got
into town. I thought it was did

1400
01:34:25,279 --> 01:34:28,520
a little down. I go,
I've heard it two different ways, so

1401
01:34:28,600 --> 01:34:30,880
I just did that version. But
there's a dispute on what the lyrics are

1402
01:34:30,880 --> 01:34:34,720
because Morrison would play with the lyrics
to make it sound what it was it

1403
01:34:34,760 --> 01:34:39,920
this? Or was it that?
You'd have to guess? Mumbled half the

1404
01:34:39,920 --> 01:34:43,000
time. He's always high. Yeah, did you know he was dead and

1405
01:34:43,039 --> 01:34:47,199
buried before his parents found out he
was dead? What he was? He

1406
01:34:47,239 --> 01:34:51,720
was in Enigma bro Probably all that
aspartame that sort of right to his head,

1407
01:34:53,159 --> 01:34:57,039
a right to his head. I
feel like people that go visit his

1408
01:34:57,199 --> 01:35:00,000
grave and stuff, I don't know, I think that's weird. Does anybody

1409
01:35:00,039 --> 01:35:02,000
else think that's weird? Oh?
Yeah, well, is it anything weirder

1410
01:35:02,000 --> 01:35:05,640
than going to Graceland? And see? I don't That's what I feel like.

1411
01:35:05,920 --> 01:35:09,760
Some of that stuff is really strange. Like I was in I was

1412
01:35:09,800 --> 01:35:11,880
down by the World Trade Center the
other day and I was walking around.

1413
01:35:11,920 --> 01:35:14,920
I was seeing like all these people
taking pictures and some of their family,

1414
01:35:14,960 --> 01:35:19,159
and me personally, I think,
like that stuff is strange, Like I

1415
01:35:19,279 --> 01:35:23,319
know a family that just went and
visited Normandy and stuff and on the beach.

1416
01:35:23,479 --> 01:35:28,319
Yeah, I find that stuff.
I don't know. Well, Normandy's

1417
01:35:28,359 --> 01:35:31,560
historic, right, and that was
a yeah. So that so that one

1418
01:35:31,600 --> 01:35:36,039
I can almost see. But going
to the grave of well, I think

1419
01:35:36,039 --> 01:35:43,119
I stopped because why where was I
I wound up? Maybe it was I

1420
01:35:43,199 --> 01:35:46,880
down for a funeral and Bryan Jones's
great Now it was Steinbrenner. Oh yeah,

1421
01:35:47,199 --> 01:35:50,359
yeah, you show me pictures of
its Steinbrenner's crypt and I don't.

1422
01:35:50,600 --> 01:35:54,960
That's such not a me thing.
But I forget why I was there.

1423
01:35:56,199 --> 01:35:59,119
Uh Tampa, right, Yeah,
it's in Tampa. But why why would

1424
01:35:59,119 --> 01:36:01,479
I have been in a materian tamp
must have been somebody had passed and then

1425
01:36:01,960 --> 01:36:04,880
we were down there and I went
to, uh, that had to be

1426
01:36:04,960 --> 01:36:08,720
why judge, judge, make sure
I got a close casket. I think

1427
01:36:08,720 --> 01:36:11,479
it's one thing if you like stumble
upon it, but if you're like out

1428
01:36:11,520 --> 01:36:13,479
there seeking it out. I don't
know. I just I think that's weird.

1429
01:36:13,520 --> 01:36:15,279
I think in that dimension, like
so well, people will come for

1430
01:36:15,359 --> 01:36:19,119
Susan B. Anthony's grave here and
then put the strikers on there. I

1431
01:36:20,720 --> 01:36:24,199
think it's strange. I think they're
better off going to her house, you

1432
01:36:24,239 --> 01:36:25,720
know what I mean, she's the
whole house. You can go to the

1433
01:36:25,800 --> 01:36:28,079
museum and like pay homage. Like
going to a grave, like, I

1434
01:36:28,079 --> 01:36:30,159
don't know, that's just weird to
me. It's weird going to like a

1435
01:36:30,199 --> 01:36:32,079
place where like like going to the
nine to eleven when more like a bunch

1436
01:36:32,079 --> 01:36:36,359
of people died there is weird.
It's so and you're you're out there taking

1437
01:36:36,399 --> 01:36:39,960
selfies or like making tech talks and
stuff. I don't know if for me

1438
01:36:40,039 --> 01:36:44,479
it just feels that's, yeah,
it's really weird. I don't know.

1439
01:36:44,600 --> 01:36:48,920
Jim Morrison's grave is actually pretty graffitied
up too, like people leaving messages.

1440
01:36:49,359 --> 01:36:54,560
The messages and joints and all kinds
of cigarettes and all kinds of weird stuff.

1441
01:36:54,640 --> 01:36:58,760
Freddie Mercury's house in London also a
lot of graffiti on the wall of

1442
01:36:58,800 --> 01:37:00,760
the house. I get, how
does that get when people go to like

1443
01:37:00,800 --> 01:37:04,359
Michael Jackson's house and Gary, Indiana
and stuff like that. Stuff. I

1444
01:37:04,439 --> 01:37:09,239
understand, like that's where it all
started and whatever. But of all the

1445
01:37:09,239 --> 01:37:16,920
places Joe beat him, but I
don't know a place where, like a

1446
01:37:17,079 --> 01:37:20,520
place where a literal tragedy happened.
That just as weird it is, it

1447
01:37:20,600 --> 01:37:24,079
is pretty strange. Yeah, Like
I'm walking down the Vegas Striple like I

1448
01:37:24,119 --> 01:37:27,960
wonder where Tupac got shot. That
thought went through my head. Yeah,

1449
01:37:28,159 --> 01:37:30,960
like they don't have it marked.
They don't. It's not like, yeah,

1450
01:37:30,960 --> 01:37:34,479
it's not like Dealey Plaza assassination,
right. That would be another one

1451
01:37:34,479 --> 01:37:39,319
that's like, I want to go
see where this president got in the middle

1452
01:37:39,319 --> 01:37:44,479
of There's an old Bill Hicks bit
where they have the entire like third floor

1453
01:37:44,560 --> 01:37:48,680
or the floor of the book depository
behind glass because because any normable person who

1454
01:37:48,680 --> 01:37:51,880
would walk over there and see how
it's set up to the window would say,

1455
01:37:53,520 --> 01:38:02,600
there's no fucking way. I don't
know. Kevin is dropping his son

1456
01:38:02,640 --> 01:38:08,720
off at college and got on my
cap a little. He wanted to,

1457
01:38:08,920 --> 01:38:12,640
uh, is this the son that
brought him the dog? Yes? Yes,

1458
01:38:13,439 --> 01:38:17,039
yes, Hello? Did you leave
the dog with your kid in college?

1459
01:38:17,960 --> 01:38:21,880
No, it was his dog.
He took a fish. He took

1460
01:38:21,880 --> 01:38:27,239
a fish, but I thought the
dog was his. Correct, the dog

1461
01:38:27,359 --> 01:38:30,560
is his, yes, so,
but he won't miss the dog. Where

1462
01:38:30,600 --> 01:38:32,560
are you now? It sounds like
you're in a dorm. No, we

1463
01:38:32,600 --> 01:38:36,960
were in a bar. Oh,
okay, we're celebrating. It couldn't getting

1464
01:38:36,960 --> 01:38:42,319
off getting out of my house.
Uh so, moving went well. At

1465
01:38:42,359 --> 01:38:46,079
Quinnipiac, Oh, moving was a
cluster clock. Let's just say that.

1466
01:38:46,439 --> 01:38:50,680
Why. Uh well, we left
the four in the morning just because we

1467
01:38:50,680 --> 01:38:57,640
wanted to get here. Got here
about ten fifteen. Get up. The

1468
01:38:57,720 --> 01:39:00,520
check in was about a mile half
down the road, a mile up the

1469
01:39:00,560 --> 01:39:08,399
mountain at the arena where they have
the National Championships Hockey team play. Check

1470
01:39:08,479 --> 01:39:12,279
in there and they put you into
staging area. We set the staging area

1471
01:39:12,359 --> 01:39:19,479
for about four and a half hours. Wow. Someboddy's dad or mom decided

1472
01:39:19,560 --> 01:39:21,880
it will be fun to put their
truck into the side of one of the

1473
01:39:21,960 --> 01:39:27,319
dorms. Into the side of one
of the dorms by by accident, I

1474
01:39:27,359 --> 01:39:32,439
assume a yeah, But how bad
damaged the building? The building didn't look

1475
01:39:32,520 --> 01:39:36,840
damage with the truck. The whole
friday it was total like they hit it

1476
01:39:36,920 --> 01:39:44,079
hard. That is the most expensive
college drop off ever. Rightitions for that

1477
01:39:44,239 --> 01:39:49,000
is like dorm damage. I don't
know a semester dorm damage bill like a

1478
01:39:49,000 --> 01:39:53,479
good neighbor. Yeah, remember they
used to do that. I think at

1479
01:39:53,560 --> 01:39:59,880
Fisher somebody had squished banana into the
rug and maintenance thought it was ship.

1480
01:40:00,520 --> 01:40:04,119
So they charged all of this on. They had this like a hashmat team

1481
01:40:04,199 --> 01:40:08,319
come in and clean the carpets and
we're all like, it was fucking banana.

1482
01:40:08,399 --> 01:40:11,359
You could see the circle seeds in
it. Yeah. Well, my

1483
01:40:11,439 --> 01:40:14,560
kids decided he wanted to go.
We went out shopping, say, we

1484
01:40:14,560 --> 01:40:15,960
went and bought them just some stuff
that we like, food and stuff that

1485
01:40:16,000 --> 01:40:19,520
we weren't going to bring with us. And so he decided that we had

1486
01:40:19,560 --> 01:40:23,359
to go to Colds because he had
the ship. He had the ship in

1487
01:40:23,399 --> 01:40:28,920
the dorm. Yet does he share
a bathroom. There is a shared bathroom,

1488
01:40:28,920 --> 01:40:31,399
it's a very large shared bathroom.
And he wouldn't shit there. He

1489
01:40:31,520 --> 01:40:33,920
hasn't ship. Yeah, so I
said he, Bro, it's gonna it's

1490
01:40:33,920 --> 01:40:41,199
gonna hurt if you're holding it till
Thanksgiving? Bro, So is he gonna?

1491
01:40:42,159 --> 01:40:45,319
So? Does he have a fear
of pooping? In public. I

1492
01:40:45,760 --> 01:40:47,960
don't know I did. I didn't
form the rules of bombs Away, so

1493
01:40:48,119 --> 01:40:53,039
hopefully bombs Away. It was where
I used to climb to the top of

1494
01:40:53,119 --> 01:40:57,199
the stalls and I used to get
on top of the stall and take a

1495
01:40:57,239 --> 01:41:00,800
ship and see if we could get
it in the toilet. What happens if

1496
01:41:00,840 --> 01:41:03,239
it misses, then he missed,
he had to clean it up. But

1497
01:41:03,319 --> 01:41:05,239
you had to clean up. You
had to try to clean it up,

1498
01:41:05,359 --> 01:41:10,560
but usually not be remnants on something. But yeah, we used to do

1499
01:41:10,640 --> 01:41:13,000
that. I did that, And
there's a big locker room thing more or

1500
01:41:13,119 --> 01:41:15,920
less. Yeah. Well, then
at one time they got mad in our

1501
01:41:15,960 --> 01:41:20,439
school because I guess people were smoking
in the stalls, so they took the

1502
01:41:20,520 --> 01:41:24,680
doors off it, and then people
didn't want to go to the bathroom in

1503
01:41:24,720 --> 01:41:27,640
there at all. So I used
to just go, well, it doesn't

1504
01:41:27,640 --> 01:41:30,720
matter, and I and I climbed
at the top. That was the safe

1505
01:41:30,760 --> 01:41:32,560
thing. We had to get.
Aaron Thurston did the same thing. Climbed

1506
01:41:32,600 --> 01:41:34,960
to the top and I shipped from
up there. And there was a tour

1507
01:41:35,079 --> 01:41:40,159
going through with these uh Sport Exchange
students coming through Yea, and they're bringing

1508
01:41:40,199 --> 01:41:45,159
a bit for a cross country match, just the dumbest I did the dumbest,

1509
01:41:45,319 --> 01:41:48,960
dumbest things, But so did he
always. I mean he's been around

1510
01:41:49,039 --> 01:41:55,479
hockey teams and stuff. What's the
right He'll show He'll shower with the boys

1511
01:41:55,520 --> 01:41:57,800
in the locker room at Lake Shore, which is the dirtiest thing I've ever

1512
01:41:57,840 --> 01:42:00,199
seen in my entire your life.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, but who

1513
01:42:00,279 --> 01:42:03,000
knows, well who'll get you?
So I'm gonna have to get over it.

1514
01:42:03,199 --> 01:42:06,399
Yes, And I'm sure there is
a little bit of anxiety, right,

1515
01:42:06,520 --> 01:42:10,279
there's some anxiety, and that I
can understand. I'm like, it's

1516
01:42:10,319 --> 01:42:12,239
college. You get a poop and
buddy, you go, you have a

1517
01:42:12,279 --> 01:42:15,840
conversation. Is he nervous? Like
is he nervous to be there? Is

1518
01:42:15,920 --> 01:42:21,319
like this is first time like being
away from home in this way. Yeah,

1519
01:42:21,359 --> 01:42:25,840
it's just I don't think he's nervous. Well, we'll find out tomorrow

1520
01:42:25,880 --> 01:42:30,079
with the safety net leaves, because
the safety net is still here until the

1521
01:42:30,119 --> 01:42:35,159
morning. Yeah, but we'll see. Mom has surprisedly been good. She

1522
01:42:35,239 --> 01:42:39,079
hasn't cried yet. Okay, I'm
just gonna say no, no cheers.

1523
01:42:39,119 --> 01:42:43,439
Now, we're all betting that you
at least get the vapors tomorrow. I

1524
01:42:43,560 --> 01:42:46,399
did not get vapors yet. I'm
not saying yet I got I got a

1525
01:42:46,439 --> 01:42:48,760
little thing on my heart. My
heart grew a little bit. I'm like

1526
01:42:48,840 --> 01:42:53,079
the Crunch when he hugged it out
with his brothers at four o'clock in the

1527
01:42:53,119 --> 01:42:59,479
morning after they stayed home and with
the with the relative. Yeah, I

1528
01:42:59,520 --> 01:43:04,600
got you, okay, Grandma and
the dog. How many hours ride is

1529
01:43:04,640 --> 01:43:09,960
that? Five? Uh, it's
a moost eleven and a half. Obviously

1530
01:43:10,199 --> 01:43:13,960
we stopped the map line to get
gass though, but it's total six hours

1531
01:43:14,079 --> 01:43:15,520
drive. It wasn't too bad.
I listen to your shitty show. Okay,

1532
01:43:15,720 --> 01:43:20,520
awesome, that's great. So six
hours and we had a good show.

1533
01:43:21,199 --> 01:43:26,119
That's fun. Birthday show is great. I go, I go away

1534
01:43:26,199 --> 01:43:29,439
for two days. I see Alexson
got to place all clasped up this white

1535
01:43:29,520 --> 01:43:32,159
linen. Well that was that was
for. That was for a completely different

1536
01:43:32,199 --> 01:43:40,479
podcast called Games and that'll drop episode
one September fourth. It's cleaned up now.

1537
01:43:40,720 --> 01:43:43,800
All the alcohol probably had this a
Colg dormaner. We had to.

1538
01:43:44,000 --> 01:43:45,880
I had to gay the place up
a little bit. You know, I

1539
01:43:45,960 --> 01:43:49,600
can't just you know, I can't
have game night in here and not you

1540
01:43:49,680 --> 01:43:58,840
know, and have them sitting around
that's you guys. Well somebody somebody said,

1541
01:43:59,000 --> 01:44:00,560
uh, somebody go, yeah,
it's like being in you did,

1542
01:44:00,640 --> 01:44:02,239
It's like being in a man cave. And I go, it is.

1543
01:44:02,880 --> 01:44:05,760
I don't think it's like a man
cave. This this is just me.

1544
01:44:06,079 --> 01:44:09,960
Well, see the thing is and
I take it's barren in here. I

1545
01:44:10,039 --> 01:44:13,399
think I want to get more stuff, and I've just been focused on the

1546
01:44:13,520 --> 01:44:17,000
work, not the decoration. The
premise of the show is two gay men

1547
01:44:17,279 --> 01:44:23,079
and two women. Yes, Like, in no universe would you go to

1548
01:44:23,159 --> 01:44:27,760
a gay man's house and find a
Guinness mirror on wall, nor would you

1549
01:44:27,880 --> 01:44:31,840
find Genesee beer signed, like unless
it was like the floral version, like

1550
01:44:32,000 --> 01:44:36,479
the ruby Kolsch. That's true,
that's true. Okay, all right,

1551
01:44:36,640 --> 01:44:45,960
I guess that. Yeah, so
she did. She did? Yeah,

1552
01:44:45,000 --> 01:44:48,000
I mean billifide is fine because you
know that's a little gay. Well it's

1553
01:44:48,000 --> 01:44:53,000
a big flamer, big flame back
there. Uh so, Kevin, this

1554
01:44:53,199 --> 01:44:55,680
is exciting. I kind of like
knowing that the kid won't shit there.

1555
01:44:56,119 --> 01:45:00,359
I No, I like knowing that
shy ball syndrome because I'll tell you,

1556
01:45:00,520 --> 01:45:05,039
like now, I did community college
then went to Fisher, but they had

1557
01:45:05,840 --> 01:45:11,279
My first year was Murphy Hall across
the street, right, and I remember

1558
01:45:11,600 --> 01:45:14,399
there was the bathroom at the end
of the hall and I was all the

1559
01:45:14,439 --> 01:45:16,279
way at the other end, and
you used to have to go and shower

1560
01:45:16,359 --> 01:45:19,319
and stuff. And I would go
a shower down there, and sometimes buckets

1561
01:45:19,359 --> 01:45:21,920
of cold water would come over the
wall and the shower while you were in

1562
01:45:21,960 --> 01:45:26,199
there. And then he's got a
decent truck to the bathroom. I mean

1563
01:45:26,239 --> 01:45:30,840
it sits down the hall and around
the corner. And yeah, he's furry

1564
01:45:30,920 --> 01:45:34,319
dogging by, like by Halloween.
He's in trouble. I went, I

1565
01:45:34,439 --> 01:45:39,720
went, and just I didn't care, I let at all. I didn't

1566
01:45:39,720 --> 01:45:42,319
either. Yeah, he did it. He did announce in the middle of

1567
01:45:42,399 --> 01:45:44,800
Coles and he did destroy their bathroom. So I mean, I don't know.

1568
01:45:46,399 --> 01:45:49,000
Maybe you can go at Coles,
you can go it go. But

1569
01:45:49,079 --> 01:45:54,760
maybe he's trying to like set a
good first impressions. He doesn't want to

1570
01:45:54,760 --> 01:45:59,439
be the one who recks the bathroom. And like negative he said, people

1571
01:45:59,439 --> 01:46:01,279
are left loaders. It was the
first night. People are about the loaders.

1572
01:46:01,399 --> 01:46:04,840
Oh yeah, like I mean,
and were they already drinking and stuff

1573
01:46:04,880 --> 01:46:13,359
on campus or no, I know
nothing. Okay, No he's no,

1574
01:46:14,600 --> 01:46:18,840
he's a pot smoker. No,
not even that is his lady friends,

1575
01:46:21,039 --> 01:46:24,520
all right? Okay? Is his
lady friend with him to say goodbye?

1576
01:46:24,600 --> 01:46:29,560
Or no, his lady's friends did
say goodbye. She moved into her dorm

1577
01:46:29,640 --> 01:46:33,119
today, and I know they talked. Where's she going to school? She's

1578
01:46:33,159 --> 01:46:38,199
going to Roberts. Okay, okay, she married. I didn't inform him.

1579
01:46:38,279 --> 01:46:41,439
I didn't inform him. Ring by
Spring. Ring by Springs was not

1580
01:46:41,560 --> 01:46:45,880
an option for him either. That. Don't worry about it. It's fine.

1581
01:46:45,000 --> 01:46:48,520
I got a kid of Roberts.
Nothing, No, ring by Spring.

1582
01:46:49,359 --> 01:46:54,800
He's not getting married. There's nobody
called up for yourself. No,

1583
01:46:55,000 --> 01:46:58,359
that's Jackson. Oh that's right.
That's right, that Jackson. Jordan's the

1584
01:46:58,399 --> 01:47:00,079
one who goes there. Uh.
Well good, I'm glad. It sounds

1585
01:47:00,119 --> 01:47:03,399
like things went well. You didn't
hit the dorm, you were able to

1586
01:47:04,039 --> 01:47:08,239
get the kid in. It was
what floor is he on? First floor?

1587
01:47:08,399 --> 01:47:12,640
Right next to the arra. That's
uh, that sucks, but for

1588
01:47:12,760 --> 01:47:15,000
moving purposes, at least first floor. How many how many floors is the

1589
01:47:15,079 --> 01:47:19,479
dorm? I think the floor there's
three floors. Girls are on the third,

1590
01:47:19,560 --> 01:47:23,279
and I think it's the boys on
the first two. Okay, but

1591
01:47:23,399 --> 01:47:26,680
like the door that we pulled,
we once we finally get able to go

1592
01:47:26,760 --> 01:47:30,359
down to the campus, we pulled
in between the two cars we had.

1593
01:47:30,399 --> 01:47:32,840
I think the cars was less than
a minute and a half. They had

1594
01:47:32,880 --> 01:47:35,720
so many people. They're just grabbing
stuff out of your car and oh that's

1595
01:47:35,760 --> 01:47:43,840
great. So they yeah, they
get yeah, but that it was just

1596
01:47:44,960 --> 01:47:46,880
well, that's gonna be interesting to
mob. All right, Well, I

1597
01:47:47,000 --> 01:47:53,640
hope I'm betting you get vapors at
the very least some vapes. Oh yeah,

1598
01:47:53,680 --> 01:47:55,920
buddy, or at least to a
poll, because it's quite a peg.

1599
01:47:57,640 --> 01:48:00,039
They I did say. I tinted
to take a picture for you the

1600
01:48:00,119 --> 01:48:02,640
end of the building, just so
you can see. All right, very

1601
01:48:02,680 --> 01:48:06,000
good, All right, well,
Kevin, drive carefully back, and we're

1602
01:48:06,039 --> 01:48:11,760
still betting that there will be uh
if not tears from you vapes, there

1603
01:48:11,760 --> 01:48:14,640
will be nothing. I'm a good
boy. Okay, all right, and

1604
01:48:14,720 --> 01:48:19,000
Alexa, we'll text to you about
tomorrow. Perfect. Aw, allright,

1605
01:48:19,039 --> 01:48:21,960
there you go. Kevin's got an
idea. Thanks Kevin, He's got an

1606
01:48:23,000 --> 01:48:26,640
idea for a show he's been he
does. Yeah, it's actually I think

1607
01:48:26,640 --> 01:48:28,800
it's a great idea. Yeah,
it is actually a great idea, and

1608
01:48:28,880 --> 01:48:31,399
it's something that isn't already being done. And I like, once I find

1609
01:48:31,439 --> 01:48:34,079
out who the major players are,
I will know more. But yeah,

1610
01:48:34,159 --> 01:48:38,520
we'll see you know right now,
Like the no idea, no idea is

1611
01:48:38,560 --> 01:48:42,680
really a bad idea until you figure
out if a podcast or reality a reality

1612
01:48:43,079 --> 01:48:45,199
shall show. Yeah, well I
could even potentially be like something for YouTube.

1613
01:48:45,520 --> 01:48:47,359
It really depends. Oh I have
a failure. I know what he's

1614
01:48:47,359 --> 01:48:50,319
doing. Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, you know what it is.

1615
01:48:50,399 --> 01:48:53,319
Yeah, this actually is a pretty
good idea. It's not a bad

1616
01:48:53,359 --> 01:48:57,479
idea a sense, and nobody's done
it yet, right, man, did

1617
01:48:57,520 --> 01:49:01,079
you have any guys and did you
remember it school that couldn't go to the

1618
01:49:01,119 --> 01:49:04,680
bathroom or anything or no, But
I had a dad who had that problem.

1619
01:49:04,800 --> 01:49:09,000
Your dad couldn't go. So my
dad would always show up the party

1620
01:49:09,079 --> 01:49:12,840
separately. We went to people's houses. He'd have to drive himself. We

1621
01:49:12,920 --> 01:49:15,840
can never figure out why, because
he wouldn't. Years after he died.

1622
01:49:15,880 --> 01:49:20,239
He died a colon cancer years after
demo. Yeah, right, he had

1623
01:49:20,239 --> 01:49:23,159
a problem going to other people.
He had to go to the number two

1624
01:49:23,159 --> 01:49:25,720
and he had a problem going to
the people's bathroom, so he'd drive home

1625
01:49:26,079 --> 01:49:29,439
and once he's home, he's home. I understand that I can see in

1626
01:49:29,520 --> 01:49:31,840
at a private party a lot of
times, Like I even remember as a

1627
01:49:31,960 --> 01:49:38,079
kid not wanting to go in school
and then something then something changed where it

1628
01:49:38,159 --> 01:49:41,840
didn't matter better. Oh, I
was shipping anywhere my ass is how I

1629
01:49:42,079 --> 01:49:45,920
was, you know. I think
I think we bet some kid and cheered

1630
01:49:45,000 --> 01:49:51,560
him on to ship in the urinal, which is terrible, just terrible.

1631
01:49:51,880 --> 01:49:56,640
I mean, it was just it
was nat Oh God, And I told

1632
01:49:56,680 --> 01:50:00,319
you I would pee in sinks.
Oh it's like a Bill's game. Yeah,

1633
01:50:00,479 --> 01:50:02,720
I did. I I busted in
on the party once because I had

1634
01:50:02,720 --> 01:50:05,359
to go to the bathroom so badly, and I knew I wasn't gonna make

1635
01:50:05,399 --> 01:50:09,199
it outside, and I just busted. And the girl was on the toilet

1636
01:50:09,239 --> 01:50:11,239
and she screams, I don't worry
about it, and I just beat in

1637
01:50:11,319 --> 01:50:15,840
the singh she's in there. Just
you gotta do what you gotta do.

1638
01:50:15,319 --> 01:50:19,399
I don't remember having any like I
used to. I told you when I

1639
01:50:19,520 --> 01:50:26,640
had the dorm, I used to
take a ship in my we had our

1640
01:50:26,680 --> 01:50:30,079
own bathroom in Uh what was that
you said, Murphy Home? No,

1641
01:50:30,199 --> 01:50:33,399
no, no, no, what's
the one my senior year ward? It

1642
01:50:33,520 --> 01:50:39,800
was Dorsey Dorsey So Dorsey had you
had your own bathroom in your room?

1643
01:50:40,279 --> 01:50:43,239
Yes, yeah, yes, she
had your own bathroom in there for you

1644
01:50:43,359 --> 01:50:45,479
and your roommate. Was it was
very nice. It was like living in

1645
01:50:45,520 --> 01:50:47,520
a little country club Fisher. Yeah. I had the great meal plan.

1646
01:50:47,720 --> 01:50:51,159
They had a little golf course across
the really was it was? It was

1647
01:50:51,239 --> 01:50:55,520
sweet when I when I went there
was the shortest it was the shortest school

1648
01:50:55,560 --> 01:50:59,720
year in the country. And everybody
was friendly. Yeah, everybody got along.

1649
01:51:00,119 --> 01:51:03,319
So drugs, no, no,
there was something maybe yeah that was

1650
01:51:04,279 --> 01:51:06,439
yeah, no, yeah, right
exactly, yep. A lot of a

1651
01:51:06,520 --> 01:51:11,840
lot of boozers like me and I
used to shit and I would open up

1652
01:51:11,960 --> 01:51:14,600
all the doors, the door to
the bathroom. I used to ship with

1653
01:51:14,720 --> 01:51:16,840
the door open and the door to
the hallway open to see how far I

1654
01:51:16,880 --> 01:51:25,960
could get the smell to travel down
them. That was one. Then,

1655
01:51:26,359 --> 01:51:30,319
uh, there were bets because the
girls were upstairs. So it's like every

1656
01:51:30,359 --> 01:51:32,720
other floor. I think they did
every other floor, but it wasn't.

1657
01:51:32,800 --> 01:51:35,720
It was weird in that one because
you had that main lobby, and it

1658
01:51:35,840 --> 01:51:40,479
was kind of on like a almost
like I want to say, like an

1659
01:51:40,720 --> 01:51:45,960
l sort of sort of. So
you would one side was the girl,

1660
01:51:46,079 --> 01:51:50,159
so it will be first floor.
Uh, closest to the campus was the

1661
01:51:50,239 --> 01:51:56,279
guy. Then he went upstairs.
Closest upstairs was girls right above girls on

1662
01:51:56,399 --> 01:52:00,279
top, and then on the other
side it was girls on the bottom east.

1663
01:52:00,359 --> 01:52:04,039
Yes, So if you lost some
kind of bet, you could only

1664
01:52:04,119 --> 01:52:09,319
wear one article of clothing and you
had to go upstairs and bang on every

1665
01:52:09,399 --> 01:52:15,199
girl's door as you ran down.
That was it. You had purpose.

1666
01:52:15,239 --> 01:52:19,239
Sometimes so the only thing I would
wear was a sock right over my I

1667
01:52:20,439 --> 01:52:23,760
just wore a sock over my junk, and everybody would laugh and I would

1668
01:52:23,800 --> 01:52:27,319
run down and you would see my
ass out there. And sometimes on certain

1669
01:52:27,319 --> 01:52:29,800
girls, I would stop, I
would knock on the door and I'd be

1670
01:52:29,880 --> 01:52:33,399
bent over. So when they opened
it up. You know how much trouble

1671
01:52:33,399 --> 01:52:36,960
you would get in today if you
did that and she complained. Do you

1672
01:52:38,119 --> 01:52:42,439
know how much fucking trouble? Oh
my god, Oh my god, I

1673
01:52:42,560 --> 01:52:45,279
just thought of that. Nobody is
doing, like do you think that all

1674
01:52:45,319 --> 01:52:48,000
of that juvenile behavior has gone right
out the window? But I don't.

1675
01:52:48,319 --> 01:52:51,000
I don't. Well, first of
all, I don't think that people I

1676
01:52:51,239 --> 01:52:55,920
know. I will say that I
think I had a little bit of a

1677
01:52:56,079 --> 01:52:59,239
unique thing. I didn't know many
people when like, I had a weird

1678
01:52:59,279 --> 01:53:00,600
group of friends. You know what
I mean. I had a weird group

1679
01:53:00,600 --> 01:53:04,119
of friends. It wouldn't be uncommon
for all of a sudden somebody to pop

1680
01:53:04,199 --> 01:53:08,520
up and put their dick in your
ear, like at a party or something,

1681
01:53:08,680 --> 01:53:10,920
hang bringing on your head and take
a picture while you're sleeping. No,

1682
01:53:11,159 --> 01:53:14,680
yeah, but no, they'd hang
bring on your head. This is

1683
01:53:14,800 --> 01:53:16,159
high school. Oh no, no, That's what I'm talking about. So

1684
01:53:16,239 --> 01:53:19,800
that's where I came from. So
when I went to Fisher, it was

1685
01:53:20,079 --> 01:53:25,640
mild, Like these guys were fairly
mild for the most part. And it

1686
01:53:25,840 --> 01:53:29,960
was more like no one was doing
bossed away. No one had ever heard

1687
01:53:30,399 --> 01:53:32,000
like that. It's funny you mentioned
that no one was picking up chushions sniffing.

1688
01:53:32,039 --> 01:53:34,079
I'm like me. I had a
friend who went to Kent State,

1689
01:53:34,319 --> 01:53:36,119
right, and a lot of the
stuff in my high school. I went

1690
01:53:36,119 --> 01:53:39,600
to a small high school, like
you did, Stupid stuff like that would

1691
01:53:39,600 --> 01:53:42,720
happen all the time. We talk
about like things that you talk about,

1692
01:53:42,880 --> 01:53:45,920
you know, on the radio,
right, And she went to Kent State

1693
01:53:45,960 --> 01:53:48,159
and she said that that stuff was
taboo among guys, like you talk about

1694
01:53:48,199 --> 01:53:51,840
masturbation. Yeah, you guys,
we would never do like in the Midwest

1695
01:53:51,920 --> 01:53:55,439
they would never do that. Well, I don't know that we I don't

1696
01:53:55,479 --> 01:54:00,760
think guys talked about that. I
don't remember having those conversations with guys and

1697
01:54:00,840 --> 01:54:02,920
fishure masturbation. Do you did,
Oh yeah you had a circle jerk.

1698
01:54:03,119 --> 01:54:04,960
No, no, no, we
never had that. I'm just saying like

1699
01:54:05,000 --> 01:54:09,720
the guy would just be so open, giving each other handies on it.

1700
01:54:10,800 --> 01:54:14,600
No, just like talking about all
the stupid stuff that you know, teenagers

1701
01:54:14,680 --> 01:54:16,000
do. Yeah, I don't remember
talking about that kind of stuff. But

1702
01:54:16,079 --> 01:54:19,840
the stupid stiffing we did was like
all of a sudden or the big one

1703
01:54:19,920 --> 01:54:23,239
was hanging brain where you would just
let it hang out, your fly,

1704
01:54:23,960 --> 01:54:27,960
just walk around fully dressed and the
only but with your balls hanging out,

1705
01:54:28,039 --> 01:54:31,079
just your balls digby pop is hidden
away and then you'd walk around with your

1706
01:54:31,079 --> 01:54:36,479
balls out until someone looked him.
Oh my god. Yeah, like the

1707
01:54:38,319 --> 01:54:41,800
stuff stuff like that. And she
was like, no, they would they

1708
01:54:41,920 --> 01:54:45,199
It's like in the Midwest they never
was like for boating. They didn't talk

1709
01:54:45,199 --> 01:54:50,359
about if they did it. They
never talked about Okay, do your boys

1710
01:54:50,399 --> 01:54:54,800
have any like kind of anxieties like
that? Don did any of them even

1711
01:54:54,840 --> 01:54:59,039
as like little kids, do they
like have issues in school coming home with

1712
01:54:59,119 --> 01:55:02,279
stomach aches and stuff? Because I
couldn't. Father here has no idea,

1713
01:55:02,800 --> 01:55:04,960
Well, that happened in high school. I don't remember at all. I

1714
01:55:05,039 --> 01:55:10,000
don't remember that. I don't even
know now, like with my kid at

1715
01:55:10,079 --> 01:55:13,720
college, I have no idea.
I don't think that there's a lot of

1716
01:55:14,000 --> 01:55:16,920
shenanigans that he does at all.
I think in the beginning there might have

1717
01:55:16,960 --> 01:55:21,760
been some things, but most of
it's fairly mild. I don't know.

1718
01:55:23,520 --> 01:55:26,600
Do you think you would know just
based on like the shit you used to

1719
01:55:26,720 --> 01:55:29,359
pull as a kid, Do you
think you would have some kind of sensibility,

1720
01:55:29,479 --> 01:55:34,840
like my kid is out here doing
like so I remember thinking there,

1721
01:55:35,319 --> 01:55:40,520
yeah, they just I don't know. I remember thinking that they were lame,

1722
01:55:43,520 --> 01:55:45,159
and I was very glad that they
were lame. Like I remember thinking,

1723
01:55:45,239 --> 01:55:48,840
oh God, this is great because
there was no real problems in high

1724
01:55:48,840 --> 01:55:55,600
school, and there were minor things
that went on, and I didn't have

1725
01:55:56,079 --> 01:55:59,840
I didn't really have much involvement in
the handling of them. One was one

1726
01:56:00,039 --> 01:56:02,239
where he got in trouble and the
school intervened and said, we're going to

1727
01:56:02,319 --> 01:56:04,960
handle it, and I said to
his mom, he's not in trouble at

1728
01:56:05,039 --> 01:56:09,319
home, and that was it,
and it was an equate thing. And

1729
01:56:09,359 --> 01:56:12,479
then there was times where she went
up picking them up, I think after

1730
01:56:12,560 --> 01:56:15,880
a party or something. But other
than that, there wasn't a whole lot

1731
01:56:15,960 --> 01:56:19,520
of stuff that I remember that was
necessarily bad. And there were no late

1732
01:56:19,680 --> 01:56:24,359
nights, There were very few sleepovers
and all like I would be camping out

1733
01:56:24,399 --> 01:56:28,159
at my buddy's house every other weekend
and getting drunk, and I mean,

1734
01:56:28,720 --> 01:56:32,680
I mean I was shuking in the
woods. Would you let your kids do

1735
01:56:33,319 --> 01:56:36,319
the kind of stuff you know that
you were doing, Like, would you?

1736
01:56:38,399 --> 01:56:41,399
I don't know, because I feel
like I have friends that have kids

1737
01:56:41,479 --> 01:56:44,600
that like, we were out,
you know, all night long. There's

1738
01:56:44,640 --> 01:56:45,439
no way to get a hold of
us. There was no cell phones.

1739
01:56:45,479 --> 01:56:48,560
Stuff. I would never let Louis, you know, be in a place

1740
01:56:48,600 --> 01:56:51,159
where I couldn't get a hold of
him or knew exactly where. Well,

1741
01:56:51,239 --> 01:56:55,439
the bad part now, the bad
part now, and the reason I think

1742
01:56:55,479 --> 01:57:00,199
that I would be the answer is
when my guys were coming up, I

1743
01:57:00,479 --> 01:57:05,239
probably would have been a little more
like, go ahead, I'm a big

1744
01:57:05,720 --> 01:57:09,880
I was always a believer in skin
your knee kind of thing and figured it

1745
01:57:09,920 --> 01:57:14,359
out right. You learn or rules
of the playground, right, so that

1746
01:57:14,520 --> 01:57:16,479
that sort of thing. If somebody's
given you a rough time, you learn

1747
01:57:16,520 --> 01:57:21,840
your packing order, or you learn
how to defend yourself. Not a very

1748
01:57:21,960 --> 01:57:27,079
popular opinion these days, not a
very popular way to do it. The

1749
01:57:27,279 --> 01:57:31,600
other thing that would always make me
take pause, though, is everybody And

1750
01:57:31,720 --> 01:57:36,239
it was more from probably junior middle
school, I think now on I was

1751
01:57:36,239 --> 01:57:41,039
gonna call it junior high. That's
a whole I am. They've got a

1752
01:57:41,119 --> 01:57:45,000
camera in their pocket, so shit
got documented that you didn't necessarily want documented,

1753
01:57:45,119 --> 01:57:49,359
right, and or you documented it
thinking it would be funny. Don't

1754
01:57:49,399 --> 01:57:53,439
don't think that My buddies and I
wouldn't have like laughter or asses off.

1755
01:57:53,520 --> 01:57:57,319
Hey, watch this, like when
we took the bottoms off my buddy's crutches

1756
01:57:57,359 --> 01:58:00,880
who had broken his leg, and
he stood up and they'll crutches shot out

1757
01:58:00,920 --> 01:58:02,199
from under him. But I was
feeling bad, so I stood up and

1758
01:58:02,279 --> 01:58:04,720
caught him like this, But if
we filmed that, we would have laughed

1759
01:58:04,760 --> 01:58:08,359
our dick off, rewounded, watched
again, watched it again, watched again,

1760
01:58:08,640 --> 01:58:11,960
or sent it out. Imagine that
as a TikTok. I think that

1761
01:58:12,359 --> 01:58:15,439
if that kind of shit was involved, like with my kids, I wouldn't

1762
01:58:15,479 --> 01:58:20,359
want them, because you become labeled
and other parents don't want you around,

1763
01:58:20,520 --> 01:58:24,800
and that, you know what I'm
saying, Like most of our stuff was

1764
01:58:24,880 --> 01:58:30,600
so underground, Like I always say
when I look back, when I look

1765
01:58:30,680 --> 01:58:34,079
back and I hear people, and
I know people get upset with the word

1766
01:58:34,520 --> 01:58:42,079
privileged. Yeah okay, and I
always go but I get it, I

1767
01:58:42,520 --> 01:58:47,000
get exactly what that is. I
don't know. I have always been and

1768
01:58:47,079 --> 01:58:51,359
I knew this early on in my
life that I could pretty much get away

1769
01:58:51,399 --> 01:58:58,439
with anything. I knew that I
looked a certain way I had. My

1770
01:58:58,640 --> 01:59:01,560
parents were of what they you know
what they were, They they were teachers.

1771
01:59:02,479 --> 01:59:08,000
I was never that bad. I
could speak well, I could present

1772
01:59:08,119 --> 01:59:12,159
myself well. I could get away
with fucking anything. And I kind of

1773
01:59:12,239 --> 01:59:16,640
knew that for the most part.
And I feel like that my entire life

1774
01:59:16,720 --> 01:59:21,279
has kind of been pretty nice.
There's been bumps, sure, but even

1775
01:59:21,600 --> 01:59:26,520
even the times where I've I've hit
even recent like you kind of hit a

1776
01:59:26,880 --> 01:59:30,359
you hit a wall, I've been
able to bounce back pretty quickly. And

1777
01:59:30,399 --> 01:59:32,239
I think a lot of that has
to do with the fact that, well,

1778
01:59:32,319 --> 01:59:34,760
one is, it's who you are, right, There's nothing that ever

1779
01:59:34,840 --> 01:59:38,079
stopped me if I wanted to do
it. If it was shipping off the

1780
01:59:38,159 --> 01:59:40,479
top of something, I was going
to do it. If it was you

1781
01:59:40,560 --> 01:59:43,840
know, whatever, it was gonna
happen. But so I think, like

1782
01:59:44,479 --> 01:59:49,199
I've always been a three. But
you know what I'm saying, Like I

1783
01:59:49,279 --> 01:59:54,600
felt like I could always get I
could always get away. I just think

1784
01:59:54,680 --> 01:59:58,239
that had that stuff been documented though, it would have been bad. Now

1785
01:59:58,920 --> 02:00:03,199
I had a reputation around town of
being a kid who partied. I was

1786
02:00:03,359 --> 02:00:06,680
voted most likely to be found,
like they said in ten years, right,

1787
02:00:08,239 --> 02:00:10,760
and they had the list of in
ten years, where will they be?

1788
02:00:11,319 --> 02:00:15,279
And I was voted most likely to
still be looking for a party,

1789
02:00:15,319 --> 02:00:23,920
which was still a little bit.
My dad was like fucking livid, look

1790
02:00:23,960 --> 02:00:28,399
at David, all right, But
then the police came to my house state

1791
02:00:28,479 --> 02:00:32,039
trooper because there was a party.
I was not at the party, but

1792
02:00:33,039 --> 02:00:36,720
there was property damage done because a
lot of people had weekend homes from you

1793
02:00:36,760 --> 02:00:41,279
know, New York that would come
up and kids knew that they weren't around,

1794
02:00:41,319 --> 02:00:43,600
so they partied on their property.
I think a window or something got

1795
02:00:43,680 --> 02:00:46,159
broken and they wanted a list of
names. And they came to me and

1796
02:00:46,319 --> 02:00:48,920
I go, I'm not I wasn't
at the party, and they're like,

1797
02:00:49,159 --> 02:00:53,760
yeah, we know, but we
also know that you know everybody who was

1798
02:00:53,840 --> 02:00:57,840
at that party. And I didn't
give up anybody. And it became a

1799
02:00:57,880 --> 02:01:01,039
whole ordeal. But uh, because
snitches get stitches. Well, it wasn't

1800
02:01:01,079 --> 02:01:04,880
even that. It was. My
father was like, was so pissed at

1801
02:01:04,920 --> 02:01:08,199
the police. And the guy comes
into the house and he goes, hey,

1802
02:01:08,279 --> 02:01:10,439
Bill, let me ask you.
My father goes his name is William,

1803
02:01:10,479 --> 02:01:14,119
and you will address him as William. I like your dad. Like

1804
02:01:14,239 --> 02:01:16,279
She's like, so that was that
you have to answer. And then and

1805
02:01:16,319 --> 02:01:19,159
then when they left, he goes, you know why they came to find

1806
02:01:19,199 --> 02:01:21,800
you, right, because you've got
a rebue check in apartment. And then

1807
02:01:21,960 --> 02:01:26,479
I and then when I remember dating
a girl taking around on a date and

1808
02:01:26,520 --> 02:01:29,760
her father. I go to pick
her up and I get out of the

1809
02:01:29,960 --> 02:01:32,760
car and she comes running out like
the house was two tiered. He's up

1810
02:01:32,800 --> 02:01:38,520
on the top deck. She comes
blitzing, like fucking blitzing out like she's

1811
02:01:38,640 --> 02:01:42,159
a cornerback coming in on a on
a blitz and she's like, let's go,

1812
02:01:42,239 --> 02:01:44,520
let's go, and I get out. And then I see her her

1813
02:01:44,560 --> 02:01:45,920
dad and I say, mister Soda
goes, hey, how you doing h

1814
02:01:46,319 --> 02:01:48,920
And she's already in the car.
She belt on, She's like, let's

1815
02:01:48,920 --> 02:01:53,359
go. I go all right,
and then he goes, I can trust

1816
02:01:53,399 --> 02:01:55,239
you, right, And I said
yeah. He goes, I've heard about

1817
02:01:55,239 --> 02:01:57,039
you. I can trust you about
as far as I could throw you.

1818
02:01:57,159 --> 02:02:00,520
And I'm like, ah, now, I see you wanted to get the

1819
02:02:00,560 --> 02:02:03,560
fuck out it. So obviously there
was something said prior right because she went,

1820
02:02:03,760 --> 02:02:08,199
I mean, this girl blitzed out
of the house and into the shipbox.

1821
02:02:08,239 --> 02:02:13,079
I was driving, so I didn't
need, I guess, the documentation

1822
02:02:13,159 --> 02:02:15,680
to have it. But if there
was video of the ship I did,

1823
02:02:15,760 --> 02:02:16,840
I think it would have been way
worse. Yeah, how about you,

1824
02:02:17,159 --> 02:02:20,479
Like, do you are you glad
that? Like we grew up in a

1825
02:02:20,560 --> 02:02:25,079
time before there was cell phones everywhere
and there was photos of like everything you

1826
02:02:25,159 --> 02:02:27,760
did. Are you glad that there's
no documentation. Yeah, I mean I

1827
02:02:28,199 --> 02:02:30,039
really didn't. This gonna sound so
pretentious, but I really didn't do anything

1828
02:02:30,079 --> 02:02:33,600
wrong. I was together to sound
pretentious. No, it sounds fucking lame.

1829
02:02:34,319 --> 02:02:38,640
Yeah it was, did you.
I was the big brother in school?

1830
02:02:38,720 --> 02:02:41,199
Okay, so the story about me
was the exact opposite of you.

1831
02:02:41,600 --> 02:02:45,239
So here's what happened. So around
eleventh, quick, quick gat Christian Dan

1832
02:02:45,399 --> 02:02:47,319
to come with you. He'll keep
everybody saying, well, here's what have

1833
02:02:47,439 --> 02:02:49,880
the fear of? Butch though,
Oh yes, I had the fear of

1834
02:02:49,960 --> 02:02:53,239
God, the fear of my father. I had the fear of my dad

1835
02:02:53,319 --> 02:02:57,399
too. Yeah I did, didn't. I didn't fear anything. It was

1836
02:02:57,479 --> 02:02:59,520
like, right, So there you
go. Here's my thing. And I

1837
02:02:59,640 --> 02:03:02,079
tried to tell my kids this now. And I'm sorry to interrupt your story,

1838
02:03:02,119 --> 02:03:05,359
but tell them the first time,
tell everybody what they want to hear,

1839
02:03:05,560 --> 02:03:10,000
and then go do what the fuck
you're gonna do anyway. Oh right,

1840
02:03:11,239 --> 02:03:13,840
you want your kids to tell you
what you wanted to hear, and

1841
02:03:13,840 --> 02:03:17,800
them that go do whatever it like. But I tell them now now that

1842
02:03:17,880 --> 02:03:21,760
they're older, I mean there's sometimes
I go, look, man, you

1843
02:03:21,920 --> 02:03:28,000
can you get frustrated. If I
say things, just listen and then go

1844
02:03:28,119 --> 02:03:30,439
do what you're gonna do. I'm
not not not saying to answer, but

1845
02:03:30,760 --> 02:03:32,720
listen and take it in. And
you've already got an idea of what you're

1846
02:03:32,720 --> 02:03:36,640
gonna do. We'll do it or
pause and consider what's being said. But

1847
02:03:36,760 --> 02:03:40,319
I'm not at this point. You
know, you're in your twenties. You

1848
02:03:40,399 --> 02:03:42,720
got to figure that shit out.
But that was my whole thing, always

1849
02:03:43,279 --> 02:03:45,720
was. I would like my mother
used to always go, you know,

1850
02:03:46,039 --> 02:03:49,159
the boys were so easy, and
then I realized they would just tell me

1851
02:03:49,279 --> 02:03:53,079
what I wanted to hear and go
do what they wanted to do. She

1852
02:03:53,159 --> 02:03:57,880
goes At least with my daughter,
she would fight me on everything, but

1853
02:03:57,960 --> 02:04:00,479
I knew exactly what was happening.
She goes Billy especially, I had no

1854
02:04:00,560 --> 02:04:04,159
idea. Right with me, it
was I didn't drink, it, didn't

1855
02:04:04,159 --> 02:04:08,960
smoke, still have never smoked,
and didn't do anything. And my father,

1856
02:04:09,079 --> 02:04:11,319
after a while, my grandmother would
tell him, you know, you

1857
02:04:11,399 --> 02:04:13,760
got a great kid here. He's
not like you. My father was like

1858
02:04:13,840 --> 02:04:15,560
the guy who always had to take
the dare in high school, right,

1859
02:04:16,079 --> 02:04:19,039
And so my grandmother finally told me
he got a good kid here, He's

1860
02:04:19,079 --> 02:04:23,880
not gonna do anything. So my
father goes, you know, you don't

1861
02:04:23,920 --> 02:04:27,800
need to have a curfew. I
trust you, just be careful. Right,

1862
02:04:28,159 --> 02:04:30,920
Well, word got around that Dan
Burrello doesn't have a curfew now,

1863
02:04:31,239 --> 02:04:36,000
so now Dan Burrello could drive us
everywhere and he'll always be sober. So

1864
02:04:36,159 --> 02:04:40,960
guess where we're going? And Ferdonia
isn't far away. And because I grew

1865
02:04:41,000 --> 02:04:43,640
up in Silver Cricket, if you
know anything about Ferdonia, there's more bars

1866
02:04:43,680 --> 02:04:45,560
per square mile than maybe any other
village in the country. And oh,

1867
02:04:45,640 --> 02:04:48,119
by the way, there are some
of those bars that are eighteen and over.

1868
02:04:48,600 --> 02:04:51,920
So to get a fake ID,
it doesn't take much. I guess

1869
02:04:51,960 --> 02:04:57,560
who is everybody's taxi cab? And
we're got around to the parents that kids

1870
02:04:57,600 --> 02:04:59,720
are like, are you going out
tonight? I'm going out with Dan Barrello,

1871
02:05:00,079 --> 02:05:01,760
a great kid. Yeah, have
fun. I'm like, well,

1872
02:05:01,760 --> 02:05:04,319
how did I take out one hundred
and fifty kids this weekend? I mean,

1873
02:05:04,399 --> 02:05:06,039
that's what it came down to.
It was like, well, I

1874
02:05:06,279 --> 02:05:11,920
already was with you the beginnings of
your uber career. Yeah, pretty much

1875
02:05:13,159 --> 02:05:15,079
pretty much, That's what That's what
it was. But then like we had

1876
02:05:15,159 --> 02:05:17,880
so many d not d w Y, we had so many kids dying and

1877
02:05:17,920 --> 02:05:21,800
drunk driving accidents. Is that why
you drove them? Because you are just

1878
02:05:23,399 --> 02:05:25,960
well. It was not that I
was this great driver, I just was

1879
02:05:26,000 --> 02:05:29,359
sober. Did you but did you
want to go hang out? Did you

1880
02:05:29,399 --> 02:05:30,760
go hang out? So oh yeah, oh yeah, I hung out sober

1881
02:05:30,840 --> 02:05:33,279
and nobody had any issues with it. They loved it. Not that they

1882
02:05:33,359 --> 02:05:38,239
would have issues with it, but
did you because I literally can I had

1883
02:05:38,359 --> 02:05:40,600
known well, so I would not
I would not like that. I had

1884
02:05:40,640 --> 02:05:43,399
no interest in drinking or nothing.
I had no interest in it, and

1885
02:05:43,479 --> 02:05:45,840
you were still having a good time. So it's like college. College.

1886
02:05:45,840 --> 02:05:49,239
It wasn't so easy college. It
got a lot harder because it was like

1887
02:05:49,359 --> 02:05:51,840
you were you were square. If
you didn't if you didn't drink, you

1888
02:05:51,880 --> 02:05:55,199
know, we'll let you drive us
around, you can hang out with us.

1889
02:05:55,199 --> 02:05:57,279
But I think by the time I
got to fish here, like a

1890
02:05:57,319 --> 02:05:59,640
lot of that ship was out of
my system. Like well, I mean

1891
02:05:59,680 --> 02:06:01,239
I party and drink, but I
didn't get high. I didn't do any

1892
02:06:01,239 --> 02:06:06,520
of that stuff. I had done
enough of that prior. And then I

1893
02:06:06,720 --> 02:06:11,520
think that some of the kids in
my class. We had a lot of

1894
02:06:11,560 --> 02:06:17,840
people that died over the years too
from accidents, but alcohol related. And

1895
02:06:17,880 --> 02:06:21,159
then there was a bad one that
involved one of my good friends brother,

1896
02:06:23,880 --> 02:06:27,640
and he was pretty messed up.
He had, I think had a scholarship

1897
02:06:27,760 --> 02:06:30,720
to OURPI and he went up losing
that and coming home because he couldn't go

1898
02:06:30,800 --> 02:06:35,680
to school. We gotten a really
bad alcohol related accident, and because of

1899
02:06:35,760 --> 02:06:40,720
that, somebody would always stay sober, but usually wasn't me, you know,

1900
02:06:41,239 --> 02:06:44,760
so that that was the thing,
or we'd stay over somewhere and that

1901
02:06:45,439 --> 02:06:48,319
was the other thing. That's all. I don't know. I'm glad that

1902
02:06:48,399 --> 02:06:53,279
my kids were a little I say
lame, but I think that most parents

1903
02:06:53,359 --> 02:06:56,319
were a little more on top of
things, and the fact that there was

1904
02:06:56,359 --> 02:07:00,760
so much social media stuff you just
didn't want to really step out of line

1905
02:07:00,760 --> 02:07:04,000
because it was almost like another way
of tracking your ship. And most kids

1906
02:07:04,039 --> 02:07:08,560
telling themselves it's funny, funny,
it's funny here saying that because I never

1907
02:07:08,600 --> 02:07:11,000
told anybody this. I don't even
think I told my sibyl exists, because

1908
02:07:11,039 --> 02:07:14,279
I think they get jealous. But
my father once told me before I graduated,

1909
02:07:14,359 --> 02:07:16,239
he goes, you know, you
deal with a lot, and you

1910
02:07:16,319 --> 02:07:19,600
can you have overcome so much temptation. He goes, I want to tell

1911
02:07:19,600 --> 02:07:23,399
you something. I was the exact
opposite of us in high school. I

1912
02:07:23,439 --> 02:07:25,680
always had to be the guy to
do to do it, to take the

1913
02:07:25,800 --> 02:07:28,479
dare. Yeah, Danny boy,
He goes, you're my hero, and

1914
02:07:28,520 --> 02:07:30,520
I mean that. I'm like,
that's really no big, It goes,

1915
02:07:30,560 --> 02:07:32,840
No, it really is, because
you have to deal with ten times more

1916
02:07:32,880 --> 02:07:36,800
than I had to deal with back
then, with peer pressure and everything else,

1917
02:07:36,920 --> 02:07:40,600
and all these kids dying, and
he goes, you're you're my hero.

1918
02:07:40,680 --> 02:07:43,439
I'm like, well, thanks,
dad, you should your boys have

1919
02:07:43,560 --> 02:07:46,119
it tougher than you did. I
mean because I feel like nowadays you can't

1920
02:07:46,399 --> 02:07:50,239
you cannot party, you cannot go
take a chance. So they're putting all

1921
02:07:50,319 --> 02:07:54,680
kinds of shit and everything, and
you can die. There's a couple of

1922
02:07:54,680 --> 02:07:57,680
grains. You can't go to the
club anymore and do a bump in the

1923
02:07:57,760 --> 02:08:01,800
bathroom and like have a good time
with your press on. Alex mean like,

1924
02:08:01,680 --> 02:08:05,800
I just mean, like you can
you can't even like they're putting fentyl

1925
02:08:05,840 --> 02:08:07,479
in your weed now, you know
what I mean? Do you do you

1926
02:08:07,600 --> 02:08:11,119
feel like kids have it like is
it worse. Back in the day,

1927
02:08:11,159 --> 02:08:13,760
we had no supervision, so there
was drinking, and you know what I

1928
02:08:13,800 --> 02:08:16,359
mean, we were we didn't have
Chinese trying to kill us either. Nowadays

1929
02:08:16,399 --> 02:08:18,399
we have, like there's all these
other things. Do you think it's like

1930
02:08:18,640 --> 02:08:24,079
better or worse? Is it the
same? I worry a lot about Lewis,

1931
02:08:24,199 --> 02:08:24,720
you know what I mean, not
that he's out there. You don't

1932
02:08:24,720 --> 02:08:30,159
do it bumps in the bathroom,
but like you can't you can't party in

1933
02:08:30,239 --> 02:08:33,520
the same way you used to be
able to. I feel like I don't

1934
02:08:33,560 --> 02:08:39,439
think I think about it a whole
lot. Uh So that's part of Maybe

1935
02:08:39,560 --> 02:08:43,680
that's me putting my head in the
sand. I don't know. And I

1936
02:08:43,760 --> 02:08:48,000
always think that I was glad that
you know, one guy still lives at

1937
02:08:48,039 --> 02:08:52,800
home and the other one is on
an athletic scholarship. So and there's been

1938
02:08:52,000 --> 02:08:56,079
things along the way that have happened, but nothing that would be two outrageous

1939
02:08:56,159 --> 02:09:01,039
or two out of bounds. And
uh, I don't know. I think

1940
02:09:01,079 --> 02:09:05,800
that those I think there was always
the same stuff. I wonder if now

1941
02:09:05,039 --> 02:09:11,640
you've got a better opportunity of someone
being able to maybe a little more awareness

1942
02:09:11,039 --> 02:09:16,159
or the fact that there are cameras
everywhere. You almost can find out if

1943
02:09:16,199 --> 02:09:20,399
something bad happened. So I don't
know. I mean, I feel like

1944
02:09:20,199 --> 02:09:28,159
most of our fears on everything,
everything are so over, I want to

1945
02:09:28,199 --> 02:09:33,039
say, overexaggerated. Now I've been
accused of being like way to calm on

1946
02:09:33,159 --> 02:09:39,159
certain situations, but I think that
sometimes it's no different. It's just that

1947
02:09:39,600 --> 02:09:43,600
you're a little more aware. Now. The fentanyl thing is an absolute truth.

1948
02:09:43,880 --> 02:09:48,119
But I would hope that they'd be
wise enough to kind of not do

1949
02:09:48,239 --> 02:09:50,560
any of that kind of ship.
But again, you know, it all

1950
02:09:50,640 --> 02:09:52,159
takes this one thing and you're right, be at a party and hate try

1951
02:09:52,199 --> 02:09:56,319
this and something could happen. So
I don't know. I mean, look,

1952
02:09:56,960 --> 02:10:01,800
I certainly did some really dumb things, and I remember an incident where

1953
02:10:01,920 --> 02:10:03,920
you know, you're kind of like, oh, glad we survived that,

1954
02:10:03,319 --> 02:10:05,920
you know what I mean, because
there were just dumb things that went on,

1955
02:10:07,079 --> 02:10:11,520
and you know, I'd be very
afraid if I thought the boys were

1956
02:10:11,560 --> 02:10:15,880
doing something like that. Yeah,
I just I'm always curious, but I

1957
02:10:16,000 --> 02:10:18,800
never were. I never think about
it because I figure I survived, they'll

1958
02:10:18,840 --> 02:10:24,399
probably five two. And I feel
like there's you can only get so many

1959
02:10:24,479 --> 02:10:28,199
lectures. I don't know, and
eventually you have to just yeah, a

1960
02:10:28,239 --> 02:10:33,640
little bit, a little bit,
We'll take one more short break, come

1961
02:10:33,680 --> 02:10:35,720
back, and then we'll wrap it
up. But I want to run this

1962
02:10:35,840 --> 02:10:39,279
one scenario by both of you and
just see where you stand on them.

1963
02:10:39,279 --> 02:10:41,960
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1989
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Shakes dot com. Well, I
had played the door, so all of

1990
02:12:24,600 --> 02:12:26,000
a sudden, Tina Turner popped up, like I'm gonna hit Tina, the

1991
02:12:26,079 --> 02:12:31,319
late great Tina. Yeah, and
I'm bummed because that last segment we did

1992
02:12:31,840 --> 02:12:35,079
and Alex asked some great questions about
you know, kids and what do you

1993
02:12:35,159 --> 02:12:39,079
worry about. I don't think I
have no video of it. You must

1994
02:12:39,199 --> 02:12:43,960
do. It's terrible up your hand
makes my bows. There was some fucking

1995
02:12:45,000 --> 02:12:46,159
hair do she had. But you
know what I always loved about Tina Turner,

1996
02:12:46,279 --> 02:12:50,640
like in her late forties, she
has to come back. Yeah for

1997
02:12:50,720 --> 02:12:58,000
a woman amazing right in the eighties, Yeah, tougher, her hair was

1998
02:12:58,039 --> 02:13:01,760
everything. Not a fan dan,
Oh No, I'm just appreciate it what

1999
02:13:01,800 --> 02:13:03,720
you're saying. Yeah, I mean
I got out the ad there's she's You're

2000
02:13:03,720 --> 02:13:09,560
absolutely right. Uh So there's a
story that I saw in the New York

2001
02:13:09,640 --> 02:13:13,680
Post and I would play the audio
of this, but the guy is speaking

2002
02:13:13,720 --> 02:13:18,119
Italian, so I would assume,
Yeah, I don't think anybody would understand

2003
02:13:18,199 --> 02:13:24,920
what was being said. But he's
a millionaire banker and he was having an

2004
02:13:24,000 --> 02:13:30,000
engagement party with his fiance. He
is sixty four, she's forty seven.

2005
02:13:30,640 --> 02:13:33,239
Okay, so nothing outrageous, right, I mean we're not talking to like

2006
02:13:33,319 --> 02:13:35,279
sixty four with twenty three. Yeah, you know something like that. We're

2007
02:13:35,319 --> 02:13:43,000
talking like November August. His name
is Massimo sergre Oh. Yes, Massimo

2008
02:13:43,119 --> 02:13:46,800
took the microphone in front of one
hundred and fifty high society guests at the

2009
02:13:46,880 --> 02:13:54,520
engagement event Billy and he in front
of his bride. Her name is Christina,

2010
02:13:54,279 --> 02:14:00,159
she's forty seven. He said he
refused to be a cuckold. Well,

2011
02:14:00,239 --> 02:14:05,079
she supposedly embarked on a clandestine affair. And he says this, and

2012
02:14:05,199 --> 02:14:07,439
she's standing right next to him.
He walks up, there's a DJ.

2013
02:14:07,960 --> 02:14:11,399
He's got the microphone in his hand, and he says, I want to

2014
02:14:11,439 --> 02:14:16,640
give Christina the freedom to love,
specifically to love another person, a notable

2015
02:14:16,760 --> 02:14:22,319
lawyer who she clearly cares about more
than me. He says this in front

2016
02:14:22,359 --> 02:14:26,239
of everybody at the engagement party,
and then he said, dear Christina.

2017
02:14:26,359 --> 02:14:30,399
He turned her and looked at her
and said, I know how much you

2018
02:14:30,479 --> 02:14:33,720
are in love with him mentally and
sexually. I know that before him,

2019
02:14:35,199 --> 02:14:39,479
you had a relationship with an industrial
acquaintance, an industrialist acquaintance. I don't

2020
02:14:39,479 --> 02:14:43,359
know, there's some kind of something
lost in the translation there, But don't

2021
02:14:43,439 --> 02:14:46,560
think it pleases me to look like
a cuckold in front of all of you.

2022
02:14:46,880 --> 02:14:50,720
And that's what he says. And
he said, Christina is so good

2023
02:14:50,880 --> 02:14:54,560
at telling her truth that I couldn't
leave her alone to narrate the reason why

2024
02:14:54,600 --> 02:15:01,439
I'm ending our life together tonight.
It's a banal story of fidelity, even

2025
02:15:01,640 --> 02:15:05,319
pre marital. I am so disappointed. I am heartbroken. And then he

2026
02:15:05,439 --> 02:15:09,439
puts the mic down and walks away, and he does this in front of

2027
02:15:09,479 --> 02:15:15,119
everybody. Mama, miya, mom
Ama. Is that guy or is that

2028
02:15:15,199 --> 02:15:18,479
guy a hero? Or a zero
zero zero? Oh? I don't think

2029
02:15:18,560 --> 02:15:24,000
so. You don't know. Because
the roles were reversed and a woman was

2030
02:15:24,079 --> 02:15:26,800
standing up at her engagement party and
being like, I know you cheated on

2031
02:15:26,880 --> 02:15:31,439
me, even zone like she would
be hailed a hero among her but I

2032
02:15:31,479 --> 02:15:33,199
feel like because it's a man doing
it, like no, yes, I

2033
02:15:33,239 --> 02:15:37,119
don't know, okay that that may
be true. On the flip side,

2034
02:15:37,159 --> 02:15:39,439
I would call her zero too.
She like, you don't need to air

2035
02:15:39,520 --> 02:15:43,399
your laundry in publicly but embarrass somebody
like that. Yeah, but I'd love

2036
02:15:43,479 --> 02:15:46,279
it. I mean, I give
a popcorn out and start eating. I

2037
02:15:46,319 --> 02:15:48,840
would feel bad for the guy,
like I'd be super uncomfortable. But if

2038
02:15:48,920 --> 02:15:52,680
she did it to him, I
don't know why. I'm way more comfortable

2039
02:15:52,760 --> 02:15:56,239
with that than I am with him
doing it to her. And why is

2040
02:15:56,359 --> 02:16:00,760
that? Because my thing is with
you? I goes zero. I'm like,

2041
02:16:01,199 --> 02:16:05,119
this to me is kind of a
weak move as a man. Quietly

2042
02:16:05,199 --> 02:16:07,880
go to her and just say we're
not having this. I'm not going to

2043
02:16:07,960 --> 02:16:09,920
embarrass you. I'm not going to
say all this stuff, but I'm not

2044
02:16:11,000 --> 02:16:15,319
going to be this person. I'm
worthy of way more than this in life,

2045
02:16:15,399 --> 02:16:18,720
and I have tried to provide.
I thought I loved you, know

2046
02:16:18,800 --> 02:16:20,760
I thought you loved me as much
as I loved you. Clearly that's not

2047
02:16:20,840 --> 02:16:22,920
the case, and I don't want
you to be in a situation that's not

2048
02:16:22,920 --> 02:16:24,960
gonna make it happy. But I'm
not gonna embarrass you. I think to

2049
02:16:26,279 --> 02:16:30,880
almost tear somebody down and ruin.
Now she's suing for defamation of character,

2050
02:16:31,199 --> 02:16:35,079
and you know, pain and suffering
or emotional pain and suffer because this guy's

2051
02:16:35,079 --> 02:16:37,600
got money and I'm sure he hired
enough pis to figure this out all of

2052
02:16:37,639 --> 02:16:41,680
his eyes. Well he names like
a lawyer, I mean, all this

2053
02:16:41,760 --> 02:16:46,159
shit. So, but I think
if it were a woman, that's interesting.

2054
02:16:46,200 --> 02:16:50,959
I hadn't thought of the roles being
reversed that I almost go, I

2055
02:16:52,040 --> 02:16:54,520
would laugh and not think twice about
it. But to your point, Danny,

2056
02:16:54,600 --> 02:16:58,000
that's pretty sexist of me when you
think about it, because I go,

2057
02:16:58,200 --> 02:17:01,840
if it's a guy, I'm like, I almost think you're someone of

2058
02:17:01,879 --> 02:17:05,040
a dick, not even like I
feel bad and I'm embarrassed, and I

2059
02:17:05,079 --> 02:17:07,200
don't want to see it, like
it makes me so uncomfortable, I can't

2060
02:17:07,239 --> 02:17:09,479
look at it. That's one.
But the other thing is like, oh,

2061
02:17:09,520 --> 02:17:13,319
you're kind of a dick, dude, it's a woman. Let's yeah,

2062
02:17:13,319 --> 02:17:15,920
all right, so shit didn't work
out, you know, be a

2063
02:17:15,959 --> 02:17:18,719
man, be a gentleman, let's
walk away. That would be my thing.

2064
02:17:18,799 --> 02:17:20,799
Like if it were my kids that
somebody and they did that and engagement,

2065
02:17:20,799 --> 02:17:22,799
Hey, I know you cheating,
I'd be like, get the fun.

2066
02:17:22,920 --> 02:17:26,120
No, no, no, that's
not how we do this. Now.

2067
02:17:26,479 --> 02:17:28,399
If if a girl stood up and
said it about one of my kids,

2068
02:17:28,520 --> 02:17:31,959
like, I know you cheated,
I'm not marrying you. I'd be

2069
02:17:31,079 --> 02:17:35,079
like, that's my boy. I
know. I wouldn't know. I wouldn't.

2070
02:17:35,079 --> 02:17:37,799
I would be uh, there's just
i'd be uncomfortable and I feel a

2071
02:17:37,840 --> 02:17:39,799
little bit bad. But I would
be like, well, you had it

2072
02:17:39,840 --> 02:17:45,520
coming. Well you know what I
mean. We wish, but we wouldn't

2073
02:17:45,559 --> 02:17:48,840
do that. Like either way,
whether it's the man cheating on the woman

2074
02:17:48,959 --> 02:17:52,360
or the woman cheating on the man, that's bad behavior. We're okay calling

2075
02:17:52,399 --> 02:17:54,479
out a man for his bad behavior, but we're not okay calling out a

2076
02:17:54,520 --> 02:17:58,440
woman for hers. And I just
think like even in today's society, women

2077
02:17:58,479 --> 02:18:01,719
are paid us and men, women
and men blah blah blah, like we

2078
02:18:03,200 --> 02:18:05,600
were at the end of the day, we're all still human beings. And

2079
02:18:05,680 --> 02:18:09,559
if you're if you're having bad behavior, you should be called out of the

2080
02:18:09,600 --> 02:18:13,559
bad Maybe a public place is a
bad place to do it for They saying

2081
02:18:13,639 --> 02:18:18,440
on either side, on either side, on either side, it's the same

2082
02:18:18,479 --> 02:18:20,040
thing because all you're doing is you're
making a show. You're making a spect,

2083
02:18:20,159 --> 02:18:24,479
right, But we would celebrate her
and she stood up and was like,

2084
02:18:24,639 --> 02:18:26,799
you are cheating on me with your
secretary. We would all every woman

2085
02:18:26,920 --> 02:18:35,520
everybody every Yeah, I could see
that. I think it's I wouldn't my

2086
02:18:35,680 --> 02:18:39,159
buddy. I would be sitting there
like shit, and then I would wait,

2087
02:18:39,520 --> 02:18:41,840
you know, I call him up
later on and go, how you

2088
02:18:41,920 --> 02:18:45,600
doing, Poe? Right? Are
you with your secretary? Because now you

2089
02:18:45,719 --> 02:18:48,520
have all these high society people who
are your peers, now man, witnessing

2090
02:18:48,600 --> 02:18:52,399
this and they and don't tell me, they're all walking away going at a

2091
02:18:52,440 --> 02:18:56,399
boy. You're dude, you are
a cook, you are a fool.

2092
02:18:56,479 --> 02:19:00,479
We'll see because you allowed this to
happen. Here's the sex is part of

2093
02:19:00,520 --> 02:19:03,719
me. You knew what was going
on. Yeah, and why didn't you

2094
02:19:03,799 --> 02:19:07,040
just end it to me? You
sort of look weak that you admit to

2095
02:19:07,120 --> 02:19:11,959
everybody all this stuff, and I
would rather. I'm almost too proud to

2096
02:19:13,120 --> 02:19:15,600
say, well, I'm not going
to put up with this, but I'm

2097
02:19:15,600 --> 02:19:18,959
not gonna. But I also wouldn't
want to be the person to destroy you.

2098
02:19:18,079 --> 02:19:22,000
If I truly, if you truly
love that other person, you can

2099
02:19:22,120 --> 02:19:26,319
be as mad as hell. I
always love the term unconditional love. That's

2100
02:19:26,360 --> 02:19:30,319
my favorite, because I don't think
human beings are capable of it. How

2101
02:19:30,440 --> 02:19:35,120
can you be? Because I think
everything that we well how can you there?

2102
02:19:35,479 --> 02:19:39,239
There are conditions, right? How
can you disclike everything's got right?

2103
02:19:39,319 --> 02:19:41,440
Everything comes to the conditions. Everything
in the human experience comes with the condition.

2104
02:19:41,559 --> 02:19:45,319
Unconditional love means I just love you
no matter what, no matter what

2105
02:19:45,399 --> 02:19:46,079
you do. I get mad at
you, but I love you. I

2106
02:19:46,159 --> 02:19:50,079
think unconditional love exists, but I
don't think unconditional like exists. And that

2107
02:19:50,200 --> 02:19:54,520
sounds really weird. But I mean, you may still love somebody who is

2108
02:19:54,520 --> 02:19:56,120
split up with a long time ago
because you couldn't deal with them as a

2109
02:19:56,159 --> 02:20:01,159
person. You may still love them
unconditionally, and if they needed a kidney,

2110
02:20:01,159 --> 02:20:03,959
you'd be there for them or you'd
help them out. But you can't

2111
02:20:03,959 --> 02:20:05,399
be in a relationship with them.
You can't trust them, you know what

2112
02:20:05,440 --> 02:20:09,120
I'm saying. But there's something that
still pulls you to loving them. Does

2113
02:20:09,200 --> 02:20:13,319
that make sense? I think that
I think that that that could be the

2114
02:20:13,399 --> 02:20:16,600
case. But I mean there's some
people, like here's a great example.

2115
02:20:16,000 --> 02:20:20,440
I think Christie Brinkley still loves Billy
Joel. I think Billy Joel still loves

2116
02:20:20,600 --> 02:20:24,399
Christie Brinkley, but she couldn't be
in that marriage because he just he couldn't

2117
02:20:24,760 --> 02:20:28,040
like possibly stay sober enough and he's
getting an accidents. And when he got

2118
02:20:28,079 --> 02:20:33,440
an accents after like they split up, she was like right there for him,

2119
02:20:33,959 --> 02:20:37,719
but they couldn't be together. It
just didn't work. You know.

2120
02:20:37,959 --> 02:20:41,319
I think that you can unconditionally love
somebody but not be able to be with

2121
02:20:41,479 --> 02:20:46,120
somebody. I think that could happen
more in my next book called Coping with

2122
02:20:46,239 --> 02:20:50,600
Danny. I see that. To
me, unconditional love would be I'll be

2123
02:20:50,719 --> 02:20:54,920
there for you no no matter what, in the good times, in the

2124
02:20:54,000 --> 02:20:58,479
bad, but all that. That's
why I say, because those are conditions.

2125
02:20:58,840 --> 02:21:01,760
These are conditions by which I can't
love you enough to be with you.

2126
02:21:01,959 --> 02:21:03,120
I can't. I can be there
for you, but I can't be

2127
02:21:03,239 --> 02:21:07,040
with you. So that you almost
seem to sort of I know what you're

2128
02:21:07,079 --> 02:21:11,639
saying, that the love is there
and I'll come as a friend and try

2129
02:21:11,680 --> 02:21:13,920
to support and bring you back.
I mean, yeah, Rick ocasick with

2130
02:21:15,159 --> 02:21:18,159
the you know when when he was
dying, Pauline, it came over and

2131
02:21:18,639 --> 02:21:20,959
she's the one that found him and
she had a key to his apartment and

2132
02:21:20,079 --> 02:21:26,440
all this stuff, but they couldn't
be together. I have Valerie Berton Nelly

2133
02:21:26,479 --> 02:21:28,360
with Eddie man Halen. They were
there holding it. He was remarried,

2134
02:21:28,719 --> 02:21:31,879
and there's Valerie holding his hand with
wolf Gang when he died. Yeah,

2135
02:21:31,959 --> 02:21:35,040
but and they and they had something
together with the kid, and you know

2136
02:21:35,120 --> 02:21:39,799
all that. I can understand that, But I still think there are conditions

2137
02:21:39,920 --> 02:21:41,520
around that kind of love. There
are conditions by which I love you.

2138
02:21:41,600 --> 02:21:43,680
I love you now that it's coming
to an end, But I didn't love

2139
02:21:45,079 --> 02:21:48,520
all this other shit. That's why
I say I don't know that unconditional love

2140
02:21:48,600 --> 02:21:50,959
is capable for humans. I'm not
saying it doesn't exist. I think it

2141
02:21:52,120 --> 02:21:56,920
could. But and is itn't okay
to have conditions like we're we're so sensitive

2142
02:21:56,959 --> 02:22:01,920
as a society, like where we're
we can't have limitations to anything, or

2143
02:22:01,040 --> 02:22:05,079
you can't be Like even when you
were saying earlier about privilege, like people

2144
02:22:05,159 --> 02:22:07,840
think privilege is a bad thing.
The people who think privilege is a bad

2145
02:22:07,959 --> 02:22:13,799
word, like are privileged and don't
understand the context of It's not a negative.

2146
02:22:13,799 --> 02:22:16,760
It's actually a beautiful thing to be
privileged. You are in a position

2147
02:22:16,879 --> 02:22:20,440
to help the unprivileged or underprivileged,
you know what I mean. On the

2148
02:22:20,479 --> 02:22:24,680
flip side, privileges can be taken
away. Yes, they're not rights.

2149
02:22:24,920 --> 02:22:28,959
No. No, those who want
to white privilege white people get away with

2150
02:22:30,000 --> 02:22:31,719
anything. That's all right, you're
making that's like a park tide. That's

2151
02:22:31,760 --> 02:22:35,280
not a privilege. That's like,
hey, we get to do whatever the

2152
02:22:35,319 --> 02:22:37,200
heck we want. Oh, I'm
just saying I feel like I got away

2153
02:22:37,239 --> 02:22:41,000
with a lot because I was waiting, well I do. I do feel

2154
02:22:41,000 --> 02:22:45,639
like pep who can recognize that that
is a privilege, Like that doesn't make

2155
02:22:45,680 --> 02:22:48,440
you a bad person. It just
is a condition of your environment. I

2156
02:22:48,479 --> 02:22:52,280
mean, like Danny, I always
could be taken away, like like you,

2157
02:22:52,879 --> 02:22:54,319
you get away with it all you
want until you don't go Yeah.

2158
02:22:54,399 --> 02:22:56,719
Sure, But I mean, like
which is gone. Well, think about

2159
02:22:56,799 --> 02:23:00,600
like the oak Kill experience that we
had. We want up and I said

2160
02:23:00,600 --> 02:23:03,520
to you just be cool because for
a certain point, until someone really realized

2161
02:23:03,559 --> 02:23:07,399
that, hey, these guys weren't
a part of our intimate group. I

2162
02:23:07,479 --> 02:23:09,440
had like six monzollati. But I
mean, but that's fine. But my

2163
02:23:09,559 --> 02:23:13,239
point is, like we got away
with it because you can get away with

2164
02:23:13,319 --> 02:23:15,479
it. I was just talking to
a friend of mine who went down to

2165
02:23:15,520 --> 02:23:18,520
Watkins, Glenn and they said,
uh, yeah, we just walked in.

2166
02:23:18,760 --> 02:23:22,920
We put lanyards under our shirt,
but my lanyard was not a walkins

2167
02:23:22,520 --> 02:23:26,200
Glenn lanyard. And we were in
the pit, act like you've been there.

2168
02:23:26,280 --> 02:23:28,760
Don't be there to cause trouble.
That's not what you're there. We're

2169
02:23:28,760 --> 02:23:31,680
just go and enjoy it. No, but but it's but it was white

2170
02:23:31,719 --> 02:23:35,479
me well, and I don't know
if you were of a different shade of

2171
02:23:35,559 --> 02:23:39,719
any shade of brown. I don't
know if I can't answer that because I

2172
02:23:39,799 --> 02:23:43,040
don't know. I've never been,
so I can't say. But I can

2173
02:23:43,120 --> 02:23:46,680
tell you this I've said to you
all the time when we remember when there

2174
02:23:46,959 --> 02:23:50,600
be guys who wrote books about I
snuck into the super Bowl seven times,

2175
02:23:50,680 --> 02:23:52,200
and I went into whatever concert,
and I go, yeah, I can

2176
02:23:52,280 --> 02:23:54,959
see how that can happen. And
by the way, every one of those

2177
02:23:56,000 --> 02:24:01,040
guys were white. That's all.
That's all. And maybe maybe, I

2178
02:24:01,120 --> 02:24:05,040
don't know, maybe in different countries
something else would happen on Pretty girl privilege

2179
02:24:05,120 --> 02:24:09,360
is a thing. Hot girl privilege
is always a thing. Oh yeah,

2180
02:24:09,760 --> 02:24:11,920
god, damn, you know what
I love. There's athletic privilege, yeah,

2181
02:24:11,959 --> 02:24:15,399
but it's hot girl privilege. You
have a hot girl privilege. Is

2182
02:24:15,440 --> 02:24:18,559
my favorite. How girl privilege is
my favorite because there's a shelf life on

2183
02:24:18,600 --> 02:24:22,639
hot girl privilege, that's true,
and then all of a sudden, hot

2184
02:24:22,719 --> 02:24:26,280
girl privilege starts to fade away,
and hot girl just isn't getting the attention

2185
02:24:26,360 --> 02:24:28,959
anymore. She may be attractive for
her age, she may be in great

2186
02:24:30,000 --> 02:24:31,840
shape for her age and all that, but she's not getting what she's used

2187
02:24:31,840 --> 02:24:35,280
to. Where it used to be, she could go out every night of

2188
02:24:35,280 --> 02:24:37,760
the week and not pay for anything, right, and now all of a

2189
02:24:37,799 --> 02:24:41,639
sudden it's not there or it's slipped
away, and now you start to see

2190
02:24:41,719 --> 02:24:46,879
him like overcome that. Tawny Kitten
was a classic example to me of how

2191
02:24:46,959 --> 02:24:50,760
girl privilege hot From the time she
was fourteen years old, every door opened

2192
02:24:50,840 --> 02:24:56,440
because you were hot all the way
up to you weren't and now you're beaten

2193
02:24:56,559 --> 02:24:58,079
dude, and we become the clean
of the silver dollars. Well, it's

2194
02:24:58,120 --> 02:25:01,280
like you know all those Yeah,
that's exactly that's the song, right,

2195
02:25:01,680 --> 02:25:05,280
she's lost it. Yeah, she
ain't the same, but she wants to

2196
02:25:05,280 --> 02:25:07,280
pretend she is. Yeah. Well, and there's just enough guys who will

2197
02:25:07,319 --> 02:25:11,680
play along with Sure, there is
because you know, hey, I got

2198
02:25:11,760 --> 02:25:16,079
a shot now he went on the
discount rack. I mean, it's amazing.

2199
02:25:16,159 --> 02:25:18,120
Well you and I are, we're
all well, we're all at the

2200
02:25:18,200 --> 02:25:24,959
age now where we know people whom
from high school who during high school wouldn't

2201
02:25:24,000 --> 02:25:26,079
have the girl, wouldn't have given
the guy at the time of day.

2202
02:25:26,520 --> 02:25:31,760
Then life moves on, girls starts
losing her looks or guy starts making money,

2203
02:25:31,840 --> 02:25:33,440
and all of a sudden, hey, look who's together, and you're

2204
02:25:33,479 --> 02:25:37,719
like, this would never have happened
in high school, right, And sometimes

2205
02:25:37,799 --> 02:25:41,440
I think too though, as you
get older, you start to get beyond

2206
02:25:41,239 --> 02:25:46,399
the looks of stuff. This is
where I I have this theory, and

2207
02:25:46,520 --> 02:25:50,159
it's just a theory on the dating
apps stuff, because I always figured the

2208
02:25:50,280 --> 02:25:56,799
dating apps are really in favor of
women because the women, especially the ones

2209
02:25:56,840 --> 02:26:03,319
where women get to you got to
respond first, right, But most guys

2210
02:26:03,399 --> 02:26:07,680
that are going to swipe on and
all of them are going for probably that

2211
02:26:07,879 --> 02:26:11,000
same group of guys, right,
the same group of guys that are hot

2212
02:26:11,079 --> 02:26:13,280
are usually hot to like every chick
that's on this app, so they're all

2213
02:26:13,360 --> 02:26:18,239
trying to get to that guy.
Basically, if I feel so, if

2214
02:26:18,280 --> 02:26:22,360
you've got that, then you're not
you're going on superficial and then you go

2215
02:26:22,399 --> 02:26:26,440
out on the date and it doesn't
work, and you wonder why where if

2216
02:26:26,440 --> 02:26:28,120
you're just out in the wild and
all of a sudden you had a conversation

2217
02:26:28,200 --> 02:26:33,600
with somebody and maybe you would have
swiped past them on a dating app,

2218
02:26:33,639 --> 02:26:37,959
but you find out that they're funny
and they really value family, which are

2219
02:26:39,000 --> 02:26:41,840
the same values that you have,
and you start to have a conversation,

2220
02:26:41,040 --> 02:26:46,319
and all of a sudden, like
you find yourself three hours have gone by,

2221
02:26:46,479 --> 02:26:48,760
You're like, holy shit, I've
had a great night with this person.

2222
02:26:48,840 --> 02:26:50,760
And it's not really a date,
but it's conversation. And then that

2223
02:26:52,159 --> 02:26:54,840
to me, is more authentic and
real than the dating apps, which is

2224
02:26:54,879 --> 02:27:00,079
everything superficial and almost like hot girl
privilege, right, you can't. And

2225
02:27:00,120 --> 02:27:03,760
I think that same thing with high
school, like all of us were superficial

2226
02:27:03,079 --> 02:27:05,879
if she was the hot chick.
Once you get to know somebody, if

2227
02:27:05,920 --> 02:27:09,319
you can get below the surface,
sometimes you find out the hot chick.

2228
02:27:09,399 --> 02:27:11,520
There ain't a lot behind that.
Sometimes you find out the hot chick and

2229
02:27:11,639 --> 02:27:15,680
oh my god, there's all this
depth over here that I had no idea

2230
02:27:15,719 --> 02:27:18,639
about because all I was looking at
is I just wanted to go, hey,

2231
02:27:18,719 --> 02:27:20,319
man, guess who I got to
go out with the other day,

2232
02:27:20,639 --> 02:27:26,280
you know, like a friend of
mine who would go Friday night bunny,

2233
02:27:26,559 --> 02:27:30,440
guess what I'm going out with?
You know, And that would be the

2234
02:27:30,680 --> 02:27:33,040
But that was all it was about. It was about the hot person,

2235
02:27:33,120 --> 02:27:35,840
not the hot Then you find out
maybe the hot person also values family and

2236
02:27:37,319 --> 02:27:41,200
really is into music and has a
real depth and you can have conversations about

2237
02:27:41,239 --> 02:27:43,680
things, and I think sometimes you
don't get that on the dating apps.

2238
02:27:43,719 --> 02:27:46,360
Now. I'm sure there's somebody who's
gonna go, oh, I met my

2239
02:27:46,559 --> 02:27:48,799
husband, I met my wife whatever
on a dating app. That could be

2240
02:27:50,200 --> 02:27:52,559
I'm sure, sure can I think
that's why they like create. I mean,

2241
02:27:52,639 --> 02:27:56,440
I think like the ones on your
phone now are sort of created just

2242
02:27:56,520 --> 02:27:58,239
proably cook ups. Right. I
don't use dating apps. I don't know

2243
02:27:58,639 --> 02:28:03,680
pretty much. But like back in
the day when there was like match dot

2244
02:28:03,719 --> 02:28:09,120
Com and Christian Mingle and stuff like
dolls were intended to like hook people up.

2245
02:28:09,399 --> 02:28:13,239
Christian Dad. I did Christian Mingle
for about a month and the closest

2246
02:28:13,479 --> 02:28:18,799
Christians to mingle with were like in
Pennsylvania, Indiana, really Christians in Rochester

2247
02:28:18,879 --> 02:28:22,079
any zero they are, but they
get married like when they're like twelve.

2248
02:28:22,159 --> 02:28:26,440
I mean really, yeah, Okay, it's like Roberts Wesleyan times the power

2249
02:28:26,479 --> 02:28:28,280
of one hundred. You find a
good Christian woman around here? I guess

2250
02:28:28,319 --> 02:28:31,760
so, or if you if you
find one, Like there's a catch.

2251
02:28:31,159 --> 02:28:35,000
Did you meet your wife on a
dating app? You're currently we're in the

2252
02:28:35,040 --> 02:28:37,719
band community. See. But but
that's what I'm saying. It is like

2253
02:28:37,799 --> 02:28:41,120
you had a commonality, Yeah,
that brought you together in music. Then

2254
02:28:41,159 --> 02:28:45,079
you found out you liked her,
You went out a few times. It's

2255
02:28:45,159 --> 02:28:48,000
more than that. Now you got
a whole life together, which may not

2256
02:28:48,120 --> 02:28:50,280
have happened on a dating app.
Either one of you may have just gotten

2257
02:28:50,559 --> 02:28:54,799
yeah, right, and you met
in the wild. We did. That's

2258
02:28:54,799 --> 02:28:56,440
when I think. It's always you
can't get enough of me? That's right?

2259
02:28:56,840 --> 02:29:01,559
When you were married before? Right? Yeah? Was your first?

2260
02:29:01,520 --> 02:29:05,079
Was your first break up? Like
a public thing? Was it so funny?

2261
02:29:05,120 --> 02:29:11,280
Billy? Well, Billy made it
a public thing? Whoa, whoa?

2262
02:29:11,879 --> 02:29:15,040
No, I didn't know, I
know, my god, I didn't

2263
02:29:15,479 --> 02:29:18,600
never told the whole segment about it
on the drive. What the fuck I

2264
02:29:18,680 --> 02:29:22,000
did not know? You did not
by name, not my name, Jesus

2265
02:29:22,120 --> 02:29:24,799
Christ, not by name, but
she called me like that day she goes

2266
02:29:26,040 --> 02:29:28,479
it's Bill Murray and your girl partners. He's talking about us on the air

2267
02:29:30,000 --> 02:29:33,280
that he knows some girl who was
married to this guy that he used to

2268
02:29:33,399 --> 02:29:35,799
work with, and then he saw
her out at a bar with an older

2269
02:29:35,879 --> 02:29:39,239
man. I'm like, well,
you're pretty you nailed it so far.

2270
02:29:39,840 --> 02:29:43,360
Yeah, it's probably you, but
that was hilarious. You're like, dude,

2271
02:29:43,399 --> 02:29:46,639
I'm sorry, I'm like for what
you're telling the truth. Did anybody

2272
02:29:46,799 --> 02:29:50,360
know the reason that you broke up? Like, aside from the drive segment,

2273
02:29:52,079 --> 02:29:54,959
did anyone like, did you publicly
go on Facebook? Did anybody?

2274
02:29:54,239 --> 02:29:58,920
Never never talked about In fact,
people still think people come up to house

2275
02:29:58,920 --> 02:30:01,600
so and sorry, we we broke
up. We got divorced like seven years

2276
02:30:01,600 --> 02:30:05,680
ago. We're not together anymore,
and they're like, oh, well you're

2277
02:30:05,680 --> 02:30:09,440
married. Yeah I got remarried.
Oh okay. I never made a public

2278
02:30:09,479 --> 02:30:11,719
I never talked about it, never
addressed it because because to me, I

2279
02:30:11,840 --> 02:30:16,479
thought in the post, doing anything
different from like people going on Facebook years

2280
02:30:16,520 --> 02:30:20,159
ago and updating their Facebook status is
to it's complicated. Yeah to me that

2281
02:30:20,200 --> 02:30:24,719
I just took my my Facebook status
off in general, and I'm like,

2282
02:30:24,879 --> 02:30:28,520
because that, to me was just
such trash When people did that stuff,

2283
02:30:28,600 --> 02:30:31,760
it was just such trash and attention
grabbing. And I was like, no,

2284
02:30:31,920 --> 02:30:35,120
it's we're just not together anymore.
It moved on, and my family

2285
02:30:35,239 --> 02:30:37,680
was pretty cool about it, and
they didn't like her. No. In

2286
02:30:37,799 --> 02:30:39,719
fact, in my wedding, I'll
be honest with you, like a lot

2287
02:30:39,760 --> 02:30:41,440
of people are like, all right, what the hell are we doing here?

2288
02:30:43,120 --> 02:30:45,559
I found that out later, What
the hell are we doing here?

2289
02:30:46,479 --> 02:30:50,639
Nobody in your in your corner was
like, buddy, oh, there are

2290
02:30:50,639 --> 02:30:52,799
a few. There are a few, and you just you're blinded by love.

2291
02:30:52,959 --> 02:30:56,079
No. I wasn't blinded by love. We're already had. We're already

2292
02:30:56,239 --> 02:31:01,159
seventy percent here. I know.
It's no, it's sad, but I

2293
02:31:01,280 --> 02:31:09,399
was a se C minus. Yeah, I mean c's get degrees. I

2294
02:31:09,520 --> 02:31:11,719
learned a lot from that. I
learned a lot from that. I bet

2295
02:31:11,799 --> 02:31:16,000
you did. I really did.
But how long were you together? I

2296
02:31:16,079 --> 02:31:18,680
mean not how long were you married? We were married Okay, five minutes,

2297
02:31:18,799 --> 02:31:22,000
we were married thirteen months. We
weren't divorced though, for like three

2298
02:31:22,120 --> 02:31:26,280
years, but we were married for
like thirteen months. Were you were you

2299
02:31:26,559 --> 02:31:28,639
seeing each I'm sorry, I'm getting
deep. Were you seeing each other at

2300
02:31:28,680 --> 02:31:31,719
all during that time? Or you
you separated? Could we separated? And

2301
02:31:31,760 --> 02:31:35,000
then she would call and need something
and then try to like, you know,

2302
02:31:35,680 --> 02:31:39,879
woo me back? Did it work? Not really now? And then

2303
02:31:41,079 --> 02:31:45,040
like one day she just basically just
went to the guy she was scrown around

2304
02:31:45,079 --> 02:31:46,799
with anyway, And I was like, okay, it was more of an

2305
02:31:46,799 --> 02:31:50,399
ego thing at that point. There's
a competition between you and some dude.

2306
02:31:50,559 --> 02:31:54,280
Yeah, you know. But then
you find out a year later it's true

2307
02:31:54,319 --> 02:31:58,559
story. It calls me up one
night, and I'm thinking, like most

2308
02:31:58,600 --> 02:32:01,319
people wouldn't answer the phone if you're
a wife calls and there's nothing to talk

2309
02:32:01,360 --> 02:32:03,479
about. But her parents were up
in age, so I'm like, okay,

2310
02:32:03,559 --> 02:32:07,079
what if something happened? Because it
was late at night when she called,

2311
02:32:07,639 --> 02:32:09,079
like, hey, what's up,
and she's like crying. I go,

2312
02:32:09,159 --> 02:32:13,000
what's the matter? And she had
got into a fight with this person

2313
02:32:13,479 --> 02:32:18,360
and he had a health issue and
he didn't want her around and all this

2314
02:32:18,479 --> 02:32:20,879
other stuff. She's bawling and I'm
like, honey, I mean I said

2315
02:32:20,879 --> 02:32:24,879
the word honey, just not a
natural naturally right, And I'm like,

2316
02:32:24,959 --> 02:32:26,639
I'm giving her some advice and she's
like, no one's called me that so

2317
02:32:26,879 --> 02:32:31,280
long. You know, you really
understand I'm never gonna forgive myself for letting

2318
02:32:31,280 --> 02:32:33,479
you go. And in my head, I'm going I win. Yeah,

2319
02:32:33,879 --> 02:32:35,840
I mean, it's like it wasn't
I go. We weren't meant to be

2320
02:32:35,920 --> 02:32:39,319
together, so don't beat yourself up. But I'm like, yeah, you

2321
02:32:39,399 --> 02:32:43,719
know what, you are wrong and
you did screw up, but hey,

2322
02:32:43,840 --> 02:32:46,559
life, we all make mistakes.
Time to move. I'm forgiving her.

2323
02:32:46,600 --> 02:32:50,440
It's time to Yeah, I like, you never get it wrong, you

2324
02:32:50,520 --> 02:32:54,200
know what I mean, nothing's ever
wrong. You just you move on.

2325
02:32:54,360 --> 02:32:58,159
And yeah, I mean, but
you never get life never really ends either.

2326
02:32:58,319 --> 02:33:01,239
So no, but you're right,
some people it's just a better fit

2327
02:33:01,280 --> 02:33:05,360
than others. And I think you
find out you gotta have put some worth

2328
02:33:05,479 --> 02:33:09,399
in yourself. Yeah, right,
So I think having being a feeling like

2329
02:33:09,520 --> 02:33:13,120
you're worth more than that, it
doesn't mean that they're even a bad person.

2330
02:33:13,680 --> 02:33:16,879
That just I'm worth more than this
that you're treating me, and I

2331
02:33:18,000 --> 02:33:20,840
have more respect for myself. So
therefore I'm not going to do this anymore.

2332
02:33:20,920 --> 02:33:24,120
I'm not gonna follow myself in that
and it Those decisions can be tough

2333
02:33:24,440 --> 02:33:28,520
and and not and painful. But
you know, it looks like you bounce

2334
02:33:28,600 --> 02:33:31,319
back pretty good. Yeah. No, I'm serious. It looks like you're

2335
02:33:31,399 --> 02:33:35,280
much happier today. It's a completely
different person. Now there you go,

2336
02:33:37,280 --> 02:33:41,360
find the right wife, the right
job. Why do you feel bad the

2337
02:33:41,479 --> 02:33:43,959
driver? No? No, no, it was hilarious. Yeah, but

2338
02:33:45,040 --> 02:33:48,920
it wasn't hilarious, like I didn't
you didn't name it. I called him

2339
02:33:48,000 --> 02:33:50,120
up right after I left that bar. I'm like, okay, buddy.

2340
02:33:52,040 --> 02:33:54,120
I was like, I'm like,
oh, yeah, I know, because

2341
02:33:54,200 --> 02:33:58,639
you saw her come in with somebody
that because a week before that she had

2342
02:33:58,680 --> 02:34:01,040
like changed like when people are she
didn't me changed patterns. Yeah, and

2343
02:34:01,120 --> 02:34:03,399
her pattern was all of a sudden, like oh, I'm gonna start putting

2344
02:34:03,440 --> 02:34:09,399
my clothes directly into the washer.
And I'm like, okay, I know

2345
02:34:09,520 --> 02:34:15,120
why. Yeah yeah, so smelled
like d car noward. I don't wear

2346
02:34:15,159 --> 02:34:24,959
that my favorite. That's terrible.
All right, we'll wrap it up for

2347
02:34:24,079 --> 02:34:31,079
Alex, who is a new podcast
debuting September fourth, called Games and Very

2348
02:34:31,200 --> 02:34:35,200
Interesting. She's in here, had
it all gamed up. Yeah, that's

2349
02:34:35,280 --> 02:34:39,319
right cool. For Dan Barillo,
who's heading off Austin Austin, Texas,

2350
02:34:39,440 --> 02:34:43,959
I would hear all about it.
I'm Bill Moran Tas'll see him Monday