WEBVTT 1 00:00:14.119 --> 00:00:22.640 Not sorry. What's up, positive bitches? How are we doing today? 2 00:00:22.800 --> 00:00:26.519 If you're hearing this episode, you were meant to be here, So keep 3 00:00:26.760 --> 00:00:32.119 listening on that Bitch's Positive Podcast. Sometimes we will laugh. Other times, 4 00:00:32.240 --> 00:00:36.520 baby Girl, we're gonna cry, but we will always walk away feeling our 5 00:00:36.679 --> 00:00:43.320 most positive bitch self. That is Babe in total connection with herself. That's 6 00:00:43.439 --> 00:00:48.560 right. On this podcast, we are all about unbecoming who we are not 7 00:00:48.640 --> 00:00:53.799 so we can fully embody exactly who the fuck we came here to be. 8 00:00:54.640 --> 00:01:00.640 Today we are talking how not to be insecure around the Three Peas. Now 9 00:01:00.799 --> 00:01:06.879 you may be wondering, cc what on God's green earth are the Three Peas? 10 00:01:07.280 --> 00:01:11.560 And I would tell you the Three Peas happens to be something I made 11 00:01:11.599 --> 00:01:17.319 up, but it's valid. It is the people we perceive as pretty, 12 00:01:18.000 --> 00:01:23.239 as popular, and or powerful. Something really interesting happens to us when we 13 00:01:23.280 --> 00:01:29.400 walk into a room and we deem other people as prettier or more popular or 14 00:01:29.519 --> 00:01:34.959 more powerful. We start to energetically chase them, and we abandoned our own 15 00:01:36.159 --> 00:01:42.480 worth, We abandoned our own strengths, we abandoned who we are, and 16 00:01:42.519 --> 00:01:46.760 we become like this little musle just chasing chasing, chasing, chasing like a 17 00:01:46.879 --> 00:01:51.879 rat chase's cheese, and we feel terrible while doing it. It's not like 18 00:01:51.920 --> 00:01:56.040 we're having fun. Feeling like we're a piece of shit. That's never fun. 19 00:01:56.760 --> 00:02:01.359 So we're going to talk about how do transcend this mindset that these people 20 00:02:01.359 --> 00:02:06.799 are better than us because of what we're perceiving as their strengths, and we're 21 00:02:06.799 --> 00:02:10.560 going to talk about how we can fully step in to our own power. 22 00:02:10.719 --> 00:02:15.919 That's right. If you're alive right now and you're listening to this, you 23 00:02:15.080 --> 00:02:20.919 have power in your body. You've come here with a very specific mission. 24 00:02:21.280 --> 00:02:23.840 What the fuck are you doing worrying about other people? What are we doing 25 00:02:23.919 --> 00:02:30.280 here? We got to refocus, we got to reset, rejuvenate, rebirth, 26 00:02:30.080 --> 00:02:35.360 and then we're ready to go. Before we get into today's episode, 27 00:02:35.439 --> 00:02:40.439 a couple of announcements. 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Without further ado, let's get into today's episode. 81 00:07:00.000 --> 00:07:04.160 I want to recall a memory from my own life to give you just some 82 00:07:04.360 --> 00:07:09.720 comfort that you're not alone at wherever you are. I feel like a lot 83 00:07:09.800 --> 00:07:15.000 of us can see people like me honestly on podcasts or on reels or on 84 00:07:15.160 --> 00:07:18.120 TikTok, and we say, Okay, you're there. I want to be 85 00:07:18.240 --> 00:07:23.839 there, but how did you get there? And every single one of us 86 00:07:24.160 --> 00:07:28.600 when you see us on social media, Not to speak for everyone, but 87 00:07:28.839 --> 00:07:32.600 I guess this is an assumption. We usually didn't start where you see us. 88 00:07:32.720 --> 00:07:38.199 We usually didn't start on our most magnetic timeline. We usually had to 89 00:07:38.279 --> 00:07:42.199 go through this hero's journey of getting there, which we all have to go 90 00:07:42.399 --> 00:07:46.079 through. And that is how we gain these strengths and these characteristics and these 91 00:07:46.160 --> 00:07:50.240 attributes. And so if you're seeing me now or listening to me now and 92 00:07:50.319 --> 00:07:54.480 saying okay, yeah, you understand how to do that, and you're doing 93 00:07:54.519 --> 00:07:58.360 it great, but I'm all the way over here, please understand that I 94 00:07:58.639 --> 00:08:03.079 was also at the lowest of low points in my own life. Many times, 95 00:08:05.160 --> 00:08:07.439 being at a low point is just another point of view. It's just 96 00:08:07.720 --> 00:08:13.319 data, and it's just information. And you might not be where you want 97 00:08:13.319 --> 00:08:16.600 to be just yet. But also remember that you're not where you were starting 98 00:08:16.639 --> 00:08:20.279 out either. You're listening to this podcast, aren't you. You're working on 99 00:08:20.399 --> 00:08:24.759 yourself, aren't you? So you're not who you once were, because if 100 00:08:24.879 --> 00:08:30.000 you were, you wouldn't be here right now listening to these words. You're 101 00:08:30.120 --> 00:08:33.320 not as far back or as low down as you think, because you've already 102 00:08:33.360 --> 00:08:39.480 made the decision to listen to this podcast, to start working on yourself, 103 00:08:39.559 --> 00:08:43.879 to start changing your mindset. The only time we get stuck is when we 104 00:08:43.960 --> 00:08:46.600 get stuck in a victim mindset, And if you're listening to this, you're 105 00:08:46.679 --> 00:08:52.679 not there. I one time had a therapy session, and this is when 106 00:08:52.759 --> 00:08:58.840 me and my current partner got back together, and I was still really triggered 107 00:08:58.879 --> 00:09:03.440 at this point because we really didn't have all those conversations necessary to have yet. 108 00:09:05.000 --> 00:09:07.600 I understood why he wanted to be back with me. I understood that, 109 00:09:09.480 --> 00:09:11.679 or why he did what he did. I understood a lot of that, 110 00:09:13.320 --> 00:09:16.440 but I still had those triggers in my body that felt, Oh my 111 00:09:16.559 --> 00:09:22.759 god, what could happen. This was before I fully understood codependency and anxious 112 00:09:22.759 --> 00:09:26.919 attachment. I wasn't aware of those things yet. And I remember I was 113 00:09:26.080 --> 00:09:30.960 facetiming with my partner and then he said, Oh, I just got off 114 00:09:31.279 --> 00:09:35.200 this meeting with this girl who lives down the block from me, and it's 115 00:09:35.240 --> 00:09:41.559 so funny. We live in the same neighborhood and at this time we just 116 00:09:41.759 --> 00:09:45.279 got back together. It was like a couple of weeks, and I'm thinking, 117 00:09:45.440 --> 00:09:46.559 like, oh, no, is he going to get coffee with her? 118 00:09:46.600 --> 00:09:50.039 Are they going to start hanging out? Because it was still covid vibes, 119 00:09:50.720 --> 00:09:56.919 and I knew he met up with other female co workers prior to get 120 00:09:56.000 --> 00:10:01.000 coffee and to hang out when we weren't together, So I thinking, is 121 00:10:01.039 --> 00:10:05.039 that going to happen? Like, are they now gonna start becoming really close? 122 00:10:05.159 --> 00:10:07.720 And then I'm perceiving that as a threat, and then I'm getting really 123 00:10:07.799 --> 00:10:11.519 in my head, Oh my god, what am I gonna do? This 124 00:10:11.720 --> 00:10:16.120 is how anxious attachment sounds. You find a perceived threat and then you spiral 125 00:10:16.200 --> 00:10:20.559 about it. So I went to the therapist I had at the time, 126 00:10:20.639 --> 00:10:22.759 which wasn't a good match for me. But lo and behold. I told 127 00:10:22.799 --> 00:10:26.679 her, you know, I get really anxious knowing he has all these calls 128 00:10:26.759 --> 00:10:31.360 with this girl who lives down the block from him. I'm getting anxious that 129 00:10:31.399 --> 00:10:33.519 they're getting to know one another and they're really gonna like one another. And 130 00:10:33.720 --> 00:10:37.120 she straight up just said, well, that's a trait of a very insecure 131 00:10:37.240 --> 00:10:41.320 person. I was like, okay, cool, okay, all right, 132 00:10:41.679 --> 00:10:46.360 so I okay and yeah, and that was it. She didn't really offer 133 00:10:46.399 --> 00:10:50.679 guidance about that. That was it was yeah, period, And she wasn't 134 00:10:50.720 --> 00:10:56.120 wrong. You know, that was true. I really was insecure, not 135 00:10:56.279 --> 00:11:00.159 even about myself, but about where we were in our relationship. She just 136 00:11:00.320 --> 00:11:05.559 got back together. I didn't fully understand where do we stand, And even 137 00:11:05.600 --> 00:11:11.440 if I rationally knew, I emotionally felt unsafe still. And so this is 138 00:11:11.519 --> 00:11:16.759 what happens. We get into our own head. We see someone who we 139 00:11:16.919 --> 00:11:20.000 deem as having a more powerful position than us. At this time, I 140 00:11:20.200 --> 00:11:24.919 was seeing that girl as someone who could possibly be I don't know, prettier, 141 00:11:24.399 --> 00:11:28.600 or really just have a more powerful stance than me because she gets to 142 00:11:28.679 --> 00:11:31.080 talk to him all day long and they're meetings all day long, and they 143 00:11:31.159 --> 00:11:35.159 live five minutes from one another, and I live forty five minutes from him, 144 00:11:35.480 --> 00:11:41.159 and so that was to me that perceived threat. And what I realized 145 00:11:41.320 --> 00:11:48.000 over time is that these sort of perceived threats have completely disintegrated, and it's 146 00:11:48.080 --> 00:11:52.639 because of the work I've done on myself that woman would still be that woman 147 00:11:52.799 --> 00:11:56.279 or girl. I don't even know how old she was. I used to 148 00:11:56.360 --> 00:12:00.240 go to my gym. Don't ask me why I go to a power lifting 149 00:12:00.279 --> 00:12:03.600 gym. I don't know, Okay, some reason. That's the gym I 150 00:12:03.679 --> 00:12:07.960 go to in New York. Anyway, every single person there is a powerlifter 151 00:12:07.360 --> 00:12:11.159 or a bikini model. I'm not kidding you. I go to a gym 152 00:12:11.200 --> 00:12:16.039 with bikini models, and they look amazing, and they literally this is their 153 00:12:16.159 --> 00:12:22.440 job. They do competitions, this is their life, and they are really 154 00:12:22.559 --> 00:12:26.799 in the gym all the time. They have their perfect diets, and they 155 00:12:26.919 --> 00:12:30.080 really work very very hard. It is a job. Like these people aren't 156 00:12:30.080 --> 00:12:33.679 in the gym all day, all night because they're in competitions. And so 157 00:12:33.159 --> 00:12:37.559 I would go to that gym, and at first I felt so insecure going 158 00:12:37.639 --> 00:12:39.919 there with him, because I'm like, oh my god, there's all these 159 00:12:39.960 --> 00:12:43.320 other people here, really women, and they have perfect bodies, and I 160 00:12:43.440 --> 00:12:48.480 feel like I don't. And I would really get in my own head again, 161 00:12:48.720 --> 00:12:52.559 perceiving that these people were prettier or more powerful than me, and then 162 00:12:52.600 --> 00:12:58.000 I would create the story that would just dig my own grave. And I 163 00:12:58.159 --> 00:13:01.600 still go to this gym, and I'll go with my partner, but I 164 00:13:01.679 --> 00:13:09.000 don't feel these feelings anymore. So my point is these little seeds of we 165 00:13:09.120 --> 00:13:11.840 can call it what we want, whether you want to call it in security 166 00:13:13.879 --> 00:13:20.759 or jealousy or any word that you want to call it. Really, these 167 00:13:20.000 --> 00:13:26.480 seeds can be uprooted and lifted and you can heal. And we're going to 168 00:13:26.559 --> 00:13:31.480 talk about five things I've done over time that has allowed me, regardless of 169 00:13:31.639 --> 00:13:35.840 who is there, to feel best in my own skin, regardless of who 170 00:13:35.960 --> 00:13:39.720 is there, to feel like I'm the most popular, prettiest, powerful girl 171 00:13:39.840 --> 00:13:43.879 in my own skin. I now don't have to change how I feel about 172 00:13:43.919 --> 00:13:50.559 myself based on who's in that environment. I don't now change how I think 173 00:13:50.600 --> 00:13:56.000 about myself based on who's in my environment. I think and feel and exist 174 00:13:56.279 --> 00:14:01.279 about myself based on my own cool or not who is in my environment, 175 00:14:01.720 --> 00:14:07.759 and that is what we're striving towards today. So we're going to go through 176 00:14:07.840 --> 00:14:13.120 these five steps. And the first one to release these seeds and plant new 177 00:14:13.399 --> 00:14:22.279 seeds of prosperity and abundance and self love is the old quote of if you 178 00:14:22.399 --> 00:14:26.519 can't beat them, join them. What do I mean by this? I 179 00:14:26.840 --> 00:14:31.679 feel like a lot of us, especially me, I would have such a 180 00:14:31.759 --> 00:14:35.080 bad mindset towards people who had what I want, or had the body or 181 00:14:35.159 --> 00:14:41.159 the skin or whatever they were doing that I aspire to have, and I 182 00:14:41.240 --> 00:14:46.039 would get just this angry feeling towards them and just like whatever. But what 183 00:14:46.200 --> 00:14:52.120 I learned to do instead of trying to beat them, I've learned to join 184 00:14:52.279 --> 00:15:00.480 them, aka, learn from them. I switched up my perception and when 185 00:15:00.519 --> 00:15:05.919 I saw someone have what I want, instead of seeing them as my competition, 186 00:15:05.159 --> 00:15:15.159 I started to see them as my cooperation, cooperation, my co founder 187 00:15:15.440 --> 00:15:20.080 of my new destiny. I started to see them as people I could learn 188 00:15:20.240 --> 00:15:24.039 from rather than people I have to be better then, and that made all 189 00:15:24.159 --> 00:15:28.639 of the difference. And we're just on step number one. The people who 190 00:15:28.759 --> 00:15:33.679 have the body you want, the skin that you want, the grades that 191 00:15:33.879 --> 00:15:37.399 you want the job that you want. Instead of seeing them as competition, 192 00:15:39.799 --> 00:15:45.039 see them as someone you can learn from and start learning from them. Do 193 00:15:45.120 --> 00:15:48.919 you know how much easier it is to learn from someone else rather than having 194 00:15:48.000 --> 00:15:52.240 to forge your own path. Think about if you've ever walked in snow. 195 00:15:52.759 --> 00:15:58.840 The first person who's walking through five feet of snow, it's hard to make 196 00:15:58.919 --> 00:16:03.480 all your little footstep. But let's say my partner is to walk in front 197 00:16:03.519 --> 00:16:06.879 of me in the snow. Now I can just put my feet where he 198 00:16:07.000 --> 00:16:10.480 put his feet, and it's going to be much easier for me to walk 199 00:16:10.519 --> 00:16:15.879 along that snow path. When we start seeing the people who we want to 200 00:16:17.120 --> 00:16:22.320 be like as our inspirations, as our teachers, as people we can learn 201 00:16:22.399 --> 00:16:26.320 from, instead of someone we have to go against, Oh my god, 202 00:16:26.559 --> 00:16:33.000 become friends with them, learn from them, welcome them, rather than making 203 00:16:33.320 --> 00:16:37.240 enemies out of them. Because making an enemy out of someone you want to 204 00:16:37.320 --> 00:16:45.919 be like, it only makes your vibration more fine tuned to what you do 205 00:16:47.039 --> 00:16:52.440 not want. It doesn't put you in the vibration you want. Let me 206 00:16:52.519 --> 00:16:57.279 tell you a story about Hershey, Hershey, that's right, the chocolate hershey 207 00:16:57.759 --> 00:17:04.640 mm and Reese's let's talk about it. I know people say Reeses all different 208 00:17:04.680 --> 00:17:10.200 ways, like Reese's and Reese's. I don't know, but I say Reeses, 209 00:17:10.200 --> 00:17:12.880 and that's how I'm going to say. Hershey had his own candy factory 210 00:17:12.920 --> 00:17:18.599 which was very successful, and he was this really first person to bring over 211 00:17:18.960 --> 00:17:22.720 chocolates and I believe it was milk and caramel into a factory. And Reese's 212 00:17:23.440 --> 00:17:29.319 worked for Hershey, but eventually Reese's was like, f this, I'm gonna 213 00:17:29.319 --> 00:17:33.119 start my own candy company, and so he did. Reese's used the knowledge 214 00:17:33.200 --> 00:17:37.920 he gained from Hershey to start his own candy company, and he created what 215 00:17:38.039 --> 00:17:41.759 we know now, which is that peanut butter covered in chocolate, the Little 216 00:17:42.920 --> 00:17:48.400 Reese's Peanut Butter cups those and instead of trying to go against Hershey, he 217 00:17:48.680 --> 00:17:53.400 learned from him and he used Hershey's factory to get the chocolate to cover the 218 00:17:53.519 --> 00:17:59.880 peanut butter. Hershe could have seen Reeses as his competitor. Reeses could have 219 00:18:00.039 --> 00:18:06.480 seen Hershey as his competitor, but instead they saw each other as a cooperation. 220 00:18:07.119 --> 00:18:11.319 They saw each other as someone they can work with, and they remain 221 00:18:11.440 --> 00:18:15.559 friends throughout the years, and Rees's ended up being one of Hershey's most successful 222 00:18:15.839 --> 00:18:22.000 chocolates and Rees's. Again, he didn't see his boss's competition. He saw 223 00:18:22.079 --> 00:18:25.720 him as someone he can learn from, who he can use his resources. 224 00:18:25.799 --> 00:18:29.680 Instead of having to find how to make chocolate, how to get the milk, 225 00:18:29.960 --> 00:18:32.880 how to do the peanut butter thing, instead of having to do all 226 00:18:32.960 --> 00:18:37.400 of that, he just learned from his own boss and then ventured out on 227 00:18:37.519 --> 00:18:42.799 his own. When you be friends people who have the success or whatever it 228 00:18:42.920 --> 00:18:48.079 is that you want, you become more like them, because remember, we 229 00:18:48.200 --> 00:18:52.519 are the average of the five people we spend the most time with. When 230 00:18:52.640 --> 00:18:56.319 you befriend and you welcome in someone who has what it is you want, 231 00:18:56.720 --> 00:19:03.599 you start also attracting those attribute towards you. You do not get what you 232 00:19:03.759 --> 00:19:07.319 hate on. Hating on the popular kids doesn't allow you to become friends with 233 00:19:07.480 --> 00:19:12.799 them. Hating on the popular kids actually attracts the opposite towards you, hating 234 00:19:12.880 --> 00:19:17.839 on the pretty people whoever you deem as pretty, which is so different in 235 00:19:17.960 --> 00:19:19.960 every single person's eyes. But whoever you think is pretty, the more you 236 00:19:21.039 --> 00:19:26.400 hate on them, the more low vibration you attract towards you. Listen to 237 00:19:26.559 --> 00:19:30.279 me, no, hear me? When I say, you are not in 238 00:19:30.400 --> 00:19:37.960 direct competition with any other human being. It's you and your life. Okay, 239 00:19:37.480 --> 00:19:42.079 if you're going to compare yourself to anyone or anything, compare yourself in 240 00:19:42.160 --> 00:19:47.880 a way that inspires you to be better, inspires you, and motivates you, 241 00:19:48.319 --> 00:19:52.160 gives you inspiration to develop in a way that you've been wanting to develop. 242 00:19:52.680 --> 00:19:56.680 So if you're comparing yourself just to compare yourself, you're not going to 243 00:19:56.759 --> 00:20:00.279 get anywhere. But if you compare yourself in a way that motivates you, 244 00:20:00.359 --> 00:20:04.319 inspires you, or gets you the information you need to move forward, now 245 00:20:04.440 --> 00:20:10.880 that's another story. So Step one is seeing the people who have what it 246 00:20:11.039 --> 00:20:17.000 is you want as your friends rather than your enemies. Because what happens is, 247 00:20:17.680 --> 00:20:21.440 once, for example, I started letting I call them muscle mommies. 248 00:20:21.680 --> 00:20:25.119 Don't know, I don't know why, but once I started letting in the 249 00:20:25.200 --> 00:20:27.880 muscle mommies into my life, I started to watch what they were doing on 250 00:20:27.960 --> 00:20:32.680 the machines. I started talking to them, I started following their instagrams. 251 00:20:32.720 --> 00:20:36.000 I started to see what they did so that I can learn how to do 252 00:20:36.160 --> 00:20:38.920 that too. And now instead of me feeling like I have a chip on 253 00:20:40.039 --> 00:20:44.640 my shoulder because I'm not yet a muscle mommy. I start seeing them as 254 00:20:44.799 --> 00:20:49.079 inspiration. I start seeing them as my teachers. I started seeing them as 255 00:20:49.160 --> 00:20:55.559 people I actually wanted to get closer to, rather than hate on them and 256 00:20:55.759 --> 00:21:03.079 move away from them. We have to understand stand in this huge, big 257 00:21:03.599 --> 00:21:11.400 world, there's enough room for everyone. And this is really step two. 258 00:21:12.119 --> 00:21:18.240 There's enough room for everyone. I remember last year I would take I mean, 259 00:21:18.279 --> 00:21:22.359 I still do this, but I would take so many walks on the 260 00:21:22.440 --> 00:21:25.440 beach. And this is when this spiritual download hit me. It was last 261 00:21:25.519 --> 00:21:29.599 year, and I would look at over the water and I would just look 262 00:21:29.640 --> 00:21:32.799 at the ocean because I'm living on the ocean right now, and I would 263 00:21:32.839 --> 00:21:36.640 just look out over all the waves and I would just think to myself, 264 00:21:36.759 --> 00:21:41.720 Oh my god, there's so much energy out there that isn't even being used. 265 00:21:41.039 --> 00:21:45.039 There's so much energy on this planet that's just stagnant or waiting to be 266 00:21:45.160 --> 00:21:49.640 activated, and it's all around us. We can't see gravity, but it 267 00:21:49.799 --> 00:21:55.440 exists, and it's all around us. We can't see all the untapped energy 268 00:21:55.519 --> 00:22:00.519 forms around us, but they're there. There is enough room for every single 269 00:22:00.799 --> 00:22:10.279 person on this planet, for everyone. Someone else's success or beauty or talent 270 00:22:10.640 --> 00:22:15.200 does not take away from your beauty, success or talent. I always think 271 00:22:15.240 --> 00:22:21.359 about all the fitness influencers, even all the wellness influencers and life coaches. 272 00:22:21.640 --> 00:22:26.200 There's a million different people. Am I worried about the other life coaches? 273 00:22:26.240 --> 00:22:30.559 Absolutely fucking not. Why Because I am my own energy, and I bring 274 00:22:30.680 --> 00:22:37.200 my own unique gifts and talents and knowledge and spiritual downloads, and I am 275 00:22:37.319 --> 00:22:41.799 using my voice, which has my own specific frequency that's attracting my tribe. 276 00:22:42.319 --> 00:22:47.880 I don't have to try hard. I can exist from my pedestal and use 277 00:22:48.079 --> 00:22:52.240 my voice to call on my tribe and attract them towards me. Someone else's 278 00:22:52.559 --> 00:22:56.720 path to success is going to look different from yours. I would get into 279 00:22:56.839 --> 00:23:03.200 my head so much, especially in college and when graduating college. I would 280 00:23:03.279 --> 00:23:07.519 see people who had their own business, or had their workbooks, or had 281 00:23:07.559 --> 00:23:10.799 everything already done. I mean, yes, they were older than me, 282 00:23:10.920 --> 00:23:17.559 but that never has really done anything for me. I don't care about age 283 00:23:17.559 --> 00:23:21.359 because I feel like I'm personally nine hundred years old, so age is not 284 00:23:21.960 --> 00:23:25.240 a factor for me. But I would see these people and I could rationally 285 00:23:25.279 --> 00:23:29.279 say, okay, they're thirty and I'm twenty. But lo and behold look 286 00:23:29.319 --> 00:23:33.960 at everything they have. And I would also see people like I always think 287 00:23:33.039 --> 00:23:40.440 of the Addison Ray and I honestly that's only one I know all those little 288 00:23:40.480 --> 00:23:44.640 people. Wait, No, are both their names? What are their names? 289 00:23:45.160 --> 00:23:48.880 Is? I don't know if both of their last names are Dixie or 290 00:23:48.960 --> 00:23:52.279 one of them is Dixie and Charlie, Dixie and Charlie. I think of 291 00:23:52.359 --> 00:23:56.839 those girls who are all beautiful by the way, and super talented in their 292 00:23:56.880 --> 00:23:59.920 own ways. And I would look at them when I was first starting out 293 00:24:00.000 --> 00:24:03.079 on TikTok, and I was like, Okay, why would they just blow 294 00:24:03.240 --> 00:24:07.839 up and someone else wouldn't? Why would this happen and this wouldn't? And 295 00:24:07.160 --> 00:24:11.519 remember when we asked the questions of why, that is really just a trap. 296 00:24:11.599 --> 00:24:14.799 If you want to ask you a question, don't ask why? Ask 297 00:24:14.880 --> 00:24:18.440 what can I do? Okay? Because why we'll have you in a hamster 298 00:24:18.519 --> 00:24:22.000 wheel? Why did this happen? Why does that happen? Forget about it? 299 00:24:22.519 --> 00:24:25.559 Ask how can I make myself better? What can I do to make 300 00:24:25.599 --> 00:24:29.240 myself feel better? How? And what? Do not ask why? Anyway, 301 00:24:30.160 --> 00:24:33.119 I came to the realization of wait, a second, everyone's path to 302 00:24:33.319 --> 00:24:37.759 success is going to look different, and their life is going to look different 303 00:24:37.799 --> 00:24:44.000 than mine and someone else's. And the interesting thing is, you don't know 304 00:24:44.359 --> 00:24:49.960 what other people's spiritual lessons are. You don't know what other people's spiritual assignments 305 00:24:51.119 --> 00:24:55.880 are, So you might be hating on someone, but you have no idea 306 00:24:56.039 --> 00:24:59.799 what they're meant to learn in this lifetime. You wouldn't sign up for that 307 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:03.559 shit, or else it would be happening to you. You signed up for 308 00:25:03.759 --> 00:25:08.559 a different experience, and that's why a different experience is happening to you. 309 00:25:11.920 --> 00:25:15.039 Realize that there's polarity in the world. So if you feel like you've been 310 00:25:15.160 --> 00:25:21.319 underrated for a minute, that's not going to last forever because as long as 311 00:25:21.400 --> 00:25:25.119 you felt like you've been underrated, you're also going to have your season of 312 00:25:25.359 --> 00:25:30.960 being in the spotlight. Okay, And that could mean with significant others, 313 00:25:30.039 --> 00:25:34.359 with dating, with success, with anything. It could be applied to anything. 314 00:25:36.880 --> 00:25:41.000 There's polarity in the world, and a lot of times people will be 315 00:25:41.359 --> 00:25:44.759 huge for fifteen minutes, but then we don't really hear about them ever. 316 00:25:44.880 --> 00:25:48.559 Again, they have their big fifteen minutes and as soon as it came It 317 00:25:48.680 --> 00:25:55.319 also goes if you want to build something that's everlasting and sustaining, take your 318 00:25:55.400 --> 00:25:59.599 time with the building process, because as long as you're building, you will 319 00:25:59.640 --> 00:26:07.599 all so have that success. So keep in mind first things First, if 320 00:26:07.640 --> 00:26:10.240 we can't beat them, we join them. We learn from them, We 321 00:26:10.400 --> 00:26:15.960 understand from them. Number two, we know that they are on a completely 322 00:26:15.160 --> 00:26:19.839 different spiritual journey than us, So they're going to have different strengths and weaknesses, 323 00:26:19.880 --> 00:26:22.920 They're going to have different highs and lows, and we're going to be 324 00:26:23.240 --> 00:26:29.759 in cooperation with them rather than against them. And their success and their beauty 325 00:26:29.920 --> 00:26:37.319 does not take away from what we have going on for our self. This 326 00:26:37.559 --> 00:26:44.079 brings us to our next point, our third points, which is focus on 327 00:26:44.559 --> 00:26:49.720 your strengths. This is really a game changer. If your soul wanted to 328 00:26:49.839 --> 00:26:56.079 be a completely different human being, you would have incarnated as them. Okay, 329 00:26:56.519 --> 00:27:02.079 there's something special specifically about you and what you have to offer. There's 330 00:27:02.119 --> 00:27:07.759 something special about you, and this aren't incarnation. There's something special about your 331 00:27:07.839 --> 00:27:14.880 strengths and your weaknesses, and your gifts and your shadows. There's something special 332 00:27:15.039 --> 00:27:19.119 about all you have to offer. If you were meant to be someone else, 333 00:27:19.240 --> 00:27:23.799 you would have incarnated as them. So there's literally no point to waste 334 00:27:23.839 --> 00:27:29.519 your time wishing, praying to be someone else when you can just start exploring 335 00:27:29.599 --> 00:27:33.039 your own strengths, what you have to offer, your own unique gifts, 336 00:27:34.519 --> 00:27:40.559 your unique energy, and your unique makeup was called to be on planet Earth 337 00:27:40.640 --> 00:27:45.480 for this season. Okay, you wouldn't be here if you didn't have a 338 00:27:45.640 --> 00:27:52.039 purpose embedded in your energy. Your unique energy has something special to offer this 339 00:27:52.240 --> 00:27:56.799 world. Some of us have bigger visions, bigger ideas than others. It 340 00:27:56.920 --> 00:28:03.640 doesn't fucking matter you helping one person crossed the street could have immensely shifted their 341 00:28:03.759 --> 00:28:10.240 life. Do not think that these quote unquote small acts of kindness aren't completely 342 00:28:10.319 --> 00:28:15.160 shifting other people's hearts and energy. You might have to find out what the 343 00:28:15.319 --> 00:28:21.359 fuck your strengths are. But lo and behold, they exist because you exist, 344 00:28:22.079 --> 00:28:26.119 So there's something in fact special about you. When I would see someone 345 00:28:26.160 --> 00:28:30.279 and I'm looking at all their strengths, I was also ghosting my own strengths 346 00:28:30.680 --> 00:28:34.480 and being hyper focused on what someone else had to offer, I was forgetting 347 00:28:34.519 --> 00:28:40.079 that I too had a lot of things to offer. So ground yourself. 348 00:28:40.640 --> 00:28:45.839 Think I might not be them, but I too have amazing qualities and write 349 00:28:45.240 --> 00:28:52.640 them down. Start writing down the qualities you have or the qualities strengths that 350 00:28:52.759 --> 00:28:56.240 you wish to have, and then have a plan of how can I develop 351 00:28:56.359 --> 00:29:00.680 this? What do I need to do? Don't compare yourself to everyone and 352 00:29:00.799 --> 00:29:03.799 everything. Don't try to diminish their achievements while they had helped blah blah blah. 353 00:29:04.079 --> 00:29:10.440 Don't waste time lowering your vibration. Instead, go hard at just becoming 354 00:29:10.480 --> 00:29:14.759 whoever it is you want to be. You are the divine feminine energy. 355 00:29:14.880 --> 00:29:18.920 You have that within you, and the divine feminine energy is all about creation. 356 00:29:18.440 --> 00:29:22.119 You're not stuck in this role that you created. You're not stuck in 357 00:29:22.240 --> 00:29:27.359 this energy that you might be embodying right now. You might have to unravel 358 00:29:27.480 --> 00:29:33.079 your current energy to find the root of your true energy, which brings us 359 00:29:33.160 --> 00:29:37.960 to our next point number four. I call it the D and D, 360 00:29:37.599 --> 00:29:45.000 the ditch and design. Let's get into this. What one person thinks is 361 00:29:45.079 --> 00:29:52.960 pretty might be completely different to the next. So instead of trying to look 362 00:29:52.000 --> 00:29:59.039 at what society deems as pretty or popular or a good life, I want 363 00:29:59.119 --> 00:30:03.200 you to start journaling about what beauty is to you, what success is to 364 00:30:03.480 --> 00:30:08.039 you what you want your body to look like, your life to look like. 365 00:30:08.200 --> 00:30:15.400 What are these things to you? Beauty or success looks to me like 366 00:30:15.759 --> 00:30:19.200 blah blah blah, and this is what I'm gonna do to get it blah 367 00:30:19.319 --> 00:30:25.839 blah blah blah blah. I have to say one thing. I know there's 368 00:30:25.839 --> 00:30:29.799 a lot of people saying, just accept who you are, just accept it, 369 00:30:30.079 --> 00:30:33.920 just accept whatever it is you going on. I don't believe in that 370 00:30:33.079 --> 00:30:37.119 if you're not enjoying your incarnation. And this is what I mean by that. 371 00:30:37.880 --> 00:30:42.599 I don't want you to necessarily hate your way to health and a good 372 00:30:42.680 --> 00:30:47.359 life and success. I want you to love your way there. But I 373 00:30:47.519 --> 00:30:51.160 also want to say you don't have to say where you are if you're not 374 00:30:51.279 --> 00:30:53.119 happy, if you don't like what's going on. I don't know why we 375 00:30:53.200 --> 00:30:56.920 would accept that. If I was being verbally abused at work, I wouldn't 376 00:30:56.920 --> 00:31:02.519 just be like, hey, acceptance, accept everything. No, why would 377 00:31:02.519 --> 00:31:04.440 we do that? If you're verbally abusing yourself, I wouldn't say to just 378 00:31:04.559 --> 00:31:08.559 accept that. I would say ditch and design D and D girl, D 379 00:31:08.720 --> 00:31:11.559 and D. So what I mean by this is, if you don't like 380 00:31:11.680 --> 00:31:17.400 what's going on. That's okay. A lot of us have created these roles 381 00:31:17.480 --> 00:31:22.160 in order to be loved, validated, and accepted, and we have really 382 00:31:22.759 --> 00:31:27.279 ghosted our true, authentic self and now we have attracted a world in which 383 00:31:27.319 --> 00:31:32.160 it's aligned with our role instead of our true nature, and we don't feel 384 00:31:32.200 --> 00:31:36.279 good. So you don't have to just accept what you have and what your 385 00:31:36.359 --> 00:31:40.640 life is. You can ditch and design. You can say, Okay, 386 00:31:41.160 --> 00:31:42.920 here are the people I'm going to look to for inspiration. Here are going 387 00:31:44.000 --> 00:31:45.880 to be my teachers, Here's who I'm going to listen to. This is 388 00:31:45.920 --> 00:31:49.799 what my plan is going to be. You can redesign what you have going 389 00:31:51.000 --> 00:31:53.640 on. You don't have to just accept the shell you made when you were 390 00:31:53.680 --> 00:31:57.039 seven years old because you needed mommy and daddy to give you an extra hug. 391 00:31:57.440 --> 00:32:02.400 We don't need to do that anymore. This is about designing the life 392 00:32:02.519 --> 00:32:07.079 you wish to have. You are a co creator, You have divine feminine 393 00:32:07.160 --> 00:32:10.720 energy, You have God creating abilities within you. Why wouldn't we use those 394 00:32:10.839 --> 00:32:15.359 to our advantage? I don't understand that. So no, I'm not going 395 00:32:15.400 --> 00:32:17.000 to tell you to just accept whatever it is do you have going on? 396 00:32:17.400 --> 00:32:22.440 If you don't like it, don't accept it. Hello, But we can 397 00:32:22.519 --> 00:32:25.400 also acknowledge, Okay, I'm not where I want to be, but I'm 398 00:32:25.440 --> 00:32:29.079 also not where I was, So I don't have to be in this mad 399 00:32:29.200 --> 00:32:32.400 rush. That's number one. Number two, I don't have to hate myself 400 00:32:32.480 --> 00:32:37.000 to help, because that's going to fucking suck. Instead, I can love 401 00:32:37.119 --> 00:32:40.079 myself there. I can have compassion with myself every single day. I can 402 00:32:40.599 --> 00:32:46.559 motivate myself every single day. I can talk to myself pretty We can get 403 00:32:46.640 --> 00:32:50.839 where we want to be, and we don't have to make it a terrible 404 00:32:50.920 --> 00:32:54.759 journey, because really the happiness comes in the journey. As soon as we 405 00:32:54.920 --> 00:32:57.920 get what we want, we're like, Okay, that was cool for one 406 00:32:57.960 --> 00:33:00.440 second. What's next. I've had that happened to me so many times when 407 00:33:00.480 --> 00:33:07.519 I hit financial goals or numerical goals with followings, I was like, yeah, 408 00:33:07.680 --> 00:33:13.200 cool, allso now what and you just immediately go to the next goal 409 00:33:13.279 --> 00:33:16.279 that you have. The thing I found has sustained me throughout my whole entire 410 00:33:16.319 --> 00:33:21.240 life is my connection with God because God is always there for me. God 411 00:33:21.279 --> 00:33:24.039 will always listen. God's presence is everywhere at all times, no matter what 412 00:33:24.920 --> 00:33:29.799 maybe you call God the universe. I personally don't care what word you use. 413 00:33:29.960 --> 00:33:31.960 I care that you have this connection with your higher power. Okay, 414 00:33:32.599 --> 00:33:37.759 and this is what will sustain you through the different versions of yourself, because 415 00:33:37.799 --> 00:33:39.519 there's going to be different versions of you. This is what is going to 416 00:33:39.640 --> 00:33:45.160 sustain you through different jobs, friendships, relationships, money, everything, everything. 417 00:33:45.319 --> 00:33:49.880 I mean, nothing feels as good as connecting to God. I honestly 418 00:33:50.000 --> 00:33:53.119 just recommend connecting with the universe, your higher power, your angels, your 419 00:33:53.160 --> 00:33:58.640 spirit guides. And that's also an amazing way to help ease the journey because 420 00:33:58.680 --> 00:34:01.359 you're going to realize that you have support and also you're going to realize you're 421 00:34:01.400 --> 00:34:05.960 not in this alone, and you're going to realize that there's a greater plan 422 00:34:06.119 --> 00:34:09.079 here and you're already on it. Okay, that was just a side note. 423 00:34:10.079 --> 00:34:15.119 And finally we get to number five. The fifth thing we can do 424 00:34:15.119 --> 00:34:21.320 to not be insecure about the pretty popular whatever people that are around us, 425 00:34:22.000 --> 00:34:28.440 and that is to gain perspective about life. It's really easy to get lost 426 00:34:28.559 --> 00:34:31.400 in the daily hustle and bustle. But if we were to zoom out of 427 00:34:31.679 --> 00:34:38.360 our current circumstance and imagine that we're one hundred years old looking back on your 428 00:34:38.480 --> 00:34:44.199 life, what do you think you're really going to care about? Are you 429 00:34:44.280 --> 00:34:46.840 going to care about the pretty girl at the gym? Are you going to 430 00:34:46.960 --> 00:34:51.719 care about what someone else got on their test? Are you going to care 431 00:34:51.800 --> 00:34:55.320 about the person you deem is more powerful than you and feeling insecure about them? 432 00:34:55.960 --> 00:35:00.239 Or are you going to care about who the fuck you were and what 433 00:35:00.400 --> 00:35:02.760 you did with you with your life? Are you going to care about what 434 00:35:02.960 --> 00:35:07.199 the things you did that made you proud, the people you've helped, the 435 00:35:07.280 --> 00:35:09.800 people you've touched, the people you've transformed. Are going to care about that 436 00:35:09.840 --> 00:35:14.000 you pushed yourself past your potential? Are you going to care about maybe the 437 00:35:14.199 --> 00:35:20.239 family that you raised and affected the people you affected. Are you going to 438 00:35:20.320 --> 00:35:23.679 care about where you donated your time, your energy, your money? Or 439 00:35:23.719 --> 00:35:28.400 you're going to care about the girl that looked like an Instagram model who you 440 00:35:28.760 --> 00:35:35.199 felt insecure about. What are you actually going to care about at one hundred 441 00:35:35.280 --> 00:35:37.679 years old? Because to me, I'm going to care about who I affected. 442 00:35:38.159 --> 00:35:42.000 I'm going to care about leaving the earth just a little bit better than 443 00:35:42.079 --> 00:35:44.800 what I found it to be when I was here. I'm going to care 444 00:35:44.840 --> 00:35:50.440 about actually transforming people's lives. I'm going to care about keeping myself to a 445 00:35:50.559 --> 00:35:53.599 healthy standard and feeling good every day. That's what I'm going to care about. 446 00:35:53.679 --> 00:35:57.760 The love that I was able to give and receive. I'm not really 447 00:35:57.800 --> 00:36:00.119 going to care about the girl at the gym with a big booty, to 448 00:36:00.159 --> 00:36:02.000 be honest, when I think about it, I'm like, well, why 449 00:36:02.079 --> 00:36:08.079 would I, you know, gain some perspective, gain some perspective on this, 450 00:36:09.599 --> 00:36:14.280 And I'm gonna give you a bonus that I didn't even write down, 451 00:36:14.480 --> 00:36:16.599 but now that it comes to mind, I think I would love to say 452 00:36:16.639 --> 00:36:22.719 it. If you're spending your time and energy going out of your way and 453 00:36:22.920 --> 00:36:29.320 doomscrolling on Instagram models, whoever they may be, put your phone down, 454 00:36:29.440 --> 00:36:32.920 go outside. Okay, thank you, put your phone down. You can 455 00:36:34.000 --> 00:36:37.599 listen to a podcast that's not about whatever it is that you're looking at on 456 00:36:37.639 --> 00:36:42.920 your phone. You can listen to a frequency, you can journal, call 457 00:36:43.000 --> 00:36:46.320 up a friend. Don't doomscroll, because then it's like you're not even going 458 00:36:46.400 --> 00:36:51.079 in public and being insecure. You're bringing it into your own home, your 459 00:36:51.119 --> 00:36:54.079 own temple, and that is a waste of time, energy, everything, 460 00:36:54.239 --> 00:36:59.079 everything in time. That's a non renewable resource. You're not going to get 461 00:36:59.159 --> 00:37:06.280 that back, okay, especially as how we perceive it here. So how 462 00:37:06.320 --> 00:37:09.320 do we not be insecure around the three pis pretty popular and powerful people. 463 00:37:09.519 --> 00:37:13.639 Well, let's recap. If we can't beat them, we're going to join 464 00:37:13.719 --> 00:37:16.920 them. They're going to be our cooperation, not our competition. Remember the 465 00:37:17.039 --> 00:37:22.280 Hershey and Reese's story. We're going to celebrate what they have so we can 466 00:37:22.320 --> 00:37:27.079 attract it towards us. And remember you're not in direct competition with anyone. 467 00:37:27.639 --> 00:37:30.920 Two there's enough room for everyone to have what it is they want. God 468 00:37:31.000 --> 00:37:35.440 wouldn't give us this planet and then say you can't have what you want. 469 00:37:35.960 --> 00:37:38.920 Their success and their beauty does not take away from your success and your beauty. 470 00:37:39.960 --> 00:37:45.079 Three. Focus on your strengths. You have unique capabilities that no one 471 00:37:45.159 --> 00:37:49.679 else has. You need to find out what these are. Write down a 472 00:37:49.760 --> 00:37:52.239 list of what you think they can be, write down a list of what 473 00:37:52.320 --> 00:37:57.159 you'd be interested in, and explore from there. Four. Ditch and design 474 00:37:57.559 --> 00:38:00.280 d n D. Ditch the shell of who you no longer want to be 475 00:38:00.679 --> 00:38:05.639 and start designing. What you think beauty is to you, What success looks 476 00:38:05.679 --> 00:38:09.159 like to you and start creating an action plan from there. Five gain perspective. 477 00:38:09.239 --> 00:38:12.519 When you're one hundred years old, you're not going to care about the 478 00:38:12.599 --> 00:38:15.880 Instagram model who you've never even spoken to. And our bonus, little seed 479 00:38:16.119 --> 00:38:22.480 will stop inviting insecurity into your own temple by doomscrolling every single day. If 480 00:38:22.559 --> 00:38:27.679 this podcast resonated with you, please leave a positive review on Apple Podcasts and 481 00:38:27.800 --> 00:38:31.840 Spotify. It helps the podcast so much and it means the world to me 482 00:38:32.079 --> 00:38:36.880 that we can reach other positive bitches. If you don't want to do it 483 00:38:36.960 --> 00:38:38.440 for me, do it for you, girl. 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