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Today we are talking how not to be insecure around the Three Peas. Now
you may be wondering, cc what on God's green earth are the Three Peas?
And I would tell you the Three Peas happens to be something I made
up, but it's valid. It is the people we perceive as pretty,
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walk into a room and we deem other people as prettier or more popular or
more powerful. We start to energetically chase them, and we abandoned our own
worth, We abandoned our own strengths, we abandoned who we are, and
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So we're going to talk about how do transcend this mindset that these people
are better than us because of what we're perceiving as their strengths, and we're
going to talk about how we can fully step in to our own power.
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I want to recall a memory from my own life to give you just some
comfort that you're not alone at wherever you are. I feel like a lot
of us can see people like me honestly on podcasts or on reels or on
TikTok, and we say, Okay, you're there. I want to be
there, but how did you get there? And every single one of us
when you see us on social media, Not to speak for everyone, but
I guess this is an assumption. We usually didn't start where you see us.
We usually didn't start on our most magnetic timeline. We usually had to
go through this hero's journey of getting there, which we all have to go
through. And that is how we gain these strengths and these characteristics and these
attributes. And so if you're seeing me now or listening to me now and
saying okay, yeah, you understand how to do that, and you're doing
it great, but I'm all the way over here, please understand that I
was also at the lowest of low points in my own life. Many times,
being at a low point is just another point of view. It's just
data, and it's just information. And you might not be where you want
to be just yet. But also remember that you're not where you were starting
out either. You're listening to this podcast, aren't you. You're working on
yourself, aren't you? So you're not who you once were, because if
you were, you wouldn't be here right now listening to these words. You're
not as far back or as low down as you think, because you've already
made the decision to listen to this podcast, to start working on yourself,
to start changing your mindset. The only time we get stuck is when we
get stuck in a victim mindset, And if you're listening to this, you're
not there. I one time had a therapy session, and this is when
me and my current partner got back together, and I was still really triggered
at this point because we really didn't have all those conversations necessary to have yet.
I understood why he wanted to be back with me. I understood that,
or why he did what he did. I understood a lot of that,
but I still had those triggers in my body that felt, Oh my
god, what could happen. This was before I fully understood codependency and anxious
attachment. I wasn't aware of those things yet. And I remember I was
facetiming with my partner and then he said, Oh, I just got off
this meeting with this girl who lives down the block from me, and it's
so funny. We live in the same neighborhood and at this time we just
got back together. It was like a couple of weeks, and I'm thinking,
like, oh, no, is he going to get coffee with her?
Are they going to start hanging out? Because it was still covid vibes,
and I knew he met up with other female co workers prior to get
coffee and to hang out when we weren't together, So I thinking, is
that going to happen? Like, are they now gonna start becoming really close?
And then I'm perceiving that as a threat, and then I'm getting really
in my head, Oh my god, what am I gonna do? This
is how anxious attachment sounds. You find a perceived threat and then you spiral
about it. So I went to the therapist I had at the time,
which wasn't a good match for me. But lo and behold. I told
her, you know, I get really anxious knowing he has all these calls
with this girl who lives down the block from him. I'm getting anxious that
they're getting to know one another and they're really gonna like one another. And
she straight up just said, well, that's a trait of a very insecure
person. I was like, okay, cool, okay, all right,
so I okay and yeah, and that was it. She didn't really offer
guidance about that. That was it was yeah, period, And she wasn't
wrong. You know, that was true. I really was insecure, not
even about myself, but about where we were in our relationship. She just
got back together. I didn't fully understand where do we stand, And even
if I rationally knew, I emotionally felt unsafe still. And so this is
what happens. We get into our own head. We see someone who we
deem as having a more powerful position than us. At this time, I
was seeing that girl as someone who could possibly be I don't know, prettier,
or really just have a more powerful stance than me because she gets to
talk to him all day long and they're meetings all day long, and they
live five minutes from one another, and I live forty five minutes from him,
and so that was to me that perceived threat. And what I realized
over time is that these sort of perceived threats have completely disintegrated, and it's
because of the work I've done on myself that woman would still be that woman
or girl. I don't even know how old she was. I used to
go to my gym. Don't ask me why I go to a power lifting
gym. I don't know, Okay, some reason. That's the gym I
go to in New York. Anyway, every single person there is a powerlifter
or a bikini model. I'm not kidding you. I go to a gym
with bikini models, and they look amazing, and they literally this is their
job. They do competitions, this is their life, and they are really
in the gym all the time. They have their perfect diets, and they
really work very very hard. It is a job. Like these people aren't
in the gym all day, all night because they're in competitions. And so
I would go to that gym, and at first I felt so insecure going
there with him, because I'm like, oh my god, there's all these
other people here, really women, and they have perfect bodies, and I
feel like I don't. And I would really get in my own head again,
perceiving that these people were prettier or more powerful than me, and then
I would create the story that would just dig my own grave. And I
still go to this gym, and I'll go with my partner, but I
don't feel these feelings anymore. So my point is these little seeds of we
can call it what we want, whether you want to call it in security
or jealousy or any word that you want to call it. Really, these
seeds can be uprooted and lifted and you can heal. And we're going to
talk about five things I've done over time that has allowed me, regardless of
who is there, to feel best in my own skin, regardless of who
is there, to feel like I'm the most popular, prettiest, powerful girl
in my own skin. I now don't have to change how I feel about
myself based on who's in that environment. I don't now change how I think
about myself based on who's in my environment. I think and feel and exist
about myself based on my own cool or not who is in my environment,
and that is what we're striving towards today. So we're going to go through
these five steps. And the first one to release these seeds and plant new
seeds of prosperity and abundance and self love is the old quote of if you
can't beat them, join them. What do I mean by this? I
feel like a lot of us, especially me, I would have such a
bad mindset towards people who had what I want, or had the body or
the skin or whatever they were doing that I aspire to have, and I
would get just this angry feeling towards them and just like whatever. But what
I learned to do instead of trying to beat them, I've learned to join
them, aka, learn from them. I switched up my perception and when
I saw someone have what I want, instead of seeing them as my competition,
I started to see them as my cooperation, cooperation, my co founder
of my new destiny. I started to see them as people I could learn
from rather than people I have to be better then, and that made all
of the difference. And we're just on step number one. The people who
have the body you want, the skin that you want, the grades that
you want the job that you want. Instead of seeing them as competition,
see them as someone you can learn from and start learning from them. Do
you know how much easier it is to learn from someone else rather than having
to forge your own path. Think about if you've ever walked in snow.
The first person who's walking through five feet of snow, it's hard to make
all your little footstep. But let's say my partner is to walk in front
of me in the snow. Now I can just put my feet where he
put his feet, and it's going to be much easier for me to walk
along that snow path. When we start seeing the people who we want to
be like as our inspirations, as our teachers, as people we can learn
from, instead of someone we have to go against, Oh my god,
become friends with them, learn from them, welcome them, rather than making
enemies out of them. Because making an enemy out of someone you want to
be like, it only makes your vibration more fine tuned to what you do
not want. It doesn't put you in the vibration you want. Let me
tell you a story about Hershey, Hershey, that's right, the chocolate hershey
mm and Reese's let's talk about it. I know people say Reeses all different
ways, like Reese's and Reese's. I don't know, but I say Reeses,
and that's how I'm going to say. Hershey had his own candy factory
which was very successful, and he was this really first person to bring over
chocolates and I believe it was milk and caramel into a factory. And Reese's
worked for Hershey, but eventually Reese's was like, f this, I'm gonna
start my own candy company, and so he did. Reese's used the knowledge
he gained from Hershey to start his own candy company, and he created what
we know now, which is that peanut butter covered in chocolate, the Little
Reese's Peanut Butter cups those and instead of trying to go against Hershey, he
learned from him and he used Hershey's factory to get the chocolate to cover the
peanut butter. Hershe could have seen Reeses as his competitor. Reeses could have
seen Hershey as his competitor, but instead they saw each other as a cooperation.
They saw each other as someone they can work with, and they remain
friends throughout the years, and Rees's ended up being one of Hershey's most successful
chocolates and Rees's. Again, he didn't see his boss's competition. He saw
him as someone he can learn from, who he can use his resources.
Instead of having to find how to make chocolate, how to get the milk,
how to do the peanut butter thing, instead of having to do all
of that, he just learned from his own boss and then ventured out on
his own. When you be friends people who have the success or whatever it
is that you want, you become more like them, because remember, we
are the average of the five people we spend the most time with. When
you befriend and you welcome in someone who has what it is you want,
you start also attracting those attribute towards you. You do not get what you
hate on. Hating on the popular kids doesn't allow you to become friends with
them. Hating on the popular kids actually attracts the opposite towards you, hating
on the pretty people whoever you deem as pretty, which is so different in
every single person's eyes. But whoever you think is pretty, the more you
hate on them, the more low vibration you attract towards you. Listen to
me, no, hear me? When I say, you are not in
direct competition with any other human being. It's you and your life. Okay,
if you're going to compare yourself to anyone or anything, compare yourself in
a way that inspires you to be better, inspires you, and motivates you,
gives you inspiration to develop in a way that you've been wanting to develop.
So if you're comparing yourself just to compare yourself, you're not going to
get anywhere. But if you compare yourself in a way that motivates you,
inspires you, or gets you the information you need to move forward, now
that's another story. So Step one is seeing the people who have what it
is you want as your friends rather than your enemies. Because what happens is,
once, for example, I started letting I call them muscle mommies.
Don't know, I don't know why, but once I started letting in the
muscle mommies into my life, I started to watch what they were doing on
the machines. I started talking to them, I started following their instagrams.
I started to see what they did so that I can learn how to do
that too. And now instead of me feeling like I have a chip on
my shoulder because I'm not yet a muscle mommy. I start seeing them as
inspiration. I start seeing them as my teachers. I started seeing them as
people I actually wanted to get closer to, rather than hate on them and
move away from them. We have to understand stand in this huge, big
world, there's enough room for everyone. And this is really step two.
There's enough room for everyone. I remember last year I would take I mean,
I still do this, but I would take so many walks on the
beach. And this is when this spiritual download hit me. It was last
year, and I would look at over the water and I would just look
at the ocean because I'm living on the ocean right now, and I would
just look out over all the waves and I would just think to myself,
Oh my god, there's so much energy out there that isn't even being used.
There's so much energy on this planet that's just stagnant or waiting to be
activated, and it's all around us. We can't see gravity, but it
exists, and it's all around us. We can't see all the untapped energy
forms around us, but they're there. There is enough room for every single
person on this planet, for everyone. Someone else's success or beauty or talent
does not take away from your beauty, success or talent. I always think
about all the fitness influencers, even all the wellness influencers and life coaches.
There's a million different people. Am I worried about the other life coaches?
Absolutely fucking not. Why Because I am my own energy, and I bring
my own unique gifts and talents and knowledge and spiritual downloads, and I am
using my voice, which has my own specific frequency that's attracting my tribe.
I don't have to try hard. I can exist from my pedestal and use
my voice to call on my tribe and attract them towards me. Someone else's
path to success is going to look different from yours. I would get into
my head so much, especially in college and when graduating college. I would
see people who had their own business, or had their workbooks, or had
everything already done. I mean, yes, they were older than me,
but that never has really done anything for me. I don't care about age
because I feel like I'm personally nine hundred years old, so age is not
a factor for me. But I would see these people and I could rationally
say, okay, they're thirty and I'm twenty. But lo and behold look
at everything they have. And I would also see people like I always think
of the Addison Ray and I honestly that's only one I know all those little
people. Wait, No, are both their names? What are their names?
Is? I don't know if both of their last names are Dixie or
one of them is Dixie and Charlie, Dixie and Charlie. I think of
those girls who are all beautiful by the way, and super talented in their
own ways. And I would look at them when I was first starting out
on TikTok, and I was like, Okay, why would they just blow
up and someone else wouldn't? Why would this happen and this wouldn't? And
remember when we asked the questions of why, that is really just a trap.
If you want to ask you a question, don't ask why? Ask
what can I do? Okay? Because why we'll have you in a hamster
wheel? Why did this happen? Why does that happen? Forget about it?
Ask how can I make myself better? What can I do to make
myself feel better? How? And what? Do not ask why? Anyway,
I came to the realization of wait, a second, everyone's path to
success is going to look different, and their life is going to look different
than mine and someone else's. And the interesting thing is, you don't know
what other people's spiritual lessons are. You don't know what other people's spiritual assignments
are, So you might be hating on someone, but you have no idea
what they're meant to learn in this lifetime. You wouldn't sign up for that
shit, or else it would be happening to you. You signed up for
a different experience, and that's why a different experience is happening to you.
Realize that there's polarity in the world. So if you feel like you've been
underrated for a minute, that's not going to last forever because as long as
you felt like you've been underrated, you're also going to have your season of
being in the spotlight. Okay, And that could mean with significant others,
with dating, with success, with anything. It could be applied to anything.
There's polarity in the world, and a lot of times people will be
huge for fifteen minutes, but then we don't really hear about them ever.
Again, they have their big fifteen minutes and as soon as it came It
also goes if you want to build something that's everlasting and sustaining, take your
time with the building process, because as long as you're building, you will
all so have that success. So keep in mind first things First, if
we can't beat them, we join them. We learn from them, We
understand from them. Number two, we know that they are on a completely
different spiritual journey than us, So they're going to have different strengths and weaknesses,
They're going to have different highs and lows, and we're going to be
in cooperation with them rather than against them. And their success and their beauty
does not take away from what we have going on for our self. This
brings us to our next point, our third points, which is focus on
your strengths. This is really a game changer. If your soul wanted to
be a completely different human being, you would have incarnated as them. Okay,
there's something special specifically about you and what you have to offer. There's
something special about you, and this aren't incarnation. There's something special about your
strengths and your weaknesses, and your gifts and your shadows. There's something special
about all you have to offer. If you were meant to be someone else,
you would have incarnated as them. So there's literally no point to waste
your time wishing, praying to be someone else when you can just start exploring
your own strengths, what you have to offer, your own unique gifts,
your unique energy, and your unique makeup was called to be on planet Earth
for this season. Okay, you wouldn't be here if you didn't have a
purpose embedded in your energy. Your unique energy has something special to offer this
world. Some of us have bigger visions, bigger ideas than others. It
doesn't fucking matter you helping one person crossed the street could have immensely shifted their
life. Do not think that these quote unquote small acts of kindness aren't completely
shifting other people's hearts and energy. You might have to find out what the
fuck your strengths are. But lo and behold, they exist because you exist,
So there's something in fact special about you. When I would see someone
and I'm looking at all their strengths, I was also ghosting my own strengths
and being hyper focused on what someone else had to offer, I was forgetting
that I too had a lot of things to offer. So ground yourself.
Think I might not be them, but I too have amazing qualities and write
them down. Start writing down the qualities you have or the qualities strengths that
you wish to have, and then have a plan of how can I develop
this? What do I need to do? Don't compare yourself to everyone and
everything. Don't try to diminish their achievements while they had helped blah blah blah.
Don't waste time lowering your vibration. Instead, go hard at just becoming
whoever it is you want to be. You are the divine feminine energy.
You have that within you, and the divine feminine energy is all about creation.
You're not stuck in this role that you created. You're not stuck in
this energy that you might be embodying right now. You might have to unravel
your current energy to find the root of your true energy, which brings us
to our next point number four. I call it the D and D,
the ditch and design. Let's get into this. What one person thinks is
pretty might be completely different to the next. So instead of trying to look
at what society deems as pretty or popular or a good life, I want
you to start journaling about what beauty is to you, what success is to
you what you want your body to look like, your life to look like.
What are these things to you? Beauty or success looks to me like
blah blah blah, and this is what I'm gonna do to get it blah
blah blah blah blah. I have to say one thing. I know there's
a lot of people saying, just accept who you are, just accept it,
just accept whatever it is you going on. I don't believe in that
if you're not enjoying your incarnation. And this is what I mean by that.
I don't want you to necessarily hate your way to health and a good
life and success. I want you to love your way there. But I
also want to say you don't have to say where you are if you're not
happy, if you don't like what's going on. I don't know why we
would accept that. If I was being verbally abused at work, I wouldn't
just be like, hey, acceptance, accept everything. No, why would
we do that? If you're verbally abusing yourself, I wouldn't say to just
accept that. I would say ditch and design D and D girl, D
and D. So what I mean by this is, if you don't like
what's going on. That's okay. A lot of us have created these roles
in order to be loved, validated, and accepted, and we have really
ghosted our true, authentic self and now we have attracted a world in which
it's aligned with our role instead of our true nature, and we don't feel
good. So you don't have to just accept what you have and what your
life is. You can ditch and design. You can say, Okay,
here are the people I'm going to look to for inspiration. Here are going
to be my teachers, Here's who I'm going to listen to. This is
what my plan is going to be. You can redesign what you have going
on. You don't have to just accept the shell you made when you were
seven years old because you needed mommy and daddy to give you an extra hug.
We don't need to do that anymore. This is about designing the life
you wish to have. You are a co creator, You have divine feminine
energy, You have God creating abilities within you. Why wouldn't we use those
to our advantage? I don't understand that. So no, I'm not going
to tell you to just accept whatever it is do you have going on?
If you don't like it, don't accept it. Hello, But we can
also acknowledge, Okay, I'm not where I want to be, but I'm
also not where I was, So I don't have to be in this mad
rush. That's number one. Number two, I don't have to hate myself
to help, because that's going to fucking suck. Instead, I can love
myself there. I can have compassion with myself every single day. I can
motivate myself every single day. I can talk to myself pretty We can get
where we want to be, and we don't have to make it a terrible
journey, because really the happiness comes in the journey. As soon as we
get what we want, we're like, Okay, that was cool for one
second. What's next. I've had that happened to me so many times when
I hit financial goals or numerical goals with followings, I was like, yeah,
cool, allso now what and you just immediately go to the next goal
that you have. The thing I found has sustained me throughout my whole entire
life is my connection with God because God is always there for me. God
will always listen. God's presence is everywhere at all times, no matter what
maybe you call God the universe. I personally don't care what word you use.
I care that you have this connection with your higher power. Okay,
and this is what will sustain you through the different versions of yourself, because
there's going to be different versions of you. This is what is going to
sustain you through different jobs, friendships, relationships, money, everything, everything.
I mean, nothing feels as good as connecting to God. I honestly
just recommend connecting with the universe, your higher power, your angels, your
spirit guides. And that's also an amazing way to help ease the journey because
you're going to realize that you have support and also you're going to realize you're
not in this alone, and you're going to realize that there's a greater plan
here and you're already on it. Okay, that was just a side note.
And finally we get to number five. The fifth thing we can do
to not be insecure about the pretty popular whatever people that are around us,
and that is to gain perspective about life. It's really easy to get lost
in the daily hustle and bustle. But if we were to zoom out of
our current circumstance and imagine that we're one hundred years old looking back on your
life, what do you think you're really going to care about? Are you
going to care about the pretty girl at the gym? Are you going to
care about what someone else got on their test? Are you going to care
about the person you deem is more powerful than you and feeling insecure about them?
Or are you going to care about who the fuck you were and what
you did with you with your life? Are you going to care about what
the things you did that made you proud, the people you've helped, the
people you've touched, the people you've transformed. Are going to care about that
you pushed yourself past your potential? Are you going to care about maybe the
family that you raised and affected the people you affected. Are you going to
care about where you donated your time, your energy, your money? Or
you're going to care about the girl that looked like an Instagram model who you
felt insecure about. What are you actually going to care about at one hundred
years old? Because to me, I'm going to care about who I affected.
I'm going to care about leaving the earth just a little bit better than
what I found it to be when I was here. I'm going to care
about actually transforming people's lives. I'm going to care about keeping myself to a
healthy standard and feeling good every day. That's what I'm going to care about.
The love that I was able to give and receive. I'm not really
going to care about the girl at the gym with a big booty, to
be honest, when I think about it, I'm like, well, why
would I, you know, gain some perspective, gain some perspective on this,
And I'm gonna give you a bonus that I didn't even write down,
but now that it comes to mind, I think I would love to say
it. If you're spending your time and energy going out of your way and
doomscrolling on Instagram models, whoever they may be, put your phone down,
go outside. Okay, thank you, put your phone down. You can
listen to a podcast that's not about whatever it is that you're looking at on
your phone. You can listen to a frequency, you can journal, call
up a friend. Don't doomscroll, because then it's like you're not even going
in public and being insecure. You're bringing it into your own home, your
own temple, and that is a waste of time, energy, everything,
everything in time. That's a non renewable resource. You're not going to get
that back, okay, especially as how we perceive it here. So how
do we not be insecure around the three pis pretty popular and powerful people.
Well, let's recap. If we can't beat them, we're going to join
them. They're going to be our cooperation, not our competition. Remember the
Hershey and Reese's story. We're going to celebrate what they have so we can
attract it towards us. And remember you're not in direct competition with anyone.
Two there's enough room for everyone to have what it is they want. God
wouldn't give us this planet and then say you can't have what you want.
Their success and their beauty does not take away from your success and your beauty.
Three. Focus on your strengths. You have unique capabilities that no one
else has. You need to find out what these are. Write down a
list of what you think they can be, write down a list of what
you'd be interested in, and explore from there. Four. Ditch and design
d n D. Ditch the shell of who you no longer want to be
and start designing. What you think beauty is to you, What success looks
like to you and start creating an action plan from there. Five gain perspective.
When you're one hundred years old, you're not going to care about the
Instagram model who you've never even spoken to. And our bonus, little seed
will stop inviting insecurity into your own temple by doomscrolling every single day. If
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I mean, why not. We can all use some We can all
use the sparkle in me as always honors a sparkle in you. Thank you
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