M R al Ain't no, it's powers love him. Everybody should love one
would to another episode of the Death Fresh Show. I am your motherfucking house
the Pine Guy. Wow, oh really really closes that? Tell me you
really telling people your good duncast Bertie Man. You never if you listen,
you never know what I might say. Speaking of that, I was traveling
down an old school podcast rabbit hole and I was listening to old episodes of
Hotially Awkward, Oh my God, and I realized we literally threw away our
whole still that we used to do in the beginning. Damn when did we
used to do? I don't remember how it started. It was like the
habitualized stepper, the voice of the voice list. It was like that,
why did we stop saying that? You want to know where that ship came
from? It's because everything, I feel like, everything we do, like
it always has a call back to something we do. We started doing that
year because it was because it came from wrestling. And remember what Paul had
had that whole spell where you would introducing him pump. It was like the
voice of the voiceless. And then we was in the way made me be
on like Facebook or Twitter, you know all these housing a frenzy agreeing with
her, that's where it came from. We need to bring back we had
about tonight's conversation. Is that what's called? Yeah, that's it made it
made sense. So it's like, no, we need to go back to
that. If I have the backyard of dans to do it, that's crazy
they could do. So we are here with a guest to that. Would
you like to introduce yourself to my people? Hello? Hello, Hello,
I am Diamond better known as Dido. Sound like she said, if you
need to keep the ball to get started, she gonna put you you got
to go to the back door. Second one, three times she got and
she got the knockdown. What do you do in your free time, young
lady? Yeah, the knockdown? Already know what's going movies? Though?
What in what you go ahead? Because bro okay, I was talking to
Bianca from Purpose over Pain podcast before they got started, and I was like
to be is the is the new variation of black exploitation movies from back in
the days. So if you ever had the opportunity to go back and watch
all these terrible ass black movies, they were all literally people in their neighborhoods
in their cities just making movies about it. Like, Bro, there's an
old black exploitation movie where a barrel of cotton I talk in raw unprocessed cotton
fell off the back of the truck. And because this, this big ass
failed of cotton is so fucking important, because that's that's like literally uncut money.
At that point, you could sell that for millions. The whole hood
was going crazy over trying to find this fucking cotton. Literally, the whole
movie just nigga's going crazy over it. No, it's an old ass black
exploitation movie. But now fast forward to Tub. Tub is something, but
a bunch of people in Detroit got together, let's make hood movies. I'm
not feel to let you call Tub the new It is black exploitation. Shut
up, dog? Have you okay five already out? Have you ever watched
the two by movie an actual to be original. I'm not sat through an
entire to But that's part of the problem right there. You gotta you gotta
go down, you gotta go down this rappi hole. My gosh. Yeah,
I don't know if I to B movie is gonna have the basic five
points in their plot one, somebody's a drug dealer. Okay, there's some
sense of drugs or drugs selling or drug pairing phinally or drug usage in a
two B movie. It's just damn here a requirement like you can't get away
from, can't get away from like literally stapling the hood. Okay. Number
two, somebody got enormous ass. There's always asking these movies. Okay,
asked the ass and whether it's real, whether it's a BBL, whether it's
a nice shaped a BBL. You did it right? There's asking this movie,
okay. Number three. Most plot points have betrayal of it. Girlfriends
on, boyfriends, best friends, guys, drug dealers on. There's some
form of betrayal in every single movie. Okay. There's always a plot in
these movies that results in a lesson that has to be learned at the end
of the movie. Because if I didn't learn nothing from this movie, it's
not good guy. And then finally it's niggas from your neighborhood. You are
not going to You are not going to find Laurence Fishburns and movies. Now
you're not you know, you keep saying Marcus Houston, is he broke?
I don't seeing when you start like when you got a little bit of money
and then you start doing to be movies. I'm questioning that. I don't
always think that the case because old boy who played a Jamal Wood. Yeah,
yeah, but I feel like he does the own purpose that worked though.
Yeah, he wants swift motion here he has found his niche how do
we know Marcus Houghton sing? Bro? Somebody helped me? Who is coming
to a Marcus Houston? Save the last old bitches who love immature? Hear
me out now? Tavin Campbell doing a concert down the street? Didn't you
hear? Marcus Houston is at the riverside? Where do you think bitches are
going? Tevin? And Marcus's gonna go to Tavin? I don't know why,
but they gonna go to what you just said? Campbell? Really he
got at least six albums? Six albums? Six albums? And how many
songs do niggas play from this nigga? All you gotta play is five?
But they only play too They play five, they play can't we talk?
And I'm ready? I never hear it? What's the point exactly? And
you you be outside? You be outside though you be outside the bar if
you be outside, if you be outside, work at an older bar,
but you didn't been to an R and B night a few times in your
life. Right in the nineties mix, when you get the Tevin Campbell,
when you hit Tevin Campbell in the nineties mix, you gonna get Can We
Talks? Not that you shous Nigga's always in my heart? Tell me what
you want me to do? Around and round good bye. He got enough
song that the old bitchiness is gonna throw the broads on stage again. Two
songs, Can we Talk? Can We're Talking? They're not playing ship else
from this bums Nigga, but it's not now Marcus Houston. I ain't gonna
lie. I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go to that river Zaium though,
because he got some little super gyms but super. But look at the age
difference of what we just said. Tevin Campbell initially came out like what nineties
two thousands because his greatest hits dropped in two thousand and one. Okay,
So that means that most of the people who go onto Tevin only remember Marcus
Houston as little kid in the House party three and and um Roger. That's
it. They want. They may not even remember the nigga made a song
about don't nobody listening, No, no, nobody that I guarantee you girlfield
days right now to play. The lead played I'm ready and can we talk?
Then you got it? You tell you why I know they played.
They played it during the same time they probably got done playing a couple of
Prints songs because Tevin Campbell basically got introduced and the Prince movie, Get this
nigga out of here. You you just mad because you like Don Jones.
So what cloud? No, we're not saying you're bad. We just he's
a bad dude. You're a horrible person. He's a great guy. You're
a horrible person. Great guy, I look great song. That's a horrible
song. Hey, they say when you love someone, you just don't treat
them back. Oh how it feels us that now that I want to leave,
she's crying her heart to me and how could you let this be?
But I just need time to see so I want to be bars. So
how is this not bar great woman? He has a woman that loved them,
wants to give them the world, and it's willing to put up with
his boyshit. But you say, baby, I can't be with you because
I can't stop putting my dick and other bitches right because we've been together since
our teenage years. That's not the reality right now. That is why it
is a horrible song. But I that's what make it worse. But I'm
saying, bro, we've been together, that's on what day and the people
went their daddy right together since their teenage years. He really just needed to
see what was in the world. That's true, though. I could see
that part too, because it's right now what now see now, here's here's
the caveat to Dinelle Jumps. It wasn't. It wasn't what he said is
what he did. How do you tell your old bitch like, hey,
I want to fuck up the bitches and I want you to be okay with
it. And then when you see your bitch another nigga, you are not
okay with that. You are like the window and the leather fucking coat in
the middle of the summer crying and ship Jones. All right, they thought
about it, and in time your heart will heal you like you'll be okay.
Well, but he wasn't okay, But at least at the end of
the day. I want both of y'all to have this same energy. But
I came back in the twenty nine because when we do the lyrical battle,
I expect you, niggas I'm coming with to not to know lyrics. I'm
coming with that. I know songs, niggas y'all say here played the game
with me while I was high, and I knew every fucking thing. I'm
just saying. I'm just letting people know who are listening to see my friends
think that because I do drugs, that I'm fucking stupid. I don't understand
that why they think that. No, will I say I'm a little tape
delayed. I won't lie on that, like is it like three seconds later?
Cool? But I'm not done. We didn't say like the spad in
the back of the classroom. I don't get it. It's really wild.
It's because sometimes one if we're not having a direct conversation with you, you
will say whatever the fucker and had the problem before we hit while we are
here, well, I know, I know, I'm very much on here.
What guess I was telling my uncle that we had like we me and
you had a sneaker beef and you didn't even know it. So this is
what I told my uncle because like he like, when he know about the
pie, if I don't got no slides on him, be like, you
know what, you know what shoes you're going. So I've been feeling like
it's like gonna put some Airmax on the day. So I sent him a
picture. He was like, I thought you were the word leads. I
was like, it's like, nah, man, I think I think.
I think Tone think I was some type of bit your ass nigger. He
was like it you know. So I'm explaining to him why I feel this
one. I was like, see tone when I do put my shoes on,
tone, they see me wear some Jorgan's, I feel like because tone
from that arrow with air Max was cracking. Tone think I ain't got no
heat in my closet with some airbads. So I sent the picture. I
was like, I'm gonna wearing some ninety fives all weekend because Tone, I
think I ain't got no motherfucker airbads. You think I was the type of
bitch eyes nigg until you step into the world of the veps. Don't talk
to me, says I'm not. I hate that big as air bubble until
you wear that big as air bubble, I bet it's comfortable with motherfucker looks
stupid. I have heel spurs. I don't put on my sketchers. You
put on my vest I can't walking on clouds ab it. Do squeak a
little from time to time, but I can't do I'm put on air bubble
shoes. We kind of pop one in the middle somehow. You know you're
you're a young person. Do you follow what goes on on social media?
I do, But to be honest, I try to stay like super disengaged.
I'm sick of every time I got on social media, it's always some
sad shits. Always either some sad or some overly opinionated ass argument. Joy
I've never seen so many people care about other people's business and my mother.
I think a lot of times some of those businesses be triggering, oh,
because they go through it in real life. They go through and they don't
get the same result that they got. Like let's say Kiki and Darius for
a moment, right, Let's let's just go straight to that. Okay,
it's the biggest thing that happened since the last time we bought it right.
So for those you guys who don't know, first of all, where the
hell you ben shit? Because we laid the topic. Unkei Palmer went to
an Usher concert and Usher did what he always does, is he'll take somebody
out the crowd, He'll serenade them here and there, and you know,
they have their moment with Usher. Kekey Palmer happened to be the one that
got chose. Because let's be honest, if you got a room full of
women and you got a famous one in front of you're gonna grab you donna
grab a famous one, It's gonna go viral. Okay. So apparently Keikey's
baby daddy was there with them. Darius, I don't even know this nigga
last name, that's he just Kicky baby daddy right now. And there was
this whole uproar about the fact that he felt a certain way about the moment.
Now, the Internet when they first dropped was confused because some people thought
he was upset about the outfit she had on, because once again people were
projecting themselves in that situation. It come to find out it wasn't about the
outfit. It was the fact that she was looking lovely into this nigga's eyes,
and she was hypnotized in the moment. So now it's like, oh
my god, why are you stressing the funk out over this situation? My
dog? You got so many different opinions. You got some dudes like my
girl would never I would have, you know, had to whoop Usher ash
in that moment. First of all, you wouldn't have, um you see
what happened with Tom. You wouldn't have got pasted the security number two.
Oh look at I always have. That's that's my That's that's my story of
why Usher is a villain. He's always that. You had Some people was
like, but why are you mad? Your kikiS baby daddy? You want
you know what I'm saying, Like you you got a baby with her already,
you live a good and then you just got some folks who would just
being facetious to begin with it. So let's start with your doamond, what
was your interpretation of the situation. I feel like, to be honest,
it was the it was the hug, it was the dance, it was
the like. But me being in her position, I guess it's just like
it's ussher. That's one of the people that as in our generation, a
young girl, it was like, oh, Usher, you know what I'm
saying. So I feel like in that moment she really was just having fun.
She didn't mean no disrespect by it, but obviously wearing what she had
on and having this new mommy sex wait wait, having this new sexy ass
body and a man at home, you know, it was very disrespectful.
Now in the case where people are looking at it like it's Usher, for
Usher is the real villain. Usher is an entertainer. That's that's his show.
So he's gonna give people a show, you know what I'm saying.
He gonna give them something to remember, so to say, especially if you
have another famous person who Keikith Palmer gotta name herself. Can I ask you
a question if if you got a boyfriend and this is you, do you
like, do you know what? Too much is? Right? Okay?
So as us should being this entertainer, right, he's only doing what he
is allowed. So me being me, I probably wouldn't have did the hug.
I probably would have did a little two step with him, you know,
kept it cute, kept it simple, because I know my nigga watching,
but I don't know, you know when you're in a relationship and you
know when you're not. He don't know that. So him just coming out
as a regularized nigga doing what a nigga would do, or an entertainer.
You know what I'm saying. It's up to me to be like hey,
and like I said, back up, do a little two step you you
know how that shit got? Okay, let me ask you this question.
Have you ever watched the Janet Jackson concert? Yes? Okay, so you
know that at some Janet Jackson concerts there's a moment where a gentleman gets brought
up on stage and it can be pretty intense. You you went to Jane
Jackson concert with back and bakers pulled up on stage. How are you feeling
about this situation? And that's literally what I had a discussion about, like
with my guy at the time. Um pretty much him saying, you know,
how would you feel if it was me? And we ago? So
he asked me like, you know, how would you feel if if it
was me? If I got pulled up there? And I would be pissed
because it's like, first of all, it's a badass bitch. Second of
all, how do you be mad that Janet Jackson pulled Joe Nigga up there.
You know what I'm saying, Do you let that person have fun because
you know it's not gonna go nowhere. It's a more experience again, yeah,
or do you genuinely let it play out. I mean, me,
as a woman, I am not insecure, So being in that moment,
I'm gonna be like, get that ship back. But I'm gonna expect you
to know your livings. We're not up there touching pus sy, We're not
up there. Okay, That's what I'm saying. None times I said she
gonna make your hands be right here, so I'm watching you get a stripped
tease without her stripping. Basically, I feel like I feel difference somewhere and
when I find it, yeah, because let's not dotand between the two.
Is the reason why I use Janet more so than let's take a chance of
wrapper a situation is because the behavior that these niggas was going in it is
as if Usher literally was rubbing his dick all on her way niggas. Okay,
here's my opinion. Like where Janet and this is different, It's like,
okay, so you know when you get on stage with Janet, she
gonna lay you on the board, she gonna restrain your hands and feet,
and she got you at her mercy. Like you know, you can't do
nothing even if you wanted to. You can't. You and this fucking you
to let them tie you to fuck up. All I'm saying is you got
tired up versus usher with a microphone looking at you, and then you got
your arms around me. I think that's a little different versus Yeah, I
think it's different. If I'm standing there with the mic doing singing my shit
and you put your arms around me. You are now touching me. I
ain't didn't nothing but my job. But like I said, if it didn't,
like again, I'm I'm singing with a microphone and your hands are all
over me. Fam, I'm here doing my job. You are crossing lines
because you're texting. Was harmless though, why you keep if it's harmless keeping
hands or something? It was very harmless, Like I want to see how
I want to see how I want to see how harmless is gonna be?
Only no, I think it only became something that he got like fucked up
by because she looked a good asked out titties out. Yeah, now she
had on some big ass grainy dress. He wouldn't care. Fact, you
wouldn't give a because it's like another he liked. Oh no, my baby
didn't got some She didn't got them titties. She didn't. Why are we
even why are we even here at this point? Because I feel like,
shar we gonna have a conversation about all of this before you leave this house.
But then did he the outfit wasn't the issue because he approved the outfit.
He even was like, I ain't bitch when we get home, so
everything. So if it's not about the outfit, what you bitching? Happy?
She but something in life? You just got it because she wouldn't think
Usher would take that vida. You know what it is. I think the
issue is not I guarantee you. His boy's got in his ear, Yes,
I guarantee you. Niggas was like, hey man, you just don't
let niggas all over and niggas got in the crew chatt and got the ribbon
dog and that she got deep and that nigga got mad because look, he
didn't even go to Kiki about it. He immediately went to be Internet about
it up on his side to go to the internet as nasty work. Bro.
That's yeah, it is a lot of shit niggas do. This badge
is really really sucks. Why really, Oh my god, I couldn't imagine
just sitting on the Internet with a bunch of niggas I do not know discussing
my butt and that's what happened. And then because really, if this wasn't
a moment of oversharing, he wouldn't have been mad. He wouldn't have been
mad. But because it was blasted for the world, it's because his girl
was famous. Yes, that's to us because that's play attention. Like,
if she wasn't Kiky Palmer, if she was just like Trakesha Palmer a third
in Oklahoma, no one cared. But because Jackson VP Kikey Palmer killing them,
now it's different. Can we call it? Can we call it cheeky
Palmer? Yeah, she could definitely be Cheeky cheek Palm got that ass out.
Yeah, but you gotta stay on the internet with your Yeah, you
can't do that. Hold on, I just didn't like to a mom,
you're a mom, it's the outfit you're a mom, like, but you
just posted her in a panties and brass looking fat. But speaking of two
movies, was the last two movie you ever watched? One? I don't
watch. Speaking of movies, I actually finished um Um Secrets of Aside Check.
I forced myself to finish it. It was terrible. I recently watch
if I Can't with the guy? What did you think about? Okay?
So, since we're here since lately. Okay, So for those who don't
know, they're not bad movie, see Country to proper belief. They're not
bad movie. I think that because of the platform it's on and the acting
is not what we're used to in big box office movies, we tend to
look down on it because to me, honestly, a lot of TOOB movies
a little bit better than BT movies. The people who don't always be that
good. And that's you got Tyler Perry's budget on knows Hold on niggas.
I'm just saying, though, but I'm saying people in BT can play these
shows. Why are we shipping on two Be because it's on a free act.
I'm not saying on you, but universally we got some people like you
who just won't watch a two BE movie just because they don't want to.
It's to be, but to be it's starting off how bees he started,
all right, and that's why we weird ass movies. If you even go
on BT plus, they got a lot of the same ass. I did
his actual regular movies on there too. Now, what I will say com
what I will say about Toby is, whoever owns this ship, it's very
sis. This is genius to be really getting it. And I'm glad everybody's
getting in on the ground floor because one day we are gonna wake up and
the mother is gonna be just like y'all advocate, like, hey, bro,
you should check this out. What is it? They're gonna say to
be? You're gonna open your fucking phone or your smart TV and look for
it to be app and that ship gonna say nine ninety nine. But that's
just me real shit. But I'm not saying it's a bad thing that somebody
doing something. If they're gonna again, this is what's gonna happen. They're
gonna get paid for this ship. This is what's gonna happen. Okay.
Now, if you find a good, good series of movie back, you
find an actor that you've kind of fallen in love with you start going down
the rabbit hole and watching all the bullshit they in, because that's how I
ended up on If I Can't, because Cristal the Dog, which was the
best friend who wasn't ship. She is in this, but she's also been
in several other movies, including the little series The Dirty d that everybody's been
watching lately, so she's in all these different been following there for a minute,
then I started noticing that the main chick and If I can't Menda more.
I think that's their name. Don't quote me on that. I know
the first name is Menda. She's actually the one been writing all this shit.
So there's at least about ten to fifteen movies and shows on to be
written by her, So off top pick ups to her, somebody on,
somebody big up to her because she And what's crazy is if you look at
some of these women on there, the first thing you think is some negative
like another big booty beach, and it's like here it is she the writer?
Yeah, and then you find out that somebody reason, it's her voice
that gets me. It's the voice I love. I actually love her voice.
It's annoying that time, but I love it, but she'd be writing
these roles where we have come to the conclusion she gotta die in every scene
she every movie, she she kind of dies in it. This is not
even a spoiler, people, not a spoiler. This is gonna die.
She's gonna die. May not be season one, but I didn't see the
two Jim and You're gonna die twice but uh, if I can't Actually was
triggering for a lot of people. It was. It was very triggering for
a lot of people. Well spoiler for those who ain't watched it, you
ain't watching the Hill, damn Fucklots about the same in every goddamn movie anyway
them all. She's like kind of figure out what's gonna happen next. Um,
so basically the movie and it wrapped up with the chick dating the drug
dealing boyfriend. Drug dealing boyfriend basically said to so many words, if I
can't have you, nobody can so if you know. But come to find
out he was actually the one who killed her first husband. He's the one
who did that. But we weren't even gonna talk about that plot twist that
she didn't even be tellum he literally killing he ended up killing her. Her
first son who's not even his end up killing her and then copped out and
killed himself. And in Milwaukee, it's real triggering for a lot of people
because over the course of the last years, we've had a lot of baby
daddy's killing their baby mamas for the simple fact that they didn't want to keep
putting up with your bullshit, and one who moved on, and then we've
had situations where they've even gone live prior to or even during the actual killing.
So for a lot of people, it triggered these memories and these thoughts
and stuff like that. And I don't think that that's what the initial reason,
but the ending was supposed to be to happen because they're all the way
in Detroit. They don't know what. I can't say they don't know.
But I don't think when she wrote this she was thinking about what was going
on in Milwaukee. Because people think that they write these movies and they've done
within like three months. Sometimes it should be like a whole year, year
and a half before we even see I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I don't
mind it being something that she kind of brought to the light, because,
like you said, it's becoming a norm here for sure, right triggering,
yes, but very much so needed to be seen. Right. But there's
this light skin dude with braids like too long, too braids. Looked like
he could play like light skin snoop Dog being all these movies and he damned
played the same role in every movie. I didn't see him in nothing else.
Child Support. Uh he popped up on Dirty Days? Why is that?
Like? Why is that the name? It gives like first forty eight
captions like child Support, child there's a movie on their coffee. What see?
Here's the thing. They don't make creative titles, bro Like, there's
no catchy title. It's just like And I think that's why, because they
don't put effort of the t so I don't think people will shit on to
It's just when you hear about some shit don't even sign. But maybe people
just want to get to the point. But the reason why I bring this
up is because if y'all having to pay attention my Facebook page over the course
of the last week, I am going to create my own Toby movies and
we are. I would like for you too. You just want to be
in broken Blunts and bad bootleg. I want you to make it too more
and you just want to reside you check from heaven can't Heaven's a call.
I just would like for you to live your dream that for him only the
guy you want to be in them. You know I'm not gonna let my
boy. I didn't say that I didn't want to be in there. I
just I love that he's passionate about this filling. So my question for both
of you guys is if you were able to create, if I wrote a
two B movie right now, what do you think your character in the movie
would be. I don't know. I got to own an off switch.
I could need to be the lawyer that gets you out of your ship,
or I could be the ghetto ass baby mama. Why can't you be a
ghetto ass baby mama who happens to be a lawyer? See, that's to
be type ship that strip at night? What you gotta pay for college?
Somehow, it's always a twists, always a twist to it. Nobody is
directly what they like. The lawyer. You're a ratchet baby mama. That's
a paralegal. Ain't you stripped at night to pay for your bar exams?
That's where we're going. That's where we're going. Bro. Wow, I
don't even know how you even form a movie around not think about it.
Bro, there's always got to be Lawyer's Club, Like, what are we
doing here? This drug dealing? Ain't be Daddy got got busted at the
club because that's where they had the dope back in the liquid cocaine and My
Poehead and all these movies. You picking your role. I'm saying that honestly,
if you the pihead, you might die first. It's not a Horvie
Nash. But if I'm making it to be horror movie too, I don't
think I would be more. I don't want to. I don't want to
be in niggause I'm my god. But unless I'm nigga's been saying I was
a serial killer year, I think my perfect debut. Did you watch the
Block yet? Well? Where can I find it? Uh? I watched
it online? But it is digitally somewhere. Yeah, no, no,
you probably got it. It's probably a Prime video. Yeah, it might
be on Prime or Max. If it's under ten bucks, it's actually kind
of good, kind of good. I like it. If it's over ten
bucks, I wait until they put that shot Shulman service. I packed it
might already be in a stream. I thought I was gonna pay twenty dollars
to watch fucking Michael B. Jordan Create three. Never I didn't even watch
Create three. Yeah, I think it's on Hulu. Now it's it's problem.
I was like, I will wait until this is free to watch this
big nigga knock y'll ass to fun out to a movie. Watch it,
because you can't watch to be all the time. You gotta take a break
from t B. I'm not gonna lie. I like stars maybe having some
gems, and I like Paramount play sent has gems. Yeah, where's your
favorite movie? What? Oh? Okay? Okay with that? I like
thee But then the other one say why why I love Bernie mag Okay,
that's what it was. Funny as and fun fact two fun facts in one
so fun fact number one my dad used to look just like Bernie mac fun
fact number two to day is his birthday, and he would have been sixty
five. Who's birthday? My daddy? Dare we still get colapping off the
phone every birthdaby? If you have any day I don't know, don't make
it weird bro. His movie has to be told. Yes, it is.
Movie has to be told. I have to write his story. Action.
We should do a superhero movie too. He's the world ready. I
always wanted to be an action movie. It's the world ready for a black
another black superhero movie. Yes, yeah, but I feel like because we
like Adam Was, I feel like when I say black, I'm talking like
meteor Man. Yes, because you gotta remember, we're making it on too
be so it's to be great. I feel like we gotta be the contradiction
to the Justice League, the Negro Justice League. Yeah, but just like
it's a like a parody superheros people all black people and just yeah, just
like parodies. I gotta figure that out. Yeah, I gotta get around
licensing. Yeah. You just think of some terrible fucking superheros and they only
for the hood, only for the hood. Like you know, I feel
like if we had a speed nigga, he would only be fast when it
came to running from like the police literally or some type of guns. Yeah,
like if you got a pistol. Yeah, yeah, I said,
you would be an You want to be an action what what would your action
movie look like? Like? What kind of action are you in? Like
taking? Are you in like John Wick? Like? What are you an?
A Mortal Kombat issue movie? I don't know. It's kind of given
Proud Mary trash, but I want to see. I'm sorry, not it's
not for me. I want to see. It's probably Mary like a black
taking where they took her kids and then she not really Probably Mary is more
like assassinish, like she assassin. She's an hour and a half AGP walking
around with this big guys Nicol played at four or five shooting motherfuck? Is
that's what this movie is? You didn't miss much? Apparently I missed a
lot. Trag P is not not not. You will not talk about the
ghetto queen. I love her. It's one of those things because she came
from Jeldy baby Mama. No, it's just certainly no was. It's certain
people you just can't see doing certain things in movies, Like how she mentioned
Black Adam that wasn't the Rock being a superhero like I was. He was
right, he was the Rock minus the actual good catchphrases. Yeah, like
if he the slid a Jabroni candy ass we might as well have been on
Monday Night. So it's like and you look at him like, damn,
I can see the rock be a superhero. Then when we got it,
I was like, he shouldn't be a superhero ever again. Nah, I'm
cool. Rowe Yeah, because she had did two came like smaller roles in
two thousand and nineteen ninety eight, but baby Boy was literally where we really
her first starting out, start starring as a star stress. Soon mis Diamond,
are you single? Diamond is single? I don't like how you said
that the third person, Diamond is single? So do you have someone else
in the bag that's not so? Diamond got him to speak. Next week
she got Ali I love her, but she got to relax as she do.
She is recruited. You cannot hit everybody with the hey I have a
podcast. You just can't do that. It wasn't the podcast. Okay.
Actually she caught me and she was on live and she was like, come
get in my live. Are you single? And yeah, that's what I'm
talking about. That's how she got it. It was like just jumped out.
Women be too comfortable around other women, asking women questions like I get
it. You shell as a as a peaceful person, she's not. But
just logically thinking out loud. If everybody just talked like that, niggas will
be locked up. Yeah, just as a man. I don't think I
could she approached as a nigga. I could never do that. It was
very woman friendly though, because comparison what we were talking about earlier, saying
how women approaching women and they don't it's a mug or it's you looking funny
or like, No, she embraced me. She's like, oh, your
outfit is cute, like you know, So it was more welcoming. Now,
if she was like, oh, hey, like you single, it
would have been like why like that kind? But she was very welcome.
Is like a walking carson. Yeah. It maybe want to be like,
oh wow, what's up? Yeah, she just likes as soon as she's
saying, hey, I just feel like you're about to sell me, so
like a sleazy mused call, like a sleazy use car sale. And what
have you seen that you conversation about that? I would buying in a heartbeat.
My god, Oh my god, what it's lovely? That really?
That really what drew you to it? And might you're not wrong because if
this is that was the second thing. If this is what's approaching me?
Whatever you if you you wash you and shell and shit and you look like
that and you invite me to it must be other people that look like exactly.
Gotta be other people that look like get niggas the comedies things, because
they'd be like kinda be more people she like, she like one of those.
Uh, how can you describe it? Like if you was the fault
off a spaceship and bo and she's the first person that agreed you to be
like it. Gotta be more, y'all a somewhere take me? And I
never saw her like good ship? And I was like, Am I wrong?
Am I wrong? This is how I describe things. Man, that's
your friends. This is my friend friend. You wrung her to our world.
Are you blaming me for the positive or that she shines you? Shine
your life podcast check it out all the time. Yes, because God is
good. They gotta bring positivity into your life. I do you are?
I know I brought somebody else. I was positive, you know, grand
rising to the people ze, I'll be blessing you. I'll be bringing positivity
to her more than she break it to me. But she definitely definitely can
can turn a frown upside down definitely, but what else you got on the
doctor ton um interpretation? Interpretation? Interpretation? Recently, social media has like
sign interpretation. Sometimes I'd be careful notw before you summon an evil spirit.
You're watching another animal. Hey, it's just but yeah, we walk outside
and it's ten foot all NEGGI people fan, you need to stop watching the
tack on t That's what I was like. I walked in bro Romo,
like like, what is this. It's like, it's a tackle on just
like now, this is why you don't think it's weird, right, But
again, the anime culture, I respect it. I don't get it,
but that's your back with whatever's your back is your back. I like wrestling
and people will still be like, hey, you know it's fake. That
is my biggest man peeple people actually do. I still watch wrestling and they're
like, you know it's fake. No ship some of that shit, don't
be fake. It's not. It's predetermined. Yeah. I used to be
into it more than I have Now Now I do kind of feel like it's
like, y'all just get it is a soap opera and all the rock and
all them. I was like I'm so sick. He beat his ass of
every woman who said that you to watch wrestling. It always circles back to
the Rock, and it does. Damn it was other niggas that was there.
Yeah, but this is the watching the darkness. He's super relevant now.
So that's why I just said him just saying because relevant. It's funny
because you name You're not gonna looking at me like the Undertaker. Nobody's thinking
about him right now. Yes, let me don't do it. But I
know what you want to do. But I can't let you do it because
we just got on. Don't put your feelings on the internet. I was
going to say, you name two cats who I would say, it's funny
because the two cats with the reason why you watch wrestling, there's younger versions
of them right now and making wrestling the greatest thing ever. And that lustfulness
that you used to have for the Rock guarantee you and I like girls.
This nigga Roman is gonna have you even weather pause. I had to say,
why do we not have you? No? I like girls. I
know you like girls, but I have no good you talk to any mom
goodall is a good ball. How many times that we talk to women who
do watch wrestling, and that's the first nigga they bring up every time.
He is relevant, and he is fine, and he still got his youthfulness.
You wouldn't need long as slash. I would imagine that thirty eight year
olds still have a youthful. But no, one don't. Don't. We're
not gonna do ages them. Ye he's thirty eight. Enough conversation going on
the group chat right now. My old niggas not being relevant, man,
My old niggas just ain't. But wrestling is different about relevance either, like
life, you are here today, gone tomorrow. So interpretation, where would
you get in with that? So lately is this more like people reading the
room? We're getting there? So lately the Internet has been black. Internet
has been the frenzy because the AI have shook up the world again. Recently,
a new AI application came out called The REMANI depends on how you say
it, where they have literally are taking your face and putting you on different
bodies and making people look beautiful. Because I'm not gonna lie to you.
That blue suit on me, A'm fucking sexy. I want to say fucking
sexic your your your you put your AI pictures on the screen for the world
to see. We got that kind of technology, sure, because you look
like you look like the black James Bond, And I'm cool with that.
But I think what really started getting me irritated because first of all, I
already know that all these AI software are leading to something else down the road.
Eventually you're gonna get some form of identity fraud that's gonna happen because of
it, because it's getting a little bit too advantage. The AI is gonna
get smart and take over the world like we always expect. But I think
my thing is is niggas on the Internet don't know how to not take shit
personal. Like I was minding my business scrolling through seeing all my friends with
the AI photos, and then in the mix of it, I've seen someone
make this extremely long post talking about all these AIS is fucking up people's perception
of self imagery and and they're making you thinking that you're supposed to be at
a certain standard of beauty because everybody is skinny, and and then and then
now you're starting to have self doubt because if you are a big person and
now you look like this, you still like you ugly, and I'm like,
always there's always one woke nigga on the internet. Nobody, nobody that
I know who's been using the AI, sits here and says, oh damn,
I need I need something. I need to change who I look.
I got a lot of people like my skinny folks. It look like a
regular photo to them. My big people. We end up having big heads
and small bodies because we big people like you, like an extra and fucking
James Bond movie, Like my neck? What is this? But it was?
And I'm like, y'all got me next to these unrealistic Why couldn't get
trucking something next to the Ferrari Oh shit? Because the way the imagery look
it was never meant for it to be realistic. Like people were freaking out
because they were allowing you to put your face on a baby's body or d
aging you. It's like, have you not watched Marble movies? They've been
had d aging technology. You know, whole Captain Marble movie was done in
the nineties. You know, Nick still don't know where they got that Blockbuster
storefront they use the last one in the country. I think it's in Seattle
and blew that motherfucker. They're still a blockbuster out there. Some people still
it in dvdsis some people do not. Everybody wants to move into the one
old people don't like change. Now some change. You just gotta get what
you No, you don't gotta get with all the changes. But some of
the changes you change. They and that's why they are always the ones calling
and call centers. Plus all right, bro, like some shit you just
like if you still got a VCR, family, all right, get get
give it a fucking rest man. They eventually upgraded the DVDs. I mean,
shit, you ain't got to add a stream of services, but goddamn
it the VCR. Bro, I had a VCR. Had you still got
one movie? Certain movies, the whole it was a whole TV and it
had a VCR. But I still had tapes and shit, So I was
like, all right, like some tapes. Some movies were better on types.
Prime example, I use your Share as example, the original Star Wars
the six seven and eight that's six seven eight, No, four or five
six, my bad, four or five six. They changed it like five
or six times. So unless you have a tape from when it first came
out, you wouldn't see all the changes that happened into it, all the
extra ship that kept getting changed over and over again. So for some people,
having those tapes is literally like printed gold. You don't want to get
rid of it. And then my grandma right, and you're growing up in
the Nickelodeon eras, man, you're not gonna tell me you're not gonna have
some joy when you've seen that orange VHS tape because you knew exactly what that
movie was. Facts and Wild Thornberry, Oh yeah, yeah, yea,
all three of them, All three was the orange tape. So you go
by granny house and Granny found your orange tape. You know you was gonna
have a good time. So if you're going to sit here and watch rug
Rats, yeah you could go on a streaming service and watch it, but
it didn't hit the same as putting that VCR tape in there and getting pissed
off because somebody rewands your tape, so you didn't get a chance to be
where you left off. That. I feel your nostalgia stalgia makes a lot
of people do a lot of shit at baby Daddy. Now now you're talking
about me, Why why? Why do bitches go back to the nostalgia.
You want that whole thing back. I mean like that. Let me ask
you a quick how long were you what you make dad? The first time
y'all broke up before? I ask the baby before? How many times after
y'all broken up? No, I'm not gonna say broken up. That's taken
it too far. Took a break. I feel like the us before the
baby had different stipulations. So I just like how you dancing around. So
it's like we wasn't breaking up. We only really broke up once and then
it kind of just staying up. The shortest distance between two things is a
straight line. Okay, I just okay a break up. We're still broken
up? Okay, but I gearing how old is this baby? Now?
I have other courses now too old and not child. They're usually under five.
And you know when they what they said when he won, you ain't
done. I'm just kidding. No, no, hold on, hold on
where we're getting ready? So this is like fresh, This is just very
fresh. This reason this just happened. Things wanting some change in March.
Let's talk about your breakup. Yeah, it was like last year October,
So y'all ain't really broke up. Oh yes we are okay, so he
got a chance to do right, right and right, Like you ain't completely
saying. So if you go let's say you go to the Okay next week
and you meet a guy, you want to entertain that guy, you know
you have to go through the whole entire process of getting to know somebody,
getting comfortable with them, seeing where they had as the whole dating process with
purpose. Right at the end of the day, your baby daddy, I
hate that work child's father. Y'all broke up because he did something wrong or
did you do something wrong? Right? I was gonna say, what if
it was me? No, it was definitely some wrong doing. Okay,
there was some wrong doing. So let's just say during this time frame he
matures whatever things that he wasn't doing, he fixed, He get himself together,
he got better stability. Now he's good. You got this great guy
who you're building something with, but you got this old thing who now got
itself together. It's like an episode of love it or listed. I got
the brand new house that does everything got need. But if you just fix
these couple of things that's wrong with the house I'm living in, I'm not
moving. Damn, that was a really good metaphor that shit just used right
there. That's what we do, right I know that's right, breaking up,
but you're not let to help you to go back, And that's what
let's that's going back to what me and Kendall was just talking about, Like
I told her, in this day and age right now, I want the
house, I want the family, I want the big backyard. But it's
like it just seems so fucking our fast. It seems so unrealistic in this
generation right now, like we were best friends before any of this, And
to be honest, I feel like after the baby, it either makes or
break y'all as a couple or as friends, as co parents, as whatever
the fuck you know what I'm saying. And y'all right, for sure,
it is hard to you know what I'm saying, you when you want something,
especially when you have a child with somebody, if it's not something that's
just a one night stand or just like you know, you've known this person,
y'all love each other, y'all have been together. You expect more out
of the situation. And I think that's where I went in wrong. I
felt like it was supposed to be this big fairy tale that we always talked
about. You're not wrong for that, but I always tell because I tell
one that's almost every year we grow old, because we ten years apart in
age. Right, So I'm a whole age bracket above this, nigga.
And you start to go up, there's gonna be certain things that you're just
not gonna give a fuck about no more. And as you get older and
you start giving a fuck less about unnecessary shit, the regular shit starts to
become more important. Right now, you gotta sit in the age category.
We're settling down is on nobody's mind. God, nobody should be wanting to
settle down between twenty one in like twenty seven. But a lot of y'all
come into y'all twenties ready to some of us, some of us as women
though that's all we see from our mom. So you got some people who,
you know, they get this housely housewife mom who taught them this,
this and that. Then you get this other one who's like, I don't
give a fuck what time you come in the house. You've grown. They
fucking they ended up pregnant, not saying it like that's the only statistics but
you get what I'm saying, Like more so it's coming from what we see
as women growing up from kids, Like you know, I saw my mom.
She never bashed my dad, even when hearing him were on bad times.
She never talked shitbo about him. She never wanted this image of they
were into it for us, you know what I'm saying. I've always seen
them love each other, no matter if they were together. So me growing
up and having him as a baby daddy or the father of my child,
now that was my best friend. So I try to go yeah, yeah,
both. So I try to go into it knowing like, Okay,
even if this shit don't work out, we have to still remain how we
used to be. Like I because not only was that what I saw,
but you know, I saw my mom being like wifely, being wifely,
you know, but being a hard worker, always at work, you know,
but always trying to make time, always trying to you know, make
sure we were straight, but always still trying to include him. And I
feel like me seeing a lot of those things became something that like, oh
I want to do that, which is great. I want to be like
that at your age. That's a rare mentality just banging age. I'm not
saying that there we do, we should have more like that. But then
let's flip the coin on an up de side with him. Has he seen
that kind of adultness going on prior to before y'all crossed that line, Because
I think his story is definitely completely different from mine. I will say that,
and that could change the narrative of him appreciating what you're trying to present
at this younger age, because in his mind, I'm twenty something. I'm
not saying that I was supposed to go out here and fuck everything under the
sun, but I gotta go out here and figure out what adult team looked
like for me. Because he may want the big house and all that stuff,
but he may want to start off with apartments first. He may want
to have roommates with his guys and live that wild boy life first, to
get that all out his system and then settled down. You know, not
everybody wants to be in a relationship first, because twenty years from now at
you're only forty six forty seven at that point, and now here you are
forty six forty seven, Like I don't want to be in a relationship no
more, because I stout on so much, so much, you know what
I'm saying. But I'm a fine believer, and if you know, you
know, like, don't get me wrong, I'm gonna keep it a hundred.
I can do both. I can go out do me, talk to
a bunch of niggas, go on a bunch of dates, funk who I
want to fuck, talk to I want to talk to. But I can
also really lock in. I feel like sometime men use that as a cop
out, because when you know, you know, when you want to be
with somebody, you're gonna make sure you do what's necessary to keep them.
Now, let me ask you this question. Does he know that you'll always
be there for him? Sadly yes, And that's another reason why he moves
the way he moves. Because I can go out here, Daniel Jones,
I still got lushed inside of me. So I'm gonna go out here and
fuck all these bitches, but I'm not gonna hurt you on purpose. I'm
gonna suck all these bitches, but I need you to say exactly where you
are, so when I'm done sucking these bitches, we can go and be
the family we're supposed to be, right, when I gotta get I gotta
get this funk off. You gotta get these fucks off. I need you
to not have anybody else. So he keeps being your friend, and he
keeps being a great co parent. He keeps presenting himself in the way of
things that you love about him, so you'll never let the love for him
diminished down so someone else could step in and actually love you like you're supposed
to be. I've definitely sabotaged a couple, and I know you have bombs
and experience that me actually liking a man I'm talking about, like, yes,
he's the one, and then my baby daddy calling, I'll be like
you said, come outside. That's crazy, he said, come outside.
That's why I ain't got no girlfriend. But I'm keeping a huney. I've
never just crept off, like if I'm really fucking with somebody, you know
what I'm saying, it only becomes me entertaining. I guess my baby daddy
when the person who I didn't try to invest his time, man, it's
like it's always something and I think that's what while we go back to our
comfort, because here it is out and invested all his time to you.
Now we're talking about meeting kids. Now we probably didn't have sex or whatever
the case may be, and you turn out to be a fuck nigga,
why wouldn't I go back to my own But here's my question, is your
fear of him possibly being a fuck nigga actually stopping you from even experience in
life? Because if you, if you, if you go through all the
stages of the dating phase and you find out like, Okay, I really
want to be more with this person, and then all of a sudden,
baby daddy pops in with the usual bullshit enough to get his foot through the
door, and now you didn't let this dude go or he was like damn,
I really want to be back with my baby daddy. But I like
this dude. Are you finding reasons to label him as a fuck nigga to
run out the situation so you could go be with your baby daddy with no
problem? Of course? Not, of course not, because to be honest,
I, like I said, it's to the point where me dealing with
somebody, I'm open to know what I'm saying, it going wherever you need
to go. Like at this point, yes, yes, I love who
I love, I want who I won't. But it's like us as women
period, we get caught up trying to wait around for what we love or
trying to wait around for a motherfucker to get right or to but it's like,
no, you gotta get left at this point. And it's just like
I don't know, I know what comes with my baby daddy. I trust
him, I trust some of the moves that he makes. But when you
go out and you start trying to put that trust in other people, it's
sad to say, but they always show you why the fucking shouldn't. And
that's why it's not even me trying to like, oh, let me try
to put this label on you so I can have a reason. No,
I'm to one hundred, like I'm gonna tell you upfront, like, but
niggas don't how to do that. They don't know how to be like,
this is what it is, this is what it ate. I'm going to
tell you because I don't want to lead you on. This is what it
is, this is what it's not. Now I've definitely me and my baby
Daddy stopped working with each other. We were both talking to other people like
everything, here's your baby. You know what I'm saying, it's not like
it's not possible. But in the dealings where yes, we probably start back
talking there, we probably start back working around. Of course, I'm like,
okay, drop everybody all over again, you know what I'm saying,
Like it kind of just going in phases where I'm not talking to him while
I'm talking to somebody else. Not at all. That's why I don't date.
You don't date because right so, I was gonna say there's nothing wrong
with dating as long as I mean, I can't even say as long as
you so you want personally have slid into your comfort zone. You are like
a great pair of house slippers. Okay, you come home, you do
your normal routine. It is what it is. In order to bring a
relationship into your comfort zone, you have to not only make space for that
person to ficken your comfort zone, but you also have to change a few
things that you do to do it with them. You have to go out
and enjoy the world from their perspective just as much as you want them enjoy
the world from your perspective. And even though you may like eight things that
this person does out of a list of ten, those two things will make
you not want to lock it in because those two things, as they are,
will bother the fuck out. It depends on what those things. You
say that now you can't as those two things become bigger and bigger, and
that will be your cop out to get out. Yeah, it really depends
on what these two things is, because I don't want you to be seen
here trying to make it seem like I'm just this irrational because I'm not.
I didn't describe you as a direct believe it or not. There are a
lot of people like that. That's I was just gonna say a lot of
people like that. You won't love, but you won't love on your terms,
and you don't want to compromise what those terms are. In order to
get love from the perfect person from you, you got to compromise a few
things, and you don't want to comp I feel like if you got a
list of ten things and I hate too, I gave you ain't there was
no compromisation on that. But those two things can be nails that just get
in my hands like Jesus, and that got me five bucks. I appreciate
that that nigga's changing and he just let it slip. Fight say he can't
hold money the same as life, nigga can't hold water. It's definitely a
lot of people as to keep back the water. Like I do want to
find love. I do too, but it's it's not it's not just loved
however it happens. I'm why people say that. It's plain to me why
you feel like you can't find love and love got to just find you.
Because the reason being is the way society determines what relationship, Socialization, personal
social media, all these different things create walls and barriers that we put up
that makes us not even want to give people the opportunity. So if we
go out looking for love, we're looking for a specific thing with specific entities
of a specific ways supposed to look. Our list of ten just went through
my mind. Yeah, and then when these ten are not met, we
automatically assume this person is not for us. But when you throw the list
out the door and just enjoy life and enjoy the individual, you tend to
find out people who love you dearly are right in front of you, plain
and simple, and you just gotta give that the opportunity. Because a lot
of times and you brought up something that's I think that a lot of people
need to do more, but we refuse to do that. It's sometimes we
gotta date our best friend. Sometimes don't not your bestie. It's completely different.
But you to start making your maybe your friend first. And that's why
I think I said that shit about the whole going back, because when I
say going back, and don't necessarily mean that me and my baby daddy'd be
back fucking or are we back trying to be in a relationship, but it'd
be more so like we're back kicking it, like how we used to and
enjoying each other company and enjoying each other president end of the day, for
y'all, it can never be back to the way it was. Facts number
one, there was a whole relationship in between there and then kids involves not
even gonna get there yet, cold cotton right now, Okay, Uh,
there's a whole emotional connection that you guys have. You have legitimate history.
So there's the friendship stuff that you did, and then there's the things that
you guys actually did together. You know, things you guys actually did together
will always cause problems and how the friendship party view because even the relationship wise,
he may be over here, you may be over there. You're gonna
always get reminded that, well, this out right here does ABCD. When
I was with him, he did this and that. So if this person
does something that reminds you of a positive or a negative, this person can
be penalized simply because it reminds you of your friend. Or if you see
your child's father moving in a direction that you always wanted him to be in,
you're gonna gravitate and that love is gonna build back up to the service
again, and you're gonna want to give it a chance again because he's now
projecting what you wanted him to be all to begin with. So there's always
gonna be this conflict and then, let's be honest, Starting a new relationship
can be very tricky exactly because you have to tell the man that you are
dating or woman sexual logic and spectrum that you're dating. You and your baby
daddy co parent like a boss, and y'all still kicking, y'all doue family
things together, y'all still hang out. And then they'll be like, well,
how long it's been since you too broke up? Oh, about eighteen
months. That's gonna send the nigga flying right away because you have to build
the relationship with this new person and in the back of their head like,
we damn what you're doing this weekend? Oh nothing, I'm just you know,
I'm at home and whatnot what you're sucking him did? Even though that
may not be the cause y'all may not have touched Private Parson two years wrong,
but it's the fact of the possibility that that thought is always there and
the actions that match with how y'all move will give that person that inception of
a thought no matter what, and you could just be really comparing it like
a boss. M So right now you're gonna have issues unless you get a
nigga who don't We don't care. I mean that's where all of my shit
goes, honestly, Like I can dead as be vibing with it, motherfucking
it. Don't be me. It'd be like, oh, you're still cool
with him like that, y'all be talking like that, or I really had
a nigga tell me, like, you know, I'm scared to love you
because I think he's gonna go back to you know, he's not wrong to
feel that way, but you gotta respect him. Enough to put that out
there, because now by him putting that on the table, he's allowing you
to either a prove him right or prove him wrong. The ball is now
in your big on reassurance s though. I mean, I'll try to give
it to him, but it's like he only seen one way, so I'm
not gonna try. Still. It's the same issue about when the chick who
wants to date the guy and he says, I got kids, and they
asked him how old this kid is and the kid is under three? Oh,
you you still fucking your baby, mama. I can't date you with
no proof of whatsoever. They literally immediately draw that conclusion and end the date
right then and there because they feel like he's still fucking her and that is
not the case. At the same time, people are gonna grow up.
That's true. But look, that's why I said, look at the age
category. She said. I'm not saying that there's not niggas mature in her
age group, but that number. If I got a baby and me and
her don't, we don't jam like that no more. But my kid is
a year and a half. Put me in this bitch, won't jam like
that? No more when I tell you that I got a baby mama and
my kid is a year and a half. Apparently in this relationship that is
done with that wounds still a little fresh though we're still there. It ain't
been along that it's gone. But at the same time, you gotta be
mature when you meet me, and I laid this out for you that don't
hit me with you. Don't hit me with that. Oh you still talk
to you? Yeah, man, this bitch gotta comparing. It ain't even
like that. Would you like to come with me when I dropped this little
crumb snatching my fucker off? Would you like to be there when this bitch
bring me my kid? Like whatever makes you comfortable. Women, that's gonna
be a little bit different because women are emotional. Niggas gott to grow up
too, I feel you. Women are emotional. So for no reason whatsoever,
you could be moving on with your life. You could actively have started
day and that woman is going to be a problem to your child's mother,
your mother's child, your baby mama for the simple fact that there's another woman
around her kid. Because the thought process that down there's a mother over here
who could possibly mothering better than I am, I automatically have a problem with
this woman. Don't know nothing about this up. Then number two, let's
let's look at the other side of the woman dating you. Now, what
is your relationship with your yo yo baby mama. You might be in your
head, I'm done with this bitch. This bitch is crazy. But this
bitch could be crazy because she's still in love with you. This bitch is
doing all this wild, stressful ass shit to you because all she wants you
to do is come home and love her. So I'm gonna put you on
child support because I know by you being on child support, it's gonna cut
into your finances and you financially can't survive being a single man trying to still
help out with your kid on child support. But if you come home,
I take you with me support. Listen, I feel like it all becomes
a movie fast fast. It all becomes the thing of at the end of
the day, the man put his foot down. If you have a baby
mama, or multiple baby mamas, or a girlfriend, and you know that
that's what it is, a motherfucker gotta be able to set the record straight.
I shouldn't have to wonder about your baby mama as the baby mama,
I shouldn't have to worry about your girlfriend. Like the minute he period,
but the minute he put his foot down, the minute he showed he's a
fun it. Only it only becomes that if he's still fucking his baby mama.
But the minute he puts his foot down and he be a man,
I thought, you're gonna suck your thumb, I'm like, And the minute
he put his foot down and he showed it he a man. She wants
them even more. Now you a real man. Now I had a boy
back then when we had kids, But now you grew into a man.
Now I want my man that you didn't become. No, no other bitch
is gonna have what I helped build is the mind stake. So now she
becomes this. This is why I will personally be in jail. Well I
didn't have kids, I would snatch her motherfucker album comitely, I b one
crazy bitch and that bitch you got a whole bunch of kids and all the
type of baby daddies and kids. One could you be a woman with multiple
kids thirty thirty five? It's possible, depends on depends on the age of
your children. If you're thirty five, that means to have an eighteen year
old. She had to be sucking at like seventeen eighteen, right, which
is understandable. I can get that. So I don't guess she wasn't sucking
at twelve. If she was sucking at twelve, I didn't check her mental
because she may not have been willing. We twitter stable have. Really,
I really need to check your mental. But that comes with the game.
If that's got a lot of girls in trouble, are you a little pets?
That's not answering the question. You can't just laugh because you ain't see
me up a little shout. Okay, but eight kids, stuff, I
mean, I mean, if that's the game I want to play, then
that's the game I'm playing. She checks off all ten of your boxes.
Okay, eight kids. See that's that's that one box that I'd be like,
that's that's that's questionable. That box being though it's a big that's not
a box that that's a fat ex bandage all sections though, So that box
is still okay. Man, I was talking about the box off the piece
of paper, eight kids, I know it's fire. Somebody thought that should
fire eight times so I know it's good. I know it's good. It's
it's a one exceptional like you know, you go to these little restaurants,
he little helpers, back to board or that. Hey plus plus. I'm
just saying, I know it's fire. So the bedroom, the bedroom is
a plus plus. She can work her magic and anything else. Financially,
she didn't learn how to juggle money like a boss. So you coming into
the equation literally just makes the makes life less stress Gonna flip these she gonna
flip this account like they flipped, make it less stressful. Okay, but
you gotta remember bro stepping as a step dad. You can't just buy one
pair of Jeorgans. Don't drop that moneyga, you cut to buy ten.
That's true, but crazy one drops with you niggas. But again we talk.
We got to talk about the aid. That is true even okay,
because if you if we're talking eight at thirty five, right, realistically,
you got some, you got some seven, you definitely got some under ten,
and you got some over the age of seven day. Okay, so
let's just say four of them, keep it realistic. Half of them are
over fifteen, the other half are under. So you got some semi some
some small back talking adults in here because that teenage year is rough. Remember,
Noah, I don't want to be your daddy half ground. We can
bargain what you gonna do the first time? Were you tweving that we can
bargain, like like, did you do your chores? If you did your
chores, you know, if you're doing your ship lead not to drop day,
you're gonna be good because I know I'm gonna have my money, and
I know I'm gonna have everybody else money who wear a decent little kids size.
But you big feet niggas, y'all washing dishes, taking out garbage,
right, aren't your kid? You gotta get whatever you want? What you're
gonna do The first day you come home and you found out that sixteen year
old, don't worry your jays to school, oh my god, because you
know that's gonna they're gonna. I see like you talked to him and he
said he had to get a swag up at school because kids was picking on
him. But now if he your what sauce did you really have in my
shoe? If you're choking your fucking ankles, that's your step dads step in
where is the sauce you got? I gotta put you off. He borrowed
your oreos? Oh my god, No, you gotta have them. I
ain't never wore, not the worry else. I just said that because I
know the shoes he don't fuck with. Yeah, okay, let's say.
Let's say. Let's you got luck my cool grounds. I got lucky.
You caught the North Carolinas man, I don't give my don't get my imaginary
kid down North Carolinas though he came home Laska. Dude, I put your
shoe. Fan. Once you put your friend in my shoe, you gotta
have it yours. They don't say that out loud because then they just really
start mbling. Shit, don't put your fucking fee in my shoes. That's
nice. What about you? You find a guy, awesome guy, sweetheart,
Everything going good, financially stable, house is nice, car, two
cars, two cars in his garage, living life good. But you find
out he got six kids. That's not a deal Brecord for me. As
long as he take care of his kids and he take care of me,
baby, we're good. And when I say take care of me, I'm
totally speaking past financials like make sure, I'm straight, but like I said
it, dude, depend on the age because now I'm the woman. You
don't know how these women have you? You twenty six, so he twenty
seven with six kids though, so all his kids baby maximum under team,
I'm not gonna lie. Still really not a deal breaker. It's not a
deal breaker because it's so fucking rare that you're gonna find a nigga without a
pass and that past is gonna conclude kids crazy, here's where we are.
Here's where everybody misses the key words on like Facebook. So kids is not
a deal breaker. It's the adjective that you put both four kids that were
making them a deal breaker, like badass kids. You know, I don't
even mind him bad keep it a book. A lot of the times you
have a lot of bitter situations that are making them be bad where the mama
like don't know that, ain't like mamma and talking shit kids. You know
you as a mom, though, give a take a dad, you were
you a part time dad? You don't know? The end is announced of
everything. I see you on the weekends, holidays and when you with me,
your your shit together, you in check. I don't know what you
do at home, especially if your mama don't call me to be like,
hey, whipper's ass or some shit, but you should. I'm just saying,
no time, I feel you as a mom who have your kid all
the fucking time, you know where your child is a little a little too
much, you know, when that nigga a little out of hand. I
feel like that only get disclosed if me and you really working on the relationship
and we are actually moving forward to get somewhere. If you know I'm from
the met cho Keys, yeah, you should probably let me not heytt,
little fock's a little while, ye like, so I just know what I'm
doing when I come in the crib, Like, do I need to keep
my hands in my pockets? Is this little nigga a little pickpocket? What
the fuck kind of time? Bertie beyond you know what I'm like, I
don't like because I don't want you to go like, oh, you know,
we'd be chilling and you step out the room and you come back and
had a hard tied and pushed him in his fucking throat because he keeps fucking
round that there's no one but I'll definitely fuck your kid up. But I
mean. At the same time, though, you also dating someone with kids
can be difficult because what the kid. The kid knows how to manipulate situations
too. So like you and your child's father, y'all could be super cool
and your kid only one. But let's just say you start dating here,
your kid is five or six, and because they want mommy and day to
be back together, they misinterpreting your new boyfriend friend or they presenting your new
boyfriend as a horrible person. And now these these stories and things are being
created about dude. That's not true. That is true. So now you,
as as the mother, is stuck in a situation where you have to
do you believe your mate or do you believe your child. But that comes
back to me saying, at the end of the day, kids soak up
everything. So I'm not gonna be around my kid saying shit that's gonna make
him even think that me and my baby daddy not good. You know what
I'm saying, Even on bad terms, even on the worst of the worst,
I am always going to show him that, No, I'm not thinking
like we're together, but we're a family. I'm gonna show you we're a
family. We're all one at the end of the day when they're around,
Mommy and Daddy back together though, But how what what? What is back
together like? Is I would have to be around him saying something to have
him with the persona of back together. Right now, when he sees us,
he just sees a mommy, a daddy. He we don't really know
the correlation right now, but obviously he knows about five. Yeah, obviously
he may white white movies. No, but he right though, because to
be honest, it is a lot of kids who do that shit. But
he watch many movies. But you right though, that shit right though?
No bullshit because I felt that way too though, But it wasn't when I
was five, I was like ten. Sometimes I was like ten though,
I did want my dad and your mom and dad has been together for majority
of your life. Then all of a sudden, you may not know why
daddy got to move out, but then you don't like the fact that daddy
house ain't got shit in it because Daddy got to start from scratch, and
Mama walking around the house depressed because she doing everything on her own. Then
all of a sudden, Mama finally meet somebody's like, hey, I want
you to meet my friend Richard here, and you don't like Richard. Richard
ain't this shit to you. He brings you give, he bought your fruit
Sta nine Yard. You living good with Richard. But Richard ain't daddy,
So you gonna be like, I don't like Richard. Daddy ain't got shit
in this house. Richard is okay. I'm like, well, okay to
me, Richard, make sure we got Bruce names pops. You're struggling,
bro, I don't know this box of corn flakes. Ain't cutting him,
my nigga. We even food looms at the crib. But it becomes the
correlation of respect to me, Like if it did come down to it,
I moved on. I got a new relationship. I'm going to make sure
my partner respects my child. I'm gonna make sure my partner respects the father
of my child. I'm gonna make sure my child respects my partner and respects
knowing like, okay, this is not your fucking daddy period. You know,
low kid, I would be cool with my like my girlfriend baby daddy.
I would I would try to be I would do my best with Disney.
Yes, I ain't gonna say he gonna be like my bestie, but
like we're gonna be cordial on some level, like if we're having a family
thing and surety coming a room like a YoY. I'm thinking about reaching out
to my baby daddy because he an't really got no families, So can he
come jam with us? Cool? Because we got some level of your respect
and he cool. You come kicking with me and my people as you smoke,
bring you drink, bring whatever you you know, bring your amenities like
when they're not still fucking I'm sorry. I would want to be on some
level with live commonality with my girlfriend's baby daddy facts and I will I would
want him to feel the same way. Like if you is having something at
Joe cribb and for your for the kid and you won't focus. But a
lot of baby daddies, dude, be bitter, but the baby daddies be
bitter. It gives very much welcome to death for ro niggas. Don't be
wanting you to be with nobody else Nias day. As long as focus ain't
doing hard to my kid, sure you can raise that little motherfucker when I'm
not there, right, that's cool. I don't mind that I mean,
in fifth, if there is someone in my baby daddy life, you know
what I'm saying, who is giving off mother vibes or giving off something or
some type of genuine love for my kid that she did not push out.
I can't do shit but respect that. How long before you try to have
that sit down conversation with her the girlfriend? Yeah? Like how long of
the dating process? So I'm not gonna lie. So you probably don't know
he dating her long before it gets serious? So when do you sit down
and have that conversation with her about this is where I would like us to
be as friends, because you gotta remember, at the end of the day,
you you're in a particular place because you're both best friends and child's mother
simultaneously. So you want to meet her as oh, let me see who's
dating my friend, to see she's good enough for him. But then at
the same time, let me see who this woman is is gonna be around
my kid? Yeah, because that's more so where I met with it.
At that point, I don't give a fuck who good enough for you because
it ain't me. Yeah, So yeah, I'm more so want to be
your friend because you're around my child. I don't want no bad blood with
us. If you're around my child, if you don't like me, I
don't want you around my kid. If we don't have mature vibes. Even
if we are not friends, I want to still be able to be like,
hey, you know I'm dropping him off to you. You got kids,
they playing with each other With that, I wanted to be mature.
We don't have to be the best of friends. If we do, okay,
cool, But all in all, my sole purpose, if I'm not
messing with him anymore, would strictly be how you're treating my kid. Whatever
karma she put you through is on you. Baby. They ain't got shit
to do with me. Like when you think about the hand the workings of
a relationship, like we need like again, we don't gotta be best friends,
but on some love, well we gotta we gotta jam because there's gonna
come time and life where I might gotta be the third party facts like I
might gotta be the nigga that bridge the gap, Like okay, well she
got stuck at work, so I got a little man, And you know,
either I'm gonna bring him to you or you could come get him.
But you know, he's safe right like, so you know he's good.
You know what I'm saying. When we get I'll bring him to you,
all right, bro, you know he did we did this, we did
that. I've got him. McDonald's what I'm saying. So you might not
gotta feed him for a few hours because he cool right now, and then
y'all gonna do father something, whatever the fucking is y'all do. That's true.
I mean, the person who keeping my child should want a relationship with
me. They should want to be able to call me, Hey, something's
going on with Osia. Hey, Ohia might have had an asthma, so
it could be any fun thing if you can't get to him. I need
you to feel comfortable enough to call me. You don't gotta be my fucking
friend. I don't have to like each other, but I need you to
at least have the respect for me that I'm gonna have for you. Call
me. People weird for sure. People. That's because people still be fucking
I'm still on that and people still be fucking everybody trying to act like in
the generation fucking so so so oh, it's just it's nothing. It's we're
kind of but like so many soul ties, so many, so many emotional
connections, and all of them demons you carrying with you. That shit is
real. I believe that should have. If your son creased my shoes,
I'm gonna fucking up. I ain't gonna lie to you. Why why would
you do that to my shoes? I want him to be like he yeah
that he can't can't get on his toes. I will punch the shit out,
child like, don't have my value? Well your kids? That's another
thing. Do you got five hundred dollars because the rebounding shoe caused me five
hunds? No, he's gonna be working it off at the summer time.
He gonna be sweating his ass off, cutting the ground. Okay, And
I'm painting twenty cents on the hour. Yeah, because you fucked up my
shoes. I'm gonna show you what hard work is like. Nigga. Yep,
if you nigga twenty cents, yeah, it's twenty six hours. So
how many hours did you work? You had a nigga? After four hours
of yard work on a hot nigga, I'm gonna hold you so what he
could whoop your ass? Tom? Did you fuck up the shoes or did
he fuck up? Now? If you want to be a great uncle and
slide little folks five hours so one can't rehab his shoes by all means.
But if not five cents an hour, twenty five cents an hour, do
you want him to come work in tom already tone death studios? Do you
want to pay this little nigga better than working with you? Because twenty five
cents an hour? Do you know how long you're gonna be working to replace
my shoes? You can make more money in jail. Do you want to
go to jail because what you did? Because because what you did was a
crime, and you will be treated as such with swift justice. Did you
hear that side of fact? Child? That is how you gonna be treated
if you fuck with my tennis shoes? Swift justice, swift justice. What
I'm saying what washing dishes for a quarter? And I think you valid?
I think it's you could definitely do like five dollars thank you? No,
my baby, five sentence, five dollars he fucked up the shoes, Well,
I gotta overpay this nigga. Minimum of wage is eight dollars. I
think we are missing the point of the punish you. I want you to
work as hard as I had the work. I want you to work as
hard as I had to work to go to work to get these shoes.
Then I had to I had to watching our live so I can know that
they was gonna do the early drop. I had to work. It's a
blessed way, tiens for these cheers all these years to hit these tears.
You go, you're gonna learn the day about Stevie. I bet he won't
suck up another pairs want And if you do it, just office, I'm
gonna we're gonna fight. We don't fight the jail hitting. Hit him with
a couple of body shots. All his shoes and he want somebody shots.
Send you up, bail one. You gave him twenty five cents an hour.
He really gonna be on your ass. Snicker got me working and doing.
I mean definitely gonna tell his dad. He's definitely definitely for your daddy
having me. I can like Cindebrella bro y'all podcast dad, And you know
what's so funny part You're gonna be like man Blue kidd and you're gonna say
it to mem it meem me gonna be like, that's what you get.
Stop being cheap, nigga, all them years off, you not tipping Meemi
gonna do a call back on your I've been tipping now. I'm just saying
I ain't tipped back then, not back then, back then? We sick.
You ever feel like you've done a lot in a short time spine like
how long we'll be going through the how quickly we're going through these fives?
Yeah? Like not that, But you know, I remember when you just
have a good conversationship. Be I heard she is gonna be in a recap
to me, like, why are they why are they doing this to the
people? I can see that, Bro, I'm not for the city.
Didn't tell me that there's not some kind of washing up the money going on
behind the scenes. Because one, these clothes be cheap as fuck, okay,
and the material will be cheapest fucking a lot of these cases too.
I don't know, man, I'm sure outfits be looking kind of kind of
righteous. You don't trust it? How you gonna trust it? One they
don't even have our sides ninety Sometimes I don't know, No man, shopping
though, shit, occasionally I might go look for a shirt because jams.
But for the dudes, I know, I know they got some shit on
fashion over that niggas. You know, now fashion man, I'm gonna see
what that guy some draws, some draws. Pretty much, that's all they
care about. That's all they think. They all, that's all women places
think about us. I mean, I'm saying, like, this is this
dude I follow on Instagram, he'd be wearing like the outfits. He'd be
nice. Yeah, like here he's shooting nigga and then like he'll model like
the outfit and a parent. I don't know. You know, everybody think
they're fucking fashion easton ship. Yeah, like, broches, what are you
doing? Bro? Just put the fucking god what are you doing? Who
dressed better than you? Damn? Yeah, he just gonna make me step
my swag up a little bit. But it's still gonna make me be like,
damn, you care too much. I can't say that because like I'll
be putting that shit on too. So it's like, but I'm a bad
bitch. I want I'm a bad match, not barely look great, and
I want him to look great standing beside me. You know, it is
nothing you can't you can't have no kind of self care. You're supposed to
be an ashy as nigga your life. No, I love. I actually
love a man who take care of himself. I love the fact that you
know, I'll see a man with his nails done, clear coat, toads,
the clear coat. Shit like that to me? Does not that don't
entitle me feeling like, oh you you're gay, Like that's that's great to
me, that's great. If you get a manny patty fan, do you
whatever makes you happen. Just I love me a good clear coat. You
want to facial my dog? Whatever makes everybody. Because niggas definitely have skin
issues, especially now the niggas want to brow their beards and shit, they
definitely need to get that. Yeah, because or be up under nigga's bears.
That's why some niggas can't never shave it off. Yeah, should look
like ill, but it is. It is. It is a regiment that
you have to do. And a lot of niggas they just say, what's
your idea, nigga, Like if you could build the nigga? What what
what like build a bear? So to spit na build this nigga, My
nigga would be please be realistic, too realistic, don't be like hebe seven
nine really want nigga that to be honest, I can't even say I want
to build a nigga because that's too perfect, Like that's too perfect. I
don't want broken niggas, but I don't want perfect. I do not want
every fucking day to be like whatever you want, my love, But I
don't want you nig that you want. The ideal nigga is like a nigga
that would literally not do no shit behind my back. Obviously everybody won't the
realistic world, we all just don't want to cheat. We all just want
somebody that's gonna love us enough to not cheat on us. Not that not.
I don't want you to be I don't want you to be fucking perfect.
I just don't want you to cheat on me. Niggas everybody like,
but the luckily niggas. Once you start dating and you're a bad bish,
they always get a little bit hidya some of them, some of them.
I don't. I don't. I don't think big headed in a way.
We're like chill, like I don't know what big headed like. Now you
feel like you can go off and fuck around on me, or you feel
like the sudden the way you used to talk to me, now you're talking
different. It is becoming a little ass holy, or it's like, well
that's how to be, but it's not new to them. Like when you've
been an ugly nigga or be considered ugly and a lot of eyes, or
you try to shoot your shot at some girls and they shot you down and
talked about you, your confidence level is pretty low. So when you get
a chick who builds up your confidence level and she a batty on top of
that, So when you out in public you got all the niggas who want
to fuck yo bitch, you get a little cocky is naturally gonna happen,
but they have to learn how to control how that energy is conveyed. So
they don't want to come off they're not purposely trying to come off with Most
of them are not purposely trying to come off as assholes. They're just trying
to come off a little bit more confident. So when they're talking to you
that not even necessarily get that base out of your voice, because like,
I'm not trying to be your mama, I'm very much so just trying to
be your woman. But you know, still respect me as such. Yes,
you got better clothes, better confidence, or whatever the case may be.
But demin the niggas who didn't getting no pussons. Yes, still treat
me as fucking such, still treat me with respect. No, no,
they didn't. They didn't get no pusson in your life. Then when they
made a pretty bitch to give them something like we're crazy, ye having an
attack? I mean because now you you you back the Kiki Palmer, you
you got the Angela Bassett or I just hate what niggas say. Well,
you're so fine. Why are you saying ale? Why the fuck do you
think? Why the fuck do you think I'm single? Because I got a
brain, because I'm not going for no bullshit, because I'm not allowing you
to cheat. I'm not allowing you to come home at six o'clock in the
fucking morning. Um no, no, huh. Okay, cool, if
you had worked, cool, But if you are street nigga, cool,
But it has to be a reason why you're doing this. If you think
you just out at the club with your niggas coming in, you coming in
at five six, that's too much for me. You was with a bitch.
See you nast five in the morning. My guy was with you,
was with a bitch there. But some bitches y'all nigga had some type of
two man going on. Were not acting crazy here? I do I do
because it'd be two man games. Oh the whole time. It don't even
be my nigga who bringing a bitch around. He just got to be the
friend of the friend and the ugly ass girl that's there, Like, yeah,
I get in trouble trying to be the nigga to get my nigga out
of Like exatimes, we wing man for guy like one could be meeting the
bad bitch and and she got a friend. But I swear to guy for
one to get closer to her cause somebody got an occupied a friend, so
I might have to be there to occupied a friend. And all of a
sudden the friend was like, well I'm bored, and all of a sudden,
zip, hey, yeah, bro, see you gotta take I gotta
take one for the team. From my home books, I ain't gonna lie
to you. I would never put you in that position. I was young
enough, but I would never put you in that position. Man, we're
not talking to the friend of the friend i'd be I'll sit there literally have
conversation with you. I will have conversation with you just because we're we're out
here and nay up in the room. We do not gotta fuck, but
bro up well not. I mean, that's that's that's poem. Let's talk
about again. This is when I was younger. Yeah, so when you
younger, the game game was way different. Back it wasn't the game.
It was like you do right. It was like most girls like they didn't
want to be left out. So if you if you know your friend upstairs
fucking, you're gonna try to get you so, especially if you think if
you think I'm cute to a degree, man, wildest, wildest line I
have ever used. That actually worked. Guy upstairs bagging his ship, come
downstairs, her friend down there, she's looking bored. We have a regular
conversation. You know, I'm a conversational kind of the two. Okay,
so you know you hear head boards moving. I was like, damn,
they have been great times. The old girls said, man, they are,
I'm ready to go home. I just like I got a big dick
though, and oh you do shit happened the wildest line of every yiwu.
It worked, God said, as the wildest line I've ever used, and
it worked. Sound what up? That's I was a young nigga. Everybody
was the point of talking about see you you're you're new to me like that
though, And what you will find out over time is in my early twenties
wild lifestyle. He was or very very wild lifestyle. He was playing Russian
Roulette with his dick, just throwing his dick on a crap tap many and
that many and that. I say I won because I walked out with no
diseases, and for sure I didn't say you lost. You definitely didn't crap
out no no diseases and no kids. Fact, I gotta get it to
you like that as episode. So I came out pretty good. But I
got some stories to prove it. But in these niggas will have no problem
bringing them up. For sure. He was in the Air Force, see
not I said. I ain't even go in detail. It was it was
it was the eyes for me, bro. You like you like a military
man. I don't know, like stability you got you got you got your
uniform in a closet, Not that one tbh. I prefer consistency over stability.
That sounds bad, don't don't talk to me and text message okay,
consistency, consistence, my mama, I'm an everyday fucking anybody. I come
home and love you for who you are, all my dirt. Stay out
that door so minute I walk in that door. You're the only thing I
care about. But if I do that consistently, you'll choose that over stability,
because stability being to me, I think the worst stability is probably going
over my head. But stability to me is like financials. Are you taking
care of me? Are you taking care of home? Are you making sure
that she's saying she got that bro? So any way, I get where
you coming from. You don't need his money because your own. But that's
not even no, not even necessarily the money either, but more so along
the lines of stability, don't outweigh you know what I'm saying. You constantly
loving me, you constantly being there for me, you constantly treated me,
how you treated me to get me, or because I can Yeah, I
think where a lot of people make the mistake at is you need both simultaneously.
You can't choose one over the other. See, because I can love
you for you, and I can always make you feel appreciate. I can
always make you feel happy. But in the back of your mind, you
don't know how rent getting paid next month, and that's going to deter you
how you look at me, or if you gotta work toward extra hours to
make sure money's in the house. Even though you have a go get or
mentality, you're gonna be asking yourself, why am I giving eighty and you're
given twenty? So that's stability or the ability to be able to not have
to worry about where the next meal is coming from, when the bills are
being paid, money in the savings account, no car note that has to
be worre If all the financial side of things is completely taken care of,
or even better on auto pay, that's how good y'all got it. It's
easier for me to focus on you and you focus on me because we're not
putting any extra work in to make sure we have a roof over our head
or food in our mouth. Now we can focus on each other. And
usually when those problems are out the way, I don't have a need to
be out here in the streets because I'm not stressing over this billing because you're
not stressing me. I'm not out at this bar drinking trying to get my
woes away. Who Now this bitch over there say hey, you look good,
you want to have a good time, and I go home with her
and staying for that night because I'm tired? Are you stressing on me?
But to be honest, one thing plays into another, which is why I
said I'll take that over that, because if you're being consistent, that comes
with stability. That comes with know what I'm saying, you being able to
build a foundation or you know, build off solitude. Like I'm a full
firm believer in if I'm coming home, I'm consistently loving you, I'm consistently
doing right. I'm consistently going to work doing what I gotta do, or
I'm consistently putting me in work, in my in whatever it is that I'm
an entrepreneur in or it's that all that is gonna bring stability, All of
that is gonna bring more love, All of that is gonna bring a bond
that It's just really you can have consistency. You have consistency and stability,
but you can also just have stability. No consistency. Now, that's true,
and that's that's where it come into play because I can make sure you're
good straight and literally not have no touch or spark on my mind mentally or
emotionally innatly. It was great from not trying to be funny. But there's
a lot of girls in your age category. That's what they want. They
wanted Nigga to do all of that for them to keep them stable and could
care less about him because they still strung up on the baby daddy that's in
jail. See, I'm more so looking at it in in a mindset up.
And if I meet you and you tell me that your baby daddy in
jail, I'm not talking to you. No, not ask how long he
when you get out, I don't care because whether it's a good time work
or a long TI because if you get let's just have some fun right now,
all we can do it. And once you're saying I have a baby
daddy and he's in jail, all we could do is outer that because why
because what if she just have a baby daddy, she's not waiting for him.
That's not my problem. She worried his baby daddy. She didn't say
more my boyfriends in jail. That's not my problem. You figuring that out.
I've told you where I stand. She checks all Timbo, I've told
you where I stand. That's a problem. I just they're not. Why
is it a problem? Because jail better than him being out. He lurking
in the shadows. How but he's behind ball? But okay, what if
what if this is the nigga who's running up the fucking phone bill? What
if I ask you where your money going? And I find out you putting
money on his books? That's still shit. That's different all right? Then?
So even even if it ain't there you in jail, where's his mama?
Maybe she did? Bro, you're thirty five years old, Bro,
everybody mama ain't a lot where your family is. Bro? He talks to
him too. Okay, but you put money on the books? You see?
How you see how y'all adding these variables to a situation. In the
beginning, I said no too, because we're looking at the no. Your
no is absolute, absolutely out having context? And do you know that there
are twenty four hours in a day? Right? Let me ask you this
question. I'm twenty four one, one thousand, four hundred and forty minutes.
Do you know how much shit people just say no too without contact within
twenty four hours in a day. Let me but here's the reason why a
lot of us when you say no the stuff, and we hit you with
what you refer to as variable because we want you to look at the coin.
If you were in that same position, you got into a situation that
you're now in jail for two years and your girlfriend with your child is on
the outside, even though you're not gonna be home in two years, you
want her to still continue to at least be that point of contact for you
while you're behind bars. Right, You got a mama, you got a
sister, you got brothers, and even though they still communicate with you,
she got your kid. Though, don't you still want to have communication with
your kid? Though I get what you're saying, that's the only the baby
mama and the baby daddy, whatever they got going on, that's them.
I'm telling you that I do not want any part of that because I am
not mature enough to deal with it. So when I say no. But
when I say but, when I say no, I'm not doing things,
it's because I understand that my level of maturity on certain topics ain't where it
should be. To deal with that too. Oh, I'm just saying,
like, do you watch the internet a little bit, right, Adam?
You know Adam twenty two is no Adam twenty two is a famous podcaster and
on the side of doing podcasting, his wife is an only fan star,
so they fuck on only fans and get profit. Now they have only did
scenes with other women, or it's just them, or she let him fuck
other girls. Now recently he stepped outside of his comfort zone and was like,
I'm going to let my wife do it, saying with another guy.
Now, granted you let her fuck ad Dick probably war bigger than yours,
Pauls. But hey, whatever flow show boat is cool. I am not
here to judge whatever it is that they got going on in their relationship.
I am here to tell you that Dwan thinking's the pie guy, young freshman
whatever motherfucker's know me by I am not mature enough to be like, hey,
back, let's let's let's fuck. Nah, I'm not mature enough to
do. But that's on any level since we hear because we were supposed to
talk about this story anyway him and then we're gonna close it out. He's
a bit chass nigga. Damn. Here's the reason why I say that.
When it was your wife, girlfriend or whatever she is, and you were
bringing in other women and she stepped back, was like, okay, you
can fuck these women. Your feelings is good, you cool, you Okay,
your dick is dicking down multiple different women and you are phenomena. But
now the shoe is on the other foot and it's your woman who's the actual
star of this story here Now, okay, I want you to know that
niggas didn't subscribe to the only fans for him. They subscribe for her.
She now go out and get a dick, and it's like, oh my
god, I can't believe that these too much to handle. How do you
know that she didn't hold the same way and the problem but that was it
wasn't the fact that you felt that way. That's not the reason why you
a bitch ass nigga. You're a bitch ass niggas. You ran to the
internet about it. You wanted sympathy from other niggas, but you put her
in this position and you allow yourself. No, no, no, no,
no, no, this is reality here he wasn't not okay with he
was all for it, like he was cool with it. I had the
issue with the fact of, like, if I know that my dick is
a solid six inches and you are cool with this six inch pipe that I'm
slinging right what I'm saying, and but then you were like, well let's
do it, let me try another guy, and I'm like, okay,
cool, And then you go get the nigga who got me by like a
solid seven inches. That's wild. A is fuck bro, Like, if
you're gonna go, if you're gonna go get a dick, go get a
dick that look like mine. Don't go get a nigga who just dropping baby
arms on the first golfee table as wild as ship. Since we're here now,
no no, since we're here and I was getting get there, since
we're here now and we're securing our sexuality, I'm not mature. If you're
gonna go from a white dude to a black dude, let's just go ahead
and go full blown stereo tyre. So let's just get what I'm gonna get,
a black dude, Get a big dick, black dude, because this
is what they've known for We gonna do it. Let's just do it right.
She wouldn't got home arm out this bitch and she took it like a
chimp. That's crazy. The whole video, the video leaked. So yeah,
he let her give them the sloppy debby like you got like fucking this
one thing. Listen, you can't second intimate. You can't see now now
we take it into yeah, but you are the only business is business.
But you can't suck dick. But that's business. That's not businesses. Look
one second, dick ain't business. Why you can't dat chick who was either
a porn star or only fans because from what I heard though, the two
different things. Second, dick ain't business. It's business one. No,
not you don't know how it was business because it's the first thing that happens
in every scene. That's that's the that's getting to the business. Business.
But it ain't business. One at the end of the day, did you
you would you let your man fu somebody else? No, let alone eat
the person. I can't even I can't even as much as my curiosity be
like ooh, threesomes, I can't even do it because I'm just crazy,
Like I see you just drilling and just fucking too good. And then it's
like, fop, you can back of your head. You don't even know
why you can't punch people? Yes I can't. You can't fight. Why
everybody's naked? Yes I can't. You're just gonna have vagina and just start
slapping. That's slanging, teddy slangings. I played the fifth This is a
safe space, so we are not because she brung up threesomes and it's like
a lot of times women will agree to do a threesome for their man,
but don't be into women. They're just doing it for it cam. So
the question of are you into girls was like to even be cure is about
doing a threesome? Do you want a man man woman or that's that's a
that's a tricky situation. I definitely times said no, King Shaman because I
just it's fried. Just fight that that's frowned the bond to man yes,
and a woman yes if that's what she will Yes, who frowns. Just
literally situation you literally gave, just gave because I can't take that serious.
Bro, I don't frown upon if you want to to nigga. At the
same time, get your shut off. You see what I can't handle that.
I feel like women to be okay with bringing another woman into the equation,
and they think that the loophole is if I let her pick the woman,
that's good. That's good. Nigga's not mature. I can't. And
again, I'm not mature enough to where my girl can sit down and be
like, everybody, let's go get another nigga? Absolutely not. But because
I know I'm not mature enough for that, I'm not. I'm not putting
threesomes on the table just in case you trying to hit me with some shit
like that, because when I got asked, I actually got asked, like,
you know, would you have a threesome? And you know the correlation
wrong? And I'm like, oh, okay, so I could fuck to
do too. We could like we could all have one. He's like,
bro, I'm not do you really want to suck out and have another nigga
with him out? But that's okay? Do you really want to due?
No, then why would you say that? I just feel like I wanted
him to know the like the correlation of you don't ask that's extreme. Don't
ask me to go ask. Don't ask me what I fuck a bit.
If we can't fuck nigga, what have you to be? Like, yeah,
let's do it. That would have been kind of because but I don't
know either or so I'm supposed to like take two dicks at one time.
I don't know. The whole thing is weird. It's weird. That's it.
That's a category on my favorite someone. No, not even saying it
like that, I'm just saying, like, so, okay, what he
fucking and then like when I'm done with him, I gotta don't even have
to be that right. And he could be and he could could be hitting
in front the back. You could be sucking dick. We could be or
it can be a party world one pink and depends on how you get there.
Now, that's a little too close. I'm not saying. I'm just
saying, it's a lot of shit. That's too close. That's too close.
Now, if I'm on the top of you down low down low on
top, were good? We Montana and Florida, that's cool, But we
cannot be like Texas and Alabama, Alabama, Louisiana, Alabama. Nothing more
like Oklahoma and Texas. That's still that's still crazed to be more like South
Carolina. That's that some people. I don't want your thigh on my thought.
But it's different when you are a woman and you are actually interested in
women, and you are actually someone who has had a relationship with a woman,
then yes, the pleasure is yours. You are getting that pleasure of
the woman more so with a woman. What No, well, yes,
but it was like a long time ago, like what like like what kind
of like pause, like get into it and like you aren't like the down
stroke and you like work up a sweat. It's like you hit a stroke
and now your sweat flinging. I gotta stop. I got it too,
if you if you North and South Carolina, right, So if you Carolina,
technically she's in between y'all like an oreo cookie. So you really should
physically, if you position yourself right, y'all honestly never touch each other.
If you position yourself right, that's a lot of fucking works. It also
depends on how much balls you got, because your balls, yeah, they've
seen some big boss. But at the same time, you got to be
secure in your manhood that sometimes doing certain things. No, I don't real
talk. Sometimes that that's not big boss like you here for you wore that.
I just want you to know that you you have so many complications.
Well, ladies and gentlemen, I like to thank everybody for coming out and
hanging out with their fresh and diamond and something. I was just hanging out
with us too, apparently, but you know it's what I'm saying. It's
all to the good, the good. I appreciate everybody for rocking with the
homeboy. See y'all later, man, Until next time.