WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.080 --> 00:00:59.960 M R al Ain't no, it's powers love him. Everybody should love one 2 00:01:00.479 --> 00:01:07.319 would to another episode of the Death Fresh Show. I am your motherfucking house 3 00:01:07.640 --> 00:01:15.560 the Pine Guy. Wow, oh really really closes that? Tell me you 4 00:01:15.640 --> 00:01:22.280 really telling people your good duncast Bertie Man. You never if you listen, 5 00:01:22.760 --> 00:01:26.959 you never know what I might say. Speaking of that, I was traveling 6 00:01:26.959 --> 00:01:33.760 down an old school podcast rabbit hole and I was listening to old episodes of 7 00:01:33.840 --> 00:01:38.640 Hotially Awkward, Oh my God, and I realized we literally threw away our 8 00:01:38.640 --> 00:01:42.239 whole still that we used to do in the beginning. Damn when did we 9 00:01:42.319 --> 00:01:45.359 used to do? I don't remember how it started. It was like the 10 00:01:45.400 --> 00:01:49.159 habitualized stepper, the voice of the voice list. It was like that, 11 00:01:49.400 --> 00:01:53.159 why did we stop saying that? You want to know where that ship came 12 00:01:53.239 --> 00:01:57.519 from? It's because everything, I feel like, everything we do, like 13 00:01:59.000 --> 00:02:04.200 it always has a call back to something we do. We started doing that 14 00:02:04.319 --> 00:02:07.959 year because it was because it came from wrestling. And remember what Paul had 15 00:02:07.000 --> 00:02:10.840 had that whole spell where you would introducing him pump. It was like the 16 00:02:10.919 --> 00:02:14.560 voice of the voiceless. And then we was in the way made me be 17 00:02:14.680 --> 00:02:17.439 on like Facebook or Twitter, you know all these housing a frenzy agreeing with 18 00:02:17.560 --> 00:02:23.639 her, that's where it came from. We need to bring back we had 19 00:02:23.680 --> 00:02:29.719 about tonight's conversation. Is that what's called? Yeah, that's it made it 20 00:02:29.800 --> 00:02:31.199 made sense. So it's like, no, we need to go back to 21 00:02:31.240 --> 00:02:35.240 that. If I have the backyard of dans to do it, that's crazy 22 00:02:35.319 --> 00:02:42.479 they could do. So we are here with a guest to that. Would 23 00:02:42.520 --> 00:02:45.479 you like to introduce yourself to my people? Hello? Hello, Hello, 24 00:02:46.159 --> 00:02:54.520 I am Diamond better known as Dido. Sound like she said, if you 25 00:02:54.560 --> 00:03:00.000 need to keep the ball to get started, she gonna put you you got 26 00:03:00.120 --> 00:03:07.280 to go to the back door. Second one, three times she got and 27 00:03:07.360 --> 00:03:09.759 she got the knockdown. What do you do in your free time, young 28 00:03:09.879 --> 00:03:19.199 lady? Yeah, the knockdown? Already know what's going movies? Though? 29 00:03:20.159 --> 00:03:31.240 What in what you go ahead? Because bro okay, I was talking to 30 00:03:31.719 --> 00:03:38.080 Bianca from Purpose over Pain podcast before they got started, and I was like 31 00:03:38.199 --> 00:03:45.680 to be is the is the new variation of black exploitation movies from back in 32 00:03:45.680 --> 00:03:49.280 the days. So if you ever had the opportunity to go back and watch 33 00:03:49.360 --> 00:03:57.080 all these terrible ass black movies, they were all literally people in their neighborhoods 34 00:03:57.120 --> 00:04:00.840 in their cities just making movies about it. Like, Bro, there's an 35 00:04:00.840 --> 00:04:08.280 old black exploitation movie where a barrel of cotton I talk in raw unprocessed cotton 36 00:04:08.639 --> 00:04:14.360 fell off the back of the truck. And because this, this big ass 37 00:04:15.120 --> 00:04:18.959 failed of cotton is so fucking important, because that's that's like literally uncut money. 38 00:04:19.000 --> 00:04:23.680 At that point, you could sell that for millions. The whole hood 39 00:04:23.839 --> 00:04:30.120 was going crazy over trying to find this fucking cotton. Literally, the whole 40 00:04:30.160 --> 00:04:36.000 movie just nigga's going crazy over it. No, it's an old ass black 41 00:04:36.040 --> 00:04:41.639 exploitation movie. But now fast forward to Tub. Tub is something, but 42 00:04:42.000 --> 00:04:45.639 a bunch of people in Detroit got together, let's make hood movies. I'm 43 00:04:45.759 --> 00:04:53.240 not feel to let you call Tub the new It is black exploitation. Shut 44 00:04:53.319 --> 00:05:00.000 up, dog? Have you okay five already out? Have you ever watched 45 00:05:00.040 --> 00:05:03.759 the two by movie an actual to be original. I'm not sat through an 46 00:05:03.879 --> 00:05:10.360 entire to But that's part of the problem right there. You gotta you gotta 47 00:05:10.399 --> 00:05:13.319 go down, you gotta go down this rappi hole. My gosh. Yeah, 48 00:05:13.319 --> 00:05:16.879 I don't know if I to B movie is gonna have the basic five 49 00:05:17.040 --> 00:05:21.800 points in their plot one, somebody's a drug dealer. Okay, there's some 50 00:05:23.000 --> 00:05:27.800 sense of drugs or drugs selling or drug pairing phinally or drug usage in a 51 00:05:27.879 --> 00:05:30.240 two B movie. It's just damn here a requirement like you can't get away 52 00:05:30.240 --> 00:05:34.120 from, can't get away from like literally stapling the hood. Okay. Number 53 00:05:34.120 --> 00:05:40.959 two, somebody got enormous ass. There's always asking these movies. Okay, 54 00:05:41.079 --> 00:05:44.920 asked the ass and whether it's real, whether it's a BBL, whether it's 55 00:05:44.920 --> 00:05:48.000 a nice shaped a BBL. You did it right? There's asking this movie, 56 00:05:48.040 --> 00:05:53.839 okay. Number three. Most plot points have betrayal of it. Girlfriends 57 00:05:53.839 --> 00:05:57.480 on, boyfriends, best friends, guys, drug dealers on. There's some 58 00:05:57.560 --> 00:06:02.920 form of betrayal in every single movie. Okay. There's always a plot in 59 00:06:02.959 --> 00:06:08.120 these movies that results in a lesson that has to be learned at the end 60 00:06:08.120 --> 00:06:12.079 of the movie. Because if I didn't learn nothing from this movie, it's 61 00:06:12.120 --> 00:06:17.560 not good guy. And then finally it's niggas from your neighborhood. You are 62 00:06:17.639 --> 00:06:25.279 not going to You are not going to find Laurence Fishburns and movies. Now 63 00:06:25.519 --> 00:06:30.040 you're not you know, you keep saying Marcus Houston, is he broke? 64 00:06:30.680 --> 00:06:35.279 I don't seeing when you start like when you got a little bit of money 65 00:06:35.360 --> 00:06:39.240 and then you start doing to be movies. I'm questioning that. I don't 66 00:06:39.240 --> 00:06:44.839 always think that the case because old boy who played a Jamal Wood. Yeah, 67 00:06:46.199 --> 00:06:50.720 yeah, but I feel like he does the own purpose that worked though. 68 00:06:54.920 --> 00:07:00.839 Yeah, he wants swift motion here he has found his niche how do 69 00:07:00.920 --> 00:07:08.800 we know Marcus Houghton sing? Bro? Somebody helped me? Who is coming 70 00:07:08.920 --> 00:07:15.959 to a Marcus Houston? Save the last old bitches who love immature? Hear 71 00:07:16.000 --> 00:07:21.120 me out now? Tavin Campbell doing a concert down the street? Didn't you 72 00:07:21.199 --> 00:07:25.879 hear? Marcus Houston is at the riverside? Where do you think bitches are 73 00:07:25.920 --> 00:07:30.600 going? Tevin? And Marcus's gonna go to Tavin? I don't know why, 74 00:07:30.680 --> 00:07:39.399 but they gonna go to what you just said? Campbell? Really he 75 00:07:39.519 --> 00:07:45.759 got at least six albums? Six albums? Six albums? And how many 76 00:07:45.839 --> 00:07:49.480 songs do niggas play from this nigga? All you gotta play is five? 77 00:07:50.040 --> 00:07:55.000 But they only play too They play five, they play can't we talk? 78 00:07:55.079 --> 00:08:01.000 And I'm ready? I never hear it? What's the point exactly? And 79 00:08:01.120 --> 00:08:07.480 you you be outside? You be outside though you be outside the bar if 80 00:08:07.519 --> 00:08:13.519 you be outside, if you be outside, work at an older bar, 81 00:08:13.639 --> 00:08:16.079 but you didn't been to an R and B night a few times in your 82 00:08:16.079 --> 00:08:20.040 life. Right in the nineties mix, when you get the Tevin Campbell, 83 00:08:22.920 --> 00:08:26.879 when you hit Tevin Campbell in the nineties mix, you gonna get Can We 84 00:08:26.079 --> 00:08:33.559 Talks? Not that you shous Nigga's always in my heart? Tell me what 85 00:08:33.639 --> 00:08:37.639 you want me to do? Around and round good bye. He got enough 86 00:08:37.679 --> 00:08:43.480 song that the old bitchiness is gonna throw the broads on stage again. Two 87 00:08:43.720 --> 00:08:50.320 songs, Can we Talk? Can We're Talking? They're not playing ship else 88 00:08:50.320 --> 00:08:54.279 from this bums Nigga, but it's not now Marcus Houston. I ain't gonna 89 00:08:54.320 --> 00:08:56.360 lie. I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go to that river Zaium though, 90 00:08:56.360 --> 00:09:01.639 because he got some little super gyms but super. But look at the age 91 00:09:01.799 --> 00:09:07.960 difference of what we just said. Tevin Campbell initially came out like what nineties 92 00:09:07.039 --> 00:09:11.759 two thousands because his greatest hits dropped in two thousand and one. Okay, 93 00:09:11.799 --> 00:09:16.799 So that means that most of the people who go onto Tevin only remember Marcus 94 00:09:16.840 --> 00:09:24.039 Houston as little kid in the House party three and and um Roger. That's 95 00:09:24.080 --> 00:09:26.240 it. They want. They may not even remember the nigga made a song 96 00:09:26.279 --> 00:09:33.679 about don't nobody listening, No, no, nobody that I guarantee you girlfield 97 00:09:33.759 --> 00:09:41.519 days right now to play. The lead played I'm ready and can we talk? 98 00:09:41.559 --> 00:09:52.600 Then you got it? You tell you why I know they played. 99 00:09:54.000 --> 00:09:56.960 They played it during the same time they probably got done playing a couple of 100 00:09:56.000 --> 00:10:03.080 Prints songs because Tevin Campbell basically got introduced and the Prince movie, Get this 101 00:10:03.240 --> 00:10:09.879 nigga out of here. You you just mad because you like Don Jones. 102 00:10:11.440 --> 00:10:16.639 So what cloud? No, we're not saying you're bad. We just he's 103 00:10:16.639 --> 00:10:20.840 a bad dude. You're a horrible person. He's a great guy. You're 104 00:10:20.879 --> 00:10:24.720 a horrible person. Great guy, I look great song. That's a horrible 105 00:10:24.759 --> 00:10:26.360 song. Hey, they say when you love someone, you just don't treat 106 00:10:26.399 --> 00:10:31.080 them back. Oh how it feels us that now that I want to leave, 107 00:10:31.840 --> 00:10:33.279 she's crying her heart to me and how could you let this be? 108 00:10:33.440 --> 00:10:37.600 But I just need time to see so I want to be bars. So 109 00:10:37.960 --> 00:10:43.399 how is this not bar great woman? He has a woman that loved them, 110 00:10:43.399 --> 00:10:46.200 wants to give them the world, and it's willing to put up with 111 00:10:46.240 --> 00:10:48.799 his boyshit. But you say, baby, I can't be with you because 112 00:10:48.799 --> 00:10:52.639 I can't stop putting my dick and other bitches right because we've been together since 113 00:10:52.639 --> 00:10:56.960 our teenage years. That's not the reality right now. That is why it 114 00:10:56.039 --> 00:11:01.080 is a horrible song. But I that's what make it worse. But I'm 115 00:11:01.120 --> 00:11:07.519 saying, bro, we've been together, that's on what day and the people 116 00:11:07.720 --> 00:11:16.519 went their daddy right together since their teenage years. He really just needed to 117 00:11:16.559 --> 00:11:18.960 see what was in the world. That's true, though. I could see 118 00:11:18.000 --> 00:11:24.919 that part too, because it's right now what now see now, here's here's 119 00:11:24.960 --> 00:11:31.440 the caveat to Dinelle Jumps. It wasn't. It wasn't what he said is 120 00:11:31.600 --> 00:11:35.600 what he did. How do you tell your old bitch like, hey, 121 00:11:35.639 --> 00:11:39.399 I want to fuck up the bitches and I want you to be okay with 122 00:11:39.519 --> 00:11:45.279 it. And then when you see your bitch another nigga, you are not 123 00:11:45.360 --> 00:11:48.519 okay with that. You are like the window and the leather fucking coat in 124 00:11:48.519 --> 00:11:54.159 the middle of the summer crying and ship Jones. All right, they thought 125 00:11:54.200 --> 00:12:01.200 about it, and in time your heart will heal you like you'll be okay. 126 00:12:01.440 --> 00:12:03.720 Well, but he wasn't okay, But at least at the end of 127 00:12:03.720 --> 00:12:07.720 the day. I want both of y'all to have this same energy. But 128 00:12:07.799 --> 00:12:11.039 I came back in the twenty nine because when we do the lyrical battle, 129 00:12:11.399 --> 00:12:15.639 I expect you, niggas I'm coming with to not to know lyrics. I'm 130 00:12:15.639 --> 00:12:20.559 coming with that. I know songs, niggas y'all say here played the game 131 00:12:20.600 --> 00:12:24.080 with me while I was high, and I knew every fucking thing. I'm 132 00:12:24.120 --> 00:12:26.679 just saying. I'm just letting people know who are listening to see my friends 133 00:12:26.759 --> 00:12:31.679 think that because I do drugs, that I'm fucking stupid. I don't understand 134 00:12:31.759 --> 00:12:35.879 that why they think that. No, will I say I'm a little tape 135 00:12:35.919 --> 00:12:41.159 delayed. I won't lie on that, like is it like three seconds later? 136 00:12:41.600 --> 00:12:48.120 Cool? But I'm not done. We didn't say like the spad in 137 00:12:48.159 --> 00:12:50.639 the back of the classroom. I don't get it. It's really wild. 138 00:12:50.720 --> 00:12:58.039 It's because sometimes one if we're not having a direct conversation with you, you 139 00:12:58.080 --> 00:13:07.200 will say whatever the fucker and had the problem before we hit while we are 140 00:13:07.360 --> 00:13:11.720 here, well, I know, I know, I'm very much on here. 141 00:13:11.799 --> 00:13:16.919 What guess I was telling my uncle that we had like we me and 142 00:13:16.960 --> 00:13:20.960 you had a sneaker beef and you didn't even know it. So this is 143 00:13:22.000 --> 00:13:24.960 what I told my uncle because like he like, when he know about the 144 00:13:26.000 --> 00:13:28.480 pie, if I don't got no slides on him, be like, you 145 00:13:28.480 --> 00:13:31.759 know what, you know what shoes you're going. So I've been feeling like 146 00:13:33.360 --> 00:13:37.240 it's like gonna put some Airmax on the day. So I sent him a 147 00:13:37.279 --> 00:13:39.240 picture. He was like, I thought you were the word leads. I 148 00:13:39.320 --> 00:13:43.399 was like, it's like, nah, man, I think I think. 149 00:13:43.480 --> 00:13:46.799 I think Tone think I was some type of bit your ass nigger. He 150 00:13:46.120 --> 00:13:54.159 was like it you know. So I'm explaining to him why I feel this 151 00:13:54.279 --> 00:13:56.679 one. I was like, see tone when I do put my shoes on, 152 00:13:56.840 --> 00:14:01.679 tone, they see me wear some Jorgan's, I feel like because tone 153 00:14:01.720 --> 00:14:05.480 from that arrow with air Max was cracking. Tone think I ain't got no 154 00:14:05.600 --> 00:14:09.919 heat in my closet with some airbads. So I sent the picture. I 155 00:14:09.919 --> 00:14:11.960 was like, I'm gonna wearing some ninety fives all weekend because Tone, I 156 00:14:13.039 --> 00:14:15.559 think I ain't got no motherfucker airbads. You think I was the type of 157 00:14:15.600 --> 00:14:24.960 bitch eyes nigg until you step into the world of the veps. Don't talk 158 00:14:26.000 --> 00:14:31.440 to me, says I'm not. I hate that big as air bubble until 159 00:14:31.480 --> 00:14:35.039 you wear that big as air bubble, I bet it's comfortable with motherfucker looks 160 00:14:35.399 --> 00:14:39.120 stupid. I have heel spurs. I don't put on my sketchers. You 161 00:14:39.240 --> 00:14:46.600 put on my vest I can't walking on clouds ab it. Do squeak a 162 00:14:46.600 --> 00:14:50.960 little from time to time, but I can't do I'm put on air bubble 163 00:14:52.000 --> 00:14:54.080 shoes. We kind of pop one in the middle somehow. You know you're 164 00:14:54.240 --> 00:14:58.559 you're a young person. Do you follow what goes on on social media? 165 00:15:00.120 --> 00:15:03.279 I do, But to be honest, I try to stay like super disengaged. 166 00:15:03.360 --> 00:15:07.200 I'm sick of every time I got on social media, it's always some 167 00:15:07.320 --> 00:15:15.159 sad shits. Always either some sad or some overly opinionated ass argument. Joy 168 00:15:18.120 --> 00:15:22.080 I've never seen so many people care about other people's business and my mother. 169 00:15:26.039 --> 00:15:31.600 I think a lot of times some of those businesses be triggering, oh, 170 00:15:31.639 --> 00:15:35.240 because they go through it in real life. They go through and they don't 171 00:15:35.279 --> 00:15:39.120 get the same result that they got. Like let's say Kiki and Darius for 172 00:15:39.159 --> 00:15:43.759 a moment, right, Let's let's just go straight to that. Okay, 173 00:15:43.840 --> 00:15:46.320 it's the biggest thing that happened since the last time we bought it right. 174 00:15:46.679 --> 00:15:48.679 So for those you guys who don't know, first of all, where the 175 00:15:48.759 --> 00:15:54.639 hell you ben shit? Because we laid the topic. Unkei Palmer went to 176 00:15:54.720 --> 00:16:02.759 an Usher concert and Usher did what he always does, is he'll take somebody 177 00:16:02.759 --> 00:16:06.720 out the crowd, He'll serenade them here and there, and you know, 178 00:16:07.039 --> 00:16:11.159 they have their moment with Usher. Kekey Palmer happened to be the one that 179 00:16:11.200 --> 00:16:12.720 got chose. Because let's be honest, if you got a room full of 180 00:16:12.759 --> 00:16:17.919 women and you got a famous one in front of you're gonna grab you donna 181 00:16:17.919 --> 00:16:21.639 grab a famous one, It's gonna go viral. Okay. So apparently Keikey's 182 00:16:21.679 --> 00:16:23.879 baby daddy was there with them. Darius, I don't even know this nigga 183 00:16:25.039 --> 00:16:30.320 last name, that's he just Kicky baby daddy right now. And there was 184 00:16:30.360 --> 00:16:34.799 this whole uproar about the fact that he felt a certain way about the moment. 185 00:16:36.480 --> 00:16:40.759 Now, the Internet when they first dropped was confused because some people thought 186 00:16:40.759 --> 00:16:44.200 he was upset about the outfit she had on, because once again people were 187 00:16:44.200 --> 00:16:48.600 projecting themselves in that situation. It come to find out it wasn't about the 188 00:16:48.720 --> 00:16:52.879 outfit. It was the fact that she was looking lovely into this nigga's eyes, 189 00:16:53.519 --> 00:16:59.879 and she was hypnotized in the moment. So now it's like, oh 190 00:17:00.039 --> 00:17:03.799 my god, why are you stressing the funk out over this situation? My 191 00:17:03.879 --> 00:17:08.000 dog? You got so many different opinions. You got some dudes like my 192 00:17:08.079 --> 00:17:11.240 girl would never I would have, you know, had to whoop Usher ash 193 00:17:11.279 --> 00:17:15.599 in that moment. First of all, you wouldn't have, um you see 194 00:17:15.599 --> 00:17:19.759 what happened with Tom. You wouldn't have got pasted the security number two. 195 00:17:18.000 --> 00:17:26.079 Oh look at I always have. That's that's my That's that's my story of 196 00:17:26.160 --> 00:17:30.799 why Usher is a villain. He's always that. You had Some people was 197 00:17:30.880 --> 00:17:36.319 like, but why are you mad? Your kikiS baby daddy? You want 198 00:17:36.640 --> 00:17:37.960 you know what I'm saying, Like you you got a baby with her already, 199 00:17:37.960 --> 00:17:41.839 you live a good and then you just got some folks who would just 200 00:17:41.240 --> 00:17:45.680 being facetious to begin with it. So let's start with your doamond, what 201 00:17:45.799 --> 00:17:49.559 was your interpretation of the situation. I feel like, to be honest, 202 00:17:51.799 --> 00:17:56.839 it was the it was the hug, it was the dance, it was 203 00:17:56.880 --> 00:18:03.240 the like. But me being in her position, I guess it's just like 204 00:18:03.720 --> 00:18:08.519 it's ussher. That's one of the people that as in our generation, a 205 00:18:08.640 --> 00:18:12.200 young girl, it was like, oh, Usher, you know what I'm 206 00:18:12.240 --> 00:18:17.079 saying. So I feel like in that moment she really was just having fun. 207 00:18:17.160 --> 00:18:21.799 She didn't mean no disrespect by it, but obviously wearing what she had 208 00:18:21.880 --> 00:18:27.200 on and having this new mommy sex wait wait, having this new sexy ass 209 00:18:27.279 --> 00:18:33.160 body and a man at home, you know, it was very disrespectful. 210 00:18:33.359 --> 00:18:37.440 Now in the case where people are looking at it like it's Usher, for 211 00:18:37.680 --> 00:18:42.440 Usher is the real villain. Usher is an entertainer. That's that's his show. 212 00:18:44.079 --> 00:18:47.039 So he's gonna give people a show, you know what I'm saying. 213 00:18:47.039 --> 00:18:49.480 He gonna give them something to remember, so to say, especially if you 214 00:18:49.599 --> 00:18:55.359 have another famous person who Keikith Palmer gotta name herself. Can I ask you 215 00:18:55.359 --> 00:19:03.119 a question if if you got a boyfriend and this is you, do you 216 00:19:06.559 --> 00:19:10.200 like, do you know what? Too much is? Right? Okay? 217 00:19:10.200 --> 00:19:12.200 So as us should being this entertainer, right, he's only doing what he 218 00:19:12.319 --> 00:19:15.960 is allowed. So me being me, I probably wouldn't have did the hug. 219 00:19:17.000 --> 00:19:18.279 I probably would have did a little two step with him, you know, 220 00:19:18.920 --> 00:19:22.319 kept it cute, kept it simple, because I know my nigga watching, 221 00:19:22.920 --> 00:19:26.640 but I don't know, you know when you're in a relationship and you 222 00:19:26.680 --> 00:19:30.759 know when you're not. He don't know that. So him just coming out 223 00:19:30.799 --> 00:19:33.920 as a regularized nigga doing what a nigga would do, or an entertainer. 224 00:19:34.000 --> 00:19:37.240 You know what I'm saying. It's up to me to be like hey, 225 00:19:37.839 --> 00:19:41.880 and like I said, back up, do a little two step you you 226 00:19:41.000 --> 00:19:42.920 know how that shit got? Okay, let me ask you this question. 227 00:19:42.920 --> 00:19:48.720 Have you ever watched the Janet Jackson concert? Yes? Okay, so you 228 00:19:48.759 --> 00:19:56.160 know that at some Janet Jackson concerts there's a moment where a gentleman gets brought 229 00:19:56.240 --> 00:20:03.000 up on stage and it can be pretty intense. You you went to Jane 230 00:20:03.119 --> 00:20:08.559 Jackson concert with back and bakers pulled up on stage. How are you feeling 231 00:20:08.559 --> 00:20:14.039 about this situation? And that's literally what I had a discussion about, like 232 00:20:14.359 --> 00:20:18.720 with my guy at the time. Um pretty much him saying, you know, 233 00:20:18.759 --> 00:20:33.519 how would you feel if it was me? And we ago? So 234 00:20:33.759 --> 00:20:36.920 he asked me like, you know, how would you feel if if it 235 00:20:37.039 --> 00:20:38.559 was me? If I got pulled up there? And I would be pissed 236 00:20:38.680 --> 00:20:42.200 because it's like, first of all, it's a badass bitch. Second of 237 00:20:42.200 --> 00:20:48.599 all, how do you be mad that Janet Jackson pulled Joe Nigga up there. 238 00:20:48.680 --> 00:20:51.359 You know what I'm saying, Do you let that person have fun because 239 00:20:51.359 --> 00:20:56.759 you know it's not gonna go nowhere. It's a more experience again, yeah, 240 00:20:56.920 --> 00:21:00.599 or do you genuinely let it play out. I mean, me, 241 00:21:00.759 --> 00:21:04.440 as a woman, I am not insecure, So being in that moment, 242 00:21:04.799 --> 00:21:08.160 I'm gonna be like, get that ship back. But I'm gonna expect you 243 00:21:08.160 --> 00:21:11.319 to know your livings. We're not up there touching pus sy, We're not 244 00:21:11.480 --> 00:21:15.240 up there. Okay, That's what I'm saying. None times I said she 245 00:21:15.279 --> 00:21:19.279 gonna make your hands be right here, so I'm watching you get a stripped 246 00:21:19.279 --> 00:21:26.680 tease without her stripping. Basically, I feel like I feel difference somewhere and 247 00:21:27.400 --> 00:21:33.960 when I find it, yeah, because let's not dotand between the two. 248 00:21:33.079 --> 00:21:37.160 Is the reason why I use Janet more so than let's take a chance of 249 00:21:37.240 --> 00:21:44.000 wrapper a situation is because the behavior that these niggas was going in it is 250 00:21:44.079 --> 00:21:48.039 as if Usher literally was rubbing his dick all on her way niggas. Okay, 251 00:21:49.359 --> 00:21:53.920 here's my opinion. Like where Janet and this is different, It's like, 252 00:21:55.000 --> 00:21:59.119 okay, so you know when you get on stage with Janet, she 253 00:21:59.200 --> 00:22:03.599 gonna lay you on the board, she gonna restrain your hands and feet, 254 00:22:03.039 --> 00:22:07.839 and she got you at her mercy. Like you know, you can't do 255 00:22:07.920 --> 00:22:11.599 nothing even if you wanted to. You can't. You and this fucking you 256 00:22:11.680 --> 00:22:17.279 to let them tie you to fuck up. All I'm saying is you got 257 00:22:17.319 --> 00:22:22.920 tired up versus usher with a microphone looking at you, and then you got 258 00:22:22.920 --> 00:22:27.279 your arms around me. I think that's a little different versus Yeah, I 259 00:22:27.279 --> 00:22:32.640 think it's different. If I'm standing there with the mic doing singing my shit 260 00:22:32.720 --> 00:22:36.640 and you put your arms around me. You are now touching me. I 261 00:22:36.680 --> 00:22:40.759 ain't didn't nothing but my job. But like I said, if it didn't, 262 00:22:40.799 --> 00:22:45.400 like again, I'm I'm singing with a microphone and your hands are all 263 00:22:45.440 --> 00:22:48.319 over me. Fam, I'm here doing my job. You are crossing lines 264 00:22:48.720 --> 00:22:53.039 because you're texting. Was harmless though, why you keep if it's harmless keeping 265 00:22:53.039 --> 00:22:57.359 hands or something? It was very harmless, Like I want to see how 266 00:22:57.400 --> 00:23:00.319 I want to see how I want to see how harmless is gonna be? 267 00:23:00.759 --> 00:23:04.039 Only no, I think it only became something that he got like fucked up 268 00:23:04.039 --> 00:23:08.559 by because she looked a good asked out titties out. Yeah, now she 269 00:23:08.640 --> 00:23:12.960 had on some big ass grainy dress. He wouldn't care. Fact, you 270 00:23:12.960 --> 00:23:18.920 wouldn't give a because it's like another he liked. Oh no, my baby 271 00:23:18.920 --> 00:23:22.279 didn't got some She didn't got them titties. She didn't. Why are we 272 00:23:22.400 --> 00:23:27.440 even why are we even here at this point? Because I feel like, 273 00:23:27.759 --> 00:23:34.400 shar we gonna have a conversation about all of this before you leave this house. 274 00:23:34.519 --> 00:23:41.160 But then did he the outfit wasn't the issue because he approved the outfit. 275 00:23:41.279 --> 00:23:45.839 He even was like, I ain't bitch when we get home, so 276 00:23:45.000 --> 00:23:51.599 everything. So if it's not about the outfit, what you bitching? Happy? 277 00:23:52.400 --> 00:24:00.000 She but something in life? You just got it because she wouldn't think 278 00:24:00.039 --> 00:24:03.920 Usher would take that vida. You know what it is. I think the 279 00:24:03.000 --> 00:24:07.599 issue is not I guarantee you. His boy's got in his ear, Yes, 280 00:24:07.759 --> 00:24:12.119 I guarantee you. Niggas was like, hey man, you just don't 281 00:24:12.200 --> 00:24:15.319 let niggas all over and niggas got in the crew chatt and got the ribbon 282 00:24:15.440 --> 00:24:19.680 dog and that she got deep and that nigga got mad because look, he 283 00:24:19.720 --> 00:24:23.599 didn't even go to Kiki about it. He immediately went to be Internet about 284 00:24:23.640 --> 00:24:30.319 it up on his side to go to the internet as nasty work. Bro. 285 00:24:30.599 --> 00:24:36.960 That's yeah, it is a lot of shit niggas do. This badge 286 00:24:37.240 --> 00:24:41.640 is really really sucks. Why really, Oh my god, I couldn't imagine 287 00:24:41.720 --> 00:24:45.759 just sitting on the Internet with a bunch of niggas I do not know discussing 288 00:24:45.880 --> 00:24:51.359 my butt and that's what happened. And then because really, if this wasn't 289 00:24:51.359 --> 00:24:53.599 a moment of oversharing, he wouldn't have been mad. He wouldn't have been 290 00:24:53.599 --> 00:24:59.000 mad. But because it was blasted for the world, it's because his girl 291 00:24:59.079 --> 00:25:02.720 was famous. Yes, that's to us because that's play attention. Like, 292 00:25:03.119 --> 00:25:08.400 if she wasn't Kiky Palmer, if she was just like Trakesha Palmer a third 293 00:25:08.440 --> 00:25:18.319 in Oklahoma, no one cared. But because Jackson VP Kikey Palmer killing them, 294 00:25:19.119 --> 00:25:22.880 now it's different. Can we call it? Can we call it cheeky 295 00:25:22.960 --> 00:25:29.960 Palmer? Yeah, she could definitely be Cheeky cheek Palm got that ass out. 296 00:25:30.599 --> 00:25:33.000 Yeah, but you gotta stay on the internet with your Yeah, you 297 00:25:33.039 --> 00:25:38.839 can't do that. Hold on, I just didn't like to a mom, 298 00:25:38.920 --> 00:25:41.920 you're a mom, it's the outfit you're a mom, like, but you 299 00:25:42.039 --> 00:25:52.960 just posted her in a panties and brass looking fat. But speaking of two 300 00:25:52.200 --> 00:25:56.400 movies, was the last two movie you ever watched? One? I don't 301 00:25:56.400 --> 00:26:02.759 watch. Speaking of movies, I actually finished um Um Secrets of Aside Check. 302 00:26:03.799 --> 00:26:07.359 I forced myself to finish it. It was terrible. I recently watch 303 00:26:07.480 --> 00:26:11.000 if I Can't with the guy? What did you think about? Okay? 304 00:26:11.000 --> 00:26:14.920 So, since we're here since lately. Okay, So for those who don't 305 00:26:14.960 --> 00:26:19.000 know, they're not bad movie, see Country to proper belief. They're not 306 00:26:19.119 --> 00:26:25.680 bad movie. I think that because of the platform it's on and the acting 307 00:26:25.960 --> 00:26:30.160 is not what we're used to in big box office movies, we tend to 308 00:26:30.200 --> 00:26:33.400 look down on it because to me, honestly, a lot of TOOB movies 309 00:26:34.200 --> 00:26:38.079 a little bit better than BT movies. The people who don't always be that 310 00:26:38.160 --> 00:26:45.680 good. And that's you got Tyler Perry's budget on knows Hold on niggas. 311 00:26:45.440 --> 00:26:48.440 I'm just saying, though, but I'm saying people in BT can play these 312 00:26:48.480 --> 00:26:52.200 shows. Why are we shipping on two Be because it's on a free act. 313 00:26:52.960 --> 00:26:56.119 I'm not saying on you, but universally we got some people like you 314 00:26:56.240 --> 00:27:00.720 who just won't watch a two BE movie just because they don't want to. 315 00:27:00.759 --> 00:27:03.720 It's to be, but to be it's starting off how bees he started, 316 00:27:03.759 --> 00:27:07.799 all right, and that's why we weird ass movies. If you even go 317 00:27:07.839 --> 00:27:11.559 on BT plus, they got a lot of the same ass. I did 318 00:27:11.640 --> 00:27:17.400 his actual regular movies on there too. Now, what I will say com 319 00:27:17.720 --> 00:27:22.319 what I will say about Toby is, whoever owns this ship, it's very 320 00:27:22.400 --> 00:27:26.359 sis. This is genius to be really getting it. And I'm glad everybody's 321 00:27:26.359 --> 00:27:30.960 getting in on the ground floor because one day we are gonna wake up and 322 00:27:32.039 --> 00:27:34.160 the mother is gonna be just like y'all advocate, like, hey, bro, 323 00:27:34.240 --> 00:27:37.599 you should check this out. What is it? They're gonna say to 324 00:27:37.759 --> 00:27:41.680 be? You're gonna open your fucking phone or your smart TV and look for 325 00:27:41.799 --> 00:27:45.720 it to be app and that ship gonna say nine ninety nine. But that's 326 00:27:45.720 --> 00:27:51.440 just me real shit. But I'm not saying it's a bad thing that somebody 327 00:27:51.559 --> 00:27:53.079 doing something. If they're gonna again, this is what's gonna happen. They're 328 00:27:53.079 --> 00:27:56.119 gonna get paid for this ship. This is what's gonna happen. Okay. 329 00:27:56.200 --> 00:28:00.680 Now, if you find a good, good series of movie back, you 330 00:28:00.799 --> 00:28:04.200 find an actor that you've kind of fallen in love with you start going down 331 00:28:04.240 --> 00:28:07.440 the rabbit hole and watching all the bullshit they in, because that's how I 332 00:28:07.519 --> 00:28:11.799 ended up on If I Can't, because Cristal the Dog, which was the 333 00:28:11.839 --> 00:28:18.240 best friend who wasn't ship. She is in this, but she's also been 334 00:28:18.359 --> 00:28:23.039 in several other movies, including the little series The Dirty d that everybody's been 335 00:28:23.079 --> 00:28:29.119 watching lately, so she's in all these different been following there for a minute, 336 00:28:29.359 --> 00:28:33.640 then I started noticing that the main chick and If I can't Menda more. 337 00:28:33.839 --> 00:28:36.839 I think that's their name. Don't quote me on that. I know 338 00:28:36.880 --> 00:28:40.119 the first name is Menda. She's actually the one been writing all this shit. 339 00:28:40.440 --> 00:28:44.759 So there's at least about ten to fifteen movies and shows on to be 340 00:28:45.000 --> 00:28:48.000 written by her, So off top pick ups to her, somebody on, 341 00:28:48.279 --> 00:28:53.160 somebody big up to her because she And what's crazy is if you look at 342 00:28:53.200 --> 00:28:56.599 some of these women on there, the first thing you think is some negative 343 00:28:56.720 --> 00:29:00.839 like another big booty beach, and it's like here it is she the writer? 344 00:29:02.160 --> 00:29:04.279 Yeah, and then you find out that somebody reason, it's her voice 345 00:29:04.279 --> 00:29:07.240 that gets me. It's the voice I love. I actually love her voice. 346 00:29:07.240 --> 00:29:11.240 It's annoying that time, but I love it, but she'd be writing 347 00:29:11.279 --> 00:29:15.720 these roles where we have come to the conclusion she gotta die in every scene 348 00:29:15.759 --> 00:29:21.039 she every movie, she she kind of dies in it. This is not 349 00:29:21.079 --> 00:29:26.440 even a spoiler, people, not a spoiler. This is gonna die. 350 00:29:26.519 --> 00:29:29.400 She's gonna die. May not be season one, but I didn't see the 351 00:29:29.400 --> 00:29:36.319 two Jim and You're gonna die twice but uh, if I can't Actually was 352 00:29:36.359 --> 00:29:38.400 triggering for a lot of people. It was. It was very triggering for 353 00:29:38.400 --> 00:29:45.279 a lot of people. Well spoiler for those who ain't watched it, you 354 00:29:45.319 --> 00:29:49.839 ain't watching the Hill, damn Fucklots about the same in every goddamn movie anyway 355 00:29:51.200 --> 00:29:56.640 them all. She's like kind of figure out what's gonna happen next. Um, 356 00:29:56.680 --> 00:30:00.240 so basically the movie and it wrapped up with the chick dating the drug 357 00:30:00.279 --> 00:30:04.400 dealing boyfriend. Drug dealing boyfriend basically said to so many words, if I 358 00:30:04.440 --> 00:30:08.039 can't have you, nobody can so if you know. But come to find 359 00:30:08.039 --> 00:30:12.440 out he was actually the one who killed her first husband. He's the one 360 00:30:12.480 --> 00:30:15.240 who did that. But we weren't even gonna talk about that plot twist that 361 00:30:15.279 --> 00:30:25.079 she didn't even be tellum he literally killing he ended up killing her. Her 362 00:30:25.119 --> 00:30:29.920 first son who's not even his end up killing her and then copped out and 363 00:30:30.000 --> 00:30:33.799 killed himself. And in Milwaukee, it's real triggering for a lot of people 364 00:30:33.880 --> 00:30:37.319 because over the course of the last years, we've had a lot of baby 365 00:30:37.400 --> 00:30:41.799 daddy's killing their baby mamas for the simple fact that they didn't want to keep 366 00:30:41.839 --> 00:30:45.039 putting up with your bullshit, and one who moved on, and then we've 367 00:30:45.079 --> 00:30:52.720 had situations where they've even gone live prior to or even during the actual killing. 368 00:30:52.039 --> 00:30:56.880 So for a lot of people, it triggered these memories and these thoughts 369 00:30:56.880 --> 00:30:59.920 and stuff like that. And I don't think that that's what the initial reason, 370 00:31:00.000 --> 00:31:02.759 but the ending was supposed to be to happen because they're all the way 371 00:31:02.759 --> 00:31:04.119 in Detroit. They don't know what. I can't say they don't know. 372 00:31:04.240 --> 00:31:07.000 But I don't think when she wrote this she was thinking about what was going 373 00:31:07.039 --> 00:31:11.519 on in Milwaukee. Because people think that they write these movies and they've done 374 00:31:11.519 --> 00:31:15.240 within like three months. Sometimes it should be like a whole year, year 375 00:31:15.240 --> 00:31:21.279 and a half before we even see I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I don't 376 00:31:21.319 --> 00:31:23.240 mind it being something that she kind of brought to the light, because, 377 00:31:23.279 --> 00:31:27.079 like you said, it's becoming a norm here for sure, right triggering, 378 00:31:27.279 --> 00:31:33.839 yes, but very much so needed to be seen. Right. But there's 379 00:31:33.839 --> 00:31:37.759 this light skin dude with braids like too long, too braids. Looked like 380 00:31:37.799 --> 00:31:41.440 he could play like light skin snoop Dog being all these movies and he damned 381 00:31:41.599 --> 00:31:45.920 played the same role in every movie. I didn't see him in nothing else. 382 00:31:47.720 --> 00:31:51.720 Child Support. Uh he popped up on Dirty Days? Why is that? 383 00:31:51.839 --> 00:31:56.160 Like? Why is that the name? It gives like first forty eight 384 00:31:56.279 --> 00:32:02.119 captions like child Support, child there's a movie on their coffee. What see? 385 00:32:02.119 --> 00:32:06.880 Here's the thing. They don't make creative titles, bro Like, there's 386 00:32:06.880 --> 00:32:12.680 no catchy title. It's just like And I think that's why, because they 387 00:32:12.720 --> 00:32:15.359 don't put effort of the t so I don't think people will shit on to 388 00:32:15.759 --> 00:32:21.000 It's just when you hear about some shit don't even sign. But maybe people 389 00:32:21.039 --> 00:32:22.279 just want to get to the point. But the reason why I bring this 390 00:32:22.359 --> 00:32:27.680 up is because if y'all having to pay attention my Facebook page over the course 391 00:32:27.720 --> 00:32:31.119 of the last week, I am going to create my own Toby movies and 392 00:32:31.240 --> 00:32:35.799 we are. I would like for you too. You just want to be 393 00:32:35.799 --> 00:32:38.279 in broken Blunts and bad bootleg. I want you to make it too more 394 00:32:38.319 --> 00:32:42.319 and you just want to reside you check from heaven can't Heaven's a call. 395 00:32:42.559 --> 00:32:47.400 I just would like for you to live your dream that for him only the 396 00:32:47.440 --> 00:32:50.759 guy you want to be in them. You know I'm not gonna let my 397 00:32:50.759 --> 00:32:52.160 boy. I didn't say that I didn't want to be in there. I 398 00:32:52.240 --> 00:32:58.960 just I love that he's passionate about this filling. So my question for both 399 00:32:58.960 --> 00:33:01.640 of you guys is if you were able to create, if I wrote a 400 00:33:01.640 --> 00:33:06.000 two B movie right now, what do you think your character in the movie 401 00:33:06.039 --> 00:33:08.640 would be. I don't know. I got to own an off switch. 402 00:33:08.720 --> 00:33:15.319 I could need to be the lawyer that gets you out of your ship, 403 00:33:15.920 --> 00:33:21.359 or I could be the ghetto ass baby mama. Why can't you be a 404 00:33:21.400 --> 00:33:23.359 ghetto ass baby mama who happens to be a lawyer? See, that's to 405 00:33:23.599 --> 00:33:30.119 be type ship that strip at night? What you gotta pay for college? 406 00:33:30.119 --> 00:33:32.720 Somehow, it's always a twists, always a twist to it. Nobody is 407 00:33:32.720 --> 00:33:38.440 directly what they like. The lawyer. You're a ratchet baby mama. That's 408 00:33:38.480 --> 00:33:44.759 a paralegal. Ain't you stripped at night to pay for your bar exams? 409 00:33:44.880 --> 00:33:49.680 That's where we're going. That's where we're going. Bro. Wow, I 410 00:33:49.720 --> 00:33:52.559 don't even know how you even form a movie around not think about it. 411 00:33:52.599 --> 00:33:54.960 Bro, there's always got to be Lawyer's Club, Like, what are we 412 00:33:55.119 --> 00:34:00.720 doing here? This drug dealing? Ain't be Daddy got got busted at the 413 00:34:00.759 --> 00:34:07.679 club because that's where they had the dope back in the liquid cocaine and My 414 00:34:07.800 --> 00:34:12.920 Poehead and all these movies. You picking your role. I'm saying that honestly, 415 00:34:13.000 --> 00:34:16.119 if you the pihead, you might die first. It's not a Horvie 416 00:34:16.719 --> 00:34:21.760 Nash. But if I'm making it to be horror movie too, I don't 417 00:34:21.760 --> 00:34:25.400 think I would be more. I don't want to. I don't want to 418 00:34:25.400 --> 00:34:32.599 be in niggause I'm my god. But unless I'm nigga's been saying I was 419 00:34:32.639 --> 00:34:37.320 a serial killer year, I think my perfect debut. Did you watch the 420 00:34:37.360 --> 00:34:42.000 Block yet? Well? Where can I find it? Uh? I watched 421 00:34:42.000 --> 00:34:45.719 it online? But it is digitally somewhere. Yeah, no, no, 422 00:34:45.760 --> 00:34:49.280 you probably got it. It's probably a Prime video. Yeah, it might 423 00:34:49.320 --> 00:34:54.239 be on Prime or Max. If it's under ten bucks, it's actually kind 424 00:34:54.239 --> 00:34:58.440 of good, kind of good. I like it. If it's over ten 425 00:34:58.480 --> 00:35:01.079 bucks, I wait until they put that shot Shulman service. I packed it 426 00:35:01.159 --> 00:35:06.000 might already be in a stream. I thought I was gonna pay twenty dollars 427 00:35:06.000 --> 00:35:09.920 to watch fucking Michael B. Jordan Create three. Never I didn't even watch 428 00:35:09.920 --> 00:35:14.880 Create three. Yeah, I think it's on Hulu. Now it's it's problem. 429 00:35:15.840 --> 00:35:17.599 I was like, I will wait until this is free to watch this 430 00:35:17.639 --> 00:35:22.960 big nigga knock y'll ass to fun out to a movie. Watch it, 431 00:35:22.960 --> 00:35:27.039 because you can't watch to be all the time. You gotta take a break 432 00:35:27.039 --> 00:35:31.079 from t B. I'm not gonna lie. I like stars maybe having some 433 00:35:31.159 --> 00:35:39.960 gems, and I like Paramount play sent has gems. Yeah, where's your 434 00:35:40.000 --> 00:35:45.880 favorite movie? What? Oh? Okay? Okay with that? I like 435 00:35:45.960 --> 00:35:55.559 thee But then the other one say why why I love Bernie mag Okay, 436 00:35:55.679 --> 00:36:00.760 that's what it was. Funny as and fun fact two fun facts in one 437 00:36:01.280 --> 00:36:07.079 so fun fact number one my dad used to look just like Bernie mac fun 438 00:36:07.119 --> 00:36:08.840 fact number two to day is his birthday, and he would have been sixty 439 00:36:08.880 --> 00:36:19.880 five. Who's birthday? My daddy? Dare we still get colapping off the 440 00:36:19.920 --> 00:36:28.880 phone every birthdaby? If you have any day I don't know, don't make 441 00:36:28.880 --> 00:36:34.119 it weird bro. His movie has to be told. Yes, it is. 442 00:36:34.199 --> 00:36:37.440 Movie has to be told. I have to write his story. Action. 443 00:36:37.519 --> 00:36:40.679 We should do a superhero movie too. He's the world ready. I 444 00:36:40.760 --> 00:36:45.760 always wanted to be an action movie. It's the world ready for a black 445 00:36:45.840 --> 00:36:50.239 another black superhero movie. Yes, yeah, but I feel like because we 446 00:36:50.480 --> 00:36:55.280 like Adam Was, I feel like when I say black, I'm talking like 447 00:36:55.440 --> 00:36:59.559 meteor Man. Yes, because you gotta remember, we're making it on too 448 00:36:59.559 --> 00:37:02.559 be so it's to be great. I feel like we gotta be the contradiction 449 00:37:02.679 --> 00:37:08.639 to the Justice League, the Negro Justice League. Yeah, but just like 450 00:37:08.760 --> 00:37:15.320 it's a like a parody superheros people all black people and just yeah, just 451 00:37:15.360 --> 00:37:22.320 like parodies. I gotta figure that out. Yeah, I gotta get around 452 00:37:22.400 --> 00:37:27.360 licensing. Yeah. You just think of some terrible fucking superheros and they only 453 00:37:27.400 --> 00:37:32.599 for the hood, only for the hood. Like you know, I feel 454 00:37:32.639 --> 00:37:36.400 like if we had a speed nigga, he would only be fast when it 455 00:37:36.480 --> 00:37:40.199 came to running from like the police literally or some type of guns. Yeah, 456 00:37:40.239 --> 00:37:45.400 like if you got a pistol. Yeah, yeah, I said, 457 00:37:45.440 --> 00:37:49.599 you would be an You want to be an action what what would your action 458 00:37:49.679 --> 00:37:51.880 movie look like? Like? What kind of action are you in? Like 459 00:37:51.960 --> 00:37:55.119 taking? Are you in like John Wick? Like? What are you an? 460 00:37:55.119 --> 00:37:59.199 A Mortal Kombat issue movie? I don't know. It's kind of given 461 00:37:59.239 --> 00:38:07.760 Proud Mary trash, but I want to see. I'm sorry, not it's 462 00:38:07.800 --> 00:38:09.719 not for me. I want to see. It's probably Mary like a black 463 00:38:09.760 --> 00:38:14.599 taking where they took her kids and then she not really Probably Mary is more 464 00:38:14.639 --> 00:38:21.519 like assassinish, like she assassin. She's an hour and a half AGP walking 465 00:38:21.559 --> 00:38:24.800 around with this big guys Nicol played at four or five shooting motherfuck? Is 466 00:38:24.840 --> 00:38:31.920 that's what this movie is? You didn't miss much? Apparently I missed a 467 00:38:31.960 --> 00:38:37.280 lot. Trag P is not not not. You will not talk about the 468 00:38:37.280 --> 00:38:40.519 ghetto queen. I love her. It's one of those things because she came 469 00:38:40.599 --> 00:38:45.960 from Jeldy baby Mama. No, it's just certainly no was. It's certain 470 00:38:46.000 --> 00:38:51.480 people you just can't see doing certain things in movies, Like how she mentioned 471 00:38:51.519 --> 00:39:00.320 Black Adam that wasn't the Rock being a superhero like I was. He was 472 00:39:02.079 --> 00:39:07.840 right, he was the Rock minus the actual good catchphrases. Yeah, like 473 00:39:07.000 --> 00:39:10.639 if he the slid a Jabroni candy ass we might as well have been on 474 00:39:10.639 --> 00:39:15.159 Monday Night. So it's like and you look at him like, damn, 475 00:39:15.199 --> 00:39:17.280 I can see the rock be a superhero. Then when we got it, 476 00:39:17.320 --> 00:39:22.400 I was like, he shouldn't be a superhero ever again. Nah, I'm 477 00:39:22.480 --> 00:39:30.440 cool. Rowe Yeah, because she had did two came like smaller roles in 478 00:39:30.559 --> 00:39:35.159 two thousand and nineteen ninety eight, but baby Boy was literally where we really 479 00:39:35.920 --> 00:39:44.400 her first starting out, start starring as a star stress. Soon mis Diamond, 480 00:39:44.440 --> 00:39:49.440 are you single? Diamond is single? I don't like how you said 481 00:39:49.480 --> 00:39:53.639 that the third person, Diamond is single? So do you have someone else 482 00:39:53.639 --> 00:40:04.480 in the bag that's not so? Diamond got him to speak. Next week 483 00:40:04.960 --> 00:40:12.599 she got Ali I love her, but she got to relax as she do. 484 00:40:12.679 --> 00:40:15.519 She is recruited. You cannot hit everybody with the hey I have a 485 00:40:15.519 --> 00:40:20.039 podcast. You just can't do that. It wasn't the podcast. Okay. 486 00:40:20.199 --> 00:40:22.880 Actually she caught me and she was on live and she was like, come 487 00:40:22.960 --> 00:40:25.079 get in my live. Are you single? And yeah, that's what I'm 488 00:40:25.079 --> 00:40:29.119 talking about. That's how she got it. It was like just jumped out. 489 00:40:29.280 --> 00:40:34.119 Women be too comfortable around other women, asking women questions like I get 490 00:40:34.159 --> 00:40:39.920 it. You shell as a as a peaceful person, she's not. But 491 00:40:40.880 --> 00:40:46.960 just logically thinking out loud. If everybody just talked like that, niggas will 492 00:40:47.039 --> 00:40:52.760 be locked up. Yeah, just as a man. I don't think I 493 00:40:52.760 --> 00:40:57.679 could she approached as a nigga. I could never do that. It was 494 00:40:57.880 --> 00:41:02.639 very woman friendly though, because comparison what we were talking about earlier, saying 495 00:41:02.639 --> 00:41:07.599 how women approaching women and they don't it's a mug or it's you looking funny 496 00:41:07.719 --> 00:41:10.679 or like, No, she embraced me. She's like, oh, your 497 00:41:10.719 --> 00:41:15.440 outfit is cute, like you know, So it was more welcoming. Now, 498 00:41:15.480 --> 00:41:17.199 if she was like, oh, hey, like you single, it 499 00:41:17.199 --> 00:41:23.760 would have been like why like that kind? But she was very welcome. 500 00:41:24.440 --> 00:41:28.719 Is like a walking carson. Yeah. It maybe want to be like, 501 00:41:28.760 --> 00:41:31.199 oh wow, what's up? Yeah, she just likes as soon as she's 502 00:41:31.239 --> 00:41:34.280 saying, hey, I just feel like you're about to sell me, so 503 00:41:34.679 --> 00:41:39.400 like a sleazy mused call, like a sleazy use car sale. And what 504 00:41:40.440 --> 00:41:46.360 have you seen that you conversation about that? I would buying in a heartbeat. 505 00:41:51.920 --> 00:41:58.039 My god, Oh my god, what it's lovely? That really? 506 00:41:58.440 --> 00:42:01.800 That really what drew you to it? And might you're not wrong because if 507 00:42:01.800 --> 00:42:05.840 this is that was the second thing. If this is what's approaching me? 508 00:42:05.920 --> 00:42:10.320 Whatever you if you you wash you and shell and shit and you look like 509 00:42:10.360 --> 00:42:15.360 that and you invite me to it must be other people that look like exactly. 510 00:42:15.679 --> 00:42:21.800 Gotta be other people that look like get niggas the comedies things, because 511 00:42:21.800 --> 00:42:24.920 they'd be like kinda be more people she like, she like one of those. 512 00:42:25.039 --> 00:42:29.760 Uh, how can you describe it? Like if you was the fault 513 00:42:30.280 --> 00:42:35.199 off a spaceship and bo and she's the first person that agreed you to be 514 00:42:35.239 --> 00:42:39.400 like it. Gotta be more, y'all a somewhere take me? And I 515 00:42:39.599 --> 00:42:47.039 never saw her like good ship? And I was like, Am I wrong? 516 00:42:49.000 --> 00:42:57.400 Am I wrong? This is how I describe things. Man, that's 517 00:42:57.440 --> 00:43:00.199 your friends. This is my friend friend. You wrung her to our world. 518 00:43:00.800 --> 00:43:05.639 Are you blaming me for the positive or that she shines you? Shine 519 00:43:05.639 --> 00:43:08.960 your life podcast check it out all the time. Yes, because God is 520 00:43:08.960 --> 00:43:16.719 good. They gotta bring positivity into your life. I do you are? 521 00:43:17.239 --> 00:43:22.480 I know I brought somebody else. I was positive, you know, grand 522 00:43:22.559 --> 00:43:31.119 rising to the people ze, I'll be blessing you. I'll be bringing positivity 523 00:43:31.159 --> 00:43:35.599 to her more than she break it to me. But she definitely definitely can 524 00:43:35.840 --> 00:43:40.639 can turn a frown upside down definitely, but what else you got on the 525 00:43:40.679 --> 00:43:50.800 doctor ton um interpretation? Interpretation? Interpretation? Recently, social media has like 526 00:43:50.960 --> 00:43:55.599 sign interpretation. Sometimes I'd be careful notw before you summon an evil spirit. 527 00:43:57.360 --> 00:44:05.039 You're watching another animal. Hey, it's just but yeah, we walk outside 528 00:44:05.039 --> 00:44:07.800 and it's ten foot all NEGGI people fan, you need to stop watching the 529 00:44:08.039 --> 00:44:12.880 tack on t That's what I was like. I walked in bro Romo, 530 00:44:13.159 --> 00:44:16.159 like like, what is this. It's like, it's a tackle on just 531 00:44:16.320 --> 00:44:20.519 like now, this is why you don't think it's weird, right, But 532 00:44:20.719 --> 00:44:23.480 again, the anime culture, I respect it. I don't get it, 533 00:44:23.639 --> 00:44:29.920 but that's your back with whatever's your back is your back. I like wrestling 534 00:44:29.960 --> 00:44:31.760 and people will still be like, hey, you know it's fake. That 535 00:44:31.960 --> 00:44:35.760 is my biggest man peeple people actually do. I still watch wrestling and they're 536 00:44:35.800 --> 00:44:38.599 like, you know it's fake. No ship some of that shit, don't 537 00:44:38.639 --> 00:44:43.639 be fake. It's not. It's predetermined. Yeah. I used to be 538 00:44:43.719 --> 00:44:45.360 into it more than I have Now Now I do kind of feel like it's 539 00:44:45.360 --> 00:44:52.760 like, y'all just get it is a soap opera and all the rock and 540 00:44:52.760 --> 00:44:58.159 all them. I was like I'm so sick. He beat his ass of 541 00:44:58.360 --> 00:45:01.440 every woman who said that you to watch wrestling. It always circles back to 542 00:45:01.440 --> 00:45:05.599 the Rock, and it does. Damn it was other niggas that was there. 543 00:45:05.800 --> 00:45:09.800 Yeah, but this is the watching the darkness. He's super relevant now. 544 00:45:10.280 --> 00:45:15.159 So that's why I just said him just saying because relevant. It's funny 545 00:45:15.199 --> 00:45:17.639 because you name You're not gonna looking at me like the Undertaker. Nobody's thinking 546 00:45:17.639 --> 00:45:22.639 about him right now. Yes, let me don't do it. But I 547 00:45:22.719 --> 00:45:25.039 know what you want to do. But I can't let you do it because 548 00:45:25.039 --> 00:45:29.519 we just got on. Don't put your feelings on the internet. I was 549 00:45:29.559 --> 00:45:32.719 going to say, you name two cats who I would say, it's funny 550 00:45:32.840 --> 00:45:37.480 because the two cats with the reason why you watch wrestling, there's younger versions 551 00:45:37.519 --> 00:45:44.639 of them right now and making wrestling the greatest thing ever. And that lustfulness 552 00:45:44.679 --> 00:45:47.119 that you used to have for the Rock guarantee you and I like girls. 553 00:45:47.360 --> 00:45:53.679 This nigga Roman is gonna have you even weather pause. I had to say, 554 00:45:53.679 --> 00:45:58.960 why do we not have you? No? I like girls. I 555 00:45:59.039 --> 00:46:01.199 know you like girls, but I have no good you talk to any mom 556 00:46:01.519 --> 00:46:07.880 goodall is a good ball. How many times that we talk to women who 557 00:46:07.960 --> 00:46:13.440 do watch wrestling, and that's the first nigga they bring up every time. 558 00:46:13.559 --> 00:46:16.000 He is relevant, and he is fine, and he still got his youthfulness. 559 00:46:17.840 --> 00:46:21.800 You wouldn't need long as slash. I would imagine that thirty eight year 560 00:46:21.840 --> 00:46:23.960 olds still have a youthful. But no, one don't. Don't. We're 561 00:46:23.960 --> 00:46:29.599 not gonna do ages them. Ye he's thirty eight. Enough conversation going on 562 00:46:29.639 --> 00:46:34.800 the group chat right now. My old niggas not being relevant, man, 563 00:46:35.119 --> 00:46:39.840 My old niggas just ain't. But wrestling is different about relevance either, like 564 00:46:39.960 --> 00:46:45.559 life, you are here today, gone tomorrow. So interpretation, where would 565 00:46:45.559 --> 00:46:50.480 you get in with that? So lately is this more like people reading the 566 00:46:50.559 --> 00:46:57.119 room? We're getting there? So lately the Internet has been black. Internet 567 00:46:57.159 --> 00:47:01.880 has been the frenzy because the AI have shook up the world again. Recently, 568 00:47:02.400 --> 00:47:09.199 a new AI application came out called The REMANI depends on how you say 569 00:47:09.199 --> 00:47:15.159 it, where they have literally are taking your face and putting you on different 570 00:47:15.239 --> 00:47:22.119 bodies and making people look beautiful. Because I'm not gonna lie to you. 571 00:47:22.239 --> 00:47:24.960 That blue suit on me, A'm fucking sexy. I want to say fucking 572 00:47:25.039 --> 00:47:30.800 sexic your your your you put your AI pictures on the screen for the world 573 00:47:30.840 --> 00:47:37.239 to see. We got that kind of technology, sure, because you look 574 00:47:37.320 --> 00:47:40.800 like you look like the black James Bond, And I'm cool with that. 575 00:47:42.199 --> 00:47:46.239 But I think what really started getting me irritated because first of all, I 576 00:47:46.239 --> 00:47:52.119 already know that all these AI software are leading to something else down the road. 577 00:47:52.440 --> 00:47:57.559 Eventually you're gonna get some form of identity fraud that's gonna happen because of 578 00:47:57.599 --> 00:48:00.199 it, because it's getting a little bit too advantage. The AI is gonna 579 00:48:00.199 --> 00:48:02.039 get smart and take over the world like we always expect. But I think 580 00:48:02.039 --> 00:48:09.599 my thing is is niggas on the Internet don't know how to not take shit 581 00:48:09.880 --> 00:48:15.079 personal. Like I was minding my business scrolling through seeing all my friends with 582 00:48:15.119 --> 00:48:17.119 the AI photos, and then in the mix of it, I've seen someone 583 00:48:17.159 --> 00:48:23.000 make this extremely long post talking about all these AIS is fucking up people's perception 584 00:48:23.119 --> 00:48:28.840 of self imagery and and they're making you thinking that you're supposed to be at 585 00:48:28.840 --> 00:48:32.119 a certain standard of beauty because everybody is skinny, and and then and then 586 00:48:32.159 --> 00:48:36.199 now you're starting to have self doubt because if you are a big person and 587 00:48:36.239 --> 00:48:38.079 now you look like this, you still like you ugly, and I'm like, 588 00:48:40.039 --> 00:48:49.199 always there's always one woke nigga on the internet. Nobody, nobody that 589 00:48:49.280 --> 00:48:53.360 I know who's been using the AI, sits here and says, oh damn, 590 00:48:53.760 --> 00:48:57.119 I need I need something. I need to change who I look. 591 00:48:57.199 --> 00:49:00.239 I got a lot of people like my skinny folks. It look like a 592 00:49:00.280 --> 00:49:02.360 regular photo to them. My big people. We end up having big heads 593 00:49:02.400 --> 00:49:10.280 and small bodies because we big people like you, like an extra and fucking 594 00:49:10.719 --> 00:49:19.079 James Bond movie, Like my neck? What is this? But it was? 595 00:49:19.119 --> 00:49:22.199 And I'm like, y'all got me next to these unrealistic Why couldn't get 596 00:49:22.280 --> 00:49:29.920 trucking something next to the Ferrari Oh shit? Because the way the imagery look 597 00:49:29.960 --> 00:49:35.119 it was never meant for it to be realistic. Like people were freaking out 598 00:49:35.159 --> 00:49:37.840 because they were allowing you to put your face on a baby's body or d 599 00:49:37.960 --> 00:49:42.039 aging you. It's like, have you not watched Marble movies? They've been 600 00:49:42.159 --> 00:49:45.039 had d aging technology. You know, whole Captain Marble movie was done in 601 00:49:45.079 --> 00:49:50.280 the nineties. You know, Nick still don't know where they got that Blockbuster 602 00:49:50.360 --> 00:49:53.960 storefront they use the last one in the country. I think it's in Seattle 603 00:49:54.199 --> 00:49:59.800 and blew that motherfucker. They're still a blockbuster out there. Some people still 604 00:50:00.039 --> 00:50:07.519 it in dvdsis some people do not. Everybody wants to move into the one 605 00:50:07.599 --> 00:50:12.760 old people don't like change. Now some change. You just gotta get what 606 00:50:12.920 --> 00:50:15.760 you No, you don't gotta get with all the changes. But some of 607 00:50:15.760 --> 00:50:20.840 the changes you change. They and that's why they are always the ones calling 608 00:50:20.880 --> 00:50:23.960 and call centers. Plus all right, bro, like some shit you just 609 00:50:24.039 --> 00:50:27.960 like if you still got a VCR, family, all right, get get 610 00:50:28.159 --> 00:50:31.639 give it a fucking rest man. They eventually upgraded the DVDs. I mean, 611 00:50:31.679 --> 00:50:35.840 shit, you ain't got to add a stream of services, but goddamn 612 00:50:35.880 --> 00:50:42.599 it the VCR. Bro, I had a VCR. Had you still got 613 00:50:42.639 --> 00:50:47.760 one movie? Certain movies, the whole it was a whole TV and it 614 00:50:47.880 --> 00:50:51.480 had a VCR. But I still had tapes and shit, So I was 615 00:50:51.519 --> 00:50:55.880 like, all right, like some tapes. Some movies were better on types. 616 00:50:57.199 --> 00:51:00.400 Prime example, I use your Share as example, the original Star Wars 617 00:51:00.679 --> 00:51:06.400 the six seven and eight that's six seven eight, No, four or five 618 00:51:06.480 --> 00:51:09.440 six, my bad, four or five six. They changed it like five 619 00:51:09.559 --> 00:51:14.719 or six times. So unless you have a tape from when it first came 620 00:51:14.760 --> 00:51:16.639 out, you wouldn't see all the changes that happened into it, all the 621 00:51:16.719 --> 00:51:22.000 extra ship that kept getting changed over and over again. So for some people, 622 00:51:22.079 --> 00:51:27.559 having those tapes is literally like printed gold. You don't want to get 623 00:51:27.639 --> 00:51:31.119 rid of it. And then my grandma right, and you're growing up in 624 00:51:31.119 --> 00:51:35.400 the Nickelodeon eras, man, you're not gonna tell me you're not gonna have 625 00:51:35.440 --> 00:51:38.239 some joy when you've seen that orange VHS tape because you knew exactly what that 626 00:51:38.320 --> 00:51:47.239 movie was. Facts and Wild Thornberry, Oh yeah, yeah, yea, 627 00:51:47.360 --> 00:51:52.159 all three of them, All three was the orange tape. So you go 628 00:51:52.280 --> 00:51:54.599 by granny house and Granny found your orange tape. You know you was gonna 629 00:51:54.639 --> 00:51:59.000 have a good time. So if you're going to sit here and watch rug 630 00:51:59.119 --> 00:52:01.159 Rats, yeah you could go on a streaming service and watch it, but 631 00:52:01.440 --> 00:52:06.840 it didn't hit the same as putting that VCR tape in there and getting pissed 632 00:52:06.880 --> 00:52:09.199 off because somebody rewands your tape, so you didn't get a chance to be 633 00:52:09.239 --> 00:52:15.639 where you left off. That. I feel your nostalgia stalgia makes a lot 634 00:52:15.639 --> 00:52:27.360 of people do a lot of shit at baby Daddy. Now now you're talking 635 00:52:27.400 --> 00:52:34.039 about me, Why why? Why do bitches go back to the nostalgia. 636 00:52:36.039 --> 00:52:40.119 You want that whole thing back. I mean like that. Let me ask 637 00:52:40.119 --> 00:52:43.440 you a quick how long were you what you make dad? The first time 638 00:52:43.519 --> 00:52:50.639 y'all broke up before? I ask the baby before? How many times after 639 00:52:50.679 --> 00:52:53.280 y'all broken up? No, I'm not gonna say broken up. That's taken 640 00:52:53.360 --> 00:53:00.000 it too far. Took a break. I feel like the us before the 641 00:53:00.079 --> 00:53:12.400 baby had different stipulations. So I just like how you dancing around. So 642 00:53:14.239 --> 00:53:19.719 it's like we wasn't breaking up. We only really broke up once and then 643 00:53:19.719 --> 00:53:22.639 it kind of just staying up. The shortest distance between two things is a 644 00:53:22.679 --> 00:53:35.320 straight line. Okay, I just okay a break up. We're still broken 645 00:53:35.400 --> 00:53:39.960 up? Okay, but I gearing how old is this baby? Now? 646 00:53:40.000 --> 00:53:49.559 I have other courses now too old and not child. They're usually under five. 647 00:53:50.480 --> 00:53:52.280 And you know when they what they said when he won, you ain't 648 00:53:52.320 --> 00:53:58.559 done. I'm just kidding. No, no, hold on, hold on 649 00:53:59.239 --> 00:54:01.480 where we're getting ready? So this is like fresh, This is just very 650 00:54:01.599 --> 00:54:07.440 fresh. This reason this just happened. Things wanting some change in March. 651 00:54:07.519 --> 00:54:10.639 Let's talk about your breakup. Yeah, it was like last year October, 652 00:54:14.599 --> 00:54:20.400 So y'all ain't really broke up. Oh yes we are okay, so he 653 00:54:20.559 --> 00:54:24.760 got a chance to do right, right and right, Like you ain't completely 654 00:54:24.760 --> 00:54:30.199 saying. So if you go let's say you go to the Okay next week 655 00:54:30.639 --> 00:54:34.480 and you meet a guy, you want to entertain that guy, you know 656 00:54:34.559 --> 00:54:37.679 you have to go through the whole entire process of getting to know somebody, 657 00:54:37.719 --> 00:54:42.119 getting comfortable with them, seeing where they had as the whole dating process with 658 00:54:42.280 --> 00:54:45.960 purpose. Right at the end of the day, your baby daddy, I 659 00:54:46.000 --> 00:54:53.400 hate that work child's father. Y'all broke up because he did something wrong or 660 00:54:53.440 --> 00:54:55.400 did you do something wrong? Right? I was gonna say, what if 661 00:54:55.400 --> 00:55:00.400 it was me? No, it was definitely some wrong doing. Okay, 662 00:55:00.519 --> 00:55:05.039 there was some wrong doing. So let's just say during this time frame he 663 00:55:05.199 --> 00:55:09.159 matures whatever things that he wasn't doing, he fixed, He get himself together, 664 00:55:09.199 --> 00:55:13.920 he got better stability. Now he's good. You got this great guy 665 00:55:14.000 --> 00:55:17.719 who you're building something with, but you got this old thing who now got 666 00:55:17.760 --> 00:55:22.079 itself together. It's like an episode of love it or listed. I got 667 00:55:22.079 --> 00:55:24.239 the brand new house that does everything got need. But if you just fix 668 00:55:24.320 --> 00:55:28.679 these couple of things that's wrong with the house I'm living in, I'm not 669 00:55:28.800 --> 00:55:31.480 moving. Damn, that was a really good metaphor that shit just used right 670 00:55:31.480 --> 00:55:39.440 there. That's what we do, right I know that's right, breaking up, 671 00:55:43.039 --> 00:55:46.440 but you're not let to help you to go back, And that's what 672 00:55:46.519 --> 00:55:49.880 let's that's going back to what me and Kendall was just talking about, Like 673 00:55:49.920 --> 00:55:53.159 I told her, in this day and age right now, I want the 674 00:55:53.199 --> 00:55:57.920 house, I want the family, I want the big backyard. But it's 675 00:55:57.960 --> 00:56:00.920 like it just seems so fucking our fast. It seems so unrealistic in this 676 00:56:01.039 --> 00:56:07.920 generation right now, like we were best friends before any of this, And 677 00:56:07.000 --> 00:56:10.920 to be honest, I feel like after the baby, it either makes or 678 00:56:10.960 --> 00:56:15.679 break y'all as a couple or as friends, as co parents, as whatever 679 00:56:15.760 --> 00:56:20.519 the fuck you know what I'm saying. And y'all right, for sure, 680 00:56:20.719 --> 00:56:23.360 it is hard to you know what I'm saying, you when you want something, 681 00:56:23.480 --> 00:56:25.960 especially when you have a child with somebody, if it's not something that's 682 00:56:27.000 --> 00:56:30.119 just a one night stand or just like you know, you've known this person, 683 00:56:30.199 --> 00:56:35.400 y'all love each other, y'all have been together. You expect more out 684 00:56:35.440 --> 00:56:37.400 of the situation. And I think that's where I went in wrong. I 685 00:56:37.480 --> 00:56:40.159 felt like it was supposed to be this big fairy tale that we always talked 686 00:56:40.159 --> 00:56:45.599 about. You're not wrong for that, but I always tell because I tell 687 00:56:45.679 --> 00:56:49.920 one that's almost every year we grow old, because we ten years apart in 688 00:56:50.119 --> 00:56:53.800 age. Right, So I'm a whole age bracket above this, nigga. 689 00:56:53.920 --> 00:56:58.239 And you start to go up, there's gonna be certain things that you're just 690 00:56:58.320 --> 00:57:00.480 not gonna give a fuck about no more. And as you get older and 691 00:57:00.519 --> 00:57:06.199 you start giving a fuck less about unnecessary shit, the regular shit starts to 692 00:57:06.199 --> 00:57:08.599 become more important. Right now, you gotta sit in the age category. 693 00:57:08.679 --> 00:57:15.480 We're settling down is on nobody's mind. God, nobody should be wanting to 694 00:57:15.480 --> 00:57:21.920 settle down between twenty one in like twenty seven. But a lot of y'all 695 00:57:21.960 --> 00:57:29.480 come into y'all twenties ready to some of us, some of us as women 696 00:57:29.480 --> 00:57:32.400 though that's all we see from our mom. So you got some people who, 697 00:57:32.559 --> 00:57:37.840 you know, they get this housely housewife mom who taught them this, 698 00:57:37.960 --> 00:57:39.079 this and that. Then you get this other one who's like, I don't 699 00:57:39.119 --> 00:57:42.760 give a fuck what time you come in the house. You've grown. They 700 00:57:42.800 --> 00:57:45.719 fucking they ended up pregnant, not saying it like that's the only statistics but 701 00:57:46.159 --> 00:57:50.599 you get what I'm saying, Like more so it's coming from what we see 702 00:57:50.639 --> 00:57:54.519 as women growing up from kids, Like you know, I saw my mom. 703 00:57:54.639 --> 00:57:58.840 She never bashed my dad, even when hearing him were on bad times. 704 00:57:58.880 --> 00:58:01.679 She never talked shitbo about him. She never wanted this image of they 705 00:58:01.719 --> 00:58:05.360 were into it for us, you know what I'm saying. I've always seen 706 00:58:05.400 --> 00:58:08.159 them love each other, no matter if they were together. So me growing 707 00:58:08.239 --> 00:58:12.239 up and having him as a baby daddy or the father of my child, 708 00:58:12.280 --> 00:58:16.760 now that was my best friend. So I try to go yeah, yeah, 709 00:58:16.760 --> 00:58:20.440 both. So I try to go into it knowing like, Okay, 710 00:58:20.480 --> 00:58:23.079 even if this shit don't work out, we have to still remain how we 711 00:58:23.159 --> 00:58:27.800 used to be. Like I because not only was that what I saw, 712 00:58:27.920 --> 00:58:32.000 but you know, I saw my mom being like wifely, being wifely, 713 00:58:32.119 --> 00:58:35.800 you know, but being a hard worker, always at work, you know, 714 00:58:35.880 --> 00:58:38.239 but always trying to make time, always trying to you know, make 715 00:58:38.280 --> 00:58:43.039 sure we were straight, but always still trying to include him. And I 716 00:58:43.079 --> 00:58:45.800 feel like me seeing a lot of those things became something that like, oh 717 00:58:45.840 --> 00:58:49.199 I want to do that, which is great. I want to be like 718 00:58:49.360 --> 00:58:53.239 that at your age. That's a rare mentality just banging age. I'm not 719 00:58:53.239 --> 00:58:58.000 saying that there we do, we should have more like that. But then 720 00:58:58.119 --> 00:59:01.239 let's flip the coin on an up de side with him. Has he seen 721 00:59:01.840 --> 00:59:07.920 that kind of adultness going on prior to before y'all crossed that line, Because 722 00:59:08.000 --> 00:59:13.239 I think his story is definitely completely different from mine. I will say that, 723 00:59:13.440 --> 00:59:17.000 and that could change the narrative of him appreciating what you're trying to present 724 00:59:17.679 --> 00:59:22.000 at this younger age, because in his mind, I'm twenty something. I'm 725 00:59:22.480 --> 00:59:25.000 not saying that I was supposed to go out here and fuck everything under the 726 00:59:25.000 --> 00:59:30.480 sun, but I gotta go out here and figure out what adult team looked 727 00:59:30.519 --> 00:59:36.800 like for me. Because he may want the big house and all that stuff, 728 00:59:36.920 --> 00:59:39.119 but he may want to start off with apartments first. He may want 729 00:59:39.159 --> 00:59:44.760 to have roommates with his guys and live that wild boy life first, to 730 00:59:44.840 --> 00:59:47.199 get that all out his system and then settled down. You know, not 731 00:59:47.320 --> 00:59:51.760 everybody wants to be in a relationship first, because twenty years from now at 732 00:59:51.800 --> 00:59:54.880 you're only forty six forty seven at that point, and now here you are 733 00:59:54.920 --> 00:59:59.119 forty six forty seven, Like I don't want to be in a relationship no 734 00:59:59.199 --> 01:00:01.079 more, because I stout on so much, so much, you know what 735 01:00:01.119 --> 01:00:05.199 I'm saying. But I'm a fine believer, and if you know, you 736 01:00:05.280 --> 01:00:07.960 know, like, don't get me wrong, I'm gonna keep it a hundred. 737 01:00:07.719 --> 01:00:12.320 I can do both. I can go out do me, talk to 738 01:00:12.360 --> 01:00:15.159 a bunch of niggas, go on a bunch of dates, funk who I 739 01:00:15.199 --> 01:00:16.159 want to fuck, talk to I want to talk to. But I can 740 01:00:16.199 --> 01:00:21.559 also really lock in. I feel like sometime men use that as a cop 741 01:00:21.599 --> 01:00:23.000 out, because when you know, you know, when you want to be 742 01:00:23.079 --> 01:00:27.800 with somebody, you're gonna make sure you do what's necessary to keep them. 743 01:00:27.960 --> 01:00:30.440 Now, let me ask you this question. Does he know that you'll always 744 01:00:30.480 --> 01:00:36.039 be there for him? Sadly yes, And that's another reason why he moves 745 01:00:36.039 --> 01:00:38.400 the way he moves. Because I can go out here, Daniel Jones, 746 01:00:38.800 --> 01:00:42.039 I still got lushed inside of me. So I'm gonna go out here and 747 01:00:42.039 --> 01:00:45.920 fuck all these bitches, but I'm not gonna hurt you on purpose. I'm 748 01:00:45.920 --> 01:00:47.599 gonna suck all these bitches, but I need you to say exactly where you 749 01:00:47.679 --> 01:00:51.440 are, so when I'm done sucking these bitches, we can go and be 750 01:00:51.480 --> 01:00:54.400 the family we're supposed to be, right, when I gotta get I gotta 751 01:00:54.400 --> 01:00:58.559 get this funk off. You gotta get these fucks off. I need you 752 01:00:58.639 --> 01:01:00.960 to not have anybody else. So he keeps being your friend, and he 753 01:01:01.039 --> 01:01:06.679 keeps being a great co parent. He keeps presenting himself in the way of 754 01:01:06.800 --> 01:01:10.119 things that you love about him, so you'll never let the love for him 755 01:01:10.440 --> 01:01:15.559 diminished down so someone else could step in and actually love you like you're supposed 756 01:01:15.599 --> 01:01:20.760 to be. I've definitely sabotaged a couple, and I know you have bombs 757 01:01:20.800 --> 01:01:27.199 and experience that me actually liking a man I'm talking about, like, yes, 758 01:01:27.559 --> 01:01:30.960 he's the one, and then my baby daddy calling, I'll be like 759 01:01:31.360 --> 01:01:36.519 you said, come outside. That's crazy, he said, come outside. 760 01:01:36.559 --> 01:01:38.719 That's why I ain't got no girlfriend. But I'm keeping a huney. I've 761 01:01:38.760 --> 01:01:43.320 never just crept off, like if I'm really fucking with somebody, you know 762 01:01:43.360 --> 01:01:47.000 what I'm saying, it only becomes me entertaining. I guess my baby daddy 763 01:01:47.440 --> 01:01:52.760 when the person who I didn't try to invest his time, man, it's 764 01:01:52.800 --> 01:01:57.280 like it's always something and I think that's what while we go back to our 765 01:01:57.320 --> 01:02:00.360 comfort, because here it is out and invested all his time to you. 766 01:02:00.880 --> 01:02:05.760 Now we're talking about meeting kids. Now we probably didn't have sex or whatever 767 01:02:05.800 --> 01:02:07.400 the case may be, and you turn out to be a fuck nigga, 768 01:02:07.559 --> 01:02:12.199 why wouldn't I go back to my own But here's my question, is your 769 01:02:12.320 --> 01:02:17.960 fear of him possibly being a fuck nigga actually stopping you from even experience in 770 01:02:19.000 --> 01:02:22.000 life? Because if you, if you, if you go through all the 771 01:02:22.079 --> 01:02:27.519 stages of the dating phase and you find out like, Okay, I really 772 01:02:27.639 --> 01:02:30.440 want to be more with this person, and then all of a sudden, 773 01:02:30.440 --> 01:02:35.519 baby daddy pops in with the usual bullshit enough to get his foot through the 774 01:02:35.519 --> 01:02:38.159 door, and now you didn't let this dude go or he was like damn, 775 01:02:38.199 --> 01:02:40.199 I really want to be back with my baby daddy. But I like 776 01:02:40.320 --> 01:02:45.159 this dude. Are you finding reasons to label him as a fuck nigga to 777 01:02:45.280 --> 01:02:49.400 run out the situation so you could go be with your baby daddy with no 778 01:02:49.480 --> 01:02:52.320 problem? Of course? Not, of course not, because to be honest, 779 01:02:52.519 --> 01:02:58.039 I, like I said, it's to the point where me dealing with 780 01:02:58.079 --> 01:03:01.719 somebody, I'm open to know what I'm saying, it going wherever you need 781 01:03:01.800 --> 01:03:06.760 to go. Like at this point, yes, yes, I love who 782 01:03:06.800 --> 01:03:10.039 I love, I want who I won't. But it's like us as women 783 01:03:10.239 --> 01:03:15.159 period, we get caught up trying to wait around for what we love or 784 01:03:15.199 --> 01:03:19.519 trying to wait around for a motherfucker to get right or to but it's like, 785 01:03:19.599 --> 01:03:22.639 no, you gotta get left at this point. And it's just like 786 01:03:22.800 --> 01:03:27.239 I don't know, I know what comes with my baby daddy. I trust 787 01:03:27.360 --> 01:03:31.000 him, I trust some of the moves that he makes. But when you 788 01:03:31.119 --> 01:03:34.800 go out and you start trying to put that trust in other people, it's 789 01:03:34.880 --> 01:03:37.719 sad to say, but they always show you why the fucking shouldn't. And 790 01:03:37.800 --> 01:03:42.559 that's why it's not even me trying to like, oh, let me try 791 01:03:42.599 --> 01:03:44.800 to put this label on you so I can have a reason. No, 792 01:03:45.320 --> 01:03:49.400 I'm to one hundred, like I'm gonna tell you upfront, like, but 793 01:03:50.280 --> 01:03:52.239 niggas don't how to do that. They don't know how to be like, 794 01:03:52.280 --> 01:03:53.519 this is what it is, this is what it ate. I'm going to 795 01:03:53.559 --> 01:03:57.440 tell you because I don't want to lead you on. This is what it 796 01:03:57.519 --> 01:04:00.920 is, this is what it's not. Now I've definitely me and my baby 797 01:04:01.000 --> 01:04:04.599 Daddy stopped working with each other. We were both talking to other people like 798 01:04:04.880 --> 01:04:09.480 everything, here's your baby. You know what I'm saying, it's not like 799 01:04:09.559 --> 01:04:13.719 it's not possible. But in the dealings where yes, we probably start back 800 01:04:13.760 --> 01:04:16.280 talking there, we probably start back working around. Of course, I'm like, 801 01:04:16.320 --> 01:04:19.719 okay, drop everybody all over again, you know what I'm saying, 802 01:04:19.800 --> 01:04:24.760 Like it kind of just going in phases where I'm not talking to him while 803 01:04:24.760 --> 01:04:30.400 I'm talking to somebody else. Not at all. That's why I don't date. 804 01:04:31.079 --> 01:04:36.760 You don't date because right so, I was gonna say there's nothing wrong 805 01:04:36.760 --> 01:04:41.599 with dating as long as I mean, I can't even say as long as 806 01:04:40.280 --> 01:04:48.079 you so you want personally have slid into your comfort zone. You are like 807 01:04:48.679 --> 01:04:54.679 a great pair of house slippers. Okay, you come home, you do 808 01:04:54.719 --> 01:04:58.960 your normal routine. It is what it is. In order to bring a 809 01:04:59.079 --> 01:05:03.239 relationship into your comfort zone, you have to not only make space for that 810 01:05:03.280 --> 01:05:06.920 person to ficken your comfort zone, but you also have to change a few 811 01:05:06.960 --> 01:05:12.719 things that you do to do it with them. You have to go out 812 01:05:12.760 --> 01:05:15.920 and enjoy the world from their perspective just as much as you want them enjoy 813 01:05:16.159 --> 01:05:20.800 the world from your perspective. And even though you may like eight things that 814 01:05:20.880 --> 01:05:26.440 this person does out of a list of ten, those two things will make 815 01:05:26.480 --> 01:05:30.440 you not want to lock it in because those two things, as they are, 816 01:05:30.719 --> 01:05:32.679 will bother the fuck out. It depends on what those things. You 817 01:05:32.800 --> 01:05:39.400 say that now you can't as those two things become bigger and bigger, and 818 01:05:39.480 --> 01:05:44.079 that will be your cop out to get out. Yeah, it really depends 819 01:05:44.079 --> 01:05:46.280 on what these two things is, because I don't want you to be seen 820 01:05:46.320 --> 01:05:50.559 here trying to make it seem like I'm just this irrational because I'm not. 821 01:05:51.000 --> 01:05:54.599 I didn't describe you as a direct believe it or not. There are a 822 01:05:54.599 --> 01:05:57.320 lot of people like that. That's I was just gonna say a lot of 823 01:05:57.320 --> 01:06:00.760 people like that. You won't love, but you won't love on your terms, 824 01:06:00.280 --> 01:06:03.880 and you don't want to compromise what those terms are. In order to 825 01:06:03.920 --> 01:06:08.519 get love from the perfect person from you, you got to compromise a few 826 01:06:08.559 --> 01:06:11.440 things, and you don't want to comp I feel like if you got a 827 01:06:11.519 --> 01:06:15.639 list of ten things and I hate too, I gave you ain't there was 828 01:06:15.760 --> 01:06:21.119 no compromisation on that. But those two things can be nails that just get 829 01:06:21.239 --> 01:06:27.639 in my hands like Jesus, and that got me five bucks. I appreciate 830 01:06:27.719 --> 01:06:30.599 that that nigga's changing and he just let it slip. Fight say he can't 831 01:06:30.639 --> 01:06:33.199 hold money the same as life, nigga can't hold water. It's definitely a 832 01:06:33.280 --> 01:06:46.119 lot of people as to keep back the water. Like I do want to 833 01:06:46.119 --> 01:06:51.599 find love. I do too, but it's it's not it's not just loved 834 01:06:53.360 --> 01:06:57.119 however it happens. I'm why people say that. It's plain to me why 835 01:06:57.199 --> 01:06:59.920 you feel like you can't find love and love got to just find you. 836 01:07:00.320 --> 01:07:05.960 Because the reason being is the way society determines what relationship, Socialization, personal 837 01:07:06.079 --> 01:07:12.000 social media, all these different things create walls and barriers that we put up 838 01:07:12.119 --> 01:07:15.639 that makes us not even want to give people the opportunity. So if we 839 01:07:15.800 --> 01:07:20.480 go out looking for love, we're looking for a specific thing with specific entities 840 01:07:20.480 --> 01:07:26.679 of a specific ways supposed to look. Our list of ten just went through 841 01:07:26.719 --> 01:07:30.920 my mind. Yeah, and then when these ten are not met, we 842 01:07:30.000 --> 01:07:33.639 automatically assume this person is not for us. But when you throw the list 843 01:07:33.719 --> 01:07:39.960 out the door and just enjoy life and enjoy the individual, you tend to 844 01:07:40.000 --> 01:07:44.320 find out people who love you dearly are right in front of you, plain 845 01:07:44.400 --> 01:07:46.480 and simple, and you just gotta give that the opportunity. Because a lot 846 01:07:46.480 --> 01:07:49.599 of times and you brought up something that's I think that a lot of people 847 01:07:49.599 --> 01:07:53.079 need to do more, but we refuse to do that. It's sometimes we 848 01:07:53.159 --> 01:07:59.519 gotta date our best friend. Sometimes don't not your bestie. It's completely different. 849 01:07:59.599 --> 01:08:03.559 But you to start making your maybe your friend first. And that's why 850 01:08:03.599 --> 01:08:08.679 I think I said that shit about the whole going back, because when I 851 01:08:08.719 --> 01:08:11.559 say going back, and don't necessarily mean that me and my baby daddy'd be 852 01:08:11.599 --> 01:08:14.960 back fucking or are we back trying to be in a relationship, but it'd 853 01:08:15.000 --> 01:08:17.039 be more so like we're back kicking it, like how we used to and 854 01:08:17.239 --> 01:08:20.359 enjoying each other company and enjoying each other president end of the day, for 855 01:08:20.600 --> 01:08:26.079 y'all, it can never be back to the way it was. Facts number 856 01:08:26.119 --> 01:08:30.520 one, there was a whole relationship in between there and then kids involves not 857 01:08:30.640 --> 01:08:34.720 even gonna get there yet, cold cotton right now, Okay, Uh, 858 01:08:34.720 --> 01:08:40.319 there's a whole emotional connection that you guys have. You have legitimate history. 859 01:08:40.439 --> 01:08:44.119 So there's the friendship stuff that you did, and then there's the things that 860 01:08:44.159 --> 01:08:47.279 you guys actually did together. You know, things you guys actually did together 861 01:08:47.520 --> 01:08:53.880 will always cause problems and how the friendship party view because even the relationship wise, 862 01:08:54.199 --> 01:08:57.640 he may be over here, you may be over there. You're gonna 863 01:08:57.760 --> 01:09:01.159 always get reminded that, well, this out right here does ABCD. When 864 01:09:01.199 --> 01:09:05.359 I was with him, he did this and that. So if this person 865 01:09:05.479 --> 01:09:11.079 does something that reminds you of a positive or a negative, this person can 866 01:09:11.159 --> 01:09:15.439 be penalized simply because it reminds you of your friend. Or if you see 867 01:09:15.560 --> 01:09:20.720 your child's father moving in a direction that you always wanted him to be in, 868 01:09:21.439 --> 01:09:26.600 you're gonna gravitate and that love is gonna build back up to the service 869 01:09:26.640 --> 01:09:30.239 again, and you're gonna want to give it a chance again because he's now 870 01:09:30.600 --> 01:09:35.000 projecting what you wanted him to be all to begin with. So there's always 871 01:09:35.000 --> 01:09:40.520 gonna be this conflict and then, let's be honest, Starting a new relationship 872 01:09:40.800 --> 01:09:46.439 can be very tricky exactly because you have to tell the man that you are 873 01:09:46.560 --> 01:09:53.119 dating or woman sexual logic and spectrum that you're dating. You and your baby 874 01:09:53.199 --> 01:09:58.319 daddy co parent like a boss, and y'all still kicking, y'all doue family 875 01:09:58.399 --> 01:10:00.359 things together, y'all still hang out. And then they'll be like, well, 876 01:10:00.399 --> 01:10:03.680 how long it's been since you too broke up? Oh, about eighteen 877 01:10:03.720 --> 01:10:09.920 months. That's gonna send the nigga flying right away because you have to build 878 01:10:09.920 --> 01:10:13.079 the relationship with this new person and in the back of their head like, 879 01:10:13.119 --> 01:10:15.800 we damn what you're doing this weekend? Oh nothing, I'm just you know, 880 01:10:15.840 --> 01:10:18.239 I'm at home and whatnot what you're sucking him did? Even though that 881 01:10:18.359 --> 01:10:23.720 may not be the cause y'all may not have touched Private Parson two years wrong, 882 01:10:24.680 --> 01:10:28.680 but it's the fact of the possibility that that thought is always there and 883 01:10:28.880 --> 01:10:32.359 the actions that match with how y'all move will give that person that inception of 884 01:10:32.399 --> 01:10:35.600 a thought no matter what, and you could just be really comparing it like 885 01:10:35.680 --> 01:10:41.640 a boss. M So right now you're gonna have issues unless you get a 886 01:10:41.720 --> 01:10:45.399 nigga who don't We don't care. I mean that's where all of my shit 887 01:10:46.079 --> 01:10:49.560 goes, honestly, Like I can dead as be vibing with it, motherfucking 888 01:10:49.640 --> 01:10:54.840 it. Don't be me. It'd be like, oh, you're still cool 889 01:10:54.880 --> 01:10:57.399 with him like that, y'all be talking like that, or I really had 890 01:10:57.399 --> 01:11:00.760 a nigga tell me, like, you know, I'm scared to love you 891 01:11:00.239 --> 01:11:03.760 because I think he's gonna go back to you know, he's not wrong to 892 01:11:03.800 --> 01:11:06.399 feel that way, but you gotta respect him. Enough to put that out 893 01:11:06.399 --> 01:11:10.880 there, because now by him putting that on the table, he's allowing you 894 01:11:10.960 --> 01:11:14.239 to either a prove him right or prove him wrong. The ball is now 895 01:11:14.279 --> 01:11:16.279 in your big on reassurance s though. I mean, I'll try to give 896 01:11:16.279 --> 01:11:19.399 it to him, but it's like he only seen one way, so I'm 897 01:11:19.399 --> 01:11:24.159 not gonna try. Still. It's the same issue about when the chick who 898 01:11:24.199 --> 01:11:26.439 wants to date the guy and he says, I got kids, and they 899 01:11:26.479 --> 01:11:30.479 asked him how old this kid is and the kid is under three? Oh, 900 01:11:30.560 --> 01:11:32.479 you you still fucking your baby, mama. I can't date you with 901 01:11:32.520 --> 01:11:38.680 no proof of whatsoever. They literally immediately draw that conclusion and end the date 902 01:11:38.760 --> 01:11:42.039 right then and there because they feel like he's still fucking her and that is 903 01:11:42.079 --> 01:11:45.439 not the case. At the same time, people are gonna grow up. 904 01:11:45.840 --> 01:11:47.760 That's true. But look, that's why I said, look at the age 905 01:11:47.760 --> 01:11:51.560 category. She said. I'm not saying that there's not niggas mature in her 906 01:11:51.600 --> 01:11:58.640 age group, but that number. If I got a baby and me and 907 01:11:58.760 --> 01:12:03.079 her don't, we don't jam like that no more. But my kid is 908 01:12:03.439 --> 01:12:06.600 a year and a half. Put me in this bitch, won't jam like 909 01:12:06.680 --> 01:12:12.000 that? No more when I tell you that I got a baby mama and 910 01:12:12.199 --> 01:12:15.720 my kid is a year and a half. Apparently in this relationship that is 911 01:12:15.800 --> 01:12:18.560 done with that wounds still a little fresh though we're still there. It ain't 912 01:12:18.600 --> 01:12:23.159 been along that it's gone. But at the same time, you gotta be 913 01:12:23.199 --> 01:12:27.000 mature when you meet me, and I laid this out for you that don't 914 01:12:27.039 --> 01:12:29.279 hit me with you. Don't hit me with that. Oh you still talk 915 01:12:29.319 --> 01:12:31.560 to you? Yeah, man, this bitch gotta comparing. It ain't even 916 01:12:31.600 --> 01:12:35.439 like that. Would you like to come with me when I dropped this little 917 01:12:35.439 --> 01:12:39.800 crumb snatching my fucker off? Would you like to be there when this bitch 918 01:12:39.840 --> 01:12:45.720 bring me my kid? Like whatever makes you comfortable. Women, that's gonna 919 01:12:45.760 --> 01:12:49.279 be a little bit different because women are emotional. Niggas gott to grow up 920 01:12:49.279 --> 01:12:55.680 too, I feel you. Women are emotional. So for no reason whatsoever, 921 01:12:56.560 --> 01:12:59.680 you could be moving on with your life. You could actively have started 922 01:12:59.760 --> 01:13:04.039 day and that woman is going to be a problem to your child's mother, 923 01:13:04.680 --> 01:13:12.560 your mother's child, your baby mama for the simple fact that there's another woman 924 01:13:12.600 --> 01:13:16.640 around her kid. Because the thought process that down there's a mother over here 925 01:13:16.880 --> 01:13:21.479 who could possibly mothering better than I am, I automatically have a problem with 926 01:13:21.520 --> 01:13:28.800 this woman. Don't know nothing about this up. Then number two, let's 927 01:13:28.880 --> 01:13:31.439 let's look at the other side of the woman dating you. Now, what 928 01:13:31.680 --> 01:13:35.600 is your relationship with your yo yo baby mama. You might be in your 929 01:13:35.600 --> 01:13:39.279 head, I'm done with this bitch. This bitch is crazy. But this 930 01:13:39.279 --> 01:13:42.560 bitch could be crazy because she's still in love with you. This bitch is 931 01:13:42.600 --> 01:13:45.479 doing all this wild, stressful ass shit to you because all she wants you 932 01:13:45.520 --> 01:13:48.239 to do is come home and love her. So I'm gonna put you on 933 01:13:48.279 --> 01:13:51.600 child support because I know by you being on child support, it's gonna cut 934 01:13:51.600 --> 01:13:57.520 into your finances and you financially can't survive being a single man trying to still 935 01:13:57.560 --> 01:14:00.720 help out with your kid on child support. But if you come home, 936 01:14:00.199 --> 01:14:06.880 I take you with me support. Listen, I feel like it all becomes 937 01:14:08.000 --> 01:14:15.600 a movie fast fast. It all becomes the thing of at the end of 938 01:14:15.600 --> 01:14:18.760 the day, the man put his foot down. If you have a baby 939 01:14:18.800 --> 01:14:24.039 mama, or multiple baby mamas, or a girlfriend, and you know that 940 01:14:24.039 --> 01:14:27.520 that's what it is, a motherfucker gotta be able to set the record straight. 941 01:14:27.760 --> 01:14:30.840 I shouldn't have to wonder about your baby mama as the baby mama, 942 01:14:30.880 --> 01:14:34.640 I shouldn't have to worry about your girlfriend. Like the minute he period, 943 01:14:34.760 --> 01:14:39.920 but the minute he put his foot down, the minute he showed he's a 944 01:14:40.000 --> 01:14:43.640 fun it. Only it only becomes that if he's still fucking his baby mama. 945 01:14:44.399 --> 01:14:46.039 But the minute he puts his foot down and he be a man, 946 01:14:46.319 --> 01:14:50.159 I thought, you're gonna suck your thumb, I'm like, And the minute 947 01:14:50.159 --> 01:14:54.239 he put his foot down and he showed it he a man. She wants 948 01:14:54.279 --> 01:14:58.000 them even more. Now you a real man. Now I had a boy 949 01:14:58.079 --> 01:15:00.520 back then when we had kids, But now you grew into a man. 950 01:15:00.920 --> 01:15:03.439 Now I want my man that you didn't become. No, no other bitch 951 01:15:03.520 --> 01:15:06.439 is gonna have what I helped build is the mind stake. So now she 952 01:15:06.560 --> 01:15:11.760 becomes this. This is why I will personally be in jail. Well I 953 01:15:11.760 --> 01:15:19.359 didn't have kids, I would snatch her motherfucker album comitely, I b one 954 01:15:19.439 --> 01:15:26.159 crazy bitch and that bitch you got a whole bunch of kids and all the 955 01:15:26.199 --> 01:15:30.479 type of baby daddies and kids. One could you be a woman with multiple 956 01:15:30.560 --> 01:15:39.960 kids thirty thirty five? It's possible, depends on depends on the age of 957 01:15:40.000 --> 01:15:45.119 your children. If you're thirty five, that means to have an eighteen year 958 01:15:45.119 --> 01:15:47.399 old. She had to be sucking at like seventeen eighteen, right, which 959 01:15:47.479 --> 01:15:53.680 is understandable. I can get that. So I don't guess she wasn't sucking 960 01:15:53.680 --> 01:15:58.800 at twelve. If she was sucking at twelve, I didn't check her mental 961 01:15:59.039 --> 01:16:05.520 because she may not have been willing. We twitter stable have. Really, 962 01:16:06.000 --> 01:16:15.199 I really need to check your mental. But that comes with the game. 963 01:16:15.239 --> 01:16:23.199 If that's got a lot of girls in trouble, are you a little pets? 964 01:16:23.319 --> 01:16:26.800 That's not answering the question. You can't just laugh because you ain't see 965 01:16:26.840 --> 01:16:33.399 me up a little shout. Okay, but eight kids, stuff, I 966 01:16:33.479 --> 01:16:36.359 mean, I mean, if that's the game I want to play, then 967 01:16:36.399 --> 01:16:42.000 that's the game I'm playing. She checks off all ten of your boxes. 968 01:16:42.840 --> 01:16:45.560 Okay, eight kids. See that's that's that one box that I'd be like, 969 01:16:45.640 --> 01:16:51.399 that's that's that's questionable. That box being though it's a big that's not 970 01:16:51.479 --> 01:17:00.279 a box that that's a fat ex bandage all sections though, So that box 971 01:17:00.359 --> 01:17:03.119 is still okay. Man, I was talking about the box off the piece 972 01:17:03.159 --> 01:17:10.600 of paper, eight kids, I know it's fire. Somebody thought that should 973 01:17:10.680 --> 01:17:15.439 fire eight times so I know it's good. I know it's good. It's 974 01:17:16.079 --> 01:17:19.640 it's a one exceptional like you know, you go to these little restaurants, 975 01:17:19.680 --> 01:17:24.760 he little helpers, back to board or that. Hey plus plus. I'm 976 01:17:24.800 --> 01:17:28.199 just saying, I know it's fire. So the bedroom, the bedroom is 977 01:17:28.239 --> 01:17:31.920 a plus plus. She can work her magic and anything else. Financially, 978 01:17:32.159 --> 01:17:35.600 she didn't learn how to juggle money like a boss. So you coming into 979 01:17:35.600 --> 01:17:41.560 the equation literally just makes the makes life less stress Gonna flip these she gonna 980 01:17:41.600 --> 01:17:45.800 flip this account like they flipped, make it less stressful. Okay, but 981 01:17:45.960 --> 01:17:48.920 you gotta remember bro stepping as a step dad. You can't just buy one 982 01:17:48.960 --> 01:17:51.399 pair of Jeorgans. Don't drop that moneyga, you cut to buy ten. 983 01:17:51.760 --> 01:18:02.840 That's true, but crazy one drops with you niggas. But again we talk. 984 01:18:03.039 --> 01:18:09.840 We got to talk about the aid. That is true even okay, 985 01:18:09.920 --> 01:18:15.199 because if you if we're talking eight at thirty five, right, realistically, 986 01:18:15.640 --> 01:18:18.840 you got some, you got some seven, you definitely got some under ten, 987 01:18:19.399 --> 01:18:24.560 and you got some over the age of seven day. Okay, so 988 01:18:24.640 --> 01:18:28.920 let's just say four of them, keep it realistic. Half of them are 989 01:18:29.000 --> 01:18:34.279 over fifteen, the other half are under. So you got some semi some 990 01:18:34.279 --> 01:18:40.920 some small back talking adults in here because that teenage year is rough. Remember, 991 01:18:40.960 --> 01:18:48.680 Noah, I don't want to be your daddy half ground. We can 992 01:18:48.720 --> 01:18:57.800 bargain what you gonna do the first time? Were you tweving that we can 993 01:18:57.920 --> 01:19:00.439 bargain, like like, did you do your chores? If you did your 994 01:19:00.520 --> 01:19:03.399 chores, you know, if you're doing your ship lead not to drop day, 995 01:19:03.640 --> 01:19:06.279 you're gonna be good because I know I'm gonna have my money, and 996 01:19:06.319 --> 01:19:11.319 I know I'm gonna have everybody else money who wear a decent little kids size. 997 01:19:11.479 --> 01:19:15.079 But you big feet niggas, y'all washing dishes, taking out garbage, 998 01:19:15.840 --> 01:19:17.760 right, aren't your kid? You gotta get whatever you want? What you're 999 01:19:17.760 --> 01:19:20.880 gonna do The first day you come home and you found out that sixteen year 1000 01:19:20.880 --> 01:19:25.000 old, don't worry your jays to school, oh my god, because you 1001 01:19:25.039 --> 01:19:32.640 know that's gonna they're gonna. I see like you talked to him and he 1002 01:19:32.640 --> 01:19:35.319 said he had to get a swag up at school because kids was picking on 1003 01:19:35.399 --> 01:19:41.439 him. But now if he your what sauce did you really have in my 1004 01:19:41.600 --> 01:19:45.359 shoe? If you're choking your fucking ankles, that's your step dads step in 1005 01:19:45.680 --> 01:19:47.760 where is the sauce you got? I gotta put you off. He borrowed 1006 01:19:47.760 --> 01:19:50.960 your oreos? Oh my god, No, you gotta have them. I 1007 01:19:51.039 --> 01:19:56.199 ain't never wore, not the worry else. I just said that because I 1008 01:19:56.239 --> 01:19:59.079 know the shoes he don't fuck with. Yeah, okay, let's say. 1009 01:19:59.399 --> 01:20:05.760 Let's say. Let's you got luck my cool grounds. I got lucky. 1010 01:20:05.880 --> 01:20:11.640 You caught the North Carolinas man, I don't give my don't get my imaginary 1011 01:20:11.760 --> 01:20:16.920 kid down North Carolinas though he came home Laska. Dude, I put your 1012 01:20:17.640 --> 01:20:20.239 shoe. Fan. Once you put your friend in my shoe, you gotta 1013 01:20:20.239 --> 01:20:27.199 have it yours. They don't say that out loud because then they just really 1014 01:20:27.439 --> 01:20:30.720 start mbling. Shit, don't put your fucking fee in my shoes. That's 1015 01:20:30.800 --> 01:20:36.359 nice. What about you? You find a guy, awesome guy, sweetheart, 1016 01:20:36.399 --> 01:20:41.560 Everything going good, financially stable, house is nice, car, two 1017 01:20:41.600 --> 01:20:45.520 cars, two cars in his garage, living life good. But you find 1018 01:20:45.520 --> 01:20:48.920 out he got six kids. That's not a deal Brecord for me. As 1019 01:20:48.960 --> 01:20:54.319 long as he take care of his kids and he take care of me, 1020 01:20:54.600 --> 01:20:58.439 baby, we're good. And when I say take care of me, I'm 1021 01:20:58.439 --> 01:21:03.680 totally speaking past financials like make sure, I'm straight, but like I said 1022 01:21:03.840 --> 01:21:08.399 it, dude, depend on the age because now I'm the woman. You 1023 01:21:08.439 --> 01:21:14.520 don't know how these women have you? You twenty six, so he twenty 1024 01:21:14.560 --> 01:21:20.880 seven with six kids though, so all his kids baby maximum under team, 1025 01:21:24.079 --> 01:21:27.079 I'm not gonna lie. Still really not a deal breaker. It's not a 1026 01:21:27.119 --> 01:21:30.960 deal breaker because it's so fucking rare that you're gonna find a nigga without a 1027 01:21:30.039 --> 01:21:36.119 pass and that past is gonna conclude kids crazy, here's where we are. 1028 01:21:36.479 --> 01:21:43.079 Here's where everybody misses the key words on like Facebook. So kids is not 1029 01:21:43.199 --> 01:21:47.279 a deal breaker. It's the adjective that you put both four kids that were 1030 01:21:47.399 --> 01:21:59.319 making them a deal breaker, like badass kids. You know, I don't 1031 01:21:59.319 --> 01:22:03.960 even mind him bad keep it a book. A lot of the times you 1032 01:22:04.079 --> 01:22:09.000 have a lot of bitter situations that are making them be bad where the mama 1033 01:22:09.079 --> 01:22:15.119 like don't know that, ain't like mamma and talking shit kids. You know 1034 01:22:15.920 --> 01:22:20.119 you as a mom, though, give a take a dad, you were 1035 01:22:20.119 --> 01:22:23.880 you a part time dad? You don't know? The end is announced of 1036 01:22:23.880 --> 01:22:28.000 everything. I see you on the weekends, holidays and when you with me, 1037 01:22:28.319 --> 01:22:30.159 your your shit together, you in check. I don't know what you 1038 01:22:30.279 --> 01:22:32.920 do at home, especially if your mama don't call me to be like, 1039 01:22:32.960 --> 01:22:36.680 hey, whipper's ass or some shit, but you should. I'm just saying, 1040 01:22:36.720 --> 01:22:44.199 no time, I feel you as a mom who have your kid all 1041 01:22:44.279 --> 01:22:47.479 the fucking time, you know where your child is a little a little too 1042 01:22:47.520 --> 01:22:50.840 much, you know, when that nigga a little out of hand. I 1043 01:22:50.840 --> 01:22:55.479 feel like that only get disclosed if me and you really working on the relationship 1044 01:22:55.520 --> 01:22:59.720 and we are actually moving forward to get somewhere. If you know I'm from 1045 01:22:59.720 --> 01:23:01.800 the met cho Keys, yeah, you should probably let me not heytt, 1046 01:23:02.039 --> 01:23:06.279 little fock's a little while, ye like, so I just know what I'm 1047 01:23:06.319 --> 01:23:11.079 doing when I come in the crib, Like, do I need to keep 1048 01:23:11.119 --> 01:23:14.399 my hands in my pockets? Is this little nigga a little pickpocket? What 1049 01:23:14.560 --> 01:23:17.640 the fuck kind of time? Bertie beyond you know what I'm like, I 1050 01:23:17.680 --> 01:23:20.279 don't like because I don't want you to go like, oh, you know, 1051 01:23:20.359 --> 01:23:24.479 we'd be chilling and you step out the room and you come back and 1052 01:23:24.479 --> 01:23:28.680 had a hard tied and pushed him in his fucking throat because he keeps fucking 1053 01:23:28.840 --> 01:23:35.319 round that there's no one but I'll definitely fuck your kid up. But I 1054 01:23:35.319 --> 01:23:39.920 mean. At the same time, though, you also dating someone with kids 1055 01:23:39.960 --> 01:23:45.239 can be difficult because what the kid. The kid knows how to manipulate situations 1056 01:23:45.279 --> 01:23:47.800 too. So like you and your child's father, y'all could be super cool 1057 01:23:47.840 --> 01:23:51.119 and your kid only one. But let's just say you start dating here, 1058 01:23:51.199 --> 01:23:56.640 your kid is five or six, and because they want mommy and day to 1059 01:23:56.680 --> 01:24:00.319 be back together, they misinterpreting your new boyfriend friend or they presenting your new 1060 01:24:00.359 --> 01:24:05.960 boyfriend as a horrible person. And now these these stories and things are being 1061 01:24:06.000 --> 01:24:10.840 created about dude. That's not true. That is true. So now you, 1062 01:24:11.039 --> 01:24:14.760 as as the mother, is stuck in a situation where you have to 1063 01:24:15.319 --> 01:24:18.239 do you believe your mate or do you believe your child. But that comes 1064 01:24:18.319 --> 01:24:21.840 back to me saying, at the end of the day, kids soak up 1065 01:24:21.880 --> 01:24:26.960 everything. So I'm not gonna be around my kid saying shit that's gonna make 1066 01:24:27.039 --> 01:24:30.039 him even think that me and my baby daddy not good. You know what 1067 01:24:30.079 --> 01:24:31.920 I'm saying, Even on bad terms, even on the worst of the worst, 1068 01:24:32.479 --> 01:24:36.520 I am always going to show him that, No, I'm not thinking 1069 01:24:36.600 --> 01:24:41.439 like we're together, but we're a family. I'm gonna show you we're a 1070 01:24:41.520 --> 01:24:44.399 family. We're all one at the end of the day when they're around, 1071 01:24:44.560 --> 01:24:47.279 Mommy and Daddy back together though, But how what what? What is back 1072 01:24:47.319 --> 01:24:51.439 together like? Is I would have to be around him saying something to have 1073 01:24:51.720 --> 01:24:56.520 him with the persona of back together. Right now, when he sees us, 1074 01:24:56.560 --> 01:25:00.600 he just sees a mommy, a daddy. He we don't really know 1075 01:25:00.640 --> 01:25:04.920 the correlation right now, but obviously he knows about five. Yeah, obviously 1076 01:25:04.920 --> 01:25:11.399 he may white white movies. No, but he right though, because to 1077 01:25:11.479 --> 01:25:15.199 be honest, it is a lot of kids who do that shit. But 1078 01:25:15.239 --> 01:25:18.920 he watch many movies. But you right though, that shit right though? 1079 01:25:19.640 --> 01:25:24.720 No bullshit because I felt that way too though, But it wasn't when I 1080 01:25:24.800 --> 01:25:30.279 was five, I was like ten. Sometimes I was like ten though, 1081 01:25:31.359 --> 01:25:36.840 I did want my dad and your mom and dad has been together for majority 1082 01:25:36.840 --> 01:25:40.560 of your life. Then all of a sudden, you may not know why 1083 01:25:40.680 --> 01:25:44.640 daddy got to move out, but then you don't like the fact that daddy 1084 01:25:44.680 --> 01:25:47.359 house ain't got shit in it because Daddy got to start from scratch, and 1085 01:25:47.479 --> 01:25:53.359 Mama walking around the house depressed because she doing everything on her own. Then 1086 01:25:53.359 --> 01:25:55.960 all of a sudden, Mama finally meet somebody's like, hey, I want 1087 01:25:56.000 --> 01:26:00.560 you to meet my friend Richard here, and you don't like Richard. Richard 1088 01:26:00.600 --> 01:26:03.079 ain't this shit to you. He brings you give, he bought your fruit 1089 01:26:03.119 --> 01:26:08.439 Sta nine Yard. You living good with Richard. But Richard ain't daddy, 1090 01:26:08.560 --> 01:26:11.800 So you gonna be like, I don't like Richard. Daddy ain't got shit 1091 01:26:11.880 --> 01:26:14.479 in this house. Richard is okay. I'm like, well, okay to 1092 01:26:14.560 --> 01:26:18.119 me, Richard, make sure we got Bruce names pops. You're struggling, 1093 01:26:18.279 --> 01:26:21.520 bro, I don't know this box of corn flakes. Ain't cutting him, 1094 01:26:21.560 --> 01:26:25.199 my nigga. We even food looms at the crib. But it becomes the 1095 01:26:25.199 --> 01:26:28.840 correlation of respect to me, Like if it did come down to it, 1096 01:26:28.920 --> 01:26:31.319 I moved on. I got a new relationship. I'm going to make sure 1097 01:26:31.399 --> 01:26:35.159 my partner respects my child. I'm gonna make sure my partner respects the father 1098 01:26:35.239 --> 01:26:40.760 of my child. I'm gonna make sure my child respects my partner and respects 1099 01:26:41.319 --> 01:26:45.159 knowing like, okay, this is not your fucking daddy period. You know, 1100 01:26:45.279 --> 01:26:48.279 low kid, I would be cool with my like my girlfriend baby daddy. 1101 01:26:48.560 --> 01:26:54.760 I would I would try to be I would do my best with Disney. 1102 01:26:55.119 --> 01:26:58.640 Yes, I ain't gonna say he gonna be like my bestie, but 1103 01:26:59.159 --> 01:27:02.399 like we're gonna be cordial on some level, like if we're having a family 1104 01:27:02.479 --> 01:27:06.319 thing and surety coming a room like a YoY. I'm thinking about reaching out 1105 01:27:06.319 --> 01:27:10.199 to my baby daddy because he an't really got no families, So can he 1106 01:27:10.279 --> 01:27:14.720 come jam with us? Cool? Because we got some level of your respect 1107 01:27:14.840 --> 01:27:17.079 and he cool. You come kicking with me and my people as you smoke, 1108 01:27:17.359 --> 01:27:20.640 bring you drink, bring whatever you you know, bring your amenities like 1109 01:27:21.680 --> 01:27:25.800 when they're not still fucking I'm sorry. I would want to be on some 1110 01:27:26.000 --> 01:27:30.359 level with live commonality with my girlfriend's baby daddy facts and I will I would 1111 01:27:30.399 --> 01:27:34.560 want him to feel the same way. Like if you is having something at 1112 01:27:34.640 --> 01:27:39.560 Joe cribb and for your for the kid and you won't focus. But a 1113 01:27:39.600 --> 01:27:44.199 lot of baby daddies, dude, be bitter, but the baby daddies be 1114 01:27:44.239 --> 01:27:47.279 bitter. It gives very much welcome to death for ro niggas. Don't be 1115 01:27:47.279 --> 01:27:57.600 wanting you to be with nobody else Nias day. As long as focus ain't 1116 01:27:57.600 --> 01:28:00.960 doing hard to my kid, sure you can raise that little motherfucker when I'm 1117 01:28:00.039 --> 01:28:02.920 not there, right, that's cool. I don't mind that I mean, 1118 01:28:02.960 --> 01:28:06.880 in fifth, if there is someone in my baby daddy life, you know 1119 01:28:06.920 --> 01:28:12.039 what I'm saying, who is giving off mother vibes or giving off something or 1120 01:28:12.079 --> 01:28:15.600 some type of genuine love for my kid that she did not push out. 1121 01:28:15.000 --> 01:28:20.720 I can't do shit but respect that. How long before you try to have 1122 01:28:20.880 --> 01:28:28.399 that sit down conversation with her the girlfriend? Yeah? Like how long of 1123 01:28:28.479 --> 01:28:31.840 the dating process? So I'm not gonna lie. So you probably don't know 1124 01:28:31.960 --> 01:28:38.000 he dating her long before it gets serious? So when do you sit down 1125 01:28:38.039 --> 01:28:45.600 and have that conversation with her about this is where I would like us to 1126 01:28:45.680 --> 01:28:47.000 be as friends, because you gotta remember, at the end of the day, 1127 01:28:47.000 --> 01:28:53.960 you you're in a particular place because you're both best friends and child's mother 1128 01:28:54.079 --> 01:28:59.279 simultaneously. So you want to meet her as oh, let me see who's 1129 01:28:59.319 --> 01:29:01.520 dating my friend, to see she's good enough for him. But then at 1130 01:29:01.520 --> 01:29:04.199 the same time, let me see who this woman is is gonna be around 1131 01:29:04.239 --> 01:29:06.880 my kid? Yeah, because that's more so where I met with it. 1132 01:29:08.000 --> 01:29:11.119 At that point, I don't give a fuck who good enough for you because 1133 01:29:11.800 --> 01:29:19.119 it ain't me. Yeah, So yeah, I'm more so want to be 1134 01:29:19.239 --> 01:29:23.279 your friend because you're around my child. I don't want no bad blood with 1135 01:29:23.359 --> 01:29:25.920 us. If you're around my child, if you don't like me, I 1136 01:29:25.960 --> 01:29:29.520 don't want you around my kid. If we don't have mature vibes. Even 1137 01:29:29.520 --> 01:29:30.720 if we are not friends, I want to still be able to be like, 1138 01:29:30.960 --> 01:29:33.239 hey, you know I'm dropping him off to you. You got kids, 1139 01:29:33.239 --> 01:29:35.680 they playing with each other With that, I wanted to be mature. 1140 01:29:35.840 --> 01:29:39.319 We don't have to be the best of friends. If we do, okay, 1141 01:29:39.359 --> 01:29:43.680 cool, But all in all, my sole purpose, if I'm not 1142 01:29:43.760 --> 01:29:46.720 messing with him anymore, would strictly be how you're treating my kid. Whatever 1143 01:29:46.800 --> 01:29:49.239 karma she put you through is on you. Baby. They ain't got shit 1144 01:29:49.279 --> 01:29:53.800 to do with me. Like when you think about the hand the workings of 1145 01:29:53.840 --> 01:29:58.520 a relationship, like we need like again, we don't gotta be best friends, 1146 01:29:58.920 --> 01:30:02.560 but on some love, well we gotta we gotta jam because there's gonna 1147 01:30:02.600 --> 01:30:08.279 come time and life where I might gotta be the third party facts like I 1148 01:30:08.399 --> 01:30:11.239 might gotta be the nigga that bridge the gap, Like okay, well she 1149 01:30:11.319 --> 01:30:14.800 got stuck at work, so I got a little man, And you know, 1150 01:30:15.000 --> 01:30:16.279 either I'm gonna bring him to you or you could come get him. 1151 01:30:16.279 --> 01:30:20.119 But you know, he's safe right like, so you know he's good. 1152 01:30:20.239 --> 01:30:23.560 You know what I'm saying. When we get I'll bring him to you, 1153 01:30:23.680 --> 01:30:25.680 all right, bro, you know he did we did this, we did 1154 01:30:25.800 --> 01:30:27.680 that. I've got him. McDonald's what I'm saying. So you might not 1155 01:30:27.680 --> 01:30:30.640 gotta feed him for a few hours because he cool right now, and then 1156 01:30:30.720 --> 01:30:33.720 y'all gonna do father something, whatever the fucking is y'all do. That's true. 1157 01:30:33.800 --> 01:30:38.359 I mean, the person who keeping my child should want a relationship with 1158 01:30:38.439 --> 01:30:41.960 me. They should want to be able to call me, Hey, something's 1159 01:30:42.000 --> 01:30:45.399 going on with Osia. Hey, Ohia might have had an asthma, so 1160 01:30:45.520 --> 01:30:47.600 it could be any fun thing if you can't get to him. I need 1161 01:30:47.640 --> 01:30:50.199 you to feel comfortable enough to call me. You don't gotta be my fucking 1162 01:30:50.199 --> 01:30:54.319 friend. I don't have to like each other, but I need you to 1163 01:30:54.439 --> 01:30:57.880 at least have the respect for me that I'm gonna have for you. Call 1164 01:30:57.960 --> 01:31:01.359 me. People weird for sure. People. That's because people still be fucking 1165 01:31:01.760 --> 01:31:05.600 I'm still on that and people still be fucking everybody trying to act like in 1166 01:31:05.680 --> 01:31:10.880 the generation fucking so so so oh, it's just it's nothing. It's we're 1167 01:31:11.039 --> 01:31:15.800 kind of but like so many soul ties, so many, so many emotional 1168 01:31:15.840 --> 01:31:19.439 connections, and all of them demons you carrying with you. That shit is 1169 01:31:19.520 --> 01:31:23.960 real. I believe that should have. If your son creased my shoes, 1170 01:31:24.000 --> 01:31:30.199 I'm gonna fucking up. I ain't gonna lie to you. Why why would 1171 01:31:30.199 --> 01:31:33.960 you do that to my shoes? I want him to be like he yeah 1172 01:31:35.079 --> 01:31:40.560 that he can't can't get on his toes. I will punch the shit out, 1173 01:31:40.880 --> 01:31:45.600 child like, don't have my value? Well your kids? That's another 1174 01:31:45.640 --> 01:31:50.439 thing. Do you got five hundred dollars because the rebounding shoe caused me five 1175 01:31:50.520 --> 01:31:54.279 hunds? No, he's gonna be working it off at the summer time. 1176 01:31:54.880 --> 01:31:58.079 He gonna be sweating his ass off, cutting the ground. Okay, And 1177 01:31:58.239 --> 01:32:03.880 I'm painting twenty cents on the hour. Yeah, because you fucked up my 1178 01:32:03.920 --> 01:32:10.079 shoes. I'm gonna show you what hard work is like. Nigga. Yep, 1179 01:32:11.279 --> 01:32:16.159 if you nigga twenty cents, yeah, it's twenty six hours. So 1180 01:32:16.199 --> 01:32:19.800 how many hours did you work? You had a nigga? After four hours 1181 01:32:19.800 --> 01:32:24.359 of yard work on a hot nigga, I'm gonna hold you so what he 1182 01:32:24.359 --> 01:32:28.560 could whoop your ass? Tom? Did you fuck up the shoes or did 1183 01:32:28.560 --> 01:32:32.560 he fuck up? Now? If you want to be a great uncle and 1184 01:32:33.159 --> 01:32:40.119 slide little folks five hours so one can't rehab his shoes by all means. 1185 01:32:40.199 --> 01:32:45.760 But if not five cents an hour, twenty five cents an hour, do 1186 01:32:45.800 --> 01:32:49.640 you want him to come work in tom already tone death studios? Do you 1187 01:32:49.720 --> 01:32:57.119 want to pay this little nigga better than working with you? Because twenty five 1188 01:32:57.399 --> 01:33:01.479 cents an hour? Do you know how long you're gonna be working to replace 1189 01:33:01.560 --> 01:33:06.359 my shoes? You can make more money in jail. Do you want to 1190 01:33:06.399 --> 01:33:13.239 go to jail because what you did? Because because what you did was a 1191 01:33:13.319 --> 01:33:20.159 crime, and you will be treated as such with swift justice. Did you 1192 01:33:20.239 --> 01:33:25.720 hear that side of fact? Child? That is how you gonna be treated 1193 01:33:25.880 --> 01:33:31.439 if you fuck with my tennis shoes? Swift justice, swift justice. What 1194 01:33:31.439 --> 01:33:35.560 I'm saying what washing dishes for a quarter? And I think you valid? 1195 01:33:35.880 --> 01:33:40.399 I think it's you could definitely do like five dollars thank you? No, 1196 01:33:41.119 --> 01:33:46.920 my baby, five sentence, five dollars he fucked up the shoes, Well, 1197 01:33:46.920 --> 01:33:54.000 I gotta overpay this nigga. Minimum of wage is eight dollars. I 1198 01:33:54.039 --> 01:33:58.000 think we are missing the point of the punish you. I want you to 1199 01:33:58.039 --> 01:34:04.199 work as hard as I had the work. I want you to work as 1200 01:34:04.199 --> 01:34:08.960 hard as I had to work to go to work to get these shoes. 1201 01:34:09.520 --> 01:34:14.239 Then I had to I had to watching our live so I can know that 1202 01:34:14.239 --> 01:34:16.880 they was gonna do the early drop. I had to work. It's a 1203 01:34:16.920 --> 01:34:20.760 blessed way, tiens for these cheers all these years to hit these tears. 1204 01:34:23.279 --> 01:34:26.560 You go, you're gonna learn the day about Stevie. I bet he won't 1205 01:34:26.600 --> 01:34:31.680 suck up another pairs want And if you do it, just office, I'm 1206 01:34:31.680 --> 01:34:38.680 gonna we're gonna fight. We don't fight the jail hitting. Hit him with 1207 01:34:38.680 --> 01:34:44.159 a couple of body shots. All his shoes and he want somebody shots. 1208 01:34:45.119 --> 01:34:49.239 Send you up, bail one. You gave him twenty five cents an hour. 1209 01:34:50.319 --> 01:34:55.439 He really gonna be on your ass. Snicker got me working and doing. 1210 01:34:54.000 --> 01:34:59.840 I mean definitely gonna tell his dad. He's definitely definitely for your daddy 1211 01:35:00.119 --> 01:35:03.399 having me. I can like Cindebrella bro y'all podcast dad, And you know 1212 01:35:03.439 --> 01:35:09.960 what's so funny part You're gonna be like man Blue kidd and you're gonna say 1213 01:35:09.960 --> 01:35:12.520 it to mem it meem me gonna be like, that's what you get. 1214 01:35:12.880 --> 01:35:15.880 Stop being cheap, nigga, all them years off, you not tipping Meemi 1215 01:35:15.920 --> 01:35:23.039 gonna do a call back on your I've been tipping now. I'm just saying 1216 01:35:23.720 --> 01:35:30.840 I ain't tipped back then, not back then, back then? We sick. 1217 01:35:30.199 --> 01:35:33.840 You ever feel like you've done a lot in a short time spine like 1218 01:35:33.960 --> 01:35:36.840 how long we'll be going through the how quickly we're going through these fives? 1219 01:35:38.279 --> 01:35:41.439 Yeah? Like not that, But you know, I remember when you just 1220 01:35:41.479 --> 01:35:48.199 have a good conversationship. Be I heard she is gonna be in a recap 1221 01:35:48.279 --> 01:35:53.279 to me, like, why are they why are they doing this to the 1222 01:35:53.680 --> 01:35:57.279 people? I can see that, Bro, I'm not for the city. 1223 01:35:57.279 --> 01:36:00.640 Didn't tell me that there's not some kind of washing up the money going on 1224 01:36:00.760 --> 01:36:06.800 behind the scenes. Because one, these clothes be cheap as fuck, okay, 1225 01:36:08.039 --> 01:36:10.640 and the material will be cheapest fucking a lot of these cases too. 1226 01:36:10.800 --> 01:36:13.279 I don't know, man, I'm sure outfits be looking kind of kind of 1227 01:36:13.359 --> 01:36:16.920 righteous. You don't trust it? How you gonna trust it? One they 1228 01:36:16.920 --> 01:36:20.520 don't even have our sides ninety Sometimes I don't know, No man, shopping 1229 01:36:20.520 --> 01:36:25.399 though, shit, occasionally I might go look for a shirt because jams. 1230 01:36:25.960 --> 01:36:30.399 But for the dudes, I know, I know they got some shit on 1231 01:36:30.439 --> 01:36:34.920 fashion over that niggas. You know, now fashion man, I'm gonna see 1232 01:36:34.960 --> 01:36:39.800 what that guy some draws, some draws. Pretty much, that's all they 1233 01:36:39.800 --> 01:36:42.920 care about. That's all they think. They all, that's all women places 1234 01:36:42.960 --> 01:36:44.960 think about us. I mean, I'm saying, like, this is this 1235 01:36:45.079 --> 01:36:48.279 dude I follow on Instagram, he'd be wearing like the outfits. He'd be 1236 01:36:48.359 --> 01:36:51.680 nice. Yeah, like here he's shooting nigga and then like he'll model like 1237 01:36:51.720 --> 01:36:55.840 the outfit and a parent. I don't know. You know, everybody think 1238 01:36:55.840 --> 01:37:00.479 they're fucking fashion easton ship. Yeah, like, broches, what are you 1239 01:37:00.520 --> 01:37:08.319 doing? Bro? Just put the fucking god what are you doing? Who 1240 01:37:08.399 --> 01:37:14.000 dressed better than you? Damn? Yeah, he just gonna make me step 1241 01:37:14.039 --> 01:37:15.640 my swag up a little bit. But it's still gonna make me be like, 1242 01:37:15.760 --> 01:37:20.119 damn, you care too much. I can't say that because like I'll 1243 01:37:20.119 --> 01:37:24.760 be putting that shit on too. So it's like, but I'm a bad 1244 01:37:24.800 --> 01:37:30.279 bitch. I want I'm a bad match, not barely look great, and 1245 01:37:30.359 --> 01:37:34.920 I want him to look great standing beside me. You know, it is 1246 01:37:36.760 --> 01:37:41.600 nothing you can't you can't have no kind of self care. You're supposed to 1247 01:37:41.640 --> 01:37:45.880 be an ashy as nigga your life. No, I love. I actually 1248 01:37:45.880 --> 01:37:47.920 love a man who take care of himself. I love the fact that you 1249 01:37:47.960 --> 01:37:53.119 know, I'll see a man with his nails done, clear coat, toads, 1250 01:37:53.199 --> 01:37:57.319 the clear coat. Shit like that to me? Does not that don't 1251 01:37:57.520 --> 01:38:00.319 entitle me feeling like, oh you you're gay, Like that's that's great to 1252 01:38:00.399 --> 01:38:05.159 me, that's great. If you get a manny patty fan, do you 1253 01:38:05.199 --> 01:38:09.880 whatever makes you happen. Just I love me a good clear coat. You 1254 01:38:09.920 --> 01:38:15.279 want to facial my dog? Whatever makes everybody. Because niggas definitely have skin 1255 01:38:15.439 --> 01:38:19.159 issues, especially now the niggas want to brow their beards and shit, they 1256 01:38:19.239 --> 01:38:24.159 definitely need to get that. Yeah, because or be up under nigga's bears. 1257 01:38:25.479 --> 01:38:29.800 That's why some niggas can't never shave it off. Yeah, should look 1258 01:38:29.840 --> 01:38:32.880 like ill, but it is. It is. It is a regiment that 1259 01:38:32.960 --> 01:38:36.880 you have to do. And a lot of niggas they just say, what's 1260 01:38:36.880 --> 01:38:41.239 your idea, nigga, Like if you could build the nigga? What what 1261 01:38:41.239 --> 01:38:45.880 what like build a bear? So to spit na build this nigga, My 1262 01:38:46.039 --> 01:38:56.119 nigga would be please be realistic, too realistic, don't be like hebe seven 1263 01:38:56.239 --> 01:39:02.560 nine really want nigga that to be honest, I can't even say I want 1264 01:39:02.560 --> 01:39:09.119 to build a nigga because that's too perfect, Like that's too perfect. I 1265 01:39:09.159 --> 01:39:12.239 don't want broken niggas, but I don't want perfect. I do not want 1266 01:39:12.239 --> 01:39:15.720 every fucking day to be like whatever you want, my love, But I 1267 01:39:15.720 --> 01:39:21.600 don't want you nig that you want. The ideal nigga is like a nigga 1268 01:39:21.680 --> 01:39:28.000 that would literally not do no shit behind my back. Obviously everybody won't the 1269 01:39:28.560 --> 01:39:30.840 realistic world, we all just don't want to cheat. We all just want 1270 01:39:30.880 --> 01:39:38.600 somebody that's gonna love us enough to not cheat on us. Not that not. 1271 01:39:39.199 --> 01:39:43.199 I don't want you to be I don't want you to be fucking perfect. 1272 01:39:43.279 --> 01:39:51.760 I just don't want you to cheat on me. Niggas everybody like, 1273 01:39:53.079 --> 01:39:56.000 but the luckily niggas. Once you start dating and you're a bad bish, 1274 01:39:56.039 --> 01:40:00.920 they always get a little bit hidya some of them, some of them. 1275 01:40:00.119 --> 01:40:04.920 I don't. I don't. I don't think big headed in a way. 1276 01:40:04.920 --> 01:40:12.159 We're like chill, like I don't know what big headed like. Now you 1277 01:40:12.199 --> 01:40:15.720 feel like you can go off and fuck around on me, or you feel 1278 01:40:15.760 --> 01:40:17.359 like the sudden the way you used to talk to me, now you're talking 1279 01:40:17.399 --> 01:40:21.880 different. It is becoming a little ass holy, or it's like, well 1280 01:40:21.920 --> 01:40:33.279 that's how to be, but it's not new to them. Like when you've 1281 01:40:33.319 --> 01:40:38.560 been an ugly nigga or be considered ugly and a lot of eyes, or 1282 01:40:38.600 --> 01:40:41.039 you try to shoot your shot at some girls and they shot you down and 1283 01:40:41.079 --> 01:40:44.800 talked about you, your confidence level is pretty low. So when you get 1284 01:40:44.800 --> 01:40:47.479 a chick who builds up your confidence level and she a batty on top of 1285 01:40:47.479 --> 01:40:50.600 that, So when you out in public you got all the niggas who want 1286 01:40:50.600 --> 01:40:55.239 to fuck yo bitch, you get a little cocky is naturally gonna happen, 1287 01:40:56.039 --> 01:41:00.000 but they have to learn how to control how that energy is conveyed. So 1288 01:41:00.039 --> 01:41:03.159 they don't want to come off they're not purposely trying to come off with Most 1289 01:41:03.199 --> 01:41:05.880 of them are not purposely trying to come off as assholes. They're just trying 1290 01:41:05.880 --> 01:41:13.840 to come off a little bit more confident. So when they're talking to you 1291 01:41:10.640 --> 01:41:16.640 that not even necessarily get that base out of your voice, because like, 1292 01:41:16.680 --> 01:41:20.079 I'm not trying to be your mama, I'm very much so just trying to 1293 01:41:20.119 --> 01:41:25.640 be your woman. But you know, still respect me as such. Yes, 1294 01:41:25.720 --> 01:41:28.479 you got better clothes, better confidence, or whatever the case may be. 1295 01:41:28.520 --> 01:41:31.119 But demin the niggas who didn't getting no pussons. Yes, still treat 1296 01:41:31.199 --> 01:41:38.399 me as fucking such, still treat me with respect. No, no, 1297 01:41:38.880 --> 01:41:42.439 they didn't. They didn't get no pusson in your life. Then when they 1298 01:41:42.520 --> 01:41:46.840 made a pretty bitch to give them something like we're crazy, ye having an 1299 01:41:46.840 --> 01:41:53.199 attack? I mean because now you you you back the Kiki Palmer, you 1300 01:41:53.199 --> 01:41:57.720 you got the Angela Bassett or I just hate what niggas say. Well, 1301 01:41:58.039 --> 01:42:00.520 you're so fine. Why are you saying ale? Why the fuck do you 1302 01:42:00.560 --> 01:42:04.520 think? Why the fuck do you think I'm single? Because I got a 1303 01:42:04.600 --> 01:42:09.239 brain, because I'm not going for no bullshit, because I'm not allowing you 1304 01:42:09.279 --> 01:42:12.079 to cheat. I'm not allowing you to come home at six o'clock in the 1305 01:42:12.119 --> 01:42:17.239 fucking morning. Um no, no, huh. Okay, cool, if 1306 01:42:17.239 --> 01:42:21.479 you had worked, cool, But if you are street nigga, cool, 1307 01:42:21.720 --> 01:42:26.319 But it has to be a reason why you're doing this. If you think 1308 01:42:26.359 --> 01:42:30.720 you just out at the club with your niggas coming in, you coming in 1309 01:42:30.720 --> 01:42:33.000 at five six, that's too much for me. You was with a bitch. 1310 01:42:34.159 --> 01:42:42.079 See you nast five in the morning. My guy was with you, 1311 01:42:42.239 --> 01:42:48.239 was with a bitch there. But some bitches y'all nigga had some type of 1312 01:42:48.239 --> 01:42:56.960 two man going on. Were not acting crazy here? I do I do 1313 01:42:57.159 --> 01:43:00.560 because it'd be two man games. Oh the whole time. It don't even 1314 01:43:00.560 --> 01:43:02.520 be my nigga who bringing a bitch around. He just got to be the 1315 01:43:02.520 --> 01:43:06.920 friend of the friend and the ugly ass girl that's there, Like, yeah, 1316 01:43:06.000 --> 01:43:11.119 I get in trouble trying to be the nigga to get my nigga out 1317 01:43:11.159 --> 01:43:15.479 of Like exatimes, we wing man for guy like one could be meeting the 1318 01:43:15.560 --> 01:43:17.600 bad bitch and and she got a friend. But I swear to guy for 1319 01:43:17.720 --> 01:43:21.359 one to get closer to her cause somebody got an occupied a friend, so 1320 01:43:21.399 --> 01:43:25.279 I might have to be there to occupied a friend. And all of a 1321 01:43:25.279 --> 01:43:27.720 sudden the friend was like, well I'm bored, and all of a sudden, 1322 01:43:27.920 --> 01:43:32.159 zip, hey, yeah, bro, see you gotta take I gotta 1323 01:43:32.159 --> 01:43:36.319 take one for the team. From my home books, I ain't gonna lie 1324 01:43:36.319 --> 01:43:40.199 to you. I would never put you in that position. I was young 1325 01:43:40.319 --> 01:43:43.319 enough, but I would never put you in that position. Man, we're 1326 01:43:43.399 --> 01:43:46.239 not talking to the friend of the friend i'd be I'll sit there literally have 1327 01:43:46.399 --> 01:43:53.279 conversation with you. I will have conversation with you just because we're we're out 1328 01:43:53.279 --> 01:43:55.880 here and nay up in the room. We do not gotta fuck, but 1329 01:43:56.039 --> 01:44:00.159 bro up well not. I mean, that's that's that's poem. Let's talk 1330 01:44:00.159 --> 01:44:04.960 about again. This is when I was younger. Yeah, so when you 1331 01:44:04.960 --> 01:44:09.319 younger, the game game was way different. Back it wasn't the game. 1332 01:44:09.359 --> 01:44:15.760 It was like you do right. It was like most girls like they didn't 1333 01:44:15.760 --> 01:44:18.239 want to be left out. So if you if you know your friend upstairs 1334 01:44:18.239 --> 01:44:23.359 fucking, you're gonna try to get you so, especially if you think if 1335 01:44:23.399 --> 01:44:28.560 you think I'm cute to a degree, man, wildest, wildest line I 1336 01:44:28.600 --> 01:44:32.880 have ever used. That actually worked. Guy upstairs bagging his ship, come 1337 01:44:32.920 --> 01:44:36.760 downstairs, her friend down there, she's looking bored. We have a regular 1338 01:44:36.760 --> 01:44:41.239 conversation. You know, I'm a conversational kind of the two. Okay, 1339 01:44:41.479 --> 01:44:44.760 so you know you hear head boards moving. I was like, damn, 1340 01:44:44.760 --> 01:44:46.640 they have been great times. The old girls said, man, they are, 1341 01:44:47.000 --> 01:44:49.399 I'm ready to go home. I just like I got a big dick 1342 01:44:49.479 --> 01:44:59.640 though, and oh you do shit happened the wildest line of every yiwu. 1343 01:45:00.000 --> 01:45:04.279 It worked, God said, as the wildest line I've ever used, and 1344 01:45:04.319 --> 01:45:11.479 it worked. Sound what up? That's I was a young nigga. Everybody 1345 01:45:11.600 --> 01:45:14.840 was the point of talking about see you you're you're new to me like that 1346 01:45:14.960 --> 01:45:18.880 though, And what you will find out over time is in my early twenties 1347 01:45:20.119 --> 01:45:26.279 wild lifestyle. He was or very very wild lifestyle. He was playing Russian 1348 01:45:26.359 --> 01:45:29.640 Roulette with his dick, just throwing his dick on a crap tap many and 1349 01:45:29.760 --> 01:45:33.800 that many and that. I say I won because I walked out with no 1350 01:45:33.960 --> 01:45:36.880 diseases, and for sure I didn't say you lost. You definitely didn't crap 1351 01:45:36.920 --> 01:45:40.840 out no no diseases and no kids. Fact, I gotta get it to 1352 01:45:40.920 --> 01:45:48.920 you like that as episode. So I came out pretty good. But I 1353 01:45:48.960 --> 01:45:54.079 got some stories to prove it. But in these niggas will have no problem 1354 01:45:54.159 --> 01:46:00.680 bringing them up. For sure. He was in the Air Force, see 1355 01:46:00.840 --> 01:46:03.960 not I said. I ain't even go in detail. It was it was 1356 01:46:04.039 --> 01:46:08.760 it was the eyes for me, bro. You like you like a military 1357 01:46:08.840 --> 01:46:12.239 man. I don't know, like stability you got you got you got your 1358 01:46:12.319 --> 01:46:16.319 uniform in a closet, Not that one tbh. I prefer consistency over stability. 1359 01:46:17.159 --> 01:46:24.479 That sounds bad, don't don't talk to me and text message okay, 1360 01:46:24.760 --> 01:46:29.279 consistency, consistence, my mama, I'm an everyday fucking anybody. I come 1361 01:46:29.359 --> 01:46:31.520 home and love you for who you are, all my dirt. Stay out 1362 01:46:31.600 --> 01:46:34.279 that door so minute I walk in that door. You're the only thing I 1363 01:46:34.439 --> 01:46:39.800 care about. But if I do that consistently, you'll choose that over stability, 1364 01:46:40.159 --> 01:46:44.520 because stability being to me, I think the worst stability is probably going 1365 01:46:44.600 --> 01:46:48.880 over my head. But stability to me is like financials. Are you taking 1366 01:46:48.960 --> 01:46:54.079 care of me? Are you taking care of home? Are you making sure 1367 01:46:54.159 --> 01:46:57.840 that she's saying she got that bro? So any way, I get where 1368 01:46:57.840 --> 01:47:00.079 you coming from. You don't need his money because your own. But that's 1369 01:47:00.119 --> 01:47:04.279 not even no, not even necessarily the money either, but more so along 1370 01:47:04.359 --> 01:47:13.600 the lines of stability, don't outweigh you know what I'm saying. You constantly 1371 01:47:13.720 --> 01:47:16.720 loving me, you constantly being there for me, you constantly treated me, 1372 01:47:16.840 --> 01:47:24.640 how you treated me to get me, or because I can Yeah, I 1373 01:47:24.760 --> 01:47:30.199 think where a lot of people make the mistake at is you need both simultaneously. 1374 01:47:30.479 --> 01:47:33.720 You can't choose one over the other. See, because I can love 1375 01:47:33.840 --> 01:47:36.600 you for you, and I can always make you feel appreciate. I can 1376 01:47:36.680 --> 01:47:41.159 always make you feel happy. But in the back of your mind, you 1377 01:47:41.279 --> 01:47:44.640 don't know how rent getting paid next month, and that's going to deter you 1378 01:47:44.800 --> 01:47:48.600 how you look at me, or if you gotta work toward extra hours to 1379 01:47:48.720 --> 01:47:51.600 make sure money's in the house. Even though you have a go get or 1380 01:47:51.680 --> 01:47:56.399 mentality, you're gonna be asking yourself, why am I giving eighty and you're 1381 01:47:56.479 --> 01:48:00.239 given twenty? So that's stability or the ability to be able to not have 1382 01:48:00.439 --> 01:48:04.199 to worry about where the next meal is coming from, when the bills are 1383 01:48:04.279 --> 01:48:09.039 being paid, money in the savings account, no car note that has to 1384 01:48:09.079 --> 01:48:14.079 be worre If all the financial side of things is completely taken care of, 1385 01:48:14.600 --> 01:48:17.560 or even better on auto pay, that's how good y'all got it. It's 1386 01:48:17.640 --> 01:48:21.439 easier for me to focus on you and you focus on me because we're not 1387 01:48:21.560 --> 01:48:26.720 putting any extra work in to make sure we have a roof over our head 1388 01:48:27.079 --> 01:48:30.239 or food in our mouth. Now we can focus on each other. And 1389 01:48:30.479 --> 01:48:33.159 usually when those problems are out the way, I don't have a need to 1390 01:48:33.239 --> 01:48:36.640 be out here in the streets because I'm not stressing over this billing because you're 1391 01:48:36.720 --> 01:48:41.840 not stressing me. I'm not out at this bar drinking trying to get my 1392 01:48:42.000 --> 01:48:45.000 woes away. Who Now this bitch over there say hey, you look good, 1393 01:48:45.000 --> 01:48:46.319 you want to have a good time, and I go home with her 1394 01:48:46.359 --> 01:48:48.800 and staying for that night because I'm tired? Are you stressing on me? 1395 01:48:49.199 --> 01:48:53.039 But to be honest, one thing plays into another, which is why I 1396 01:48:53.079 --> 01:48:57.680 said I'll take that over that, because if you're being consistent, that comes 1397 01:48:57.760 --> 01:49:00.920 with stability. That comes with know what I'm saying, you being able to 1398 01:49:01.560 --> 01:49:09.319 build a foundation or you know, build off solitude. Like I'm a full 1399 01:49:09.680 --> 01:49:15.279 firm believer in if I'm coming home, I'm consistently loving you, I'm consistently 1400 01:49:15.399 --> 01:49:17.079 doing right. I'm consistently going to work doing what I gotta do, or 1401 01:49:17.119 --> 01:49:20.800 I'm consistently putting me in work, in my in whatever it is that I'm 1402 01:49:20.800 --> 01:49:26.520 an entrepreneur in or it's that all that is gonna bring stability, All of 1403 01:49:26.560 --> 01:49:29.960 that is gonna bring more love, All of that is gonna bring a bond 1404 01:49:30.199 --> 01:49:38.600 that It's just really you can have consistency. You have consistency and stability, 1405 01:49:39.119 --> 01:49:44.560 but you can also just have stability. No consistency. Now, that's true, 1406 01:49:44.680 --> 01:49:47.119 and that's that's where it come into play because I can make sure you're 1407 01:49:47.159 --> 01:49:53.920 good straight and literally not have no touch or spark on my mind mentally or 1408 01:49:54.000 --> 01:49:57.800 emotionally innatly. It was great from not trying to be funny. But there's 1409 01:49:57.800 --> 01:50:01.039 a lot of girls in your age category. That's what they want. They 1410 01:50:01.159 --> 01:50:05.920 wanted Nigga to do all of that for them to keep them stable and could 1411 01:50:05.960 --> 01:50:10.560 care less about him because they still strung up on the baby daddy that's in 1412 01:50:10.680 --> 01:50:15.479 jail. See, I'm more so looking at it in in a mindset up. 1413 01:50:15.560 --> 01:50:16.840 And if I meet you and you tell me that your baby daddy in 1414 01:50:16.920 --> 01:50:20.960 jail, I'm not talking to you. No, not ask how long he 1415 01:50:21.199 --> 01:50:28.319 when you get out, I don't care because whether it's a good time work 1416 01:50:28.520 --> 01:50:32.560 or a long TI because if you get let's just have some fun right now, 1417 01:50:33.000 --> 01:50:35.359 all we can do it. And once you're saying I have a baby 1418 01:50:35.439 --> 01:50:40.239 daddy and he's in jail, all we could do is outer that because why 1419 01:50:40.840 --> 01:50:44.479 because what if she just have a baby daddy, she's not waiting for him. 1420 01:50:44.760 --> 01:50:46.000 That's not my problem. She worried his baby daddy. She didn't say 1421 01:50:46.039 --> 01:50:49.520 more my boyfriends in jail. That's not my problem. You figuring that out. 1422 01:50:50.359 --> 01:50:54.399 I've told you where I stand. She checks all Timbo, I've told 1423 01:50:54.439 --> 01:51:00.960 you where I stand. That's a problem. I just they're not. Why 1424 01:51:00.039 --> 01:51:04.520 is it a problem? Because jail better than him being out. He lurking 1425 01:51:04.560 --> 01:51:10.479 in the shadows. How but he's behind ball? But okay, what if 1426 01:51:10.680 --> 01:51:13.800 what if this is the nigga who's running up the fucking phone bill? What 1427 01:51:13.960 --> 01:51:15.720 if I ask you where your money going? And I find out you putting 1428 01:51:15.760 --> 01:51:20.159 money on his books? That's still shit. That's different all right? Then? 1429 01:51:20.439 --> 01:51:30.600 So even even if it ain't there you in jail, where's his mama? 1430 01:51:30.359 --> 01:51:32.800 Maybe she did? Bro, you're thirty five years old, Bro, 1431 01:51:32.840 --> 01:51:36.520 everybody mama ain't a lot where your family is. Bro? He talks to 1432 01:51:36.640 --> 01:51:41.880 him too. Okay, but you put money on the books? You see? 1433 01:51:41.920 --> 01:51:45.680 How you see how y'all adding these variables to a situation. In the 1434 01:51:45.760 --> 01:51:51.239 beginning, I said no too, because we're looking at the no. Your 1435 01:51:51.319 --> 01:52:00.600 no is absolute, absolutely out having context? And do you know that there 1436 01:52:00.640 --> 01:52:01.960 are twenty four hours in a day? Right? Let me ask you this 1437 01:52:02.119 --> 01:52:09.039 question. I'm twenty four one, one thousand, four hundred and forty minutes. 1438 01:52:09.239 --> 01:52:13.479 Do you know how much shit people just say no too without contact within 1439 01:52:13.640 --> 01:52:21.800 twenty four hours in a day. Let me but here's the reason why a 1440 01:52:21.880 --> 01:52:25.920 lot of us when you say no the stuff, and we hit you with 1441 01:52:26.079 --> 01:52:29.399 what you refer to as variable because we want you to look at the coin. 1442 01:52:29.520 --> 01:52:32.039 If you were in that same position, you got into a situation that 1443 01:52:32.199 --> 01:52:36.560 you're now in jail for two years and your girlfriend with your child is on 1444 01:52:36.640 --> 01:52:41.600 the outside, even though you're not gonna be home in two years, you 1445 01:52:41.800 --> 01:52:45.119 want her to still continue to at least be that point of contact for you 1446 01:52:45.159 --> 01:52:47.720 while you're behind bars. Right, You got a mama, you got a 1447 01:52:47.760 --> 01:52:51.520 sister, you got brothers, and even though they still communicate with you, 1448 01:52:51.920 --> 01:52:55.920 she got your kid. Though, don't you still want to have communication with 1449 01:52:56.000 --> 01:53:03.720 your kid? Though I get what you're saying, that's the only the baby 1450 01:53:03.840 --> 01:53:09.640 mama and the baby daddy, whatever they got going on, that's them. 1451 01:53:10.279 --> 01:53:15.159 I'm telling you that I do not want any part of that because I am 1452 01:53:15.279 --> 01:53:20.640 not mature enough to deal with it. So when I say no. But 1453 01:53:20.720 --> 01:53:24.920 when I say but, when I say no, I'm not doing things, 1454 01:53:24.960 --> 01:53:30.279 it's because I understand that my level of maturity on certain topics ain't where it 1455 01:53:30.359 --> 01:53:34.600 should be. To deal with that too. Oh, I'm just saying, 1456 01:53:34.720 --> 01:53:39.520 like, do you watch the internet a little bit, right, Adam? 1457 01:53:39.880 --> 01:53:45.319 You know Adam twenty two is no Adam twenty two is a famous podcaster and 1458 01:53:45.560 --> 01:53:48.399 on the side of doing podcasting, his wife is an only fan star, 1459 01:53:49.159 --> 01:53:55.800 so they fuck on only fans and get profit. Now they have only did 1460 01:53:55.960 --> 01:54:00.319 scenes with other women, or it's just them, or she let him fuck 1461 01:54:00.479 --> 01:54:04.439 other girls. Now recently he stepped outside of his comfort zone and was like, 1462 01:54:04.960 --> 01:54:09.520 I'm going to let my wife do it, saying with another guy. 1463 01:54:10.199 --> 01:54:14.239 Now, granted you let her fuck ad Dick probably war bigger than yours, 1464 01:54:14.319 --> 01:54:18.880 Pauls. But hey, whatever flow show boat is cool. I am not 1465 01:54:19.079 --> 01:54:23.680 here to judge whatever it is that they got going on in their relationship. 1466 01:54:25.359 --> 01:54:30.399 I am here to tell you that Dwan thinking's the pie guy, young freshman 1467 01:54:30.520 --> 01:54:33.880 whatever motherfucker's know me by I am not mature enough to be like, hey, 1468 01:54:34.000 --> 01:54:39.119 back, let's let's let's fuck. Nah, I'm not mature enough to 1469 01:54:39.159 --> 01:54:45.439 do. But that's on any level since we hear because we were supposed to 1470 01:54:45.439 --> 01:54:51.159 talk about this story anyway him and then we're gonna close it out. He's 1471 01:54:51.159 --> 01:54:55.640 a bit chass nigga. Damn. Here's the reason why I say that. 1472 01:54:56.600 --> 01:55:00.680 When it was your wife, girlfriend or whatever she is, and you were 1473 01:55:00.760 --> 01:55:04.000 bringing in other women and she stepped back, was like, okay, you 1474 01:55:04.119 --> 01:55:08.840 can fuck these women. Your feelings is good, you cool, you Okay, 1475 01:55:09.159 --> 01:55:13.199 your dick is dicking down multiple different women and you are phenomena. But 1476 01:55:13.319 --> 01:55:16.319 now the shoe is on the other foot and it's your woman who's the actual 1477 01:55:16.439 --> 01:55:18.920 star of this story here Now, okay, I want you to know that 1478 01:55:19.000 --> 01:55:23.560 niggas didn't subscribe to the only fans for him. They subscribe for her. 1479 01:55:24.760 --> 01:55:26.960 She now go out and get a dick, and it's like, oh my 1480 01:55:27.119 --> 01:55:32.119 god, I can't believe that these too much to handle. How do you 1481 01:55:32.199 --> 01:55:35.880 know that she didn't hold the same way and the problem but that was it 1482 01:55:36.079 --> 01:55:39.800 wasn't the fact that you felt that way. That's not the reason why you 1483 01:55:39.880 --> 01:55:42.279 a bitch ass nigga. You're a bitch ass niggas. You ran to the 1484 01:55:42.359 --> 01:55:46.680 internet about it. You wanted sympathy from other niggas, but you put her 1485 01:55:47.199 --> 01:55:56.359 in this position and you allow yourself. No, no, no, no, 1486 01:55:56.479 --> 01:56:02.960 no, no, this is reality here he wasn't not okay with he 1487 01:56:03.239 --> 01:56:08.359 was all for it, like he was cool with it. I had the 1488 01:56:08.479 --> 01:56:12.680 issue with the fact of, like, if I know that my dick is 1489 01:56:12.720 --> 01:56:17.039 a solid six inches and you are cool with this six inch pipe that I'm 1490 01:56:17.079 --> 01:56:23.359 slinging right what I'm saying, and but then you were like, well let's 1491 01:56:23.399 --> 01:56:25.920 do it, let me try another guy, and I'm like, okay, 1492 01:56:26.000 --> 01:56:28.800 cool, And then you go get the nigga who got me by like a 1493 01:56:28.920 --> 01:56:33.119 solid seven inches. That's wild. A is fuck bro, Like, if 1494 01:56:33.159 --> 01:56:36.119 you're gonna go, if you're gonna go get a dick, go get a 1495 01:56:36.199 --> 01:56:41.399 dick that look like mine. Don't go get a nigga who just dropping baby 1496 01:56:41.560 --> 01:56:45.760 arms on the first golfee table as wild as ship. Since we're here now, 1497 01:56:46.399 --> 01:56:48.560 no no, since we're here and I was getting get there, since 1498 01:56:48.600 --> 01:56:54.119 we're here now and we're securing our sexuality, I'm not mature. If you're 1499 01:56:54.159 --> 01:56:57.720 gonna go from a white dude to a black dude, let's just go ahead 1500 01:56:57.760 --> 01:57:00.399 and go full blown stereo tyre. So let's just get what I'm gonna get, 1501 01:57:00.399 --> 01:57:02.720 a black dude, Get a big dick, black dude, because this 1502 01:57:02.840 --> 01:57:05.800 is what they've known for We gonna do it. Let's just do it right. 1503 01:57:05.920 --> 01:57:11.119 She wouldn't got home arm out this bitch and she took it like a 1504 01:57:11.279 --> 01:57:16.039 chimp. That's crazy. The whole video, the video leaked. So yeah, 1505 01:57:16.279 --> 01:57:21.560 he let her give them the sloppy debby like you got like fucking this 1506 01:57:21.640 --> 01:57:28.680 one thing. Listen, you can't second intimate. You can't see now now 1507 01:57:28.760 --> 01:57:32.039 we take it into yeah, but you are the only business is business. 1508 01:57:32.119 --> 01:57:36.399 But you can't suck dick. But that's business. That's not businesses. Look 1509 01:57:36.760 --> 01:57:42.119 one second, dick ain't business. Why you can't dat chick who was either 1510 01:57:42.239 --> 01:57:45.600 a porn star or only fans because from what I heard though, the two 1511 01:57:45.640 --> 01:57:48.439 different things. Second, dick ain't business. It's business one. No, 1512 01:57:48.800 --> 01:57:53.000 not you don't know how it was business because it's the first thing that happens 1513 01:57:53.000 --> 01:57:58.560 in every scene. That's that's the that's getting to the business. Business. 1514 01:57:58.720 --> 01:58:02.000 But it ain't business. One at the end of the day, did you 1515 01:58:02.399 --> 01:58:06.319 you would you let your man fu somebody else? No, let alone eat 1516 01:58:06.359 --> 01:58:11.319 the person. I can't even I can't even as much as my curiosity be 1517 01:58:11.439 --> 01:58:15.199 like ooh, threesomes, I can't even do it because I'm just crazy, 1518 01:58:15.359 --> 01:58:19.000 Like I see you just drilling and just fucking too good. And then it's 1519 01:58:19.039 --> 01:58:21.640 like, fop, you can back of your head. You don't even know 1520 01:58:21.720 --> 01:58:26.439 why you can't punch people? Yes I can't. You can't fight. Why 1521 01:58:26.479 --> 01:58:30.039 everybody's naked? Yes I can't. You're just gonna have vagina and just start 1522 01:58:30.119 --> 01:58:39.479 slapping. That's slanging, teddy slangings. I played the fifth This is a 1523 01:58:39.520 --> 01:58:44.159 safe space, so we are not because she brung up threesomes and it's like 1524 01:58:45.039 --> 01:58:48.560 a lot of times women will agree to do a threesome for their man, 1525 01:58:49.079 --> 01:58:54.800 but don't be into women. They're just doing it for it cam. So 1526 01:58:55.680 --> 01:59:00.600 the question of are you into girls was like to even be cure is about 1527 01:59:00.680 --> 01:59:08.279 doing a threesome? Do you want a man man woman or that's that's a 1528 01:59:08.760 --> 01:59:15.039 that's a tricky situation. I definitely times said no, King Shaman because I 1529 01:59:15.159 --> 01:59:20.000 just it's fried. Just fight that that's frowned the bond to man yes, 1530 01:59:20.279 --> 01:59:25.119 and a woman yes if that's what she will Yes, who frowns. Just 1531 01:59:25.399 --> 01:59:33.039 literally situation you literally gave, just gave because I can't take that serious. 1532 01:59:33.199 --> 01:59:35.800 Bro, I don't frown upon if you want to to nigga. At the 1533 01:59:35.840 --> 01:59:40.960 same time, get your shut off. You see what I can't handle that. 1534 01:59:41.239 --> 01:59:45.159 I feel like women to be okay with bringing another woman into the equation, 1535 01:59:45.359 --> 01:59:47.760 and they think that the loophole is if I let her pick the woman, 1536 01:59:48.560 --> 01:59:54.600 that's good. That's good. Nigga's not mature. I can't. And 1537 01:59:54.720 --> 01:59:58.079 again, I'm not mature enough to where my girl can sit down and be 1538 01:59:58.199 --> 02:00:00.800 like, everybody, let's go get another nigga? Absolutely not. But because 1539 02:00:00.840 --> 02:00:04.319 I know I'm not mature enough for that, I'm not. I'm not putting 1540 02:00:04.319 --> 02:00:06.760 threesomes on the table just in case you trying to hit me with some shit 1541 02:00:06.840 --> 02:00:10.800 like that, because when I got asked, I actually got asked, like, 1542 02:00:10.960 --> 02:00:13.680 you know, would you have a threesome? And you know the correlation 1543 02:00:13.920 --> 02:00:17.039 wrong? And I'm like, oh, okay, so I could fuck to 1544 02:00:17.239 --> 02:00:20.039 do too. We could like we could all have one. He's like, 1545 02:00:20.239 --> 02:00:25.800 bro, I'm not do you really want to suck out and have another nigga 1546 02:00:25.840 --> 02:00:30.359 with him out? But that's okay? Do you really want to due? 1547 02:00:30.640 --> 02:00:32.399 No, then why would you say that? I just feel like I wanted 1548 02:00:32.479 --> 02:00:38.600 him to know the like the correlation of you don't ask that's extreme. Don't 1549 02:00:38.640 --> 02:00:41.239 ask me to go ask. Don't ask me what I fuck a bit. 1550 02:00:41.319 --> 02:00:43.920 If we can't fuck nigga, what have you to be? Like, yeah, 1551 02:00:44.000 --> 02:00:47.399 let's do it. That would have been kind of because but I don't 1552 02:00:47.439 --> 02:00:53.039 know either or so I'm supposed to like take two dicks at one time. 1553 02:00:53.279 --> 02:00:57.560 I don't know. The whole thing is weird. It's weird. That's it. 1554 02:00:57.720 --> 02:01:00.520 That's a category on my favorite someone. No, not even saying it 1555 02:01:00.640 --> 02:01:04.880 like that, I'm just saying, like, so, okay, what he 1556 02:01:05.000 --> 02:01:09.399 fucking and then like when I'm done with him, I gotta don't even have 1557 02:01:09.439 --> 02:01:13.199 to be that right. And he could be and he could could be hitting 1558 02:01:13.199 --> 02:01:16.920 in front the back. You could be sucking dick. We could be or 1559 02:01:17.000 --> 02:01:20.439 it can be a party world one pink and depends on how you get there. 1560 02:01:20.600 --> 02:01:27.199 Now, that's a little too close. I'm not saying. I'm just 1561 02:01:27.359 --> 02:01:30.279 saying, it's a lot of shit. That's too close. That's too close. 1562 02:01:30.359 --> 02:01:32.079 Now, if I'm on the top of you down low down low on 1563 02:01:32.279 --> 02:01:38.159 top, were good? We Montana and Florida, that's cool, But we 1564 02:01:38.359 --> 02:01:45.039 cannot be like Texas and Alabama, Alabama, Louisiana, Alabama. Nothing more 1565 02:01:45.119 --> 02:01:53.399 like Oklahoma and Texas. That's still that's still crazed to be more like South 1566 02:01:53.520 --> 02:02:00.279 Carolina. That's that some people. I don't want your thigh on my thought. 1567 02:02:01.680 --> 02:02:05.439 But it's different when you are a woman and you are actually interested in 1568 02:02:05.720 --> 02:02:10.720 women, and you are actually someone who has had a relationship with a woman, 1569 02:02:11.119 --> 02:02:14.640 then yes, the pleasure is yours. You are getting that pleasure of 1570 02:02:15.600 --> 02:02:20.079 the woman more so with a woman. What No, well, yes, 1571 02:02:20.479 --> 02:02:27.600 but it was like a long time ago, like what like like what kind 1572 02:02:27.640 --> 02:02:30.720 of like pause, like get into it and like you aren't like the down 1573 02:02:30.880 --> 02:02:34.359 stroke and you like work up a sweat. It's like you hit a stroke 1574 02:02:34.439 --> 02:02:44.520 and now your sweat flinging. I gotta stop. I got it too, 1575 02:02:45.279 --> 02:02:48.560 if you if you North and South Carolina, right, So if you Carolina, 1576 02:02:48.840 --> 02:02:56.079 technically she's in between y'all like an oreo cookie. So you really should 1577 02:02:56.319 --> 02:03:00.920 physically, if you position yourself right, y'all honestly never touch each other. 1578 02:03:00.720 --> 02:03:04.159 If you position yourself right, that's a lot of fucking works. It also 1579 02:03:04.199 --> 02:03:09.760 depends on how much balls you got, because your balls, yeah, they've 1580 02:03:09.800 --> 02:03:13.880 seen some big boss. But at the same time, you got to be 1581 02:03:13.960 --> 02:03:19.760 secure in your manhood that sometimes doing certain things. No, I don't real 1582 02:03:19.840 --> 02:03:27.960 talk. Sometimes that that's not big boss like you here for you wore that. 1583 02:03:28.159 --> 02:03:31.640 I just want you to know that you you have so many complications. 1584 02:03:31.800 --> 02:03:35.560 Well, ladies and gentlemen, I like to thank everybody for coming out and 1585 02:03:35.640 --> 02:03:41.239 hanging out with their fresh and diamond and something. I was just hanging out 1586 02:03:41.279 --> 02:03:45.239 with us too, apparently, but you know it's what I'm saying. It's 1587 02:03:45.279 --> 02:03:47.279 all to the good, the good. I appreciate everybody for rocking with the 1588 02:03:47.359 --> 02:03:50.359 homeboy. See y'all later, man, Until next time.