1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:07,719 I was reading as we were talking here about why dating apps don' t 2 00:00:08,199 --> 00:00:12,119 work and it says an article. In short, dating applications can be frustrating 3 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:17,280 for those looking for real connections and compatible couples, as they often feel like 4 00:00:17,399 --> 00:00:25,640 a repetitive cycle of sliding to the left and right without significant results. There 5 00:00:25,719 --> 00:00:29,160 are several reasons for the lack of success in dating applications, such as the 6 00:00:29,199 --> 00:00:35,240 high expectations that lead to disappointment, thinking too much about each interaction, maintaining 7 00:00:35,399 --> 00:00:40,759 a rigid attitude towards the goals of the quote, the overwhelming number of options 8 00:00:40,799 --> 00:00:48,560 available, and the phenomenon of ghost images. Another common problem is to treat 9 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:53,240 online dating as a game of numbers to play, rather than focus, on 10 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:58,479 building meaningful connections. In addition, the lack of an attractive profile, working 11 00:00:58,479 --> 00:01:04,760 on applications without a clear stasis and projecting negative vibrations can also hinder success in 12 00:01:04,879 --> 00:01:11,120 online dating. To improve the chances of success in online dating it is suggested 13 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:17,640 to wisely choose dating platforms, insist on, meet in person instead of staying 14 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:23,120 in digital conversations, send messages to more people to expand options, have clarity 15 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:30,920 in dating goals and maintain a positive attitude. The article also points out that 16 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:36,879 to get better results would be you looking for experts online to help you. 17 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:41,920 There are pages like Rose Dating, which offers intelligence- based profile analysis, 18 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:48,959 artificial profile optimization, and expert advice to improve the experience increase the chances of 19 00:01:48,959 --> 00:01:55,200 finding meaningful connections. This is very good, because this, these are theories, 20 00:01:56,200 --> 00:02:00,480 but I think the whole life that one has already fired millions of years 21 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:06,799 and generations and generations. I don' t think he' s going to 22 00:02:06,799 --> 00:02:10,000 solve that problem. Technology can give you access, make sex quick, sleep 23 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:19,599 with someone easily, etcetera. But I think the first thing you need to 24 00:02:19,599 --> 00:02:24,159 get out of your head is the rush, the despair, the urge to 25 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:29,000 see if you fall in love every day. It seems like someone who may 26 00:02:29,039 --> 00:02:34,000 be a candidate or a candidate for you, but that' s the time 27 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:37,800 that determines it. As I said, right now, you can end up 28 00:02:37,879 --> 00:02:39,759 falling in love with the least you expect. That' s how life is. 29 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:46,840 Life is like this then. She' s always been the fat girl 30 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:52,039 at school that you turned down, as they wrote here in what, because 31 00:02:52,039 --> 00:02:54,639 now you' re in the meeting. Number ten devil devil as it is, 32 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:59,280 the devil looks yes, et cetera. Because you reject them. He 33 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:00,919 ' s already made you up to her and I' m you unless you 34 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:05,080 let me see him again. Yeah, like in love, like there' 35 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:08,120 s no rule or standard, I mean, it' s pretty much. 36 00:03:10,879 --> 00:03:16,039 So what I do know is that the dating pages, those dating pods, 37 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:22,759 that doesn' t solve anything, because no, because Fulana knew people exceptions, 38 00:03:23,319 --> 00:03:24,879 the exceptions will tell you and it makes the majority of them married, 39 00:03:25,759 --> 00:03:30,159 I mean, you point out to me an exception, but the rule is 40 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:35,759 that the dating pages don' t work. Ten in ten. They don 41 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:39,039 ' t work. He' s got ten to ten of Hello. There 42 00:03:39,039 --> 00:03:49,439 ' s why you' re going to play free, in decline, because 43 00:03:49,439 --> 00:03:52,039 all of you are going to play and you know that you' re not 44 00:03:52,039 --> 00:03:55,159 going to do a match with someone you' re going to join, because 45 00:03:55,199 --> 00:04:00,240 in the end you never get together. You know I came down a little 46 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:04,280 while ago and deleted it on the third day because it' s the same 47 00:04:04,319 --> 00:04:08,520 pod, so it' s like I don' t, no, no, 48 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:10,439 no, no, I don' t know love. I think that, 49 00:04:10,639 --> 00:04:15,039 as you describe it, love seek and love fall in love with that 50 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:17,839 kind of thing out there, that' s why, that' s why 51 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,199 I belong to what people look for, sex than anything else. I agree, 52 00:04:20,319 --> 00:04:24,240 with you or he hasn' t looked. We must establish a sentimental 53 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:30,160 relationship based on those feelings that you write as love. It' s just 54 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:34,199 that, too. The big problem is that we confuse love with falling in 55 00:04:34,199 --> 00:04:38,360 love. Also, I mean, they' re very dictating things. You 56 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:42,279 may fall in love with what people at the other table are already coming out 57 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:46,120 of you, but that bond that is built in time, etcetera, which 58 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:55,160 is like you making a castle of decks, which you know to have patience, 59 00:04:55,319 --> 00:04:59,720 precision, a good pulse, etcetera. Ah House of cart good, 60 00:05:01,079 --> 00:05:04,720 so don' t despair exactly, that is, there are your exceptions, 61 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:14,959 as we probably all know a person who did well. But it' s 62 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:18,120 usually that people who see there are looking for sex. We' re going 63 00:05:18,199 --> 00:05:24,279 to cake a real fomente by band Mara da another fort yes via are out 64 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:27,480 there and the areas if they' re not vito so you know it You 65 00:05:27,519 --> 00:05:29,959 imagine that a people who want it, that the conversation turns in that direction. 66 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:31,240 There' s nothing there anymore. There' s nothing there to look 67 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:33,680 for that you' re looking for that you don' t and with the 68 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:36,519 vines. There comes a beautiful love. And don' t tell me yes 69 00:05:36,519 --> 00:05:39,639 there too, because that' s what you say. You don' t 70 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:41,160 mean who you' re going to fall in love with. That you can 71 00:05:41,199 --> 00:05:45,000 fall in love with, yes, but other things have to happen in the 72 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:46,800 process. After you' re in charge. He looks as you put me, 73 00:05:46,879 --> 00:05:49,560 See how you have me before his before you send him no. After 74 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:55,839 you send it, maybe you' ll hurry and you' ll hurry. 75 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:01,360 What I' m saying is there' s no written rule why you have 76 00:06:01,399 --> 00:06:05,560 to fall in love with a person. That' s his something. Neither 77 00:06:05,639 --> 00:06:09,439 do you fall in love with a ne and also don' t look for 78 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:11,879 it let my son come. No, but I' m sorry, people, 79 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:13,959 so something that' s very real. It' s very real. 80 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:17,480 I mean, there are people who understand well that not that I have bad 81 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:23,040 luck in love that I never find anything. You' re leaving your house, 82 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,319 because if you, like me, you, are going to be single 83 00:06:25,399 --> 00:06:28,160 the whole life, you have to get out. You have to go out 84 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,519 and get where the captain sees her, where someone sees her, because if 85 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,759 you stay at home, every weekend we' re not going to put her, 86 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:39,040 although she' s only going to get him to your house prepare a 87 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:42,920 delivery arrives. I' m the one who thinks. They think. I 88 00:06:43,079 --> 00:06:49,160 ' m not sure that the thing about falling in love, loving and until 89 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:55,279 death do us part starts with sex, because the first thing that catches your 90 00:06:55,319 --> 00:06:59,519 attention is sex. Then you saw the rest of it. When the sex 91 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:01,360 for a second plate already, you say ah, but look so much to 92 00:07:01,439 --> 00:07:05,120 wear a nice eyes I can tell you we wear heavy oh, but look 93 00:07:05,199 --> 00:07:09,079 at them ah, but look at the mouth and then you say ah, 94 00:07:09,399 --> 00:07:13,240 but she treats me well And you say ah, but look pussy because I 95 00:07:13,240 --> 00:07:15,000 have a good woman and then there she comes. That goes as far as 96 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:18,959 it goes. I' m the opposite. To you Peter I, if 97 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:21,839 I' m going to enjoy sex, has to be with a person I 98 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:26,160 like to like? This thing that you like and look where you are, 99 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:28,920 that you like it? Of course you like it, but you have to 100 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:32,360 like it because of that person, but I didn' t feel love, 101 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:34,480 I don' t know. I' m taking the s light, I 102 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:39,600 ' m taking you wa, but I' m not going to do it 103 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:43,399 if I don' t feel one for you that I' m not going 104 00:07:43,399 --> 00:07:46,759 to go ahead says that in the frozen area of the national, if you 105 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:55,240 see a lady analyzing meats want the meat that I was talking about right now, 106 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,000 it' s not that I look at, for example, not all 107 00:07:57,000 --> 00:08:00,680 restaurants. There are restaurants. It' s exclusive and you go and there 108 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:05,680 are exclusive hours Never go, for example, that you have to go on 109 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:09,160 these morning schedules. Nothing gets up in the morning. He doesn' t 110 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:13,800 get up either, yeah. That' s where they go, they give 111 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:18,360 them a lot of old ladies, seven divorced, some of those friends who 112 00:08:18,399 --> 00:08:22,360 go to breakfast will see and pass now dead because of that flower of coffee 113 00:08:22,399 --> 00:08:26,240 that is there, in here, back, over here, by the tablekeepers, 114 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:30,399 over there, over there, back, there you arrive at ten o 115 00:08:30,399 --> 00:08:31,360 ' clock in the greeting. For my friend, she already knows who she 116 00:08:33,279 --> 00:08:35,519 is. He really likes that coffee flower. I think that' s why 117 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:37,840 he pulled my feet out. There we go to meetings. I think he 118 00:08:37,879 --> 00:08:39,000 ' s got something on him. There, not the one with the meetings. 119 00:08:39,279 --> 00:08:43,399 I like Lincoln' s, yeah, not the lingo' s. 120 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:46,159 There' s a first- flon of coffee in the ring there, and 121 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:50,240 it' s the tower where Vaina Belize is. There, in the Lincoln 122 00:08:50,279 --> 00:08:58,519 one thousand fifty- five horis called the Vanas building. That' s where 123 00:08:58,519 --> 00:09:03,159 doñas just abandoned by their husbands, but you know that all middle class around 124 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:07,639 here from these towers, those tigers, likes to leave the woman who turns 125 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:11,080 forty- five and they' re going to cry, their pears, to 126 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:15,039 cry, their fighting with friends, with the weasel that how much I' 127 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:16,519 m going to take away, that I' m going to talk to the 128 00:09:16,519 --> 00:09:18,000 lawyer. The thing' s going on this piece. It has to be 129 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:24,000 the piece that lives most newly divorced women. I visit a tower that has 130 00:09:24,039 --> 00:09:28,120 broken three marriages in the last year. The devil. That' s another 131 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:30,480 theory. Alberto Mira. People who live at home divorce less than what they 132 00:09:30,519 --> 00:09:35,679 live in the difficult valley. But I go a lot to a tower and 133 00:09:35,919 --> 00:09:39,240 already in this last year, between April two thousand twenty- three April two 134 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:41,639 thousand twenty- four, it is not that one leads life and nothing like 135 00:09:41,639 --> 00:09:45,919 that. How it feels to speak to God. The one on such a 136 00:09:45,919 --> 00:09:48,240 floor is getting a divorce from the man on such a floor from playing the 137 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:52,279 woman for a little face. The one on such a floor. The husband 138 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:56,559 left for miamico. Another thing that sprouts the harvest is good in this building. 139 00:09:56,159 --> 00:09:58,080 What happens is that when you live in a house, you have more 140 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:03,320 commitments, that' s more commitment to your house than the other one in 141 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:07,000 the building. Well, there was no maintenance, like there' s something 142 00:10:07,039 --> 00:10:11,000 there. House, House, House, House, as you know it, 143 00:10:11,399 --> 00:10:15,120 a house house, that' s for the wife, apartment for the mistress. 144 00:10:15,279 --> 00:10:20,000 See that' s why that divorce less the n said something to you 145 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:24,840 on the sides lysed by me look for how big they have lovers, they 146 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:24,919 all have it moved there. Yeah, is that right? Yeah, is 147 00:10:24,919 --> 00:10:28,399 that right? Alberto says that tower of which you speak, has a spirit 148 00:10:28,399 --> 00:10:35,000 of fidelity to Padro Paya. It' ll be that he knows the building 149 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:35,559 and the one over here.