It' s either s or two days. I am, gentlemen, how
very welcome, very good morning, good evening, good evening wherever you may
meet. It' s a pleasure and a privilege for me. I'
m Luis Miguel Salgado and this is a good question. I am very happy,
really, very happy because today I am accompanied by an exceptional woman,
she is a guest of honor. I' m so glad she accepted.
They don' t know in the search for the sea and earth sky,
as we say in Mexico. But it' s a pleasure for me,
because we' re not just going to have fun apart. He has a
charisma, he has a huge smile, an attitude towards wonderful life and that
we will also learn a lot about how to live differently and how to live
better. For me it is a pleasure and a privilege to accompany us today
and to accompany me also day of Lasquez. How are you Welcome, Hello,
Hello, Very good. Thank you very much for the invitation. Let
me introduce you to her as she deserves. She is determined to serve and,
obviously, to connect with people committed to her personal growth. He'
s got some social media accounts. Gentlemen, you have to keep going because
you are really going to learn, you are going to confront yourselves, you
are going to be able to broaden your mind, expand your heart and where
there is truly room for much new information, so that we want new information
to live better. Yeah, you can live better. Dian began to share
experiences that led him to reflect and make great decisions with his life, concluding
with which self- love and high self- esteem are the great pillars for
a healthy and peaceful life. And I don' t know about you,
but at least I want to have a healthy life. Please have healthy,
healthy relationships with your partners, healthy with your parents children, with your siblings,
healthy with your partner. It is time to have good healthy relationships and
live in peace. That' s what Dean' s gonna help us for.
And if it' s okay with you, as I always say,
we' re starting Bian, how glad you' re here with us.
Again welcome and good. The initial question is how to get out of the
first tennis game in a football game, I love to ask questions, is
to tell you there is no order in the questions, there are no good
or bad answers. Not then will we share many themes. But the first
question I want to ask you, beyond what you studied, what you work
on, everything you' ve done on your social networks, beyond those medals,
please tell us who Vian Velázquez is. Dian Velázquez is a lover of
learning, reading, especially personal growth. Many years ago. Well, I
' ve always been a reader since I was very young and I started to
discover that there were some very special treasures in the books and apart from reading
any subject at that time, I got carried away by personal development, by
spirituality and healing. Of course, one thing in life leads you to the
other is not that you come and read about spirituality and healing. So if
you don' t mean, life is taking you, it' s pushing
you to learn certain things so you can live better and be calmer. So,
in a passionate reading and constant learning of the human being, many years
ago he learned to make fire and then learned that if he put his hand
in, he would burn. However, he didn' t stay there because
we couldn' t have stayed there. That' s not dangerous. It
is a theme that transformed what he learned and from there began to create certain
experiences. I want to ask you, Right now, you said it very
well, how it is possible that sometimes it is so easy in quotation marks.
Understanding that fire burns, but it also transforms, but it also helps
you to cook, but it also helps you to remove impurities, but it
also helps you to warm up, but it also helps you to light up.
No, but how is it possible that human beings learn things and stay
there and stigmatize them and say no. No, no, that' s
bad. No, no, no, that. I don' t know
what it takes for us to transform that knowledge, why that happens to us.
I understand that because we have to go through a transmutation, we have
to look first, we have to want to reach that freedom while we keep
thinking that this is the box, This is the box in which I was
raised the beliefs that imposed me, what society has taught me so far.
If I don' t want to learn more, if I, as a
human being, don' t want to give more, I' m going
to stay in that box. It is we who then began to look for
the way to open it, opening possibilities, seeking that mental freedom, opening
that possibility of but and if what I learned is different, but if there
is another way to do things, but there is life beyond what I was
taught. According to us, we live in different countries and these countries have
borders and boundaries. Hey there' s life after the edge and the limit,
there' s a lot of life, there' s a lot of
things to learn, but it all starts at the desire that one has to
open that mental box to then allow information to enter. That' s why
you look for information and give yourself the chance to walk towards freedom or,
although, towards a reality different from that you' ve been taught. I
love it because this calls me, incites me, moves me, causes me
that you can live differently, that is, that what we have lived to
day today wherever we are today I can tell you that we come to many
countries. Well, today in your reality, in the reality you' re
in, it' s not the end, it' s part of a
process, and at the end of the way there may be a lot of
things behind those dreams, a lot of things behind that is that and if
I were, I' m probably going to set an example. I'
m going to set an example. I would have liked to study psychology look
at you, so that would be waking up and saying don' t wait.
I can start studying psychology today. It' s just that I'
ve got it. I don' t know that she dropped her hair.
I had a hair like yours you don' t know and now how I
stayed. Well, it doesn' t matter. Today you can live different
from where you connected with this idea, what you eat that you live,
that you hear when you woke up you said ah kray Dian. You can
live differently Look, I think that comes from far behind. It' s
coming pretty far from the back. I started at the university studying business administration
and there came a time when I said wait for you I' m not
happy. Here I am going to study philosophy and so I changed for philosophy
and the rest of the education I did there. I think that was the
beginning obviously, having so much philosophical text and seeing all these lines of thought,
that was the door that opened me to woe, but it is that
I do not have to have a life equal to others. Hey, and
that' s been a life lesson for the rest of my life. We
' re talking about that being at the university 20 years ago, and during
the journey of life, you' re repeating yourself. No, no,
no, but it' s just that my path may not be the same
as Luis. My maybe it' s not the same. And and they
' re both valid so we decided how to take them life is leading you
to that, that' s new ways. But that' s where it
started that I opened the door to new possibilities and understand what you' re
looking at, because maybe my life could be a little different than the others,
although many times well, it' s still a mental war that you
have. Why I haven' t had so many of these experiences, why
I' m this age and I haven' t gotten to what I want
or experienced what I want. And it' s like a continuous reconciliation that
as a woman, I have to make myself ah don' t wait,
is that maybe that' s not my way, is that maybe I'
m here for another purpose, that' s not the same as any woman.
Tell us, please, you' re from Puerto Rico, a beautiful
country and you' re living in the United States. Tell us, what
this change was like for how long you have lived in the United States,
how it changed your mentality by not being in your country, because, obviously,
and that also marks, that is, it marks history, it marks
the culture you receive, it marks the country where you live. That yes,
circumstances do influence. However, it does not determine influence, but it
does not determine. So today you' re in a world- first country,
where it' s the American dream of many. However, tell us
a little bit about your story for people to know. Well, Puerto Rican,
born and raised all my life there, I studied there and decided to
move when I finished my high school, when I finished college, I moved
because I was in love. She had a relationship that she had been studying
for several years and the boy had moved from Puerto Rico to Miami to study
a piech d and the option was good. Well, when I' m
done studying, then I' m leaving, I' m going with you.
Like the one who says, love always looks there giving gua c make
the decision of good. This is my time. I quit my job.
I finished studying and jumped the puddle. Miami is a very different place from
Puerto Rico, although we speak Spanish, although it is super close, but
Miami is all over the world, that is, all Latinos. There are
many mixed cultures. Of course, there are some who predominate more than the
others, but Puerto Ricans are not what predominates there. So I really liked
the experience at first, at the beginning of the years, I had five
there, but then I started to clash a lot with cultures. I got
lost in, I got lost I missed more my thing or my thinking,
a different social thought. For me, this may change, but I know
a lot of people think like me. Miami is a beautiful place, but
Miami is a shallow place. Beautiful, grandiose and spiritual things can happen in
Miami, but the most prevalent thing is super superficiality. How much money you
have, what you do to live and how you look. You have to
be if you' re a woman, you have to be nice to have
everything in place and in order. And that when I came from a country
that I don' t know when I grew up there, that didn'
t exist. That gave me a lot, because then I came from a
background where intelligence is what matters is how you' re giving yourself the wine
and what conversations you' re giving yourself. You' re with that person
giving you the wine, life conversations, political, social conversations of anything.
But superficiality wasn' t there. So, when I moved to Miami.
I find that shock so strong that you wait is that here you don'
t talk about the same thing. It hit me a lot. The one
that the conversations were, I mean I don' t mean it' s
not that everybody is like that Listen, it' s not not in the
circle that I was in that moment in my life, because of the friendships
I had or the couple I had. The conversations were how much the Guchi
cost you. Luis Boutón, how much it cost you the Luis Butón you
have that is and I said it is impossible for me to spend nights of
party having listening to these conversations, because neither had anything to contribute. I
didn' t buy the guchi. I worked at a bank in Teller and
after banker and there my sister and my brother. There' s no one
there who buys a guchi on that salary. Like this. So, then,
that got me to feel different, the difference from me came from a
country and I grew up with beliefs different from what' s here and obviously,
I was alone in the term, that I was without family. That
relationship I moved into didn' t flourish that moment. He left, he
left Miami and I decided to make the conscious decision of I' m going
to stay in Miami, I' m going to go on with my life
here, get through it. And then there also came other loving situations,
also because what I talk about in my social medium all is based on learning
from those loving relationships. Yeah, well, I mean, falling back?
Fall back? Falling down like this, we learn, so, we learn
all bad decisions were bad and good decisions, since until everything came calmer and
I could make peace with that decision to have moved for many years, I
had the regret that I shouldn' t have done it, I shouldn'
t have moved, I shouldn' t have left my family for many years.
But, well, it' s been years, I' ve already
done it, I' m here. There are decisions you make that and
keep making, that there is no turning back. And that' s what
life also hears, Evidently, seeing your social networks, this part of experiences
that you tell us, obviously you are impacting positively many people because you are
giving us advice recommendations, you are not giving us alerts, but not only
of your experiences, but I also imagine things that you hear, that you
see that you have learned that you have read, but how important it is
when you identify with a person. I think the success of all your social
networks is that you tell us stories, that everyone identifies themselves. I'
ve felt identified with your stories. How this topic of conversations with yourself arises.
How it comes from where you said I' m gonna do this or
you planned it. How was this creative concept. Well it' s conversation
is with herself, with yourself that at college I read a book. I
think she was ar to a Puerto Rican author, but I don' t
remember, and she always referred to herself as herself. You have to remember
this same thing yourself. So, then, I took that now. This
idea of conversations with her comes after a long period of awakening from self-
discovery and feeling alone that no one, no one, no one cared about
me what I was saying at the time of my life. I had ended
a five- year relationship. I made the decision, moved to my apartment
alone and started that duel. That duel and that I say you have friends,
you don' t have special people, but nobody knows what you go
through inside, because one in the room, you' re the only one
crying, you say you talk to God and why that' s what I
have to learn. And all that. Then one day he comes and gives
me this idea of sharing this, because there are a lot of people who
should identify with me, but I don' t have anyone to tell,
that is, I don' t have someone specific besides my friends, that
of my two friends who have been like my sisters and have helped me in
this process. But other than that, I was saying who else will there
be people than I can be that are going through the same thing that I
did. It' s been, like, six months. And that idea
is that the Universe or God starts whispering ideas to you, starts talking softly
to you. It can be, it can be one, it doesn'
t pay attention to them, it doesn' t. Who I was telling,
who' s gonna care what I say between me and me, look
at how self- esteem was. I was saying who the hell could care.
What I have to say is that no one will listen to me,
is that no one will stop in one of my videos to see me.
And time didn' t go on. Time just kept passing by and more
passes by. I' m still talking to a friend, talking about business
that we can do online and check out and this and that, and I
can think of conversations with her, but that comes to my mind like this
quickly. That was the angels who put it in my mind, conversations with
it. And that' s the name, that' s the name to
keep walking and I don' t do anything, I already had the idea,
I already had the name, but I still don' t do anything
at all. I' m going on a trip, I' m going
on a trip to Italy with my mom. It was her and I alone
and that trip for me marked me a lot, because it was seeing so
much beauty together, so much architecture, so much history, so many beautiful
people. And on that trip I had it opened my eyes and said no,
no, no, this I have to do. This was that I
made the decision and when I arrived, I did not verify the name.
On social media. I opened them, but I didn' t put in
any video, I didn' t make any video, I didn' t
do anything. It' s been a few more months, it' s
been a total of about six eight months. I' m talking to a
guy I was interested in and the apparent not as interested as I was at
the time and he makes me Ghsting. I imagine you know what it is.
Yes, you do, they disappear out of nowhere. Yes, I
do. I stop talking to you, stop writing everything, and I said
what are the questions you ask when you' re being asked Gosting. It
was me who had it, I who did it. It was my fault,
because that' s the first thing you ask yourself. Then what'
s up? I get so angry, I focus so much and so much
on the situation and I think it' s so unfair that I say now
is that I' m going to make these videos, okay also as part
of a catharsis, not for that I was living totally and this one I
was always reading some book or listening to some book. The one who was
reading at that time was talking about all that, about self- esteem when
they stop talking about those questions that we ask ourselves, that it' s
not our fault, it' s the other thing, it' s a
decision that the other person made, it' s not you then start to
share those texts from the books and explain them and so on with other books
as well. And what I think is love, what I think is love
in freedom, what it is to love in respect in all those things.
And it starts to have traction the count while I notice that the more I
open up according to the situations I' m going through, the more vulnerable
I' m being, I know, more vulnerable samples, I' m
being more connected with people. Now, every time I shoot a video in
social media, I repeat myself and I am aware that my videos will only
reach the people who have to listen to them and the person who has to
receive them, not the haters, not anyone. No, my videos are
for people who are going to receive it. And so it has been.
From there, obviously, I' ve transformed the content a little bit,
put more vulnerability, more experience. I always try to think well what I
' m going to say, at least the point of the story. And
well another thing that happened to me, that I loved about and this happened
in Tiktok. I play a video of the stories repeated. I have a
very strong theme, which is repeated stories. What we have to learn is
coming into our lives. You didn' t learn it to the first,
to the second, that we' re not going to the third, so
look at the universe, bat whispers, then he talks to you and,
since you don' t understand, he' s going to yell at you.
And then, in me I have three repeated stories until that last one
comes yells at me in relationship stories until that' s okay and yells at
me. And finally, I understand that this man is serving me as a
mirror, what he' s showing me, that I have to do this
for myself, that I have to focus on myself, do what I want,
what my heart wants, and many other things. Also that I understood
at that moment, I understood that I could not good. That' s
strong. Yeah, yeah, that' s more than welcome to anything you
want. I have always said that, especially when I saw him living in
Miami, I saw these couples, these men who give everything to the woman,
and I know that Latin America goes a lot with that. Man is
the supplier, man gives and gives in large quantities. He' s the
one who buys the house, he' s the one who buys the vacations
or the wallets, everything he is, not as much material as he can,
but he' s the man. So, in my life I'
ve never experienced that. I' ve had to work for what I'
ve had and I don' t know where I come from. Yes,
the man is a supplier, but the woman works, the majar does her
thing. The woman earns her own money and buys her own then I said.
Oh, I think in my mind I' m waiting for this man
to meet the one I was with at the time. Give me something,
give me the house, ask me to be your wife, but what if
that' s not my lesson, I think my lesson is I have to
give it to myself. I' m the one who has to give it
to me. Look, you' re already up to toys that came out,
life comes. I' m the one who has to put myself in
priority. I' m the one who has to make my own money.
Oh, I want a house. Oh, wait, that' s my
turn. I' m the one buying my house. I want talca.
I' m the one buying cars. This is taking the bull by the
horns. No, no, no, I' m going to do this
and it doesn' t mean that that' s the lesson for all women
look I' m never ever telling you that that' s what I'
ve experienced and what I' ve understood, that it' s one of
my great lessons in life and that also here something that is very important my
dear Diane, is that I' m also the person who' s going
to make me happy. Happiness isn' t with the other thing is me,
I' m the people I' m gonna forgive myself. I'
m the person who' s gonna be full and I don' t need
anyone around me to be able to do it. And right now, you
were talking to us about that vulnerability in the sense of opening your heart to
us and saying that in this loneliness I didn' t have to work that
on me And now, thanks to that feeling of loneliness at that time or
we can' t enjoy conversations with it, on Tiktok, on Instagram,
on your podcast, because thanks to that today you are helping so many people
so much, so you' re breaking borders and that' s how we
got to know each other, and not only in Mexico, but you'
re impacting many more countries and I' m sure that in Puerto Rico they
' re very happy with me. Now something I want to ask you.
Latin American peoples are bell- bearers, pushers, workers, wrestlers, not
for nothing to other countries, both in the United States, Canada and in
Europe they hold us in good esteem, because they know that Latinos are very
hard- working, but we are also partyers. But we also have an
energy. I want to ask you where this energy comes from. Obviously,
not in Puerto Rico and it gives you a lot of ground. But where
does this energy come from? Because sometimes you could think. Oh, sure,
for Diane it' s very easy, because she' s got it
all, ah because she' s got a car of the year. Oh,
because she' s got the cheery voice. Not sure, is it
very easy for her where this energy comes from? And what do you do
The second question that is stuck when you' re low, when you'
re sad, when suddenly there are clouds on the horizon and the sun doesn
' t come up, tell us well, where the energy comes from,
based on that work and everything, where I come from, yes, you
have to work for everything you want and hear there are people who have everything
from the beginning, and how good for them or who were born in a
golden cradle how good for them, because for some reason the parents worked.
Or whatever, but we don' t all come from the same place.
We have to find out what we want to do and do it right.
I' ve taken it one step at a time. I can' t
tell you that I have my life resolved, because I don' t.
It' s not like that. I don' t have the car of
the year either. But I live well, I have my things. I
work well. I studied you remember I told you, I studied philosophy.
Yeah, yeah, I didn' t do anything with it. That'
s what I do now for love of art and for this love of connecting.
That' s my base. But when I arrived in the United States,
because I have always worked for investment, banking and sales, I have
been banking all the time, since the day I moved here and right now,
because I work with a World Street investment company. That' s what
I do. Everything else I do is out of love, out of art,
my dear, my dying band. Obviously, I have new projects.
I am always with a project in mind that this has happened in the last
year, that this comes from the healing that I tell you later. Okay,
okay, good money, but yeah, taking out the projects to wait
for you. I want to do something for me. I want to make
money that' s mine that a lot of people just think that you were
born and you were put on that job and you have to do that until
you die. Not sure. But if you want to do something extra,
you have to get out of the box, make the decision, get to
learn that today you learn whatever it is, because on the Internet it is
a wonder and then make your additional protections. I have projects that I have
my books sold on Amazon, I have the podcast. Right now I'
m looking for Sponsters, I have other things. I mean, it'
s always a matter of looking, searching, searching. I am writing a
very very special book for me that I soon expect in the coming months to
bring it out for sale and anything is possible. My mom once told me
and I didn' t believe it at the time. She had butic as
soon as she was in Puerto Rico and she was very successful at the time
and I asked her at some point, Mommy, how you did it.
That' s it, and she answered me. It' s just that
one can do everything in life. It can' t be everything. You
don' t have to propose that, do you? Is it true?
You have to propose you have to set the time to learn, because it
' s not that this one will open your mind and you' ll get
the understanding there. I want to open a podcast. Let me do it.
You don' t have to know what system, what hosset, what
theme you' re going to talk about, how you' re going to
structure the conversation, what microphone you' re going to use. I mean,
it' s so much detail that it' s learning, learning,
learning, learning, learning, but if you want everything, you can see
how important it is to learn, put it into practice, and improve,
because obviously, you' re wrong, that is, there' s no
one wise. We are all learning, just as we learned to walk a
few years ago, not others, long years ago, like me, but
just as we learned to walk that we fell, we stumble today we continue
to fall, we continue to stumble, but already at least we know how
to walk, run, etcetera. I want to ask you something that is
very important to me. Which one' s the oldest. I know there
are many, but what is the greatest achievement that you have been able to
distinguish from your life in recent years. That older man gets it, that
you say look at people, because obviously, people can say that. There
are people who say that. I' m never gonna make it. But
for one it causes enormous satisfaction. What has been that greatest achievement of which
you are so satisfied, happy and proud. Yeah, there' s two
little things. One is one is work and the other is staff, okay.
In relation to the we go to the staff that from there. That
' s where the strength comes out For the rest, the greatest achievement was
to understand that my self- esteem was low and that he didn' t
love me enough. And then work on it waiting, recovering, rediscovering,
reconnecting with me, seeing what my values and non- negotiables are. Listen
well, because that' s very important non- negotiable. What am I
going to allow and what am I not going to allow. Whatever happens in
a relationship or with any partner relationship or whatever you have with yourself is also
non- negotiable. With yourself with me, look at yourself. I don
' t bet because it' s for me already comes if it' s
non- negotiable, because it' s for me too ok ok ok know
what your values are and what is non- negotiable. Which doesn' t
matter if they put it in gold. You' re not going to take
an example. What' s a non- negotiable of mine to be mistreated
by my family, mistreated by my mom, that' s a non-
negotiable. I could never be with a person, a man in a relationship
that mistreats my mother or disrespects her. Ah, well, that' s
a non- negotiable. That' s what I would never allow in a
relationship. What And there is based on those self- esteem and self-
value reconnection learnings. That was something I' m very proud of. I
forgot to tell you before. I think we' re talking about how it
was that he had come to America and where he' d come out.
Another accomplished goal that has filled my heart a lot is that I am now
a narrator of audio books. Oh, that' s so nice. I
' ve been obsessed with books for many years and that' s where philosophy
and all this and all the books I' ve read and the way my
heart calms down when there' s chaos is through reading. For me it
is paramount in my life, because I have always dreamed of working with books
in some way, that is, writing them or working for a publisher.
Those were the dreams I had that didn' t spit at me at the
time and I was looking for a job. How I can work in an
editorial. Nothing. Years passed. Since everything arrives Luis Mi, everything comes
when you have to arrive and when you are ready to receive it, it
happened and I said I will tell you a more interesting story. Even two
years ago I had entered this Internet account and said you are an actor or
producer for book narration and I told myself at that time there is that I
am none or. I' m an actress. I took acting classes in
college and worked in theater, but look a long time ago and I'
m a producer. I didn' t even know what this was, because
at the time I said oh, don' t look at me studying on
the computer. That' s not for me. Two years ago I found
myself in a completely different mental situation. I go back to the same page.
You' re an actress or an actor and a producer, but this
time what this time dian said ah wait for you is that I can be
a producer. I don' t know how to do it, but I
' m just gonna learn. I can okay hear there I that is amazing,
because then everything is possible, I mean, there has to be recommended
this recommendation that your mommy gave us, that now I tell you and let
me look for it for everyone, not because your mommy today is telling us
through you everything is possible. So if you' re watching us, you
' re listening to us and you have a project. Even if you have
studied well, even if you have studied business administration and want to have a
podcast, write a book, everything is possible and it is possible. And
there you have Dian, who is a truly reliable witness that you can.
And today what you transmit to us is passion, that joy, it'
s surrender, it' s ispa, that joy, it' s that
love for life. And in that sense, the truth is that I love
it because obviously, you are transmitting more than transmitting knowledge and tools, you
are touching hearts. I want to underline this and I want you to see
the importance of what you' re doing today. I mean, you'
re not just sharing tools you say. Let' s imagine, No,
then what use an disarmer is to tighten or loosen. No, no,
no, that' s a tool. So you' re touching hearts and
touching lives. Then the importance that I don' t know if you'
ve fallen the twenty and if you don' t need to fall you'
re touching hearts and you' re breaking borders. And that is worthy of
recognition, worthy of applause and I really think that not only your family,
your friends, your contacts should be very proud of you, but that you
yourself of IT has been worth it. It has been worth those sleepless nights,
unanswered questions of not being able to sleep, of not being able to
rest from loneliness of tears. It has been worth it because today you are
where you are through this process and then you also teach us that processes are
important. It' s logical. So it' s really admirable and I
do want to tell you publicly that I really admire you for what you do
and how you do it, that that' s something else. Some people
do things right, but the way is not so good. So you say,
for it lacks spark, it lacks grace. You make it fun,
you make it entertaining, you always land with a smile. So how it
' s also very important. Now I want to ask you something. Imagine
that you have a chance to make a lot of money. You won the
United States lottery. Oh, I don' t remember the name of the
moon, the lotus or the Mega family, the SS the lotus and then
look at it. You earned a hundred and forty- four billion dollars.
OK you can size that one hundred and forty- four billion dollars. What
you' re investing that money in, what you' re doing with that
money. Tomorrow you have that money, what you buy, what you do,
tell us, what days, so look what. Several times in us
I have asked that question and above all, the last time I asked myself
that question was that I heard someone do it and the one who answered immediately
said oh, I would donate so much to such a blah, blah?
Blah, blah, and I kept thinking about donating. You have to give
the world, that is, yes, you have to give the world,
but what is my relationship with money? If I get those millions of dollars,
I' m not gonna fuck them. Just to give them to the
whole world. First I' m going to invest my money. Ah well,
first I' m going to make a list for retirement, a few
retirement accounts, take care of my retirement, that I live well when I
no longer work, that I have a healthy state of life, that I
am not poor, like many times to Americans it happens that already in his
old age he has no money. It' s not weird anything. Yeah,
yeah, yeah. I would buy everything I need to fix my podcast
and make it the last generation of everything and computer and all this stuff,
I would buy my dream house, because I still don' t have a
living rental, so I would buy a dream house and from there, having
my stuff, then I would go to I want to give it the best
life. Mommy, okay Mommy, she' s happy traveling to the whole
world, Mommy, let' s go to the world where you want,
turn, you want to go to Turkey, let' s go this month
to Turkey, let' s go the other. At the same time,
share with her experiences that make her more and more and happier, support her
financially, pay her for the treatments she needs in her old age to be.
She and I have a very close relationship and we live three minutes away,
that is, every day we see each other we are very independent and
thank God and even healthy, I would share that money with her, with
my sister, with my family And of course then I decide to look,
I will donate this part to help this circumstance, this situation and with Luis
VI there is also a little bit for you clearly hear, no, because
I also want to scratch in that notebook. No. No, no,
no, no, of course, what I want to make a point here
is very important, because this has touched me personally in the sense of my
relationship with wealth and money. Yes, and then the relationship of abundance,
forgive me for it. I' m going to interrupt a lot because I
want to get the most information out of you. The relationship with abundance is
important. Why, why humans give us as fear of abundance, not that,
as a pity, it gives us as woe. No, no,
this me little bit. I suffer because I don' t say. I
live happily full and I have if I can have three cars, I have
three cars. I believe that the Latin mentality is moving so much towards poverty
and, of course, governments. I am not going to talk about politics,
but the more we are manipulable through poverty, because it is better to
look at money. Money is a tool. Money is a tool for you
to get where you want to have experiences, you want to help those you
want to help, forgive me, but they will say it is selfish or
not good. It' s my way of thinking. I don' t
want to help everyone Hey, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don'
t want to help Raimundo and everyone who goes through the street or all the
foundations that exist in the world that you don' t know if they'
re good and they' re bad or where they come from. I want
to help what fills my heart, but what happens all begins with one.
I have to help myself first. I, I first have to save for
my retirement, for my health, for my family, for the experiences I
have to have. And that' s why I' m not a bad
person, because I deserve to be okay. That' s where it comes
from, that' s what I learned. It didn' t come to
me out of nowhere to understand that we are raised in a way thinking that
money is difficult and you have to bring down so much and have the money
is bad and the one that guides the Mercedes is what I know about the
capcio they tell you there in Mexico, of the point as they say in
Puerto Rico. No, I mean, no, you grow up thinking that
the one who has a kid tells me at home, the one who has
a kid is the one who' s bad. It' s not like
that, not everyone is. No. Then what if you, Luis,
my you' re full of chavo, why I don' t clear.
If you' re a human being, I can have one too. Ah
then let me, let me open myself to these possibilities that I deserve to
have money. And it' s not that I deserve to be rich and
have the five mansions and the yacht, because not everyone is interested in that.
I' m not interested in having a yacht or a plane. No.
No, no, no, what' s the tool. Money is
a bridge to improve your life, your health, your total family, having
the experiences that will fill your heart. That thing that dreams of that trip,
that you' re dying to do, but you haven' t done
it because it costs you 3, 000 pesos. That' s it,
I think the most important thing looks at me. It' s not because
the truth I think what you share with us is very important. I want
to invite all the people who are listening to us just please take note and
if you don' t pause and then listen again and listen to Bian Velázquez
' s social networks again. In Tiktok it is like bass script conversations,
with script under the same ok in Tiktok, script with script conversations under it.
On Instagram there are similar bass script conversations with John under it and listen
to his podcast, which is called conversations with the podcast itself. I really
think that all the information they' re going to hear, they' re
going to see that Diano shares us. I' m sure it' s
going to help you and if it doesn' t help you, I'
m sure that way, I' ll give you the wool you want that
' s going to help your neighbor, your mom, your kids, your
brother, your cousin or that friend that you like very fat to me it
' s going to be. I' m sure of that. Now,
my dear Diana, I' m going to ask you questions that there are
no good or bad answers. I need them to respond as quickly as possible
and I' m going to ask you questions about all of you. Yeah,
then in another interview we' ll talk about it because the idea is
to play and we' ll do a contest that I' m going to
invite you to. Not where there will be questions, capciosas, funny questions,
but today we' re going to make it a little more relaxed.
So, you do, soft or understanding intertrust. Tell us, please,
if you' re so kind, three types of three types of burgers that
you' ve tasted ush three types of burger, tried a burger with wagu
meat recently and liked it? I liked it. It was a chevere experience
another hamburger look that I once had one that had egg, that was the
hamburger, the Hamberger, the egg and everything else, because I really liked
that mixture and another hamburger that has bluches. That' s where the girls
OK comes in. Very good to tell me three things, that you take
to a field day, water or important, a book and a pen.
Very nice to tell me three things that are sold by catalog, books,
pants and cables. So we need for the wonderful computer. Tell us,
what' s been the funniest thing you did last weekend. Oh, that
' s fun. There, there it is. I don' t know
if I' m too funny. B Oh, please, of course,
Woman, I work a lot of fun. It' s fun for me.
I know a lot of people don' t, but sitting on the
grass around here where I say there' s like a lake I went out
for a walk and sat on the grass to see the ducklings on the lake.
That' s great fun for me. It' s perfect. It
' s perfect. Hey, tell us. What if you were famous for
a month, a famous Shakira month, fame guy I don' t know,
Jennifer Annington or pratito Michael Jackson. Imagine a month with that fame,
what you would do with that fame, for look, with that fame,
I would seek to sit at the same table with great mentors, great teachers
on the subjects that I would like to learn to go to conferences to learn
with those people in particular and take that month of fame. Woe to convey
this message that I know you need to be heard, that vulnerability is necessary,
that you have to open up, that you have to love yourself,
that you have to respect yourself, that you have to stop leaving your body
to dedicate yourself to another person, you have to recover and return to You,
because it all begins in You. That' s what I' d
do if I had a month of fame. How wonderful are your questions about
what you prefer to or b Ok, to give you an example, which
you prefer the cold or the heat. The cold, then you' d
rather spend a year at minus ten degrees Celsius or zero degrees Celsius. Oh,
hard for you to cheat too long. I like the cold more than
the heat, but not so incredibly cold. If you have to choose between
the two and there' s no middle ground, then I' d go
with the heat. You can, you can choose between flying or being invisible.
What did you perceive to be invisible? Being invisible would be awful.
I too will love to be invisible. Tell me, please, what do
you prefer to sing everything you say or dance everything you hear. Singing You
like singing I like more than dancing. When it was the last time you
sang for yourself, alone goes not always singing for me, alone not in
me while I muck you brought them or foot And how much was the last
time you sang in public, uf in public, in some kario that fifteen
years ago or something like that. No, Barbarita, you' re growing
up, no, you' re saying look are for me You can figure
out that you can detect every lie they tell you or that people believe every
lie that you say what you prefer that I can detect ok You also think
the truth is for everyone, the truth is for everyone, but not everyone
gets the truth. Yes, because being prepared for the truth. Suddenly there
are people who say to me that I like to be spoken with the truth,
but you can bear it. Perhaps to endure the truth and I believe
that not all, not all could matter not only that, but also that
there are truths. I mean. I know there' s a tendency that
people tell the truth, you have to tell them and I have to be
honest and all sewn up. Yes, yes, but you have to keep
in mind how much your truth will affect that person and how will you leave?
In what state are you going to leave that person? When you tell
him the truth, you can destroy a life. What' s more,
you can provoke suicide. On that side, then be careful with the truths.
Not exactly is it heard very rude at least here in Mexico, but
beware of the truths that you are now asking this question. You prefer never
to have to wait in a row, supermarket or bank, etc, or
always have a place to park your car What you prefer, but I prefer
against what never wait, that is to say that in a row you never
wait in a row you have supermarket, in a bank that you never have
to wait, that you arrive directly to pay or always choose and have a
place to park in the no, I prefer to wait. Yeah, you
' re going on hold. I' m patient, you' re patient
what you do when you suddenly go to the bank or when suddenly you'
re going to buy something. I don' t know how you' re
going. There' s so much to think about in my mind. I
have so much to think about, be it personal or so many things I
have to do, that being there waits for what happens. We all have
to wait in the world we live in. We all have to wait,
to go to the supermarket, to go to the bank. That comes from
the street or you choose how you' re going to wait or if you
' re going to get angry or if you' re going to take it
easy. You take a little booklet or Kindel or the newspaper, whatever exists
in your country and whatever you like best you start reading or just start creating
ideas. Look I' m gonna do this I' m gonna do it.
It' s how you handle time. It' s not like you
' re gonna waste time in line, it' s how you' re
gonna handle your time, how you' re gonna take advantage of it.
We' re getting to the final straight. But before you fire no and
the final message comes questions of yes or no. OK. Some questions.
He must tell you that some questions are weird. Some ethical questions are very
contradictory. No, then you' re ready, yes, come on,
always ready my dear day let' s go you consider yourself with a happy
person. Yeah, you' re 100% satisfied with your physique. You
didn' t break someone' s heart. Yeah, everybody, okay,
it' s good, not everyone, but we' ve all done it.
OK, you' re depressed. You haven' t done your homework.
Yeah, you already threw away the trash. Don' t miss the
real one yet, not the one who gives you, the other one,
the life one. Yeah, I already threw it out of my kitchen.
You haven' t brushed your teeth yet. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
you took the dog for a walk. I got kittens, okay, you
bought what I asked. Yeah, you' ve been to the doctor,
I' ve been there, you' re telling lies. You often don
' t want to leave You don' t feel well anymore. I feel
good. You do consider yourself a romantic person. Yeah, you think there
' s life on another planet. Yeah, you agree with the death penalty
or hey you still have contact with your friends in elementary school. You don
' t think you can be happy. Yeah, you' d like to
live in space. You don' t consider yourself a happy woman. Yes,
very good, very good food and Vazquez. I thank you infinitely with
all my heart, for that openness, for that noble heart, for that
struggle, for that effort, for that dedication, for today you are reaping.
Well, you' ve been harvesting for a long time, but today
you' re reaping a lot more. And that' s worth applauding,
admiring, and taking off your hat. But I want to ask you one.
I want to invite you to give us a final message under this scheme.
Imagine you have to give a message to the whole planet. This plan
this message is going to be broadcast on radio, television, the Internet,
by waves, by smoke signals, by signs all over the world is going
to find out, is going to be translated into all languages, languages,
dialects, everyone will hear it. What would be this message that gives us
well Velázquez. Everything absolutely all begins with you, by a decision. You
' re the one who changes perspective and then changes your world. There is
no doubt about that and understanding that there is a process and you cannot jump
the steps. That pain you' re going through, what happened to you
and what you' re carrying is necessary to get to where you have to
go. There is no way to jump the process, We must walk,
have faith and trust what wonder, what blessing. I thank you so much.
Remember to remind us of your social networks. Please, for the people
who are just listening to us. Yeah, yeah, I' m in
bass script conversations with script under it. That' s for Instagram and also
for Tiktok and my podcast is in Spotify and Apple is having conversations with the
same podcast. There you can get me and you can subscribe to my news
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too or you can just send me a little message and I' ll be
super happy to read them. There she is She' s Dian Velázquez.
Thank you I embrace you with a lot of love. I' m sending
a weight to you and your mommy. Say hello to me, please,
and from Mexico, truly many blessings, and to You who heard us,
who connected. Thank you for sharing this chapter. You have to share valuable
content and not because I say so. We must share this content that Bian
brings us from his experiences, from his experiences, from his recommendations, because
you can live better that you have a very good day, very good afternoon,
very good night wherever you are. Dian will see you soon and thank
you all for sharing and staying blessed for all