WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.560 --> 00:00:29.320 It' s either s or two days. I am, gentlemen, how 2 00:00:29.440 --> 00:00:32.840 very welcome, very good morning, good evening, good evening wherever you may 3 00:00:32.880 --> 00:00:35.880 meet. It' s a pleasure and a privilege for me. I' 4 00:00:35.880 --> 00:00:40.600 m Luis Miguel Salgado and this is a good question. I am very happy, 5 00:00:40.960 --> 00:00:44.640 really, very happy because today I am accompanied by an exceptional woman, 6 00:00:45.479 --> 00:00:50.679 she is a guest of honor. I' m so glad she accepted. 7 00:00:50.960 --> 00:00:53.439 They don' t know in the search for the sea and earth sky, 8 00:00:53.840 --> 00:00:55.920 as we say in Mexico. But it' s a pleasure for me, 9 00:00:56.119 --> 00:00:59.520 because we' re not just going to have fun apart. He has a 10 00:00:59.520 --> 00:01:03.439 charisma, he has a huge smile, an attitude towards wonderful life and that 11 00:01:03.519 --> 00:01:10.359 we will also learn a lot about how to live differently and how to live 12 00:01:10.359 --> 00:01:12.959 better. For me it is a pleasure and a privilege to accompany us today 13 00:01:14.079 --> 00:01:19.680 and to accompany me also day of Lasquez. How are you Welcome, Hello, 14 00:01:19.000 --> 00:01:23.319 Hello, Very good. Thank you very much for the invitation. Let 15 00:01:23.319 --> 00:01:29.480 me introduce you to her as she deserves. She is determined to serve and, 16 00:01:29.560 --> 00:01:34.480 obviously, to connect with people committed to her personal growth. He' 17 00:01:34.519 --> 00:01:38.760 s got some social media accounts. Gentlemen, you have to keep going because 18 00:01:38.799 --> 00:01:44.239 you are really going to learn, you are going to confront yourselves, you 19 00:01:44.239 --> 00:01:51.239 are going to be able to broaden your mind, expand your heart and where 20 00:01:51.319 --> 00:01:55.319 there is truly room for much new information, so that we want new information 21 00:01:55.319 --> 00:01:57.959 to live better. Yeah, you can live better. Dian began to share 22 00:01:59.040 --> 00:02:05.640 experiences that led him to reflect and make great decisions with his life, concluding 23 00:02:05.680 --> 00:02:10.439 with which self- love and high self- esteem are the great pillars for 24 00:02:10.639 --> 00:02:15.919 a healthy and peaceful life. And I don' t know about you, 25 00:02:15.159 --> 00:02:19.919 but at least I want to have a healthy life. Please have healthy, 26 00:02:20.360 --> 00:02:24.599 healthy relationships with your partners, healthy with your parents children, with your siblings, 27 00:02:24.879 --> 00:02:30.840 healthy with your partner. It is time to have good healthy relationships and 28 00:02:30.960 --> 00:02:34.599 live in peace. That' s what Dean' s gonna help us for. 29 00:02:35.039 --> 00:02:59.080 And if it' s okay with you, as I always say, 30 00:02:59.360 --> 00:03:00.840 we' re starting Bian, how glad you' re here with us. 31 00:03:00.919 --> 00:03:07.520 Again welcome and good. The initial question is how to get out of the 32 00:03:07.639 --> 00:03:12.360 first tennis game in a football game, I love to ask questions, is 33 00:03:12.639 --> 00:03:16.080 to tell you there is no order in the questions, there are no good 34 00:03:16.080 --> 00:03:20.599 or bad answers. Not then will we share many themes. But the first 35 00:03:20.680 --> 00:03:24.560 question I want to ask you, beyond what you studied, what you work 36 00:03:24.560 --> 00:03:28.560 on, everything you' ve done on your social networks, beyond those medals, 37 00:03:28.840 --> 00:03:37.039 please tell us who Vian Velázquez is. Dian Velázquez is a lover of 38 00:03:37.159 --> 00:03:46.080 learning, reading, especially personal growth. Many years ago. Well, I 39 00:03:46.199 --> 00:03:52.719 ' ve always been a reader since I was very young and I started to 40 00:03:52.840 --> 00:03:58.080 discover that there were some very special treasures in the books and apart from reading 41 00:03:58.520 --> 00:04:04.080 any subject at that time, I got carried away by personal development, by 42 00:04:04.080 --> 00:04:06.520 spirituality and healing. Of course, one thing in life leads you to the 43 00:04:06.639 --> 00:04:13.280 other is not that you come and read about spirituality and healing. So if 44 00:04:13.360 --> 00:04:15.800 you don' t mean, life is taking you, it' s pushing 45 00:04:15.800 --> 00:04:20.680 you to learn certain things so you can live better and be calmer. So, 46 00:04:20.800 --> 00:04:30.120 in a passionate reading and constant learning of the human being, many years 47 00:04:30.120 --> 00:04:36.480 ago he learned to make fire and then learned that if he put his hand 48 00:04:36.560 --> 00:04:41.639 in, he would burn. However, he didn' t stay there because 49 00:04:41.680 --> 00:04:44.560 we couldn' t have stayed there. That' s not dangerous. It 50 00:04:44.560 --> 00:04:50.600 is a theme that transformed what he learned and from there began to create certain 51 00:04:50.680 --> 00:04:57.439 experiences. I want to ask you, Right now, you said it very 52 00:04:57.639 --> 00:05:00.600 well, how it is possible that sometimes it is so easy in quotation marks. 53 00:05:01.240 --> 00:05:05.480 Understanding that fire burns, but it also transforms, but it also helps 54 00:05:05.600 --> 00:05:10.680 you to cook, but it also helps you to remove impurities, but it 55 00:05:10.759 --> 00:05:14.399 also helps you to warm up, but it also helps you to light up. 56 00:05:14.720 --> 00:05:18.600 No, but how is it possible that human beings learn things and stay 57 00:05:18.600 --> 00:05:24.040 there and stigmatize them and say no. No, no, that' s 58 00:05:24.040 --> 00:05:26.360 bad. No, no, no, that. I don' t know 59 00:05:26.439 --> 00:05:30.160 what it takes for us to transform that knowledge, why that happens to us. 60 00:05:30.279 --> 00:05:34.160 I understand that because we have to go through a transmutation, we have 61 00:05:34.360 --> 00:05:41.639 to look first, we have to want to reach that freedom while we keep 62 00:05:41.839 --> 00:05:44.680 thinking that this is the box, This is the box in which I was 63 00:05:44.759 --> 00:05:48.839 raised the beliefs that imposed me, what society has taught me so far. 64 00:05:49.720 --> 00:05:55.120 If I don' t want to learn more, if I, as a 65 00:05:55.199 --> 00:05:58.480 human being, don' t want to give more, I' m going 66 00:05:58.480 --> 00:06:00.839 to stay in that box. It is we who then began to look for 67 00:06:00.879 --> 00:06:08.680 the way to open it, opening possibilities, seeking that mental freedom, opening 68 00:06:09.319 --> 00:06:14.279 that possibility of but and if what I learned is different, but if there 69 00:06:14.360 --> 00:06:17.240 is another way to do things, but there is life beyond what I was 70 00:06:17.279 --> 00:06:24.439 taught. According to us, we live in different countries and these countries have 71 00:06:24.560 --> 00:06:28.519 borders and boundaries. Hey there' s life after the edge and the limit, 72 00:06:29.120 --> 00:06:32.920 there' s a lot of life, there' s a lot of 73 00:06:33.000 --> 00:06:40.600 things to learn, but it all starts at the desire that one has to 74 00:06:40.600 --> 00:06:41.279 open that mental box to then allow information to enter. That' s why 75 00:06:41.399 --> 00:06:45.399 you look for information and give yourself the chance to walk towards freedom or, 76 00:06:45.720 --> 00:06:48.519 although, towards a reality different from that you' ve been taught. I 77 00:06:48.560 --> 00:06:56.120 love it because this calls me, incites me, moves me, causes me 78 00:06:56.199 --> 00:06:59.759 that you can live differently, that is, that what we have lived to 79 00:06:59.759 --> 00:07:03.839 day today wherever we are today I can tell you that we come to many 80 00:07:03.920 --> 00:07:09.240 countries. Well, today in your reality, in the reality you' re 81 00:07:09.279 --> 00:07:12.680 in, it' s not the end, it' s part of a 82 00:07:12.720 --> 00:07:17.560 process, and at the end of the way there may be a lot of 83 00:07:17.639 --> 00:07:23.879 things behind those dreams, a lot of things behind that is that and if 84 00:07:23.920 --> 00:07:24.480 I were, I' m probably going to set an example. I' 85 00:07:24.480 --> 00:07:29.720 m going to set an example. I would have liked to study psychology look 86 00:07:29.720 --> 00:07:33.279 at you, so that would be waking up and saying don' t wait. 87 00:07:34.240 --> 00:07:38.240 I can start studying psychology today. It' s just that I' 88 00:07:38.240 --> 00:07:39.879 ve got it. I don' t know that she dropped her hair. 89 00:07:39.959 --> 00:07:44.160 I had a hair like yours you don' t know and now how I 90 00:07:44.160 --> 00:07:46.439 stayed. Well, it doesn' t matter. Today you can live different 91 00:07:46.879 --> 00:07:53.040 from where you connected with this idea, what you eat that you live, 92 00:07:54.360 --> 00:07:57.800 that you hear when you woke up you said ah kray Dian. You can 93 00:07:57.879 --> 00:08:01.800 live differently Look, I think that comes from far behind. It' s 94 00:08:01.839 --> 00:08:07.240 coming pretty far from the back. I started at the university studying business administration 95 00:08:07.240 --> 00:08:11.920 and there came a time when I said wait for you I' m not 96 00:08:11.920 --> 00:08:16.399 happy. Here I am going to study philosophy and so I changed for philosophy 97 00:08:16.600 --> 00:08:20.279 and the rest of the education I did there. I think that was the 98 00:08:20.319 --> 00:08:24.920 beginning obviously, having so much philosophical text and seeing all these lines of thought, 99 00:08:26.480 --> 00:08:28.399 that was the door that opened me to woe, but it is that 100 00:08:28.439 --> 00:08:33.600 I do not have to have a life equal to others. Hey, and 101 00:08:33.639 --> 00:08:37.080 that' s been a life lesson for the rest of my life. We 102 00:08:37.080 --> 00:08:43.240 ' re talking about that being at the university 20 years ago, and during 103 00:08:43.240 --> 00:08:46.919 the journey of life, you' re repeating yourself. No, no, 104 00:08:46.799 --> 00:08:50.600 no, but it' s just that my path may not be the same 105 00:08:50.600 --> 00:08:52.480 as Luis. My maybe it' s not the same. And and they 106 00:08:52.600 --> 00:08:58.440 ' re both valid so we decided how to take them life is leading you 107 00:08:58.440 --> 00:09:01.720 to that, that' s new ways. But that' s where it 108 00:09:01.759 --> 00:09:05.240 started that I opened the door to new possibilities and understand what you' re 109 00:09:05.320 --> 00:09:09.480 looking at, because maybe my life could be a little different than the others, 110 00:09:09.639 --> 00:09:13.159 although many times well, it' s still a mental war that you 111 00:09:13.159 --> 00:09:16.919 have. Why I haven' t had so many of these experiences, why 112 00:09:16.960 --> 00:09:18.840 I' m this age and I haven' t gotten to what I want 113 00:09:18.840 --> 00:09:22.480 or experienced what I want. And it' s like a continuous reconciliation that 114 00:09:22.480 --> 00:09:26.320 as a woman, I have to make myself ah don' t wait, 115 00:09:26.440 --> 00:09:28.559 is that maybe that' s not my way, is that maybe I' 116 00:09:28.600 --> 00:09:30.879 m here for another purpose, that' s not the same as any woman. 117 00:09:31.480 --> 00:09:35.639 Tell us, please, you' re from Puerto Rico, a beautiful 118 00:09:35.679 --> 00:09:39.120 country and you' re living in the United States. Tell us, what 119 00:09:39.200 --> 00:09:46.039 this change was like for how long you have lived in the United States, 120 00:09:46.879 --> 00:09:50.399 how it changed your mentality by not being in your country, because, obviously, 121 00:09:50.639 --> 00:09:58.600 and that also marks, that is, it marks history, it marks 122 00:09:58.759 --> 00:10:01.320 the culture you receive, it marks the country where you live. That yes, 123 00:10:01.440 --> 00:10:07.320 circumstances do influence. However, it does not determine influence, but it 124 00:10:07.320 --> 00:10:11.399 does not determine. So today you' re in a world- first country, 125 00:10:11.559 --> 00:10:15.320 where it' s the American dream of many. However, tell us 126 00:10:15.320 --> 00:10:20.440 a little bit about your story for people to know. Well, Puerto Rican, 127 00:10:20.120 --> 00:10:24.759 born and raised all my life there, I studied there and decided to 128 00:10:24.840 --> 00:10:28.840 move when I finished my high school, when I finished college, I moved 129 00:10:28.840 --> 00:10:31.759 because I was in love. She had a relationship that she had been studying 130 00:10:31.879 --> 00:10:37.759 for several years and the boy had moved from Puerto Rico to Miami to study 131 00:10:37.840 --> 00:10:41.320 a piech d and the option was good. Well, when I' m 132 00:10:41.320 --> 00:10:43.559 done studying, then I' m leaving, I' m going with you. 133 00:10:43.720 --> 00:10:52.320 Like the one who says, love always looks there giving gua c make 134 00:10:52.360 --> 00:10:56.279 the decision of good. This is my time. I quit my job. 135 00:10:56.960 --> 00:11:03.960 I finished studying and jumped the puddle. Miami is a very different place from 136 00:11:03.000 --> 00:11:07.840 Puerto Rico, although we speak Spanish, although it is super close, but 137 00:11:07.960 --> 00:11:11.360 Miami is all over the world, that is, all Latinos. There are 138 00:11:11.399 --> 00:11:16.840 many mixed cultures. Of course, there are some who predominate more than the 139 00:11:16.840 --> 00:11:24.240 others, but Puerto Ricans are not what predominates there. So I really liked 140 00:11:24.279 --> 00:11:28.399 the experience at first, at the beginning of the years, I had five 141 00:11:28.399 --> 00:11:33.159 there, but then I started to clash a lot with cultures. I got 142 00:11:33.559 --> 00:11:41.240 lost in, I got lost I missed more my thing or my thinking, 143 00:11:41.759 --> 00:11:46.559 a different social thought. For me, this may change, but I know 144 00:11:46.559 --> 00:11:48.679 a lot of people think like me. Miami is a beautiful place, but 145 00:11:50.000 --> 00:11:56.080 Miami is a shallow place. Beautiful, grandiose and spiritual things can happen in 146 00:11:56.399 --> 00:12:01.919 Miami, but the most prevalent thing is super superficiality. How much money you 147 00:12:01.919 --> 00:12:07.320 have, what you do to live and how you look. You have to 148 00:12:07.360 --> 00:12:11.240 be if you' re a woman, you have to be nice to have 149 00:12:11.360 --> 00:12:13.000 everything in place and in order. And that when I came from a country 150 00:12:13.080 --> 00:12:18.240 that I don' t know when I grew up there, that didn' 151 00:12:18.240 --> 00:12:20.519 t exist. That gave me a lot, because then I came from a 152 00:12:20.600 --> 00:12:28.080 background where intelligence is what matters is how you' re giving yourself the wine 153 00:12:28.159 --> 00:12:33.759 and what conversations you' re giving yourself. You' re with that person 154 00:12:33.799 --> 00:12:37.559 giving you the wine, life conversations, political, social conversations of anything. 155 00:12:39.279 --> 00:12:41.840 But superficiality wasn' t there. So, when I moved to Miami. 156 00:12:41.960 --> 00:12:46.679 I find that shock so strong that you wait is that here you don' 157 00:12:46.799 --> 00:12:48.879 t talk about the same thing. It hit me a lot. The one 158 00:12:48.399 --> 00:12:54.559 that the conversations were, I mean I don' t mean it' s 159 00:12:54.600 --> 00:13:00.279 not that everybody is like that Listen, it' s not not in the 160 00:13:00.279 --> 00:13:03.120 circle that I was in that moment in my life, because of the friendships 161 00:13:03.120 --> 00:13:07.840 I had or the couple I had. The conversations were how much the Guchi 162 00:13:07.919 --> 00:13:11.840 cost you. Luis Boutón, how much it cost you the Luis Butón you 163 00:13:11.919 --> 00:13:16.639 have that is and I said it is impossible for me to spend nights of 164 00:13:16.879 --> 00:13:20.159 party having listening to these conversations, because neither had anything to contribute. I 165 00:13:20.559 --> 00:13:26.720 didn' t buy the guchi. I worked at a bank in Teller and 166 00:13:26.720 --> 00:13:31.600 after banker and there my sister and my brother. There' s no one 167 00:13:31.639 --> 00:13:35.720 there who buys a guchi on that salary. Like this. So, then, 168 00:13:35.919 --> 00:13:41.159 that got me to feel different, the difference from me came from a 169 00:13:41.200 --> 00:13:46.480 country and I grew up with beliefs different from what' s here and obviously, 170 00:13:46.960 --> 00:13:48.720 I was alone in the term, that I was without family. That 171 00:13:48.799 --> 00:13:54.639 relationship I moved into didn' t flourish that moment. He left, he 172 00:13:54.679 --> 00:14:00.480 left Miami and I decided to make the conscious decision of I' m going 173 00:14:00.519 --> 00:14:03.879 to stay in Miami, I' m going to go on with my life 174 00:14:05.000 --> 00:14:09.360 here, get through it. And then there also came other loving situations, 175 00:14:09.799 --> 00:14:13.120 also because what I talk about in my social medium all is based on learning 176 00:14:13.159 --> 00:14:18.320 from those loving relationships. Yeah, well, I mean, falling back? 177 00:14:18.320 --> 00:14:26.320 Fall back? Falling down like this, we learn, so, we learn 178 00:14:26.639 --> 00:14:31.399 all bad decisions were bad and good decisions, since until everything came calmer and 179 00:14:31.440 --> 00:14:37.840 I could make peace with that decision to have moved for many years, I 180 00:14:37.000 --> 00:14:41.960 had the regret that I shouldn' t have done it, I shouldn' 181 00:14:43.039 --> 00:14:46.159 t have moved, I shouldn' t have left my family for many years. 182 00:14:46.480 --> 00:14:50.440 But, well, it' s been years, I' ve already 183 00:14:50.480 --> 00:14:52.879 done it, I' m here. There are decisions you make that and 184 00:14:52.960 --> 00:14:56.399 keep making, that there is no turning back. And that' s what 185 00:14:56.480 --> 00:15:05.960 life also hears, Evidently, seeing your social networks, this part of experiences 186 00:15:05.320 --> 00:15:13.000 that you tell us, obviously you are impacting positively many people because you are 187 00:15:13.440 --> 00:15:20.960 giving us advice recommendations, you are not giving us alerts, but not only 188 00:15:20.080 --> 00:15:24.320 of your experiences, but I also imagine things that you hear, that you 189 00:15:24.399 --> 00:15:30.679 see that you have learned that you have read, but how important it is 190 00:15:30.799 --> 00:15:33.120 when you identify with a person. I think the success of all your social 191 00:15:33.200 --> 00:15:39.720 networks is that you tell us stories, that everyone identifies themselves. I' 192 00:15:39.799 --> 00:15:46.399 ve felt identified with your stories. How this topic of conversations with yourself arises. 193 00:15:46.360 --> 00:15:50.840 How it comes from where you said I' m gonna do this or 194 00:15:50.840 --> 00:15:54.759 you planned it. How was this creative concept. Well it' s conversation 195 00:15:54.960 --> 00:16:02.960 is with herself, with yourself that at college I read a book. I 196 00:16:03.000 --> 00:16:06.639 think she was ar to a Puerto Rican author, but I don' t 197 00:16:06.799 --> 00:16:10.879 remember, and she always referred to herself as herself. You have to remember 198 00:16:10.919 --> 00:16:15.559 this same thing yourself. So, then, I took that now. This 199 00:16:15.679 --> 00:16:23.200 idea of conversations with her comes after a long period of awakening from self- 200 00:16:23.679 --> 00:16:29.960 discovery and feeling alone that no one, no one, no one cared about 201 00:16:30.039 --> 00:16:33.919 me what I was saying at the time of my life. I had ended 202 00:16:33.960 --> 00:16:38.960 a five- year relationship. I made the decision, moved to my apartment 203 00:16:38.960 --> 00:16:48.840 alone and started that duel. That duel and that I say you have friends, 204 00:16:48.320 --> 00:16:52.879 you don' t have special people, but nobody knows what you go 205 00:16:52.919 --> 00:16:56.200 through inside, because one in the room, you' re the only one 206 00:16:56.519 --> 00:17:00.000 crying, you say you talk to God and why that' s what I 207 00:17:00.000 --> 00:17:04.960 have to learn. And all that. Then one day he comes and gives 208 00:17:06.039 --> 00:17:11.160 me this idea of sharing this, because there are a lot of people who 209 00:17:11.200 --> 00:17:12.480 should identify with me, but I don' t have anyone to tell, 210 00:17:12.880 --> 00:17:17.440 that is, I don' t have someone specific besides my friends, that 211 00:17:17.480 --> 00:17:18.720 of my two friends who have been like my sisters and have helped me in 212 00:17:18.720 --> 00:17:23.559 this process. But other than that, I was saying who else will there 213 00:17:23.640 --> 00:17:27.160 be people than I can be that are going through the same thing that I 214 00:17:27.160 --> 00:17:30.079 did. It' s been, like, six months. And that idea 215 00:17:30.160 --> 00:17:36.000 is that the Universe or God starts whispering ideas to you, starts talking softly 216 00:17:36.000 --> 00:17:40.960 to you. It can be, it can be one, it doesn' 217 00:17:41.000 --> 00:17:41.599 t pay attention to them, it doesn' t. Who I was telling, 218 00:17:41.839 --> 00:17:45.960 who' s gonna care what I say between me and me, look 219 00:17:47.039 --> 00:17:52.960 at how self- esteem was. I was saying who the hell could care. 220 00:17:53.039 --> 00:17:56.759 What I have to say is that no one will listen to me, 221 00:17:56.960 --> 00:17:59.680 is that no one will stop in one of my videos to see me. 222 00:18:00.599 --> 00:18:04.880 And time didn' t go on. Time just kept passing by and more 223 00:18:04.960 --> 00:18:10.079 passes by. I' m still talking to a friend, talking about business 224 00:18:10.079 --> 00:18:15.480 that we can do online and check out and this and that, and I 225 00:18:15.519 --> 00:18:18.279 can think of conversations with her, but that comes to my mind like this 226 00:18:18.279 --> 00:18:21.839 quickly. That was the angels who put it in my mind, conversations with 227 00:18:21.880 --> 00:18:26.839 it. And that' s the name, that' s the name to 228 00:18:26.960 --> 00:18:30.440 keep walking and I don' t do anything, I already had the idea, 229 00:18:30.640 --> 00:18:33.240 I already had the name, but I still don' t do anything 230 00:18:33.240 --> 00:18:37.640 at all. I' m going on a trip, I' m going 231 00:18:37.720 --> 00:18:41.000 on a trip to Italy with my mom. It was her and I alone 232 00:18:41.119 --> 00:18:45.599 and that trip for me marked me a lot, because it was seeing so 233 00:18:45.079 --> 00:18:48.160 much beauty together, so much architecture, so much history, so many beautiful 234 00:18:48.160 --> 00:18:53.359 people. And on that trip I had it opened my eyes and said no, 235 00:18:53.640 --> 00:18:57.079 no, no, this I have to do. This was that I 236 00:18:57.200 --> 00:19:00.799 made the decision and when I arrived, I did not verify the name. 237 00:19:00.799 --> 00:19:07.240 On social media. I opened them, but I didn' t put in 238 00:19:07.720 --> 00:19:08.960 any video, I didn' t make any video, I didn' t 239 00:19:08.960 --> 00:19:12.960 do anything. It' s been a few more months, it' s 240 00:19:14.000 --> 00:19:18.039 been a total of about six eight months. I' m talking to a 241 00:19:18.079 --> 00:19:22.440 guy I was interested in and the apparent not as interested as I was at 242 00:19:23.119 --> 00:19:26.920 the time and he makes me Ghsting. I imagine you know what it is. 243 00:19:27.640 --> 00:19:30.599 Yes, you do, they disappear out of nowhere. Yes, I 244 00:19:30.599 --> 00:19:33.400 do. I stop talking to you, stop writing everything, and I said 245 00:19:34.319 --> 00:19:38.440 what are the questions you ask when you' re being asked Gosting. It 246 00:19:38.480 --> 00:19:44.720 was me who had it, I who did it. It was my fault, 247 00:19:45.599 --> 00:19:48.599 because that' s the first thing you ask yourself. Then what' 248 00:19:48.599 --> 00:19:52.640 s up? I get so angry, I focus so much and so much 249 00:19:52.680 --> 00:19:56.920 on the situation and I think it' s so unfair that I say now 250 00:19:56.000 --> 00:20:03.880 is that I' m going to make these videos, okay also as part 251 00:20:03.559 --> 00:20:10.880 of a catharsis, not for that I was living totally and this one I 252 00:20:10.960 --> 00:20:12.279 was always reading some book or listening to some book. The one who was 253 00:20:12.319 --> 00:20:17.279 reading at that time was talking about all that, about self- esteem when 254 00:20:17.279 --> 00:20:19.880 they stop talking about those questions that we ask ourselves, that it' s 255 00:20:19.880 --> 00:20:23.119 not our fault, it' s the other thing, it' s a 256 00:20:23.119 --> 00:20:30.079 decision that the other person made, it' s not you then start to 257 00:20:30.039 --> 00:20:32.200 share those texts from the books and explain them and so on with other books 258 00:20:32.200 --> 00:20:33.079 as well. And what I think is love, what I think is love 259 00:20:33.119 --> 00:20:36.960 in freedom, what it is to love in respect in all those things. 260 00:20:38.880 --> 00:20:45.839 And it starts to have traction the count while I notice that the more I 261 00:20:45.480 --> 00:20:52.920 open up according to the situations I' m going through, the more vulnerable 262 00:20:52.920 --> 00:21:00.880 I' m being, I know, more vulnerable samples, I' m 263 00:21:00.880 --> 00:21:03.240 being more connected with people. Now, every time I shoot a video in 264 00:21:03.279 --> 00:21:07.799 social media, I repeat myself and I am aware that my videos will only 265 00:21:07.799 --> 00:21:10.960 reach the people who have to listen to them and the person who has to 266 00:21:11.079 --> 00:21:17.119 receive them, not the haters, not anyone. No, my videos are 267 00:21:17.160 --> 00:21:19.680 for people who are going to receive it. And so it has been. 268 00:21:19.799 --> 00:21:23.720 From there, obviously, I' ve transformed the content a little bit, 269 00:21:25.119 --> 00:21:30.920 put more vulnerability, more experience. I always try to think well what I 270 00:21:30.920 --> 00:21:33.200 ' m going to say, at least the point of the story. And 271 00:21:33.279 --> 00:21:37.559 well another thing that happened to me, that I loved about and this happened 272 00:21:37.640 --> 00:21:41.039 in Tiktok. I play a video of the stories repeated. I have a 273 00:21:41.160 --> 00:21:45.799 very strong theme, which is repeated stories. What we have to learn is 274 00:21:47.559 --> 00:21:51.200 coming into our lives. You didn' t learn it to the first, 275 00:21:51.599 --> 00:21:59.000 to the second, that we' re not going to the third, so 276 00:21:59.119 --> 00:22:02.839 look at the universe, bat whispers, then he talks to you and, 277 00:22:03.000 --> 00:22:03.480 since you don' t understand, he' s going to yell at you. 278 00:22:03.440 --> 00:22:07.200 And then, in me I have three repeated stories until that last one 279 00:22:07.319 --> 00:22:12.240 comes yells at me in relationship stories until that' s okay and yells at 280 00:22:12.240 --> 00:22:17.720 me. And finally, I understand that this man is serving me as a 281 00:22:17.759 --> 00:22:21.519 mirror, what he' s showing me, that I have to do this 282 00:22:21.559 --> 00:22:25.240 for myself, that I have to focus on myself, do what I want, 283 00:22:25.400 --> 00:22:32.599 what my heart wants, and many other things. Also that I understood 284 00:22:32.640 --> 00:22:37.279 at that moment, I understood that I could not good. That' s 285 00:22:37.279 --> 00:22:41.799 strong. Yeah, yeah, that' s more than welcome to anything you 286 00:22:41.880 --> 00:22:47.359 want. I have always said that, especially when I saw him living in 287 00:22:47.359 --> 00:22:52.119 Miami, I saw these couples, these men who give everything to the woman, 288 00:22:52.599 --> 00:22:56.000 and I know that Latin America goes a lot with that. Man is 289 00:22:56.039 --> 00:23:00.880 the supplier, man gives and gives in large quantities. He' s the 290 00:23:00.960 --> 00:23:04.119 one who buys the house, he' s the one who buys the vacations 291 00:23:04.119 --> 00:23:07.920 or the wallets, everything he is, not as much material as he can, 292 00:23:07.920 --> 00:23:08.920 but he' s the man. So, in my life I' 293 00:23:10.039 --> 00:23:12.279 ve never experienced that. I' ve had to work for what I' 294 00:23:12.720 --> 00:23:15.480 ve had and I don' t know where I come from. Yes, 295 00:23:15.519 --> 00:23:22.240 the man is a supplier, but the woman works, the majar does her 296 00:23:22.240 --> 00:23:25.759 thing. The woman earns her own money and buys her own then I said. 297 00:23:26.519 --> 00:23:30.039 Oh, I think in my mind I' m waiting for this man 298 00:23:30.119 --> 00:23:33.759 to meet the one I was with at the time. Give me something, 299 00:23:34.640 --> 00:23:41.079 give me the house, ask me to be your wife, but what if 300 00:23:41.160 --> 00:23:47.160 that' s not my lesson, I think my lesson is I have to 301 00:23:47.200 --> 00:23:49.799 give it to myself. I' m the one who has to give it 302 00:23:49.799 --> 00:23:55.000 to me. Look, you' re already up to toys that came out, 303 00:23:55.000 --> 00:23:59.039 life comes. I' m the one who has to put myself in 304 00:23:59.039 --> 00:24:00.599 priority. I' m the one who has to make my own money. 305 00:24:00.640 --> 00:24:03.359 Oh, I want a house. Oh, wait, that' s my 306 00:24:03.359 --> 00:24:07.599 turn. I' m the one buying my house. I want talca. 307 00:24:07.839 --> 00:24:12.680 I' m the one buying cars. This is taking the bull by the 308 00:24:12.759 --> 00:24:17.359 horns. No, no, no, I' m going to do this 309 00:24:17.400 --> 00:24:19.880 and it doesn' t mean that that' s the lesson for all women 310 00:24:21.319 --> 00:24:22.839 look I' m never ever telling you that that' s what I' 311 00:24:22.880 --> 00:24:26.599 ve experienced and what I' ve understood, that it' s one of 312 00:24:26.680 --> 00:24:30.799 my great lessons in life and that also here something that is very important my 313 00:24:30.960 --> 00:24:32.960 dear Diane, is that I' m also the person who' s going 314 00:24:32.960 --> 00:24:34.200 to make me happy. Happiness isn' t with the other thing is me, 315 00:24:34.319 --> 00:24:37.799 I' m the people I' m gonna forgive myself. I' 316 00:24:37.880 --> 00:24:41.039 m the person who' s gonna be full and I don' t need 317 00:24:41.079 --> 00:24:45.279 anyone around me to be able to do it. And right now, you 318 00:24:45.359 --> 00:24:48.720 were talking to us about that vulnerability in the sense of opening your heart to 319 00:24:49.279 --> 00:24:56.680 us and saying that in this loneliness I didn' t have to work that 320 00:24:56.720 --> 00:25:03.960 on me And now, thanks to that feeling of loneliness at that time or 321 00:25:03.079 --> 00:25:08.079 we can' t enjoy conversations with it, on Tiktok, on Instagram, 322 00:25:08.359 --> 00:25:15.279 on your podcast, because thanks to that today you are helping so many people 323 00:25:15.640 --> 00:25:19.319 so much, so you' re breaking borders and that' s how we 324 00:25:19.319 --> 00:25:23.119 got to know each other, and not only in Mexico, but you' 325 00:25:23.160 --> 00:25:25.480 re impacting many more countries and I' m sure that in Puerto Rico they 326 00:25:25.480 --> 00:25:26.680 ' re very happy with me. Now something I want to ask you. 327 00:25:29.279 --> 00:25:37.920 Latin American peoples are bell- bearers, pushers, workers, wrestlers, not 328 00:25:37.960 --> 00:25:42.319 for nothing to other countries, both in the United States, Canada and in 329 00:25:42.319 --> 00:25:47.440 Europe they hold us in good esteem, because they know that Latinos are very 330 00:25:47.519 --> 00:25:49.359 hard- working, but we are also partyers. But we also have an 331 00:25:49.359 --> 00:25:53.240 energy. I want to ask you where this energy comes from. Obviously, 332 00:25:53.359 --> 00:25:56.759 not in Puerto Rico and it gives you a lot of ground. But where 333 00:25:56.839 --> 00:26:03.000 does this energy come from? Because sometimes you could think. Oh, sure, 334 00:26:03.599 --> 00:26:07.039 for Diane it' s very easy, because she' s got it 335 00:26:07.160 --> 00:26:07.960 all, ah because she' s got a car of the year. Oh, 336 00:26:08.240 --> 00:26:11.519 because she' s got the cheery voice. Not sure, is it 337 00:26:11.559 --> 00:26:17.039 very easy for her where this energy comes from? And what do you do 338 00:26:17.160 --> 00:26:22.839 The second question that is stuck when you' re low, when you' 339 00:26:22.240 --> 00:26:27.599 re sad, when suddenly there are clouds on the horizon and the sun doesn 340 00:26:27.680 --> 00:26:32.200 ' t come up, tell us well, where the energy comes from, 341 00:26:32.319 --> 00:26:34.680 based on that work and everything, where I come from, yes, you 342 00:26:34.920 --> 00:26:40.160 have to work for everything you want and hear there are people who have everything 343 00:26:40.519 --> 00:26:44.000 from the beginning, and how good for them or who were born in a 344 00:26:44.079 --> 00:26:45.079 golden cradle how good for them, because for some reason the parents worked. 345 00:26:45.599 --> 00:26:48.960 Or whatever, but we don' t all come from the same place. 346 00:26:49.480 --> 00:26:53.680 We have to find out what we want to do and do it right. 347 00:26:56.279 --> 00:26:59.359 I' ve taken it one step at a time. I can' t 348 00:26:59.359 --> 00:27:00.160 tell you that I have my life resolved, because I don' t. 349 00:27:02.960 --> 00:27:06.440 It' s not like that. I don' t have the car of 350 00:27:06.440 --> 00:27:11.519 the year either. But I live well, I have my things. I 351 00:27:11.039 --> 00:27:15.200 work well. I studied you remember I told you, I studied philosophy. 352 00:27:15.599 --> 00:27:19.880 Yeah, yeah, I didn' t do anything with it. That' 353 00:27:19.960 --> 00:27:25.759 s what I do now for love of art and for this love of connecting. 354 00:27:25.960 --> 00:27:29.920 That' s my base. But when I arrived in the United States, 355 00:27:30.640 --> 00:27:37.440 because I have always worked for investment, banking and sales, I have 356 00:27:37.480 --> 00:27:41.519 been banking all the time, since the day I moved here and right now, 357 00:27:41.240 --> 00:27:45.599 because I work with a World Street investment company. That' s what 358 00:27:45.640 --> 00:27:49.519 I do. Everything else I do is out of love, out of art, 359 00:27:49.759 --> 00:27:55.480 my dear, my dying band. Obviously, I have new projects. 360 00:27:55.519 --> 00:27:59.720 I am always with a project in mind that this has happened in the last 361 00:27:59.720 --> 00:28:03.119 year, that this comes from the healing that I tell you later. Okay, 362 00:28:03.759 --> 00:28:07.359 okay, good money, but yeah, taking out the projects to wait 363 00:28:07.359 --> 00:28:11.920 for you. I want to do something for me. I want to make 364 00:28:11.960 --> 00:28:18.519 money that' s mine that a lot of people just think that you were 365 00:28:18.559 --> 00:28:19.799 born and you were put on that job and you have to do that until 366 00:28:19.799 --> 00:28:23.880 you die. Not sure. But if you want to do something extra, 367 00:28:26.079 --> 00:28:30.559 you have to get out of the box, make the decision, get to 368 00:28:30.559 --> 00:28:33.519 learn that today you learn whatever it is, because on the Internet it is 369 00:28:34.200 --> 00:28:38.359 a wonder and then make your additional protections. I have projects that I have 370 00:28:38.400 --> 00:28:42.759 my books sold on Amazon, I have the podcast. Right now I' 371 00:28:42.839 --> 00:28:47.039 m looking for Sponsters, I have other things. I mean, it' 372 00:28:47.039 --> 00:28:49.240 s always a matter of looking, searching, searching. I am writing a 373 00:28:49.359 --> 00:28:53.039 very very special book for me that I soon expect in the coming months to 374 00:28:53.079 --> 00:28:56.640 bring it out for sale and anything is possible. My mom once told me 375 00:28:56.680 --> 00:29:00.319 and I didn' t believe it at the time. She had butic as 376 00:29:00.319 --> 00:29:06.599 soon as she was in Puerto Rico and she was very successful at the time 377 00:29:06.640 --> 00:29:08.039 and I asked her at some point, Mommy, how you did it. 378 00:29:08.079 --> 00:29:11.440 That' s it, and she answered me. It' s just that 379 00:29:11.519 --> 00:29:14.440 one can do everything in life. It can' t be everything. You 380 00:29:14.759 --> 00:29:17.359 don' t have to propose that, do you? Is it true? 381 00:29:17.519 --> 00:29:21.319 You have to propose you have to set the time to learn, because it 382 00:29:21.359 --> 00:29:23.359 ' s not that this one will open your mind and you' ll get 383 00:29:23.400 --> 00:29:26.720 the understanding there. I want to open a podcast. Let me do it. 384 00:29:26.960 --> 00:29:32.759 You don' t have to know what system, what hosset, what 385 00:29:32.839 --> 00:29:36.720 theme you' re going to talk about, how you' re going to 386 00:29:36.720 --> 00:29:37.240 structure the conversation, what microphone you' re going to use. I mean, 387 00:29:37.319 --> 00:29:41.319 it' s so much detail that it' s learning, learning, 388 00:29:41.400 --> 00:29:47.680 learning, learning, learning, but if you want everything, you can see 389 00:29:47.680 --> 00:29:51.759 how important it is to learn, put it into practice, and improve, 390 00:29:52.319 --> 00:29:53.319 because obviously, you' re wrong, that is, there' s no 391 00:29:53.319 --> 00:29:57.079 one wise. We are all learning, just as we learned to walk a 392 00:29:57.079 --> 00:30:02.039 few years ago, not others, long years ago, like me, but 393 00:30:02.039 --> 00:30:07.240 just as we learned to walk that we fell, we stumble today we continue 394 00:30:07.319 --> 00:30:10.920 to fall, we continue to stumble, but already at least we know how 395 00:30:10.920 --> 00:30:12.720 to walk, run, etcetera. I want to ask you something that is 396 00:30:12.799 --> 00:30:17.759 very important to me. Which one' s the oldest. I know there 397 00:30:17.880 --> 00:30:23.279 are many, but what is the greatest achievement that you have been able to 398 00:30:23.400 --> 00:30:30.640 distinguish from your life in recent years. That older man gets it, that 399 00:30:32.519 --> 00:30:37.759 you say look at people, because obviously, people can say that. There 400 00:30:37.880 --> 00:30:41.079 are people who say that. I' m never gonna make it. But 401 00:30:41.240 --> 00:30:45.519 for one it causes enormous satisfaction. What has been that greatest achievement of which 402 00:30:45.640 --> 00:30:52.519 you are so satisfied, happy and proud. Yeah, there' s two 403 00:30:52.519 --> 00:30:57.240 little things. One is one is work and the other is staff, okay. 404 00:30:57.799 --> 00:31:02.880 In relation to the we go to the staff that from there. That 405 00:31:02.880 --> 00:31:07.599 ' s where the strength comes out For the rest, the greatest achievement was 406 00:31:08.519 --> 00:31:12.720 to understand that my self- esteem was low and that he didn' t 407 00:31:12.720 --> 00:31:18.480 love me enough. And then work on it waiting, recovering, rediscovering, 408 00:31:18.839 --> 00:31:26.359 reconnecting with me, seeing what my values and non- negotiables are. Listen 409 00:31:26.440 --> 00:31:30.559 well, because that' s very important non- negotiable. What am I 410 00:31:30.599 --> 00:31:34.599 going to allow and what am I not going to allow. Whatever happens in 411 00:31:34.720 --> 00:31:41.160 a relationship or with any partner relationship or whatever you have with yourself is also 412 00:31:41.279 --> 00:31:45.799 non- negotiable. With yourself with me, look at yourself. I don 413 00:31:45.880 --> 00:31:49.640 ' t bet because it' s for me already comes if it' s 414 00:31:49.680 --> 00:31:55.880 non- negotiable, because it' s for me too ok ok ok know 415 00:31:55.920 --> 00:31:56.720 what your values are and what is non- negotiable. Which doesn' t 416 00:31:56.799 --> 00:32:00.599 matter if they put it in gold. You' re not going to take 417 00:32:00.599 --> 00:32:06.160 an example. What' s a non- negotiable of mine to be mistreated 418 00:32:06.400 --> 00:32:08.160 by my family, mistreated by my mom, that' s a non- 419 00:32:08.160 --> 00:32:12.359 negotiable. I could never be with a person, a man in a relationship 420 00:32:12.400 --> 00:32:16.119 that mistreats my mother or disrespects her. Ah, well, that' s 421 00:32:16.240 --> 00:32:21.200 a non- negotiable. That' s what I would never allow in a 422 00:32:21.200 --> 00:32:25.559 relationship. What And there is based on those self- esteem and self- 423 00:32:27.759 --> 00:32:31.440 value reconnection learnings. That was something I' m very proud of. I 424 00:32:31.440 --> 00:32:36.079 forgot to tell you before. I think we' re talking about how it 425 00:32:36.759 --> 00:32:37.880 was that he had come to America and where he' d come out. 426 00:32:38.920 --> 00:32:45.680 Another accomplished goal that has filled my heart a lot is that I am now 427 00:32:45.759 --> 00:32:50.279 a narrator of audio books. Oh, that' s so nice. I 428 00:32:50.359 --> 00:32:55.759 ' ve been obsessed with books for many years and that' s where philosophy 429 00:32:55.839 --> 00:33:00.240 and all this and all the books I' ve read and the way my 430 00:33:00.440 --> 00:33:07.119 heart calms down when there' s chaos is through reading. For me it 431 00:33:07.200 --> 00:33:12.000 is paramount in my life, because I have always dreamed of working with books 432 00:33:12.039 --> 00:33:15.039 in some way, that is, writing them or working for a publisher. 433 00:33:15.519 --> 00:33:20.559 Those were the dreams I had that didn' t spit at me at the 434 00:33:20.559 --> 00:33:22.839 time and I was looking for a job. How I can work in an 435 00:33:22.839 --> 00:33:28.920 editorial. Nothing. Years passed. Since everything arrives Luis Mi, everything comes 436 00:33:29.319 --> 00:33:34.680 when you have to arrive and when you are ready to receive it, it 437 00:33:35.319 --> 00:33:39.480 happened and I said I will tell you a more interesting story. Even two 438 00:33:39.759 --> 00:33:46.079 years ago I had entered this Internet account and said you are an actor or 439 00:33:46.960 --> 00:33:52.279 producer for book narration and I told myself at that time there is that I 440 00:33:52.279 --> 00:33:57.400 am none or. I' m an actress. I took acting classes in 441 00:33:57.440 --> 00:34:04.880 college and worked in theater, but look a long time ago and I' 442 00:34:04.880 --> 00:34:07.920 m a producer. I didn' t even know what this was, because 443 00:34:07.000 --> 00:34:09.400 at the time I said oh, don' t look at me studying on 444 00:34:09.400 --> 00:34:13.960 the computer. That' s not for me. Two years ago I found 445 00:34:14.400 --> 00:34:17.679 myself in a completely different mental situation. I go back to the same page. 446 00:34:19.280 --> 00:34:24.480 You' re an actress or an actor and a producer, but this 447 00:34:24.559 --> 00:34:28.559 time what this time dian said ah wait for you is that I can be 448 00:34:28.559 --> 00:34:30.360 a producer. I don' t know how to do it, but I 449 00:34:30.360 --> 00:34:38.239 ' m just gonna learn. I can okay hear there I that is amazing, 450 00:34:38.280 --> 00:34:44.880 because then everything is possible, I mean, there has to be recommended 451 00:34:45.440 --> 00:34:50.119 this recommendation that your mommy gave us, that now I tell you and let 452 00:34:50.239 --> 00:34:53.400 me look for it for everyone, not because your mommy today is telling us 453 00:34:53.719 --> 00:34:57.400 through you everything is possible. So if you' re watching us, you 454 00:34:57.440 --> 00:35:00.920 ' re listening to us and you have a project. Even if you have 455 00:35:01.000 --> 00:35:07.760 studied well, even if you have studied business administration and want to have a 456 00:35:07.800 --> 00:35:10.039 podcast, write a book, everything is possible and it is possible. And 457 00:35:10.039 --> 00:35:17.000 there you have Dian, who is a truly reliable witness that you can. 458 00:35:19.480 --> 00:35:22.480 And today what you transmit to us is passion, that joy, it' 459 00:35:23.000 --> 00:35:27.559 s surrender, it' s ispa, that joy, it' s that 460 00:35:27.559 --> 00:35:30.840 love for life. And in that sense, the truth is that I love 461 00:35:30.000 --> 00:35:37.360 it because obviously, you are transmitting more than transmitting knowledge and tools, you 462 00:35:37.360 --> 00:35:44.559 are touching hearts. I want to underline this and I want you to see 463 00:35:44.559 --> 00:35:47.239 the importance of what you' re doing today. I mean, you' 464 00:35:47.280 --> 00:35:52.920 re not just sharing tools you say. Let' s imagine, No, 465 00:35:52.199 --> 00:35:59.039 then what use an disarmer is to tighten or loosen. No, no, 466 00:35:58.920 --> 00:36:02.480 no, that' s a tool. So you' re touching hearts and 467 00:36:02.639 --> 00:36:07.239 touching lives. Then the importance that I don' t know if you' 468 00:36:07.360 --> 00:36:14.440 ve fallen the twenty and if you don' t need to fall you' 469 00:36:14.440 --> 00:36:15.320 re touching hearts and you' re breaking borders. And that is worthy of 470 00:36:15.360 --> 00:36:21.920 recognition, worthy of applause and I really think that not only your family, 471 00:36:22.039 --> 00:36:25.079 your friends, your contacts should be very proud of you, but that you 472 00:36:25.119 --> 00:36:30.920 yourself of IT has been worth it. It has been worth those sleepless nights, 473 00:36:31.480 --> 00:36:37.960 unanswered questions of not being able to sleep, of not being able to 474 00:36:37.079 --> 00:36:42.159 rest from loneliness of tears. It has been worth it because today you are 475 00:36:42.239 --> 00:36:46.920 where you are through this process and then you also teach us that processes are 476 00:36:46.920 --> 00:36:53.079 important. It' s logical. So it' s really admirable and I 477 00:36:53.119 --> 00:36:59.760 do want to tell you publicly that I really admire you for what you do 478 00:36:59.840 --> 00:37:01.360 and how you do it, that that' s something else. Some people 479 00:37:01.719 --> 00:37:07.400 do things right, but the way is not so good. So you say, 480 00:37:07.760 --> 00:37:10.079 for it lacks spark, it lacks grace. You make it fun, 481 00:37:10.239 --> 00:37:15.159 you make it entertaining, you always land with a smile. So how it 482 00:37:15.280 --> 00:37:19.679 ' s also very important. Now I want to ask you something. Imagine 483 00:37:20.239 --> 00:37:27.039 that you have a chance to make a lot of money. You won the 484 00:37:27.159 --> 00:37:31.519 United States lottery. Oh, I don' t remember the name of the 485 00:37:31.599 --> 00:37:37.840 moon, the lotus or the Mega family, the SS the lotus and then 486 00:37:37.840 --> 00:37:43.519 look at it. You earned a hundred and forty- four billion dollars. 487 00:37:43.840 --> 00:37:47.920 OK you can size that one hundred and forty- four billion dollars. What 488 00:37:47.960 --> 00:37:52.119 you' re investing that money in, what you' re doing with that 489 00:37:52.119 --> 00:37:57.280 money. Tomorrow you have that money, what you buy, what you do, 490 00:37:57.360 --> 00:38:00.000 tell us, what days, so look what. Several times in us 491 00:38:00.039 --> 00:38:04.119 I have asked that question and above all, the last time I asked myself 492 00:38:04.239 --> 00:38:09.880 that question was that I heard someone do it and the one who answered immediately 493 00:38:09.920 --> 00:38:13.960 said oh, I would donate so much to such a blah, blah? 494 00:38:14.039 --> 00:38:19.239 Blah, blah, and I kept thinking about donating. You have to give 495 00:38:19.280 --> 00:38:22.800 the world, that is, yes, you have to give the world, 496 00:38:22.679 --> 00:38:27.159 but what is my relationship with money? If I get those millions of dollars, 497 00:38:27.440 --> 00:38:29.920 I' m not gonna fuck them. Just to give them to the 498 00:38:29.920 --> 00:38:32.199 whole world. First I' m going to invest my money. Ah well, 499 00:38:32.239 --> 00:38:37.159 first I' m going to make a list for retirement, a few 500 00:38:37.159 --> 00:38:42.079 retirement accounts, take care of my retirement, that I live well when I 501 00:38:42.199 --> 00:38:45.360 no longer work, that I have a healthy state of life, that I 502 00:38:45.400 --> 00:38:49.880 am not poor, like many times to Americans it happens that already in his 503 00:38:49.880 --> 00:38:51.400 old age he has no money. It' s not weird anything. Yeah, 504 00:38:51.480 --> 00:38:55.800 yeah, yeah. I would buy everything I need to fix my podcast 505 00:38:55.840 --> 00:39:00.039 and make it the last generation of everything and computer and all this stuff, 506 00:39:00.519 --> 00:39:05.960 I would buy my dream house, because I still don' t have a 507 00:39:06.000 --> 00:39:12.280 living rental, so I would buy a dream house and from there, having 508 00:39:12.480 --> 00:39:14.400 my stuff, then I would go to I want to give it the best 509 00:39:14.400 --> 00:39:19.039 life. Mommy, okay Mommy, she' s happy traveling to the whole 510 00:39:19.039 --> 00:39:21.800 world, Mommy, let' s go to the world where you want, 511 00:39:22.159 --> 00:39:22.679 turn, you want to go to Turkey, let' s go this month 512 00:39:22.679 --> 00:39:23.079 to Turkey, let' s go the other. At the same time, 513 00:39:23.760 --> 00:39:30.159 share with her experiences that make her more and more and happier, support her 514 00:39:30.239 --> 00:39:36.159 financially, pay her for the treatments she needs in her old age to be. 515 00:39:36.280 --> 00:39:38.960 She and I have a very close relationship and we live three minutes away, 516 00:39:39.440 --> 00:39:43.599 that is, every day we see each other we are very independent and 517 00:39:43.719 --> 00:39:46.960 thank God and even healthy, I would share that money with her, with 518 00:39:47.039 --> 00:39:52.000 my sister, with my family And of course then I decide to look, 519 00:39:52.239 --> 00:39:58.079 I will donate this part to help this circumstance, this situation and with Luis 520 00:39:58.119 --> 00:40:01.800 VI there is also a little bit for you clearly hear, no, because 521 00:40:01.880 --> 00:40:04.400 I also want to scratch in that notebook. No. No, no, 522 00:40:04.480 --> 00:40:07.920 no, no, of course, what I want to make a point here 523 00:40:07.000 --> 00:40:10.679 is very important, because this has touched me personally in the sense of my 524 00:40:10.800 --> 00:40:16.039 relationship with wealth and money. Yes, and then the relationship of abundance, 525 00:40:16.519 --> 00:40:21.599 forgive me for it. I' m going to interrupt a lot because I 526 00:40:21.599 --> 00:40:23.599 want to get the most information out of you. The relationship with abundance is 527 00:40:25.000 --> 00:40:30.719 important. Why, why humans give us as fear of abundance, not that, 528 00:40:30.880 --> 00:40:36.239 as a pity, it gives us as woe. No, no, 529 00:40:36.320 --> 00:40:40.519 this me little bit. I suffer because I don' t say. I 530 00:40:40.599 --> 00:40:45.079 live happily full and I have if I can have three cars, I have 531 00:40:45.079 --> 00:40:52.199 three cars. I believe that the Latin mentality is moving so much towards poverty 532 00:40:52.320 --> 00:40:55.039 and, of course, governments. I am not going to talk about politics, 533 00:40:55.440 --> 00:41:00.880 but the more we are manipulable through poverty, because it is better to 534 00:41:00.320 --> 00:41:06.480 look at money. Money is a tool. Money is a tool for you 535 00:41:06.599 --> 00:41:10.880 to get where you want to have experiences, you want to help those you 536 00:41:10.880 --> 00:41:14.519 want to help, forgive me, but they will say it is selfish or 537 00:41:14.519 --> 00:41:15.960 not good. It' s my way of thinking. I don' t 538 00:41:16.000 --> 00:41:19.559 want to help everyone Hey, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don' 539 00:41:19.559 --> 00:41:22.360 t want to help Raimundo and everyone who goes through the street or all the 540 00:41:22.360 --> 00:41:24.480 foundations that exist in the world that you don' t know if they' 541 00:41:24.519 --> 00:41:27.440 re good and they' re bad or where they come from. I want 542 00:41:27.480 --> 00:41:31.599 to help what fills my heart, but what happens all begins with one. 543 00:41:32.639 --> 00:41:37.119 I have to help myself first. I, I first have to save for 544 00:41:37.119 --> 00:41:39.599 my retirement, for my health, for my family, for the experiences I 545 00:41:39.679 --> 00:41:45.280 have to have. And that' s why I' m not a bad 546 00:41:46.000 --> 00:41:49.000 person, because I deserve to be okay. That' s where it comes 547 00:41:49.199 --> 00:41:52.559 from, that' s what I learned. It didn' t come to 548 00:41:53.280 --> 00:41:58.840 me out of nowhere to understand that we are raised in a way thinking that 549 00:41:58.920 --> 00:42:01.639 money is difficult and you have to bring down so much and have the money 550 00:42:01.679 --> 00:42:08.719 is bad and the one that guides the Mercedes is what I know about the 551 00:42:08.719 --> 00:42:12.320 capcio they tell you there in Mexico, of the point as they say in 552 00:42:12.320 --> 00:42:16.880 Puerto Rico. No, I mean, no, you grow up thinking that 553 00:42:17.000 --> 00:42:21.639 the one who has a kid tells me at home, the one who has 554 00:42:21.679 --> 00:42:23.000 a kid is the one who' s bad. It' s not like 555 00:42:23.480 --> 00:42:27.760 that, not everyone is. No. Then what if you, Luis, 556 00:42:28.159 --> 00:42:32.400 my you' re full of chavo, why I don' t clear. 557 00:42:32.880 --> 00:42:37.320 If you' re a human being, I can have one too. Ah 558 00:42:37.400 --> 00:42:44.000 then let me, let me open myself to these possibilities that I deserve to 559 00:42:44.000 --> 00:42:46.800 have money. And it' s not that I deserve to be rich and 560 00:42:46.880 --> 00:42:50.920 have the five mansions and the yacht, because not everyone is interested in that. 561 00:42:51.239 --> 00:42:52.679 I' m not interested in having a yacht or a plane. No. 562 00:42:52.679 --> 00:42:58.360 No, no, no, what' s the tool. Money is 563 00:42:58.440 --> 00:43:04.719 a bridge to improve your life, your health, your total family, having 564 00:43:05.840 --> 00:43:09.599 the experiences that will fill your heart. That thing that dreams of that trip, 565 00:43:09.800 --> 00:43:13.480 that you' re dying to do, but you haven' t done 566 00:43:13.480 --> 00:43:16.519 it because it costs you 3, 000 pesos. That' s it, 567 00:43:16.840 --> 00:43:21.440 I think the most important thing looks at me. It' s not because 568 00:43:21.599 --> 00:43:24.559 the truth I think what you share with us is very important. I want 569 00:43:24.559 --> 00:43:28.960 to invite all the people who are listening to us just please take note and 570 00:43:29.280 --> 00:43:34.719 if you don' t pause and then listen again and listen to Bian Velázquez 571 00:43:34.800 --> 00:43:44.119 ' s social networks again. In Tiktok it is like bass script conversations, 572 00:43:45.400 --> 00:43:51.719 with script under the same ok in Tiktok, script with script conversations under it. 573 00:43:52.239 --> 00:43:59.480 On Instagram there are similar bass script conversations with John under it and listen 574 00:43:59.599 --> 00:44:06.960 to his podcast, which is called conversations with the podcast itself. I really 575 00:44:07.000 --> 00:44:09.480 think that all the information they' re going to hear, they' re 576 00:44:09.719 --> 00:44:13.800 going to see that Diano shares us. I' m sure it' s 577 00:44:13.800 --> 00:44:16.480 going to help you and if it doesn' t help you, I' 578 00:44:16.639 --> 00:44:21.199 m sure that way, I' ll give you the wool you want that 579 00:44:21.320 --> 00:44:23.559 ' s going to help your neighbor, your mom, your kids, your 580 00:44:23.559 --> 00:44:27.960 brother, your cousin or that friend that you like very fat to me it 581 00:44:27.960 --> 00:44:29.800 ' s going to be. I' m sure of that. Now, 582 00:44:29.880 --> 00:44:32.360 my dear Diana, I' m going to ask you questions that there are 583 00:44:32.360 --> 00:44:36.639 no good or bad answers. I need them to respond as quickly as possible 584 00:44:36.719 --> 00:44:38.280 and I' m going to ask you questions about all of you. Yeah, 585 00:44:39.840 --> 00:44:44.559 then in another interview we' ll talk about it because the idea is 586 00:44:44.599 --> 00:44:45.400 to play and we' ll do a contest that I' m going to 587 00:44:45.400 --> 00:44:50.239 invite you to. Not where there will be questions, capciosas, funny questions, 588 00:44:50.519 --> 00:44:52.159 but today we' re going to make it a little more relaxed. 589 00:44:52.679 --> 00:44:57.400 So, you do, soft or understanding intertrust. Tell us, please, 590 00:44:58.000 --> 00:45:08.239 if you' re so kind, three types of three types of burgers that 591 00:45:09.559 --> 00:45:16.320 you' ve tasted ush three types of burger, tried a burger with wagu 592 00:45:16.400 --> 00:45:22.320 meat recently and liked it? I liked it. It was a chevere experience 593 00:45:22.440 --> 00:45:28.119 another hamburger look that I once had one that had egg, that was the 594 00:45:28.159 --> 00:45:31.960 hamburger, the Hamberger, the egg and everything else, because I really liked 595 00:45:31.960 --> 00:45:44.320 that mixture and another hamburger that has bluches. That' s where the girls 596 00:45:44.320 --> 00:45:49.599 OK comes in. Very good to tell me three things, that you take 597 00:45:49.639 --> 00:45:57.960 to a field day, water or important, a book and a pen. 598 00:45:58.440 --> 00:46:07.000 Very nice to tell me three things that are sold by catalog, books, 599 00:46:09.400 --> 00:46:13.960 pants and cables. So we need for the wonderful computer. Tell us, 600 00:46:14.239 --> 00:46:20.159 what' s been the funniest thing you did last weekend. Oh, that 601 00:46:20.159 --> 00:46:22.679 ' s fun. There, there it is. I don' t know 602 00:46:22.719 --> 00:46:25.199 if I' m too funny. B Oh, please, of course, 603 00:46:25.559 --> 00:46:31.639 Woman, I work a lot of fun. It' s fun for me. 604 00:46:31.719 --> 00:46:36.280 I know a lot of people don' t, but sitting on the 605 00:46:36.280 --> 00:46:39.559 grass around here where I say there' s like a lake I went out 606 00:46:39.599 --> 00:46:42.280 for a walk and sat on the grass to see the ducklings on the lake. 607 00:46:42.519 --> 00:46:45.519 That' s great fun for me. It' s perfect. It 608 00:46:45.599 --> 00:46:50.320 ' s perfect. Hey, tell us. What if you were famous for 609 00:46:50.360 --> 00:46:58.280 a month, a famous Shakira month, fame guy I don' t know, 610 00:46:59.000 --> 00:47:02.039 Jennifer Annington or pratito Michael Jackson. Imagine a month with that fame, 611 00:47:02.199 --> 00:47:07.280 what you would do with that fame, for look, with that fame, 612 00:47:08.239 --> 00:47:14.320 I would seek to sit at the same table with great mentors, great teachers 613 00:47:14.400 --> 00:47:21.119 on the subjects that I would like to learn to go to conferences to learn 614 00:47:21.320 --> 00:47:24.400 with those people in particular and take that month of fame. Woe to convey 615 00:47:24.760 --> 00:47:30.159 this message that I know you need to be heard, that vulnerability is necessary, 616 00:47:30.880 --> 00:47:32.920 that you have to open up, that you have to love yourself, 617 00:47:34.639 --> 00:47:38.519 that you have to respect yourself, that you have to stop leaving your body 618 00:47:38.559 --> 00:47:44.000 to dedicate yourself to another person, you have to recover and return to You, 619 00:47:44.199 --> 00:47:45.360 because it all begins in You. That' s what I' d 620 00:47:45.360 --> 00:47:49.159 do if I had a month of fame. How wonderful are your questions about 621 00:47:49.239 --> 00:47:52.880 what you prefer to or b Ok, to give you an example, which 622 00:47:52.920 --> 00:47:59.440 you prefer the cold or the heat. The cold, then you' d 623 00:47:59.519 --> 00:48:04.880 rather spend a year at minus ten degrees Celsius or zero degrees Celsius. Oh, 624 00:48:06.119 --> 00:48:10.199 hard for you to cheat too long. I like the cold more than 625 00:48:10.239 --> 00:48:15.800 the heat, but not so incredibly cold. If you have to choose between 626 00:48:15.840 --> 00:48:19.079 the two and there' s no middle ground, then I' d go 627 00:48:19.079 --> 00:48:24.000 with the heat. You can, you can choose between flying or being invisible. 628 00:48:24.119 --> 00:48:30.719 What did you perceive to be invisible? Being invisible would be awful. 629 00:48:30.719 --> 00:48:35.400 I too will love to be invisible. Tell me, please, what do 630 00:48:35.800 --> 00:48:44.800 you prefer to sing everything you say or dance everything you hear. Singing You 631 00:48:44.880 --> 00:48:52.119 like singing I like more than dancing. When it was the last time you 632 00:48:52.360 --> 00:48:57.360 sang for yourself, alone goes not always singing for me, alone not in 633 00:48:57.360 --> 00:49:01.840 me while I muck you brought them or foot And how much was the last 634 00:49:01.920 --> 00:49:08.119 time you sang in public, uf in public, in some kario that fifteen 635 00:49:08.119 --> 00:49:12.880 years ago or something like that. No, Barbarita, you' re growing 636 00:49:12.880 --> 00:49:21.039 up, no, you' re saying look are for me You can figure 637 00:49:21.159 --> 00:49:29.000 out that you can detect every lie they tell you or that people believe every 638 00:49:29.119 --> 00:49:37.960 lie that you say what you prefer that I can detect ok You also think 639 00:49:37.000 --> 00:49:39.400 the truth is for everyone, the truth is for everyone, but not everyone 640 00:49:39.400 --> 00:49:44.400 gets the truth. Yes, because being prepared for the truth. Suddenly there 641 00:49:44.400 --> 00:49:46.719 are people who say to me that I like to be spoken with the truth, 642 00:49:47.400 --> 00:49:52.320 but you can bear it. Perhaps to endure the truth and I believe 643 00:49:52.440 --> 00:49:57.719 that not all, not all could matter not only that, but also that 644 00:49:57.719 --> 00:50:00.119 there are truths. I mean. I know there' s a tendency that 645 00:50:00.159 --> 00:50:02.519 people tell the truth, you have to tell them and I have to be 646 00:50:02.559 --> 00:50:06.360 honest and all sewn up. Yes, yes, but you have to keep 647 00:50:06.360 --> 00:50:09.559 in mind how much your truth will affect that person and how will you leave? 648 00:50:10.000 --> 00:50:13.239 In what state are you going to leave that person? When you tell 649 00:50:13.239 --> 00:50:15.559 him the truth, you can destroy a life. What' s more, 650 00:50:16.760 --> 00:50:22.159 you can provoke suicide. On that side, then be careful with the truths. 651 00:50:22.679 --> 00:50:27.360 Not exactly is it heard very rude at least here in Mexico, but 652 00:50:27.440 --> 00:50:35.639 beware of the truths that you are now asking this question. You prefer never 653 00:50:35.920 --> 00:50:42.920 to have to wait in a row, supermarket or bank, etc, or 654 00:50:43.000 --> 00:50:49.880 always have a place to park your car What you prefer, but I prefer 655 00:50:50.199 --> 00:50:53.559 against what never wait, that is to say that in a row you never 656 00:50:53.599 --> 00:51:00.480 wait in a row you have supermarket, in a bank that you never have 657 00:51:00.840 --> 00:51:07.960 to wait, that you arrive directly to pay or always choose and have a 658 00:51:07.960 --> 00:51:09.280 place to park in the no, I prefer to wait. Yeah, you 659 00:51:09.320 --> 00:51:14.519 ' re going on hold. I' m patient, you' re patient 660 00:51:14.519 --> 00:51:19.639 what you do when you suddenly go to the bank or when suddenly you' 661 00:51:19.639 --> 00:51:21.440 re going to buy something. I don' t know how you' re 662 00:51:21.440 --> 00:51:25.119 going. There' s so much to think about in my mind. I 663 00:51:25.199 --> 00:51:29.920 have so much to think about, be it personal or so many things I 664 00:51:30.519 --> 00:51:31.400 have to do, that being there waits for what happens. We all have 665 00:51:31.400 --> 00:51:35.280 to wait in the world we live in. We all have to wait, 666 00:51:35.960 --> 00:51:37.440 to go to the supermarket, to go to the bank. That comes from 667 00:51:37.519 --> 00:51:44.800 the street or you choose how you' re going to wait or if you 668 00:51:44.800 --> 00:51:46.320 ' re going to get angry or if you' re going to take it 669 00:51:46.320 --> 00:51:51.199 easy. You take a little booklet or Kindel or the newspaper, whatever exists 670 00:51:51.239 --> 00:51:53.079 in your country and whatever you like best you start reading or just start creating 671 00:51:53.159 --> 00:51:57.719 ideas. Look I' m gonna do this I' m gonna do it. 672 00:51:58.119 --> 00:52:00.280 It' s how you handle time. It' s not like you 673 00:52:00.320 --> 00:52:01.920 ' re gonna waste time in line, it' s how you' re 674 00:52:02.000 --> 00:52:02.679 gonna handle your time, how you' re gonna take advantage of it. 675 00:52:04.679 --> 00:52:07.480 We' re getting to the final straight. But before you fire no and 676 00:52:07.599 --> 00:52:15.280 the final message comes questions of yes or no. OK. Some questions. 677 00:52:15.400 --> 00:52:21.960 He must tell you that some questions are weird. Some ethical questions are very 678 00:52:22.280 --> 00:52:28.440 contradictory. No, then you' re ready, yes, come on, 679 00:52:29.320 --> 00:52:31.960 always ready my dear day let' s go you consider yourself with a happy 680 00:52:31.960 --> 00:52:37.360 person. Yeah, you' re 100% satisfied with your physique. You 681 00:52:38.400 --> 00:52:43.320 didn' t break someone' s heart. Yeah, everybody, okay, 682 00:52:43.960 --> 00:52:45.760 it' s good, not everyone, but we' ve all done it. 683 00:52:46.079 --> 00:52:51.239 OK, you' re depressed. You haven' t done your homework. 684 00:52:52.880 --> 00:52:59.199 Yeah, you already threw away the trash. Don' t miss the 685 00:52:59.320 --> 00:53:02.000 real one yet, not the one who gives you, the other one, 686 00:53:02.000 --> 00:53:04.639 the life one. Yeah, I already threw it out of my kitchen. 687 00:53:04.760 --> 00:53:08.239 You haven' t brushed your teeth yet. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 688 00:53:08.559 --> 00:53:14.519 you took the dog for a walk. I got kittens, okay, you 689 00:53:14.559 --> 00:53:19.000 bought what I asked. Yeah, you' ve been to the doctor, 690 00:53:20.440 --> 00:53:21.960 I' ve been there, you' re telling lies. You often don 691 00:53:22.840 --> 00:53:27.039 ' t want to leave You don' t feel well anymore. I feel 692 00:53:27.199 --> 00:53:31.840 good. You do consider yourself a romantic person. Yeah, you think there 693 00:53:31.960 --> 00:53:36.719 ' s life on another planet. Yeah, you agree with the death penalty 694 00:53:36.840 --> 00:53:49.280 or hey you still have contact with your friends in elementary school. You don 695 00:53:49.360 --> 00:53:55.320 ' t think you can be happy. Yeah, you' d like to 696 00:53:55.400 --> 00:54:00.960 live in space. You don' t consider yourself a happy woman. Yes, 697 00:54:01.840 --> 00:54:07.800 very good, very good food and Vazquez. I thank you infinitely with 698 00:54:07.920 --> 00:54:13.360 all my heart, for that openness, for that noble heart, for that 699 00:54:13.519 --> 00:54:16.719 struggle, for that effort, for that dedication, for today you are reaping. 700 00:54:17.079 --> 00:54:21.960 Well, you' ve been harvesting for a long time, but today 701 00:54:22.119 --> 00:54:23.639 you' re reaping a lot more. And that' s worth applauding, 702 00:54:23.760 --> 00:54:30.119 admiring, and taking off your hat. But I want to ask you one. 703 00:54:30.760 --> 00:54:37.239 I want to invite you to give us a final message under this scheme. 704 00:54:37.679 --> 00:54:40.400 Imagine you have to give a message to the whole planet. This plan 705 00:54:40.559 --> 00:54:46.360 this message is going to be broadcast on radio, television, the Internet, 706 00:54:46.920 --> 00:54:51.679 by waves, by smoke signals, by signs all over the world is going 707 00:54:51.760 --> 00:54:54.760 to find out, is going to be translated into all languages, languages, 708 00:54:55.079 --> 00:55:01.639 dialects, everyone will hear it. What would be this message that gives us 709 00:55:01.800 --> 00:55:08.280 well Velázquez. Everything absolutely all begins with you, by a decision. You 710 00:55:08.480 --> 00:55:13.840 ' re the one who changes perspective and then changes your world. There is 711 00:55:13.920 --> 00:55:20.519 no doubt about that and understanding that there is a process and you cannot jump 712 00:55:20.599 --> 00:55:24.239 the steps. That pain you' re going through, what happened to you 713 00:55:24.480 --> 00:55:29.719 and what you' re carrying is necessary to get to where you have to 714 00:55:29.800 --> 00:55:32.519 go. There is no way to jump the process, We must walk, 715 00:55:34.400 --> 00:55:38.480 have faith and trust what wonder, what blessing. I thank you so much. 716 00:55:39.280 --> 00:55:42.920 Remember to remind us of your social networks. Please, for the people 717 00:55:43.000 --> 00:55:46.800 who are just listening to us. Yeah, yeah, I' m in 718 00:55:46.920 --> 00:55:52.719 bass script conversations with script under it. That' s for Instagram and also 719 00:55:52.880 --> 00:56:00.760 for Tiktok and my podcast is in Spotify and Apple is having conversations with the 720 00:56:00.760 --> 00:56:04.320 same podcast. There you can get me and you can subscribe to my news 721 00:56:04.400 --> 00:56:07.679 letter in Socialmeria, on Instagram or on tiktok. Here some of my journal, 722 00:56:07.719 --> 00:56:12.119 which is all based on your personal operation, which are sold on Amazon 723 00:56:12.199 --> 00:56:15.639 too or you can just send me a little message and I' ll be 724 00:56:15.679 --> 00:56:20.079 super happy to read them. There she is She' s Dian Velázquez. 725 00:56:20.480 --> 00:56:22.039 Thank you I embrace you with a lot of love. I' m sending 726 00:56:22.519 --> 00:56:27.159 a weight to you and your mommy. Say hello to me, please, 727 00:56:27.639 --> 00:56:30.840 and from Mexico, truly many blessings, and to You who heard us, 728 00:56:30.480 --> 00:56:36.679 who connected. Thank you for sharing this chapter. You have to share valuable 729 00:56:36.800 --> 00:56:40.960 content and not because I say so. 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