WEBVTT 1 00:00:01.480 --> 00:00:09.400 Hey, Hey, I'm back with something for you. Yes, you to 2 00:00:09.519 --> 00:00:17.640 think about. You know that old saying you don't miss your water until the 3 00:00:17.679 --> 00:00:27.519 well run dry. After the well runs dry, people realize, oh my 4 00:00:27.600 --> 00:00:36.039 goodness, there's no water. That's the way it is with relationships, the 5 00:00:36.280 --> 00:00:50.520 well has run dry. Too many people get into relationships for the wrong reasons 6 00:00:50.560 --> 00:00:57.079 with the wrong people, and as I always say, expect for it to 7 00:00:57.200 --> 00:01:02.759 work, or expect for good to come out of it. When you start 8 00:01:02.799 --> 00:01:10.400 out wrong. Wrong is what's it's gonna be. When you know you got 9 00:01:10.400 --> 00:01:19.439 into the relationship based on what your eyes could see, you already know you're 10 00:01:19.439 --> 00:01:26.000 gonna have issues. Some people get into relationships with good, good people, 11 00:01:26.439 --> 00:01:34.040 people who treat them right, but because of what's inside of self, all 12 00:01:34.079 --> 00:01:40.200 of the insecurities, the way your mindset is, and all of those unresolved 13 00:01:40.319 --> 00:01:49.000 issues, you destroy what you have. The person try and try and try 14 00:01:49.200 --> 00:01:55.359 and try to make it work, but it does not. It will not. 15 00:01:57.680 --> 00:02:05.319 You cannot make a relationship work by yourself. It takes two people. 16 00:02:07.319 --> 00:02:15.599 So you go through life with the person that you're supposed to love and you're 17 00:02:15.599 --> 00:02:22.759 just acting up, bringing drama, causing problems, making it all about you 18 00:02:23.879 --> 00:02:29.800 doing everything. You know it's wrong. You know it's wrong to take your 19 00:02:29.879 --> 00:02:35.159 significant other for granted. You know it's wrong to cause any kind of abuse. 20 00:02:35.599 --> 00:02:38.759 You know it's wrong to hurt them in any way. You know it's 21 00:02:38.759 --> 00:02:42.719 wrong to talk to them any kind of way. You know it's wrong to 22 00:02:42.840 --> 00:02:47.680 disrespect them, But you do it because you get away with it, number 23 00:02:47.719 --> 00:02:55.560 one. And you do it because of what's inside of you, all of 24 00:02:55.680 --> 00:03:05.759 the unresolved inside of you you project in your relationship and on your significant other. 25 00:03:07.000 --> 00:03:12.439 No matter what they do, it's never good enough for you. No 26 00:03:12.560 --> 00:03:17.159 matter how hard they try, you don't care because it's about you, what 27 00:03:17.400 --> 00:03:28.439 you want. So you see all of the hurt that you cause your significant 28 00:03:28.439 --> 00:03:34.400 other. But I want you to understand you, you and you. I 29 00:03:34.479 --> 00:03:38.680 want you to understand you. Always hear me say, if you take it, 30 00:03:38.639 --> 00:03:43.639 if you take this type of treatment from your significant other, you are 31 00:03:44.240 --> 00:03:51.360 your biggest problem. You already know they are a problem because of all of 32 00:03:51.360 --> 00:03:54.000 the mess that they're holding on too. But if you take it, you 33 00:03:54.120 --> 00:04:01.599 a problem for yourself. Because people treat you how you allow them to treat 34 00:04:01.599 --> 00:04:08.000 you, and you create the monsters in your life. So allowing your significant 35 00:04:08.120 --> 00:04:11.479 other to do whatever they want to you. That's what they're gonna do. 36 00:04:13.000 --> 00:04:15.680 They figure, hey, they got it like that because you're doing nothing. 37 00:04:17.480 --> 00:04:24.759 They know what they're doing. They're aware of the things that they're doing because 38 00:04:24.800 --> 00:04:30.199 they know it's based on what they want. Too many of you, too 39 00:04:30.319 --> 00:04:42.639 many settle for these types of relationships. You're so unhappy, you're miserable inside 40 00:04:43.040 --> 00:04:50.000 because you have this undeniable love for this person who's treating you like crap. 41 00:04:54.160 --> 00:04:59.839 So you try everything you can possibly think of to make that person happy. 42 00:05:00.040 --> 00:05:04.560 But you cannot please an unhappy person, no more than that unhappy person can 43 00:05:04.639 --> 00:05:15.600 please you. People try every day. They stay in very unhealthy, unsatisfying 44 00:05:15.800 --> 00:05:21.800 relationships because they want to be with someone and the person they chose. They 45 00:05:21.800 --> 00:05:29.000 want to be with that person at any and all costs, even though they 46 00:05:29.079 --> 00:05:36.079 see how that person is treated them, and you become just miserable. Your 47 00:05:36.120 --> 00:05:45.759 heart is hurting because you feel in your heart your significant others should treat you 48 00:05:46.439 --> 00:05:50.639 better. You feel in your heart your significant should treat you a certain way 49 00:05:50.839 --> 00:05:58.040 because that's what you want. But I've told you, it don't matter what 50 00:05:58.079 --> 00:06:06.319 you want if you're not on the same wavelen. Then you're not on one 51 00:06:06.399 --> 00:06:12.879 accord. You're not gonna want accord. One person wants something, the other 52 00:06:12.920 --> 00:06:18.160 person wants something else. You're not wanting the same things. So you're gonna 53 00:06:18.199 --> 00:06:24.160 have drama. When you're dealing with the person with a lot of unresolved issues, 54 00:06:24.199 --> 00:06:28.040 you're going to have drumma. When you have a lot of unresolved issues, 55 00:06:28.079 --> 00:06:31.240 you're going to have drauma because you're gonna accept and allow things in your 56 00:06:31.279 --> 00:06:36.199 life that you shouldn't and that other person is going to bring it because you 57 00:06:36.319 --> 00:06:45.079 do nothing about it. So you get to a point of trying to please 58 00:06:45.120 --> 00:06:50.199 and satisfy this person, and then your eyes begin to open in your life. 59 00:06:51.839 --> 00:06:57.160 I just can't do it anymore. I've done everything I can think of. 60 00:06:57.279 --> 00:07:00.920 I've tried everything that I can think of, and they still won't do 61 00:07:01.000 --> 00:07:04.800 me right. They're still talking to me any kind of way. They're still 62 00:07:04.879 --> 00:07:10.639 cheating on me, they're still doing this, they're still doing that. Then 63 00:07:10.720 --> 00:07:14.560 you get to a point of forget it. I don't care if I got 64 00:07:14.639 --> 00:07:20.879 to be by myself. I am done with this relationship because the well runs 65 00:07:21.000 --> 00:07:27.240 dry. And I talked about this a little bit on some other episodes, 66 00:07:27.720 --> 00:07:38.279 But people don't understand what it means because they don't think. They're so gone 67 00:07:38.319 --> 00:07:45.800 in their own minds that they don't think that they're significant others will finally have 68 00:07:46.040 --> 00:07:51.720 the courage to walk away. Because the person have taken so much for so 69 00:07:51.800 --> 00:07:57.839 long, they don't think they'll ever walk away. But when that whale runs 70 00:07:57.959 --> 00:08:05.360 dry, oh you will not only walk away, you will run away because 71 00:08:05.399 --> 00:08:07.399 you get so sick and tired. And let me tell you, when a 72 00:08:07.519 --> 00:08:11.399 person have made up their mind, I don't care if it's male or female. 73 00:08:11.800 --> 00:08:18.240 When they have made up their mind, there is nothing you can do. 74 00:08:18.680 --> 00:08:24.639 There's nothing you can say. They're done because that whale has run dropped. 75 00:08:26.120 --> 00:08:31.240 Some people just want it their way. They just want it their way. 76 00:08:31.319 --> 00:08:35.679 They don't care. They just want it their way because of their own 77 00:08:35.720 --> 00:08:46.480 selfishness. They don't care because they feel I'm an adult. I can have 78 00:08:46.679 --> 00:08:52.159 whatever I want whenever I want it. Nobody tells me. But people don't 79 00:08:52.200 --> 00:08:58.200 realize it what they're doing a lot of times because of that unresolved those unhealed 80 00:08:58.279 --> 00:09:05.039 hearts and healed minds, so they don't see necessarily what they're doing to their 81 00:09:05.080 --> 00:09:13.559 significant other because they're blind. They're blind to their own hearts, by their 82 00:09:13.559 --> 00:09:18.799 own minds. They're blind. All they know is self gratification. I have 83 00:09:20.000 --> 00:09:24.240 to have this. I have to have that. It's all about self gratification 84 00:09:24.320 --> 00:09:35.960 to them until they're significant other. Besides, no more. I'm full and 85 00:09:35.080 --> 00:09:43.039 I'm tired. I'm not dealing with it anymore. Sometimes people decide that, 86 00:09:43.320 --> 00:09:50.279 hey, I'd rather go at it alone than to keep going through what I've 87 00:09:50.320 --> 00:09:54.639 been going through. And you know, honestly, I wish more people was 88 00:09:54.759 --> 00:10:01.720 that way. I wish more people will understand and I'm going through this. 89 00:10:01.200 --> 00:10:09.679 It's not getting any better. It's making my life just misersable. I need 90 00:10:09.720 --> 00:10:16.120 out, and I wish people would understand that it's your choice. It's your 91 00:10:16.200 --> 00:10:20.039 decision to be in a relationship happy or to be in a relationship unhappy. 92 00:10:20.279 --> 00:10:26.480 But one thing is for sure, you cannot make another person happy unless they 93 00:10:26.559 --> 00:10:35.759 already have happiness inside of them. People will wear you down, and they 94 00:10:35.799 --> 00:10:43.519 will wear you out physically, emotionally, and mentally if you allow it. 95 00:10:45.720 --> 00:10:54.039 No one is worth that. There are people who literally kill themselves, want 96 00:10:54.080 --> 00:10:58.440 to kill themselves, or attempt to kill themselves because they want to be with 97 00:10:58.720 --> 00:11:05.039 their significant other. It don't make sense. It does not make sense. 98 00:11:05.159 --> 00:11:11.519 And I say, wanting to do that is the last straw for them. 99 00:11:11.759 --> 00:11:20.000 But it's not the real cause. Let me say that again. Having that 100 00:11:20.200 --> 00:11:31.159 mindset, getting to that point, it is in their mind why they're doing 101 00:11:31.639 --> 00:11:37.799 what they do, want to harm self, kill self, attempt to kill 102 00:11:37.879 --> 00:11:43.120 self or other people. But it's not the real cause for why they made 103 00:11:43.120 --> 00:11:50.799 the decision they made. The real cause is the root cause, which was 104 00:11:50.960 --> 00:11:58.360 something that they were dealing with alone before the significant other came alone. But 105 00:11:58.519 --> 00:12:03.080 these are the decisions people are making. If I can't have you, I 106 00:12:03.120 --> 00:12:09.799 don't want anyone when basically you don't have anyone anyways, because they treat you 107 00:12:09.879 --> 00:12:18.200 like crap. But some people just cannot see it. They cannot see it. 108 00:12:18.240 --> 00:12:26.080 But for those who eyes come open, thank God. That's why I 109 00:12:26.159 --> 00:12:33.879 tell people all of the time. You walk into a relationship with your eyes 110 00:12:33.960 --> 00:12:39.559 open, not with your eyes wide shut. That means they're open, but 111 00:12:39.679 --> 00:12:46.759 you don't see anything. Walk into relationships with your eyes open, being able 112 00:12:46.799 --> 00:12:50.159 to see the truth, being able to acknowledge the truth, being able to 113 00:12:50.279 --> 00:13:00.159 understand the truth, and take heed of warnings and signs. That is the 114 00:13:00.200 --> 00:13:07.360 way to walk into a relationship not being blind by your unhealed hearts and unhealed 115 00:13:07.399 --> 00:13:13.440 minds, because when you do, when you walk into those relationships like blind, 116 00:13:15.039 --> 00:13:22.399 I'm telling you you will suffer the consequences. You'll suffer the consequences when 117 00:13:22.399 --> 00:13:26.080 you walk around blind because of love. You're seeking love, you want it 118 00:13:26.159 --> 00:13:35.559 so desperately. You open yourself up to ridiculous things. You open yourself up 119 00:13:35.559 --> 00:13:41.399 to things that you shouldn't. You allow and accept things that you shouldn't because 120 00:13:41.720 --> 00:13:50.039 you want love. Well, let me tell you this, love yourself first, 121 00:13:52.279 --> 00:13:56.679 and then you will understand you don't have to deal with all of that 122 00:13:56.840 --> 00:14:01.200 drama. You won't deal with all of that drama. When you love yourself 123 00:14:01.279 --> 00:14:07.879 first, you already know you're not going to open yourself up to the all 124 00:14:07.919 --> 00:14:13.960 of the misery, the lies, the deceit, the being mistreated, and 125 00:14:13.200 --> 00:14:18.840 you're not going to open yourself up to that. You're not. But so 126 00:14:18.879 --> 00:14:24.919 many people do it backwards. They get into the relationship, then they decide 127 00:14:24.960 --> 00:14:31.679 they want to find themselves after years of abuse or years of being controlled miss 128 00:14:33.279 --> 00:14:39.960 us taken advantage of. Then people want to, Oh, I have to 129 00:14:39.960 --> 00:14:43.200 find myself. I have to learn to love me. You need to go 130 00:14:43.320 --> 00:14:54.000 into your relationship that way. I promise you on everything. If people went 131 00:14:54.080 --> 00:15:01.080 into their relationships knowing self, loving self, the things people are enduring, 132 00:15:01.159 --> 00:15:07.440 the things people are opening themselves up to and signing up for, I promise 133 00:15:07.559 --> 00:15:11.159 you it will not be the case. It would not be the case. 134 00:15:13.000 --> 00:15:18.120 More people would be happy in their relationships, but right now they're not. 135 00:15:18.399 --> 00:15:24.080 I guarantee you most people you see, most couples, whether marrit or just 136 00:15:24.360 --> 00:15:33.399 in relationships, most couples, they're not happy. Most relationships are one sided. 137 00:15:33.440 --> 00:15:41.200 I've always told you that most relationships are one sided, and they're not 138 00:15:41.360 --> 00:15:48.120 happy because one person wanted more than the other. The other person is still 139 00:15:48.919 --> 00:15:54.159 wanting to do what they've done before they got into the relationship. They are 140 00:15:54.279 --> 00:16:00.639 still seeking self gratification while the other individual has set down and they want love 141 00:16:00.720 --> 00:16:06.919 and they want relationship. They want all of those beautiful things, but they 142 00:16:06.960 --> 00:16:12.320 don't get them because of who they chose to be with. So a lot 143 00:16:12.360 --> 00:16:18.399 of times people go through the drama, they go through the turmoil, they 144 00:16:18.440 --> 00:16:22.080 go through the headaches and the heartaches, they go through dealing with the shenanigans 145 00:16:22.080 --> 00:16:30.000 and the chaos until they finally decide it's not worth it. It's not worth 146 00:16:30.080 --> 00:16:38.840 my sanity. Some of you becomes financially broke because you try to buy that 147 00:16:38.919 --> 00:16:44.159 person. You try to buy their love. Every time you look around, 148 00:16:44.440 --> 00:16:48.840 you were buying this, buying that. The more money you have, the 149 00:16:48.879 --> 00:16:56.840 more money you spend trying to appease and please that person, when that was 150 00:16:56.039 --> 00:17:06.079 never, ever, ever, ever, ever what it took for love. 151 00:17:07.240 --> 00:17:15.799 So some people get in financial streights because of trying to please the person they 152 00:17:15.880 --> 00:17:26.119 chose to be with through material things. So sometimes people exhaust themselves in every 153 00:17:26.119 --> 00:17:34.519 way mentally, physically, emotionally, financially, And I'm telling you from the 154 00:17:34.880 --> 00:17:42.519 start, it's not worth it. It is never worth it in no shape 155 00:17:42.519 --> 00:17:48.960 form of fashion, to go through hell trying to love the hell out of 156 00:17:49.000 --> 00:17:57.960 somebody because you're not gonna change that person. You can change. You can 157 00:17:59.000 --> 00:18:06.359 become a person who is bitter, holding onto things, resentful, mad, 158 00:18:06.599 --> 00:18:10.200 sad, all kinds of things because you try to love the hell out of 159 00:18:10.200 --> 00:18:15.640 that person only to find yourself in hell. I didn't hope a whole episode 160 00:18:15.680 --> 00:18:22.000 on that. But people do it all the time. They think that their 161 00:18:22.079 --> 00:18:27.720 love is so much more, greater, so much more powerful than the last 162 00:18:27.759 --> 00:18:32.680 person that individual was with. They think, oh, if I do this, 163 00:18:33.000 --> 00:18:37.359 if I do that, they'll they'll act right. They won't treat me 164 00:18:37.440 --> 00:18:40.839 like they treat it the last person they will with, only to find out 165 00:18:40.839 --> 00:18:49.720 they treat you worse. People gotta stop thinking things are going to go their 166 00:18:49.799 --> 00:18:57.680 way, because nine out of ten times they're not. They're not people gonna 167 00:18:57.720 --> 00:19:03.240 do what they do. They're gonna want what they want. It don't matter 168 00:19:03.799 --> 00:19:07.839 what you want, It does not matter how you feel. You'll still be 169 00:19:07.920 --> 00:19:12.039 crime because you don't know where they're at. You'll still be crime because you 170 00:19:12.119 --> 00:19:17.880 found out they were cheating. You'll still be crime because they're talking about you 171 00:19:17.960 --> 00:19:22.000 two people. You'll still be crying because they're treating you any kind of way, 172 00:19:22.240 --> 00:19:27.400 talking to you any kind of way. You'll still have headache and heartache 173 00:19:29.000 --> 00:19:37.680 because you chose to be with that person. But oh my, my, 174 00:19:37.160 --> 00:19:45.480 my, mom my, mind when you finally wake up because that whale has 175 00:19:45.599 --> 00:19:56.839 run dry, it's lack an epiphany. You see the light, you see 176 00:19:56.880 --> 00:20:04.319 real, you see re reality, And sometimes you can just kick yourself for 177 00:20:04.519 --> 00:20:10.119 going through something that you went through. You can just kick yourself, but 178 00:20:10.240 --> 00:20:14.480 it's all right, you don't have to get down on yourself. Matter of 179 00:20:14.599 --> 00:20:19.559 fact, you should be proud that you finally can see the light. Your 180 00:20:19.599 --> 00:20:25.839 eyes finally open, So you should be proud. Don't worry about the years 181 00:20:25.880 --> 00:20:30.880 you went through or the munch you endure because of that other person. Don't 182 00:20:30.920 --> 00:20:37.279 worry about it, don't dwell on it. It's over. You see reality. 183 00:20:37.400 --> 00:20:41.480 Now, you see the truth. You're no longer blind. The scales 184 00:20:41.519 --> 00:20:48.359 have fallen off your eyes. When people get to that point and they really 185 00:20:48.440 --> 00:20:53.680 mature, I'm not talking about people who get to that point with that person, 186 00:20:56.079 --> 00:21:00.200 because you can get to that point with that individual the person you're with, 187 00:21:00.599 --> 00:21:07.720 But that don't necessarily mean that you have gotten a different way of thinking. 188 00:21:10.960 --> 00:21:17.319 When you have a different way of thinking and you see things differently, 189 00:21:18.799 --> 00:21:22.839 then it changes how you think. It alters you as an individual. You 190 00:21:22.960 --> 00:21:29.240 no longer see things the way you used to see them because you was so 191 00:21:30.400 --> 00:21:33.839 hurt and going through so much with that person. It literally shook you to 192 00:21:33.880 --> 00:21:40.160 the core. So now you know things that you didn't know. You understand 193 00:21:40.200 --> 00:21:45.519 things that you didn't understand before. So it gives you a whole new insight 194 00:21:45.680 --> 00:22:00.519 on loved relationships, life and That is when change is lasting. You won't 195 00:22:00.519 --> 00:22:07.599 go through what you went through again with somebody else because now you understand better. 196 00:22:08.720 --> 00:22:15.119 People that you see who relationship jump from one relationship to another being a 197 00:22:15.200 --> 00:22:18.799 relationship break up, and then they own into another relationship. That's because they 198 00:22:18.839 --> 00:22:25.640 have not changed. They went through hell, all types of drama, but 199 00:22:25.759 --> 00:22:30.319 it didn't change how they think. They still think the same. That's why 200 00:22:30.319 --> 00:22:37.200 they go from relationship to relationship. They still have all of that stuff inside. 201 00:22:37.920 --> 00:22:42.480 No matter what they went through, no matter what they endured, it 202 00:22:42.640 --> 00:22:49.599 did not rock them to the core. It hurt them, it made them 203 00:22:49.680 --> 00:22:53.720 upset and all of that, but it did not rock them to the court 204 00:22:53.759 --> 00:22:59.960 of change. When it rocks you to the court of change, that well 205 00:23:00.079 --> 00:23:04.920 runs dry. You know, local care. I don't care if I don't 206 00:23:04.960 --> 00:23:11.400 have anything, I don't care what I have to do to make it on 207 00:23:11.519 --> 00:23:15.759 my own. Well, you do care what you have to do. But 208 00:23:15.000 --> 00:23:22.799 what I'm saying is you will do whatever it takes to make it on your 209 00:23:22.799 --> 00:23:27.680 own rather than continue to be with someone who is treating you any type of 210 00:23:27.680 --> 00:23:40.680 way. Sometimes that's what happens. But again I would say, don't don't 211 00:23:40.680 --> 00:23:45.759 wait until the whale runs dry, don't wait until the whale runs dry. 212 00:23:49.079 --> 00:23:56.039 That's the mindset you should have from the start, from the beginning of your 213 00:23:56.039 --> 00:24:02.079 relationship, because you know who you are, you figured you out. You 214 00:24:02.119 --> 00:24:08.440 know what you need, which is different from what you want desire. You 215 00:24:08.519 --> 00:24:14.880 know what you need. You know if someone is in your life, they 216 00:24:14.920 --> 00:24:19.039 should enhance it, not drag you down, not make things worse, not 217 00:24:19.240 --> 00:24:26.359 make you have to struggle harder. Anyone who's in a relationship, who's struggling 218 00:24:26.480 --> 00:24:33.160 harder, you are with the wrong person for whatever reason. Because people in 219 00:24:33.200 --> 00:24:41.960 your life should enhance it, not make it worse. When the whale runs 220 00:24:41.039 --> 00:24:48.400 dry, Sometimes it opened your significant other eyes. They realize, old, 221 00:24:48.559 --> 00:24:52.759 my goodness, I'm not getting what I used to get. I can't do 222 00:24:52.839 --> 00:24:56.559 what I used to do. I can't talk to them the way I used 223 00:24:56.559 --> 00:25:00.680 to talk to them, old mind. There's a change that's taking place. 224 00:25:00.559 --> 00:25:06.400 Sometimes it whips them into shape. Now they realize what they have in you, 225 00:25:07.000 --> 00:25:11.039 and they don't want to lose it. But your will has run dry. 226 00:25:11.440 --> 00:25:17.400 You don't care that they've come to realization of what they've been doing. 227 00:25:18.119 --> 00:25:21.319 A lot of times, when the whale run dry, the will has run 228 00:25:21.400 --> 00:25:29.480 dry now they want to be all this and that. Sometimes it's fake anyways, 229 00:25:30.519 --> 00:25:34.759 but there are occasions where people really do realize the error of their ways, 230 00:25:37.039 --> 00:25:45.920 but sometimes it's too late. So I want you to think about your 231 00:25:45.000 --> 00:25:55.160 life. What are you going through? Some of your wells haven't run dry 232 00:25:55.279 --> 00:26:04.480 yet, You're still taking unnecessary drama from your significant other because you're trying to 233 00:26:04.519 --> 00:26:11.960 hold on to something you should have let go. You're trying to work a 234 00:26:11.079 --> 00:26:18.759 relationship that's not even worth working, not even work a bone. So in 235 00:26:18.799 --> 00:26:22.839 that case, you have to look at yourself. What is going on with 236 00:26:22.880 --> 00:26:30.680 you? Why are you accepting and allowing what you're accepting and allowing. You 237 00:26:30.759 --> 00:26:40.240 have to look at yourself. Some people have been in relationships years and years 238 00:26:40.279 --> 00:26:44.920 and years and years and years and years, still going through the same drama. 239 00:26:45.160 --> 00:26:52.200 The whales never run dry because people continue to think the same it's all 240 00:26:52.240 --> 00:26:57.279 about that significant other, and for the significant other, it's all about self. 241 00:27:03.400 --> 00:27:07.039 I truly, truly, truly hope people understand what I am saying. 242 00:27:11.640 --> 00:27:17.400 In relationships, whatever you open yourself up to is what you're gonna get. 243 00:27:17.839 --> 00:27:22.119 Whatever you allow is what you're gonna get. Whatever you accept is what you're 244 00:27:22.160 --> 00:27:29.119 gonna get because people treat you exactly how you've taught them to treat you. 245 00:27:30.079 --> 00:27:37.160 They treat you exactly how you allow. For those of you who wills run 246 00:27:37.279 --> 00:27:48.680 dry great move on to better for yourself. Stop making being in love with 247 00:27:48.759 --> 00:27:55.119 someone your greatest mission. When the person you should be in love the most, 248 00:27:55.119 --> 00:27:57.519 the human person you should be in love with the most, itself, 249 00:27:59.319 --> 00:28:07.480 not in a negative way, but in a way that foster's positivity in your 250 00:28:07.519 --> 00:28:14.720 life, in a way that keeps you able to see the truth. But 251 00:28:14.880 --> 00:28:18.880 so many people fail themselves in this way because they're looking at that other person. 252 00:28:22.119 --> 00:28:26.680 Listen. I'm gonna leave it right there. Thank you so much for 253 00:28:26.799 --> 00:28:33.599 stopping by and listening. Please share this episode. Also check out Relatable Life 254 00:28:33.680 --> 00:28:37.079 Chronicles. That is my other podcast. I have a lot of good information 255 00:28:37.160 --> 00:28:41.920 there. Please share that also. Much love to each and every one of 256 00:28:41.920 --> 00:28:49.680 you. Thank you again. I end every episode the same, and I 257 00:28:49.720 --> 00:28:56.119 hope and pray you do it, think on it.