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Diving into the Minnesota goodbye and we'll
see what we get. Dave and Jenny.

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Not sure if you remember, but
about two months ago I asked for

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advice on how to write a maid
of honor speech when you don't know or

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like the groom. You guys had
great advice, so thank you, but

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I wanted to tell you I didn't
fully use your advice. I used chat

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gpt to write half of it.
This is around the time you use chat

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b gpt in the Morning show to
write your speech day for the award you

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were accepting. And immediate light ball
went off, and I thought, if

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Dave can use it for his speech, so can I. Absolutely it worked

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perfectly and only a few changes were
needed. I had the whole room crying.

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Second thought, I've listened to you
since elementary school, but I remember

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as a kid through high school years, I thought to myself, Man,

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I wish they would just stop talking
and play music. Now I'm in my

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thirties and I think the complete opposite. I'm more like, I wish they'd

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keep talking more because I love their
content. I don't need the songs l

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O L. It made me think
about things as kids that we didn't like

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but now we do, or vice
versa like food, TV channels, interest,

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music, SI, etc. Just
thought i'd bring it up for the

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point of conversation. I think it'd
be interesting to know as we change,

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we change so much while we age, thank you again for all you do.

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I would sign it dart lick,
but I'm not Okay, then she

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gets gross, so I'm gonna lean
that out. Love you guys, Brianna.

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What did you not like when you
were a kid that you love now?

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Naps is a big one. I
love bedtime, I see. I

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don't know. I struggle with bedtime
because I struggle asleep sometimes. But it's

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very mental for me because I do
love naps. But I would say,

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like in my thirties versus my twenties, I love spending more time with my

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family. So that was just like
a handful of you years ago that I

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didn't care as much. And now
I'm sad that i haven't been home to

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see my family in a few months, and I'm trying to figure out the

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next time to see him. And
as of right now, it's looking like

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November because of just like life being
really until you see him again. Yeah,

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because I think my mom's going to
come up and visit. And then

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my younger sister is supposed to be
doing a half marathon, so I'm going

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to go see her do that in
Madison if she decides to okay it.

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So but yeah, it's that's definitely
a huge thing for me. Was like

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I always wanted to be like independent
and not on my own and I didn't

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care as much about spending a ton
of time with my family, and now

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I miss it. I feel like
I'm missing so many things. Living five

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hours away. Good for you,
you know what. I admired that I

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moved away from home, from my
mom and dad's hometown from Colorado Springs to

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Las Vegas at twenty one years old, and I never went back except on

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vacations. So i'd go back for
a couple of weeks a year, and

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I definitely missed out on many,
many years of family things. And back

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then there was no social media,
there was no email. There was phone

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calls and letters and that was really
about it. And I missed out on

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a lot. So I would say
also blue cheese dressing. Blue cheese dressing

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is disgusting when you're a kid,
but as you get a little bit older,

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I love blue cheese dressing. Now, yeah, yeah, all right,

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next one, have you got anything
I'd love to hear your response to

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Brianna, what did you love when
you were a kid or hate it now

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or vice versa. So I'm going
to hit delete on that one. Let's

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scroll up to this one. Dearest
David, She wrote, just this morning

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at four twenty seven am, I
have a seasonal insomnia. It is four

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am. I still haven't fallen asleep
yet. Naturally, I'm looking at the

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news. I came along the news
about the two pilots who crashed near Reno

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during the air show this weekend.
Yeah, there was a horrible air crash.

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I haven't watched the story or looked
at the story, but two pilots

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flying crashed into each other and they
apparently both died. Also, I saw

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they are looking for a pilot who
ejected from an F thirty five jet.

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Can you explain what happened in each
crash in English terms? Or if they

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don't know what happened yet, can
you explain what happens after an aviation crash?

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How do they know the pilot ejected? How common or crash is at

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air shows? Can a crash during
an air show ever be caused by the

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wind or something or can a wind
gust not push a plane that much?

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And it always more likely on the
pilots, assuming it's not a good questions.

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Okay, so thanks, I love
learning more about aviation. Elizabeth.

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I'm sorry you can't sleep. That
sucks. Jenny and I both struggle with

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that. I said a minute ago, I love going to bed, but

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a lot of the time I can't
sleep, and it takes me for whatever

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to get to a solid sleep.
So all right, so let's talk about

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that for a little bit. Most
of the time in air shows they're flying

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very aggressively there. If this is
an air race, they're flying very close

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to each other's very I would have
to watch it. They probably just came

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too close. And when you're in
the air, you've got three almost four

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dimensions to worry about. You don't
have two to You've got height, width,

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distance to worry about, and also
speed, so it is a very

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hard thing to keep track of,
and the other plane is moving at the

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same time. So a lot of
the time it is you really really have

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to know what you're doing. When
you watch a group like the Blue Angels,

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how they do it, while flying
fifteen inches from each other's wingtip.

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I don't know how they do it. When a pilot ejects, they're basically

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they're riding on a rocket powered seat
out of the airplane, so they will

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see the pilot eject. I don't
know why they haven't found this pilot.

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I don't know. Yeah, a
lot of the time it is pilot air

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or a mechanical failure. For example, you're flying so aggressively that you'll pull

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a wing off, because wings can
only you know, they're designed to be

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strong enough to hold on during this
much force, but not this much force.

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So during air shows most of the
time they're doing very mild flying,

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just flying by. But in this
one it sounded like that they were being

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very aggressive. I don't know.
But you know, hopefully you learned something

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from that, Elizabeth, and hopefully
you're insomnia is going to get better.

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I don't know that that sucks,
all right, Next one, don't say

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my name. I get a six
year old who is generally agreeable, but

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as times of fussing, hitting,
rude talking like all six year old do.

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We're trying as best as parents to
give discipline and consequences at her age.

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Appropriate, comparable to the offense,
easily enforced, immediate, and meaningful

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to the child. It's harder than
you think to come up with things.

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One consequence we have used is to
temporarily lose a play toy, like give

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up a Lego figure for a certain
amount of time or until he calms down

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or helps clean up, et cetera. Apparently my husband took away a Lego

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toy that my child got from grandma
for a little while today due to some

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bad behavior, and grandma was there
to witness. A Grandma's in a text

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message later in the day saying she
didn't want us to use anything she had

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given as a gift as part of
the consequence for behavior, because she doesn't

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want any negativity surrounding the toys she
gives. Are we out of line to

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take away toys? No? Should
we avoid doing it with anything that's a

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gift. No, it wasn't a
birthday or anything, just a random gift.

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We try to use patience and clear
language to explain cause and effect.

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We do have a lot of emotion
coaching and loving support. I think we're

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good parents. Any thoughts you're doing
the right thing. Consequences are important because

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I tell the story. I've told
it a million times of parents that go,

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if you don't stop that, you're
going right to bed. If you

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don't stop that, no ice cream. If you don't stop that, I'm

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taking away your toy. If you
don't stop that, and the kid will

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learn fuck you. I don't have
to stop. There are no consequences.

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So you're doing the right thing.
Grandma saying that she doesn't want to have

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you take away the lego toy.
Sorry, Grandma, you don't get a

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voice. I'm raising this kid.
You are not. It has The kid

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is not going to associate anything more
negative with your lego toy than he would

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with anything else. So I don't
see it as a prop I think you're

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doing the right thing, good immediate
consequences. It sounds like you're six year

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old. Is a handful, to
be honest with you. Okay, So

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I'm gonna bring this up because I'm
gonna try to get into it as quickly

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as possible. A friend of mine
has a friend who has been requested by

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a man to be her his dom
or. Yeah, she has been offered

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money to be a dominatrix for this
guy. His regular dominatrix is moving out

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of the country and she is considering
being a domb now. She is normal,

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educated, attractive, forty single,
forty ish. I don't know her

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personally, but she is considering being
the dom and I said, what is

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that, Well, it depends.
Basically, it's guys who like to be

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tied up, humiliated, degraded,
whatever. And she's considering doing it because

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he will buy her an apartment where
they can do their domb thing together and

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he will pay her per incident of
time as they get together. And I

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said, I would tell her no
because does she want to go home at

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night and go to bed knowing that
she's become that person who is getting paid

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for being a dominatrix. It wouldn't
be my thing, but I'm sure some

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people have no problem with it.
What are your thoughts? I mean,

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I fully support sex work, So
if that's what she decides she wants to

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do, I think that that's great. You did say she already has like

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a full time job, right,
so she's It's not like it doesn't seem

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like she's looking for money or anything. It looks like she's just like considering

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this as like she would like the
extra money. Okay, it pays like

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thousands a month. But assume something
like that thousands a month would be enough

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for her to quit her other job. I'm assuming that's usually how things like

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that go. So I would say
that she has to do some like introspection

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maybe and figure out if she's going
to feel good about doing that, or

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she's going to leave he's going to
leave the apartment and she's going to feel

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gross about it or something. I
don't know. If she's never done something

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like that before, she has probably
no idea what that's going to leave her

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feeling. Yeah, and you know
what, I don't have a problem with

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people want to do that either.
It's just kind of like I think that

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if I And another thing that came
up was she's single. Now, what

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if in six months she's somebody's dom
and she's getting paid four thousand dollars a

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month and she finds a partner,
boyfriend or girlfriend, Well, then do

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you tell the boyfriend or girlfriend I'm
doing this on the side. It means

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nothing. It is just some extra
money. It is a great income,

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And how are they going to feel
about it? Yeah, I said,

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I would not want to know that
Susan on the side is being a dom

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and doing this, I don't care
how much money it makes. Gross.

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And then the other thing was to
me, it's puzzling how that's a turn

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on? And I get it.
There's certain different things that turn people on

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and some that don't. Some people
you go, that's disgusting, and other

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people you go, oh, that
sounds kind of hot. I do not

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get why if I was being let
around in a leather dog caller and being

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called stupid or ugly, why would
that do anything for anybody? Yeah,

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I mean I don't know. I
feel like, without revealing too much,

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I'm not someone who has any sort
of crazy kink. So personally I don't

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get it either. But that's because
kinks are just something that turn you on.

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It. I don't know. Maybe
there is something that I do that

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other people would be like, that's
weird. So you just I just feel

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like if you're not turned on by
that stuff, it's hard to have an

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opinion on it. I have one
kink. Do you want to know what

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it is? I don't know.
I like to bring chewing gum into the

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bedroom and get it stuck in my
hair, and yeah, I mean it

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just kind of does something for me. So like I bring, like a

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big old like a big bazoos could
Joe? Okay, and I bring and

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I chew it during the prelude,
and then I get to get I'm making

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this object. I know you're making
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trying to let you have the process
here of building the story, because then

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I was going to have follow up
questions, which include, how does it

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eventually get in your hair? Does
it follow to your mouth? Like because

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take it out of your mouth and
you put it in your hair? Go

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yeah, watch this. But what's
funny about any kind of a kink like

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that is it's like plushies or fuzzies
or furies or whatever. I don't know

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why that gets anybody going, like, Okay, I'll give another one.

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See the guy. It was a
guy at Starbucks. He's wearing a diaper

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and he's putting whipped cream in the
front and back of his diapers. Then

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he pulled his pants back up.
Oh did you see this one? There

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are people who were into wearing diapers, and to me, I can't think

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of anything more unpleasant than wearing a
diaper and messing your pants while you're wearing

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a diaper. Yeah, but there
are people who are into it. Yeah,

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I don't get it. I think
that that's the funny thing is you

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don't know what people are into.
And with that, send an email about

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whatever. Maybe you have thoughts on
the whole dumb thing. Maybe we totally

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misunderstand it. Maybe we're being very
naive or judgmental or whatever. I don't

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know. If you've got a thought
on that, send it in to Ryan

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Show at KDWB dot com. Always
looking for emails. You got anything you

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want, a little thought starter,
conversation starter, love to hear from your

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Ryan Show at KDWB dot com.
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