Who what's up, beautiful people. It is your baby Mama, Favorite baby
Mama story p And this is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip the modern
day female perspective. Damn Son Back at it again, Back at again at
seven Studios with an amazing week and a lot to discuss today. First of
all, I hope your Turkey Day was good. Mine's was great. I
was in the kitchen all day, but this year, at least I may
time to take a shower in between cooking, so uh boom, already better
than last year. Unfortunately, my Turkey Day and my Turkey Day celebrations were
interrupted by your Girl going viral again. Your Girl going viral again? And
the crazy part is like, I don't never have to defend my opinion or
defend my videos when it's like my podcast shout out to eight at the table,
but Davey having me all in his sun that streets fighting for my life?
Okay, the way they be really some shit, I'd really be fighting
for my fucking life. So yeah, in case you don't know what I'm
talking about or what's going on, a clip is going viral with me saying
don't laugh, y'all. Okay, before we start. Don't laugh. If
you haven't seen her, you don't know I'm talking about. No laugh.
Okay, a clip is going viral. I can't say don't laugh, and
now all right, A clip is going viral of me saying that a guy
showed up to my house with flowers and was at my door and everything,
and I called them weird or I called them corny. But I did immediately
go into the group chat and say, like, yo, that's my bad,
Like he's not corny. Technically, he's doing everything we wanted to do.
So long story, short clip going viral of me saying that a guy
showed up to my house doing everything that we want guys to do, and
I called him weird, corny, whatever, right, But I did go
back in the group chat and say, that's my bad. He's not being
weird, he's not being corny. I'm just not used to shit like that,
and per usual, I just want to say, I said what I
fucking said. Okay, I said what I said, per usual, I
said what I said. All right, Now, let me tell you what
I've learned since going to go talk to the lead. Okay, I did
say what I said, but the only reason I thought that man was corny.
It's because I didn't like him. It's because I didn't like him.
Because best believe, if it was wrong Foot at my door doing those same
things, it would have been a video about me giving a GOKG three thousand
of the first night. Okay, so let's start with the only reason I
said these things is because I realized I didn't like that man, right,
and let's discuss Okay, So first, sometimes we'd be saying people corny because
we be entertaining and dating people that we aren't really interested in. And that's
no brainer because if the person you actually like or the person who actually has
the same values goals is attractive to you, if they're doing these same things,
maybe you're not gonna be saying he corny. You gonna be in love
you big d Lulu. Right, So I feel like my brain processed it
as well. He's doing everything that I want, but I still don't like
it. It can't be me hold time, surprise, surprise, surprise,
surprise, right, instead of me digesting it as you don't like that man,
you don't fuck with him like that? Why are you even here?
No, it gotta be him. He corny. It's not me. It
can never be me. It's him. He's corny, right, So we
gotta get back to dating people that we actually like because I know from me
personally, especially since I've elevated on the social platform in the podcast world,
I be feeling pressure, like, damn, am I'm still single, Like
I can't be talking all this shit, but I'm still single, and me
feeling the pressure of, oh well, in order to be successful, healed,
you can't be single now, I'm going out and dating out a desperation.
That's the biggest no. No, that's what you don't want to do,
right, I'm so worried about putting on a good image and I can't
be single. I'm dating out of desperation and I'm dating god that I don't
even like like and I knew this before I agreed to the date, So
that doesn't make it okay. Sometimes we got to sit back and just say
accountability is key, right, And if I'm moving in the space of oh
well, she's still single, she gotta be the problem. And you're not
a desperation. I'm never gonna find my person and I'm never gonna have good
views. Now. At the end of the clip, I did say,
you know, I did go back in a group chat and I said,
no, he doing everything I wanted to do. That was just on me.
So I think there were some oh yeah. Also, also this clip
is very old, like this clip is very old, so we also have
to take an account the the emotional and the mental growth that has happened since
that time, because mental health is a journey and it doesn't happen overnight.
So I just want to say I said what I said, but there are
other factors that I've worked out since then that made me realize why I said
what I said. Right, So, and before y'all, before y'all red
pill niggas start. Okay, well, maybe getting your standards just too high.
Okay, here's my thing. Right, if you're attracted to women that
are thicker than a bowl of cold grits, a supermodel is not gonna do
it for you. Okay. If she's doing everything you asking her to do,
cook, cleaning, hitting it from the back, whatever, maybe not
for you. That's crazy. Let me start over. If she is doing
everything that you want her to do, cook, clean it, she ain't
getting on your nerves. It doesn't matter because that's still not what you're attracted
to. Your values may not align, your goals may not align, y'all
might not even be the same religion. She's never gonna do it for you,
and vice versa. If you into fucking skinny girls, a thick join
ain't gonna do it for you, don't matter, like you know what I
mean. So it's not so much a sense of standards and raising them or
lowering them. It's like, Yo, if I'm not attracted to you,
I'm not attracted to you like everybody ain't for everybody. Every person you meet
is not going to be your husband, and every person you meet is not
gonna be your wife. You can practice more discernment and who you give your
time to. So accountability is key. So I'm gonna take that. I'm
gonna take that. But yeah, I said what I said. Okay,
at the time I thought he was corny. I knew it wasn't corny.
I just couldn't figure out why. But not all let you Willy. I
had to be honest with myself say yo, I don't like that, nigga.
But instead of me saying that, I'll put it on him being corny
and I'll take that. I'll take that maybe I shouldn't do bad boy references
right now, but yeah, that's it. So let me go hop on
a live and see what y'all talking about. So Miss Tania Jane said,
you like what you like exactly. A QA three eight nine said, I
figured it was a situation in the past for his own V says people chill.
Nick Breeze left laughing emojis I am. Aaron Cruz says take accountability as
a major key players messed up too. Uh. Hair Freary Key says,
girl, you about to have me cutting people out on Twitter comments. That's
another thing, right. I love y'all because y'all be rocking with me and
y'all be like defending me, and I appreciate it, but y'all don't have
to. Like next time people just talking shit, just leave a light nim
bolt. We just wonna leave light nim bolts from now one, like cuz
you know I'm not that nigga. Yeah, I like them all like for
storm because y'all know, like, I'm not that person. And if I
was saying some shit that didn't really make sense either the whole conversation wasn't edited
in the clip, or I just don't have that standpoint anymore because you know,
I've been working on myself. I appreciate y'all, but next time,
we just leave my lightning bolts, like that's just it, Like because in
my mind right I'll be thinking like when people be talking shit about Beyonce,
she'll never respond. So I decided I'm not gonna respond, like unless it's
a situation like this where you know, I don't think that my current self
feels that way, or there's another explanation that need to be put out because
I can't control all other people talk like or cut their clips when I do
mind shit, when my shit goes viral, I don't never have to do
no replies. I don't ever never have to do no rebuttals. I said
what I said, but I can't control how other people cut their clips.
But no shade shout out that ate the table. I love y'all, Like
that shit is so old, but that's okay. You know, we out
here we make it happen. We make it happen. Faison Da Viv said
he just wasn't that guy. No, he wasn't, And to be fair,
I knew that before I agreed to the date and I shouldn't have went
on a date, so I'll take accountability for that. Miss Tania Jane says,
why is being single so negative? Some people just want to be single.
That's that's true. Some people do want to be single. But I
know from Uh. Because the Internet is not a real place. That's the
name of the pot today. The Internet is not a real place. Okay,
Because the Internet is not a real place. It's like, well,
you can't be talking all the shit and seeming like you're the girl of my
dreams, but you're still single. If that's the case, there has to
be something wrong with you. Like A plus B has to equal C and
see it's for crazy, because what the fuck is wrong with you? That's
the way the Internet takes it, you know what I mean. I'm just
saying like that, that's the way it goes. That's the way they take
it. Hold on, let me score back down, y'all, give me
a second. So it's that shoe shot phone ringing. King Worthy Fit says,
so, question, how long did it take you to figure out he
was corny? Uh? So, I think you missed the part where I
said he wasn't corny. I just wasn't attracted to him, like in all
actuality, if it was wrong Flynn or if it was Damnseon Idris Michael B.
Jordan, one of them niggas, Like, it would have been a
whole other situation, but a whole nother clip. The clip would have been
about you know how sometimes it's okay to bust it open on the first day,
like you know what I mean, Like, and it would have been
a whole nother clip. But because I wasn't attracted to this man, and
because I wasn't willing to accept or acknowledge you're dating out of desperation, or
because I wasn't willing to acknowledge that you're dating somebody who you're not interested in
you're just born in the house, it turned into him being corny, you
know, And that's me taking accountability for that. Like he's gonna be the
perfect guy for somebody else, he just wasn't the guy for me. And
I think that's another very important thing to say, Like he's going to be
the perfect guy for somebody else, he just want the guy for me.
Our values in our line, our goals, our religious views, they just
didn't line. And I already knew that going into it subconsciously. I knew
that, which is why myself was trying to put blame somewhere and unfortunately ended
up on him. El Choco Mumbo says, not take that. Take that
in twenty twenty three. I mean, listen, I don't care. I
don't care I said what I said. Whatever, hold on you. I'm
trying to scroll back down, too, Steve Illuminator says. Viral felm Fat
says, come on with the growth stormy, Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And you know what, I don't also like, I'm gonna do this whole
video and it's gonna be very well explained and it's not going to get half
thettraction of the original video. And that's another part that I feel like people
don't be taking into account when they'd be like, oh, you know,
I want to do podcasts, I want to be lit, I want to
be popular, I want to be seen. Like all that things is like
a bad cut of something you said, or that you didn't get a chance
to fully explain, or something that you didn't really understand yourself, and now
all of a sudden, your mom's a whole damn how the fuck do we
get here? Like God, damn but you know what, I do appreciate
the further that I go and the more popular I get. Before, like
I would just get a whole bunch of hate shit on mine, like my
pages, like whether it be my podcast page or my regular page. But
now like this time, I ain't getting no hate, no nothing, Like
I got one person asking is this the same girl who said and that was
it? And I think it's because people who follow me and genuinely know me,
they know, like, I'm not a fuck boy no more. So
I'm heavy on no more. People who genuinely know me and follow me,
they know I'm not a fuck boy no more, saying like hold on,
hold on, hold away, something el's gotta be said, or that's gotta
be some old shit, and I'd be like, oh yeah, y'all know
me, cool, cool, pool, pool pool, Like I ain't want
that shit nowhere. I'm better than you. I want to talk to the
lad It's that right now. Hold on, you know, I'm scrolling makedown
on the live one more time. Hold on one second, one second,
one second. Dang shout out to the business by what's up. Dave dark
Man seventeen said, I guess he didn't get no Cucci baby, No,
you know I don't even be giving out couchie like that. Gross. No,
e, that's gross, right, But I also want to guess what
how do we get here? Yo? It ain't don't leave. But you
know what else I thought was really really really funny the amount of men who
hit me up thinking that it was them. And I'm like, bro,
I'm not I'm not even talking about you, like wow, And it's respectfully
right to all the men who hit me up saying like, you know,
they thought it was them, It's like, wow, so you think you're
corny. You think I think you're corny, and that's crazy because it really
wasn't even you, like this was I wasn't even talk to you at this
point, Like I didn't even know you at this point. But it's like
you automatically think that you and that's why you know we didn't work out or
we stopped talking. Huh yeah, yeah, I've had a few men bring
me flowers. That's not new. They all brought flowers. But this is
why I say, like, you know, the big comeback was like,
oh, well, you know, she ain't used to a nice shit and
blah blah blah, blah blah blah blah blah. That's not it. What
is that about you? The businessman said, And don't nobody want them?
Lazy ass tought out a flowers. Yeah, let mean see why y'all always
got tickets to the left. Why we can't just stay here and be reasonable?
But yeah, a long story short, I said what I said at
the time. I think he was corny, but it's because I wasn't willing
to accept that I didn't like that nigga. And instead of acknowledging that I
I don't like that nigga, it had to be him, he corney,
which is wrong. Yeah, man, I told you, I'm gonna talk
to the lady. I'm better now. Like I ain't perfect, but I'm
better and that's it. That's it, that's it, and that's all.
So I think that the most important thing to take from this is accountability.
Accountability is key. The Internet is not a real place, but accountability is
key, and I think we should really take that into consideration in all aspects
of dating. Right. I think a lot of things that we go through,
some of the problems is that we're just not willing to accept that accountability
is key. You feel like gods should bring flowers on your first dates,
and yeah, it depends on a girl because all girls don't like that.
Like I know some females who don't like flowers. But I also think we
should take our time and get into vent and be I'm gonna say this real
fast, and we're gonna start the takeing part of the podcast. I think
we should take our time in finding out if this person or getting to know
the person before you go on the first date with them, because all girls
don't like flowers, so like you might accidentally get called corner, you might
catch it straight for no reason. So I don't know. I think it's
just take time and getting to know people. So when we're talking about accountability
is key, like we're gonna spend it real fast because we have to talk
about accountability being key all across the board. And I feel like fellas,
sometimes y'all need to be taking a little bit of accountability yourselves right and switching
topics. But not really. I know it's gonna sound a little bit crazy,
but women don't deserve the benefit of the doubt, now, hear me
out, Hold on, once I get let me finish, let me finish.
Let me finish. Okay, if we're talking to majorities. If you're
dating a girl and you tell her like, yo, I'm not looking for
nothing serious right now. You know, I'm just looking a vibe and be
friends. Seven, get out, Get out the trash can. Seven,
get up the trash can. Sorry, the dog is in the trash can.
Okay, you know, hold onway cause I feel like y'll about to
take this and take it the wrong way. So let me start over.
Yeah, exactly, I know, strike the villain, I know, let
me start over cause I feel like y'all about to clip that and make it
worse than what it is. Right. So, I feel like you know,
when you're dating a girl and you telling her like, oh, I'm
not looking for anything serious right now. I'm just looking at check, catch
a vibe, hang out. You know. You know how y'all niggas do
you know how y'all niggas do. Alright, I'm not looking for nothing serious
right now. I'm just trying to catch the bar for real, right And
what she say every time? Okay, cool me too. But you know
she ain't trying to catch no fucking vibe, alright, you now, she
ain't trying to catch no vibe. But what do y'all do? I already
told her that I ain't looking for nothing serious, so she catch feelings that's
on her. Nah, women don't deserve the benefit of doubt. You gotta
check in with me, my boy, every so and so months. You
gotta be like, hey, I enjoy hanging out with you. I enjoy
having fun, but just to remind you, I'm not looking for nothing serious
right now, y'all. Don't do that. Y'all don't do that. And
to some women, the lulu is the soululu. So you can tell me
like, oh, well, in the beginning, he told me he wasn't
looking for nothing serious. But we be over each other's house every weekend.
We be linking up on a late night, all the time, we go
out on days. We might even be doing a nasty raw dog jamal.
Okay, now you may have told me you ain't looking for nothing serious,
but baby, everything we're doing is something serious. So guess what I'm thinking?
You want something serious? If we locked in, ain't no swishing up.
No, no, don't give these women the benefit of the doubt.
Okay, Continuously check in with that woman and tell her, hey, I
enjoy hanging with you and we vibing. But just to remind you, I'm
not looking for nothing serious now, Ladies, I ain't litting gona of havef
to hook that easy, okay, because sometimes you gotta listen on what that
man say. I don't care how much y'all vibing. I don't care how
good you think your uci Wally is. Okay, if he says he don't
want nothing serious, believe him, believe him. Okay, believe that man
when he said he don't want nothing. I don't care what you're doing.
I don't care. If he took you to be his mind, she'd be
young on it too. Listen, listen, listen. Can we be serious
for a second? Can we be fucking for real? Like, listen,
all I'm saying is be fucking for real, Ladies. Do not think y'all
are on the same page. Y'all are not. Fellas, do not think
y'all are on the same page. Y'all are not. We need to be
clear in our feelings and how they may develop over time that we spend with
each other. Like that's just it, and it's just that simple. That's
how you prevent all this extra from popping up. That's how you prevent from
going on the internet telling everybody that you know, he got a little dick.
We don't need to do all that. We don't need to do all
that because in the beginning he told you he wasn't ready for a relationship.
He ain't want that. We don't have to be that. We don't have
to go that far. It's not necessary. Like ladies, trash, you're
not on a micrash trash smash does do anything for you because he's sash exactly,
exactly exactly and the same thing from one. Fella's going in and I'm
talking about her coach's okay, and you still ate it? Hi baby,
Hi baby, Seven's back, y'all. Okay, all right, now go
over there, long story short, I don't care how how seven Okay,
okay, okay, get down, I'm so sorry. Okay, all right,
get down, pumpkin, get down him just your street baby, I
know, get down, get down, get down, good down, all
right, niggas love to destruct your peace again. Damn uh. I don't
know what I was talking about. But whatever King Worthy Fitt said, Seven
says, show me love our crest as ship and show did and did and
did Twiz Spitmaster said, Seven a part of the pot today. Uh.
Young Gohan said, none of the men in your life. Listen, y'all,
y'all, I deserve to be treated nice. Okay, I'm gonna deserve
this. I'm a good person and I feel like y'all and seven, especially
y'all be treating me like you know whatever. Scott Larrock said he just want
some screen time. Okay, yeah, yeah. J Mac the insurance man
said, we all want to trade places with seven. You know what that
is my baby? I am Prettricia R. He's so sweet, he's just
he's just his baby. He's just so sweet. He's so sweet. Yeah,
man, I don't remember what we were talking about, but yeah,
long story short, right, long story short. I don't care how bad
that man gives you a jingle and your tingle. Okay, if he said
he don't want a relationship, he don't want a relationship. Hey don't want
a girlfriend? All right? And fellas, I don't care how many times
you know you have to say I'm not looking for a relationship. Make sure
you're continuously checking in telling her you don't want a relationship, because you know
the Lulu be that's a lulu and that's it. That's it. That's it,
speaking of the Lulu being the soululu. Right, I just want to
say, it's it's so funny how we recognize things and we move forward and
change our behaviors. In X, Y and Z, so earlier I was
talking about, you know the clip that came out. It came from when
I was in a different place in my life. And the crazy part is
like, as time goes on, I realized that, like I said,
the Internet is not a real place. And I think that one of the
first times I really paid attention to the Internet wasn't a real place. Is
everybody outside singing real last bitch get fucked by the nigga and we all out
here singing hands on my knees with LIGs my thigh shit and bought this wet
ass pussy. And then I sat and I thought, and I said,
all these bitches and relationships, all these bitches and relationships, all these bitches,
excuse me, I take that back. All these women, right,
all these women outside scream about thought niggas get money, and X Y and
Z they all go home to they niggas at night and they got us out
here screaming. Realized, bitch get fucked by the nigga while they with their
nigga. I said, hold on self, something's not right right, Like
literally, I'm out here shoveling snow by my damn self cause you told me
we don't get fucked by these niggas and city girls. Was up right whole
time you laid up with your nigga. And that's what I knew. That's
when I knew. That's when I knew the internet is not a real place.
That's when I knew the Internet is not a real place. The jig
is up just not shot set, okay, the jig is fucking up right.
And as time went on, I really had to learn for myself it's
okay to, like, you know, bump that ship when you win your
car. It's okay to bless that while you put in your makeup on.
I don't even really like doing this ship in real life, Like, I
don't want to be out here dogging niggas. I'm a lover girl for real.
I want to be at home with my man, my man, my
man. This isn't real. I'm just saying, like I was really out
here being a secret agent, Cod's playing as a city girl. This is
when I knew the Internet is not a real place, right, So,
like I'm sitting men and thinking like yo, I don't even like shaking my
ass when I go outside the club. This ain't even a life for me.
But I'm out here pretending because it's cool to pretend. And that's when
I realized Internet's not a real place. It's not. It's not and sometimes
we have to pay attention to the things that we actually want to do,
the things we actually want to do. I won't be at home, my
man. That's it. That's it, and that's all. Jay Finess says.
Clubbing is low vibrational. I'm not crazy about the club man. I'll
hit a lounge maybe for a little bit, maybe a nice little cigar bar,
but clubbing. If one of my friends a DJing or it's not one
of my friends events, I'm probably not going to be there. One thousand
percent. Yeah, Strike the villain says the hot girl leadership in relationships.
Meanwhile, future as leading the city boys in an counter attack. I'm crying.
I'm crying. I absolutely cannot. Scottlerock seventy eight said straight got y'all
fucked up and we were we were strand a man nine eleven, said Beyonce.
He has y'all singing all about the single ladies. Meanwhile, she went
home to her man as she was, and she was her man, her
me and her me and her man. I am, Patricia said her sex
sells. Sex can sell. But like telling us that, like, fuck
these niggas while you got a nigga is crazy. That's nasty work. Telling
us fuck these niggas while you got a nigga, it's nasty work. Nasty
work, nasty work, nasty work. Now, Darryl the rock Star says
hot Girl summers only benefited men. I agree, I agree. And then
ladies, we gotta pay attention to even when we like perpetrating in like following
up with these narratives. Right, Yeah, it's cool to like be on
some sexy shit while you're in the house or were you having grus night or
like when you in private, but you gotta remember sexy Red also has like
going on the record saying like yo, but none of these rappers want to
slide in my dms, Like none of these like men of high value quote
unquote want to be with me. You don't find that suspicious. You don't
find that suspicious, Like, can we pay attention to a few things.
I'm all for having a good time and enjoying myself, but make sure you're
not wrapped up in the illusion, all right, because I'm trying home my
man. I'm talking hold of my man. I'm gonna care what y'all talking
about. I got fucking seven hair all on me. Lt l To no
effort, says first time watch er. What's your message to the people just
talking about how the internet is in a real place. It's just a princess,
sexy red pregnant Briy Drake. She got her bag already. Let me
tell you something, Let me tell you something, let me tell you something.
She is not and we're not gonna say that she is absolutely not pregnant
by Drake. Nick Breeze says the Internet got people dedicating their relationships to different
seasons hot girl, summer, cuddle season, X, Y and Z.
And that's real. And this is why I say the Internet is not a
real place. Like if you listen to the Internet, like, yeah,
sometimes it does smell like Stepdaddy's outside. As I've told y'all before, but
like we need to focus on the main goal has to be like going for
what you know and living a life that you actually want to live and not
what's popular on the internet. You know what I mean. It's just a
prince said you heard it here first, pee mark my words. Yashu says,
love the energy, Thank you baby, thank you. Dark Man seventeen
says, me and my wife know the Internet is all kept. Kuda Kubino
says, if you believe city Girl music, you got no brain. The
ones who got a brain too busy solidifying who they gonna be their men.
Apparently that includes the City Girls because they both wiped up. King Worthy Fit
says internet is for entertainment purposes only. Uh yeah, man, I just
think that you gotta be real. You gotta be real with yourself. That's
it and that's all. And speaking of the Internet not being in real place,
baby, if I tell a story about you on the podcast, more
than likely your time has past. Okay, you don't need to spend a
block. Seat said you don't need to spend a buck buck go, and
then he said, I'm sorry because I know that we're in triggers. You
y'all. You know what I really really enjoy I really really enjoy sharing these
stories with y'all and y'all laughing and yeah, we all just vibing together and
realizing that we're all low key going through the same shit. So I like
that for us. I love us being a community. Speaking of community,
everybody has different things that are important to them in life and things that they
are extremely proud of. And what's really funny to me is that men flexed
different. Minflex real different, minflex real different. And the further I go
in this life journey, the more I realize min flex different. Like it's
not always about your house, your car, your muscles. Like, if
you're over the age of thirty five and you can still get a side park,
that's a flex. If you're over the age of thirty five and you
can still get a side part. Oh niggas talking big shit and you're old
age of thirty five and you can still bust down the side park. Oh
what what you can't tell these nigga's nothing nothing, nothing like, Oh they
talking big shit, big big, big, big, big shit, Like
and my whole thing is it used to be like okay, but there's your
roof missing that don't even a fucking matter. No more, like for whatever
reason, like thirty four years and fucking eleven months and twenty nine days,
be having y'all pressed once y'all pass that mark and you can still hit the
side park. Baby, you in here. You can't tell him he neede
that nigga. I don't care. I don't care if he lived with his
mom. Hate that nigga, I don't care exactly like you know, niggas
be talking big shit when they don't need to use the Beijing. Oh men
be talking big shit when they don't got used to Beijing. What come on
now, I don't need them fibers, bro, I'm good, I'm good.
They be saying, you know what they chest too, I'm good,
I'm good, And I just be like, y'all so cute, but y'all
so dumb. Y'all, y'all, y'all so cute. Y'all really be so
cute, y'all so cute. I love it, y'all so sweet? Oh
my god, Oh on, hold, let me go to the live hold
on, let me scroll up a little bit. King Crust says, I
really hate you, But did I lie? You can't hate me? But
baby, did I lie k me. You ain't shit. All I'm saying
is did I lie like that? That's that's all I'm asking. Like,
you can hate me whatever. Kingworthy Fit said, Wow, mister nia Jane
says, I'm dead. Dark Man seventeen says that's not a flex, that's
childish. Immediately you, King Crust said, I'm assuming you can't get the
side party, King Crush, Oh my god, mister nia Jane says,
or if you're over forty and still have your side teeth as a flex,
God damn, don't let you be able to get don't let you be able
to get a side part and you still got the side too. Oh,
this nigga is right in the neighborhood. Okay, he got the block shut
down. Yeah, you ain't never lied. You ain't never never never lied.
King Crest says, I pray I can still have hair when I'm past
thirty five. I am crying. Jerry Sash says women look like this while
I live in Atlanta with broccoli dogs, brolock dogs. Oh, bronlick dogs.
Hey, I've seen some pretty girls in Atlanta. That's not fair to
say. Darlda Rock says, said Darryld Rock Star says, by age thirty
five, my hairline looking like the woo tang sign. Why are y'all so
fucking childish? Childish? The wootang sign is outlandish? Outlandish? Uh,
Jaysander First says, who don't have their side teeth? Maybe a lot of
people, men and women, men and women, this this one right here,
it'd be fucking up. It be gone, it be gone, it'd
be gone. No. In the front, the canine jawns a lot of
people missing them. Jawns, Uh, fucking yo. Nj five forty says,
mo, what kind of niggas y'all running into? Am I lying?
All I'm saying is am I lion? People are on here agreeing with me,
so I'm obviously not lying. Jerry said, says my boss don't have
his side tea. Probably dabbed in dark drugs in the nineties. King Worthy
Fence says, bro with my hairlining and Crown started to high five each other.
All that shit had to go. Why am I like this? Why
are y'all like this? Dark Man seventeen said, I still got all thirty
two teeth. I'm cracking up, jay Z and the First says the k
nines, Yes, the knines. They'd be fucking niggas at the K nines.
Let a K nine. Okay, that's what I'm gonna call there.
So yeah, men, men just men just flex differently. And I love
that for y'all. And every time I see y'all doing it, it just
it just it just tickles me so because like I see the joy that it
brings you when you be leaving, like that side part it be doing it,
it'd be doing it. Another thing that I wanted to talk about today
is sometimes we be so caught up in our personal opinions and our personal feelings
we don't realize the benefits that certain things come with. Right. One of
those things is having friends with the apposite sex. And I know we've talked
about this before, but I just wanted to revisit because I realized it's one
conversation that we're really not having. Like having friends of the opposite sex isn't
always a bad thing. Sometimes you need a translator, okay, because I
feel like there are some conversations that happen between men and women and it just
be getting convoluted and turned into the wrong thing. For example, right,
I know, like men y'all think when a woman tells you or hmmm,
I don't want to say tells you. So men, y'all think when a
woman asks you, so, what are we? What are we doing?
Sis is not giving you an ultimatum. Okay, somebody else is applying pressure
and she's trying to be kind. Okay, now before she consider dabbling dating
and possibly giving away the cootie cat. I just want to solidify and get
clarity from you. We we serious or no, because if we're not serious,
you just want to keep doing this weird thing. Or maybe I'm looking
for a relationship and you're not. But just man or where it is like,
okay, let me just tap in with you. Don't when a woman
ask you that, don't process it as like, oh, she's telling me
either we gonna be together or I gotta go. No. Sometimes it's just
you no longer gonna be the only one. Okay. Sometimes it's just hey,
from now on, I might be sending out two good morning texts every
day, all right, and if you don't want that, let me know
so I can let this gentleman over here. No, that's not what we're
doing. Or you know, I'm still trying to figure something out with this
one man, and I'd rather close one situation before I go to the next.
Now, who got time to read all that that? So? Shot
said, he feels like women should explain all that instead of just saying who
are we? What are we? What are we? Let me finish,
let me just say, let me just say what I want to say,
Shod said, he feels like women should explain all that instead of saying,
what are we? But my whole thing is when we send you these text
messages that look like books, y'all send back? Okay, Hello, is
this like? What? No? God that so read it? That's what
you're said. We don't send it because y'allm not gonna read it. All
you gonna send back? Is okay? I hear you? Actually no,
no, all you're gonna send back is okay? Heard? Bet you got
it? Suck my dick. I didn't set you all this and you sends
back? Okay, bet heard you got it? Suck my dick from the
back. Okay. This is exactly why we shortened it to what you're gonna
answer? What are we? What are we doing? How is that a
toxic fact? That's an actual fact? Y'all? Y'all hear, y'all hear
what he's saying. Y'all hear what he's saying. Do y'all security said for
show, you're right, you're right, adding for show, Adam for show
because that's definitely one of them. For show, you got it, Dash
for it three sixty five said, I just watched the video on being scolded
for saying a man was weird for being a gentleman on the first date,
shaking my head in l O L. Yeah, we talked about that in
the top of the episode. You're gonna have to wait till tomorrow till this
YOURNG release. But yeah, I said it. I said what I said,
and that was it. But if you want to know why, you
really have to listen to the full episode. Batsy two ten says, I'm
straight up like listen, shorty, I like shit and I won't shit,
solidifying this is your choice. Let me know what we're doing, because I'm
down, fellas, I'm two seven right now. Ah, I'm crying,
Darrel the rock Star, I said my reply thumbs up emoji. See y'all
see, y'all see. And because it's never okay, y'all understand because usually
y'all read the first four lines and didn't read the rest of the message because
that's what you're using. See see you see, y'all hear this. Do
y'all hear this. Y'are here, You're here, You're hear it? Okay.
Jazzender first says, before you ask what are we stick your claim that
I want a relationship and before I move forward, I like to know where
you stand. No, And I'm gonna tell you why. I know because
nine times out of ten, since already told you she wanted a relationship.
We talked about this earlier in the episode, and nine times out of ten
you already told her you don't want a relationship, because if you did,
she wouldn't be questioning whether you wanted a relationship. So her saying what are
we like? What we're doing? Or have we moving forward? It's like,
yo, where are you at now? Like remember I said, me
and y'all need to be doing those check ins? Her sending that is her
doing her version of a check in before she move on. You know what
I mean? J five forty says, I mean not always true. Though
the more I care, the more I'm gonna read. Yes, that's okay.
I took I took a moment of silence so that I could step over
that bullshit that was just put out here. Hello, mm hmmm mm hmmmmm.
But if you cure that much, you wouldn't have her feeling uncertain.
So that's why I said, I want to take a pause to hear all
that bullshit or step over all that bullshit. Accountability goes all the way around.
Accountability goes all the way around. Accountability goes all the way around.
Whatever, whatever y'all hear the way shy he's talking is gonna be okay,
good because I'm I'm happy we finally have proof. M Oh my god,
how much time you got I'll give you. Okay, great, I'm just
gonna get this one edible and it be so now we want to get into
the edible portion of the show. So the edible portion is when I read
questions or comments that you guys put in. I usually put up a prompt
on a day that we're recording. Uh, but if what you have to
say it's too long to fit in the prompt on my or creepy be a
single, you can always DM me or email me at inquiries at stormyp ea
dot com. And no that was great. That was beautiful. I loved
it. So the first one says, is it disrespectful to not introduce your
BM to your new girlfriend that you're talking to? And I would love to
hear from the people on the Live once again question says, is it disrespectful
to not introduce your baby mom to your new girl that you're talking to?
Hm? Hm hmm. Is it disrespectful to introduce your BM to your new
girlfriend that you were talking to? I'm gonna say it's only disrespectful if this
is your third girlfriend in three months, right, because I feel like the
only time we really be in our head about you having new girls is when
A we still want you respectfully respectfully or b you not even taking these women
seriously, You running through bitches, maybe even trying to replace me. But
that's a conversation for another day. But I feel like if we see that
you're serious about a woman and we've truly moved on, it's no reason why
I can't be introduced to Ashley. I might like Miss Ashley, but my
only problem is I feel like sometimes women we automatically want to beef with Miss
Ashley when we need to figure out how we can maneuver and be friends with
Miss Ashley, because you gotta remember, when you not there, Miss Ashley
gonna be there fucking make sure your kid is okay, tugging them in at
night potentially, you know, cleaning off scrapes and cuts, helping with homework,
maybe even knocking a bitch out if she comes to the door acting crazy.
So like, I don't think our go to should be like you know,
we're beefing with Miss Ashley. Like me and Miss Ashley, we gotta
be a tag team duo. Okay, we gotta be the hardy boys for
real. Okay, we gotta be the best tag team duo to hit any
hell in itself match this side of the Mason Dixon all right. So I
don't know, I think that. To me, it's not disrespectful, you
know. And this is coming from somebody who does co parent like I do
have a child. My baby. Dad don't be liking these bitches, so
he don't never introduce me to nobody. But when he does find somebody that
he wants, he likes and he wants to take serious, I'm gonna be
so excited, Like she might be sicking me for real, for real,
Like I want to fucking be friends like I do. I want to be
friends with Miss Ashley like I do. I want to I want to be
friends with Miss Ashley, and I want to fucking grind this nigga up and
roast him to the death together, like don't even tag team duo like me,
and it's actually gonna be locked in for real. So I don't know.
To me, I don't think it's disrespectful as long as you're being intentional
and you're moving with purpose and you're not just running through bitches, because if
you just running through riches, they don't need to meet me or my child.
Were good, We're good, No, thank you. I don't want
to see this monk's things. Yeah, you know musical podcasts, but yeah,
I don't know. Let me go to the live uh ZM photo says,
I feel like that's only okay if I'm really into my girlfriend. I
agree one thousand percent. I am pretty sure. Your r says, if
it's a serious relationship, BM and girlfriends should meet, BM should need to
know who's around their kids. That's absolutely right, Like what the fuck?
We absolutely need to know what's going on and what's happening. Let me screw
up sum Serious Visual says only introduced one serious. NJ five point forty says,
I'm wonna say disrespectful, but BM should meet her before the kid or
close to it. Can't have strangers around someone's kids. Nick Breeze says,
disrespectful to each one. That's a good question. I didn't even think about
that because with the BM findly disrespectful with the girlfriend, mind not disrespectful.
I would hope not. I will hope not. Miss Tania Janey says keyword
new girl that you're talking to doesn't sound serious. Scotland Rock seven eight says
nope. Who's to say how long this relationship will last? Yeah? I
just feel like if you locked in, that's one conversation. If you're not,
it's another. Serious Visual says, Now if you're still smashing your BM,
completely different story. That's wild but true, Wild but true. Dashed
for three sixty five says my ex bonding my ex bonding my son with her
man for over a year now and I still ain't met this nigga. Huh,
I think you should meet this nigga. I feel like you be like
yo, y'all been talking abut a minute, like it's cool if I meet
old boy, like, you know, I don't know, but that's just
me, And that was a different question. That's me just putting my shit
into what y'all got going on. So let me watch it. But yeah,
I don't know. That's just what it is to me. What yeah,
baby dad beef is is different, different, But I think most of
the time it comes from I think anytime it's a cool parenting situation that's not
going well, like y'all back and forth from child's bepoort y'all back and forth
from custody. Like anytime I hear that shit going on, I know for
a motherfucking fact, somebody still wants somebody, either the baby mom still want
the baby dad or the baby dad still wants the baby mom. Because at
the end of the day, if both of y'all were responsible adults and you're
like, yo, this isn't working cool, but our son is the most
important thing cool, like it's no beef like and y'all both understand how compromise
and working together and co parenting actually works. Y'all do what's bust for y'all.
Every agreement ain't gonna look the same, Like no it might not be
we're doing just weekends. It might not be we're doing you know, you
get summers only and I get him the rest of the year. Like,
No, it's all about compromise and being a freaking adepth. So with that
being said, let's discuss and let's revisit. Right. So with that being
said, from the top, man I said what I said, Like it's
a clip going viral saying, you know, I called to guy Corny and
I did, but that's because I wasn't willing to acknowledge that, you know,
I didn't really like him. And I see that, and I'll take
that, and I'll be a big dog and stand on that. But I'm
a stand on it, right, I want to say. Also, accountability
is key, and sometimes women don't deserve the benefit of doubt. Even if
you tell her that you're not looking for something serious, tap in with her
periodically so she understands you're not looking for something serious. Also, I knew
the Internet wasn't a real place when all the women singing about niggas ain't shit
had boyfriends and husbands. That's what I knew. The Internet is not a
real place. Also, men flex different that side part after the age of
thirty five and really put a battery in y'all back. I like that.
I like that a lot. Also, friends of the opposite sex are beneficial
because sometimes you need someone to explain what certain things mean, you need a
translator. In addition to this, do I think it's disrespectful for someone to
introduce their girlfriend to their baby mom. No, unless you run it through
bitches and it's like your third girlfriend in three months. Now, I see
you're not serious, and I don't really want to revolve in door of women
around my child, So yeah, then I do think it's a little bit
disrespectful. Man. Listen, my message is always want to be the same.
Follow me on a gram at stormy ppea at chocolate Chip and sip and
if you don't remember anything else, please remember the Internet is in a real
place. I love you, guys, and I see you next week. Peace.