WEBVTT 1 00:00:06.679 --> 00:00:10.039 Who what's up, beautiful people. It is your baby Mama, Favorite baby 2 00:00:10.039 --> 00:00:15.800 Mama story p And this is another episode of Chocolate Chip and Zip the modern 3 00:00:15.839 --> 00:00:20.719 day female perspective. Damn Son Back at it again, Back at again at 4 00:00:20.719 --> 00:00:25.719 seven Studios with an amazing week and a lot to discuss today. First of 5 00:00:25.760 --> 00:00:28.440 all, I hope your Turkey Day was good. Mine's was great. I 6 00:00:28.480 --> 00:00:31.640 was in the kitchen all day, but this year, at least I may 7 00:00:31.719 --> 00:00:35.119 time to take a shower in between cooking, so uh boom, already better 8 00:00:35.119 --> 00:00:41.359 than last year. Unfortunately, my Turkey Day and my Turkey Day celebrations were 9 00:00:41.399 --> 00:00:47.359 interrupted by your Girl going viral again. Your Girl going viral again? And 10 00:00:47.399 --> 00:00:52.119 the crazy part is like, I don't never have to defend my opinion or 11 00:00:52.200 --> 00:00:57.520 defend my videos when it's like my podcast shout out to eight at the table, 12 00:00:58.079 --> 00:01:00.439 but Davey having me all in his sun that streets fighting for my life? 13 00:01:00.560 --> 00:01:04.280 Okay, the way they be really some shit, I'd really be fighting 14 00:01:04.280 --> 00:01:07.319 for my fucking life. So yeah, in case you don't know what I'm 15 00:01:07.359 --> 00:01:12.519 talking about or what's going on, a clip is going viral with me saying 16 00:01:14.239 --> 00:01:15.439 don't laugh, y'all. Okay, before we start. Don't laugh. If 17 00:01:15.439 --> 00:01:18.280 you haven't seen her, you don't know I'm talking about. No laugh. 18 00:01:18.319 --> 00:01:23.439 Okay, a clip is going viral. I can't say don't laugh, and 19 00:01:23.519 --> 00:01:30.000 now all right, A clip is going viral of me saying that a guy 20 00:01:30.040 --> 00:01:32.959 showed up to my house with flowers and was at my door and everything, 21 00:01:33.280 --> 00:01:38.280 and I called them weird or I called them corny. But I did immediately 22 00:01:38.319 --> 00:01:42.120 go into the group chat and say, like, yo, that's my bad, 23 00:01:42.239 --> 00:01:44.760 Like he's not corny. Technically, he's doing everything we wanted to do. 24 00:01:44.879 --> 00:01:49.159 So long story, short clip going viral of me saying that a guy 25 00:01:49.200 --> 00:01:52.640 showed up to my house doing everything that we want guys to do, and 26 00:01:52.680 --> 00:01:56.280 I called him weird, corny, whatever, right, But I did go 27 00:01:56.359 --> 00:01:59.560 back in the group chat and say, that's my bad. He's not being 28 00:01:59.560 --> 00:02:01.760 weird, he's not being corny. I'm just not used to shit like that, 29 00:02:02.200 --> 00:02:05.799 and per usual, I just want to say, I said what I 30 00:02:05.920 --> 00:02:10.560 fucking said. Okay, I said what I said, per usual, I 31 00:02:10.759 --> 00:02:15.039 said what I said. All right, Now, let me tell you what 32 00:02:15.199 --> 00:02:20.280 I've learned since going to go talk to the lead. Okay, I did 33 00:02:20.319 --> 00:02:24.039 say what I said, but the only reason I thought that man was corny. 34 00:02:24.159 --> 00:02:28.840 It's because I didn't like him. It's because I didn't like him. 35 00:02:28.879 --> 00:02:31.719 Because best believe, if it was wrong Foot at my door doing those same 36 00:02:31.840 --> 00:02:36.080 things, it would have been a video about me giving a GOKG three thousand 37 00:02:36.120 --> 00:02:40.479 of the first night. Okay, so let's start with the only reason I 38 00:02:40.560 --> 00:02:46.919 said these things is because I realized I didn't like that man, right, 39 00:02:46.520 --> 00:02:58.120 and let's discuss Okay, So first, sometimes we'd be saying people corny because 40 00:02:58.240 --> 00:03:01.240 we be entertaining and dating people that we aren't really interested in. And that's 41 00:03:01.280 --> 00:03:07.319 no brainer because if the person you actually like or the person who actually has 42 00:03:07.400 --> 00:03:13.280 the same values goals is attractive to you, if they're doing these same things, 43 00:03:13.639 --> 00:03:15.800 maybe you're not gonna be saying he corny. You gonna be in love 44 00:03:15.919 --> 00:03:22.280 you big d Lulu. Right, So I feel like my brain processed it 45 00:03:22.360 --> 00:03:27.159 as well. He's doing everything that I want, but I still don't like 46 00:03:27.240 --> 00:03:36.319 it. It can't be me hold time, surprise, surprise, surprise, 47 00:03:36.439 --> 00:03:43.280 surprise, right, instead of me digesting it as you don't like that man, 48 00:03:43.680 --> 00:03:46.879 you don't fuck with him like that? Why are you even here? 49 00:03:46.919 --> 00:03:51.520 No, it gotta be him. He corny. It's not me. It 50 00:03:51.520 --> 00:03:54.879 can never be me. It's him. He's corny, right, So we 51 00:03:54.960 --> 00:03:59.960 gotta get back to dating people that we actually like because I know from me 52 00:04:00.199 --> 00:04:04.159 personally, especially since I've elevated on the social platform in the podcast world, 53 00:04:04.560 --> 00:04:09.240 I be feeling pressure, like, damn, am I'm still single, Like 54 00:04:09.280 --> 00:04:12.879 I can't be talking all this shit, but I'm still single, and me 55 00:04:13.000 --> 00:04:15.920 feeling the pressure of, oh well, in order to be successful, healed, 56 00:04:16.040 --> 00:04:20.240 you can't be single now, I'm going out and dating out a desperation. 57 00:04:20.839 --> 00:04:24.240 That's the biggest no. No, that's what you don't want to do, 58 00:04:24.439 --> 00:04:28.360 right, I'm so worried about putting on a good image and I can't 59 00:04:28.360 --> 00:04:30.759 be single. I'm dating out of desperation and I'm dating god that I don't 60 00:04:30.759 --> 00:04:35.079 even like like and I knew this before I agreed to the date, So 61 00:04:35.319 --> 00:04:40.319 that doesn't make it okay. Sometimes we got to sit back and just say 62 00:04:40.360 --> 00:04:46.800 accountability is key, right, And if I'm moving in the space of oh 63 00:04:46.839 --> 00:04:50.079 well, she's still single, she gotta be the problem. And you're not 64 00:04:50.160 --> 00:04:54.439 a desperation. I'm never gonna find my person and I'm never gonna have good 65 00:04:54.519 --> 00:04:57.120 views. Now. At the end of the clip, I did say, 66 00:04:57.120 --> 00:04:58.800 you know, I did go back in a group chat and I said, 67 00:04:58.839 --> 00:05:02.399 no, he doing everything I wanted to do. That was just on me. 68 00:05:03.399 --> 00:05:13.560 So I think there were some oh yeah. Also, also this clip 69 00:05:13.639 --> 00:05:18.720 is very old, like this clip is very old, so we also have 70 00:05:18.720 --> 00:05:23.920 to take an account the the emotional and the mental growth that has happened since 71 00:05:23.959 --> 00:05:26.839 that time, because mental health is a journey and it doesn't happen overnight. 72 00:05:27.240 --> 00:05:30.560 So I just want to say I said what I said, but there are 73 00:05:30.639 --> 00:05:35.319 other factors that I've worked out since then that made me realize why I said 74 00:05:35.319 --> 00:05:41.199 what I said. Right, So, and before y'all, before y'all red 75 00:05:41.199 --> 00:05:45.319 pill niggas start. Okay, well, maybe getting your standards just too high. 76 00:05:45.439 --> 00:05:47.800 Okay, here's my thing. Right, if you're attracted to women that 77 00:05:47.879 --> 00:05:53.079 are thicker than a bowl of cold grits, a supermodel is not gonna do 78 00:05:53.160 --> 00:05:57.439 it for you. Okay. If she's doing everything you asking her to do, 79 00:05:57.800 --> 00:06:00.759 cook, cleaning, hitting it from the back, whatever, maybe not 80 00:06:00.800 --> 00:06:05.240 for you. That's crazy. Let me start over. If she is doing 81 00:06:05.319 --> 00:06:09.560 everything that you want her to do, cook, clean it, she ain't 82 00:06:09.600 --> 00:06:13.759 getting on your nerves. It doesn't matter because that's still not what you're attracted 83 00:06:13.800 --> 00:06:16.120 to. Your values may not align, your goals may not align, y'all 84 00:06:16.160 --> 00:06:19.199 might not even be the same religion. She's never gonna do it for you, 85 00:06:19.240 --> 00:06:24.439 and vice versa. If you into fucking skinny girls, a thick join 86 00:06:24.480 --> 00:06:26.519 ain't gonna do it for you, don't matter, like you know what I 87 00:06:26.560 --> 00:06:30.160 mean. So it's not so much a sense of standards and raising them or 88 00:06:30.199 --> 00:06:32.279 lowering them. It's like, Yo, if I'm not attracted to you, 89 00:06:32.360 --> 00:06:39.920 I'm not attracted to you like everybody ain't for everybody. Every person you meet 90 00:06:39.959 --> 00:06:42.279 is not going to be your husband, and every person you meet is not 91 00:06:42.319 --> 00:06:46.480 gonna be your wife. You can practice more discernment and who you give your 92 00:06:46.519 --> 00:06:49.720 time to. So accountability is key. So I'm gonna take that. I'm 93 00:06:49.720 --> 00:06:54.160 gonna take that. But yeah, I said what I said. Okay, 94 00:06:54.399 --> 00:06:57.639 at the time I thought he was corny. I knew it wasn't corny. 95 00:06:58.319 --> 00:07:00.959 I just couldn't figure out why. But not all let you Willy. I 96 00:07:00.000 --> 00:07:02.319 had to be honest with myself say yo, I don't like that, nigga. 97 00:07:02.680 --> 00:07:05.519 But instead of me saying that, I'll put it on him being corny 98 00:07:05.560 --> 00:07:11.199 and I'll take that. I'll take that maybe I shouldn't do bad boy references 99 00:07:11.279 --> 00:07:15.759 right now, but yeah, that's it. So let me go hop on 100 00:07:15.759 --> 00:07:20.160 a live and see what y'all talking about. So Miss Tania Jane said, 101 00:07:20.439 --> 00:07:25.680 you like what you like exactly. A QA three eight nine said, I 102 00:07:25.720 --> 00:07:30.959 figured it was a situation in the past for his own V says people chill. 103 00:07:32.639 --> 00:07:39.120 Nick Breeze left laughing emojis I am. Aaron Cruz says take accountability as 104 00:07:39.120 --> 00:07:43.319 a major key players messed up too. Uh. Hair Freary Key says, 105 00:07:43.360 --> 00:07:46.959 girl, you about to have me cutting people out on Twitter comments. That's 106 00:07:46.000 --> 00:07:48.959 another thing, right. I love y'all because y'all be rocking with me and 107 00:07:49.040 --> 00:07:53.399 y'all be like defending me, and I appreciate it, but y'all don't have 108 00:07:53.439 --> 00:07:56.160 to. Like next time people just talking shit, just leave a light nim 109 00:07:56.199 --> 00:07:58.759 bolt. We just wonna leave light nim bolts from now one, like cuz 110 00:07:59.279 --> 00:08:03.160 you know I'm not that nigga. Yeah, I like them all like for 111 00:08:03.240 --> 00:08:05.279 storm because y'all know, like, I'm not that person. And if I 112 00:08:05.319 --> 00:08:11.560 was saying some shit that didn't really make sense either the whole conversation wasn't edited 113 00:08:11.560 --> 00:08:15.639 in the clip, or I just don't have that standpoint anymore because you know, 114 00:08:15.680 --> 00:08:18.279 I've been working on myself. I appreciate y'all, but next time, 115 00:08:18.279 --> 00:08:20.959 we just leave my lightning bolts, like that's just it, Like because in 116 00:08:22.040 --> 00:08:24.839 my mind right I'll be thinking like when people be talking shit about Beyonce, 117 00:08:26.279 --> 00:08:31.720 she'll never respond. So I decided I'm not gonna respond, like unless it's 118 00:08:31.759 --> 00:08:39.240 a situation like this where you know, I don't think that my current self 119 00:08:39.159 --> 00:08:43.200 feels that way, or there's another explanation that need to be put out because 120 00:08:43.200 --> 00:08:46.679 I can't control all other people talk like or cut their clips when I do 121 00:08:46.840 --> 00:08:48.720 mind shit, when my shit goes viral, I don't never have to do 122 00:08:48.759 --> 00:08:52.600 no replies. I don't ever never have to do no rebuttals. I said 123 00:08:52.639 --> 00:08:54.720 what I said, but I can't control how other people cut their clips. 124 00:08:56.000 --> 00:08:58.840 But no shade shout out that ate the table. I love y'all, Like 125 00:09:00.159 --> 00:09:03.879 that shit is so old, but that's okay. You know, we out 126 00:09:03.879 --> 00:09:07.039 here we make it happen. We make it happen. Faison Da Viv said 127 00:09:07.080 --> 00:09:09.840 he just wasn't that guy. No, he wasn't, And to be fair, 128 00:09:09.960 --> 00:09:13.120 I knew that before I agreed to the date and I shouldn't have went 129 00:09:13.159 --> 00:09:18.559 on a date, so I'll take accountability for that. Miss Tania Jane says, 130 00:09:18.559 --> 00:09:20.840 why is being single so negative? Some people just want to be single. 131 00:09:22.279 --> 00:09:26.519 That's that's true. Some people do want to be single. But I 132 00:09:26.600 --> 00:09:30.279 know from Uh. Because the Internet is not a real place. That's the 133 00:09:30.320 --> 00:09:33.039 name of the pot today. The Internet is not a real place. Okay, 134 00:09:33.320 --> 00:09:35.519 Because the Internet is not a real place. It's like, well, 135 00:09:35.840 --> 00:09:39.519 you can't be talking all the shit and seeming like you're the girl of my 136 00:09:39.639 --> 00:09:41.080 dreams, but you're still single. If that's the case, there has to 137 00:09:41.120 --> 00:09:45.960 be something wrong with you. Like A plus B has to equal C and 138 00:09:45.960 --> 00:09:48.039 see it's for crazy, because what the fuck is wrong with you? That's 139 00:09:48.080 --> 00:09:52.480 the way the Internet takes it, you know what I mean. I'm just 140 00:09:52.519 --> 00:09:54.519 saying like that, that's the way it goes. That's the way they take 141 00:09:54.559 --> 00:09:56.200 it. Hold on, let me score back down, y'all, give me 142 00:09:56.200 --> 00:10:05.879 a second. So it's that shoe shot phone ringing. King Worthy Fit says, 143 00:10:05.960 --> 00:10:09.480 so, question, how long did it take you to figure out he 144 00:10:09.600 --> 00:10:11.360 was corny? Uh? So, I think you missed the part where I 145 00:10:11.399 --> 00:10:15.879 said he wasn't corny. I just wasn't attracted to him, like in all 146 00:10:15.919 --> 00:10:20.919 actuality, if it was wrong Flynn or if it was Damnseon Idris Michael B. 147 00:10:20.120 --> 00:10:24.600 Jordan, one of them niggas, Like, it would have been a 148 00:10:24.600 --> 00:10:26.639 whole other situation, but a whole nother clip. The clip would have been 149 00:10:26.679 --> 00:10:31.039 about you know how sometimes it's okay to bust it open on the first day, 150 00:10:35.080 --> 00:10:37.559 like you know what I mean, Like, and it would have been 151 00:10:37.600 --> 00:10:41.440 a whole nother clip. But because I wasn't attracted to this man, and 152 00:10:41.519 --> 00:10:46.879 because I wasn't willing to accept or acknowledge you're dating out of desperation, or 153 00:10:46.919 --> 00:10:50.200 because I wasn't willing to acknowledge that you're dating somebody who you're not interested in 154 00:10:50.279 --> 00:10:54.440 you're just born in the house, it turned into him being corny, you 155 00:10:54.440 --> 00:10:58.000 know, And that's me taking accountability for that. Like he's gonna be the 156 00:10:58.000 --> 00:11:01.000 perfect guy for somebody else, he just wasn't the guy for me. And 157 00:11:01.039 --> 00:11:03.879 I think that's another very important thing to say, Like he's going to be 158 00:11:03.879 --> 00:11:07.519 the perfect guy for somebody else, he just want the guy for me. 159 00:11:07.879 --> 00:11:11.679 Our values in our line, our goals, our religious views, they just 160 00:11:11.720 --> 00:11:15.559 didn't line. And I already knew that going into it subconsciously. I knew 161 00:11:15.559 --> 00:11:18.919 that, which is why myself was trying to put blame somewhere and unfortunately ended 162 00:11:20.000 --> 00:11:26.000 up on him. El Choco Mumbo says, not take that. Take that 163 00:11:26.039 --> 00:11:30.200 in twenty twenty three. I mean, listen, I don't care. I 164 00:11:30.200 --> 00:11:31.639 don't care I said what I said. Whatever, hold on you. I'm 165 00:11:31.639 --> 00:11:41.840 trying to scroll back down, too, Steve Illuminator says. Viral felm Fat 166 00:11:41.879 --> 00:11:43.519 says, come on with the growth stormy, Yeah, yeah, yeah. 167 00:11:43.759 --> 00:11:48.039 And you know what, I don't also like, I'm gonna do this whole 168 00:11:48.120 --> 00:11:50.360 video and it's gonna be very well explained and it's not going to get half 169 00:11:50.399 --> 00:11:54.039 thettraction of the original video. And that's another part that I feel like people 170 00:11:54.080 --> 00:11:56.080 don't be taking into account when they'd be like, oh, you know, 171 00:11:56.120 --> 00:11:58.840 I want to do podcasts, I want to be lit, I want to 172 00:11:58.879 --> 00:12:03.000 be popular, I want to be seen. Like all that things is like 173 00:12:03.039 --> 00:12:07.120 a bad cut of something you said, or that you didn't get a chance 174 00:12:07.159 --> 00:12:11.440 to fully explain, or something that you didn't really understand yourself, and now 175 00:12:11.519 --> 00:12:15.840 all of a sudden, your mom's a whole damn how the fuck do we 176 00:12:15.919 --> 00:12:18.799 get here? Like God, damn but you know what, I do appreciate 177 00:12:20.039 --> 00:12:24.200 the further that I go and the more popular I get. Before, like 178 00:12:24.240 --> 00:12:26.639 I would just get a whole bunch of hate shit on mine, like my 179 00:12:26.759 --> 00:12:30.320 pages, like whether it be my podcast page or my regular page. But 180 00:12:30.399 --> 00:12:33.600 now like this time, I ain't getting no hate, no nothing, Like 181 00:12:33.679 --> 00:12:37.720 I got one person asking is this the same girl who said and that was 182 00:12:37.759 --> 00:12:41.559 it? And I think it's because people who follow me and genuinely know me, 183 00:12:41.120 --> 00:12:43.240 they know, like, I'm not a fuck boy no more. So 184 00:12:43.559 --> 00:12:48.639 I'm heavy on no more. People who genuinely know me and follow me, 185 00:12:48.360 --> 00:12:50.279 they know I'm not a fuck boy no more, saying like hold on, 186 00:12:50.320 --> 00:12:52.799 hold on, hold away, something el's gotta be said, or that's gotta 187 00:12:52.799 --> 00:12:54.600 be some old shit, and I'd be like, oh yeah, y'all know 188 00:12:54.639 --> 00:12:58.000 me, cool, cool, pool, pool pool, Like I ain't want 189 00:12:58.000 --> 00:12:58.919 that shit nowhere. I'm better than you. I want to talk to the 190 00:13:00.159 --> 00:13:05.320 lad It's that right now. Hold on, you know, I'm scrolling makedown 191 00:13:05.320 --> 00:13:11.120 on the live one more time. Hold on one second, one second, 192 00:13:11.120 --> 00:13:16.440 one second. Dang shout out to the business by what's up. Dave dark 193 00:13:16.480 --> 00:13:20.919 Man seventeen said, I guess he didn't get no Cucci baby, No, 194 00:13:20.320 --> 00:13:24.600 you know I don't even be giving out couchie like that. Gross. No, 195 00:13:26.039 --> 00:13:30.960 e, that's gross, right, But I also want to guess what 196 00:13:31.080 --> 00:13:37.559 how do we get here? Yo? It ain't don't leave. But you 197 00:13:37.600 --> 00:13:43.120 know what else I thought was really really really funny the amount of men who 198 00:13:43.240 --> 00:13:48.120 hit me up thinking that it was them. And I'm like, bro, 199 00:13:48.240 --> 00:13:52.600 I'm not I'm not even talking about you, like wow, And it's respectfully 200 00:13:52.679 --> 00:13:56.600 right to all the men who hit me up saying like, you know, 201 00:13:56.000 --> 00:14:00.759 they thought it was them, It's like, wow, so you think you're 202 00:14:00.840 --> 00:14:05.240 corny. You think I think you're corny, and that's crazy because it really 203 00:14:05.320 --> 00:14:07.399 wasn't even you, like this was I wasn't even talk to you at this 204 00:14:07.399 --> 00:14:09.519 point, Like I didn't even know you at this point. But it's like 205 00:14:09.919 --> 00:14:13.879 you automatically think that you and that's why you know we didn't work out or 206 00:14:13.879 --> 00:14:18.200 we stopped talking. Huh yeah, yeah, I've had a few men bring 207 00:14:18.240 --> 00:14:24.919 me flowers. That's not new. They all brought flowers. But this is 208 00:14:24.960 --> 00:14:28.919 why I say, like, you know, the big comeback was like, 209 00:14:28.279 --> 00:14:31.399 oh, well, you know, she ain't used to a nice shit and 210 00:14:31.399 --> 00:14:33.639 blah blah blah, blah blah blah blah blah. That's not it. What 211 00:14:33.799 --> 00:14:37.799 is that about you? The businessman said, And don't nobody want them? 212 00:14:37.879 --> 00:14:45.720 Lazy ass tought out a flowers. Yeah, let mean see why y'all always 213 00:14:45.720 --> 00:14:48.080 got tickets to the left. Why we can't just stay here and be reasonable? 214 00:14:48.120 --> 00:14:52.200 But yeah, a long story short, I said what I said at 215 00:14:52.240 --> 00:14:54.399 the time. I think he was corny, but it's because I wasn't willing 216 00:14:54.440 --> 00:15:00.039 to accept that I didn't like that nigga. And instead of acknowledging that I 217 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:01.480 I don't like that nigga, it had to be him, he corney, 218 00:15:03.600 --> 00:15:07.799 which is wrong. Yeah, man, I told you, I'm gonna talk 219 00:15:07.799 --> 00:15:13.440 to the lady. I'm better now. Like I ain't perfect, but I'm 220 00:15:13.440 --> 00:15:16.240 better and that's it. That's it, that's it, and that's all. 221 00:15:16.320 --> 00:15:22.279 So I think that the most important thing to take from this is accountability. 222 00:15:22.639 --> 00:15:28.320 Accountability is key. The Internet is not a real place, but accountability is 223 00:15:28.440 --> 00:15:33.200 key, and I think we should really take that into consideration in all aspects 224 00:15:33.200 --> 00:15:37.879 of dating. Right. I think a lot of things that we go through, 225 00:15:39.120 --> 00:15:43.879 some of the problems is that we're just not willing to accept that accountability 226 00:15:43.919 --> 00:15:50.960 is key. You feel like gods should bring flowers on your first dates, 227 00:15:50.240 --> 00:15:54.320 and yeah, it depends on a girl because all girls don't like that. 228 00:15:54.480 --> 00:15:58.879 Like I know some females who don't like flowers. But I also think we 229 00:15:58.879 --> 00:16:03.159 should take our time and get into vent and be I'm gonna say this real 230 00:16:03.200 --> 00:16:06.559 fast, and we're gonna start the takeing part of the podcast. I think 231 00:16:06.600 --> 00:16:11.399 we should take our time in finding out if this person or getting to know 232 00:16:11.480 --> 00:16:15.240 the person before you go on the first date with them, because all girls 233 00:16:15.240 --> 00:16:18.279 don't like flowers, so like you might accidentally get called corner, you might 234 00:16:18.320 --> 00:16:21.159 catch it straight for no reason. So I don't know. I think it's 235 00:16:21.200 --> 00:16:25.679 just take time and getting to know people. So when we're talking about accountability 236 00:16:25.759 --> 00:16:29.559 is key, like we're gonna spend it real fast because we have to talk 237 00:16:29.559 --> 00:16:33.759 about accountability being key all across the board. And I feel like fellas, 238 00:16:33.759 --> 00:16:40.639 sometimes y'all need to be taking a little bit of accountability yourselves right and switching 239 00:16:40.720 --> 00:16:44.879 topics. But not really. I know it's gonna sound a little bit crazy, 240 00:16:44.919 --> 00:16:48.080 but women don't deserve the benefit of the doubt, now, hear me 241 00:16:48.120 --> 00:16:52.600 out, Hold on, once I get let me finish, let me finish. 242 00:16:52.320 --> 00:17:00.279 Let me finish. Okay, if we're talking to majorities. If you're 243 00:17:00.320 --> 00:17:03.120 dating a girl and you tell her like, yo, I'm not looking for 244 00:17:03.159 --> 00:17:06.799 nothing serious right now. You know, I'm just looking a vibe and be 245 00:17:06.920 --> 00:17:11.400 friends. Seven, get out, Get out the trash can. Seven, 246 00:17:11.400 --> 00:17:17.039 get up the trash can. Sorry, the dog is in the trash can. 247 00:17:18.759 --> 00:17:21.480 Okay, you know, hold onway cause I feel like y'll about to 248 00:17:21.480 --> 00:17:22.480 take this and take it the wrong way. So let me start over. 249 00:17:22.920 --> 00:17:26.480 Yeah, exactly, I know, strike the villain, I know, let 250 00:17:26.480 --> 00:17:27.960 me start over cause I feel like y'all about to clip that and make it 251 00:17:29.400 --> 00:17:33.599 worse than what it is. Right. So, I feel like you know, 252 00:17:33.720 --> 00:17:37.279 when you're dating a girl and you telling her like, oh, I'm 253 00:17:37.319 --> 00:17:40.319 not looking for anything serious right now. I'm just looking at check, catch 254 00:17:40.319 --> 00:17:44.160 a vibe, hang out. You know. You know how y'all niggas do 255 00:17:44.200 --> 00:17:47.759 you know how y'all niggas do. Alright, I'm not looking for nothing serious 256 00:17:47.839 --> 00:17:52.079 right now. I'm just trying to catch the bar for real, right And 257 00:17:52.079 --> 00:17:56.359 what she say every time? Okay, cool me too. But you know 258 00:17:56.519 --> 00:18:00.400 she ain't trying to catch no fucking vibe, alright, you now, she 259 00:18:00.400 --> 00:18:04.799 ain't trying to catch no vibe. But what do y'all do? I already 260 00:18:04.799 --> 00:18:07.880 told her that I ain't looking for nothing serious, so she catch feelings that's 261 00:18:07.880 --> 00:18:11.200 on her. Nah, women don't deserve the benefit of doubt. You gotta 262 00:18:11.279 --> 00:18:15.119 check in with me, my boy, every so and so months. You 263 00:18:15.200 --> 00:18:18.400 gotta be like, hey, I enjoy hanging out with you. I enjoy 264 00:18:18.480 --> 00:18:21.960 having fun, but just to remind you, I'm not looking for nothing serious 265 00:18:22.039 --> 00:18:25.160 right now, y'all. Don't do that. Y'all don't do that. And 266 00:18:25.279 --> 00:18:29.839 to some women, the lulu is the soululu. So you can tell me 267 00:18:29.920 --> 00:18:33.000 like, oh, well, in the beginning, he told me he wasn't 268 00:18:33.000 --> 00:18:36.279 looking for nothing serious. But we be over each other's house every weekend. 269 00:18:36.720 --> 00:18:38.319 We be linking up on a late night, all the time, we go 270 00:18:38.359 --> 00:18:41.759 out on days. We might even be doing a nasty raw dog jamal. 271 00:18:42.160 --> 00:18:48.359 Okay, now you may have told me you ain't looking for nothing serious, 272 00:18:48.559 --> 00:18:52.720 but baby, everything we're doing is something serious. So guess what I'm thinking? 273 00:18:53.720 --> 00:18:57.799 You want something serious? If we locked in, ain't no swishing up. 274 00:18:59.079 --> 00:19:03.920 No, no, don't give these women the benefit of the doubt. 275 00:19:04.119 --> 00:19:08.640 Okay, Continuously check in with that woman and tell her, hey, I 276 00:19:08.759 --> 00:19:12.440 enjoy hanging with you and we vibing. But just to remind you, I'm 277 00:19:12.440 --> 00:19:17.079 not looking for nothing serious now, Ladies, I ain't litting gona of havef 278 00:19:17.079 --> 00:19:19.119 to hook that easy, okay, because sometimes you gotta listen on what that 279 00:19:19.200 --> 00:19:25.319 man say. I don't care how much y'all vibing. I don't care how 280 00:19:25.319 --> 00:19:29.519 good you think your uci Wally is. Okay, if he says he don't 281 00:19:29.599 --> 00:19:37.039 want nothing serious, believe him, believe him. Okay, believe that man 282 00:19:37.160 --> 00:19:38.519 when he said he don't want nothing. I don't care what you're doing. 283 00:19:38.839 --> 00:19:41.480 I don't care. If he took you to be his mind, she'd be 284 00:19:41.559 --> 00:19:49.480 young on it too. Listen, listen, listen. Can we be serious 285 00:19:49.480 --> 00:19:56.799 for a second? Can we be fucking for real? Like, listen, 286 00:19:56.799 --> 00:20:03.559 all I'm saying is be fucking for real, Ladies. Do not think y'all 287 00:20:03.599 --> 00:20:06.759 are on the same page. Y'all are not. Fellas, do not think 288 00:20:06.799 --> 00:20:08.559 y'all are on the same page. Y'all are not. We need to be 289 00:20:08.680 --> 00:20:14.119 clear in our feelings and how they may develop over time that we spend with 290 00:20:14.200 --> 00:20:18.160 each other. Like that's just it, and it's just that simple. That's 291 00:20:18.200 --> 00:20:22.640 how you prevent all this extra from popping up. That's how you prevent from 292 00:20:22.640 --> 00:20:26.039 going on the internet telling everybody that you know, he got a little dick. 293 00:20:26.119 --> 00:20:27.039 We don't need to do all that. We don't need to do all 294 00:20:27.079 --> 00:20:30.039 that because in the beginning he told you he wasn't ready for a relationship. 295 00:20:30.079 --> 00:20:33.559 He ain't want that. We don't have to be that. We don't have 296 00:20:33.640 --> 00:20:40.240 to go that far. It's not necessary. Like ladies, trash, you're 297 00:20:40.240 --> 00:20:53.839 not on a micrash trash smash does do anything for you because he's sash exactly, 298 00:20:55.160 --> 00:20:59.119 exactly exactly and the same thing from one. Fella's going in and I'm 299 00:20:59.119 --> 00:21:03.640 talking about her coach's okay, and you still ate it? Hi baby, 300 00:21:03.920 --> 00:21:07.440 Hi baby, Seven's back, y'all. Okay, all right, now go 301 00:21:07.440 --> 00:21:17.039 over there, long story short, I don't care how how seven Okay, 302 00:21:18.119 --> 00:21:26.759 okay, okay, get down, I'm so sorry. Okay, all right, 303 00:21:26.880 --> 00:21:30.119 get down, pumpkin, get down him just your street baby, I 304 00:21:30.160 --> 00:21:33.599 know, get down, get down, get down, good down, all 305 00:21:33.720 --> 00:21:40.000 right, niggas love to destruct your peace again. Damn uh. I don't 306 00:21:40.000 --> 00:21:42.680 know what I was talking about. But whatever King Worthy Fitt said, Seven 307 00:21:42.759 --> 00:21:48.240 says, show me love our crest as ship and show did and did and 308 00:21:48.279 --> 00:21:55.480 did Twiz Spitmaster said, Seven a part of the pot today. Uh. 309 00:21:55.799 --> 00:22:08.279 Young Gohan said, none of the men in your life. Listen, y'all, 310 00:22:08.759 --> 00:22:12.200 y'all, I deserve to be treated nice. Okay, I'm gonna deserve 311 00:22:12.240 --> 00:22:18.559 this. I'm a good person and I feel like y'all and seven, especially 312 00:22:18.640 --> 00:22:22.319 y'all be treating me like you know whatever. Scott Larrock said he just want 313 00:22:22.359 --> 00:22:30.799 some screen time. Okay, yeah, yeah. J Mac the insurance man 314 00:22:30.839 --> 00:22:37.119 said, we all want to trade places with seven. You know what that 315 00:22:37.359 --> 00:22:40.720 is my baby? I am Prettricia R. He's so sweet, he's just 316 00:22:40.920 --> 00:22:45.799 he's just his baby. He's just so sweet. He's so sweet. Yeah, 317 00:22:45.880 --> 00:22:48.960 man, I don't remember what we were talking about, but yeah, 318 00:22:49.000 --> 00:22:55.359 long story short, right, long story short. I don't care how bad 319 00:22:55.519 --> 00:22:57.680 that man gives you a jingle and your tingle. Okay, if he said 320 00:22:57.680 --> 00:23:00.200 he don't want a relationship, he don't want a relationship. Hey don't want 321 00:23:00.200 --> 00:23:03.559 a girlfriend? All right? And fellas, I don't care how many times 322 00:23:03.599 --> 00:23:07.680 you know you have to say I'm not looking for a relationship. Make sure 323 00:23:07.720 --> 00:23:11.960 you're continuously checking in telling her you don't want a relationship, because you know 324 00:23:12.599 --> 00:23:17.400 the Lulu be that's a lulu and that's it. That's it. That's it, 325 00:23:18.680 --> 00:23:26.440 speaking of the Lulu being the soululu. Right, I just want to 326 00:23:26.480 --> 00:23:33.960 say, it's it's so funny how we recognize things and we move forward and 327 00:23:33.160 --> 00:23:37.319 change our behaviors. In X, Y and Z, so earlier I was 328 00:23:37.319 --> 00:23:41.119 talking about, you know the clip that came out. It came from when 329 00:23:41.160 --> 00:23:44.440 I was in a different place in my life. And the crazy part is 330 00:23:45.240 --> 00:23:48.400 like, as time goes on, I realized that, like I said, 331 00:23:48.440 --> 00:23:52.480 the Internet is not a real place. And I think that one of the 332 00:23:52.519 --> 00:23:57.920 first times I really paid attention to the Internet wasn't a real place. Is 333 00:24:00.119 --> 00:24:03.799 everybody outside singing real last bitch get fucked by the nigga and we all out 334 00:24:03.839 --> 00:24:07.559 here singing hands on my knees with LIGs my thigh shit and bought this wet 335 00:24:07.559 --> 00:24:11.279 ass pussy. And then I sat and I thought, and I said, 336 00:24:12.599 --> 00:24:21.279 all these bitches and relationships, all these bitches and relationships, all these bitches, 337 00:24:21.880 --> 00:24:26.319 excuse me, I take that back. All these women, right, 338 00:24:29.000 --> 00:24:32.599 all these women outside scream about thought niggas get money, and X Y and 339 00:24:32.759 --> 00:24:37.200 Z they all go home to they niggas at night and they got us out 340 00:24:37.200 --> 00:24:41.440 here screaming. Realized, bitch get fucked by the nigga while they with their 341 00:24:41.559 --> 00:24:48.160 nigga. I said, hold on self, something's not right right, Like 342 00:24:48.359 --> 00:24:53.039 literally, I'm out here shoveling snow by my damn self cause you told me 343 00:24:53.079 --> 00:24:59.599 we don't get fucked by these niggas and city girls. Was up right whole 344 00:24:59.640 --> 00:25:04.480 time you laid up with your nigga. And that's what I knew. That's 345 00:25:04.599 --> 00:25:11.240 when I knew. That's when I knew the internet is not a real place. 346 00:25:11.319 --> 00:25:15.759 That's when I knew the Internet is not a real place. The jig 347 00:25:15.039 --> 00:25:21.920 is up just not shot set, okay, the jig is fucking up right. 348 00:25:22.519 --> 00:25:27.599 And as time went on, I really had to learn for myself it's 349 00:25:27.640 --> 00:25:30.400 okay to, like, you know, bump that ship when you win your 350 00:25:30.400 --> 00:25:34.000 car. It's okay to bless that while you put in your makeup on. 351 00:25:36.279 --> 00:25:40.319 I don't even really like doing this ship in real life, Like, I 352 00:25:40.319 --> 00:25:42.119 don't want to be out here dogging niggas. I'm a lover girl for real. 353 00:25:42.240 --> 00:25:45.079 I want to be at home with my man, my man, my 354 00:25:45.200 --> 00:25:55.440 man. This isn't real. I'm just saying, like I was really out 355 00:25:55.480 --> 00:26:00.440 here being a secret agent, Cod's playing as a city girl. This is 356 00:26:00.480 --> 00:26:04.119 when I knew the Internet is not a real place, right, So, 357 00:26:04.279 --> 00:26:07.319 like I'm sitting men and thinking like yo, I don't even like shaking my 358 00:26:07.400 --> 00:26:11.200 ass when I go outside the club. This ain't even a life for me. 359 00:26:11.759 --> 00:26:17.559 But I'm out here pretending because it's cool to pretend. And that's when 360 00:26:17.559 --> 00:26:25.200 I realized Internet's not a real place. It's not. It's not and sometimes 361 00:26:25.799 --> 00:26:27.559 we have to pay attention to the things that we actually want to do, 362 00:26:29.079 --> 00:26:32.519 the things we actually want to do. I won't be at home, my 363 00:26:32.599 --> 00:26:37.839 man. That's it. That's it, and that's all. Jay Finess says. 364 00:26:37.240 --> 00:26:41.599 Clubbing is low vibrational. I'm not crazy about the club man. I'll 365 00:26:41.640 --> 00:26:45.400 hit a lounge maybe for a little bit, maybe a nice little cigar bar, 366 00:26:45.880 --> 00:26:48.039 but clubbing. If one of my friends a DJing or it's not one 367 00:26:48.039 --> 00:26:51.960 of my friends events, I'm probably not going to be there. One thousand 368 00:26:52.039 --> 00:26:59.079 percent. Yeah, Strike the villain says the hot girl leadership in relationships. 369 00:26:59.119 --> 00:27:03.920 Meanwhile, future as leading the city boys in an counter attack. I'm crying. 370 00:27:04.440 --> 00:27:11.279 I'm crying. I absolutely cannot. Scottlerock seventy eight said straight got y'all 371 00:27:11.319 --> 00:27:15.759 fucked up and we were we were strand a man nine eleven, said Beyonce. 372 00:27:15.839 --> 00:27:18.839 He has y'all singing all about the single ladies. Meanwhile, she went 373 00:27:18.880 --> 00:27:23.559 home to her man as she was, and she was her man, her 374 00:27:23.599 --> 00:27:26.640 me and her me and her man. I am, Patricia said her sex 375 00:27:26.720 --> 00:27:32.519 sells. Sex can sell. But like telling us that, like, fuck 376 00:27:32.519 --> 00:27:36.359 these niggas while you got a nigga is crazy. That's nasty work. Telling 377 00:27:36.440 --> 00:27:41.240 us fuck these niggas while you got a nigga, it's nasty work. Nasty 378 00:27:41.279 --> 00:27:45.920 work, nasty work, nasty work. Now, Darryl the rock Star says 379 00:27:45.960 --> 00:27:51.240 hot Girl summers only benefited men. I agree, I agree. And then 380 00:27:51.279 --> 00:27:55.319 ladies, we gotta pay attention to even when we like perpetrating in like following 381 00:27:55.400 --> 00:27:59.279 up with these narratives. Right, Yeah, it's cool to like be on 382 00:27:59.319 --> 00:28:02.640 some sexy shit while you're in the house or were you having grus night or 383 00:28:02.680 --> 00:28:06.319 like when you in private, but you gotta remember sexy Red also has like 384 00:28:06.400 --> 00:28:07.799 going on the record saying like yo, but none of these rappers want to 385 00:28:07.839 --> 00:28:11.640 slide in my dms, Like none of these like men of high value quote 386 00:28:11.720 --> 00:28:18.519 unquote want to be with me. You don't find that suspicious. You don't 387 00:28:18.559 --> 00:28:23.000 find that suspicious, Like, can we pay attention to a few things. 388 00:28:23.319 --> 00:28:26.480 I'm all for having a good time and enjoying myself, but make sure you're 389 00:28:26.519 --> 00:28:32.359 not wrapped up in the illusion, all right, because I'm trying home my 390 00:28:32.400 --> 00:28:33.960 man. I'm talking hold of my man. I'm gonna care what y'all talking 391 00:28:33.960 --> 00:28:41.240 about. I got fucking seven hair all on me. Lt l To no 392 00:28:41.319 --> 00:28:45.160 effort, says first time watch er. What's your message to the people just 393 00:28:45.160 --> 00:28:49.559 talking about how the internet is in a real place. It's just a princess, 394 00:28:49.599 --> 00:28:53.480 sexy red pregnant Briy Drake. She got her bag already. Let me 395 00:28:53.519 --> 00:28:57.119 tell you something, Let me tell you something, let me tell you something. 396 00:28:57.880 --> 00:29:02.279 She is not and we're not gonna say that she is absolutely not pregnant 397 00:29:02.319 --> 00:29:07.279 by Drake. Nick Breeze says the Internet got people dedicating their relationships to different 398 00:29:07.319 --> 00:29:10.079 seasons hot girl, summer, cuddle season, X, Y and Z. 399 00:29:10.480 --> 00:29:12.000 And that's real. And this is why I say the Internet is not a 400 00:29:12.039 --> 00:29:17.440 real place. Like if you listen to the Internet, like, yeah, 401 00:29:17.880 --> 00:29:22.920 sometimes it does smell like Stepdaddy's outside. As I've told y'all before, but 402 00:29:23.160 --> 00:29:27.960 like we need to focus on the main goal has to be like going for 403 00:29:27.960 --> 00:29:30.559 what you know and living a life that you actually want to live and not 404 00:29:30.599 --> 00:29:36.559 what's popular on the internet. You know what I mean. It's just a 405 00:29:36.680 --> 00:29:41.559 prince said you heard it here first, pee mark my words. Yashu says, 406 00:29:41.640 --> 00:29:45.079 love the energy, Thank you baby, thank you. Dark Man seventeen 407 00:29:45.200 --> 00:29:49.799 says, me and my wife know the Internet is all kept. Kuda Kubino 408 00:29:49.880 --> 00:29:52.680 says, if you believe city Girl music, you got no brain. The 409 00:29:52.720 --> 00:29:56.640 ones who got a brain too busy solidifying who they gonna be their men. 410 00:29:56.960 --> 00:30:02.559 Apparently that includes the City Girls because they both wiped up. King Worthy Fit 411 00:30:02.720 --> 00:30:07.839 says internet is for entertainment purposes only. Uh yeah, man, I just 412 00:30:07.880 --> 00:30:11.000 think that you gotta be real. You gotta be real with yourself. That's 413 00:30:11.039 --> 00:30:15.640 it and that's all. And speaking of the Internet not being in real place, 414 00:30:15.720 --> 00:30:18.400 baby, if I tell a story about you on the podcast, more 415 00:30:18.440 --> 00:30:21.759 than likely your time has past. Okay, you don't need to spend a 416 00:30:21.839 --> 00:30:25.160 block. Seat said you don't need to spend a buck buck go, and 417 00:30:25.200 --> 00:30:29.119 then he said, I'm sorry because I know that we're in triggers. You 418 00:30:29.240 --> 00:30:33.000 y'all. You know what I really really enjoy I really really enjoy sharing these 419 00:30:33.000 --> 00:30:37.599 stories with y'all and y'all laughing and yeah, we all just vibing together and 420 00:30:37.640 --> 00:30:41.200 realizing that we're all low key going through the same shit. So I like 421 00:30:41.279 --> 00:30:47.759 that for us. I love us being a community. Speaking of community, 422 00:30:48.160 --> 00:30:52.319 everybody has different things that are important to them in life and things that they 423 00:30:52.359 --> 00:30:59.920 are extremely proud of. And what's really funny to me is that men flexed 424 00:31:00.039 --> 00:31:04.680 different. Minflex real different, minflex real different. And the further I go 425 00:31:04.759 --> 00:31:10.480 in this life journey, the more I realize min flex different. Like it's 426 00:31:10.519 --> 00:31:15.720 not always about your house, your car, your muscles. Like, if 427 00:31:15.759 --> 00:31:19.039 you're over the age of thirty five and you can still get a side park, 428 00:31:19.279 --> 00:31:27.039 that's a flex. If you're over the age of thirty five and you 429 00:31:27.079 --> 00:31:37.480 can still get a side part. Oh niggas talking big shit and you're old 430 00:31:37.519 --> 00:31:41.000 age of thirty five and you can still bust down the side park. Oh 431 00:31:41.039 --> 00:31:51.400 what what you can't tell these nigga's nothing nothing, nothing like, Oh they 432 00:31:51.480 --> 00:31:53.119 talking big shit, big big, big, big, big shit, Like 433 00:31:53.720 --> 00:31:57.960 and my whole thing is it used to be like okay, but there's your 434 00:31:59.000 --> 00:32:01.200 roof missing that don't even a fucking matter. No more, like for whatever 435 00:32:01.279 --> 00:32:07.000 reason, like thirty four years and fucking eleven months and twenty nine days, 436 00:32:07.039 --> 00:32:12.359 be having y'all pressed once y'all pass that mark and you can still hit the 437 00:32:12.359 --> 00:32:15.559 side park. Baby, you in here. You can't tell him he neede 438 00:32:15.559 --> 00:32:16.400 that nigga. I don't care. I don't care if he lived with his 439 00:32:16.480 --> 00:32:23.680 mom. Hate that nigga, I don't care exactly like you know, niggas 440 00:32:23.680 --> 00:32:28.839 be talking big shit when they don't need to use the Beijing. Oh men 441 00:32:28.920 --> 00:32:31.680 be talking big shit when they don't got used to Beijing. What come on 442 00:32:31.799 --> 00:32:35.920 now, I don't need them fibers, bro, I'm good, I'm good. 443 00:32:36.279 --> 00:32:38.319 They be saying, you know what they chest too, I'm good, 444 00:32:38.640 --> 00:32:44.119 I'm good, And I just be like, y'all so cute, but y'all 445 00:32:44.160 --> 00:32:47.559 so dumb. Y'all, y'all, y'all so cute. Y'all really be so 446 00:32:47.720 --> 00:32:55.920 cute, y'all so cute. I love it, y'all so sweet? Oh 447 00:32:57.000 --> 00:32:59.000 my god, Oh on, hold, let me go to the live hold 448 00:32:59.000 --> 00:33:05.240 on, let me scroll up a little bit. King Crust says, I 449 00:33:05.319 --> 00:33:10.960 really hate you, But did I lie? You can't hate me? But 450 00:33:12.119 --> 00:33:16.759 baby, did I lie k me. You ain't shit. All I'm saying 451 00:33:16.880 --> 00:33:21.440 is did I lie like that? That's that's all I'm asking. Like, 452 00:33:21.480 --> 00:33:27.359 you can hate me whatever. Kingworthy Fit said, Wow, mister nia Jane 453 00:33:27.359 --> 00:33:30.920 says, I'm dead. Dark Man seventeen says that's not a flex, that's 454 00:33:31.039 --> 00:33:36.799 childish. Immediately you, King Crust said, I'm assuming you can't get the 455 00:33:36.839 --> 00:33:45.000 side party, King Crush, Oh my god, mister nia Jane says, 456 00:33:45.160 --> 00:33:49.519 or if you're over forty and still have your side teeth as a flex, 457 00:33:49.759 --> 00:33:53.319 God damn, don't let you be able to get don't let you be able 458 00:33:53.359 --> 00:33:57.920 to get a side part and you still got the side too. Oh, 459 00:33:58.880 --> 00:34:02.839 this nigga is right in the neighborhood. Okay, he got the block shut 460 00:34:02.920 --> 00:34:12.199 down. Yeah, you ain't never lied. You ain't never never never lied. 461 00:34:13.280 --> 00:34:15.840 King Crest says, I pray I can still have hair when I'm past 462 00:34:15.880 --> 00:34:21.480 thirty five. I am crying. Jerry Sash says women look like this while 463 00:34:21.559 --> 00:34:25.199 I live in Atlanta with broccoli dogs, brolock dogs. Oh, bronlick dogs. 464 00:34:25.320 --> 00:34:29.840 Hey, I've seen some pretty girls in Atlanta. That's not fair to 465 00:34:29.840 --> 00:34:34.880 say. Darlda Rock says, said Darryld Rock Star says, by age thirty 466 00:34:34.880 --> 00:34:45.960 five, my hairline looking like the woo tang sign. Why are y'all so 467 00:34:45.199 --> 00:34:54.480 fucking childish? Childish? The wootang sign is outlandish? Outlandish? Uh, 468 00:34:55.159 --> 00:34:59.880 Jaysander First says, who don't have their side teeth? Maybe a lot of 469 00:35:00.039 --> 00:35:04.159 people, men and women, men and women, this this one right here, 470 00:35:04.719 --> 00:35:08.199 it'd be fucking up. It be gone, it be gone, it'd 471 00:35:08.199 --> 00:35:13.559 be gone. No. In the front, the canine jawns a lot of 472 00:35:13.559 --> 00:35:22.559 people missing them. Jawns, Uh, fucking yo. Nj five forty says, 473 00:35:22.599 --> 00:35:25.880 mo, what kind of niggas y'all running into? Am I lying? 474 00:35:27.360 --> 00:35:30.119 All I'm saying is am I lion? People are on here agreeing with me, 475 00:35:30.159 --> 00:35:34.199 so I'm obviously not lying. Jerry said, says my boss don't have 476 00:35:34.239 --> 00:35:38.599 his side tea. Probably dabbed in dark drugs in the nineties. King Worthy 477 00:35:38.679 --> 00:35:43.360 Fence says, bro with my hairlining and Crown started to high five each other. 478 00:35:43.480 --> 00:35:46.440 All that shit had to go. Why am I like this? Why 479 00:35:46.440 --> 00:35:51.079 are y'all like this? Dark Man seventeen said, I still got all thirty 480 00:35:51.119 --> 00:35:53.360 two teeth. I'm cracking up, jay Z and the First says the k 481 00:35:53.519 --> 00:35:57.320 nines, Yes, the knines. They'd be fucking niggas at the K nines. 482 00:35:57.400 --> 00:35:59.840 Let a K nine. Okay, that's what I'm gonna call there. 483 00:36:00.639 --> 00:36:02.440 So yeah, men, men just men just flex differently. And I love 484 00:36:02.480 --> 00:36:06.480 that for y'all. And every time I see y'all doing it, it just 485 00:36:07.159 --> 00:36:09.800 it just it just tickles me so because like I see the joy that it 486 00:36:09.840 --> 00:36:16.519 brings you when you be leaving, like that side part it be doing it, 487 00:36:16.480 --> 00:36:22.679 it'd be doing it. Another thing that I wanted to talk about today 488 00:36:22.320 --> 00:36:29.719 is sometimes we be so caught up in our personal opinions and our personal feelings 489 00:36:30.000 --> 00:36:36.719 we don't realize the benefits that certain things come with. Right. One of 490 00:36:36.719 --> 00:36:39.719 those things is having friends with the apposite sex. And I know we've talked 491 00:36:39.719 --> 00:36:45.239 about this before, but I just wanted to revisit because I realized it's one 492 00:36:45.239 --> 00:36:50.039 conversation that we're really not having. Like having friends of the opposite sex isn't 493 00:36:50.079 --> 00:36:55.239 always a bad thing. Sometimes you need a translator, okay, because I 494 00:36:55.280 --> 00:37:00.800 feel like there are some conversations that happen between men and women and it just 495 00:37:00.880 --> 00:37:05.800 be getting convoluted and turned into the wrong thing. For example, right, 496 00:37:06.599 --> 00:37:12.119 I know, like men y'all think when a woman tells you or hmmm, 497 00:37:12.280 --> 00:37:15.400 I don't want to say tells you. So men, y'all think when a 498 00:37:15.400 --> 00:37:17.599 woman asks you, so, what are we? What are we doing? 499 00:37:19.360 --> 00:37:23.199 Sis is not giving you an ultimatum. Okay, somebody else is applying pressure 500 00:37:23.199 --> 00:37:28.920 and she's trying to be kind. Okay, now before she consider dabbling dating 501 00:37:28.920 --> 00:37:31.719 and possibly giving away the cootie cat. I just want to solidify and get 502 00:37:31.760 --> 00:37:37.199 clarity from you. We we serious or no, because if we're not serious, 503 00:37:37.280 --> 00:37:39.679 you just want to keep doing this weird thing. Or maybe I'm looking 504 00:37:39.679 --> 00:37:45.000 for a relationship and you're not. But just man or where it is like, 505 00:37:45.039 --> 00:37:46.639 okay, let me just tap in with you. Don't when a woman 506 00:37:46.719 --> 00:37:51.840 ask you that, don't process it as like, oh, she's telling me 507 00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:55.519 either we gonna be together or I gotta go. No. Sometimes it's just 508 00:37:57.679 --> 00:38:01.480 you no longer gonna be the only one. Okay. Sometimes it's just hey, 509 00:38:01.639 --> 00:38:05.320 from now on, I might be sending out two good morning texts every 510 00:38:05.360 --> 00:38:09.880 day, all right, and if you don't want that, let me know 511 00:38:10.199 --> 00:38:13.679 so I can let this gentleman over here. No, that's not what we're 512 00:38:13.679 --> 00:38:15.079 doing. Or you know, I'm still trying to figure something out with this 513 00:38:15.079 --> 00:38:21.639 one man, and I'd rather close one situation before I go to the next. 514 00:38:22.880 --> 00:38:30.679 Now, who got time to read all that that? So? Shot 515 00:38:30.800 --> 00:38:34.800 said, he feels like women should explain all that instead of just saying who 516 00:38:34.840 --> 00:38:37.679 are we? What are we? What are we? Let me finish, 517 00:38:37.960 --> 00:38:39.800 let me just say, let me just say what I want to say, 518 00:38:40.039 --> 00:38:44.760 Shod said, he feels like women should explain all that instead of saying, 519 00:38:44.920 --> 00:38:47.639 what are we? But my whole thing is when we send you these text 520 00:38:47.719 --> 00:38:53.679 messages that look like books, y'all send back? Okay, Hello, is 521 00:38:53.719 --> 00:38:59.719 this like? What? No? God that so read it? That's what 522 00:38:59.760 --> 00:39:01.360 you're said. We don't send it because y'allm not gonna read it. All 523 00:39:01.400 --> 00:39:07.239 you gonna send back? Is okay? I hear you? Actually no, 524 00:39:07.239 --> 00:39:12.920 no, all you're gonna send back is okay? Heard? Bet you got 525 00:39:12.920 --> 00:39:19.079 it? Suck my dick. I didn't set you all this and you sends 526 00:39:19.119 --> 00:39:23.400 back? Okay, bet heard you got it? Suck my dick from the 527 00:39:23.480 --> 00:39:29.599 back. Okay. This is exactly why we shortened it to what you're gonna 528 00:39:29.639 --> 00:39:34.840 answer? What are we? What are we doing? How is that a 529 00:39:34.880 --> 00:39:39.559 toxic fact? That's an actual fact? Y'all? Y'all hear, y'all hear 530 00:39:39.559 --> 00:39:44.559 what he's saying. Y'all hear what he's saying. Do y'all security said for 531 00:39:44.760 --> 00:39:49.239 show, you're right, you're right, adding for show, Adam for show 532 00:39:49.360 --> 00:39:53.360 because that's definitely one of them. For show, you got it, Dash 533 00:39:54.079 --> 00:39:59.519 for it three sixty five said, I just watched the video on being scolded 534 00:39:59.559 --> 00:40:01.599 for saying a man was weird for being a gentleman on the first date, 535 00:40:01.679 --> 00:40:05.840 shaking my head in l O L. Yeah, we talked about that in 536 00:40:05.840 --> 00:40:07.119 the top of the episode. You're gonna have to wait till tomorrow till this 537 00:40:07.239 --> 00:40:12.360 YOURNG release. But yeah, I said it. I said what I said, 538 00:40:12.599 --> 00:40:15.000 and that was it. But if you want to know why, you 539 00:40:15.039 --> 00:40:20.760 really have to listen to the full episode. Batsy two ten says, I'm 540 00:40:20.800 --> 00:40:22.840 straight up like listen, shorty, I like shit and I won't shit, 541 00:40:23.559 --> 00:40:27.760 solidifying this is your choice. Let me know what we're doing, because I'm 542 00:40:27.800 --> 00:40:34.679 down, fellas, I'm two seven right now. Ah, I'm crying, 543 00:40:35.239 --> 00:40:39.039 Darrel the rock Star, I said my reply thumbs up emoji. See y'all 544 00:40:39.039 --> 00:40:49.679 see, y'all see. And because it's never okay, y'all understand because usually 545 00:40:49.760 --> 00:40:52.920 y'all read the first four lines and didn't read the rest of the message because 546 00:40:52.920 --> 00:40:58.000 that's what you're using. See see you see, y'all hear this. Do 547 00:40:58.079 --> 00:41:02.880 y'all hear this. Y'are here, You're here, You're hear it? Okay. 548 00:41:02.960 --> 00:41:07.519 Jazzender first says, before you ask what are we stick your claim that 549 00:41:07.599 --> 00:41:10.719 I want a relationship and before I move forward, I like to know where 550 00:41:10.760 --> 00:41:15.960 you stand. No, And I'm gonna tell you why. I know because 551 00:41:16.320 --> 00:41:20.719 nine times out of ten, since already told you she wanted a relationship. 552 00:41:20.719 --> 00:41:23.480 We talked about this earlier in the episode, and nine times out of ten 553 00:41:23.559 --> 00:41:28.079 you already told her you don't want a relationship, because if you did, 554 00:41:28.199 --> 00:41:31.760 she wouldn't be questioning whether you wanted a relationship. So her saying what are 555 00:41:31.800 --> 00:41:34.800 we like? What we're doing? Or have we moving forward? It's like, 556 00:41:34.880 --> 00:41:37.239 yo, where are you at now? Like remember I said, me 557 00:41:37.280 --> 00:41:39.480 and y'all need to be doing those check ins? Her sending that is her 558 00:41:39.559 --> 00:41:43.239 doing her version of a check in before she move on. You know what 559 00:41:43.239 --> 00:41:46.880 I mean? J five forty says, I mean not always true. Though 560 00:41:46.920 --> 00:41:51.960 the more I care, the more I'm gonna read. Yes, that's okay. 561 00:41:54.320 --> 00:41:57.920 I took I took a moment of silence so that I could step over 562 00:41:57.960 --> 00:42:04.519 that bullshit that was just put out here. Hello, mm hmmm mm hmmmmm. 563 00:42:04.760 --> 00:42:07.800 But if you cure that much, you wouldn't have her feeling uncertain. 564 00:42:07.320 --> 00:42:09.480 So that's why I said, I want to take a pause to hear all 565 00:42:09.519 --> 00:42:15.719 that bullshit or step over all that bullshit. Accountability goes all the way around. 566 00:42:15.880 --> 00:42:19.599 Accountability goes all the way around. Accountability goes all the way around. 567 00:42:19.760 --> 00:42:23.840 Whatever, whatever y'all hear the way shy he's talking is gonna be okay, 568 00:42:23.840 --> 00:42:30.639 good because I'm I'm happy we finally have proof. M Oh my god, 569 00:42:32.079 --> 00:42:40.119 how much time you got I'll give you. Okay, great, I'm just 570 00:42:40.159 --> 00:42:45.960 gonna get this one edible and it be so now we want to get into 571 00:42:45.000 --> 00:42:50.159 the edible portion of the show. So the edible portion is when I read 572 00:42:50.239 --> 00:42:53.920 questions or comments that you guys put in. I usually put up a prompt 573 00:42:53.960 --> 00:42:57.719 on a day that we're recording. Uh, but if what you have to 574 00:42:57.760 --> 00:43:05.400 say it's too long to fit in the prompt on my or creepy be a 575 00:43:05.440 --> 00:43:16.360 single, you can always DM me or email me at inquiries at stormyp ea 576 00:43:16.920 --> 00:43:21.639 dot com. And no that was great. That was beautiful. I loved 577 00:43:21.639 --> 00:43:30.480 it. So the first one says, is it disrespectful to not introduce your 578 00:43:30.559 --> 00:43:34.880 BM to your new girlfriend that you're talking to? And I would love to 579 00:43:34.880 --> 00:43:40.039 hear from the people on the Live once again question says, is it disrespectful 580 00:43:40.159 --> 00:43:45.400 to not introduce your baby mom to your new girl that you're talking to? 581 00:43:47.280 --> 00:43:57.159 Hm? Hm hmm. Is it disrespectful to introduce your BM to your new 582 00:43:57.199 --> 00:44:02.440 girlfriend that you were talking to? I'm gonna say it's only disrespectful if this 583 00:44:02.519 --> 00:44:07.880 is your third girlfriend in three months, right, because I feel like the 584 00:44:07.920 --> 00:44:12.679 only time we really be in our head about you having new girls is when 585 00:44:12.920 --> 00:44:20.639 A we still want you respectfully respectfully or b you not even taking these women 586 00:44:20.679 --> 00:44:23.360 seriously, You running through bitches, maybe even trying to replace me. But 587 00:44:23.400 --> 00:44:30.519 that's a conversation for another day. But I feel like if we see that 588 00:44:30.599 --> 00:44:34.480 you're serious about a woman and we've truly moved on, it's no reason why 589 00:44:34.559 --> 00:44:37.519 I can't be introduced to Ashley. I might like Miss Ashley, but my 590 00:44:37.639 --> 00:44:44.239 only problem is I feel like sometimes women we automatically want to beef with Miss 591 00:44:44.320 --> 00:44:47.199 Ashley when we need to figure out how we can maneuver and be friends with 592 00:44:47.239 --> 00:44:51.840 Miss Ashley, because you gotta remember, when you not there, Miss Ashley 593 00:44:51.920 --> 00:44:54.559 gonna be there fucking make sure your kid is okay, tugging them in at 594 00:44:54.639 --> 00:45:00.239 night potentially, you know, cleaning off scrapes and cuts, helping with homework, 595 00:45:00.400 --> 00:45:02.239 maybe even knocking a bitch out if she comes to the door acting crazy. 596 00:45:02.440 --> 00:45:06.079 So like, I don't think our go to should be like you know, 597 00:45:06.239 --> 00:45:08.760 we're beefing with Miss Ashley. Like me and Miss Ashley, we gotta 598 00:45:08.760 --> 00:45:12.079 be a tag team duo. Okay, we gotta be the hardy boys for 599 00:45:12.119 --> 00:45:15.719 real. Okay, we gotta be the best tag team duo to hit any 600 00:45:15.800 --> 00:45:21.039 hell in itself match this side of the Mason Dixon all right. So I 601 00:45:21.079 --> 00:45:23.480 don't know, I think that. To me, it's not disrespectful, you 602 00:45:23.519 --> 00:45:28.000 know. And this is coming from somebody who does co parent like I do 603 00:45:28.079 --> 00:45:31.679 have a child. My baby. Dad don't be liking these bitches, so 604 00:45:31.719 --> 00:45:36.559 he don't never introduce me to nobody. But when he does find somebody that 605 00:45:36.639 --> 00:45:39.639 he wants, he likes and he wants to take serious, I'm gonna be 606 00:45:39.679 --> 00:45:44.079 so excited, Like she might be sicking me for real, for real, 607 00:45:44.199 --> 00:45:47.880 Like I want to fucking be friends like I do. I want to be 608 00:45:47.920 --> 00:45:52.480 friends with Miss Ashley like I do. I want to I want to be 609 00:45:52.480 --> 00:45:57.559 friends with Miss Ashley, and I want to fucking grind this nigga up and 610 00:45:57.679 --> 00:46:00.639 roast him to the death together, like don't even tag team duo like me, 611 00:46:00.679 --> 00:46:04.800 and it's actually gonna be locked in for real. So I don't know. 612 00:46:04.880 --> 00:46:07.079 To me, I don't think it's disrespectful as long as you're being intentional 613 00:46:07.159 --> 00:46:10.480 and you're moving with purpose and you're not just running through bitches, because if 614 00:46:10.519 --> 00:46:13.760 you just running through riches, they don't need to meet me or my child. 615 00:46:14.039 --> 00:46:16.639 Were good, We're good, No, thank you. I don't want 616 00:46:16.639 --> 00:46:25.039 to see this monk's things. Yeah, you know musical podcasts, but yeah, 617 00:46:25.079 --> 00:46:30.199 I don't know. Let me go to the live uh ZM photo says, 618 00:46:30.280 --> 00:46:34.239 I feel like that's only okay if I'm really into my girlfriend. I 619 00:46:34.239 --> 00:46:37.679 agree one thousand percent. I am pretty sure. Your r says, if 620 00:46:37.719 --> 00:46:42.639 it's a serious relationship, BM and girlfriends should meet, BM should need to 621 00:46:42.719 --> 00:46:46.360 know who's around their kids. That's absolutely right, Like what the fuck? 622 00:46:46.719 --> 00:46:52.719 We absolutely need to know what's going on and what's happening. Let me screw 623 00:46:52.920 --> 00:47:01.559 up sum Serious Visual says only introduced one serious. NJ five point forty says, 624 00:47:01.760 --> 00:47:06.400 I'm wonna say disrespectful, but BM should meet her before the kid or 625 00:47:06.440 --> 00:47:10.000 close to it. Can't have strangers around someone's kids. Nick Breeze says, 626 00:47:10.039 --> 00:47:14.159 disrespectful to each one. That's a good question. I didn't even think about 627 00:47:14.159 --> 00:47:17.440 that because with the BM findly disrespectful with the girlfriend, mind not disrespectful. 628 00:47:17.480 --> 00:47:22.840 I would hope not. I will hope not. Miss Tania Janey says keyword 629 00:47:23.000 --> 00:47:28.800 new girl that you're talking to doesn't sound serious. Scotland Rock seven eight says 630 00:47:28.840 --> 00:47:31.519 nope. Who's to say how long this relationship will last? Yeah? I 631 00:47:31.599 --> 00:47:35.519 just feel like if you locked in, that's one conversation. If you're not, 632 00:47:36.079 --> 00:47:38.679 it's another. Serious Visual says, Now if you're still smashing your BM, 633 00:47:38.800 --> 00:47:46.079 completely different story. That's wild but true, Wild but true. Dashed 634 00:47:46.119 --> 00:47:51.840 for three sixty five says my ex bonding my ex bonding my son with her 635 00:47:51.920 --> 00:47:57.000 man for over a year now and I still ain't met this nigga. Huh, 636 00:47:57.360 --> 00:48:00.679 I think you should meet this nigga. I feel like you be like 637 00:48:00.760 --> 00:48:01.880 yo, y'all been talking abut a minute, like it's cool if I meet 638 00:48:01.880 --> 00:48:04.519 old boy, like, you know, I don't know, but that's just 639 00:48:04.559 --> 00:48:07.639 me, And that was a different question. That's me just putting my shit 640 00:48:07.719 --> 00:48:10.119 into what y'all got going on. So let me watch it. But yeah, 641 00:48:10.159 --> 00:48:16.079 I don't know. That's just what it is to me. What yeah, 642 00:48:16.159 --> 00:48:20.719 baby dad beef is is different, different, But I think most of 643 00:48:20.719 --> 00:48:25.440 the time it comes from I think anytime it's a cool parenting situation that's not 644 00:48:25.559 --> 00:48:30.360 going well, like y'all back and forth from child's bepoort y'all back and forth 645 00:48:30.400 --> 00:48:34.559 from custody. Like anytime I hear that shit going on, I know for 646 00:48:34.679 --> 00:48:38.599 a motherfucking fact, somebody still wants somebody, either the baby mom still want 647 00:48:38.599 --> 00:48:42.840 the baby dad or the baby dad still wants the baby mom. Because at 648 00:48:42.840 --> 00:48:45.920 the end of the day, if both of y'all were responsible adults and you're 649 00:48:45.920 --> 00:48:49.800 like, yo, this isn't working cool, but our son is the most 650 00:48:49.800 --> 00:48:58.360 important thing cool, like it's no beef like and y'all both understand how compromise 651 00:48:58.760 --> 00:49:02.119 and working together and co parenting actually works. Y'all do what's bust for y'all. 652 00:49:02.239 --> 00:49:06.159 Every agreement ain't gonna look the same, Like no it might not be 653 00:49:06.239 --> 00:49:09.079 we're doing just weekends. It might not be we're doing you know, you 654 00:49:09.239 --> 00:49:12.360 get summers only and I get him the rest of the year. Like, 655 00:49:12.400 --> 00:49:16.280 No, it's all about compromise and being a freaking adepth. So with that 656 00:49:16.360 --> 00:49:23.960 being said, let's discuss and let's revisit. Right. So with that being 657 00:49:24.000 --> 00:49:30.599 said, from the top, man I said what I said, Like it's 658 00:49:30.599 --> 00:49:32.360 a clip going viral saying, you know, I called to guy Corny and 659 00:49:32.400 --> 00:49:36.920 I did, but that's because I wasn't willing to acknowledge that, you know, 660 00:49:37.639 --> 00:49:40.239 I didn't really like him. And I see that, and I'll take 661 00:49:40.280 --> 00:49:43.519 that, and I'll be a big dog and stand on that. But I'm 662 00:49:43.519 --> 00:49:50.599 a stand on it, right, I want to say. Also, accountability 663 00:49:50.639 --> 00:49:53.920 is key, and sometimes women don't deserve the benefit of doubt. Even if 664 00:49:53.920 --> 00:49:57.840 you tell her that you're not looking for something serious, tap in with her 665 00:49:57.880 --> 00:50:02.960 periodically so she understands you're not looking for something serious. Also, I knew 666 00:50:04.000 --> 00:50:07.760 the Internet wasn't a real place when all the women singing about niggas ain't shit 667 00:50:08.599 --> 00:50:15.079 had boyfriends and husbands. That's what I knew. The Internet is not a 668 00:50:15.079 --> 00:50:20.920 real place. Also, men flex different that side part after the age of 669 00:50:20.960 --> 00:50:23.000 thirty five and really put a battery in y'all back. I like that. 670 00:50:23.360 --> 00:50:28.480 I like that a lot. Also, friends of the opposite sex are beneficial 671 00:50:28.519 --> 00:50:31.440 because sometimes you need someone to explain what certain things mean, you need a 672 00:50:31.480 --> 00:50:37.400 translator. In addition to this, do I think it's disrespectful for someone to 673 00:50:37.480 --> 00:50:42.360 introduce their girlfriend to their baby mom. No, unless you run it through 674 00:50:42.360 --> 00:50:45.480 bitches and it's like your third girlfriend in three months. Now, I see 675 00:50:45.480 --> 00:50:47.079 you're not serious, and I don't really want to revolve in door of women 676 00:50:47.079 --> 00:50:50.760 around my child, So yeah, then I do think it's a little bit 677 00:50:50.760 --> 00:50:54.920 disrespectful. Man. Listen, my message is always want to be the same. 678 00:50:55.119 --> 00:51:00.679 Follow me on a gram at stormy ppea at chocolate Chip and sip and 679 00:51:00.719 --> 00:51:04.599 if you don't remember anything else, please remember the Internet is in a real 680 00:51:04.599 --> 00:51:06.599 place. I love you, guys, and I see you next week. Peace.