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All the hits, Kiss ninety five
seven Courtney and Kiss in the Morning,

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Savannah, hanging out with you too, wal Mart, Jeff. We're getting

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ready for second date update. We
love to help couples. If you go

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on a first date and you have
a great time. Let's just say your

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first date was amazing, and then
you get ghosted and you want answers,

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call us and we get the answers. We find out why you're getting ghosted.

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A cat is on the line.
She's in Granby to tell us about

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a great first day. Good morning, Cat, Hi, how's it going.

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Oh, it's going all right,
boy. I hope we can help

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you out today. I'm so nervous. Yeah, yeah, So I met

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this guy. His name's Dylan,
and he's super Okay. We went to

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this winery, so we had a
blast at upside and it was like a

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big hill so you could look out
and see a beautiful view and sipped wine

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and had an amazing time. So
I texted him to thank him about the

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date, you know, and he
didn't reply at all. And it's been

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days and days and days, and
I'm just really confused as to why you

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would just ghost me because we had
a great time, and okay, when

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you were at the winery, Oh, Walmart would ask you this, and

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I'm going to ask it. Walmart, You're gonna ask who did you drink

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too much? Did you get drunk
on wine? I can see Jeff,

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he's looking at me. No,
I remember everything, so I don't think.

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So I was gonna ask did you
hook up in the parking lot?

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That's what I was going to ask. No, No, we didn't know.

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But it was a good date.
You felt a connection and it wasn't.

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There was no awkward moments like you
really thought you guys made a connection

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and you would hear from him.
Yeah. Yeah, we had a great

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conversation and like you know, had
a great time. That's a little strange.

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I mean, I think a winery
is a great date. You show

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up, you look, you know, you're sitting outside, you're sipping wine.

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Let's since you reach out to him
and you're getting completely ghosted. We're

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gonna give him a call, obviously, you know what second date update is

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about. We'll call him and we'll
ask him about the date, and you're

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going to be listening in and at
any point if you want to talk to

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him, you can, but we're
going to get the answers. If you're

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ready, we'll do it. All
right, Let's let's see what happened.

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I feel like this is going to
be a connection. I feel like he

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just hasn't called her back yet.
I mean, she sounds really nice.

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It sounds like the date went well. Yeah, probably allergies or something like

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that. Hello. Hello, is
Dylan there. Yes, this is Dylan.

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Hey Dylan, it is Courtney.
Hello, Dylan. This is Walmart

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Jeff. Good morning, Dylan.
This is Savannah. Oh my gosh.

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We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the air, Dylan.

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Morning, all right, great to
be here. Good morning, Um,

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Dylan, listen, you're on Kiss
ninety five seven this morning because we do

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something called second date update. That's
when you go on a first date,

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you have a great time, but
you get ghosted and you want to know

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why. So that's how we're calling
you this morning. Dylan. Oh okay,

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all right. So then I'm just
gonna be honest, and I want

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you to be honest too. Come
right out and say it. Cat called

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us. You took her to a
winery. She had a great time,

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fabulous date. She said. She
reached out to you and thank you for

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the date, but she's getting ghosted. Why are you ghosting? Cat?

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Tell me about the date. Well, I mean the date was really good,

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Um, but you know, she
just isn't my type. Whoa,

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whoa, whoa whoa. Okay,
so the date at the winery was really

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good, but she's well you did
you? How was she not your type?

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Yeah? Define not your type?
Define type? Well, I mean

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I knew before the date that she
had a couple of tattoos, which you

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know isn't really my thing. But
when she showed up to the winery,

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she was wearing a sundress and I
could see that she had a full sleeve

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like everywhere, all the way up
to her armpit. And I'm just,

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you know, tattoos everywhere. I'm
just not really attracted to that. Okay,

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So you're telling me the date was
great, but you can't get past

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the fact that she had a few
tattoos on her arm. Yeah. I

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mean it's just not something that you
know, my family, you know,

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was really into. My mom never
let me have tattoos, And it's just

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not the kind of girl I'm looking
for. Whoa. Okay, all right,

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can I just bring at in Cat? Hi? Yeah, I'm really

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surprised. I really enjoyed the date. So I'm just like, I can't

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believe it comes down to the tattoos, Like that's crazy to me, but

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like I don't know, it just
sounds like to me like you're superspicial when

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it comes to looks, and you
know, I don't want that anyway.

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I don't want someone just you know, judging me be based on who I

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look. But you know, my
tattoos mean it, you know, different

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things, and they're important to me, and it's like artwork, you know,

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on your body. So all right, so I'm all about making solutions

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when it comes to these problems and
stuff like that. Kat, what if

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you put on like a turtleneck in
long sleeved Jilan if she did that,

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would you like to go on another
date with her? I don't think so.

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I mean, listen, Kat,
I think you're really pretty, and

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you know, it's really just a
preference thing, you know. I just

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I don't really like tattoos, and
you know, I think there's someone out

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there for you, and you're you're
a beautiful girl. It's just it's just

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not my thing. Okay, Um, well yeah, okay, Kat,

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it's it's you know, it's important
for you to be yourself. You love

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your tattoos, show them off.
That's part of you, that's your you

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know, that's you. I think
you'd be better off anyway, not going

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on a second day. That's just
me. I mean, I understand your

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preference, Dylan. You sound like
a nice guy. But yeah, Kat,

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you want to be yourself. You
want to wear that sun dress and

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show off your tattoos. Yeah,
yeah, And I mean, Kat,

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if you want to send some pictures
of yourself and a sun dress to me,

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I'll let you know how the Tattoo's
book. Okay, Okay, don't

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say okay, Kat, Kat,
you deserve so much better than all of

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this. Go find yourself a really
nice guy. Yes please, yeah.

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Run. Usually we offer a second
day and I pick up the tab.

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I'm not even gonna offer because I
feel like it's just like too far out.

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It's not Dylan's preference, and I
really can't. I want you to

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express yourself and be yourself. So
you got your answers, and I appreciate

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both of you being so honest to
being on second a update. Yeah,

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thank you guys so much. This
helps a lot. And Dylan it was

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nice meeting you. Nice meeting you
too. I wish you the best.

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Thanks everyone,