Ooh ah, we're going to Oh we're going to avon this morning. You
guys nice, you can make a love connection. I think James is on
the Lawni's getting ghosted after first date. Good morning, James, Hey,
good morning, Hey, welcome to the show. Welcome to second date update.
Obviously you know what we're all about. Yes, yeah, we're gonna
try and get some answers because I know you went on a great first date
and I need you to tell us about it before we can find out why
you're getting ghosted. Tell us about this first date. Sure, Well,
like you said, I thought it was great. It was with a girl
named Samantha, and I planned a nice night. We went to a fancy
Italian restaurant and you know, we had great conversations throughout the night, and
you know, the whole thing went great, you know, better than I
even thought it would. And basically since then, I've kind of been ghosted.
So you have no idea. So you felt a connection? Did you
feel like she felt a connection for you two? Like it was mutual?
Okay, yeah, James, don't take this the wrong way. I know
you Samantha's and they're both high maintenance. So this actually might be a good
thing for you with her ghosting you because you don't want you don't want to
be with like a high maintenance woman. Why would she be high maintenance?
What makes you think she's highmaien? Her name is Samantha. I have one
friend named Samantha who's high maintenance, and then the other Samantha I know from
Sex and the City. That girl seems like she's high maidenance got am I
right? James? No, you're not right, James. Did you get
the feeling that she was high maintenance at all? No? I appreciate that,
but no, I did not get that vibe whatsoever. Okay, excellent,
And so you've reached out to her and there's like you're getting ghosted.
Yeah, I mean there was a little bit of contact like right after,
like just short and brief, but like as far as like trying to set
up a second date. Since then, yeah, I know, it's just
kind of been nothing. Okay, that's weird. And listen, is this
we're gonna do, James, you know, second date update. You're gonna
be on hold, You're gonna be listening, and we're gonna call Samantha your
date. We're gonna ask her about the date, and I'm just gonna come
right down and say, why are you ghosting them? What's happening? And
we're gonna ask her what the heck has happened. Hopefully we can it's a
misunderstanding, and we can make a second date for you, make that connection.
Okay, Okay, awesome, appreciate it, all right, James,
hang tight, we're gonna call his date Samantha. We'll do that next all
right, we're back. Oh my gosh, we're an avon this morning.
Second date update. James is on the line getting ready to call his date
Samantha. Basically, James, you took her to a nice restaurant for a
first date. You said you felt a connection. Conversation was great, you
had a little bit of communication after the date, but as far as setting
up a second date, she's kind of ghosting you, right, So bizarre.
That's so bizarre because you have a little bit of communication, but then
when it came to the second date, she's like not interested. So hold
on, James, we're gonna call Samantha. You're gonna be listening and feel
free to jump in whenever you want. Okay, Okay, thanks for Okay,
all right, I'm actually now I'm craving really nice food at a nice
restaurant and a dirty Martini. You want to go, Savannah? Yeah?
Can we go get lunch? Are you craving the food or the dirty Martine?
Because I think it's the dirty Martine? Shut up? Both happy tried.
January? Hello, yay me Hi Samantha. H Yeah, Hi,
Samantha, it's Coordinay. Hey, Sam, it's Walmart Jeff. Hey,
what's up at Savannah? We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. I
have to let you know you're on the radio this morning. Okay, Okay,
Well then I'll just fill you in. You're on the radio because we
do something called second Date Update. Hopefully you've heard of it. If not,
that's when somebody calls us if they got ghosted after a first date,
like maybe they're feeling a connection and they want to go on a second date
but they're not getting a response and they want to know why they call us,
And so you're on second Date Update because James called us. Okay,
remember your Okay, So then let me tell you what he said. Okay,
so obviously James told us it was a great first date. You guys
went out to a nice romantic restaurant. You had a great meal. But
he also said the conversation was great. He felt like there was some flirting
going on and there was like a little bit of a connection. He also
said that like after the date, you might have had a little bit of
conversation, like he reached out to you and there was a little bit of
conversation. But when it came to the second date, you know topic,
you've been completely ghosting him for a second date. So how was this date
for you? What is going on? Yeah, well, I mean I
would say the date was mostly good. Like he suggested we go to this
like really nice restaurant, and it's super easy to talk to, Like the
conversation flowed. But then when like the check came, he said we should
split it. And the only reason like that kind of threw me off was
because as we were eating, he was like, order whatever you want,
it's like a date. And I ordered a salad and a drink, and
he like ordered the lobster and was pounding three drinks. And so I don't
know, I just don't really want to be dating like somebody who's cheap,
you know, Like so he asked me out, and I don't know the
fact that he kept saying to you know, to me. When you go
out on a date and the guy says, I want you to order whatever
you want. This is a date, Please get the lobster, get several
drinks, and you don't he does, and then he wants you to pay
for his meal. It's that rubs me the wrong way to that's like so
rude. Wait because now you're paying frist date. Right at that point,
I'd rather just pay for my own meal, right, yeah, I hit
up market grill. Samantha. Oh gosh, I dangs. Hello. So
first of all, I just want to completely apologize because what she's saying is
one hundred percent accurate. But I promise you I wasn't trying to be cheap.
It's just I don't know, it was kind of weird, like I
don't want to be like I don't know, some people get offended if you
try to pay the bill or like just nowadays, like you pull out the
chair, Like I don't know, it's just kind of weird and like even
like splitting the bill, like the you know, the surfer came over and
asked, you know, if it was one check or two, And you
know, I said two. I didn't mean like, you're totally right,
you only ordered a couple of things, like I should you shouldn't have had
to pay for half the bill. That's just how they did it. But
by that point everything was so awkward, so I should have spoke up or
whatever. But yeah, no, I swear I wasn't trying to be cheap
or anything like that. I was just you know, I don't know.
I'm sorry about that. So Samantha, do you understand what you're saying?
Okay, so you accept as you accept his apology, and basically, James,
what you're saying is you just feel like, you know, you didn't
know what to do, like do you pull out the chair and maybe she'll
get offended you open the door? Or do you pay them? I guess
it can get confusing. Yeah, yeah, I mean I like, as
he's explaining it, like I understand a little. Yeah. I mean I
really did enjoy like chatting and stuff with you, James, and like,
yeah, just like that, the end part of the date was like oh
yeah, okay, all right, listen, we obviously all have different thoughts
on this. This is what I think we need to do. Samantha and
James, we want you to go on a second date because I think that
you both said the you know, even Samantha said the beginning of the day,
it was great. There was a good connection, great conversation. I
want you to go on a second date, and we will pick up the
tab Go wherever you want, do whatever you want. But let's not make
it like around like a meal where you split the bill. I'm let's do
I don't know, ice skate, go for a hike, do something that
doesn't involve like bringing money into it. Let's see how it goes. What
do you guys think? Well, that sounds great to me. If Samantha's
up for it, I mean yeah, I mean you went to all this
trouble to get me on a second date, so let's try it. Yes,
yes, yes, he did, Samantha. All right, then that's
that's what we're gonna do. You guys are going on a second date.
We'll pick up the tab. If you end up doing something that doesn't cost
money and then you go to like lunch or something, we're going to pick
up the tabs. So don't even let it stress you out. Take money
out of the equation. Let's see if there's a match. Okay, okay,
okay awesome, Thank you so much.