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Ooh ah, we're going to Oh
we're going to avon this morning. You

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guys nice, you can make a
love connection. I think James is on

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the Lawni's getting ghosted after first date. Good morning, James, Hey,

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good morning, Hey, welcome to
the show. Welcome to second date update.

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Obviously you know what we're all about. Yes, yeah, we're gonna

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try and get some answers because I
know you went on a great first date

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and I need you to tell us
about it before we can find out why

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you're getting ghosted. Tell us about
this first date. Sure, Well,

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like you said, I thought it
was great. It was with a girl

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named Samantha, and I planned a
nice night. We went to a fancy

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Italian restaurant and you know, we
had great conversations throughout the night, and

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you know, the whole thing went
great, you know, better than I

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even thought it would. And basically
since then, I've kind of been ghosted.

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So you have no idea. So
you felt a connection? Did you

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feel like she felt a connection for
you two? Like it was mutual?

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Okay, yeah, James, don't
take this the wrong way. I know

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you Samantha's and they're both high maintenance. So this actually might be a good

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thing for you with her ghosting you
because you don't want you don't want to

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be with like a high maintenance woman. Why would she be high maintenance?

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What makes you think she's highmaien?
Her name is Samantha. I have one

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friend named Samantha who's high maintenance,
and then the other Samantha I know from

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Sex and the City. That girl
seems like she's high maidenance got am I

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right? James? No, you're
not right, James. Did you get

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the feeling that she was high maintenance
at all? No? I appreciate that,

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but no, I did not get
that vibe whatsoever. Okay, excellent,

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And so you've reached out to her
and there's like you're getting ghosted.

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Yeah, I mean there was a
little bit of contact like right after,

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like just short and brief, but
like as far as like trying to set

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up a second date. Since then, yeah, I know, it's just

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kind of been nothing. Okay,
that's weird. And listen, is this

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we're gonna do, James, you
know, second date update. You're gonna

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be on hold, You're gonna be
listening, and we're gonna call Samantha your

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date. We're gonna ask her about
the date, and I'm just gonna come

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right down and say, why are
you ghosting them? What's happening? And

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we're gonna ask her what the heck
has happened. Hopefully we can it's a

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misunderstanding, and we can make a
second date for you, make that connection.

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Okay, Okay, awesome, appreciate
it, all right, James,

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hang tight, we're gonna call his
date Samantha. We'll do that next all

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right, we're back. Oh my
gosh, we're an avon this morning.

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Second date update. James is on
the line getting ready to call his date

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Samantha. Basically, James, you
took her to a nice restaurant for a

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first date. You said you felt
a connection. Conversation was great, you

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had a little bit of communication after
the date, but as far as setting

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up a second date, she's kind
of ghosting you, right, So bizarre.

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That's so bizarre because you have a
little bit of communication, but then

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when it came to the second date, she's like not interested. So hold

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on, James, we're gonna call
Samantha. You're gonna be listening and feel

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free to jump in whenever you want. Okay, Okay, thanks for Okay,

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all right, I'm actually now I'm
craving really nice food at a nice

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restaurant and a dirty Martini. You
want to go, Savannah? Yeah?

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Can we go get lunch? Are
you craving the food or the dirty Martine?

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Because I think it's the dirty Martine? Shut up? Both happy tried.

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January? Hello, yay me Hi
Samantha. H Yeah, Hi,

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Samantha, it's Coordinay. Hey,
Sam, it's Walmart Jeff. Hey,

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what's up at Savannah? We're calling
from Kiss ninety five to seven. I

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have to let you know you're on
the radio this morning. Okay, Okay,

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Well then I'll just fill you in. You're on the radio because we

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do something called second Date Update.
Hopefully you've heard of it. If not,

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that's when somebody calls us if they
got ghosted after a first date,

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like maybe they're feeling a connection and
they want to go on a second date

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but they're not getting a response and
they want to know why they call us,

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And so you're on second Date Update
because James called us. Okay,

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remember your Okay, So then let
me tell you what he said. Okay,

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so obviously James told us it was
a great first date. You guys

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went out to a nice romantic restaurant. You had a great meal. But

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he also said the conversation was great. He felt like there was some flirting

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going on and there was like a
little bit of a connection. He also

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said that like after the date,
you might have had a little bit of

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conversation, like he reached out to
you and there was a little bit of

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conversation. But when it came to
the second date, you know topic,

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you've been completely ghosting him for a
second date. So how was this date

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for you? What is going on? Yeah, well, I mean I

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would say the date was mostly good. Like he suggested we go to this

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like really nice restaurant, and it's
super easy to talk to, Like the

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conversation flowed. But then when like
the check came, he said we should

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split it. And the only reason
like that kind of threw me off was

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because as we were eating, he
was like, order whatever you want,

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it's like a date. And I
ordered a salad and a drink, and

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he like ordered the lobster and was
pounding three drinks. And so I don't

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know, I just don't really want
to be dating like somebody who's cheap,

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you know, Like so he asked
me out, and I don't know the

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fact that he kept saying to you
know, to me. When you go

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out on a date and the guy
says, I want you to order whatever

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you want. This is a date, Please get the lobster, get several

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drinks, and you don't he does, and then he wants you to pay

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for his meal. It's that rubs
me the wrong way to that's like so

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rude. Wait because now you're paying
frist date. Right at that point,

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I'd rather just pay for my own
meal, right, yeah, I hit

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up market grill. Samantha. Oh
gosh, I dangs. Hello. So

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first of all, I just want
to completely apologize because what she's saying is

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one hundred percent accurate. But I
promise you I wasn't trying to be cheap.

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It's just I don't know, it
was kind of weird, like I

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don't want to be like I don't
know, some people get offended if you

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try to pay the bill or like
just nowadays, like you pull out the

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chair, Like I don't know,
it's just kind of weird and like even

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like splitting the bill, like the
you know, the surfer came over and

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asked, you know, if it
was one check or two, And you

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know, I said two. I
didn't mean like, you're totally right,

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you only ordered a couple of things, like I should you shouldn't have had

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to pay for half the bill.
That's just how they did it. But

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by that point everything was so awkward, so I should have spoke up or

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whatever. But yeah, no,
I swear I wasn't trying to be cheap

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or anything like that. I was
just you know, I don't know.

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I'm sorry about that. So Samantha, do you understand what you're saying?

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Okay, so you accept as you
accept his apology, and basically, James,

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what you're saying is you just feel
like, you know, you didn't

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know what to do, like do
you pull out the chair and maybe she'll

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get offended you open the door?
Or do you pay them? I guess

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it can get confusing. Yeah,
yeah, I mean I like, as

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he's explaining it, like I understand
a little. Yeah. I mean I

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really did enjoy like chatting and stuff
with you, James, and like,

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yeah, just like that, the
end part of the date was like oh

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yeah, okay, all right,
listen, we obviously all have different thoughts

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on this. This is what I
think we need to do. Samantha and

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James, we want you to go
on a second date because I think that

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you both said the you know,
even Samantha said the beginning of the day,

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it was great. There was a
good connection, great conversation. I

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want you to go on a second
date, and we will pick up the

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tab Go wherever you want, do
whatever you want. But let's not make

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it like around like a meal where
you split the bill. I'm let's do

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I don't know, ice skate,
go for a hike, do something that

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doesn't involve like bringing money into it. Let's see how it goes. What

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do you guys think? Well,
that sounds great to me. If Samantha's

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up for it, I mean yeah, I mean you went to all this

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trouble to get me on a second
date, so let's try it. Yes,

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yes, yes, he did,
Samantha. All right, then that's

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that's what we're gonna do. You
guys are going on a second date.

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We'll pick up the tab. If
you end up doing something that doesn't cost

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money and then you go to like
lunch or something, we're going to pick

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up the tabs. So don't even
let it stress you out. Take money

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out of the equation. Let's see
if there's a match. Okay, okay,

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okay awesome, Thank you so much.