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Second date update. We got Jesse
on the phone after he was ghosted on

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by Amanda Ck and Carmen. He's
being ninety five. So you went on

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a date with Amanda, you had
a good time talk to us. Yeah,

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so I'm pretty concerned after my date
with this chick, Amanda, I

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met on tender no so he went
on on drinks and we were quicking and

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we quick so much that she actually
went to my home an apartment that night

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and did some adult stuff, you
know what. But then right after she

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wanted to leave, And I just
want to know, was it just a

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quick hook up or is this something
you know to pursue after you know what?

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I'm saying, maybe she was looking
for something more. I don't know.

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I'm just confused about the entire situation
because I haven't heard from her.

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And before our first date, we
were just talking like every day for like

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two weeks. Oh so before this
there was a different type of communication,

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right like like before you have that
date, before you hook up with somebody,

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it's like a constant conversation, and
then after going to your place,

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all of a sudden changed, Yea, it disappeared. That's weird. Yeah,

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that definitely is giving off. Something
went wrong, right, something definitely

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went wrong, because you know,
prior to the date, there's a lot

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of energy, a lot of anticipation, a lot of back and forth,

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a lot of flirting. I mean, to the point where they ended up

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in his house, right, went
back to his place. Yeah, doing

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what he said, adults stuff.
Yeah. So with that being said,

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y'all did adult stuff and then she
kind of just tapped it and left.

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Yeah. So do you do you
remember anything that happens specifically during the adult

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stuff, like did she in a
phone call or anything like that should make

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a weird face? Yeah, like
something. It was all good, That's

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what I thought. So you know, he's like, Na, she was

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making facess a good way, you
know what's right? All right? All

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right, right about, Yeah,
we gotta get a Manda on the phone.

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We're gonna talk to her and see
what she has to say about going

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on that first date with you,
and we're gonna see if we can make

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a second date happen. Okay,
what's Amanda gonna say? We're gonna find

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out next Ck and Carmen be ninety
five second date update. We tracked her

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down. We got a mand on
the phone, right now. Second date

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update. Ck and Carmen got to
figure out why my man got ghosted on

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see why Amanda left him high and
dry. Hello, good morning? Is

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this Amanda? It is hey Amanda. How's everything going? It's going well?

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How about you doing all right?
Doing all right well? As Ck

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and Carmen from B ninety five Amanda, And we're calling because we do this

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thing called a second date update.
Do you have any idea of who we

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might well, you know, before
we do that, do we have your

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permission to continue this phone conversation on
the radio and use your voice yet?

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Okay? So do you have any
idea of who we may be calling about?

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I think, but I do think
I have an idea. Yes,

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okay, who would that be?
Oh? Because he would call the radio

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station of course? Is it Jesse? Yes? Okay, Now tell me

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how that date went. Okay,
so listen, it was going well,

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like you know, we we just
stept from you know, online and stuff

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like that, and we have been
talking for like a couple of weeks,

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like every day. I like to
vibe, and so it was going super

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well. So of course we go
out, we're having drinks and stuff like

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that. So you know, it's
cub or flirting and you know, and

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so we go back to a sleep
and you know, we get it to

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it. You know, it was
trash hey and you like totally fell asleep.

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I like it was scared for my
life. I thought he had died

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or something or like, you know, he was like very unresponsive, like

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left. I just like got out
of there as soon as possible. And

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I mean it was terrible because he
was like he had drank mebe too much,

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because for one, everything wasn't happening
like it should haven't gotten or like

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he thought he was putting it down. Yeah, and he wasn't, and

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things didn't turn out in full effects, if you know what I'm saying right

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right, it was a Lomaller disappointment
something there's like alright, alright, alright,

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alright, alright, let's go ahead
and stop. I mean, I

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just can't get past the word trashy. Jesse, we've stopped her from talking.

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What do you got to say?
Yeah, First of all, I

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was a little drunk that night,
so I was kind of sweet at times.

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So I wasn't operating in full half
staff at that's half staff. Uh

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huh, listen, totally passed out. We didn't if you don't know,

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we didn't even it didn't even finish
finished, because you like kind of passed

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out. I mean again, you
know I was you know again, we

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were I was drinking a lot.
We were drinking, we were having fun.

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I didn't know it was gonna go
that way, you know what I'm

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saying. So if I knew,
I'd been more prepared, you know what

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I'm saying. And then you,
but you went back to your place,

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and you you also made it seem
like you was putting it down. I

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mean he said that she was making
those faces, yeah, of confusion faces

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confusion. No, I mean he
thought he was. He was. He

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was hurting. He's really hard.
Just gosh, he was throwing a lot

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of bobs. But he wasn't hit
no back, you know, Like,

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you know, I'm gonna give me
the benefit of the doubt though, because

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I feel like, what is the
benefit of doubt? Because he was rinking

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too much? Yeah, you like, man, you may have good if

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you didn't drink so much. Don't
that happen? Seek man? I mean,

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you know, if you're drinking that
much, you shouldn't do it.

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Yeah, true, true, But
you shouldn't even been thinking like, oh

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man, I got this. If
you're that drunk where you passed out,

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she said, my man passed out. She thought he was dead. Yeah,

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okay, that's true. But let's
be honest. Okay, you ever

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been drunk and you just thought you
could rule the world, still think you

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could do a little something. That's
that's what was happening to him. So,

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Amanda, what do you got to
say? Uh, you know,

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you gotta everybody got him, you
know what I mean? Yeah, and

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so I think you just I think
that was the case, learned his limit.

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But you know now I think it's
a little awkward. So that so

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was a turn off to you obviously, and now you're not even thinking about

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a second day. I mean the
fact that you kind of went in my

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own him just left him hanging,
Yeah, literally left him hanging. Literally,

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Well okay, everybody was left hanging
that nice there she was. She

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was like, come on, man, yeah, see, so now you

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don't understand where she's coming from.
Sorry, Jesse, you know what,

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I ain't trying to hear all this. Man, I'm out. You know,

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it's just ridiculous, it is.
You know, you gotta make sure

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you can turn your alcohol though,
because that that can't happen. I mean,

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it's a known fact for men.
I'm just replaying the conversation in my

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mind. The word trash, yeah, I mean that, the phrase half

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staffed. Yeah, um, I
mean yeah, this is of confusion.

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Listen, Jesse's trying to get off
the line so he can avoid this conversation

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that you're happy with him right now. I feel bad for Jesse, But

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man, Amanda did not hold back. I mean, hey, she wasn't

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the one that called us though,
true truth. I feel bad for you,

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girl, because I know, I
know what that's like. What is

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it like when you sitting there,
left hanging? Okay you have especially when

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it's like leading into it. Oh
you wait till I see you girl.

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I had such high hopes. I
mean the conversation. Yeah, well we

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were talking at trash. You left
that man with blue balls, okay,

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the couple lash shots did a man, and you know, we should have

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maybe not went there, should have
left the mystery. Then on top of

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that, she wasn't at home,
so she couldn't even go into her drawer.

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But you know what, what about
this? What about this? What

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about this? I mean I know
that Jesse's a little mad right now,

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that's why he's so quiet. But
I mean, let's say you guys have

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one more date, a little less
drinking because you were connecting enough where you

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got to the confusion face. Yeah, your energy is matched before this,

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right, So I mean, Amanda, I mean, you know what about

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one more try? Hey listen,
I tell you, guys, I do

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think we had a lot of cool
things in coming, and I was enjoying

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his company. So maybe we could
slow it down a little bit, take

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our time, and then you know, I'll go out with you again,

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Jesse if you were doing out like
this. But I mean, you put

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me on the spot by called that's
true. So Jesse, now you gotta

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make it up for yourself. Come
on, Jesse, get back into batter's

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box. Brother. I mean,
I mean, I mean, after all

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this slander, I don't know,
man, Jesse, you could correct the

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slander, is my point. Yeah, you have the opportunity ear back and

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come correct that. Right, there
is a challenge. Come on, she

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said, come back and come correct
Jesse. I mean, because we've already

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done it. So I mean,
you know, are you are you ready

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to come back and come correct?
I mean you know, I thought we

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had a good time, but then
she's coming on the radio making fun of

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me. Jesse, we called her, Okay, she didn't call us radios

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on me? I know. I
mean, I'm saying, like, all

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I'm saying is like, what you
what did you think? For the reason

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he's intimidated, especially because he's like, damn, I gotta go harder on

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the second round, and then if
I disappoint her again, then I got

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no excuse the it won't be a
third date. That's true. All I'm

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saying is I'm not feeling it.
I'm not feeling it. I'm sorry,

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I'm not feeling it. Bro dam
Now you don't even know I'm laughing,

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but this is hilarious to me.
All right, Well, obviously there will

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not be a second date. I
mean, if I'm not mistaken. This

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is why I'm confused. Jesse called
us because he wanted to see a mandate

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again and figure out what was going
on. Next thing, you know,

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a man is like, look,
I'll let you go ahead and get round

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two in. You just gotta come
correct, and then Jesse is backing down.

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Yeah, so we did our job. We did. Thank you.

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I appreciate chilling. He's not gonna
have a good rest. Believe me,

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A lot of people are like,
let me get a man the number,

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Yeah, let me go, Hey, single aminga real Hey, thank you

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guys. We appreciate you. Guys. Come full, come full. STA's

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not playing around, playing with y'all
talking about I came to bring the pain.

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Hey, listen, she was let
down. I feel her and I

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love her energy for that too.
Hey, thank you guys both for coming

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on the second date update. Thank
you just as like man as mad as

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well. Hella quiet, not even
a goodbye or nothing. He called us

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too. There you go, man. Second Date updates, CK and Carmen

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be ninety five