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I'm looking at an email to start
that says this email is going to blow

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your mind. Now that is a
strong statement, so let's see what happens.

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I have not pre read it.
Are you ready? Yeah? Okay,

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this story's about to blow your mind. You guys know how much I

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love and adore you all one million
and one Thanks for being the best radio

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station on planet Earth. Well that
is very kind. Thank you after you

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read the story. My question is
am I wrong the way I reacted?

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Here we go. I recently reconnected
with an old high school friend. I

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was homecoming king, she was queen. Aside from this, we were still

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great friends prior to being crown our
senior year. Our friendship started fifth grade.

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We are now almost thirty. She
came over a few weeks ago after

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we ran into each other at a
concert. We talked for over six hours

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and that's all that happened. Fast
forward two weeks. We planned a very

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casual date. We planned to go
to the Dead End Hey Ride in Wyoming,

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Minnesota. Unfortunately, because of schedule
we had, we just rescheduled the

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date. However, that night,
she was driving home from the city and

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texted me long story short. She
asked if I had feelings for her,

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because of course we're both getting the
vibe. I said, one thousand percent.

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I have feelings for you, and
I have since high school. I

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always had a mini crush on her, but I never acted on it.

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She came over, we talked about
our feelings toward each other, and that

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led to a fifty shades of gray
evening, you know what I mean.

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We happily did the nasty and it
was great. About five days after it

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happened, she was messaging me about
that night. She was saying things like

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that was so amazing. You're officially
my favorite. But this is when everything

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turned. She proceeded to then let
me know she had herpies. She explained

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that she forgot she had it and
that's why she didn't tell me, and

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it's also apparently a type that she
can't pass on because of her medad.

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I was furious, more so because
she didn't give me an option to say

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no to sex with herpes. She
then tried to turn the entire thing on

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me and said she wasn't sorry that
she didn't tell me before. Am I

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wrong for getting infuriated? No,
but at least she told you afterward.

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From what I know about herpes.
I have a friend who has. I

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don't want to get in too much
into it, but they basically, from

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what I know, if you don't
have an active outbreak, your chances of

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passing it on are almost nothing.
So it's kind of like you can't get

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a cold from somebody who doesn't have
a cold. You can't get chicken pox

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from somebody who doesn't have chicken pox, even though the chicken pox virus still

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lives in your body somewhere. I
think with herpes, she should have told

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you, but I think that she
was going on the fact that she didn't

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have an outbreak at the time.
She really wanted to get it on,

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and I wouldn't worry about you getting
it. Well. He mentioned in there

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that it's not the kind that you
can pass on, but I don't know

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that that's such a thing. I
don't know that's such a thing either.

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Yeah, right, you can,
Like Dave already said, you don't pass

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it on if you're not having an
outbreak. Yes, it's just like dormant

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in your body, but it's still
there. Yeah, I didn't know there

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was a medication that you can keep
you from passing it on, but I

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would say, should it ruin your
relationship? Should it ruin what seems to

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be wonderful? I would say absolutely
not. I would say at least she

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told you now, So going forward, if you don't have herpes now,

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you at least have the information whether
you decide to, you know, have

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protected sex or don't do it during
an outbreak. I know several people with

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herpes, and when they first found
out, they were devastated, like,

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oh my god, I marked for
life, nobody will ever want me.

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But then you bring it up with
somebody and they go, well, is

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it really worth giving up a whole
relationship for Yeah? I mean, I

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know he said he was thirty,
so he's a little bit younger, because

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I know someone who's a little bit
older who has it. And then I

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also know someone who's my age and
they got it when they were mid twenties,

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and it was an unfortunate situation like
what happened to him, where she

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was not made away ahead of time, and then she got it from this

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person. And so I can understand, like, obviously the frustration, and

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I think you are in the right, yes, to be upset. I

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think that that's a conversation that you
have even if for some reason it is

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not transferable at all, like whatever
kind she has, even though, like

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we said, I don't know that
that's a thing. I don't know that's

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a thing either. That's what really
kind of weirds me out a little bit.

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Yeah. So, but I mean
if you said, you sat and

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talked with her for six hours and
you had a great time. So I

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guess just think hard about what you
would have said to her. Had she

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told you before you had sex,
would you have still maybe put it off

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for a little bit, But if
you continued the relationship and continued to grow,

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would you eventually have forgotten about it
and been like it's okay, like

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we can do this, or would
it have been a hard pass the moment

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she told you prior to having sex. That's a really good question, because

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you know what, it probably the
first time you probably would have said no,

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let's not well, we'll use protection
or something or I need to think

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about this one. I had a
girlfriend one time who we broke up.

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She then was with somebody else and
she got genital warts and she wanted to

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hook up, and I'm like,
sorry, I just don't want I don't

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want genital warts. That's what you
should call this episode. I don't want

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genital warts. You still name all
the episodes right now? I do name

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them. You wanted to be that
out there, I'll do it. Yeah,

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do it? Do it. That'll
be intriguing. Yeah, or it's

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okay. I don't know. I
think that you know they I read something

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somewhere that says it was who had
herpes? And they said, I only

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have herpes like three days out of
the year. And there is definitely medications

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that reduce the severity of the whole
thing and make them less frequent. So

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the reason I know so much about
it is because I dated a girl back

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in when I was in my twenties
and I thought she gave me something.

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I was certain that she gave me
something. And it turned out it was

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a male yeast infection, okay,
and a male yeast infection apparently can mimic

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herpes. And I go to the
doctor and I'm like, I think I

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have herpes, and he looked at
it and he's like, that's not herpes.

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That was I don't know if he
did a test or what, but

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it was a male yeast infection,
which is still call this episode Jenny male

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yeast infection. No, don't awards
or male ye, no, I don't

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want genital awards. Okay, I'm
gonna skip that one because that's not really

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a Minnesota goodbye email, but it
is a good one. Here we go,

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Dave Jenny Drake. As I sit
here at one am feeding the new

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baby, I thought i'd writ and
then tell you a little tidbit. Also

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hoping to my shot for a sticker, So yes, I will take a

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picture. I got stickers to send
out later today. So there we go

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all the way from New Richmond,
Wisconsin. While back I'm in the car

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listen to the podcast with my husband, Dave mentioned how one of his granddaughters

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was named Evelyn. My husband slowly
turns and says, are you kidding me?

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Is that why we're naming our daughter
Evelyn after Dave Ryan's granddaughter. Of

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course, I had to get him
going for a while and said, well,

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duh, how else would Dave Ryan
notice me? He was very convinced

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that was the true reason we named
our kiddo Evelyn. Also just a random

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thought that keeps me up at night. I wonder how many times I've entered

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into a contest and won. But
I rejected the call or email that went

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to my junk mail instead of my
regular email box. I went looking for

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an email and had two thousand emails
alone just in my junk email. Anyway,

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thanks for reading my random email with
love and dart lick, Jenny be

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Thank you. Jenny. Evelyn is
a beautiful name. And it's funny that

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you had him going that you named
it after my granddaughter, named your daughter

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after my granddaughter. That is a
funny bit. And I think that a

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lot of time stuff goes into spam. Like all the time people will say

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I never got my notification on my
concert tickets or my boo bash tickets or

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whatever, and we say check your
spam, and they go, oh,

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there it is, so I get
it spam on this computer right now.

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Are you curious? Much? Spam? Fifteen thousand, seven hundred and seventy

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two. And one of the reasons
we have so many is because let me

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just read some of the spam garbage
that we get. Here is one,

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this is sure funding gives you the
best opportunity to find funding options in the

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nation. Here's another one, how
can I survive the holidays? These are

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all basically we get a ton of
press releases from people who think that we

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do interviews. So we'll get a
press release from here's a PR team that

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says with the holidays right around the
corner. Author explores value of no contact

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holidays with family. Well, whenever
I get junk like that, because we

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don't do interviews most of the time
unless we seek them out. We rarely

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get a proposal for an interview and
go, oh god, we want to

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do that, So I always mark
them as junk, so they go right

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into the junk file. But I
need to delete the junk folder with fifteen

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thousand emails in there, all right, next one. Last week I told

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my kids, ages five and nine, Oh, I took my kids on

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their first plane ride. I don't
typically look forward to flying, waiting in

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line, sitting close to other people, people kicking my seat, et cetera.

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But flying with them gave me a
new appreciation for airplane travel. Listening

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to my youngest squeal with delight is
the plane sped up on the runway,

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screaming to his brother that we were
in the clouds looking down and telling everybody

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he could see cities. It was
really sweet and made me realize that I

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take air travel for granted, it
is actually super cool that we can be

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to the other side of the country
in a few short hours. So thanks,

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right, brothers, shout out for
your great invention. Maybe a good

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follow up question, what do you
think is the greatest invention of all time?

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Have a great day? Staff writer
Rebecca of Burnsville. I remember,

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I so take flying for granted.
Now I get on an airplane and if

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I can fall asleep before we even
leave the gate, I'll fall asleep before

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we even leave the gate. But
I remember the first few times, the

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thrill of them accelerating down the runway
and how freaking exciting it is, how

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fast you're going. You're going one
hundred and fifty miles an hour, and

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you take off and it's miraculous and
it's so cool. But after you've done

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it a few hundred times, you
don't really care anymore. Yeah. I

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don't like flying very much, so
my anxiety does not give me the same

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experience as the emailer and you do. And I definitely can't sleep on planes.

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So I am good. I love
the fact, yes, that we

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have access to airplanes that can get
us across the country. That is amazing,

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But I don't actually like flying at
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I could drive and it could go
as fast as an airplane, I would

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do that. Uh, I get
it. Yeah, No, it's totally.

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And that's the thing about flying and
versus driving is that driving takes.

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If you want to go from here
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in four hours or under four hours. You're gonna drive, it's gonna take

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at least two days, maybe three
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whether you take breaks or whatever.
Greatest invention of all time I'd say probably

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the airplane, the television, the
computer, the iPhone, and the cup

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holder armrest. He's going to say, you better say cup holder. Cup

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holder armrest is one of the greatest
inventions of all time because think about that,

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and you're trying to drive around with
a cup caribou between your knees.

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No, you know that Andrew has
one of those cars. I think I've

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told this before. His console is
like a rectangle. There aren't actual cup

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molded spots, so he does not
have anywhere to put What the fuck,

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Jenny, I know, a piece
of shit car? Is it? Not

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even the piece car? It's like
a twenty eighteen CRV it's not older.

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I think it might be even newer
than that. The fun U s.

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I hate it because we'll go get
coffee or something and I can't. I

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have to hold on to my coffee
the whole time. And if it's the

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winter and it's cold, because I
always get cold coffee, I hate it.

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But it can't sit because he has
this square ructing you. Maybe that's

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what I need to get him for
Christmas, some kind of makeshift cup holding

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in that area, cup hold her
armrest right up there with the airplane and

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air conditioning. I was gonna say, you got to add in air conditioning.

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Air conditioning also very important. Okay, thank you, and your sticker

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is on its way. Next one. In response to the mom looking to

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minimize your wardrobe, she should definitely
look up a capsule wardrobe. She would

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be able to find many checklists and
examples of a minimalist minimalist wardrobe where all

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your outfits are mixing match and you
have basic pieces that look different based on

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how you style them together. Also, an easy website is colorwise dot me.

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Colorwise dot me, and you can
upload a picture of your yourself and

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it analyzes what color season you are
and what colors look best on you.

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It's interesting to see. I feel
like Genny is the summer and Dave is

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a winter. Any Who, I'm
wondering, what is the one thing or

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vacation you guys are saving up for
right now? You guys are the best.

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Thanks for what you do. Staff
writer Sarah in South Saint Paul,

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Jenny, what vacation? I think
I know the answer are you saving up

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for right now? It's the one
I'm taking in a few weeks. We

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are heading to Tahiti and also the
island that's like thirty minutes away that's called

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Molrea, So we're doing both and
I'm saving up because I mean, the

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flight is expensive, the actual going
to visit isn't as expensive as I was

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anticipating because we stay in cheap airbnbs. We're not staying in the nice hotels.

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We're doing airbnbs. And I also
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having to spend money on doing a
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these stingrays and black tip wreathed sharks, and the airbnb we're staying at is

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literally like right in front of that
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So I think I'm saving us enough
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a tour because we're staying at an
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to. And so, yeah,
that's my trip coming up. I don't

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have a big trip coming up.
I would really love to go to Fiji.

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So Fiji is the mountain, right
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Fiji is the island nation in the
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want to stay in one of those
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like hangs out over the water and
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or whatever. Yeah, the overwater
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Yeah, because they offer those in
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want to know how much those costs
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not as nice ones on the islands
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hundred a night. If you're going
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you're looking at least over two grand
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sane wow. Okay, well might
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you, Sarah, appreciate that.
Let's go too. That is a birthday

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wish, so we got to remember
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come back to that one a little
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whatever. Help that helps from Angie, Thank you Angie, it definitely does.

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Next one is a group therapy.
So now we're going to scroll down

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to some older Minnesota goodbyes that we
did not get too heard, you guys

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talking about first dates. My husband
took me to my favorite restaurant. We

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ended up having our rehearsal supper there
too, and then third Row Wild playoff

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tickets. My friend thought he was
super weird because who does that. Those

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tickets are expensive, but he bought
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and thought, eh, if she
says no, I'll my cousin. I

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texted my friend on that date and
says he gets my jokes. I'm going

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to marry him, and I did. My brother took his first date of

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first wife first okay, my brother
took his now wife hiking on their first

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date. She was so scared she
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that check in places and times to
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it was until later it worked out
though we both met on Tender. You

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guys are the best. I wouldn't
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creepy, but I would definitely say
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like, okay, yeah, let's
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would be pretty creeped out for hike, because I mean, yeah, it's

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just as a female, you don't
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situation where you can't have cell service
with a stranger, even though you maybe

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were talking on tender for three months
ahead of time. You know, it's

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a shame that people got to think
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and especially as a woman, you
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you got to like have sell service
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it's kind of like if you go
out kayaking or hiking, you tell somebody

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where you're going and when you're going
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I go motorcycle ride in you're hiking
your camping in Colorado, I'll tell Susan

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and Sam going out for a motorcycle
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hours. And if i'm you know, I always am, but you know,

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it always gives her a little something. Emily writes in she said,

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I just fished Lenny's finished listening to
Today's morning show, and you had the

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drug expert on. This was a
week or so ago. I sent the

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email suggesting that and it was perfect. What was the drug expert? I

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am blanking right now. When did
this person email a week ago? Yesterday?

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Yeah? A drug expert? Okay, well, let's continue and see

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what what she gots to say.
I love the short, factual bullet point

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tips on random ass topics. I
work with people all day long. They

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always comment how I have have a
small knowledge about a lot of things.

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Thank you for doing the bit this
morning on that and having the expert on

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your show. I love how even
a topic is a controversial You guys are

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so damn chill and just do it
anyway. We Oh, I know what

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it was. It was the guy
talking about THC versus CBD. Well,

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okay, I was thinking like more
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So I was very confused. I
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consider marijuana first thing a drug.
I consider it marijuana, but of course

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it is a drug. And that
was a guy last week who was telling

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us the difference between that and that. All right, next one, Minnesota,

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goodbye. On Wednesday's show a week
ago, you mentioned briefly whether or

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not a parent a partner should change
for their significant other. My partner recently

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asked me to look at something on
his groin and asked if it looked normal.

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After pulling over some skin and showing
me the underpart, it absolutely did

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not. It was a cluster of
oblong, fleshy, reddish bumps. I

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immediately thought it was genital warts and
told him to make an appointment. Can

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you believe the term genital warts has
now come up twice in one podcast.

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Oh yeah. Meanwhile, I made
myself an appointment, was seen tested,

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got the results before he even made
an appointment. When he finally made an

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appointment, he finds out they're not
genital warts, thank god, but a

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thing called angio kuratoma of fortis.
Google it. It's harmless and a result

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of blood veins bursting close enough to
the surface of the skin, easily removed,

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like many other skin conditions, including
genital warts, though once you start

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getting them, you tend to keep
getting them. I've got a few of

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those two. They look like little
red blood blisters the size of a a

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sprinkle on the top of a cake
or a cupcake, so about that big

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or maybe as big as your pupil, depending since there's no harm he's choosing

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not to take care of it.
So now I got a partner who has

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something that looks like genital warts,
but isn't. Am I a total brat

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for feeling like this should be taken
care of for me. I take care

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of myself and put a little extra
effort for him. I don't think of

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it as a bother way in on
this for me. Please, he should

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have gone in and had yes out
of curate curiosity, concern, peace of

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mind, and your curiosity concern and
peace of mind. He should have gone

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in and had him looked at.
It was kind of a dick move,

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honestly for him to not do that. I think she's asking though, if

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he should have him taken care of, like removed. Is that what she's

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asking because of like cosmetic reasons and
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Is that what she's asking? Or
maybe I misread her question. Yeah,

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it could go either way. I'm
not sure. Should he get removed for

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you? No, yeah, unless
you really wanted him to. But I

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will say they're small, Yeah they're
not. I can show you one.

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Yeah, I was gonna say,
I'm kind of not really understanding like this

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right here? Oh okay, that
little red dot, Yeah, that's it's

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harmless. It's the size of a
cake sprinkle, which says size of a

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cake sprinkle, almost smaller, but
yeah, pretty much. And I had

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it there for years, and there's
you know, you get a couple more

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of them. I'm not covered with
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it's like you said, if you
get one, chances are you're going to

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get more. So should he get
them removed for you. No, but

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if you really wanted him to,
okay, ask them, Yeah, just

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ask them and see, I think
we're doing the last one here. No,

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I think these are ones we've already
done. So we are kind of

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tapped out then on Minnesota Goodbye emails, so we always love to get yours.

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If you ever send an email to
us and we don't read it,

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it could be anything from I accidentally
deleted it, it might have been too

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long, or it might have been
something we talked about endlessly so we kind

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of skip it, or we might
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I don't know, not right for
the Minnesota Goodbye. Yeah, so if

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you want to send an email to
the Minnesota Goodbye, send those to Ryan's

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show at KDIWB dot com. And
that's it for today. On the Minnesota

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Goodbye titled I Don't Want Genital Warts