At the intersection of our lives with those of others, there is often a
desire to be appreciated and respected by all, but it is possible to like
everyone. Today we will explore this issue from the perspective of stoicism, a
philosophy that, while not seeking universal approval, teaches us how our conduct can
naturally incline others to know the best of us authenticity and coherence. Stoics,
like Marco Aurelio, emphasize the importance of being oneself in a coherent way.
It is not a matter of pleasing everyone, but of acting with integrity and
coherence in all our interactions. Authenticity inspires respect and admiration, even in those
who might not agree with us. Control of epicte emotions reminded us that what
disturbs people is not the facts, but their opinions about them. By maintaining
control over our emotions, we respond to others with serenity and understanding, reducing
conflicts and misunderstandings. A calm and even person is often welcomed in any circle.
The importance of empathy. Practicing empathy by trying to sincerely understand others is
fundamental. This does not always mean agreeing, but striving to see things from
their point of view. Empathy allows us to connect with others more deeply and
respectfully, characteristics that attract the natural sympathy virtue of kindness. Seneca highlighted kindness
as an essential stoic virtue. Being kind doesn' t mean being weak.
It' s a reflection of the inner strength. Kindness disarms, softens roughness
in relationships, and creates an environment in which others feel valued and understood.
Wisdom in communication. The ability to communicate our ideas clearly and respectfully is crucial.
Words have the power to build bridges or build walls. Choosing our words
wisely with consideration and respect for the opinions of others positions us favorably before them,
although stoicism does not teach us to seek the approval of all. If
you offer us tools to be principled people whose behavior naturally generates respect and sympathy,
ultimately everyone likes you. No. No. No, no, it
' s not our target. Our goal is to act properly with virtue and
wisdom, regardless of how we are perceived by others. Let us follow this
path not to gain the admiration of all, but to be faithful to ourselves
and live according to the highest standards of personal integrity. On this journey we
will find not only the respect of others, but something much more valuable,
the peace and the satisfaction of living a virtuous life. This script is designed
to motivate and inspire, providing viewers with a stoic perspective on how to be
well considered by others through virtue and self- control, thus aligning the desire
to be appreciated with ethical and reflective behavior