WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.640 --> 00:00:17.199 Made a decision a face Sonny Sun on idasion n wait's recording. What's up 2 00:00:17.239 --> 00:00:24.519 everybody? Oh my gosh, I'm all disorganized. I'm like the defense attorney. 3 00:00:27.320 --> 00:00:32.000 You're like doctor Bruce and my papers everywhere. I know I missed doctor 4 00:00:32.000 --> 00:00:37.320 Bruce. Am I a perfect podcast host? No? Anybody? Is anybody? 5 00:00:39.359 --> 00:00:43.560 Do? I sometimes just say racist things and call my daughter a psycho? 6 00:00:44.359 --> 00:00:48.200 Yeah? I mean, but who doesn't Who doesn't? Right? Uh? 7 00:00:48.679 --> 00:00:54.439 Wait? Not no? No, wonder she lost? That's crazy. 8 00:00:54.759 --> 00:00:57.320 Guys, In case you didn't know, a peek behind the curtain. You 9 00:00:57.320 --> 00:01:00.280 know, we record these back to back, so we're still hyped up from 10 00:01:00.280 --> 00:01:06.920 Tuesday's episode. From Tuesday Late Afternoons episode, that was fun. Hi, 11 00:01:07.000 --> 00:01:11.319 how's it going good? Yeah, how's your daughter? She's good. We 12 00:01:11.359 --> 00:01:15.200 went to go take her to like her check up yesterday and she did very 13 00:01:15.200 --> 00:01:19.000 well. She wasn't loobbily and everything checked out and she was good. The 14 00:01:19.040 --> 00:01:23.319 doctor's like, yeah, she should be just fine because I told that story 15 00:01:23.359 --> 00:01:26.200 to my sister in law and she was free. She's like, I can't, 16 00:01:26.239 --> 00:01:32.040 I don't want to hear it scared her because we have granddaughter like the 17 00:01:32.079 --> 00:01:34.560 same, she has a granddaughter not me, but yeah, around the same 18 00:01:34.599 --> 00:01:41.079 age, and that's what's freaky scary. Yeah, it's luckily, it's all 19 00:01:41.079 --> 00:01:45.760 good. Now, good, she's back to normal. And yeah, okay, 20 00:01:49.480 --> 00:01:51.719 before we get into it, let me promote a couple of things. 21 00:01:52.040 --> 00:01:57.480 Yeah, yeah, off our YouTube channel, which the Alison Roseen episode is 22 00:01:57.599 --> 00:02:00.760 up on and available now along with all of our social handles at f col 23 00:02:00.840 --> 00:02:06.519 podcast. And I also want to promote Stephanie's appearance on the new podcast I'm 24 00:02:06.519 --> 00:02:09.759 producing, Bonfire Talks with Mark L. Wohlberg. We're trying to build that 25 00:02:09.800 --> 00:02:13.840 one up. You can watch that on YouTube or just download the episode. 26 00:02:14.319 --> 00:02:15.680 We're doing it here out of the studio, so we want to get a 27 00:02:15.680 --> 00:02:20.039 little listenership going from Mark. So if you want to go check out Stephanie 28 00:02:20.039 --> 00:02:23.039 on that podcast and we got deep oh yeah he did. Yeah we went 29 00:02:23.080 --> 00:02:29.280 there really now we did. Wow, that's good. That's great. Yeah, 30 00:02:29.280 --> 00:02:31.280 And we've had a couple of variety of different guests on there. There's 31 00:02:31.400 --> 00:02:36.759 people that work on Temptation Island, like producers, other podcast hosts, Jess 32 00:02:36.800 --> 00:02:38.960 Ambrose from Your Mom and Dad podcast. That's an episode, so yeah, 33 00:02:39.000 --> 00:02:44.800 just go check it out. Nice all right, cool totes let's say hi 34 00:02:44.840 --> 00:02:53.080 to our fabulous special special special listeners. We've got Ashley so chic and do 35 00:02:53.120 --> 00:02:58.560 you want to Hershey bar and Share Bear Hi, Share Bear, and Kelly 36 00:02:58.680 --> 00:03:04.680 La Deep and Amy's of Coops and Katie's rolling on e because she's got a 37 00:03:04.719 --> 00:03:09.439 lot of using her name and not Anna Faris and Aaron and Nikki call your 38 00:03:09.479 --> 00:03:15.680 girls. And Leslie the two Leslie's one's coughing, one's a Costa, you 39 00:03:15.680 --> 00:03:22.080 guys, coughing again because of COVID. But why did we tell her what's 40 00:03:22.080 --> 00:03:27.599 her last name? Uh? Uh Leslie White cough? Oh why is she 41 00:03:27.719 --> 00:03:30.520 coughing? I got it? Yeah, okay yeah, And Jacob's Growley and 42 00:03:30.560 --> 00:03:37.240 Lisa Rita's got a basinette full of Elizabeth Williamson's hon baby and so they're grown 43 00:03:37.319 --> 00:03:40.080 now too, which is like, it's a little embarrassing. Haven't a senior 44 00:03:40.080 --> 00:03:45.360 in high school in a bassinette? But okay, you know we love your 45 00:03:45.439 --> 00:03:49.280 dancing and your red lipstick and Polly, we love your pancakes and your Sup 46 00:03:49.759 --> 00:03:53.639 and Valerie, Bubba Fenwick and Katerina check that, Moler and Gabby and Missy. 47 00:03:53.599 --> 00:03:59.159 You know they're working for the Red Cross. I don't know. Oh 48 00:03:59.199 --> 00:04:08.919 my gosh, Day and we're going out Yep, and Kelly Brandt, Alicia 49 00:04:09.919 --> 00:04:13.000 Day and Sandra it's not easy being green. Stephanie, you're a stinker, 50 00:04:13.080 --> 00:04:17.720 rinker christ to get the strap, Jennifer gets all rights the use, and 51 00:04:17.759 --> 00:04:21.600 Aaron's a dirty Sanchez. Come on now, come on, now, come 52 00:04:21.639 --> 00:04:30.639 on now. So last weekend, okay, a lot of people have pointed 53 00:04:30.639 --> 00:04:34.040 out that even though I say I'm not a go getter, I can be 54 00:04:34.079 --> 00:04:36.959 a go getter. But I just want you to know that it is under 55 00:04:38.040 --> 00:04:42.040 duress. I don't. I'm like an accidental go getter, you know what 56 00:04:42.079 --> 00:04:46.360 I mean, default go getter. And yeah, I don't set out to 57 00:04:46.480 --> 00:04:50.759 go get anything. I set out to like chill and I set out to 58 00:04:50.800 --> 00:04:56.879 just listen to podcasts. But what ends up happening is like I I go, 59 00:04:57.399 --> 00:05:00.240 okay, like I'll do that thing, whatever it is. Well, 60 00:05:00.439 --> 00:05:03.560 you know what this is how I get myself in trouble. I argue about 61 00:05:03.600 --> 00:05:09.480 stuff that's like like this staff breakfast about school. I find myself going, 62 00:05:09.800 --> 00:05:12.839 well, I don't know why i'd be responsible for the whole staff breakfast. 63 00:05:12.839 --> 00:05:15.600 It's too expensive and I don't want to do all that work, and then 64 00:05:15.600 --> 00:05:18.079 they go I say, hey, let's just kind of spread it out on 65 00:05:18.160 --> 00:05:23.079 everybody. And then I get the person who's in charge of everything going well, 66 00:05:23.120 --> 00:05:25.279 I don't have the bandwidth. Why don't you deal with it? And 67 00:05:25.319 --> 00:05:31.240 then I go all right, and then I curse myself and my life and 68 00:05:31.279 --> 00:05:34.519 I complain about it here and I go, why am I in charge of 69 00:05:34.560 --> 00:05:39.360 this whole staff breakfast all the time? See that's what happens when you complain. 70 00:05:39.519 --> 00:05:42.560 Yeah, and then ideal as I've said that, I've talked about this 71 00:05:42.720 --> 00:05:46.519 on Patreon, but then I deal with a bunch of no getters who are 72 00:05:46.560 --> 00:05:48.399 like, oh did I sign up to help bring something to the to the 73 00:05:48.439 --> 00:05:51.399 breakfast? I forgot? And then you're like, uh, I'm sorry, 74 00:05:51.480 --> 00:05:55.879 miss, is no bandwidth? And now I see what you're talking about, 75 00:05:55.920 --> 00:06:00.439 ass And then I yeah, exactly. So so I had a double whammy 76 00:06:00.040 --> 00:06:06.120 last weekend. So well this weekend that just passed, time has slowed to 77 00:06:06.639 --> 00:06:13.399 it's like at a standstill. Yeah. So Friday was the staff breakfast and 78 00:06:13.399 --> 00:06:15.680 this thing, by the way, this thing comes at you faster than like 79 00:06:15.959 --> 00:06:19.079 You're like, I just did the breakfast, how is it already the first 80 00:06:19.120 --> 00:06:23.399 Friday of the month again. Now time sped up, well, it's sped 81 00:06:23.560 --> 00:06:26.920 up, and this month is gonna be worse because February only has twenty eight 82 00:06:26.959 --> 00:06:30.439 fucking days. How dare February do that to me? Next thing, you 83 00:06:30.480 --> 00:06:33.360 know, it's gonna be the first Friday in March. I need a breakfast 84 00:06:33.360 --> 00:06:36.360 once a month, don't. Can't they get their own breakfast? You know 85 00:06:36.399 --> 00:06:42.160 what I'm gonna say. I think the staff does deserve it. Think think 86 00:06:42.240 --> 00:06:45.519 of the jobs that you and I have had where you're like, I barely 87 00:06:45.560 --> 00:06:47.839 work. Think of like temp jobs you've had where like every Friday they bring 88 00:06:47.879 --> 00:06:53.000 in bagels and you come to expect it. You're like, yeah I should, 89 00:06:53.399 --> 00:06:59.360 Yeah I'm And I answered four phone calls today. I deserve I was 90 00:06:59.439 --> 00:07:03.480 gonna say everything bagel with some reduced fat cream cheese. Where's the lock? 91 00:07:03.959 --> 00:07:11.279 I gonna say, the locks? I see the tomatoes, but like the 92 00:07:11.319 --> 00:07:14.839 red onions, But where's the locks? Yeah? I like a little caper 93 00:07:14.920 --> 00:07:21.040 too, same same. If you're gonna bring locks, why would he's an 94 00:07:21.079 --> 00:07:25.839 extra two bucks for a jar? Capers? Yes, bring caper right tight. 95 00:07:25.920 --> 00:07:29.079 So before you know it, I'm a spoiled bitch. It was just 96 00:07:29.160 --> 00:07:31.680 like, wow, I thought we had fried Oh now now you're gonna do 97 00:07:31.680 --> 00:07:36.399 bagels every other week? No. Yeah, So I'm like, I understand 98 00:07:36.680 --> 00:07:41.519 these teachers. They work hard, and also they come to work at an 99 00:07:41.639 --> 00:07:45.120 ungodly hour. I know. I think it's harsh to have to bring my 100 00:07:45.199 --> 00:07:47.560 kids to school at eight thirty. These teachers are there at seven thirty. 101 00:07:47.600 --> 00:07:51.360 I'm like, okay, I can understand once a month you want to have 102 00:07:51.480 --> 00:07:56.240 like a nice breakfast. I did tell you though, that I was having 103 00:07:56.279 --> 00:08:00.240 somebody we were bringing bagels every every month. And then they said like that's 104 00:08:00.240 --> 00:08:01.800 a little too much carbs, which is like, I know, you didn't 105 00:08:01.839 --> 00:08:05.040 tell how I didn't tell you that. Yeah, they I heard they were. 106 00:08:05.160 --> 00:08:09.160 They were saying like, oh, we don't want like all these carbs, 107 00:08:09.399 --> 00:08:16.000 so you know, like let's let's calm down on a Mediterranean was this 108 00:08:16.079 --> 00:08:24.600 below deck? Given them your fucking orders? Like I'm allergic to whitefish, 109 00:08:24.680 --> 00:08:28.600 but I can't like wow, yeah yeah yeah, so they want to beach 110 00:08:28.639 --> 00:08:33.559 barbecue too, right, Yeah, So I'm like, all right, I'll 111 00:08:33.559 --> 00:08:37.559 bring these assholes some like hardboiled eggs, but like it's not get crazy with 112 00:08:37.600 --> 00:08:41.600 the requests exactly. But you know what, all the easier because some of 113 00:08:41.639 --> 00:08:46.159 the things that we bring because even though we're spreading it around, if you 114 00:08:46.200 --> 00:08:52.679 ask somebody to bring coffee the two travelers of coffee from Starbucks is like fifty 115 00:08:52.679 --> 00:08:56.919 bucks. Yeah, so you're already at like, but imagine how much it 116 00:08:58.000 --> 00:09:01.600 cost me when I did it myself. Basically it's like two hundred bucks. 117 00:09:01.840 --> 00:09:07.279 You're spending to get an ice spread for like thirty five people. Anyway, 118 00:09:07.559 --> 00:09:13.600 the point is that Friday, the day came. Now, my kids before 119 00:09:13.759 --> 00:09:16.600 were like, we'll come early. That's kind of fun, like we'll get 120 00:09:16.600 --> 00:09:20.679 there early with you help you set up. But like after a few months 121 00:09:20.679 --> 00:09:24.639 of it, Sadie was like, oh hell yeah. So I had to 122 00:09:24.679 --> 00:09:26.200 ask John. I was like, listen, I have to do the breakfast 123 00:09:26.399 --> 00:09:31.879 Friday morning, but can you take oh because on Fridays my kids don't have 124 00:09:31.879 --> 00:09:35.879 to be at school until nine to twenty. Oh nice, So I'm at 125 00:09:35.879 --> 00:09:41.240 school at eight fifteen. And now even though somebody, so somebody provided the 126 00:09:41.279 --> 00:09:45.039 coffee, but they didn't want to have to go get it, so they 127 00:09:45.240 --> 00:09:48.759 put in the order at Starbucks and I had to stop at Starbucks and get 128 00:09:48.799 --> 00:09:52.360 the coffee. So here's the thing, me being a no getter is suddenly 129 00:09:52.480 --> 00:09:58.000 like coordinating the whole thing, making sure that everybody shows up for their shifts. 130 00:09:58.039 --> 00:10:03.000 And then I'm supposed to also remind the teachers. So I've got a 131 00:10:03.039 --> 00:10:05.399 list of people I have to send out an email and say, hey, 132 00:10:05.919 --> 00:10:11.559 the breakfast is happening tomorrow. But sometimes I space on that part and I 133 00:10:11.600 --> 00:10:16.279 don't send it into like eleven PM. Oh sorry, sorry you're getting this 134 00:10:16.360 --> 00:10:22.559 so late, but like I spaced, but like, sorry, I know 135 00:10:22.759 --> 00:10:28.879 I've changed your breakfast order. Yeah, so anyway, Friday morning. So, 136 00:10:28.679 --> 00:10:33.519 but don't forget And this is maybe this was a Patreon as well, 137 00:10:33.519 --> 00:10:37.519 but don't forget that. I also somehow got volunteered to be the liaison for 138 00:10:37.600 --> 00:10:43.120 our music program, right, I might as well be like the president of 139 00:10:43.159 --> 00:10:46.519 this school at ten. I know you're like the like you should behead a 140 00:10:46.519 --> 00:10:50.879 PTA or whatever. God forbid, No, because like, not enough people 141 00:10:50.240 --> 00:10:54.840 are helping out with these things. Now I've got too much to do, 142 00:10:54.399 --> 00:10:58.519 so I was not enough bandw No, I don't have bandwidth either. This 143 00:10:58.559 --> 00:11:03.600 woman thinks she doesn't have bandwidth, try being me. I don't have the 144 00:11:03.639 --> 00:11:07.320 bandwidth or the willingness or the whatever, the like. I'm not a self 145 00:11:07.360 --> 00:11:11.919 starter, you know. I want to be like more of the follower. 146 00:11:11.360 --> 00:11:15.480 I really should just keep my mouth shut and stop arguing with you about how 147 00:11:15.519 --> 00:11:18.600 they're doing things and just go, well, I'm sure you guys have it 148 00:11:18.639 --> 00:11:20.919 a control, right, But no, I have to go like, well, 149 00:11:20.919 --> 00:11:24.240 what if you started spreading it out? Then I find then okay. 150 00:11:24.440 --> 00:11:30.159 So anyway, I was in charge of the music lab stuff. So when 151 00:11:30.320 --> 00:11:33.639 I was doing the big thing where I had to get all the raffle stuff 152 00:11:33.679 --> 00:11:39.159 together. That happened in December, the teacher from Speech and Debate was like, 153 00:11:39.480 --> 00:11:43.440 hey, could you come judge a speech and debate competition? My god, 154 00:11:43.320 --> 00:11:48.480 and she's so nice. This teacher is like adorable, she's fun she's 155 00:11:48.559 --> 00:11:54.320 funny, she's young. Like so I was like, I mean, and 156 00:11:54.440 --> 00:11:58.559 you look like a prime prime for the picking, like there's somebody that's running 157 00:11:58.600 --> 00:12:03.759 around working hard. Right. She zoned in on you because she made the 158 00:12:03.799 --> 00:12:07.600 mistake of you know how they say if you want something done, ask a 159 00:12:07.639 --> 00:12:11.679 busy person. So she decided that that was like a real thing. And 160 00:12:11.759 --> 00:12:16.240 I'm like, no, but except in the case of me. But I 161 00:12:16.279 --> 00:12:20.279 guess, so I said, I was like on this one, I said, 162 00:12:20.519 --> 00:12:24.200 uh, maybe, but I'm not really sure. And then luckily that 163 00:12:24.320 --> 00:12:28.200 was the last speech and debate tournament. So but then I wasn't feeling that 164 00:12:28.320 --> 00:12:31.639 great and Xander was sick. Xander ended up not going to the speech and 165 00:12:31.679 --> 00:12:35.200 debate competition, and I emailed her a few days before and I was like, 166 00:12:35.720 --> 00:12:37.559 I know, I said, I might be able to do it, 167 00:12:37.600 --> 00:12:41.120 but I'm really not feeling great, and she was like, no problem, 168 00:12:41.159 --> 00:12:45.440 don't worry about it. But the best news cut to this one. The 169 00:12:45.480 --> 00:12:48.000 next speech and debate. A month later, I get this email from this 170 00:12:48.080 --> 00:12:54.120 teacher and she's like, Hey, we really really need judges for this speech 171 00:12:54.159 --> 00:12:58.039 and debate thing. Now I'm feeling guilty because I like blew off the last 172 00:12:58.039 --> 00:13:01.320 one. So I'm like, I'll do it. It is a twelve hour 173 00:13:01.840 --> 00:13:07.440 gig. Oh my god. Yeah. So I set out you have to 174 00:13:07.480 --> 00:13:09.879 get there, You have to get there at eight fifteen in the morning. 175 00:13:09.240 --> 00:13:13.200 You got to watch videos. You have to learn how to judge a speech 176 00:13:13.240 --> 00:13:15.799 and debate. Companies, but you can't do that on your own. They 177 00:13:15.840 --> 00:13:18.080 can't send you the videos. They did, no, they did, but 178 00:13:18.360 --> 00:13:22.159 then they sent they but right, but you have to learn. There's a 179 00:13:22.159 --> 00:13:26.399 whole like it's like trying to work at McDonald's, Like you have to go 180 00:13:26.440 --> 00:13:30.919 to like McDonald's college, like first, yeah, McDonald's university. No, 181 00:13:31.120 --> 00:13:33.919 this is like a whole thing. They send you like all of the different 182 00:13:35.039 --> 00:13:39.399 categories. But here's what they don't tell you. How do you actually judge 183 00:13:39.399 --> 00:13:43.840 them? Like what's the rubric? Like what are you exactly looking for? 184 00:13:43.159 --> 00:13:48.039 It's just like here's what this category is, right, and like yeah, 185 00:13:48.120 --> 00:13:50.759 whatever you think, you know? So what are some what was some of 186 00:13:50.799 --> 00:13:58.600 the categories? Okay? So there's like original oratory, which is you write 187 00:13:58.600 --> 00:14:03.159 a speech and you perform the speech. There's also like I don't know what 188 00:14:03.200 --> 00:14:07.480 it's called, but it's where you read somebody else's speech, you memorize. 189 00:14:09.240 --> 00:14:11.559 There's a lot of memorization. Hnette, you and I would hate it. 190 00:14:11.879 --> 00:14:16.440 Yeah, it's ten minutes. You have ten minutes to do these speeches, 191 00:14:16.440 --> 00:14:20.320 and you have to memorize a ten minute speech and then you have to deliver 192 00:14:20.440 --> 00:14:24.480 it like you're Martin Luther King doing that a dream speech, like you got 193 00:14:24.519 --> 00:14:31.360 to be committed into it. There's also original prose and poetry, right, 194 00:14:31.879 --> 00:14:35.799 so you don't know where you're gonna get though. There's something called storytelling, 195 00:14:35.879 --> 00:14:41.879 which is where they recite a children's story. They kind of like act it 196 00:14:41.919 --> 00:14:45.919 out. Okay. There's a bunch of like cool cowboys to okay. Okay. 197 00:14:46.159 --> 00:14:50.759 So I get there and at first I'm like a little resentful that I 198 00:14:50.799 --> 00:14:52.799 signed up for this because I'm like, oh my god, this is going 199 00:14:52.879 --> 00:14:56.279 to be twelve out Okay. Why can't they break that shit up? They 200 00:14:56.279 --> 00:15:01.840 can't go like we need three people to like if they somebody come from nine 201 00:15:01.879 --> 00:15:05.919 to twelve and somebody come from twelve to two, like why So if they 202 00:15:05.960 --> 00:15:09.360 had gotten enough volunteers, then they could have split it up and cheap people 203 00:15:09.360 --> 00:15:13.360 would do half days. Right. But here's the thing. I was. 204 00:15:13.559 --> 00:15:18.720 I drove Xander there. Xander's in speech and debates, so and it was 205 00:15:18.840 --> 00:15:22.399 far. I had to drive to Valencia for this thing. So by the 206 00:15:22.440 --> 00:15:24.159 time you drive there, I don't know if I'm gonna want to drive home. 207 00:15:24.840 --> 00:15:28.159 I guess I could have done half the day and then come home, 208 00:15:28.240 --> 00:15:31.840 and then somebody else who was could have done the second half and then driven 209 00:15:31.840 --> 00:15:37.720 the kids home. Yeah, but that's John, That's that's true. That's 210 00:15:37.759 --> 00:15:41.639 true. Because John, he would be good. Yeah, he would be 211 00:15:41.720 --> 00:15:46.879 good. But he's like, wow, have a good time. He's not 212 00:15:46.960 --> 00:15:50.200 got no sucker. Right. I'm like, I ended up volunteering to do 213 00:15:50.240 --> 00:15:54.120 this and he's like, wow, okay, twelve, it's gonna be a 214 00:15:54.120 --> 00:15:56.720 long day. And I'm like yeah, So I get there. I get 215 00:15:56.720 --> 00:16:02.440 there at eight fifteen for the judges training. There's a room full of judges. 216 00:16:02.519 --> 00:16:06.960 It's all these different high schools that are part of it. And the 217 00:16:07.039 --> 00:16:08.879 first thing I find out is that we're going to have to have like they're 218 00:16:08.879 --> 00:16:15.360 going to talk to us about the judging now, and it's all this information 219 00:16:15.600 --> 00:16:18.840 like Okay, you might have to help time it. You're going to time 220 00:16:18.840 --> 00:16:22.080 it on your phone. But sometimes the kids want to know, like they 221 00:16:22.120 --> 00:16:26.320 need a warning of it's this much time as left. And I'm like okay, 222 00:16:26.440 --> 00:16:27.960 and then you're going to have to use these hand signals like this is 223 00:16:27.960 --> 00:16:33.320 the hand signal for half or whatever. I'm like, I'm like, you're 224 00:16:33.320 --> 00:16:37.720 already law. Also they're like, okay, hope you brought your laptop. 225 00:16:37.120 --> 00:16:41.600 Well, the instructions that I had just said you need an electronic device, 226 00:16:41.559 --> 00:16:45.399 So I'm taking my phone right, I'm not thinking I'm lugging a lap tap 227 00:16:45.480 --> 00:16:51.519 with me. Also, my laptop is pretty old and the battery doesn't really 228 00:16:51.519 --> 00:16:55.759 work, so I it doesn't work. It doesn't hold a charge right, 229 00:16:55.960 --> 00:16:59.200 like it really holds a charge for like fifteen minutes. So I wouldn't have 230 00:16:59.200 --> 00:17:03.519 even thought to bring my laptop anyway. But now I get there and everyone's 231 00:17:03.559 --> 00:17:07.839 got their laptop. Oh jeez. So a friend of mine happened to be 232 00:17:07.920 --> 00:17:14.599 there, like very coincidentally, one of Sadie's friends from elementary school who was 233 00:17:14.640 --> 00:17:18.079 her good friend for a long time. That mom, those kids go to 234 00:17:18.119 --> 00:17:22.599 different high schools, but that mom was there with her daughter. So I 235 00:17:22.640 --> 00:17:26.200 see her and you're like, oh god, a friendly, friendly person. 236 00:17:26.480 --> 00:17:30.599 And she gives me she's got a kindle with her and she's got her laptop 237 00:17:30.680 --> 00:17:32.559 to do it. But she's like, oh, I brought my kindle to 238 00:17:32.599 --> 00:17:34.440 read. Do you want to use my kindle to And I was like, 239 00:17:34.599 --> 00:17:40.559 yeah, that would be helpful. So then she immediately says, make sure 240 00:17:40.599 --> 00:17:44.599 you put down my daughter as a conflict, like you were not going to 241 00:17:44.640 --> 00:17:48.680 be able to judge my daughter. Okay, I know this family really well, 242 00:17:48.039 --> 00:17:52.200 so I put it down. So then what happens is they call it 243 00:17:52.240 --> 00:17:56.880 pushing you a ballot. So so you were supposed to check your email and 244 00:17:56.920 --> 00:18:00.480 they're like for the first round, they're like, okay, check your email 245 00:18:00.960 --> 00:18:03.519 to see if you got a ballot. So I get a ballot right away 246 00:18:04.240 --> 00:18:08.559 now. Also, I'm also thinking, like I don't need to retain all 247 00:18:08.559 --> 00:18:12.720 this information because there's gonna be a few judges. I'm imagining America's got talent. 248 00:18:14.119 --> 00:18:15.079 You know, there's four judges, and like, I'm not gonna be 249 00:18:15.079 --> 00:18:18.000 the Simon Cowell. I'll be like the nice judge. Yeah right, I've 250 00:18:18.000 --> 00:18:22.480 got this whole thing. Make sure in my mind I'm gonna be her. 251 00:18:22.559 --> 00:18:25.599 Yeah, I'm gonna be like, great, everybody did fantastic. You know, 252 00:18:26.920 --> 00:18:29.799 let somebody else who's been who's done this before, they know how to 253 00:18:29.799 --> 00:18:34.960 give constructive criticism. Well it turns out that you a don't give any criticism 254 00:18:36.119 --> 00:18:40.359 or you don't say anything. You just silently judge them, which I'm pretty 255 00:18:40.359 --> 00:18:45.799 good at rightly judging people. So anyway, uh, and there's only one 256 00:18:45.880 --> 00:18:49.880 judge. So I'm like, holy shit, wait, I'm just going to 257 00:18:49.920 --> 00:18:52.319 show up there to judge, and it's just me like, how am I 258 00:18:52.319 --> 00:18:55.640 going to remember all this shit. I'm not going to know what to do, 259 00:18:56.960 --> 00:18:59.960 Okay, so whatever I get it, I get given a ballot. 260 00:19:00.000 --> 00:19:03.480 But first ballot I get, I open it up and I'm sitting right next 261 00:19:03.519 --> 00:19:07.119 to my friend Julie. Not Julie Caseam, but another Julie. And she 262 00:19:07.640 --> 00:19:10.279 looks at what I got and she's like, oh no, my daughter's on 263 00:19:10.319 --> 00:19:12.000 there. She's like, they gave you my daughter. You can't judge this 264 00:19:12.160 --> 00:19:18.039 round. Meanwhile, her daughter has gotten the same email and sees who her 265 00:19:18.119 --> 00:19:19.640 judge is going to be, texts her mom and it's like, Mom, 266 00:19:19.720 --> 00:19:25.200 Stephanie's my judge. You got she can't be my judge? Okay, so 267 00:19:25.440 --> 00:19:27.079 the fuck is going I know, So then I have to go tell them. 268 00:19:27.119 --> 00:19:32.000 I'm like, Also, these people are all running around like their hair's 269 00:19:32.000 --> 00:19:36.559 on fire. There's the website is down, there's like all kinds of issues 270 00:19:36.599 --> 00:19:37.559 going on. They don't want to hear from me. But I'm like, 271 00:19:37.640 --> 00:19:41.599 hey, there's a car. I can't judge this round, and they're like, 272 00:19:41.319 --> 00:19:45.400 all right, we'll take care of it. So anyway, I don't 273 00:19:45.440 --> 00:19:48.319 be like, it's it's time for me to go home, Like I think 274 00:19:48.359 --> 00:19:51.960 I'm disqualified at this point, I was feeling that way. I was like, 275 00:19:52.039 --> 00:19:53.720 Okay, I don't, I don't maybe they don't need me. Right. 276 00:19:55.039 --> 00:19:57.720 At the same time, at this point, I'm starting to feel like 277 00:19:57.920 --> 00:20:02.000 this is like jury, dude, like in a good way, like in 278 00:20:02.000 --> 00:20:03.160 the way of like, well, now that I'm here, I want to 279 00:20:03.200 --> 00:20:07.559 be put on a case. Yes, like I didn't drive, I didn't 280 00:20:07.640 --> 00:20:11.440 drive all the way here to just like sit around right right, all right, 281 00:20:11.480 --> 00:20:12.880 So hold on, let's take a quick break, and then I'm going 282 00:20:12.960 --> 00:20:18.000 to tell you, Yeah, what happened, Laven speaking of labn quints, 283 00:20:18.279 --> 00:20:22.720 Quince's what's happened? So what's happening? And I just was telling my sister 284 00:20:22.759 --> 00:20:26.240 in law about Quince, and she bought a Kashmir sweater off of the site 285 00:20:26.519 --> 00:20:30.759 and she loved how many different colors and options they have. Yeah, and 286 00:20:32.119 --> 00:20:36.960 all of Quince's items are priced fifty to eighty percent less than similar brands. 287 00:20:36.960 --> 00:20:41.319 So you're going to get a cashmere sweater for under fifty dollars. That's crazy, 288 00:20:41.359 --> 00:20:45.400 it's crazy. And they cut out they did. They partner directly with 289 00:20:45.440 --> 00:20:48.039 the top factories and they cut which helps them cut the cost of the middleman 290 00:20:48.160 --> 00:20:52.799 and passes the savings on to us, which we love, and they only 291 00:20:52.799 --> 00:20:56.599 work with factories that use safe, ethical and responsible manufacturing practices, so you 292 00:20:56.640 --> 00:21:00.559 can feel good about that. But the the best part is the clothes, 293 00:21:02.160 --> 00:21:04.279 right. For instance, Yeah, I told you earlier this week how I 294 00:21:04.400 --> 00:21:08.960 legitimately went and bought an extra pair of the flow knit performance so At pants, 295 00:21:08.960 --> 00:21:11.279 which I love so much. They finally had it back in stock, 296 00:21:11.519 --> 00:21:15.279 got it as soon as they did. 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Okay, Okay, so I finally, so we're hanging out 306 00:21:52.079 --> 00:21:56.519 and I'm like starting to be me right, I'm like, hey, when 307 00:21:56.519 --> 00:21:59.000 am I going to get a ballot? Because I they take me off of 308 00:21:59.039 --> 00:22:03.240 that that case, you know, right, and uh, I'm disqualified and 309 00:22:03.279 --> 00:22:06.920 then so then the next one. So and there's a lot of waiting in 310 00:22:06.960 --> 00:22:11.440 between, which is why it's a twelve hour day because you're gonna there's rounds. 311 00:22:11.559 --> 00:22:18.599 Each each category has three rounds. So each category, each kid is 312 00:22:18.640 --> 00:22:22.519 basically going to go three times and they're going to be in front of three 313 00:22:22.559 --> 00:22:26.559 different judges. Right, and how many kids are there? Oh, there's 314 00:22:26.640 --> 00:22:30.319 like a hundred over one hundred. Wow, there's probably like I'm going to 315 00:22:30.440 --> 00:22:33.359 I'm going to guess like one hundred and twenty five. Wow, Oh my 316 00:22:33.400 --> 00:22:37.000 god. Okay, like a ton of there's a ton of kids, maybe 317 00:22:37.039 --> 00:22:40.680 one hundred and fifty kids there. She because they're there are the speech and 318 00:22:40.720 --> 00:22:44.559 debate teams from all these different high schools in the area. Okay, So 319 00:22:45.599 --> 00:22:48.599 and everybody's super nice, Like it is really like Jewey duty. You start 320 00:22:48.680 --> 00:22:52.640 meeting the other people and you're talking about your kids and we're talking just you 321 00:22:52.640 --> 00:22:56.680 know, Yeah, everybody's settling in for twelve hours. Yeah, they give 322 00:22:56.720 --> 00:23:00.759 you food, the subway sandwiches, you know, like I'm not complaining, 323 00:23:00.279 --> 00:23:03.200 you know, it's fine anyway. But then so then I get my first 324 00:23:03.240 --> 00:23:07.400 case, you Knowinda, I'm going to be the judge, and I got 325 00:23:07.400 --> 00:23:11.799 like, legit a little bit nervous, Yeah too, Yeah, because it 326 00:23:11.880 --> 00:23:15.519 combines a lot of things that are sort of nerve wracking, Like you have 327 00:23:15.599 --> 00:23:18.799 to figure out you're at this high school that you've never been to. They 328 00:23:18.839 --> 00:23:22.680 give you like a lame map and they're like, Okay, you're going to 329 00:23:22.720 --> 00:23:25.680 go to this room and all the kids are going to be waiting for you 330 00:23:25.720 --> 00:23:29.759 there. Oh, these kids have been in these speech and debate competitions many 331 00:23:29.799 --> 00:23:32.759 times, and they're looking at you like you're going to know what you're doing. 332 00:23:33.200 --> 00:23:36.680 But I'm like, hi, guys, like yeah, okay, what 333 00:23:36.759 --> 00:23:38.640 do we do? We just go inside and they're like where do you want 334 00:23:38.720 --> 00:23:44.799 us to sit? I'm like, I don't know wherever you want. Then 335 00:23:44.799 --> 00:23:48.119 I'm like, you know what, this is my opportunity to be like the 336 00:23:48.160 --> 00:23:51.279 favorite teacher, like you know, you know me, I want to be 337 00:23:51.319 --> 00:23:53.079 the cool mom from me and girls. I want to be like the favorite 338 00:23:53.119 --> 00:23:57.079 I It was ridiculous. I was ridiculous. I was just like, you 339 00:23:57.160 --> 00:24:00.960 guys, I just want you guys to becomefortable. Just sit wherever you want 340 00:24:02.079 --> 00:24:04.359 and I'll figure out where I'm sitting. And they're like, okay, cool. 341 00:24:06.720 --> 00:24:10.759 I'm making a little bit of light conversation with them. We've been warned 342 00:24:11.519 --> 00:24:17.200 do not like talk to any specific kid because like you don't want any any 343 00:24:17.480 --> 00:24:19.680 bias, right, Like you don't want them to sniff out any like you 344 00:24:19.759 --> 00:24:22.079 know, any of them. Like yeah, so I'm having to just be 345 00:24:22.279 --> 00:24:26.920 very general. But like the first room we're in, the kids were trying 346 00:24:26.000 --> 00:24:30.400 to determine what the classroom was because there was like some weird stuff on the 347 00:24:30.440 --> 00:24:34.319 wall. So I was like, i'll find out. So I go over 348 00:24:34.359 --> 00:24:37.599 to a pilot textbooks and I pull it out. I'm like, oh, 349 00:24:37.680 --> 00:24:41.279 we're in health class and they're like, oh, okay, cool, cool, 350 00:24:41.680 --> 00:24:44.640 you know. Yeah. Now I'm like okay, oh, I go, 351 00:24:44.680 --> 00:24:45.440 do you guys want to start early? And they're like, oh, 352 00:24:45.440 --> 00:24:48.799 I don't think we're allowed to do that. I'm like, okay, is 353 00:24:48.000 --> 00:24:52.039 that cool? Yeah I didn't. I don't know what I was thinking, 354 00:24:52.079 --> 00:24:56.559 but like of course I know that anyway. So then these kids go up 355 00:24:56.559 --> 00:25:02.519 to do their speeches. You guys, when I tell you, they blew 356 00:25:02.799 --> 00:25:07.240 me away. They were so good I believe in it. So at one 357 00:25:07.319 --> 00:25:08.759 point I was like, okay, so hold on a minute. This was 358 00:25:08.759 --> 00:25:14.519 the original poetry and prose. And I'm like, okay, but you guys 359 00:25:14.559 --> 00:25:18.359 are but this is like somebody else. You're doing somebody else's original thing. 360 00:25:19.319 --> 00:25:22.799 Because because I was trying to figure out what I'm judging this on, because 361 00:25:22.799 --> 00:25:26.000 if I'm judging this on the writing of the piece, it's like, this 362 00:25:26.119 --> 00:25:30.480 is better than anything I've ever written in my life. And these kids are 363 00:25:30.559 --> 00:25:33.799 high school kids, they're some of them are freshmen, right, And I 364 00:25:33.839 --> 00:25:37.839 was like, hold on, though, this isn't you guys didn't write this 365 00:25:37.000 --> 00:25:40.000 right, And they're like, no, no, no, yeah we did. 366 00:25:40.079 --> 00:25:42.640 We wrote We are writing and performing our own pieces. I'm like, 367 00:25:44.440 --> 00:25:48.640 but by your own you mean something that you found you and they're like, 368 00:25:49.000 --> 00:25:52.599 no, like we wrote it. And I was like, okay, I'm 369 00:25:52.640 --> 00:26:00.640 a little intimidated right now. Anybody who's chat GPT, hey I write Oh 370 00:26:00.720 --> 00:26:03.440 my god, this the first kid, first kid out of the gate, 371 00:26:04.400 --> 00:26:10.960 absolutely blew me away with the story about two brothers in the Holocaust, and 372 00:26:11.000 --> 00:26:15.240 I was just like, what is happening. I was very much in my 373 00:26:15.359 --> 00:26:21.359 own head of like, I just don't understand how a high school kid came 374 00:26:21.480 --> 00:26:25.839 up with this. So then then the next kid comes up amazing, like 375 00:26:26.720 --> 00:26:29.359 just as good as the first kid. I'm like, oh God, now 376 00:26:29.400 --> 00:26:33.480 I'm gonna have to decide between these people. And then also I don't know 377 00:26:33.480 --> 00:26:37.039 because after each kid's piece, they're clapping for each other, and I'm like, 378 00:26:37.160 --> 00:26:38.920 oh, am, I supposed to clap if my clap for one, 379 00:26:38.960 --> 00:26:41.680 I got a clap for all of them, equal volume, yes, like 380 00:26:41.720 --> 00:26:45.720 I don't want to be see seem like they're gonna go oh she clapped louder 381 00:26:45.720 --> 00:26:48.920 for that kid, so he's gonna win, you know. So then and 382 00:26:48.960 --> 00:26:53.559 then I have to give them a score between seventy and one hundred. So 383 00:26:53.759 --> 00:26:59.039 this first these first two what they were they were? There's like six kids 384 00:26:59.079 --> 00:27:02.680 in this round, right, and they're doing the original prose and poetry. 385 00:27:02.960 --> 00:27:07.079 Okay, that's what I had was given to judge. Okay, so I 386 00:27:07.119 --> 00:27:10.559 got all these kids and they all go up, and then I have to 387 00:27:10.599 --> 00:27:12.839 give them a score, and then I have to enter their score and I 388 00:27:12.880 --> 00:27:17.599 have to make comments. Okay, so the score is what to seventy seventy 389 00:27:17.640 --> 00:27:19.599 to one hundred, seventy to one hundred. Yeah, so I gave two 390 00:27:19.680 --> 00:27:23.720 kids one hundred because I was like, well, nobody's telling me like, 391 00:27:23.759 --> 00:27:26.960 hey, like, don't give a hundred. Like, I don't know, 392 00:27:26.079 --> 00:27:30.640 it's if it's the Olympics and it's very hard to get a perfect ten. 393 00:27:30.000 --> 00:27:34.559 But I was like, who am I to be judging these kids? Something 394 00:27:34.599 --> 00:27:37.359 I could never it would be yeah, it would be like if I was 395 00:27:37.440 --> 00:27:41.440 judging the Olympics, right, you know, because you could say, well, 396 00:27:41.480 --> 00:27:44.279 you're a writer, so you can well no, but it's like saying 397 00:27:44.279 --> 00:27:45.839 that I would did gymnastics in the sixties grade. It's like, yeah, 398 00:27:45.880 --> 00:27:51.160 a whole different thing, right. So I'm just like, I don't know, 399 00:27:51.559 --> 00:27:53.799 I gave two kids one hundred. One kid in ninety eight, when 400 00:27:53.880 --> 00:27:56.240 you know, I was like, well, you know, so then you'd 401 00:27:56.279 --> 00:28:00.119 like get they get set at first, you're like one hundred hundred, you 402 00:28:00.160 --> 00:28:02.599 get settled in, You're like, okay, maybe I can dial it back 403 00:28:02.599 --> 00:28:06.759 a little bit. Well, yeah, one kid was like not quite as 404 00:28:06.839 --> 00:28:10.839 good as the other kids. So I was like, but then you're like, 405 00:28:11.519 --> 00:28:14.279 well, these are high school kids. Well I'm not going to say 406 00:28:14.359 --> 00:28:18.440 like, uh, you kind of like you have to be like, well, 407 00:28:18.480 --> 00:28:22.519 I gotta I gotta say something positive about this kid too, because this 408 00:28:22.640 --> 00:28:26.039 kid, I mean, it's hard to just get up there and try there. 409 00:28:26.240 --> 00:28:30.400 I was really blown away. Okay, so now I finished my first 410 00:28:30.480 --> 00:28:33.119 round and now I'm like I would be at jury duty where I'm like, 411 00:28:33.160 --> 00:28:37.200 give me the next one. Where's my next one? And then I didn't 412 00:28:37.240 --> 00:28:40.119 get the next one. Then I was complaining. I complained to the person 413 00:28:40.240 --> 00:28:41.640 trying, like how come I didn't get a ballot. She's like, oh, 414 00:28:41.880 --> 00:28:45.920 like I'm I'm trying. I'm getting you know. Now she's a little 415 00:28:45.920 --> 00:28:49.000 annoyed at me a little bit. She's like, I'm trying, I'm doing 416 00:28:49.079 --> 00:28:53.440 my best. I'm getting trying to get everyone ballots. Anyway, I finally 417 00:28:53.480 --> 00:29:00.200 got another one in the afternoon. Enjoyed the fuck out of that one too. 418 00:29:00.880 --> 00:29:03.160 So, yeah, you had to wait around for the next one, 419 00:29:03.319 --> 00:29:07.079 like I had to wait around. Then you'd see other people getting like the 420 00:29:07.119 --> 00:29:10.480 next round would come and all these people are getting balanced. Then my friend 421 00:29:10.720 --> 00:29:12.079 who's with me is like, now she's rooting for me. She's like, 422 00:29:12.279 --> 00:29:15.720 I hope you get a ballot. I hope they call your name. She's 423 00:29:15.759 --> 00:29:19.400 like, I would give you mine, like you can't really trade because it's 424 00:29:19.440 --> 00:29:22.880 like it's like a whole system they have, right, But anyway, I'm 425 00:29:22.920 --> 00:29:27.720 like, I really I'm available, and she's like I know, and then 426 00:29:27.759 --> 00:29:33.880 I finally get it. Well, the problem was they did give me another 427 00:29:33.920 --> 00:29:37.880 one, but they accidentally gave me like some of the same kids from the 428 00:29:37.920 --> 00:29:41.359 one that I had already judged. So first I got the conflict and then 429 00:29:41.400 --> 00:29:45.519 the second one. The next one I got was like the kids I just 430 00:29:45.640 --> 00:29:48.400 judged in the one before, so I didn't get that one right. And 431 00:29:48.440 --> 00:29:52.359 then I got the next one, which was like seven kids doing an original 432 00:29:52.400 --> 00:29:59.400 speech. Ooh, that's good. Yeah, and in that one that was 433 00:29:59.599 --> 00:30:03.359 also like super fun. Yeah, I bet that's tough too. It was 434 00:30:03.480 --> 00:30:07.359 really really fun. It was really tough. But that one I got even 435 00:30:07.400 --> 00:30:11.119 more into because now I'm like, oh, yeah, I'm I'm I'm settled. 436 00:30:11.519 --> 00:30:15.079 I get it. I know what kind of notes to give, like 437 00:30:15.359 --> 00:30:19.079 right, but I was some of them about like oh okay. So one 438 00:30:19.119 --> 00:30:25.920 of the speeches from the second round was about a girl who was giving like 439 00:30:25.960 --> 00:30:30.759 an informational but also passionate speech about how she has type two diabetes, oh 440 00:30:30.200 --> 00:30:37.599 god, and how it's really misunderstood and diabetes is the only like kind of 441 00:30:37.119 --> 00:30:42.079 condition disease that is that is only known for its symptoms and it's not really 442 00:30:42.119 --> 00:30:47.759 the cost. Like she had a whole thing, and it was personalized because 443 00:30:47.839 --> 00:30:51.559 like she was diagnosed as a little kid, and some of the sort of 444 00:30:51.559 --> 00:30:56.279 insulting things people say like that he said to her mom, like, oh, 445 00:30:56.359 --> 00:30:57.920 she must be eating too many donuts or something, and she's like, 446 00:30:57.960 --> 00:31:02.559 people don't understand. And it was a it was a great speech. Wow. 447 00:31:02.799 --> 00:31:10.720 Yeah, another girl, Oh my gosh, did one about I voted 448 00:31:10.720 --> 00:31:14.960 this girl number one. She was super funny right from the beginning. She 449 00:31:15.000 --> 00:31:19.759 did one about how much pressure there is on success on our kids and how 450 00:31:19.839 --> 00:31:25.200 we think of success as like going to a top ten college and how we 451 00:31:25.240 --> 00:31:27.920 have these things and it's just a lot of pressure for the kids and maybe 452 00:31:27.960 --> 00:31:33.319 we need to rethink, like maybe success should just be doing like what makes 453 00:31:33.359 --> 00:31:41.200 you happy. And it was not as like impassioned as the but the way 454 00:31:41.279 --> 00:31:45.240 her delivery she had like some slide jokes. She was just so natural. 455 00:31:45.519 --> 00:31:51.480 I loved her and she made everybody laugh out loud. And she had little 456 00:31:51.519 --> 00:31:56.079 surprises in there, a little love that like little funny things direct to the 457 00:31:56.200 --> 00:32:00.440 judges. Anyway, I loved her, and it's so funny because you're like, 458 00:32:00.519 --> 00:32:01.519 oh my god, I love her. Okay, she's my number one. 459 00:32:01.559 --> 00:32:05.160 But then somebody else will read and you're like, wait a minute, 460 00:32:05.440 --> 00:32:07.920 maybe they're my number one. And then you're like rearranging your you know, 461 00:32:07.960 --> 00:32:10.200 it was like right up my alley, like you know, I love the 462 00:32:10.279 --> 00:32:14.440 voice. Yes, I love to like pick my favorites. So I was 463 00:32:14.480 --> 00:32:17.200 like, this is a job that was made for me, and now I 464 00:32:17.240 --> 00:32:23.799 want to judge every special debate competition. And then twelve hours flew by, 465 00:32:23.920 --> 00:32:29.359 it flew fo over yet now and then you get to go to the awards 466 00:32:29.359 --> 00:32:34.400 ceremony and see the kids that you judged, because then they because they've been 467 00:32:34.440 --> 00:32:38.599 in rounds with other judges, right, so then like what the first round 468 00:32:38.680 --> 00:32:45.279 that I judged the kid that I gave number one, number one absolutely for 469 00:32:45.319 --> 00:32:47.759 his comments, I gave him a hundred. I was like, you were 470 00:32:49.319 --> 00:32:52.640 amazing. This was like insane. I have no notes for you. That's 471 00:32:52.640 --> 00:32:54.480 why I gave you one hundred. What am I going to give you constructive 472 00:32:54.480 --> 00:33:00.160 critic I have no criticism that kid didn't even place. The other judge is 473 00:33:00.200 --> 00:33:02.759 obviously did not make that kid their number one. So then you get you 474 00:33:02.799 --> 00:33:07.279 get to get all mad, like one of these judges on drugs, like, 475 00:33:07.359 --> 00:33:10.640 what's going on? Yeah, that's ridiculous. The kid was clearly anyway. 476 00:33:10.680 --> 00:33:13.960 So it was really fun. So the ceremony was at the end of 477 00:33:13.960 --> 00:33:16.680 the night, the end of the same right, so they tabulate all the 478 00:33:16.799 --> 00:33:21.799 winners and then they give away trophies. So you're still there, right like, 479 00:33:21.960 --> 00:33:23.599 now it's been well, now you got dons in the race. You 480 00:33:23.680 --> 00:33:27.920 want to you want to know who's winning exactly. I'd be so mad if 481 00:33:27.920 --> 00:33:30.319 we did have to go home and they did the awards the next day, 482 00:33:30.319 --> 00:33:31.799 I'd be like, oh, hell no, I need to see if these 483 00:33:31.839 --> 00:33:36.000 people, if these people agreed with me. So yeah, So then all 484 00:33:36.039 --> 00:33:38.640 the kids go in the auditorium and I'm sitting with all the parents that I've 485 00:33:38.640 --> 00:33:42.359 made friends with, and yeah, by the end of it, I was 486 00:33:42.359 --> 00:33:45.039 like, Okay, when's the next one they get me on that panel? 487 00:33:45.839 --> 00:33:49.799 It was really fun. I had a day that's so cute. I love 488 00:33:49.839 --> 00:33:52.720 that, I know. And then John was like feeling bad for me. 489 00:33:52.839 --> 00:33:55.200 He was sending me texts and just going, oh my gosh, you must 490 00:33:55.200 --> 00:33:58.960 be so tired. I was like, hell, I'm energized, bitch, 491 00:34:00.000 --> 00:34:05.920 I'm doing those every time. Yes, that's awesome. Yeah, when is 492 00:34:05.960 --> 00:34:08.679 the next one? It's in a month. I gut, Yeah, are 493 00:34:08.679 --> 00:34:12.079 you going to do it? I think so. Yeah. I think it's 494 00:34:12.119 --> 00:34:15.400 in the rank. Can I go to it? I know they do need 495 00:34:15.519 --> 00:34:17.719 judges. I'll do it. It's not that far for you. Yeah, 496 00:34:17.800 --> 00:34:23.159 I know I have to be so fine. That's awesome, But mainly because 497 00:34:23.960 --> 00:34:28.679 I was just inspired by these kids. Yes, yeah, yeah. And 498 00:34:28.719 --> 00:34:31.800 if you're wondering how Xander did, so, he was in something called duos, 499 00:34:32.159 --> 00:34:36.760 so he had a partner with his and this was his first time. 500 00:34:36.840 --> 00:34:39.440 This is his first year trying it, and so the first competition he went 501 00:34:39.480 --> 00:34:45.840 to, only two contestants from his category showed up, so there were so 502 00:34:45.880 --> 00:34:50.320 he was only against one other person. So he did great. He won. 503 00:34:50.920 --> 00:34:53.800 And there's a thing called picket fence for all my speech and debate parents 504 00:34:53.840 --> 00:34:58.519 out there, and that means that all the judges ranked you number one. 505 00:34:58.880 --> 00:35:01.119 Oh well, that's called pick fencing, and you get like a standing ovation 506 00:35:01.280 --> 00:35:07.079 for that. So Xander got some false confidence because in his first one, 507 00:35:07.119 --> 00:35:12.320 he was also going against a team that was brand new to it, and 508 00:35:12.400 --> 00:35:15.880 he and his partner did really well and they were number one for all the 509 00:35:15.000 --> 00:35:21.079 judges. So they won and they got a trophy. Yeah, but Xander 510 00:35:21.159 --> 00:35:22.840 was like I ran into Xander during the day and he's like, mom, 511 00:35:24.519 --> 00:35:29.199 this is insane. Like these other duos that were up against He's like, 512 00:35:29.199 --> 00:35:32.760 I had no idea, Like they're amazing. He's like, I'm not going 513 00:35:32.840 --> 00:35:36.480 to do well. I'm not doing well. He's like, I mean, 514 00:35:36.519 --> 00:35:38.840 it's totally fine and it's fun and I'm doing my thing. But I had 515 00:35:38.880 --> 00:35:44.760 no idea, Like what it is that makes this category good? Now I 516 00:35:44.800 --> 00:35:46.760 know? But he told me afterwards, he was like, well, I 517 00:35:46.760 --> 00:35:51.320 don't feel bad. I had a great day and I feel inspired to like 518 00:35:51.400 --> 00:35:53.920 now I know how to make mine better, you know. So and now 519 00:35:53.960 --> 00:35:58.760 he was all jazz and he wants to like, I love that in another 520 00:35:58.880 --> 00:36:02.360 category? Great, so fun, this is exciting. I had no idea 521 00:36:02.400 --> 00:36:07.119 this world exists. Yeah, that's awesome. Did you know about this, 522 00:36:07.239 --> 00:36:09.559 Kaylen? No, I did not. Did you have speech and debate when 523 00:36:09.599 --> 00:36:15.159 you were a kid, if they had it at my school, I definitely 524 00:36:15.199 --> 00:36:17.239 wasn't one that was participating in it. That might have been some kind of 525 00:36:17.320 --> 00:36:22.000 high school class. I think it's pretty nerdy this. There were a lot 526 00:36:22.039 --> 00:36:24.719 of kids that I was like, nerd alert. Yeah, yeah, no, 527 00:36:27.119 --> 00:36:30.800 no, we didn't. There's this little girl, well she's not little 528 00:36:30.840 --> 00:36:34.719 anymore. She's a senior, but I remember her being young and in second 529 00:36:34.760 --> 00:36:37.920 grade with Sonny in Natalia and they just told me. They're like, her 530 00:36:37.000 --> 00:36:42.280 name was Kaylin. They're like, Kaylen got into Harvard and she's on this, 531 00:36:42.599 --> 00:36:45.280 she's on this. I go, what's what's all her? You know, 532 00:36:45.400 --> 00:36:46.920 crek, I know she was on track. Yeah, she was on 533 00:36:47.000 --> 00:36:52.480 track, and she's on speech and debate. And then of course she volunteered 534 00:36:52.519 --> 00:36:54.199 in the community. I mean all this thing, these things. I don't 535 00:36:54.239 --> 00:36:57.920 know if she played an instrument, but she was definitely on speech and debate. 536 00:36:58.320 --> 00:37:01.000 I was like, wow, my god. But also her parents went 537 00:37:01.000 --> 00:37:06.599 to Harvard and her grand legacy, right, but that's not taken away. 538 00:37:06.639 --> 00:37:08.239 I mean, she's a I think she's a They're they're like, she's a 539 00:37:08.280 --> 00:37:13.079 great student. But yeah, she's got into Harvard. Wow. I know. 540 00:37:13.400 --> 00:37:17.519 Any okay, I'm going to ask you something right after we talk about 541 00:37:19.000 --> 00:37:24.320 neutriful love neutrifile. 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So okay, So she wants to go to 567 00:39:35.920 --> 00:39:38.280 Santa Barbara City College, and she wants to live in Santa Barbara to go 568 00:39:38.320 --> 00:39:43.360 there, obviously. Yeah. And then wants to transfer to Miami. Yeah, 569 00:39:43.440 --> 00:39:46.159 yeah, but if not, she might stay the only reason why she 570 00:39:46.159 --> 00:39:50.599 doesn't want to stay in Santa Barbara's the school doesn't have like a big football 571 00:39:50.599 --> 00:39:54.360 team, and she wants to do sports journalism, like she's really yeah, 572 00:39:54.440 --> 00:39:59.119 which I didn't know. And she's like, I'm really getting into sports because 573 00:39:59.119 --> 00:40:01.800 of her boyfriend. They're watching games and Sonny, and she's like, I'm 574 00:40:01.840 --> 00:40:07.599 really like getting interested in like the college teams and stuff like fascinating about you 575 00:40:07.639 --> 00:40:10.039 know how like you were with with John. So she's like, I think 576 00:40:10.079 --> 00:40:14.440 I want to do sport and and and so Santa Barbara doesn't have like, 577 00:40:14.599 --> 00:40:16.360 you know, a lot any sports really, I mean, not the big 578 00:40:16.400 --> 00:40:22.599 sports. That's what she's interested in. Okay, yeah, that's so fun. 579 00:40:22.639 --> 00:40:25.599 But so what did she apply so far? In the other for a 580 00:40:25.639 --> 00:40:30.880 major? Do you know what major she applied? Yeah, she played communications 581 00:40:30.159 --> 00:40:35.239 and journalism. Yeah, oh okay, that's kind of perfect. But she 582 00:40:35.400 --> 00:40:38.920 hasn't heard yes or no yet, so she has from the ones that she 583 00:40:39.320 --> 00:40:45.840 her first. So she got rejected. Yeah, and from Miami I think, 584 00:40:46.400 --> 00:40:51.760 now, yes, Miami, I think TCU, uh like did a 585 00:40:51.800 --> 00:40:55.320 wait list or something? I think or was it and she applied early decisions 586 00:40:55.320 --> 00:41:01.679 she yes, yes, ed mm hmm. Yeah. So but now she's 587 00:41:01.719 --> 00:41:06.159 like, yeah, she doesn't she's not really interested in going there now. 588 00:41:06.559 --> 00:41:09.880 Okay, okay, but she's still waiting on Miami. No, she didn't 589 00:41:09.880 --> 00:41:15.440 get into Miami. She bombed. No, because now she's like got this 590 00:41:15.480 --> 00:41:21.239 whole plan that that's what she wants to do, and she's already talking to 591 00:41:21.280 --> 00:41:24.920 the counselors about what classes she's gonna need to transfer and all that. So 592 00:41:24.960 --> 00:41:30.920 she's getting all that done. She might do some classes. I think she 593 00:41:31.039 --> 00:41:36.400 might do like a winter break class, like some math something during winter break, 594 00:41:36.440 --> 00:41:40.000 not winter break, spring break, but maybe so anyway, she's looking 595 00:41:40.039 --> 00:41:46.559 into getting all those credits that she needs during summer. No, no, 596 00:41:46.559 --> 00:41:52.639 no, what is it? Yeah, maybe it is summer yeah, APEX 597 00:41:52.800 --> 00:41:57.079 or something. She's doing something where she just needs a few more credits. 598 00:41:57.880 --> 00:42:00.039 So I think it might be an APEX class or something like that. I 599 00:42:00.079 --> 00:42:04.760 don't know. Okay, she's like all over it and on top of it. 600 00:42:04.960 --> 00:42:09.320 Great, yeah yeah, but just keep in mind that Elbe seemed to 601 00:42:09.360 --> 00:42:14.039 be on top of herning and then it was like one thing after another that 602 00:42:14.159 --> 00:42:17.519 was like wait a minute. Yeah, I didn't know this right. Just 603 00:42:17.599 --> 00:42:22.880 make sure that she talks that the counselor she talks to at Santa Barbara is 604 00:42:22.920 --> 00:42:25.639 not giving her a bad like I know, well I know, and she's 605 00:42:25.679 --> 00:42:30.159 not talking to the counselor yet at Santa Barbara. She's working with her school 606 00:42:30.199 --> 00:42:35.079 to get a find a good counselor for her because the counselor she's had and 607 00:42:35.119 --> 00:42:39.199 the counselor that Sonny's had was not that great, Like they had to be 608 00:42:39.280 --> 00:42:44.960 on top of him and he even like his writing was kind of like eh, 609 00:42:45.039 --> 00:42:50.000 it wasn't like wasn't really impressed. But but they're pretty much done with 610 00:42:50.119 --> 00:42:52.480 him, so now it's like on to somebody, somebody that's going to help 611 00:42:52.519 --> 00:42:57.760 her with Santa Barbara. Yeah, and the school's helping her with that well 612 00:42:57.800 --> 00:43:00.480 pretty much. If she's gonna go to Santa Barbara for two years, then 613 00:43:00.559 --> 00:43:05.159 she's going it's going to be pretty easy, I think, to make sure 614 00:43:05.199 --> 00:43:07.920 she takes all the classes that she needs. Elbie's issue was that she was 615 00:43:07.920 --> 00:43:13.159 trying to do it in a year and they weren't great with telling her exactly 616 00:43:13.199 --> 00:43:16.079 what she needed to accomplish, you know, like the fact that she thought 617 00:43:16.119 --> 00:43:21.880 she was in the UCLA Past to UCLA program, and it turned out she 618 00:43:21.960 --> 00:43:25.960 wasn't enrolled in the honors classes. Somebody should have flagged that tur and told 619 00:43:25.960 --> 00:43:30.239 her exactly how to sign up for the honors because it's everything's very byzantine and 620 00:43:30.400 --> 00:43:35.159 complicated, and it's very easy to make a mistake and think you didn't make 621 00:43:35.199 --> 00:43:37.800 a mistake because you're like, oh, well, this counselor told me this, 622 00:43:37.920 --> 00:43:42.159 and I followed this, and there's nobody checking over to go let me, 623 00:43:42.960 --> 00:43:45.599 let me make sure you'd you know. Whereas in high school, it's 624 00:43:45.719 --> 00:43:50.920 you're very kind of protected because if you're not in the right class, they're 625 00:43:50.960 --> 00:43:52.239 going to flag that. They're going to be like, well you're not, 626 00:43:53.000 --> 00:43:57.400 you're not going to get the right you can't graduate. They're going to make 627 00:43:57.440 --> 00:44:00.000 sure they fix it for you. The community college they don't give a fun 628 00:44:00.039 --> 00:44:02.559 I don't give a shit. No, it's up to you to make sure 629 00:44:02.599 --> 00:44:07.679 that you're doing what you need to do. So that's why Elbe was gonna 630 00:44:07.760 --> 00:44:08.840 end up. Well, she didn't know that she was going to need a 631 00:44:08.880 --> 00:44:14.559 communications class if she wanted to apply to San Diego State. So the whole 632 00:44:14.599 --> 00:44:17.199 time she didn't have that on her schedule. It was me. I looked 633 00:44:17.199 --> 00:44:21.440 it up because I'm the one that gets nervous, and I was like, 634 00:44:22.199 --> 00:44:25.639 hey, like, I'm looking at the San Diego State If you're thinking that 635 00:44:25.639 --> 00:44:29.599 that's where you want to go, do you have this thing called the Golden 636 00:44:30.320 --> 00:44:34.000 four? And I asked Elbe, do you know what the Golden for is? 637 00:44:34.039 --> 00:44:37.320 And she's like no, And I go, okay, well, you're 638 00:44:37.360 --> 00:44:42.480 not going to get into San Diego State if you don't have these certain requirements. 639 00:44:42.920 --> 00:44:46.920 One of them is like a critical thinking class. One of them's an 640 00:44:47.079 --> 00:44:52.559 oral communications class. And she's like, I haven't heard of that. So 641 00:44:52.599 --> 00:44:58.079 she asked her counselor, a counselor. She made an appointment, went to 642 00:44:58.119 --> 00:45:00.039 the counselor, and the councilor was like, oh, oh yeah, you 643 00:45:00.079 --> 00:45:04.519 don't have the fuck you need a communications class. So she was like, 644 00:45:05.800 --> 00:45:09.920 okay, any specific communication you know. It turned out this counselor that she 645 00:45:10.000 --> 00:45:14.679 asked was that this was a just at Peers. Oh at Pierce, that's 646 00:45:14.719 --> 00:45:19.840 where she's where she's going, right. It was like okay, but like 647 00:45:20.480 --> 00:45:24.760 she never she's had many counselors prior to that, not one of them mentioned, 648 00:45:24.800 --> 00:45:28.599 hey, if you're going to apply to the cal States, you need 649 00:45:28.639 --> 00:45:30.679 to have this qualification. She didn't know. I don't get it. It's 650 00:45:30.719 --> 00:45:36.199 like we you know, you pay these counselors a lot of money and they're 651 00:45:36.199 --> 00:45:38.639 doing it every day all the time, year after year with these kids, 652 00:45:38.719 --> 00:45:44.039 right like they don't know. Well, so Elbe says, well, first 653 00:45:44.039 --> 00:45:45.840 of all, I don't know if PEERCE counselors are paid a lot of money 654 00:45:45.920 --> 00:45:50.079 or no. I mean I'm talking about like this is not a private one 655 00:45:50.119 --> 00:45:52.400 that we all paid a lot of money for that. No, this is 656 00:45:52.440 --> 00:45:59.360 not that that ship is long sailing. That counselor sucked because she didn't tell 657 00:45:59.440 --> 00:46:05.320 us that the psychology was impacted. Like she didn't us no favors. That 658 00:46:05.400 --> 00:46:09.239 was throwing away money. But now we've moved on to the counselors at the 659 00:46:09.239 --> 00:46:14.079 community college who are supposed to help you figure out how are you going to 660 00:46:14.159 --> 00:46:16.360 reapply to these schools in one year? What do you need to do, 661 00:46:17.119 --> 00:46:21.079 What do you need to have, What score do you need to have received 662 00:46:21.079 --> 00:46:27.000 on your AP exam to cover some of the requirements for let's say Santa Barbara, 663 00:46:27.119 --> 00:46:30.159 like you want to apply to to you see, Santa Barbara, you're 664 00:46:30.199 --> 00:46:35.599 going to need to have received this score on this AP test, did you 665 00:46:35.679 --> 00:46:38.920 yes or no? You're going to need to have taken this English class, 666 00:46:38.960 --> 00:46:43.079 you know. So some of it she'd already taken, but there's a few 667 00:46:43.119 --> 00:46:49.239 things that she needed to do in order to graduate, basically get her associate's 668 00:46:49.239 --> 00:46:52.199 degree in one year. It's a very intricate thing, and some of these 669 00:46:52.280 --> 00:46:54.719 counselors don't know what they're talking about, so they're like, oh, yeah, 670 00:46:54.800 --> 00:47:00.280 yeah, you're fine. Elbe told me that the one counselor didn't tell 671 00:47:00.320 --> 00:47:05.760 her that because she was helping her with UC applications, not cal state applications. 672 00:47:05.840 --> 00:47:07.400 I'm like, okay, but you think she would have said, like, 673 00:47:07.480 --> 00:47:10.239 but by the way, if you're applying to any cal states, you 674 00:47:10.320 --> 00:47:15.320 need to have these Golden four Like yeah, it seems like part of their 675 00:47:15.440 --> 00:47:17.679 job. But they didn't. So now LB had to throw herself into a 676 00:47:17.679 --> 00:47:21.880 communications class. So what do you suppoke? Like, so what do I 677 00:47:21.960 --> 00:47:24.199 do? Like? What are you supposed to do? Just make sure that 678 00:47:24.239 --> 00:47:30.000 when before she enrolls in Santa Barbara, when she enrolls, you immediately get 679 00:47:30.039 --> 00:47:34.079 with a counselor. They will assign you one, or you can go into 680 00:47:34.119 --> 00:47:37.599 these like portals and speak to a counselor before you sign up for all your 681 00:47:37.639 --> 00:47:43.159 classes and tell her to make sure that, like do you need if your 682 00:47:43.199 --> 00:47:46.440 goal is Miami and that's a hard school to get into, Let's say she's 683 00:47:46.480 --> 00:47:50.320 going to have to get good grades. She needs to go on rate my 684 00:47:50.400 --> 00:47:54.000 professor and so that the classes she's signing up for are easy and have good 685 00:47:54.000 --> 00:47:59.480 teachers. Yeah, you don't want to run into like listen, they're going 686 00:47:59.559 --> 00:48:01.119 to be really looking at your grades. You don't want to run into some 687 00:48:01.159 --> 00:48:06.519 professor that everybody hates. It's like a mean grader. That's true. Yeah, 688 00:48:06.599 --> 00:48:13.840 So that was one thing. And then just knowing what classes you will 689 00:48:13.920 --> 00:48:17.599 have to have accomplished during the time that you're at Santa Barbara. I have 690 00:48:17.639 --> 00:48:22.159 a feeling that not every kid is super motivated to move on to a university. 691 00:48:22.480 --> 00:48:27.119 So you got a bunch of kids fucking around at community college just trying 692 00:48:27.159 --> 00:48:30.320 to figure out what they want to do. So if she knows and she's 693 00:48:30.719 --> 00:48:34.920 like, this is my goal, this is what I want to get in 694 00:48:35.480 --> 00:48:42.960 journalism or sports broadcasting at this school helped me take the right classes because she 695 00:48:43.079 --> 00:48:45.800 is going to have to take a bunch of generals and then a bunch of 696 00:48:45.119 --> 00:48:49.840 requirements for her major. You don't want her to find out year two like, 697 00:48:49.880 --> 00:48:52.639 oh you didn't Yeah, that's that can't apply. You didn't take the 698 00:48:52.719 --> 00:48:55.599 right classes. That would be horrible. Yeah, but I learned the hard 699 00:48:55.599 --> 00:49:00.360 way with LB that you have to you have to tell the counselor what you 700 00:49:00.480 --> 00:49:08.599 need, right right, Yeah, all right. I feel like you're like, 701 00:49:08.719 --> 00:49:13.559 Okay, I know. I don't want to overwhelm your anxiety on me. 702 00:49:13.719 --> 00:49:15.119 No, I know, that's okay. 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